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00:03:37.000So if you guys like organized crime, you like the history of that stuff, we're going to go over all the crime families and how the mafia rose to prominence in the United States.
00:03:44.000So check it out over there on FEDIT 1811.
00:04:29.000Ladies on the panel, if you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course, and we'll start right here.
00:09:15.000Well, apparently some, I guess some girl, I didn't really look into it too much on Twitter, but I saw the picture right before I came here.
00:14:49.000And I'm assuming like real estate investors would hire you and then you would run the property for them and deal with all the bullshit tenants.
00:16:36.000Just because we're more caring and we can take, I think mentally, we're capable of holding up a lot more when it comes to financial, nurturing, just taking care of households, things.
00:16:50.000I think we're more able to I don't know how to say this.
00:17:27.000Who is the prize in a romantic relationship between a man and a woman where the relationship is happy?
00:17:32.000uh so this is actually a really hard fucking question because you know critical thinking like like she said it could be it really like like she said it could depend but you know on the type of person that they are but i would say that it's like a successful like relationship like okay so like if a girl she's like a 10 or a 9 That's like a status type of thing.
00:17:59.000Like if a guy knows, like other guys know, oh, that's my girl.
00:20:46.000You do realize any relationship, whether it's a friendship, a business partnership, employment, a romantic relationship, one party always has to care more than the other and or have leverage.
00:21:38.000I mean, that's just not how the world works.
00:21:42.000Nothing gets really done by a committee.
00:21:43.000Anything that has some type of substance always has a clear and dominant, like a leader to some degree.
00:21:50.000Whether it's a country being run by a president, whether it's a business, Fortune 500 company being run by a CEO, there's always one decision maker at the end of the day.
00:22:46.000I mean, I feel like in a relationship, not a presidential anything, anything to do with the countries, nothing, none about employment, relationship, because that's what you're asking me about, right?
00:22:57.000The relationships, again, that's what you're asking me about.
00:25:41.000Also, I feel like there's just certain things that men can't do without women.
00:25:47.000Like, men can't really decorate their house nicely!
00:25:52.000Without women like I feel like there's just things I feel like men and women need each other and they need each other for different reasons and different things so when it comes to like keeping the house clean and yeah like those kind of things like there's just like a like woman's touch that men need in their life so like okay so women because they can bear children men can't do without them and they can decorate the house I don't say do without them fully but there's certain things what about you who do you think is the prize in a healthy relationship the man or the woman Well,
00:26:22.000I think if you're asking me personally, I would think that he's the prize to me and he should think that I'm the prize to him.
00:26:29.000So it's not 50-50, but he's my prize and I'm his prize.
00:26:34.000If that makes sense to you, that's what I meant.
00:26:59.000Real quick, going outside of the confinements of your own personal situation, objectively speaking now, would you go ahead and extrapolate that, I guess, that logic and put it on all females that most women want this?
00:27:10.000Or is this just your personal situation?
00:27:13.000I believe that most women want the man to be my prize.
00:27:19.000I can't speak for men because I'm not a man, but I speak for myself as a woman.
00:27:34.000Somebody that's a good person, has good morals, that you can build with, that supports you, that's loving, that's kind, that's caring, that's providing, that's a good father.
00:27:46.000Not somebody that's a cheater, a manipulator, abusive.
00:27:49.000Because I've been there in those type of relationships, and I know what that feels like.
00:27:54.000But I can't say I've ever been in the most healthy, happy relationship, but what I would think that one would be, and that I want for myself.
00:28:01.000The guy's got to be the prize in your eyes?
00:28:31.000But real quick, not just, again, ladies, I'm speaking in general here.
00:28:34.000I understand what you want may be in a man, but I'm talking about what do you think would be, in a healthy relationship, who needs to be the prize in the relationship?
00:31:55.000Because the stability and the stability in all spectrums, not just financial, emotional stability, A nourished woman who is nourished by a man is a happy woman.
00:32:10.000And I think that that ripples out into the society.
00:32:16.000Like, if we all had happy husbands, I feel like we would be different.
00:33:11.000But I think when they're like, oh happy wife, happy life, I don't think the woman, you could do like for those type of women, I don't think anything could make them happy.
00:33:54.000I just think, like I said, it just really depends on the guy, too, if he's a shitty guy, you know, and you're going to make your girlfriend upset, and it's just, you know...
00:34:15.000No, I can see, I can kind of see, you know, if he's going out of his way to provide and do things, I can see where that could be the prize.
00:34:24.000But also, if he has a woman that has everything that he needs, she's on point with everything, I think that could have a lot to do with that, too.
00:34:34.000So he would want to make her happy, and the more happy that he would make her, it could potentially, you know, open doors in some ways for him.
