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00:03:02.000And yeah, man, it basically teaches you how to not be a simp and navigate the modern dating place nowadays because things have changed a lot.
00:05:13.000And I'm also starting a pro-love, pro-life movement in the Midwest where we connect volunteers with new moms so they know they're not alone.
00:15:44.000They gotta keep up with Twin Peaks, bro.
00:15:46.000They gotta keep up with Twin Peaks and Tilted Kill and all these other, like, themed restaurants that sexualize women that are supposed to be empowered and everything else.
00:29:23.000And what I'll do is I'll kind of open it up to whoever has the first one versus going in a line because someone might have something faster than another.
00:29:31.000What question do you have after the information that you've been told prior to coming on the podcast, if any, or comments or disagreements?
00:29:59.000Well, I mean, obviously part of it is a marketing strategy, right?
00:30:01.000Because it's going to cause some shock and outrage in a world where women are put on a pedestal no matter how they behave.
00:30:08.000And then another part of it is to obviously aware guys as to not over invest in women that don't reciprocate back in them.
00:30:16.000That's the biggest bottom line of the book is too many guys are comfortable with wasting time, resources and energy on women that would never reciprocate that effort.
00:30:46.000I mean, women have to earn chivalry from me.
00:30:48.000I think in 2023, chivalry is dead and women killed it.
00:30:53.000If a guy shows up to a first date with flowers and is super nice and all this other stuff, a lot of those will look at that as a sign of weakness nowadays, unfortunately.
00:31:20.000Realistically speaking, though you guys might say not all girls or make the whole argument for a minority, the reality is the majority don't positively reinforce chivalrous treatment towards women in 2023.
00:31:35.000The bad guys, the bad boys, the ones getting the girls, not the nice guys.
00:31:38.000There's a reason why the phrase nice guys finish last has stood the test of time so long.
00:31:43.000And it actually became popular when also what else became popular?
00:32:01.000I wanted to discuss about the biological necessities for high-value men to cheat on their woman, correct?
00:32:12.000I wanted to ask you this directly, where you wanted your woman to Basically accept a high-value man cheating on her because that's his biological nature.
00:32:27.000I was wondering how do you feel about women and their biological nature?
00:32:32.000Do you expect them to stand true to their biological nature as well?
00:33:34.000So I want guys to be in a position that Brandon is in where they're actively choosing like, no, I just want to deal with one girl right now because I'm focused on business.
00:33:45.000like mental resources going to like having a fucking um yeah rotation that's just like a full-time job you know what i'm saying and if you got a full-time job you know what i'm saying if you're out here really trying to get money trying to maximize it it's it'd be it's difficult to be a international playboy simultaneously you know the only guys i know who do that are guys who like make money Off women.
00:35:00.000And then the second question you asked was a female, if I'm not mistaken, like the female mating strategy?
00:35:06.000No, our biological inclination of, for example, if we accept men cheating on us, for a man to accept women and their biological inclination, let's say we're together, and you got into an accident and you're crippled.
00:35:27.000I know, but still, you're saying a man should be able to cheat because that's his biological inclination.
00:35:33.000For a woman, we want to be protected and provided for her.
00:35:36.000Now, outside of that extraordinary example that you gave of the person getting crippled, in general, when a woman gets a relationship, she's getting what she wants.
00:35:43.000She's getting a relationship with a man.
00:35:46.000She's getting that provisioning, that security to a degree.
00:35:49.000Obviously, the higher quality of the man, the more you're able to get this in abundance.
00:35:51.000But in general, when a woman gets a relationship, She is getting her biological needs, which is what a relationship.
00:35:57.000Women typically look for, you know, most women will prefer to be having sex with one guy and have a relationship with one guy over having it with multiple guys.
00:36:03.000But if you ask a guy, even if he's in a good relationship with a girl, most guys would prefer to have multiple relationships with multiple women, regardless of how good his main girl is.
00:36:12.000Yeah, like most guys ain't walking around looking for a girlfriend or a relationship.
00:36:16.000When was the last time you heard a motherfucker talking about, man, I can't wait till I get it?
00:36:57.000Motherfuckers ain't even thinking about this shit.
00:36:59.000A lot of guys get in a relationship out of necessity to get consistent sex.
00:37:02.000If I asked 100 guys, hey bro, would you prefer to have three girlfriends and they liked you and it was fine and they wouldn't give you a headache, most guys will opt for the three girlfriends versus just having one girlfriend.
