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00:08:12.000But anyway, guys, rumble.com slash freshfitcastleclub.tv as you guys know.
00:08:17.000You have any announcements for the people?
00:08:19.000We did a fire stream earlier, a call-in show, and we did an actual, I want to say, team event yesterday in Orlando, Halloween Horror Nights.
00:10:42.000Yeah, they're like, what the fuck is this shit?
00:10:43.000No, I mean, it was funny because you guys are probably wondering, like, yo, how do you guys not know?
00:10:49.000As you guys know, we're doing the show, and then the girls bring them in, and then they go to the back green room, right?
00:10:53.000So we don't even see them, and I didn't even know that they had left or whatever until after, and I was like, oh yeah, I guess they didn't feel comfortable or some shit like that, or that we brand management.
00:11:03.000They had a pretty Tam Collins show, by the way.
00:11:06.000Yeah, I didn't say nothing that crazy.
00:11:39.000Because I know some of them are probably wondering, why was it so, why were y'all late, blah, blah, blah, or why was Chris not showing up, or why did he did show up?
00:11:47.000Yeah, I mean, I'm still not 100%, but I'm still here, you know what I'm saying?
00:20:11.000So we sat next to him, but he was listening to a conversation I was having with my sister, but he kept laughing at my jokes, and I'm like, nigga, what's so funny?
00:21:54.000From this point forward, we're going to go 20 and up.
00:21:57.000So a chat that came in, we'll read it, but from this point forward, 20 and up, and then it's probably going to, as we go up, it's going to go to 50 and up.
00:22:03.000Jared goes, no, seriously, though, how much do y'all drink a day?
00:22:47.000Okay, Campstine says, question ladies, what are your thoughts on the analogy if one key can open many locks, it's considered master key, as opposed to a lock that can be opened by any key, it's a shitty lock.
00:23:00.000Yeah, so he's saying, if one key can open many locks, it's considered master key, as opposed to a lock that can be opened by any key, it's a shitty lock.
00:23:08.000I think that is a powerful quote because once you think a little bit more into it and you think about, okay, that's an analogy about a person.
00:23:17.000If you're the person who's the master key and you have that knowledge and that power to be able to access and open up Other people but nobody can unlock you then you have the power like you're the master but then if everybody can open you up and everybody can get you exposed and get everything out of you and you can't have that same power and have power over somebody else then you lost so for this analogy who do you think is the man and then who do you think is the woman?
00:23:47.000So, that's interesting because I think it could apply to both.
00:23:52.000I think that it could apply to both, honestly, because it could be the man who is the master key, right?
00:24:00.000But there also could be the man who also can get opened up by all the different women and get used and abused by women.
00:24:08.000So it could be a girl or it could be a male perspective and you could be the lock or the key.
00:24:13.000Male or female, you want to make sure you're the master lock.
00:25:10.000But then the girl who's getting opened up by every single guy, obviously that's a loss of power, you know?
00:25:15.000You don't have control over who's that master lock, who has power with you.
00:25:19.000When you're sexually with somebody, it is a balance of exchange of power between the two of you and you are giving yourself to that person.
00:25:27.000So if you're a lock opened up by everyone, then you are a weak lock.
00:25:33.000But if you're a strong master lock and you have the power to keep people out, but also have the power to open other people up, then you're a winner.
00:26:14.000And just so you guys know, if you want your thing shown on screen, it's 10 and up to be shown on screen, and then we're going to read 20 and up.
00:26:19.000But if it came in from before, we'll read it.
00:28:06.000I think what my partner's trying to establish is that, in general, black women tend to date within their race, right, statistically speaking?
00:28:29.000Since you actually like them, let me ask you this then, since you're bisexual, who do you think you get more benefit from the relationship when you're with women or from men?
00:28:39.000To be honest, I've been in a relationship with both.
00:28:42.000I'm going to be completely straightforward and say that it really didn't depend on my relationship.
00:29:08.000And I'm a type of genuine person, so moving strategic allows me to gain in a critical thinking and just using my mind kind of way, but at the same time, it's just...
00:30:57.000I get what y'all are saying, but it still doesn't matter who.
00:31:00.000The process to even have kids, yeah, bruh.