00:34:46.000When I say I think it can go both ways a little bit, I just want to generalize and get detailed.
00:34:53.000I think that a woman can make a man's status elevate as well.
00:34:58.000Okay, that's more so what I meant when I said women are the prize, because I feel like women, if it's a good woman, then she's going to accentuate her man.
00:35:05.000Yeah, and it depends on what everybody wants.
00:35:08.000Not everybody wants a power couple relationship.
00:35:33.000Women, but we can't be given our children without the man seed.
00:35:38.000And somebody who wants children and wants a husband, I need men and I need a man.
00:35:44.000So yeah, we're like the womb and the mother and the nurturer and stuff, but we can't nurture if we don't have a home or a stable baseline to feel like, okay, I'm taken care of.
00:36:01.000And then that mother goes and raises the children and then that ripples out into society and then you have a happy children and then it's just like this domino effect.
00:36:09.000Yeah, that's where the hyper independence comes from.
00:39:19.000Okay, so you think it's harder for women to be attractive to men because they're self-conscious.
00:39:25.000Yes, it's harder for women and it's easier for men because naturally you guys are the providers.
00:39:30.000It's easier for us to like get attention, but it's harder to get the relationship because it's essentially up to the man to like go after the woman because it's not good for a woman to go after the man.
00:42:02.000I'm not as good looking as I am now because I have more money now to actually pay for more Filler, lips, hair, makeup, good makeup artist, all those things.
00:42:10.000But a man, there's only a few things that he can do to kind of fix his looks.
00:42:15.000To clarify the answer because you're kind of going back and forth here.
00:42:17.000Is it men, is it harder for men to be attractive to the opposite gender or for women to be attractive to the opposite gender?
00:42:38.000You mentioned all these things that you said that you think you're more attractive now than you were before because you're able to use makeup and all these other things.
00:43:50.000Not even just that it's self-care, but when you go...
00:43:54.000When you go out and about, people look at the way that you dress and the way you carry yourself.
00:43:59.000So if you look busted and your hair is all nappy and ratty and you didn't brush it and your nails aren't done and you're wearing ugly, dirty clothes, I don't know.
00:44:07.000I like to look nice, so I don't feel like there's anything wrong with looking nice when you go out.
00:44:10.000Do you think an average woman that's all busted, as you said before, versus a man that's dressed fairly well, what do you think is going to get more attention from the opposite gender?
00:44:17.000Well, yeah, of course she's still going to get more attention, but I just, I feel like...
00:45:00.000My skin is clear because of the way that I take care of myself that I don't I have to wear makeup all the time, but I still feel like you should do things to take care of yourself.
00:45:09.000Who puts pressure on women to wear makeup?
00:46:41.000Is it harder for men to be attractive to women or for women to be attractive to men?
00:46:46.000Honestly, I think it's harder for men to be attracted to women because women do layer makeup on and lashes that they do feel the need to for whatever reason.
00:48:57.000expected from us so guys on the other hand they really kind of don't guys can kind of go like three days and nobody would know without showering they will know with a girl that hey this girl has not showered this bitch is a fucking ratchet they know that so in in that way I think women are more like fresh and I think that people are more just attracted to fresh no pun intended So more women are more fresh.
00:49:27.000If you eat a fucking, I don't know, banana and you just peel it as opposed to a banana that's fucking old as fuck, you're going to want to go for the fresher one.
00:49:38.000Women take care of themselves better, generally speaking.
00:49:42.000So you think it's harder for men to be attractive to women because women take care of themselves better?
00:49:47.000Yeah, I would say so, because most part, most of the time, a woman that really takes care of herself kind of wants a man that also takes care of himself really well, too.
00:49:59.000We don't want a dude that's really fucking nasty that we have to train how to fucking just do basic shit, you know?
00:50:06.000You think women put, because you're mentioning physical and looks here, it seems, because I guess the more attractive she is or the more upkeep she has, the more she might demand the man that has the looks.
00:50:41.000Alright, so you think it's harder for men because women take care of themselves and I guess we could say have a higher standard because they take care of themselves?
00:52:08.000And it's like, okay, we don't have to see above the, like, yes, we do see the physical side, but we do see above and we know how to read them.
00:54:32.000I had an argument for an average woman, though.
00:54:38.000It all depends on what you consider average, too, because my average is not the same as the girls, but So, okay, so why do you think an average man has an easier time in the dating game?
00:55:31.000We're not in Hialeah, but you'd be surprised because I feel like girls nowadays, their mentality is basically like It's very hard to find an average guy, a decent looking or mentally and physically well put together.
00:55:44.000So I feel like girls are like, now they just gave up and it's like, okay, I'll set up for whatever.
