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00:04:44.000I just I identify as pan but I understand that a lot of people don't like know the specifics of that so if you want to say bye that's straight I'm not tripping about that.
00:14:51.000Translation, you're with a guy right now, but he doesn't check all the boxes that you want, so you're looking for something better if it comes along.
00:21:33.000I tend to believe, well, not even believe, I know that 90 plus percent of the time if a woman gets in a physical confrontation with a guy, she's going to lose.
00:21:47.000Because even though, you know, you might go to the gym, you might exercise or whatever, even like a teenage boy can probably best you, more than likely.
00:22:39.000On a balance of probabilities, if there was a physical confrontation between a man and a woman, the man would win 90 plus percent of the time.
00:24:20.000The point you've been making for the last five minutes.
00:24:22.000There's a division between men and female, physically, strength-wise, that has been recorded throughout history, that literally started, like, literally, like, the 20s.
00:24:31.000We've also evolved, and there have been many, many, many changes in that point.
00:25:55.000There's been so many different articles that have come out where females say they compare what they're making compared to a man in the same position and they're not being the same.
00:29:06.000You do realize when you're making a debate or you're making a point, you cannot make a point based on your own personal perception or what you do.
00:29:14.000You have to go off of the generalities.
00:34:32.000You asked the question, so now I'm going to answer it.
00:34:35.000A lot of men want their woman to present themselves in a certain way, right, when they're not there, or they can present themselves in another way when he's there.
00:34:43.000But in general, it's a sign of respect to your man, how you present yourself when he's not around.
00:34:47.000But listen, my outfit has nothing to do with self-respect or respect for my man.
00:36:07.000Want their girl to present themselves modestly, especially when they're not there.
00:36:12.000Most guys don't want to be embarrassed when their girl isn't around, or excuse me, when he's not around, his girl's acting crazy or dressing in a certain way.
00:37:05.000He probably can't tell you anything because you wear the pants in a relationship and I can tell from your demeanor and the way that you behave that you run the relationship and he doesn't.
00:37:40.000When I see the way that you speak and the way that you behave, it's indicative to me that you run the relationship and you are the pants in the relationship.
00:40:32.000When was the last time you went out with a guy, decided you was going to give him the box, but changed your mind because he did something dumb or something you didn't like?
00:41:02.000Like, for example, the other day I went on a date and...
00:41:06.000I asked him to bring me a donut and he kept bringing that he stopped at Dunkin Donuts and he bought me a donut and I'm just like okay it was just a donut like let it go.
00:43:32.000So it'd be fair to say that you were on a date with a guy and his ass crack showed and you were going to hook up with him, but you chose not to after that?
00:44:14.000The question is, when's the last time you went out with a guy you were intending to hook up with him and then they did something that made you say, no, I'm not doing it.
00:45:12.000I came to this restaurant with six different girls eating the same fucking plate.
00:45:18.000I'm like, oh, this is Sarah, Ashley, Becky, Vicky.
00:45:21.000Nah, Sarah, I like keeping shit smooth like that.
00:45:23.000And then I'll be busy as shit, like working.
00:45:27.000But I don't think, the only thing that turned me off with a girl the most is talking about yourself in a way that's not financially productive.
00:45:47.000I can't really, I don't really remember her time, but I would say like one instance, like I went on a date with a guy in the past and he was just doing too much.
00:46:32.000I just don't fuck with that shit like that makes me cringe like so too much too soon basically yeah all right what about you?
00:46:39.000Well, I haven't dated in a while because I've been in a relationship for almost two years, but when I was dated, dating, my total ick, not to get into politics, but if you voted for Biden, it's not for me.
00:49:05.000I can't remember the last time something like that happened, but I do know that there's been countless billions of times when I was dating men that I did not want to interact with them because they gave me the ick.
00:53:57.000So again, similar to the other woman, like I've been in a relationship for a while now, so it's hard to really recall back to a specific time.
00:54:05.000But just based off the philosophy of what we're talking about, I think it treads a very fine line between what she was saying about being like a...
00:54:16.000And being a guy who's so into a girl, so obsessed, blah, blah, blah.
00:54:19.000But on the other hand, you have the opposite of that, which is like the ultra-egoic version, which thinks that they're top shit, and oftentimes there isn't really anything actually grounding that in reality, right?
00:54:33.000But you can't think of a particular time.
00:54:36.000I personally, I gave you guys my only cringe experience, my dating experience, where I literally ducked when he went in to leave for the kids.
00:54:42.000That's the only thing that I could actually recall.
00:54:44.000But logically, those are the two things, either of the polar extremes, like being way too egoic and not being able to back it up or being too much of a simp.
00:55:20.000I was still feeling him, because he was cute.
00:55:23.000We were cuddling during the movies and all that, so I was feeling it.
00:55:25.000But we went to go get ice cream afterwards, and we got our ice cream, got up to the bar, and the lady asked us, okay, do you want to split the bill?
