Fresh & Fit - What RULES Should YOUR Son Have On His Woman To Avoid Heartbreak?

00:00:00.000 Guys, welcome to the Frustrated Podcast.

00:00:01.000 After our edition, we're joined by six lovely ladies. 1.00

00:00:02.000 Let's get into it.

00:00:03.000 Let's go!

00:00:20.000 My money cares, bro.

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00:00:54.000 What's up, guys?

00:00:54.000 Welcome to the Frustrated Podcast After Hours edition.

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00:03:13.000 We're good to go.

00:03:18.000 And yeah, we went into detail on it.

00:03:19.000 So if you guys want to go ahead and check that breakdown and get the background on human trafficking, the sex trafficking world as it works nowadays, especially internationally, go ahead and check out on FedReacts.

00:03:29.000 I also do serial killer breakdowns.

00:03:30.000 Everything that you guys like with true crime, I cover it on FedReacts, so check it out over there.

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00:03:40.000 Go ahead and check it out over there.

00:03:41.000 And then, Chris, what about you?

00:03:43.000 Yes, girls, DM me...

00:03:44.000 No, because I've seen it in the background, right? 0.99

00:03:48.000 I'm like, what the fuck's going on? 0.98

00:03:50.000 DM me R&C Poxon on IG, ladies. 0.98

00:03:51.000 Make sure your page's not private.

00:03:53.000 Shout-out to the team for social folks and the girls, and shout-out to the merch gang in the chat, man.

00:03:58.000 This guy, man, he knows he's going to talk and he still messes up.

00:03:58.000 Let's get to heaven.

00:04:00.000 That's funny.

00:04:02.000 Hey guys, just so y'all know, we're going to have to end the show at 12 because we got some things behind the scenes that we got to make sure that we get done.

00:04:09.000 No, it's not so fresh.

00:04:10.000 You can go to the club.

00:04:13.000 I'll explain another episode.

00:04:14.000 And also, you got two hours earlier of some great value.

00:04:17.000 Oh yeah, facts.

00:04:18.000 With Steven from accounting.

00:04:19.000 So I think, honestly, bro, that's a lot of value right there.

00:04:21.000 Yeah, y'all need to go check out that episode that we did with Steve on setting up your business appropriately, mitigating your tax liabilities, escorts versus LLCs.

00:04:28.000 Real stuff that's going to save you thousands upon thousands of dollars in the future if you decide to go the entrepreneur route.

00:04:33.000 Or if you want to just do a side hustle, we teach you how to appropriately set up a business as well so you don't get destroyed.

00:04:37.000 It's not millions.

00:04:38.000 But without further ado, ladies, if you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course, your body count, we're going to start right here.

00:04:48.000 Welcome back.

00:04:49.000 Is that a destiny?

00:04:50.000 Hey, I'm Maria Rosa.

00:04:53.000 I'm a singer.

00:04:55.000 I'm a songwriter.

00:04:57.000 Wait, how old are you?

00:04:58.000 I'm 22.

00:04:59.000 Where are you from?

00:05:00.000 I'm Venezuelan.

00:05:02.000 Okay.

00:05:03.000 And then you said you're a singer and songwriter, right?

00:05:05.000 Yeah, and a DJ, too.

00:05:07.000 Okay.

00:05:09.000 All right.

00:05:09.000 Highest education level completed?

00:05:11.000 High school.

00:05:12.000 Okay.

00:05:13.000 Yeah.

00:05:13.000 And then relationship status?

00:05:15.000 I have an open relationship right now.

00:05:19.000 Wait, weren't you on Zirka's stream?

00:05:21.000 Uh, yeah.

00:05:24.000 Why?

00:05:27.000 Is it open on your end or both of you guys?

00:05:32.000 Both.

00:05:33.000 And who wanted it to be open?

00:05:35.000 You or him?

00:05:37.000 Both.

00:05:38.000 He's Arnold, you know, he's a DJ too.

00:05:43.000 Okay.

00:05:43.000 He's Cuban and he's from Miami.

00:05:46.000 Wait a minute!

00:05:47.000 He has blue hair too.

00:05:51.000 Wait, is it what I think it is?

00:05:54.000 Yeah, Arnold.

00:05:55.000 Nano?

00:05:56.000 No, Arnold.

00:05:57.000 Oh, no.

00:05:58.000 I don't know Arnold.

00:06:00.000 What about you?

00:06:04.000 Hi, my name is Battelle.

00:06:07.000 Batel?

00:06:08.000 Yes.

00:06:08.000 How old are you?

00:06:09.000 I'm 31.

00:06:10.000 Wait, 31?

00:06:11.000 Where are you from?

00:06:11.000 I'm Israeli.

00:06:13.000 I'm from Israel.

00:06:14.000 Okay.

00:06:16.000 Alright.

00:06:18.000 What part of Israel are you from?

00:06:21.000 From Tel Aviv.

00:06:22.000 Tel Aviv?

00:06:22.000 Nice.

00:06:23.000 And then, what do you do for it?

00:06:26.000 I do marketing.

00:06:27.000 Marketing?

00:06:27.000 Web design.

00:06:28.000 Okay.

00:06:29.000 Marketing, you said for graphic design?

00:06:30.000 Yeah, web design.

00:06:32.000 Oh, web design.

00:06:32.000 Alright, cool.

00:06:33.000 And then, what's your highest education level completed?

00:06:37.000 High school, and then I also served in the military.

00:06:40.000 Okay.

00:06:41.000 Mandatory, right?

00:06:42.000 In Israel?

00:06:42.000 Yes.

00:06:42.000 For two years, if I'm not mistaken?

00:06:44.000 Yes.

00:06:45.000 Wow, of course.

00:06:46.000 What did you do in the military?

00:06:48.000 What was your job in the military?

00:06:50.000 Did they give you guys MLS? I did accounting.

00:06:54.000 Oh, okay.

00:06:54.000 Thanks, of course.

00:06:56.000 Shut up, Chris. 0.99

00:06:57.000 Went through schooling. 1.00

00:06:58.000 Oh, yeah.

00:06:58.000 Okay, sorry.

00:06:59.000 What was that?

00:07:00.000 I went through schooling in the military for accounting.

00:07:03.000 Okay.

00:07:03.000 Yeah.

00:07:04.000 Cool.

00:07:04.000 And then what's your relationship status?

00:07:06.000 I'm single.

00:07:07.000 Okay.

00:07:08.000 How long you been in America now?

00:07:11.000 Almost nine years.

00:07:12.000 Oh, okay.

00:07:13.000 Alright, so you're dual citizen probably, right?

00:07:14.000 You're an American citizen in Israeli?

00:07:16.000 Okay, cool.

00:07:17.000 Are you a fan of art?

00:07:19.000 Of who?

00:07:19.000 Art.

00:07:20.000 I don't know.

00:07:22.000 Okay.

00:07:22.000 I was just curious.

00:07:23.000 No, you might like art, you know, because of, uh, anyhow.

00:07:26.000 What's going on?

00:07:31.000 What about you?

00:07:32.000 What's your name?

00:07:32.000 I'm Tiffany.

00:07:33.000 I'm 24.

00:07:34.000 Tiffany, okay.

00:07:36.000 I forgot the question.

00:07:38.000 You're good.

00:07:39.000 24, where are you originally from?

00:07:40.000 My parents are Nigerian and I'm from Georgia.

00:07:44.000 Okay.

00:07:45.000 What part of Georgia?

00:07:46.000 Okay.

00:07:48.000 Do you live in Miami now or are you just visiting?

00:07:50.000 I live in Miami.

00:07:51.000 I've been here five years.

00:07:52.000 Oh, okay.

00:07:53.000 All right.

00:07:53.000 What do you do for it?

00:07:55.000 I am part-time server, full-time student.

00:07:58.000 Okay.

00:07:58.000 Pursuing your bachelor's degree or master?

00:08:01.000 Doctorate.

00:08:02.000 Okay.

00:08:03.000 Server and student.

00:08:04.000 Okay.

00:08:04.000 What do you...

00:08:05.000 Well, first, where did you get your undergrad from?

00:08:07.000 FIU. Okay.

00:08:08.000 And?

00:08:10.000 Pre-occupational therapy and psychology.

00:08:12.000 Okay.

00:08:13.000 And then are you pursuing...

00:08:15.000 Did you get a master's degree as well?

00:08:17.000 No, I'm working...

00:08:18.000 It's a program where I'm working straight to my doctorate.

00:08:20.000 Okay, gotcha.

00:08:21.000 A four-year program, I'm guessing?

00:08:22.000 Three.

00:08:23.000 It's a three-year.

00:08:23.000 Okay.

00:08:24.000 And doctorate and what?

00:08:25.000 Psychiatrist?

00:08:26.000 Occupational therapy.

00:08:27.000 Okay.

00:08:29.000 All right, so it's one of those.

00:08:30.000 When you graduate, are you going to get two degrees?

00:08:32.000 Are you going to get a master's and a PhD?

00:08:34.000 Or are you just going to finish as a PhD?

00:08:35.000 Just straight PhD.

00:08:37.000 Okay.

00:08:37.000 I'm a PhD.

00:08:38.000 All right, cool.

00:08:41.000 And then what's your relationship status?

00:08:43.000 Single.

00:08:43.000 All right.

00:08:46.000 And PhD candidate for occupational therapy, right?

00:08:49.000 Yes.

00:08:50.000 Okay, cool.

00:08:51.000 What about you?

00:08:52.000 Hi, I'm Sasha.

00:08:55.000 I'm from Russia.

00:08:56.000 My highest education...

00:08:58.000 How old are you?

00:08:58.000 27.

00:08:59.000 27?

00:09:00.000 Okay, what part of Russia are you from?

00:09:01.000 It's called Chulabinsk.

00:09:03.000 Not many people know about it.

00:09:04.000 Okay.

00:09:06.000 How long have you been in Miami?

00:09:08.000 In Miami, six years.

00:09:10.000 Okay.

00:09:11.000 What do you do for it?

00:09:13.000 I'm a bartender and I just graduated actually in the beginning of this month with my second bachelor degree and I'm looking for a job in the industry.

00:09:22.000 Okay, so you have two bachelor degrees.

00:09:24.000 Yeah.

00:09:24.000 What do you have them in?

00:09:25.000 Psychology and then information technology.

00:09:28.000 Okay.

00:09:29.000 Where'd you get them from?

00:09:30.000 FIU. Okay.

00:09:31.000 Do y'all know each other?

00:09:32.000 Yeah, we're my friends.

00:09:38.000 I'm curious.

00:09:39.000 Were you guys nervous to come?

00:09:41.000 Yeah.

00:09:42.000 I always did a couple.

00:09:43.000 That's what she said.

00:09:49.000 What's your relationship status?

00:09:50.000 Single.

00:09:52.000 What had y'all shook to come?

00:09:53.000 Out of curiosity.

00:09:55.000 Because I can tell a lot of us from FIU were like, yo, I hate that show.

00:09:57.000 Oh my goodness.

00:09:58.000 What had y'all worried?

00:09:59.000 You can keep it straight with us.

00:10:00.000 I know we have a scary reputation.

00:10:02.000 Yeah, but we're adventurous.

00:10:04.000 We just, you know, live life.

00:10:08.000 Just go for it?

00:10:09.000 Yeah.

00:10:10.000 You have to.

00:10:11.000 Who said no?

00:10:12.000 Who said yes?

00:10:14.000 Who decided to, like, actually go?

00:10:15.000 I mean, we were both about it, but we just had our, like, reservations.

00:10:19.000 Yeah.

00:10:20.000 Okay.

00:10:21.000 Is it a video you saw or something you saw on TikTok?

00:10:23.000 I heard some things.

00:10:26.000 I know somebody who's been on it before, and I've seen some episodes. 1.00

00:10:31.000 Oh, shit. 0.99

00:10:31.000 Okay, question. 0.99

00:10:32.000 What'd you hear, though?

00:10:33.000 One thing you heard.

00:10:34.000 I heard that you guys are misogynists.

00:10:36.000 No way!

00:10:36.000 Really?

00:10:37.000 Misogynist. 0.77

00:10:38.000 That we hate women? 0.99

00:10:38.000 Yeah, that you guys hate women. 0.99

00:10:40.000 Who would say that? 0.96

00:10:41.000 Honestly...

00:10:42.000 For me, it's the book.

00:10:43.000 It's the book for me.

00:10:46.000 I'm scared.

00:10:49.000 I want to read it just to be like, what's going on here?

00:10:50.000 So the title just turned y'all off.

00:10:52.000 Yeah, because I don't know what the book is about, but I think women doesn't have the world. 1.00

00:10:56.000 Gold Queen.

00:10:57.000 Have you read it?

00:11:00.000 No, but, like, I've been on the show multiple times, so, like, everything y'all heard, I can personally say, like, it's really not that.

00:11:07.000 Like, a 30-second clip that you see on Instagram or TikTok is only a 30-second clip.

00:11:11.000 I watched, like, full podcasts.

00:11:13.000 I agree with a lot of things, but I also disagree with a lot of things.

00:11:16.000 Okay.

00:11:17.000 What do you disagree with in particular?

00:11:20.000 Um...

00:11:23.000 Women don't deserve less. 1.00

00:11:26.000 Actually, in particular, I don't think high value men should be allowed to cheat and get away with certain things just because they're men or because they have money.

00:11:38.000 Alright.

00:11:39.000 Is that it?

00:11:39.000 No.

00:11:41.000 We can get into it later.

00:11:44.000 We can move on right now.

00:11:46.000 You can go ahead and say it.

00:11:47.000 It's fine.

00:11:48.000 I'm going to touch upon introducing everybody.

00:11:51.000 What else did you disagree with?

00:11:53.000 You don't agree that high volume men should be able to do whatever.

00:11:56.000 You think women deserve more, and then what was the last thing? 1.00

00:11:59.000 I don't think women should just shut up and listen to men. 1.00

00:12:04.000 Shut up, bitch! 1.00

00:12:06.000 I think women with careers are not masculine. 1.00

00:12:11.000 I think it's okay to be masculine and feminine.

00:12:14.000 Honestly, I could go on and on, but I don't want to hijack the show.

00:12:17.000 Do you want to move on?

00:12:19.000 Do you think women should be able to be masculine? 1.00

00:12:21.000 I think everybody, women and men, should be able to be masculine and feminine.

00:12:27.000 Go back and forth.

00:12:30.000 You kind of adjust to your environment and the situation that you're in.

00:12:34.000 It's a social construct.

00:12:36.000 Gender is a social construct.

00:12:38.000 Gender roles. 1.00

00:12:39.000 Like gender roles. 0.99

00:12:42.000 Okay, roles.

00:12:43.000 Not gender.

00:12:44.000 Not gender.

00:12:46.000 So you think gender roles are a social construct?

00:12:49.000 Of course.

00:12:51.000 Interesting.

00:12:52.000 Anything else?

00:12:53.000 No.

00:12:55.000 Nothing else you agree with?

00:12:57.000 Disagree with.

00:12:58.000 Or sorry, disagree with?

00:12:59.000 I mean, if we get to it, I'll let you know if I disagree with it.

00:13:02.000 All right.

00:13:03.000 What about you?

00:13:04.000 Hey, y'all!

00:13:06.000 Hey, guys.

00:13:06.000 Welcome back.

00:13:07.000 Welcome back.

00:13:07.000 Thank you, thank you.

00:13:09.000 My name's Anika.

00:13:10.000 I'm 25 years old.

00:13:12.000 I'm from Orlando, Florida.

00:13:13.000 And I do Playboy and music videos and modeling.

00:13:18.000 And just got into acting and got casted for my first TV show.

00:13:23.000 Wait, what show is it?

00:13:25.000 Can you say it or no?

00:13:26.000 I can't say it.

00:13:26.000 You can't say it?

00:13:27.000 I can't say it.

00:13:27.000 Is it reality or just regular?

00:13:30.000 What?

00:13:31.000 Is it like a reality show or is it like...

00:13:32.000 Oh, it's like an actual TV show.

00:13:35.000 Like I have an actual character that I'm portraying.

00:13:37.000 I will say what her name is.

00:13:38.000 Her name is Amari, but that's all I can tell y'all.

00:13:40.000 Cool.

00:13:40.000 But yeah, it's a whole...

00:13:42.000 They asked me if I was SAG certified, but because of the strike, we're supposed to start production.

00:13:47.000 Oh yeah, there's a strike.

00:13:48.000 Yeah.

00:13:48.000 Michael Blackson on.

00:13:49.000 He spoke about that strike with all the actors.

00:13:51.000 Yeah, they asked me if I was a part of the strike.

00:13:53.000 I told them, I was like, I understand the movement.

00:13:55.000 I'm all for it.

00:13:55.000 But honestly, I'm not rich enough yet to decline any work, so I'll take what I can get.

00:14:00.000 But production did get moved back just because of the strike.

00:14:02.000 So hopefully and soon everyone gets what they want and there's a happy solution.

00:14:06.000 Okay.

00:14:08.000 And then highest education level completed?

00:14:10.000 High school.

00:14:11.000 Okay.

00:14:12.000 And then relationship status?

00:14:13.000 I am dating someone.

00:14:15.000 Okay.

00:14:15.000 Nice.

00:14:15.000 How long y'all been together?

00:14:17.000 It's like new, like May.

00:14:21.000 How'd you meet him?

00:14:22.000 Three mutual friends.

00:14:24.000 Did he see you on the show?

00:14:26.000 He actually doesn't really care for y'all. 0.99

00:14:30.000 But I told him, I was like, nah babe, I fuck with him, so I'm gonna go back on. 0.99

00:14:35.000 I think it's cool. 0.99

00:14:37.000 So he's gonna watch it.

00:14:37.000 I told him, after I get off, you have to watch the episode.

00:14:39.000 Okay.

00:14:41.000 He doesn't like us.

00:14:42.000 He thinks that we're probably...

00:14:43.000 And he is Haitian, actually.

00:14:44.000 Yes, sir!

00:14:45.000 It's our first Haitian!

00:14:47.000 Yes, sir!

00:14:48.000 It's our first Haitian, and I am loving it!

00:14:51.000 He doesn't agree with our views, I'm guessing?

00:14:53.000 He's just never really...

00:14:55.000 Same thing.

00:14:55.000 He's never really watched an actual full episode.

00:14:59.000 He just sees clips. 0.99

00:14:59.000 I told him, I was like, babe, you've only seen clips, but if they were disrespectful or if they were assholes, I wouldn't... 0.99

00:15:06.000 I like the conversations. 0.77

00:15:09.000 I feel like stuff you guys say makes sense.

00:15:12.000 And there's nothing wrong with a friendly debate.

00:15:14.000 Appreciate that.

00:15:15.000 Thank you.

00:15:17.000 What about you?

00:15:18.000 My name is Gigi Dior.

00:15:20.000 I am 41.

00:15:22.000 I was born in Chicago.

00:15:26.000 Where did you spend most of your years?

00:15:30.000 I kind of split it.

00:15:33.000 I split it between a couple of different places.

00:15:36.000 Kansas, New York, Chicago.

00:15:39.000 Okay.

00:15:39.000 So kind of a little bit of everywhere.

00:15:40.000 What did you like go to high school, I guess?

00:15:42.000 Two different states.

00:15:43.000 Kansas and New York.

00:15:45.000 Okay.

00:15:46.000 So you've been all over.

00:15:47.000 Yeah.

00:15:48.000 Alright.

00:15:49.000 Where's home for you, then, of the three?

00:15:50.000 Right now, I split my time between New York and Florida.

00:15:54.000 Okay.

00:15:54.000 So I'm really everywhere.

00:15:56.000 Are we talking like New York City?

00:15:57.000 Yeah.

00:15:58.000 What part of the city are you from?

00:16:00.000 Brooklyn. 1.00

00:16:01.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

00:16:02.000 Where the hipsters are at. 1.00

00:16:04.000 Well, it's going through a lot of gentrification.

00:16:07.000 What do you do for her? 0.87

00:16:08.000 I am a porn star. 0.99

00:16:10.000 Oh, okay. 0.97

00:16:11.000 Just put it out there.

00:16:13.000 I just put it out there.

00:16:14.000 It explains where she's all over.

00:16:16.000 Okay.

00:16:17.000 No, but remember, she was at SauceCast.

00:16:19.000 SauceCast, yeah.

00:16:20.000 And I started with Adult Star last time.

00:16:22.000 Yeah, she was there.

00:16:23.000 Yeah, I was in SauceCast Live.

00:16:24.000 Forgive me, my memory is really bad.

00:16:26.000 No, no, I'm single.

00:16:28.000 Are you single?

00:16:28.000 Yeah.

00:16:29.000 I had an ex-husband we talked about.

00:16:31.000 There you go.

00:16:32.000 I had an ex-husband, so, yeah.

00:16:35.000 Oh, the live show.

00:16:35.000 The live show, yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:16:36.000 The very first live one.

00:16:39.000 Okay, because I'm like, in my head, like, wait, what are you talking about?

00:16:41.000 Okay, yeah, we have like 20-something girls there. 1.00

00:16:43.000 Okay.

00:16:43.000 There was a lot of girls.

00:16:44.000 There was like 30, I think.

00:16:46.000 So how long have you been in the industry?

00:16:48.000 Three years.

00:16:50.000 Oh, okay.

00:16:50.000 So recent.

00:16:51.000 Yeah.

00:16:51.000 All right.

00:16:52.000 And what'd you do before that?

00:16:53.000 I was a business entrepreneur.

00:16:56.000 What kind of business did you have?

00:16:57.000 I had a tanning salon, barbershop, real estate.

00:17:01.000 I have done real estate transactions.

00:17:03.000 I flipped houses.

00:17:05.000 What made you go for business?

00:17:08.000 I can't say the word on YouTube, but it starts with the C and ends with 19.

00:17:15.000 Oh! 0.60

00:17:16.000 So you were doing business and you were taking it to get real business.

00:17:20.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:17:21.000 Yeah, okay, cool.

00:17:21.000 Okay.

00:17:22.000 Yep, yep, exactly.

00:17:22.000 Okay, so you were, okay.

00:17:24.000 Because, yeah, for you to enter in at, because you entered at 38, right?

00:17:27.000 Correct.

00:17:28.000 For 48, not 41-0?

00:17:29.000 Yeah, 41.

00:17:30.000 And then what's your relationship status?

00:17:31.000 A single.

00:17:32.000 All right.

00:17:33.000 She belongs to the streets! 1.00

00:17:34.000 She ended up taking the business, you know what I mean?

00:17:38.000 I am, I am.

00:17:39.000 Okay, cool.

00:17:40.000 Interesting.

00:17:41.000 Okay, so we already got 6,000 of y'all watching on YouTube alone.

00:17:45.000 I don't know how many on Rumble, but We're good

00:18:15.000 to go.

00:18:17.000 Cruxy, I love this question.

00:18:18.000 Ladies, what did you hear about the show before coming on?

00:18:20.000 Okay, so they want the rest of the girls to answer this question. 0.98

00:18:25.000 But some of them have been on before, man.

00:18:26.000 Yeah, they kind of know.

00:18:27.000 They kind of know, yeah.

00:18:28.000 They kind of know.

00:18:29.000 Question, Cam, two times.

00:18:31.000 At what age would you be okay with your son dating a girl?

00:18:31.000 Question, ladies.

00:18:34.000 And what age would you be okay with your daughter dating a boy?

00:18:37.000 Ladies, ask the men the same question. 1.00

00:18:39.000 Okay, so we could go on the table.

00:18:41.000 We could start here and then work our way.

00:18:42.000 At what age would you be okay with your son dating?

00:18:44.000 And then what age would you be okay with your daughter dating?

00:18:46.000 Oh, grandson.

00:18:50.000 Wow.

00:18:51.000 Ooh, low blow.

00:18:54.000 So...

00:18:54.000 Wait, is he a misogynist?

00:18:56.000 Or us?

00:18:56.000 I think he is.

00:18:57.000 The guy behind the screen.

00:18:59.000 Sorry, go ahead.

00:19:00.000 No, it's okay.

00:19:01.000 I would say it's the same for both.

00:19:03.000 What's that age?

00:19:04.000 I would say high school, so freshman, sophomore year, when you can actually start to...

00:19:10.000 14 and 15?

00:19:11.000 Yeah, I'd say 15.

00:19:12.000 15, 16.

00:19:14.000 Okay.

00:19:15.000 What about you?

00:19:17.000 Um, I say the same thing, 15, 16, right?

00:19:19.000 When they're, like, in high school, a little bit, just because, like, they're human, they've got feelings.

00:19:23.000 For both genders?

00:19:24.000 For both genders, yes.

00:19:25.000 Okay.

00:19:26.000 What about you?

00:19:27.000 Man, if it's innocent, um, you can date in kindergarten.

00:19:30.000 Wait, what?

00:19:31.000 But, like, innocent.

00:19:32.000 Like, oh, this, like, holding hands.

00:19:35.000 That's how it starts, though.

00:19:36.000 That's sweet.

00:19:40.000 Yo, you wildin' bruh.

00:19:41.000 Whenever they're ready.

00:19:42.000 And I was called grandma.

00:19:44.000 When in Russia did they start dating?

00:19:47.000 Honestly, in Russia, very early, my parents got married when they were 20.

00:19:52.000 So they were dating for a while.

00:19:55.000 I don't know.

00:19:56.000 I mean, since you're like 11, maybe.

00:19:59.000 Shraggy? 1.00

00:20:00.000 So in your take, you think they could start dating in kindergarten?

00:20:03.000 They can start dating whenever they're ready.

00:20:05.000 I mean, if you're the mom, we're asking you your opinion if you're the mother.

00:20:09.000 Sure.

00:20:09.000 If they want to date in kindergarten, they can date in kindergarten.

00:20:12.000 Okay.

00:20:12.000 You different, man.

00:20:14.000 Goddamn! 0.99

00:20:15.000 Alright, what about you? 0.99

00:20:17.000 And that's for both genders, by the way, right?

00:20:19.000 Yeah, no difference.

00:20:20.000 Alright, what about you?

