Fresh & Fit - Who's Pretty Privilege Goes Further? Men Or Women? HEATED DEBATE!

00:00:02.000 I'm surprised you know what that was.

00:00:03.000 A lot of people don't even know what that is. 0.73

00:00:04.000 That's because most people are low IQ. But yeah, you drop blood basically.

00:00:09.000 Okay.

00:00:09.000 And then what's your highest education level completed?

00:00:11.000 I'm a freshman in college right now.

00:00:13.000 Okay.

00:00:14.000 Pursuing your bachelor's?

00:00:15.000 Yes.

00:00:16.000 What are you majoring in?

00:00:17.000 I'm trying to get my RN so I can do lip injections.

00:00:20.000 I'm majoring in health science.

00:00:22.000 And then what's your status?

00:00:22.000 Cool.

00:00:26.000 Like boyfriend?

00:00:27.000 Oh, single.

00:00:28.000 She belongs to the streets! 1.00

00:00:30.000 You live in Miami or just visiting?

00:00:32.000 It's my first time visiting.

00:00:33.000 Okay, cool.

00:00:35.000 What about you?

00:00:37.000 Hey y'all, I'm Nibia. 0.98

00:00:39.000 Damn, that's Nibia on Instagram. 1.00

00:00:41.000 I'm one of the hottest bartenders in Miami. 0.99

00:00:42.000 Worked at all the hottest strip clubs that you heard of.

00:00:44.000 Okay, how old are you?

00:00:45.000 I am 25.

00:00:46.000 Cool.

00:00:47.000 Where are you originally from?

00:00:48.000 I'm from California, but I moved down here for work.

00:00:51.000 Okay, what part of California?

00:00:52.000 San Diego.

00:00:53.000 Okay.

00:00:54.000 Did you get out?

00:00:55.000 Out of curiosity, did you move here within like the past three years?

00:00:58.000 It's been five.

00:00:59.000 Five?

00:01:00.000 Did you get out because California is like the taxes or what was the reason specifically?

00:01:03.000 I did it because I came here visiting and then when I visited, I met a guy at the bar and he ended up being a manager at a strip club.

00:01:10.000 Alright, so you met a guy here?

00:01:12.000 Yeah, there you go.

00:01:13.000 Fair enough. 1.00

00:01:13.000 California sucks anyway. 1.00

00:01:14.000 Good move. 0.99

00:01:16.000 And you said you're a bartender.

00:01:18.000 What else?

00:01:19.000 What else?

00:01:20.000 I'm a bartender. 0.99

00:01:21.000 I have a sex store. 0.99

00:01:22.000 I sell sex toys. 1.00

00:01:24.000 And penis growth creams. 0.99

00:01:27.000 Wait, does it work? 0.99

00:01:28.000 It does.

00:01:29.000 I get it from Africa.

00:01:31.000 How do you know it works, though?

00:01:33.000 How do you know it works?

00:01:34.000 Because I got reviews.

00:01:35.000 I got the pictures.

00:01:39.000 Those are some, I guess, solid testimonials.

00:01:42.000 You know what I'm saying?

00:01:43.000 Okay, and then what is your highest education level completed?

00:01:46.000 High school.

00:01:47.000 Okay, and then relationship status?

00:01:50.000 It's complicated.

00:01:51.000 Boy, did you move for this guy?

00:01:53.000 It's complicated.

00:01:55.000 Okay, translation.

00:01:56.000 It's one of the two.

00:01:57.000 Either A, he hasn't committed to you, but you want something more serious, or B, you don't know where he stands necessarily and if he's the best guy, so you're still betting options.

00:02:05.000 Let's see.

00:02:05.000 Which one is it?

00:02:07.000 It could be a combination of the two, but one of those two is going to be probably giving more.

00:02:13.000 So in other words, either you like him more than he likes you, and he's not ready to commit, or he likes you more than you like him, and you're seeing other options.

00:02:20.000 There you go.

00:02:21.000 I feel like it's the second one, but I'm just not ready.

00:02:24.000 Okay.

00:02:25.000 So he's ready for commitment, but you're not.

00:02:25.000 All right, then.

00:02:28.000 He's older than me.

00:02:29.000 He ready.

00:02:30.000 I know when y'all get to y'all 40s, y'all be ready.

00:02:35.000 He's there. 0.98

00:02:36.000 Damn, he moved her out here and everything, and he still can't get us to take a seriously. 0.99

00:02:40.000 All right. 0.99

00:02:41.000 What about you?

00:02:42.000 I'm Brazy Babe.

00:02:43.000 Brazy Babe on Instagram.

00:02:45.000 How old are you?

00:02:45.000 I'm 22 at the moment.

00:02:47.000 Where are you from?

00:02:48.000 Newark, New Jersey.

00:02:49.000 Oh, man.

00:02:50.000 Okay.

00:02:51.000 What do you do for it?

00:02:53.000 I'm a scripper.

00:02:54.000 Okay.

00:02:55.000 And this is my life. 0.83

00:02:59.000 High school equivalent because I'm a degenerate.

00:03:02.000 So a GED, good enough degree?

00:03:02.000 Okay.

00:03:04.000 Yeah.

00:03:05.000 And then what's your relationship status?

00:03:05.000 Okay.

00:03:09.000 I'm single and not taking applications.

00:03:12.000 Nope.

00:03:14.000 Translation, currently have a man right now that may or may not be a trick, but he might qualify for a boyfriend if he takes me seriously.

00:03:18.000 Not at all.

00:03:19.000 No?

00:03:19.000 No.

00:03:20.000 Nah.

00:03:20.000 I know her scenario.

00:03:22.000 Go ahead.

00:03:23.000 Like you said, she's single. 0.86

00:03:23.000 No. 0.86

00:03:25.000 Just not available.

00:03:26.000 Because of somebody.

00:03:27.000 No.

00:03:30.000 Emotional.

00:03:30.000 Say it.

00:03:32.000 What is it?

00:03:32.000 What's really going on?

00:03:33.000 Look at her chain. 0.83

00:03:33.000 Let's see if she's telling the truth. 0.83

00:03:34.000 Fresh.

00:03:40.000 She's good.

00:03:42.000 Wait, are they fresh?

00:03:44.000 Yo! 1.00

00:03:45.000 Alright, we done.

00:03:46.000 You're the one that wore the necklace.

00:03:49.000 I always wear it.

00:03:50.000 Every day of my life.

00:03:51.000 I shower with it.

00:03:54.000 So I'll just put, taken, maybe, I don't know.

00:03:58.000 I'm not.

00:03:59.000 You just said you're unavailable, though.

00:04:02.000 But I'm single.

00:04:03.000 Not looking.

00:04:04.000 Not looking.

00:04:05.000 There you go.

00:04:05.000 Exactly.

00:04:06.000 I am single and not looking.

00:04:08.000 Okay.

00:04:09.000 There you go.

00:04:10.000 The womanese is fantastic.

00:04:10.000 If you say so.

00:04:12.000 Alright, what about you?

00:04:14.000 My name is Sarah.

00:04:15.000 I'm 25.

00:04:16.000 I'm born and raised in Ohio.

00:04:19.000 I moved to Michigan in high school and I moved down to Miami like a year and a half ago.

00:04:23.000 Okay.

00:04:23.000 What do you do for them?

00:04:25.000 I do freelance work, so I pretty much find jobs on Upwork doing social media management.

00:04:30.000 I work freelance with an app called Cobble.

00:04:33.000 It's a planning app, so I create content for them.

00:04:35.000 I go to Miami restaurants, bars, events, and make reels.

00:04:39.000 Okay.

00:04:40.000 And then I also am a UGC creator, so I work with brands on TikTok and create ads for them.

00:04:45.000 So you're the one that creates the content and then the ads go, excuse me, then the businesses buy it from you and go ahead and run it and pay for ads on social media.

00:04:45.000 Okay.

00:04:52.000 Correct.

00:04:53.000 Yeah.

00:04:53.000 Okay.

00:04:54.000 And highest education level?

00:04:55.000 I have a bachelor's.

00:04:56.000 Cool.

00:04:57.000 And what?

00:04:58.000 Communications.

00:04:59.000 Okay.

00:05:00.000 Where'd you get it from?

00:05:01.000 University of Toledo in Ohio.

00:05:03.000 Okay.

00:05:04.000 All right.

00:05:05.000 And then what's your relationship status?

00:05:07.000 I am also single and like jazzy.

00:05:09.000 I want a husband.

00:05:11.000 Okay.

00:05:12.000 Awesome.

00:05:12.000 Nice.

00:05:13.000 None wrong with that, ladies. 1.00

00:05:13.000 That's good. 1.00

00:05:14.000 What about you?

00:05:15.000 I want a husband, too.

00:05:17.000 Hey, y'all!

00:05:19.000 What's your name?

00:05:20.000 I'm Courtney Goods.

00:05:22.000 Courtney Goods.

00:05:22.000 Okay.

00:05:23.000 I'm 30 from Indiana.

00:05:25.000 30?

00:05:25.000 Wait, wait.

00:05:26.000 I'm 30.

00:05:27.000 What part of Indiana are you from?

00:05:29.000 Gary, Indiana. 1.00

00:05:30.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

00:05:31.000 That's one of the most dangerous places in the United States, bro. 1.00

00:05:34.000 Yeah, Gary, Indiana is consistently in the top, like, 20.

00:05:37.000 Murder capital.

00:05:38.000 Yeah.

00:05:39.000 St.

00:05:40.000 Louis has it this year, but y'all are not too far behind.

00:05:42.000 Yeah, it's been a while.

00:05:44.000 We've been good.

00:05:44.000 Yeah, Gary and Deanna.

00:05:46.000 Wow.

00:05:47.000 Did someone, you guys run the metal detector on her when she came in here?

00:05:50.000 They did.

00:05:51.000 I never bust a gun.

00:05:52.000 You'll be careful, bro.

00:05:53.000 Be careful, mom.

00:05:56.000 I saw him putting some risk on her earlier.

00:05:58.000 Allegedly.

00:05:59.000 Shout out to Mo.

00:05:59.000 Alright, so you're from Gary, Indiana.

00:06:01.000 What do you do for?

00:06:02.000 I'm an entrepreneur, so I do a lot of things.

00:06:05.000 Tell us about the legal ones.

00:06:08.000 It's only one thing I ever did that wasn't illegal, but everything else is illegal.

00:06:12.000 What was it?

00:06:12.000 Murder?

00:06:13.000 No.

00:06:14.000 I felt a little on the set.

00:06:17.000 FBI, open up!

00:06:20.000 The honesty.

00:06:21.000 Yeah, so now I'm just straight and narrow.

00:06:23.000 I just, like, I promote parties.

00:06:26.000 I model.

00:06:27.000 I dance on a professional level and an exotic level.

00:06:31.000 I do music.

00:06:32.000 So, choreographed, dancing, and stripping?

00:06:34.000 Yeah.

00:06:34.000 Both?

00:06:34.000 Okay.

00:06:35.000 Because I'm really flexible, so why not use it?

00:06:39.000 TMI. So you're a promoter, dancer, and what else?

00:06:43.000 A rapper.

00:06:45.000 You can rap too?

00:06:46.000 Yeah, I can rap.

00:06:46.000 We got here a verse.

00:06:47.000 Former trapper as well.

00:06:49.000 You got some right now?

00:06:52.000 Let's hear it.

00:06:54.000 Hold on. 1.00

00:06:59.000 That shit on beat. 1.00

00:07:01.000 Yeah. 1.00

00:07:02.000 Niggas playing on my downfall. 1.00

00:07:02.000 Okay, go ahead. 1.00

00:07:04.000 With my back against the wall, I still prevail on these pussy niggas. 1.00

00:07:06.000 Kill them dead, say fuck them all. 1.00

00:07:08.000 When they say kill them dead, hoping that I kill them really. 1.00

00:07:11.000 I'm on top, I'm really lonely. 1.00

00:07:14.000 Though I heard, they'll hurt.

00:07:15.000 Niggas proud, so I'd rather be an introvert. 0.99

00:07:18.000 Rockies rap, it's a word, it's supposed to verb.

00:07:37.000 Alright, let's cut it.

00:07:40.000 Alright.

00:07:41.000 That was pretty good.

00:07:43.000 I don't take it serious. 1.00

00:07:45.000 It's just like a little shit. 0.99

00:07:51.000 I mean, I don't... 1.00

00:07:52.000 There ain't no rap like on the phone or nothing like that.

00:07:55.000 That was not that bad.

00:07:56.000 It wasn't.

00:07:57.000 It was good.

00:07:57.000 I wasn't trying.

00:07:58.000 I'm not trying to like...

00:07:58.000 Yeah.

00:08:00.000 People that are mute would love that.

00:08:02.000 All right.

00:08:03.000 Fantastic.

00:08:05.000 What's your highest education level completed?

00:08:07.000 I did some nursing school.

00:08:08.000 Wait, nurse? 0.80

00:08:09.000 Did you get your associate's degree?

00:08:12.000 I didn't.

00:08:13.000 Okay, so high school is the highest completed.

00:08:15.000 And then what's your relationship status?

00:08:17.000 She belongs to the streets. 0.92

00:08:19.000 It's complicated, right?

00:08:21.000 It's complicated, right?

00:08:22.000 I'm actually in a divorce of a relationship.

00:08:26.000 I'm divorced, too.

00:08:28.000 It was never a marriage, but it's a divorce going on.

00:08:31.000 It's really complicated.

00:08:33.000 It was like a serious relationship.

00:08:35.000 It started off real serious, and then they kind of started changing, so I changed, too.

00:08:41.000 You changed?

00:08:42.000 Where'd you meet him?

00:08:43.000 Jail? 1.00

00:08:44.000 Shit, they fell back. 1.00

00:08:46.000 No, I didn't go to jail ever. 1.00

00:08:48.000 For the record.

00:08:49.000 Never been to jail.

00:08:50.000 Never got caught.

00:08:53.000 Don't sit on camera.

00:08:55.000 Okay.

00:08:56.000 But it's just like, you know, once a man stops being a man to you, you do not have an obligation to stick around no matter how long y'all been together.

00:09:04.000 No more respect.

00:09:04.000 So I had to do the walk it out.

00:09:07.000 And that's just that.

00:09:07.000 Walk it out.

00:09:09.000 Okay.

00:09:12.000 Alright, so I think you can only be divorced if you've been married, though.

00:09:16.000 So I guess it would just say a breakup that sucks because you guys were together for so long.

00:09:19.000 Why are you judging?

00:09:20.000 Because the definition of divorce is getting married.

00:09:23.000 It was deep.

00:09:25.000 It was deep.

00:09:26.000 But the definition of divorce is with marriage, though.

00:09:29.000 Y'all just broke up.

00:09:30.000 He's factual.

00:09:31.000 Remember, he's factual.

00:09:32.000 It was deep.

00:09:33.000 Was it more than seven years?

00:09:36.000 No.

00:09:37.000 Okay.

00:09:38.000 I'm just asking because, like, in Jersey, if you're married, if you're, like, lived together for more than seven years and you're not married, you're considered married.

00:09:44.000 Well, that's if it's a common law marriage.

00:09:46.000 But, I mean, a lot of states don't practice that.

00:09:48.000 And you don't have to necessarily file for a divorce with breaking up, even though they might look at it as a marriage.

00:09:53.000 What if he thought that I was his wifey?

00:09:58.000 But without a ring.

00:09:59.000 Unless it's legal, then it's not a divorce.

00:10:03.000 Divorce is essentially a dissolution of a marriage.

00:10:07.000 It was a divorce in a relationship.

00:10:10.000 It's a breakup.

00:10:13.000 He should have put a ring on it.

00:10:14.000 In layman's terms.

00:10:16.000 It's just a breakup.

00:10:18.000 So you actually got divorced, you said, right?

00:10:19.000 Yeah, I actually got married.

00:10:22.000 By the actual definition.

00:10:24.000 Who initiated the divorce, you or him?

00:10:27.000 Why?

00:10:28.000 That's rare.

00:10:29.000 I chose my job before.

00:10:32.000 When I came to Miami, when I was given that choice because of how I got the job and everything, he was like, no.

00:10:39.000 But I wanted financial freedom.

00:10:41.000 I wanted to be a bartender.

00:10:43.000 Also, you were married when you came out here.

00:10:45.000 Okay.

00:10:45.000 Yeah.

00:10:46.000 Yeah, she said, fuck that nigga. 1.00

00:10:47.000 I'm gone. 1.00

00:10:47.000 Okay. 1.00

00:10:48.000 No, I asked him to move down here with me.

00:10:50.000 Because when you asked him, I was going to pay everything.

00:10:53.000 Wow.

00:10:54.000 Were you the breadwinner in the relationship?

00:10:54.000 He didn't want me to go.

00:10:56.000 Yeah.

00:10:56.000 You were?

00:10:57.000 Did it hurt you?

00:10:58.000 It's hard.

00:10:58.000 Yeah.

00:10:59.000 It's hard out here.

00:11:00.000 For real. 0.99

00:11:01.000 I mean, I don't want to sound like an asshole, but she hits all the numbers on the head. 0.99

00:11:05.000 African-American woman, educated, is the breadwinner in the relationship. 1.00

00:11:11.000 Statistically speaking, that's a 90% plus chance of initiating divorce and breaking.

00:11:16.000 Well, not initiating, but being divorced in general.

00:11:19.000 At least you asked them to move.

00:11:20.000 I guess you tried.

00:11:22.000 But, you know, You're in your early 20s.

00:11:25.000 I said, hey, I gotta get this bread.

00:11:27.000 Come on, let's go. 0.98

00:11:28.000 And he's like, nah, his family's there.

00:11:30.000 My family was there too.

00:11:31.000 I moved my family down.

00:11:32.000 My family said yes.

00:11:33.000 He's the only one that said no.

00:11:34.000 If he had been the primary breadwinner and you didn't have to work, what if you stayed?

00:11:39.000 That's a boring life.

00:11:40.000 That's a boring life.

00:11:42.000 I can't.

00:11:43.000 He would have been happy.

00:11:44.000 I'm up now.

00:11:45.000 You should have stayed.

00:11:46.000 That's like my goal.

00:11:48.000 That's your goal?

00:11:49.000 Absolutely.

00:11:49.000 To not work?

00:11:50.000 To be a stay-at-home mother.

00:11:51.000 Yeah.

00:11:52.000 And work in the house. 0.99

00:11:53.000 I don't even know about that.

00:11:54.000 Being a mother is my goal.

00:11:56.000 I wouldn't say that.

00:11:57.000 I could be a stay-at-home mother.

00:11:59.000 Real quick, so I can take a poll at the table.

00:12:01.000 How many of you, if given the opportunity, would prefer to be a stay-at-home mother versus pursuing a career? 0.68

00:12:06.000 I just want to get a gauge here.

00:12:07.000 Oh, wow.

00:12:08.000 I would.

00:12:09.000 Because I'm not staying at home.

00:12:11.000 Everyone except for Ms.

00:12:12.000 Gary, Indiana?

00:12:12.000 I'm just being real.

00:12:13.000 I'm sorry.

00:12:14.000 I feel like that's so beautiful.

00:12:15.000 Do you understand what he's saying?

00:12:29.000 Let me go ahead and define it for you.

00:12:31.000 So there's no confusion here.

00:12:33.000 Stay at home mother means you're at home. 1.00

00:12:36.000 He's a predominant bill payer.

00:12:36.000 He's at work.

00:12:39.000 You may or may not have some side gig that makes some bullshit money and you can buy some things here and there. 0.64

00:12:43.000 However, most of your living expenses, if not all, are taken care of by the man.

00:12:47.000 And you might make a little bit of money on the side.

00:12:50.000 But you pay no majority of the bills.

00:12:52.000 Now that you understand the definition, who wants that?

00:12:58.000 Raise your hands.

00:12:59.000 That depends on the man.

00:13:03.000 But yes, I guess you could say that it depends on the man.

00:13:05.000 But the point is, is you guys would take that?

00:13:07.000 Everybody pretty much?

00:13:08.000 Yes.

00:13:08.000 Okay.

00:13:08.000 Only one person says no.

00:13:10.000 I don't want to stay at home, mom.

00:13:10.000 Okay.

00:13:12.000 You want to be a career woman? 1.00

00:13:14.000 CEO? I do.

00:13:16.000 I want to be able to vacation, work, whatever I want to do.

00:13:19.000 I mean, you're 30, so figure it out.

00:13:21.000 Okay.

00:13:22.000 Okay, Chris.

00:13:24.000 And then for you, you said your relationship is complicated or single, I guess?

00:13:31.000 Divorced.

00:13:32.000 Me?

00:13:32.000 Yeah.

00:13:33.000 Yeah, I'm definitely single.

00:13:35.000 Like, I'm not in between nothing.

00:13:37.000 We can tell.

00:13:37.000 Oh, no.

00:13:39.000 Very strong.

00:13:40.000 What about you?

00:13:41.000 My name is Jimena.

00:13:42.000 I was raised in Mexico.

00:13:43.000 Wait, your name is human?

00:13:44.000 Jimena.

00:13:46.000 Wait, can you say it?

00:13:49.000 What?

00:13:50.000 Can you say my name right?

00:13:52.000 Ooh.

00:13:53.000 What is this?

00:13:54.000 Destiny's Child?

00:13:55.000 I guess that song must have been in Mexico just now or something.

00:14:03.000 Alright, hold it.

00:14:06.000 You're what?

00:14:06.000 18.

00:14:08.000 You said you're from Mexico, part of Mexico?

00:14:11.000 Guadalajara, Jalisco.

00:14:16.000 A lot of methamphetamine is made there.

00:14:23.000 I really would like to see you trying to say that.

00:14:26.000 Please.

00:14:27.000 She on you.

00:14:29.000 Okay, so Guadalajara and then what do you do for it?

00:14:32.000 I do social media for now.

00:14:34.000 Okay.

00:14:35.000 Do you do something similar to her where you help businesses?

00:14:39.000 No, I'm an influencer.

00:14:42.000 You're an influencer.

00:14:43.000 You do post then?

00:14:44.000 Yeah, I post on TikTok, Instagram, make money from there.

00:14:47.000 What kind of content do you make?

00:15:02.000 Did you finish high school?

00:15:03.000 Yes, I did.

00:15:04.000 And then what's your relationship stand?

00:15:06.000 I'm single.

00:15:08.000 I'm living life.

00:15:09.000 She's 18, y'all.

00:15:11.000 And then what about you?

00:15:15.000 My name is Kim.

00:15:16.000 Welcome back.

00:15:17.000 I'm a teen.

00:15:18.000 I resell vintage clothing.

00:15:20.000 And you're from where?

00:15:21.000 Miami?

00:15:22.000 Broward County.

00:15:23.000 Broward County.

00:15:24.000 Okay, and then you said you resell vintage clothing?

00:15:29.000 I do.

00:15:29.000 Okay.

00:15:30.000 And highest education level is high school?

00:15:33.000 Correct.

00:15:34.000 Relationship status?

00:15:35.000 I like someone.

00:15:36.000 Okay.

00:15:37.000 So I'll say complicated, I guess, or something.

00:15:41.000 All right.

00:15:42.000 All right, cool.

00:15:44.000 So guys, I'll hit the chats real quick.

00:15:46.000 We already got 13,000 y'all watching right now live.

00:15:48.000 So go ahead and do me a favor.

00:15:49.000 Well, that's only on YouTube.

00:15:50.000 I don't know how many over back on Rumble.

00:15:51.000 So go ahead and like the video, subscribe to the channel.

00:15:51.000 Let's check.

00:15:55.000 Mo will tell me on the side.

00:15:56.000 Mo, just let me know what to talk about.

00:15:59.000 Jamar 16.

00:16:00.000 Have you ever cheated?

00:16:01.000 If so, what telltale signs did the guy miss that would have given it away?

00:16:05.000 If not, name a sign to look for.

00:16:06.000 Keep it educational.

00:16:08.000 Okay.

00:16:10.000 Ladies, what are telltale signs that a girl is cheating? 1.00

00:16:13.000 We'll go around the table on this one quickly.

00:16:14.000 We can start right here with Kim.

00:16:17.000 Go ahead.

00:16:18.000 If you had a brother, what tip would you tell him to look out for if you had a girlfriend that she might be unfaithful?

00:16:24.000 Cheating.

00:16:25.000 I would say she's always out, like, at parties and stuff like that.

00:16:29.000 How do you know?

00:16:30.000 I have a brother.

00:16:32.000 What about you?

00:16:35.000 I will definitely say hiding her phone.

00:16:40.000 That's what you do.

00:16:42.000 Cool.

00:16:44.000 Hiding her phone from his sight when he's around.

00:16:46.000 Okay.

00:16:47.000 What about you?

00:16:48.000 In my case, I mean, I'mma tell you. 0.99

00:16:54.000 You just tell me straight up I'm fucking other dudes? 1.00

00:16:57.000 Why I gotta be a fuck? 1.00

00:16:58.000 I feel like niggas get mad over dating. 1.00

00:17:00.000 So you just get blowjobs? 1.00

00:17:02.000 No. 1.00

00:17:03.000 I date.

00:17:05.000 But I'm just saying, like, if I want to date...

00:17:06.000 So you also straight up tell your guy, like, I'm going out with another dude?

00:17:08.000 I mean, at that point, it should be over.

00:17:10.000 Like, yeah.

00:17:11.000 At that point, I'm breaking up with you.

00:17:12.000 Well, let's be honest here.

00:17:13.000 A lot of guys can't take hints.

00:17:15.000 So...

00:17:15.000 No, I tell them, like, yeah.

00:17:16.000 Straight up?

00:17:17.000 You gotta be honest. 1.00

00:17:19.000 Damn, you a savage. 1.00

00:17:20.000 So you initiate all the breakups? 1.00

00:17:22.000 No, I haven't. 0.97

00:17:24.000 I was like the dumb one in a relationship for a really long time. 0.91

00:17:27.000 Okay, so you never...

00:17:28.000 Okay, the last divorce that you were talking about before, who initiated that breakup?

00:17:32.000 Me.

00:17:33.000 So you're honest with him?

00:17:34.000 You told him, hey, I want to see other people, I don't like you anymore?

00:17:36.000 Yeah.

00:17:37.000 Was that the first guy you were honest with?

00:17:40.000 In a relationship, yeah.

00:17:41.000 Okay.

00:17:43.000 Okay.

00:17:46.000 She's honest.

00:17:47.000 I mean, brutally honest.

00:17:49.000 So would it be fair to say that if she goes on another date, she's cheating, even though that's very obvious?

