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00:04:19.000So I think, honestly, bro, that's a lot of value right there.
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00:04:38.000But without further ado, ladies, if you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course, your body count, we're going to start right here.
00:09:13.000I'm a bartender and I just graduated actually in the beginning of this month with my second bachelor degree and I'm looking for a job in the industry.
00:09:22.000Okay, so you have two bachelor degrees.
00:11:26.000Actually, in particular, I don't think high value men should be allowed to cheat and get away with certain things just because they're men or because they have money.
00:21:35.000It depends who we're asking because it's a very diverse country and you have the more of the liberal side and the conservative side.
00:21:46.000So the more orthodox religious people, they would start dating probably around the age that they get off high school so they can get married as soon as possible.
00:21:58.000And with the liberal side, it depends.
00:22:02.000I mean, some people, they date when they're 14, 15, but I mean, I don't know.
00:22:59.000I feel like my boy could probably date, like, maybe like a year or two younger, but I'd also, that way I could, like, teach him on how to court a lady at a younger age, I guess.
00:26:13.000Yeah, it would open up opportunities versus, you know, yeah, you have access to his money and properties, but could have you gone further with access to him as a...
00:26:20.000He's gonna have you stuck in the property and he's gonna be fucking another girl outside.
00:26:25.000No, I was thinking of more so, like, I could use his money to start a business, do whatever I want, use the property, like Airbnb.
00:26:43.000Just give me the money, let me make my business, do what I want to do with it.
00:26:46.000And honestly, too, if you have access to his properties and you have access to his money, you have access to him, so you still have the same opportunities except you're not in a relationship.
00:26:56.000So you still have the same, like, I would believe you would still have the same, like, to meet the connection.
00:28:40.000I'm just saying like women tend to be generous a lot of the times when the guy makes a lot more money than they do and there's like that potential.
00:30:38.000For the ladies, when it comes to cheating, is it harder on the guy or the girl keeping in mind the woman gets dominated and the man does the dominating?
00:30:43.000Okay, we'll make this one a simple one.
00:32:40.000No, I mean, I think it's worse when a man cheats on a woman, I think it's worse.
00:32:44.000Okay, why do you think it's worse, in your opinion?
00:32:47.000Well, again, I think they're both equal, but you kind of made me decide between the two.
00:32:58.000I think that, you know, just generally as a female, we are more devoted when we're in our natural state, right?
00:33:09.000When we're in harmony and when we are in love with someone.
00:33:14.000So we don't really want to go outside and look for something else.
00:33:19.000When we have what we have and we love it and we enjoy it and we just get everything we need, Like, if a guy, you know, takes care of everything and he, like, answers all the love languages that a woman needs, then why would she go out and just do that?
00:33:34.000So when he goes and do that, it just makes her feel like she's not enough or that if she did something wrong.
00:33:41.000It's a lot of, like, I would say it's a hit to, like, the self-esteem and self-confidence and her mental health in general.
00:34:14.000You gave a lot of arguments, actually, for why it would be worse if a woman cheated, because you stated how women get emotionally tied, they want to be with one person, etc.
00:34:23.000So, wouldn't it be a bigger act of betrayal, since women are more predisposed to want to be with one partner for them to cheat?
00:34:38.000You said that it's worse than a man, she's because women want to have one partner, they're more devoted, they don't want to run around and have sex, they want to be monogamous.
00:35:50.000I do because I'm honest and I'm truthful and I'm trustworthy.
00:35:54.000So if guys walked up to you and said, listen, I want to have sex with multiple girls and you be loyal to me and you stay at home and you cook and you clean and you provide for me, provide the nurturing side, but I'm going to go out and have other women.
00:36:04.000I would say you can do whatever you want.
00:36:08.000You know, if that's what, please you go ahead.
00:36:11.000And then I'll pack my stuff and my shoes and we'll say peace and we'll never talk to him ever again in my life because why am I there doing all that if it's just getting entertainment from other women?
00:36:24.000Don't you think it's a bit insane though to expect honesty from someone but you're going to punish them for delivering that honesty to you?
00:39:12.000But like you said, there's people who would be cool with it and I feel like the people who want to step out, they should be with those people.
00:39:19.000But what kind of bond can we build if it's built online?
00:39:24.000If you're doing whatever you want and like lying to my face and eventually I'm going to find out and I'm going to feel betrayed and it's going to be a lot of drama.