00:20:21.000 They can start dating supervised at 15.

00:20:25.000 Supervised at 15?

00:20:26.000 Supervised at 15.

00:20:27.000 So are you going to be there the whole time?

00:20:28.000 You're going to chaperone it?

00:20:30.000 Um, I mean, if you go to the movies, I might watch a different movie, you know?

00:20:34.000 Alright, so you'll be at the movie theater, but you won't be in the same theater, maybe.

00:20:37.000 How do you know what's going on there?

00:20:37.000 Yeah.

00:20:39.000 I mean, I don't need to know what's going on.

00:20:41.000 Yeah, that's not really supervised.

00:20:43.000 Two seats to the left.

00:20:44.000 Nah.

00:20:44.000 You might as well just leave and go back home and pick them up.

00:20:46.000 I mean, I could do that, too.

00:20:47.000 I could do that, too.

00:20:49.000 I mean, supervise in the sense that I'm driving them and, like, I'm picking them up.

00:20:52.000 They can't leave.

00:20:53.000 They can't drive.

00:20:54.000 That's on them.

00:20:55.000 So you got Nigerian parents, right?

00:20:57.000 What age did they let you date?

00:20:58.000 I mean...

00:21:00.000 I know, it was an old 15.

00:21:02.000 I mean, it was never really a thing.

00:21:05.000 I never really asked today.

00:21:07.000 You just did it?

00:21:08.000 Just do it, yeah.

00:21:10.000 You don't have a real Nigerian parents, man. 1.00

00:21:12.000 No, my mom is very much Nigerian.

00:21:14.000 She moved here when she was in her 20s.

00:21:16.000 She knows the way.

00:21:18.000 Okay, cool.

00:21:19.000 What about you?

00:21:21.000 I would say 17, 18.

00:21:25.000 For both?

00:21:26.000 Yeah.

00:21:27.000 Yeah.

00:21:27.000 Okay.

00:21:28.000 For Israel, what age is it normally?

00:21:32.000 I mean, it depends.

00:21:35.000 It depends who we're asking because it's a very diverse country and you have the more of the liberal side and the conservative side.

00:21:46.000 So the more orthodox religious people, they would start dating probably around the age that they get off high school so they can get married as soon as possible.

00:21:58.000 And with the liberal side, it depends.

00:22:02.000 I mean, some people, they date when they're 14, 15, but I mean, I don't know.

00:22:07.000 I don't really like that idea.

00:22:10.000 So yeah, I would stick to 17, 18, when you start to form a mind.

00:22:18.000 Cool.

00:22:19.000 All right.

00:22:20.000 And what about you?

00:22:22.000 For a daughter to date at a young age, I don't like it.

00:22:26.000 So I will say I want my daughter to date in her 20s.

00:22:32.000 20s?

00:22:33.000 Yeah.

00:22:34.000 And then for a son?

00:22:35.000 For a son, probably he's 17, 16, whenever he wants.

00:22:43.000 Okay.

00:22:44.000 Okay, so pretty much it looks like to me you're the only person that has a different age per gender.

00:22:51.000 The rest of you guys pretty much think it's between both genders, same age?

00:22:55.000 I mean...

00:22:56.000 Go ahead.

00:22:57.000 I kind of thought about it.

00:22:59.000 I feel like my boy could probably date, like, maybe like a year or two younger, but I'd also, that way I could, like, teach him on how to court a lady at a younger age, I guess.

00:23:09.000 So your son could date younger?

00:23:10.000 Yeah.

00:23:10.000 Because you originally gave 15 and 16.

00:23:12.000 Yeah, both of them the same, but yeah, no, I say that the son can date younger.

00:23:16.000 Even before that?

00:23:18.000 Even before 15?

00:23:20.000 Your answer was 15 to 16 for both.

00:23:22.000 Okay, I'll leave it at the same time.

00:23:24.000 I forgot your answer already.

00:23:25.000 Yeah, I did.

00:23:26.000 I'm not gonna lie.

00:23:30.000 Alright, fantastic.

00:23:32.000 Alright, so I got a question for the ladies. 1.00

00:23:35.000 Actually, no, I'll read some of the super tests and I'll get into my line of questioning here.

00:23:39.000 Buy one BBL, get one free.

00:23:40.000 And remember guys, 20 and up from this point forward.

00:23:42.000 Remember when a certain podcast said that you guys is very niche and corny, that you will struggle to grow a fan base based on your views.

00:23:49.000 Well, congrats on passing that podcast.

00:23:50.000 The subscribers wrote the 2 million.

00:23:54.000 Wait, is it...

00:23:56.000 I think it is...

00:24:00.000 I don't know who he's talking about.

00:24:02.000 I don't know.

00:24:03.000 That's how far past creators we are.

00:24:05.000 Screech.

00:24:06.000 No, I don't think so.

00:24:08.000 Mo will tell me and talk back.

00:24:09.000 Mo, just tell me.

00:24:10.000 Ashley O goes, funny how all these ladies want a Mr. 1.00

00:24:13.000 Gray, but they are so far from Anna Steele.

00:24:15.000 She was a 21-year-old beautiful broke virgin who got the billionaire, not a 3-0, not a hoe. 1.00

00:24:19.000 All right.

00:24:19.000 Thanks, bro.

00:24:22.000 1929G, is it grippy?

00:24:24.000 Don't know.

00:24:25.000 Marriage, cause, divorce.

00:24:27.000 Ladies, choose two of the following three options. 0.95

00:24:29.000 One, a relationship with Drake, but you pay for everything.

00:24:31.000 Two, access to Drake's properties and money.

00:24:33.000 Three, having Drake's kids and getting child support.

00:24:35.000 It's actually a good question.

00:24:37.000 Drake?

00:24:37.000 Which of the three would you pick?

00:24:39.000 All right, ladies?

00:24:39.000 Number one, relationship with Drake, but you pay for everything.

00:24:41.000 Two, access to Drake's property and money, but not him.

00:24:44.000 Three, having Drake's kids and getting child support.

00:24:46.000 Which one are you going with?

00:24:47.000 We can start hearing that work our way.

00:24:54.000 I don't know.

00:24:56.000 Right now, like...

00:24:58.000 Probably a relationship.

00:25:01.000 And I pay.

00:25:03.000 Yeah.

00:25:04.000 Okay.

00:25:05.000 Cool.

00:25:06.000 I wouldn't pick any of those.

00:25:08.000 Like, this is...

00:25:09.000 We'll pick one of the three.

00:25:10.000 If you have to pick one.

00:25:12.000 Maybe it's your favorite star, then.

00:25:14.000 Maybe two.

00:25:17.000 Yeah.

00:25:19.000 I just don't, like, you know, I don't relate to the question so much.

00:25:24.000 It's not like the options are...

00:25:26.000 If you have to pick one of the three, just pick one.

00:25:28.000 Well, then two, then yeah, then I will enjoy...

00:25:30.000 You would date him, but you want to pay for it?

00:25:31.000 Wait, sorry.

00:25:32.000 I would not date him, and I will enjoy the property and the money, because I just don't...

00:25:37.000 Okay.

00:25:38.000 Makes sense.

00:25:41.000 Alright.

00:25:41.000 What about you?

00:25:42.000 Two.

00:25:44.000 Okay, same thing.

00:25:45.000 Access to the money.

00:25:46.000 What about you?

00:25:47.000 Two.

00:25:48.000 Russian, not surprised. 0.96

00:25:51.000 Two.

00:25:52.000 Two?

00:25:52.000 Alright.

00:25:53.000 One.

00:25:55.000 Okay.

00:25:56.000 Why one over the other ones?

00:25:58.000 Because I don't have a problem paying for and supporting myself in this situation.

00:26:02.000 And why'd you pick one, too?

00:26:03.000 Because I like to pay for my stuff.

00:26:06.000 Independent boss, bro.

00:26:08.000 I think also that would open up doors being in a relationship with him.

00:26:12.000 I would agree with that.

00:26:13.000 Opportunities.

00:26:13.000 Yeah, it would open up opportunities versus, you know, yeah, you have access to his money and properties, but could have you gone further with access to him as a...

00:26:20.000 He's gonna have you stuck in the property and he's gonna be fucking another girl outside. 1.00

00:26:25.000 No, I was thinking of more so, like, I could use his money to start a business, do whatever I want, use the property, like Airbnb. 0.94

00:26:30.000 That's what I was thinking about.

00:26:31.000 I wouldn't be in a relationship with him because I don't want to be in a house.

00:26:38.000 I don't really care for a relationship with Drake.

00:26:40.000 I want to be outside.

00:26:43.000 Just give me the money, let me make my business, do what I want to do with it.

00:26:46.000 And honestly, too, if you have access to his properties and you have access to his money, you have access to him, so you still have the same opportunities except you're not in a relationship.

00:26:56.000 So you still have the same, like, I would believe you would still have the same, like, to meet the connection.

00:27:01.000 But you don't want a relationship?

00:27:02.000 You don't want someone to love you?

00:27:04.000 No.

00:27:04.000 I mean...

00:27:05.000 You don't like that?

00:27:05.000 I love that.

00:27:06.000 I would want someone to love me, but I personally...

00:27:09.000 I don't think it's love.

00:27:10.000 Drake is not Drake that I want.

00:27:12.000 But even if I wanted you to have to take care of everything, I don't want you that bad.

00:27:17.000 The option isn't even like, y'all split, y'all notice, you gotta take care of that.

00:27:23.000 That man don't love you, that's not a relationship.

00:27:26.000 Interesting.

00:27:27.000 Because he's not paying?

00:27:28.000 Because I have to pay for everything, that's not love.

00:27:31.000 So what is it?

00:27:32.000 It's giving.

00:27:33.000 I'm his sugar mama.

00:27:35.000 That's what it's giving.

00:27:36.000 So he paid for everything all the time.

00:27:39.000 I think they mean everything, yeah.

00:27:40.000 But what's the problem?

00:27:41.000 Like, you're paying for everything because you have your own career.

00:27:44.000 Okay, but you're his sugar mother. 1.00

00:27:46.000 And you're sharing together.

00:27:47.000 No, it says you're paying for everything.

00:27:50.000 And that's Drake, a multi-however much money he has.

00:27:53.000 But would it be different if...

00:27:56.000 He were taking care of everything.

00:27:58.000 But I wouldn't let him take care of everything either.

00:27:59.000 I've never been that type of girl.

00:28:00.000 I've been with, I always helped with something.

00:28:03.000 Even today, I took my man out.

00:28:04.000 I was like, babe, you know what?

00:28:06.000 You've been working hard for a week.

00:28:07.000 You want to go out for lunch?

00:28:07.000 I mean, let's pick a restaurant.

00:28:09.000 You want to tell him what you want?

00:28:10.000 You want steak?

00:28:10.000 Whatever, whatever.

00:28:11.000 And I offered him gas money just to even drive us to the restaurant.

00:28:15.000 And he took it?

00:28:17.000 I mean, I'm sending it back regardless.

00:28:20.000 I hate when people reject nice gestures from me.

00:28:23.000 Especially if you do a lot for me all the time.

00:28:25.000 Let me treat you.

00:28:27.000 That's one of my biggest things.

00:28:28.000 Does he make significantly more money than you do?

00:28:30.000 Yeah.

00:28:31.000 For sure.

00:28:32.000 Way more.

00:28:40.000 I'm just saying like women tend to be generous a lot of the times when the guy makes a lot more money than they do and there's like that potential. 0.97

00:28:46.000 Just interesting notice there.

00:28:53.000 Do you have something else that you want to add?

00:28:54.000 Or one of the other girls want to go? 0.96

00:28:56.000 I think they pretty much covered it.

00:28:57.000 Okay.

00:28:58.000 So, basically, if they're Drake's type...

00:28:59.000 Sorry, if Drake is not their type, they want to get property and access to money.

00:29:03.000 Fair enough.

00:29:03.000 Maybe Drake's type, but they'll pay for everything.

00:29:06.000 Okay.

00:29:07.000 Where are we at here?

00:29:07.000 Okay.

00:29:08.000 1929 G... No.

00:29:10.000 It goes, God is king in the chat.

00:29:11.000 Christ is king in the chat.

00:29:12.000 Love is better than lust.

00:29:13.000 FNF is the best man's podcast in the world in the chat.

00:29:16.000 Christ is king.

00:29:17.000 That is true.

00:29:17.000 We give you all the most facts.

00:29:19.000 J.R. Choi goes...

00:29:22.000 Ladies, when you post on IG and you don't get enough likes, do you take it down?

00:29:26.000 And if so, why?

00:29:27.000 Be honest!

00:29:28.000 We'll just make this quick.

00:29:29.000 Raise your hands if you post on Instagram and if it doesn't get enough likes, you'll take it down.

00:29:32.000 Raise your hands if you've done that before.

00:29:34.000 If you've done it before.

00:29:37.000 Okay, what made you take it down?

00:29:40.000 It was a picture that I posted with one of my favorite photographers, and it didn't get as many likes as we thought it was gonna get.

00:29:45.000 So I was like, let me just take it down and try the algorithm again.

00:29:49.000 But I did it before, but then I just stopped doing it because I was like, I don't even care to take it down and repost it.

00:29:53.000 What about you?

00:29:53.000 What made you take it down?

00:29:54.000 I honestly don't remember, but I just feel like I've done something like that, but I clean my Instagram regularly.

00:30:00.000 Okay.

00:30:00.000 I just be like, why did I post that?

00:30:02.000 And I deleted it.

00:30:03.000 Okay.

00:30:05.000 The definition of felt cute might delete later, right?

00:30:08.000 What about you?

00:30:09.000 What made you?

00:30:10.000 Sometimes I just post weird pictures of me.

00:30:13.000 Facts.

00:30:14.000 So I need to take it.

00:30:17.000 What's an example of a weird picture of you?

00:30:19.000 Like, what's an example?

00:30:20.000 Right now?

00:30:23.000 Yeah, like a naked picture. 0.61

00:30:25.000 Okay, never mind.

00:30:27.000 On IG. TMI. Alright, fantastic.

00:30:32.000 Albo Ace, the next pod with you guys in the Tates is going to be lit.

00:30:35.000 Can't wait.

00:30:36.000 Yeah, coming soon, guys.

00:30:36.000 Don't worry.

00:30:37.000 Gobbling.

00:30:38.000 For the ladies, when it comes to cheating, is it harder on the guy or the girl keeping in mind the woman gets dominated and the man does the dominating? 1.00

00:30:43.000 Okay, we'll make this one a simple one.

00:30:45.000 We'll raise the hands.

00:30:46.000 Is it worse when a man gets cheated on?

00:30:48.000 Raise the hands if you think it's worse when a man gets cheated on.

00:30:52.000 Two?

00:30:52.000 Okay.

00:30:53.000 I think it's both.

00:30:54.000 Well, if you had to pick...

00:30:55.000 One of the great evils.

00:30:56.000 Which one do you think is worse?

00:30:58.000 So, I mean, and you can frame it under the pretense, would you prefer if you had to pick one of the two?

00:31:03.000 Your mom got cheated on by your dad, or your dad got cheated on by your mom? 0.82

00:31:06.000 Which one would hurt more?

00:31:07.000 Yeah.

00:31:08.000 So, let's ask that question one more time.

00:31:10.000 Is it worse when a man gets cheated on?

00:31:12.000 Raise your hands if you think it's worse when a man gets cheated on.

00:31:14.000 Two, three.

00:31:15.000 Okay, split down the middle.

00:31:16.000 And then, if a woman gets cheated on... 1.00

00:31:19.000 Raise it.

00:31:20.000 I can't decide.

00:31:20.000 You three?

00:31:21.000 I think it's both.

00:31:23.000 I mean, please pick one.

00:31:25.000 Even if it's 51%, 49%, like, which one do you think is worse? 0.92

00:31:29.000 Let's say women. 1.00

00:31:30.000 When the woman gets cheated on, you think it's worse? 1.00

00:31:33.000 I can't.

00:31:36.000 Well, it's 50-50, yeah.

00:31:37.000 It's hard to say.

00:31:38.000 It's like...

00:31:39.000 Alright, if I gave you the scenario, your mom got cheated on, your dad got cheated on, you had to pick one of the two.

00:31:43.000 Which one would be worse?

00:31:45.000 I think my mom.

00:31:46.000 Your mom getting cheated on would be worse, you think? 0.96

00:31:48.000 I think so.

00:31:49.000 You think that would hurt the family more than your mom cheating on your dad? 0.74

00:31:52.000 Listen, they're both like, it's not okay.

00:31:55.000 Which one do you think would hurt the family more, though?

00:31:58.000 Okay, I said women. 1.00

00:31:59.000 I said women. 0.99

00:31:59.000 Okay, fine. 0.99

00:32:01.000 Guys have a high libido, so they want to cheat and fuck. 1.00

00:32:05.000 So that's normal. 1.00

00:32:06.000 So I think a guy getting cheated on.

00:32:08.000 It's not normal.

00:32:10.000 I don't believe in cheating.

00:32:12.000 Wait, because you didn't raise your hand before.

00:32:14.000 So you agree that it's worse when a woman cheats with them. 0.99

00:32:17.000 Okay, and then what about you?

00:32:19.000 What are your thoughts?

00:32:21.000 I'll say that it's worse when a woman cheats just because it doesn't happen as often. 1.00

00:32:27.000 And for a woman to cheat, it has to be a very serious situation. 1.00

00:32:31.000 Okay, so you think it's worse when a woman cheats as well? 0.97

00:32:32.000 I guess.

00:32:33.000 Okay, so the only person that thinks it's a man...

00:32:35.000 Only her.

00:32:37.000 Okay, so you think it's worse when a woman cheats. 1.00

00:32:39.000 Okay.

00:32:40.000 No, I mean, I think it's worse when a man cheats on a woman, I think it's worse.

00:32:44.000 Okay, why do you think it's worse, in your opinion?

00:32:47.000 Well, again, I think they're both equal, but you kind of made me decide between the two.

00:32:58.000 I think that, you know, just generally as a female, we are more devoted when we're in our natural state, right?

00:33:09.000 When we're in harmony and when we are in love with someone.

00:33:14.000 So we don't really want to go outside and look for something else.

00:33:19.000 When we have what we have and we love it and we enjoy it and we just get everything we need, Like, if a guy, you know, takes care of everything and he, like, answers all the love languages that a woman needs, then why would she go out and just do that? 0.99

00:33:34.000 So when he goes and do that, it just makes her feel like she's not enough or that if she did something wrong.

00:33:41.000 It's a lot of, like, I would say it's a hit to, like, the self-esteem and self-confidence and her mental health in general.

00:33:52.000 Did it happen to you?

00:33:55.000 Well, in my definition, it did.

00:33:58.000 In his definition, it didn't.

00:34:00.000 Who hurt you?

00:34:01.000 Just tell us.

00:34:02.000 No, I'm past that.

00:34:03.000 I'm healed and I'm sending you love.

00:34:07.000 I do.

00:34:12.000 I love you very much.

00:34:13.000 I send you much love.

00:34:14.000 You gave a lot of arguments, actually, for why it would be worse if a woman cheated, because you stated how women get emotionally tied, they want to be with one person, etc.

00:34:23.000 So, wouldn't it be a bigger act of betrayal, since women are more predisposed to want to be with one partner for them to cheat? 0.98

00:34:32.000 Wait, say that again?

00:34:35.000 The points that you made, right?

00:34:38.000 You said that it's worse than a man, she's because women want to have one partner, they're more devoted, they don't want to run around and have sex, they want to be monogamous. 1.00

00:34:38.000 Yes. 1.00

00:34:45.000 So wouldn't it be worse for a woman to cheat since she's more predisposed to be monogamous with one partner? 1.00

00:34:52.000 Yeah, that's why it was hard for me to give you an answer in the beginning.

00:34:56.000 You know, I say it's 50-50.

00:34:58.000 I think they're both like...

00:34:59.000 But is it really 50-50 though?

00:35:01.000 I think so.

00:35:02.000 I think cheating is...

00:35:03.000 It doesn't matter the gender. 1.00

00:35:05.000 I think cheating is equally wrong.

00:35:07.000 Even a woman with a woman, a man with a man, it doesn't matter. 0.99

00:35:10.000 Cheating is going against yourself.

00:35:13.000 It's not even like...

00:35:14.000 It's beyond hurting the other person.

00:35:16.000 It's like you have issues within yourself that you need to fix, you know?

00:35:19.000 So why you can't be honest and just say, oh, listen, I just don't feel this is going...

00:35:25.000 You know, the way I want it to go or I found this girl and I'm attracted to her.

00:35:31.000 Do you mind if I go like?

00:35:32.000 But are either gender really honest with each other? 1.00

00:35:35.000 No.

00:35:37.000 No.

00:35:38.000 So, I mean, realistically speaking, is requesting honesty a realistic expectation?

00:35:44.000 Well, that's what I'm trying to attract to my life.

00:35:47.000 Honestly?

00:35:48.000 Yes.

00:35:49.000 But can you handle the truth?

00:35:50.000 I do because I'm honest and I'm truthful and I'm trustworthy.

00:35:54.000 So if guys walked up to you and said, listen, I want to have sex with multiple girls and you be loyal to me and you stay at home and you cook and you clean and you provide for me, provide the nurturing side, but I'm going to go out and have other women. 0.97

00:36:03.000 Would you be okay with that? 0.96

00:36:04.000 I would say you can do whatever you want.

00:36:08.000 You know, if that's what, please you go ahead.

00:36:11.000 And then I'll pack my stuff and my shoes and we'll say peace and we'll never talk to him ever again in my life because why am I there doing all that if it's just getting entertainment from other women? 0.88

00:36:24.000 Don't you think it's a bit insane though to expect honesty from someone but you're going to punish them for delivering that honesty to you?

00:36:29.000 It's not punishment.

00:36:30.000 It's expectation.

00:36:33.000 I mean, it's choice.

00:36:34.000 But it's called communication, so y'all could talk. 0.97

00:36:37.000 I feel like you could, before you pack your shit up and leave, at least tell them, like, how you feel and see, like... 0.96

00:36:42.000 Well, that's past that. 0.99

00:36:45.000 Like, people have different perspectives, so if you want to cheat, that's fine.

00:36:48.000 People, if you want to cheat, that's okay, but that doesn't necessarily mean we have to be together.

00:36:53.000 Like, you get what I'm saying?

00:36:54.000 So I don't think...

00:36:55.000 So somebody else would be okay with that.

00:36:57.000 So I feel like you should be honest about it, but that doesn't mean I have to be, like, I respect your honesty, but why do I have to stay?

00:37:02.000 But imagine this, right? 0.98

00:37:04.000 A guy finally got your ass and was like, alright, I got her! 1.00

00:37:08.000 And now I'm gonna tell the truth and then lose you? 1.00

00:37:09.000 Oh, come on. 0.87

00:37:10.000 No, but that's something we would have been already, like, we would have found that out before you got me.

00:37:15.000 No, you wouldn't.

00:37:16.000 Yeah, we would talk about it.

00:37:17.000 Because no one's honest about it.

00:37:18.000 I feel like, and that's the problem, because at the end of the day, we should start being truthful about everything about our viewpoints.

00:37:23.000 We agree, but like you said earlier, once I know, I'm out the door.

00:37:27.000 So he's going to say, you know what?

00:37:28.000 Yeah, I'm never going to cheat on you, and then...

00:37:30.000 But there's so many women who are okay with, like, open relationships. 0.95

00:37:34.000 Yeah, some, but I guarantee you, everyone in this room, maybe two of you might be cool with it.

00:37:38.000 Maybe two.

00:37:39.000 Who's the two you think? 0.54

00:37:42.000 She's open to her.

00:37:44.000 It's probably her.

00:37:45.000 Right?

00:37:46.000 So there you go.

00:37:47.000 But once again, guys don't know this, so they're like, you know what?

00:37:49.000 Let me be safe about it and not say anything at all.

00:37:52.000 That's saying, too, that the cheating was a preconceived notion.

00:38:00.000 They planned it, right?

00:38:02.000 It was a thought.

00:38:04.000 Like, oh, I'm going to pursue this person.

00:38:07.000 Isn't most cheating...

00:38:09.000 I rap in a hookup.

00:38:11.000 Premeditated cheating.

00:38:13.000 Exactly.

00:38:15.000 I don't see a lot.

00:38:18.000 I've seen a lot of cheating.

00:38:20.000 I'm sure you have.

00:38:21.000 A lot of it, I don't think it has to do with planning.

00:38:27.000 It's a spur of the moment.

00:38:29.000 You said it's taking away a...

00:38:31.000 I feel like it's taking a person's choice away.

00:38:34.000 I've been cheated on before and I felt...

00:38:37.000 We can tell. 0.99

00:38:38.000 Well, I felt violated, honestly, because I didn't consent to keep on having sex with you after you had sex with another woman. 0.90

00:38:49.000 So, to me, it was just very disrespectful and I'm so sorry. 0.52

00:38:55.000 And I just felt like it was rude.

00:38:58.000 Okay.

00:38:59.000 And I lost all respect for that person.

00:39:01.000 So, I don't know.

00:39:03.000 If he told you beforehand, like, hey, you know what?

00:39:06.000 I might Every now and then step out here and there.

00:39:09.000 Would you be cool with it still?

00:39:10.000 No, I want to be cool with it.

00:39:12.000 But like you said, there's people who would be cool with it and I feel like the people who want to step out, they should be with those people.

00:39:19.000 But what kind of bond can we build if it's built online?

00:39:24.000 If you're doing whatever you want and like lying to my face and eventually I'm going to find out and I'm going to feel betrayed and it's going to be a lot of drama.

00:39:32.000 Let me ask you, go ahead.

00:39:34.000 Do you have something?

00:39:36.000 I'm going to tell him, I tell him like, hey, this is what I want.

00:39:39.000 Do you like it or no?

00:39:40.000 And if you don't like it, then I like someone else.

00:39:43.000 Because that's what I like.

00:39:44.000 And I don't want to be, like, cheating. 0.99

00:39:47.000 Fucking another guy that probably I like or I make music with or whatever. 0.99

00:39:51.000 And I'm gonna be cheating, you know? 0.99

00:39:53.000 No.