00:31:04.000The process even to have kids, I'll go through that same process and still probably be in love with that woman the same as I would with a man.
00:31:11.000But you're pickier with men than you are with women.
00:31:13.000I am, because y'all are more difficult to deal with.
00:31:16.000Okay, would it be fair to say that men, for a guy to deal with you versus a woman that has to deal with you since you're pickier, by definition that means the man has to bring more to the table to get you than a woman would?
00:31:26.000I just have a biased opinion when it comes to guys in relationships.
00:31:30.000So that means they have to work harder to get you than a girl would, because you're pickier.
00:31:53.000I think that men have an instilled thing in them to enjoy not only competition but not just competition but We're good to go.
00:32:21.000So obviously, in essence, that's gonna not only sometimes it offends men, but most men that have money or power or any type of strength in community or like the social world, he's gonna want to conquer you no matter what.
00:35:58.000Mainly just, you know, be safe, use protection, don't get pregnant, you know.
00:36:04.000So they didn't tell you don't do it, they just said, like, be safe about it?
00:36:06.000Yeah, they said they couldn't stop anything from happening if I choose to partake in, you know, sex or do shit like that, but just be safe, make sure I'm good, always use a condom, and don't get pregnant.
00:41:51.000I met some black dudes like that, though, too.
00:41:55.000But generally, if we're going to put it into the perspective of the general population, it's going to be they're more easygoing white guys.
00:42:14.000From a social standpoint, you know, it's your ex's friend, even though it was only two weeks and they didn't really know each other like that, you know, there could be some social stigma, especially on a college campus where news travels around.
00:42:36.000It was the charisma, the way he carried himself, the way he presented himself in front of other women, in front of other men, and everything that he approached his way of life and his dreams and his ambitions.
00:42:47.000That's what made me like him for him and look at him differently, I guess.
00:43:18.000Because what I've come to realize, Austin Dunham talks about this, shout out to him.
00:43:23.000If you look at a girl's past three or four boyfriends, you're going to notice that they look pretty damn alike or have very similar traits.
00:43:29.000Women tend to have a type and they tend to be very close to it.
00:43:32.000Sometimes they'll venture out of it every now and then.
00:43:34.000But in general, women have a type and they tend to stick to that.
00:43:37.000Women are very linear in the type of men that they like versus men are way more open.
00:43:41.000But if they hurt bad enough, they'll change.
00:48:54.000And the reason why I wanted to demonstrate that for you guys is because girls can get away with a really bad game.
00:48:59.000That's the reason why I wanted to say that.
00:49:01.000Because if a guy did that to a girl, he would have to be exceptionally handsome or really have some shit together to be able to pull it off most of the time.
00:49:13.000That's why I was like, okay, I'm going to shoot my shot.
00:49:15.000No, I mean, if it was the other way around, and a guy did that on you...
00:49:18.000That's what cigars all the time, and girls are like...
00:49:21.000What I'm trying to explain is that women are able to get...
00:49:25.000The whole reason why I even demonstrated that is because women are able to get away with really bad game, whereas men are not able to do that.
00:49:32.000If a guy did it, he would have to do it in a much different way.
00:50:29.000So just to recap with the audience real quick, right?
00:50:32.000So she was the girl, she walked by like this, and you come by, come by.
00:50:35.000And what she does is she turns her entire body to engage him and tell him, oh, I'm interested in you, blah, blah, blah, right?
00:50:41.000And as a girl, that works because the guy doesn't have any physical worry that you're going to hurt him, correct?
00:50:47.000Because that's why you're able to be a bit more assertive in how you approach the guy and do that and telegraph interest like that because there's no physical fear from a male perspective, right?
00:50:57.000However, when it's reversed as a guy, right, you have to take that into your head and be like, okay, I'm going to approach her, but I have to do it in a way where I'm conveying interest while not coming off as creepy while still making her feel safe.
00:51:09.000So this is how a guy would have to do it, right?
00:51:11.000So if you're walking by as a guy, right, same situation, walk past each other, I'm not going to stop you like this or engage you like this because this is scary.
00:51:42.000Because if she keeps pushing, I keep pushing.
00:51:44.000Because if I chase after her, that might be a little weird.