00:42:17.000I always find it interesting that women want honesty and transparency, etc.
00:42:21.000How can you expect someone to be honest with you when they're not going to be rewarded for doing so?
00:42:26.000Because the thing is that when women say, I want honesty, what that really translates to is, I want transparency so I can make the best decision for myself.
00:42:35.000Think of it as working a 40-hour work week, putting yourself out there, and you might not necessarily be paid for it.
00:42:41.000And that's the same exact situation where a guy is being honest with you and telling you, I want to have multiple women.
00:42:45.000Most of them don't have the capacity to handle that, and he's not going to be rewarded 95% of the time by being honest and transparent about that.
00:42:52.000So you can't expect someone to be honest with you and transparent when they're going to be punished for doing so.
00:43:50.000Oh, now you know what you like all of a sudden.
00:43:52.000He fulfills what you need to be liked.
00:43:54.000Then he fulfills all these requirements, etc.
00:43:56.000Then you expect him to be honest and transparent with you about what he likes and potentially lose you after he had to work his ass off to get you to like him in the first place.
00:44:21.000I'm attracted to him, but you guys don't see all the work it took for the man to get to that point where you even like him in the first place.
00:44:27.000Then you expect them to take all that hard work, throw it out the window and tell you, oh yeah, by the way, I'm busting my ass not just to fuck you, but to fuck five other girls.
00:44:34.000You honestly think he's going, and critical thinking skills here.
00:44:45.000Do you really think it's in his best interest?
00:44:47.000I do understand what you're saying, but what I'm saying is while you're putting in the work, that's where it should be established if we have the same viewpoint.
00:44:53.000Like, not while we're in it and then you decide to cheat on me.
00:44:56.000I feel like while you're putting in the work, don't even waste your time.
00:44:59.000In the beginning, tell me that's what you want.
00:46:43.000I don't know if that was sarcasm, but it is a lot of work.
00:46:45.000It is a considerable amount of work for a woman to keep herself attractive and in shape, etc.
00:46:49.000But you got to understand that the amount of work that a woman takes to be attractive is not nearly the same amount of work required for a man to be attractive.
00:48:20.000Because if you liked any guy that's being honest with you, you would like the homeless guy that says, give me a dollar, I need to go get a beer.
00:50:53.000Because sooner or later I'm gonna get to know you as a person and if you're putting up a front and we don't end up connecting because you put up a front, what was the point of all of that?
00:51:15.000So, Saturday night in Miami, Drake, Lil Wayne, and a bunch of other top-tier artists are going to be appearing at Club Live in Miami Beach, right?
00:51:27.000But, what I'm telling you is, you cannot wear makeup, heels, a nice dress, you have to go there in sweatpants, no makeup, Gym gear, do you think you would have a chance of getting inside?
00:51:41.000I actually look really good without makeup on and sweatpants.
00:52:05.000Do you seriously think that you're going to get inside when we have some of the most attractive women coming here that live here and visiting here from different parts of the world?
00:52:11.000Do you honestly think you're going to get in not dress appropriately without makeup on, extensions, and sneakers?
00:52:18.000Do you seriously think you're going to get in?
00:52:19.000So exactly why was I not allowed to wear makeup?
00:52:34.000That's not the point of the exercise here.
00:52:36.000But the point I'm trying to demonstrate is you're not going to be let into a top-tier club with celebrities there when you're not looking your best and putting out a certain facade.
00:52:47.000It's just that it's socially acceptable for women to put up a facade from a look standpoint, enhance their looks, enhance their dressing, etc., to get in and put themselves in certain situations.
00:52:55.000But if a man does it, oh, what are you doing, etc.?
00:52:58.000What I've come to realize is women want to be able to have a monopoly on deception and being able to have the mystique.
00:53:04.000But if a man does the same thing, it's a problem.
00:53:07.000Because realistically speaking, if we're going to be honest here, women's entire presence and way that they deal with the opposite gender is based on deception.
00:53:15.000Makeup, heels, extensions, nails, etc.
00:53:17.000Very little about a woman is natural beauty in today's day and age.
00:53:21.000Especially when you're competing at the highest levels for the highest value men in venues that are hyper-competitive.
00:53:26.000I gave the club environment to show you an example where a woman has to compete.
00:53:29.000But in general, men have to do this all the time outside of a club.