00:39:55.000 What I mean is, like...

00:39:57.000 Like, you're funny.

00:39:58.000 We can have fun together.

00:39:59.000 She's, like, this cute little button. 1.00

00:40:01.000 But I'm the main girlfriend.

00:40:04.000 She's like this little, like, spark plug.

00:40:07.000 Like, she's so cute.

00:40:10.000 Sorry, you were trying to say something, too?

00:40:13.000 Sorry, you were trying to say something.

00:40:14.000 Oh, no, I was just saying how she's so cute. 1.00

00:40:15.000 Like, she's just so adult.

00:40:17.000 Well, can I add something?

00:40:19.000 Can I add something?

00:40:20.000 Yeah, sure.

00:40:21.000 There is also the health aspect into it.

00:40:23.000 So, I don't know.

00:40:24.000 I'm just a little concerned about that.

00:40:26.000 But you're not gonna be with a strange girl.

00:40:31.000 Like, you have to know her. 1.00

00:40:32.000 Like, Do you smell like her pussy? 1.00

00:40:36.000 And if he smells, bye. 1.00

00:40:38.000 You take probiotics.

00:40:40.000 I wasn't talking about that.

00:40:43.000 I want to be a fly in her house.

00:40:49.000 So let me ask the ladies a question. 1.00

00:40:53.000 Would you work a 40-hour work week knowing that you weren't going to be paid?

00:40:58.000 Yes or no?

00:41:00.000 Would you work a 40-hour work week knowing that you weren't going to be paid?

00:41:03.000 Yes or no?

00:41:05.000 A 40 hour?

00:41:08.000 Like a job.

00:41:09.000 The whole week is like 40 hours?

00:41:11.000 Would you work a whole week and not get paid?

00:41:13.000 No.

00:41:15.000 Well, it depends.

00:41:17.000 Because if it's a voluntary work and I do something for the community and I help and I make an impact, then absolutely yes.

00:41:27.000 Yeah, but it's under the pretense that you would be paid, but you don't get paid.

00:41:30.000 Volunteering is not getting paid.

00:41:32.000 It's a job.

00:41:33.000 It's a job.

00:41:33.000 It's not a volunteer situation.

00:41:34.000 Okay, well, if the job is helping me progress, if I gain another skill, if I learn something new, then yes, I would do it.

00:41:43.000 For one week, I would do it.

00:41:45.000 Not for one going.

00:41:46.000 You're helping a company grow.

00:41:49.000 So you would work for free for 40 hours.

00:41:51.000 Okay, fantastic.

00:41:52.000 What about the rest of you?

00:41:52.000 I will hire you tomorrow.

00:41:55.000 Awesome.

00:41:56.000 I don't have time for 40 hours.

00:41:58.000 No, you're not going to gain any skills or anything.

00:42:00.000 You're just working.

00:42:01.000 It's like just a normal job.

00:42:02.000 Yeah, it's a normal job.

00:42:03.000 No?

00:42:03.000 What about you?

00:42:03.000 The straight answer is no.

00:42:05.000 But when she put it like that, I do have to do field work.

00:42:07.000 And that is working for free.

00:42:08.000 Yeah, but it's working towards something.

00:42:09.000 Okay.

00:42:09.000 This isn't working.

00:42:10.000 What about you?

00:42:11.000 It's just free labor. 0.85

00:42:11.000 No. 0.85

00:42:12.000 No?

00:42:13.000 No.

00:42:13.000 Nope.

00:42:14.000 Okay.

00:42:15.000 So...

00:42:16.000 This is my thing.

00:42:17.000 I always find it interesting that women want honesty and transparency, etc. 1.00

00:42:21.000 How can you expect someone to be honest with you when they're not going to be rewarded for doing so?

00:42:26.000 Because the thing is that when women say, I want honesty, what that really translates to is, I want transparency so I can make the best decision for myself. 0.59

00:42:33.000 That's what it really boils down to.

00:42:35.000 Think of it as working a 40-hour work week, putting yourself out there, and you might not necessarily be paid for it.

00:42:41.000 And that's the same exact situation where a guy is being honest with you and telling you, I want to have multiple women.

00:42:45.000 Most of them don't have the capacity to handle that, and he's not going to be rewarded 95% of the time by being honest and transparent about that.

00:42:52.000 So you can't expect someone to be honest with you and transparent when they're going to be punished for doing so.

00:42:56.000 It doesn't make sense.

00:42:57.000 Just like you don't expect someone to work 40 hours per week and not be paid.

00:43:01.000 But you don't think, like, respect and integrity is reward in itself?

00:43:04.000 It's not.

00:43:04.000 Women punish that.

00:43:05.000 And a peace of mind. 0.93

00:43:07.000 And a peace of mind.

00:43:08.000 But you gotta ask yourself, who benefits from it?

00:43:12.000 The female does, not the male. 0.99

00:43:14.000 I mean, not really.

00:43:15.000 If I like a person and they tell me, oh, I'm trying to be with other girls, that hurts me too.

00:43:21.000 But you said a magic phrase right before.

00:43:23.000 You said, what was it?

00:43:24.000 If I like him.

00:43:25.000 Oh, what does it take for you to like him?

00:43:29.000 I mean, that's a very complicated question.

00:43:31.000 I don't know what makes me like a man.

00:43:34.000 You see where I'm going here?

00:43:36.000 You can't even describe what the man has to do for you to like him.

00:43:38.000 And then you expect that man to get your like him.

00:43:41.000 This is what I'm trying to say.

00:43:44.000 You expect him, right?

00:43:46.000 You get to like him.

00:43:47.000 You don't even know what you like.

00:43:49.000 He somehow fulfills this.

00:43:50.000 Oh, now you know what you like all of a sudden.

00:43:52.000 He fulfills what you need to be liked.

00:43:54.000 Then he fulfills all these requirements, etc.

00:43:56.000 Then you expect him to be honest and transparent with you about what he likes and potentially lose you after he had to work his ass off to get you to like him in the first place.

00:44:02.000 I know what I like.

00:44:05.000 Okay, I mean, I have to...

00:44:14.000 The thing is with females is that you guys just look at the finish line. 1.00

00:44:18.000 You look at the guy, okay, he's attractive.

00:44:20.000 He's accomplished what I want.

00:44:21.000 I'm attracted to him, but you guys don't see all the work it took for the man to get to that point where you even like him in the first place. 1.00

00:44:27.000 Then you expect them to take all that hard work, throw it out the window and tell you, oh yeah, by the way, I'm busting my ass not just to fuck you, but to fuck five other girls. 1.00

00:44:34.000 You honestly think he's going, and critical thinking skills here. 1.00

00:44:37.000 Fuck what you want. 1.00

00:44:38.000 If you're in a man's position, you work your ass off to build that value, etc. 1.00

00:44:41.000 Do you really think it's in your best interest, to be honest with women? 1.00

00:44:44.000 Think about this before y'all speak.

00:44:45.000 Do you really think it's in his best interest?

00:44:47.000 I do understand what you're saying, but what I'm saying is while you're putting in the work, that's where it should be established if we have the same viewpoint.

00:44:53.000 Like, not while we're in it and then you decide to cheat on me.

00:44:56.000 I feel like while you're putting in the work, don't even waste your time.

00:44:59.000 In the beginning, tell me that's what you want.

00:45:00.000 You want to have multiple work?

00:45:01.000 Like, why waste our time?

00:45:02.000 I get what you're saying, but let's go in a magical world here, right?

00:45:05.000 Let's imagine this.

00:45:05.000 I love magical world.

00:45:08.000 So, let's say you meet a guy, right?

00:45:11.000 You really like him.

00:45:12.000 He's your ideal guy, 6'6", 220, muscular, a lot of money, right?

00:45:17.000 You tell him, you know what, babes?

00:45:19.000 You're amazing.

00:45:21.000 I want to be with you my whole life.

00:45:23.000 But honestly, I love your money and your height and what you give to me all the time.

00:45:28.000 You're telling the truth about him, what you like the most, right? 0.94

00:45:31.000 He's like, damn, okay, what's my money and my height? 0.99

00:45:33.000 That's crazy. 0.99

00:45:34.000 So imagine a guy telling you that, for example, oh, well, to be honest, I like you a lot, but I don't follow the chicks. 1.00

00:45:39.000 It's kind of similar because you're telling the truth at the very beginning.

00:45:42.000 But for a guy, it's like you're telling him money and height.

00:45:44.000 So he can accept it.

00:45:45.000 Or take it or leave it.

00:45:47.000 He can take it or he can leave it.

00:45:47.000 Isn't it messed up though?

00:45:48.000 Isn't it messed up?

00:45:48.000 It's not messed up.

00:45:49.000 That's just my viewpoint.

00:45:50.000 That's what I like.

00:45:51.000 That's what I like.

00:45:51.000 But do you tell every guy that?

00:45:52.000 When you meet him?

00:45:52.000 I mean, it's not.

00:45:53.000 But it's never just that.

00:45:54.000 It's never just money.

00:45:56.000 When I like a man.

00:45:57.000 Okay.

00:45:57.000 So I like a man of God.

00:45:59.000 So if I see Trace that you're a man of God.

00:46:01.000 I'm a man of God.

00:46:04.000 There's a lot of things to it.

00:46:06.000 So that's why I said it's a very intricate question when you say, what do I like?

00:46:08.000 Because I like a lot of things.

00:46:09.000 But the point is...

00:46:11.000 So it's complex.

00:46:12.000 It is complex.

00:46:14.000 So you expect that man to rise up to your complex needs and wants, but then be honest with you and potentially lose you.

00:46:20.000 But that's the thing.

00:46:20.000 That's why it's in the process.

00:46:22.000 I feel like it should just be transparent.

00:46:23.000 Because I believe in transparency.

00:46:25.000 So from the back, just tell me what it is.

00:46:26.000 Yeah, it's easy for you to say, I don't expect transparency when you didn't have to work to build that attraction.

00:46:30.000 What do you mean not work?

00:46:31.000 You think women wake up every day and just look how we look? 0.99

00:46:37.000 Makeup, lashes, nails, hair.

00:46:38.000 Working out, making readings.

00:46:40.000 That's a lot of work, right?

00:46:41.000 First of all, it is a lot of work.

00:46:42.000 Thank you very much.

00:46:43.000 I don't know if that was sarcasm, but it is a lot of work.

00:46:45.000 It is a considerable amount of work for a woman to keep herself attractive and in shape, etc. 1.00

00:46:49.000 But you got to understand that the amount of work that a woman takes to be attractive is not nearly the same amount of work required for a man to be attractive.

00:46:57.000 It doesn't even come close.

00:46:58.000 I mean...

00:47:00.000 Okay.

00:47:00.000 Do you disagree with that?

00:47:01.000 No, I don't disagree with it, but I do feel like men are genetically wired to want to go after things.

00:47:09.000 So I think it's easier for men to work harder.

00:47:11.000 Not easier, but I think men are genetically more inclined for work.

00:47:15.000 Like, they like work.

00:47:16.000 Not like, but you know.

00:47:17.000 Do you know what I'm saying?

00:47:20.000 Men have a natural proclivity to work harder than women. 1.00

00:47:22.000 Is that what you're trying to say?

00:47:23.000 No, I'm saying that men are more naturally...

00:47:26.000 Yes, you're saying that.

00:47:27.000 That's basically what I'm saying.

00:47:29.000 That's basically what I'm saying.

00:47:31.000 But I'm not saying that women don't work hard. 0.99

00:47:33.000 I'm just saying it's more natural for women to be nurtured. 1.00

00:47:37.000 Yeah, that's true.

00:47:39.000 Okay, you're trying to say something?

00:47:41.000 Well, it's a turn-on for me when a guy is honest with me.

00:47:46.000 If he lies to me, It's a turn off for me.

00:47:51.000 But another thing...

00:47:52.000 But you have to like him first to be honest with you, right?

00:47:54.000 If you're a woman... 1.00

00:47:55.000 Hold on, hold on.

00:47:55.000 But you have to like him first to be honest with you?

00:47:58.000 Yeah, I like him when he's his real self with me.

00:48:02.000 You know, when I can feel that he's being real.

00:48:04.000 But you have to be attracted to him for you to care about him being honest, right?

00:48:08.000 I think the attraction comes when I get to know that person.

00:48:12.000 Really.

00:48:13.000 You know?

00:48:14.000 Yeah, but you have to like him first is my point.

00:48:19.000 Yeah.

00:48:20.000 Because if you liked any guy that's being honest with you, you would like the homeless guy that says, give me a dollar, I need to go get a beer.

00:48:24.000 Like, his outside means nothing.

00:48:27.000 When you get to know, like, his inside, like, his heart, that's a turnip.

00:48:31.000 So you don't care how he looks?

00:48:33.000 No, really.

00:48:34.000 So you for anything?

00:48:35.000 Stop the cap! 0.99

00:48:36.000 No, but, no sé, like...

00:48:39.000 Pero...

00:48:41.000 No one really is ugly, you know?

00:48:43.000 It's how the people is inside.

00:48:46.000 Make you feel?

00:48:47.000 No, no, no.

00:48:48.000 It's how the person is inside that makes them ugly, you know what I mean?

00:48:54.000 You mean like how they treat other people and things like that.

00:48:58.000 If they treat like a server bad, that's a turn off.

00:49:02.000 So if the homeless man was nice to the server, you'd still date the homeless man?

00:49:06.000 I don't want to date a homeless.

00:49:08.000 Why not? 0.91

00:49:09.000 He's a bad person. 1.00

00:49:11.000 Because he's a bad person. 0.99

00:49:12.000 He treats bad his family. 0.94

00:49:14.000 That's why he's homeless.

00:49:15.000 No, if he's homeless because he was a veteran and boom, he's disabled, all this and that.

00:49:19.000 That's why he's homeless.

00:49:20.000 But he's nice to everybody else.

00:49:21.000 He's the sweetest man alive. 0.54

00:49:23.000 So you're telling me I could be ugly as hell.

00:49:26.000 I bet you're good. 0.99

00:49:26.000 You're gonna smash. 0.99

00:49:28.000 What?

00:49:30.000 So you smashed homeless man?

00:49:32.000 No.

00:49:33.000 No, no, no.

00:49:33.000 Not like that.

00:49:35.000 No.

00:49:36.000 You were trying to say, were you saying something?

00:49:38.000 Yeah, so when you were saying that men need to work more than women to get a woman to like them, I think that's like forcing. 0.59

00:49:50.000 Just so it's clear, men have to work significantly harder to have mating options than women do. 0.99

00:49:55.000 So I think that's like forcing a connection.

00:49:57.000 What's for you is for you.

00:49:58.000 If a girl is for you, you're not going to have to work very hard to get with her.

00:50:04.000 Just stop forcing.

00:50:05.000 Also, if you're going to cheat on the girl, then you don't really like her.

00:50:10.000 When you find somebody who inspires you, who is the perfect person for you, you're not going to want to cheat on them.

00:50:17.000 So I feel like in the first place, that connection was forced.

00:50:20.000 Whether because you thought that woman was beautiful or because she just didn't really like you.

00:50:26.000 You couldn't get her.

00:50:28.000 So you worked very hard.

00:50:29.000 So now it's a forced connection.

00:50:30.000 So now you're going to cheat on her. 1.00

00:50:32.000 You're going to cheat her like shit. 1.00

00:50:34.000 Just stop forcing things. 1.00

00:50:36.000 So you're saying guys should just be themselves?

00:50:39.000 Yeah.

00:50:40.000 What makes an ugly person for you? 0.94

00:50:43.000 Like an ugly person for me? 0.63

00:50:44.000 So you think a guy should just be himself? 0.86

00:50:49.000 100%.

00:50:49.000 What makes you say that?

00:50:53.000 Because sooner or later I'm gonna get to know you as a person and if you're putting up a front and we don't end up connecting because you put up a front, what was the point of all of that?

00:51:08.000 Okay, let me ask you a question.

00:51:10.000 It's a Saturday night, okay?

00:51:11.000 Let's go into a dream scenario.

00:51:15.000 So, Saturday night in Miami, Drake, Lil Wayne, and a bunch of other top-tier artists are going to be appearing at Club Live in Miami Beach, right?

00:51:25.000 You want to get in.

00:51:27.000 But, what I'm telling you is, you cannot wear makeup, heels, a nice dress, you have to go there in sweatpants, no makeup, Gym gear, do you think you would have a chance of getting inside?

00:51:41.000 I actually look really good without makeup on and sweatpants.

00:51:46.000 I'm not being funny.

00:51:49.000 I mean, if you don't feel confident without makeup on.

00:51:53.000 No, that's not that I'm not confident, but realistically, you would not get into a club in Miami is the question.

00:51:56.000 Listen, you get outside, don't care.

00:51:58.000 You don't get inside and sweatpants.

00:52:01.000 It's Miami, Florida.

00:52:02.000 It's a Saturday night.

00:52:03.000 All the top artists are there.

00:52:05.000 Do you seriously think that you're going to get inside when we have some of the most attractive women coming here that live here and visiting here from different parts of the world? 0.99

00:52:11.000 Do you honestly think you're going to get in not dress appropriately without makeup on, extensions, and sneakers?

00:52:18.000 Do you seriously think you're going to get in?

00:52:19.000 So exactly why was I not allowed to wear makeup?

00:52:21.000 Please just answer the question.

00:52:23.000 Would you be allowed into the club?

00:52:24.000 Yes or no?

00:52:26.000 Sure, I wouldn't be allowed in the club.

00:52:27.000 Why would you not be allowed in the club?

00:52:29.000 Because you're not presenting yourself in the best light, correct?

00:52:32.000 Because Miami's superficial.

00:52:33.000 Fantastic.

00:52:34.000 That's not the point of the exercise here.

00:52:36.000 But the point I'm trying to demonstrate is you're not going to be let into a top-tier club with celebrities there when you're not looking your best and putting out a certain facade.

00:52:45.000 Men have to do the same thing. 0.93

00:52:47.000 It's just that it's socially acceptable for women to put up a facade from a look standpoint, enhance their looks, enhance their dressing, etc., to get in and put themselves in certain situations. 0.56

00:52:55.000 But if a man does it, oh, what are you doing, etc.? 0.79

00:52:58.000 What I've come to realize is women want to be able to have a monopoly on deception and being able to have the mystique. 1.00

00:53:04.000 But if a man does the same thing, it's a problem.

00:53:07.000 Because realistically speaking, if we're going to be honest here, women's entire presence and way that they deal with the opposite gender is based on deception. 1.00

00:53:15.000 Makeup, heels, extensions, nails, etc.

00:53:17.000 Very little about a woman is natural beauty in today's day and age. 0.99

00:53:21.000 Especially when you're competing at the highest levels for the highest value men in venues that are hyper-competitive.

00:53:26.000 I gave the club environment to show you an example where a woman has to compete. 1.00

00:53:29.000 But in general, men have to do this all the time outside of a club.

00:53:32.000 So do you realistically think a man can just be himself and get an attractive girl?

00:53:36.000 No.

00:53:37.000 They have to put a facade on to a degree.

00:53:38.000 And on top of that, they have to have some work beside the facade to stay attractive.

00:53:43.000 Okay, I agree with that.

00:53:45.000 You see my perspective?

00:53:46.000 So it's like everything is a facade to a degree.

00:53:49.000 It's just that when a man does it, women have a point of contention with it, which I find interesting. 0.95

00:53:52.000 Because everything about female nature is deceptive in practice. 1.00

00:53:55.000 We don't know when you guys have periods.

00:53:56.000 We don't know when you guys are in heat.

00:53:58.000 We don't know what you really look like beneath your makeup.

00:54:00.000 We don't really know what you look like without your waist trainer, etc.

00:54:03.000 Women have way more things that they use to augment the way that they look than men do. 1.00

00:54:07.000 You're telling me a guy, oh, just be yourself.

00:54:09.000 I mean, realistically speaking, it doesn't work because most guys don't have the same interests that are aligned with females.

00:54:14.000 Most guys want to play video games.

00:54:15.000 They might like sports.

00:54:16.000 They like doing things that are physical in nature.

00:54:18.000 Women typically aren't interested in these things in general. 1.00

00:54:21.000 Or some, for sure.

00:54:22.000 But in general, most aren't.

00:54:23.000 So, some of the worst advice we can give to a guy is be yourself.

00:54:26.000 When in reality, women aren't even themselves. 1.00

00:54:28.000 But that's a first impression type of thing.

00:54:31.000 Not when you're dating a person and y'all are like, that's a first impression type of thing.

00:54:35.000 Because if we're dating, you saw me without makeup.

00:54:37.000 You know my personality.

00:54:38.000 I should know your personality.

00:54:39.000 Like, if we're dating and we're already there, we should know each other.

00:54:43.000 It shouldn't be a...

00:54:44.000 But the original sale is what he's saying.

00:54:46.000 And I'm saying first impression.

00:54:47.000 But if we're talking about cheating, to be cheating, we have to be dating.

00:54:50.000 In order to be dating, I have to know who you are.

00:54:52.000 Right.

00:54:53.000 But you can agree people put on a facade for years.

00:54:56.000 I mean, to get a man and to get a woman, it is a facade. 0.99

00:55:00.000 Like, a woman can't just show you her emotions. 1.00

00:55:02.000 Yeah, but you're not going to care about my personality unless I present myself in a certain place in the first place.

00:55:07.000 So that's what I'm trying to say.

00:55:08.000 Well, women say stuff like personality, vibes, etc. 1.00

00:55:11.000 That's all a bunch of bullshit for be attractive to me in the first place where I even want to give you a chance. 0.97

00:55:16.000 Then I'll go ahead and get to know your personality. 0.99

00:55:19.000 But women dress up, be yourself and all this other stuff. 1.00

00:55:21.000 Realistically speaking, that's not honest advice.

00:55:26.000 I think it is.

00:55:28.000 First impression, I get what you're saying.

00:55:29.000 Because everyone has to put a mask.

00:55:31.000 No one's going to just show who they are.

00:55:32.000 First impression.

00:55:33.000 But I'm saying as far as when y'all are getting to know each other.

00:55:36.000 Yeah, you're trying to be serious.

00:55:36.000 Are you serious?

00:55:38.000 That person has to know who you are.

00:55:40.000 You can't keep a facade forever.

00:55:42.000 Because I'm pretty sure you're not about to date somebody and they don't know you and you don't feel comfortable with them.

00:55:46.000 Happens all the time.

00:55:47.000 Oh, that's interesting.

00:55:49.000 Happens to you too?

00:55:50.000 It hasn't happened to me.

00:55:52.000 Yeah, I haven't?

00:55:52.000 No.

00:55:53.000 I don't have one.

00:55:53.000 Where's your boyfriend?

00:55:54.000 You never have one?

00:55:55.000 I've never had one.

00:55:57.000 That's a red flag.

00:55:58.000 That's a red flag.

00:56:00.000 I'm a red flag.

00:56:03.000 I think the whole concept of women saying, just to bring it back full circle, oh, I want honesty, I want transparency. 1.00

00:56:11.000 It's not really that you want honesty or transparency.

00:56:13.000 You want it for your own self-interest of being able to make the best decision for yourself.

00:56:17.000 So if a guy says, hey, I want to go around and sleep with other women, you can go ahead and make the game time decision. 0.99

00:56:22.000 Okay.

00:56:24.000 Am I willing to accept cheating from this guy?

00:56:25.000 If the answer is no, you leave.

00:56:27.000 Find somebody else that's more willing to be monogamous to you. 1.00

00:56:29.000 If he is, then you'll be like, oh, you know what?

00:56:30.000 Maybe I'll stick around.

00:56:32.000 But the reality is women don't want transparent honesty because they like it. 1.00

00:56:35.000 They want it so that they can make the best decision for themselves, which is cool.

00:56:37.000 We're all human beings and self-interested and self-motivated for our own preservation.

00:56:41.000 But the fact that women say, oh, be honest and be transparent with me, for me, is a lie. 1.00

00:56:45.000 It's 100% for self-interest.

00:56:48.000 Go ahead.

00:56:49.000 But realistically, how can you build a meaningful bond with somebody if you're not vulnerable with them?

00:56:54.000 Like, eventually, at some point.

00:56:55.000 I think men should not be vulnerable with women. 0.93

00:56:57.000 I think that's the difference between the two genders, is being vulnerable with a woman as a man will set you up for failure. 0.96

00:56:57.000 Ever? 0.96

00:57:02.000 What?

00:57:03.000 I think it will get you guys closer together.

00:57:05.000 I think that's why it's inside rates for better high.

00:57:08.000 I mean...

00:57:09.000 Well, okay.

00:57:11.000 Let's see here.

00:57:12.000 A vulnerable man is attractive.

00:57:14.000 Yeah, you know what? 0.92

00:57:15.000 Yeah, we could go ahead and kill Twitch, Twitter, Facebook.

00:57:18.000 And I'll let the lady say their point. 0.98

00:57:20.000 Somebody was saying something about a vulnerable man is attractive.

00:57:22.000 Yes.

00:57:23.000 Okay, sure.

00:57:23.000 Why do you say that?

00:57:24.000 Because if you're able to open up and talk about your feelings, emotions, thoughts, inspiration, aspirations to me and share them with me, then, you know, I see that there is like more value in it and I would like to,

00:57:40.000 you know, to invest in it too.

00:57:42.000 Question, when is the right time to do that though?

00:57:44.000 For a man.

00:57:45.000 For a man, well, you guys, you have instincts.

00:57:50.000 You can use them too.

00:57:51.000 You can tell when a woman is ready to hold space for you and be able to be there. 1.00

00:57:58.000 Give us a sign.

00:57:59.000 Just tell us when we should maybe do it.

00:58:03.000 I guess when you have a meaningful conversation with each other, maybe it's a time to open up a little bit.

00:58:13.000 Is it when you decide to be just exclusive?

00:58:17.000 Is that when?

00:58:18.000 No, not necessarily.

00:58:20.000 Do you still say, okay, I'm going to be exclusive with just you?

00:58:25.000 And then, like, open up.