00:57:16.000And I hate to be like this philosopher, but I remember reading a book of Enoch, and Enoch asked an angel, yo, what did that guy do to get in that room?
00:57:24.000He said, the question is, why do you even want to know what he did?
00:59:42.000I'm just saying, as me being a rapper guy, I just met people with so many different perspectives, and sometimes you meet girls who have body counts who got raped.
00:59:53.000But that's just hypothetically speaking.
00:59:55.000I mean, that's not hypothetical, though, because it's one out of three.
00:59:57.000I like to say hypothetical because I don't want to bring nobody past the present day of life because you're supposed to be moving forward and not looking back.
01:00:05.000There's so many different, like, circumstances which will influence your sexual activity and the way you choose to show yourself to the world.
01:00:13.000But ultimately, the question is, which one has the ultimate detrimental effect, a man or a female with a high body count?
01:00:20.000And ultimately, it's going to be a female in most instances.
01:00:24.000And the answer that I have to that question is neither.
01:00:28.000She's basically saying it varies from person to person.
01:01:06.000So, unfortunately, in my eyes, I don't think it's sentimental, but in society's eyes, probably.
01:01:12.000Do you think the reason why it's detrimental in society's eyes is because it's rooted in some biological fact?
01:01:19.000I think it's based in the fact that religion was very, very prominent back in the day.
01:01:24.000And, I mean, people still, you know, are very close to the Bible, but it also taught women to be straight with their man so that men can do whatever they want type thing.
01:01:56.000People that have never met each other from different walks of life, different cultures, different religions, different ways of viewing the world, different parts of the world, living in different conditions, all of them came to the same agreement about female promiscuity.
01:02:38.000But Patti made a great point that it really does matter more if you're a woman and you are definitely going to get more hate and consequences for having a higher body count just because you're a woman and you're put in a box, just like Patti said.
01:03:39.000Because she's expressing herself through her looks to be more attractive to attract the opposite gender.
01:03:45.000Y'all remember my definition last time I was on here?
01:03:48.000Literally, the reason why makeup was invented was to replicate the way a woman looks when she's aroused because your pupils get dilated, your lips get blushed, your teeth get blushed.
01:03:57.000That's why makeup was literally invented to replicate those features that a woman has when she's aroused because that is what is more desirable to a man.
01:04:31.000It's to be attractive to the opposite gender, but you're taking away from the point.
01:04:34.000What I'm trying to say is that women enhance their beauty to be attractive to the opposite gender is my point, which is for their sexuality.
01:04:41.000And that would also mean that men enhance their financial position and whatever else men do for the other sex to be attractive.
01:04:49.000The difference is that I'm not sitting here lying saying, oh yeah, just do it for their own field.
01:04:53.000Those are stereotypes and not everybody in this world is going to fit those stereotypes.
01:04:58.000Why can't women put on makeup just because they want to put on makeup?
01:05:01.000Just because they feel like waking up today and putting on makeup just to look good for themselves.
01:05:06.000Why does it have to be for the opposite gender?
01:05:25.000Sorry, I don't want to yell over everybody.
01:05:29.000I feel like as women, as we were growing up, we were always taught to present our best selves, and I feel as though that carries on to our adulthood, where we always want to dress nice, we always want to look our very best,
01:05:44.000whether that is for a man, for a job, you know, like you dress We're just different scenarios for ourselves.
01:05:52.000We're building our confidence up for different situations.
01:05:55.000It can be for the male gaze, but it's also for ourselves.
01:06:03.000I don't feel like that's an opinion, you know what I mean?
01:06:06.000I agree with what you're saying to a large degree, but at the end of the day, it comes up to the reasons why we're doing this.
01:06:13.000And I agree that oftentimes women don't realize why they're doing the things that they do, because they're ingrained and they're programmed in us from literally the time that we're a child.
01:06:21.000A woman's ultimate value, they say, is their sexuality.
01:06:28.000And the reason being is because that's what Culture, society, our social groups distill in women and praise that as the ultimatum of what you can be as a woman.
01:06:49.000And unless you become aware of these psychological factors and these influences that are causing you to even think that way in the first place, then how can you even be here having a logical conversation with these guys about this when ultimately what they're talking about is mostly things that are affecting us on a subconscious level and have been since we were little girls?
01:07:07.000I agree and disagree because you made valid points on that it's implanted in our minds.
01:07:17.000However, I disagree on the fact that you said we don't know what we're doing because I believe that women are very strategic in whatever we do, whatever our plan is, how we dress, how we present ourselves in different situations.
01:07:34.000I mean, you guys are agreeing on the overall concept that women understand that their beauty is their primary agency, which is the only thing I was trying to say anyway.
01:07:44.000So, alright, so you're saying it doesn't matter, is what you said, as far as, like, female with a higher body count or a male with a higher body count?
01:14:47.000Which, if this is going to be the mother of my children and my wife, I would want someone that's responsible, that understands discipline.
01:14:55.000So, if you have a body count of 300 people and you had sex with every single one of them with a condom and you were taking, like, a pregnancy...
