What Can These Women Give A Man That They've Never Given Before? ft. Surprise Guests
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3 hours and 43 minutes
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146.63884
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Summary
Trollstone White is a rapper from Charleston, South Carolina. He has been in the game for a long time and has been a part of the music scene for a while now, but he has not had much success in the rap game.
Transcript
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Sorry for the delay, but we're here now with Trollstone White.
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I must believe in something So I'll make myself believe in This night and I I will never tell a story If you can't believe in I will never tell a story What is that?
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So, we'll do first thoughts, of course, and obviously updates.
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I think he's come back to either tomorrow or tonight.
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But either way, we're going to do a show regardless.
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We got the girls there in Charleston, White Man.
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If we happen to get 200 subs, somebody be a pair.
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On the channel, Rumble, 200 subs, somebody be a pair.
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Ladies, if you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status.
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If y'all don't know, big, bad, big, bad, that's me.
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I'm in my third year in college for business and nursing.
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No, but my dad has a wife and my mom has a wife.
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So, typically, most girls don't lose their virginity till maybe junior, senior, and high school.
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So, if you didn't, you know, so at 22, that means you were fucking in the six seven.
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I've heard worse numbers before, for sure, but that is kind of, but that's fair, though.
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I done been on, I done been on reality shows where bitches be 22 with 80 bodies, 100 bodies.
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MILF that I'm like only if I'm hanging out with a younger guy, right?
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I heard that women over there are beautiful all around for the most part.
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Oh, you're really like what he had a point, though.
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It's like when you're younger at your age, and you are so overachiever and doing so much, you know, that's amazing.
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But like when you're in that age, you kind of have to make a decision.
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And if you choose a career path, like I did, so hardcore, right?
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Because it's straight up lots of studies, blah, blah, blah, blah.
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You have to pay attention to her field of study.
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So her field of study don't allow her to be promiscuous, to be unbalanced, or distracted with dick.
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So, like, I'm the only female engineer in my team.
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I'll answer this later, but highest education level?
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Highest education level, two and a half years in college.
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Oh, body count is, I would say, well, not, I would say, six.
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Like, bro, it's so cheap over there, bro, for table, bottles super cheap.
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Girls are just like, they know how to treat a player.
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When girls are gonna be shit, I'll be at the club.
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I miss up so much for not paying, but it's hard, bro.
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Had Diddy paid, he wouldn't be in this situation.
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So I mean, all you got me in the couch to beat about.
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So you can't run around here not being a gentleman, being an asshole when it's time to pay.
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So I've kind of been in and out of service industry jobs, like serving bartending, bottle service since I graduated high school.
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Right now, I'm trying to break into high-ticket sales.
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So I'm in a training program called Limelight Media.
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I've been tempted to the dark side, you know, go to the dark side.
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But I'm not saying I'm not darker shot my whole potential.
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The whole high school is taking a businesswoman.
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Well, to be honest, all strippers don't even got on a poll anymore.
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So they're already living, but I'm in Miami right now because I flew out here to do a bikini shoot.
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Yeah, I still live with them and I'm thinking of moving to Miami with them.
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So you said you're single and then parents together, obviously?
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So my mom and my real dad divorced when I was about three.
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I honestly don't think about that number often.
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I would say I could count it on about a little more than my hands, but stop the count.
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My mad teacher said, you say 35, I'm supposed to round to the newest number.
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Because those drunk nights when you're drunk, you never know.
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I probably blacked it out about two times in my life.
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Okay, a a degree in what and community college business, yes, okay.
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Um, dating status, single last time you're single too, as well.
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Well, no, I remember, but why are you still single, man?
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You see, you see, because these dudes be out here trying to play me, they want easy girls.
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They don't even like to give extra sauce at their restaurant.
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She ain't showed up with no dick and tried to get no Haitian pussy.
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From three relationships or three different guys.
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I don't care how sweet you can talk because they already have been briefed about the American man.
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So when American man shows up trying to talk to a Haitian woman or a Jamaican, he damn near got to wait two years to get the pussy.
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For me personally, it's just like you have to not come by yourself, but you have to come with a vision.
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So I think that's where you guys get it mistaken that you have to put in work.
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No, not work as in putting work, but I mean you need to have a vision.
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I can't just lay down with and like you in 2025.
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half of the battle is already defeated because she's already half naked so we already see her moose knuckle and her ass is already and so when you listen to the music the the music that they dance to say it's easy so i hear what you're saying but she's the result is it's easy well well you can't we won't need they are available we won't we won't hire this exactly no i'm aware of that but i'm saying the easy ones you can get them we don't want the hard ones
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we don't want the hard ones to be in our 60s yeah i'll wait i'll wait for you from 12 to 59 i'll wait for you i'll wait for you i'll wait for you i'll like a mature too i'll wait for you oh shit well well here's the thing uh in the black community the ratio says you have to wait because because because the ratio for black men in in the dating pool is 16 to 1 so that means you either have to wait or
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share us so so based on the ratio so if you want protection if you want uh companionship uh you have to have some type of male that you share whether it's the preacher you go see every sunday whether it's the man you listen to uh on the internet you have to have some type of male companionship that you have a bond with it can be your internet boyfriend your work boyfriend but you're gonna have have that companionship bond somewhere yeah so whether you're sleeping with him or not you need it yeah that's real
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we all need somebody all right uh who's we all we know you are but them and i we all yeah no we don't me myself and i what you about to find out shit you talk about me to find out what you're gonna show me Yeah.
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You can find out whatever you're trying to find out.
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Look, I'm Donald, you playing a dangerous game.
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Yeah, White House journalist, number one news creator on X. Most of the news that you see in here, it originates from me in some type of way over the past two years.
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No, no, I'm just the awkward at the table before he gets drunk.
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And when you say some crazy shit, you say some shit the kids gotta leave.
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Just like we were speaking before, a lot of you guys just want easy access, and you guys get so brainwashed thinking, and everybody's easy, but in reality, that's not the case.
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And you miss out on the good girls or the good females thinking, oh, she's easy.
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So I don't know what to, I don't know how to go about it.
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Okay, but let's say out of 10 girls, two don't give it up, but eight do.
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I would say it's kind of just hard to find people that are on the same wavelength, look at love the same definitions and the same high.
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Yeah, kind of just hard to find good communicators out there, people that want the same things.
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You know, you can find chemistry so easy out here, but at the end of the day, it's, you know, the shit that's going to last.
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Not just yet, but I'm getting the personal developments, everything.
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I just think it's people just lack communication because I feel after meeting someone, you should be able to tell within the first few days or at least within the first month if that is someone for you.
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And if people actually pay attention, then I feel things will go way smoother in the dating field.
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People won't waste two, three years and eight months on someone that they have absolutely no connection with.
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That's a good point, but what do you think people miss the red flags up front?
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You think it's emotional response or because they see people's looks?
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I feel it's also someone, people are not emotionally intelligent, so they don't know how to express themselves.
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A lot of people, and people don't talk anymore.
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You know, it's all about, it's all about the, oh, well, we could go out, link up, the vibes.
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You know, we have to be doing something all the time.
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Nobody actually takes time out to get to know each other and to know what they're about, know what they're doing.
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So in today's dating pool, nobody wants to court, right?
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When you meet me, you need to take me out, spend all this money on me.
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And the guy said, okay, if I do that, I need something in return.
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What ended up happening is it's almost like a prostitute and John type relationship in the dating world.
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When a woman meets a guy and she goes tells her friends about this guy, how fine he is, first thing they want to know, girl, what do we do for a living?
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So as men, when we're out trying to date, the woman, the lady, the bitch, the whore, the prostitute, the thought, the video viction, all of them have on the same uniform.
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So how can you tell what's what when all of them have on the same uniform?
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So just a point, Telston, most of it's transactional.
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And at the lowest common denominator, obviously there's girls online selling box, but highest level, it's hidden in plain sight because you're right.
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I need to be paid for my time to chill with you.
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It's not what we're being taught because I'm already, you know, so it's what they're being taught.
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So how do we get to know each other when we both want something?
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So by the time we exchange these two goods and start to get to know each other, we really don't like each other.
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So that became my priority to recover from a very bad injury.
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But anyway, at the time, I chose not to because, but what I think about is, let's go back to the tech.
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It's so quickly where we have personality tasks.
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You know, I notice like, oh, what's your love language?
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And so we ask those questions, but do we really know what that means?
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We're just swiping the, you know, and then it's so easy to say from my day back in the dating pool.
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Now it was easy to say next, but now it's really easy to say next.
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You're not giving enough time even to get to know someone to even get to this connection level that Tompa, you deserve that.
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You would say if I were to be there, because I don't see so many options, but how do you get there?
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I would have somebody that is not wearing a mask, you know, that can be real so I can feel safe because the world is not so safe anymore.
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People can pretend they can put on a face for a month or two or just get, you know, get whatever they want from you.
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You know, somebody will send me a letter or the SBI will call me.
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So when you look at the STD statistics and you say, why are they so high?
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But I don't know if the woman necessarily became easier.
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I'm like ancient bro And it's super easy I'm not even old I'm like ancient It's a lot of self control I didn't get all sex Until I was grown Protect him baby When is kids getting all sex I didn't get it.
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I couldn't even imagine getting all sex in middle school and high school.
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I was like, nigga, it should take forever, but I got you.
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Okay, so they ain't hard for me currently because I just got out of my wheelchair.
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It was to the point where I flew out the windshield.
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Yeah, boy, I know somebody's like, just to give you some updates here.
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All the niggas from her projects and then her get away y'all niggas don't be fucking on that wheel trip.
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It takes like three months, but you're getting that money for sure.
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I actually was, but the impact was so hard to the part that I flew out the car.
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The reason why niggas are now not real nowadays is because of the fact that because they see the fact that females are easy, they think everyone is easy.
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But some, but you got to realize when some niggas think that some bitches are easy, like for example, you know, they say birds of a feather flop together.
