Stinky Girl Wants $3.50 For OnlyFans?! w- Troy Francis
Episode Stats
Length
3 hours and 5 minutes
Words per Minute
190.65576
Hate Speech Sentences
306
Summary
On this episode of the Fresh Fit Podcast, the boys are joined by 7 lovely ladies to talk about Ted Bundy. The boys talk about the Ted Bundy case and how he is a monster. They also talk about how he should have been killed and why he should never have been allowed to have his hair cut. The boys also discuss the recent case of Andrew Tate and Selena Powell and how they should have gotten away with their crimes. The guys also give their thoughts on the case and give their opinions on it. Also, the guys talk about why Ted Bundy is trash and why people should be scared of him. The guys finish up the show with a special guest, Chris, who is the king of random adlibs. Shout out to Chris for coming up with the title "Ted Bundy Is a Monster" and also for the fact that he was the first person to make a Ted Bundy reference on the show. Thanks to everyone for all the support and stay tuned next week for the new vlogs coming up next week on Fresh Fit Clips! Stay tuned for the next vlog coming up on the FreshFit Clips channel! Stay safe out there and Stay Fit and Stay Safe Out There! Love ya'll! -Jonah Jonah & The Boys -Tune in next week's episode of The FreshFit Podcast! (featuring: Chris and The Boys) Don't Tell a Friend About This Podcast? (Jonah and The Guys) Jonah: Chris: ( ) Chris: ( ) Sam: (8: (9:00) (10:15) , (11:30) & The Guys: (15:00 and The Crew: (16:00, ) (17:00), (18:30 & the Crew: ) (19:40) (20:00). (23:30), 26:00 (21:15 , 27:00 & 27:40 28:00 ) & 26:30 ( 29:00 + 32:00+ 35:00 @ 36:00 , & 36:30 + 33:00 # 37:00 / 36:20 39:00 Or 38:00 // 39:40 + 39:15 + 40 40 :00 & 45 41
Transcript
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You guys are wondering, yo, what happened with the Andrew Tate video with Selena Powell, etc.?
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That's what got hit with the strike, which is some BS, but that's a whole other thing.
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That's actually the episode when he did say Haram.
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That was the first episode where he came up with that.
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So if you guys want to watch that podcast, it's the one where the crazy-ass chick was talking smack.
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Yeah, I didn't post this week either because we're on a strike.
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So, you know, you don't want to get hit with a circumvention on YouTube.
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I cover serial killers, terrorism, everything you guys enjoy when it comes to law enforcement.
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If you like true crime, check me out because I'm definitely the best true crime channel on YouTube right now.
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I checked all the other ones and who wants to watch a chick talk about Ted Bundy while putting on makeup?
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Send me DM on Nancy Parks and on IG. Shout out to the girls for coming to the panel.
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Yeah, so last time I was here, Sneakers had my spot.
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So ladies, if you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, things at us.
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I was born in Argentina, so I live in Bradenton.
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I'm talking to someone who actually lives in Miami, but it's a little complicated.
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So is it complicated because he doesn't want to commit or is it complicated because he hasn't fulfilled certain requirements that you want him to fulfill?
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So it's like a childhood friend and we're trying to pass a line that's getting a little complicated to pass.
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He was friend-zoned forever, and she's finally given him a chance.
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Yes, we did try to play around when we were younger.
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I never was one to sleep around, so I always just said no.
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Yeah, I always just said no, and now things are different.
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And now we have passed that line, and now it's just complicated.
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He just wanted to get the box, say he finally did it, and now he ain't never committing.
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My parents are watching and they know him very well, too.
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My parents literally were, like, the ones that convinced me to drive here.
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I was like, all right, Mom, whatever you hear, don't judge me for it.
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And now I change careers and I'm going to be a software engineer.
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So I got my bachelor's coming out of high school in kinesiology.
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And then you said, fuck that, I'm going to med school.
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Yeah, I tried it, and then I had a car accident.
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Okay, so did you get your bachelor's and go straight to med school, or did you go ahead and pursue a master's?
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So it's an online program because I have a little bit of photographic memory, so things are easier for me.
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Okay, so you have your bachelor's, but you're pursuing your master's now.
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So bachelor's, went to med school, didn't like it.
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Now you're pursuing your master's degree, software engineering.
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I am a biomedical engineering student and I do OnlyFans.
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Well, let's say, where did you go to high school?
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But I just feel like it could be like an issue, you know?
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Um, yes, but I do have family there, so I do want to go back.
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All right, yeah, it should bring great shame to the family.
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I'm not sure myself because I never learned any swear words.
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And are you pursuing your bachelor's degree or is this a master's degree?
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Single by choice or single AF? I guess I am single by choice.
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There's a lot of men that probably want to date me on OnlyFans.
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And you're like a long paragraph and they say K? That's so annoying.
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And then, how long did you live in Atlanta then?
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Because I went to college, but I had to stop going due to, like, personal reasons.
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Alright, so your highest education level complete is high school then?
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We can tell to be fair with you, so there you go.
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So would you say Ohio is like where you're from originally?
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I was a PM for Apple, Salesforce, Google, PayPal, all of them, and I've run a couple of startups.
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I just built out ops for a VC-backed startup, and now I'm running a couple new ones.
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So I'm doing things that are more for life purpose, and I've got a travel company that we just started.
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Okay, so would it be fair to say you're an entrepreneur, it seems like?
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Okay, so our entrepreneur was startup companies involved in tech.
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I was also a pro-trier leader and a singer and dancer, so I still try to do that, too.
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And then, what's your highest education level completed?
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Business administration, operations management.
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It was like a two-month thing and we just weren't a fit.
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So you were raised in TCI, but you were born here?
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I remember the blueberries are like $10 a carton, bro.
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But y'all do use the U.S. dollars, so that's nice.
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Yeah, we might need to talk to you after the show.
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What's your highest education level completed, or are you in school?
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High school, but I am in school for esthetician.
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He hasn't asked you out yet, or that he hasn't fulfilled certain things that you want?
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Okay, we talked before, then kind of started back again, just trying to see how things are going.
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Let me guess, you friendzoned him before, and then you're giving him a chance now?
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We couldn't get over each other, so it'd be like that.
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She's talking to someone until the right guy comes along.
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And then where are you originally from, like your ethnic background?
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My dad grew up in Chicago and my mom grew up in Milwaukee.
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I'm a concert photographer, but I'm also a club promoter.
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That's like the two professions that dudes that try to be...
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If you don't got money, those are two jobs you can finesse and fuck chicks.
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Alright, so you're, okay, photographer, promoter, and then, uh, what's your highest education level?
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I graduated high school, but, uh, I dropped out of college mid-sophomore year.
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I went to school for nursing for about a month and a half and then some medical things personal happened.
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I have a heart condition so I had some heart issues that were going on that I had to unexpectedly drop out and then I went back to school for photography and that's where I kind of Bit into my obsession about being a concert photographer.
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But yeah, photography, so I dropped out sophomore year of college.
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Because promoters and photographers are, you know, they go on the streets.
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What you guys have experienced the past 45 seconds, I deal with that shit all fucking day for hours on end.
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They have to make a star so they don't understand each other.
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You know how many times freshmen are like, what, Chris?
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I'm single up until a certain somebody asks me out, but he been on games, so...
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You do realize as a girl, it's kind of your job to ask him, right?
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That's why I'm sitting here saying I'm single, but at the same time, it's just like...
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I prioritize my keys, and I prioritize my body.
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Well, to be fair, he wants you to bite him first.
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Yeah, so that's probably why he doesn't wipe him because you don't let him smash.
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And throughout those relationships, they all ended out like...
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You've definitely had a one-night stand before, right?
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So why are you making this guy pay full price and weight when those other guys didn't have to?
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And I was in a place where I wasn't thinking when I was acting.
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I do regret because for me, it made me sit here and be like, yo, like, this isn't you.
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Like, it made me really look at what I want for myself and what I want for my future.
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I like to get to know somebody before, like, I'm old school.
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I like to take you out on dates or be taken out on dates.
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You know, I give the same energy that I'm given.
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Like, if you're going to take me on a date, I'm going to take you on a date.
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And, you know, a lot of people aren't raised that way.
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And it sucks for them, but I was raised that way.
00:23:57.000
I mean, if you really think about it, you know, the woman...
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The man's in a leadership role, the woman's in a following role.
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If you look at it 50-50, the woman's sitting here taking care of the kids, sitting here taking care of the house, and the man's bringing in the money.
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It's not at all because the roles are different.
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And the man's a leadership role, so it can't be 50-50.
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I mean, the man is the leader, which means pretty much 95-5.
00:24:35.000
The girl can have some say, but the man is the one that calls the final shots.
00:24:41.000
Yeah, you can take your opinion into consideration, but the reality is a traditional relationship is the man is the head of the household and he's the decision maker.
00:24:48.000
But what if you're a woman like me who has been independent my entire life?
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In one sense, as you said, you're old school and traditional.
00:24:56.000
Now you're saying you're independent, which is not traditional at all.
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No, like, I'm independent because I was the way that I was brought up.
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But I'm also old school when it comes to relationships.
00:25:07.000
It's either you're independent and new wave, you know, female or you're traditional.
00:25:16.000
Because to be independent means that you and your guy cut everything in half, or you might even be a breadwinner.
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I think when it comes to having a house, for example, you would sign together with your partner.
00:25:35.000
Most women don't want to pay the big bills, though.
00:25:43.000
I'm not saying that what you're doing is wrong.
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I'm just saying that you're traditional, but your actions speak completely otherwise.
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Since I've found myself and found my peace, I've been more traditional on the relationship-wise.
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Not on an independent-wise and on a personal realm.
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I'm independent because I'm sitting here paying my own bills.
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I do whatever I gotta do because I don't got family down here.
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So, like, for me, coming from being on my own, taking care of my own bills, taking care of my own stuff my entire life, I give 50-50.
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I give the energy that I give in return because for me, protecting my energy, I'm not gonna give all my energy to somebody who's gonna give me 10%.
00:26:31.000
But I'm also old-schooled when it comes to like the whole sex-wise.
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Like, yes, I'm not that kind of old-school, like no Bible shit, but when it comes to like...
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When it comes to, like, relationship-wise, like, I look at my grandparents and they were together for 65 years.
00:26:53.000
Well, your grandma was probably a virgin when she got with her husband.
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You can't pick and choose traditionalism when it suits you.
00:27:05.000
They pick and choose traditionalism when it suits them.
00:27:07.000
And my thing is, you know, you're making this guy wait for sex, which is cool.
00:27:13.000
But you didn't make those other guys wait for sex.
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I hate to do this early on, but I think this is the only way she'll understand it.
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And I kind of want ladies to understand this concept.
00:27:34.000
So let's say that in this dream world, You go to the Gucci store, right?
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And it's a purse that you've wanted for a very long time.
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You purchase a purse, and you get out the store, and you're fucking ecstatic.
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You know, you can't wait to go tell your girlfriend, Hey, girl, I got this purse.
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Your girl on the phone goes, Yo, yo, yo, well, hold on.
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So you take your receipt and you go back to the Gucci store.
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And then you see someone else go buy that purse for $100.
00:28:24.000
Why do all these people have these different prices?
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And the clerk looks, you were dead in the face and says...
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You know, I would feel kind of like, okay, why?
00:28:50.000
I would have to say, like, the purse does not change.
00:28:54.000
Like, I think, personally, people change over time.
00:29:02.000
How would that make you feel that you have to pay that price for a purse when you're seeing other people paying more and less than you?
00:29:11.000
Okay, the context is the scenario in this analogy.
00:29:15.000
But in a scenario that's like more towards dating, then I would say no.
00:29:20.000
I'm going to tell you why your opinions are relevant in a second.
00:29:27.000
It's just a matter of were you able to get a lower price or not?
00:29:31.000
But wouldn't it piss you off that you're paying more than other people?
00:29:34.000
No, because then someone else did a better job than me.
00:29:36.000
Someone did a better job than me on being able to lower the price.
00:29:40.000
So, the point I'm trying to make here, ladies, even though I see what you're trying to do here.