00:37:12.000Most guys deal with one because she won't let them deal with more than one.
00:37:17.000In that question, she keeps asking that question with a false premise of like, Your boyfriend's going to cheat on you, cheat on you.
00:38:06.000But I just want to clarify that because that's how the question was asked twice.
00:38:09.000The other thought of, you know, as we talked about with Brandon, it's like, I mean, a guy that has a lot of options, like the last time I was single, I wasn't worried.
00:38:17.000I wasn't trying to get in a relationship.
00:38:18.000I had a lot of girls that I was seeing, and several of them were trying to get me in a relationship.
00:38:24.000And I think the best reason that a man could ever be in a relationship, if you want to have a monogamous relationship, whatever kind of relationship you want to have, is like...
00:38:32.000The only good reason to do that is to pare down how you're spending your time so you could focus on a higher value goal.
00:38:39.000So if you wanted to go to graduate school, if you wanted to work on a business, if you wanted to work on serious investments, that makes a lot of sense.
00:38:45.000But a quality man is doing that from an abundance of options.
00:38:50.000And there's a lot of weak dudes out there that haven't done too much and don't have much going on that might say any kind of crazy shit to a woman to Because he thinks that's what she wants to hear.
00:39:01.000But, you know, if you get in a relationship from a place of scarcity, you're both in trouble.
00:39:07.000And if the guy is deciding that he wants to date a particular woman because he has bigger goals, it's probably going to be a win for both of them.
00:39:14.000But both of them also know that, like, that type of man, if she wakes up one day and bumps her head and starts treating him crazy, some other women would be happy to take her place.
00:39:24.000So I think that solves a whole lot of problems.
00:39:44.000It's about, I guess, there was a woman that just left her boyfriend who was suffering from cancer and everyone's shaming her for it.
00:39:51.000And I was playing the idea of biologically, if he no longer can support and provide for her, shouldn't we not shame her if she choose to leave him, even though it was shitty what she did?
00:40:05.000Actually, we talk about this extensively on the podcast.
00:40:08.000I mentioned this is something called Brifold's Law, which basically in the male and female intersexual dynamic, and this is even in the animal kingdom, once the man stops providing value, the woman is probably going to end the relationship to a degree.
00:40:21.000Women are hardwired, whether it's humans or other mammalian creatures, to get their needs met through male provisioning and protection.
00:40:29.000I don't look at that and get mad because I understand that's just how it is.
00:40:33.000So in that extraordinary example, I would have just accepted that women are hypergamous and move on to the bigger, better deal should the deal that they currently have falter.
00:40:41.000That's why women are overwhelmingly initiated divorce, breakups, etc.
00:40:44.000But what I'm saying is outside of that extraordinary example where the guy became debilitated off of not his own situation, And let's say it's a healthy relationship, whatever, the girl's getting what she wants, is my point.
00:40:58.000Once she gets that relationship, she's effectively accomplishing her sexual strategy because now she's getting security and provisioning for a guy.
00:41:04.000But the guy, on the other hand, isn't happy because he still wants to have sex with other girls.
00:41:11.000Like, the woman isn't inclined to want to still have sex with other men when she's in a relationship with a man she actually likes, admires, and respects.
00:41:17.000But if a man is with a woman that he likes, admires, and respects, he still wants to have sex with other girls.
00:41:21.000This is why you'll catch him when he's out in the mall looking at younger, hotter girls than you, because it's, like, in our nature.
00:41:26.000When a woman's with a man that she loves, all the dudes are invisible to her.
00:41:59.000Anybody else have anything as far as like, you know, stereotypes of the show or a question you want to ask before you get in or whatever it may be?
00:43:27.000I feel like it depends because like you said earlier about him killing people, I feel like it depends what they were doing in their past, but for the most part, no.
00:45:27.000No, like, if you're in a relationship, or you're about to be, like, you're talking to this guy, and he's like, okay, well, this, you know, this so-and-so, if you really care about this person, if you can look past it, I feel like it, like you said,
00:51:14.000Every time they try to get me to do that shit, I go in there acting crazy, man.
00:51:18.000I was in Jamaica, Queens, back when I lived in New York, and I was in Jamaica, Queens, and I dressed like a motherfucking thug, and I was in there, and I was like, yeah, did he?
00:51:47.000I would say no, generally, because whether it's a relationship or a friendship, obviously someone's going to approach you about someone in their own, like, manner of how they reacted with them versus on how you get that different open-mindedness from that person.