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If you go to the club right now, you see a bitch sucking dick.
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It's our way one friend talking about when you're talking about it.
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It's our way one friend trying to stop everybody from fucking up.
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Actually, I'm the friend that be like my friend.
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The dude that's getting his dick suck got motion.
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Like you said, only one, like most men only have one to three sexual partners throughout their life.
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It's only easy for those that have motion because it's only the man at the top that's going through every woman.
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But you got to realize this generation is filled off with porn stars and sex and prostitutes.
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But I said, because he's saying that men that can get pussy can get pussy at most.
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But niggas who don't get pussy could still get pussy.
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If a nigga go to the club right now, that's why a lot of niggas.
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You're talking about this nigga buying a service.
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If he got five bands for pussy, not a normal nigga.
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Because a nigga could come in the club with a fake chain, a fake Rolex, a fake everything.
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Nigga could go in a club with $1,000, $500, and a bitch still gonna go for it.
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Females nowadays ruin it for other females because of the fact that they go so let me ask somebody that's been in the game for a while oh I haven't the plumber so she's saying because women are easy what oh she she had one too I done seen you on TV you easy too It's easy.
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You know, they've been selling the cooler since biblical times.
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It's the type of woman that you're dealing with.
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And nowadays, it's like, you know, most people are looking for a helpmate versus a soulmate.
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What dwells inside of you will always come out.
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Also, but look, no, like, realistically, if we're going to be honest here, men nowadays, it's not even men.
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I done been around a lot of females who only look for men for their money.
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Females nowadays, the reason why we, us females nowadays, can't find real love because they're looking for men for bigger bags.
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Niggas who's going to protect them and take care of them.
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A female like me, I'm raised with a mother and a father.
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I know how to do everything I can to protect myself.
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If I look for anything in a man, I'm looking for commitment.
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I done dated a man who didn't have shit and I built him up to be the realest nigga he is today.
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There's nothing wrong with building niggas off.
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Honestly, I didn't want him because he was a mama's boy.
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If you get your man compromised, when he become uncompromised, he won't be your man.
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To this day, he still wants me, but I don't want him.
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Before we went on stream, you said you went down to Tampa.
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Niggas can't do that shit unless they done put years behind building something.
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A woman risked their freedom for that same five bands.
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I actually risked a lot of shit to make the money I met today.
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Niggas will go to jail and change their whole life around after.
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Building up a man as a woman is an L because he's going to leave at some point because you shouldn't do that in the first place.
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But without further ado, welcome to the show in the Plumber Bridge.
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And of course, people talk shit about him alive.
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Probably one of the most genuine guys I've met off the internet and in real life.
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Yeah, so that's probably been his flaw coming on the internet is being too genuine.
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You know, I've been watching you since not at TV.
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Not at CV, but I've been watching you since when I see you on reality TV, you doing your dollar.
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If you could give advice to anybody, what would it be for reality TV?
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Like, the pay good, everything is good, but what's the real issue?
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I just recommend, you know, getting a better career field.
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Don't bank on them giving you an opportunity, create an opportunity for yourself.
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So if you feel like you could do anything different, you would not be a reality TV.
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I mean, I'm doing what God put me in position to do.
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But, you know, with this platform, I always shed light on positivity.
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Something with plumbing, something with helping somebody.
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You know, I just don't glorify the reality TV stuff.
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And Alternate Universe, you got Henny Fresh, Chris CEO.
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Shout out to One Chess Pat Trucker for the pick.
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Capture Time says, What was trying to say last after hours show was that the only thing worse than a loudmouth black woman is a loudmouth white woman?
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You know, I don't think one should be worse than the other, but I do have a preference.
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No, I've talked to white guys, light skins, Hispanics.
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I'm not sure if I can get the light skins, though.
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I don't know why I always stayed away from it, but no, I won't go into that.
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You can't watch porn without one of them big black niggas in that wall.
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You gotta say BBC, but you act like there ain't something beat down.
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If y'all met your dream man today, he would marry you.
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What would you give to him that you've never given to another man before?
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And you're thinking right now, so we'll start here.
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Honestly, I've been in a wheelchair since July.
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Your ex-man, how long were you together with him?
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All the men that's trying to talk to me now couldn't be there for me during my bad times.
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All the men that's trying to talk to me right now has been following me since my car accident.
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Yeah, but they didn't know they fucked up the man.
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First of all, one thing about me, I tell every nigga I go with, man, I suck at the oxtails off the bone.
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My name, listen, my man's got nothing to do with my throat.
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This nigga just bought me a go back, go-yard backup.
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And listen, listen, he just brought me a Rolex.
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That nigga wants something that we're talking about.
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She said she could suck the meat off the oxtail.
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Because I got to, first of all, y'all can't see it right now, but I got an asshole beard like the sun.
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And sit here and say that it's harder for men to make money than women.
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You got a nigga that ain't even got a fuck spoiling you on some shit that niggas risk their whole life for to get to.
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It invalidates your point that it's harder for you to make money than us.
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I did say it's harder for females to make money than niggas.
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A nigga could buy shit, but won't give a female money.
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That's your fault for not knowing how to put the money.
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You go to Dior, you go to Christian, Rick Owens, all that stuff.
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I don't want to take it back if I ain't getting a whole hundred.
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That ain't money that you can make, so why not get the money that you can and put it towards some shit that you can have a system?
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You can't make that type of money going there and buy yourself what you can.
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What have you ever gave another man that you ain't getting?
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to be real with you when I give another nigga quick though could you please don't don't call me a simp Don't call me a treat.
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If a nigga was to call me right now and tell me he need it, I would give it.
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Bro, the question was, just so you understand what the question was.
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What would you give to your new man that no one else ever had before?
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You want to see how I'm going to say that you did?
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I find it so unattractive when a woman calls a man by a nigga.
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What'd you want to be by your handsome young man?
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You saying that, but y'all call us bitches hoes.
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Y'all men do not want to be called niggas, but y'all call us everything in a book.
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Women said bitches first to themselves, so why not just say it to them as well?
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So, to Eric's point, that's kind of where you're saying.
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I would give my year so I can hear them out because men like to talk about themselves a lot.
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Remember, they talk about themselves a lot all day long.
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So your ex-men, you never heard them out before?
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No, I'm just saying if you said, and I would get a man right now, what would I do?
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Well, because a lot of them did not even show that sign to me.
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That's enough time for you to show some emotion, you know?
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Okay, so do you think men aren't showing emotion because of themselves or because it's something that you have done to make them not feel like they to be open?
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No, I think in general, like men, you know, like they said, we're easy.
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That comes back to when you think about it, men are not, can't talk about vulnerability.
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Younger men are more vulnerable, like guys are your age.
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They talk about it, but guys like they're older.
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They're not down to talk about vulnerability and pride.
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I am when I can see someone for who they truly are.
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But you said earlier that you met men that were vulnerable.
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I have already my ex and someone I had talked to.
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And the guy I had talked to recently, I'm not going to get into it.
01:38:40.000
Not anything serious, but he's just very spiritual around the world.
01:38:45.000
Bro, you know they have proof that when women, if they date a boxer and the boxer takes the fall, doesn't matter if they've been married 30 years, 10 years, five years.
01:38:53.000
When they see their husband go down, they lose attraction for him.
01:38:56.000
And start to get attracted to the nigga that took him out.
01:38:59.000
Now that's 30, 40 plus years of marriage in your female biology is going to be anything that you've been taught to the standard of love.
01:39:09.000
Well, if you really love someone, you would be there to cover them at their hardest time.
01:39:16.000
The perception of how you see your man is everything has a lot to do with how you feel about him.
01:39:22.000
You can't see your man as a weenie and still love him and be in love with him as if he's a hero that can protect you.
01:39:30.000
Yeah, it's a paradox to understand because then you see the vulnerability and then we're like, oh, you're weak.
01:39:41.000
We go out to dinner and a nigga just kicked the restaurant door open and I grab on you like, I ain't going to lie.
01:39:58.000
If you can't stand up and stand in front of him.
01:40:01.000
He might be scared, but a nigga can put on a mask and be brave for you.
01:40:04.000
How do you know when a nigga's truly scared or not?
01:40:06.000
Because we can't even be vulnerable to even admit to fear.
01:40:20.000
You automatically lose attraction if I show that.
01:40:24.000
I think emotional intelligence is something to be valued.
01:40:28.000
And when it comes to the physical aspect of things, yes, I'm going to want a man that can outwork another man.
01:40:34.000
You know, a man that can stand up for me and a man that can fight for me.
01:40:37.000
But at the end of the day, it doesn't mean he's scared fighting for me.
01:40:46.000
One of the greatest tactics that was used during slavery to assassinate the black man's image was to whip him and beat him in front of the eyes of his family.
01:40:57.000
So they would never see him the same once they see him get weeped and cry and beg and plead for his life.
01:41:06.000
So one of the greatest destructions and damages that most black women cause to their black sons with the black fathers is, I don't give a damn what your daddy said.
01:41:19.000
So whenever the black man can't be a hero in the eyes of his woman or his children, he's no good.
01:41:25.000
So for your man to show such vulnerability where he's afraid and you still see that as attraction, then that means you like weak men.
01:41:38.000
One thing about a man, he ain't going to never show he's afraid.
01:41:41.000
In front of my woman, you got to kill me in front of my wife.
01:41:47.000
And you got a boyfriend, and he's the one that emits the fear, and those other niggas keep it solid.
01:41:51.000
There's no way you're not going to tell me that.
01:41:59.000
He's the one that's less attractive to all the other women because he's the one that's showing weakness.
01:42:05.000
When two fighters are fighting each other in every boxing match, we see both of them are afraid.
01:42:12.000
As long as he puts his best foot forward to stuff up to the plate, it's the fact that he put that maximum off.
01:42:30.000
But either way, that's why I get a lot of money.