00:29:46.000
Guys look at things that way, where I'm not going to pay full price for something that other people got for free or a cheaper price.
00:29:52.000
And that's how men look at sex and relationships with women.
00:29:55.000
This is why when a guy knows a girl has a certain type of past, he's like, what the fuck?
00:29:59.000
So I'm not telling you guys to go out there and just fuck guys or whatever, but just understand if your guy feels like he's paying full price and or you're making him wait, When other guys didn't, that's going to make them feel some type of way.
00:30:10.000
Just like you might feel some type of way that you're paying more for a person when other people get it for free.
00:30:19.000
But that's not how men view sex in relationships with women.
00:30:23.000
But if it's like, for example, let's say you have a Rolex, and the Rolex retails maybe like 15k, right?
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So let's just say a girl is really pretty and stuff.
00:30:32.000
But then if a guy sees, oh my god, all these other people want her so much, he's willing to wait.
00:30:39.000
He's going to pay more, just like how people pay 35k for a Rolex.
00:30:46.000
Men don't necessarily, when a girl has a bunch of dudes on her, or she's like, around guys all the time, men are not attracted to that.
00:30:53.000
However, when a man's around a bunch of women, or a bunch of women want him, women are attracted to that.
00:30:59.000
Women need social proof to make sure that the guy that they're with is good.
00:31:04.000
I could be with a chick, if I think she's pretty, I don't give a fuck if my friends like her.
00:31:09.000
As a matter of fact, you'll do everything to shield people from seeing her.
00:31:12.000
Men and women are very different when it comes to what we're attracted to.
00:31:19.000
You're not going to leave with that guy immediately.
00:31:21.000
You're going to go to the bathroom with your girls.
00:31:27.000
And then what they tell you is going to heavily influence what you think about that guy.
00:31:35.000
I need to go to the bathroom with this nigga and tell him, oh, I'm going to leave with this girl.
00:31:40.000
Because men are decisive when it comes to dealing with women.
00:31:42.000
Women, however, need everybody else to weigh in and they need to make sure that the guy that they're with is a winner to some degree.
00:31:47.000
That's why girls like to go ahead and congregate before they leave.
00:31:55.000
I mean, I was just answering your point before we move on because I know she's going to have another topic maybe.
00:32:02.000
It's just we're very different when it comes to like how we may select.
00:32:12.000
You said that in the club, if you see, or like even, it don't matter where, like if a guy has all the girls on him, that that's the girl, that's the girl that like, like you're gonna want to talk, look at that guy because all the girls are on him.
00:32:26.000
If I see a guy with all women on him, I don't want that.
00:32:31.000
You said women and you're trying to generalize it.
00:32:33.000
I was just letting you know, don't generalize all women because not all are the same and not all agree on, you know, whatever stereotype you're putting on.
00:32:47.000
And tendencies that operate within the generality.
00:32:50.000
So what I mean by this is if you walk into any nightclub, you're going to see a majority of the women concentrated in certain sections of the club, typically in a VIP section.
00:32:59.000
So all the girls are typically surrounding a group of a small portion of men.
00:33:05.000
You ain't seeing girls buying tables at the club with a bunch of dudes around.
00:33:12.000
It's not as important on our totem pole as it is for you guys.
00:33:19.000
But if I have 100 girls, 95 of them are going to be attracted to a guy that has status.
00:33:23.000
So when we speak on the podcast, we don't talk about you in particular.
00:33:26.000
Just because you might be different doesn't necessarily mean that everyone else is different.
00:33:30.000
I just think that no one would personally look for love in the club or look for a girlfriend at the club.
00:33:38.000
You gotta understand, we're not talking about, I'm not talking about love right now.
00:33:44.000
Women are attracted to and want to be with men that have social status.
00:33:52.000
Well, social status can change depending on where you are, right?
00:33:56.000
Like, if you're the CEO of a company, you have more status there than, let's say, if you were somewhere else.
00:34:00.000
But what I'm saying is that with the confinements of that social situation, the men have status because they have the table, they have the section, and the girls are there.
00:34:07.000
But women in general typically flock to the men that have social status.
00:34:13.000
Whereas men don't flock to women that have social status because men don't care about a woman's social status at all.
00:34:20.000
If a girl is bad but no one knows her, you'll still date her.
00:34:26.000
But I think it's also more than that because if, let's say, the man has something unbearable in terms of personality that you don't like, social status is not going to cut it.
00:34:43.000
Like, if you have money, you have social status, etc., you might not be the most handsome guy, but you'll be able to talk to women that you otherwise would have never had the opportunity to talk to because of your status.
00:34:52.000
How many rich, ugly guys are there with bad bitches?
00:34:56.000
You can just be in, like, that friend group that's, like, super funny that all the guys, like, kind of find funny, and you find funny yourself, and then it's, like, he kind of just stands out there.
00:35:10.000
As a man, you're not going to be invited or allowed in a certain social group unless you bring some kind of value.
00:35:17.000
I think that it's the same for pretty much any kind of gender.
00:35:24.000
We're friends with Troy, friends with guys like Andrew Tate, Tristan Tate, etc.
00:35:30.000
We know for a fact all you Tate haters fuck you off.
00:35:32.000
But guys like that, right, especially guys that have higher social status, guys that are high net worth, they only let certain individuals come into their circle.
00:35:39.000
So, you have to bring value as a man to get in certain social circles.
00:35:46.000
This is why a girl that's 18 years old could be on a boat with a bunch of millionaires, but a guy, if he's on a boat, he did something to be on that boat.
00:35:59.000
Because, you know, we got these guys paying thousands of dollars to be on a four-hour boat with all these girls, but these girls don't have to pay a single penny.
00:36:08.000
So, like, you know, even with the clubs, it's the same with the clubs.
00:36:11.000
You know, these girls be getting in these clubs for free.
00:36:14.000
And these men be paying thousands of dollars for this section, but these girls are getting it for free.
00:36:19.000
So like, he does have a valid point with that because, especially in Miami, Miami's so like, it's either you have money or you don't or you're female or like, you're like, there's nothing other than that when it comes, especially when it comes to the clubs.
00:36:34.000
The higher the social status of the men that you surround yourself with, the more value you have to bring to be involved in that social circle, right?
00:36:41.000
Justin Waller, the Tate brothers, Troy Francis, John MLD, Donovan Sharp, all these guys that we work with, they would not fuck with us unless we brought value to them.
00:36:51.000
Like with men, there typically has to be a value exchange.
00:36:53.000
Women, however, if they're pretty, they can get into the social circle with not really bringing much to the table, no offense.
00:36:59.000
Because a woman's beauty is her main commodity.
00:37:01.000
So I guess I took from this that I'm ugly because I can't relate.
00:37:09.000
But you also said downstairs that you prefer to stay home.
00:37:14.000
And you said that you look ugly on camera yourself.
00:37:25.000
So how do you expect to get invited if you're inside all the time?
00:37:42.000
I did say I was like hit on camera, which here's the crazy part.
00:37:46.000
Even an average girl has more opportunities than the most attractive and actually did an experiment on this on Tinder where they took like an ugly ass fat girl.
00:37:53.000
She had triple the matches of a top tier guy on Tinder.
00:37:58.000
But there's also less women on Tinder compared to men.
00:38:01.000
But every guy I know who swipes on Tinder just presses right and then picks off the matches they have, don't they?
00:38:05.000
And then women actually select on Tinder who they want?
00:38:11.000
There's a bunch of reasons, but you guys just named two of them.
00:38:13.000
One, yes, there's more men on Tinder than women.
00:38:15.000
And then second, the guys are just swiping right on everybody.
00:38:18.000
Because there's not that many girls on there and then the chance of getting a match.
00:38:21.000
Because girls only swipe right on Tinder about 4.5% of the time.
00:38:32.000
Wait, I think his mic is a little bit not working.
00:38:45.000
I produce digital content about dating, about relationships, about sex, about the way men and women interrelate to one another.
00:38:52.000
I've known these guys for a number of years now.
00:39:02.000
Yeah, he was here for the Sneeko episode with those crazy feminists.
00:39:05.000
But before I go hit the rumble, guys, go ahead and send your rumble rants in if you guys want to have any questions or anything like that.
00:39:12.000
Before we move on, did anybody have anything that they want to add?
00:39:14.000
I want to make sure everybody had a disagreement.
00:39:20.000
I said something about men leading and she was like, nah.
00:39:27.000
Oh, I mean, I don't know if it's a 5% where your woman's opinion doesn't count and what his decision is.
00:40:03.000
I just, at least ask me, you know, just to, before you make your decision, just make up how I'm comfortable or something like that.
00:40:12.000
Like, you can't just choose what you want only if it involves me.
00:40:19.000
Okay, so I think he means, for example, let's say your man is going to do a major move for the family, right?
00:40:26.000
And you may not be first in that area of expertise.
00:40:55.000
You're saying this because it sounds good to say that you're equal to your partner and you're a decision maker too, but the reality is women don't want to make decisions.
00:41:01.000
They want to be with a guy that makes the decisions for them and they can just sit back and be pretty.
00:41:17.000
I literally said, your opinion can come into play, but at the end of the day, he makes the final decision, and that's how things really get done.
00:41:25.000
Because, girls, you guys are indecisive in general.
00:41:28.000
You guys don't even know what you want to have for lunch.
00:41:53.000
Like, girls say this BS about let's be equal, partnership, 50-50, blah, blah, blah.
00:41:59.000
Like, it sounds good on paper and in theory, but it doesn't actually work in practice.
00:42:11.000
Because would you actually be attracted to a guy who wasn't going to make any decision who was going to leave everything to you?
00:42:20.000
Because I definitely, like, investments, everything, I want to do it myself.
00:42:25.000
Like, I just want the guy to just sit down there and whatever I tell him to do, he does it.
00:42:36.000
Is that reflected in the guys that you've dated to date then?
00:42:39.000
Okay, so most of the guys that I do typically date are always in the tech industry.
00:42:46.000
Tech industry, so I prefer guys that wear polo shirts and stuff.
00:42:54.000
There's literally a multitude of simps on there that would be happy to allow you to be the dominatrix.
00:42:59.000
Why are you not dating any of those guys and why are you single?
00:43:04.000
Because there's a bunch of simps that would allow this to happen.
00:43:06.000
No, because I have dated before in the past, but it's always due to me overworking.
00:43:14.000
Just the OnlyFans stuff if you got other stuff going on.
00:43:17.000
Yeah, just the OnlyFans stuff and also other stuff.
00:43:23.000
No, it's more like they want to do something and I don't really want to.
00:43:37.000
And you're like, I can't because I've got to do this.
00:43:40.000
I just definitely want someone to, like, help me out with my workload.
00:43:46.000
You quite literally said a second ago you wanted to be 100 you, zero them.
00:43:49.000
Yeah, so like I tell them what to do, what workload they're going to do.
00:43:51.000
Have you ever dated a guy who's like a sort of Andrew Tai type character, like super kind of dominant alpha kind of dude?
00:44:13.000
Yeah, anytime a girl says mutual, it means he broke up with her.
00:44:15.000
No, like, he broke up with me first, but then it was because it was like three days later.
00:44:20.000
And I was just kind of like willing to still try to try out for a while.
00:44:24.000
But eventually, after a few days later, I was like, yeah, it's probably not for the best.
00:44:30.000
You wanted to make it work with that guy, even though he goes against the grain of what you think that you want.
00:44:35.000
But the other guys, you just got rid of them immediately, which is very interesting to me.
00:44:38.000
Yeah, but because I've actually dated them for a really long time.
00:44:45.000
Versus the alpha guy, he broke up with you, and you wanted to try to make it work.
00:44:49.000
Well, that's because it's only been three days.
00:44:58.000
This is what I mean when I say that feminism is a lie.
00:45:01.000
You're saying you want 100-0, you want to be a leader, you want to be the dom, all this other stuff.
00:45:06.000
But again, that's not what women are hardwired and attracted to.
00:45:10.000
You might say, oh no, I don't like alpha guy, but the reality is that's what girls yearn for and that's what they want.
00:45:15.000
They want a guy who's going to be dominant, a leader, decisive, the breadwinner, etc.