00:55:47.000And it's like, no, it's not like that.
00:57:35.000Because I feel like no matter what a woman looks like, men are going to approach them when you're out anywhere.
00:57:39.000If you're in a club, if you're at a bar, if you're at a restaurant, if you're at the mall walking down the street, men are going to holler at you no matter what you look like, no matter what you're wearing.
00:57:48.000But, I mean, it's very rare that I'll see a guy out that I'm like, wow, I'm interested.
00:59:13.000So wouldn't that kind of make your last point null and void, if you're saying there's more women, but the reality is women are okay with sharing?
00:59:20.000That doesn't have anything to do with an average man, like who has the easier...
00:59:23.000No, I asked you, who has it easier in a dating game, an average man or an average woman?
00:59:26.000And you said an average man, simply because there's more women out there.
00:59:30.000And then I said, to counter, you really think so if women are willing to share a higher status guy?
01:00:16.000So you're saying that there's more women, but I'm saying, does it really matter that there's more women if all the women are sharing the same guys anyway?
01:00:22.000At the top, which you just admitted that they do.
01:00:24.000There's not all women are sharing the same man at the top.
01:01:38.000Then I asked you, do you think most women are willing to share a higher status guy, which means he has multiple females, Or have an average guy or loser to themselves.
01:01:48.000You responded, most women would prefer to have a higher status guy and share him, whether it's known to them or not.
01:01:55.000So by default, that means that there's less women to go around because they're sharing the same top tier of guys.
01:02:01.000So you literally just made an argument against the point you just made.
01:02:05.000You're saying there's more women, but I'm arguing these women are sharing the same guys.
01:02:12.000If I was a high-value man, which I'm not, I'm a woman, but if I was a high-value man, I wouldn't want to go sleep with an average-looking woman.
01:02:20.000I'd want to sleep with a top-tier woman, so there's not that many women.
01:02:24.000But I'm just saying, me personally, if I was me, but I'm not, so I can't really...
01:07:00.000So you think that because women think more long-term in their mate selection that it makes it harder for men to be, I guess, compete in a dating game?
01:08:27.000Like marriage was more normal in the 1960s.
01:08:32.000But don't you think that's why all the girls are lost and depressed and on OnlyFans trying to, like, get attention because they want a husband?
01:10:14.000Somebody that can nurture the home, somebody that can cook, somebody that can clean, somebody that can upkeep himself, somebody that can provide a mental and peace mind to a man and keep him focused, somebody that can as well as a man provide for the woman, but mostly like Somebody that can be slutty,
01:11:54.000Well, a guy that checks off a lot of check marks for women, do you think he would find you more attractive now at 30 or later on when you're ready to settle?
01:14:01.000In general, I don't want to sound like an asshole, but men really don't care about your socioeconomic status, your money, your career, or your title.
01:14:12.000I would say on a balance of probabilities, men typically don't care about a woman's career, and the man that you want that has the ability to actually take care of you, pay the bills, where you're in a situation where you're electively working, he definitely doesn't care about your career.
01:16:28.000And then I also asked who gets further, an average woman in dating or an average man?
01:16:32.000And most of you guys said an average woman.
01:16:34.000And then most of you also said it's harder for a man to be attractive to women.
01:16:38.000So my thing is, if most of you agree that it's harder for an average man and it's harder for men to be attractive and attract the opposite gender in general, how is it that the woman is the prize?
01:16:57.000How is Omar the prize when the man has to go through a lot more to become attractive in the first place to attract a woman?
01:17:03.000I think because having a wife and having a woman that will bear your children and raise those children and breastfeed those children and nurture them for years until while you are providing, I think that goes into play with the legacy that they're leaving as well.
01:17:22.000If you have a crazy broad that you knocked up, that is just...
01:17:29.000But I can make the argument that as a higher status man, with my stuff together, a new girl turns 18 every day.
01:17:34.000Because the thing you just mentioned, you basically boiled down the female's role to bearing a child and bringing them to, you know, to term, which a young, attractive girl who's an impressionable that isn't a hoe that hasn't been through a lot of life experiences can provide.
01:17:45.000I think it's more so a factor of, like, if you find a really great girl that, like, takes care of herself and she supports you and she's quiet, she doesn't embarrass you, she, like, listens to you, she takes care of your home, like, she takes care of your children, like, she does everything that she's supposed to be doing in her role as a wife.
01:18:09.000That or a guy that is a leader, competent, attractive, enough for you, that checks all the other check marks that you want, confidence, ambition, good looking, in shape.
01:18:47.000And here's another thing too, since some of you guys were saying, oh, numbers, numbers, numbers.