01:15:46.000I think ultimately how you do one thing is how you do everything.
01:15:49.000And so if you're a very highly promiscuous person and you don't give much thought into the partners and the people you're sleeping with, that's going to echo in your career.
01:15:56.000That's going to echo in your relationships with your value and your virtue as a human being.
01:16:02.000I think that it's really difficult to differentiate the two.
01:16:05.000I think how you do one thing is how you do everything.
01:16:07.000And it's very telling if you're highly promiscuous how that echoes into other aspects of your life.
01:16:12.000Also, if you have sex with 300 different men, that's going to leave a mark on you.
01:16:17.000Mentally, emotionally, you're letting all those men put their, I know it's a cringy word, but energy.
01:16:22.000When you let a guy in you, he's putting all whatever he has into you as well.
01:16:28.000There's also ways to cleanse your energy to leave that in the past.
01:17:14.000Honestly, if you're trying to be with somebody, you shouldn't even let your past get to you because your baggage should be left at the door when you meet somebody new.
01:17:36.000From what you guys are asking, I feel like a woman is more affected because we can literally tell you that our body count is one and you still won't believe us, like I said before.
01:18:10.000Like, I feel like once you meet a person and it's like, this is the person I want to deal with, I don't give a fuck what you did before Evelyn.
01:18:15.000Like, I give a fuck what's after Evelyn and what you're doing during Evelyn.
01:19:27.000Ladies, you might not like this opinion, but I'm going to say it.
01:19:29.000I did a whole podcast on rape culture being a myth.
01:19:32.000It is not as serious as people say it is.
01:19:35.000One in five women is not raped in the United States, like they say on college campuses.
01:19:38.000It's not as common or as prevalent as people think, because these studies that you're talking about, that some of you guys are citing, they were done off of faulty call-in questionnaires.
01:21:40.000There's so many different types of therapies, depending on what kind of traumas you go through.
01:21:45.000There's complex PTSD, which has occurred over a long period of time, and then there's PTSD. The way you tackle PTSD is through talk therapy.
01:21:53.000When you go through complex PTSD, you have to go through EMDR therapy.
01:22:00.000Like, bro, like, yo, we gotta get away from, like, giving people, you know, outs for being retarded.
01:22:05.000Like, if I'm saying facts about men and women are physically different and men are physically superior to women, it's like, well, not really.
01:22:11.000Like, we gotta go back to telling people they're stupid.
01:22:13.000The only reason she was able to come on the pod and say the ridiculous things she was saying with her dumbass friend is because we don't tell people they're stupid anymore.
01:22:20.000We need to go back to bullying people, letting them know, no, that's not really how the world works.
01:24:28.000I'm still trying to No, like, bearing between women, like, she was basically saying, like, it shouldn't matter between men and women about body counts.
01:24:38.000Okay, but we don't operate on what should and could.
01:24:40.000But she's gone now, so it don't even matter.
01:24:41.000So, like, and that's the point I was trying to make earlier.
01:24:43.000Like, why is it that men aren't accepted, right, on certain things, but if a guy says, well, we don't accept women for this, it's like, oh, it shouldn't be that way.
01:24:51.000Like, y'all aren't going to accept the dude that's 5'3 and broke and lives with his mom.
01:28:22.000Why do we look at sex in such a negative light?
01:28:25.000Like, why can't we just embrace that, you know, two people are coming together and making fucking magic and having a good-ass time for the most part?
01:28:31.000I mean, because when a man wants to commit to a woman and have a serious relationship, he looks at these things.
01:29:18.000The point I'm trying to make is that it's never going to change because you're biologically hardwired to look for certain things.
01:29:22.000Men are always going to want girls that aren't touched.
01:29:24.000Women are always going to want men to have status and money.
01:29:26.000So, it's just weird because, like, men want a freak in the bed, but, like, a classy bitch outside.
01:29:33.000Which is, like, how are you going to get that, a freak, when a girl who is a virgin doesn't know how to do shit, doesn't know how to suck dick?
01:29:39.000Like, how are you going to expect a freak from that?
01:29:40.000But that's the pressure you put on females.
01:29:43.000And if you're not going to get what you're going to get, you go for the hoe.
01:32:18.000I gotta pay to be there to get a section.
01:32:20.000So you guys don't even understand this stuff because you're women and you live in a different world.
01:32:24.000Like that dummy that was here earlier didn't understand that she can't take herself out of her own shoes and understand that other people have a different experience.
01:32:31.000Men have to understand what women go through to be attractive to women.
01:32:35.000Women, however, don't have to understand what men go through to be attractive to men.
01:32:38.000You guys have the privilege of being able to exist.
01:32:40.000Men come to you regardless of how you behave.
01:32:42.000Men, we gotta know what makes you, turns you on, what turns you off, how to speak to you properly, how to be attractive without being weird, not being too needy, texting you the right things, setting up a date, planning the date, leading the date, arousing you in a certain way, having sex with you without making you feel like a slut.