01:42:31.000
The current evidence shows that if that does happen to women, they do leave right away.
01:42:44.000
Your nature wouldn't even be the same toward him.
01:42:46.000
Yeah, I haven't really been in much environments where I've been with a man who fights a lot like that.
01:42:52.000
Or I never, as a woman, have fun girls like that either.
01:42:56.000
So I guess I'm just not part of that lifestyle.
01:42:58.000
Have you ever heard a noise in the house and you were afraid?
01:43:09.000
I would be like, nigga, pull that pussy out your ass.
01:43:15.000
You might be vulnerable and that's how you really feel him.
01:43:36.000
I look like this because, you know, when you enter white spaces, they expect to see a nigga that don't know anybody.
01:43:41.000
Like, I win lawsuits without even hiring words because when they see me, I come in defeated in there.
01:43:48.000
I represented myself in criminal court, man, and impressed both the DA and the jurors.
01:43:55.000
When you disarm the enemy and you can play the jester and the court gesture role, it allows for you to see what they have, and they can only have false assumptions of what you got.
01:44:05.000
Being able to sit at a table and have a conversation at any level is very powerful.
01:44:11.000
So that's what knowledge and information in school does for you.
01:44:21.000
You know, people treat you the way they perceive you.
01:44:25.000
You know, dealing with white people, you know, they may perceive you as a threat just because you got dreads.
01:44:35.000
So how do you stay poised and how do you stay confident in your stature when you're dealing with them?
01:44:41.000
The main reason I do it is because there's so many other blacks that have so much to offer that don't need to sell themselves, don't have to change their image to enter these spaces.
01:44:49.000
In order for us to be accepting these spaces, you need someone to look like us with the dreads, but that can outwork everyone else and be better than everyone else.
01:44:57.000
Because when you make it to where it's not about race and you the undisputed champion, they have to accept you for what you are.
01:45:04.000
But the only way you can do that, you got to be at the very top.
01:45:07.000
And I slowly, slowly, slowly start showing people who I really was, but I manipulated.
01:45:13.000
A clean-cut, conservative, talk a certain way, talk about certain issues.
01:45:18.000
Now I get to focus on my purpose on waking up the masses, on getting more people that look like me into these spaces because they can say, well, Dom can do it.
01:45:26.000
Because I didn't like how the conservative party tells you you have to look a certain way to be accepted in a building.
01:45:31.000
Now that I exist, that's completely irrelevant.
01:45:34.000
You can be whatever you want to be and make it into politics.
01:45:36.000
Obama, he started the fire, but I'm just further verification of how far we've gotten.
01:45:44.000
But you have to be able to match the work to where you're going to be able to beat the backlash and they say the nigga qualified.
01:46:40.000
Can he be your first experience into the BBC world?
01:47:12.000
What would you give to him that no other man ever had before?
01:47:21.000
Well, give him something that you've never given or done for another man.
01:47:25.000
So, two things: it's going to be commitment and submit.
01:47:40.000
So you're telling me, your ex-boyfriends, you never get us to submission?
01:47:50.000
The average black woman is independent, has her own thing.
01:47:59.000
If she's acting dominant, is she acting out of her essence or not?
01:48:09.000
She's logically, she's logically thinking in this situation.
01:48:13.000
Because didn't you hear her say she built up a man?
01:48:17.000
So, so, so, so, so, so, so, most guys, when, when, if we're gonna be honest, most guys, when they leave out of mama's house and they meet their first black girl with their baby mama, they're in a compromised position.
01:48:30.000
They can't come in here and play man, they can't pay all the bills, they can't pay majority of the bills, or they don't have their credit right.
01:48:37.000
So, typically, she has a credit right, or she got a sectionary apartment.
01:48:43.000
she have to be dominant because when it's time to pay bills he ain't got nothing to say.
01:48:55.000
Not even that, even if he ain't got even, even if he don't have the financial means, he don't have the knowledge nor the information to coach her to get through this.
01:49:08.000
Women also should stop trying to distract men when they own the path to they go.
01:49:11.000
That's gonna work out, but you need to be more realistic.
01:49:26.000
A man or you guys just want to be able to do that.
01:49:31.000
A woman should never be able to supersede a man's purpose.
01:49:35.000
And anytime that the man falls victim to the woman superseding his purpose, anytime you put her before your purpose, you're defeated.
01:49:50.000
Since we talked, it's in a woman's nature to conquer a man, to conquer the beast in a man.
01:49:56.000
It's your nature to say, No, I'm fit to go do this.
01:50:00.000
I'm not coming home because you won't submit to me.
01:50:11.000
I'm never going to be the person that's coming.
01:50:17.000
So, at some point, you have to be selfish to your woman's feelings.
01:50:23.000
Is the man the vice gerund of the earth or is the woman?
01:50:27.000
The question: Is a man the vice geron of the earth, or is a woman the woman?
01:50:36.000
Well, because a man, yes, we live in the men's world.
01:50:41.000
Because it says that everything was good except man was alone.
01:50:46.000
Yeah, everything in everything was good except man was alone.
01:50:51.000
So, nigga, it didn't become good until man had a woman, but it didn't become bad.
01:51:12.000
So if you believe in a story, it said that everything wasn't good.
01:51:25.000
The only thing about it, man didn't know he was alone.
01:51:32.000
God did say Adam was alone, he was alone, so he gave him a help.
01:51:44.000
Hold on, man is only good alone if they operate in a divine purpose.
01:51:53.000
Every time in the Bible, there was a woman and a great man, what happened?
01:51:56.000
She made him fall because the man's caral nature said, You know what?
01:52:08.000
If you, my partner, the serpent got in her ear.
01:52:44.000
Hold on, he said that God never told Eve to eat it.
01:52:48.000
She knew because the serpent said to her, Eat of this, so you showed me.
01:52:55.000
He only told Adam that you should not eat from this.
01:53:01.000
So every day, me and you hang out in this garden.
01:53:04.000
And I say, Listen, my nigga, this is all yours.
01:53:09.000
That tree is going to give you the knowledge of good and evil.
01:53:23.000
As my buddy, as my buddy, as my partner, your woman shouldn't have no influence on what I agree, but we are men.
01:53:36.000
So when she done it, you could have saved us by saying, nah, bitch, what you doing?
01:54:03.000
There's a certain man's downfall who operate out of their purpose.
01:54:11.000
It's harder to blame on Adam as well because where were your antennas this whole time?
01:54:25.000
He was fellowshipping with God as he always do.
01:54:28.000
So meaning you're not supposed to be under your woman.
01:54:32.000
Your woman is supposed to see you less of the day because you have to hunt and hunt in quick.
01:54:37.000
So typically the man leaves the house at the crack of dawn.
01:54:41.000
He might not come home until nightfall because he got to have something to kill to feed his family.
01:54:46.000
So you're not supposed to be in the house around your woman.
01:54:49.000
What your woman is doing around you shouldn't be your worry.
01:54:57.000
You're fulfilling what God puts you on earth to do, meaning your work, right?
01:55:00.000
So you have an identity as a man, and now God give you a purpose.
01:55:05.000
What she's doing as a woman with the devil ain't your business.
01:55:16.000
I've noticed, though, that I am the most productive and I get the most things accomplished in life when I'm not dealing with a woman.
01:55:30.000
I just spoke like when I was trying to get my license and stuff like that, my mind was fixated on I just need my license to make my life better.
01:55:39.000
And that six-month span of me, you know, not fornicating, you know, me fasting, me praying, I was the best version of myself.
01:55:47.000
Soon as I let a woman into my realm, calamity struck.
01:55:58.000
You gotta use discernment discernment on this earth.
01:56:02.000
As soon as that serpent got in her ear, you know, calamity struck.
01:56:32.000
But let me just say, let me just say, the man is completely out of nature because the woman is first out of nature, right?
01:56:40.000
So the woman's whole origin and design and her makeup was to be a helpmate.
01:56:51.000
It was never designed for a woman to need help.
01:56:57.000
Help him walk in his purpose and his God-given fulfillment, right?
01:57:02.000
That's the only reason she was created to be his helpmate.
01:57:23.000
I know it sounds laughable, but it changed during women's suffrage when women got rights.
01:57:29.000
So look, we gave women power and they ran with it.
01:57:43.000
The problem is that, like, right now, we have a lot of people coming into certain careers and paths, creators, all this stuff.
01:57:49.000
But at the same time, most people don't know what's happening.
01:57:56.000
And my problem is that, like, even in dating itself, men and women are odds.
01:58:02.000
There's a gender war between males and females.
01:58:04.000
The question now for you guys on the panel: how do we stop this?
01:58:07.000
How do we move forward to better society and I guess the economy you say?
01:58:15.000
So that's correct that women got rights long before blacks.
01:58:31.000
You have to domesticate American women because women.
01:58:42.000
So if we're all out working, who's teaching, who's nurturing, who's loving our generation of children who grew up to be future leaders.
01:59:01.000
And then you also just mentioned that we need to be at home teaching.
01:59:18.000
I can take care of at least four or five households by myself.
01:59:27.000
But we did not, half of us did not choose this.
01:59:36.000
I have one daughter, but I wanted to carry three kids, you know?
01:59:51.000
But I can't have more kids because I have to work.
01:59:59.000
Because I take care of me and my daughter 100%.
02:00:04.000
Kids, businesses, finances, whatever she wants to get.
02:00:10.000
She's scared of missing out because she sees other women.
02:00:54.000
Look, when we started the panel, we were asking people about you saying about opening it up.
02:00:58.000
We proved through the theories that if a dude opened up the way that's human and vulnerable, you lose attraction.
02:01:11.000
It's more centered toward what they feel rather than what emotions are.
02:01:17.000
It's more catered to what they want us in tune with what they feel and what they're seeing.
02:01:23.000
Anything outside of that, they see as a form of money.