00:17:52.000 Okay.

00:17:53.000 What about you?

00:17:54.000 I agree with the phone.

00:17:55.000 Hiding the phone.

00:17:56.000 Give us something new, though.

00:17:56.000 All right.

00:17:58.000 Something different.

00:17:59.000 Yeah.

00:17:59.000 Something spicy.

00:18:00.000 The guys are trying to learn here.

00:18:00.000 Yeah.

00:18:01.000 Oh, my God.

00:18:04.000 Don't help it.

00:18:05.000 What do you do for a living?

00:18:08.000 Oh, social media.

00:18:08.000 In the DMs.

00:18:10.000 If they're DMing a lot on Instagram.

00:18:12.000 Okay.

00:18:13.000 Swiping up to people's stories.

00:18:16.000 Not the heart.

00:18:17.000 Okay.

00:18:18.000 Yeah, the little heart eye emoji, the fire emoji.

00:18:20.000 Okay.

00:18:21.000 I don't even think you can swipe up anymore, but we'll take it.

00:18:21.000 There you go.

00:18:23.000 It's fine.

00:18:24.000 What about you?

00:18:27.000 I feel like just being outside a lot and very friendly and Can you describe outside specifically?

00:18:35.000 Because you could be outside of a grocery store all the time.

00:18:39.000 Very much so true.

00:18:41.000 Outside as in, like, you're going out with promoters in Miami.

00:18:46.000 You know, like...

00:18:47.000 Red flag.

00:18:48.000 Promoters, huh?

00:18:49.000 Oh, yeah.

00:18:50.000 Those would be the worst.

00:18:51.000 Okay.

00:18:52.000 So going outside, and when you say outside, namely nightclubs, establishments where alcohol is served.

00:18:57.000 If you're a girl and you're dating my little brother and I see you at Booby Trap and my little brother is not with you, I will for sure be telling him. 0.98

00:19:04.000 Okay.

00:19:04.000 Fair enough.

00:19:05.000 Do you think a man should tolerate a girl that likes to go to the club a lot? 1.00

00:19:10.000 I feel like if he also likes going to the club a lot, cool, but if he's not...

00:19:15.000 No, but he doesn't.

00:19:16.000 So his girl shouldn't be at the club at all?

00:19:18.000 If he doesn't.

00:19:18.000 No.

00:19:19.000 Okay.

00:19:20.000 That's fair.

00:19:21.000 What about you?

00:19:22.000 Alright, I have three brothers.

00:19:23.000 I'm the only girl.

00:19:24.000 So the red flag that I would tell him if...

00:19:24.000 Okay.

00:19:28.000 If I'm out and I don't pick up my phone or I don't text back.

00:19:32.000 Okay.

00:19:33.000 Not being prompt about responding?

00:19:34.000 Yeah.

00:19:35.000 Okay.

00:19:35.000 Then that's cheating.

00:19:36.000 You're cheating.

00:19:37.000 There's a reason you ain't picking up the phone.

00:19:38.000 Okay.

00:19:39.000 Somebody's in your face, a guy behind you, and you don't want him to see hubby calling on the phone.

00:19:44.000 That's it.

00:19:44.000 Okay.

00:19:45.000 What are the other ones?

00:19:46.000 Oh, I thought you had multiple.

00:19:48.000 No, no, no.

00:19:48.000 That was just the one?

00:19:48.000 That's the main one.

00:19:50.000 That's number one.

00:19:50.000 I have three brothers.

00:19:51.000 Fair enough.

00:19:51.000 Okay.

00:19:52.000 What about you?

00:19:53.000 I would say distance.

00:19:54.000 Can you clarify that?

00:19:56.000 Like, If, in a period of your relationship, you were all about the person, like, wanting physical affection all the time, and then, after a while, you start getting distant, like, you don't want to kiss, like, you don't want to sleep together, you don't want to, you know...

00:20:11.000 No physical intimacy?

00:20:12.000 Yeah.

00:20:13.000 Especially when it was there before?

00:20:15.000 When it started there before, and then it wasn't there.

00:20:17.000 And that leads to, I need space, eventually.

00:20:20.000 Or we need to take a break.

00:20:22.000 Would it be fair to say, I always have to say the quote, a woman can't serve two masters. 1.00

00:20:28.000 Do you think that pretty much a telltale sign a girl doesn't like you anymore is that she's not being physically intimate with you anymore?

00:20:34.000 Yeah, absolutely.

00:20:36.000 Versus a man can do it, but a woman has difficulty doing that? 1.00

00:20:39.000 Or if you're the one that's always asking.

00:20:41.000 We don't even initiate it.

00:20:42.000 We don't even...

00:20:44.000 Because men are able to, like, smash another girl. 0.69

00:20:46.000 Okay, I'm gonna go smash my girl now. 1.00

00:20:47.000 But, like, with women, I've noticed they can't really do that. 1.00

00:20:49.000 Yeah.

00:20:50.000 What about you?

00:20:50.000 Okay.

00:20:52.000 I know that's kind of, like, a modern answer, but when she's not posting him on social media...

00:20:59.000 Someone got their third eye open.

00:21:04.000 Yeah, she knows the truth.

00:21:05.000 And my second one is doesn't have...

00:21:08.000 Her phone password.

00:21:10.000 Because I would willingly give up my phone password.

00:21:13.000 Really?

00:21:13.000 Okay.

00:21:14.000 Absolutely.

00:21:14.000 I did.

00:21:15.000 I'm very loyal.

00:21:15.000 I'm a Leo.

00:21:16.000 I'm too loyal.

00:21:17.000 I'm a Leo too.

00:21:18.000 Yeah, me too.

00:21:18.000 I'm too loyal, but none of them.

00:21:20.000 That's what y'all say now, man.

00:21:22.000 Okay, so you think a red flag is her not having her phone completely open to the guy?

00:21:25.000 Alright, what about you?

00:21:25.000 Absolutely.

00:21:26.000 I feel like dudes are real sensitive.

00:21:29.000 So, if I start name dropping like other dudes, like this dude talking to me, he want me, he on my top, that means I'm cheating on you.

00:21:40.000 So if a girl is naming other opportunities given to her, she's cheating? 1.00

00:21:44.000 Yeah.

00:21:46.000 Basically, it's a threat.

00:21:47.000 Right.

00:21:48.000 Do you think that's disrespectful?

00:21:50.000 It is disrespectful, but hey.

00:21:54.000 So you think that's dropping a hint?

00:21:56.000 Yeah, I'm letting you know. 0.99

00:21:57.000 What would you do if your brother came to you and said, hey, this girl that I'm seeing, we've been together for two years, I really love her, but she keeps mentioning this fucking guy at work all the time. 0.96

00:22:04.000 What would you tell him? 0.99

00:22:06.000 Oh...

00:22:08.000 Different when the shoe's another foot on.

00:22:10.000 That's her work husband.

00:22:11.000 For real, like, okay, she...

00:22:13.000 What would you advise him?

00:22:14.000 I would advise him to let that hoe go. 1.00

00:22:16.000 Okay.

00:22:17.000 Immediately break up?

00:22:19.000 Yeah.

00:22:20.000 Because she's interested, obviously, her emotions are towards somebody else.

00:22:20.000 Why?

00:22:25.000 She putting her effort into somebody else, it's clear.

00:22:28.000 Okay.

00:22:28.000 Can you give us a phrase that kind of, like, makes that real?

00:22:32.000 For example, an example of what a girl would say, in that sense?

00:22:35.000 A phrase?

00:22:39.000 He said one earlier, but could you say one?

00:22:42.000 To prove your point?

00:22:43.000 To prove my point?

00:22:47.000 I don't know.

00:22:48.000 You said it.

00:22:49.000 I said it.

00:22:50.000 You don't know?

00:22:51.000 No.

00:22:52.000 Alright, cool.

00:22:54.000 Nevermind.

00:22:55.000 Alright, chats?

00:22:56.000 So, before I get on, guys, I already got 13,000 plus y'all in here.

00:23:00.000 So, Chris, call it.

00:23:01.000 What should we do?

00:23:02.000 20.

00:23:03.000 20 enough from this point forward?

00:23:04.000 I got a topic at hand, so I'm going to hit the topic and then we can go back to the chats.

00:23:04.000 Okay, cool.

00:23:08.000 So, ladies, and we're going to start hearing their work our way, alright? 0.96

00:23:13.000 Who lives an easier life In 2023, in the United States and the developed world in general.

00:23:22.000 And this, to clarify here, I'm talking about opportunity, making money, dating, certain situations being open to them, whatever it may be.

00:23:31.000 Getting ahead in life in general.

00:23:33.000 Who lives an easier life?

00:23:35.000 Men.

00:23:35.000 Men make way more money.

00:23:37.000 Okay, tell me who and then why.

00:23:39.000 So you're saying men because they make more money?

00:23:40.000 Men because they make more money.

00:23:41.000 So women are chasing the men who make more money. 1.00

00:23:44.000 That's what they want.

00:23:45.000 Women want a stable life. 1.00

00:23:47.000 So they're chasing after the men who have money.

00:23:50.000 Remember, the question, again ladies, listen very closely to the question.

00:23:55.000 Who lives an easier life?

00:23:59.000 The argument you just made was for money.

00:24:01.000 However, it's not easy to earn money.

00:24:02.000 We know this.

00:24:03.000 Right.

00:24:04.000 So, just want to make sure you guys fully understand the question.

00:24:06.000 If that's still an answer, that's cool.

00:24:07.000 Only if you're a scammer, though.

00:24:09.000 We'll get to you.

00:24:10.000 Don't worry.

00:24:11.000 If you still stand on that answer, that's fine.

00:24:13.000 I just want to make sure you understand the question properly.

00:24:15.000 Who lives an easier life with everything?

00:24:18.000 Opportunity, dating, making money, education, social situations, totality of the circumstances.

00:24:25.000 Which one?

00:24:26.000 I feel like women.

00:24:27.000 Why?

00:24:28.000 Did you change your answer?

00:24:29.000 I did change my answer.

00:24:31.000 Okay, why?

00:24:31.000 Well, if you're a desirable woman, your life is easy.

00:24:37.000 Explain what desirable is. 1.00

00:24:40.000 Shit. 1.00

00:24:41.000 A woman that a man wants, that men want in general, like beautiful, easy to deal with, easy to talk to, just easy to deal with. 1.00

00:24:54.000 Men want a woman that's easy to deal with. 1.00

00:24:56.000 They don't want a woman that's going to argue with them. 1.00

00:24:58.000 They don't want a woman that's pretty, of course, to have on their arm. 0.99

00:25:02.000 So you're saying for women, it's easier for women only if they're desirable?

00:25:10.000 Not necessarily.

00:25:11.000 What do you mean by desirable?

00:25:13.000 Desirable.

00:25:14.000 What do you know?

00:25:16.000 Because I asked you, I said, who's easier?

00:25:18.000 And then you said women, under the caveat that they're desirable. 0.79

00:25:22.000 It depends on a man what he desires.

00:25:26.000 Who has an easier life?

00:25:28.000 Women or men? 0.99

00:25:29.000 Staying in preschool.

00:25:31.000 Kindergarten.

00:25:32.000 Kindergarten.

00:25:33.000 In general. 1.00

00:25:34.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

00:25:36.000 In general, who has an easier life? 1.00

00:25:38.000 Men or women? 0.78

00:25:39.000 You're saying women.

00:25:41.000 But then you said under the context that they're desirable.

00:25:46.000 Bruh!

00:25:50.000 Who has an easier life?

00:25:52.000 Nobody has an easy life.

00:25:53.000 You have to pick one gender who has an easier existence in the developed world. 1.00

00:25:58.000 Now you're changing it again.

00:26:00.000 Why men? 0.91

00:26:01.000 Just tell me why.

00:26:02.000 Because men make more money.

00:26:03.000 Men can do whatever they want to do.

00:26:05.000 That's not true.

00:26:06.000 He just said money was hard to make.

00:26:08.000 Money is hard to make?

00:26:10.000 For men? 0.91

00:26:11.000 For women now, it is. 1.00

00:26:12.000 For women!

00:26:14.000 So you're saying men because they make more money?

00:26:17.000 Yeah.

00:26:18.000 Let's leave it at men. 0.95

00:26:20.000 Alright, what about you?

00:26:24.000 What do you think lives an easier life in the developed first world from a holistic standpoint?

00:26:31.000 Men or women and why? 0.81

00:26:33.000 I feel like it could go both ways.

00:26:36.000 But if you had to choose one.

00:26:41.000 Women. 0.81

00:26:42.000 Because they can be fugly and just post to OnlyFans and still get sad men on their line and they can make money and be an independent woman. 1.00

00:26:56.000 And, yeah, I don't think you really have to bring much to the table other than having a pussy and some tits these days. 1.00

00:27:01.000 Okay. 1.00

00:27:02.000 Damn, honesty. 1.00

00:27:02.000 Goddamn. 1.00

00:27:03.000 Okay. 0.99

00:27:04.000 Alright.

00:27:05.000 Who do you think lives an easier life?

00:27:06.000 So do we have to choose a gender? 0.99

00:27:08.000 Yeah, gender. 0.99

00:27:08.000 I was gonna say... 0.99

00:27:09.000 Okay.

00:27:10.000 I would say women. 0.95

00:27:11.000 Okay.

00:27:12.000 Why?

00:27:13.000 I mean, I feel like there's pretty privilege.

00:27:17.000 There's things there for women that there aren't... 1.00

00:27:19.000 I mean, there is pretty privilege for guys, I guess.

00:27:22.000 Absolutely.

00:27:23.000 But...

00:27:25.000 I don't know.

00:27:26.000 I feel like women can just... 1.00

00:27:28.000 We're going to talk about pretty privilege in a little bit, but you think it's because pretty privilege is why?

00:27:33.000 That's your predominant reason why women have these? 1.00

00:27:35.000 No, I just feel like women have this touch that men don't have. 0.58

00:27:37.000 I don't know.

00:27:38.000 We can figure it out.

00:27:39.000 At the end of the day, we figure it out.

00:27:42.000 Can you define figuring it out?

00:27:48.000 I don't know.

00:27:49.000 Like she said, any woman can start an OnlyFans and make some money. 1.00

00:27:52.000 Like, not any guy can really do that.

00:27:56.000 But I don't know how to put it.

00:27:58.000 I mean, I guess pretty privileged, but I think all women can kind of get it if they want it. 1.00

00:28:02.000 And there's just...

00:28:04.000 Women have a way of talking... 1.00

00:28:24.000 Persuasion.

00:28:26.000 That started off with money.

00:28:27.000 Their parents started off with money.

00:28:29.000 But that was going to be my answer.

00:28:31.000 We're talking strictly gender, not social class or family.

00:28:34.000 We're talking strictly gender. 0.63

00:28:35.000 So you're saying women because of pretty privilege. 1.00

00:28:39.000 Pretty much. 0.99

00:28:40.000 Pussy privilege. 1.00

00:28:42.000 Pussy privilege. 1.00

00:28:44.000 What about you? 1.00

00:28:48.000 If I had to put it It will be women, dogs, gays, then men. 1.00

00:28:55.000 Women, dogs, gays, then men. 0.99

00:28:59.000 Okay. 0.99

00:29:00.000 Women, because we can just put on some heels, put on some damn near naked, and we're going to make three easy money. 1.00

00:29:12.000 There you go. 0.98

00:29:12.000 Make easy money. 0.98

00:29:14.000 All right.

00:29:14.000 Okay.

00:29:15.000 So, as far as in dogs, You get chosen to the right family.

00:29:19.000 You good.

00:29:20.000 You straight.

00:29:20.000 You got nothing else.

00:29:22.000 That's very true. 0.98

00:29:23.000 Now gays. 1.00

00:29:24.000 Gays. 0.99

00:29:25.000 As you can see now, the new generation, It's definitely built to protect them. 0.87

00:29:35.000 You know what I'm saying?

00:29:37.000 Is that the best way to put it?

00:29:38.000 I like it.

00:29:38.000 Haram!

00:29:39.000 I like it.

00:29:40.000 I mean, it's fine.

00:29:43.000 Men is last place because you guys have to always be the providers. 0.97

00:29:49.000 Always.

00:29:50.000 Okay.

00:29:51.000 They gotta make the money.

00:29:52.000 They gotta do this.

00:29:53.000 They gotta do that. 1.00

00:29:54.000 Provide the dick. 1.00

00:29:55.000 Nobody wants them. 1.00

00:29:56.000 That is true.

00:29:57.000 They gotta pay for love.

00:29:57.000 It's so hard.

00:29:58.000 And it's sad.

00:29:59.000 Because I got three brothers. 1.00

00:30:01.000 I've seen them go on dates where they spent $800 on a girl and didn't get no pussy. 1.00

00:30:05.000 Then they went on another date. 0.99

00:30:06.000 They bought them like something for $300. 1.00

00:30:09.000 Stupid. 1.00

00:30:10.000 $40 here again? 1.00

00:30:11.000 But I got the money.

00:30:12.000 And the girls don't come up.

00:30:15.000 It's sad.

00:30:16.000 Not only are you saying women have it easier, but you're able to actually put the order of importance here. 1.00

00:30:22.000 You're saying dogs, gays, and then heterosexual men.

00:30:25.000 You have it easy. 0.89

00:30:25.000 That's a very good point. 0.89

00:30:28.000 Order of difficulty.

00:30:30.000 Wow, what a creative answer.

00:30:32.000 Would it be fair to say that watching your brother struggle is what influenced that answer?

00:30:38.000 Yeah.

00:30:39.000 If I didn't have it, I probably would have...

00:30:39.000 Okay.

00:30:41.000 You would have not known?

00:30:42.000 I would have not known.

00:30:43.000 It's sad.

00:30:44.000 Okay.

00:30:44.000 That's a good take.

00:30:45.000 Interesting.

00:30:45.000 Okay.

00:30:46.000 Okay, what about you?

00:30:47.000 Who do you think has it easier, men or women in the developed world, and why?

00:30:52.000 I think women have it easier because we're prioritized by the predominant race, which is men. 1.00

00:30:59.000 You mean the predominant gender?

00:31:00.000 My bad.

00:31:01.000 The predominant gender, which is men.

00:31:05.000 So, yeah, I think it's women. 1.00

00:31:07.000 Okay, cool.

00:31:08.000 Example.

00:31:09.000 Wait, so just so I make sure I have this right, you're saying women because they're prioritized by men. 0.76

00:31:13.000 Yeah.

00:31:14.000 Can you explain in which ways women are prioritized by men?

00:31:17.000 Have we all watched the Titanic?

00:31:19.000 Okay.

00:31:20.000 When the ship was sinking, they said all women and children go first.

00:31:24.000 Women will always be prioritized by men. 1.00

00:31:26.000 Okay.

00:31:28.000 Anything else?

00:31:28.000 That's good.

00:31:29.000 You were going to say something else before I... No, that was it.

00:31:33.000 Yeah.

00:31:33.000 Okay.

00:31:34.000 What about you?

00:31:35.000 I agree.

00:31:35.000 Women.

00:31:36.000 Why?

00:31:37.000 And I think women, because I think women have a good way of manipulating men into getting what they want. 1.00

00:31:49.000 And especially in big cities like this or New York, There is a lot of money around, and women are always going to be in clubs for free, drinking for free, at nice dinners for free. 1.00

00:32:01.000 They're not paying for anything.

00:32:03.000 Women are flown out to places and get to experience things that men would never experience for free.

00:32:10.000 You don't often see girls flying guys out to come experience things like that.

00:32:14.000 That's what I was trying to say, too.

00:32:16.000 Women can... 1.00

00:32:17.000 Women have such an easy way of making money. 1.00

00:32:20.000 Predominantly, yes, men should be breadwinners.

00:32:24.000 But I mean, with platforms like OnlyFans and if anyone's familiar with Fandom Twitter and things like that, girls are making six figures in a month for nothing. 1.00

00:32:37.000 What about you?

00:32:39.000 Who do you think has the easier men or women and why? 0.99

00:32:41.000 I think men has the easier. 0.85

00:32:45.000 Okay, why?

00:32:48.000 Because they have all the leadership roles in the world.

00:32:51.000 They're making all the money.

00:32:53.000 I agree.

00:32:54.000 And they don't really have to do too much but be smart and be...

00:32:57.000 Be a man.

00:32:58.000 Be smart.

00:32:59.000 And dress nice.

00:33:00.000 And dress with a suit on and like...

00:33:00.000 Be smart easily.

00:33:03.000 Well, let me ask you a question.

00:33:04.000 Is it easy to be competent and make a lot of money?

00:33:08.000 Not for women. 1.00

00:33:10.000 Because men really don't give a fuck how smart you are. 0.99

00:33:12.000 So that's easy though. 0.99

00:33:14.000 Okay, so a woman that... 1.00

00:33:16.000 Wait, hold on, hold on.

00:33:17.000 The question Was who lives an easier life?

00:33:21.000 Men or women? 0.78

00:33:22.000 You said men and then you went ahead and said it's because men are smarter and make more money or their leadership roles.

00:33:31.000 They get better jobs, better roles, better everything.

00:33:33.000 Fair enough, but wouldn't it be fair to say that they have to earn that and work towards that competence?

00:33:38.000 Yeah, but if we earn it the same way as a man earn it, we might not get the same position as a man. 0.97

00:33:44.000 They don't always have to earn it.

00:33:45.000 Okay, so let's use your scenario.

00:33:47.000 Do you think If you applied for a job with a man, both of you guys are equally competent, equal education, equal job experience, equal degree, all factors being equal, who do you think has a higher likelihood of getting that job?

00:34:01.000 The man.

00:34:02.000 You really think so?

00:34:03.000 I do.

00:34:03.000 Look at our presidents.

00:34:04.000 The man.

00:34:06.000 I feel like that would kind of depend on like...

00:34:08.000 Well, hold on.

00:34:10.000 You're saying you think the man would get the job over you?

00:34:12.000 Yeah.

00:34:13.000 Even though you're an African-American female and affirmative action is a thing? 1.00

00:34:17.000 I'm a minority.

00:34:17.000 Hold on.

00:34:18.000 So we ain't even gonna throw that in.

00:34:19.000 Because that's even bad. 0.94

00:34:22.000 Even if it was against a black man, the black man gonna get the leadership on another level. 0.99

00:34:28.000 Actually, that works in your favor, you being black. 1.00

00:34:32.000 And a minority. 0.60

00:34:33.000 Why?

00:34:34.000 Because the person, the program or the company we work for have to hire 3% black people to be like... 0.99

00:34:41.000 What are you saying? 0.65

00:34:41.000 What? 0.65

00:34:42.000 I'm saying you being a black woman that needs a job will fit their criteria for the most part. 1.00

00:34:47.000 So you would actually get a job before me.

00:34:49.000 Why? 1.00

00:34:50.000 Because you're a black queen. 1.00

00:34:50.000 I just told you. 1.00

00:34:51.000 What criteria does it fit? 0.98

00:34:53.000 You're a black queen. 1.00

00:34:54.000 I mean elaborate. 1.00

00:34:55.000 You're a black queen. 1.00

00:34:56.000 For your opinion.

00:34:58.000 So, it's because many workplaces, whether it's corporate, law enforcement, maybe jobs that have been historically, masculinely dominated, they want diversity.

00:35:08.000 So, since they want diversity, they look for clients, or excuse me, applicants, that can check as many boxes as possible so they can say that they have a diversified workplace.

00:35:17.000 They have to, baby.

00:35:17.000 Okay.

00:35:18.000 But the point is, is that that still gives you an advantage over the men.

00:35:22.000 Yeah.

00:35:23.000 Going back to that scenario I gave you, if all things are equal between the two individuals, you have a higher likelihood of getting the job because you're a female and you're black, which checks two boxes for the business.

00:35:39.000 I'm sorry.

00:35:41.000 I'm sorry.

00:35:42.000 Two words.

00:35:44.000 Affirmative action.

00:35:45.000 Are you aware that many businesses and or government employers, etc., have specific diversity hiring announcements that are not open to Caucasian males?

00:35:55.000 Do you know that many individuals that say on government jobs are mostly older men?

00:36:00.000 Which is exactly why they have diversity hires to bring women on. 1.00

00:36:03.000 And once they have those.

00:36:04.000 And colored women. 1.00

00:36:05.000 But once they have the blacks or whatever, they're done. 1.00

00:36:08.000 Not really.

00:36:09.000 They're always continuously doing diversity hires.

00:36:11.000 I disagree.

00:36:12.000 I really disagree.

00:36:14.000 And I'm from how many black women do you actually see in leadership positions between the ones that you might see? 1.00

00:36:21.000 Hold on, hold on.

00:36:22.000 But the thing is, is that when you get a leadership position, you typically earned it through merit.

00:36:26.000 What I'm saying is that you get the opportunity.

00:36:28.000 You're making an argument for equality of outcome.

00:36:31.000 I'm making an argument for equality of opportunity.

00:36:34.000 You get the opportunity if you were to compete with a man, but you might not necessarily get the same outcome because you have to still perform once you get the job.

00:36:41.000 My argument is that you have a higher likelihood of getting the job.

00:36:44.000 I don't.

00:36:45.000 Especially in the nursing field.

00:36:48.000 I mean, ladies, with all due respect, you're both incorrect.

00:36:52.000 They've done studies on this and they found that if you are an African-American woman and you apply for a job and let's say there's a qualified applicant that has the same exact metrics as you and he's a white male, statistically speaking, you are far more likely to get the job.

00:37:04.000 That's a fact.

00:37:05.000 That's not my opinion.

00:37:06.000 Which.org is this?

00:37:11.000 Wait, didn't you not pass college though?

00:37:16.000 Who?

00:37:16.000 You.

00:37:17.000 I dropped out because I ran out of time.

00:37:19.000 That's why you didn't get hired.

00:37:20.000 No, it's not why I didn't get hired.

00:37:23.000 It's because I got hired for a whole bunch of other smaller positions easily.

00:37:28.000 Have you been an entrepreneur your entire life?

00:37:29.000 Yes.

00:37:30.000 Okay, so how are you going to speak to the hiring practices of other businesses, corporations, and the government when you've never even been through an application process?

00:37:37.000 Though I'm not trying to.

00:37:39.000 But the type of jobs that I did apply for, guess who was in the leadership positions?

00:37:43.000 Even though it was an entry level.

00:37:44.000 Even though the men only have a high school diploma.

00:37:47.000 It could be Amazon.

00:37:49.000 It could be whatever.

00:37:50.000 It's always men and leadership.