01:18:51.000So I wrote a whole book about this, Why Women Deserve Less, where I go over these numbers, but I'll just summarize it real quick so that we don't go over the entire book.
01:18:57.000So right now, right, one in three men, because you guys were saying, oh yeah, an average man can get further.
01:19:02.000The reality is that one in three men right now is either a virgin or hasn't had sex in a year.
01:19:06.000Have any of you not had sex in a year?
01:22:40.000You know what's cheap that would make me really happy?
01:22:43.000You know when women are always like, man, if they're gonna go run inside and grab themselves something, they're always like, do you want something?
01:22:48.000And every time they say, no, I'm okay!
01:22:51.000But they really do want something, so if the man brings them something, then I know you want something.
01:24:09.000Alright, so ladies, going back to before, like I said, the general conversation today was who is the prize in a relationship, man or woman?
01:24:16.000Most of you said that average women have more pull in the dating marketplace than men do.
01:24:19.000Most of you guys said that men have a harder time with being attractive to women.
01:24:23.000And actually, a good amount of you guys actually said that men are the prize in relationships.
01:24:27.000And my argument is based on some of these statistics, right?
01:24:30.000That one in three men are virgins or haven't had sex in a year, which I guarantee none of you have that problem.
01:24:36.000Women swipe right on only about 5% of men on Tinder.
01:24:39.000Women find 80 plus percent of men is unattractive on dating apps.
01:24:43.000And women initiate 70-80% of the divorces.
01:24:46.000I'd argue that it's way harder for men to be attracted to the opposite gender and even keep a girl in some states, situations.
01:24:52.000So I think if a relationship is happy in general and the girl's in a good position with the guy, More than likely, the guy is the prize in a relationship because he has the leverage.
01:25:01.000I'm a genuine believer and I'm open to suffer discussion for y'all, but I think the woman has to like the man more than the man likes the woman for the relationship to be happy.
01:25:09.000In other words, the woman has to feel like she's getting a prize and or a deal that she can't necessarily replace the guy with.
01:25:15.000Versus on the other hand, when a woman thinks that she could do better, she typically enacts on that and cheats and talks to other men, etc.
01:25:21.000I'll open it up to you guys if you disagree, but I think men are the prize in general in relationships that are fruitful.
01:25:29.000I think it just really depends on the quality, but yeah, for the most part, the quality person, obviously, if a dude has a girl that's just, like I said, checks everything that he wants, that of course, right?
01:25:43.000My argument is that more women will check the boxes than a man will check for women, if that makes sense.
01:25:49.000So in other words, it's easier to find a replacement female than it is to find a replacement male.
01:25:55.000Because women's requirements are far harder to reach.
01:25:58.000Versus men's requirements are very low.
01:26:00.000Be attractive, not a pain in the ass, not a hoe.
01:26:02.000You'll probably be able to lock down a millionaire.
01:26:04.000But on the other hand, for a woman that's attractive, she's going to want to be tall, competent, confident, etc.
01:26:09.000I mean, let's be brutally honest here.
01:26:11.000I have some pretty straightforward questions here during this podcast, and a lot of you had issues answering them or didn't understand logic.
01:26:16.000So there's no real burning performance on women to be competent or intelligent either, with all due respect.
01:26:21.000Women are able to get by on their looks.
01:26:39.000I don't think so at all, because, especially when it comes to, like, a sexual standpoint in a relationship, like, if you're actually in a committed relationship, like, as a woman with a man...
01:28:20.000I mean, when I gave logic before, some of you guys had issues with tracking it, and it's not because you guys are stupid or something like that.
01:28:26.000It's just that women don't have the same level of competence with following logic and ration that men do.
01:28:49.000Well, realistically speaking, nothing in the world is 50-50.
01:28:52.000But women give emotional reactions a lot of times, and that's an emotional reaction.
01:28:56.000And then before with you, right, I was explaining to you that top tier, you know, men have a majority of the women, which by default means that men, there being more women is null and void.
01:29:07.000Because if there's more women, it doesn't matter because all the women are chasing the top tier guys.
01:29:12.000So does it really matter that there's more women out there?
01:29:14.000I would say the average man is virtually invisible to an average woman.
01:29:17.000An average woman gets more attention on Instagram than a celebrity male.
01:29:24.000Yeah, there was a study done on messages on dating apps and social media, and they found that women that were average or below average had more messages than the top 1% of men.
01:29:33.000See, that would help me answer my question if I knew the statistics.
01:31:14.000Yeah, I guess also because we were friends before, and it just happened organically, because for me, it would always be based on looks more.
01:31:47.000Flutter your eyes and a guy will come up to you, right?