00:53:32.000So do you realistically think a man can just be himself and get an attractive girl?
00:57:24.000Because if you're able to open up and talk about your feelings, emotions, thoughts, inspiration, aspirations to me and share them with me, then, you know, I see that there is like more value in it and I would like to,
00:58:54.000When it comes to dating, right, with you, let's say I want to be with you long term, and then I open up to you, you say, oh, that's kind of cringe.
00:59:11.000Yes, you're still good, but then you'll never have the opportunity of experiencing true love and deep bond and something that is meaningful.
00:59:19.000You have to take the chance of getting hurt and open up.
00:59:38.000You know, I'm not going to be giving up too much of myself and I'm not going to be sharing.
00:59:43.000So it means that, like, I can walk away and, you know.
00:59:46.000So you're saying basically, in a nutshell, being vulnerable opens you up to, you know, emotions and a deeper connection with an individual.
01:00:34.000No, it absolutely matters the perspective because you're giving a female perspective on how vulnerability enhances emotions and a deeper connection.
01:00:40.000But what I'm saying, for a man, it might not necessarily be that way.
01:00:45.000So you're telling me a man doesn't want to be heard?
01:00:49.000A man doesn't want to feel like someone cares about him?
01:00:52.000A man doesn't want to put his head on someone's shoulder when he's going through hard times?
01:01:00.000What you're saying is being able to put a hat on a shoulder and be vulnerable, etc.
01:01:04.000Though a woman is capable of providing that comfort, I think a safer way to go about getting that comfort and being vulnerable is through another man who experiences the same issues and problems and dilemmas that you do from the male experience.
01:01:17.000Because you just admitted by yourself That men and women are different and we experience different problems based on our gender.
01:01:23.000So wouldn't it be kind of foolish for me to go ahead and provide my masculine problems to an individual who's not qualified to handle my masculine problems?
01:01:31.000And as a matter of fact, that individual is relying on me to be a leader, to be dominant, to take her through life.
01:01:36.000And then I'm going ahead and showing vulnerability and I'm not really sure where we stand right now.
01:01:40.000I would argue it's better for the guy to go to a man that understands his perspective versus a woman who doesn't understand that perspective.
01:01:46.000What you just described of being vulnerable and being able to connect on a deep and emotional level, that's a female way of falling in love.
01:01:53.000Men typically don't fall in love like that.
01:01:56.000Men love women that are submissive, that fall in line, that don't give them a headache, that give them peace.
01:02:01.000I think women want to be able to open up to their man and get that stability.
01:02:04.000But for men to open up to a woman, she's not necessarily capable of the same stability because men and women aren't the same and women aren't leaders.
01:02:10.000So I would say it's probably going to lead to self-destruction opening up to your woman because women aren't built to lead men and be stoic and emotional rocks in times of turmoil.
01:02:19.000But you opening up to a woman doesn't mean that you give up your leadership.
01:02:55.000They've done studies on this and they've seen, like, women react to this.
01:02:59.000Women that are typically in relationships with guys that are fighters, right?
01:03:02.000They like the guy, they're attracted to him because he's a fighter, etc.
01:03:05.000But if they go to one of his fights and they watch him get beat up, a lot of women have lost attraction to their man by watching him get beat up.
01:03:16.000What he's effectively establishing right in front of you, even though he's fighting another professional fighter, is he might not be capable of protecting you, and that triggers certain things in your mind, in your monkey brain.
01:03:32.000So what I'm saying is that just in a way that women can lose attraction within an instant of watching their man get beat up, they can also lose attraction within an instant of him crying and trying to get consolation from her.
01:03:43.000You won't know until it happens, is my argument.
01:05:10.000Okay, you can be vulnerable Monday, Tuesdays, and Thursdays, okay?
01:05:13.000For five minutes at a time, et cetera.
01:05:15.000You guys are saying it if it comes in certain terms.
01:05:17.000The problem with vulnerability and emotional volatility and hard times, et cetera, is it comes in spurts and it could be nice and sunny one second and then raining, pouring another second.
01:07:58.000Going back to you, would it be fair to say that him being vulnerable might have been a symptom of a greater issue?
01:08:09.000For you, because you said you broke up with him, and that wasn't necessarily the main reason, but you said that wasn't the main reason you broke up with him, it was because of other things, but wouldn't it be fair to say that that might have been a symptom of a greater issue as to why you broke up with him in general?