00:52:13.000It really just depends because whenever you're open-minded, there's always going to be somebody to tell you about a certain someone, whether it's a friendship or if it's in a relationship.
00:52:25.000They're going to tell you they're Their relationship with that person, but their relationship...
00:52:31.000You know, you are really good at saying things, but not making any sense.
00:53:44.000But with the people that are saying, like, oh, that doesn't matter, that doesn't matter, it's like bullshit.
00:53:49.000It matters for the same reason a credit score matters.
00:53:51.000It matters for the same reason, like, you know, some...
00:53:57.000Who the hell wants to date a guy who's dishonest, has low integrity, has a reputation of ripping people off, being a scumbag piece of shit?
00:57:41.000So I want to be fair to say that men actually are better at changing if they're more open to criticism, which actually stimulates change?
00:57:47.000A man changing whenever you criticize them is just you have to find the right person that's going to do that because if you criticize a man he's going to be like if you're criticizing me then why are you with me?
00:57:57.000Well I think with men they need to be criticized by someone on their level if not better not their girl but what I'm saying is that I've noticed with men they typically handle criticism a lot better than women.
00:58:06.000Women can't handle criticism no matter who says it.
00:58:08.000Men typically can handle criticism if it comes from a higher authority.
00:58:10.000But the women get criticized way more.
00:58:15.000In every way, get judged in every single way.
00:58:18.000What you have on, what you do, how you move, where do you work, what's your profession, are you a bottle girl, bartender, what do you do out here?
01:00:34.000Well, wearing a bikini to the beach is one thing versus posting it on the internet on a social media app where you're prone to get attention.
01:00:43.000And you feel like that's a hoe trait to post in a bikini.
01:00:45.000But social media is not your real life.
01:02:44.000A guy going up and telling his girl the truth regardless of what the outcome might be or a guy that's too scared to tell his girl the truth because he's scared of what the consequences might be?
01:03:04.000A man going up and telling his girl, even if it's uncomfortable, it might be a tough conversation, how he really feels about a certain topic and doesn't care about the consequences or a guy that's afraid to bring up that topic and doesn't say anything about it because of the consequences.
01:03:47.000What I'm saying is that it takes a lot of security as a man to tell your girl what's uncomfortable to hear and have these tough conversations and be okay with the consequences versus most guys, what do they do?
01:03:57.000They bow down to women, don't want to say shit because they don't want to lose her by putting a boundary up.
01:04:02.000So I think it's the opposite of what you said.
01:05:48.000No, but like you said, like, if it's for you, like, you know, frame it up in your room and be proud of it.
01:05:53.000But like, you obviously, to a certain extent, if you post it on social media, you want that attention, you want those looks, you want those likes, you want that, you know.
01:06:23.000I mean, going back to what you were saying, I don't think Women get criticized more than men.
01:06:27.000I would argue men get criticized more than women, and men are better receivers of criticism, and men are more likely to change, which is how this whole argument even started, because you were trying to say women are more apt to change.
01:07:37.000Women say that they want the truth from their boyfriends or their men, right?
01:07:41.000And then when men come to communicate, which is key in these type of situations, he's communicating to you what he wants and his standards.
01:07:49.000But all of a sudden, it's a problem because, once again, you don't want to hear it.
01:08:30.000You girls can do anything you want, but don't pretend there's not consequences for that, that that's not going to limit the quality of man you're going to be able to keep in your life.
01:12:50.000But he sat down and exactly what you guys are saying right now he actually explained to me.
01:12:55.000You open the door for a guy to approach you and you shouldn't open this door because you're with me and then that lowers you know what I'm saying?
01:13:02.000You're actually like hitting him in the face when you do stuff like that.
01:13:08.000So as a man, like a real man they don't like Go down for that.
01:13:13.000So your boyfriend and your husband, they both had an issue with that.
01:16:04.000If we ask that same question, if you found the right man, if you found a very high quality man, how many of you, if you had a very high quality man, something close to an ideal man, would you listen to what the fuck he says and follow instructions?
01:16:19.000I'll be obedient and I'll be submissive.
01:21:00.000You didn't even listen to what I said about what I was piggybacking.
01:21:04.000Because I said even when the man is your ideal guy, which in other words is basically what I just described, he's actually superior to you.
01:21:10.000You still think that you don't have to listen to him.