01:31:49.000So that's why I argue that if in a happy relationship nine out of ten times, the man is surprised because the woman doesn't feel like she can replace him.
01:31:56.000In a healthy relationship, the man has the leverage, not the other way around.
01:31:59.000I mean, some of you guys alluded to that before, right?
01:32:01.000Some of you guys that are a little bit older or maybe higher earners, you guys know the struggle of finding a man at your level, right?
01:33:04.000But what I'm saying is that when you do decide to find a man, it's going to be even harder for you because you're going to make more money and you're going to be older.
01:33:09.000And the same men at your level that make the same kind of money you do and are your age, they're going to want girls that are younger.
01:35:36.000Maybe he feels he can't be equal, so maybe he wants to go for someone that might make less money.
01:35:42.000What if I told you a guy that is superior to him and makes more money is probably still going to not want to handle you, as you would say, because why should a man have to handle a woman when he's already got to go out into the world and handle life?
01:35:53.000Again, handle could have been the wrong term, clearly.
01:35:55.000That's why I said, wait, what did I say?
01:35:56.000Because I did not mean for it to come out that way, so...
01:36:01.000Are you not aware of what you're saying and the statements that you're making?
01:36:04.000But wouldn't a woman of status have...
01:36:32.000Like, I would literally get no dates, no food, I'd be struggling.
01:36:37.000But you're able to get by because you're a female.
01:36:39.000And I'm sure there's plenty of guys that'll line up to date you even though you're 30 and don't even remember what you said 10 seconds ago.
01:37:17.000Anyway, going back to what I was saying about the handling thing, because you were saying men should handle women.
01:37:21.000I disagree with that sentiment, and the reason why is because why should a man have to handle a woman who's already got to go out into the world and handle the world?
01:38:16.000So, why, if he's handling everything outside of the house to provide for you, why would he want to come home and handle you arguing with him and nagging him and things like that?
01:38:27.000Because that's the point that they're making about a man.
01:39:45.000We almost made the same amount of money.
01:39:47.000I made a little bit more when I was a nurse and he worked at New York Sports Club.
01:39:52.000He did corporate sales, but because I made a little bit more money than him and I worked less hours, it just caused the relationship to just crumble.
01:39:59.000So did you guys talk about your money status?
01:40:02.000Because I feel like money shouldn't be a talk in relationships.
01:41:33.000If a girl comes from a rich family, that's actually good.
01:41:35.000Yeah, I've done like I really like girls that come from money because their father a lot of times was the provider and he was in the household, etc.
01:41:42.000And there's a night and day difference between a girl that has a father in her life and doesn't.
01:41:47.000And especially if that father was a provider.
01:41:49.000But girls that are like entrepreneurs or girls that are higher earning girls that work in law enforcement, girls that are doctors, lawyers, etc.
01:41:57.000I mean, they're just annoying, to be honest with you.
01:41:59.000Like, I mean, I just typically, nine out of ten times, I'll go on a date with them, I'll have sex with them, but I won't take them seriously because they just have certain characteristics that are annoying that I can't see myself with all the time.
01:42:08.000They're more argumentative, they're competitive, they're focused on their career instead of, you know, helping me out, which is cool, I get it, right?
01:42:16.000They gotta focus on their shit, but that's not That's not what I want.
01:42:20.000That's not what most men want in general.
01:42:22.000Or they're busy all the time and shit.
01:49:46.000Because there's a lot more females in the OnlyFans industry that are content creators, but I might be able to find somebody in the industry that's a content creator that's a guy that we can create content together and be in the same industry, but that is very hard.
01:49:59.000So you don't think that you have to just maybe work harder to get a guy, maybe even quit that industry?
01:50:03.000I would have to, yeah, I would have to quit that industry or go back to my old being a nurse.
01:50:09.000Would you be willing to do that to find the guy?
01:50:12.000If I found a man that I was in love with and happy and he was going to provide me and support for me, I would quit to be in a relationship if I felt secure and safe.
01:50:24.000I mean, I have enough money saved and I have my future.
01:52:08.000I would love to have a guy where we could date and we could fuck live on OnlyFans, create content together, be freaks, make a bunch of money together.
01:52:16.000And I know that's rare and a lot of people understand that, but there are people that are in the adult industry or porn stars that actually meet somebody in their own industry and they're happy and they're in love and they have a healthy relationship and they don't do that anymore or retire from it.
01:52:31.000I haven't So you think that would be the move?
01:52:34.000See Riley Reid get married and that was a fucking dumpster fire.
01:52:38.000But you don't understand that OnlyFind's dynamic and you don't understand there are a lot of people that are married like I have friends I know that are in the industry that maybe their husband and then they create this whole entire like He's a photographer.