02:01:41.000
I'll tell you what you want to hear, how you want to hear it.
02:01:43.000
I'm lying to you because now I'm giving you the truth.
02:02:09.000
Do you guys feel like the world has become desensitized?
02:02:52.000
To be honest with you, I think it's more biblical.
02:02:56.000
If you read your Bible, you see what's going on in the world.
02:03:01.000
So people are going to get out of control, just like in Bible times, there was, you know.
02:03:09.000
And in the last days, it says, right will be wrong.
02:03:23.000
I'm more of a spiritual girl, but I did, you know, used to believe in God.
02:03:37.000
So again, most people are, I want to say, desensitized because there's a lot of murder.
02:03:42.000
Media is showing people dying and people don't care anymore for things.
02:03:46.000
Yeah, I kind of think it's kind of due to social norms, you know, being accustomed to believe what is right and what is wrong.
02:03:53.000
People not being certain in what they believe for their own opinions, you know, kind of just picking up on things that we see every day.
02:04:04.000
Yeah, can you elaborate on your spiritual beliefs?
02:04:07.000
Yeah, when they say you're not biblical, but more spiritual.
02:04:15.000
I haven't been raised to go to church, but my parents believe in God.
02:04:19.000
I used to go to church as a child, you know, with my grandmother until she died.
02:04:27.000
So I've kind of just been raised upon, open to my own beliefs, not really had any religion forced upon me.
02:04:46.000
Anyways, yeah, so I went to yoga school and I kind of just was introduced to the belief that all is one.
02:04:52.000
And I think that subscribing to a religion can somewhat create distance and separation in society these days.
02:05:00.000
So I don't see it as something that I should be obligated to be pressured upon believing.
02:05:10.000
But let's say you're wrong and religion's right.
02:05:16.000
I still go to church sometimes with my friends here and there on holidays.
02:05:20.000
And I find a respect for preachers that preach that what they believe in is right, but not that what other people believe in.
02:05:34.000
There's a million different Bibles, so why should we subscribe to some strict beliefs when we might just...
02:05:46.000
I was one of the people that claim I'm spiritual or whatnot.
02:05:48.000
But you start moving up in life, you'll really start realizing how much people that's extremely rich, extremely powerful, how much they honor religion.
02:05:55.000
And not just that, but ancient Hebrew religion, it'll make you a believer.
02:05:58.000
Like, I was damn near an atheist until I got lit.
02:06:00.000
When I started finding out these politicians and et cetera, celebrities actually do real sacrifices, the ball and Moloch can go deeper than that.
02:06:08.000
You start really having some faith because, like, man, this nigga got it.
02:06:18.000
But people believe, like I said, you're not even 25.
02:06:23.000
Most people, they lean towards religion the older they get because you start to see your morality.
02:06:28.000
You don't know that you're really dying until you get close to 30.
02:06:33.000
It just takes a moment to accept that until you get about close to 30.
02:06:57.000
So basically, the question was, why is society desensitized?
02:07:02.000
Because obviously we're seeing a lot of stuff in the media.
02:07:04.000
Aliens, gore, you know, a lot of bullshit happening in society.
02:07:10.000
So I will say media, the Bible, it says it in the Bible and also your brought up.
02:07:32.000
I think I'm going to go with what is already on the table, which is the topic of religion in the misunderstanding.
02:07:41.000
Like, for instance, you're talking about that you grew up in a Buddhist Buddhahood life, right?
02:07:49.000
And then there is like, yes, and then the Buddhahood.
02:08:02.000
The thing is, Just because, like, the religion, what I think she's trying to say is, like, what we have is we segregate ourselves the same way with race, we do with religion.
02:08:13.000
So, everyone is segregated within their own domination and their own beliefs.
02:08:25.000
And so, if you have faith in a higher power, then why do you have to subscribe to a religion?
02:09:24.000
That's why I'm going to give you a three-five chapter.
02:09:34.000
Social media nowadays is the way that dishonors us nowadays.
02:09:53.000
But no, that's the reason why male and females nowadays are the way they are because social media.
02:10:01.000
Like I said, I had a damn near death experience.
02:10:05.000
I believe in all religions, Catholic, all that.
02:10:16.000
But at the end of the day, social media, people try to live with the trend that's going on nowadays.
02:10:21.000
So that's the reason why men or females are the way they are nowadays.
02:10:27.000
So obviously, I believe in the Bible stories, right?
02:10:33.000
So when you think about it, you got the Old Testament, then you got the New Testament.
02:10:40.000
So the first part of the people in the Bible, they had to have prophets, right?
02:10:47.000
They had to have somebody that had to go on the mountain, talk to God.
02:10:51.000
God tell them something, and they came down and talked to the people.
02:11:04.000
The people that Jesus had, they didn't have a Bible.
02:11:09.000
So Jesus was supposed to come to deliver the spirit, right?
02:11:14.000
So in the New Testament, they don't really have the prophet.
02:11:17.000
They got Jesus' spirit who died and sent the Holy Spirit.
02:11:23.000
So my concept for this group, for us, most of our kids are illiterate.
02:11:30.000
So the average black kid in every major city, major city in America, cannot read on or above their grade level.
02:11:48.000
Most of them are doing this for money or perverts.
02:11:53.000
So this group of living humans have the spirit.
02:11:58.000
So even in the Bible, it says that the Holy Spirit, which is what Jesus sent back instead of the Bible, the Holy Spirit is what write God's word upon man's heart.
02:12:10.000
So what about the dumb kid who can barely read in school and he's locked up in jail at 17, 18 years old?
02:12:26.000
The people who done read the Bible and talk the Bible, who live the Bible or don't live the Bible.
02:12:31.000
So most people don't believe in the Bible because they once saw persons who talked the Bible really don't live the Bible.
02:12:38.000
Now, I can say, I had the unfortunate blessing of being in prison and being able to study, you know, all religions.
02:12:48.000
I know a little something about all, you know, especially Freemasonry.
02:12:53.000
So, you know, Freemasonry, they honor all holy books.
02:13:04.000
Now, all religions, we can take something good from all these holy books, and we can all agree there's truth to them in each holy book.
02:13:13.000
We can all take something out of these holy books that we can apply to our day-to-day lives, right?
02:13:18.000
So, if you notice, when I was on Pop the Balloon, they asked me, They said, Aaron, you know, what do you identify as?
02:13:27.000
For those that don't know, monotheism is the belief in one true and living God.
02:13:39.000
But I said that for a reason because if I identify with any sex, it closed doors for me immediately.
02:13:48.000
You know, we all believe we're all professed to be God-fearing people, but just because he may be Jewish, you may be Christian, he may be Muslim, he may be a monk.
02:14:00.000
Why is it that we have disputes and we all profess to be God-fearing people?
02:14:06.000
That's why I should not be having any type of discrepancies with one another.
02:14:11.000
We should all just be able to come together in fellowship and praise God, whether you call him God, Allah, Buddha, whatever.
02:14:26.000
When humans get together, I feel like it's inevitable.
02:14:29.000
When we get together, if we conquer the lands, we all speak the same languages, we all can work together.
02:14:36.000
So I think that's just our natural nature: that we'll get bored, we'll conquer the earths, we're all on the same page.
02:14:41.000
The next step is to figure out what's God doing.
02:14:47.000
If we're not separated and we all reach one, then God's going to be the enemy.
02:14:51.000
So, the last time that this happened back in the day, He's right.
02:15:02.000
So, next time it happens, God, it's not going to be so nice.
02:15:29.000
Well, just to be proper, you don't want to say them together, but quite frankly, I don't care.
02:15:48.000
What would you give a man that you never give a man before?
02:15:51.000
I think I would give a man, obviously, back to what you said, just 100% submission, but also just complete and utter truthfulness and genuineness.
02:16:04.000
I don't think I've ever been with a man who made me feel like I was able to be completely honest about just what I had going on in my life and who I was without fear of judgment.
02:16:16.000
So I think that's really important to make someone feel comfortable that they can share everything with you without fear of judgment.
02:16:23.000
You never met a man that made you feel a certain way to give you what you need.
02:16:27.000
So ultimately you met before she won't give no nigga no pussy.
02:16:34.000
I've been in one relationship where I was really in love.
02:16:41.000
I wasn't mature and I hadn't really grown into the person who I am today.
02:16:47.000
One thing you haven't gave another man is, you know, you never gave a black man a chance.
02:17:18.000
I would just ask him what, you know, what he wants the most and that he never got before.
02:17:25.000
What would you do that you haven't given anyone?
02:17:31.000
I remember when girl you say, I would never suck no man dick on this.
02:17:37.000
Now you say, I remember, girl, you said they wouldn't give oral sex to no man only if it was their husband.
02:17:43.000
And I noticed every girl around here done passed that question.
02:18:04.000
No, no, we're taking out the question completely.
02:18:10.000
I mean, this is why I do, I guess I give too much.
02:18:32.000
Women are never really themselves when they did us.
02:18:38.000
But you all mentioned you're going to be genuine for yourself.
02:18:51.000
One thing I stress the importance on, too, when I'm dealing with a woman that I want to take seriously, and I know the things that she's done for the last man, it's like you have to supersede everything you've done for him.
02:19:09.000
Whatever you done with that nigga, you gotta do it with me.
02:19:19.000
Oh, you did X amount of stuff for him, but you do the bare minimum for me.
02:19:26.000
Because I'm going to go above and beyond for you in the beginning.
02:19:32.000
That's why I was talking about the question in the beginning.
02:19:33.000
You know, when y'all just getting to know each other?
02:19:42.000
You see how you ask us how experiencing what I do.
02:19:46.000
You see how you asked us what we could do for you.
02:19:51.000
You see how you ask us females what we would do for a man that we never did.
02:19:55.000
What would y'all do for a female that y'all never did?
02:20:05.000
Keep pressing bullshit, but hey, girl, be faithful.
02:20:23.000
But we had a girl on the show that was a part of the balloon.