01:23:30.000If someone's not a moron, you can network with these individuals, learn from these individuals, get guidance from these individuals, whereas I have to become a billionaire myself to even be able to sit next to them.
01:24:25.000You gotta go outside of your own personal experiences.
01:24:27.000What I'm trying to say is, in general, women have inherent advantages that men would never be able to get simply based on their sex in general.
01:24:47.000Yeah, I mean, just before we go to you, like, I mean, if you don't see that women clearly have a huge benefit from double standards, then I don't think you're living on planet Earth.
01:24:55.000Like, that's fairly irrefutable, the opportunities presented to women that are not presented to men.
01:25:02.000Wait, sorry, she said she'd never been on the yacht before?
01:26:38.000So anyway, you guys are able to get in a situation where you're able to get a bunch of exposure that other people might not be able to get simply because you're female.
01:26:46.000That in itself is a double standard that you guys see right here.
01:29:46.000It's fine, because you're just arguing and arguing.
01:29:47.000The difference is I actually know what I'm talking about, so I understand what you're saying to refute it.
01:29:51.000What we were talking about was you not listening to male authority, despite the fact that you want a man who's better than you in every regard.
01:30:11.000Alright, going back to what I was saying, the perfect example of when I say that women typically want to argue just to argue, like she don't even know what she's arguing for.
01:32:47.000So you can't sit here and be like, is that the only topic we're going to talk about when I clearly gave y'all first right of refusal, right?
01:32:55.000So, can't get mad at me when I give you the first chance, and then same reason you didn't come prepared and you're complaining that I'm writing down notes.
01:35:10.000Because I don't know, I kind of feel like we're always being judged, you know, with the whole body count thing, the way we act, what we do, stuff like that.
01:40:56.000Because, I mean, if I felt like it was going to happen again, then definitely I would leave.
01:41:00.000But like I said, like, I want to be the one to not experience but judge you off of what you're doing now.
01:41:06.000And if you haven't done it when I'm with you, then obviously I bring something to the table that doesn't make you go back to what you used to do.
01:41:12.000That's interesting because you quite literally said before you judge by the present, not the past.
01:43:04.000You know, this was a very revealing experiment because I find it very interesting how women expect you to not judge them or judge them on their past, etc.
01:44:26.000So you are okay with, you know, getting rid of a guy because he's a dick.
01:44:31.000And I actually agree with you ladies that said you would not accept him.
01:44:34.000But you can't sit there and then say the past doesn't matter when it clearly does when it comes to your personal choices.
01:44:39.000So my argument is, if y'all aren't going to accept a dude that used to suck dick and stopped being gay, why the hell should I accept a girl that used to be a hoe and decides not to be a hoe anymore?
01:44:51.000And I would say thought behavior, right, can begin with her wanting a lot of attention, posting on the internet when she has a man, acting like she's single when she's really not.
01:45:01.000But I find it interesting how women don't want any judgment for their behaviors, but y'all would totally judge a man if he did behaviors that you guys didn't like.
01:45:08.000And this just proved it right now, this experiment.
01:45:31.000He should have never even had that video in the phone.
01:45:33.000If he told me about the video, maybe I would accept him, but it was like a hidden secret, and then I found it on the phone, and then that is just like what he said.
01:46:00.000So would it be fair to say, raise your hands, would it be fair to say that you would be disgusted if you saw your guy giving another dude a blowjob?
01:46:06.000Raise your hands if you think that would be disgusting?
01:46:45.000Because if a girl has a man and she's posting provocative photos of herself on the internet for a bunch of strangers to look at and probably whack off to, then that is a red flag for a man.
01:46:56.000Just like a guy that might speak like, oh my god, let's get some fucking cooling in this tank.
01:47:00.000Y'all be like, ew, that's kind of a red flag.
01:47:12.000So are you aware that the less clothes that you're wearing, the more you activate the part of the man's brain that becomes problem solving?
01:47:41.000The point is that, like, this guy is across the world, sees a picture, is access.
01:47:46.000You make one post on Instagram, it goes everywhere, literally everywhere.
01:47:49.000That makes me so uncomfortable, though.
01:47:51.000Like, I don't want no guys whacking up to me.
01:47:53.000Actually, yeah, you're right about that, because I got a dick pic sent to me the other day, like, several of them, and I felt offended by it.
01:48:23.000I feel like in today's standards, if you don't have a good social media presence, if you're not that it girl on social media, like, you're not somebody, you know?