00:37:52.000 From your experience, you're going to say that we have data shows it's the opposite.

00:37:57.000 Are you aware of the fact that your personal experiences might not necessarily reflect reality?

00:38:03.000 You've always been an entrepreneur, which means since you've always been an entrepreneur, you've been able to work for yourself and you didn't have to be subject to a company hiring you based off of your qualifications.

00:38:13.000 But what I am telling you is that the government does this, corporations does this, etc.

00:38:17.000 The same company that I'm speaking of.

00:38:19.000 Everything I'm speaking of is from experience.

00:38:22.000 And you got the job, didn't you?

00:38:23.000 Yeah, and I actually done clinicals.

00:38:25.000 I've been in school for five years.

00:38:27.000 You do realize that if you get a job by default, that means you beat other people out?

00:38:34.000 What if they have a whole line of employees that they can...

00:38:37.000 Weren't we talking about leadership positions?

00:38:39.000 That's what we were talking about.

00:38:40.000 But we're talking about, like, entry level from, like, high school.

00:38:44.000 You know, the $15, $16 an hour.

00:38:47.000 That's what he's talking about.

00:38:48.000 I think they're just making a statistical point.

00:38:49.000 But I haven't had a real job, though.

00:38:52.000 So that's what I'm talking about.

00:38:53.000 What are you talking about?

00:38:54.000 I'm telling you, when you picked up that job at Amazon, by default, you had to beat out other applicants to get the job.

00:39:01.000 And what I'm saying is that can you stop interrupting while I'm making a point?

00:39:05.000 That's the problem.

00:39:06.000 We're talking past each other because you're not listening to understand.

00:39:08.000 You're listening to just talk.

00:39:10.000 Okay?

00:39:11.000 This is not my opinion.

00:39:12.000 This is a fact.

00:39:13.000 If you get a job, that means you, by default, beat out other people that applied for that job.

00:39:19.000 You understand?

00:39:20.000 Now, when you beat those people up for that job, there's a bunch of reasons why you might have done it.

00:39:24.000 You might have been more qualified, might have had more education, might have had more experience, or...

00:39:29.000 You could have met a prerequisite of race or gender that the company is looking for.

00:39:33.000 I am saying, statistically speaking, if everything is equal, white male, black female, y'all apply for a job, you are ten times more likely to get the job over the white male, even if everything is equal because of affirmative action. 0.53

00:39:46.000 And I said no.

00:39:47.000 That is incorrect.

00:39:49.000 You do podcasts.

00:39:53.000 You're not in the real world either.

00:39:55.000 How do you know?

00:39:56.000 Prior to this, I was a special agent with Homeland Security Investigations.

00:40:00.000 I did criminal investigations for well over a decade.

00:40:03.000 Also, I've worked with other federal agencies and I'm very well aware of how the government operates.

00:40:07.000 There's diversity hiring all over the place.

00:40:10.000 The FBI constantly does diversity hiring.

00:40:13.000 My agency did an entire Homeland Security Investigations.

00:40:15.000 They did an entire hiring process only for women. 1.00

00:40:18.000 Now, let's flip it around.

00:40:20.000 Could you imagine what would happen if they did an entire hiring process only for white men? 0.65

00:40:24.000 Okay.

00:40:25.000 Stop! 1.00

00:40:26.000 That's my point.

00:40:27.000 They would never allow that.

00:40:29.000 Can I ask you a question?

00:40:30.000 Based on what you just told me, what was your position at your job?

00:40:34.000 I just said it. 1.00

00:40:35.000 I mean, I don't know that shit. 1.00

00:40:36.000 Was you a president, a manager, or whatever? 1.00

00:40:40.000 What was your position at their job?

00:40:41.000 Or was you just an employee, a supervisor?

00:40:44.000 He was an agent.

00:40:46.000 Which is a high rank, right? 1.00

00:40:49.000 Nigga, he's doing research on the shit we're talking about right now. 1.00

00:40:53.000 The FBI. You can't be serious right now. 1.00

00:40:55.000 Okay, so this guy's an FBI. Not a police officer.

00:41:00.000 You're in a high rank position.

00:41:00.000 We're moving on.

00:41:03.000 We're moving on. 0.98

00:41:04.000 Are you black? 0.99

00:41:05.000 We're moving on. 0.95

00:41:06.000 I'm just asking.

00:41:08.000 I check a bunch of boxes.

00:41:12.000 I'm black, Middle Eastern, I speak Arabic.

00:41:14.000 These are all things that gave me an advantage when I applied over other individuals.

00:41:19.000 Are you in a higher position than other people at your job?

00:41:23.000 Other women at your job, are you in a higher position? 1.00

00:41:26.000 Listen, it's too early.

00:41:27.000 I'm just asking.

00:41:31.000 We're moving on.

00:41:33.000 You missed the entire point of the conversation.

00:41:39.000 Okay, so you're saying men because they have leadership roles and what else?

00:41:43.000 Are you back on me?

00:41:45.000 No, it is.

00:41:47.000 And it's a compliment, actually, because men do their job for it.

00:41:50.000 Okay.

00:41:51.000 You said it's easier for men because they have leadership roles and they're smarter.

00:41:54.000 Is that what it was?

00:41:55.000 No.

00:41:56.000 Why is it easier for men than them? 0.98

00:41:58.000 Because I said that they get the role before us.

00:42:00.000 They get the position before us.

00:42:02.000 Based on what?

00:42:03.000 Based on their ability of leading.

00:42:07.000 Anything else?

00:42:09.000 I mean...

00:42:10.000 That's it?

00:42:10.000 Because of leadership?

00:42:11.000 Yeah, y'all strong.

00:42:12.000 Y'all more poised.

00:42:14.000 We can't really speak up in a room without being demeaned by a man.

00:42:19.000 So yeah, we don't really get those leadership roles.

00:42:21.000 We don't really have the role to get it.

00:42:24.000 We don't have the stand to get it.

00:42:26.000 Okay, cool.

00:42:27.000 What about you?

00:42:27.000 Okay, nowadays I feel like women.

00:42:31.000 Honestly, everyone can see that experience too.

00:42:33.000 I'm 18 years old and I'm making a lot of money. 0.98

00:42:37.000 And it's crazy because my friends are like, wow, human, how the fuck do you do that? 0.94

00:42:51.000 So I can make sure I have this and understand it correctly. 0.89

00:42:58.000 You're saying it's easier for women because women are able to earn a lot of money without tangible skills. 1.00

00:43:04.000 Yeah.

00:43:04.000 Nowadays, yes.

00:43:05.000 I wish I could say both.

00:43:07.000 I wish I could say both.

00:43:08.000 Because men nowadays, like you, you're doing podcasts, you're making a lot of money.

00:43:11.000 Men are doing OnlyFans too.

00:43:13.000 They're making money.

00:43:14.000 These TikTokers who are attractive. 1.00

00:43:17.000 But...

00:43:17.000 But realistically speaking, do you think men that are OnlyFans make as much money as women on OnlyFans?

00:43:22.000 No.

00:43:22.000 Honestly not.

00:43:23.000 Okay, so...

00:43:23.000 So you think it's easier for women because women are able to earn money without having skills?

00:43:28.000 Yeah.

00:43:28.000 Okay.

00:43:30.000 Do you think men can earn money without skills?

00:43:38.000 How?

00:43:40.000 Is it probable?

00:43:50.000 He's making money by sewing girls. 0.89

00:43:52.000 He makes money by doing all these interviews, by just being the face.

00:43:57.000 You know what Andrew Tate did before he became an influencer?

00:44:00.000 Yeah, there's a whole thing.

00:44:01.000 Hold on, let's see if she answers it. 0.80

00:44:02.000 No.

00:44:03.000 But I knew him by social media.

00:44:05.000 Okay, but do you know what he did prior to blowing up on social media?

00:44:09.000 No.

00:44:10.000 He was a four-time kickboxing champion.

00:44:12.000 He had scaled up a business of camming in Romania.

00:44:16.000 He had a bunch of different women working for him, up to between 75 to 90 plus girls at the height of the situation. 1.00

00:44:23.000 Internet marketing, etc.

00:44:24.000 Wouldn't it be fair to say that that takes a good amount of skill to manage all those people and run a business?

00:44:28.000 And be a four-time kickboxing world champion?

00:44:30.000 Yeah, that makes sense.

00:44:32.000 There's people who just start from YouTube and grows.

00:44:35.000 And they're millionaires right now.

00:44:38.000 Yeah, but then...

00:44:39.000 That's a skill, yeah.

00:44:40.000 But it's a skill, ultimately.

00:44:42.000 Yeah, it's a skill, for the men at least.

00:44:44.000 So do you think women are able, like, do women have to have as much skills to make as much money? 1.00

00:44:49.000 I mean, you kind of admitted yourself a second ago.

00:44:51.000 Yeah, you just take pictures, bikinis. 1.00

00:44:53.000 Yeah, basically, yeah.

00:44:55.000 I mean, that's a skill too, you know?

00:44:57.000 Do you think a guy has the ability to take a picture in a swimsuit?

00:45:00.000 Do you think a guy has the same ability to take a picture in a swimsuit and make money?

00:45:04.000 They won't make as much as us.

00:45:06.000 So therefore, who has it easier?

00:45:08.000 Us.

00:45:09.000 Ta-da! 1.00

00:45:10.000 You got it!

00:45:11.000 Got it!

00:45:13.000 Okay.

00:45:14.000 Great panel tonight.

00:45:14.000 Fantastic.

00:45:16.000 What about you?

00:45:17.000 I believe women were handed more opportunities day-to-day just because of being women. 0.90

00:45:21.000 It's not about pretty privilege.

00:45:23.000 It's women privilege. 1.00

00:45:24.000 That's right. 0.92

00:45:26.000 Do you think an ugly girl can still get opportunities given to her? 1.00

00:45:28.000 100%. 0.97

00:45:29.000 She'll be led into the club.

00:45:30.000 She'll still be given the same opportunities compared to a man. 0.97

00:45:32.000 Okay, so you don't think it's pretty privilege.

00:45:34.000 You think it's just straight-up female privilege. 1.00

00:45:36.000 Okay.

00:45:36.000 100%.

00:45:38.000 Alright, so let me ask you guys this.

00:45:40.000 Does pretty privilege exist, and who benefits from it more?

00:45:44.000 We'll start hearing that work our way.

00:45:46.000 Pretty privilege exists.

00:45:46.000 It's a simple one.

00:45:48.000 Women benefit from it more, given free things, given opportunities, given all these things. 1.00

00:45:52.000 Okay.

00:45:54.000 What about you?

00:45:55.000 Same thing.

00:45:56.000 Sorry.

00:45:57.000 I don't know how to say they were pretty privileges.

00:46:00.000 Yeah, we got it.

00:46:00.000 It's fine.

00:46:02.000 Okay, yeah.

00:46:04.000 It's a whole advantage for us, honestly, for everything and anything in this world.

00:46:10.000 Like, you can be pretty and have, like, some guy, like, you know, like, I like you and I have all this and I will give you the word.

00:46:17.000 Right.

00:46:18.000 That's how it works.

00:46:19.000 Okay.

00:46:19.000 Women.

00:46:20.000 That's simple.

00:46:20.000 Women.

00:46:21.000 Women. 0.81

00:46:22.000 Okay.

00:46:23.000 Pretty privilege does exist. 0.62

00:46:25.000 Yes, women benefit a lot from it, but I feel like it'll only take you so far. 0.99

00:46:29.000 Okay.

00:46:30.000 I can't tell you how many times the guy behind me paid for my groceries.

00:46:30.000 What about you?

00:46:35.000 Pretty privilege does exist. 0.62

00:46:37.000 Okay.

00:46:38.000 What grocery store do you go to?

00:46:40.000 Right!

00:46:42.000 Girl, you just gotta go in your booty shorts. 1.00

00:46:46.000 What about you?

00:46:48.000 Pretty privileges go for women because you can get saved at any time. 1.00

00:46:55.000 Pretty privilege definitely exists. 0.88

00:46:58.000 There was a time where I had really bad skin, like full of acne, and I could see the difference between the way I was treated like with that versus without.

00:47:08.000 And yeah, definitely pretty privilege exists.

00:47:12.000 There's a big difference.

00:47:13.000 Did you still get opportunities even when you were looking at your worst?

00:47:17.000 Rarely.

00:47:17.000 Very.

00:47:18.000 But you got them.

00:47:19.000 But I got them.

00:47:20.000 Yeah, just definitely not as often as I did when I cleared it up.

00:47:24.000 Okay.

00:47:25.000 But they still came.

00:47:26.000 Alright, what about you?

00:47:28.000 I do think, I know that Pretty Privilege exists, and I think that it's subjective.

00:47:33.000 I know men who are gorgeous, and women who aren't gorgeous, and the men have more riz online.

00:47:40.000 And I know a couple of them that are my friends who are dancers that are just...

00:47:45.000 Got all the hoes. 1.00

00:47:47.000 And, yeah, I think it exists if you're a beautiful man.

00:47:51.000 But, yeah, it goes both ways.

00:47:53.000 Probably women. 1.00

00:47:55.000 What about you?

00:47:55.000 Okay.

00:47:57.000 Pretty privileged.

00:47:58.000 And who does it benefit more?

00:48:01.000 Women. 0.81

00:48:01.000 Okay. 0.81

00:48:02.000 Now let me ask a question, ladies. 0.84

00:48:03.000 Let's assume you got an extremely handsome man and an extremely attractive woman.

00:48:08.000 Whose pretty privilege goes further with creating opportunity for that individual?

00:48:12.000 Hmm.

00:48:16.000 What was the question?

00:48:17.000 Are you paying attention?

00:48:18.000 Yeah, I am.

00:48:20.000 It just went over my head. 1.00

00:48:21.000 Stupid! 1.00

00:48:23.000 Okay, again. 1.00

00:48:24.000 Again.

00:48:25.000 What?

00:48:26.000 He's saying, if you take a very attractive man, handsome man, top tier guy, maybe in the top 1% of looks, 6'3", whatever, maybe a Chad, model, in good physical shape, Tyrone, and a very attractive woman, was just a female version, who would have more, I guess, 0.95

00:48:42.000 opportunities, thanks to pretty privilege?

00:48:44.000 Women. 0.81

00:48:45.000 You still think females? 1.00

00:48:46.000 A woman.

00:48:46.000 Okay.

00:48:47.000 Why? 1.00

00:48:48.000 Because a man can want to fuck her. 1.00

00:48:51.000 Period. 1.00

00:48:52.000 Okay.

00:48:52.000 So it's not equal.

00:48:53.000 It's definitely not equal.

00:48:55.000 A handsome man is not the equivalent of a beautiful woman. 1.00

00:48:57.000 No, it's not.

00:48:58.000 Okay.

00:48:59.000 What about you?

00:49:00.000 I think it's subjective.

00:49:00.000 I disagree.

00:49:02.000 I think both men and women.

00:49:04.000 Because there's lots of women. 1.00

00:49:06.000 Me, I'm straight.

00:49:07.000 And I go crazy over beautiful men.

00:49:10.000 And... 1.00

00:49:12.000 Are you jumping in bed to have sex with them, though? 1.00

00:49:14.000 Absolutely not. 0.99

00:49:15.000 Okay, but a beautiful woman are men jumping? 1.00

00:49:17.000 Okay, if you put it like that, then, yeah, I guess women. 1.00

00:49:20.000 But it's still subjective.

00:49:22.000 It's still subjective.

00:49:24.000 Okay.

00:49:24.000 It depends on the opportunities.

00:49:25.000 It depends on the person.

00:49:26.000 It depends on which opportunities they're building.

00:49:27.000 But from an overall standpoint, if you took all things equal, extremely handsome man, extremely attractive woman, who benefits from that pretty privilege more? 0.99

00:49:34.000 I think it's subjective because some girls that are really beautiful are really dumb. 1.00

00:49:38.000 Do men care about intelligence? 1.00

00:49:40.000 I don't know.

00:49:41.000 I know men who do.

00:49:42.000 But do a majority of men prioritize? 1.00

00:49:46.000 Majority of men are dumb, I think. 1.00

00:49:48.000 That's not the question. 1.00

00:49:49.000 So no, I don't think that they care about intelligence.

00:49:52.000 So why would you use that as an angle?

00:49:55.000 Because there's women that do care. 1.00

00:49:57.000 There's people that do prioritize intelligence.

00:50:00.000 And spiritual hygiene.

00:50:02.000 Is that what they told you?

00:50:03.000 I like that.

00:50:05.000 Flip-flopping between the male and female.

00:50:07.000 Let's go through this one, two, three, four, five.

00:50:10.000 Okay?

00:50:10.000 I asked you, Okay, who, assuming both things are equal, you have a handsome man and a beautiful woman, alright?

00:50:18.000 Who experiences pretty privilege more?

00:50:21.000 You said it goes both ways.

00:50:23.000 I still believe it's subjective and it's both. 0.99

00:50:25.000 Okay, and then off of your own answer, because you said, oh, well, no one wants a dumb girl. 1.00

00:50:31.000 Spiritual happiness. 0.98

00:50:31.000 I didn't say no one wants to go. 0.98

00:50:33.000 I didn't say that. 1.00

00:50:36.000 You said the girl could be attractive and be stupid. 1.00

00:50:38.000 Correct. 1.00

00:50:39.000 And then I argued, do men care about intelligence?

00:50:41.000 And then you said, oh.

00:50:42.000 I said yes.

00:50:44.000 Really?

00:50:44.000 There are men who care about intelligence.

00:50:46.000 Absolutely. 0.99

00:50:46.000 If I lined up 100 men and I asked them, would you prefer a hot girl that's dumb or a smart girl that's average? 0.99

00:50:52.000 Those aren't the type of men that I engage with, so I wouldn't really know. 0.94

00:50:54.000 But that's not the question.

00:50:56.000 And we're speaking generally here.

00:50:56.000 Okay.

00:50:57.000 Generally, then probably not.

00:50:59.000 Would men prefer beauty or intelligence over a woman if given the choice?

00:51:02.000 Probably beauty. 0.98

00:51:03.000 Okay, so wouldn't it be fair to say that your argument you just made is null and void?

00:51:05.000 No, I don't.

00:51:06.000 I still stand on what I say.

00:51:07.000 It's subjective, but...

00:51:09.000 I see why you're single.

00:51:12.000 You just admitted just now that men don't...

00:51:14.000 You do realize that you just admitted that men don't prioritize intelligence, yet you use intelligence as a redeeming factor.

00:51:20.000 Some men.

00:51:21.000 The majority don't.

00:51:23.000 By your own admission.

00:51:24.000 I guess.

00:51:25.000 I'm not a man, so...

00:51:26.000 That's irrelevant to the...

00:51:28.000 How would I know what men prioritize?

00:51:31.000 Do you not see how you're flip-flopping and...

00:51:33.000 The men that I engage with...

00:51:34.000 Hold on, hold on.

00:51:34.000 Stop real quick.

00:51:35.000 Do you not understand how you are quite literally contradicting yourself left and right right now?

00:51:41.000 No.

00:51:45.000 I think I'm having difficulty explaining myself.

00:51:47.000 No, I'm listening very closely, which is why I'm able to say, to repeat back what you said and then understand what you're saying.

00:51:52.000 You're saying, okay? 1.00

00:51:55.000 The pretty girls are dumb. 1.00

00:51:57.000 And then I asked you, do men care about a woman's intelligence? 1.00

00:52:00.000 She mentioned she can be dumb. 0.99

00:52:05.000 And then I said, do men care about that? 1.00

00:52:07.000 And she was like, no.

00:52:08.000 So then why would you mention intelligence?

00:52:10.000 A majority don't care though.

00:52:12.000 Okay. 1.00

00:52:13.000 Well, dumb ass men. 1.00

00:52:14.000 That's what you say then. 1.00

00:52:15.000 Dumb horny ass men. 1.00

00:52:16.000 Don't give a fuck. 1.00

00:52:18.000 Is that the majority? 1.00

00:52:20.000 So you're saying that most men are dumb as fuck and horny. 1.00

00:52:27.000 Right. 1.00

00:52:27.000 That's literally what you're saying. 1.00

00:52:28.000 We're just saying men prefer... 1.00

00:52:28.000 Nobody said that. 1.00

00:52:29.000 No, that's what it sounds like you're saying.

00:52:31.000 He's saying that men don't care how smart a woman is. 0.90

00:52:35.000 They look for women who just look good. 1.00

00:52:37.000 I feel like they have nothing to offer but their looks.

00:52:41.000 You should be talking to me.

00:52:44.000 So hold on.

00:52:45.000 Go ahead.

00:52:46.000 Okay, so I feel like I'm understanding both sides of this and I feel like the disconnect in the argument is that I feel like she's thinking more like Sorry, I feel like she's thinking more long-term of like a relationship.

00:52:56.000 And I feel like he's just generalizingly speaking as like you go into the club and you take pretty women into the club.

00:53:02.000 Men aren't really going to care if you're smart or not because their intention is to take you home, right? 0.69

00:53:07.000 But I feel like where she's coming with her angle is more so like when we're thinking long-term in a relationship, marriage, etc.

00:53:14.000 Would a man love a beautiful woman?

00:53:16.000 Absolutely not.

00:53:17.000 But is he going to want to be able to have an intelligent, meaningful conversation with the person he's spending his life with?

00:53:24.000 I feel like that's where her angle is coming in from.

00:53:27.000 Yeah, but she's putting the cart before the horse. 1.00

00:53:29.000 If the girl's not attractive enough, there is no opportunity for what you just mentioned. 0.98

00:53:32.000 That's my point.

00:53:33.000 What is prioritized?

00:53:34.000 A woman's looks. 1.00

00:53:34.000 Ugly people like ugly people, though. 1.00

00:53:35.000 I mean, the ugliest need to be married. 1.00

00:53:38.000 We are talking about... 0.97

00:53:41.000 Remember, generally, what do men want?

00:53:44.000 Generally, that's the question.

00:53:45.000 You tell me.

00:53:46.000 Generally, what a man wants is a smart woman who's not going to get too much pushback. 1.00

00:53:50.000 They want pretty women. 1.00

00:53:50.000 Oh, for real? 1.00

00:53:52.000 All right, let's go back to the original question.

00:53:54.000 All right, so you're saying, going back to what I was saying here, so you think women have, well, you said it's, you think it goes both ways. 0.69

00:54:02.000 A woman's pretty privilege is equivalent to a male's. 1.00

00:54:04.000 Subjective, yeah.

00:54:05.000 It depends.

00:54:07.000 But in general, in society, who has more opportunity with their pretty privileged men or women?

00:54:13.000 Or do you just think it's actually equal between the two?

00:54:15.000 I wouldn't say equal.

00:54:16.000 I said subjective.

00:54:17.000 Do you know what subjective means?

00:54:18.000 It depends on the individual.

00:54:20.000 Exactly.

00:54:20.000 And it depends on the opportunities and it depends on the path that they're taking as men, as women, individually.

00:54:26.000 Okay.

00:54:27.000 So let's say objectively speaking, how the world would view it, who has more opportunity with their pretty privilege?

00:54:32.000 You know, it's hard because men's society is like men are the leaders and men are the presidents and the CEOs. 0.96

00:54:39.000 How many women CEOs do you know? 1.00

00:54:42.000 So I... In the modern day 2023.

00:54:46.000 But did men get those opportunities through pretty privilege though?

00:54:48.000 Absolutely not.

00:54:50.000 So then wouldn't it be fair to say that you can't make that argument because they made it off of merit, not their looks?

00:54:56.000 Yeah, absolutely.

00:54:58.000 So there is no pretty privilege there.

00:55:00.000 Not for me, hell no.

00:55:03.000 It's earned.

00:55:04.000 Okay.

00:55:05.000 Because you made an argument.

00:55:05.000 I thought we were talking about men who are pretty.

00:55:08.000 Yes, and then you went into a meritocracy argument.

00:55:12.000 Okay.

00:55:14.000 Wow.

00:55:15.000 I think this panel is not suited for the questions, but we'll continue.

00:55:20.000 Okay, so she's saying that it goes both ways.

00:55:22.000 Alright, what about you?

00:55:24.000 I mean, I agree with that.

00:55:24.000 I think it goes both ways.

00:55:26.000 I've seen girls and guys...

00:55:27.000 So you also think an attractive man and an attractive woman have the same opportunities?

00:55:31.000 Yes.

00:55:32.000 The exact same?

00:55:33.000 The exact same opportunities?

00:55:35.000 Okay.

00:55:36.000 No.

00:55:37.000 Actually, I'm going to take that back.

00:55:38.000 Let me ask you a question.

00:55:39.000 Who makes more money, male models or female models? 1.00

00:55:41.000 Why are we talking about models all the time?

00:55:42.000 I don't know.

00:55:43.000 I mean, I don't know what models make like that. 1.00

00:55:45.000 I would think both.

00:55:46.000 I mean, I would think if they're paying a guy in Vogue and a woman in Vogue, they're going to pay them the same, right?

00:55:52.000 No.

00:55:53.000 No?

00:55:53.000 No.

00:55:54.000 I do modeling.

00:55:55.000 I don't know.

00:55:55.000 So what is it?

00:55:57.000 The girl, for a runway, they pay you like $3,000 in defense of the brand deal. 1.00

00:56:01.000 Like the brand.

00:56:01.000 So they pay you more than the guy?

00:56:03.000 The guy, yeah.

00:56:04.000 They pay them like half of that.

00:56:06.000 Oh, wow.

00:56:07.000 Okay.

00:56:07.000 Well, I didn't know that.

00:56:08.000 So, in that case, and in some cases...

00:56:11.000 100%.

00:56:12.000 I would think...

00:56:13.000 He said you're pretty.

00:56:15.000 What now?

00:56:15.000 I said privilege is invisible to those that have it, which I'm not surprised you didn't know that.

00:56:19.000 I would say women have more pretty privilege. 1.00

00:56:22.000 They could get away with more, probably.

00:56:24.000 But I do see it as equal.

00:56:25.000 I mean, I've seen guys get out of crazy things like DUIs with pretty privilege.

00:56:29.000 What?

00:56:31.000 You just contradicted yourself.

00:56:34.000 You said women have more pretty privilege. 1.00

00:56:36.000 I see both.

00:56:37.000 No, I'm agreeing.

00:56:38.000 I see both, but if I had to choose one, if you're going to narrow it down to just one, I would say women probably have more privilege. 1.00

00:56:44.000 Then that by default means it's not equal.

00:56:46.000 Well, you do realize equality is the same.

00:56:49.000 I know what equality is.