01:08:23.000Because typically when men are vulnerable, right, and soft with women, they have a bunch of other issues with their masculinity that also tie into their vulnerability.
01:08:34.000So, I've had about three boyfriends and they all cried in front of me.
01:08:39.000So, it's not a specific situation that I'm talking about.
01:11:02.000Like, I feel like a death, like, is understandable.
01:11:04.000But, like, my man also told me if he's ever going through shit, he would never let me know because it's his job as a man to just get through the shit.
01:11:22.000I think this is another perfect example of wanting to be transparent when it comes to cheating and having other women.
01:11:26.000Women want you to be transparent with your emotions, once again, for self-interest, to be able to establish if you're really that guy, if you're a tough guy, you can lead me, etc.
01:11:34.000And if you are sitting there crying in the back of her mind, she's like, I got you right now, but man, if we ever get in a fight or if I ever want to break up with you, man, you are a bitch.
01:11:43.000You definitely felt like he was a bitch for you to hit him, because if you didn't feel like that about him, you would never lay the hand on him.
01:12:52.000You made an argument earlier, I wrote this down, that women can be both masculine and feminine.
01:12:57.000When women are, you know, selectively choosing when they want to be feminine and masculine, etc., that means as a man you have to be hyper-masculine.
01:13:04.000And being vulnerable is probably one of the softest and pussiest things you can do.
01:13:08.000It's a feminine characteristic to open up to females, in my eyes.
01:13:24.000Would your prior relationships not kind of prove my point?
01:13:26.000Because actions speak louder than words?
01:13:28.000That you punish every guy that's been vulnerable with you?
01:13:30.000So I've learned a lot from my previous relationships.
01:13:33.000I'm not proud of the mistakes that I made in those relationships.
01:13:36.000So I... Wouldn't judge what happened in those relationships and make conclusions about what I think of things right now.
01:13:46.000I mean, you're saying it's okay for men to be vulnerable with you, but the record shows that every man that's been vulnerable with you has suffered a consequence of losing you.
01:14:43.000Speaking on the topic that we talked about, would you ladies agree that modern day men are soft and not leaders or masculine as they used to be?
01:14:54.000We can start here and then work our way.
01:18:55.000You should always come off as feminine at first.
01:18:58.000I feel like not straight masculine energy when you first meet somebody.
01:19:02.000Because if I meet you as a guy and you're masculine as fuck, I'm not going to treat you like you deserve feminine energy, like you deserve chivalry.
01:19:10.000I'm going to treat you like the masculine guy that you want to be.
01:22:24.000I just think that world events happened, which created women to be more masculine, and then which made men more feminine, because women had to take on roles.
01:22:34.000Would you say feminism was that world thing?
01:22:37.000I think that it was more so women having to work because men had to go out in the war.
01:22:42.000And I do feel like feminine does play a part, but I feel like feminism...
01:22:45.000Do you think women had to work or they wanted to?
01:24:57.000No, not at the time, but that was something I did on my own reading just because I wanted to learn it, not because the school system taught me.
01:26:18.000And then, coming back to you, do you have your, like, a tied-up version of what you think as far as men being more masculine or less masculine today versus in the past?
01:26:43.000Would you say, since most of you think, well, all of you believe that men are less masculine nowadays, would you agree that women run most relationships in modern day?
01:30:27.000I think women definitely run the day-to-day of modern relationships.
01:30:31.000I think the overall major decisions are still a majority masculine, but I think the day-to-day inner workings of a relationship are predominantly female.
01:31:29.000Now that we know that most men are not masculine, and we know that women are running a majority of relationships, at least according to most of you guys, right?
01:31:38.000If you had a son, what boundaries would you tell him to put in place with his girlfriend to keep himself from being cheated on?
01:32:04.000And we know, according to most of you, that women run a majority of relationships and have leverage in most of these relationships.
01:32:10.000Knowing this, if you had a son, what boundaries would you tell him to have in place or rules with a woman that he's seeing or dating or courting that he needs to have in place to ensure he isn't cheated on, hurt, financially ripped off, etc.?
01:32:27.000What would you tell your son to put in place?
01:32:30.000An example can be, give him one out for free.
01:32:34.000Hey, you should tell your significant other that she shouldn't be going on girls trips.
01:32:39.000So what things would you tell your son to put in place to keep himself from getting hurt in a relationship or getting financially destroyed, whatever it may be?