01:49:49.000And real estate is one of the best ways to control wealth.
01:49:53.000So, again, you're saying, I guarantee most of the people that buy from you that are investors, not first-time homebuyers, people that actually are putting 20% down, looking to invest, that actually have some wealth, a majority of them are probably men, not women.
01:50:05.000Where are you getting your information from?
01:50:07.000Common sense and being involved in the real estate world myself.
01:50:40.000The point is you understand that sexualizing yourself gives you more opportunities in the real world, which is why you leverage it to your advantage, which is cool.
01:50:47.000You can't sit here and be like, oh, men don't want sex or any of that other stuff.
01:52:03.000Most real estate investors, and remember I said investor, which means they're 20-25% down, procuring hard assets, as an investor not living in it, are men.
01:52:11.000Because men control most wealth, and most wealth is made through real estate.
01:52:14.000That's just deductive problem solving.
01:52:16.000And also anecdotal experience for me being a real estate investor and competing with other people.
01:52:21.000When I lose out on deals, 9 out of 10 times it's me losing to another man, not a woman.
01:54:16.000But I think there's a way to monetize that, right?
01:54:19.000Like, if I was a hot girl, I would get into a field that was dominated by men, and more men would be Down to do business with me, you know, for that reason.
01:54:29.000Like, it's just a fucking basic shit, you know what I'm saying?
01:54:32.000I mean, the boat example, I know I have face value, that sounds crazy, but the reality is if you look, peel the layers back, you're able to get around a bunch of billionaires, millionaires, network and learn things that another guy would have to pay $10,000 a month to get into a mastermind to learn.
01:54:44.000A male real estate investor couldn't get into the same positions that she can be in and be able to network in that way.
01:55:41.000Like, you have all these controversies about, like, well, it's a double standard, but you flipped a switch and you're like, I would do that.
01:56:21.000You can weaponize that and use it to get into certain situations or get certain opportunities that we would have to pay a lot of money to get into.
01:56:26.000So, I mean, the fact that this real estate chick was trying to argue that shit when she benefits from it in her field immensely is ridiculous.
01:58:08.000So I can wear a blonde wig, come out in high heels, you know, wear a big push-up bra, and he thinks he got a whole new woman and just do some different shit, like, you know?
01:58:25.000You know, so if I change my appearance and, like, come out acting all different, different than my personality, you know, it spices shit up.
01:58:33.000Or you can bring another woman in the relationship.
02:00:10.000Because I have a child with him, I stayed in the relationship until I realized that being in a relationship just because you have a child is not worth it.
02:02:08.000But wouldn't it be fair to say that the reason why they're not treated equal is because they're actually not equal, contrary to what popular belief might try to tell you about men and women?
02:02:19.000I mean, it's a biological fact that we think differently, we behave differently, we view the world differently, we have certain advantages that you guys don't.
02:02:27.000So how can we be equal when the reality is that men are superior to women in a lot of things?
02:07:05.000Women don't have to accomplish anything to get admiration from the opposite gender, but men must accomplish a lot to get even a look by the opposite gender.
02:07:12.000I don't think that's wrong, by the way.
02:08:47.000Yeah, you say, you know, like a girl, you might say, oh, she let him fuck or something like that, but you don't, a guy never said, yeah, let her fuck.
02:08:58.000Even the way we speak about it, you know what I'm saying?
02:09:35.000I mean, we're both going to be leaving, getting out of the place where, like, we both feel like clashing at, so, I mean, maybe that's what you need.
02:10:55.000I mean, I'm not for that, but I'm not saying that I'm not going to make him have fun.
02:11:02.000Like, if we want to hit the strip club, pick up a bitch, do whatever we need to do, that's different.
02:11:07.000But now if you're over here lying to me, have a whole girl and a whole family on the side, that's wrong.
02:11:13.000So you will listen to him, but the buck stops once he wants another girl.
02:11:19.000um I don't know she made me like kind of like change my I probably yeah I think it's just be open have fun with your man also listen to him ask him questions but at the end of the day you gotta like A man is always gonna be a man.
02:11:33.000As he said, I don't think that they're trying to be mean to us or anything, but if you think about what they say, it's right.
02:13:46.000But whenever it comes to, like, adding somebody else to the bedroom, if y'all both are not on that same page, y'all shouldn't be in that relationship.
02:14:02.000You know, like it's just as simple as that because and if he can't respect like if he says that and I'm like, no, like that's not good one.