00:58:28.000 I don't think it has to be like that.

00:58:31.000 Like, listen, you gotta feel the vibe.

00:58:33.000 You can't, like...

00:58:34.000 See, here's the problem, right?

00:58:35.000 Us as guys, we don't know when it's the right time.

00:58:38.000 It could be the wrong time the whole time.

00:58:40.000 I'm just saying, as a guy, why would I put myself in that situation when I don't know the outcome of it?

00:58:44.000 It's like, okay.

00:58:45.000 Because you guys do that all the time.

00:58:47.000 What do you mean?

00:58:48.000 You guys put yourself in situations that you don't know what the outcome of it.

00:58:51.000 This is a masculine trait.

00:58:54.000 When it comes to dating, right, with you, let's say I want to be with you long term, and then I open up to you, you say, oh, that's kind of cringe.

00:59:00.000 It's kind of weird.

00:59:01.000 But I don't know when it's the right time.

00:59:02.000 Why even risk it?

00:59:05.000 Well, you'll never know if you never risk it.

00:59:07.000 And guess what happens to it?

00:59:08.000 If I never do it, I'm still good.

00:59:11.000 Yes, you're still good, but then you'll never have the opportunity of experiencing true love and deep bond and something that is meaningful.

00:59:19.000 You have to take the chance of getting hurt and open up.

00:59:23.000 Getting hurt?

00:59:23.000 So getting hurt and true lover are synonymous?

00:59:28.000 No, but that's what he presented to as like, oh, if I'm not going to open up, then I'll protect myself.

00:59:34.000 Then I'm not going to...

00:59:35.000 It's just...

00:59:38.000 You know, I'm not going to be giving up too much of myself and I'm not going to be sharing.

00:59:43.000 So it means that, like, I can walk away and, you know.

00:59:46.000 So you're saying basically, in a nutshell, being vulnerable opens you up to, you know, emotions and a deeper connection with an individual.

00:59:54.000 Yeah.

00:59:55.000 Getting to know them better.

00:59:57.000 Would it be fair to say that that's how women build an emotional connection versus men? 0.97

01:00:02.000 It might be a little bit different.

01:00:03.000 We might not necessarily need the same level of emotional connection through vulnerability that women do. 1.00

01:00:08.000 Absolutely.

01:00:08.000 We're built different.

01:00:09.000 Stop right there.

01:00:11.000 We're built different.

01:00:12.000 You said that from the female perspective. 1.00

01:00:14.000 Yeah.

01:00:14.000 I told you from the male perspective, it doesn't operate that way.

01:00:17.000 Because you're speaking from a limited perspective as a woman, not from a man.

01:00:21.000 You're saying what you would like to be able to do, etc.

01:00:24.000 And you're hoping that it's a mirror image on the male side.

01:00:27.000 Scientifically, we're different.

01:00:29.000 Okay.

01:00:30.000 So, it doesn't matter the perspective.

01:00:33.000 It's just proven.

01:00:34.000 No, it absolutely matters the perspective because you're giving a female perspective on how vulnerability enhances emotions and a deeper connection. 1.00

01:00:40.000 But what I'm saying, for a man, it might not necessarily be that way.

01:00:43.000 For a woman, it is. 0.96

01:00:44.000 But not for a man.

01:00:45.000 So you're telling me a man doesn't want to be heard?

01:00:49.000 A man doesn't want to feel like someone cares about him?

01:00:52.000 A man doesn't want to put his head on someone's shoulder when he's going through hard times?

01:01:00.000 What you're saying is being able to put a hat on a shoulder and be vulnerable, etc.

01:01:04.000 Though a woman is capable of providing that comfort, I think a safer way to go about getting that comfort and being vulnerable is through another man who experiences the same issues and problems and dilemmas that you do from the male experience.

01:01:17.000 Because you just admitted by yourself That men and women are different and we experience different problems based on our gender.

01:01:23.000 So wouldn't it be kind of foolish for me to go ahead and provide my masculine problems to an individual who's not qualified to handle my masculine problems?

01:01:31.000 And as a matter of fact, that individual is relying on me to be a leader, to be dominant, to take her through life.

01:01:36.000 And then I'm going ahead and showing vulnerability and I'm not really sure where we stand right now.

01:01:40.000 I would argue it's better for the guy to go to a man that understands his perspective versus a woman who doesn't understand that perspective. 0.98

01:01:46.000 What you just described of being vulnerable and being able to connect on a deep and emotional level, that's a female way of falling in love. 1.00

01:01:53.000 Men typically don't fall in love like that.

01:01:54.000 Men love women for acts of service. 0.97

01:01:56.000 Men love women that are submissive, that fall in line, that don't give them a headache, that give them peace.

01:02:01.000 I think women want to be able to open up to their man and get that stability. 1.00

01:02:04.000 But for men to open up to a woman, she's not necessarily capable of the same stability because men and women aren't the same and women aren't leaders. 0.98

01:02:10.000 So I would say it's probably going to lead to self-destruction opening up to your woman because women aren't built to lead men and be stoic and emotional rocks in times of turmoil. 1.00

01:02:19.000 But you opening up to a woman doesn't mean that you give up your leadership.

01:02:19.000 Facts.

01:02:25.000 Yeah, but what you're doing is you're forfeiting it for a period of time.

01:02:28.000 And every woman has different levels of acceptance of you terminating that leadership. 0.99

01:02:33.000 So, for example, some women might be able to tolerate you being a pussy and saying, I don't know where we stand right now. 1.00

01:02:37.000 Oh, my God. 1.00

01:02:38.000 But other women might be cutthroat and be like, what the fuck? 1.00

01:02:40.000 You're soft. 1.00

01:02:41.000 No, I'm good.

01:02:42.000 And they'll get turned off by that.

01:02:43.000 So why take the risk?

01:02:45.000 Because you should know who you're with.

01:02:46.000 It shouldn't be a risk if you know who you're with.

01:02:48.000 So it's a risk.

01:02:50.000 Okay, but the thing is, is that you won't know unless you open up.

01:02:54.000 For example, right?

01:02:55.000 They've done studies on this and they've seen, like, women react to this. 0.96

01:02:59.000 Women that are typically in relationships with guys that are fighters, right? 0.99

01:03:02.000 They like the guy, they're attracted to him because he's a fighter, etc.

01:03:05.000 But if they go to one of his fights and they watch him get beat up, a lot of women have lost attraction to their man by watching him get beat up. 0.60

01:03:11.000 It's a visceral, carnal thing. 0.90

01:03:16.000 What he's effectively establishing right in front of you, even though he's fighting another professional fighter, is he might not be capable of protecting you, and that triggers certain things in your mind, in your monkey brain.

01:03:27.000 This guy's not a protector.

01:03:27.000 Whoa!

01:03:29.000 Can you still provide for me?

01:03:30.000 Blah, blah, blah.

01:03:31.000 Women lose attraction for men. 0.75

01:03:32.000 So what I'm saying is that just in a way that women can lose attraction within an instant of watching their man get beat up, they can also lose attraction within an instant of him crying and trying to get consolation from her.

01:03:43.000 You won't know until it happens, is my argument.

01:03:45.000 Does that make sense?

01:03:46.000 No, it makes sense.

01:03:47.000 You have some?

01:03:48.000 I don't think we should look at that as a weakness when a man opens up.

01:03:52.000 As a man, you should only open up to somebody you feel comfortable with.

01:03:55.000 So if you don't know where you stand with your woman, obviously you should not be opening up to her. 0.99

01:03:59.000 Let's rewind real quick.

01:04:00.000 What did you say a second ago?

01:04:01.000 You said women should, right? 0.80

01:04:04.000 Not look at it that way?

01:04:06.000 We should.

01:04:06.000 I said women and men.

01:04:09.000 I feel like men see opening up and being vulnerable as a weakness.

01:04:14.000 But I see it as a sign of strength because I know that for men it's hard to open up.

01:04:20.000 But you used a key word earlier.

01:04:21.000 You said should.

01:04:22.000 Should what?

01:04:24.000 And you said we shouldn't look at it like that.

01:04:27.000 I wish it wasn't like that.

01:04:27.000 And I agree.

01:04:29.000 But, you know, I tend to operate in reality and should isn't necessarily a word in reality.

01:04:33.000 Women typically tend to look down on men that look to them for some type, that are vulnerable with them on a consistent basis.

01:04:40.000 I don't know women who look down on that. 1.00

01:04:43.000 I feel like in my circles, women see that as a sign of strength because that means you're emotionally intelligent. 1.00

01:04:54.000 I'm curious.

01:04:56.000 This is the problem that I've come to realize with women talking about this. 1.00

01:05:02.000 Y'all want vulnerability on your terms.

01:05:05.000 And what I'm trying to argue is that vulnerability doesn't come on terms.

01:05:08.000 It's not like it's an agreement.

01:05:10.000 Okay, you can be vulnerable Monday, Tuesdays, and Thursdays, okay?

01:05:13.000 For five minutes at a time, et cetera.

01:05:15.000 You guys are saying it if it comes in certain terms.

01:05:17.000 The problem with vulnerability and emotional volatility and hard times, et cetera, is it comes in spurts and it could be nice and sunny one second and then raining, pouring another second.

01:05:27.000 And there's no necessary terms.

01:05:29.000 When it comes, it's raw.

01:05:30.000 You don't know how you're going to react to it.

01:05:32.000 It might lead to, you know, a visceral, carnal emotion that you might not...

01:05:36.000 Oh my God, I'm watching my guy give you the...

01:05:37.000 What the hell's going on here?

01:05:38.000 And then you lose traction for him, right?

01:05:40.000 So it's very different.

01:05:41.000 So you guys are saying, oh, it shouldn't be that way.

01:05:43.000 And this doesn't make sense.

01:05:45.000 You should be able to open up to your girl and be vulnerable.

01:05:47.000 The problem is that when it does come, it's not going to come the way that you expect it.

01:05:50.000 Like, baby, I had...

01:05:51.000 Tough time at work.

01:05:52.000 But you know what?

01:05:52.000 I fixed the problem.

01:05:53.000 No! 1.00

01:05:53.000 He might come home sobbing like a little bitch. 1.00

01:05:55.000 He might be like coming back with a black eye. 1.00

01:05:57.000 You don't know what the hell happened. 0.90

01:05:58.000 It's going to come and rear its ugly head when you're least expecting it.

01:06:01.000 And it could come in a dark time.

01:06:02.000 Maybe I didn't make the bills for a month or two.

01:06:04.000 And you guys are in a bad spot.

01:06:05.000 Then he comes home crying, etc.

01:06:06.000 It's never going to come in an optimal situation that women typically think. 1.00

01:06:10.000 It's going to come in a terrible time where it isn't optimal for either one of you.

01:06:13.000 Do you really want to sit there and have to console a man that's responsible for protecting and providing and leading you? 0.99

01:06:17.000 That sounds like a bitch? 1.00

01:06:18.000 No. 1.00

01:06:19.000 See, you could say, yes, I'd be able to do it. 0.99

01:06:21.000 It doesn't sound like a bitch to me. 0.99

01:06:22.000 Okay, fantastic. 0.98

01:06:23.000 I never...

01:06:23.000 You might think that, but a majority of women will have a point of contention with that.

01:06:27.000 That's my argument.

01:06:29.000 Yeah, I'm actually curious.

01:06:30.000 Has a guy ever been vulnerable with you?

01:06:33.000 Yes, I've had men crying in front of me before.

01:06:37.000 Where are they now?

01:06:39.000 Living their best life.

01:06:41.000 But you're not there.

01:06:42.000 But that didn't make me respect them less.

01:06:44.000 Not the cow.

01:06:45.000 So it made you respect them more?

01:06:47.000 Yes.

01:06:48.000 Not the cow.

01:06:49.000 I promise.

01:06:49.000 Then why aren't you with them?

01:06:51.000 For other reasons.

01:06:52.000 Not having anything to do with that.

01:06:55.000 Who broke up with who?

01:07:01.000 I mean, I always ended all of my relationships.

01:07:04.000 But I'll tell you right now that I got cheated on.

01:07:08.000 So it wasn't me who lost respect for this person and went and found a new man who is more masculine and doesn't cry.

01:07:17.000 One time, I was having this experience with this guy.

01:07:21.000 He works in a studio and he was like, I'm celibate.

01:07:24.000 I don't have sex. 1.00

01:07:25.000 I just want to have sex with you. 1.00

01:07:27.000 And I'm like, I don't like that. 1.00

01:07:28.000 I think that's weird.

01:07:29.000 Wait, wait, but that's not all.

01:07:31.000 He was like, oh no, I just got into a fight in the studio and I was fighting, you know.

01:07:36.000 And for me, that was a turnoff that the guy was fighting.

01:07:40.000 I didn't like him after that, because I think that if he holds himself and he's like, you don't fight, I think fighting is bad, you know?

01:07:49.000 That's why I like the video that Myron posted.

01:07:53.000 Like, he didn't even touch the girl, and that was good.

01:07:56.000 Oh, on Instagram.

01:07:57.000 Yeah.

01:07:58.000 Going back to you, would it be fair to say that him being vulnerable might have been a symptom of a greater issue?

01:08:09.000 For you, because you said you broke up with him, and that wasn't necessarily the main reason, but you said that wasn't the main reason you broke up with him, it was because of other things, but wouldn't it be fair to say that that might have been a symptom of a greater issue as to why you broke up with him in general?

01:08:23.000 Because typically when men are vulnerable, right, and soft with women, they have a bunch of other issues with their masculinity that also tie into their vulnerability.

01:08:34.000 So, I've had about three boyfriends and they all cried in front of me.

01:08:39.000 So, it's not a specific situation that I'm talking about.

01:08:42.000 We broke up for different reasons.

01:08:43.000 What was the reason?

01:08:44.000 They all cried in front of you?

01:08:46.000 We were close.

01:08:48.000 Like, when you're close with somebody, it's okay.

01:08:50.000 It's okay.

01:08:51.000 When people go through things, it's okay to cry.

01:08:53.000 What did I cry about?

01:08:55.000 Does it matter right now?

01:08:57.000 It does matter.

01:08:58.000 Like childhood trauma, family situations, like dark family situations.

01:09:05.000 Okay.

01:09:05.000 What made you break up with them?

01:09:08.000 Like I said, it was multiple situations.

01:09:11.000 We broke up for different reasons.

01:09:13.000 Like I said, I got cheated on.

01:09:14.000 Okay, one cheated on.

01:09:16.000 And then what was the other two that were the deal breaker?

01:09:20.000 Okay, we had like a violent situation.

01:09:24.000 He hit you?

01:09:25.000 No, I hit him.

01:09:26.000 Well, we hit each other. 1.00

01:09:28.000 Because it was a bitch. 1.00

01:09:38.000 His dog hit him, so that's why he hit me. 1.00

01:09:41.000 What the fuck? 1.00

01:09:42.000 His what? 1.00

01:09:43.000 It's just an example.

01:09:44.000 His dog hit him.

01:09:46.000 His dog?

01:09:47.000 Yeah, he has a trauma. 0.84

01:09:48.000 Like, he's gonna hit you.

01:09:49.000 Because he got hit or something? 1.00

01:09:51.000 Shut up, bitch! 1.00

01:09:53.000 No, no, she hit him. 1.00

01:09:56.000 Exactly.

01:09:56.000 Did he hit you back, too?

01:09:58.000 Or no?

01:09:59.000 No, no, no.

01:09:59.000 Okay, you hit him.

01:10:00.000 Okay.

01:10:00.000 What is the third reason?

01:10:05.000 So one guy's on you.

01:10:06.000 One guy, you're beating him up.

01:10:08.000 And then the third guy...

01:10:11.000 The third guy...

01:10:13.000 Well, she's Russian, so I mean... 0.95

01:10:14.000 I honestly don't remember.

01:10:15.000 It was something petty, also.

01:10:16.000 I don't remember.

01:10:18.000 I just find it funny that they all cried in front of you, and then eventually you broke up with them for another reason or whatever.

01:10:25.000 It doesn't really matter.

01:10:25.000 But you all broke up with all three of them.

01:10:26.000 And you hit them.

01:10:27.000 And you hit them, too.

01:10:29.000 Listen, things happen.

01:10:31.000 I was, like, I was 19.

01:10:33.000 Can I answer your question?

01:10:34.000 There's a short pattern of, like, bad, like...

01:10:45.000 Wow.

01:10:46.000 Bro.

01:10:46.000 Did your dad ever cry in front of you?

01:10:49.000 I actually don't have a relationship with my father.

01:10:52.000 I mean, I've seen my dad cry, but, like, my grandma passed away.

01:10:55.000 Emotional damage!

01:10:56.000 Like, a death is different.

01:10:57.000 Like, my man, he's cried, like, his best friend passed away, like, the day of his, like, game.

01:11:01.000 Like, so that was different.

01:11:02.000 Like, I feel like a death, like, is understandable. 0.99

01:11:04.000 But, like, my man also told me if he's ever going through shit, he would never let me know because it's his job as a man to just get through the shit. 0.99

01:11:10.000 So it's like... 0.99

01:11:12.000 But don't you want to be that person for your man?

01:11:15.000 No, I am that person for him.

01:11:16.000 If he wants to come and talk to me, he can.

01:11:18.000 That person who hits him?

01:11:19.000 I don't hit him.

01:11:20.000 I would never hit him.

01:11:22.000 I think this is another perfect example of wanting to be transparent when it comes to cheating and having other women. 0.99

01:11:26.000 Women want you to be transparent with your emotions, once again, for self-interest, to be able to establish if you're really that guy, if you're a tough guy, you can lead me, etc. 1.00

01:11:34.000 And if you are sitting there crying in the back of her mind, she's like, I got you right now, but man, if we ever get in a fight or if I ever want to break up with you, man, you are a bitch. 1.00

01:11:41.000 I could leave you. 1.00

01:11:43.000 You definitely felt like he was a bitch for you to hit him, because if you didn't feel like that about him, you would never lay the hand on him. 0.99

01:11:48.000 I promise you. 0.99

01:11:49.000 Every guy I've ever been with, there's only one guy I was ever with, and I did put my hands on him.

01:11:54.000 No, I was 17, but guess what? 1.00

01:11:56.000 I did think he was a bitch. 1.00

01:11:57.000 Well, I actually know her personally, and she's actually like, I don't think you have to be a bitch. 1.00

01:12:01.000 If she, her ankles get it. 1.00

01:12:03.000 No cap.

01:12:04.000 No cap.

01:12:04.000 If her anger does get hurt, like, if her muscles get the better of her, she will put her hands on you.

01:12:08.000 That's a problem.

01:12:09.000 Yeah, that's a problem with me.

01:12:11.000 It's not a problem with the person. 0.96

01:12:12.000 But if it was a guy that you knew for a fact would deck the shit out of you, you would not put your hands on me. 0.86

01:12:17.000 You wouldn't do it. 0.98

01:12:18.000 You would not do it.

01:12:19.000 If he was 6'6", 250, you're gonna...

01:12:21.000 I'm 27.

01:12:22.000 I don't do things like that anymore.

01:12:23.000 But I'm saying, if he was 6'6", 250, you would never do it in the first place.

01:12:27.000 Maybe you're right.

01:12:28.000 But I take responsibility for that. 1.00

01:12:31.000 I don't want to call this person a bitch and that's why I hate him. 1.00

01:12:35.000 But I think the problem was with me. 0.98

01:12:39.000 Because I didn't know how to express my feelings.

01:12:42.000 I think that's even more reason to not open up to you and be vulnerable.

01:12:45.000 They might get punched.

01:12:48.000 We can conclude.

01:12:49.000 You know what I mean?

01:12:50.000 And here's the thing, too.

01:12:52.000 You made an argument earlier, I wrote this down, that women can be both masculine and feminine.

01:12:57.000 When women are, you know, selectively choosing when they want to be feminine and masculine, etc., that means as a man you have to be hyper-masculine. 0.92

01:13:04.000 And being vulnerable is probably one of the softest and pussiest things you can do.

01:13:08.000 It's a feminine characteristic to open up to females, in my eyes. 0.92

01:13:11.000 So I don't think...

01:13:12.000 Especially with a female like you that kind of picks and chooses when they want to be a lady or masculine. 1.00

01:13:16.000 I would say it's even more dangerous for them to be vulnerable with a female like you. 1.00

01:13:20.000 I disagree.

01:13:21.000 Why do you disagree?

01:13:24.000 Would your prior relationships not kind of prove my point?

01:13:26.000 Because actions speak louder than words?

01:13:28.000 That you punish every guy that's been vulnerable with you?

01:13:30.000 So I've learned a lot from my previous relationships.

01:13:33.000 I'm not proud of the mistakes that I made in those relationships.

01:13:36.000 So I... Wouldn't judge what happened in those relationships and make conclusions about what I think of things right now.

01:13:46.000 I mean, you're saying it's okay for men to be vulnerable with you, but the record shows that every man that's been vulnerable with you has suffered a consequence of losing you.

01:13:55.000 Or a black eye.

01:13:56.000 Not because they were vulnerable with me.

01:13:58.000 But that's what I said before.

01:14:00.000 I think that was a symptom of a greater issue.

01:14:04.000 Probably.

01:14:05.000 Probably.

01:14:05.000 Alright.

01:14:07.000 Just to point out stuff, did anybody else have anything that they wanted to say in this discussion?

01:14:12.000 Kind of went into a whole other thing there.

01:14:14.000 Tangent, yeah.

01:14:16.000 Guys, we got about a 20,000-hour watch right now between Rumble and YouTube, so real quick, do me a favor.

01:14:21.000 Like the video if you haven't already on YouTube, and then also open up a tab and watch us on YouTube as well.

01:14:26.000 And I'm going to go ahead and go 50 and up from here forward, and I want to get into my questions here.

01:14:34.000 Chris, do we have more?

01:14:35.000 Yeah, from before.

01:14:36.000 Okay.

01:14:37.000 Let me ask this question first, and then we'll go to the chats.

01:14:40.000 All right.

01:14:43.000 Speaking on the topic that we talked about, would you ladies agree that modern day men are soft and not leaders or masculine as they used to be?

01:14:54.000 We can start here and then work our way.

01:14:56.000 As a majority, I would say yes.

01:14:58.000 As a majority?

01:14:58.000 As a majority, yes.

01:14:59.000 So you would agree?

01:15:00.000 Yes.

01:15:00.000 You've been here longer than most people.

01:15:03.000 Thanks.

01:15:05.000 Have you seen men change over a period of time from what it used to be to now?

01:15:10.000 Absolutely.

01:15:11.000 Absolutely.

01:15:11.000 Give us an example if you don't mind.

01:15:13.000 Okay, so just even our male role models that are out there right now, right?

01:15:20.000 Like, it used to be sports figures, and it used to be like...

01:15:23.000 Arnold Schwarzenegger.

01:15:24.000 Exactly.

01:15:25.000 Sylvester Stallone.

01:15:26.000 And now it's...

01:15:28.000 Now it's...

01:15:30.000 Well, it used to be, yes.

01:15:32.000 But now it's...

01:15:34.000 New Age Spider-Man.

01:15:36.000 What else?

01:15:38.000 Weaker, just in general, as a physical being, smaller men, just as overall presence.

01:15:47.000 They have more feminine characteristics. 1.00

01:15:48.000 They move.

01:15:50.000 They speak softer.

01:15:52.000 There's just not that masculinity that there used to be in the, I would even say, the 90s or 2000s.

01:15:58.000 So you've seen a general feminization of men?

01:16:00.000 Of men, yes.

01:16:01.000 In modern culture and in real life?

01:16:03.000 100%.

01:16:04.000 And I've also seen the opposite true in masculinity and feminism. 1.00

01:16:09.000 Okay, so that feminization that's occurred in men, you've seen it on the opposite spectrum?

01:16:13.000 On the opposite side.

01:16:14.000 Of women being more masculinized? 0.54

01:16:15.000 100%, yes.

01:16:16.000 Interesting. 0.99

01:16:17.000 I mean, shit, look at Dwyane Wade. 0.99

01:16:19.000 Yeah, good example. 1.00

01:16:20.000 What about you?

01:16:21.000 Do you think that men are soft and no longer masculine and or leaders?

01:16:28.000 I think, like she said, for the majority, yes, for sure.

01:16:31.000 I definitely agree with the whole, like, a lot of women are a lot more masculine now, but yet, yeah. 0.99

01:16:40.000 Okay.

01:16:40.000 Would you say a contributing factor to women being more masculine is the feminization of men?

01:16:47.000 Yeah.

01:16:48.000 Okay.

01:16:49.000 Weaker men create stronger women? 1.00

01:16:51.000 Yeah, somebody has to step up.

01:16:51.000 Okay.

01:16:53.000 Okay.

01:16:53.000 What about you?

01:16:54.000 What do you think?

01:16:55.000 I don't think men are less masculine.

01:16:57.000 I think men are less gentlemen.

01:17:00.000 And I think for me, it's a big part of being masculine.

01:17:04.000 But a lot of people don't see that as being masculine.

01:17:07.000 You kind of just contradicted yourself.

01:17:08.000 So hold on.

01:17:09.000 I'm sorry, one more thing.

01:17:11.000 So on one hand, you said that men are not less masculine, but they're less gentlemen.

01:17:15.000 Then you went and followed that up by saying they're not chivalrous.

01:17:20.000 But you're saying chivalry is a part of masculinity.

01:17:22.000 So which one is it?

01:17:23.000 So to clarify, I think the masculine traits that you're talking about are toxic masculinity.

01:17:30.000 Can you describe it specifically so I understand?

01:17:33.000 Yeah, what does that mean?

01:17:34.000 Like aggression.

01:17:36.000 That's a toxic masculine trait.

01:17:39.000 I feel like there's not enough of the gentleman masculine traits.

01:17:44.000 I feel like men don't do those things anymore.

01:17:47.000 But they definitely still do the toxic masculine traits, like try to get a lot of women and, you know, just being aggressive.

01:17:57.000 So you thought he meant he was talking about aggression?

01:18:00.000 Well, I'm asking, do you think men are less masculine now than before?