00:56:52.000 We'll go with women. 1.00

00:56:53.000 But I can see both sides.

00:56:55.000 Because I've seen men have pretty privilege too.

00:56:56.000 But if we're talking about majority women. 0.99

00:56:58.000 I guarantee you that pulled over that handsome guy.

00:57:01.000 Didn't let him off because he was good looking.

00:57:03.000 Must have been persuasive with his speech.

00:57:05.000 Or he had some connections.

00:57:06.000 Oh, he was really masculine.

00:57:08.000 Or he had pretty privilege.

00:57:09.000 Yeah.

00:57:10.000 If you get extra masculine with a cop when you're getting a DUI, you're probably gonna go to jail. 0.92

00:57:13.000 Unless Scott was gay, then that makes sense. 1.00

00:57:16.000 Well, maybe it was a female cop. 1.00

00:57:19.000 Okay.

00:57:20.000 That's it.

00:57:21.000 But that's not common to happen at all.

00:57:24.000 And there's definitely pretty privilege for guys when it comes to women.

00:57:28.000 I've seen older women treat guys. 1.00

00:57:30.000 Can you please let her finish her point and then I'll come back to you.

00:57:32.000 Well, I mean, I finished, but I've definitely seen older women give guys privilege based on their looks, too. 1.00

00:57:39.000 Like, In what ways?

00:57:40.000 Sexual?

00:57:42.000 Right.

00:57:43.000 Just in like...

00:57:44.000 I mean...

00:57:46.000 I don't know.

00:57:47.000 This is going to sound wrong, but in school...

00:57:49.000 Who's more likely to give pretty privilege to the opposite gender, an old man or an older woman? 1.00

00:57:53.000 Oh, man.

00:57:53.000 Both.

00:57:54.000 Really?

00:57:55.000 Yeah.

00:57:55.000 I would think both.

00:57:56.000 So you think there's as many old women that are putting niggas on boats as old dudes putting bitches on boats? 1.00

00:58:00.000 Okay, yeah. 0.99

00:58:00.000 No, no, no. 0.99

00:58:01.000 When you put it that way, when you put it about the boats, no.

00:58:04.000 But I don't know.

00:58:05.000 I've seen both, but I guess women overall. 1.00

00:58:08.000 But just because you've seen it happen, does that mean that it's probable?

00:58:10.000 No.

00:58:13.000 I mean, you're asking my perspective.

00:58:14.000 That's what I've seen.

00:58:16.000 I think it's probable.

00:58:18.000 Well, you should see critical thinking is the skill set to take your own perspective, measure it against how the world really works, and then coming to an answer based on how the world works, not what you've seen.

00:58:27.000 Okay.

00:58:29.000 Based on the way the world works.

00:58:30.000 Let me give you an example so you really drill this into your head.

00:58:35.000 I can't sit here and say, I'm rich, so there's no such thing as world hunger.

00:58:39.000 No, there isn't such thing as world hunger, regardless of my personal circumstances.

00:58:43.000 Yeah, I understand that.

00:58:44.000 I can't make an argument for my personal circumstances.

00:58:47.000 Okay, so, world perspective, women. 1.00

00:58:51.000 Okay, fair enough.

00:58:53.000 So you're mentioning, but you want to mention an exception to the rule, which I understand that, but generally speaking, women. 1.00

00:58:57.000 Okay, no exceptions, women. 1.00

00:58:59.000 There's always exceptions, which is what you were trying to say before, but I'm saying they're not statistically significant.

00:59:03.000 Alright, what about you?

00:59:05.000 60-40.

00:59:06.000 60 women, 40 men.

00:59:08.000 Do you think men have 40% of the same pull power as a female? 0.99

00:59:12.000 That's attractive?

00:59:13.000 Is it attractive?

00:59:14.000 So if you take an attractive man and an attractive woman, they have 40% of the pretty privileged women? 1.00

00:59:20.000 I can actually pull up on my phone if I could and show you a girl who pays the guy's mortgages and everything. 0.98

00:59:29.000 Who's more likely to have their mortgage paid?

00:59:31.000 Women or men? 0.99

00:59:32.000 Women. 0.81

00:59:34.000 That's why I said 60-40. 0.99

00:59:35.000 You think it's that high?

00:59:37.000 Where it's...

00:59:38.000 Beautiful men, there's actually...

00:59:40.000 I think it's 100%.

00:59:42.000 For men? 0.91

00:59:43.000 For women.

00:59:44.000 To get their...

00:59:45.000 Yeah, of course.

00:59:46.000 No, it's 100%.

00:59:48.000 But I'm saying, if we had to say, men, 40%. 0.52

00:59:51.000 That's a big number, though.

00:59:54.000 That's huge.

00:59:55.000 I mean, there's a lot of men that like men now, and they're willing to take care of them.

00:59:58.000 We're talking about heterosexual relationships, not straight.

01:00:01.000 We're talking about not gay relationships.

01:00:03.000 We're talking about heterosexual relationships.

01:00:05.000 No, there's some girls who cut a check. 1.00

01:00:06.000 They do.

01:00:07.000 I know them.

01:00:09.000 Okay, let me ask a question to the panel.

01:00:11.000 How many of you guys have paid a dude's mortgage?

01:00:13.000 Oh, okay.

01:00:14.000 How many of you guys have paid for...

01:00:15.000 I bought a car!

01:00:17.000 You bought the car for the guy?

01:00:18.000 Your husband?

01:00:19.000 Yeah.

01:00:20.000 With all your money?

01:00:21.000 Yeah.

01:00:21.000 But it was your husband?

01:00:22.000 Yeah.

01:00:23.000 What kind of car?

01:00:24.000 Did he spend a significant amount of money on you prior to you spending it on him?

01:00:27.000 At the time it was an infinity.

01:00:28.000 But he more than likely probably spent a significant amount of time and resources on you prior to you investing back in him.

01:00:35.000 So, I mean, is it really equal then?

01:00:39.000 You only reciprocated value once he gave you a bunch of values, my point.

01:00:43.000 Women rarely initiate value. 1.00

01:00:45.000 Men have to initiate value. 0.99

01:00:46.000 Then women go ahead and choose if they want to reciprocate. 1.00

01:00:48.000 I feel like No, it was more.

01:00:50.000 Okay, was he broke at the time?

01:00:53.000 Yeah.

01:00:54.000 He was just a server.

01:00:56.000 You know, we were fresh out of high school.

01:00:57.000 I was making more money than he did.

01:00:59.000 So hold on, this is even better.

01:01:00.000 So he was a server, which means that income was an even larger amount.

01:01:05.000 Sorry, the payment for that vehicle, purchasing that vehicle, actually cost him a lot more in relation to how much money he made.

01:01:13.000 Right.

01:01:14.000 Versus, do you think women are doing the same? 1.00

01:01:19.000 What do you mean?

01:01:21.000 Are women willing to give a majority of their income and resources to a man to the same extent that a man will give his income and resources to a woman? 0.98

01:01:33.000 I'm saying no and yes and no.

01:01:37.000 The reason I say yes is let's say like you want to invest in what he got going on but you know it's going to be like a million dollar business.

01:01:44.000 It's going to go well.

01:01:45.000 Yeah, I'm going to do it.

01:01:47.000 But you're investing with the hope that you're going to get a return.

01:01:50.000 Yeah.

01:01:50.000 Do you think men actually invest in women with a hope of return to the same level?

01:01:54.000 No.

01:01:54.000 That's my point.

01:01:57.000 Okay.

01:01:58.000 So you think females, but you think it's 60-40. 1.00

01:02:03.000 So women only enjoy a 20% increase. 1.00

01:02:15.000 How many of you guys have sponsored a man that's extremely handsome?

01:02:20.000 What does sponsor mean?

01:02:22.000 Basically, you become a sugar mama, basically. 1.00

01:02:25.000 Since you guys are saying pretty privilege is fairly equal.

01:02:27.000 What about buying him gifts?

01:02:28.000 I buy him gifts.

01:02:29.000 I don't pay bills.

01:02:30.000 But that's what he wanted.

01:02:31.000 Yeah, that doesn't really count.

01:02:33.000 I'm talking about taking care of a guy.

01:02:35.000 You paid for a mortgage?

01:02:37.000 It's boyfriend.

01:02:37.000 Yeah, I did.

01:02:38.000 Where's he at now?

01:02:40.000 He broke up with me.

01:02:41.000 He's gone.

01:02:42.000 And I'm so mad.

01:02:44.000 Because he was like, he wanted to leave.

01:02:46.000 He's 21 years old.

01:02:47.000 He wanted to be free, go to clubs.

01:02:49.000 Because he just turned 21.

01:02:51.000 Something's off here.

01:02:51.000 I need to get married.

01:02:52.000 And then you said you sponsored a guy?

01:02:54.000 Yes, a very well-known guy.

01:02:57.000 Did you make more money than you, or did you make more money than him?

01:03:02.000 Um...

01:03:05.000 I want to say he wasn't making...

01:03:08.000 I think we were in the same level, to be honest with you.

01:03:11.000 Because he was just growing my name.

01:03:14.000 And so I kind of got to where he was at really quickly.

01:03:19.000 And then you left him after you reached that level?

01:03:21.000 No, he left me.

01:03:22.000 Why did he leave you?

01:03:24.000 He moved.

01:03:25.000 He moved to states and he was like, look, I don't want to live in Miami anymore.

01:03:29.000 I didn't want to go.

01:03:32.000 Would it be fair to say that you invested in him because you knew a future might meet to your benefit?

01:03:37.000 No, I felt obligated.

01:03:40.000 I felt obligated because of the way he put it.

01:03:43.000 It was like, oh, I'm kind of like, I'm the one who's building you right now, so you owe me some sense of, like, compensation. 0.67

01:03:49.000 So I was dumb, and I was like, yeah, sure.

01:03:53.000 And I did compensate a lot of things. 0.94

01:03:56.000 So you paid him to be equal.

01:03:58.000 So you sponsored his life, but he actually did give you value back.

01:04:02.000 Yes.

01:04:03.000 I'm talking about taking care of a guy and they don't give you anything back.

01:04:06.000 He didn't really give me anything back.

01:04:08.000 He just gave me exposure.

01:04:09.000 That's about it.

01:04:10.000 He gave me exposure.

01:04:11.000 I would say exposure is pretty important.

01:04:14.000 I mean, don't businesses pay a lot of money for ads?

01:04:17.000 Yes.

01:04:17.000 It wasn't so much an ad, though.

01:04:19.000 It's what he did for a living.

01:04:20.000 He's an influencer.

01:04:21.000 Which is advertising to...

01:04:23.000 You're using his audience to influence them to follow you and build your brand.

01:04:28.000 That is advertising in itself.

01:04:30.000 I guess so, but not when I had discussed previously, like, hey, we can talk percentages.

01:04:35.000 And, you know, but he...

01:04:37.000 I was like, no.

01:04:38.000 And like, no percentage.

01:04:40.000 I was like, okay, cool.

01:04:41.000 But then it would be like, he would text me and be like, oh, have you ate today?

01:04:45.000 I'm like, no.

01:04:46.000 He's like, oh, we should order food.

01:04:47.000 But we means I. And then I would go and order food.

01:04:51.000 And then like... 0.99

01:04:52.000 Or, like, dumb shit, like, oh, I need an Uber, or oh, and I'm like, okay, because sometimes he would throw it in my face, like, oh, I'm giving you, you know, exposure. 0.99

01:05:01.000 That's interesting, though, but she was still getting value. 1.00

01:05:03.000 Yeah.

01:05:03.000 Well, okay, fair enough.

01:05:04.000 I guess.

01:05:05.000 Who do you think benefits from pretty privileged more, men or women?

01:05:08.000 I definitely want to say women.

01:05:10.000 Why?

01:05:11.000 Or, excuse me, like, if all things were equal, you think the woman would? 0.99

01:05:14.000 Why?

01:05:15.000 The woman would take more pretty privilege than the men. 1.00

01:05:19.000 I just, I don't know.

01:05:21.000 It's just based upon what I see with myself.

01:05:23.000 Okay.

01:05:24.000 What about your friends or other women you know?

01:05:26.000 Yeah.

01:05:27.000 Yeah.

01:05:28.000 Okay.

01:05:28.000 What about you?

01:05:30.000 Women. 0.81

01:05:30.000 100% women. 0.81

01:05:32.000 I mean, like, yeah, men are hot.

01:05:33.000 Some men are hot, and they could maybe get a thing or two, like, women's attention for being hot. 0.98

01:05:38.000 But, I mean, doing things, from a sense of doing things, they're not doing shit for free just because they're good looking. 0.98

01:05:46.000 Absolutely not. 0.88

01:05:49.000 Fair enough.

01:05:49.000 So you think guys might get opportunities, but not to the same extent?

01:05:53.000 No, not at all.

01:05:53.000 As a pretty girl.

01:05:55.000 What about you?

01:05:57.000 Women. 0.94

01:05:58.000 Men aren't really that pretty. 0.97

01:06:00.000 But when they are, it's more women in the world. 1.00

01:06:04.000 So, I mean, they get some type of privilege.

01:06:07.000 Okay.

01:06:08.000 What about you?

01:06:09.000 Women. 0.81

01:06:10.000 Why?

01:06:11.000 Because I feel like a guy wants something out of the women. 1.00

01:06:15.000 So they're going to do anything to get that.

01:06:18.000 You know what I mean?

01:06:19.000 Okay.

01:06:20.000 What about you?

01:06:21.000 Woman, because like I said earlier, I believe there's woman privilege. 1.00

01:06:25.000 Okay.

01:06:25.000 So let's even the playing fields, because most of you said females.

01:06:28.000 So let's go ahead and get a handicap here.

01:06:31.000 Let's say you take an average female and a very attractive man.

01:06:35.000 Who is able to benefit from their pretty privilege more? 0.99

01:06:39.000 Average woman, who's cute, but not a model or a smoke show, or a guy who's a top tier in looks? 0.71

01:06:45.000 We'll start right here.

01:06:46.000 The average woman.

01:06:48.000 You think the average woman? 0.98

01:06:48.000 Why? 0.98

01:06:49.000 Because she's a woman. 0.93

01:06:51.000 She's going to be handed more opportunities compared to a guy.

01:06:53.000 The guy's not going to be let into the club.

01:06:55.000 The girl is.

01:06:56.000 Okay.

01:06:56.000 What about you?

01:06:57.000 The same thing.

01:06:58.000 Average women because they still have 100% opportunity to do anything with the average beauty. 1.00

01:07:05.000 Okay.

01:07:06.000 I feel like it's the sexy man over the average woman. 0.67

01:07:10.000 Why?

01:07:10.000 Because they be looking like, what you doing with that average woman?

01:07:14.000 You look so sexy.

01:07:15.000 Okay.

01:07:16.000 Okay.

01:07:17.000 Who do you think gets more...

01:07:18.000 So, let's say I took a Tinder profile for an attractive man and a Tinder profile for an average woman.

01:07:22.000 Who do you think is going to have more matches? 1.00

01:07:24.000 The attractive man.

01:07:25.000 Really?

01:07:25.000 Yeah!

01:07:26.000 It's a million women out here looking for attractive... 1.00

01:07:30.000 Man, what are you talking about?

01:07:33.000 Do you think women in general prioritize looks as much as men prioritize looks?

01:07:38.000 Yes.

01:07:39.000 Really?

01:07:40.000 Yes.

01:07:41.000 What would you ladies prefer? 0.99

01:07:42.000 An average man who's rich, confident, and ambitious?

01:07:45.000 Or a very attractive man that has nothing to his name?

01:07:48.000 What's average?

01:07:49.000 Can we do a scale from one to zero to five?

01:07:51.000 An average guy?

01:07:52.000 Five foot eight.

01:07:53.000 Regular face.

01:07:54.000 Five foot eight is tall.

01:07:55.000 I'm five two.

01:07:55.000 Huh?

01:07:56.000 That's pretty tall.

01:07:57.000 We gotta bring it down.

01:08:00.000 Bring it down, girl. 1.00

01:08:01.000 You said average.

01:08:01.000 You mean 5'6".

01:08:02.000 You gotta say 5'6".

01:08:03.000 Oh yeah, I'm under average.

01:08:04.000 So 30, 50k a year, 5'8".

01:08:07.000 Wait, how much are you?

01:08:08.000 50k?

01:08:08.000 He's been successful.

01:08:09.000 Ladies, ladies, please pay attention to the questions and respond with your brain and not your emotions, okay?

01:08:14.000 But you're making them look good.

01:08:15.000 Can you please listen to the question, alright?

01:08:19.000 I said, what would you more prefer? 0.98

01:08:22.000 A rich man that is average looking, but confident and ambitious and a good personality, Or, a very attractive man who's a model, but dumb and no money. 0.99

01:08:33.000 Which one? 0.98

01:08:34.000 One or two?

01:08:35.000 One.

01:08:35.000 Raise your hand if you take- We'll average one.

01:08:37.000 Okay.

01:08:37.000 Raise your hands for the girls that would pick the guy that had the money and the competence.

01:08:41.000 Cause we gotta match.

01:08:43.000 Congratulations.

01:08:43.000 You guys proved my point that women prioritize other things outside of looks.

01:08:48.000 So, with you- We gotta match.

01:08:49.000 But looks matter though.

01:08:49.000 We have to match.

01:08:50.000 I look good, I have money.

01:08:51.000 But not to the extent that you will disqualify an individual if he has other things.

01:08:54.000 Yeah, because I look good and I have money.

01:08:58.000 That's just like...

01:08:59.000 If you notice, right?

01:09:00.000 It's like a movie.

01:09:00.000 He's just saying women do care about looks.

01:09:03.000 However, that's not the paramount thing.

01:09:05.000 It could be money, status, all these things come into play when you choose a man.

01:09:08.000 This is incredible.

01:09:09.000 But if I was broke, I wouldn't mind having a broke man.

01:09:12.000 What?

01:09:13.000 Not for long.

01:09:14.000 Not forever.

01:09:15.000 When you brag about a guy to your friends, are you starting off with, he's so fine?

01:09:20.000 Are you starting off with, he treats me right, he does this for me, he does that? 0.99

01:09:23.000 First off, I'm not bragging to my friends because they're going to want to fuck him. 1.00

01:09:26.000 His dick is terrible. 1.00

01:09:31.000 He's broke. 1.00

01:09:32.000 Don't look his way.

01:09:33.000 You made an argument that a good-looking man, right, is that women prioritize looks. 0.97

01:09:39.000 And I was saying, no, they don't.

01:09:41.000 And then everyone at the table proved my point.

01:09:43.000 Women prioritize status, competence, confidence, accomplishments over looks. 1.00

01:09:47.000 I don't think we prioritize it, but it matters.

01:09:48.000 No, I'm just saying it's a reason why we do that.

01:09:51.000 Because we are all, all of us are successful women.

01:09:54.000 That's you, but a lot of women stop. 1.00

01:09:56.000 A lot of women will take a guy that is less attractive and or even ugly if he meets other requirements. 1.00

01:10:01.000 But if he's average and he doesn't have success and he doesn't have confidence?

01:10:04.000 That's my point.

01:10:05.000 That is quite...

01:10:05.000 That's my point.

01:10:06.000 Like, men can make up for their looks deficiency in other ways.

01:10:10.000 Women can't. 1.00

01:10:11.000 I'm saying if he's... 1.00

01:10:12.000 An ugly woman is fucked. 1.00

01:10:14.000 A guy that's ugly but has other things in play can still do something. 1.00

01:10:17.000 No. 1.00

01:10:17.000 An ugly woman with money is not fucked. 1.00

01:10:20.000 They're getting their way. 1.00

01:10:22.000 No, they're getting fucked. 1.00

01:10:23.000 Exactly. 1.00

01:10:24.000 And that's what they get in their way.

01:10:25.000 But that's it.

01:10:26.000 And they're getting married, too.

01:10:27.000 So you think a woman that's 30 years old, that makes a lot of money, has more pull than an 18-year-old that's hot? 1.00

01:10:36.000 I mean, for everybody else who want to be married and with kids, yes, they do have more pull because they have the life that every 18-year-old doesn't have.

01:10:44.000 So who has more pull, the younger girl that's hot or the older woman with money? 1.00

01:10:47.000 The older woman with money. 0.99

01:10:48.000 And I'm going to tell you that with confidence.

01:10:50.000 Nah.

01:10:53.000 That is not true.

01:10:54.000 Men prioritize overwhelmingly youth and beauty, and this has been proven in studies.

01:10:58.000 This is not even a question.

01:11:00.000 Why are we all single then?

01:11:02.000 No, no, you're single.

01:11:03.000 I mean, why are none of us married?

01:11:05.000 Because you're focusing on things that men don't care about, like being a boss and making money, which is what you said earlier.

01:11:10.000 That's my fault.

01:11:11.000 That's the life I have.

01:11:13.000 You made the decisions in your life, correct?

01:11:16.000 No.

01:11:17.000 My life was given to me.

01:11:18.000 Yeah, it was given to me how it was. 1.00

01:11:20.000 I didn't choose that shit. 1.00

01:11:21.000 So you didn't choose to be a boss and make money and chase success over a man? 1.00

01:11:25.000 No.

01:11:25.000 If my daddy and my mom was still alive, I'd be still living with them.

01:11:28.000 Oh.

01:11:29.000 Yeah, I'd still be like, under my mom.

01:11:33.000 Are you not going to take accountability for any of your life decisions here?

01:11:37.000 What, to be successful or be a boss or take care of yourself?

01:11:41.000 Yeah, I do take care of yourself.

01:11:42.000 You were successful because of your choices, correct?

01:11:44.000 Yeah, but I had to make those choices.

01:11:46.000 That's fine, but the point is that you became successful in a byproduct that is men don't value success.

01:11:51.000 I don't even think about me when I think about myself.

01:11:54.000 I think she's in survival mode.

01:11:55.000 How does she survive then?

01:11:56.000 When your parents die, what is she supposed to do?

01:12:00.000 Live on the streets and just live under a man? 0.97

01:12:02.000 Here's the thing.

01:12:03.000 The world doesn't owe you sympathy.

01:12:04.000 I'm not saying that's wrong.

01:12:05.000 But what I am saying is that her decisions have consequences.

01:12:08.000 So if you prioritize money, income status, etc.

01:12:11.000 as a woman, you might not necessarily be able to compete for the man that you want with a woman that's 18 years old and doesn't have as much baggage. 0.85

01:12:18.000 I'm just telling you what men pick.

01:12:19.000 You said she was single because she was prioritizing all those things, right?

01:12:23.000 Yes.

01:12:24.000 The things that she prioritized are not things that men prioritize in their woman.

01:12:29.000 Right.

01:12:30.000 That's why I'm single.

01:12:32.000 Yes, it is.

01:12:34.000 Hold on.

01:12:34.000 Let her finish.

01:12:35.000 Go ahead.

01:12:37.000 That's why I'm single.

01:12:38.000 That's all I want to say.

01:12:39.000 Off your decisions.

01:12:40.000 Off my decisions.

01:12:42.000 To be an independent woman.

01:12:43.000 There you go.

01:12:44.000 I don't think you chose that though.

01:12:46.000 No.

01:12:47.000 I've been independent since I was 15 years old.

01:12:50.000 It's for survival though.

01:12:51.000 I feel her because her parents died.

01:12:53.000 She literally had no choice.

01:12:55.000 Exactly.

01:12:56.000 No choice.

01:12:56.000 To choose a man over survival, I think you're always going to choose survival.

01:12:59.000 And you're basically saying choose youth and beauty.

01:13:01.000 The point here.

01:13:03.000 The point is, is that everyone has choices to make.

01:13:07.000 Her choices, yes, may be affected by her parents dying, but ultimately speaking, her being a CEO is not what men actually want. 0.94

01:13:16.000 So that choice that she made being a CEO is her choice, ultimately.

01:13:19.000 Okay, so what if I say that I want a man to take care of me because of the fact that my parents died and I don't have any help?

01:13:24.000 That's a choice, too.

01:13:25.000 You would have had a higher likelihood of finding that when you were younger, is my argument.

01:13:30.000 From an older guy?

01:13:31.000 From who?

01:13:32.000 A pedophile?

01:13:35.000 From who?

01:13:36.000 We're all 16, 16, 14?

01:13:38.000 Do you think you're more attractive right now at 30 years old, or when you were 21 years old?

01:13:44.000 When I was 21.

01:13:45.000 But I didn't have any time for men.

01:13:47.000 Okay, but if you were more attractive back then, Would it be fair to say that your chances of finding a guy have kind of come down since you've aged and you're not as attractive?

01:13:58.000 I mean, if you want to find a husband or a guy that's just going to sleep with you? 1.00

01:14:03.000 Both.

01:14:07.000 A guy that's going to sleep with you is for 21. 0.99

01:14:09.000 For sure.

01:14:10.000 Okay.

01:14:11.000 For sure.

01:14:11.000 I mean, we're just going to move on.

01:14:13.000 Yeah.

01:14:13.000 Okay.

01:14:14.000 So you think...

01:14:17.000 So you think the average, you think the more attractive man has more opportunities than an average woman? 0.98

01:14:22.000 Yes.

01:14:23.000 Okay.

01:14:24.000 Fantastic.

01:14:25.000 Okay.

01:14:25.000 What about you?

01:14:26.000 Who do you think has more opportunity now that we're evening it out?

01:14:30.000 An average woman or a very attractive man? 1.00

01:14:33.000 Average woman. 0.93

01:14:34.000 Why?

01:14:35.000 The attractive man still has to pay for stuff.

01:14:38.000 Okay.

01:14:39.000 Fair enough.

01:14:39.000 All right.

01:14:41.000 What do you think?

01:14:44.000 Please pay attention. 0.97

01:14:45.000 Attractive man or average ugly girl? 0.97

01:14:50.000 Who benefits from pretty privilege more? 0.98

01:14:55.000 I want to say still the woman.

01:14:58.000 Okay.

01:14:58.000 What makes you say that?

01:15:00.000 Because I agree with you.

01:15:02.000 I feel like it's not pretty privilege, it's woman privilege. 1.00

01:15:06.000 Okay.

01:15:07.000 What about you?

01:15:08.000 I'll say the women. 0.90

01:15:10.000 Why?

01:15:11.000 I feel like you're going to always find, there's like a billion men out there on Instagram and Facebook.

01:15:18.000 Social media is going to, somebody's going to find you attractive.

01:15:20.000 Somebody's going to find you so beautiful.

01:15:22.000 You're going to be like the most beautiful woman to them.