01:52:57.000Yeah, that guy a lot of the time is sexless and the girl's fucking a random other guy and then she comes home and she's too tired to give him sex.
01:53:03.000One of our good friends was a porn star.
01:53:04.000Oh, they're making content together on OnlyFans.
01:53:12.000Not everyone on OnlyFans is an established porn star in the porn industry.
01:53:16.000The OnlyFans industry kind of meshed porn and OnlyFans together.
01:53:20.000I understand that, but what I'm asking you is it's much different where a couple's in a relationship and then decide to make OnlyFans content together, but they were in a relationship prior versus a girl who's already a creator, and then she's finding a guy that is also a creator or in the industry.
01:53:35.000Because if the guy was with her, that girl better stick with that guy because she's fucked after that.
01:53:40.000But I'm saying with a girl, she's already a creator.
01:53:43.000It's going to be substantially harder for her to find a guy as a creator because there's going to be always videos out there of her having sex and or showing her body out to other guys.
01:53:51.000Yeah, like, I'm not sitting here saying, there's a lot of girls on OnlyFans that don't sell, like, sex content or, like, masturbation because I didn't sell a nude photo until I left my nursing job out of respect for my career.
01:54:44.000And it was just, you know, either let me stay in this job in this situation just because, oh my God, I might find a man that wants to date me 10 years down the road.
01:55:35.000You've outpriced yourself for what you give a man in return.
01:55:37.000A man that makes the kind of money that you make nowadays is typically going to want to get with a girl that's younger, is not only fans, doesn't have a past, doesn't have certain traumas, etc.
01:55:54.000But I think once women understand that once you reach a certain age or you reach a certain lifestyle or reach a certain income bracket, it's going to be very difficult for you to go backwards.
01:56:01.000And a guy that makes that kind of same money, it's not a good trade for him to date a girl like you when he can go date a girl that's 18 that doesn't have that background.
01:56:52.000Yeah, I think, because this is the trend I've seen with girls that typically aren't only fans or porn or sex work or whatever, it's one of two things.
01:57:00.000Either A, you'll be single and you won't be able to find the guy that you want, or you'll find a guy, what'll happen is he'll make you pay for your decisions.
01:57:07.000What I realize is they try to finesse the girl, she's got to buy him gifts, she makes money so quickly and so fast, she's paying the bills, etc., and they just kind of live off her.
01:57:19.000I've never seen a girl that does sex work be able to land a guy that's higher status, respectable, etc., because that guy cares about his image.
01:57:26.000Doesn't want to be made fun of when he walks into a club or walks into a social situation with his girl.
01:57:30.000So the guys that do get with those girls, a lot of times, they just finesse the girl and use her.
01:57:35.000And the girl ends up buying him gifts and being stuck with him and not being happy and satisfied.
01:57:40.000Hey, but I think you've made the decision and you kind of know what comes with it.
01:57:43.000So I'll give you that versus like a lot of these other girls are just delusional.
01:57:46.000But I also think that girls like I'm making enough money to be happy with this decision.
01:57:50.000It's a girl that goes on to OnlyFans and she thinks that she's just going to go on there and it's not a lot of work and she's just going to all of a sudden sell it sexy.
01:57:56.000That's a decision you have to live with.
01:58:08.000If I'm going to sell myself for this, this is the repercussions and this is the financial decision because I don't want to be stressed.
01:58:16.000I don't want to be worrying about where my next paycheck is coming from and killing myself as a nurse for 13 years, like dealing with that.
01:58:23.000I'd rather just make this decision and be happy with it.
01:58:25.000And I don't care about the man, the relationship, the baby, the husband.
02:00:19.000You want a guy that's attractive and, you know, you can have sex with, which is already a minority of men because most men are not attractive to most women.
02:00:26.000And then on top of that, he's got to make money to keep up with you financially, bro.
02:00:59.000My type of man is the one that's going to fuck me and my OnlyFans and we're going to make Hundreds and hundreds of millions of thousands of dollars together and be freaks.
02:01:20.000K.O. Original Passport Bro 1997 says, Ladies, your son is worth 10 million and his fiancee doesn't want to sign a prenup and he's thinking about marrying without one.
02:04:02.000To be worth ten million dollars, that takes a lot of work.
02:04:05.000If your son becomes a self-made multimillionaire to that point where he's worth ten million dollars, see, women can't even fathom that because, I'll be honest, most women are lazy when it comes to creating resources.
02:04:13.000There's a reason why men, on average, make more money than women.
02:04:15.000It's not because, you know, Women are, men are, you know, women are being oppressed or whatever.
02:04:21.000It's because women in general don't tend to work as hard as men.
02:04:24.000Because men understand that our value is determined by what we provide.