00:51:47.000Or, I can fully commit and stop her like this, so she gets a full perspective of who the hell I am, and she knows, okay, this guy's approaching me, but he's not weird about it, and I'm approaching, obviously, with a smile on my face, not being strange, giving her enough space so that she knows I'm not going to do some weird shit.
00:52:08.000Or like this, where I'm doing it subtly, and I'm turning my head like this, and if she sees me, and she interacts with me, and then she turns her body to me, like that, then I know...
00:52:32.000Of the shit that we have to think about to have in mind to make this shit come off and make it look smooth so you don't get creeped out and shit.
00:52:38.000So, as a guy, you initiate, but then you have to go off of, okay, I'm going to initiate, but then if she doesn't reciprocate, I need to keep it pushing.
00:52:46.000Like, if she's not showing interest, I got to kind of count my losses.
00:59:41.000A cold approach is when you approach an individual that you don't know and you initiate a conversation for some type of courtship, or in this case, to get courtship from a man.
00:59:49.000So have you ever done that besides giving a look?
01:00:49.000Because, again, I want to show people the polarity between what women can get away with versus what men will never be able to get away with.
01:00:55.000I think that's very important for the audience to learn.
01:00:57.000And women hardly ever get, I want to say, told no.
01:01:00.000Because, again, you're a woman talking to me.
01:01:01.000Outside of crazy examples like you're pissed drunk and they don't want to go to jail.
01:02:53.000But if a guy came up to a girl like that in her personal space and was that close and made an observation, I think, she'd be like, what the fuck?
01:07:08.000Is there anything that any of you guys can think of where a guy would get a benefit of being married that he wouldn't get in a regular relationship?
01:07:18.000For, I could say that it depends when you find the right girl, because I always say, and I've heard it a lot of times before...
01:07:27.000But if she's the right girl, once you get in a relationship without a marriage?
01:07:33.000So when you put your finances together, and when you put your strategy together for life, and you actually team up together, then it can become a strategic plan for your life.
01:07:43.000But if it's just somebody for the benefit of having comfort, having sex, having your home taken care of, that's when it starts actually becoming a loss in your life.
01:07:55.000But does it benefit a guy to combine his money with a girl, when a lot of the times men bring more money than women?
01:08:01.000So that's why I think that's when it comes in with the whole strategy for life.
01:08:05.000So when you guys are teammates, and you guys have a common mission, a common purpose, and you both have these strengths that you guys can fill in each other's gaps, like for example with my husband...
01:08:16.000He doesn't have a lot of the strategy part, but he's a strategy in terms of connecting to market, connecting to emotions, and the appeal to where it kind of takes more of a feminine approach for that kind of things.
01:08:32.000But then he's more like, okay, I can handle the finances.
01:08:38.000He can get that out of you with you being his girlfriend, realistically speaking.
01:08:40.000He doesn't have to marry you to get that benefit, being honest.
01:08:43.000So the question, ladies, is specifically, what would they get out of marriage that would benefit them that they can't get out of a relationship?
01:08:52.000Yeah, I guess the marriage is just a piece of paper.
01:09:22.000Okay, so I think that when it comes to having a partner, the luxury of having a partner or a village or a community in your life is the fact that you can lean on someone when you're weak in certain areas and then they have those strengths in the areas that you're weak and vice versa.
01:09:42.000So I think that having a partner, it means that marriage...
01:09:45.000But you're getting that in a relationship without the marriage title.
01:10:56.000Yeah, exclusively to marriage and that union.
01:11:00.000I was going to say some people don't fully devote themselves in the relationship status as they would once it's finally like a marriage and union.
01:12:07.000If you're trying to get a job or if you're in a position and you want to get promoted, wouldn't it be fair to say that you need to do what that position requires before you get the job?
01:12:19.000If you look at it from a job promotion type standpoint.
01:12:22.000Yeah, but isn't that what promoting a girlfriend to a wife is?
01:12:30.000Some guys will make her the wife if they want, you know, based off what she says, you know, I'm not going to do X, Y, Z until you make me a wife, then they're going to abide.
01:12:41.000But is that a man that a woman actually wants that doesn't have the ability to dictate terms?
01:12:46.000She is running the relationship if he's on her terms like that.