01:33:26.000But I feel as though, like, the arguments with body counts and how it affects relationships, and I feel like that's part of the reason that we're, like, these constant conversations and debate on why it matters, why women are so sexual,
01:33:42.000why is this a female-run society, I feel like this is what's generating hookup culture, and that's why relationships are Are not likely to work in this day and age because everybody's so used to, oh, everything is easier for women.
01:33:55.000You have to be this and that to be their man, to be rich or whatever.
01:34:24.000I actually don't know, but I still think that cause and effect plays a big role and like we can't be saying like, hey, it's the guy's fault.
01:34:55.000I just think, like, if you're going back to the old days, like, they wanted multiple wives, and they were out working, and they had more time.
01:35:39.000Yeah, I would say I think men started it because I feel like men were the ones creating the prostitution and stuff like that, but women have to be the ones to allow it.
01:35:57.000The amount of times where I've like been pressured into hooking up with someone like come on like you can you can just do it like and making a female feel bad.
01:36:08.000We're in a situation where we don't even feel comfortable saying no at that point.
01:41:17.000I'm going to need some critical thinking here.
01:41:19.000So I need you guys to think with the reals and not your feels.
01:41:22.000Let's say I walk into Opelaka, which is a very dangerous neighborhood here in North Miami with a briefcase that has see-through, that is see-through, and there's a million dollars in there.
01:41:30.000And within maybe 10 minutes, at midnight, walking at midnight, you know, within maybe 10 to 15 minutes, I'm quickly surrounded by goons and they rob me and take my money and beat me up in the process.
01:42:26.000I think that how I think is, yeah, you're walking around with a see-through briefcase, but at the end of the day, whoever is actually committing the action, they are the one that's responsible for the action.
01:42:38.000Of course, but who bears more responsibility?
01:42:54.000Would it be fair to say that I had the authority, right, and the ability and the value to walk around with a million dollars, right, but then I stupidly thought that the world was going to accept it, and then I got robbed?
01:43:24.000Unless you guys are a bunch of bumbling retards that can't care after yourself, which I don't think you are, most women in the United States especially are looked at as equals to men legally.
01:43:47.000The problem is that most women lack accountability.
01:43:49.000You're allergic to the word accountability because you guys get all the same accesses and privileges and rights of men, but you don't want any responsibility.
01:43:56.000If you go out on a date with a guy, you should be screening that guy.
01:47:54.000Like, for example, like, when a woman and a man have sex and a man decides to come inside a woman, even though she said, do not come inside me and I get pregnant, why the fuck do I have to deal with those consequences and you're not man enough to, like...
01:48:06.000Because you have 33 plus forms of birth control.
01:48:09.000I told you that's who come inside me, though.
01:48:11.000But you have more access to deal with.
01:48:39.000Who put up a fucking mask and pretend like they're the fucking Prince Charming, the fucking end-all to be all, and then you think you found your one, and then you find out it's all a fucking lie?
01:51:21.000Why do you think religions, whether it's Christianity, Judaism, whatever, they've done everything in their power to protect female modesty and have them cover up?
01:52:09.000But I feel like going back to her point from earlier, there are certain situations where men put on masks and they make you feel safe, they make you feel comfortable, but there are certain times where they try to be like, Oh, why don't we try this?
01:56:36.000That's easy for you to say, but as a woman, you cannot say that to me as a man because you have not experienced that at all.
01:56:43.000As a woman, I've done that plenty of times.
01:56:47.000I understand there's an exception and sometimes men get aggressive and manipulative and everything like that, but it's...
01:56:54.000Whenever a guy's trying to fuck, he's gonna, yeah, he's gonna sweet talk, he's gonna say what he has to say, but it's up to you to actually be assertive and to say, no, fuck you, I'm gone, and you leave.
01:57:04.000There's faults on both ends, but in certain situations, one fault is heavier than the other.
01:57:56.000And even just because his issues, he starts sweet-talking me, trying to make me feel better, and then ends up being like, oh, let's cuddle.
01:58:05.000And then he just takes it out, sticks it in, because you've done it before.
01:58:10.000You can be comfortable with the guy and have sex with him in the past, but one day, you don't want to do it, and he wants to do it, he'll force yourself on you.
01:58:58.000I mean, I feel like after that first initial experience where you have a feeling like this is not the right situation for me, you have to get up and leave no matter what.
02:00:55.000But what we're telling you guys is, just like the robbers in Opelaka that are criminals regardless, it's upon you to exercise some good judgment.
02:01:02.000Now, the scenario she gave is way different than what you gave.
02:01:05.000She's in a relationship with a guy where the guy's going to assume sexual access is a thing, and she didn't want to give it to him.
02:01:11.000And then you're talking about, oh, I was on a date with a guy and I felt pressured and I want to hook up with him because I don't want to kill the vibe or whatever.
02:01:48.000And at the end of the day, a lot of girls are flirting with them like, oh, maybe next time or like they want that free dinner that you They're doing that to themselves.