02:07:38.000What are your thoughts on getting a CFA? I'm in law school but want to level up even more by eventually getting the charter and pivoting into investment management.
02:08:20.000Twisted Magic, quick question for the panel tonight.
02:08:22.000Why is it when a woman doesn't have a man, she often has to take on a masculine role, but when a man doesn't have a woman, he doesn't necessarily have to take on a feminine role?
02:09:01.000No, like it's easier for the woman to play both roles when we don't have a man in our life, like to get a job, to have a home and things of that nature.
02:09:12.000But when it comes to men, like men just are men.
02:09:16.000It's easier for us to switch, I guess.
02:09:19.000I think she means also by paying bills as well.
02:12:27.000Isaiah James goes, hey y'all, I'm 29 and took out a girl who was 22, but she turned me off talking about her male friends to the point I stopped being interested.
02:12:35.000You say date younger girls, but how far can the dating age gap be before the immaturity level is too much?
02:14:45.000So that makes perfect sense that he's 29 and she's 22.
02:14:48.000She's probably just a tomboy if she talks about her girlfriends.
02:14:52.000There's so many other girls that would be better for mindset.
02:14:57.000Before the ladies made no sense in their comments, what I was trying to tell you, bro, is that you gotta date more girls and understand that most women, especially first world feminist countries, are not wife material, my friend.
02:15:08.000And you gotta go through a lot of girls.
02:15:11.000I genuinely think, and you guys can open it up to ladies here for discussion, I think a guy shouldn't take any girl seriously until they're 35 years old.
02:15:18.000Making $100,000 per year, six months to one year of money saved, in shape, and had sex with 50 women.
02:15:25.000Because I would argue that you take an average 25-year-old girl, she's going to be close to that body count easily.
02:15:31.000So, you got to get out there and have sex with a bunch of girls and date a bunch of girls to figure out what you like, what you dislike, what you want to tolerate, what you're not.
02:15:37.000And if you don't have experience, how the fuck are you going to figure out what you like and you don't like as a man?
02:16:26.000Well, he committed his first few murders in Vallejo.
02:16:28.000What's up, FNF? Can y'all think about this sound effect in Fresh's voice?
02:16:32.000Also, ladies, looking for a high-value man that's faithful makes you a three or four because you'll keep hopping from guy to guy and racking bodies.
02:19:38.000Shit and Bricks, 50 bucks goes, these ladies are talking about having a husband, but I don't see a ring on that finger or heard any points about being a great wife or mother.
02:19:46.000Since I'm getting a headache trying to understand your logic on men, name three countries, don't let me down.
02:24:25.000Your husband doesn't know it, but do you go ahead and start a family with him even though the sex is horrible, or do you bail out your ex out of prison and get the best sex every night?
02:31:12.000Get in there because it's going to close on Tuesday.
02:31:14.000If you guys are tired of being poor, you guys are tired of being broke, and you have bad credit, well, you can go ahead and get into crypto because you don't necessarily have to have a good credit score to get into crypto, man.
02:31:22.000Just make an account on an exchange and start investing, man.
02:31:27.000DZJK goes to the dugong two down for fresh.
02:31:55.000If you want a man to take care of you and pay your bills, you're going to need to drop the Debbie Cakes and get on Insta to hit up King Keto or Mike Rashid.
02:32:03.000Do you have anything you want to say back to him?
02:35:40.000Last thoughts on the show or questions, comments.
02:35:45.000I think for the boys, what is constructive criticism that we should do instead of just like being argumentative and being like, okay, let's go on our separate ways.
02:35:55.000Do you have advice for women who would like to bear children and build a legacy through a husband and a family?
02:36:05.000And then do you have advice for women who don't desire that and just want to be only fans?
02:36:21.000So, I guess, advice for women to get married and have kids.
02:36:33.000I would just say, ideally, if that's one of your goals, make sure you understand what that man wants from you.
02:36:40.000And it's because most women nowadays, they date with no type of, like, I want to say, knowledge of what a guy wants.
02:36:46.000And you wonder why he broke up with me.
02:36:47.000It's because you didn't bring value to what he really wanted in his life.
02:36:50.000So knowing what that man wants is very important.
02:36:53.000And then two, I guess when you don't want that in your life at all, for example, no kids and no men, I mean, ultimately just do what you want because it don't really matter at that point.
02:37:33.000I would say for girls, well, number one, find a guy that is worthy, right?
02:37:38.000And then when you do find that guy, don't be a hoe.
02:37:41.000Be feminine, be fit, be friendly, and be quiet.
02:37:44.000We don't care about your opinion that much.
02:37:45.000I think something that's understated is that when you're out with your guy, especially when he's around his friends or whatever, shut the fuck up and don't talk less spoken to.