02:14:09.000You should already know that that should be a boundary you set at the very beginning of a relationship.
02:14:36.000So wouldn't it be foolish for you knowing that fact that most men are only faced with options is to walk away from a relationship where a guy actually likes you?
02:14:43.000If the next guy's gonna do the same shit?
02:17:05.000Am I using that power to take a woman that I spend a lot of time with, take her around the world with me, to take her to the things that I'd be doing to share my life, to put her in business class next to me on international jets, to have her in a private jet with me?
02:18:43.000It wouldn't even be a thought that there would be something put on an Instagram that it wouldn't be clearer that I'd be okay with that shit.
02:18:49.000It wouldn't even be a thought that that would be posted, let alone an argument.
02:18:54.000You're living in an alternate universe where you're either...
02:18:58.000You're either prohibiting a situation that you would ever have a man that actually did shit, that would be respected by other men, that would have access to literally the best shit in the world.
02:19:08.000You're putting yourself in a situation where some of you people are prohibiting yourself.
02:19:13.000You can say, I'm an independent woman.
02:19:15.000You can do whatever you want, but don't pretend there's not consequences to that shit.
02:19:19.000Oh, no, there is, but that's where if you're a hardworking woman, you can, you know what I mean?
02:19:38.000I hope for your future that you change a couple of those thoughts.
02:19:40.000You know, this lady actually makes a lot of sense with some of the things that she says.
02:19:45.000And I hear that, like, there's some decisions you might have made in the past that you've probably been treated unfairly in some relationships.
02:19:52.000You might have done a couple things that you're not proud of in previous relationships, but you make a whole lot of fucking sense today of like, you know, well, you know what?
02:20:00.000If a man's treating me good, if he's looking out for me, he's treating me good, he's got my best interest in mind, he's taking care of, you know, probably I could be a little understanding about some things, you know?
02:20:10.000And go on your way to be respectful for certain things if that's important for his life, you know?
02:20:14.000I think independence is a must for a lady.
02:20:17.000I actually used to date a millionaire.
02:20:19.000I used to be driving down South Beach in a Rolls Royce.
02:20:21.000Everybody's like, Cardi B! No, literally.
02:20:23.000I swear to God, just like what he said.
02:21:01.000So you're telling me that he gave you a Bentley to drive and took care of your stuff and he's telling you to jump off a building trying to get his investment killed?
02:27:53.000Because women that are disagreeable have masculine tendencies.
02:27:57.000I think if a woman doesn't challenge a man, like, I don't know, I think it's great to challenge a man and challenge him in an educational way, not in any other way.
02:30:43.000And then number two, during the course of this podcast, I've made a bunch of factual statements that you made arguments towards in bad faith.
02:30:51.000Sometimes not even knowing what the argument was, just to agree to the girl next to you.
02:30:55.000Oh, what's your stats on that real estate thing?
02:33:46.000I built an app that was on the top 10 Apple for social media, ChaCha, in 2015.
02:33:55.000I am also building a social slash dating app.
02:33:59.000So I've built two apps so far, and my NFT collection is to encourage men to, you know, embrace their masculinity and teaching women to embrace their divine femininity.
02:36:19.000We moved to Hawaii and I had a whole bunch of nannies and then I had a tutor and this tutor was flirting with my ex-husband at the time and I was running a business and I was doing really well.
02:36:33.000I was making almost 10 grand a day on my own so I was focused on that.
02:36:38.000And because I was focused on that, he seeked attention from her.
02:36:42.000And I saw them exchanging messages and I asked him to stop.
02:36:46.000He said he would, but then he did it again and I just ended it.
02:36:50.000There was no physical connection or anything.
02:39:44.000I'll be honest though, at 43 years old, even though you make some money and you got some success, even if these guys say they'll marry you, they're going to be fucking girls half your age, dude.
02:40:06.000He specifically told me that if he got with me and I am with him as committed to him, I have to accept the fact that he's going to have other girlfriends.
02:41:46.000Okay, but no, when I was 37, 38, after I separated from my ex-husband, I met a man on the island of Hawaii that was just like three, four times crazier than my ex-husband.
02:42:53.000And then that's when I realized, started digging more, and that's when I found Kevin Samuels in the club.
02:42:58.000I have a saying that a lot of girls get mad at me for saying, but I typically say women start to mature once they stop getting the same sexual attention from men and they realize that feminism is a lie.