01:39:05.000How long do you think it should take to vet a woman?
01:39:08.000Minimum of a year before you move in together, but I'm also a huge advocate of living together prior to marriage.
01:39:15.000If you're going to lead towards marriage, then you need to live together, because I have witnessed, personally, relationships that had gone on for years, and then they cohabitated, and they couldn't live together.
01:39:28.000Cheating started, or cheating was uncovered at that point.
01:39:47.000So I'm a huge advocate of starting therapy like almost right away or having some sort of communication like exercise so that you can learn to really speak to each other and have mutual communication.
01:40:02.000Because I think a lot of the breakdowns of relationships are one person not feeling heard.
01:40:32.000I would say that, yes, still be transparent, but also understand that you do risk her walking if you are transparent.
01:40:44.000But I think he'll sleep better knowing that he was upfront and honest from the very, very beginning than having to worry about Being together for 15 years and wondering if he had lied the whole time, if they were really treated together.
01:41:01.000So transparency with an awareness of a loss potentially incoming.
01:41:15.000What parameters would you tell your son to put on a girlfriend?
01:41:21.000Yeah so a lot of things the girls already said so communication is key like there must be good communication they have to be able to speak with each other and be open with each other another thing is would you tell your son to be kind of I'm asking the same thing for her would you think it's in your son's best interest to be honest with her when she can use that against him later on remember your son has a lot to lose Well,
01:41:45.000another thing I would say to my son is to bring her to me so I can meet her and get to know her and get a feel from her and understand what's going on, you know, like from the mother instinct.
01:42:00.000What are you going to look for from mother instinct to avoid then?
01:42:05.000What are some red flags if you want to tell your son immediately?
01:42:09.000If values are not aligned and they're not matching, then it's gonna be a crisis in the long run.
01:42:14.000Okay, what are those values that need to be aligned specifically?
01:42:17.000So the values, it depends on the upbringing.
01:42:21.000So if there is like either a religious background that it's important to both of them, and they both want to maintain it, or if it's either one of them, then that will create a problem in their relationship later on.
01:42:37.000Okay, I'm saying specifically for your son then, so go ahead and give it to me.
01:42:40.000So does she need to be Jewish for you?
01:43:26.000Character, good character, that she has charisma.
01:43:30.000If she's lazy and she doesn't want to do anything all day and she just want to lay in bed and just want to be, you know, taken care of, then...
01:43:39.000So that's a boundary you would put on your son.
01:46:06.000What level of lying does it need to cut her off?
01:46:09.000Listen, if she's trying to throw a surprise party for him and then she's lying to him that she's going to go, I don't know, to be with her friend and then she's playing a party at home, then that's okay because it's a lie.
01:46:23.000It's a white lie for the purpose of making him happy.
01:46:27.000But if it's a lie, like she said, I'm going to go hang out with my friend and then she's going to hang out with a guy and he doesn't know about that.
01:46:34.000If he's sleeping with her and she's saying that she's making him happy, Or he's making her orgasm and she keeps saying that over and over and over again.
01:55:19.000When it comes to physical labor, more laborious professions absolutely overwhelmingly dominate them because women choose just to not go on those jobs.
01:55:31.000I say women in general are lazy when it comes to resource creation.
01:55:34.000And what I mean by that is women a lot of times aren't incentivized to work hard, laborious jobs or work long hours or take less vacation at the cost of earning more money because women don't have the same They don't have the same impetus and the same motivation to go out there and create excess resources because a woman's value is not based on how much money she earns or the status she acquires.
01:55:53.000Her value is based on her beauty, youth, and fertility.
01:56:17.000Oh no, I just was listening and then I started getting this like and I didn't want to like I'm not gonna have a rebuttal if it's not like to everything Like, if I didn't hear, wasn't listening to everything you said.
01:56:33.000But wouldn't you have to listen to everything I said to be able to rebut it?
01:58:22.000I mean, yeah, that's just another way of saying what I said, that women are not willing to make the sacrifices required to achieve financial excellence to the same degree that men are.
01:58:30.000But I think that is a sacrifice in a way, because I'm sacrificing making more money for that peace of mind.
01:58:40.000Only you can say that and make no sense saying that.
01:58:45.000No, but you can make $60,000 instead of She just reframed it, saying like, I'm making a sacrifice by not making more money to do what I want to do.