01:18:04.000 So you're saying that they are less masculine than before?

01:18:08.000 I'm trying to...

01:18:10.000 Let's go with they are less masculine.

01:18:16.000 And you're saying it's because they're more aggressive and what was the other term?

01:18:22.000 They're just not gentlemen anymore.

01:18:24.000 No more chivalry.

01:18:25.000 I don't think we're talking about that part.

01:18:28.000 You know what's crazy?

01:18:29.000 Back in the day, were women more masculine or feminine back in the day? 1.00

01:18:34.000 Feminine.

01:18:35.000 So nowadays, what are women? 1.00

01:18:37.000 Mainly.

01:18:38.000 Masculine, right?

01:18:40.000 So do they deserve chivalry at this point?

01:18:42.000 Of course.

01:18:43.000 Really?

01:18:43.000 I feel like when a man provides a safe space for a woman to be feminine, a woman is more feminine.

01:18:49.000 So by default, you're masculine. 0.58

01:18:51.000 So that means you should not front me.

01:18:53.000 Showverse, if you're masculine.

01:18:55.000 You should always come off as feminine at first. 1.00

01:18:58.000 I feel like not straight masculine energy when you first meet somebody. 0.99

01:19:02.000 Because if I meet you as a guy and you're masculine as fuck, I'm not going to treat you like you deserve feminine energy, like you deserve chivalry. 0.98

01:19:10.000 I'm going to treat you like the masculine guy that you want to be. 0.99

01:19:13.000 You answered it to yourself earlier.

01:19:14.000 I feel like the definitions of masculine and feminine have changed.

01:19:19.000 Really?

01:19:20.000 I feel like certain things that were considered strictly masculine are also feminine right now.

01:19:27.000 Like?

01:19:28.000 Like women being independent and strong and taking care of themselves and having a voice, doing sports, things like that. 0.98

01:19:37.000 You think being strong and independent is masculine?

01:19:39.000 You think that?

01:19:40.000 How do you know he thinks that?

01:19:42.000 You didn't say that.

01:19:44.000 I'm asking you.

01:19:45.000 So you think it's more masculine?

01:19:48.000 I don't think so.

01:19:48.000 Being strong and independent?

01:19:49.000 I don't think so.

01:19:50.000 Just as I don't think that being vulnerable is strictly feminine.

01:19:55.000 I don't think that's a feminine quality.

01:19:59.000 I feel like we decide for themselves what we think is feminine and masculine.

01:20:04.000 So you write your own meanings for words now?

01:20:07.000 Sure.

01:20:08.000 I just don't think it's black and white.

01:20:13.000 Masculinity and femininity are not black and white.

01:20:16.000 And they're in a dictionary for a reason, right?

01:20:18.000 So obviously there's a meaning behind each word, but you're changing that definition yourself.

01:20:22.000 Not myself.

01:20:24.000 The way things have been going and things have been progressing, those definitions have changed.

01:20:28.000 They need to update the vocabulary.

01:20:32.000 The point is that just because the world's changing in that direction doesn't mean it's true.

01:20:37.000 It is true, they need to change the vocabulary.

01:20:39.000 No, no, but again, think for yourself.

01:20:42.000 Does that make sense?

01:20:44.000 Does what make sense?

01:20:45.000 If the world's saying, this guy's green, but you know it's blue...

01:20:50.000 Is it changing into blue-green?

01:20:54.000 You lost, man.

01:20:56.000 You lost.

01:20:56.000 I mean, just in general.

01:21:00.000 So you're saying that men are less masculine now.

01:21:05.000 I honestly...

01:21:05.000 And you're saying that as a biopilot, they're less chivalrous.

01:21:10.000 They're less masculine, and you're saying they're less chivalrous.

01:21:12.000 Which I guess kind of go hand in hand, but...

01:21:14.000 Is that what you're saying?

01:21:16.000 That's not exactly what I'm saying.

01:21:17.000 Then clarify for me, then.

01:21:19.000 Because you kind of gave...

01:21:21.000 I just feel like, to summarize, I just feel like the definitions have changed of masculine and feminine.

01:21:26.000 So I can't say that men are less masculine and women are more masculine.

01:21:33.000 Can you define masculinity and femininity?

01:21:37.000 Because I think that...

01:21:39.000 You really can't.

01:21:39.000 That's the point.

01:21:40.000 Like, it's fluid.

01:21:41.000 No, no, it's not.

01:21:42.000 Like, it's in the dictionary.

01:21:43.000 What does it say in the dictionary?

01:21:44.000 Let's be politically correct.

01:21:45.000 What is water?

01:21:47.000 What is a woman? 1.00

01:21:49.000 It's not an abstract word.

01:21:51.000 But in the dictionary, it's a word.

01:21:52.000 What does it say in the dictionary?

01:21:55.000 I don't have a dictionary.

01:21:57.000 Maybe you should get the dictionary to read it.

01:22:00.000 We'll come back to you and you can have something put together and answer.

01:22:03.000 What about you?

01:22:04.000 Would you agree that men are soft and not as masculine as they used to be?

01:22:08.000 Yes.

01:22:11.000 Why so?

01:22:13.000 I just think that with like I'm trying to think of it.

01:22:18.000 I don't want to say...

01:22:19.000 It was a war that created like...

01:22:23.000 Whatever.

01:22:24.000 I just think that world events happened, which created women to be more masculine, and then which made men more feminine, because women had to take on roles. 0.52

01:22:34.000 Would you say feminism was that world thing? 1.00

01:22:37.000 I think that it was more so women having to work because men had to go out in the war.

01:22:42.000 And I do feel like feminine does play a part, but I feel like feminism... 1.00

01:22:45.000 Do you think women had to work or they wanted to? 1.00

01:22:48.000 They had to.

01:22:49.000 Women were... 1.00

01:22:51.000 I gotta think of the...

01:22:52.000 I have to say the war so I can bring up facts and we're not just talking based off opinion, but there was a war.

01:22:58.000 I don't want to say the...

01:22:59.000 I want to say World War II. I was going to say...

01:23:01.000 Okay, yeah, World War II. So they didn't have to go to work?

01:23:05.000 I'm asking.

01:23:06.000 Well, no, I think women want... 1.00

01:23:08.000 No, they had to because the man had to go to war.

01:23:11.000 Women wanted to work. 1.00

01:23:11.000 We were fighting for our rights to work. 1.00

01:23:13.000 No, feminism was after that. 1.00

01:23:15.000 Yeah, in the 60s.

01:23:16.000 So I'm talking about the war.

01:23:18.000 So you're saying that...

01:23:20.000 Men becoming more feminine started back in World War II? I'm saying that it started from there. 0.85

01:23:28.000 I feel like when women had to go into the workplace and had to get jobs, that's what sparked the feminism movement, I believe.

01:23:38.000 I'm a PhD.

01:23:41.000 Okay, so I'll just say that you think that they're less masculine because women stepped up and worked more. 0.97

01:23:46.000 I think they're less masculine.

01:23:48.000 I mean, I don't agree with that.

01:23:51.000 So you think that it's...

01:23:53.000 I mean, like, I remember when I was, like, 17, I wanted to work.

01:23:56.000 I got two jobs because I wanted to work.

01:23:58.000 That doesn't mean, like, that makes men...

01:24:00.000 No, but I'm not talking about you choosing to want to work.

01:24:02.000 Because I'm a very feminine woman, but I always have had a job.

01:24:06.000 I'm saying, back in that time, in the 60s, women had... 1.00

01:24:10.000 So because you have...

01:24:10.000 I feel like that's where it started.

01:24:11.000 Because women had to go to work. 1.00

01:24:13.000 Because they had to help their man.

01:24:14.000 That made their man less masculine.

01:24:17.000 No, that didn't make their man less masculine, but since women had to take on the roles, because at that time, women weren't working. 1.00

01:24:22.000 So it was men going to provide for the family, and that was just a thing. 0.89

01:24:25.000 And that was just a family construct.

01:24:27.000 But men were at war while the women were working.

01:24:29.000 And then men had to go to war, and then the women started working. 0.99

01:24:32.000 Yeah, because someone had...

01:24:33.000 Exactly.

01:24:34.000 That doesn't make you less masculine.

01:24:36.000 And then that's what sparked the feminist movement, and that's what made, like... 1.00

01:24:41.000 I mean, World War II was the 40s.

01:24:44.000 Oh, it wasn't the 60s?

01:24:45.000 Oh, my bad.

01:24:45.000 It was the 40s.

01:24:46.000 No, my bad.

01:24:48.000 My bad.

01:24:50.000 Education doesn't make you smart.

01:24:52.000 No, but actually, education doesn't make you smart.

01:24:55.000 I learned that way back.

01:24:57.000 No, not at the time, but that was something I did on my own reading just because I wanted to learn it, not because the school system taught me.

01:25:05.000 Wrong book.

01:25:05.000 Yeah, I do read, actually.

01:25:07.000 Kind of hurt.

01:25:11.000 So I guess in general, I mean, so that we don't get...

01:25:15.000 But even then, too, I said, like, because I don't like to speak on things that are not necessarily facts.

01:25:20.000 So I did say I didn't know what the word was called.

01:25:22.000 And my timing is off, yes, but I do believe...

01:25:25.000 For two decades.

01:25:26.000 Oh, sorry.

01:25:26.000 But it was off, and I'll admit that.

01:25:28.000 But I do believe that sparked one part of it, and then another part was sparked, like, with the feminist movement.

01:25:35.000 Okay.

01:25:36.000 What about you?

01:25:36.000 Do you think men are less masculine than they used to be?

01:25:40.000 In general, yes, I do.

01:25:43.000 Would you say this is both in the United States and in Israel, or just the United States problem?

01:25:47.000 Oh, that's a hard question.

01:25:49.000 I don't know, because I haven't been living in Israel for nine years, so it's hard to say.

01:25:54.000 When you were there, were the men less masculine?

01:25:58.000 No.

01:25:59.000 No.

01:26:00.000 Okay.

01:26:00.000 But you don't know what it would be like going back now?

01:26:02.000 Because, I mean, obviously a lot can change in almost a decade, right?

01:26:05.000 Okay.

01:26:06.000 But, alright.

01:26:06.000 So, in general, yes.

01:26:07.000 Okay, what about you?

01:26:08.000 Do you think men are less masculine nowadays? 1.00

01:26:11.000 Men are more pussies these days. 1.00

01:26:14.000 And they used to be more masculine. 1.00

01:26:17.000 Before?

01:26:18.000 Before.

01:26:18.000 And then, coming back to you, do you have your, like, a tied-up version of what you think as far as men being more masculine or less masculine today versus in the past?

01:26:28.000 Yes, men are less masculine.

01:26:30.000 In general, you would say?

01:26:31.000 In general.

01:26:31.000 Okay.

01:26:32.000 And that applies to them being less chivalrous, being less masculine, being less dominant?

01:26:36.000 Taking care of women less. 1.00

01:26:38.000 Okay.

01:26:39.000 All right.

01:26:40.000 Having less integrity.

01:26:42.000 Okay.

01:26:43.000 Would you say, since most of you think, well, all of you believe that men are less masculine nowadays, would you agree that women run most relationships in modern day?

01:26:54.000 Yes or no?

01:26:56.000 Yeah.

01:26:56.000 As a byproduct.

01:26:57.000 Okay.

01:26:58.000 Which relationships?

01:26:58.000 What about you?

01:27:00.000 Relationships with men, romantic relationships.

01:27:02.000 Since men are weaker nowadays, would you agree that women run most relationships? 0.69

01:27:06.000 No.

01:27:06.000 You don't think so?

01:27:07.000 No.

01:27:08.000 Why do you say that?

01:27:09.000 Because men can be manipulative too and make us think like we run it, but they actually do.

01:27:16.000 Okay, so you think even though men are weaker that women still run relationships?

01:27:22.000 Well, yeah, it can be both.

01:27:26.000 It can be both.

01:27:27.000 Have you ever heard the phrase, happy wife, happy life?

01:27:29.000 Yes.

01:27:31.000 Wouldn't it be fair to say that that saying is famous because female happiness is prioritized over male happiness in a relationship?

01:27:40.000 No, I don't think it's...

01:27:42.000 Well, listen, I have to say something.

01:27:44.000 Okay.

01:27:45.000 A lot of things...

01:27:46.000 Sorry.

01:27:47.000 A lot of things in English sound...

01:27:52.000 Not straight, as they're supposed to be, okay?

01:27:56.000 When I think in Hebrew, in my head, right?

01:28:00.000 When you say those things, it does not come over men happiness or, you know, the household.

01:28:07.000 It's just that English is a little twisted.

01:28:10.000 And we take things as we want to take them, and we can twist them around.

01:28:17.000 So you're saying, okay, happy wife, happy life.

01:28:21.000 Then it's over the happiness of the men in the relationship.

01:28:26.000 I don't agree because...

01:28:28.000 Okay, so you think men run most relationships in modern day today?

01:28:32.000 I think it's equal.

01:28:34.000 I think it's equal.

01:28:36.000 I think a healthy relationship is running with both men and women.

01:28:40.000 I understand that.

01:28:41.000 That's what you think is healthy.

01:28:42.000 But what I'm asking is, do you think in general...

01:28:46.000 Generally.

01:28:59.000 I can't tell you.

01:29:00.000 I really can't.

01:29:02.000 No, seriously.

01:29:03.000 You want an honest question or you want me just to answer?

01:29:06.000 Okay, let's...

01:29:07.000 You want an honest answer or you want me just to answer?

01:29:10.000 Let's go ahead and think.

01:29:11.000 So give me a minute to think and I'll get back to you with an honest answer.

01:29:15.000 Okay, so here are some things for you to think about as you formulate your answer.

01:29:18.000 Think of maybe girls that you know that are in relationships, that are your friends.

01:29:22.000 Are their boyfriends running the relationship or are they telling their man what to do?

01:29:26.000 Maybe think of some family members in the United States, not in Israel.

01:29:30.000 Is the man telling his girl what to do or is it the other way around?

01:29:34.000 Like think of and then think in general.

01:29:36.000 Okay, when I look at television, when I look at pop culture, is the woman telling the man what to do or is it the other way around? 0.63

01:29:42.000 And I'm talking about specifically in modern day society.

01:29:45.000 Alright, I'll come back to you.

01:29:46.000 What about you?

01:29:47.000 Would you say that women are running relationships since men are less masculine than before?

01:29:51.000 You think men still run it in general? 1.00

01:29:54.000 Okay.

01:29:56.000 I would just tell her as well.

01:29:58.000 Think about who runs Hollywood.

01:30:03.000 What about you?

01:30:05.000 Do you think since men are weaker nowadays that women run relationships or men still run relationships?

01:30:10.000 I think men still run their relationships. 0.99

01:30:12.000 You think so?

01:30:13.000 Looks like you're random.

01:30:15.000 What about you?

01:30:17.000 I do think Can you come back to me after?

01:30:22.000 I'm sorry.

01:30:24.000 It's tough, huh?

01:30:25.000 I feel like a little bit for me it is.

01:30:27.000 What about you?

01:30:27.000 I think women definitely run the day-to-day of modern relationships.

01:30:31.000 I think the overall major decisions are still a majority masculine, but I think the day-to-day inner workings of a relationship are predominantly female.

01:30:43.000 Okay.

01:30:44.000 I guess I could simplify it, ladies. 1.00

01:30:46.000 Who do you think holds the leverage in most relationships nowadays, the man or the woman? 0.91

01:30:49.000 The women? 0.95

01:30:49.000 Okay, what about you? 0.95

01:30:51.000 Leverage, the guy.

01:30:52.000 You think the guy?

01:30:53.000 I mean, if he's a leader...

01:30:57.000 If he's a leader?

01:30:57.000 If he's a leader, then yes.

01:30:58.000 But are most men leaders?

01:31:00.000 No, okay.

01:31:02.000 You see, I need to be broken down a little bit.

01:31:03.000 I'm honest about that.

01:31:05.000 So then women, yes. 0.99

01:31:07.000 Alright.

01:31:07.000 What about you?

01:31:09.000 You still think men, right?

01:31:11.000 Run it?

01:31:11.000 Okay.

01:31:12.000 What about you now?

01:31:13.000 Women. 0.81

01:31:14.000 You think women run it? 1.00

01:31:15.000 Yeah.

01:31:15.000 Okay.

01:31:18.000 Okay, so it looks like it's half and half.

01:31:21.000 Three of you think...

01:31:22.000 No.

01:31:23.000 Four of you think women run relationships, and then two of you think that men run relationships in day and age.

01:31:28.000 Okay.

01:31:29.000 Now that we know that most men are not masculine, and we know that women are running a majority of relationships, at least according to most of you guys, right?

01:31:38.000 If you had a son, what boundaries would you tell him to put in place with his girlfriend to keep himself from being cheated on?

01:31:50.000 So let me go ahead.

01:31:51.000 One more time for y'all, right?

01:31:53.000 It's a deep question, I know.

01:31:55.000 It's a deep question.

01:31:57.000 We know that men are weaker than ever before, right?

01:31:59.000 They're less masculine.

01:32:00.000 Most guys don't have dominant leadership frame.

01:32:02.000 We established that.

01:32:03.000 They're weaker than before.

01:32:04.000 And we know, according to most of you, that women run a majority of relationships and have leverage in most of these relationships. 0.99

01:32:10.000 Knowing this, if you had a son, what boundaries would you tell him to have in place or rules with a woman that he's seeing or dating or courting that he needs to have in place to ensure he isn't cheated on, hurt, financially ripped off, etc.?

01:32:27.000 What would you tell your son to put in place?

01:32:30.000 An example can be, give him one out for free.

01:32:34.000 Hey, you should tell your significant other that she shouldn't be going on girls trips. 1.00

01:32:38.000 Right?

01:32:39.000 So what things would you tell your son to put in place to keep himself from getting hurt in a relationship or getting financially destroyed, whatever it may be?

01:32:50.000 Can I clarify real quick?

01:32:51.000 Yeah, go ahead.

01:32:52.000 Is there an age of this child?

01:32:54.000 Are we talking like teenager or are we talking like grown man?

01:32:57.000 Okay, good question. 1.00

01:32:58.000 Let's say he's 32 years old, has the shit together. 1.00

01:33:01.000 Okay. 1.00

01:33:01.000 Higher earner, successful. 1.00

01:33:03.000 Got it.

01:33:04.000 Whether entrepreneur or a W-2 worker, it doesn't matter, but he's a professional and does well for himself.

01:33:09.000 So he has a lot to lose.

01:33:11.000 What boundaries would you tell him he needs to put in place with a significant other?

01:33:14.000 We could start...

01:33:15.000 You want to start?

01:33:16.000 All right, go ahead.

01:33:17.000 Give us two or three things you would tell him to do.

01:33:19.000 So if you give her everything she wants, she will disrespect you because she will get comfortable.

01:33:27.000 So I feel like if she gets comfortable, she will go out to do whatever she wants outside.

01:33:35.000 Okay.

01:33:36.000 So don't give her everything.

01:33:38.000 Yeah.

01:33:38.000 Okay.

01:33:39.000 So that's a boundary, I guess.

01:33:40.000 Is that not give her everything she asks for?

01:33:41.000 She will respect you more.

01:33:42.000 Okay.

01:33:43.000 If you say no.

01:33:45.000 Say no.

01:33:46.000 To some things.

01:33:47.000 Okay.

01:33:47.000 Anything else?

01:33:49.000 That's it?

01:33:50.000 Okay.

01:33:50.000 What about you?

01:33:51.000 What boundaries would you tell your son to put in place?

01:33:53.000 I'm thinking, can we get back to me?

01:33:55.000 You think a lot.

01:33:56.000 I do.

01:33:57.000 I do.

01:33:58.000 That's good.

01:33:59.000 That's good.

01:33:59.000 What about you?

01:34:03.000 Don't be run by vagina. 1.00

01:34:05.000 Don't what? 1.00

01:34:06.000 Don't be run by pussy. 1.00

01:34:08.000 Okay. 1.00

01:34:09.000 How would he enact on that though? 1.00

01:34:11.000 It's very easy to say don't be run by pussy. 1.00

01:34:13.000 Okay, so I guess the first one would be like watch your character and then have discipline would be the second one. 1.00

01:34:19.000 Be specific.

01:34:20.000 Actual, actionable.

01:34:22.000 Be disciplined.

01:34:23.000 I mean, I'm not be disciplined.

01:34:26.000 What rules should he impart on his significant other to avoid issues?

01:34:33.000 As a man, a leader in a relationship, what should be the standards for him or her?

01:34:39.000 Watch your character.

01:34:41.000 That's not standard.

01:34:43.000 Character is different for everybody.

01:34:45.000 That's a statement.

01:34:46.000 That is a statement, but you're right.

01:34:48.000 Is character morals?

01:34:49.000 Is character personality?

01:34:52.000 Just make sure that her character aligns with yours, but in the essence of just make sure she's not a gold digger.

01:34:58.000 Because I'm not going to say Should I come back to you too?

01:35:04.000 This is a deep question.

01:35:05.000 I'll give you guys that.

01:35:07.000 Yeah, you should come back to me.

01:35:09.000 Okay, what about you?

01:35:11.000 What rules and boundaries should your son put in place to avoid heartbreak and turmoil?

01:35:16.000 What would you tell him?

01:35:17.000 So all I got right now is take your time with this person.

01:35:22.000 Don't rush into anything.

01:35:23.000 There's no need to.

01:35:24.000 Okay, how much time specifically?

01:35:25.000 Date her for how long?

01:35:30.000 You should wait at least two years before moving in.

01:35:36.000 Things like that.

01:35:37.000 Don't make any rush decisions.

01:35:38.000 Should he move her in or should she move in with him?

01:35:41.000 They should decide that together whenever they're comfortable.

01:35:43.000 This is your son.

01:35:44.000 You give him the leverage.

01:35:45.000 Give him the actual advice.

01:35:46.000 They should get a separate apartment.

01:35:48.000 Okay, so don't live with her at all.

01:35:51.000 No, live with her, but don't live in her place and don't move her into your place. 1.00

01:35:56.000 Just get a fresh start.

01:35:58.000 Yeah, don't cohabitate.

01:36:00.000 Do cohabitate, but fresh.

01:36:03.000 Together, a brand new apartment together.

01:36:05.000 Yeah, both give up your apartments and start fresh.

01:36:07.000 She doesn't live anywhere else.

01:36:11.000 She doesn't live anywhere else.

01:36:12.000 She doesn't live anywhere else.

01:36:13.000 She doesn't live anywhere else.

01:36:14.000 Hey, hey, hey, hey. 0.98

01:36:15.000 Everybody shut up and let her answer. 1.00

01:36:16.000 Go ahead.

01:36:17.000 Please clarify, because it didn't make sense.

01:36:19.000 The woman gives up her apartment, the guy gives up his apartment, and then you get a new place together.

01:36:25.000 Okay, so move together.

01:36:27.000 After two years is what you're saying.

01:36:29.000 At least.

01:36:31.000 I want to say at least.

01:36:32.000 Don't move in together.

01:36:34.000 What else would you tell your son?

01:36:38.000 Don't give her your credit card information.

01:36:41.000 If she wants you to buy something, she has to ask for it.

01:36:45.000 Or you have to do it for her.

01:36:48.000 I don't want to use his credit card.

01:36:50.000 I want cash.

01:36:53.000 You're a smart one.

01:36:55.000 Basically, don't rush.

01:36:58.000 That's really all I got.

01:36:59.000 For any purchase that is made, get permission.

01:37:02.000 What about if it's her money?

01:37:03.000 Does this account for both their money or just his?

01:37:08.000 Everyone's money is their money until you're married. 0.97

01:37:11.000 So keep it separate.

01:37:15.000 Separate accounts and then don't give her your credit card and get permission if you're going to spend money on anything.

01:37:20.000 Use a condom.

01:37:21.000 And use a condom.

01:37:22.000 That would be your boundaries.

01:37:25.000 What about you? 0.99

01:37:26.000 Kind of going back to what she said, definitely don't let pussy run everything. 1.00

01:37:31.000 Give us actual tangible examples. 0.94

01:37:34.000 If you do anything for her, pay attention to how she reciprocates the energy, if she shows any form of appreciation, any acts of service.

01:37:42.000 I feel like acts of service is a woman's biggest form of actually showing that they care for someone.

01:37:49.000 What acts of service should she be giving him?

01:37:51.000 Or should he demand?

01:37:53.000 I mean, the basics would be like cooking, cleaning, not stressing him out, not provoking arguments.

01:38:04.000 What if she's no longer giving him sex?

01:38:06.000 What would you tell your son to do? 0.98

01:38:08.000 I mean, leave her.

01:38:10.000 Leave her? 0.95

01:38:10.000 Yeah. 0.95

01:38:11.000 I mean, if she's not like...

01:38:14.000 Yeah, if you're not happy and she's not, you guys aren't having sex, I mean, yeah, just leave.

01:38:19.000 Or talk to her about it first and she's still not trying to have sex and something's curly up.

01:38:24.000 Okay.

01:38:25.000 But they're dating, right?

01:38:26.000 They're dating.

01:38:27.000 Yeah, but I mean, this is like boundaries and parameters that he needs to have set in place for it to be serious.

01:38:33.000 So acts of service, cooking, cleaning, sex, anything else?

01:38:38.000 Okay.

01:38:39.000 And then, what about you?

01:38:40.000 What boundaries would you tell your son he needs to have in place?

01:38:42.000 Okay, I actually have one of these.

01:38:45.000 So, this actually is a little easier, I think.

01:38:48.000 Do you have a son?

01:38:48.000 Yes.

01:38:49.000 So, from my perspective, I think it's a little easier.

01:38:52.000 He's not, obviously, that age, but that's kind of why I wanted to clarify.

01:38:56.000 So, for me, it would be definitely take your time.

01:39:00.000 There's no specific time.

01:39:01.000 I just think that, like, you...

01:39:03.000 Give us a minimum, though.

01:39:05.000 How long do you think it should take to vet a woman?

01:39:08.000 Minimum of a year before you move in together, but I'm also a huge advocate of living together prior to marriage.