01:12:50.000Men get into relationships all the time with women who don't do certain things.
01:13:35.000If she's able to dictate something that important, like marriage, where that guy is going to put himself in a compromising situation and lose half his assets if this doesn't work out, I would argue she has an overwhelming amount of the power.
01:13:47.000She's able to bully him into marriage.
01:14:15.000But in all seriousness, I think that sometimes women have a certain standard and some men that may not live up to that standard are not prepared to hear things that they're not ready for or haven't experienced.
01:16:15.000And that's what I mean when I say these women bully the men into the marriage because marriage, realistically speaking, it was a trick question, ladies, doesn't benefit men at all.
01:16:22.000You can get everything that a woman provides without the confinements of marriage in today's day and age, especially with the way women are as far as promiscuous and having sex.
01:16:32.000So it really doesn't benefit men at all.
01:16:34.000And that's why I'm arguing, if you're able to tell a man, I'm not going to cook and clean or display these wife duties until you elevate me to wife, and he actually complies with that, you ain't going to respect him in the first place.
01:16:45.000Because that tells me he doesn't have leverage to tell you what the fuck it really is.
01:16:49.000If you are working at a Fortune 500 company or a prestigious law firm, You can't tell them, I'm going to be a partner and I'm going to do this after the fact.
01:16:56.000They're going to tell you, get the fuck out of here.
01:16:59.000We have other qualified employees that are better than you that we can hire that will gladly take your job.
01:17:04.000Then, and only then, will you respect that position because you could be replaced.
01:17:09.000It wasn't a point to just say, oh, I'm never going to do anything.
01:17:11.000I'm just going to be a horrible girlfriend until I'm a wife or whatever.
01:17:14.000But it's like, it's more so you're not going to do...
01:17:17.000Well, if you're not cooking and cleaning, you're a horrible girlfriend by default.
01:17:51.000Because I did it because I wanted to, not because I felt obligated to.
01:17:55.000So marriage is going to be based off of your preference or in your head what you think it should be, which means, by default, you let somebody regardless of the facts.
01:18:03.000So if you're telling men you need to get married because if you don't, I won't become that wife, what are you really saying?
01:18:09.000You're saying that on some level, as a red flag, I'm going to change because it's going to benefit me in the future.
01:18:15.000Versus you love him generally, you're going to do it regardless.
01:18:17.000Yeah, but I asked what are the responsibilities and roles of a girlfriend compared to what are the roles and responsibilities of a wife?
01:18:25.000And why would men get married if there's ultimately no difference?
01:18:32.000And that's where so many girls fuck up.
01:18:35.000They think, oh, I'm gonna behave like a wife after I become a wife.
01:18:39.000That's why a lot of chicks don't get married.
01:18:41.000Because guys are looking at it like, wait, you can't even do the job, and you want the promotion?
01:18:46.000But only in America and in the West do we allow women to have crazy standards where they're able to demand things without providing the value back.
01:18:54.000That's not even just in the West, though.
01:18:56.000They practice this in lots of other cultures.
01:18:58.000In African cultures, Nigerian weddings, they have to give money, give gifts, give promises to the wife.
01:19:10.000They're getting a woman that comes from a two-parent household.
01:19:11.000They're getting a woman that understands basic rudimentary things of cooking and cleaning, not talking back, not interrupting stuff for two seconds.
01:19:39.000That's the only difference that I heard.
01:19:41.000It happens a lot in the West because we've de-centivized sex.
01:19:44.000I mean, we asked you guys, a bunch of you guys openly speak about sex with your parents.
01:19:48.000In other places, that's a big fucking, that's a no-no.
01:19:52.000So, here in the West, we've sexualized women and it's open and that's fine, but what I am saying is that you can't sit here and be progressive in that aspect, but then want to be regressive in other aspects such as marriage.
01:20:03.000I think that a huge thing that people are getting caught up on is like, in Western society, marriage is such a huge contract because it involves these contracts and it does involve putting your finances together and tying yourself and then getting unmarried is so complicated.
01:20:21.000So the preference of- Hold on, hold on.
01:22:16.000There are men who have the construction that, okay, if I lock this girl down, she's going to be monogamous to me, and then that's the only reason that they're proposing.