00:45:22.000
But typically, I would say what I've seen, girls are the OnlyFans, they're very independent, so to speak, and they can't turn it off.
00:45:28.000
So what happens is they get to this point where they're making a lot of money, and it's like, I mean, the guy's like, hold on a second.
00:45:36.000
So I get what you're saying, by the same time, does it work?
00:45:39.000
So you're doing this repeatedly, and there's something called insanity, right?
00:45:45.000
Doing the same action over and over again without a different result.
00:45:48.000
Something like, you can do that, but it doesn't work, pretty much.
00:45:52.000
So, I mean, there's lots of people in the world, so I think I could definitely find someone.
00:46:01.000
I mean, she might be an outlier, but it definitely goes against the majority.
00:46:05.000
I mean, do the other women on the panel, do you...
00:46:07.000
I do because, okay, so I worked as a six-figure Silicon Valley, you know, person for a long time myself.
00:46:14.000
So I was the alpha at work and I tended to attract men of that same caliber.
00:46:20.000
It wasn't working and it just recently I figured out how to sit back into my feminine energy in my relationship.
00:46:26.000
I can still go and do things and have a career Or do whatever I want.
00:46:31.000
But if I'm not sitting back in that feminine, I'm not going to attract the masculine, as you say, Myra.
00:46:41.000
And I'm a little older, so maybe that's what it is.
00:46:47.000
But I do think it's really important to understand the balance between that, right?
00:46:51.000
So let the man lead, make the decisions and be a man, but support him and also let him give to you what you need.
00:47:05.000
So are you saying when you were in that phase, you were meeting guys who were alpha, but...
00:47:12.000
Who were alpha, or you were meeting guys who were sort of subordinating themselves to you?
00:47:18.000
I would meet some that were alpha and more alpha than me.
00:47:32.000
I mean, not in a mean way, but I need someone to step up.
00:47:44.000
I wasn't the one that went to school, had a family, did that right out of college, but now I want a partner.
00:47:51.000
I want to be able to have somebody that has my back, that makes decisions, that is a man.
00:47:55.000
When you were younger, was it hard for anyone to tell you that, hey, you might be a little bit too masculine?
00:48:04.000
So I feel like in her case, she's young as hell, so she's not going to understand what's happening.
00:48:07.000
But you're hearing it now before you get older.
00:48:13.000
I honestly believe that women typically don't mature as far as what the other gender wants until they become older and realize, damn, I'm not getting the same level of attention.
00:48:22.000
Because when a girl's at her peak, 19 through 25, you can't really tell her nothing.
00:48:27.000
Hey, I'm going to be a raging bitch and annoying.
00:48:31.000
And it's not until women get older that they realize, like, damn, I'm not getting the same level of attention.
00:48:35.000
I'm not getting the same attention from the same caliber of guys anymore.
00:48:38.000
I need to wisen up if I'm going to be able to get one of these guys.
00:48:41.000
And young girls typically don't understand this.
00:48:43.000
They think, I'm just going to behave however I want, and I'm still going to get the man that I want because I'm pretty enough.
00:48:47.000
But the options start to dwindle as you get older.
00:48:57.000
Like, I did, you know, like, as you guys say, like, all traditional and be like a man's beck and call and cooking clean for him and shut up and listen and let him be the decision maker, let him be the breadwinner.
00:49:20.000
They still, like, you know, occasionally treat you like shit.
00:49:24.000
Like, as much as he might love you unconditionally, quote unquote, and, like, caress you and be affectionate.
00:49:35.000
If a man has money, more than likely he's going to fuck other girls, accept it.
00:49:41.000
Don't be fucking sneaky, because why are you fucking lying?
00:49:45.000
If you didn't care, then why are you complaining about it right now?
00:49:53.000
Because you probably couldn't handle the truth, which is what's going on right now.
00:49:57.000
He was probably trying to protect your feelings.
00:50:09.000
Who's going to cheat anyway because he's high value?
00:50:11.000
Would you rather he just told you that's what he's going to do and you're going to accept it?
00:50:16.000
Because the doctor is not going to lie to you and tell you, or maybe they do, but fuck them.
00:50:22.000
Don't tell me I got six weeks and I got six hours.
00:50:27.000
A lot more women appreciate honesty than anything.
00:50:35.000
Just say you want to fuck and let us decide if I want to fuck you too.
00:50:38.000
Don't just be like, I'm a fake like you and then do all this just to get in your pants and at this point, just be like, I want to fuck.
00:50:59.000
You're going to be loyal to me, obey me, and do what I say, and you'll be my main chick, but I'm going to go out from time to time and fuck other bitches and do what I want to do.
00:51:18.000
Most women are gonna leave when they hear that, and they can't handle that.
00:51:34.000
If they tell you the truth, you're going to walk away.
00:51:51.000
We're just saying for guys, it's hard to get girls.
00:51:55.000
You're going to walk away and I got to start all over again.
00:51:57.000
This is why there's a proud tradition in places like France of the powerful guy having a wife and then secretly having mistresses on the side.
00:52:04.000
It's all kind of accepted, but it's not talked about because they don't want to rock the boat.
00:52:16.000
Okay, but what he just described is what your guy did.
00:52:31.000
Well, no, he's not going to sit down and have a conversation with her.
00:52:34.000
He's not going to sit down and say, hey, babe, listen, I really like you, but I'm going to go and fuck some other girls.
00:52:38.000
He's not going to have that conversation, but it's still going to happen.
00:52:42.000
No, it's kind of like understood, but you don't have to sit down and have that abrupt conversation.
00:52:47.000
Because like Fresh said, otherwise most women aren't going to take that, are they?
00:52:54.000
Yeah, a lot of women are delusional of their own value and think they deserve menopause.
00:52:58.000
Having said that, Justin Waller, actually, Justin is talking more about this kind of side of things now, isn't he?
00:53:03.000
I mean, I've heard him recently talking about, listen, if you're a high enough value guy, you should actually be honest with the woman and just say, look, this is how it is.
00:53:10.000
And I think there's a lot of value in what he's saying.
00:53:14.000
But at the same time, there's a lot of women who just aren't going to take that.
00:53:18.000
And then, and it's kind of like, well, if there's some value in the relationship, I mean, I don't know, man, it's the old thing, you know, you are the queen, she is the queen.
00:53:27.000
She's going to get the main resources, et cetera, et cetera.
00:53:29.000
If he goes and, you know, sleeps with the waitress every now and then, does it really matter in the big scheme of things?
00:53:34.000
I think if you're married to him, it might not matter so much because you've been with him for so long, you know, like he has some good qualities and stuff.
00:53:41.000
So you're able, and you've also had that long relationship history that you've shared together.
00:53:45.000
But if he just cheated on you in like one month, I would definitely leave him.
00:53:52.000
But, I mean, marriage, you can just enforce you and take off your stuff.
00:53:54.000
That's kind of like a double-edged sword for the guy.
00:53:59.000
I guess so, but he's also spending a lot of time with you when he decides to marry you.
00:54:04.000
So, I'm pretty sure he would have chose you for a reason.
00:54:13.000
But what if you're like me and I'm bi, so if a guy were to...
00:54:17.000
Say if I was in a relationship and my partner came up to me and was like, hey, what do you think of her?
00:54:28.000
I would rather have a guy come up to me and be honest.
00:54:50.000
Question, if you had to pick between having a guy for the rest of your life or a girl, which one would you prefer?
00:54:55.000
That's a hard question because both are difficult.
00:55:03.000
Honestly, if I were to choose, I'd go with a girl.
00:55:23.000
Talk as much to me and be like, hey, like, would you be open to, like, linking with this girl?
00:55:32.000
But the question, if you really like women that much, why aren't you with one now since this guy's playing games with you?
00:55:37.000
Because, like, women are playing games with me, too.
00:55:39.000
Like, I got people playing games with my feelings.
00:55:43.000
At the end of the day, I have options, but do I want them?
00:55:49.000
Are they going to put into me what I'm going to put into them?
00:56:09.000
If I'm going to invest in your company right here...
00:56:12.000
You know, like, say I start five years down the road, invest in me like I invested in you.
00:56:18.000
Like, you know, like, we're supposed to be a partnership.
00:56:24.000
Despite everything else within a relationship, it's a partnership.
00:56:27.000
Like, you're teaming up with one person to build up a life, build up an empire with.
00:56:39.000
Like, I lived on my own since I was 15 years old.
00:56:43.000
You know, like, from that, like, me, I'm trying to build an empire.
00:57:02.000
Well, you had a guy take care of you, but you left.
00:57:09.000
I kind of got bored, but he watching, so I'm hurting his feelings.
00:57:27.000
Yeah, that's an L. So you had a rich guy, and then you went ahead and got bored, and you lost him.
00:57:40.000
Well, if you cheat on a guy, now you're only in a sex category and you lose a title.
00:57:51.000
It's always the responsibility is always on the guy.
00:58:03.000
He was taking care of you, giving you a fun lifestyle, so to speak, but you got bored of it, and he wanted to do even more?
00:58:11.000
This is sounding really bad and ungrateful, but it's okay because I'm working on it.
00:58:18.000
So I'm going to take my accountability and continue to try to change and not repeat the same mistakes.
00:58:23.000
So this is like you're unburdening yourself on this show.
00:58:35.000
This is why I'm coming out of the book called Why Women Deserve Less.
00:58:38.000
And honestly, man, it's no offense to you, but women in general, I've come to realize modern day women are very entitled and they think that they deserve a top shelf guy and still he should entertain you.
00:58:47.000
I mean, it's kind of crazy that you had a guy that was making money, taking care of you, etc.
00:58:50.000
But you still feel the need after him working and going after the world that he needs to come back home and entertain you when your entire life is taken care of, which is wild to me, which is probably why he broke up with you because you weren't being appreciative.
00:59:02.000
I guess, but we never was together to begin with.
00:59:07.000
So he started taking care of you without even the title.
00:59:14.000
Do you know how many girls will wish to have your spot?
00:59:21.000
I found out, latest fault, that this nigga wasn't shit since day one.
00:59:29.000
Me in Miami, another one in South Carolina, another one in Chicago, another one in California.
00:59:51.000
Like, you really think that a dude of that caliber is going to just only date you?
00:59:55.000
No, I stop like that because I just don't want to answer.
01:00:02.000
It's the age-old dichotomy again, isn't it, right?
01:00:04.000
If it's a high-value guy, he's going to spread his attention around, okay?
01:00:07.000
And, you know, so if you want to get with that high-value guy, you're going to have to accept that.
01:00:16.000
Well, because he, I don't know, he was exercising his options in the dating marketplace, right?
01:00:24.000
Did you really sit down right at the beginning of that, you know, relationship?
01:00:31.000
And I can hold myself accountable for that at least.
01:00:41.000
I don't have a toxic button, but you know what?
01:00:54.000
I'm just going through the final edits right now.
01:01:00.000
Yeah, the book will be out early this year, guys.
01:01:07.000
So yeah, the book's going to be out very soon and I go into detail about it.
01:01:13.000
But the reality is that many modern day women are on a pedestal and I think more guys need to stop being simps.
01:01:19.000
It's just crazy to me how much work we've had to put in to make things work with a girl and they don't think they have to put in any work at all.
01:01:25.000
And that guy, I'm pretty sure if you stepped up and said, you know what?
01:01:36.000
When I fucked up, he was like, this is crazy because right before you fucked up, I was thinking like, damn, this actually might go somewhere.
01:01:50.000
But this comes back, like I said before, a lot of modern-day women are entitled, so that's why they kind of have this mindset.
01:01:56.000
He does tell me I'm entitled every time we argue.
01:02:00.000
I don't even want to be an asshole, but like, You're a little above average.
01:02:03.000
Could you imagine a girl that's like a dime piece?
01:02:21.000
You got girls that are barely above average selling things to entertain me.
01:02:25.000
All right, listen to some of these Rumble Reds, Chris.
01:02:36.000
All right, Matliss Red, 147 goes, next time, feminists argue that they can go work while the man stays home and still be as optimal.