02:02:44.000She did say, like, you're basically, like, going to the house with a sign on your head saying, fuck me, like, if you're going to their house.
02:03:58.000I mean, just, it's interesting when I frame things from a masculine context of me bearing responsibility, you guys are all for it.
02:04:06.000But when I frame it on the female side, it's like, no, it's the man, it's that, blah, blah, blah.
02:04:11.000This whole discussion kind of proves what I've always said is that women have a very difficult time taking accountability for their own actions.
02:04:55.000Okay, yeah, we get into clubs for free, we get on yachts for free, sure, but what about the people that don't give a fuck about that but have to literally carry pepper spray, have a gun, worry about walking the streets at night, like, walking their dogs.
02:06:32.000I mean, I would argue that women live a much more privileged life than men in 2023 because you guys get all the same rights accesses that men do while simultaneously being able to exercise female privilege.
02:06:42.000And it's going to sound bad, but also men can't just go and make an OnlyFans and sell themselves and make porn videos.
02:07:04.000See, the thing is that women are able to do everything a man does while simultaneously also being able to do things that only women can do.
02:07:44.000There's a whole bunch of reasons why women earn less than men on average because the wage gap was taken from all working class men to all working class women.
02:07:52.000It didn't account for experience, hours worked, etc.
02:07:55.000Think about it just from an economic level.
02:07:57.000If I could get away with paying women less, why would I hire men?
02:08:35.000When it comes to affirmative action, if a woman goes into one of these job fields, she's going to be hired over a man that might be more qualified than her.
02:10:26.000If I'm walking into a place and they're not valuing me as much as I think I should get valued...
02:10:30.000So do you still think that men have an easier life than women do?
02:10:36.000I mean, that just depends on what type of life you want to live.
02:10:39.000And if you put your value into the shit that women do, you're going to have a shitty life.
02:10:45.000So if you're literally going to live a life where you feel like, hey, I'm not going to worry about the girls getting in for free somewhere, and I'm going to live a life that I'm happy with, then who cares?
02:10:56.000That didn't answer the question, but...
02:11:04.000What's good, fellas, to the Angry Beavers?
02:11:05.000Would you prefer your future husband to be in shape, ripped, making 40k a year, dad bod, pudgy making 75k a year, or a fat, obese monstrosity making 100k a year?
02:13:35.000B. I mean, looking at the choices, I wouldn't choose either, personally, but if you put a gun to my head, B. I think some of y'all would do the C. Y'all just don't want to admit it.
02:13:53.000I've been on this panel dating a fat guy before.
02:15:49.000Are y'all okay with it potentially affecting your relationship in the future and your relationship that you may have now and or anything you want to get in the future?
02:15:59.000Yeah, I mean, like I said, it has been affecting me, especially with the type of content I made with my ex-husband.
02:16:44.000I don't know, but just don't be like exercising and projecting your insecurities and your hate on me because you're not comfortable with it.
02:17:33.000Yeah, so what if I told you that you're stupid and broke because you want to date a guy that's smarter than you and makes more money than you?
02:17:41.000Would that be insecure for saying that?
02:17:47.000What I'm trying to say here is that why is it what you want, I didn't call you insecure for wanting that in a man, but if a guy says I don't want a girl that has a past, that's considered insecure.
02:17:55.000Okay, if you don't want someone that has a past, then don't be searching for an OnlyFans, girl.
02:17:59.000Don't be coming at me, trying to date me, trying to fuck me if that's not what you want.
02:18:02.000I'm here to look for something serious.
02:18:04.000Well, the key word is they want to fuck.
02:18:06.000Yeah, so I'm going to try to block them bitches.
02:18:09.000Well, I'm just saying, like, I think women got to understand that if you put out a certain persona on the internet or a certain persona in general, like, you got to make peace with the fact that a lot of guys aren't going to take you seriously and they're going to lie to you and sell you a dream to get the sex and then retract that dream when it benefits them.
02:19:49.000They're going to put you before themselves.
02:19:50.000They're going to think that you're better than them.
02:19:52.000They're going to do all the same behaviors.
02:19:54.000The same things you literally said a second ago you're not attracted to.
02:19:57.000It's different because I've had dudes who did not act like fanboys and talked about my Instagram, talked about all my followers and all my DMs.
02:20:07.000And then there's dudes that treat me well, spoil me, make me feel good, make me feel in my feminine energy to be able to be taken care of.
02:22:39.000A lot of these successful females have a boyfriend or some kind of man helping them with editing, helping with shooting, even learning these skills so that it could be more of a partnership thing.
02:22:50.000And I'm saying that's a recipe for disaster in a relationship.
02:23:22.000I feel like in a relationship, when you spend years with somebody, there's going to be a moment where I'm up and you're down and I'm going to have your back.
02:23:30.000And when he's up and I'm down and I'm going to have your back.
02:23:33.000There's been years where I've been with him and I have not worked.
02:23:38.000Nobody's life is perfect and he was the breadwinner.
02:23:40.000Yeah, but the difference is that men are built to create excess resources for their family and wife.