02:43:06.000And I make the joke all the time, a girl becomes mature when she starts paying for her own drinks at the bar.
02:43:11.000That's when the wall is set in and she's not able to kind of glide on her looks.
02:43:15.000And I think, and I don't want to use you as an example, but what I've come to realize from girls that typically tell me feminism was a lie, they're always like in their 30s or older.
02:43:24.000It's never when they're in their 20s a lot of the time.
02:46:41.000I just find it interesting and I don't mean to like pick on you here in the corner are you but if you look at like whether it's biblical texts the Quran the Torah all religious texts from all different parts of the world like women were always put in a subordinate position and I don't think it's because I think that's from a biological standpoint that women just don't have certain capabilities of
02:47:11.000decision-making, deductible problem-solving, etc.
02:48:48.000I just find it fascinating how if you look at any civilization that stood the test of time, the man was always in the leadership role.
02:48:54.000I think that's not just a coincidence that people from different civilizations that never had modern technology to communicate with each other all believe that men need to be the leader.
02:49:03.000I get what you're saying, that you have a problem with male authority, but I think, to be honest with you, that's a convenience that you enjoy being in a first world country.
02:49:11.000The only reason you're able to enjoy that is because men protect Your ability to think that way.
02:51:42.000But if you're going to be And I don't see this independent women thing, I don't see them as like the happiest women in the world, that they're in their 40s and 50s and supporting themselves.
02:51:55.000Those don't look like the happiest women to me.
02:51:57.000You're so true about that, because if you just like take a look at real life, every lady that doesn't have a man, they're like, I want one!
02:52:06.000Single mom, they're crying out, can you give me a man?
02:52:18.000But like, what do you think it sounds like to a man that like, you know, I spent nine years in university, I grew up poor, I'm a high school dropout.
02:52:26.000And later on, I made over $60 million.
02:54:28.000And if she's not delighted, somebody else will be delighted to do exactly that.
02:54:31.000Because I'm not asking her to do nothing that's going to be bad for her.
02:54:33.000I'm asking her to do something that's going to be healthy for her, healthy for her future, we'd both be proud of later.
02:54:38.000But when a guy hears that type of shit, like, I'm going to do what I want, I'm going to do this and that, I don't give a fuck if you're a 50-year-old bartender.
02:54:56.000But when I hear that shit, I'm not mad.
02:54:59.000I'm sincerely trying to give you a couple words of caution.
02:55:03.000That either means, as Myron mentioned, you've been hanging out with some loser-ass dudes, and you're making the right decisions so far.
02:55:10.000But when you meet a high-quality man that might have really changed your life in more dramatic ways than you could possibly understand right now, you're pushing him away before you ever got to meet him.
02:55:33.000See, some guys will be like, no, this girl's annoying.
02:55:36.000And then other guys will just put her in a sex-only category.
02:55:38.000And I don't think women understand the gravity of the shit that they do and the shit that they say, how it can impact how a man views them.
02:55:44.000And then you're put in that sex-only category forever, and they're not going to take you seriously.
02:55:49.000And I think the other thing, too, that uncomfortable conversation that women need to have with themselves is, Most of y'all only qualify for an average guy.
02:55:56.000A lot of women don't qualify for these higher status men that they think that they deserve.
02:56:01.000A lot of y'all are average women and you should probably pair up with an average guy.
02:56:05.000But I think we live in a crazy social media world where girls that are fives and sixes have access to dudes that are nines and tens and they might fuck one or two of them and they think these are the type of guys that deserve and the reality is a lot of y'all are very average and deserve an average man.
02:56:19.000Can I say something about the average thing?
02:56:21.000There's nothing wrong with an average guy, just you gotta understand that you're gonna have to, you might qualify for that, and it is what it is.
02:56:28.000Not every girl's a princess like y'all think.
03:01:54.000He just, like, he was messaging, like, he started a newsletter and to promote his business, he started messaging girls to promote him, his exes, like, people he used to mess around with,
03:02:09.000old hoes, like, oh, let's meet up whenever you're in your Miami.
03:02:30.000I think a part of the reason why you were so unaccepting of it, which is fine, I think that's within your right to feel that way, was because he wasn't financially capable.
03:02:39.000So I noticed that with women, and it's a correlation, maybe not causation, but typically the less competent the guy is and the less financial capability he has, the more women take it as an insult when he cheats on her.