01:02:53.000
Jamal Smith goes, glad to have you guys back, Fresh.
01:02:59.000
Blackest Panther goes, ladies, should men protect a modern woman if she appears to be in danger, even if it puts his life in danger?
01:03:08.000
Do you think a guy, if he sees a girl being attacked, should he put his life on a land and go protect her?
01:03:18.000
Because she could have been the one who started it and then the person lashed out on them.
01:03:37.000
I feel like unless there's a physical weapon...
01:03:41.000
I feel like a lot of women can defend themselves or find a way to defend themselves.
01:03:52.000
No, coming from someone who has been beat on by many men, that's not how that works.
01:03:56.000
You can bite, scratch, punch, kick, hold the balls, bite the balls, grab the balls, pull the balls.
01:04:04.000
If you want to beat your ass, you're going to beat your ass.
01:04:35.000
If you see a girl getting beat up, it's like your guys' instincts.
01:06:03.000
Should a man protect a modern girl if she appears to be in danger even if it puts his life in danger?
01:06:19.000
As much as I want to say no, I think I'm five feet tall.
01:06:24.000
A man probably has a better chance, and I would feel like as a protector, that's their instinct to do it.
01:06:30.000
But should they step in and protect a girl that they don't even know?
01:06:36.000
Would you want your son to go step in there and protect the girl he doesn't know?
01:06:42.000
To help someone that's in need that couldn't defend themselves, yeah.
01:06:54.000
Remember for the fact that his heart was big enough.
01:06:57.000
Heart was big enough to go help somebody he didn't know to save their life.
01:07:18.000
Because the men I decide to fight are like 6'3", 300 pounds.
01:07:27.000
Well, I just say something snarky and then I get dragged.
01:07:35.000
So you didn't hit that first, you just say something like you're thick and small?
01:07:42.000
I don't want to say it, but I be saying stuff and then I get dragged.
01:07:53.000
Is this like in a social situation or are we talking relationships or...
01:08:00.000
Why do you feel like you need to poke the bear?
01:08:04.000
It's like, no, like, if you feel the need that it's okay to piss me off and you don't take my emotions into accountability and you don't care how I feel, I don't care how you feel.
01:08:31.000
Let's say his mom passed away and he could have stopped it.
01:08:35.000
No, I had a situation where his dad died while we were together.
01:08:51.000
You would think that if this woman was there when my dad died, you know, you would treat her better.
01:08:58.000
We still want to know why he choking you up, though.
01:09:05.000
Wait, so you stayed with the nigga that was choking you up?
01:09:09.000
I said, put your hands on me one more time, and he choked me.
01:09:32.000
In my case, I guess I have a black tip in Taekwondo, so hopefully it works.
01:10:04.000
Just out of curiosity, do you think a woman could fight a man?
01:10:12.000
It actually ended up in a lot of court and stuff.
01:10:24.000
He was like saying stuff and I was like, I never slept with you.
01:10:39.000
When I was like high school, I was like a senior.
01:10:49.000
That's why that other dude was like, 16 years, that's for Tom!
01:11:02.000
I was just, yeah, that was probably a big mistake.
01:11:04.000
I should have egged it on and I definitely would never try it again.
01:11:13.000
I think I think so yeah, because my aunt is like a third down in like fat belt and like someone took her bag before in Paris and like she like sidekick Sam chopped the guy.
01:11:26.000
Okay, can you show me right now how you stop my attack?
01:11:35.000
Guys, just so you know, I'm a black belt in nigga shit.
01:11:56.000
Okay, so go ahead and fight off the attacker Fresh.
01:12:21.000
Because they always let you know what happened.
01:13:52.000
Yeah, I know, but like, if you were rocking me, you would just like run away.
01:13:56.000
All right, sit down and tell them what, what, what, and explain your loss right there.
01:14:07.000
If you were robbing me, you would actually just come steal my bag and stuff.
01:14:20.000
You really think you can fire the guy off though?
01:14:22.000
In the right context, yes, but I don't think I would do anything to anger a guy terribly bad.
01:14:38.000
Have you taken any W's in any of your fights with men?
01:15:00.000
I've kicked down doors when someone was abusing me, but it wasn't...
01:15:55.000
I've had physical complications with men before.
01:16:46.000
So, basically, what happened was, like, we were all at a party and she, like, we were, like, off for, like, a half, almost a half a year now.
01:16:58.000
Six months up after we ended our relationship, like, we were at a party, and she ended up showing up with a dude, and I was there.
01:17:08.000
And see, I don't really let go of my feelings like that, especially when I feel something towards somebody so strongly.
01:17:29.000
I punched him in the shit because he was talking some shit to me.
01:17:33.000
Yeah, but then I ended up getting dragged and I ended up in the hospital.
01:17:42.000
That was like, that honestly was my biggest ill, to be honest.
01:17:52.000
I mean, it's not a hard question, but it is because we both had different paths for our future.
01:18:10.000
So, at the end of the day, like, after the fact, I wasn't really mad about it.
01:18:14.000
I just sat there and I was like, you know what?
01:18:16.000
I low-key deserve that because, like, I mean, like, I was out of pocket for it.
01:18:24.000
Like, I had no place to sit there and smack him, but I was...
01:18:35.000
It really wasn't my place to go out and do that, but I did.
01:18:39.000
After the fact, I apologized because it was not my place to do it.
01:18:59.000
Since we're on this, what is your weakness in dating?
01:19:16.000
I talk a lot, but I suck on communicating both of our feelings.
01:19:26.000
Yes, but at the same time, I don't even take in my own feelings.
01:19:30.000
Sometimes I'll sit here and be like, why am I feeling like this?
01:19:33.000
I'll question what I'm feeling because I don't understand why I'm feeling that way.
01:19:45.000
You grow from admitting your mistakes and from anything that you go through in life.
01:19:57.000
You don't take on board their feelings, but you're not sure what your feelings are either.
01:20:12.000
I've been going to therapy and learning more healthier ways on to understand other people's opinions and other people's emotions.
01:21:06.000
I feel like it's literally more like the little things that really matter.
01:21:25.000
This is more like when I say I'm going to do something, I should do it.
01:21:40.000
You say you're going to do something, you ain't do it.
01:22:11.000
I might have a little hard time, like, not listening, but...
01:22:40.000
She be fucking doing that weird ass neck shit that black girls be doing.
01:22:48.000
Oh yeah, she be talking when she's talking shit.
01:22:54.000
It's more like, I'm more questioning if you want to tell me to do something or whatever.
01:23:15.000
I set up a reservation for us by the water side.
01:23:27.000
Alright, so I think that your biggest problem is questioning and questioning things.
01:23:37.000
I overshare with, like, communication, if that makes sense.
01:23:45.000
I think sometimes I'm too blunt or too, like, you know, and it kind of triggers me.
01:24:05.000
But if I see that you're not doing it, now I'm going to start telling you over and over and over.
01:24:07.000
What is it that you don't like that you have to tell men that?
01:24:21.000
So it's just like, if I feel like they're not doing the same thing back.
01:24:26.000
I don't know, just paying the small details like I pay attention to you.
01:24:30.000
If you're not Are you aware of the fact that men are not as good at picking up on details as women?
01:24:37.000
Yes, but if I tell you all of it, if I tell you, you can't just pick up on that and just, really?
01:24:49.000
What if I told you I need you to go to the gym and start squatting 315?
01:24:56.000
That's how men feel when you say, oh, you didn't pick up these details?
01:25:05.000
It's just that, like, for men, picking up on details is harder sometimes.
01:25:09.000
I think guys see the bigger picture a lot more than women do.
01:25:12.000
Like, I remember I had a girlfriend once and she, because we were staying, obviously living in different places, and she bought me a toothbrush because I used to go around and stay at her place.
01:25:19.000
And then she came around to my place a little while later.
01:25:22.000
And then she went to the bathroom and she burst out crying because I hadn't bought her a toothbrush.
01:25:27.000
And it was like, I'll go buy your toothbrush then.
01:25:42.000
But it's like, I was just looking at a bigger picture.
01:25:48.000
Like, who cares about a bloody $2 toothbrush, right?
01:26:09.000
I think what I've been working on is not oversharing too quickly too much about myself and getting to invest it too quickly.
01:26:24.000
It's more of I want to make sure we're both invested in it before I invest too much.
01:26:30.000
What did you invest that got you jammed up, in particular?
01:26:33.000
I invested in somebody who was not at the same pace who said he was, but he wasn't.
01:27:13.000
So I feel like I got duped a little bit because I was like, look...
01:27:30.000
We spent a lot of time together just being very...
01:27:36.000
So I guess you invested a lot of time into him.
01:27:39.000
Time and energy and talking and future communication and even business stuff we talked about.
01:27:47.000
So you just won't get invested in a man as quickly as your thing.
01:27:50.000
Yeah, I want to make sure that we're on the same page.
01:28:00.000
And that's happened a few times, so that's kind of something I've learned.
01:28:03.000
One thing I've noticed about successful women is, like, a lot of times they lead with their career and how much money they make, and that typically ends as an owl.
01:28:22.000
I think what men do typically, and ladies, you guys could take this or not take this, but I'm going to give you guys some game right now.
01:28:32.000
When a man meets a woman, what he does is he sizes her up and sees what she's interested in and what her Investments are what her ego investments are and he plays to that I gave an example girl comes in and says oh I am a entrepreneur and I do this oh really tell me more about that and then they'll go ahead and tailor their game to appease your ego based on what you do right oh I want to be a mom oh yeah you're right fuck these feminists you know we need more women at home cooking and cleaning blah blah blah like guys are gonna contort and change their game based on what the girl tells them So
01:29:02.000
I think once women understand that, right, just know that guys are going to say and do anything to get laid.
01:29:07.000
And a lot of times that means to appease a woman's ego because, let's be honest here, most guys can't be honest because they want to get laid.
01:29:12.000
If you guys told women the truth, well, you know what, you're really annoying, I don't really like you that much, but you know what, I would love to have sex with you.
01:29:25.000
Just understand that a lot of guys' game is contingent upon your ego investments.
01:29:33.000
I'm telling you guys, in general, men don't care about how much money you make per year.
01:29:38.000
So if a guy does tell you that, it's a 50-50 that he might care or not.
01:29:43.000
Especially if he's high net worth, he really won't.
01:29:46.000
Yeah, he's going to tell you what he thinks you want to hear.
01:29:51.000
He was like, I told you what you wanted to hear.
01:29:59.000
What is one thing that you need to work on in relationships, or in your case, maybe three or four things?
01:30:05.000
I like that y'all gave me a list, because it is a list.
01:30:29.000
No, just like when I really like someone and I'm comfortable around you and you make me feel like I can tell you anything, I won't shut the fuck up.
01:30:57.000
You're comfortable around your partner enough to share everything?
01:31:07.000
Yeah, my brother, I talked to my brother about it.
01:31:21.000
I mean, listen, I like to date a girl and sit down, have a nice conversation and blah, blah, blah.
01:31:27.000
But there are certain women and I've recognized this as I've sort of got older and thought about this more.
01:31:32.000
There seems to be certain women who are real like energy vampires.
01:31:35.000
And it's just something about they're relentless with the conversation.
01:31:43.000
And sometimes, you know, you spend a night with them or you spend a weekend, God forbid, a weekend, and then you get away and you're like, God, God.
01:31:51.000
And if you're falling into that category, that is definitely a problem.
01:31:56.000
If you're just having a chit-chat and have a nice sort of time, that's one thing.
01:32:00.000
But I think it can veer far too far towards the other way.
01:32:05.000
So it's kind of like, I'll leave him alone, but then I'll go bother him when he's working about something pointless.
01:32:59.000
You said you had another one you want to add in?
01:33:03.000
Oh, I'm sometimes too giving to the wrong person.
01:33:08.000
That's like the job interview answer, isn't it?
01:33:13.000
What are you giving besides a bunch of attitude?
01:33:17.000
If I feel like you're in a say because I'm I've been in a position where I feel like you're in a hard place right now.
01:33:24.000
I'm not somebody who cares too much about how much you make.
01:33:28.000
I'm more like if you're willing to get somewhere.