02:20:37.000
Hey, the funny part, she was telling Parody on the show.
02:20:44.000
Men give 100% at the very beginning, and women give the minimum.
02:21:08.000
my man just phoned everything else but i'm just asking a general question If you like, give 100, he might get 25.
02:21:25.000
But hold on, to his point, you chose the wrong man then.
02:21:28.000
Because remember, you're choosing off of how you feel.
02:21:32.000
I think what she's trying to say is generosity.
02:21:39.000
I kind of just see that as like generosity can be taken for granted these days.
02:21:43.000
And when you are talking to a man, it can be hard to feel like you can show what you're fully capable of and who you are and how generous you are without feeling like you're doing too much.
02:21:59.000
So I kind of like, I personally, I personally kind of slowly show, you know, who I am and what I can give to you without doing too much too early because then I'm going to be able to do it.
02:22:14.000
The whole tattoo, you're on the whole like a yin and yang.
02:22:23.000
A man will take a broke woman with nothing whatsoever to her name and build her to the pinnacle of her capabilities.
02:22:32.000
But a man, a broke man, there's no love for a broke man in society.
02:22:37.000
No woman is taking a broke and building her house.
02:22:40.000
I don't care how many times y'all said I brought this man this Gucci shoe.
02:22:53.000
All right, these girls been the same over there.
02:22:56.000
That's because So crazy about what he's saying, bro.
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Is the fact that she, that's that's her everything, that she built one man up.
02:23:05.000
Yeah, nigga, that shit's so regular to us, it's not worth referencing.
02:23:11.000
Step in our shoes just once, you'll never forget that experience.
02:23:20.000
Because what you just try to be a man just once.
02:23:22.000
And it's one of the hardest experiences in your life.
02:23:35.000
We've done over 4,000 women on the show, basically, or close to 4,000 women interviewing, right?
02:23:40.000
And the funny part is, they say, oh, I had a man.
02:23:56.000
We get a woman, help her with her career, whatever, what she needs, and all of a sudden she leaves.
02:24:15.000
But the stats are: 80% women actually initiate a divorce, which means if I'm doing probability in numbers, if I beat you up, you're going to leave me.
02:24:47.000
But you're a man that you had before with your kid.
02:24:55.000
And we separated for reasons that has absolutely nothing to do with what we're discussing.
02:25:09.000
Even though things didn't work out, things happen.
02:25:48.000
And I just couldn't get, I couldn't be content with how he just responds and communicates.
02:25:56.000
Yeah, because they always tell you they're going to change and I'm not going to be that way.
02:26:16.000
And at that point, you think you could tolerate some things and then you grow out of it.
02:26:21.000
You grow out of it and you're like, you know what?
02:26:23.000
If you're not married for duty to your partner until death do us what?
02:26:31.000
Because you didn't feel like dealing with no, it's not feel like.
02:26:39.000
You can't grow out of a covenant that you took with God.
02:27:06.000
You literally just told her that you're going to come back to her because of her insight on things that she said.
02:27:13.000
In the next few years of her life, she is going to mature.
02:27:17.000
She is going to have a different point of view.
02:27:35.000
Despite all of that, you took a covenant with God.
02:27:46.000
One thing I really love about the Latinos and the Hispanic culture is they ride it out.
02:27:56.000
Anybody watching this, if you go to prison, you're a loser.
02:28:00.000
Prison was just a profound blessing to me because I educated myself there.
02:28:27.000
Julio ain't as reckless with his dick as the black man is.
02:28:31.000
Julio ain't gonna try to fucking go try to fuck your sister.
02:28:43.000
And then when Julio get out, Julio will come home and come home every night to Angelica.
02:29:02.000
At least Julio gonna get up with his work boots on.
02:29:14.000
I'm not glorifying infidelity, but it's in a man's nature to deal with multiple women.
02:29:25.000
Leroy going to have Michael Jordan tennis shoes instead of work boots.
02:29:29.000
It's Aaron of Plumbers out there that got jobs, that got trades.
02:30:04.000
The boys' mamas is raising these boys up not to like girls.
02:30:08.000
Yeah, and sending them outside to come play with at school.
02:30:12.000
And these niggas don't like girls based on their mamas.
02:30:19.000
Because you gotta think, at least for 20 years, we had a generation of black men that says, we don't love these hoes.
02:30:33.000
In a rap video, a woman just walking through, sexy, pretty in a motherfucker.
02:30:37.000
Nigga shake up champagne and pour it all in her hair.
02:30:43.000
Nigga, we've been mistreating women for 20 years.
02:31:01.000
So then you got a whole new generation that come with bros before hoes.
02:31:09.000
You got a whole generation of kids that's raised with a mindset of bros before hoes, meaning I die for my homeboy before I take a woman out on a date.
02:31:20.000
So then we be riding in the car with the concept of bro before hoe.
02:31:27.000
We on the back seat in the phone talking to her.
02:31:30.000
God damn, nigga, you back there caking with the bitch.
02:31:39.000
What nigga say, oh man, you listen to that gay ass music.
02:31:45.000
This nigga talking about killing somebody, going to prison.
02:31:48.000
So, nigga, we fucked our boys' minds up when niggas don't even like girls.
02:32:12.000
So even though the media is giving us music, who is cutting on the radio station when you're going to school?
02:32:20.000
So let's not look at the media and look at what was played in your household.
02:32:24.000
But Charleston, just to add to his point here, the media is controlled by who?
02:32:36.000
Listen, the media have always controlled, but you know what?
02:32:43.000
I'm going to give out what the white media is playing on TV.
02:32:48.000
So, right now, they got gay stuff on television.
02:32:50.000
My children have never seen gay stuff in the household because I'm going to turn it.
02:32:54.000
Even though it's on television, not in this household.
02:32:59.000
Let me just, brother, please tell them what is COINTEL PRO and how that affected our people.
02:33:11.000
But I know about COINTELPRO, very passionate about it.
02:33:15.000
Hollywood, when Hollywood was created, it only existed for like six years until the CIA came in and they started funding all the Hollywood movies.
02:33:22.000
Hollywood actually went bankrupt only like six years in.
02:33:25.000
And the CIA and the government started to fund it to start making these movies, but they had to put in 20% propaganda.
02:33:31.000
As more time went on up until the 1960s, Project Markenberg was created, where they had to almost incorporate propaganda into everything that we hear and see.
02:33:39.000
The interesting thing about Project Markenberg, unlike most of our projects, it never officially ended.
02:33:43.000
Which means if it never officially ended, the government could, in theory, still keep in and active in everything that we hear and see.
02:33:50.000
Because when a government operation is over, they solidify it and end it.
02:33:53.000
But Project Markenberg, if you look at it up, it'll show that the creation date to present.
02:33:58.000
So everything that you hear and see is being manipulated by the CIA.
02:34:05.000
So let me bring it down a little bit a little bit further.
02:34:08.000
Let's take the CIA out of that and whatever propaganda it is.
02:34:14.000
And what condition did your mom and daddy fuck in to have you that the CIA didn't know your mama was going to meet your daddy at this club?
02:34:21.000
The CIA didn't know your daddy was a lying motherfucker and he was going to fuck the woman around the corner and have another baby and you was going to be the outside baby.
02:34:29.000
The CIA didn't have nothing to do with that with why your mom and daddy broke up.
02:34:32.000
Whoever molested you, the CIA don't have nothing to do with that.
02:34:36.000
How your grandmother treated you and mistreated your other cousin because your mother, the CIA had nothing to do with that.
02:34:42.000
Your childhood trauma has nothing to do with the CIA, Hollywood, and why your abandonment from your father.
02:35:01.000
So, the condition you were born in, based on your choice and decision to go do this, the CIA had nothing to do with what you like to do.
02:35:11.000
The environment that we live in or what we're put in is set up by people.
02:35:16.000
When your mama met your daddy and she had on that outfit, listen, because the track, listen, the attraction of how your mom and daddy made has nothing to do with the powers to be.
02:35:27.000
How do I know what was beautiful and what's not?
02:35:28.000
No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, listen, listen.
02:35:31.000
The government ain't got nothing to do with what makes my dick get hard.
02:35:39.000
The government ain't got nothing to do when I see your shit.
02:35:42.000
So, nigga, the government ain't got nothing to do with when I'm coming.
02:35:44.000
And I decide to come in hall and pull out rather than use a rubber.
02:35:48.000
The government ain't got nothing to do with that.
02:35:57.000
The government ain't got nothing to do with that.
02:36:03.000
The CIA ain't got nothing to do with your daddy.
02:36:09.000
Homie, look at your mother and your father, and it starts from there.
02:36:22.000
When we go to school from pre-K, we know right from wrong.
02:36:31.000
No matter what I do wrong, the government has nothing to do with who taught me right.
02:36:44.000
Before I know the law, before I know the law, grandmama and grandmama and mama come in here and say, Ho, who broke that?
02:36:52.000
And all of us cousins looking at each other, man, I ain't gonna say nothing.
02:36:55.000
And we all get a whooping because we didn't tell the truth.
02:37:09.000
Our ancestors before us built Black Wall Street.
02:37:11.000
They built all these other things before us on the worst conditions.
02:37:27.000
If you check history, and it's still open right now.
02:37:34.000
I just went six months ago and it's still my, so hear me out.
02:37:38.000
So when you know, you tell a lie, that's wrong, right?
02:37:48.000
When we come out of our houses, you mean to tell if our parents didn't teach us right from wrong, where if we know we got this education, we can excel.
02:37:56.000
No matter what barriers that was placed before us, we was always taught we can overcome those barriers, right?
02:38:05.000
Well, there's feminism, there's government control programs, there's also social media.
02:38:09.000
Listen, I'm just saying, Charleston, at some point, you got to say, as a parent, I got to do so much because when it goes to the school.
02:38:22.000
Her mama was a stripper, and I played pimp the third part of her life.