01:15:24.000 Okay.

01:15:24.000 What about you?

01:15:26.000 The average woman.

01:15:28.000 Still woman privilege, and I feel like there's just more expected out of a man, whether he's super attractive or not. 0.92

01:15:35.000 So I would think it'd be easier for the woman. 0.99

01:15:37.000 Okay.

01:15:38.000 Okay.

01:15:38.000 I agree.

01:15:40.000 I think that men...

01:15:41.000 Chris, give the video.

01:15:44.000 Yeah, women. 1.00

01:15:45.000 You think the average woman? 0.98

01:15:46.000 Why?

01:15:47.000 Because, especially with social media, that's really changed everything.

01:15:52.000 There's more men on dating sites than women.

01:15:55.000 I think it's like 65% men, at least.

01:16:00.000 I don't know.

01:16:00.000 I just know that there's more men on Tinder than women.

01:16:03.000 Closer, 80%.

01:16:04.000 Yeah, I was going to say 75%, but I don't want to be wrong.

01:16:08.000 Still wrong.

01:16:09.000 So, yeah.

01:16:11.000 Wrong.

01:16:12.000 Okay, so, because of social media?

01:16:15.000 Nowadays, if we're talking like now, yeah.

01:16:18.000 Okay.

01:16:18.000 What about you?

01:16:19.000 I feel like women.

01:16:21.000 Why?

01:16:21.000 Because I feel like the average woman these days could go to average to attend with enhancements and weave and makeup and filters and all that other stuff.

01:16:33.000 She's going to be attracted to somebody.

01:16:35.000 Alright, so we've got a video to play here.

01:16:39.000 Mo, give the background on this thing real quick.

01:16:41.000 Huh?

01:16:42.000 Oh, you never saw it? 0.98

01:16:44.000 Okay, well, thanks, Mo, for being useless. 0.79

01:16:46.000 So the video, guys, here, we're going to be talking about pretty privilege with women, and this comes from George Janko talking about this.

01:16:56.000 Let's go ahead and enlarge it on our side, Chris.

01:16:58.000 We're going to run this clip and then get the ladies' reaction to this. 1.00

01:17:02.000 So, Summer, I used to get paid $10,000 to go to clubs.

01:17:23.000 So...

01:17:27.000 We'll run it back one more time because it's short.

01:17:29.000 Since I was like 19 years old, I would get paid a bunch of money.

01:17:32.000 To go to the clubs?

01:17:32.000 Just to go to the club.

01:17:33.000 It's called hosting.

01:17:34.000 I get like 10 grand just to go and be in the club for an hour, two hours, and like they bring bottles.

01:17:39.000 I thought I made it by making it into the club.

01:17:43.000 As a boy, like when a guy can get into the club, he breaks his friends.

01:17:47.000 Getting to a table, I feel like Drake.

01:17:50.000 By the way, this comment here says it's called hosting.

01:17:52.000 It's hilarious.

01:17:53.000 Yeah.

01:17:54.000 Okay.

01:17:55.000 Thoughts on the video, then I have another question for the ladies. 1.00

01:17:56.000 Go ahead.

01:17:57.000 True, accurate, or not?

01:17:59.000 That's accurate.

01:18:00.000 Accurate?

01:18:01.000 You know girls that get paid 10k just to show up? 1.00

01:18:03.000 Yeah.

01:18:03.000 Okay.

01:18:04.000 What about you?

01:18:05.000 I guess.

01:18:06.000 I don't know, bro.

01:18:07.000 I wish I could.

01:18:09.000 You don't have that opportunity, but...

01:18:11.000 Okay.

01:18:12.000 Yeah, I guess it's out there.

01:18:13.000 I don't know girls that get paid 10k, but I know... 1.00

01:18:17.000 Like, there's no bottle guys.

01:18:19.000 So, I mean, I would think that it would get more.

01:18:23.000 Funny, funny trick about that.

01:18:25.000 If you do see a guy serving a bottle, they typically give better service.

01:18:28.000 That's what guys do.

01:18:29.000 Yeah, that's true.

01:18:30.000 This is what I've noticed.

01:18:31.000 They have to.

01:18:34.000 Yeah.

01:18:34.000 What about you?

01:18:35.000 I don't think she got 10k.

01:18:37.000 I don't believe that.

01:18:38.000 It depends on who you are.

01:18:39.000 She has a huge platform. 0.81

01:18:41.000 I don't know who she is.

01:18:44.000 She can bring like 20 to 30 girls in a year. 1.00

01:18:50.000 I definitely feel like she'll get 10k.

01:18:53.000 But the average is like 2 to 4k.

01:18:57.000 Yeah, normally.

01:18:58.000 Normally it's 2 to 4k.

01:18:59.000 Yeah, but she's a little bit more famous, so. 1.00

01:19:01.000 Okay.

01:19:01.000 Real quick, what did you rate her on a scale of 1 to 10?

01:19:03.000 Keep it a thousand.

01:19:04.000 Like her looks?

01:19:05.000 Yeah.

01:19:05.000 Can we go back to her?

01:19:06.000 I feel like she was like a six and a half.

01:19:08.000 A six and a half?

01:19:09.000 Yeah.

01:19:09.000 Okay.

01:19:10.000 I think she was average as fuck. 1.00

01:19:11.000 Okay. 1.00

01:19:14.000 What do you think?

01:19:17.000 She probably turned up. 0.89

01:19:19.000 She probably the life of the party. 1.00

01:19:20.000 The question is, from a look standpoint only, what would you rate her 1 to 10?

01:19:25.000 I need her to stand up. 0.94

01:19:28.000 I can't even see her body.

01:19:30.000 I'm trying to see here.

01:19:32.000 What would you rate her?

01:19:34.000 Photoshop.

01:19:35.000 Photoshop.

01:19:36.000 No, it's not.

01:19:37.000 It's actually true.

01:19:38.000 She's team.

01:19:39.000 Yeah.

01:19:41.000 Photoshop.

01:19:42.000 Photoshop.

01:19:43.000 You're not going to give a number?

01:19:45.000 Photoshop.

01:19:46.000 Okay, fantastic.

01:19:47.000 What about you?

01:19:47.000 What would you rate her one out of ten?

01:19:50.000 I'd give her a ten.

01:19:51.000 I think she's hot. 1.00

01:19:52.000 I feel like Instagram photos are different.

01:19:54.000 I think she's hot. 1.00

01:19:56.000 A ten means she's quite literally perfect.

01:19:58.000 In the video.

01:19:59.000 We're looking at the Instagram.

01:20:00.000 For real.

01:20:01.000 She don't look like her picture.

01:20:03.000 What about you?

01:20:07.000 She's not my type. 0.99

01:20:08.000 I give her a five.

01:20:09.000 Why are you hating?

01:20:10.000 I'm not hating.

01:20:11.000 She's just not my type. 0.99

01:20:13.000 Thick eyebrows.

01:20:15.000 Bleached skin. 0.96

01:20:16.000 Spray tan skin.

01:20:18.000 What are your thoughts?

01:20:20.000 Realistic?

01:20:20.000 Unrealistic?

01:20:22.000 I feel like we live in Miami where this is very realistic.

01:20:27.000 What do you rate her out of 10? 1.00

01:20:31.000 I'm gonna give her an 8 just because in that video she did look a little strange. 0.99

01:20:37.000 But then again, when I'm home not doing anything, I look like a 4.

01:20:43.000 But I would say that's what you really are then, right?

01:20:45.000 If you take the makeup off and everything.

01:20:47.000 We all probably look like that.

01:20:49.000 We all look a little crazy, you know, sometimes.

01:20:52.000 What about you?

01:20:54.000 What are your thoughts on it?

01:20:55.000 Do you think it's realistic, unrealistic?

01:20:57.000 And what would you rate her?

01:20:58.000 10k?

01:20:59.000 No.

01:20:59.000 But I mean, even in Miami, they'll pay Atmos Girls to Atmosphere model a few hundred dollars to go out.

01:21:05.000 I mean, I've gotten a few hundred dollars to go places for the night.

01:21:12.000 By places, I mean like Kiki or something.

01:21:15.000 I don't want to clarify that I'm like an...

01:21:18.000 But Summer Rae, I think her body is a 10. 1.00

01:21:22.000 She has a really, really nice body, but her face, I mean, I've followed Summer Rae on platforms for years and I really think she's kind of on the average side.

01:21:28.000 I mean, not that I'm perfect or something, but...

01:21:31.000 Nothing wrong with that.

01:21:32.000 Alright, what about you?

01:21:33.000 Do you think it's cap?

01:21:34.000 Do you think it's cap that she gets paid 10k?

01:21:37.000 Yeah, I don't know.

01:21:38.000 I wouldn't pay her 10k, but if somebody was like real known, yes.

01:21:42.000 Okay, that's a good point.

01:21:43.000 Why would you not give her 10k?

01:21:44.000 Because I don't know her.

01:21:46.000 You're a female though, so why would you be paying abroad? 1.00

01:21:49.000 Because, I mean, if you're a party promoter, you could be making some money off that.

01:21:53.000 So it's lucrative.

01:21:54.000 But you just said you wouldn't pay her though.

01:21:56.000 No, I wouldn't.

01:21:56.000 Yeah, so you wouldn't pay her, right?

01:21:57.000 I'm not like, I don't like her look.

01:22:00.000 Would you prefer, let me ask you a question.

01:22:02.000 Let's say you're running a club and you got a male, let's say a male musician and an Instagram model. 0.99

01:22:08.000 Who would you pay to come to the club? 0.99

01:22:10.000 The musician.

01:22:10.000 Why?

01:22:11.000 Because they put on a show.

01:22:12.000 People come to see that.

01:22:14.000 They don't want to see nobody just standing in their popping bottles.

01:22:17.000 They don't want to see that.

01:22:17.000 So in other words, men have to bring value?

01:22:19.000 Men bring value.

01:22:21.000 Okay, fair enough.

01:22:22.000 What about you?

01:22:24.000 That's realistic.

01:22:25.000 I could say for experience, do you know Malou Trovejo?

01:22:28.000 No.

01:22:29.000 I asked her for a promotion.

01:22:31.000 She asked me for 15k on her Instagram.

01:22:34.000 For a story post?

01:22:36.000 For a story post and a post.

01:22:38.000 How many followers does she have? 1.00

01:22:39.000 For one day.

01:22:40.000 She has millions. 0.99

01:22:41.000 But you can buy those.

01:22:42.000 So I could definitely understand it.

01:22:43.000 So I'm pretty sure that girl, Summer Rae, she got paid because it's like the attraction.

01:22:48.000 Like the more influencers or like famous people you bring to a place, the more people want to go.

01:22:53.000 I noticed females have a... 1.00

01:22:56.000 Big cap on their Instagrams a lot of the time. 0.78

01:22:59.000 Girls are the biggest culprits of really bad... 1.00

01:23:03.000 If you look at a hot chick's profile, she'll have millions of followers. 1.00

01:23:07.000 She'll get 5k likes. 1.00

01:23:08.000 And you're like, what the fuck? 0.99

01:23:09.000 This doesn't match up. 0.99

01:23:10.000 Or not that many comments.

01:23:11.000 Or it looks like bots.

01:23:13.000 Do they buy followers?

01:23:14.000 I know a guy who buys followers and likes.

01:23:18.000 With women, what I've noticed is that Mm-hmm. 1.00

01:23:30.000 Mm-hmm.

01:23:41.000 If you look at all the top podcasts, top YouTube channels, they're pretty much all men. 0.99

01:23:46.000 But if you look at TikTok and Instagram, women a lot of times do it well because it's visual. 1.00

01:23:51.000 It's short form content.

01:23:52.000 I agree.

01:23:54.000 What about you?

01:23:55.000 I believe it's true just because I know who she is and her being at a club, guys are going to see that and be like, I want to go to the club and meet her. 0.89

01:24:02.000 I want to see her just because of the fame she has behind her. 1.00

01:24:06.000 What do you rate her out of 10? 1.00

01:24:08.000 Her face?

01:24:09.000 Give her a six. 1.00

01:24:12.000 Overall?

01:24:14.000 Six and a half.

01:24:15.000 Fair enough.

01:24:18.000 Okay, so ladies, I have a question for you guys.

01:24:21.000 Throughout this podcast, we've talked about pretty privilege, women having more opportunities than men in general. 0.95

01:24:27.000 Oh, and real quick, just so you guys know, because you guys said that men and women have the same looks, whatever, just to let you guys know.

01:24:34.000 There was a study done, and they took a very attractive Tinder profile, that's a man, and a morbidly obese, ugly girl on Tinder, right?

01:24:44.000 A female. 0.96

01:24:45.000 And what they did was, they ran both profiles for 24 hours.

01:24:50.000 The man only got about 80 to 100.

01:24:53.000 But if there's 80% men on the internet.

01:24:56.000 That's my point though.

01:24:58.000 This is where I'm going with this.

01:24:59.000 The men, right?

01:25:01.000 The guy only got about 100 swipes versus the woman got like 400 swipes and she was 300 pounds. 1.00

01:25:09.000 Can I say something?

01:25:09.000 And very unattractive.

01:25:11.000 So what I'm trying to explain here is that even though Tinder might be more male than female, which is true, but that's a staggering ratio.

01:25:20.000 That's a staggering ratio for 80% men, right? 0.61

01:25:23.000 Wasn't it 80?

01:25:24.000 Yes.

01:25:25.000 But my point is that Women, right? 0.93

01:25:29.000 An attractive man, very attractive man, can barely compete with the lowest level of women, is my point. 1.00

01:25:35.000 But how is that equal when there's 80% men? 0.78

01:25:39.000 It's not really, if there was like, if it was like an equal ratio of women and men on the platform, I think that would be more of...

01:25:45.000 In the world.

01:25:46.000 It wouldn't change because I only swipe right on about 5% of men. 1.00

01:25:49.000 That's my point.

01:25:50.000 When we talk about the obese women, the obese women, it's like a misconception that women, period, people that's bigger, they don't have self-confidence and they're desperate and they need it.

01:26:02.000 It's a misconception.

01:26:03.000 Dating apps, though...

01:26:04.000 What is your argument?

01:26:05.000 I'm confused here.

01:26:05.000 My argument is that she got more DMs because they think that she need the DMs.

01:26:09.000 The man who looks more attractive, they think that they're going to get rejected.

01:26:13.000 So they swipe right for charity?

01:26:14.000 I would.

01:26:15.000 I mean, I don't care about being rejected. 0.99

01:26:17.000 Like, I'm gonna shoot my shot.

01:26:18.000 But a lot of people won't shoot their shot if you look too good. 0.73

01:26:22.000 Wait, what?

01:26:23.000 Like, you look intimidating.

01:26:25.000 Exactly.

01:26:26.000 You feel me?

01:26:26.000 Yeah.

01:26:27.000 I hear you.

01:26:28.000 That's not a thing on dating apps because you're able to swipe anonymously in the privacy of your own home.

01:26:32.000 Maybe you can make that argument if you're approaching someone in public.

01:26:34.000 I didn't know it was anonymous.

01:26:35.000 I'm not on Tinder.

01:26:37.000 I've never been on Tinder.

01:26:38.000 I didn't know it was anonymous.

01:26:39.000 So when you match...

01:26:41.000 How are you arguing...

01:26:42.000 He's saying you're not in person shooting a shot compared to like...

01:26:45.000 Yeah, like, you get rejected, you don't match with someone, okay, but it's different if you're going up to someone and you're doing it.

01:26:51.000 So on Tinder specifically?

01:26:52.000 I think they still care.

01:26:54.000 Because I'd be on IG. Ladies, the bottom line of me saying that is to simply say that a woman that's a one... 1.00

01:27:02.000 Can destroy a man that's a damn near 10. 0.97

01:27:04.000 That's my point. 0.96

01:27:06.000 She sure can.

01:27:06.000 No, I wouldn't even think I would have a chance if I was the one for a man that's a 10.

01:27:10.000 I agree.

01:27:11.000 No, I agree with you.

01:27:12.000 What do you think?

01:27:13.000 I need you to really understand the concept that what you think and your personal experiences might not reflect the reality of the world.

01:27:20.000 Are you aware of this?

01:27:22.000 Yeah.

01:27:23.000 That the world does not revolve around you and there's certain generalities that apply even if your life doesn't apply to that generality.

01:27:30.000 None of this is about me.

01:27:32.000 Why are you making it about you then?

01:27:34.000 I wasn't saying this about me.

01:27:35.000 Every argument you make comes back to your personal experience.

01:27:38.000 Well, because I like to keep it real.

01:27:41.000 If I've been through it, I'ma say it.

01:27:45.000 You too.

01:27:46.000 You know your facts. 1.00

01:27:47.000 You didn't just like pull it out your butt. 1.00

01:27:49.000 You see? 0.99

01:27:53.000 Myron, she's keeping it real, bro.

01:27:55.000 Keeping it real, bro.

01:27:57.000 I'll just drink my drink.

01:27:58.000 Drink old drink, baby.

01:28:00.000 You got something that you wanted to say?

01:28:01.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:28:02.000 Okay, I was going to say I agree with you because I don't think men and women use dating apps in the same way.

01:28:07.000 Before you make your point real quick, guys, let's go ahead and kill all the things except for Rumble and Instagram.

01:28:07.000 Okay.

01:28:13.000 Sorry, Rumble and Instagram.

01:28:14.000 Rumble and YouTube.

01:28:15.000 Guys, come on over to YouTube real quick.

01:28:17.000 YouTube.com slash C slash Fresh Fit Miami.

01:28:21.000 Come on over.

01:28:22.000 Or you can watch us on Rumble.

01:28:23.000 Rumble.com slash Fresh and Fit.

01:28:25.000 Sorry, go ahead.

01:28:26.000 Um, I don't think men and women use dating apps in the same intention.

01:28:29.000 And I think that like lower ranked girls, uglier girls, more average are going to have more matches because men are on there ideally to hook up. 1.00

01:28:39.000 Right.

01:28:39.000 And women, if they're looking at, and I always say this to my friends, like I don't like dating apps because like if I'm on a dating app, I am looking for looks.

01:28:46.000 I don't know anything about your personality.

01:28:48.000 I don't know what you do, like whatever.

01:28:50.000 But if I'm in person and I can catch someone's like energy and vibe right away, If you're average but I like your energy and I get to know more about you then I'm probably interested and I'm going to become attracted to you because I like your personality.

01:29:02.000 Here's the catch though.

01:29:04.000 At least you get the opportunity to meet them.

01:29:07.000 This is true.

01:29:08.000 That's the whole biggest part.

01:29:10.000 The guy isn't even going to get a chance a lot of the times. 1.00

01:29:13.000 Let's say you meet a guy and he only wanted sex from you, but you're able to get on a date and show redeeming qualities where, damn, okay, this girl ain't some annoying ass bitch. 1.00

01:29:21.000 I want to actually hang out with her. 0.99

01:29:23.000 At least you get that opportunity.

01:29:25.000 Men never get that opportunity a lot of the times.

01:29:27.000 That's my point. 0.99

01:29:28.000 Yeah, if they're not an annoying ass bitch, I would definitely love to hang out with a man more. 1.00

01:29:34.000 He was talking about a woman. 1.00

01:29:37.000 Well, I'm saying.

01:29:39.000 You're first to join us right now.

01:29:43.000 What?

01:29:44.000 You can't be serious right now.

01:29:46.000 What man's is this, bro?

01:29:48.000 What man's is this?

01:29:49.000 What's going on, dude?

01:29:51.000 Okay.

01:29:52.000 Okay.

01:29:53.000 Chats? 0.98

01:29:55.000 Jack is crazy. 0.84

01:29:56.000 Okay. 1.00

01:29:57.000 No, no, no.

01:29:57.000 I got another question to follow up.

01:30:00.000 So, all right.

01:30:00.000 Now that we've established that a lower-level, mediocre, obese woman, 300 pounds, has more pull than a top-tier guy, right?

01:30:08.000 So, pretty privileged.

01:30:10.000 Overwhelmingly, you know, benefits women. 0.99

01:30:11.000 Let's be honest here.

01:30:12.000 That's not even a...

01:30:13.000 I was just being nice with y'all before.

01:30:15.000 Any girl that said that, you know, it's equal. 1.00

01:30:17.000 I know you try to say that it's equal.

01:30:18.000 It's not, ladies. 0.76

01:30:19.000 I didn't say it was equal.

01:30:21.000 I said it's subjective.

01:30:22.000 I never said the word equal.

01:30:24.000 Okay.

01:30:24.000 I said subjective.

01:30:25.000 But then I went ahead and said, objectively speaking, who has more opportunity?

01:30:32.000 Who's going to pull more with their pretty privilege? 1.00

01:30:33.000 And then it boiled down to women. 0.92

01:30:36.000 Is this all based on the Tinder statistics?

01:30:38.000 That's fine.

01:30:39.000 That's just one of many statistics that women have more opportunity. 1.00

01:30:42.000 Excuse me?

01:30:42.000 I said I didn't say it was equal, so please don't put words in my mouth.

01:30:45.000 I said it was subjective, which I still stand on.

01:30:49.000 But then I said, objectively speaking, and you're like, oh, well, you know, it could go both ways.

01:30:53.000 When you have somebody who's like such a hard argument, it's hard to like, okay, like we're going to sway.

01:30:59.000 I'm going to sway.

01:31:00.000 So are you arguing to make a point or are you arguing because you don't want to admit you're wrong?

01:31:04.000 I'm not.

01:31:04.000 I'll admit that I'm wrong.

01:31:06.000 I take accountability.

01:31:07.000 You haven't done that.

01:31:08.000 What do you want me to say?

01:31:09.000 Well, you were very incorrect in your analysis from before.

01:31:12.000 Well, you were wrong.

01:31:12.000 Okay, I'm wrong.

01:31:14.000 I'm wrong.

01:31:15.000 An average...

01:31:15.000 I mean, I just quite literally proved this second ago with the Tinder thing.

01:31:19.000 And a very attractive man can barely compete with a mediocre woman. 1.00

01:31:24.000 But then in your argument, you're saying a hot girl, right, is equal to a hot guy.

01:31:29.000 And I was like, not even close.

01:31:31.000 Why do you keep saying the word equal?

01:31:32.000 I never said it was equal.

01:31:33.000 You said it goes both ways with almost quite literally...

01:31:36.000 I said subjective...

01:31:38.000 You said it goes both ways.

01:31:39.000 Correct.

01:31:40.000 And it's subjective, which quite literally means it's equal.

01:31:43.000 Equal and subjective don't have the same definition.

01:31:46.000 You're using them together in that way, so it implies equality.

01:31:49.000 You were saying equal in context.

01:31:50.000 It implies equality.

01:31:51.000 Both ways.

01:31:53.000 That's what you're hearing.

01:31:54.000 No, I'm listening.

01:31:55.000 That's the difference.

01:31:56.000 I'm listening to understand.

01:31:57.000 I never said the word equal.

01:31:58.000 I said subjective.

01:31:59.000 Both ways.

01:31:59.000 Your context led to it being equal.

01:32:01.000 Both ways, right?

01:32:02.000 But ultimately speaking, we get that you didn't say the word.

01:32:06.000 Exactly.

01:32:06.000 But yeah.

01:32:07.000 Wow.

01:32:08.000 Okay.

01:32:09.000 All right.

01:32:09.000 So we've established, right, that pretty much women have an overwhelming advantage when it comes to pretty privilege in almost all realms, right?

01:32:17.000 Whether it's opportunities, whatever it may be.

01:32:19.000 Now, knowing this, right?

01:32:22.000 That women have opportunities.

01:32:23.000 Dudes are hitting on them all the time just from simply walking on the street or being in a grocery store. 0.97

01:32:27.000 They'll get their groceries paid, etc.

01:32:29.000 Should men protect their girlfriends from all the opportunities that are out there for the girl? 0.99

01:32:37.000 Maybe this could be like, hey, no girls' nights out. 0.54

01:32:40.000 Hey, I don't like you dressing this way.

01:32:41.000 Hey, you should probably close down and make your Instagram private.

01:32:44.000 Maybe take certain pictures off.

01:32:47.000 Limit the girls' trips. 1.00

01:32:48.000 Whatever it may be.

01:32:49.000 Should men take an active step In, I guess, how do I say this? 0.99

01:32:55.000 Getting rid of risks in the relationship given all the pretty privilege you guys have just admitted to having.

01:33:00.000 Start right here.

01:33:02.000 I believe if it's a woman that a man wants to take serious, she's going to want to do that just because of the man. 0.99

01:33:10.000 The man's doing all these things for her.

01:33:11.000 She's going to want to do that.

01:33:12.000 She shouldn't be told, hey, you have to take this down.

01:33:14.000 You shouldn't be going to the club.

01:33:15.000 She should just not be doing it.

01:33:17.000 So are you saying if she doesn't do it, the guy should just, she should be doing it automatically?

01:33:21.000 Yeah, she should be doing it automatically.

01:33:23.000 Okay.

01:33:24.000 And if he says, hey, I don't feel comfortable with this or whatever, and she gives him any kind of kickback, what would he say?

01:33:28.000 Or he says you're controlling or toxic or whatever.

01:33:31.000 Then that's not the girl for you. 0.50

01:33:32.000 That's not the girl you should have around you. 0.98

01:33:34.000 You should leave her, you think?

01:33:36.000 You should leave her. 1.00

01:33:37.000 Damn. 1.00

01:33:37.000 Okay. 1.00

01:33:39.000 Alright.

01:33:39.000 What about you?

01:33:40.000 So, I feel like...

01:33:42.000 Merch.

01:33:45.000 It's hard because it's actually my boyfriend left me for that.

01:33:48.000 He said, I hate your social media.

01:33:50.000 I hate what you're doing.

01:33:51.000 I hate you're giving these guys attention.

01:33:54.000 I hate you're getting attention from these guys. 1.00

01:33:57.000 Damn. 1.00

01:33:57.000 He's smart. 1.00

01:33:58.000 After everything I did for him, and I actually, like, it was a point when I had Bryce Hall, I had fucking, what's his name? 0.89

01:34:06.000 Josh Richards.

01:34:07.000 I have all of the, like, big influencers, and I ignored it because of him.

01:34:11.000 I feel like, at the end of the day, it's controlling.

01:34:16.000 And if you don't want to be with that girl because she's getting all this attention, because she's a body, because she's this, then don't be with her.

01:34:22.000 Go, Queen. 0.99

01:34:22.000 He's ungrateful. 0.99

01:34:24.000 How dare him?

01:34:25.000 How dare.