01:33:35.000
So you don't care about how much money he makes now, but that nigga better make some money soon.
01:33:44.000
With that being said, I'm somebody who's like, I see you in a position right now.
01:33:51.000
But then sometimes I give too much and now you're using me.
01:34:14.000
Yeah, but she's being nice here, but then in the bedroom, she's like the dominant, isn't she?
01:34:22.000
Yeah, I'm definitely like nice around my peers, but in my relationship, I have a bad time.
01:34:30.000
It's like when I put effort into something, like I put effort in a relationship, the more effort I put in, like if I cook and I clean, there's these little things...
01:34:47.000
No, but like I said, one of the main reasons why I also broke up from my previous relationship was because whenever I cleaned, he would just make it messy again like 15 minutes in.
01:35:03.000
Let's just say I put the Nutella spread back in the cupboard and then he would just take it out and it would just sit there after he wiped his sandwich on it.
01:35:14.000
And it would just be there, and that just annoys the fuck out of me.
01:35:31.000
All right, so not cleaning up after your Nutella.
01:35:52.000
Sometimes I will say, do, or think of things at the wrong time and the wrong place.
01:36:13.000
I'm really trying to change that in the week as I can!
01:37:11.000
Like, I'll think of, like, I gotta remember my parents are watching.
01:37:14.000
I'll think of, like, inappropriate things, but, like, yeah, like, at dinner and stuff, and it's probably not the right place.
01:37:20.000
Or, like, while, like, whoever my man is working, I'll want to, like, do or say things that I probably shouldn't do in that moment.
01:37:27.000
Like, if he's on a Zoom call, I want to be behind him doing something I probably should not be doing.
01:37:36.000
I don't think it's a bad thing, though, to be honest.
01:37:39.000
You just told me not to talk to him while he's working.
01:37:57.000
I support that I have my income, whatever, but I fully am submissive to my man.
01:38:04.000
What if he says, Know your role and shut your mouth.
01:38:08.000
Exactly, and that I'll do, but because I am a little spicy, I'll go do that in a way that will probably tick him off.
01:38:21.000
I'm going to shut up if he says shut up, but I'm going to go do something else elsewhere.
01:38:44.000
Was it like in school when he actually attacked him?
01:39:22.000
My mom literally asked me if this would happen.
01:39:27.000
My mom was like, anyone who knows their history is going to bring it up.
01:39:39.000
I was born in Argentina and my mom's Brazilian and my dad's German.
01:39:59.000
Here's a small donation to help keep the lights on while you're in YouTube jail.
01:40:33.000
I had like fried it, so it didn't really taste like much.
01:40:41.000
Like, you know the shrimp that- It's actually pretty flaky and crunchy.
01:40:47.000
Do you know like fried potatoes, like when they fry it in the Japanese restaurant, it has like a yellow thing.
01:41:06.000
He sits at the bottom of the ocean and picks shit up and eats it.
01:41:40.000
So is it mostly plant-based stuff you usually like?
01:41:52.000
The Malaysia girl has been in the States for too long, bro.
01:42:02.000
Are prenups a signal that it's a plan on getting divorced, or is it a contingency serving the worst case scenario?
01:42:09.000
Uh, yeah, bro, I mean, you should be the one doing a prenup.
01:42:11.000
If she's doing a prenup, then that tells you what you need to know.
01:42:19.000
OnlyFans, Ling Ling, the type of girl I get to pay my bills while I dabble in the dark with a Nutella skin bitch.
01:42:32.000
If a guy has an uncircumcised penis, will that disqualify him?
01:42:48.000
Last time she did see us circumcised, it was a Jewish dude, and she killed him.
01:42:58.000
If a guy's an uncircumcised dick, will that disqualify him?
01:43:04.000
Okay, but what if he's uncircumcised, will you still deal with him?
01:43:14.000
In the past, I would have said no, but then from experience, yes.
01:43:21.000
In the past, I would have said yes, it disqualifies him.
01:43:25.000
In the present, now I say no due to experience.
01:43:34.000
Bottom feeders, they produce cheese from the bottom.
01:43:53.000
Are you trying to tell me all uncircumcised dicks are dirty?
01:44:03.000
I'm trolling, I'm trolling, I'm trolling, okay?
01:44:10.000
Because of the high probability of them not being so clean, okay, cool, but at the end of the day, it's still a dick.
01:44:17.000
If you get lost in a cave with your man, right, and you can't clean properly, what's gonna happen?
01:44:25.000
You get lost, and you're in a cave with your guy, right, for a couple days, you can't clean under, what's gonna happen?
01:44:36.000
You're in a cave and there's no cleaning material.
01:45:14.000
That's how you know Chris came from a fucking fucked up household.
01:45:24.000
Why the fuck are you niggas talking about niggas dick, man?
01:45:41.000
Nigga, why the fuck are you niggas took my penises, man?
01:45:56.000
Nigga didn't know his real name until he was 18.
01:46:47.000
Yeah, but yeah, Chris had a tough upbringing, man.
01:47:05.000
I know they're cool, but I deal with them every day, man.
01:47:09.000
Ladies, the 45-year curse is going to come for you all if you don't find the best man you can retain.
01:47:23.000
Kwan Jose 1 goes, ladies, there's a reason there was a saying he has a work wife and a mistress.
01:47:40.000
Men get a mistress because the woman isn't as exciting as the mistress is?
01:47:47.000
Did you say recently, Myron, that what one woman can never provide is variety?
01:47:51.000
That's the one thing that one woman can never give a man, is variety.
01:47:57.000
And inherently, one woman just can't do that, unfortunately.
01:48:10.000
Men like variety and one girl will never sexually satisfy a man.
01:48:13.000
It's because you guys don't think with emotions.
01:48:20.000
Yeah, you guys want to emotionally invest in a man.
01:48:22.000
Men, we can emotionally invest in you guys but fuck other girls.
01:48:45.000
That's a good point on some level, but niggas still want to smash a new pussy.
01:48:48.000
But yeah, so if you know it, then how are you going to be the mistress and the wife?
01:48:54.000
No, because the type of people that I am, I'm sorry.
01:49:02.000
I would bring a girl into my relationship with my man.
01:49:15.000
Well, you're going to be like, so what are you going to say?
01:49:16.000
Like, hey, bitch, you want to have sex with me and my man?
01:49:21.000
I mean, if I'm, you know, say, I don't know what the heck, me and my man are out in the club.
01:49:27.000
No, actually, if I've had this conversation before with men before, they want me to do the picking.
01:49:33.000
So if we're out in the club, you know, I might, or we both see one attractive, I might go up to her, you know.
01:49:39.000
If you pick the girl, you don't have to worry about you saying, oh no.
01:49:44.000
And the fact that I might feel some type of way if you pick.
01:50:03.000
You want to say it one more time for the people?
01:50:16.000
Your friends are whores and they're going to share all their whore stories.
01:50:22.000
You know there's girls that aren't whores that you can be friends with, right?
01:50:34.000
I like did this thing and I'm just like, oh, okay, cool.
01:50:40.000
What made you not want to be friends with her no more?
01:50:45.000
They just get comfortable, I guess, in your presence of being so nice.
01:50:48.000
Like, just because I'm nice don't mean I'm not.
01:50:52.000
I mean, yeah, but I don't want to hear how you're a whore.
01:50:58.000
What do they say that makes you think they're a whore?
01:51:05.000
Is it just you're meeting girls in the club or whatever?
01:51:11.000
I've met a girl at this one job I worked and she was telling me a story about how she had some man living with her.
01:51:19.000
She'll kick him out to get more dick to bring him back.
01:51:31.000
Realistically, what's different between her and you?
01:51:34.000
Like, you had a dude, you were living with, and then you went and fucked another guy.
01:51:37.000
Because I lived with him, and I didn't fuck nobody else.
01:51:43.000
Men don't kick chicks out their spa and break up with them unless they do sign by.
01:53:03.000
Yeah, bro, because she's operating on fucking...
01:53:18.000
We asked her because she was the one that had it.
01:53:23.000
Jackie Moon, or Jack Moon, can we talk about the disincentive to marry for men because the law is in place.
01:53:31.000
For me, it's not seeing my kid even if I'm a great dad out of spite.
01:53:35.000
I mean, bro, are any of the girls here married?
01:53:45.000
As of right now, I have a lot more to prove, but in the future, yeah.
01:54:00.000
DZJJK goes, girl in the right corner is the reason why we need the second coming of Osama.
01:54:12.000
You don't even deserve a dog, you worthless harlot on bath salts.
01:54:16.000
You have anything you want to say back to Muhammad, more than likely?
01:54:42.000
Methany, next to Mara, looks like Jenny from Forrest Grubb.
01:55:00.000
Carl's coming here, so that's all I have to say.
01:55:03.000
Carl's coming here, so that's all I have to say.
01:55:03.000
Carl's coming here, so that's all I have to say.
01:55:04.000
Carl's coming here, so that's all I have to say.
01:55:04.000
Carl's coming here, so that's all I have to say.
01:55:05.000
Carl's coming here, so that's all I have to say.
01:55:11.000
She went around, hoeing, fucking a bunch of dudes, and then she comes back at the end and gives them AIDS. That's crazy, bro.
01:55:33.000
There was a meme recently about Titanic and it just said it's just about some old woman reminiscing about some good dicks she got on a boat once.
01:56:07.000
If a high-value man offered you a choice between being his second wife or a side chick, which one would you choose?
01:56:13.000
Okay, let's say guy, six foot, millionaire, attractive.
01:56:17.000
Either you get to be his second wife or a side chick.
01:56:25.000
What happened to you being Dom and him being Zero and you 100?
01:56:32.000
So he can be dominant to the first one and I can just be the second part on the side.
01:56:54.000
Okay, so I do girl and girl content, sex tapes.
01:57:25.000
But I have a girl and girl one with me in the shower.
01:58:53.000
So in the past, you were getting money before, and you still were bored, so I mean...
01:59:23.000
He asked me if I... Something about the last man is about the money.
01:59:29.000
We asked you, mistress or side chick or second wife?
01:59:34.000
You said second wife because she gets money, right?
01:59:40.000
Well, if you get married to him, then potentially you're going to have some vested interest, aren't you?
01:59:56.000
I don't think that was a choice to say neither.
02:00:07.000
I mean, realistically speaking, let's be honest, you get a guy that's a millionaire, very attractive, you're going to have to be, you're going to have to share.
02:00:14.000
And you're a higher earning woman yourself, right?
02:00:16.000
So you need a guy, what's the bare minimum a guy's got to make to get you being honest here?
02:00:22.000
I mean, I don't usually go by that, but I feel like the lifestyle that we live kind of aligns with what I make or more.
02:00:34.000
Okay, but what does he have to make is the question, not you.
02:00:39.000
I've never really dated because of that, to be honest.
02:00:51.000
I think it would have to be equal or more than I. Okay, so what is that bare minimum number?
02:01:10.000
Because then you're at least, like they said, invested.
02:01:18.000
But then you've got to fight with the main wife.
02:01:36.000
I've heard stories where side chicks, I can't say they don't get nothing.
02:01:47.000
As far as maybe like Yeah, title-wise, but as far as side-check, honestly, I feel like it's a little bit more beneficial because if I want to leave them dead, I don't have to worry about a divorce or prenup or signing over which, what, who,
02:02:10.000
If you're the second wife, there's still a side chick and a first wife.
02:02:26.000
The main wife, the second wife, and the side chick.
02:02:29.000
If you with your side chick or your main wife, I'm still left by myself to do whatever the fuck I want.
02:02:35.000
Well, if you fuck another guy, you're gonna lose a dude, though.
02:02:38.000
He don't know that because he ain't gonna know.
02:02:48.000
He's gonna be expected for you to be just him, though.
02:02:56.000
She got dropped from her rich nigga for doing this.
02:03:21.000
I get what you're saying about the anonymity and stuff, but ultimately, they become the second wife, you're going to have some claim on his finances, and you're the sort of...
02:03:29.000
Let's say side chick, you get money as a side chick as well, because a lot of them do get taken care of.
02:03:34.000
So would you guys change any of your answers to side chick?