02:38:31.000
I play, I was a pimp, and her mama was a stripper the first five.
02:38:39.000
The argument is, the argument is that like a slick man.
02:38:46.000
However, out of the choice is also distractions, government funding, and of course, propaganda.
02:38:52.000
I mean, so you got to choose between what's right, what's true, what's not true, and what's a lie.
02:38:58.000
I know a guy with two murder cases at 15 years old, put his wife through nursing school, and his kids are doing wonderful.
02:39:03.000
And I don't know what excuses can stop a nigga from doing what he wants to do when his mind is made up to do it.
02:39:11.000
And NPCs only could do what they know how to do, which is follow people.
02:39:15.000
So in that respect, those people are dumb, of course, but that's just hosting.
02:39:19.000
And then when you speak of blacks, it could be argued that, I mean, yeah, you can't choose to do anything, but there's a reason why they selected a black race for this type of propaganda for the first place.
02:39:34.000
So, yeah, there's always going to be people that make it, but there were more.
02:39:38.000
Even Central Park used to be called Seneca Village.
02:39:40.000
They destroyed Central Park and put it up a trees until it suspects oxygen.
02:39:43.000
They destroyed everything about our history because we had a higher marital rate.
02:39:55.000
Who's stopping you from going to learn about your mother's mother?
02:40:40.000
You don't know your grandparents on neither side?
02:40:58.000
I can go back to my grandmother and my grandfather, which was my mother's mother and father.
02:41:05.000
Why are you trying to look past those elements?
02:41:08.000
Why are you trying to look past your immediate family?
02:41:13.000
You're trying to skip your mother and your father.
02:41:16.000
Most y'all don't even know y'all daddy and mama.
02:41:44.000
I think we need a little bit of a simple end point.
02:41:46.000
You know, you say like, "Hey, gosh, it's so important." You're not letting anyone speak in.
02:42:05.000
I have something here that can't lighten up this room here.
02:42:21.000
Everything is attached to your bloodline, not your slave history.
02:42:36.000
Everyone had a choice to make to be here today.
02:42:41.000
Even with good choices, society in itself is fucked.
02:42:44.000
Look what's happening with the job market, like I said before.
02:42:49.000
Like, this is a society where, like, we're going downhill.
02:42:58.000
But here's the issue: people that are not in that position, what are they going to do?
02:43:02.000
Loop, steal, anarchy, and riot because they're going to be broke with no job.
02:43:07.000
They're going to do just what they're doing now: getting high, trying to get by.
02:43:12.000
Yeah, so it's just exactly what you're doing now.
02:43:16.000
They're still going to be able to afford to buy cigarettes, they're still going to be able to afford to buy beer, they're still going to be able to have unprotected sex and make babies that they can't afford.
02:43:25.000
Motherfuckers still got to do what they're doing right next, just trying to get by.
02:43:29.000
The average motherfucker is just trying to get by.
02:43:31.000
The average American average American don't have six months.
02:43:34.000
There's been stories where people don't have shit and they were still able to make something of themselves, whether it's in regards to family, wealth.
02:43:41.000
I don't think that those are two things that you need to be a successful person at the end of the day.
02:43:47.000
And if you're certain in yourself, then you will push yourself to be the person you want to be.
02:44:02.000
There's a saying that a rich man is a content one.
02:44:19.000
Can you elaborate and give us your perception on that phrase?
02:44:24.000
Well, either way, everyone here has a choice that you said before, Charleston, to make in their lives.
02:44:43.000
Well, you said family and things are not important.
02:44:51.000
That doesn't mean that they can't make something of themselves.
02:44:55.000
You're saying that, though, but we have friends that don't support us or nothing.
02:44:59.000
Family, even though you go through rock bottles of what it is, your mother, your sister, your brothers, your family are going to support you full time.
02:45:07.000
Mad or not, fighting or not, they're going to be your number one supporters.
02:45:15.000
Like, if you some females and males that grow without a family, some males, if you met, you ever heard the memo that some people don't be with you when you're down, but when you come up, that's when your people come around.
02:45:29.000
We might not be blood, but if I call her my sister, I bet she'll support me.
02:45:34.000
If I call her my sister, I bet she'll support me.
02:45:36.000
Yeah, they say blood thicker than water, but at the end of the day, I've definitely felt like there's water.
02:45:42.000
If you know that way more than people, if you ever bled out, do what do your blood come out like water, don't it?
02:45:53.000
I was trying to just say, like, at the end of the day, family goes so much.
02:45:57.000
Any chance we can get that banana next to the darkest night twerk around a bit on her crutches for a friend.
02:46:09.000
I want to see you in that wheelchair and get that skin off that meat.
02:46:43.000
If y'all look at my Instagram USC, I've been twerking all week with my father.
02:46:54.000
DC Battle says, I never really understood why you have to go to school to be a pastor.
02:46:59.000
Well, you need to learn a proper protocol of reading the Bible, not putting it in your own interpretation.
02:47:03.000
And also, how that church was built up from the very beginning.
02:47:06.000
That's why you go to school for to be a pastor.
02:47:13.000
I wanted to say, too, the Bible speaks in parables.
02:47:17.000
So a lot of people misinterpret, you know, those readings.
02:47:21.000
So you definitely think college is necessary for that.
02:47:29.000
If you do read it with God's divine intervention and his like blessing, it's better too because you're getting the real thing.
02:47:35.000
But again, that takes, I guess, like timer, like a blessing to even understand that.
02:47:43.000
The panel and the host make me feel like I'm watching an episode of Living Colored.
02:47:49.000
Yeah, yeah, that means it's been a good show then.
02:48:01.000
Good lord, there's a ton of cocoa butter all over that studio.
02:48:30.000
We're going to be doing an IRO stream in Vegas for Complex Con.
02:48:47.000
Man, shit, I got three shows with Woody in Atlanta, man.
02:48:50.000
Me and Woody got three comedy shows this weekend.
02:49:04.000
Horbius says, Ladies, there's plenty of regular men who can take care of a family on a normal job and give you the love you ask for.
02:49:10.000
But you do not give them a chance, especially when your mentality is that you want everything in the world, especially when looking at every girl.
02:49:16.000
I already thinking you need to do better than them.
02:49:20.000
You're in competition to do better than your girlfriends.
02:49:42.000
Not because they ain't, but because bitch means female dog.
02:49:46.000
These hoes ain't Let's go I'm not clocking that because men don't be loyal either.
02:50:13.000
We got catch says, Caribbean pussy is the easiest to get.
02:50:19.000
this trunk when I'm looking for something super easy what is it nigga where is it no no no where is it what is it six trunk is in Fort That's a hood in the middle.
02:50:54.000
See, this is a single mom with double-digit bodies.
02:50:58.000
Oh, first of all, I'm a single mother, but one thing about it, my baby daddy, take care of my baby and my baby daddy, take care of me too.
02:51:12.000
I know that my baby daddy today, but I just choose not to because me personally, I'm trying to find myself in a woman.
02:51:18.000
Like, I'm trying to figure out myself before I go back to my baby daddy because my baby daddy is a real man.
02:51:33.000
I ain't gonna dow talk him because she takes care of my baby full-time.
02:51:39.000
I'm never gonna downtalk him because he is a real man.
02:51:55.000
And some females say that baby daddy ain't shit, but I'm never gonna say my baby daddy a daddy.
02:52:01.000
If you get in a relationship, that nigga still can spend a bar, get a bunch.
02:52:10.000
I haven't messed with my baby daddy since before my son was born.
02:52:25.000
I'm not no person who will downtop the next man.
02:52:27.000
Jesse, we're gonna pray for you because you're broken.
02:52:39.000
Okay, we'll do questions and then close out here.
02:52:49.000
Buro says, all those aside, get a mana dress to twerk those questions for more Gordo.
02:52:56.000
I mean, honestly speaking, you could do it if you want to.
02:53:12.000
So, first question is: when was the last time you felt safe enough to express your emotions without feeling judged?
02:53:24.000
So, when was the last time you felt safe enough to express your emotions before feeling judged?
02:53:34.000
When I violated my bond conditions for drinking the bureau and they had me on a no-bun and I wanted to tell the judge that I couldn't handle all the pressure.
02:54:08.000
Right before I had a fight with the island boys, I was having an argument with my lady.
02:54:15.000
And I was feeling jealous over something I probably shouldn't have been jealous of.
02:54:22.000
And I remember telling a man, I don't express my emotions to a woman.
02:54:28.000
And so, probably a week after that, I went and done a 40-pound blood test for the fight.
02:54:41.000
I couldn't have won with those high estrogen levels.
02:54:43.000
I had to take some estrogen level blocker and some testosterone.
02:54:48.000
Because a nigga hadn't been going to the doctor.
02:54:50.000
So you don't know what increases your estrogen levels until you're looking to it.
02:55:03.000
So now I had been acting like a hoe nigga with my woman and didn't realize, you know, I couldn't understand why I was acting like a hoe, but my estrogen level was up.
02:55:19.000
So when was the last time you felt safe enough to express yourself and your emotions without feeling judged to a woman?
02:55:27.000
The last time my grandmother passed away about three weeks ago.
02:55:40.000
But just going through, you know, what I was going through, I wasn't giving her what she deserved.
02:55:48.000
Like, you know, I lost the woman that means the world to me.
02:56:02.000
Yeah, she's still there in your life or now, the girl.
02:56:14.000
She knows what type of time we be on when you're famous.
02:56:17.000
It's abundance of women in my face, but she's like, hey, you know, whatever you need, whatever, they ain't going to go as hard for you as I am.
02:56:37.000
But she's just like, hey, I'm right here whenever you're down bullshit.
02:56:44.000
So you feel safe with her, the one you went in.
02:56:55.000
If I did it with one of y'all, I'd have been pickpocket.
02:57:29.000
But like you said, express emotions to somebody.