01:34:27.000 All these guys in your DMs.

01:34:28.000 But would you admit, though, he had a concern?

01:34:31.000 Because, I mean, these have pretty big names hit you up.

01:34:33.000 Yeah, and I was like, hey, how are you?

01:34:35.000 I wouldn't be like, okay, block you.

01:34:37.000 Like, no.

01:34:38.000 I was like, hey, how are you?

01:34:39.000 Yeah, but I never called him cute.

01:34:40.000 I never called him, I want to do this with you.

01:34:42.000 But can you understand his frustration? 0.90

01:34:45.000 Because, I mean, you're getting damned by these guys and you're responding.

01:34:47.000 It's like, whoa, what's going on here? 0.85

01:34:48.000 Can you understand his insecurity?

01:34:50.000 Yeah, he had insecurity because I'm this and he's not getting texts by other guys and he's not getting all that attention.

01:34:58.000 Yeah, of course.

01:34:59.000 So they had access to you.

01:35:00.000 So hold on. 0.99

01:35:01.000 Your man is like, damn, my girl's famous, she's lit, responding to these guys. 0.99

01:35:06.000 Do you know how he feels about that? 0.99

01:35:07.000 Like, deep down.

01:35:08.000 So you understand it.

01:35:09.000 Yeah, because if my boyfriend has the same attention from other girls, I will feel some type of way.

01:35:14.000 So then you can understand why he was feeling that way.

01:35:17.000 But leaving me over that, after everything I did, Yes, it's a major concern.

01:35:21.000 Could you, like, comfort him throughout the insecurities?

01:35:24.000 I think that's cheating.

01:35:25.000 I feel like, also, you could meet somewhere in the middle.

01:35:30.000 You feel me?

01:35:31.000 Like, I feel like, cool.

01:35:33.000 Okay, he doesn't like that you were there, you know, replying to these messages, but now help him understand what you have going on and give him some sense of trust, you know?

01:35:45.000 Because a man, okay, I'm young, too, but you're younger.

01:35:50.000 And I don't know, you know, if you're still living with mom and dad, if you have your own place, or how far you got with that man.

01:35:56.000 But when a man is providing for you, and when you live under a man's roof, he has some sense of control.

01:36:03.000 When he's providing for you, I saw you shake your head.

01:36:05.000 She was a provider.

01:36:05.000 Yeah, I was a provider.

01:36:06.000 Okay, see, you're the main provider.

01:36:07.000 That's a little different.

01:36:08.000 And that's how she pay her bills. 1.00

01:36:09.000 When we're young, we're still in love.

01:36:11.000 So that's what happened with me. 1.00

01:36:13.000 I was stupid in love. 1.00

01:36:14.000 I realized I was controlling that toxicness. 0.99

01:36:17.000 That's controlling because why you don't want to be with someone who has this and that and you're just like insecure about it.

01:36:23.000 Let me ask you a question.

01:36:24.000 So like he told you, he was honest with you and he told you what he liked and didn't like.

01:36:28.000 Yeah, at the start of the relationship, yeah.

01:36:30.000 Okay, and you said that he's insecure.

01:36:32.000 No, I say that now because after everything I did...

01:36:36.000 Okay, you think he was insecure.

01:36:37.000 Let me ask you a question.

01:36:39.000 Who's more secure?

01:36:41.000 Someone who tells you the truth and doesn't care what happens?

01:36:44.000 Or someone who doesn't say anything to you because they're scared of what could happen?

01:36:50.000 The first option.

01:36:51.000 Someone who tells you the truth.

01:36:52.000 So I would argue your boyfriend was very secure.

01:36:54.000 He told you the truth and didn't care about the consequences.

01:36:57.000 He told me the truth because he wanted me to, like, stop.

01:36:59.000 But that means he's secure.

01:37:01.000 Yeah.

01:37:01.000 He's insecure because he's...

01:37:03.000 By your own definition.

01:37:06.000 Well...

01:37:09.000 You see what I did there?

01:37:10.000 Because women love to say men are insecure when they put boundaries on women. 0.96

01:37:13.000 But I argue that when a man puts a boundary on you, he's very secure because he's telling you what he really likes and doesn't like at the cost of possibly losing you.

01:37:22.000 He's actually insecure if he doesn't say anything because he's not secure where the relationship is and he's scared to lose you.

01:37:29.000 You have a point, but it's also secure that he won't let you wear whatever you want, that he won't let you go out with your friends, that he's scared of you, like, cheating.

01:37:39.000 Also, you know what I mean?

01:37:41.000 Okay, let me ask you a question.

01:37:43.000 Do you like watches or what do you like cars?

01:37:45.000 What do you like?

01:37:46.000 Cars.

01:37:47.000 You like cars?

01:37:47.000 Okay.

01:37:48.000 Let's say you save up a bunch of money and you buy a brand new Mercedes, what, G-Wagon?

01:37:53.000 G-Wagon.

01:37:54.000 Alright, you buy a G-Wagon, right?

01:37:56.000 You spend $250,000 on it, right? 0.99

01:37:59.000 You buy it, you're fucking, yo, this is lit. 0.97

01:38:02.000 You get it with zero mileage, you're like, yes, this is awesome. 0.99

01:38:05.000 And then you go home.

01:38:06.000 Three weeks later, right?

01:38:08.000 Dude knocks on your door.

01:38:09.000 The guy that sold you the car.

01:38:10.000 He says, hey, listen, bro.

01:38:12.000 I need you to put a for sale sign on your car.

01:38:15.000 And drive around with it for like a month or two, okay?

01:38:18.000 How'd that make you feel?

01:38:19.000 Bad.

01:38:20.000 Why?

01:38:21.000 I'll cry.

01:38:22.000 Why?

01:38:22.000 Because I just bought it.

01:38:23.000 And I wasn't like driving it for a while.

01:38:24.000 And you worked really hard to get it, right?

01:38:26.000 Yes.

01:38:26.000 That's exactly how men feel about their girls showing their body all over the internet.

01:38:30.000 Dang.

01:38:31.000 Okay, it makes sense.

01:38:33.000 Hold on, stop it right there.

01:38:34.000 It makes sense.

01:38:36.000 This is why men protect what they get and what they invest in.

01:38:42.000 No guy wants to be with a girl that has a for sale sign on her neck. 1.00

01:38:46.000 And unfortunately, women don't advertise the same way men do.

01:38:49.000 Girls advertise by putting pictures up and making themselves look available. 1.00

01:38:53.000 Men advertise by actually going up to the girl and letting him know he is available.

01:38:58.000 So you see how it's different here?

01:39:00.000 So I would argue that your boyfriend, number one, was very secure because he told you the truth.

01:39:04.000 And then number two, when you advertise yourself a certain way, put a for sale sign on your neck, which unfortunately is what social media is, Then sometimes you got to deal with the consequences.

01:39:12.000 No guy wants to pay full price for a car with a for sale sign on it.

01:39:16.000 And because of your profession, you have to be extra, I want to say, explaining to your boyfriend.

01:39:22.000 Because once again, you understand your career?

01:39:24.000 He doesn't.

01:39:25.000 You have to be like, you know what, babe?

01:39:26.000 Here's why I'm responding.

01:39:28.000 Look at this.

01:39:28.000 With me.

01:39:29.000 Because if you don't do that, it's like, she damning on her own?

01:39:32.000 What's going on?

01:39:32.000 He doesn't know.

01:39:33.000 Now I'll give you one Excuse here.

01:39:36.000 You took care of him and you paid all the bills. 0.99

01:39:38.000 Yeah, so so I can I can see Where that comes from which is why we actually tell guys on this podcast You need to make more money than your girl have to like you have to be You know if you're gonna have boundaries and you know control her sexuality like that to be the leader You need to be the fucking leader. 0.69

01:39:51.000 So his problem is that he didn't have the leadership skills But at the same time women need to understand that when you advertise yourself a certain way on the internet or put out a certain image of A guy that's with you is going to lose respect for you and he's going to want you to change.

01:40:06.000 So, I mean, it's up to girls how they want to move with that. 0.97

01:40:08.000 But social media, right, to a degree, can be construed as cheating.

01:40:12.000 Absolutely.

01:40:13.000 Yeah, I agree.

01:40:14.000 Especially when you respond.

01:40:15.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:40:15.000 I agree.

01:40:16.000 And especially if he didn't know, like, you were responding.

01:40:18.000 He had my Instagram, my Snapchat, my Gmail.

01:40:21.000 Oh, he did?

01:40:21.000 So he was, like, looking at them.

01:40:23.000 He was, and he would block them, too.

01:40:25.000 And I would get mad about it because he did it without my concern.

01:40:27.000 Yeah, I get that.

01:40:28.000 Okay, hold on.

01:40:29.000 That's different.

01:40:30.000 It was a controlling relationship. 0.99

01:40:33.000 They're probably trying to set shit up to like, yo, let's link and all this other shit. 0.99

01:40:37.000 Come to this photo shoot. 0.99

01:40:40.000 To add on to something that you had said, right?

01:40:43.000 Okay, cool.

01:40:44.000 You said if the real If the roles were reversed, you wouldn't like it.

01:40:49.000 So when you're in a relationship with somebody, the same way I have things that I don't like, he's going to have things that he doesn't like.

01:40:56.000 And you're both entitled to walk away whenever you want, no matter who's financially providing.

01:41:02.000 You know what you're not entitled to do?

01:41:04.000 Change yourself when you get into a relationship.

01:41:07.000 I'm telling her to walk away. 1.00

01:41:11.000 I'm telling her to walk away if it's something that she doesn't like.

01:41:14.000 The same way he walked away.

01:41:17.000 As far as professional, you don't.

01:41:20.000 If she was working as an OnlyFans model before her relationship and he got with her knowing that she was the OnlyFans model, how dare he tell her to stop that once he fall in love?

01:41:30.000 How dare you save a quarter million dollars, buy the G-Wagon, bring it to your house, think that it's yours, then the salesman tell you you gotta put a for sale sign on it.

01:41:38.000 How dare he go with her when he knew she was doing OnlyFans?

01:41:41.000 What did I just say a second ago with the Mercedes?

01:41:44.000 He knew.

01:41:44.000 You're talking about earning it, right?

01:41:45.000 With the Mercedes?

01:41:46.000 Yes.

01:41:47.000 He knew.

01:41:47.000 But she's saying like if someone started off doing OnlyFans and then a guy came in and wanted her to stop doing OnlyFans.

01:41:54.000 Remember when I said privilege was invisible to those that have it?

01:41:58.000 How many times you hit on guys?

01:42:00.000 I've hit on guys before.

01:42:02.000 Really?

01:42:02.000 I mean, I don't count them.

01:42:03.000 How many times have you hit on a guy versus guys hitting on you?

01:42:07.000 It's a different ratio.

01:42:08.000 Oh, what is it?

01:42:09.000 Maybe 1 to 100?

01:42:11.000 Okay, if it is 100.

01:42:12.000 Maybe 1 to 100?

01:42:13.000 What is the ratio?

01:42:14.000 I don't know, sure.

01:42:15.000 1 to 100.

01:42:16.000 Okay, so you might hit on one guy for every 100 guys that hit on you, right?

01:42:19.000 Why'd you decline all those guys?

01:42:22.000 Not interested.

01:42:23.000 Oh.

01:42:23.000 So would it be fair to say that they didn't measure up to your standards?

01:42:27.000 Maybe they didn't look good enough.

01:42:28.000 Maybe they didn't make enough money.

01:42:28.000 They didn't have confidence, ambition, competence?

01:42:32.000 Or I wasn't interested.

01:42:33.000 But yeah, I guess.

01:42:35.000 So you do realize that by a man attracting a woman in the first place, he had to put in work?

01:42:41.000 Mm-hmm.

01:42:42.000 So you tried to gloss over that is the point.

01:42:44.000 No, what I'm saying is that if they started off doing OnlyFans...

01:42:47.000 You're talking about this car, this prize, and then they get it taken away.

01:42:50.000 Like I'm saying...

01:42:52.000 And you don't like the fact that the car is being shown?

01:42:56.000 Yes.

01:42:56.000 You saved up your money, which is a man building his value, getting a vehicle, purchasing the vehicle.

01:43:03.000 I get it.

01:43:05.000 We're not cars, but I'm using the analogy to illustrate how men feel about the topic.

01:43:09.000 Men have to make their money, increase their value, right? 1.00

01:43:12.000 Buy the car.

01:43:13.000 And it's disrespectful to you as the man purchasing the vehicle for the seller to come and tell you, oh, we're going to put a for sale sign on it after you spent all your money and time to purchase it.

01:43:22.000 We were talking about already having the for sale sign.

01:43:24.000 Exactly.

01:43:25.000 And then you purchase it.

01:43:26.000 So the for sale sign is supposed to come off.

01:43:28.000 Oh, that's what guys go for is to get a girl with only fans and then take the sign off. 0.98

01:43:33.000 Well, I mean, you're no longer on the market, right?

01:43:36.000 You have a man now.

01:43:37.000 No, being sexy is your profession, baby.

01:43:40.000 Okay, I get that.

01:43:41.000 But here's the thing.

01:43:43.000 Like, a big part of what men want in a woman is purity and not embarrassing them.

01:43:48.000 Men don't ask for much from women. 0.85

01:43:50.000 What you get with a sexual model? 0.96

01:43:52.000 No.

01:43:53.000 As a main girl, never.

01:43:55.000 But for the men who do get a sexual model.

01:43:57.000 Most guys don't want that, which is why anytime a guy gets with a dancer or stripper, OnlyFans girl, whatever, that tough conversation always comes.

01:44:03.000 I want you to quit.

01:44:05.000 And that's not right, baby.

01:44:07.000 How's that not right?

01:44:08.000 No matter what.

01:44:09.000 So you drive around with a for sale sign on your vehicles that you purchase?

01:44:13.000 Exactly.

01:44:14.000 At the end of the day, it's a choice.

01:44:16.000 That's my point.

01:44:17.000 See, I'm just giving the other side, and all of you would have an issue with driving around a vehicle that had it for sale sign, but then when I say, yo, if you meet a guy you need to change for that man, it's a problem.

01:44:26.000 What kind of car do you drive?

01:44:28.000 BMW. So, if you met a girl who's a hate BMWs, sell that bitch. 1.00

01:44:34.000 You had it for 10 years, you're like, no, that's my car. 1.00

01:44:37.000 She's like, sell it.

01:44:38.000 Hate BMWs.

01:44:39.000 I'm going to say to this girl, would you do it?

01:44:42.000 You had that BMW way before her.

01:44:44.000 You should be a comedian.

01:44:46.000 You're funny.

01:44:46.000 There's no connection whatsoever.

01:44:49.000 Can we move on?

01:44:51.000 Can I ask a question that's pretty...

01:44:53.000 Yeah, go ahead.

01:44:54.000 Okay.

01:44:55.000 So...

01:44:56.000 If you have an OnlyFans, right?

01:44:59.000 And, you know, you meet a guy that's successful, he takes care of you, he respects you, he takes you on trips, he spoils you...

01:45:08.000 And it's getting serious and he wants to commit to you fully and vice versa.

01:45:14.000 But wants you to delete the OnlyFans.

01:45:16.000 You're telling me that you would give up all of that and that life and that love and that connection because you want to keep making $5,000 to $20,000 a month.

01:45:28.000 On a platform that's not gonna last forever.

01:45:30.000 Not telling you that.

01:45:32.000 Stop, stop, stop.

01:45:34.000 Raise a hand.

01:45:36.000 Who would give up to OnlyFans?

01:45:38.000 Raise a hand.

01:45:48.000 It looks to me like only two girls wouldn't give it up, you two wouldn't give it up? 0.99

01:45:52.000 No, I wouldn't give it up.

01:45:54.000 Who's the third?

01:45:56.000 So you two would not give it up.

01:46:01.000 All right.

01:46:02.000 Why wouldn't you give it up?

01:46:03.000 Because men, I mean, people change their mind all the time.

01:46:05.000 How am I supposed to know that if I stop making money, this man is going to be with me forever?

01:46:10.000 Like, what am I going to do after that if he leaves me?

01:46:15.000 Who do you think initiates more breakups, men or women?

01:46:19.000 I don't know.

01:46:20.000 It depends.

01:46:21.000 How many times have you been broken up with in your life?

01:46:23.000 Every time.

01:46:24.000 It's funny.

01:46:25.000 I usually do the breaking up.

01:46:26.000 Thank you for proving my point.

01:46:28.000 That's my point.

01:46:29.000 How many times have a guy broken up with you?

01:46:31.000 Once?

01:46:31.000 Twice maybe?

01:46:33.000 Zero.

01:46:34.000 Every time.

01:46:34.000 I don't recall a man breaking up with me.

01:46:36.000 Exactly.

01:46:36.000 How many times have you broken up with men?

01:46:38.000 Quite often.

01:46:39.000 Okay.

01:46:40.000 So wouldn't it be fair to say that that's an unrealistic fear you have, that a man's going to leave you?

01:46:44.000 I mean, it is a fear.

01:46:45.000 But that doesn't mean just because you fear, it doesn't mean it's real.

01:46:49.000 That's true.

01:46:49.000 People believe in ghosts or monsters or the boogeyman, but it's not real, right?

01:46:54.000 Fear is like a concept in your head.

01:46:57.000 It's a false sense of reality.

01:47:02.000 It's a false sense of fear for something that doesn't exist.

01:47:05.000 So would you really give it up then?

01:47:06.000 I mean, so I'm just asking you so you would not give it up even though realistically the guy probably won't leave you.

01:47:16.000 Because you're saying if I give it up, he can still leave me.

01:47:18.000 I probably wouldn't give it up. 0.99

01:47:20.000 Damn. 0.99

01:47:20.000 I like to be independent. 0.99

01:47:22.000 Just in case.

01:47:23.000 I just like to have that just in case.

01:47:24.000 So let me do the math here real quick.

01:47:26.000 So on one side, you wouldn't give it up because you're worried that he would leave you.

01:47:30.000 But on the other side, he's definitely going to leave you and you'd rather go...

01:47:36.000 Like, you see the math here?

01:47:38.000 Hell's not had it up.

01:47:39.000 One side is indefinite he's leaving you.

01:47:41.000 The other side is probably not going to leave you.

01:47:43.000 Yet you're going to stick to the side where he definitely will leave you.

01:47:47.000 No!

01:47:48.000 You're going to be secure within yourself.

01:47:51.000 Right.

01:47:51.000 I guess I am.

01:47:53.000 What do you mean be secure?

01:47:54.000 Like, have some confidence that it's going to work out.

01:47:57.000 If you're constantly, like, thinking negative, like, it's not going to work out.

01:48:00.000 We're not going to have a future together.

01:48:01.000 He might leave me.

01:48:02.000 He's going to leave me.

01:48:03.000 Girl! 0.97

01:48:03.000 Yeah, you're just going to manifest that into existence. 0.97

01:48:06.000 People change all the time.

01:48:07.000 Like, I'm going to change, she's going to change, she might decide he doesn't want me.

01:48:12.000 I might decide I don't want him.

01:48:14.000 Drop the OnlyFans or you're single.

01:48:15.000 There's no manifestation of anything.

01:48:20.000 I'm talking about security.

01:48:21.000 Like, if you're secure within your relationship and you know your relationship's secure, let's talk in that aspect then.

01:48:28.000 That I would think I don't know.

01:48:30.000 I feel like if you're secure within your relationship, then you don't have to worry about what if they leave me and I have to be independent.

01:48:35.000 Yeah, I mean, yeah, of course, you got to be secure in your relationship.

01:48:37.000 What I'm saying is that women have this crazy fear that men are going to leave them a lot of times.

01:48:41.000 And what I'm saying is that that's just not common.

01:48:43.000 How many times has a guy broken up with you in your lifetime?

01:48:46.000 They don't necessarily leave me, but they do cheat to the point where we need to be broken.

01:48:50.000 Hold on, hold on.

01:48:51.000 How many times has a guy said, I'm breaking up with you in your life?

01:48:56.000 We're done.

01:48:57.000 No more.

01:48:58.000 I can't even think of a time.

01:49:00.000 Now how many times have you broken up with a guy?

01:49:04.000 I don't know. 1.00

01:49:04.000 Can't make this shit off, people. 1.00

01:49:05.000 Can I mention something? 0.99

01:49:08.000 The point is, you see, but here's the thing. 0.99

01:49:12.000 He went out, fucked another girl, right? 0.99

01:49:15.000 And still didn't want to break up with you. 0.99

01:49:17.000 That speaks volumes.

01:49:19.000 Foul.

01:49:21.000 Let that sink in for a second. 1.00

01:49:23.000 If you fucked another guy, that means you're done with him. 1.00

01:49:28.000 But he fucked another girl, but he came back to you. 0.97

01:49:31.000 The point is that men don't initiate breakups even in the face of infidelity. 0.98

01:49:40.000 Ladies, let's go back here so you guys understand my point here.

01:49:49.000 She said, I'm not dropping the OnlyFans because I don't know if he's going to stick around.

01:49:54.000 Correct?

01:49:55.000 So she has a fear of the guy breaking up with her.

01:49:58.000 I respond, that's an illogical fear because men rarely initiate breakups.

01:50:03.000 How many times have you been broken up in your life?

01:50:05.000 She said, zero.

01:50:06.000 I said, that's my point.

01:50:07.000 Then I asked you, Sam, and you're like, well, just be secure in your relationship.

01:50:10.000 Then I responded, cool, but realistically speaking, are men going to break up with you?

01:50:15.000 Then I asked you, how many times have you been broken up with?

01:50:17.000 You said, never, but men go ahead and cheat, which leads to breaking up. 0.88

01:50:22.000 My response to that was, even when a man steps out and fucks another girl, he still comes back to you. 0.94

01:50:29.000 Stop interrupting. 1.00

01:50:32.000 My point is, is that if you went and fucked another guy, the relationship's over. 0.99

01:50:36.000 He went and fucked another girl, but the relationship wasn't over. 0.99

01:50:39.000 It proves my point even further. 1.00

01:50:40.000 Even with infidelity, men don't leave women.

01:50:43.000 So men can choose to cheat and continue the relationship.

01:50:47.000 It's different.

01:50:48.000 Sex is different for men and women.

01:50:50.000 Sex for men and women is so different.

01:50:52.000 I'm continuing. 0.84

01:50:54.000 Sex for women is emotional. 1.00

01:50:58.000 Sex for some women is emotional. 0.94

01:51:01.000 I actually want to run back what you said. 1.00

01:51:02.000 I'm about to fuck a nigga and not get tied to him. 1.00

01:51:06.000 Hold on. 1.00

01:51:08.000 You said, cool, you dropped the OnlyFans.

01:51:10.000 Now he breaks up with you.

01:51:11.000 And now what are you going to do?

01:51:12.000 Hold on.

01:51:13.000 He said you can't have OnlyFans.

01:51:14.000 He didn't say you can't have a job.

01:51:16.000 I do have a job.

01:51:18.000 That's true.

01:51:20.000 He said you can't have OnlyFans.

01:51:22.000 He didn't say you can't have a job.

01:51:24.000 So just drop your OnlyFans and go work a regular job if that's what you're worried about.

01:51:28.000 If you really love the man, you're going to drop the OnlyFans and go get a regular job.

01:51:31.000 If I love the man and he loves me, why should I have to drop anything?

01:51:35.000 It's a sense of respect for him.

01:51:36.000 He knows that other people can pay $9.99 to see what he's seeing every night.

01:51:41.000 Okay.

01:51:41.000 So...

01:51:42.000 That's a good point.

01:51:44.000 That's a very good point.

01:51:46.000 It's just the point that it's disrespectful.

01:51:49.000 He knew he was a little man.

01:51:50.000 How do you respond to that?

01:51:51.000 It's disrespectful for the man to know that I have an OnlyFans, but it's not disrespectful for me to know that he cheated on me, potentially.

01:51:58.000 But it's so different.

01:52:00.000 It's so different?

01:52:01.000 How?

01:52:02.000 Because...

01:52:03.000 Sorry, go ahead.

01:52:03.000 You're saying because it's emotional?

01:52:05.000 It's not emotional for every woman.

01:52:07.000 It is. 0.97

01:52:07.000 Sex for every woman. 0.97

01:52:09.000 Okay, can we address her question, though? 0.57

01:52:12.000 Forget the cheating.

01:52:13.000 She's just saying, if your man says to you, hey, drop the OnlyFans, I'm going to take care of you. 0.99

01:52:17.000 She's saying, just get a job if you're worried about...

01:52:19.000 Your problem is the financial.

01:52:20.000 Your problem is not your OnlyFans.

01:52:22.000 You said your problem is the financial.

01:52:23.000 You said if he leaves you, now how are you going to make money?

01:52:25.000 Your problem is financially, not your OnlyFans.

01:52:28.000 How'd you respond to that?

01:52:30.000 Um, being somebody that has a normal job and an OnlyFans, um, if I was to, I, both of them are choices that I make.

01:52:37.000 I'm about to say the man could say drop both of your jobs.

01:52:40.000 I will take care of you.

01:52:41.000 And I just feel like the man shouldn't have any control over my life.

01:52:44.000 If he loves me, he should be able to respect anything that I do.

01:52:48.000 He didn't say drop both your jobs.

01:52:49.000 He said drop your OnlyFans.

01:52:49.000 Yeah, dropping both wasn't the argument.

01:52:51.000 He don't care that you're a kindergarten teacher.

01:52:53.000 He cares that you got an OnlyFans.

01:52:55.000 He doesn't like that.

01:52:55.000 Well, it ain't my fault.

01:52:56.000 He liked me when I had an OnlyFans. 0.72

01:52:58.000 And now that he loves me, he wants me to stop.

01:53:00.000 Now he wants to marry you.

01:53:01.000 Now he wants exclusivity. 1.00

01:53:03.000 Now he wants to be the only one looking at your pussy. 1.00

01:53:05.000 Now he wants to be the only one looking at your titties. 1.00

01:53:08.000 I feel like you should have a sense of respect right back to it. 1.00

01:53:10.000 Because do you want people looking at his dick? 0.99

01:53:12.000 So are we just doing this just for the sense of respect? 1.00

01:53:14.000 Like, oh my God, I want to be the only one with you.

01:53:17.000 Is that what a relationship is only about for you guys?

01:53:21.000 But it's a big factor.

01:53:23.000 I just want you to be with me and love me, right?

01:53:25.000 And respect me.

01:53:26.000 And respect me the same way I'm going to respect you right back.

01:53:30.000 But he got with you with the OnlyFans.