02:23:47.000Women, however, are not built to create excess resources for a man.
02:23:51.000That is why when a woman's in a leadership role with her man and running the relationship, it almost always ends poorly because women don't share their resources with men on a balance of probabilities.
02:24:43.000Like, I've been in a relationship for nine years, so I could speak on something like that, so...
02:24:46.000Well, here's the thing, I have multiple women.
02:24:48.000And the thing is, is that the reason why I have multiple women is because I have a certain type of mindset where I don't tolerate fuckery from women, and they accept that, and they respect it, and they get in line.
02:25:17.000It's about if I'm associated with a certain girl and I'm going to claim her, well, the thing is that women, when they're with a man, they represent their man.
02:25:26.000If they represent their man in a certain way on the internet, especially, that embarrasses that man.
02:25:31.000There's a reason why a woman chases a man's last name and not the other way around.
02:26:11.000And the thing, the cardinal mistake that women make is they think that their sexuality also means that they're going to get a relationship.
02:26:17.000And the reality is, is that men are, you have sexual market value and relationship market value.
02:26:22.000See, the things, for me, I know women are attractive to is that I'm not going to let a woman lead.
02:26:26.000And this is very good for majority women.
02:30:09.000And if you're a woman, and I understand having a career is very good and everything, but if you are a woman with a very busy career, the man's going to be thinking about, well, when are you going to have time to give me kids and take care of the family if you have this big business going on?
02:31:36.000I'm just saying for most people, or most guys, most girls, they want what he's saying, for example, women want a guy with success and status, and men want a woman that's going to become submissive and follow his lead, pretty much.
02:31:51.000I just think that's just control at the end of the day.
02:31:54.000I feel like you could be successful, but if your personality is not there, you're not going to be valuable.
02:31:59.000Like, if you don't respect me, you're not loyal to me, like, even if you have all the money and I'm struggling up to here, like, I'm personally not going to put up with it.
02:32:06.000And there's a lot of women that won't, if we're speaking in general.
02:32:10.000Okay, well, most women will, so you'll be kicked to the curb.
02:32:14.000Most girls would rather share a guy who's successful than have a loser to themselves.
02:32:18.000The chances of the average woman, like me, I would say, with the average income, to meet a wealthy guy is not as common.
02:32:36.000Then that's you, but a lot of girls aren't.
02:32:39.000And then you said something about controlling or something like that?
02:32:41.000Yeah, if there's a relationship where there's an imbalance, I feel like it's a lot easier to control.
02:32:48.000Like if a female, for example, is a stay-at-home mom, has been out of the workforce because she found a guy that was willing to provide because he did have the money, what happens when he switches up on her and shit happens?
02:33:00.000And then here she's out of work for six years, for example.
02:33:07.000You were given this comfortable life where you have everything provided to you, which was great in the moment, but the second you have to leave, it makes that choice a lot more hard.
02:33:48.000That was your problem, but most of the time...
02:33:51.000I'm gonna say, if I wasn't in the job I was today, and I got in a comfortable relationship with a fucking millionaire, and he was providing me the world, and he became abusive, it would be a lot harder to leave.
02:34:04.000Yeah, but if you left, you would be able...
02:34:18.000So even you, being the breadwinner, you initiated the divorce.
02:34:21.000What I'm saying is that most men don't initiate divorce because they know they're going to be on the hook to pay child support and alimony and lose the house and the kids.
02:34:28.000So the scenario you're giving, like, oh, he could just up and leave.
02:34:56.000So where a dude will literally quit his job where he was making a shit ton of money, pick up a lower income job just so he doesn't have to pay the child support, just so that he doesn't pay the marital support.
02:35:08.000Like, there's people that do that and then you can get fucked out of the money, man.
02:35:12.000And then these women are going into the job market trying to find a job after not working for so many years and you don't have much to say to show for it because the control was in the man's hands.
02:35:23.000I rather, you know, I rather make my money, have my my cushy little thing in the back because when shit hits the fan and I need to leave a relationship, I want to know I'm good.
02:35:32.000I want to know I'm supported by myself.
02:35:34.000At the end of the day, we only got ourselves at the end of the day.
02:35:37.000And I'm not going to give up my job, my income, and the way they want me to if a regular man like you give up my OnlyFans, okay, whatever.
02:35:49.000I'm not going to do that if it's going to cost me issues in the future.
02:35:54.000I mean, that's your personal choice, but just understand that a lot of guys are not going to You know, take you seriously because of your background.
02:36:05.000You know, men are visual creatures and seeing your girl on the internet and allowing other guys to see your girl on the internet pay five bucks and see her get fucked.
02:36:59.000Still, I have 30,000 people on my OnlyFans at one point, and the majority of them, the percentage, if I were to ask that question, is going to be in my favor.
02:37:08.000You have your platform, you brought your brand, and the people who are gravitating are the people like you.
02:37:15.000Look, a man that's assertive, dominant, attractive, these traits that women look for, that you definitely probably look for, especially as a high-earning woman, they're not going to take you seriously.