02:57:34.000
When you don't stress safe with that, he basically said he never felt safe with nobody.
02:57:59.000
If y'all seen the episode, you know, the girl that did me wrong, she was on his podcast in a real way.
02:58:08.000
She never been publicly betrayed before, so I get it.
02:58:52.000
So, the question is, would you dandy girls that came on the show?
02:58:59.000
I introduce him to the BBC Who would you fucking pedal?
02:59:49.000
Do you think men fall in love differently than women do?
02:59:57.000
I mean, honestly, though, but we're not really even supposed to fall in love with one girl.
03:00:00.000
Like, when you talk about women acting outside their nature, a woman acting outside her nature is being dominant and being submissive.
03:00:06.000
A man acting outside his nature is talking to one woman.
03:00:08.000
If you look at it, only in European culture do you have one wife.
03:00:11.000
If you're melanated, nigga, there's no culture of melanated people having one wife.
03:00:20.000
So it's like we're acting outside our nature when we're being loyal.
03:00:23.000
When we act outside our nature, it's like, bro, what is considered normal is outside our nature.
03:00:28.000
What is considered normal is actually within a female's nature.
03:00:40.000
So they're acting outside their nature of being submissive.
03:00:42.000
A guy to be accepted and to be a part of this society, we have to act out of nature.
03:00:49.000
There's a reason why they can only get pregnant once and you can pregnant non-women at one time.
03:00:57.000
But give him a standard question one more time.
03:01:00.000
He needs to go in spatula the way he trained in love.
03:01:05.000
So once again, do you think men fall in love differently than women do?
03:01:20.000
So, the concept of love at first sight is really a man's concept, not a woman.
03:01:29.000
A man has to really jump through hoops and barriers to really get a woman to love him.
03:01:37.000
So a nigga can look at a woman the first time and fall in love instantly.
03:01:56.000
It's about what she fulfills and the attributes that she possesses.
03:02:01.000
You know, I don't care about your physical, the exterior, that withers away with time.
03:02:15.000
He said, hey, bro, where the face lacks at, the body picks up at.
03:02:21.000
We could deal with a woman that has an atrocious face, but she has a cold body.
03:02:26.000
You're going to be like, oh, boy, I got to be what?
03:02:30.000
A man can have a face just the men, his face is terrible, but he got a cold body.
03:02:36.000
She's like, oh, I might just, you know, I want to rub on that thing.
03:02:42.000
So, to me, it's about the attributes a woman possesses and not so much what's on the exterior.
03:02:51.000
I know a couple of millionaires, billionaires, and the boys are pretty normal, average, but they're not like big booty, like you know, models.
03:03:00.000
But we'll say this: what do they do for their husbands?
03:03:07.000
Men love women differently because men give 100% at the beginning.
03:03:38.000
When she's on there talking about, hey, if Gucci man needed a graphic cover, a graphic designer, if he needed his wardrobe picked out, I don't let him spend money on none of that.
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You know, she's going to adapt to whatever situation he's in.
03:04:02.000
Once a woman is fulfilling all roles, sexually, you know, financially, she's going above.
03:04:16.000
But until then, you know, I need a woman that could play first base, second base, third, and home play.
03:04:22.000
If she can't do all of those, man, hey, I might have a wandering eye, though.
03:04:26.000
If you realize, if you realize, high-quality men that get with a domesticated backbone who supports him, if you realize most, I'll say 70% are not cheaters.
03:04:44.000
Because of the same logic that you just described.
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I say all the time: a good woman frequents the earth like a solar eclipse.
03:05:39.000
I would say the whole like listening to them about being 50-50 in a way.
03:05:48.000
They don't want a man that they're looking at directly.
03:05:51.000
That's why dudes that have height on them, they get instant W's just because it's not about attraction.
03:05:56.000
It's about the primal urge of looking up at someone that can tell you and look down on you.
03:06:01.000
A woman wants to know that he's in a higher position than them, physically, mentally, financially.
03:06:19.000
What is one thing men misunderstand about women?
03:06:28.000
I mean, we misunderstand everything about women.
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A woman will wake up feeling totally different about you tomorrow.
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And tomorrow, she'll feel entirely different about you.
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So I would never be able to understand a woman's logic.
03:07:17.000
I can't trust nothing that bleeds for several days and don't die.
03:07:36.000
Oh, I think the biggest misunderstanding that men have about women is the role that they have to play in their life.
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I think the biggest misunderstanding is that niggas get confused between the role that their mother play in their life and they compare it to what they want their woman to play in their life.
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And for you to think otherwise, you're foolie, but you think your woman is stupid like your mother.
03:08:25.000
So it's just the role that a nigga think is woman.
03:08:31.000
And I was telling her, like, man, I was a lot more vulnerable in my other relationships.
03:08:38.000
I was like, I looked within myself and I was like, bro, I was looking for a mother.
03:08:43.000
I was looking for a mom because I thought that's what a woman was.
03:08:47.000
You think she's supposed to be clean, clean up, do your clothes, nah, nigga.
03:08:52.000
It's like I was looking for someone to take care of me.
03:08:56.000
I was looking for someone to fill my mother's role, and I'm supposed to have it all figured out.
03:09:02.000
So it's like, yeah, you're looking for the woman.
03:09:03.000
No, the head of the household, he ain't looking for mama.
03:09:10.000
So nigga, that's about comparing a woman to their mama.
03:09:13.000
It's like, nah, nigga, you ain't fucking your mama.
03:09:29.000
I keep trying to put her back in one, but I know that's wrong.
03:09:55.000
I smash them all the time, but they don't get a good cut.
03:10:14.000
As long as you open a can of chili, baby, I appreciate you.
03:10:19.000
He's not looking for a mama, somebody to cook him on how to play the food every day.
03:10:26.000
So would you rather a woman who challenges your growth or one who completely submits?
03:10:44.000
Because there's an abundance of women that are going to succumb to my will.
03:10:52.000
So I need you to let me know when I'm not right.
03:10:57.000
I'm not always right when I need you to submit because I think I'm right.
03:11:02.000
So at times, I need you to say, no, I ain't submitting.
03:11:06.000
When the king gives his decree, it's okay for the queen to advise him, but my decree is my decree.
03:11:14.000
They're not going to honor the queen's decree that what I say is final.
03:11:27.000
Okay, so you want her to submit and not challenge your growth.
03:11:38.000
Anytime we stop growing, we stop evolving, you know, you're dead at that point.
03:12:01.000
Because if I say everything to a woman, to talk some point, I'm not always right.
03:12:15.000
Submission is important, but you need her to help you as well when you fuck up.
03:12:28.000
With a king's mind, my ethnocentric belief is I'm always right.
03:12:34.000
But if you don't have nobody to challenge you when you're wrong, then where do you grow it?
03:12:38.000
No, she's going to do it in a smooth way, though.
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I don't want a yes man around me and no capacity.
03:12:54.000
I think that's because that's what she's there for.
03:13:02.000
That's a part of her job is to talk to you and challenge you and be like, okay, baby, you know what?
03:13:09.000
I think they're paying you a lot of money, but it's going to mess up your, it's going to mess up your bread.
03:13:27.000
I heard her say that when he's going through his mental episode or breakdown, she'll take his phone if he wants to post.
03:13:45.000
Because I'm the only man who wants submission and not someone that challenges me.
03:13:55.000
But at the end of the day, that's part of her advising you.
03:14:06.000
Not only does she take his phone, she said, I changed that nigga password.
03:14:29.000
Just like your nigga saying, give me the keys, nigga.
03:14:33.000
Nigga saying, nigga, you're going through a mental episode.
03:14:35.000
I'm not going to let you post nothing right now.
03:14:42.000
She said, I go so far as to even change his password where he don't even know.
03:14:46.000
So when he's trying to sign that contract, does she have to say so in it?
03:14:52.000
When it's time to sign them contracts, she advises you.
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Hey, baby, I think you should or you shouldn't sign it.
03:14:59.000
Her influence might play a part in whether you sign or not, but at the end of the day, it's the king's decree that makes it come to fruition.
03:15:08.000
Nobody in the military is listening to the queen of England.
03:15:21.000
Hey, when you give this one that title, you can't leave her out of decision making as the king.
03:15:30.000
Y'all have to come to the table as one and say, we do this together.
03:15:36.000
Nigga, that's why he succeed in the way he succeeding.
03:15:51.000
Your control within the house holds, but outside of the household, I'll say this.
03:15:59.000
Gucci's case is different because he's an issue.
03:16:11.000
All men have an issue that just his woman knows about.
03:16:24.000
Every great man from Thomas Jefferson to Ben Franklin.
03:16:32.000
We had two great presidents who were once friends who became enemies.
03:16:35.000
It was they women who was writing letters amongst each other that brought their friendship back together.
03:16:40.000
Nigga, when you look at the Bush family, nigga, when you look at the Kennedy family, it was a woman.
03:17:00.000
It's something that our woman knows about us that the rest of the world don't know that she keeps to herself and protects us based on what she knows about us that the other world don't know.
03:17:11.000
Nigga, that's the fact that she knows this nigga got a mental problem.
03:17:15.000
When he going through the mental problem, guess what she does?
03:17:19.000
The king will get online and go to talking crazy.
03:17:21.000
I'm going to take the phone away from the king.
03:17:24.000
Homie, you need somebody that'll stand up to the king.
03:17:30.000
Let's put it in a simpler form for you, plumber, right?
03:18:08.000
So once again, would you rather a woman who challenges your growth or one who completely submits to you?
03:18:14.000
I'm going to just put it in a simpler form for you.
03:18:41.000
A submissive woman would chill out with you there, right?
03:18:51.000
Like, is this where you're going to be next year?
03:18:59.000
But I'm telling you, is that's what's challenging your girl.
03:19:02.000
If she was submissive to you and not challenge you, she would have laid right on the side of you and you guys Netflix and chill all day.