02:37:54.000And I know that sounds, oh, that's so misogynistic, but guys really do appreciate quiet girls like we do.
02:37:59.000You know, your opinion is not that important, and you're probably going to say something dumb anyway that isn't going to align with what the men are saying.
02:38:39.000So I think women need to also control their emotions as well and not just get in nonsensical arguments with their guy.
02:38:45.000And that's on the guy too also to kind of have some kind of semblance of masculinity.
02:38:49.000When your girl brings up stupid shit or tries to argue with you, you just ignore her.
02:38:53.000Anytime one of my chicks pisses me off, I just ignore them and then they kind of come back to reality and realize, oh, he's not going to talk to me if I keep acting like this.
02:39:08.000I would say these things I mentioned, all guys want this.
02:39:11.000Be fit, be friendly, be quiet, don't be feminine, don't be a hoe, and that will put you in a really good position because you'll be attractive, Right?
02:39:18.000And you won't be a pain in the ass to be around.
02:39:20.000And then really on that point, like, just keep the guy.
02:39:58.000Once you start almost taking things on that he does himself, and you become more of a compliment to his life, and you assist him, and you help him.
02:40:06.000I always say the best girlfriends are the best assistants.
02:40:09.000You make his life easier so that he's able to operate at 99% to 103%.
02:40:13.000And that extra percentage points really makes a difference.
02:42:27.000Find out where that guy is deficient and then it's on you as the girl to be creative, be attentive, and help him with whatever he's deficient in.
02:42:35.000And every guy, this is the kicker, every guy is different.
02:42:37.000So you got to figure out what that guy likes, what he dislikes, etc., and appeal to that.
02:42:43.000You basically conform to his situation.
02:42:45.000And trust me, that's going to go such a far way because most guys don't get shit for women in general.
02:45:51.000If you're at a social function as a woman with your man and he's there around his other guys, you literally shut up and don't say anything.
02:45:57.000You just be pretty, help him out, be willing to, like, go get juice and drinks or whatever, right?
02:46:03.000Like, if I got friends over or whatever, like, you need to be serving him and his friends.
02:46:07.000And honestly, just get the fuck out the room and let them talk.
02:46:10.000Yeah, usually it's like, hey babe, can you roll blunt?
02:47:07.000You need to behave like you're off the market when you find the guy that you like.
02:47:11.000Being a girl and seeing a bunch of guys at the same time, at some point, the guy's going to find out, especially if he's good with girls, he's going to find out that you're seeing other guys, and that might fuck you up and shoot you in the foot.
02:47:43.000If a guy sees you, another thing too that girls don't understand that makes them less attractive.
02:47:47.000If I see you in a Lamborghini, if I see you at expensive restaurants, if I see you in foreign locations, private jets, anything like super luxurious, I'm automatically going to assume you're a whore.
02:48:48.000To get that position, you have to rise up above all the other candidates and be the best candidate so that you can get elevated to worker, to secretary, to vice president, whatever it is.
02:48:59.000At some point, you want to be at the top of that company.
02:49:48.000Anybody else have anything they want to say?
02:49:51.000I think it could be both, just because when they masculate the women, I don't know, I feel like they're trying to control the population to a certain extent, and when they break up the homes and they target the men and the women, and making them hoes,
02:50:07.000and it's cute to be an OnlyFans, and You know, all this stuff with social media, especially being a woman, that I see being somebody who's more natural and doesn't have big tits, and I don't have a big ass, and I... All of these things.
02:51:14.000It could be the music, but yeah, I think it's more of like an empowerment thing.
02:51:19.000Like, this bitch worked the fucking fastest.
02:51:21.000But the empowerment leads back down to disempowerment, though.
02:51:25.000Like, you think you're empowered, but at the tail end of it, you're literally like shooting yourself in the foot.
02:51:31.000It's subjective because it's good and bad.
02:51:35.000It's good in the sense that women could be more sexually liberated.
02:51:40.000It's bad in the sense that it's a trend, which makes it look cool to people that wouldn't subscribe to that if...
02:51:48.000But I feel like it's more so a fact that you should be sexually liberated for your man.
02:51:53.000You shouldn't be exposing yourself for anyone except for like...
02:51:56.000I think you could explore that sexual liberation and awakening through your husband and the cock that you're fucking.
02:52:04.000Not just like shaking ass on the beach.
02:52:08.000It would be fair to say that all the ladies here on the panel, would you prefer to have just one guy you're having sex with or would you feel better with two or three guys that you're seeing?
02:52:46.000I would argue a girl that says, oh, I choose to be single is like a guy that says that's a virgin saying, I choose to not have sex with women.