01:59:19.000Because if it was the case that women, like their mating options were directly tied to their social status and their ability to earn income, we would see way more women in construction.
01:59:27.000We see way more women in STEM. We see way more money in women being engineers, being Alaskan fishermen, oil, offshore drilling.
01:59:34.000Women would do these hard jobs if their status, excuse me, if their status mattered in their income towards getting a mate.
02:00:53.000That's why they tend to get into occupational therapy, sociology.
02:00:56.000They want to work with people because women are just more socially oriented in general than men are.
02:01:01.000And these jobs, unfortunately, tend to pay less than other jobs that are more laborious or harder or require more critical thinking like STEM. But women just don't want to get into these jobs because for what?
02:01:16.000I think, too, because I think, to further your point, it would limit their mating because I think that it makes them more masculine in those laborious jobs.
02:01:42.000So I'm in STEM, and as I was saying earlier about the sacrifices, so if I had to take a high-paying job that wouldn't leave me space for my family and things like that, I would sacrifice that job because...
02:01:58.000Which degree did you get first, psychology or infotech?
02:03:27.000I mean, from a male perspective, men don't look at these survival characteristics that you're describing of being ambitious, earning money, and status.
02:04:13.000But that doesn't mean I'm going to abandon my ambitions and my I'll be honest, there's no such thing as a power couple because women don't respect men that are equal to them.
02:04:23.000So for us to be a power couple, that would assume equality.
02:04:26.000And the last time I checked, women don't want an equal.
02:04:28.000They want a superior in almost every metric of human regard, whether it's strength, competence, income capacity, confidence, ambition.
02:04:36.000Women don't necessarily seek an equal.
02:04:38.000And if they do meet an equal, it's just a matter of time until that buzzer beater hits.
02:04:41.000And she says, you know what, man, I'm going to go shoot with somebody else.
02:04:45.000So what if, like, you're my mentor, we're in the same field, and...
02:04:54.000You're already in a supportive position.
02:04:56.000But I think that's still a power couple if you're investing in the same thing.
02:05:02.000If you're my mentor and I'm helping you, let's say I'm your assistant.
02:05:10.000So a power couple to you is still when you're assisting a man.
02:05:15.000I think there's different definitions of a power couple.
02:05:17.000Okay, so in the general sense that people use power couple, they like to use someone like a Jay-Z or a Beyonce, two individuals who are both wildly successful in their own endeavors that come together in a relationship.
02:05:27.000That's typically how the power couple frame is used, right?
02:05:31.000What I'm saying is that in general, the whole power couple concept is a lie.
02:05:36.000It doesn't exist because women don't want a man who's equal to them.
02:05:39.000They want a man who's superior to them.
02:05:40.000And I would even argue that Beyonce-Jay-Z situation isn't even a power couple because Beyonce's superior to, excuse me, Jay-Z's superior to Beyonce in almost every regard.
02:07:28.000There typically has to be one decision maker.
02:07:30.000Anything of real consequence, whether it's a CEO, sorry, a Fortune 500 company, or the United States being run by a president, there's always a final decision maker.
02:07:40.000If I may, I think what they're actually, if I'm translating all of this correctly, I think more what they're talking about is like a team, right?
02:07:48.000Like, even in a team situation, there's still a point guard, there's still a leader, there's still a captain, right?
02:07:58.000So even on a team, you can fight and want the same thing and work towards the same goal, but there's still ultimately going to be that captain.
02:08:08.000The only time teamwork from a totally egalitarian standpoint and everyone is equal, the only time teamwork actually works is when women work with each other.
02:08:16.000When a woman is dealing with a man, she's expecting competence and superiority.
02:08:43.000I mean, like I said earlier that men bring certain things to the table and women bring other things to the table.
02:08:50.000So I feel like even though a man might make the majority of the decisions, a woman can still bring something valuable and make certain decisions at certain times.
02:09:53.000So I kind of, you know, if you play chess, right?
02:09:58.000The queen, if you look at it, she can move as many spaces on the board in any direction.
02:10:02.000And I would liken that a lot to how women move in the world, right?
02:10:06.000Women are able to get certain opportunities once they come of age.
02:10:08.000They're able to be on yachts and meet millionaires and get celebrity situations and get into clubs for free if they wear enough makeup and dresses and stuff and get on podcasts and all this other stuff, right?