03:19:10.000
She don't say, baby, where do you see yourself three years from now?
03:19:15.000
Are you going to stay in your mama's house for the next year?
03:19:17.000
I understand what you're saying, but just saying that's called challenging your girl.
03:19:36.000
That doesn't mean she's not whispering positive affirmations in my ear while we're in that basement.
03:19:43.000
That doesn't mean she's not fulfilling her duties as a woman just because we're in that basement.
03:19:49.000
We might be in a basement today and a mansion tomorrow because we went viral and we'd have ran up a bag.
03:19:59.000
But just because her being submissive, right, that might spark the fuse that I need.
03:20:10.000
But just because my woman is being submissive, whoo, that was the extra energy that I need to run at that bag and get me in the mansion.
03:20:17.000
And by the way, babe, yeah, we're in the basement right now, but I know Charleston White.
03:20:23.000
So we're not going to be in this basement for too long.
03:20:35.000
If I need a woman to help me become successful, I'm fucked.
03:20:38.000
Because as a man, I should have passionate, purpose, and drive.
03:20:43.000
So, first of all, I get your point, but if he needs you to help him succeed, what the fuck?
03:20:56.000
It's when he explained, it's when he was explaining to him that, oh, I don't need my woman to tell me this.
03:21:08.000
Well, it would be fine for my woman to advise me.
03:21:26.000
Last one here says, Do you believe true strength in a man includes emotional control and emotional awareness or just control?
03:21:34.000
So do you believe true strength in a man includes emotional control?
03:21:47.000
Do you believe true strength in a man lies in a man's emotional control or what's the other option or emotional awareness?
03:22:02.000
Without emotional awareness, you won't have emotional control.
03:22:05.000
Yeah, so you have to be aware of certain things that trigger your negative emotion that causes you to act in a certain way.
03:22:20.000
Being stoic does have its foundation and power.
03:22:26.000
I mean, that's not what we should be doing anyway.
03:22:30.000
Anytime a man acts, anytime a man acts out of his emotions, he's out of nature and he's weak.
03:22:38.000
Because you have to go against your complete makeup to act out of these emotions.
03:22:44.000
Because your natural reaction to an uncomfortable emotion for a man is to go in his thoughts.
03:22:57.000
A man don't because his whole design is to think, not feel.
03:23:03.000
That's why if you ask, yeah, so we don't know what to feel.
03:23:08.000
I think that there can also be strength and emotional vulnerability and being able.
03:23:28.000
But I want to say, because females are exposure, though, man.
03:23:39.000
She seemed like she got a good head on her shoulders, but I'm saying my Haitian sister.
03:24:06.000
But at the same time, you know, there's going to be people that was going to speak up and.
03:24:13.000
And you should take that in consideration because everyone's different.
03:24:17.000
So before we go to, I want to ask one question.
03:24:21.000
I want to know these women's perception on poly relationships.
03:24:28.000
A lot of people want to indulge in polys, right, for selfish gain.
03:24:42.000
So I just want to know what are these women's perceptions on poly relationships?
03:24:47.000
Why would you indulge in one and why would you not indulge in one?
03:24:56.000
So if you're broke, don't even think about that.
03:24:59.000
So let's be for real because some of you guys are mad, delusional.
03:25:10.000
If we're all working financially, we can make it work in a real way.
03:25:20.000
One thing about a woman, homie, they're looking for results.
03:25:22.000
So a broke man can't give out instruction because she's looking at your situation.
03:25:26.000
So a broke man can't possess the intellect to direct.
03:25:31.000
A broke man can't possess the intellect to direct.
03:25:36.000
There are plenty that are super intelligent, right?
03:25:55.000
But we know intelligent men that don't have money.
03:26:00.000
I know raising shots that don't have a dime to know.
03:26:15.000
Wisdom can't be taken from you, but that financial means that could be stripped from you.
03:26:34.000
Or if they know it, they can talk it, but they can't execute it.
03:26:38.000
That's what separates just having knowledge compared to wisdom.
03:26:46.000
But nigga, if you ask them to show you and to apply it, they can't.
03:26:54.000
Because, nigga, one thing about a one thing about a poor man, nigga, at some point, through goals, plans, and aspirations, you find your riches.
03:27:16.000
It was the question of my view on poly relationships.
03:27:25.000
your freak eyes I honestly think that when your relationship with someone long enough you should be able to take it upon yourself to make them feel open enough to express if their needs aren't met and And if you feel comfortable with helping them get them needs met, and if you feel comfortable with exploring that side of things, then yeah, maybe one day I would be open to it.
03:27:53.000
It kind of just depends on the chemistry and the relationship.
03:27:57.000
And if things start getting a little dry and you know, you feel like it's salvageable and it's still meaningful and it's still beneficial to keep that relationship around your life, then maybe a poly relationship would help that connection keep going into the future.
03:28:22.000
I like a genuine one-on-one connection starting out.
03:28:33.000
I mean, I guess if it's like a millionaire, money, money, money, money.
03:28:51.000
So why do I want to engage anything into you and you can be bought?
03:29:02.000
This woman right here might not have a price on her.
03:29:06.000
I might want to invest a whole lot more into her.
03:29:08.000
But because you have a price tag on you, baby, I'm just saying that.
03:29:17.000
Because as long as I'm a millionaire, you're willing to do things for me that you wouldn't do for the next man.
03:29:23.000
This man might be a millionaire in his attributes.
03:29:27.000
This man might be a billionaire in his attributes.
03:29:29.000
So if you're able to see his generosity, I might be a millionaire to judge.
03:29:38.000
Because he put the work and the effort in, but you overlook him because he don't have the financial means by right now.
03:29:54.000
Now, maybe if he's a millionaire, it might cloud my judgment a little bit because he'll be able to bring me things that I might have ever had in life.
03:30:13.000
If he's a millionaire and we have no chemistry, I'm not marrying a millionaire that I don't actually have love for.
03:30:56.000
Honestly, I'm just going to say, like, I've heard this speech a million times.
03:31:08.000
But if you come off too strong, then I'm not going to be interested.
03:31:16.000
If he ain't trying to come on to the corner, I'm going to be your first BBC.
03:32:00.000
You have physical features that might be appealing, right?
03:32:14.000
I'm thirsty around the mouth, but I'll never make it there dealing with you, babe.
03:32:18.000
Because you have nothing to offer me other than your good looks.
03:32:24.000
The brain that you possess is the size of a lizard or a bird.
03:32:31.000
She can't even see how phenomenal a black man is.
03:32:34.000
She has deprived herself of a black man her whole entire life.
03:32:44.000
Because you never had a black man to begin with.
03:32:50.000
In a real way, I'm looking at every woman on this panel except you.
03:32:54.000
Physically, you might make the cut, but physically, do I want to go home with you?
03:33:04.000
Because you don't know what you're missing out on, babe.
03:33:06.000
So don't enlighten yourself thinking I'm going to jump through a hulga hoop of fire for you and you're not even qualified.
03:33:16.000
I have an abundance of women that can offer me much more than you can.
03:33:26.000
Why would I settle for a bronze medal and a winning prize?
03:33:30.000
The way this woman thinks is right in front of my eyes.
03:33:33.000
So why am I going to settle for a bronze medal, baby?
03:34:35.000
I just feel like our morals obviously don't align.
03:34:37.000
So I don't know why you're trying too hard to prove to me who you are.
03:34:42.000
I think we should all feel like we're him or we're her.
03:35:03.000
I didn't know that fresh and fit was the best thing that ever happened to you.
03:35:07.000
we're on the same level let me say shout out to Charleston White the real estate in the industry man because he didn't have to have me It's a profound blessing having me on here.
03:35:29.000
We're going to go ahead and just answer this up in the finish up here.
03:36:12.000
Talk about how I might be single, but trust me.
03:36:23.000
They're going to free and try to stop the drum.
03:36:43.000
Okay, we'll do this because you're going for hours.
03:37:34.000
Wish you could have more say in some of the topics.
03:38:09.000
Okay, so from the show, what'd you think from it?
03:38:12.000
Well, the males takes on actually relationship.
03:38:18.000
You know, how you guys feel and what you think when it comes to us.
03:38:25.000
I will apply it in, you know, the future to my day.
03:38:28.000
But it's nice to know what's going on in your minds.
03:38:33.000
You don't get to actually hear men be honest about what they actually feel and think.
03:38:39.000
So it was cool sitting down with you guys and actually, you know, going through a few things.
03:38:47.000
I'm always looking to connect with new people and just hear everyone out for their different perspectives.
03:38:53.000
And yeah, I might have not come onto the show being educated within who everybody was.
03:39:01.000
But I'm glad to be here and I hope I'll be back in the future.
03:39:10.000
But let's say for one night, you could choose one person on a panel is chocolate.
03:39:25.000
I cannot say I would obviously eliminate him off first.
03:39:34.000
You guys all seem like you're on a pretty equal level of terms of looks, intelligence, and success.
03:40:03.000
She really wants to say, I don't like the N-words.
03:40:37.000
It's always something different when you're here.
03:40:43.000
We're here to talk more because she's actually logical.
03:41:05.000
I'm about to Bill Clinton and Hillary Clinton son.
03:41:13.000
All my supporters, all my fans, follow Bradeski.
03:41:16.000
Bro, has a good head on his shoulders in a real way.
03:41:46.000
They can follow me at at yo.not.qualified in a real way.
03:42:02.000
And right now, we're getting into the celebrity boxing.
03:42:06.000
I had a little situation that I'm going on Brandon Rich.
03:42:59.000
Kat says, I'm pretty sure most putting on weight.
03:43:11.000
A real man loves this woman every day of the month.
03:43:16.000
We're going to be back on, I believe, either Monday or maybe Friday.
03:43:21.000
I'll be in Vegas for Complex Con, Academics, and my boy Detox.
03:43:26.000
And of course, we're going to aero stream that as well.