02:03:38.000
The only difference would be as a side chick, you wouldn't care what else you were doing.
02:03:46.000
If they're paying for shit, they're always going to care.
02:04:07.000
Even if you're talking to a guy, you should still be loyal and not be fucking other dudes.
02:04:24.000
I mean, the reality is, if you're a side check, most of the time, you're with a guy that has their shit together to some degree, because women share men a lot of the times.
02:04:32.000
Most men are not attractive to most women, so therefore, women by default have to share men.
02:04:45.000
The benefit is that he's attractive and there's not that many attractive men.
02:04:49.000
Ladies, you are aware of the fact that most men are invisible to most women, right?
02:04:53.000
Whereas most men would have sex with most women, but most women would definitely not have sex with most men.
02:05:00.000
Oh, so our benefit is the fact that we have this high-value man.
02:05:07.000
I suppose the only other benefit, like somebody said, you're not legally entangled.
02:05:38.000
HiBatHausa89 says, as a Japanese man, fuck Miami Thottery has finally evaded the agent.
02:05:52.000
Are your parents like, do they know what you do?
02:06:03.000
He follows like a thousand Asian girls on like Instagram reels and I'm like really big on Instagram reels and because I have like Okay, so I have like 10 accounts on Instagram, and because he follows like a thousand,
02:06:19.000
you know, when you're trending, it just kind of pushes you.
02:06:22.000
So he was giving recommended to me, and then he DM'd me going like, oh my god, is this you?
02:06:29.000
And he said, oh my god, I can't believe you became such a person of such low dignity.
02:07:03.000
It's kind of mean for me to say this, but my mom doesn't know how to use social media.
02:07:09.000
You don't think that anyone's gonna, you know, connect those thoughts after this podcast and everything you said?
02:07:15.000
Personally, I don't think a lot of my classmates or people in Malaysia like to watch this kind of stuff.
02:07:28.000
I can see why they don't want to watch that shit!
02:07:32.000
Well, I will say you being in America does help, but you never know.
02:07:39.000
But I think I've blocked out some countries and stuff on my Facebook.
02:07:45.000
So, like, the only platform my mom ever uses is Facebook.
02:07:50.000
So, for you to get her would be so hard, too, because none of my friends can even talk to her.
02:07:57.000
You should get sponsors for your work, you know?
02:08:17.000
Now you're trying to ask questions on the panel.
02:08:20.000
So, question, comment, and last thoughts on the show.
02:08:23.000
Troy, you got a question for ladies on the panel?
02:08:27.000
Would you like to confirm or deny the underlying context of this, which is that women would rather share a high-value man Or not have a guy at all?
02:08:46.000
Or would you rather share a high-value guy with another woman?
02:08:53.000
You're asking me a question I've been asking myself.
02:09:02.000
So the question is basically, would you rather have a high-value man or no man at all?
02:09:06.000
Or would you rather share a high-value man or have no man at all?
02:09:16.000
I mean, the guy that I'm talking to, I mean, he does whatever he wants and I'm just like, alright, cool.
02:09:20.000
As long as you tell me and you communicate with me.
02:09:35.000
I mean, I was walking around with them last time I was here and I was like, wow, I don't blame you.
02:09:53.000
You know, it's amazing to watch like tourists come from other places to Miami like chicks.
02:10:06.000
I think I definitely would pick an average guy.
02:10:08.000
I want someone to help me out with my work, and I think an average guy is definitely more hard-working than a top team.
02:10:25.000
Yeah, but then they wouldn't be able to be, like, scheduled all the time because I... It's your sermon.
02:10:36.000
I'm kind of cheap, and I don't like paying for stuff.
02:10:51.000
From your experience, what have you been through before your X-Man or current man?
02:10:56.000
That's why I don't like this question, because I have this question for myself.
02:10:59.000
So how am I supposed to answer you when I can't answer me?
02:11:02.000
Well, you've had a lot of time to think about it.
02:11:04.000
No, I have not, because I was thinking about this question before I even came here.
02:11:09.000
I suppose another aspect to it as well is would you rather that the guy is open, like you were saying, open up front about the fact that at the beginning.
02:11:17.000
Like I said, as long as you tell me like, hey, tonight I'm going to go do this, I'll be like, alright, cool.
02:11:21.000
As long as you tell me and I don't have to go and find out.
02:11:24.000
Why would you tell you about every single girl?
02:11:27.000
For some reason, that's just how I would want it.
02:11:33.000
Tonight, I'm coming over and I'm going to fuck some random girl.
02:11:37.000
A lot of you let me know and I don't have to hear from any chick later that you played to get whatever you wanted.
02:11:42.000
Being like, oh, well, I guess we're fucking the same man.
02:11:45.000
I'd be like, no, we're not because I already knew about you and you don't know who I am.
02:11:52.000
I mean, if he wants 20 wives, I mean, that's fine too.
02:11:58.000
You have to not judge every single one of them.
02:12:02.000
I mean, they're going to do whatever they want anyways.
02:12:07.000
So I would take a high value man as mine and I would also say...
02:12:12.000
Sorry mom and dad, I know you don't agree with that.
02:12:14.000
I would say if you want to bring in another girl or whatever, we can do that.
02:12:18.000
What if he says, no, I want to bang her by myself?
02:12:21.000
Then we'll have a conversation and if I'm comfortable with it, if we're that at that point, then that's fine.
02:12:32.000
We ended up having a threesome, and he was happy.
02:12:45.000
What if he slept with a girl by himself and then said, I want to bring her in?
02:12:50.000
If he tells me first, hey, look, I want to do this and we talk about it and I'm like, all right, look, then I'm going to do this and we agree, then cool.
02:13:02.000
It's interesting how a few girls on the panel tonight have talked about bringing other girls in, isn't it?
02:13:06.000
And sort of like, oh, I'd be happy to bring another girl and like bisexuality and stuff like that.
02:13:13.000
For hanging on to and achieving these, getting with these high-value men.
02:13:18.000
Because the woman instinctively knows that in order to have a piece of the high-value man, she's gonna have to share him.
02:13:27.000
I think the bisexuality is fake 99% of the time.
02:13:31.000
And I agree with you, Troy, that a lot of girls understand that, okay, I can't control this guy.
02:13:36.000
So the most that I can do is be involved and have some degree of influence.
02:13:40.000
So I will go ahead and get involved in the shenanigans of him fucking other girls.
02:13:44.000
But if you ask a girl, yo, he could be loyal to you and not have sex with other girls, they would always prefer them to be the only ones and not bring other girls in because I'll be a thousand.
02:13:58.000
So what if a man has like multiple live-in wives and they all fuck each other?
02:14:01.000
What if I want to sleep with all his wives just as much as he does?
02:14:06.000
Oh, see, I'll straight up look at a chick and be like, Mm-hmm.
02:14:14.000
But most girls have a point of contention with that.
02:14:16.000
And it's easy for you to say this on a podcast.
02:14:18.000
Another thing when you're a guy that you love, you're watching fucking another girl and he's doing things that he's never done to you and you're like, what the fuck is this?
02:14:27.000
We actually tell guys, don't do a threesome with your main girl because it could cause you problems.
02:14:37.000
Your girl's got to be really sexually open for you to do a threesome with her and not get into trouble, but more than likely she's a 304 and you shouldn't have wiped her in the first place.
02:14:47.000
If you meet a girl, and she's not a hoe, and she's your main girl, and then you say, hey, let's do a threesome, and you bring another girl in, and you do a threesome with her, there's a high likelihood that girl that isn't a sexual experience is going to feel some type of way, because...
02:15:03.000
So for her, she's going to be like, what the fuck?
02:15:07.000
Especially if you have sex with the other girl in a certain way.
02:15:09.000
And you can handle it until it happens and it's like, oh shit, I can't handle it.
02:15:12.000
So from at least my experience, I know we don't do the personal thing.
02:15:27.000
13 years ago, when he was in a friend zone, I was like, nigga, I'm good.
02:15:30.000
Before him, I also was with someone entangled for about four years, and he never wanted to do threesomes.
02:15:41.000
Yeah, because it's a liability for a man a lot of times when they have a threesome with a girl.
02:15:45.000
If it's your main chicken, it could backfire on you.
02:15:48.000
I mean, hey, I'm not saying it can't, but I'm just saying, like, why take the risk of your girl?
02:15:57.000
So, to ask a question, would you rather share a high-value man or have a regular guy?
02:16:07.000
I would invite somebody in my relationship occasionally.
02:16:11.000
Okay, so we didn't specify the caliber of the guy, though.
02:16:19.000
Because I can be a little too territorial sometimes.
02:16:48.000
I mean, I have no issue with sharing, to be honest.
02:16:51.000
If you're gonna include me into it, I have no issue with sharing.
02:17:11.000
But not all the time they've always been their girl into it, right?
02:17:20.000
If anything, the emotion I would feel would be like...
02:17:24.000
Not necessarily betrayed, but, like, more that, like...
02:17:34.000
Like, kind of scenario, rather than, like, set on a...
02:17:41.000
Like, I would just be questioning the whole scenario instead of being off of a direct emotion.
02:17:58.000
I would sit here and question what I was lacking more, if anything.
02:18:04.000
If I was lacking something, I would question it.
02:18:07.000
Like if I would say like, why would you go out of your way to do this for a one hit wonder?
02:18:12.000
But that's the thing, you're not lacking anything.
02:18:20.000
So it's not that the main girl is lacking anything.
02:18:27.000
You know, he wants to go and have a hamburger on a Tuesday night.
02:18:29.000
You know, if we were to sit down and talk about it beforehand, I would gain more respect about it.
02:18:35.000
But then it comes to that, like, he won't exactly.
02:18:38.000
So, like, I'll sit here and more disappoint rather than anger or sit here out of, like, oh, why would you do this to me?
02:18:45.000
I'd sit here and more disappoint and why you wouldn't just, like...
02:18:52.000
But at the same time, it's just like, yeah, it's out of my control.
02:18:56.000
But like, I have the trust in my significant other to sit here and tell me how it is.
02:19:03.000
You know, like, it comes off of that trust scenario.
02:19:06.000
It doesn't even come off of that, like, anything about anything else.
02:19:12.000
Like, I have trust enough for you to come in and talk to me.
02:19:16.000
If you want to have your options open, we can have our options.
02:19:30.000
The reality is he's going to have fun for one night.
02:19:32.000
You probably won't find out until after the fact.
02:19:39.000
Because you're a woman and you even said it before that you don't even know what your emotions are.
02:19:46.000
Yeah, and emotions aren't stable, so why the hell should you tell you?
02:20:02.000
Let's say your best friend gets a new boyfriend, okay?
02:20:06.000
But you and this boyfriend have had sex before.
02:20:10.000
Who should tell Who should tell that you guys have had sex before?
02:20:20.000
You gotta tell your friend that you fucked him.
02:20:28.000
The past of, like, mine and my friend's relationship has nothing to do with the man.
02:20:33.000
Or even if they were talking to him in the future.
02:20:38.000
I'm going to be like, we had a past and we slept together.
02:20:42.000
I'm not somebody who sits here and going to tell you lies to your face.
02:20:46.000
Yeah, I'll risk it because at the end of the day, truth goes a long way.
02:20:52.000
No, but if they can't handle the truth, then they're not met in my life and they're not met in my future.
02:21:02.000
Who should tell the friend that you had sex with the new boyfriend?
02:21:16.000
You would tell him you loved him a long time ago?
02:21:30.000
I mean, obviously I've known her longer and for that friendship dynamic was there first.
02:21:34.000
He just came into the situation as far as anything.
02:21:59.000
I had him at one point when he was at a different level in his life.
02:22:06.000
He can be a different person, different stroke game, different, you know, and everything will be different.
02:22:22.000
So you met the friend and you're like, oh, shit, me and him smashed before.
02:22:26.000
So the friend met the guy that we had already had sex, right?
02:22:31.000
Yeah, and she's dating a guy that you fucked before.
02:22:35.000
And I was like, yeah, this is somebody I used to date, whatever.
02:22:49.000
I guess it depends on a lot of timing, how long ago it was, the nature of the friendship, all that kind of shit.