01:39:15.000 If you're going to lead towards marriage, then you need to live together, because I have witnessed, personally, relationships that had gone on for years, and then they cohabitated, and they couldn't live together.

01:39:28.000 Cheating started, or cheating was uncovered at that point.

01:39:31.000 Okay.

01:39:32.000 Okay.

01:39:33.000 No, no.

01:39:34.000 What else?

01:39:34.000 And then I would say maintain separate bank accounts.

01:39:37.000 Make sure that you're both, you know, you're both have responsibilities.

01:39:42.000 Continue to make sure that you have open communication.

01:39:46.000 They both feel heard.

01:39:47.000 So I'm a huge advocate of starting therapy like almost right away or having some sort of communication like exercise so that you can learn to really speak to each other and have mutual communication.

01:40:02.000 Because I think a lot of the breakdowns of relationships are one person not feeling heard.

01:40:08.000 Would you advise that...

01:40:09.000 Remember, this is the advice you're dispensing to your son.

01:40:12.000 Yep.

01:40:12.000 Would you advise that he have open communication and communicate with her when that gives the female the advantage?

01:40:20.000 Um...

01:40:20.000 Because we already talked about how transparency and openness a lot of the times...

01:40:23.000 Correct.

01:40:24.000 ...put the woman in the driver's seat and put her in a position of power. 1.00

01:40:28.000 Um...

01:40:30.000 Remember, this is for your son.

01:40:31.000 Yeah.

01:40:31.000 No.

01:40:32.000 I would say that, yes, still be transparent, but also understand that you do risk her walking if you are transparent.

01:40:44.000 But I think he'll sleep better knowing that he was upfront and honest from the very, very beginning than having to worry about Being together for 15 years and wondering if he had lied the whole time, if they were really treated together.

01:41:01.000 So transparency with an awareness of a loss potentially incoming.

01:41:04.000 Correct.

01:41:05.000 Yes.

01:41:05.000 Okay.

01:41:05.000 Anything else?

01:41:06.000 Nope.

01:41:07.000 She actually gave good answers.

01:41:09.000 It probably prompted some thoughts from the rest of you guys.

01:41:12.000 All right.

01:41:12.000 What about you, Ms.

01:41:13.000 Israel? 0.53

01:41:13.000 You didn't answer before. 0.53

01:41:15.000 What parameters would you tell your son to put on a girlfriend?

01:41:21.000 Yeah so a lot of things the girls already said so communication is key like there must be good communication they have to be able to speak with each other and be open with each other another thing is would you tell your son to be kind of I'm asking the same thing for her would you think it's in your son's best interest to be honest with her when she can use that against him later on remember your son has a lot to lose Well,

01:41:45.000 another thing I would say to my son is to bring her to me so I can meet her and get to know her and get a feel from her and understand what's going on, you know, like from the mother instinct.

01:42:00.000 What are you going to look for from mother instinct to avoid then?

01:42:05.000 What are some red flags if you want to tell your son immediately?

01:42:08.000 Values.

01:42:09.000 If values are not aligned and they're not matching, then it's gonna be a crisis in the long run.

01:42:14.000 Okay, what are those values that need to be aligned specifically?

01:42:17.000 So the values, it depends on the upbringing.

01:42:21.000 So if there is like either a religious background that it's important to both of them, and they both want to maintain it, or if it's either one of them, then that will create a problem in their relationship later on.

01:42:37.000 Okay, I'm saying specifically for your son then, so go ahead and give it to me.

01:42:40.000 So does she need to be Jewish for you? 0.87

01:42:42.000 For me?

01:42:43.000 Yeah.

01:42:44.000 Yes.

01:42:44.000 It's a requirement.

01:42:46.000 Okay.

01:42:46.000 So one of the parameters already, she has to be Jewish, right?

01:42:49.000 Okay.

01:42:50.000 What else?

01:42:53.000 That her family needs to be from a good upbringing.

01:42:57.000 You know, there's a good family that she has a clean background. 0.95

01:43:00.000 She's a good woman, good girl, educated.

01:43:04.000 So no OnlyFans?

01:43:06.000 No OnlyFans.

01:43:08.000 Okay.

01:43:09.000 How educated does she have to be? 1.00

01:43:11.000 Educated enough to hold a conversation, to speak her mind.

01:43:15.000 So intelligent.

01:43:16.000 Yes.

01:43:17.000 So she can have a high school diploma, but be intelligent. 0.97

01:43:18.000 You'll be okay with that.

01:43:19.000 Okay.

01:43:20.000 So what else?

01:43:23.000 Anything else that you would...

01:43:26.000 Character, good character, that she has charisma.

01:43:30.000 If she's lazy and she doesn't want to do anything all day and she just want to lay in bed and just want to be, you know, taken care of, then...

01:43:39.000 So that's a boundary you would put on your son.

01:43:41.000 If she doesn't want to work, no.

01:43:42.000 Well, it's okay if you don't want to work, don't work.

01:43:46.000 Do something with your life.

01:43:48.000 Do something that inspires you.

01:43:50.000 Do something that makes you grow.

01:43:51.000 Because it doesn't even have to do with my son.

01:43:55.000 It has to do with her life.

01:43:56.000 She's going to be depressed and then she's going to ruin his life.

01:43:59.000 What if that's OnlyFans?

01:44:02.000 Well, that's not...

01:44:04.000 She's not even gonna come into my house. 1.00

01:44:08.000 From the beginning.

01:44:10.000 Okay.

01:44:10.000 What do you call it?

01:44:12.000 Sharmuta.

01:44:12.000 Yeah.

01:44:13.000 Oh, no.

01:44:14.000 You're gonna get bent on YouTube.

01:44:16.000 It's okay.

01:44:17.000 They don't understand Arabic.

01:44:19.000 Okay.

01:44:20.000 So, all right.

01:44:21.000 Who else didn't...

01:44:22.000 Someone didn't get to go...

01:44:24.000 Russia, did you go?

01:44:26.000 Oh, no, no, you did.

01:44:27.000 What about you?

01:44:27.000 Did you finish your point?

01:44:29.000 Someone we missed out on.

01:44:31.000 Yeah, you just basically...

01:44:32.000 Go ahead.

01:44:33.000 Oh, so one of the things was time.

01:44:35.000 That was another thing, a boundary is time.

01:44:38.000 And back to just being disciplined as far as, like, use your brain.

01:44:42.000 Like, if you see a red flag, act on it. 1.00

01:44:44.000 Don't let the pussy... 1.00

01:44:45.000 Let me ask one follow-up question then. 1.00

01:44:47.000 What behaviors would you tell your son to absolutely forbid from his potential girlfriend?

01:44:53.000 We could start.

01:44:55.000 Who wants to go first?

01:44:56.000 You want to go first?

01:44:56.000 Okay, go ahead.

01:44:57.000 What behaviors should he absolutely forbid?

01:45:00.000 Absolutely no letting her yell at you or raise her voice at you or talk to you like you're her kid.

01:45:06.000 Okay.

01:45:07.000 No yelling and no...

01:45:09.000 Okay.

01:45:10.000 Just no yelling, no cursing, calling out your name.

01:45:13.000 That's dead.

01:45:14.000 Like, none of that.

01:45:15.000 Alright.

01:45:15.000 What about somebody else?

01:45:17.000 You had your hand up first?

01:45:18.000 No?

01:45:18.000 Okay, what about...

01:45:19.000 I'm gonna go to all of you, by the way, so...

01:45:20.000 Come back.

01:45:21.000 You're gonna, yeah.

01:45:21.000 Okay, what behaviors would you tell them to absolutely never tolerate?

01:45:25.000 Abusive behavior.

01:45:27.000 Lying.

01:45:27.000 Okay, abusive is a very catch-all term.

01:45:29.000 Lying.

01:45:30.000 Okay.

01:45:31.000 Being deceptive.

01:45:33.000 Disrespect.

01:45:34.000 Okay.

01:45:35.000 What level of deceit?

01:45:36.000 Because women wear makeup and that's considered deceptive. 1.00

01:45:38.000 No.

01:45:39.000 Like something that is more moral.

01:45:41.000 It has to do with morals and values.

01:45:44.000 You know?

01:45:45.000 Lying.

01:45:45.000 Okay.

01:45:46.000 Like just saying a lie.

01:45:48.000 Okay.

01:45:49.000 So don't tolerate lying.

01:45:50.000 Anything else?

01:45:52.000 Yeah, if she's not honest, if she's...

01:45:56.000 But what level of honesty?

01:45:57.000 Because, let's be honest here, there's different spectrums, right? 1.00

01:45:59.000 It could be, oh, you look handsome today, even though he looks like shit. 1.00

01:46:02.000 Should he get rid of her for lying about that? 1.00

01:46:05.000 Or should he get rid of...

01:46:06.000 What level of lying does it need to cut her off?

01:46:09.000 Listen, if she's trying to throw a surprise party for him and then she's lying to him that she's going to go, I don't know, to be with her friend and then she's playing a party at home, then that's okay because it's a lie.

01:46:23.000 It's a white lie for the purpose of making him happy.

01:46:27.000 But if it's a lie, like she said, I'm going to go hang out with my friend and then she's going to hang out with a guy and he doesn't know about that. 0.67

01:46:34.000 If he's sleeping with her and she's saying that she's making him happy, Or he's making her orgasm and she keeps saying that over and over and over again.

01:46:43.000 Is that an okay lie? 0.74

01:46:45.000 Because it's making him feel better.

01:46:46.000 No, that's not okay.

01:46:48.000 But that's a white lie.

01:46:49.000 It's a slippery slope.

01:46:50.000 Well, it's okay sometimes.

01:46:51.000 It depends when it's okay.

01:46:53.000 No, first of all, in general, I don't think it's okay to lie, period.

01:46:57.000 I don't think, no, because it's against yourself.

01:47:01.000 We do things like that.

01:47:03.000 I think relationships with others first begin with the relationship that we have with ourselves.

01:47:10.000 If we lie to ourselves, we're going to feel comfortable to lie to others.

01:47:13.000 Sometimes we need to lie in order to not to get to places that we don't want to get.

01:47:19.000 And that's for the pure use of the protection of our own peace and our own safety.

01:47:26.000 And that's So lying is kind of where it is.

01:47:30.000 So you're saying lying when it's deceptive in practice, which might lead to infidelity.

01:47:34.000 Any other behaviors that you would tell them are unacceptable?

01:47:39.000 Same thing if she's just trying to get money from him and not do nothing all day. 0.51

01:47:44.000 If she's just trying to live off him and not do nothing.

01:47:47.000 She has to have a life.

01:47:49.000 She has to have passion.

01:47:50.000 Okay.

01:47:51.000 You lied just now, man.

01:47:53.000 Any behaviors that are automatically you need to tell your son to watch out for or not tolerate from his girl?

01:48:01.000 When she's aggressive and when she treats bad her parents. 0.98

01:48:06.000 Okay.

01:48:08.000 Yeah.

01:48:10.000 Wait, did I just hear her say, it's okay to lie?

01:48:13.000 Just to find why you can lie.

01:48:17.000 I'm talking about you!

01:48:18.000 What?

01:48:18.000 No, I did not say that.

01:48:20.000 You said it's okay to lie if it protects you from going deeper into more lies.

01:48:24.000 Oh, I can give you an example so I can explain what I was talking about.

01:48:28.000 Let's say someone is asking you something that has to do with your safety, your address, okay?

01:48:35.000 And you don't want to give that address to that man or this person.

01:48:39.000 You don't know who is going to, you know, tell it to who and then who is going to come to your home.

01:48:43.000 Then instead of saying, you know, yeah, I live in, I don't know, in Miami, you say I live in Pompono Beach.

01:48:49.000 That's okay.

01:48:50.000 If it's for the sake of your safety, then it's okay to lie.

01:48:54.000 But why do you have to tell them where you live at all?

01:48:55.000 Why can't you just say it's none of your business?

01:48:58.000 Yes, you can.

01:48:59.000 I mean, that would be my answer.

01:49:00.000 If I didn't want somebody to know where I live, I'd just say it's none of your business.

01:49:03.000 Some people, they don't know when no is no.

01:49:07.000 Then you walk away.

01:49:09.000 I still don't justify it in saying like...

01:49:13.000 That you're from a different place.

01:49:14.000 You just don't have to answer it.

01:49:16.000 That's an extreme situation, of course.

01:49:18.000 You just said you had a perfect example.

01:49:20.000 So I'm only saying there's another...

01:49:22.000 Well, the example is just because it happened to me and I couldn't walk away.

01:49:26.000 I was in a public place.

01:49:29.000 It was an event.

01:49:30.000 Someone asked me.

01:49:31.000 I said, I'm not interested in answering.

01:49:32.000 You asked me over and over again and I lied.

01:49:35.000 I guess you're saying.

01:49:37.000 Sometimes, I can understand because...

01:49:39.000 But it's not like a lie.

01:49:40.000 You may need to lie to protect your country.

01:49:42.000 Okay, let's move on.

01:49:43.000 No, but I get it, I get it.

01:49:48.000 Some more chats here.

01:49:50.000 Any more input here, guys, before we move on?

01:49:54.000 Cool.

01:49:55.000 All right.

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01:49:59.000 Shout out to you, bro.

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01:50:12.000 Jake Kulik says, First, what is your intake on letting your girl go to an all-girl club?

01:50:17.000 Ladies, if your man told you he would be okay with you going to an all-girl club, would you listen or still want to go to a regular club? 0.98

01:50:23.000 Thanks, FNF. What's an all-girl club? 1.00

01:50:27.000 I guess there's no guys there.

01:50:28.000 Where do they have those?

01:50:29.000 Oh, they actually have those.

01:50:30.000 My friend actually just went to one in Orlando, apparently.

01:50:33.000 They, like, shut down the club and it was just only girls allowed in. 0.99

01:50:36.000 So they don't let men in?

01:50:37.000 I mean, it was an event, but it was just all girls for the night.

01:50:40.000 But it was cool because, you know, you're just vibing.

01:50:42.000 So the premise is girls say all the time, hey, babe, I want to go with my friends and have a good time. 0.56

01:50:46.000 So you can go to a club, but an all-girls club. 1.00

01:50:50.000 Would you still go or would you want to go to a regular club?

01:50:52.000 I'd still go.

01:50:53.000 Would you still go?

01:50:54.000 I would go.

01:50:55.000 I mean, I would go to either.

01:50:58.000 So remember, your man wants you to go to an all-girls club. 0.99

01:51:00.000 You can go have fun, but only to an all-girls club, not a regular club with guys. 0.88

01:51:05.000 Yeah, I would definitely.

01:51:06.000 I would go.

01:51:08.000 Because I think you can cheat with a girl, too.

01:51:10.000 It doesn't take just a guy-girl to have an infidelity.

01:51:14.000 True.

01:51:15.000 I mean, so...

01:51:16.000 But would you be cool with that if you guys told you?

01:51:18.000 I would be okay with that just because, personally for me, I already don't like men anyways.

01:51:22.000 Like, I don't like dancing guys in the club.

01:51:24.000 I don't like them talking to me. 0.99

01:51:25.000 Emotional, damn it! 0.99

01:51:27.000 Okay, I mean, that's fair. 0.99

01:51:29.000 No, that's facts.

01:51:30.000 Like, I just...

01:51:31.000 Men are weird in the club.

01:51:32.000 Just be nice to meet you, not other guys.

01:51:34.000 What about you?

01:51:37.000 Sure, that's fine.

01:51:38.000 So you're cool when I'm going to a regular club like Vendome or, you know, Wink Wink?

01:51:42.000 Yep.

01:51:44.000 For you?

01:51:46.000 I think that's Kat though, but that's okay.

01:51:48.000 For you?

01:51:49.000 I'd go.

01:51:50.000 No, no.

01:51:51.000 I mean, all the time though.

01:51:52.000 Oh, all the time?

01:51:53.000 I mean, if...

01:51:54.000 No. 0.99

01:51:55.000 I just want to shake my ass for my homegirls, so I don't go anywhere. 0.99

01:51:58.000 But I mean, all the time, not really. 0.99

01:51:59.000 I don't go to the club all the time.

01:52:01.000 It's really a thing.

01:52:02.000 So, one time, yeah, I'll go, but...

01:52:04.000 Okay.

01:52:05.000 So, but let's say you were an avid club goer, and he said to you, only goes club.

01:52:09.000 Are you cool with that?

01:52:10.000 Oh, yeah.

01:52:12.000 So your friends say they want to go to a regular club, but you can't go because...

01:52:15.000 If my friends said they want to go to a regular club and they didn't want to go to the all-girls club, then I'm going to the regular club. 0.78

01:52:21.000 But your man doesn't want you to go to the all-girls club. 0.89

01:52:23.000 But are you insecure?

01:52:25.000 Why can't I? Ah, there it is.

01:52:27.000 There it is.

01:52:27.000 No, but I mean, if my friends want to go out and it's, like, whatever occasion.

01:52:31.000 So fuck your man. 1.00

01:52:32.000 It's not fuck him, but it's, like, be real. 1.00

01:52:33.000 Like, I would go, like, it's an occasion. 0.99

01:52:35.000 I don't go to the club all the time.

01:52:37.000 Like, why can't I go out one time with my homegirls? 1.00

01:52:39.000 I'm a PhD.

01:52:40.000 Okay.

01:52:40.000 Well, not yet.

01:52:41.000 On the way, on the way.

01:52:42.000 What about you?

01:52:45.000 I would go to the all-girls club. 0.98

01:52:47.000 Yeah.

01:52:48.000 Okay, so only all girls club, never regular club.

01:52:52.000 Yeah, if that's what makes my men happy, I'll do that.

01:52:57.000 Awesome.

01:52:58.000 And then for you?

01:52:59.000 How is he going to be able to go in if it's only women too?

01:53:04.000 There's no women club here. 1.00

01:53:06.000 Like, there's only women's club in Spain or something. 0.97

01:53:10.000 And if there was a women club here, I will be there. 1.00

01:53:14.000 I love it.

01:53:16.000 Jesus!

01:53:17.000 I love her.

01:53:18.000 Her answers are amazing, by the way.

01:53:20.000 You're a great person.

01:53:21.000 She's just adorable. 0.94

01:53:22.000 Oh my gosh.

01:53:23.000 I love her.

01:53:24.000 Okay.

01:53:26.000 Okay.

01:53:26.000 Hungry ladies pick one.

01:53:28.000 A comfortable, high-profile status job where you get to travel only $60,000 per year or...

01:53:34.000 Clean sewage for $150,000 per year.

01:53:36.000 This will be your only source of income.

01:53:37.000 So ladies, which one do you prefer? 1.00

01:53:39.000 High profile, high status job where you get to travel and you get $60,000 a year or clean sewage for $150,000 per year.

01:53:47.000 We'll start here and then work our way.

01:53:49.000 Which one?

01:53:50.000 High profile.

01:53:51.000 Status job.

01:53:51.000 Okay.

01:53:58.000 Do you get to travel on the other option?

01:54:00.000 Or are you stuck with the trash? 0.97

01:54:02.000 You're stuck with the trash? 0.99

01:54:04.000 Nah.

01:54:09.000 I'll go with the first option, a comfortable high profile.

01:54:12.000 The travel is all expenses paid.

01:54:15.000 But you only get 60k a year.

01:54:17.000 60k.

01:54:18.000 What about you?

01:54:20.000 The first option.

01:54:21.000 What's the point of making all that money if you can't travel and spend it?

01:54:25.000 You can spend it.

01:54:26.000 In the sewer?

01:54:28.000 What about you?

01:54:30.000 I'll do 60k.

01:54:33.000 I'd actually do the 150.

01:54:33.000 What about you?

01:54:35.000 You'd do the 150?

01:54:36.000 Okay.

01:54:36.000 Interesting.

01:54:37.000 I think that question kind of illustrates how women are more concerned with status and experiences versus making money. 0.93

01:54:44.000 Versus like most guys would probably like to do the sewer job.

01:54:47.000 Yeah.

01:54:47.000 Because they understand that their value is typically intimately tied to how much money they earn.

01:54:53.000 But okay.

01:54:54.000 Interesting.

01:54:54.000 But that's nasty.

01:54:55.000 I'm not trying to clean those sewage.

01:54:56.000 I just want to be able to travel.

01:54:57.000 That goes back to what you said before.

01:54:59.000 That men have a higher proclivity to work harder than women. 0.98

01:55:01.000 Remember?

01:55:02.000 So I just back my point.

01:55:04.000 Yeah.

01:55:05.000 Girls get mad at me when I say that men typically work harder than women and they get all mad. 1.00

01:55:10.000 But I mean, there's different jobs that are working hard that it's just not necessarily a nasty job.

01:55:17.000 You know what I mean?

01:55:19.000 When it comes to physical labor, more laborious professions absolutely overwhelmingly dominate them because women choose just to not go on those jobs. 1.00

01:55:29.000 I mean, controversial take. 0.96

01:55:31.000 I say women in general are lazy when it comes to resource creation. 1.00

01:55:34.000 And what I mean by that is women a lot of times aren't incentivized to work hard, laborious jobs or work long hours or take less vacation at the cost of earning more money because women don't have the same They don't have the same impetus and the same motivation to go out there and create excess resources because a woman's value is not based on how much money she earns or the status she acquires. 1.00

01:55:53.000 Her value is based on her beauty, youth, and fertility.

01:56:17.000 Oh no, I just was listening and then I started getting this like and I didn't want to like I'm not gonna have a rebuttal if it's not like to everything Like, if I didn't hear, wasn't listening to everything you said.

01:56:33.000 But wouldn't you have to listen to everything I said to be able to rebut it?

01:56:35.000 That's what I'm saying.

01:56:36.000 That's why I didn't have a rebuttal.

01:56:37.000 Because I didn't, like, I didn't hear everything.

01:56:39.000 She had to reboot it.

01:56:41.000 So you didn't listen?

01:56:41.000 Okay.

01:56:42.000 I listened to the first part, and then, like, yeah, I'm sorry.

01:56:49.000 Wow.

01:56:49.000 Black screen.

01:56:50.000 Isn't a part of occupational therapy listening?

01:56:52.000 It really is.

01:56:53.000 It really is.

01:56:54.000 I am a good listener, though.

01:56:56.000 I'm going to be a great therapist. 0.97

01:57:00.000 So what are you going to do when they're sitting there telling the boring ass story of their life? 0.99

01:57:05.000 They'll be doomed. 0.94

01:57:06.000 No, but the answers that you say, they have to actually...

01:57:12.000 I'm sorry, I was listening.

01:57:14.000 Having empathetic answers and then having answers because you're going to say every...

01:57:17.000 You need to come correct with your answers because you're going to have a response to everything that's said.

01:57:22.000 So I'm not going to sit here and pretend like I heard everything that you said when I got distracted.

01:57:26.000 Wouldn't that motivate you to listen even more?

01:57:28.000 It would, but, you know, attention is like something came to my brain.

01:57:32.000 I'm so sorry.

01:57:33.000 Like, I was listening to the first part.

01:57:35.000 I really was.

01:57:37.000 You know, I just thought, yeah, it's fine.

01:57:39.000 All right.

01:57:40.000 Fantastic.

01:57:41.000 What about you?

01:57:41.000 You were trying to say something?

01:57:43.000 Yeah, but then we got way off track.

01:57:45.000 But I was going to say that men do tend to work harder.

01:57:49.000 I agree with that.

01:57:50.000 Or, like, they have more incentives to work harder because they have to provide for the family.

01:57:54.000 But also, I feel like women...

01:57:57.000 A goal for a woman is also to have a work-life balance. 1.00

01:58:02.000 And I feel like men might work themselves crazy and then be unhappy with all that money.

01:58:10.000 While women prioritize other things besides money. 1.00

01:58:14.000 I want money and I want a career, but I also want to be at peace and I want to be fulfilled and be happy.

01:58:22.000 Fair enough.

01:58:22.000 I mean, yeah, that's just another way of saying what I said, that women are not willing to make the sacrifices required to achieve financial excellence to the same degree that men are.

01:58:30.000 But I think that is a sacrifice in a way, because I'm sacrificing making more money for that peace of mind.

01:58:37.000 What the hell was that?

01:58:40.000 Only you can say that and make no sense saying that.

01:58:45.000 No, but you can make $60,000 instead of She just reframed it, saying like, I'm making a sacrifice by not making more money to do what I want to do.

01:59:00.000 That's a sacrifice in a way.

01:59:02.000 The point is that women are not as likely to make sacrifices in their personal life in the furtherance of financial success that men are.

01:59:12.000 Because women are not evaluated on their success. 0.97

01:59:15.000 That's precisely what I'm saying.

01:59:17.000 Go ahead.

01:59:19.000 Because if it was the case that women, like their mating options were directly tied to their social status and their ability to earn income, we would see way more women in construction. 1.00

01:59:27.000 We see way more women in STEM. We see way more money in women being engineers, being Alaskan fishermen, oil, offshore drilling. 1.00

01:59:34.000 Women would do these hard jobs if their status, excuse me, if their status mattered in their income towards getting a mate. 1.00

01:59:40.000 But they don't.

01:59:41.000 It doesn't.

01:59:41.000 So that's why women don't do these jobs.

01:59:42.000 Well, actually, I read a thing about STEM. The reason women don't get into STEM careers is because there's pressure put onto women. 1.00

01:59:50.000 So I do feel like a lot of it is because of society.

01:59:53.000 Like, not society, but yeah, even, yeah.

01:59:55.000 Okay, so explain to me why women dominate college attendance. 1.00

01:59:58.000 60 to 70% of college universities most of the time are attended by females.

02:00:02.000 Why do men, even though they're a minority of the college population, make an overwhelming amount of the STEM students?

02:00:10.000 So the study was about how, like, it was a teacher, they gave the kids, like, a paper, and they said to fill out this problem.

02:00:19.000 And then the men just, like, went away and did the problem, but the women were, like, overthinking. 0.87

02:00:24.000 And then they looked at the history, and what the women put was correct, but they doubted themselves.

02:00:30.000 So they went back.