01:22:25.000And men get tricked into that for that reason.
01:22:29.000Otherwise, a girl is also looking for the same thing.
01:22:32.000She wants monogamy, or it could be the finances thing.
01:22:35.000She wants the finances tied together, right?
01:22:38.000So it could be one or the other thing.
01:22:43.000The first thing you mentioned with he wants the monogamy from the girl, he's doing that because she's threatening to leave, like she had mentioned and then she had mentioned.
01:22:50.000Yeah, or societies, or societies, or the built-in fear.
01:22:55.000Because women bully men into marriage all the time.
01:22:57.000But I also disagree with your statement about their bullying, though.
01:23:07.000I think that it's important to state your desires, what you want in a relationship on the first date or when you communicate with somebody before you move forward and say, this is an ultimatum.
01:23:16.000That's easy to say in 20-20 hindsight, but how many times do girls end up in a relationship with a guy?
01:25:43.000I don't want to offend anybody, but I think that men have a lack of accountability.
01:25:47.000We are all adults when we enter a relationship.
01:25:49.000And I think that nobody, I think women can be intimidating, but nobody can bully you into a relationship.
01:25:55.000Y'all know that y'all don't want to be in relationships.
01:25:57.000And instead of saying, hey, this is not what I want, you guys go through with it.
01:26:02.000And then long term, you wake up 36 years later, unhappy as fuck with your four kids, living in the suburbs of Rhode Island, wondering why this isn't what you wanted or what you desired.
01:26:14.000And then you meet a redhead on Rodeo Drive in California on a business trip, and then you think this is all of what you need.
01:27:45.000I don't really want to be with her because this this girl makes me feel X Y& Z. Y'all convince yourselves it's the woman's fault and not your own.
01:28:23.000Most guys don't take accountability and they let a woman bully them into a bad situation and they get fucked up and they don't realize until later on.
01:28:30.000But that's why podcasts like this are very important.
01:28:32.000We tell guys to understand their value and I would argue that...
01:28:38.000Because you're saying women are the, I would argue, I think men are the prize once you reach a certain spectrum.
01:28:42.000But it's the women that are chasing their relationships.
01:28:45.000It's just that guys don't understand that women are chasing their relationships and they don't give, they don't make women wait for relationships.
01:28:50.000Just like, you know, girls control sex, men control relationships and then not enough guys understand their value.
01:28:57.000But yes, I agree with you that it's a lack of accountability of understanding their value and that's why they end up with predatory or shitty girlfriends.
01:29:07.000Just like girls that date broke niggas and fall in love with them.
01:29:11.000I'm not promoting that, I'm just saying like...
01:29:13.000I've read like a few times, and I actually went through like coaching programs and stuff, and it's weird because the coaches that were in there, they always pushed marriage, and I never really understood why.
01:29:29.000If you are a married couple, you have more leverage.
01:29:33.000If you're in business and you're a married person, then people trust your opinion more than if you're a single person.
01:30:01.000And they were saying that who has more leverage, the man or the woman?
01:30:04.000They were saying the man has a leverage to have a woman on his arm.
01:30:08.000A woman that's classy, a woman that's presenting herself well, and that's showing that you're a man of a household and bringing a family household up together.
01:30:57.000Like, yes, you might be more potentially trustable as a guy that has a family, but when you're single, you can work harder and you can just outperform that other guy that might have a family because you're not leaving at 4 or 5 p.m.
01:31:09.000And I know this from coming from a law enforcement background, etc.
01:31:11.000I used to smoke the guys that had families because I was wanting to put in those extra hours.
01:31:15.000I was wanting to do the late night surveillance.
01:31:16.000I was willing to write the affidavits and do all the raids and shit like that at a weird time because I didn't have a family.
01:31:22.000And those are the guys that move up a lot of times.
01:31:24.000So yes, is it better if they have a family and they're a hard worker?
01:31:39.000However, it's a broken institution in the West and it doesn't work in America and Western societies because women are incentivized to divorce you and take your money.
01:31:48.000That's what I was referencing in the very beginning about Western marriage.
01:31:50.000So would you marry a woman out of the West?
01:31:53.000I would marry a woman if the state isn't involved.