01:53:32.000 But now he wants you for real.

01:53:35.000 So he didn't tell you serious before?

01:53:36.000 So he didn't want you for real when he got with you in the beginning.

01:53:39.000 Going on dates is not getting married.

01:53:41.000 Going on dates and getting to know someone is not committing to someone.

01:53:44.000 So if you can't respect a man enough, that's going to take care of you.

01:53:59.000 This is the thing here that I've realized from this situation.

01:54:03.000 It's not that you guys want independence.

01:54:05.000 It's that you guys just want to be able to do what you want and not have a man control you.

01:54:09.000 Or have a man be able to be involved in that situation.

01:54:12.000 Even in the face of conflicting information on your fear, a guy might leave me.

01:54:16.000 I'd lose my independence, blah, blah, blah.

01:54:18.000 Even though, statistically speaking, men don't leave women, even when they cheat.

01:54:21.000 Because girls bring that up like, oh, he cheated.

01:54:23.000 Still not going to leave you, though.

01:54:24.000 But if a woman cheats on a man, she's definitely going to leave him. 1.00

01:54:27.000 So it's not the same.

01:54:28.000 I think it's just like a programming too.

01:54:30.000 I think when women say, modern women say that they don't want a man to lead, I think that they're just, I'm sorry, it's nothing personal, but, you know, as a woman in an American modern society, we are programmed to an extent. 0.74

01:54:42.000 And I was programmed for a long time.

01:54:45.000 Like, you know, I was making racks dancing and I was an independent woman, but I don't want that anymore.

01:54:50.000 And God brought me to like, Naturally, we want a man to lead.

01:54:55.000 And if you say that you don't want a man to control your life, I think you just have probably like, and I have daddy issues too.

01:55:01.000 You know, I think that it just goes back to the root cause of like, natural women do want a man to lead. 1.00

01:55:08.000 They just, they're just brainwashed and programmed.

01:55:12.000 It's just like a survival thing.

01:55:13.000 I don't want a man to lead, but not my financial endeavors.

01:55:16.000 No, I don't.

01:55:16.000 Well, if you...

01:55:17.000 So, if a man could take care of you and you could just... 1.00

01:55:20.000 He can lead and I bring money to the table, but no.

01:55:22.000 So, you want to go out in the world and fight demons for money when your man is saying, I will take care of you, you just stay at home, cater to me, cater to the children, cater to the house and the food?

01:55:33.000 No.

01:55:33.000 You would want to go out in the world.

01:55:34.000 Which effect are you saying in the program?

01:55:36.000 Saying that you don't want...

01:55:38.000 That's not even what he's saying.

01:55:39.000 I want to own my own business.

01:55:42.000 You want to make your own money and be successful?

01:55:44.000 Not my own money.

01:55:45.000 A money for the house.

01:55:46.000 The money for the table.

01:55:48.000 You want to go out and be able to earn.

01:55:49.000 Here's my question for you then.

01:55:51.000 Here's the real thing.

01:55:52.000 Are you comfortable with potentially not finding a mate since that's what you're prioritizing?

01:55:57.000 OnlyFans?

01:55:58.000 OnlyFans and dance and all this other stuff.

01:56:01.000 Since you're prioritizing that acquisition of money...

01:56:05.000 I feel like even if I was like a daycare owner, like not an OnlyFans worker, and he tell me, hey, I want you to be at home more.

01:56:12.000 I want you to be a stay-at-home mom, and I make $100,000 a year being a daycare worker, and I'm helping out.

01:56:21.000 Why would I want to quit my job so we can live under the means that we did before?

01:56:27.000 Look, look.

01:56:28.000 You're welcome to your decisions and what you want to make in life.

01:56:31.000 What I'm saying is that are you okay with the consequence that as you become more successful, as you continue to age and get into your 30s, your chances of finding a man are going to come down.

01:56:39.000 Are you okay with that?

01:56:40.000 Yeah.

01:56:41.000 All right.

01:56:41.000 That just tells me that men are a little bit insecure.

01:56:44.000 They want to be the leader all the time.

01:56:46.000 They want to be the breadwinners.

01:56:48.000 Okay, let me ask you a question.

01:56:49.000 Men are insecure because they want to be leaders.

01:56:52.000 Okay, let me ask you a question.

01:56:53.000 Do you want a man of salt in you? 0.69

01:56:54.000 It's taller than me.

01:56:55.000 I mean, it doesn't really matter.

01:56:57.000 Would you prefer a man that's taller than you?

01:56:58.000 I don't care.

01:56:59.000 You don't care?

01:56:59.000 You'll date a guy your height?

01:57:01.000 Yeah.

01:57:01.000 If he shows me love.

01:57:03.000 I'm 5'4".

01:57:05.000 I'm average.

01:57:06.000 Would you date a man that's 5'2"?

01:57:07.000 I've dated a man that was my height.

01:57:10.000 I don't care.

01:57:10.000 I'm not shallow.

01:57:12.000 I don't care about shit like that. 0.99

01:57:13.000 I care about how the man actually treats me. 1.00

01:57:15.000 Do you want a man that's smarter than you? 0.99

01:57:17.000 Yeah.

01:57:18.000 That's nice.

01:57:18.000 Do you want a man that's stronger than you?

01:57:20.000 Yes.

01:57:21.000 It doesn't matter.

01:57:22.000 Absolutely.

01:57:22.000 You want a man that makes more money than you?

01:57:24.000 Yes.

01:57:25.000 Please let her answer.

01:57:28.000 That makes more money than me. 1.00

01:57:30.000 So what if I said that you're stupid, weak, and broke because you want a man that's better than you and all these attributes? 1.00

01:57:36.000 How do I sound? 1.00

01:57:37.000 Like an asshole. 1.00

01:57:38.000 Fantastic. 1.00

01:57:39.000 You sound like an asshole for saying men are insecure for wanting younger women. 1.00

01:57:42.000 What? 1.00

01:57:42.000 You said that! 1.00

01:57:45.000 How was that to say?

01:57:46.000 You said that!

01:57:47.000 Hold on.

01:57:48.000 Ladies, it's called logic, okay? 1.00

01:57:50.000 It's not insecure.

01:57:51.000 It's about men have preferences and women have preferences. 0.99

01:57:54.000 The difference is my preferences get shit on as a man. 0.99

01:57:58.000 Your preference is no one bats an eye. 0.99

01:57:59.000 I'm not attacking you or calling you insecure for wanting a man that's better than you.

01:58:03.000 That's just what you want.

01:58:04.000 So you're mad because I said that a man is insecure because he wants to be in control.

01:58:07.000 No, I'm not mad about that. 1.00

01:58:09.000 I said I'm just using your logic against you and when I used it, you said that was stupid. 0.99

01:58:13.000 And then I said that's exactly how you sound about a man wanting to be a leader. 1.00

01:58:18.000 Or wanting younger women.

01:58:19.000 Whatever it may be.

01:58:20.000 Does that make sense?

01:58:21.000 It makes sense.

01:58:22.000 Okay, so you got it.

01:58:23.000 So you can't...

01:58:24.000 It's a little weak.

01:58:24.000 The argument is...

01:58:25.000 It's a little weak.

01:58:26.000 The argument...

01:58:27.000 Like, the argument is...

01:58:29.000 You can't call someone insecure for inherent preferences.

01:58:34.000 Women want tall men that make money that are successful. 1.00

01:58:37.000 I would be stupid to say women are short idiots that can't make their own money. 1.00

01:58:41.000 They just want that as a preference. 1.00

01:58:42.000 Men want young, beautiful girls that are impressionable. 1.00

01:58:45.000 They're not stupid or insecure for wanting that. 0.98

01:58:47.000 It's preference. 0.99

01:58:48.000 It's biologically hardwired in us. 1.00

01:58:50.000 Why is it okay for you to say my preferences are insecure, but when I say your preferences are insecure, I sound stupid. 0.99

01:59:04.000 I'm just saying, the logic isn't adding up. 0.99

01:59:07.000 I ain't quitting my only fans for no nigga. 1.00

01:59:10.000 I'm not quitting shit for a nigga. 1.00

01:59:12.000 If the man can't... 1.00

01:59:13.000 That's cool.

01:59:14.000 If he don't want to quit me for what I'm doing in my particular life, then I feel as though he's insecure and he should get it with a woman that he can tolerate.

01:59:23.000 Well, that's an incorrect feeling to feel like he's insecure.

01:59:25.000 My feelings are incorrect.

01:59:27.000 When did feelings become incorrect?

01:59:29.000 A feeling is a feeling.

01:59:31.000 Anybody can feel however they want to feel.

01:59:34.000 That's not a But you'll never attract high-value men with that mentality.

01:59:37.000 Yes, you would.

01:59:39.000 No, you won't.

01:59:40.000 You don't prioritize relations.

01:59:45.000 You're not prioritizing your relationship if you think you don't need to.

01:59:49.000 I'm sorry, you're not prioritizing it.

01:59:51.000 Are you in a relationship?

01:59:52.000 No!

01:59:53.000 Are you in a relationship?

01:59:55.000 None of them.

01:59:55.000 Where are your high-value men at?

01:59:57.000 Tell me.

01:59:58.000 And my behaviors will attract the high-value men.

02:00:01.000 But where are they?

02:00:02.000 If you're an attractive person, where are they?

02:00:05.000 Just so you know.

02:00:07.000 Because I made the choice, right?

02:00:09.000 The same way when you don't want to leave your OnlyFans for the man, that's a choice, right?

02:00:14.000 Girl, you was taking care of your man. 0.89

02:00:16.000 Hold on, girl.

02:00:16.000 You said you was paying his bills in the mic right now, so you finna wait.

02:00:19.000 I can't listen to you.

02:00:20.000 So don't listen.

02:00:21.000 Close your ears.

02:00:22.000 I'll take the headphones off.

02:00:23.000 Go ahead.

02:00:25.000 Cool.

02:00:25.000 So it's a choice.

02:00:27.000 You deciding to pick your OnlyFans over your relationship is your choice.

02:00:31.000 The same way right now, I'm single by choice.

02:00:34.000 It's my choice to be single.

02:00:35.000 I'm single by choice as well.

02:00:36.000 Now, I wouldn't take care of a man, but if a man shows me, you know, certain aspects of a real relationship, then perhaps I would be willing to delete my OnlyFans.

02:00:48.000 Perhaps.

02:00:48.000 So we just had a 10 minute argument for no reason?

02:00:51.000 I like to play devil's advocate.

02:00:57.000 And there's two sides to every story.

02:01:00.000 So you're making an argument for something that you don't even really believe in.

02:01:02.000 She said perhaps.

02:01:04.000 Perhaps.

02:01:05.000 It's subjective.

02:01:10.000 A feeling is a feeling.

02:01:13.000 A feeling is not a fact.

02:01:14.000 People's feelings change every second of every day.

02:01:17.000 What is up with the girls and their attachment to OnlyFans? 0.84

02:01:22.000 Because they don't want to feel controlled.

02:01:27.000 Why is it OnlyFans?

02:01:31.000 Because it makes a lot of money.

02:01:34.000 You can make a YouTube channel.

02:01:35.000 You can make a podcast.

02:01:36.000 You can have a OnlyFans.

02:01:39.000 It's not OnlyFans.

02:01:40.000 Trust me, I don't want to agree with Myron, but he's right.

02:01:43.000 It's not about OnlyFans.

02:01:44.000 It's us wanting to do what we want to do.

02:01:47.000 She's saying it's an easy guy.

02:01:48.000 And if you don't want to be a wife, then that's not what you want to do. 0.89

02:01:52.000 Then don't pretend like that's what you want to do.

02:01:54.000 Don't be like, oh, I want a husband and I want this.

02:01:56.000 Then say that.

02:01:57.000 You want to be OnlyFans.

02:01:58.000 You want to be for the streets.

02:01:59.000 You want to do that.

02:01:59.000 You want to get attention from women, from men, rather.

02:02:03.000 Let me ask you a question for you.

02:02:05.000 You said you're a teacher, right?

02:02:07.000 I'm assuming there's like a dress code at your job to a degree?

02:02:10.000 Absolutely.

02:02:11.000 Are there rules and regulations that you have to follow to continue to be employed by the school district?

02:02:15.000 Absolutely.

02:02:16.000 Are there standards of procedures that you have to teach, certain curriculum, etc.?

02:02:20.000 Absolutely.

02:02:21.000 Okay, so there's a bunch of rules that you have to follow, right?

02:02:23.000 Yes.

02:02:24.000 So let me ask you a question. 0.97

02:02:25.000 Why are you more willing to bend at the whim for a school district that doesn't really give a fuck about you, but you won't do it for a man that will take care of you and serve you as a man? 0.96

02:02:33.000 First of all, I... Hold on, stop. 0.98

02:02:34.000 Stop.

02:02:35.000 Because you have an issue with authority when it comes from a man, but you don't have an issue with authority when it comes from your establishment that you work for.

02:02:41.000 That's not true.

02:02:42.000 I haven't even stated that.

02:02:43.000 I have an issue with working for an establishment that tells me that I have to be this, this, and this every single day.

02:02:52.000 Look, let me just make this very clear for you ladies. 0.99

02:02:56.000 When you meet a man that has his shit together that's attractive... 0.98

02:02:58.000 I didn't even finish answering the question. 0.99

02:03:01.000 You asked a very good question, but I didn't get to answer it.

02:03:04.000 Go ahead.

02:03:05.000 You know, being a teacher, they tell you, you have to do this, that, and this.

02:03:09.000 You have to be like a model citizen, like literally.

02:03:12.000 And you have to give up your sexuality and everything. 0.64

02:03:15.000 And I feel as though that's not fair.

02:03:17.000 I don't.

02:03:18.000 And so I do that.

02:03:20.000 You said it's not fair.

02:03:22.000 Did we not just go over and spend about 45 minutes talking about female privilege? 1.00

02:03:26.000 Is that fair?

02:03:28.000 Yeah, right?

02:03:29.000 It's unfair to you because you're a man.

02:03:31.000 But that's life.

02:03:32.000 There's some benefits that we get and you get, right?

02:03:34.000 So wouldn't it be fair to say that since you enjoy a bunch of other benefits, there's going to be other situations where you won't?

02:03:39.000 Life isn't fair, right?

02:03:41.000 Life isn't fair.

02:03:42.000 Okay.

02:03:42.000 So go ahead.

02:03:43.000 Continue.

02:03:44.000 Just want to make that very clear.

02:03:46.000 See, here's the problem.

02:03:47.000 You never complained about pretty privilege because it benefits you.

02:03:49.000 But now that we're talking about adhering to certain codes and regulations, it's not fair all of a sudden.

02:03:54.000 Are we willing to take accountability for like our family dynamics and like our father wounds and mother wounds that may perpetuate like So it's not fair.

02:04:08.000 What else?

02:04:09.000 It's not fair.

02:04:11.000 She got her daddy, I can tell.

02:04:13.000 Right, I do have my daddy.

02:04:14.000 My daddy was a strong figure in my life.

02:04:17.000 But going back, again, I'm asking you, why are you okay with following the norms and the rules and the regulations from the school district, but you won't do it from a man? 1.00

02:04:26.000 Cause they ain't paying us.

02:04:28.000 I mean, that's a good point.

02:04:30.000 No, here's paying you.

02:04:31.000 I'm gonna say I get paid from the school.

02:04:33.000 I get a paycheck every single, you know, every two weeks.

02:04:35.000 That's fine, but it's not secured to the point where you're gonna get a family, you're gonna get the security, you're gonna get the provisioning.

02:04:41.000 Neither is dating men.

02:04:43.000 Yeah.

02:04:43.000 You absolutely can.

02:04:44.000 If you meet a man that has these things in place, he's going to want something in return.

02:04:48.000 He's asking for something simple like you turn off your OnlyFans.

02:04:51.000 So you're willing to follow all these codes and regulations to be restricted from the school.

02:04:54.000 But I've dated men prior to having an OnlyFans and they were not serious.

02:04:58.000 They were not on the things that I was on.

02:05:01.000 See, this is my point.

02:05:03.000 When you meet a man, especially an attractive man, it's like working for a company.

02:05:06.000 Guys that are higher status, higher value, have requirements of their woman. 0.99

02:05:10.000 If you want to work at a prestigious law firm or at a prestigious school, you have to apply with all the other applicants that want to get that job.

02:05:17.000 I don't know why women think that they shouldn't have to change or adhere to a man's programming, but you guys will gladly do that for a job and do everything else required for that job. 0.99

02:05:26.000 You'll submit to a business, but you won't submit to your man.

02:05:28.000 It doesn't make sense to me.

02:05:30.000 What I'm telling you is there is a period in my life where I have dated men.

02:05:37.000 I wanted it to be serious.

02:05:39.000 My main goal was to have a family, to be a stay-at-home mom, to be a teacher at home, basically.

02:05:46.000 And the men were not about that.

02:05:47.000 It's like a dice game.

02:05:49.000 Who picks the man? 0.89

02:05:50.000 What?

02:05:51.000 Who picks the man? 0.89

02:05:52.000 I picked the man, of course.

02:05:54.000 So it would be fair to say that you didn't pick the right man?

02:05:58.000 Well, yeah, but...

02:06:00.000 Can we go back to the question that you asked before when we stopped right here?

02:06:04.000 Because we didn't all get to answer it.

02:06:05.000 Do you remember?

02:06:07.000 I don't remember.

02:06:11.000 Yes, the question was before, given all the opportunities that women have nowadays, we're pretty privileged, which we went over in excruciating detail, money, the ability to get certain opportunities, all this other crap, because you're a female, should men... 1.00

02:06:25.000 Protect their women from all those opportunities to limit risk in their relationship. 0.98

02:06:30.000 I said it.

02:06:32.000 Okay, next person.

02:06:33.000 You said you're not going to change.

02:06:33.000 I remember you saying that.

02:06:34.000 I said no, because if you met her in that light, you fell in love with her in that light.

02:06:38.000 Next person.

02:06:39.000 Alright, so she should just continue to do what she was doing. 0.82

02:06:40.000 Who said next person?

02:06:42.000 Me.

02:06:42.000 Why are you being disrespectful?

02:06:44.000 Why are y'all being disrespectful?

02:06:45.000 I'm not being disrespectful.

02:06:46.000 You already answered.

02:06:47.000 And I actually want to get around.

02:06:48.000 It's 1 a.m.

02:06:49.000 It's 1 a.m.

02:06:50.000 It's 1 a.m.

02:06:51.000 It's 1 a.m.

02:07:11.000 It's business.

02:07:13.000 Before we continue on with this question, was there anything else anyone wanted to say about submission to a business versus a man or anything else like that?

02:07:19.000 I do.

02:07:20.000 I'll get to you then.

02:07:21.000 What business?

02:07:23.000 A job.

02:07:24.000 What job?

02:07:25.000 Being a teacher.

02:07:26.000 Hey.

02:07:27.000 Y'all don't want to talk.

02:07:29.000 Ladies, please show respect on the panel.

02:07:33.000 I do not want another night this week for another cat fight.

02:07:36.000 Please don't.

02:07:37.000 Oh, no.

02:07:37.000 These guys ain't worth my fight.

02:07:39.000 Ladies, you with me. 1.00

02:07:40.000 Chill the fuck out. 0.98

02:07:41.000 Show some respect. 1.00

02:07:42.000 If you don't, You know the deal.

02:07:45.000 You know the deal.

02:07:47.000 Okay, cool.

02:07:49.000 So given all the opportunities that women have in today's day and age, we're pretty privileged, etc. 0.96

02:07:52.000 Should men put boundaries on their girls to protect them from all these opportunities that could hurt their relationship? 0.97

02:07:56.000 I think that if the man is the leader in the relationship, they're financially supporting the woman, then I think out of respect, I would do those things.

02:08:08.000 And I guess it's kind of dependent on how you guys view your relationship.

02:08:12.000 I mean, maybe some men are okay with their girl going out all the time, but I feel like for me, even if my man was okay with it, I wouldn't even want to be in that environment if I had someone I was at home with all the time.

02:08:25.000 Would you agree with 90% of men don't like their girl going out to the club.

02:08:29.000 It's just that they don't want to say it because they're scared of some type of fight breaking out?

02:08:33.000 Yeah, 100%.

02:08:34.000 Okay.

02:08:35.000 Fair enough.

02:08:35.000 That's fair.

02:08:36.000 What about you?

02:08:38.000 Just repeat the question so I can get a specimen.

02:08:40.000 Yeah, I got you. 1.00

02:08:41.000 Stupid! 1.00

02:08:42.000 It is a hard question, bro. 1.00

02:08:46.000 Given all the opportunities that women have thanks to pretty privilege, should men put constraints on their relationship to protect it?

02:08:52.000 I feel like if he's providing, if not better, similar opportunities, if he's providing as he should, then yes, I don't mind.

02:09:04.000 Can you give us some specifics as to providing what degree?

02:09:08.000 Are we talking about paying the rent?

02:09:09.000 Are we talking about 50-50?

02:09:11.000 Give us the level.

02:09:12.000 I'm talking like, even if we're 50-50, or if we're 100, I feel like you're already putting some kind of investment into our relationship, so that should give you some kind of leeway.

02:09:25.000 If it's 50-50, I kind of want 50-50 Control per se, but if now you're paying 100% of my rent, if you're feeding me, if you're housing me, if we have children, you're taking care of our children, then sure, yeah, I'll give you that.

02:09:39.000 I'll stay in the house.

02:09:40.000 Would it be fair to say that, based on your answer, that your submission is contingent upon the man's level of investment in you?

02:09:47.000 Investment in the relationship is a difference.

02:09:49.000 I mean, but he's inherently investing in you.

02:09:52.000 And I wouldn't allow...

02:09:52.000 He's taking care of you, he's supporting you, you don't have to work, he's basically covering all the bills.

02:09:56.000 Yeah, cool.

02:09:57.000 But it was 50-50, you're going to still go outside 50% of the time.

02:10:01.000 Honestly, I want to go to what she said, though.

02:10:04.000 If I'm comfortable with this person and I'm in a good position with this person, no, I wouldn't want to go outside.

02:10:10.000 I'd stay in the house.

02:10:11.000 I don't mind.

02:10:12.000 But what is that number for you is my point.

02:10:14.000 Would the guy need to pay all the bills for you to get that out of you?

02:10:16.000 Just bills.

02:10:17.000 No, even emotionally.

02:10:19.000 That means emotionally, too.

02:10:21.000 If it's somebody I can open up with.

02:10:23.000 What about your goals?

02:10:24.000 So it can be 50-50.

02:10:25.000 Of course I have goals, girl.

02:10:25.000 That don't got to do with what my man does.

02:10:27.000 But you don't have any income anymore.

02:10:29.000 That's not true.

02:10:30.000 Nobody said you're quitting your job.

02:10:31.000 Nobody said you're quitting your job. 0.99

02:10:32.000 Just because you don't need a pussy on OnlyFans does not mean you can't have a regular job. 1.00

02:10:37.000 Of course you're not paying attention. 1.00

02:10:40.000 Alright, so as long as he's paying at least 50%, he'll get the submission out of you, basically.

02:10:47.000 I split 50-50 with a long relationship and I didn't go out without him.

02:10:51.000 Okay.

02:10:51.000 What about you?

02:10:52.000 What about you?

02:10:53.000 Ask the question, please.

02:10:55.000 Given the amounts of pretty privilege that women have now, do men need to put constraints on a relationship to protect their girl from society and all the advantages they have?

02:11:02.000 It depends on how serious we are.

02:11:04.000 If we're like...

02:11:05.000 Are we like...

02:11:06.000 Let's say...

02:11:07.000 Well, here's the thing.

02:11:08.000 Let's say you want to get serious with a guy.

02:11:10.000 Then I'm going to listen to what he said.

02:11:12.000 Are you going to preemptively stop doing certain things?

02:11:15.000 Or does he have to tell you?

02:11:18.000 He gotta tell me because I won't know.

02:11:19.000 I'm so used to what I'm doing.

02:11:22.000 Alright, let me ask you a question since he has to tell you.

02:11:24.000 Let's say you're out with your man. 1.00

02:11:26.000 Someone slaps your ass in public. 1.00

02:11:27.000 And he takes your purse and runs away. 1.00

02:11:30.000 And you tell your man, hey, go after him. 0.94

02:11:33.000 What the hell? 1.00

02:11:34.000 Or, that's option one, or B, he slaps your ass and just knocks him out off reflex. 1.00

02:11:39.000 Which one's more attractive? 1.00

02:11:45.000 That's a good one.

02:11:45.000 I don't want him to go to jail.

02:11:47.000 Stop, stop.

02:11:48.000 Which one is more attractive?

02:11:49.000 Him just acting and punching him in the face for disrespecting you, or the fact that you had to yell at him to go chase after the guy? 0.98

02:11:55.000 I guess punch him in the face. 0.78

02:11:57.000 Okay, because he just acted, right? 0.98

02:11:58.000 Yeah, but I wouldn't want them to do that either.

02:12:00.000 Okay, okay.

02:12:02.000 It's more attractive when you just got it, correct?

02:12:04.000 Yeah.

02:12:05.000 So it wouldn't be fair to say that men just want a girl that gets it and doesn't put herself in a bad spot?

02:12:09.000 We're not going to just get it like that.

02:12:10.000 We're already used to that.

02:12:12.000 So men need to just act regardless and then women need to kind of just get told and figure it out.

02:12:17.000 We act regardless.

02:12:19.000 For example, it didn't prove that.

02:12:22.000 Do you see the disconnect here?

02:12:23.000 I won't say we act regardless.

02:12:25.000 I don't feel like we act regardless.

02:12:26.000 Like you said, OnlyFans.

02:12:28.000 You're used to having OnlyFans.

02:12:29.000 Okay, I want you to understand my point.

02:12:31.000 Do you see how it was more attractive when you just knocked the guy out for doing that to you?

02:12:35.000 But in your example, you're saying you want him to tell you to not put yourself in situations when in reality it would just be more attractive if you did it on your own.

02:12:43.000 Flip it around.

02:12:44.000 Flip it around.

02:12:44.000 Why is it that he has to understand you and act on reflex but you don't have to understand him?

02:12:48.000 He found me doing that already.

02:12:49.000 Huh?

02:12:50.000 When he got with me, I was already doing it already.

02:12:52.000 Okay, well, on the other side, when you got with him, he might have not been protecting you at the time.

02:12:57.000 Y'all were just dating, right?

02:12:58.000 Right.

02:12:58.000 But he figured it out down the road.

02:13:01.000 Right.