02:00:31.000 Huh?

02:00:32.000 Overanalyzed.

02:00:32.000 Yeah, they overanalyzed, and they doubted themselves, and then they went back.

02:00:35.000 So I feel like that's part of the reason women aren't into them. 1.00

02:00:38.000 I don't think it's because...

02:00:40.000 Yeah, I think STEM is...

02:00:44.000 I think a big reason why women don't get into STEM is because, again, women aren't necessarily interested in things like men are. 0.99

02:00:51.000 Women are more interested in people. 1.00

02:00:53.000 That's why they tend to get into occupational therapy, sociology.

02:00:56.000 They want to work with people because women are just more socially oriented in general than men are. 0.99

02:01:01.000 And these jobs, unfortunately, tend to pay less than other jobs that are more laborious or harder or require more critical thinking like STEM. But women just don't want to get into these jobs because for what? 1.00

02:01:11.000 What's the reason?

02:01:13.000 I think because it would actually...

02:01:14.000 I don't mean to cut you off.

02:01:15.000 I'm sorry.

02:01:16.000 I think, too, because I think, to further your point, it would limit their mating because I think that it makes them more masculine in those laborious jobs.

02:01:28.000 To a degree, y'all.

02:01:29.000 Right?

02:01:29.000 Yeah, I mean, to a degree.

02:01:30.000 I mean, women still go into, like, you know, they try to still, you know, do entrepreneur work and CEO work or whatever. 0.96

02:01:35.000 But what I've realized is typically women choose jobs that are less laborious physically. 1.00

02:01:40.000 What were you going to say?

02:01:41.000 Right.

02:01:42.000 So I'm in STEM, and as I was saying earlier about the sacrifices, so if I had to take a high-paying job that wouldn't leave me space for my family and things like that, I would sacrifice that job because...

02:01:58.000 Which degree did you get first, psychology or infotech?

02:02:00.000 First was psychology. 0.64

02:02:02.000 So then you went into the workforce, realized this is trash, and then you went back in for another degree?

02:02:06.000 I realized I have the capacity to do bigger things.

02:02:12.000 She didn't like her job. 0.91

02:02:13.000 Yeah, you didn't like your job, so you went back.

02:02:14.000 I liked my job.

02:02:16.000 I thought my job was very rewarding, but it was very emotional.

02:02:19.000 What was it?

02:02:21.000 I worked with kids with autism.

02:02:24.000 Why didn't you stay?

02:02:26.000 I was getting to attach to kids.

02:02:29.000 It was very hard, actually. 1.00

02:02:30.000 Fuck them kids, right? 1.00

02:02:32.000 We'll say that. 1.00

02:02:33.000 Well, I guess I'm just not as strong enough.

02:02:35.000 Okay, and then you decided to go into tech, which is a complete 180.

02:02:38.000 Was it to make more money, or was it...

02:02:42.000 It was to make more money, but it was also because I don't want to be emotional at work.

02:02:49.000 I feel like it took a toll on me as a person.

02:02:52.000 Okay, and then now you work in Infotech.

02:02:55.000 What do you do specifically?

02:02:56.000 So I actually just graduated.

02:02:58.000 Oh, so you didn't land a job yet in tech?

02:03:00.000 So I just started looking for a job.

02:03:02.000 I'm currently bartending.

02:03:03.000 Wait, so I have a question.

02:03:04.000 Do y'all care what type of job a woman has, realistically? 0.97

02:03:08.000 Exactly, so...

02:03:11.000 So would you rather have a woman with no job? 1.00

02:03:16.000 And no career?

02:03:17.000 And no ambition?

02:03:18.000 Men typically don't care about these things. 0.99

02:03:21.000 But wouldn't you get bored with this type of person?

02:03:23.000 If you're spending long periods of time together?

02:03:26.000 Or for the rest of your life?

02:03:27.000 I mean, from a male perspective, men don't look at these survival characteristics that you're describing of being ambitious, earning money, and status.

02:03:35.000 Men don't typically care. 1.00

02:03:36.000 The more money a man makes, the less he cares about these things.

02:03:39.000 What about like a power couple?

02:03:40.000 Do we not believe in power couples?

02:03:43.000 That's one of the biggest lies.

02:03:44.000 Let's be honest here.

02:03:46.000 Your money that you make from your job, are you going to spend it on us?

02:03:49.000 No.

02:03:49.000 You're mainly going to spend it on yourself.

02:03:51.000 That's not true.

02:03:53.000 You spend money on your man?

02:03:54.000 Of course.

02:03:55.000 When I'm in a relationship, I spend money on my man.

02:03:57.000 I'm glad you said that.

02:03:58.000 Do you pay the bills?

02:04:00.000 No, thank you.

02:04:01.000 I did pay the bills.

02:04:02.000 How long?

02:04:04.000 I've always been 50-50, even though that wasn't the perfect situation for me.

02:04:08.000 How did it work out for you?

02:04:09.000 It didn't work out for me.

02:04:10.000 Thank you!

02:04:13.000 But that doesn't mean I'm going to abandon my ambitions and my I'll be honest, there's no such thing as a power couple because women don't respect men that are equal to them. 0.97

02:04:23.000 So for us to be a power couple, that would assume equality.

02:04:26.000 And the last time I checked, women don't want an equal. 1.00

02:04:28.000 They want a superior in almost every metric of human regard, whether it's strength, competence, income capacity, confidence, ambition.

02:04:36.000 Women don't necessarily seek an equal. 1.00

02:04:38.000 And if they do meet an equal, it's just a matter of time until that buzzer beater hits. 0.94

02:04:41.000 And she says, you know what, man, I'm going to go shoot with somebody else.

02:04:45.000 So what if, like, you're my mentor, we're in the same field, and...

02:04:48.000 Stop the show.

02:04:49.000 By being a mentor, what does that inherently mean?

02:04:52.000 We're not equal.

02:04:53.000 We're not here.

02:04:54.000 You're already in a supportive position.

02:04:56.000 But I think that's still a power couple if you're investing in the same thing.

02:05:02.000 If you're my mentor and I'm helping you, let's say I'm your assistant.

02:05:10.000 So a power couple to you is still when you're assisting a man.

02:05:15.000 I think there's different definitions of a power couple.

02:05:17.000 Okay, so in the general sense that people use power couple, they like to use someone like a Jay-Z or a Beyonce, two individuals who are both wildly successful in their own endeavors that come together in a relationship.

02:05:27.000 That's typically how the power couple frame is used, right?

02:05:31.000 What I'm saying is that in general, the whole power couple concept is a lie.

02:05:35.000 It's a facade.

02:05:36.000 It doesn't exist because women don't want a man who's equal to them. 1.00

02:05:39.000 They want a man who's superior to them. 0.96

02:05:40.000 And I would even argue that Beyonce-Jay-Z situation isn't even a power couple because Beyonce's superior to, excuse me, Jay-Z's superior to Beyonce in almost every regard.

02:05:47.000 She's old.

02:05:48.000 She's not as attractive as she used to be. 0.73

02:05:50.000 She makes a lot of money. 1.00

02:05:51.000 She's gorgeous.

02:05:53.000 Okay.

02:05:55.000 You gotta understand that even though she's attractive, she's never gonna be as attractive when she was 21 versus being damn near 50.

02:06:03.000 Women's value is typically tied to their age, unfortunately. 1.00

02:06:07.000 Kind of sucks for y'all. 0.97

02:06:08.000 I mean, take it as Jay-Z cheated on Beyonce anyway. 0.97

02:06:10.000 And she ain't going nowhere.

02:06:11.000 And she stayed.

02:06:12.000 So who has the leverage in a relationship?

02:06:14.000 Who has more value?

02:06:14.000 Jay-Z does.

02:06:15.000 And I would argue that that's what makes him attractive to Beyonce in the first place.

02:06:20.000 Women lie and say they want a power couple, but the reality is women want a man who has power so that they can extract from it. 1.00

02:06:26.000 To make them more powerful.

02:06:27.000 There you go.

02:06:28.000 Women acquire power through their man, typically. 1.00

02:06:30.000 Not necessarily, you know, some women acquire it on their own. 1.00

02:06:33.000 Fantastic, sure.

02:06:34.000 But in general, most of them will prefer to get their power through their man being successful.

02:06:38.000 That's why women want to take a last name. 1.00

02:06:40.000 That's why women want a leader. 1.00

02:06:41.000 That's why they want a man who's superior.

02:06:42.000 So the whole power couple dynamic and equal partnerships, I think it's a big lie that we say in America.

02:06:47.000 It doesn't exist because women are not attracted to equals. 1.00

02:06:49.000 They're attracted to superiors.

02:06:52.000 I mean, even an example you get with a mentor, that's a subordinate position.

02:06:55.000 He has the power, not you.

02:06:57.000 He's choosing you as an assistant.

02:06:58.000 It was just an example, but can a couple own a business together and run different aspects of the business?

02:07:04.000 Because women bring something to the table. 1.00

02:07:07.000 But it's a man's business. 1.00

02:07:08.000 The woman's assisting. 0.95

02:07:09.000 Yeah.

02:07:10.000 No, we're talking about a different example now.

02:07:11.000 Now this is a different example.

02:07:13.000 Okay, so who owns the business?

02:07:14.000 Because there's got to be one.

02:07:16.000 They're married.

02:07:17.000 They're married.

02:07:17.000 They own the business together.

02:07:19.000 Okay, but who started the business?

02:07:21.000 They started it together.

02:07:22.000 Well, there was money.

02:07:25.000 Nothing typically gets done by a board.

02:07:27.000 That's a fairytale thing.

02:07:28.000 There typically has to be one decision maker.

02:07:30.000 Anything of real consequence, whether it's a CEO, sorry, a Fortune 500 company, or the United States being run by a president, there's always a final decision maker.

02:07:40.000 If I may, I think what they're actually, if I'm translating all of this correctly, I think more what they're talking about is like a team, right?

02:07:48.000 Like, even in a team situation, there's still a point guard, there's still a leader, there's still a captain, right?

02:07:58.000 So even on a team, you can fight and want the same thing and work towards the same goal, but there's still ultimately going to be that captain.

02:08:07.000 Yeah.

02:08:08.000 The only time teamwork from a totally egalitarian standpoint and everyone is equal, the only time teamwork actually works is when women work with each other. 1.00

02:08:16.000 When a woman is dealing with a man, she's expecting competence and superiority. 1.00

02:08:21.000 Doesn't work any other way around.

02:08:22.000 Women are not attracted to equals, man. 1.00

02:08:25.000 That's just an unfortunate reality.

02:08:26.000 Men have to be better than women in every regard to even get their attention. 1.00

02:08:30.000 Retweet.

02:08:31.000 Okay.

02:08:32.000 Retweet.

02:08:33.000 Love that.

02:08:33.000 I agree.

02:08:36.000 Did you have anything on that or anybody else?

02:08:40.000 Disagree, disagree.

02:08:41.000 I don't know.

02:08:42.000 Sure.

02:08:43.000 I mean, like I said earlier that men bring certain things to the table and women bring other things to the table.

02:08:50.000 So I feel like even though a man might make the majority of the decisions, a woman can still bring something valuable and make certain decisions at certain times.

02:09:00.000 Not all the time, but I'm saying...

02:09:03.000 When it comes to something that this woman is good at, let's be basic and say something having to do with emotions. 1.00

02:09:11.000 And then that's when she can contribute.

02:09:13.000 Something inconsequential.

02:09:14.000 That doesn't matter.

02:09:15.000 Something that matters.

02:09:17.000 I think all the things that matter, the man needs to be the leader.

02:09:21.000 What about customer relations?

02:09:23.000 Women are sometimes more personable than men and they can get along with other people more.

02:09:30.000 So what if I'm taking care of getting the customers and just getting their trust and you're taking care of the technical things.

02:09:41.000 That's a replaceable position.

02:09:42.000 If you took you out of that position or took the female out of that position, would that business still run effectively? 0.99

02:09:47.000 Or could he then hire effectively somebody to do that role in a replacement?

02:09:52.000 Absolutely.

02:09:53.000 So I kind of, you know, if you play chess, right?

02:09:58.000 The queen, if you look at it, she can move as many spaces on the board in any direction. 1.00

02:10:02.000 And I would liken that a lot to how women move in the world, right? 0.97

02:10:06.000 Women are able to get certain opportunities once they come of age. 0.94

02:10:08.000 They're able to be on yachts and meet millionaires and get celebrity situations and get into clubs for free if they wear enough makeup and dresses and stuff and get on podcasts and all this other stuff, right?

02:10:17.000 They can move as many pieces on the board.

02:10:20.000 However, you know...

02:10:22.000 The queen can die and you can still win the game, right?

02:10:25.000 And on top of that, you can get a pawn to the other side and turn it into a queen.

02:10:29.000 But if the king is surrounded, the game's over.

02:10:32.000 Okay?

02:10:32.000 And I don't mean that to say, oh, yeah, this is my misogynistic thing or whatever.

02:10:37.000 But what I'm trying to say is, in general, the value that women provide is almost always replaceable by another female. 1.00

02:10:43.000 And the reason for that is because men have to bring way more value than women do. 0.98

02:10:46.000 So if the king is surrounded, the game's over.

02:10:49.000 But if you lose your queen, you can always get another pawn across and turn it into a queen.

02:10:54.000 So in other words...

02:10:56.000 Men are made, women are just born, man. 1.00

02:10:58.000 So it is what it is.

02:10:59.000 But I think men have to inherently bring way more value to a relationship to even get that situation.

02:11:04.000 That's why I don't think, I don't believe in equal partnerships.

02:11:07.000 I don't think it works when it's equal between the two genders because women are just not set up to respect an equal. 1.00

02:11:12.000 They're set up to respect only a superior.

02:11:14.000 For good reason, because you guys take way more of the biological risk.

02:11:17.000 You've got to carry a kid for nine months. 0.92

02:11:18.000 You've got to align this guy for security and provisioning, etc.

02:11:22.000 You've got to make sure you're with that guy.

02:11:24.000 Right?

02:11:25.000 Checkmate.

02:11:26.000 Can I ask a question?

02:11:27.000 Yeah.

02:11:27.000 So, then what will it take a man to respect a woman?

02:11:33.000 Not much.

02:11:34.000 I mean, it's very easy for a woman to come in and be respected by... 0.96

02:11:36.000 I would argue most guys respect women by default. 0.81

02:11:39.000 Yeah, up front.

02:11:40.000 But women don't respect men by default. 1.00

02:11:42.000 And that's when men lose respect for women.

02:11:44.000 Which is okay, but I've noticed that women in general don't respect... 1.00

02:11:47.000 A majority of women don't respect a majority of men.

02:11:49.000 However, a majority of men absolutely respect the majority of women.

02:11:52.000 And not queens.

02:11:55.000 You think so?

02:11:56.000 I actually don't think so.

02:11:57.000 You don't think so?

02:11:57.000 Why don't you think so?

02:11:59.000 By the way that men, even like the way they interact with women at the club, the way that they interact with women at the club, the way they just interact with women.

02:12:05.000 You're at a club.

02:12:07.000 Yeah.

02:12:08.000 Or even in general.

02:12:11.000 Even in general.

02:12:12.000 Today, for example.

02:12:13.000 Today.

02:12:13.000 Go ahead.

02:12:13.000 I was getting a banana.

02:12:15.000 And like a person, like, hey.

02:12:17.000 Hey, hey.

02:12:17.000 Like, that's.

02:12:18.000 I don't think that's respectful.

02:12:20.000 Like being like...

02:12:21.000 Like catcalling and stuff like that.

02:12:24.000 I don't think that's respectful.

02:12:26.000 Okay.

02:12:28.000 Let me ask you this.

02:12:30.000 That one guy, right?

02:12:32.000 What was it?

02:12:32.000 One guy that catcalled you?

02:12:33.000 I mean, that happens.

02:12:34.000 Or even just like men honking and screaming out the window.

02:12:37.000 This is what we tend to not do, though.

02:12:40.000 We only notice the negative, but we don't notice the positives.

02:12:43.000 You also probably don't notice the guys that hold the door open for you.

02:12:45.000 You notice the guys that say ma'am?

02:12:47.000 You don't notice the guys that treat you very well?

02:12:48.000 I actually do notice.

02:12:50.000 Literally, I do notice.

02:12:51.000 I think kindness is a beautiful thing.

02:12:54.000 So when people are kind, even when someone says have a good day when they're coming out the elevator, I'm like, touch.

02:12:58.000 So I do notice.

02:12:59.000 I would argue that most of those guys, you probably get more of that than the cat calling.

02:13:05.000 Actually...

02:13:07.000 I wouldn't say.

02:13:08.000 How many cat calls did you get today?

02:13:11.000 Only one person tried talking to me today and it was a cat call.

02:13:13.000 So if we're speaking on today alone, it's more disrespect than respect.

02:13:16.000 But how many people were in your environment today that didn't disrespect you?

02:13:21.000 That didn't do respect or disrespect.

02:13:24.000 But nobody held the door for me today.

02:13:26.000 Nobody walked by you in the lobby downstairs and didn't catcall you.

02:13:33.000 I'm sorry?

02:13:34.000 When we were downstairs, before we came upstairs.

02:13:36.000 Oh yeah, nobody had called me, but no men held the door either.

02:13:41.000 Nobody did anything that was respectful, per se.

02:13:44.000 Men are respectful, yes.

02:13:46.000 But by default, wouldn't them not catcalling you in the lobby or walking around even in the attire that we're all dressed in?

02:13:55.000 Isn't that respect by default?

02:13:57.000 Yeah, I feel like the guys out there were respectful.

02:13:59.000 They were very respectful. 0.76

02:14:00.000 They didn't look at our boobs. 0.51

02:14:02.000 They didn't say anything crazy to me. 0.58

02:14:03.000 They didn't make any comments.

02:14:05.000 I had guys say excuse me.

02:14:08.000 I had guys say they smiled as they walked by.

02:14:10.000 It was very pleasant.

02:14:11.000 It was very polite.

02:14:12.000 So I consider that being gentlemen.

02:14:16.000 Privilege is what?

02:14:18.000 Invisible to those that have it.

02:14:19.000 You might not say all the time, but she's right.

02:14:21.000 They're being respectful.

02:14:23.000 There was a woman actually, very interesting.

02:14:25.000 There was a woman that was a man for a year and a half. 1.00

02:14:29.000 And she actually ended up offing herself after the end of the year and a half because she was like, wow, life as a man is way harder than I thought.

02:14:36.000 And a lot of the times when females switch over and become a man, one of the biggest obstacles they deal with mentally is like, The lack of respect that they get in society and how invisible they are to individuals.

02:14:47.000 Women get a lot of privileges and certain situations set up for them just because they're female that men will never get. 1.00

02:14:54.000 And that's okay.

02:14:55.000 I'm not sitting here crying for it.

02:14:56.000 But what I'm saying in general is I've noticed that a majority of men absolutely do respect women, but a majority of women absolutely do not respect men.

02:15:03.000 Here's a perfect example to kind of back you up too, is I've taken several Ubers in the last couple of weeks, and I had a suitcase with me.

02:15:11.000 If I have a male driver, 99.9% of the time he is getting out of the car, he's opening the trunk, he's putting my suitcase in the trunk, he's opening my door, and he's letting me in.

02:15:21.000 Now I've had female drivers that have not gotten out of the front seat. 1.00

02:15:26.000 They're like, if you're a girl, you've got your own suitcase.

02:15:29.000 So, like, it's a perfect example of...

02:15:33.000 I don't think a lot of people see...

02:15:35.000 Women get the equality that they seek from other women. 1.00

02:15:38.000 And they don't like that shit. 1.00

02:15:40.000 Wait, we split the bill? 1.00

02:15:41.000 Wait, wait, wait, you're not moving my bags?

02:15:44.000 Yeah, I mean...

02:15:45.000 And here's the other thing, too, because I know you said that chivalry is dead or whatever.

02:15:48.000 I mean, that's true.

02:15:49.000 I would agree that, to a degree, chivalry is dead. 0.53

02:15:51.000 But I would argue that a big reason why chivalry is dead is because women are more masculine. 1.00

02:15:55.000 So if women are more masculine... 1.00

02:15:56.000 You can't necessarily command and demand chivalry when chivalry was instituted in a time when men and women weren't equal.

02:16:03.000 I'd argue now that women are more equal than ever before. 1.00

02:16:06.000 I think women have more rights and privileges than men. 0.81

02:16:08.000 So how could you demand chivalry while simultaneously having all the advantages and being equal?

02:16:13.000 It doesn't make sense, right?

02:16:14.000 I would argue you got what you wanted.

02:16:16.000 Yeah, I got the equality.

02:16:18.000 Because there's a problem with chivalry.

02:16:19.000 You cannot demand chivalry and equality at the same time.

02:16:23.000 Because chivalry in itself...

02:16:25.000 Is inequality.

02:16:26.000 You're getting different treatment based on you being a female, which conflicts with feminism and equality. 1.00

02:16:32.000 So you gotta pick one.

02:16:34.000 Either you get treated like a lady, you get privileges that only women get, or you get the equality that you seek, and you get treated like everybody else, which won't be shivery.

02:16:43.000 Bars. 0.86

02:16:43.000 I don't know. 0.86

02:16:44.000 Anybody have anything?

02:16:45.000 Mic drop.

02:16:46.000 Israel doesn't like that?

02:16:47.000 No, I don't like something else you said.

02:16:52.000 Sure, go ahead.

02:16:53.000 What did you not like?

02:16:54.000 And we got to close up soon.

02:16:55.000 They said men are made and then...

02:16:59.000 Women are born? 1.00

02:17:00.000 Women are born.

02:17:01.000 Okay.

02:17:02.000 What do you disagree with on that?

02:17:03.000 That women are also giving birth and you came from one also.

02:17:07.000 So it's not right to say that men are made.

02:17:12.000 Okay.

02:17:12.000 You can say men can be self-made and they, you know, they work themselves for success, but it doesn't like...

02:17:20.000 Okay, let's go up your example because you said I came from a woman, right?

02:17:23.000 All right.

02:17:25.000 Well, you did.

02:17:27.000 Yeah.

02:17:28.000 But let's go back, because if we're going to go with that frame, then we've got to go all the way back and go back in time, right?

02:17:33.000 So my mom... 0.70

02:17:34.000 My parents will show together to this day, right?

02:17:37.000 Sudan.

02:17:38.000 They met in Sudan.

02:17:40.000 And my dad had to reach a certain level of status and have certain things in place to even get a shot with my mom.

02:17:46.000 So my dad had to make himself become a man to be attractive for my mom.

02:17:50.000 My mom just existed.

02:17:52.000 And she'll even admit that.

02:17:54.000 My dad had to reach certain requirements to even be able to marry her.

02:17:59.000 And you're from the Middle East, you understand.

02:18:02.000 So that's just how it is.

02:18:05.000 I mean, when I say that women are born and men are made, that's effectively true because when a woman's 18 years old, bam, she has everything that she needs, right? 0.99

02:18:12.000 And some cultures, maybe even younger, right?

02:18:14.000 Age of consent is different, different places, different cultures.

02:18:15.000 But in general, women are born with their value, right? 1.00

02:18:19.000 And their beauty.

02:18:19.000 And then they're able to attract a man off that.

02:18:22.000 But the man has to do things to become attractive.

02:18:24.000 He's got to get a job.

02:18:25.000 He's got to learn how to fight.

02:18:26.000 He's got to learn how to get in shape.

02:18:27.000 He's got to have some accolades to his name.

02:18:29.000 He has to make his last name worth having for the woman to want to take it. 0.97

02:18:34.000 So that's what I mean when I say that.

02:18:36.000 Okay.

02:18:38.000 Alright.

02:18:40.000 Fair enough.

02:18:42.000 And in Israel, it's the same thing.

02:18:44.000 I mean, this is kind of how it is everywhere.

02:18:47.000 Like, you know, men have to become something for the woman to be attracted in the first place. 0.99

02:18:51.000 But I think women kind of overlook that because for women, you're in a privileged position where the man comes to you. 0.94

02:18:56.000 It's not the other way around.

02:18:57.000 Are women approaching men?

02:18:58.000 Yeah.

02:19:04.000 Ask yourself, the man that you did approach, he was probably well above average if you actually had the gall to approach him.

02:19:14.000 We're talking about an exceptional man if a woman makes the approach, correct? 1.00

02:19:17.000 The guy you approached?

02:19:18.000 I don't approach men, but I do know women who approach men.

02:19:20.000 I know women who approach men.

02:19:22.000 Why'd you say women approach men?

02:19:24.000 Because I know women who approach men.

02:19:26.000 But in general, do women approach men?

02:19:27.000 No.

02:19:31.000 And the example in a club You can see right there and then who approaches who in the club.

02:19:37.000 The man approaches women in the club.

02:19:39.000 Thank you.

02:19:40.000 Sorry, you had a point?

02:19:41.000 Yeah.

02:19:41.000 Well, I want to add that I don't want to judge no one, but I know that Jewish guys are more wild just because His family or they don't let them have fun or be like free because his family or they tell them like you can't have a girlfriend that's not Jewish so he's gonna be having fun with other girls.

02:20:05.000 That are not Jewish. 1.00

02:20:07.000 You know what I mean?

02:20:09.000 I mean, a part of that is because the lineage is with the female, so the mom's got to be Jewish for it to be passed. 0.54

02:20:16.000 Yeah.

02:20:16.000 That's a part of the reason.

02:20:17.000 Jewish.

02:20:26.000 So we'll get last thoughts and comments here.

02:20:32.000 Okay, all right.

02:20:33.000 I'll fly through these.

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02:20:37.000 I appreciate that.

02:20:38.000 First of all, Sasha, your only source of protein will be from us after we take you to dinner.

02:20:42.000 Yeah!

02:20:43.000 Who's that?

02:20:44.000 He said that to Sasha.

02:20:46.000 Yes, sir!

02:20:47.000 Fresh, good donut pillow ready, aka the Caucasian adapter for her after we finish bedroom fun time. 1.00

02:20:52.000 Make the move big home.

02:20:53.000 Yeah!