01:34:26.000So wouldn't it be fair to say that you asking me if I have a girlfriend or what's the status of my relationship would be kind of stupid because I'm selective on who I pick as a girlfriend?
01:34:36.000But that doesn't reveal what your status would be.
01:34:40.000I'm trying to give you the functional equivalent here.
01:34:42.000Women pick who fucks, we pick who gets relationships.
01:34:48.000So since I'm the gatekeeper of a relationship and you're the gatekeeper of sex, you are selective on who you fuck, I'm selective on who I choose for a relationship.
01:34:56.000So asking someone if they're in a relationship after they give you their takes on a relationship, it's irrelevant if they're in a relationship or not, just like it's irrelevant if I ask you if you're fucking people, because if you're a virgin, that does not lower your value or your opinion on things.
01:35:10.000If anything, you not having sex increased your value, just like me not having a girlfriend probably increased my value because that means I have more requirements, correct?
01:35:19.000It was out of genuine curiosity, not trying to come at you in a calculated way, analyze, you know, you answered it in a roundabout way, but I'll take it.
01:37:47.000I understand that it might bother her every now and then, but I make sure to let her know that I appreciate her and she gets certain benefits that other girls are never going to get.
01:37:54.000So does she practice polygamy as well?
01:39:49.000And I love chess because it personifies life.
01:39:53.000The queen is the most powerful piece on the board.
01:39:56.000It can move into the many spaces it needs to, any direction that it wants to, and I would argue that's the female existence.
01:40:02.000At 18 years old, y'all could be on a yacht with billionaires, in Dubai one week, in Miami another, not pay for it, have men court you, shower you with gifts, etc.
01:40:12.000However, The queen can be taken over and be lost in the game, and the game can still continue on.
01:40:18.000But if the king is surrounded and there's a checkmate, the game is over.
01:41:12.000I'm surprised you would even, you know, a man such as yourself would want to deal with multiple women.
01:41:17.000You don't strike me as the type that would want to deal with a bunch of, you know, emotions and, you know, women to women and how that might vary.
01:43:06.000What I've come to realize is when a woman is the more masculine and dominant party in the relationship, there's no way that she can truly respect and admire her man.
01:43:22.000You know how you're saying that guys should have a higher standard and be more picky about the dating process and who they're choosing to be their girlfriend or if they're going to do something like that?
01:43:34.000Well, I think that a lot of girls don't put that same standards on and they take whatever guy is going to give them the attention because not every single girl gets showered with attention.
01:43:47.000When a girl does find somebody of high value and a guy that's doing everything, being the protector, being the man that he needs to be, then it does put a girl in a position to where they're like, monogamy is for me.
01:44:03.000And I do feel like that does end up happening and you just don't have an attraction to other men anymore.
01:45:14.000And I think that if they're not, even if they aren't going to cheat, all men are still going to have those thoughts because men innately are hunters.
01:45:35.000And the chase is part of what makes you a man.
01:45:38.000But then that takes that partner with you, like how you said, I found a girl who, yes, she's emotional about things because, of course, the girl wants monogamy, right?
01:45:50.000But then if that's not what the guy is looking for, it has to be a guy who is doing what he needs to do as a man, not somebody who's a weak man.
01:45:59.000And so that he has that strength to be what he needs to be for her.
01:46:10.000He's still going to have that desire, but then that takes the strong...
01:46:14.000I feel like, like me personally, I'm willing to bring another girl into the relationship because my man is everything that I want him to do.
01:46:23.000That's who, Chris, that will fuck you up.
01:46:24.000And I know that over 60 years of being with him, there's absolutely not going to be any way that there's not going to be a thought in his head that's going to pop up one day.
01:47:23.000Are you gonna sit there and be like, I'm gonna be delusional, I'm gonna find this guy that has all these benefits and think I'm just gonna get him for myself?
01:47:29.000Or are you gonna accept reality and say, okay, I got him, I need to get him to commit to me, and if he fucks other bitches, it is what it is.
01:47:36.000I'm just preparing women for the real.
01:47:37.000So you're agreeing with the fact that you're supposed to be everything for a man.
01:47:45.000But even in doing everything as a woman is cooking clean, make a house a home, is you're still going to have temptations of him cheating on you, being deceitful and so forth.