02:37:54.000Men that have options, the tall guys, the guys that are athletes, the guys that have money, the guys that are attractive, the guys that you want, the men that you can actually submit to, they're not going to want to take a girl seriously that has evolved in sex work.
02:38:05.000And sorry, our audience, we sent Elle Crisp before the show happened.
02:38:10.000So these are random guys speaking on the internet.
02:38:34.000So do you think you date women who are more dependable on you because you fear that they could just get up and go with their own money and their own things?
02:38:43.000No, because women that typically tend to be successful are annoying.
02:39:32.000I'm in my masculine Monday through Friday, but on Saturdays I like to wear heels.
02:39:37.000What proof do you have that I am in my masculine energy?
02:39:41.000Because anyone that's successful that makes quite a bit of money typically has to be in their masculine energy to do so because the traits that make money are masculine traits.
02:41:22.000Jordan Peterson talks about his personality test.
02:41:24.000There's for sure certain attributes that can be contributed to every single time for levels of success and various other factors.
02:41:29.000So it does not change the fact that you are masculine.
02:41:33.000For a woman to make a certain amount of money per year, she must be in her masculine energy to do so.
02:41:40.000I think there's some women who live in their masculine, and I feel like there's some women who can, like, in default, they want to be in their feminine, but they can step into that masculine role if they have to.
02:43:04.000The way you say being disciplined and consistent as masculine is so mind-boggling to me because where my mind goes is the perfect example is a ballerina.
02:43:14.000A ballerina is feminine as fuck, the way she moves across the dance floor, but you know what that requires to be a really good ballerina?
02:43:21.000And they're not making that much money.
02:45:19.000Your actions are proving exactly what I'm saying.
02:45:23.000This is very masculine behavior, which is cool.
02:45:25.000You can debate me all day and everything, but you have masculine tendencies, which explains why you make the money that you do and why you have the success you do, which is cool.
02:45:32.000You just want to keep women in the same box that I talked about earlier.
02:45:35.000I don't want to keep women in any box.
02:45:37.000Yes, you do, because you don't want a woman that knows how to talk.
02:45:40.000Well, you've been arguing this whole time and kind of not making sense.
02:46:25.000Whether you want to accept it or not, there are certain traits that make a man attractive that are masculine and there are certain traits that make a woman attractive that are feminine.
02:46:52.000Oh, what I was saying was, it's just, it's not fair for men to always have, oh, to you, what else, my point I was trying to make was, men always have to be masculine versus women can pick and choose when they want to be feminine, and I'm saying that's not a good deal for most guys.
02:47:04.000Guys are just gonna want a woman that's always feminine.
02:47:44.000Can the women genuinely look at their lives, honesty, at this current point and imagine themselves 20 years in the future doing the same exact shit over and over and over?
02:47:52.000Still want to be miserable at that old of an age?
02:51:32.000The crazy thing about the emo chick that keeps asking for study slash facts about men being stronger than women on average is when you do, she'll just say she don't agree and that she lives in her own world.
02:53:40.000Thanks for standing your ground against Craigless Future.
02:53:45.000Jonathan Fernandez, like Myron always says in reality, women just don't want to take responsibility, always want to make an exception to be a 304.
02:55:05.000Just because of that specific situation, yeah, I couldn't please him because he was a sex addict.
02:55:10.000The majority of the girls on the panel have been cheated on, and I'm trying to tell you guys why men cheat, and you refuse to accept what I'm telling you.
02:55:15.000But there's also, like, the exception, like, sex addicts.
02:55:17.000Men don't cheat for the same reasons women do.
02:56:40.000I mean, I can say it's disgusting the fact that you don't want to date a guy that is on your level, but I don't say that because I understand the reality that women date up.
02:56:48.000Why is that what a man wants is disgusting, but what a woman wants is, you know, to be prized and cherished and respected.
02:57:17.000I always hear about how intuitive women are, but it seems like all that goes out the window because of my feelings and them not wanting to take any accountability for anything that goes wrong in their life, pay more taxes and I might walk you home at night.
02:57:30.000Yo, if a guy smashed you without your consent, call the cops on him for great because if not, you're just making it easier for him to do it to another woman.
02:58:16.000Now, Mara, she said she will sub to her, but honestly, what membership is best for a young man to learn about getting a successful lifestyle like you?
02:58:31.000No, I think it was the two gothic bits from before.
02:58:34.000If you think that worked extra hard to make $250k a year, it worked out since a teen to keep my six-pack and cultivate a respected name in my industry, just not to have my girlfriend's sexuality exclusive.
02:58:47.000Okay, what he's saying is that men don't bust their ass to become successful to have a girl fucking a bunch of dudes or share her sexuality with other people, is what he's trying to say.
03:00:49.000So opinions can absolutely be wrong because she's saying it's her opinion and I'm saying men are indifferent to a woman's success in general.
03:00:56.000Man, it's a great thing you have tits, man.