02:20:54.000 Get him, Fresh!

02:20:55.000 Get him, Fresh!

02:20:56.000 That's my dog! 0.76

02:20:57.000 That's my dog! 0.76

02:20:59.000 No.

02:21:00.000 You don't have a response?

02:21:00.000 That's my dog!

02:21:02.000 As a man of God, that is not me.

02:21:04.000 Fresh, thank you for donating to the church.

02:21:06.000 World Economic Forum.

02:21:08.000 You will be happy and owe nothing.

02:21:10.000 He always comments when certain things are on the panel.

02:21:12.000 I can see what you're doing here.

02:21:13.000 Shout out to Wayne for gifting 10 more YouTube memberships.

02:21:15.000 I appreciate that.

02:21:16.000 Shout out to Wayne.

02:21:16.000 And then we got John.

02:21:18.000 Ladies, let's say you had an emotional son who cried whenever he ran into hardship in life.

02:21:21.000 Would you say it'd be more acceptable for him to just be emotional with his wife as he is to you?

02:21:26.000 Yes, if you think he should be emotional with his wife like he's crying to you as a mom. 1.00

02:21:31.000 Damn, none of y'all. 1.00

02:21:32.000 Nope. 1.00

02:21:33.000 And then y'all expect us to be vulnerable.

02:21:34.000 I wonder why.

02:21:35.000 Cold-blooded.

02:21:36.000 Not to an extreme.

02:21:37.000 Oh, now it's not to an extreme.

02:21:42.000 Not my son.

02:21:53.000 I ain't got to feel the vibe first.

02:21:55.000 Fresh and fit.

02:21:56.000 Fleshy Pro CEO here.

02:21:57.000 Your previous Fleshy Pro chat had me rolling, but ain't about losing respect.

02:22:00.000 It's about leveling up.

02:22:01.000 Bench press for your bedroom skills.

02:22:03.000 What y'all think?

02:22:04.000 Huh?

02:22:04.000 Wait, what?

02:22:05.000 What are you talking about?

02:22:06.000 There's a lot in there.

02:22:06.000 I don't know.

02:22:07.000 What are you saying?

02:22:08.000 Alpha Male Matters.

02:22:10.000 Will you sacrifice your career to take care of a family and serve your men if your men proves anything?

02:22:13.000 Love FMF from India.

02:22:15.000 Feminism is getting here. 1.00

02:22:16.000 Two men.

02:22:16.000 God save us all.

02:22:18.000 Okay, raise your hands if you would sacrifice your career to take care of a family and serve your man.

02:22:22.000 Raise your hands if you sacrifice your career.

02:22:24.000 Okay, only four of y'all?

02:22:26.000 Five?

02:22:28.000 I have.

02:22:29.000 I would, but I really love my career.

02:22:32.000 I love acting and I love my career.

02:22:35.000 I love my career. 0.96

02:22:38.000 Tits on Playboy. 0.98

02:22:40.000 Most attractive race to you and why? 0.99

02:22:43.000 We can run real quick with this.

02:22:45.000 Most attractive race and why? 0.93

02:22:47.000 Black, white, Asian, Jewish.

02:22:50.000 Most attractive, I think.

02:22:53.000 Cuban, Colombian, Mexican.

02:22:58.000 Okay, Hispanics. 0.73

02:22:59.000 Let's attractive, Jewish.

02:23:02.000 What the?

02:23:03.000 They are cute.

02:23:07.000 They are just identical.

02:23:13.000 What about you?

02:23:17.000 It's not a race.

02:23:19.000 Some people look at it as a race.

02:23:22.000 They call it the Jewish people.

02:23:24.000 Some people call it a race.

02:23:28.000 What about you?

02:23:30.000 Least attractive, most attractive?

02:23:34.000 Most attractive, I would say, Israelis.

02:23:39.000 That's where I was born and it feels familiar.

02:23:43.000 The least attractive.

02:23:44.000 What if they're Jewish, but not from Israel, maybe American? 0.60

02:23:50.000 That's a hard one.

02:23:51.000 I'm open to that, but I feel culture and, you know, just the language and stuff.

02:23:57.000 It's just, yeah.

02:23:58.000 But open.

02:24:00.000 Okay.

02:24:00.000 Open.

02:24:01.000 So for that, the most important thing is they're Jewish.

02:24:04.000 Well, the most important thing is that they're a good person in the heart.

02:24:08.000 It's beyond anything.

02:24:10.000 Well, of course, I'm not telling you to get with a terrible person.

02:24:13.000 But assuming everything is equal.

02:24:14.000 I would say also most attractive can be Latins, people from Russia, from Eastern Europe.

02:24:30.000 I would say Israeli and Latin.

02:24:37.000 Or the most attractive?

02:24:38.000 Yes.

02:24:38.000 And then least?

02:24:39.000 And then least, I would say Asians, actually. 1.00

02:24:42.000 Oh, okay.

02:24:44.000 That's actually pretty good.

02:24:45.000 What about you?

02:24:46.000 They don't love you this long time.

02:24:47.000 Most attractive?

02:24:48.000 Blacks? 0.99

02:24:49.000 Yeah, we know that. 0.97

02:24:50.000 Yeah, facts.

02:24:51.000 I don't have a least attractive.

02:24:54.000 You gotta have one.

02:24:55.000 I have a date white.

02:24:56.000 Thank you.

02:24:58.000 Come again.

02:24:59.000 You deal with him?

02:25:00.000 Sadish?

02:25:01.000 You do Sadish?

02:25:02.000 Akish? 1.00

02:25:03.000 Sure.

02:25:04.000 Curry?

02:25:05.000 Stop the cap. 0.94

02:25:06.000 Curry chicken? 0.50

02:25:07.000 Most attractive, black and hispanic, and least attractive. 1.00

02:25:14.000 He's a good mix between that.

02:25:16.000 That's my dog.

02:25:17.000 I'm too burnt, bro.

02:25:18.000 That's my dog, fresh.

02:25:19.000 Get him fresh.

02:25:20.000 And then least attractive?

02:25:21.000 White. 1.00

02:25:23.000 Damn, okay. 1.00

02:25:24.000 Now you know why she left Russia. 1.00

02:25:25.000 Self-hating.

02:25:27.000 She was rushing out of Russia.

02:25:30.000 Alright, what about you?

02:25:32.000 Most attractive?

02:25:34.000 Black, specifically Island Boys. 0.94

02:25:36.000 Yes, sir!

02:25:39.000 I would say, yeah, I've never dated a white guy, so yeah.

02:25:48.000 Or I've never been with a white guy either, so yeah.

02:25:51.000 Alright, what about you?

02:25:52.000 I would say Caucasian and Black guys are the most attractive.

02:25:55.000 And I would say the least attractive, I'd have to agree, would be Asian. 1.00

02:25:59.000 Does it matter if they're, like, oriental Asian or are we talking, like, Indian?

02:26:04.000 I say Indian.

02:26:05.000 I would say Indian, yeah.

02:26:09.000 They're not trying to think you're coming out of here.

02:26:12.000 But we can say you're pretty much black and white.

02:26:14.000 You get it?

02:26:19.000 Get him fresh!

02:26:21.000 All right, last thoughts.

02:26:25.000 Oh, we got some more.

02:26:25.000 Oh, okay.

02:26:26.000 Noem Billy, shout out to Big Mo looking like Media Mo. 0.99

02:26:29.000 It's not gay if it's not homo, sexual. 1.00

02:26:33.000 And then we got Chris. 0.97

02:26:39.000 Ladies, do you think women are the happiest, ultimately 45 years old, one mil a year, ugly, single, no kids, or 25 years old, making no money with your ideal husband who you submit to paying your bills, beautiful, and two kids? 1.00

02:26:49.000 Why?

02:26:49.000 That's a lot, man.

02:26:50.000 Okay.

02:26:52.000 Alright, we can simplify this. 0.93

02:26:54.000 Would you prefer to be pretty and broke or rich and ugly? 0.95

02:26:58.000 We'll start right here as a female. 1.00

02:27:00.000 Pretty and broke or rich and ugly as a woman? 1.00

02:27:02.000 Don't read that. 0.96

02:27:03.000 It's the same question, essentially.

02:27:05.000 Rich and unattractive.

02:27:07.000 Really?

02:27:07.000 Yeah.

02:27:08.000 Okay, what about you?

02:27:09.000 I like the security of the money.

02:27:12.000 Yeah, now she said it like that, yeah.

02:27:13.000 I mean, I was going for money anyways, because I mean...

02:27:16.000 You literally just said you want to give up your career, man, which is based on beauty.

02:27:21.000 You're right.

02:27:22.000 Money can buy you anything.

02:27:25.000 What about you?

02:27:26.000 Rich and ugly or beautiful and pretty, beautiful and broke? 0.98

02:27:30.000 Beautiful and broke. 0.94

02:27:31.000 Fair enough. 0.98

02:27:32.000 Rich and ugly. 0.99

02:27:35.000 Stop the cap. 0.99

02:27:36.000 Honestly.

02:27:38.000 No way.

02:27:39.000 You know, honestly, beautiful and rich, but in this question...

02:27:43.000 Beautiful and rich, yeah.

02:27:45.000 I'm just kidding.

02:27:47.000 Yeah, I would go with the beautiful and the unattractive.

02:27:51.000 Oh, yeah.

02:27:52.000 Okay.

02:27:53.000 Beautiful.

02:27:55.000 No, the beautiful and the...

02:27:57.000 It broke?

02:27:58.000 Yeah, I will.

02:28:00.000 Okay, it broke.

02:28:01.000 Sorry.

02:28:02.000 What about you?

02:28:03.000 Yeah, we broke.

02:28:04.000 Pretty broke as well?

02:28:05.000 Okay, we knew that one.

02:28:08.000 Mal's no goes, episode 204, getting closer to 304.

02:28:11.000 Also, please ask ladies if it ever came down to it.

02:28:13.000 Would they consider an abortion?

02:28:14.000 What?

02:28:16.000 Would you have an abortion if you got pregnant by the wrong guy? 1.00

02:28:18.000 Yes or no?

02:28:19.000 Yes.

02:28:20.000 No. 0.99

02:28:20.000 I also would have unprotected sex with somebody that, like... 0.99

02:28:22.000 Yeah, yeah, but let's assume the worst, that you got pregnant accidentally by a dude. 1.00

02:28:26.000 Then yes, I would.

02:28:27.000 Abortion? 0.89

02:28:27.000 Okay. 0.89

02:28:28.000 Who would not have an abortion? 1.00

02:28:33.000 So if somebody forced you on the side of the road...

02:29:10.000 I had my blue hair in 2017.

02:29:13.000 And you missed it?

02:29:14.000 My natural hair, yeah.

02:29:17.000 When we met you, your hair wasn't blue.

02:29:21.000 I know, but this is a wig.

02:29:24.000 I know it's a wig.

02:29:26.000 I had my hair blue in 2017.

02:29:30.000 I bleached my hair.

02:29:32.000 Yeah, but why did you make it blue?

02:29:34.000 But why did you make it blue, though?

02:29:37.000 It's what he's asking.

02:29:38.000 Because I feel like it fits my personality.

02:29:41.000 Blue?

02:29:45.000 Let's get the final thoughts here and close this thing out.

02:29:48.000 We'll start here.

02:29:49.000 How was the show for you?

02:29:50.000 It was awesome.

02:29:52.000 It was really a great show.

02:29:53.000 I think there was some common ground and some things that we had some good discussions.

02:29:58.000 I'm curious real quick.

02:29:59.000 Would you ever stop your career if you found the right guy even now?

02:30:06.000 That would take care of you? 0.74

02:30:07.000 No.

02:30:09.000 I don't...

02:30:14.000 Good question.

02:30:18.000 I have an end date anyway, so I have like a very short window of I have like a very precise business plan.

02:30:29.000 So it's like in when the menopause hits.

02:30:32.000 When the eggs dry up, baby.

02:30:37.000 What about you?

02:30:38.000 Final thoughts or disagreements or points or anything?

02:30:41.000 I mean, I loved it.

02:30:42.000 It was a great show.

02:30:45.000 I felt like everyone had different opinions, but we, like you said, came to Common Ground, really good discussions.

02:30:50.000 It actually went better than I thought it was going to go.

02:30:52.000 I thought someone was going to get Frank Castle, for sure.

02:30:55.000 But it went really good.

02:30:57.000 Alright, cool.

02:30:58.000 Wait, who do you thought was going to get Frank Castle?

02:30:59.000 Tell us the honest truth.

02:31:01.000 Don't care.

02:31:02.000 I ate a lot.

02:31:03.000 These two! 0.98

02:31:05.000 These two, but then when you started talking, I was like, oh, she about to get pissed the fuck off sooner or later and just snap. 0.99

02:31:10.000 But you did really well, so I loved it.

02:31:11.000 Oh, thank you.

02:31:11.000 You did so good.

02:31:12.000 Thank you, girl.

02:31:14.000 What about you?

02:31:15.000 Last thoughts?

02:31:16.000 On that note, I do have a last thought.

02:31:19.000 So when you said that women are born and men are made, I'm going to give you a scenario. 0.96

02:31:25.000 So in the scenario, let's say, so I'm in STEM, right?

02:31:28.000 And when I'm looking for a job in a professional industry, let's say you and I go for the same job.

02:31:36.000 How do you think they're gonna perceive us?

02:31:38.000 You'll have a way higher likelihood of getting the job over me. 0.97

02:31:41.000 No, because they're gonna look at me, they're gonna be like, she's blonde, she must be dumb, this is a man, and he probably knows what he's doing.

02:31:49.000 If you go into a male-dominated profession and you're a female, you will absolutely get the job over a more qualified male for the purpose of workforce diversity. 0.85

02:32:01.000 I might get the job for that purpose, but will I get a promotion?

02:32:06.000 I feel like I will still not be looked at the same way.

02:32:11.000 Well, how you feel versus what's real are two different things.

02:32:14.000 You might feel as though you might be looked at a different way, but the fact that you're even getting the opportunity over a man who might be more qualified than you based on nothing more than your gender speaks volumes.

02:32:23.000 And couldn't you change your hair color?

02:32:25.000 Easily.

02:32:26.000 I love my hair color.

02:32:27.000 It's my natural hair.

02:32:29.000 That's not the point.

02:32:30.000 I'm still going to be pretty and a woman.

02:32:33.000 If you perform, it doesn't matter really on gender.

02:32:37.000 And as well, I used to do tech.

02:32:38.000 I was in the tech industry.

02:32:39.000 What did you do in tech?

02:32:41.000 Troubleshooting, programming.

02:32:43.000 But it's funny because all of my superiors, most of them were women.

02:32:48.000 If you put in the work, you ask for reasons.

02:32:51.000 And here's the thing.

02:32:51.000 I'm not unaware of the fact that women absolutely deal with a hurdle where if they're attractive to a degree or if they have a certain look, they're going to be written off as bimbos at first.

02:33:00.000 However, it's on you to prove them wrong.

02:33:02.000 Don't perpetuate the stereotype.

02:33:04.000 So if you come in and you're competent, You're going to get even bigger.

02:33:07.000 You're going to get even faster accolades, and you're going to be able to move up even faster because now you meet the workplace diversity quota, and you're competent, so you're going to move up the ranks.

02:33:17.000 I mean, anytime I've ever seen a woman enter a male-dominated field, they always rise up the ranks faster than the men do every single time, whether it's law enforcement, which I saw that especially, less competent females get pushed up the ranks because of the support of workplace diversity or other jobs that are male-dominated. 0.99

02:33:33.000 Women have a leg up. 1.00

02:33:35.000 I mean, they've done studies on this too, where they look at like, if a man submitted a resume with the same exact requirements and put it under a female name, he got way more calls.

02:33:43.000 I mean, that's like a fear that I have, like going in.

02:33:46.000 No, no, no.

02:33:47.000 You're going to have way more doors open for you as a female, especially in a male-dominated field. 1.00

02:33:51.000 They're going to hire you.

02:33:53.000 We did a coding camp as well for part of that program.

02:33:58.000 And actually, one of the girls said, you know what?

02:34:00.000 Screw it.

02:34:00.000 I want to do cybersecurity.

02:34:01.000 She did cybersecurity. 0.65

02:34:02.000 She was the only girl hired there, but she's the only girl that actually applied.

02:34:05.000 And she got it right away like this.

02:34:06.000 So I'm just saying, like, you're going to have way more options than most guys.

02:34:10.000 Just being a girl. 0.68

02:34:11.000 Sometimes you feel like, but I mean...

02:34:16.000 How you feel versus what's real are two different things.

02:34:18.000 You're absolutely going to have more doors open for you as a female, which is cool. 1.00

02:34:20.000 I'm not knocking women for having female privilege, but that's one of the benefits of going to male-dominated career field. 1.00

02:34:27.000 So do you still think men or men or women are born?

02:34:30.000 Still disagree? 1.00

02:34:34.000 That's it, bitch! 1.00

02:34:35.000 Honestly, you made some good points. 0.99

02:34:39.000 So I agree with, let's say, like 75 of it.

02:34:42.000 And I also wanted to say that...

02:34:44.000 It's really 90%, but she has to...

02:34:47.000 Let's say like 78%.

02:34:50.000 Sure.

02:34:51.000 More like 87%, but okay.

02:34:54.000 But you said the woman had to be competent.

02:34:56.000 They don't have to be.

02:34:57.000 You said like in order...

02:35:00.000 They don't have to be a lot of the times.

02:35:03.000 Are you listening?

02:35:04.000 No, you said they have to be confident if they want to go up to ask for a raise.

02:35:07.000 You're about to be a PhD and you can't even pay attention.

02:35:10.000 So you didn't say that.

02:35:12.000 So you didn't say that women have to be confident in order, if they want to get in a raise, they have to be confident. 0.99

02:35:16.000 You didn't say that?

02:35:17.000 That was another thing that you said?

02:35:18.000 Oh, you mean, yeah.

02:35:20.000 Hold on.

02:35:21.000 So you said it.

02:35:23.000 Hold on.

02:35:24.000 But the context was under her being judged as a bimbo. 1.00

02:35:29.000 Because that was one of her fears.

02:35:30.000 It's like, I'm a blonde.

02:35:31.000 I'm going to come in as a woman.

02:35:32.000 They're going to think I'm incompetent. 1.00

02:35:33.000 They're going to think I'm stupid. 1.00

02:35:34.000 I'm like, no, no, you prove you're competent. 0.99

02:35:36.000 So it was a very specific context under which I phrased it.

02:35:38.000 To be competent, you have to be made, made competent.

02:35:41.000 You have to put in the work, right?

02:35:42.000 Yeah, of course.

02:35:44.000 Of course, but that's not really...

02:35:45.000 Oh, relevant?

02:35:48.000 It is relevant because it's not like I can come into a STEM space and be like, hi, I'm a woman or whatever.

02:35:56.000 And even to be a STEM, you have to have certain criteria.

02:35:59.000 My argument is that you don't have to be as competent as a man to get the position.

02:36:05.000 I disagree with that.

02:36:08.000 If a man had the same exact accolades that you did, your resumes are identical, they're going to take you over him.

02:36:13.000 What if they already filled their women quota? 1.00

02:36:15.000 Or even if he had more experience or whatever, you still have a higher likelihood of getting the job.

02:36:20.000 You keep saying what if, should, coulda, woulda.

02:36:23.000 Have you actually applied for any jobs and got any turndowns?

02:36:25.000 I've been applying for jobs.

02:36:27.000 I've gotten all the turndowns.

02:36:29.000 Maybe they're just by hiring.

02:36:31.000 No, no, no.

02:36:31.000 Okay.

02:36:32.000 How many companies?

02:36:33.000 Um, maybe 50?

02:36:35.000 Wow, I mean, I'm gonna keep applying.

02:36:37.000 I understand this is like a hard...

02:36:38.000 Do you have any experience?

02:36:39.000 Yes, I have experience.

02:36:40.000 I did an internship.

02:36:42.000 Is that it?

02:36:43.000 That's my experience.

02:36:45.000 How long was that internship?

02:36:47.000 Six months.

02:36:47.000 But I'm also, besides applying for jobs, I'm also applying for internships.

02:36:51.000 Like, I'm not expecting to just come into this space and, like, dominate it.

02:36:55.000 Like, I understand.

02:36:56.000 You still have a higher likelihood of getting hired for a job over a minute.

02:36:59.000 But even getting an internship, it's hard.

02:37:02.000 Yeah, I mean, there's a lot of people competing.

02:37:05.000 World War II... Huh?

02:37:07.000 Oh, it was in the...

02:37:09.000 Come on, state.

02:37:10.000 You got this.

02:37:11.000 Come on, girl. 1.00

02:37:11.000 You got the swing. 1.00

02:37:12.000 It was in the...

02:37:14.000 40s.

02:37:16.000 Yeah!

02:37:16.000 You learned something!

02:37:18.000 All right.

02:37:19.000 Anything else?

02:37:20.000 Oh, what else did I learn?

02:37:22.000 As far as last thoughts, disagreements?

02:37:25.000 Oh no, I think it's interesting.

02:37:26.000 I think women bring something to the table. 1.00

02:37:28.000 I think men are great.

02:37:29.000 I think men bring something to the table.

02:37:31.000 I hate that it's always this thing where we have to be going back and forth.

02:37:34.000 Women are good for stuff, men are good for stuff. 1.00

02:37:36.000 Question.

02:37:36.000 Is what you heard about us confirmed today or do you feel different about it or the same way?

02:37:41.000 Good question.

02:37:42.000 I mean, I don't think you're misogynist.

02:37:47.000 Really?

02:37:48.000 We're too soft today, bro.

02:37:50.000 I will admit that I am a sexist, though, because I don't think men and women are equal, but reality is sexist.

02:37:56.000 But I mean, in general, because a lot of my viewpoints, I don't believe that women should... 1.00

02:38:00.000 I don't have misogynistic viewpoints because a lot of things I hear people say is taken to an extreme, but I do believe... 0.86

02:38:07.000 I guess I'm old-fashioned, we'll say.

02:38:10.000 So you're a sexist?

02:38:11.000 If that's what you want to call it.

02:38:12.000 Old-fashioned literally is being sexist.

02:38:14.000 Treating women differently based on their gender. 0.95

02:38:16.000 That is sexism. 1.00

02:38:17.000 Welcome to the club. 0.99

02:38:19.000 You're one of us, nigga. 0.98

02:38:21.000 A lot of you guys made arguments for sexism. 0.98

02:38:28.000 Like, oh, men aren't chivalrous anymore. 0.99

02:38:30.000 Men are weak. 0.96

02:38:31.000 Like, that's an argument for sexism because chivalry in itself is sexist. 0.99

02:38:35.000 Don't worry, I'm independent too.

02:38:36.000 You're treating someone different based on their gender.

02:38:41.000 That is the definition of sexism. 0.51

02:38:43.000 So I guess I am sexist. 1.00

02:38:45.000 Yeah, we boss niggas up in this bitch. 1.00

02:38:47.000 Period. 1.00

02:38:49.000 Alright, Miss Tel Aviv, last thoughts, disagreements, or points, or...

02:38:53.000 No, I just had a good time.

02:38:56.000 I enjoyed listening to everybody and their opinions.

02:39:01.000 Also to you.

02:39:02.000 Both of you, obviously.

02:39:05.000 And to, you know, also express my opinion.

02:39:11.000 So, thank you.

02:39:12.000 Thank you for coming.

02:39:12.000 Thank you.

02:39:13.000 Do you like Netanyahu?

02:39:15.000 I'm not getting into politics.

02:39:19.000 Alright, would you break the lineage for Arabic?

02:39:23.000 Yes, sir.

02:39:24.000 No, we're supposed to be sworn enemies.

02:39:26.000 I mean, would you?

02:39:26.000 No, we're not enemies.

02:39:28.000 We're distant cousins.

02:39:34.000 We're all Semites.

02:39:37.000 Alright, what about you?

02:39:41.000 You guys know I love to be here.

02:39:43.000 I think you guys are amazing.

02:39:45.000 And I changed a lot since I came here the first time.

02:39:48.000 What's the number one thing you changed?

02:39:49.000 You know.

02:39:50.000 Her hair.

02:39:50.000 My only hair.

02:39:53.000 Oh, you quit your OnlyFans?

02:39:55.000 Yeah.

02:39:55.000 Really?

02:39:56.000 Wait, really?

02:39:57.000 Really?

02:39:57.000 Do you guys remember?

02:40:00.000 I don't know.

02:40:01.000 I mean...

02:40:03.000 Wait, did you guys tell her to quit the OnlyFans?

02:40:05.000 No.

02:40:06.000 Wait, what made you want to quit your OnlyFans?

02:40:09.000 Because you said you, like, after coming on the show, that's what persuaded you, convinced you.

02:40:14.000 We never tell girls to quit OnlyFans.

02:40:16.000 We just simply tell them that, hey, if you get in some profession, it's going to limit your options with men in the future.

02:40:20.000 That's what we tell them.

02:40:21.000 Yeah, exactly.

02:40:22.000 I was being treated differently since I started the OnlyFans.

02:40:28.000 Respectfully, I can see that.

02:40:30.000 Somebody double check.

02:40:31.000 They not believe in you.

02:40:34.000 Cool.

02:40:35.000 All right, guys.

02:40:35.000 This is a good panel.

02:40:36.000 Thank you, ladies, for coming in and giving your viewpoints, even though you might not agree with everything.

02:40:40.000 But we're going to end the show here, guys.

02:40:43.000 Don't forget to like the video, subscribe to the channel if you haven't already.

02:40:45.000 All the girls' Instagrams are below. 0.99

02:40:46.000 Go ahead and send them a dick pic. 1.00

02:40:47.000 I think they're all single except for one. 1.00

02:40:49.000 I think they'd enjoy it.

02:40:50.000 We'll catch you guys on the next episode of Fresh and Fit on Wednesday.

02:40:53.000 Peace.

02:40:55.000 I ran so far away.

02:40:58.000 I just ran.

02:41:00.000 I ran all night and day.

02:41:03.000 Don't get away.

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