01:47:55.000Because he brings way more value than you do.
01:48:20.000And the reality is when you're dealing with a man of that caliber, you're not special.
01:48:24.000He's the one that's special because all the girls are chasing him and he's a 1% guy.
01:48:28.000Every other girl is pretty, can cook, can clean, can do the things that you do.
01:48:32.000And as a matter of fact, I'll argue, your jobs can be outsourced.
01:48:35.000He could go get a hooker, he could go get a cleaner, he could go get a chef.
01:48:39.000However, you can't outsource a husband or a boyfriend.
01:48:42.000He can outsource all the duties of a wife.
01:48:44.000So I think women need to humble themselves and understand that y'all are not that special and when you're dealing with a guy of that caliber, you're replaceable.
01:48:50.000Your job is to be irreplaceable by adding value, not just by existing.
01:48:54.000But if you said that monogamy is feasible, then why would I settle for someone who's not giving me one of those requirements?
01:49:02.000What do you mean by one of these requirements?
01:51:29.000Okay, so I always told him, if you ever are feeling like, if it really got to the point to where you're like, I actually just want to do something.
01:57:59.000Girls want this monogamous man, right?
01:58:02.000And they don't understand that on some level, you might find him, but let's say he does cheat, and you leave him, the next guy, what's he going to do?
02:02:31.000This perfectly illustrates why, no offense, with all due respect, this perfectly illustrates that women are absolutely retarded in general.
02:02:54.000If all the guys on the boat are competent and have money, etc.
02:02:57.000Girls pick and fuck and date up, typically.
02:03:00.000Why the fuck are they going to go for me if they can get a guy that has the money and the status and everything else that I provide, but I'm a couch-surfing bum?
02:03:06.000They're going to go for the better option.
02:03:13.000Surface level type attraction that women don't want to admit that women date for status and income and all these other things that come in.
02:03:19.000But if everything else is all equal, money absolutely matters.
02:03:28.000So, the fact that you're not willing to compromise, see how I brought it back?
02:03:32.000The fact that you're not willing to compromise on him having other women, guess what?
02:03:35.000There's chicks that are badder than you, that are younger than you, that have less bodies than you, that are willing to accept him having other chicks.
02:03:41.000So why the fuck is he going to pick you?
02:03:43.000Just like me being on the yacht like all these other men that have everything that I have, but they got the money and I don't have the money, guess what?
02:04:21.000The reason why women don't understand like competence hierarchies and hierarchies in general that there's just better people than you is because women don't really compete.
02:04:30.000Women go through life and don't understand that there is a competition going on.
02:04:49.000This ties in perfectly into the question that I was going to ask, which I was going to be the theme of the show.
02:04:53.000Ladies, is there a difference in how men and women express camaraderie Men typically express camaraderie through insults without malice, while women offer insincere compliments.
02:05:06.000Does this affect authenticity of friendships between genders?
02:05:49.000But do you think that since men and women display camaraderie differently, that it affects the authenticity of friendships between the genders?
02:05:59.000Yes, because I feel like a lot of times people don't believe that men or opposite sex could be friends with each other.
02:07:00.000Men tend to express friendship with insulting each other without malice, which means without ill intent, while women tend to offer insincere compliments.
02:07:10.000You look great today, even though you know damn well she looks like shit.
02:07:14.000Meanwhile, men, you look like shit today, even though he looks great.
02:13:18.000I wish I could have a girlfriend that Would be, like, guys are when they're, like, loyal to each other, best friends, you know what I'm saying?
02:13:28.000The reason why I brought this up, ladies, is because you said something like, I don't have competition or whatever, and a lot of women tend to say, no offense, stupid shit like that, where I'm not in a competition, there is no competition, I'm me, men should accept me, and they tend to think I should come, I should be accepted the way that I come.
02:13:43.000What I realized is that, we even did it with this test right here, The lack of authenticity in female relationships leads to the delusion because you guys don't even know that you're competing because your friend is very scared to put your feet to the fire and tell you, you look like shit, hey you need to do this, X, Y, Z. Very rarely do women actually hold each other accountable and establish hierarchies of,
02:14:02.000you're fucking up, you need to do this to become better.