02:10:17.000They can move as many pieces on the board.
02:11:59.000By the way that men, even like the way they interact with women at the club, the way that they interact with women at the club, the way they just interact with women.
02:14:23.000There was a woman actually, very interesting.
02:14:25.000There was a woman that was a man for a year and a half.
02:14:29.000And she actually ended up offing herself after the end of the year and a half because she was like, wow, life as a man is way harder than I thought.
02:14:36.000And a lot of the times when females switch over and become a man, one of the biggest obstacles they deal with mentally is like, The lack of respect that they get in society and how invisible they are to individuals.
02:14:47.000Women get a lot of privileges and certain situations set up for them just because they're female that men will never get.
02:14:56.000But what I'm saying in general is I've noticed that a majority of men absolutely do respect women, but a majority of women absolutely do not respect men.
02:15:03.000Here's a perfect example to kind of back you up too, is I've taken several Ubers in the last couple of weeks, and I had a suitcase with me.
02:15:11.000If I have a male driver, 99.9% of the time he is getting out of the car, he's opening the trunk, he's putting my suitcase in the trunk, he's opening my door, and he's letting me in.
02:15:21.000Now I've had female drivers that have not gotten out of the front seat.
02:15:26.000They're like, if you're a girl, you've got your own suitcase.
02:15:29.000So, like, it's a perfect example of...
02:16:34.000Either you get treated like a lady, you get privileges that only women get, or you get the equality that you seek, and you get treated like everybody else, which won't be shivery.
02:18:05.000I mean, when I say that women are born and men are made, that's effectively true because when a woman's 18 years old, bam, she has everything that she needs, right?
02:18:12.000And some cultures, maybe even younger, right?
02:18:14.000Age of consent is different, different places, different cultures.
02:18:15.000But in general, women are born with their value, right?
02:19:41.000Well, I want to add that I don't want to judge no one, but I know that Jewish guys are more wild just because His family or they don't let them have fun or be like free because his family or they tell them like you can't have a girlfriend that's not Jewish so he's gonna be having fun with other girls.
02:26:39.000Ladies, do you think women are the happiest, ultimately 45 years old, one mil a year, ugly, single, no kids, or 25 years old, making no money with your ideal husband who you submit to paying your bills, beautiful, and two kids?
02:31:16.000On that note, I do have a last thought.
02:31:19.000So when you said that women are born and men are made, I'm going to give you a scenario.
02:31:25.000So in the scenario, let's say, so I'm in STEM, right?
02:31:28.000And when I'm looking for a job in a professional industry, let's say you and I go for the same job.
02:31:36.000How do you think they're gonna perceive us?
02:31:38.000You'll have a way higher likelihood of getting the job over me.
02:31:41.000No, because they're gonna look at me, they're gonna be like, she's blonde, she must be dumb, this is a man, and he probably knows what he's doing.
02:31:49.000If you go into a male-dominated profession and you're a female, you will absolutely get the job over a more qualified male for the purpose of workforce diversity.
02:32:01.000I might get the job for that purpose, but will I get a promotion?
02:32:06.000I feel like I will still not be looked at the same way.
02:32:11.000Well, how you feel versus what's real are two different things.
02:32:14.000You might feel as though you might be looked at a different way, but the fact that you're even getting the opportunity over a man who might be more qualified than you based on nothing more than your gender speaks volumes.
02:32:23.000And couldn't you change your hair color?
02:32:51.000I'm not unaware of the fact that women absolutely deal with a hurdle where if they're attractive to a degree or if they have a certain look, they're going to be written off as bimbos at first.
02:33:00.000However, it's on you to prove them wrong.
02:33:04.000So if you come in and you're competent, You're going to get even bigger.
02:33:07.000You're going to get even faster accolades, and you're going to be able to move up even faster because now you meet the workplace diversity quota, and you're competent, so you're going to move up the ranks.
02:33:17.000I mean, anytime I've ever seen a woman enter a male-dominated field, they always rise up the ranks faster than the men do every single time, whether it's law enforcement, which I saw that especially, less competent females get pushed up the ranks because of the support of workplace diversity or other jobs that are male-dominated.
02:33:35.000I mean, they've done studies on this too, where they look at like, if a man submitted a resume with the same exact requirements and put it under a female name, he got way more calls.
02:33:43.000I mean, that's like a fear that I have, like going in.