02:22:56.000
No, it was within the last couple of years, but we had grown apart and it wasn't a fit for us.
02:23:02.000
No, I mean the distance between you being with him and her getting with him.
02:23:08.000
You're like, oh shit, I was just in the bathroom.
02:23:15.000
The new boyfriend or the girlfriend that they fucked before?
02:23:22.000
But like you said, from experience, I've had that happen.
02:23:51.000
Yeah, how much she jump around from man to man.
02:24:01.000
LOL. LOL. She's not friends with any girls because all the girls that she meets are hoes.
02:25:03.000
I've gained two bodies and one of them was a girl.
02:25:13.000
I'm just kidding, I'm just kidding, I'm just kidding.
02:25:16.000
So like, for me, it's just like, when it comes to that whole scenario...
02:25:26.000
Maybe three times, four times a week, depending.
02:25:33.000
You look at all these other promoters and all these other promoters are thinking with their dick.
02:25:41.000
I'm not thinking about none of that extra stuff.
02:25:45.000
You are on point, but I don't know the rest of the time.
02:25:49.000
I'm thinking about money at the end of the day.
02:25:51.000
That's like, you know, I'm not thinking about sex.
02:25:57.000
I'm thinking about money, and I'm thinking about where I'm going to go next in my future and with my business.
02:26:20.000
Where if I were to talk to you about my photography, that's a whole different story.
02:27:01.000
It has happened to me before, but the girl, my best friend, wasn't actually dating him.
02:27:12.000
She was fucking him, but I didn't exactly fuck him.
02:27:21.000
But then we found out in a weird scenario because You know when you play those drinking games and stuff?
02:27:31.000
So I mentioned it in the drinking game and then she found out and she was like, oh.
02:27:39.000
But that was years later because she didn't like the guy anymore.
02:27:48.000
Me, but I feel like if we're good enough friends, you should already know.
02:27:58.000
Sucking a dude's dick in a bathroom and him jizzing on your face?
02:28:01.000
Or you have sex with him and he never talks to you again.
02:28:12.000
What does he talk to them again after these jizzes on their face?
02:28:34.000
One, he has sex with you and never talks to you again.
02:28:36.000
The other one is you suck a dick in his bathroom, he jizzes on your face, and he never talks to you again.
02:29:13.000
Spreading your legs open because, yeah, you could suck dick, but when it comes to having that energy change, you know, like, yeah, like...
02:29:29.000
Yeah, this little Thai kind of scenario, like, energy is very big, so, like, when you go into something that's a very big energy transfer.
02:29:43.000
Even the kids releasing on is still the same, motherfucker.
02:29:50.000
Yeah, because you're opening your legs and you're adding to your body count.
02:29:55.000
Okay, so adding to the body count makes it worse.
02:30:14.000
Shout out to Icy, by the way, helping us out here.
02:30:19.000
Scott Arrogance says, Myron, looking more like Mr.
02:30:36.000
So it's going to play a little song or whatever.
02:30:38.000
After that's done, I'm going to go ahead and ask the question.
02:30:49.000
With more than two individuals since being in Miami.
02:31:06.000
Have you had sex with more than two men since you've been in Miami?
02:31:25.000
Because I had a threesome, so I would like to know.
02:31:51.000
But other than that, other than that, I only know of two people that I've slept with since I've been here.
02:32:11.000
There's only two nights that I've been in Miami that I don't remember.
02:32:18.000
Yo, this Rumble, Fresh and Fake, I'll last too much longer.
02:32:24.000
You ever think you want to say back to the stutterer, nigga?
02:32:36.000
You have a question, comment, or statement you want to give to the guys on the panel, or last thoughts on the show?
02:33:00.000
He tells one the truth about him fucking other chicks.
02:33:07.000
Probably, unfortunately, the one he doesn't tell.
02:33:18.000
Like you said earlier, women sometimes can't handle the truth.
02:33:23.000
I think he probably wouldn't tell her because he's most likely going to marry her.
02:33:28.000
So you think he loves that one more because he's telling the truth?
02:33:31.000
Yeah, because it's something that's really sensitive so it could be like 50-50 whether she would be okay or would she not?
02:33:40.000
The one he lies to or the one he tells the truth that I'm fucking other bitches?
02:33:58.000
It's like they said, I guess, you know, like if he actually loves and care for you, if he actually love and care for you, maybe he don't want to hurt your feelings.
02:34:10.000
The one he tells the truth or the one that he lies to?
02:34:27.000
I've been the one doing the lying and the telling.
02:34:29.000
So I can't even say, like, oh, I've not cared about the one I've lied to.
02:34:35.000
And cared more about the one I've told the truth to.
02:34:56.000
But I think a guy would say, would tell a lie, while a girl would be honest.
02:35:09.000
It's kind of a moot point, though, because a woman can't cheat on you if she loves you.
02:35:25.000
You can go fuck another guy with a man that you actually love and mind and respect?
02:35:42.000
The same way niggas cheat all the time, it's not that I don't love you.
02:35:51.000
But you know what they say, when you point a finger at somebody, there's three fingers pointing back at you.
02:36:06.000
It's just, like, I don't want to be influenced by that.
02:36:10.000
No, but real jokes, all jokes aside, like, when a woman really loves, admirers, and respects a guy, bro, all other dudes are invisible to her.
02:36:16.000
The only time I've ever seen a girl cheat on her man is when she don't respect him and she don't like him like that.
02:36:23.000
He just checks off some of the boxes, but he's still a loser.
02:36:29.000
The guy is failing in some degree when the girl cheats on him.
02:36:46.000
The one that he lies to because he doesn't hurt her feelings.
02:36:59.000
I tell girls the truth, but that shit's fucked me up, though.
02:37:03.000
Girls want a guy that's going to provide for them, be there for them.
02:37:07.000
At the same time, if they're going to cheat, they don't want it to be put in their face.
02:37:12.000
And if this happened, it should never come home.
02:37:18.000
I've told girls I'm never going to be monogamous to you and I've lost some pretty bad chicks from that because a lot of girls feel that they're special and they should deserve a guy to be monogamous.
02:37:28.000
Because women want a guy who's got options and who can exercise those options but she also doesn't want to have her face rubbed in it.
02:37:34.000
So although women, yeah, on the one hand, theoretically, they like that high-value guy, but she will also, just through self-respect, walk away.
02:37:42.000
Most girls want a high-value guy without paying the price to be with a high-value guy.
02:37:46.000
They just think, I deserve this type of man and I'm just going to get it.
02:37:49.000
But it's like, alright, if you get him, you've got to maintain it.
02:37:53.000
Accepting the fact that he's going to want other girls because you're not as special as you think you are.
02:37:57.000
And I think that's the most difficult pill for women to swallow, is that they're not special.
02:38:01.000
Because, quite frankly, since you guys were all little girls, your mom, your dad, everyone around you told you, you're special, you can do anything a man can do, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
02:38:10.000
And the reality is that, or simps around you told you were special, but the reality is that women really aren't that special.
02:38:17.000
Because the things that you guys bring to the table...
02:38:22.000
Virtually every other girl has that, which is why most guys will have sex with most girls versus most women will not have sex with most dudes because the things that God brings to the table are harder to come by.
02:38:31.000
Yeah, and also girls don't want to be embarrassed.
02:38:38.000
The random girl tells her, oh, I can fuck your man.
02:38:43.000
Somebody was trying to say something on this side, I remember?
02:38:47.000
I think, personally, I don't know about anyone else.
02:38:58.000
I think the only reason or the only thing that I don't like about sharing or like the whole issue with, you know, you doing whatever you want.
02:39:08.000
Like if you're using condoms, like that's cool.
02:39:10.000
But like, don't be walking around sticking your dick and everything all raw.
02:39:14.000
Like you're just fucking gross and you're trying to kill yourself.
02:39:16.000
Like go fucking hang yourself if you want to die.
02:39:18.000
Don't go around giving everybody AIDS or going to try to get AIDS. Like, I don't understand the reason behind raw sex with a whole bunch of people, but whatever the reason is, please stop.
02:39:37.000
Didn't we, not to share your business, but then downstairs we talk about girls and what we do with girls, and you said you want a one-time hit with every girl you fuck?
02:39:47.000
I'm sorry, I have to call you out on that one because what's different from your bodily fluid than a man's?
02:39:55.000
So you don't eat the girl out, your bodily fluids aren't exchanged in absolutely any way and that strap on isn't going in her?
02:40:07.000
It's my strap on and I don't let you fuck me with my strap on.
02:40:13.000
You don't do any foreplay or anything to get there?
02:40:19.000
You said you'll eat a pussy and then that's it.
02:40:24.000
Yeah, I'll be fucking with girls like that I know for a fact.
02:40:27.000
Unless you're using Saram Wrap, then it's the same exact thing as a condom for a man.
02:40:39.000
But there's also a thing called female condoms.
02:40:42.000
Oh, there is, but I'm just saying from what she said downstairs earlier about she's a one-time hitter with women, I don't think that that can apply to her saying that a man's got to use a condom.
02:40:55.000
Let's take your own opinion and your own comment.
02:40:56.000
She's just revealed some evidence that wasn't previously brought to the point.
02:41:00.000
This is like some weird, like, this is like some sexual Hercule Poirot mystery, like, right at the end.
02:41:05.000
It's like, ah, but let me reveal downstairs Colonel Mustard in the library.
02:41:11.000
She said she fucking went with the strap on and then look how pussy.
02:41:13.000
I just find it so funny when girls are worried about guys' dicks, but I guarantee you, you mean a guy?
02:41:20.000
So you would diss the guys that are doing it raw, but you still would take it raw.
02:41:23.000
And the other thing, too, is most of the STD, you know, diagnoses come from women.
02:41:30.000
Women are more likely to be the harbors of STIs than men are.
02:41:34.000
You guys actually get the semen inside you and it kind of mushes around in there and shit.
02:41:38.000
So you're saying that there's no men that receive things?
02:41:42.000
We're just saying it's more likely for women to spread.
02:41:45.000
Of course, that's why in the gay community, like, you know, HIV and STIs are very high.
02:41:52.000
They don't get diagnosed for STIs as much as heterosexual women.
02:41:55.000
And also, women are having more sex than men are.
02:42:00.000
You are aware of that, like, one in three men is a virgin or hasn't had sex in a year, right?
02:42:08.000
33% of men are virgins or haven't had sex in a year.
02:42:10.000
Why do you think she runs the bag up on OnlyFans?
02:42:18.000
It's about legit like guys really do be struggling to fuck, but girls don't.
02:42:28.000
I'm sorry, I was raised with male cousins, so this is...
02:42:31.000
So, I mean, like, if you really think about it, like, strip clubs, OnlyFans, prostitutes, pornography, etc.
02:42:40.000
The sex industry in itself is a billion-dollar industry because men don't get laid.
02:42:44.000
If guys were getting laid, Women that are sex workers would go broke overnight.
02:42:49.000
I also think it's because men don't talk to women in general in a club setting or other places.
02:42:58.000
Well, I mean, without getting overly political and taking it in that direction, did you guys see that thing about that girl who posted that TikTok about this guy approached me in the gym?
02:43:10.000
So increasingly, because this is the area I work in, you're helping guys with this stuff, but increasingly in public spaces, you know, there's a lot of pushback against guys approaching.
02:43:22.000
For a guy to approach a woman, if she didn't like it, he can get arrested or a citation for that.
02:43:29.000
Another thing too you gotta remember is that a lot of guys are socially awkward.
02:43:35.000
I know what you're saying, a lot of guys don't approach women, but that's what it takes though for them to get laid.
02:43:39.000
They have to approach and be attractive and all this other stuff.
02:43:41.000
That's why I always say A guy that can get a lot of girls is not the same as a girl that fucked a lot of dudes at all.
02:43:46.000
Like a man that can attract a lot of women is doing something right and brings value to the world.
02:43:51.000
A girl that fucks a lot of guys loses value in the world.
02:43:55.000
Because when I went to a club in LA for my first time, I realized that no dude, no guy tried to talk to me, which was kind of weird.