02:14:04.000We tell girls just like you did a second ago, you're a 10!
02:14:24.000Women will backbite each other, right, and establish that there's a competition, subconsciously, but not let it be overt, versus men will tell each other, you're a fucking loser, and let each other know that there's a competition overtly.
02:14:35.000That's the difference between men and women, and this is why women in general don't understand competence hierarchies, and they don't understand that there's a one, two, three, four, five, not a, you get a championship, you get a championship, everybody wins.
02:16:02.000For me, personally, I just feel like every single day is a challenge in how I present myself, how I'm walking, the people that I surround myself with, the way that I word my words.
02:16:12.000So I feel like I'm always trying to push myself to be better, so I have that...
02:16:23.000Is that a competition with yourself or a competition against others?
02:16:28.000It sounds like you're just trying to better yourself and be the best person you can be.
02:16:31.000Look, we're all put on earth to mate with the opposite gender and whether we want to accept it or not, we're all competing with each other for mating rights of the best mate.
02:16:38.000And for women, your goal is to get the most competent and higher status man.
02:16:41.000For men, it's to get the most women possible.
02:16:46.000But with men, since it's way more competitive and we have to live in reality, we understand that it's a competition.
02:16:51.000Women get the privilege of saying some of the delusional things that you guys have said during the course of this show, where there is no competition, oh, she's a 10, blah, blah, blah.
02:16:59.000Women are allowed to say stupid shit like that, no offense, because women don't live in reality.
02:17:03.000I mean, even right now, why are you wearing makeup?
02:21:49.000Bro, we've symbolized the world so much and we've given women so much attention that they can sit there and say, I don't even acknowledge competition.
02:26:17.000Regarding the marriage question, while still not necessarily a benefit to the guy, I believe the title portrays a better image for children.
02:26:24.000Take yourself, for example, would you rather see your parents are married or in a relationship?
02:26:27.000I get what you're saying, but we didn't talk about kids.
02:26:29.000Regarding the marriage question, while still not necessarily a benefit to the...
02:31:31.000See, the difference is that when we tell men the truth, they typically take it a lot better than women do.
02:31:36.000I mean, a big part of the reason why the show is so successful is because women can handle the truth and people love to see the reaction when we tell them the truth.
02:32:23.000Pick a commonly used term among the panel and have them write down the definition of what that term and then compare after any term you think you know the meaning of.
02:34:00.000Can you imagine if you're walking down the street with your boyfriend and you get attacked and he says, I'm not going to protect you until I'm your husband?
02:34:10.000Well, you said that the girlfriend responsibilities and the wife responsibilities are the same, so I guess I would argue that the same for the boyfriend, so I guess he would be supposed to do it anyways if he wasn't my husband.
02:34:19.000That means don't go out with him, ladies.
02:34:21.000Y'all missed the complete point of the question.
02:34:27.000He's trying to say that your logic is ridiculous.
02:34:30.000When you said, oh, I'm going to cook and clean when I become a wife.
02:34:33.000I wasn't speaking from my point of view.
02:34:43.000You married and y'all's sex life has slowed down and if your husband came to you on a few occasions that if something doesn't work, he will look elsewhere.
02:34:49.000If he actually looks elsewhere because nothing changed, who's wrong?
02:34:53.000Well, they're going to say the nigga's wrong, bro.
02:39:43.000I mean, I was just asking a pretty general question because there was obviously more correct versus wrong because I would argue that we were on the side of facts and statistics.
02:39:54.000You were on the side of, I feel like this.
02:43:47.000And, you know, like, I'm like more financially literate and I think I'm gonna go back and take another class in statistics because clearly, you know, I need better.
02:43:56.000I just want to better myself so I can stand against the competition.
02:44:28.000I appreciate that you guys are sharing that it's good for men to have higher value on themselves and think of themselves as better because it makes them better men for women to be able to trust in.
02:44:45.000Because it makes you more positive and makes you more confident in yourself and your abilities to step into that role of being a server, of being the support in the house.
02:44:55.000And, you know, honestly, when a man is able to do that, it makes a woman feel safer.
02:45:02.000And then I think it's good that you bring girls onto the show as well, because for a girl to hear what a man is saying, it has to be communicated in a way for a girl to hear.