03:08:26.000False accusations are a real thing and women lie about that all the time to get sympathy and garner some type of attention to themselves because they regret sex.
03:08:33.000Here's the thing, we live in a crazy ass world where girls can come by and say, me too, me too, me too, with zero facts, zero evidence.
03:08:39.000Right now they got one of my good friends in jail over some rape allegations that aren't true, that are false.
03:08:45.000Andrew Tate, in prison right now, with WhatsApp messages showing that the girls lied, with video surveillance evidence that shows that the girls lied, all this evidence, but we believe women all the time.
03:08:54.000I think people that commit sexual assault or rape need to be put in prison.
03:08:58.000However, for that to happen, women need to come forward with real allegations, not bullshit about, I feel like it, or I think I was sexually assaulted.
03:09:05.000We live in this crazy world where girls behave like hoes, and then they regret it after the fact, and then they want to, hold on, let me finish.
03:09:11.000They act like hoes, They have sex with a guy.
03:10:17.000It could also be argued that, oh, she likes it rough.
03:10:20.000So all those bruising and all that shit that happens down there in a rape kit could also be used in court, being like, oh, she liked it that way.
03:11:19.000You're literally saying don't put yourself in that situation.
03:11:22.000Respectfully, as a man, I don't think you have the right to comment on the female experience and what we go through because it's a hard topic because it cannot always be proven because there's so many different arguments that you can make.
03:12:42.000It's not the same because we live in a world where women want to be able to do whatever they want to do without any type of consequence or not understanding that there's risks in certain behaviors.
03:12:50.000I'm telling you as a man, the world is a cold-hearted place and there's a lot of pieces of shit out there.
03:12:57.000But if you want to go out to the club, dress a certain way, acting a certain way, blah, blah, blah, and it happens to you, I'm not telling you that you deserve it, but I'm telling you that men are out there that will do it.
03:13:06.000So put yourself in a position where you don't get taken advantage of like that.
03:13:09.000Or we can educate men into learning to, like...
03:13:26.000Would you rather you be better and be able to make those decisions and those situations to rise above and protect yourself for those situations that are inevitable?
03:13:34.000We are caving our future for future generations.
03:13:36.000And if I can stand up to motherfuckers and tell them, hey, that's not how you're supposed to act so that my future daughter...
03:13:55.000All we can do is tell the person, hey, make it better for yourself.
03:13:57.000The same purpose that made you rich are a lot of the times the same purpose that aren't going to change and not going to take more for an answer.
03:14:40.000That's fine, but I would rather have people around me that are good people, and I would rather speak on the way a person should be treated.
03:14:48.000And the simple conversation on what is consent and what isn't so that two people are not in a situation that they should not be in.
03:14:56.000Yes, a guy could get away with rape, but then he could also get fucked by the legal system.
03:16:06.000When they see you bending over, we only do so much, Patty, come on.
03:16:10.000The point I'm trying to make here is that.
03:16:12.000You guys spew about being a sim, you guys spew about, you literally talk so much about being the man and all this, then why not spew about something that actually matters and could benefit the whole fucking world?
03:16:48.000We teach girls how to become successful and how to do things better and not to get into those stupid-ass predicaments of these guys taking advantage of us.
03:17:53.000And ultimately, if we're sexualizing this generation, which we very much are doing, there's a huge push towards the sexualization of this generation.
03:17:59.000And those are the natural insects that men are inclined to anyway.
03:18:02.000What the fuck do you think this is going to happen when it's put on 100X, 1000X, which is literally what's happening right now, playing out in real time?
03:18:21.000A lot of the stats that you guys use, one in five women on a college campus is sexually assaulted, blah, blah, blah.
03:18:25.000That comes from faulty studies that were done where a couple, both of them drank a drink of alcohol, and they asked them, did you guys drink alcohol in hookup?
03:18:58.000If you're going to go ahead and use the law on your side, which is pretty black and white, you got to be able to define what sexual assault is.
03:23:46.000Um, as I got, and I was very feminist, very, the exact opposite, like, 10 years ago, if I was on here, we would be like, um, but I have learned, it's just interesting, because, um, I never thought I would agree with a lot of what you say,
03:24:03.000but I do wonder, um, You're very harsh with a lot of things, so I wonder maybe what your childhood was like, or how school was for you, how women were towards you.
03:24:21.000No, seriously, I never heard of this podcast until I was about to come on, and I watched the videos, and my immediate reaction was, Who hurt you?
03:24:31.000Yeah, I wonder what his childhood and what his school experience was and how women treated him.
03:25:36.000I was like, mom, what the fuck is wrong with you?
03:25:38.000Then as I got older, I started to realize, like, damn, a lot of Western women do have really bad habits that aren't conducive to a good long-term relationship.
03:25:44.000And guys really got to step their masculinity up to command respect from their girl and get her to submit.
03:25:49.000What's your cultural background, if you don't mind me asking?
03:29:38.000Question, if starting today, if all young girls were raised to be wives, do you think these women would or could make up for their own delusional world?