03:02:52.000I mean, I don't mind messaging girls, but keep it professional, you know?
03:02:58.000But if you're sending hearts and you're trying to meet up with this girl who's a yoga instructor...
03:03:08.000The more you talk about this guy, the more it's clear to me.
03:08:21.000You can try to make fun to downplay the realness of astrology.
03:08:27.000No, if you think about it, even in the Bible, like how she says that it's demonic, but even in the Bible, they use astrology to find Jesus.
03:09:20.000He said, if you're not content with putting bikini pictures in your wedding reel, because you said you wanted to be a mom one day, or a family woman.
03:09:29.000He's saying, would you feel comfortable putting those Instagram pictures that you have right now on your wedding reel as you're walking down the aisle?
03:11:29.000What y'all had said, how maybe I just haven't found the right man, because I don't find it a problem to be submissive, but a man really hasn't brought out my femity like that.
03:12:18.000You know, like, if I do find the right man, I will 100%, most definitely.
03:12:23.000And I still honestly would be like, we can still go 50-50, but if the man was like, no, no, no, like, let me pay the bill, let me, you know, it just, it's got to be the right man.
03:12:34.000What if you, you know, a guy came up to you and he was wearing heels and he was, you know, maybe had lipstick on or some shit, or he was fairly feminine, he said, hey, listen, I'm going to act masculine, I just need you to be feminine.
03:13:13.000You're saying you're going to be submissive or feminine for the right guy, but what if you come off as masculine because it's naturally there and he's just not going to give you a chance?
03:15:38.000Women care more about how things are said versus what is said.
03:15:41.000This is why men are way better at taking criticism and debunking your point from before.
03:15:44.000Men listen to the message, not how it's carried out to a degree, especially if it's coming from another authority.
03:15:50.000I'm telling you, yo, this is what it is and I gave you an analogy and you didn't like it and you dismissed it just because of how I said it.
03:15:57.000So that shows my point, that women are emotional.
03:15:59.000When a smooth ass nigga said it, she was like, yeah.
03:16:06.000That's just a trait of lower IQ. Not being able to process information because your feelings get in the way.
03:16:13.000That's just a tenement of lower IQ, which is fine.
03:16:17.000But it's also like, you know, I mean, what you're saying is right, Myron, but it's like at the same time, it's like, you know, if you hadn't, you know, when you speak to girls, you want to get your point across and shit, you know.
03:16:29.000You twisted everything I said around, and you know you did.
03:20:47.000Or worse yet, he talks to her, sells the dream, but the whole time in the back of his mind, he was like, I'm only going to have sex with this girl.
03:20:55.000A lot of it is because, like she said, she's young, man.
03:20:59.000Some of the stuff you learn from experience, but when you said that's how they get the power, you can't give them that power, and that's just like You know, you're limiting yourself, you know, but I get why you said that because, you know, limit some of the maybe experiences you've had.
03:21:12.000You can only talk from the experience you had, right?
03:21:14.000But, you know, when I was, you know, when I moved, when I told my girl, man, you'll quit that teaching job.
03:21:21.000I wasn't trying to, like, Sorry, I don't mean to interrupt but like how you said it comes from past experience and it does and that's another thing that I can be I'm self-aware of is my past relationship that it fucked me up.
03:23:57.000Shut up with a man sticking up for you.
03:23:59.000See, because my point here is that I think that these things will put in place to protect you from yourself.
03:24:03.000That's the point I was trying to make here, but you can only name two things.
03:24:06.000But I think these things are actually to your benefit to a degree.
03:24:09.000Deactivating your social media, him wanting to be around you when you're driving, etc., Like, I think that's from, like, a protection standpoint.
03:24:15.000And that's kind of a man's duty is to protect a woman from herself because women typically do stupid shit when they're single that lowers their value.
03:24:22.000And at the same time, dude was a kid, right?
03:25:41.000Like, you got people here that are way wiser, older, make more money, telling y'all how the world really works, you want to be on some dumb shit, living out in the middle of fucking Odessa, Texas, thinking you know what the fuck you're talking about.
03:30:36.000You don't know what I'm saying, but it's fine.
03:30:39.000It's like when someone, you know, when the Dominican family is about to have a baby and he's conceived in DR, but they rushed to America to have the baby on an American plane.
03:31:06.000Craig C goes, for Blondie, the masculine man that is going to bring out your feminine is never going to come around because you're repelling them with your masculine traits.