02:44:08.000
Yeah, but yeah, it was just kind of weird because I also went with other girls.
02:44:13.000
Yeah, with other girls and like none of the guys tried to talk to them too.
02:44:23.000
Yeah, we were like right next to each other and they didn't even talk.
02:44:34.000
I will say that there is a good amount of men, a good amount of women that have told me that men don't approach them as much.
02:44:41.000
Or if they do, like, because let's be honest, they're not going to count a count call.
02:44:46.000
But like, a guy actually coming up, introducing himself, making a real actual approach.
02:44:56.000
Yeah, I think that's for a couple of reasons though, isn't it?
02:44:58.000
It's partly because of the culture and the meterification, but it's also just because everyone's online.
02:45:04.000
We're all socialized now to be on the apps and everything else.
02:45:07.000
And a lot of girls don't respect the approach in person anymore because of the internet.
02:45:20.000
But back in the day, I mean, you were approaching the clubs, weren't you?
02:45:23.000
Because you remember the conversations we used to have.
02:45:26.000
And I mean, I still call approach now, every now and then, even as a public figure.
02:45:32.000
You've got to be exceptionally charismatic, attractive, have your shit together to even get a somewhat favorable response from an average girl.
02:45:42.000
When I used to go to the nightclub, for me to get laid, I had to talk to at least 30 or 40 girls.
02:45:47.000
And because half the girls there are there for attention.
02:45:49.000
Some of them are there for just to bullshit waste time.
02:45:54.000
So you got to find the girls that are actually like DTF. And that's, you got to talk to a lot of girls to do that.
02:45:59.000
But even to close nowadays, you can give a girl your phone number.
02:46:02.000
She might have a great experience with you, but it's like, okay.
02:46:06.000
Now all men, all men don't got to go to 30, 40 girls.
02:46:12.000
Yeah, you're grossly unaware of what it takes to attract a woman.
02:46:25.000
So if you're not paying for sex and you're actually using your charm and charisma, etc.
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And you're in a nightclub, you have to talk to a lot of girls.
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Because a lot of girls are there with their friends.
02:46:36.000
So you get rid of those girls immediately and go talk to another girl.
02:46:39.000
I'm not going to sit there and have not even a 5 or 10 minute conversation with a girl that isn't down.
02:46:44.000
You know right away within the first few minutes if a girl's even interested.
02:46:50.000
But we're just saying most guys have to go through that period of time.
02:46:53.000
You do realize that guys that are world class...
02:46:58.000
You do realize that guys that are world class that could teach this only have sex with 1 out of 10 girls they talk to?
02:47:09.000
I mean, if you're gonna be disrespectful about it, you can get the fuck off the platform.
02:47:20.000
Like, I don't know how else to respond other than I... I don't know how else to respond other than I understand.
02:47:26.000
I mean, you could go ahead and be like, oh, well, you know, okay, I didn't know that.
02:47:30.000
But I'm telling you guys that are world-class that teach this stuff, talk to 10 girls, they close 1 out of 10.
02:47:36.000
If that, and they're world-class, the best in the world.
02:47:45.000
Damn, I can see why niggas don't fuck with you, bro.
02:48:01.000
Slightly delusional, but she breaks the streak of horrendous rap shits we've had recently.
02:48:16.000
Kaze, I was talking about she does not like hoes, but she's out here having a fansly in bio on Instagram.
02:48:22.000
You ain't any better than the people you think you're not.
02:48:38.000
She out here talking shit about fucking girls that are hoes and...
02:48:43.000
The one that points the finger is always the biggest one, man.
02:49:04.000
Yo, can we look up how you even get banned off Holyfans?
02:49:10.000
She was talking shit about a hoe all night, and then you do a bunch of hoe activity.
02:49:18.000
Yeah, you can get banned if you violate community guidelines on it.
02:49:21.000
And then you can't get back on, because the way you get certified is your ID, because your bank account is linked.
02:49:27.000
What the hell did you do to get banned off Holyfans?
02:50:43.000
Bro, there's a weird IG. Bro, something's wrong with you, man.
02:50:51.000
My heart's like, there's something wrong with you, man.
02:51:01.000
Tell us your last thoughts on the show, please.
02:51:03.000
Only girls get the privilege of being retarded, bro.
02:51:11.000
It's conversations that I think that the society especially does need to hear and need to talk about because we lost our ways.
02:51:20.000
A lot of people don't really understand The female perspective and the male perspective or how to visualize both perspectives.
02:51:30.000
So, like, I like this talk show especially because you guys talk about real shit that needs to be talked about.
02:51:51.000
Just wind them bad boys up with some teeth whitener.
02:51:54.000
Actually, all the money make you get some veneers.
02:52:00.000
Can you get, like, the female perspective on things?
02:52:38.000
Before I got here, I've seen a lot of your face.
02:53:01.000
Well, like I said, the initial, I thought you were pretty stupid.
02:53:05.000
Yeah, I thought a lot of your thoughts were a little much.
02:53:15.000
But now that I'm on here, and I'm seeing how you're more factual than you are, even though I think your approach is way of talking sometimes towards somebody can be a little much.
02:53:27.000
You're more concerned with the way things are said versus what it's said?
02:53:33.000
Yeah, but if someone says one plus one is two or one plus one is fucking two, does it change the fact that it's two?
02:53:37.000
No, it's a fact, but you can still say it differently.
02:53:40.000
I mean, well, women, this is the interesting thing.
02:53:42.000
Like, men communicate directly versus women don't.
02:53:45.000
If you notice, we made fun of Chris earlier for like two or three minutes.
02:53:51.000
So we've noticed that's why this podcast so popular is because the first time a guy tells women to her face like, yo, this is what it is, etc.
02:53:57.000
Now trying to smash and they tell you the truth and the girls don't know how to react, which is why this show is so popular.
02:54:02.000
Women do really bad with direct communication in general.
02:54:06.000
You're just going to tell her, hey, this dress would look a lot better on you.
02:54:10.000
Versus me, we'd be like, yo, fresh, you ugly nigga.
02:54:18.000
But that's the difference between how men communicate versus women.
02:54:20.000
Women can't handle the truth and they can't really communicate directly.
02:54:25.000
I can't say I don't handle it, but I'll deliver it a little differently.
02:54:33.000
Because you guys are more concerned with feels over the reels.
02:54:44.000
Like you, I think I've seen a lot of the clips, so you get a myopic view of what the hell you all talk about.
02:55:21.000
It's good to see everything in large format and have the discussion.
02:55:27.000
I would like to touch even deeper and more topics.
02:55:35.000
No, just more in depth of just getting in, for me, getting involved in the male mind.
02:55:41.000
I love hearing your perspective because I think like a woman.
02:55:45.000
And so hearing you talk in little clips doesn't really help as much as hearing this.
02:55:51.000
Yeah, women also lose the context because I'll say something like, you're not special.
02:55:56.000
And they're like, oh my god, that's so fucked up.
02:55:57.000
But then I'll explain in context why women aren't that special.
02:56:01.000
The reason why is because the things that women typically bring to the table are easily replaceable.
02:56:15.000
What women bring to the table is very valuable, but the problem is that there's a lot of girls that have it.
02:56:23.000
But that's why I tell girls all the time, like, yo, like, you're really not that special to a guy outside of, like, sex.
02:56:30.000
And I would say most girls can't bring much value outside of sex.
02:56:34.000
So there's nothing really, should say, that differentiates each woman's venture?
02:56:42.000
What I'm saying is that most girls don't bring much to the table outside their beauty and sex.
02:56:47.000
What makes each female different outside of those three?
02:56:53.000
Well, most girls are liabilities and not assets.
02:56:56.000
Once a girl figures out how to be an asset versus a liability, that's when she starts to actually add value.
02:57:01.000
But the problem is that most girls come in like, what can I get out of this guy?
02:57:05.000
And they don't ever think what a man actually wants.
02:57:10.000
Girls worry more about what they want in the man versus what the man wants back in return.
02:57:14.000
Like, for example, a lot of girls want a guy that's six feet tall, $100,000 plus a year, attractive, Chad, all this other shit.
02:57:19.000
But they say, I want that, but they never think, what does that guy want in return?
02:57:26.000
Yeah, if you don't know that, that's why you're single.
02:57:32.000
Girls have kind of an idea of what guys want on the surface level, but girls don't really know what it takes to keep a guy.
02:57:39.000
Most of you guys can attract a guy, no problem.
02:57:43.000
Troy, what does a guy want from a girl, you think?
02:57:49.000
For retention value, I think being easy to be around, not being a fucking pain in the arse, basically, is a key thing.
02:57:57.000
You know, you want somebody you can trust as well, somebody you can talk to, somebody who's not going to fuck around or be indiscreet or anything like that.
02:58:04.000
But I think fundamentally, it's such a simple thing, but pleasantness.
02:58:10.000
Like pleasantness to be about, ease to be around.
02:58:15.000
Like somebody was saying, we were talking before about...
02:58:20.000
If somebody talks too much, that energy vampire thing, they're sucking all the energy out of you.
02:58:26.000
Because basically, if the high-value guy's on his purpose, he's on his mission, he's out there, he's doing stuff, he's making deals, all that kind of thing.
02:58:32.000
He doesn't want to then come home and have to deal with a load of crap at home as well.
02:58:45.000
Girl Talks Back, I don't really tolerate that shit.
02:58:47.000
I'm like, bro, just get the fuck out of my house, man.
02:58:49.000
And the thing is, the more status and money and the more attractive the guy is, the less of your bullshit he's going to tolerate.
02:58:59.000
I could just behave however I want with any guy.
02:59:03.000
Like, guys are only going to tolerate that fucker to some degree, and then what more than likely will happen is he'll fuck you, and then he'll never talk to you again.
02:59:08.000
Yeah, because when the guy's got enough options, he's got enough...
02:59:15.000
Then the amount of fuckery that he's going to take from an individual woman is decreased.
02:59:19.000
And I mean, I think it's a problem because women, particularly young women, you know, you date young women and they behave, they can often behave really badly because they haven't been taught, they haven't had to behave well because they think, well, I'm hot so I can just get away with doing whatever the fuck I want.
02:59:33.000
But the problem is when the guy's, you know, he's got enough options, he's got enough abundance, he's just going to be like, well, I'm just, why would I even put up with that?
02:59:42.000
But women often don't learn that until they get a bit older, unfortunately.
02:59:47.000
And the problem is that there's not enough of these guys to go around.
02:59:49.000
I think that's the biggest L for women is if you find a winner, it's your job to win him over.
02:59:54.000
But a lot of girls think like, no, it's his job to win me over.
02:59:57.000
And it's like, no, he's just gonna have sex with you and not take you seriously.
03:00:17.000
And, like, you're basically educating us on how men think.
03:01:07.000
Oh, I'm just happy because it's my first podcast.
03:01:33.000
No, I went to do like the dolphin meet and greet thing where you get to touch the dolphin.
03:01:53.000
Alright, these niggas been trying to say it the whole time you smell.
03:02:01.000
Y'all think you should've just said this from the beginning.
03:02:06.000
No, man, we can hear your fat ass laughing in the background, man.
03:02:13.000
Alright, that's what they were trying to say, Ling Ling.
03:02:23.000
Niggas been laughing the whole time, it's annoying!
03:02:37.000
You could have moved her to the side and, like, you kind of smell like whatever.
03:02:41.000
It's happened about four times they pulled her to the side.
03:02:56.000
I loved hearing how blunt and honest everybody tries to be or is or isn't.
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you can find me at RealTroyFrancis on Instagram at RealTroyFrancis and on Twitter at RealTroyFrancis as well.
03:03:42.000
You're going to be shooting some content over there.
03:03:59.000
But, but, the dating marketplace is off the hook over there.
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Especially for a woman, no matter what we wear.
03:04:13.000
It's a retribution for you killing all those Jewish people.
03:04:28.000
Jay's out here talking about she does not like hoes.
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We'll catch you on the next episode of Fresh and Fit on Friday.
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All the ladies, Instagrams and OnlyFans or what's the other one?
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I ran, I ran so far away I just ran, I ran all night and day