02:13:02.000 So why is it that the man has to figure it out, but the woman doesn't have to? 0.96

02:13:06.000 There you go.

02:13:07.000 Do you see where I'm going here?

02:13:13.000 Men have to be men all the time. 0.74

02:13:14.000 Women can pick and choose when they want to be ladies. 1.00

02:13:16.000 It's not a fair deal for the man.

02:13:18.000 Oh.

02:13:21.000 No comment.

02:13:22.000 Next.

02:13:23.000 I think it's all about communication.

02:13:24.000 Hey, if you meet her and she's a ho, What? 1.00

02:13:28.000 I mean, you can't turn one into a housewife. 1.00

02:13:31.000 Unless you're going to have some kind of commentary that's going to actually add to the conversation.

02:13:35.000 It did.

02:13:36.000 Please be quiet.

02:13:37.000 It didn't add to it.

02:13:38.000 It did.

02:13:39.000 You can't turn somebody into a housewife. 0.83

02:13:41.000 If you met her like how she is, how are you going to change it?

02:13:44.000 Cool.

02:13:44.000 Alright, alright.

02:13:45.000 Bars. 0.86

02:13:49.000 We're talking about profession. 0.57

02:13:53.000 She's a ho. 1.00

02:13:54.000 You can't turn her into a housewife. 1.00

02:13:55.000 She's literally said you can't teach her.

02:13:56.000 I mean, is she making money off of being what she is? 0.99

02:13:59.000 Let's move on.

02:14:01.000 Anyway, the question was like, should they put boundaries, right?

02:14:07.000 All the advantages that women enjoy were pretty privileged. 1.00

02:14:09.000 I think...

02:14:10.000 In society today.

02:14:11.000 That it's understandable if they do, but I don't think that they should just put boundaries like, hey, you need to stop doing this, you know, whatever.

02:14:18.000 Like, especially if I was already doing OnlyFans.

02:14:19.000 He comes into my life, he tells me to stop doing OnlyFans.

02:14:22.000 Thank you.

02:14:22.000 I think it's all about communication.

02:14:24.000 Like, if you have a better idea of a way for me to make this much money and have financial freedom, okay, we can work on that.

02:14:30.000 Oh, so you're big into this communication thing too.

02:14:32.000 Thank you.

02:14:33.000 Yeah.

02:14:34.000 So why is that he's got to communicate to you to be a lady, but you don't have to communicate to him to be a man. 0.97

02:14:39.000 Why is there being a lady? 1.00

02:14:40.000 What do you mean?

02:14:41.000 Can you please stop interrupting randomly when we're like, please?

02:14:47.000 What I was saying was men don't have to be told that they need to be men.

02:14:51.000 If someone breaks into the house, he's just going to rise up and he's got to do what he's supposed to do.

02:14:55.000 If you guys are out somewhere, there's an unwritten rule that he has an obligation to protect you.

02:15:01.000 Why is it that women can pick and choose when they want to be ladies and the man has to communicate? 1.00

02:15:06.000 You don't think women have that same... 1.00

02:15:09.000 That same guideline?

02:15:10.000 Like, I lived with my boyfriend.

02:15:13.000 Nobody told me, hey, you got to do the dishes.

02:15:14.000 Hey, you got to clean the house.

02:15:15.000 Hey, you got to do that.

02:15:16.000 It just happened naturally.

02:15:17.000 Okay, so in some things, you didn't need communication.

02:15:19.000 But why do you need communication with things that are kind of fairly common sense?

02:15:22.000 Men don't like their girl to be all over the place. 1.00

02:15:24.000 Well, I mean, I'm speaking in the sense that you found me already with an OnlyFans.

02:15:28.000 We started talking, and I already had it.

02:15:30.000 So in that case, if you don't want me to continue doing that, we need to communicate about it.

02:15:34.000 Give me some better ideas, and we can get there.

02:15:36.000 But if I... Let me give you an example.

02:15:38.000 Have you ever dated a guy that didn't have that much money?

02:15:41.000 Yes.

02:15:41.000 Why'd you give him a chance?

02:15:43.000 Because of his personality.

02:15:44.000 Okay.

02:15:45.000 Did you see a future with him and potential?

02:15:46.000 Yes.

02:15:47.000 Oh, so you were hoping he was going to change.

02:15:50.000 What do you mean?

02:15:51.000 She didn't see what I did there.

02:15:52.000 Yeah.

02:15:53.000 I didn't.

02:15:54.000 So you got with a guy that might have not checked all your boxes on the possibility that he's going to improve.

02:16:01.000 So you got him for potential, right?

02:16:03.000 Sure.

02:16:04.000 What's different than a man getting with a girl that is involved in something that might not be as attractive and hoping that she has potential to take it off?

02:16:11.000 There's nothing different about it.

02:16:12.000 That's okay to hope that I will change and hope that I will delete the OnlyFans.

02:16:15.000 I'm just saying you got to communicate about it.

02:16:17.000 We got to talk about it and help me figure out a way to not do it.

02:16:22.000 But my point is that you got with a guy off of potential.

02:16:24.000 Men can get with girls off of potential too.

02:16:26.000 But what I'm saying is that by the time he has to voice it out to you, it's kind of an L. Oh, well, there's plenty. 0.90

02:16:31.000 I mean, I can see that, but there's plenty of things we have to voice out to men. 0.98

02:16:34.000 Like, let's say you got with a guy because of potential, but you have to tell his dumbass every single day, go to work, bro. 0.97

02:16:39.000 What are you doing? 0.99

02:16:39.000 Go to work. 0.99

02:16:40.000 I see potential in you.

02:16:41.000 Would you like to do that?

02:16:42.000 No.

02:16:44.000 A guy doesn't have to tell his girl, man, man, you might want to get off OnlyFans.

02:16:46.000 The same communication that you're talking about isn't attractive when you got to do it, is it?

02:16:50.000 Yeah, but I feel like it can go both ways. 0.97

02:16:54.000 Like, there's plenty of guys do shit all the time that you just get sick of. 0.95

02:16:58.000 Like what? 0.99

02:17:01.000 Like, not taking care of, not cleaning up after themselves. 1.00

02:17:04.000 I mean, simple shit. 1.00

02:17:05.000 He's paying the bills in his own house. 1.00

02:17:07.000 Whose predominant duty is to keep the house clean? 0.84

02:17:09.000 What if it's 50-50? 0.85

02:17:11.000 That's so sexist.

02:17:12.000 What if it's 50-50? 0.85

02:17:13.000 It was the case.

02:17:15.000 Are you aware of the fact that reality is sexist?

02:17:19.000 So then why would you make an argument that it's sexist when you benefit from sexism? 0.97

02:17:24.000 So, because I benefit from sexism, I can't feel as though the man should get his ass up occasionally and clean the house, which he pays for. 0.99

02:17:32.000 Or else, if I wasn't in the picture and he was paying for his own home, he would just live in filth? 0.99

02:17:38.000 Hold on one second.

02:17:40.000 Notice how you didn't say anything about sexism.

02:17:42.000 We talked about female privilege, pretty privilege, opportunities given to women because of their gender.

02:17:46.000 But as soon as we talk about something small like cleaning, you have all this to say now. 1.00

02:17:49.000 Gotcha, bitch! 1.00

02:17:51.000 See how your logic is flawed? 1.00

02:17:53.000 I would argue sexism inherently benefits women. 1.00

02:17:58.000 Prove me wrong.

02:17:59.000 Can anyone prove me that sexism doesn't benefit women? 1.00

02:18:05.000 Sexism 1,000% only benefits women. 0.93

02:18:07.000 WNBA, military standards, a woman wants to go ahead and get a job. 1.00

02:18:11.000 How does sexism not benefit women? 0.99

02:18:13.000 I mean men, because if by the rules of sexism, I don't have to cook as a man. 0.77

02:18:19.000 I don't have to clean.

02:18:20.000 I don't have to take care of children.

02:18:23.000 Hold on, hold on.

02:18:24.000 I'll tell you how.

02:18:25.000 We have a WNBA and an NBA. Why don't we just have one basketball league? 1.00

02:18:28.000 That's not us.

02:18:29.000 Stop, stop.

02:18:31.000 Why do we just have one basketball league?

02:18:33.000 Or why do we just not have one military standard?

02:18:35.000 Or if someone wants to be a police officer, one standard.

02:18:37.000 Why do we have different standards for genders? 0.98

02:18:41.000 It's to give women a chance, the same opportunities as men.

02:18:43.000 Even though you're lowering the quality of the workforce by lowering standards, we still do that to let women in. 1.00

02:18:49.000 I would argue women benefit from sexism all the way. 1.00

02:18:51.000 Men don't. 0.98

02:18:52.000 You don't think so?

02:18:53.000 Girl, get out of the flow. 1.00

02:18:57.000 Sexism exists to give women opportunities that they wouldn't have had before. 1.00

02:19:01.000 That's a fact.

02:19:03.000 It only benefits women. 1.00

02:19:05.000 Can you show me another example where it doesn't?

02:19:06.000 Say something.

02:19:08.000 Can you stop interjecting randomly?

02:19:10.000 This is like the third time now I've told you this.

02:19:12.000 Courtney, relax. 1.00

02:19:13.000 This bitch is tricking. 1.00

02:19:14.000 Whoa. 1.00

02:19:15.000 Whoa, don't say bitch. 1.00

02:19:17.000 I don't care. 1.00

02:19:18.000 Shit, if I call, you know. 1.00

02:19:19.000 I mean, you've been disrupting the show multiple times, and we've warned you several times. 0.99

02:19:23.000 So anyway, can you name a time where sexism benefits men?

02:19:26.000 I just said it.

02:19:27.000 When? 1.00

02:19:27.000 When y'all don't have to do shit that y'all don't want to have to do because y'all say a woman is supposed to do it. 1.00

02:19:33.000 That's her job, though. 0.99

02:19:34.000 Yeah.

02:19:35.000 That's a step.

02:19:36.000 Gender roles. 1.00

02:19:37.000 Traditional gender roles. 0.98

02:19:40.000 Anyway, we'll continue on.

02:19:43.000 But sexism inherently benefits women. 1.00

02:19:45.000 But go ahead, what were you going to say?

02:19:46.000 I think I finished.

02:19:47.000 I don't remember where I left off.

02:19:49.000 We were talking about communication.

02:19:51.000 How you're saying, oh, he just needs to communicate with me to turn off my OnlyFans.

02:19:55.000 Then I made the argument why she has to communicate with you.

02:19:57.000 Right?

02:19:58.000 Well, if your job...

02:19:59.000 Well, you're talking about nagging.

02:20:00.000 Like, why should he have to nag me, right?

02:20:02.000 It's communication, though.

02:20:03.000 Yeah, but communication.

02:20:04.000 Like, if we can communicate about it within the first conversation or maybe two conversations, okay.

02:20:10.000 Nagging, that's different. 0.90

02:20:12.000 I don't feel like a guy should have to nag me to delete my OnlyFans.

02:20:15.000 If I didn't delete it by then, take the hint, don't be with me, whatever.

02:20:18.000 But nagging, I don't think that's right. 0.99

02:20:21.000 Communication, though, I feel like it should be a simple conversation.

02:20:23.000 Let's go over the options and go from there.

02:20:26.000 And you can make it work.

02:20:27.000 She wants to alternate to her OnlyFans for a solution. 1.00

02:20:31.000 Because the only reason I do it is for financial freedom.

02:20:33.000 I mean, I was one of the ones to raise my hand.

02:20:35.000 I would want to be a stay-at-home mom.

02:20:36.000 I would want to not work a job and have a guy take care of me. 0.96

02:20:39.000 I would like that.

02:20:40.000 But the only reason I have that right now is because of OnlyFans.

02:20:44.000 But you're getting it.

02:20:44.000 That's the argument.

02:20:45.000 You're getting it, but you still want to keep the OnlyFans open.

02:20:48.000 No.

02:20:49.000 Oh, okay.

02:20:50.000 Well, then I kind of missed the argument because, no, if I had a guy that was going to provide everything for me and not hold it over my head, at least, I feel like that's where all of us kind of start butting heads about it is she's worried about control.

02:21:02.000 It seems like, like, I get that.

02:21:04.000 I would worry about control, too.

02:21:06.000 Like, I don't want a guy to have to hold things over my head when it comes to money, and I don't have to worry about that doing OnlyFans, but I would be willing to stop all of it for a loving family and to be taken care of.

02:21:17.000 Okay.

02:21:21.000 With all the privilege that women have nowadays with pretty privilege, should men put constraints on females opportunities when in a relationship to mitigate risk?

02:21:29.000 Absolutely.

02:21:30.000 And I think that the woman should have a deep desire to do that. 0.98

02:21:35.000 And for me personally, in my recent...

02:21:37.000 Being told or not being told?

02:21:38.000 If you'd let me finish.

02:21:40.000 In my...

02:21:40.000 If you let us finish too.

02:21:41.000 Hold on.

02:21:42.000 Hold on.

02:21:43.000 Let me make this very clear, ladies.

02:21:46.000 You're on our podcast.

02:21:47.000 I was literally going to answer that question, though.

02:21:49.000 That's the reason why I said that.

02:21:50.000 I was getting to it.

02:21:51.000 This is our podcast.

02:21:54.000 We dictate the terms.

02:21:55.000 If I ask you a clarification question, answer the question. 0.98

02:21:58.000 I don't want no fucking backtalk. 0.96

02:21:59.000 I'm not your boyfriend. 0.99

02:22:00.000 I'm not some simp, whatever it may be. 1.00

02:22:02.000 You're on our shit. 1.00

02:22:03.000 Don't forget that. 1.00

02:22:04.000 I don't need the attitude.

02:22:06.000 If I ask you a clarification question, answer the question.

02:22:09.000 Just keep it pushing.

02:22:10.000 Right?

02:22:10.000 This isn't your show.

02:22:11.000 I see you trying to come here and assert dominance. 1.00

02:22:14.000 This isn't your shit. 1.00

02:22:15.000 You've done it multiple times. 1.00

02:22:16.000 Let's move on.

02:22:17.000 Blah, blah, blah.

02:22:18.000 Yeah.

02:22:18.000 We're talking with one person the whole time and only one of us talking.

02:22:21.000 I don't give a fuck what you think. 0.99

02:22:22.000 It's our show. 0.99

02:22:23.000 If we want to continue to hear the blabbering, we're going to do it.

02:22:26.000 Okay?

02:22:27.000 Let me make that very fucking clear. 1.00

02:22:28.000 It's our shit, not yours. 1.00

02:22:30.000 Okay? 1.00

02:22:31.000 Okay.

02:22:31.000 And if you don't like it, you can get up and leave.

02:22:34.000 Right now.

02:22:35.000 Yeah.

02:22:35.000 Cool.

02:22:36.000 Got a choice.

02:22:37.000 You're mad aggressive.

02:22:38.000 No, no, no, because I have to be aggressive because you've been aggressive, so I got to match your energy, catch your mind.

02:22:42.000 How was I aggressive?

02:22:43.000 You quite literally, oh, well, I'm getting there, blah, blah, blah.

02:22:45.000 I was.

02:22:46.000 I was literally in the middle of a word.

02:22:48.000 Wait, look.

02:22:48.000 And you interrupted me.

02:22:50.000 You want to find a husband? 1.00

02:22:50.000 Yeah. 1.00

02:22:50.000 You want to find a husband? 1.00

02:22:51.000 I guarantee you, 99.9% men in the chat Do not want a girl who's mad, talkative, who cuts niggas off, alright? 1.00

02:23:02.000 The list of authorities saying, I had to warn you, you would share with me, but you're going mad aggressive right now.

02:23:07.000 I see it in your face, I see it in your tongue. 0.99

02:23:10.000 I'm really tired as fuck. 1.00

02:23:11.000 You told me to shut up. 1.00

02:23:13.000 You complain about the time and everything else. 0.97

02:23:15.000 I'm not complaining.

02:23:17.000 You mentioned earlier, it's 1am.

02:23:19.000 Let's move on.

02:23:21.000 You've done that several times now.

02:23:22.000 Why me, though?

02:23:23.000 So if you have an issue with it and you're tired and you want to go home, you're more than welcome to go home.

02:23:27.000 Absolutely.

02:23:27.000 I appreciate that.

02:23:28.000 But one thing you're not going to do is dictate how we run our show.

02:23:31.000 I want to make that extremely very obvious here.

02:23:33.000 Okay.

02:23:34.000 You've done this multiple times.

02:23:35.000 Okay.

02:23:36.000 Would you like to finish the question so I can answer it?

02:23:38.000 You're answering it.

02:23:39.000 Okay.

02:23:42.000 No.

02:23:42.000 I think the woman should not have to be told.

02:23:45.000 And what I was getting to was, in my recent situationships, I have done things like share my location and without them asking and that's just who I've grown into as a woman.

02:24:01.000 That's not who I was five years ago, but who I am now as a matured woman.

02:24:05.000 I have a deep desire to submit deeply and Stop the cap!

02:24:11.000 Can I be honest?

02:24:12.000 Your mannerisms don't dictate that at all.

02:24:15.000 My mannerisms?

02:24:17.000 Yes.

02:24:18.000 From being around me for two hours?

02:24:19.000 Yes.

02:24:20.000 Yes.

02:24:21.000 For suppression.

02:24:23.000 Okay.

02:24:23.000 So women have certain traits that just...

02:24:26.000 Yeah, pretty much.

02:24:27.000 Yeah, it's very...

02:24:27.000 You seem very masculine.

02:24:28.000 Yeah. 1.00

02:24:29.000 Guys want to fuck you, but not deal with you. 1.00

02:24:31.000 They want a motherfucker. 1.00

02:24:35.000 I mean, listen, Chris, chill, man. 1.00

02:24:39.000 Look, the point is that you give off a lot of masculine energy.

02:24:43.000 Okay.

02:24:43.000 I get it that you want to be submissive and it seems to me like you had a turning point in your life and you realized the things that you were doing before.

02:24:49.000 Absolutely.

02:24:49.000 Okay.

02:24:49.000 Absolutely.

02:24:50.000 I used to be independent and make 10K a month.

02:24:52.000 Okay, cool.

02:24:53.000 But I don't want to do that anymore.

02:24:54.000 But that's my point.

02:24:55.000 So you used to be, right, have this mindset.

02:24:58.000 I mean, it's going to take a while, if possible, for you to even change.

02:25:01.000 Like, if you were very masculine before.

02:25:03.000 No, I was in survival mode.

02:25:03.000 Okay, but if you were very masculine before, it's going to be very difficult for you to go and be submissive now when you've been very hardened from your experiences.

02:25:11.000 I don't think so.

02:25:12.000 She's transitioning.

02:25:13.000 I've had relationships.

02:25:14.000 She's transitioning, right? 0.98

02:25:15.000 Absolutely.

02:25:16.000 And I've had a relationship recently that I've gotten to explore that and submit and...

02:25:25.000 Yeah, it's been really beautiful and healing.

02:25:27.000 That's cool.

02:25:27.000 And I've realized that, like, we are super programmed.

02:25:29.000 Where's that guy now?

02:25:30.000 We are super programmed at home.

02:25:33.000 Who's home?

02:25:34.000 His home.

02:25:36.000 Thank God.

02:25:36.000 We don't live together.

02:25:37.000 Are you still dating him?

02:25:39.000 Not married.

02:25:40.000 No, we're not married.

02:25:41.000 Single.

02:25:42.000 So you're not single then?

02:25:44.000 I'm single.

02:25:45.000 She quite literally said earlier that she was single and looking for a husband. 0.99

02:25:48.000 Absolutely.

02:25:49.000 And now she's saying...

02:25:49.000 Now you're saying you have a man.

02:25:51.000 No.

02:25:51.000 I said I'm seeing somebody.

02:25:53.000 I'm not seeing them, but I like them.

02:25:56.000 I like them. 0.99

02:25:56.000 I fucked them a couple times, you know? 0.99

02:25:59.000 She changed her answer. 0.99

02:26:00.000 I'm confused.

02:26:01.000 I'm in an exchange.

02:26:02.000 You don't talk to somebody that you're in a relationship with, but you're not in a relationship?

02:26:07.000 We're not in a relationship.

02:26:08.000 We're seeing where things are going.

02:26:10.000 You confuse me.

02:26:11.000 I would want to be in a relationship.

02:26:13.000 Yeah, but you said you were single and you're praying for a husband.

02:26:16.000 Absolutely.

02:26:18.000 I stand on that.

02:26:21.000 I like somebody that is in my life.

02:26:25.000 That doesn't like you?

02:26:27.000 Yeah, they do.

02:26:29.000 But it's not official.

02:26:30.000 It's new.

02:26:31.000 You know?

02:26:32.000 It's been like...

02:26:32.000 Something's off here because if a girl's talking to a guy that she likes a lot and that he likes her back and it's like...

02:26:37.000 Well, he lives in a different state.

02:26:38.000 And, you know, you're not really available.

02:26:40.000 You would be like, yo, you wouldn't say you were single.

02:26:42.000 You would make sure to let everybody know. 0.99

02:26:43.000 Nah, I'm fucking taken. 0.96

02:26:44.000 Even if you're not necessarily... 0.97

02:26:45.000 Well, I'm not taken, unfortunately, because they haven't done...

02:26:48.000 They haven't said you're mine.

02:26:50.000 Why would I say that?

02:26:51.000 Have you thought about potential reasons why he doesn't want to commit to you?

02:26:54.000 Well, we live across the country, so it's difficult.

02:26:56.000 Do you think that's the only reason?

02:26:58.000 Go in and relax.

02:26:59.000 I mean, that's a big reason.

02:27:02.000 It's difficult right now.

02:27:05.000 Because it's a part of my life and it's a relationship that I've gotten to explore and see.

02:27:09.000 You think your husband wants to hear that right now?

02:27:11.000 No.

02:27:12.000 My husband?

02:27:13.000 He wants to hear what?

02:27:19.000 I'll just be honest with you.

02:27:20.000 You're fairly masculine, and I can see that you're trying to change, but those masculine tendencies come out a lot, and I've noticed it from the conversation.

02:27:28.000 We can see it clearly.

02:27:29.000 And here's the thing.

02:27:29.000 I'm a very masculine guy, and I've had to turn up my masculinity and deal with you.

02:27:33.000 So that already tells me what it is.

02:27:35.000 I have to get you in your place multiple times, which, to be honest with you, you guys don't want to do.

02:27:39.000 This is why men typically prefer younger girls that haven't had experiences because they're going to just be more naturally feminine because it's just natural.

02:27:47.000 They haven't dealt with hard things and have baggage and have to suppress that part of their brain because they haven't dealt with it.

02:27:52.000 When a girl does deal with it, she has to kind of figure out when to turn it on and off and it might just come out at times when it might not be opportune.

02:27:59.000 Well, that's modern society.

02:28:01.000 Where are the feminine women? 1.00

02:28:03.000 Are we all feminine?

02:28:04.000 Do you have a bunch of feminine women in your life? 1.00

02:28:06.000 No.

02:28:07.000 Every girl that comes on this podcast, you say it's masculine. 0.99

02:28:09.000 I have a feminine woman in my life. 1.00

02:28:11.000 That's not what I've gotten from.

02:28:14.000 Well, I mean, the point is that you're a fairly masculine woman, which I get it. 0.99

02:28:20.000 That's your opinion.

02:28:21.000 You don't know anything about me or my qualities or who I am or my heart.

02:28:24.000 The fact that you're disagreeing with me right now and have something to say for everything that I say is a masculine trait.

02:28:29.000 No, it's not.

02:28:30.000 You do realize that being disagreeable is a masculine trait.

02:28:33.000 That's what you do for a living.

02:28:34.000 You literally argue with people.

02:28:35.000 It's not arguing.

02:28:36.000 You're being combative, basically.

02:28:39.000 The more you talk, the more you put my point.

02:28:43.000 I'm not going to talk anymore, then. 1.00

02:28:50.000 What the fuck is going on? 0.99

02:28:52.000 She's really insulted by us saying that she has masculine tendencies. 1.00

02:28:54.000 I'm not insulted at all.

02:28:55.000 That's your opinion.

02:28:56.000 I know who I am and I know my heart.

02:28:58.000 You want to take a poll with the chat?

02:28:59.000 I would say it's fairly objective at this point that you have masculine tendencies.

02:29:02.000 The internet and having a two-hour conversation that's argumentative and back and forth when people are drinking in a hostile environment that you literally create a podcast to go back and forth and argue.

02:29:13.000 Yeah, absolutely.

02:29:15.000 I haven't been argumentative.

02:29:17.000 You've been argumentative.

02:29:18.000 You haven't been argumentative, Myron?

02:29:19.000 Here's the thing.

02:29:20.000 I've debunked your points because you've made a lot of incorrect points.

02:29:23.000 Okay, I'm not talking anymore.

02:29:24.000 I'm wrong, you're right.

02:29:26.000 I'm masculine.

02:29:27.000 Can I ask a question related to something that you guys just spoke about?

02:29:31.000 I just wanted to know, okay, cool.

02:29:33.000 Because I said I'm single, right?

02:29:35.000 But I have somebody that I'm interested in.

02:29:38.000 But I'm single.

02:29:39.000 Why can't that be a thing?

02:29:41.000 I'm just trying to understand.

02:29:42.000 I'm not...

02:29:43.000 The way a woman speaks about her man when he's not in the room tells you everything about that man. 0.91

02:29:47.000 When a girl's with a dude that she loves, admires and respects and she really likes, she'll basically say, I'm not available or I'm talking to someone.

02:29:54.000 But when a girl says that she's single, what she's doing is she's keeping the door open for a higher quality male to insert himself. 1.00

02:30:00.000 But could it also be somewhere where like, okay, you guys have sat down and established like, hey, like we're not together, but you know, we're going to work it out and see if somewhere along the line.

02:30:12.000 There's no working out.

02:30:12.000 Well, here's the thing.

02:30:13.000 I already addressed that at the beginning of the show when I asked her about her status.

02:30:16.000 I said, there's one of two things when a girl says it's complicated or whatever. 0.78

02:30:19.000 It's either A, the girl doesn't like the guy as much and she's still vetting options, or B, the dude doesn't like her that much and he doesn't want to commit, so she doesn't know where to stand.

02:30:26.000 So that's why she's saying I'm sort of single.

02:30:28.000 It's one of those two, typically.

02:30:29.000 I don't know what your situation is because I didn't clarify.

02:30:32.000 I plead all the fifths.

02:30:34.000 I'm single and not available.

02:30:38.000 Which makes sense because your profession would not be...

02:30:42.000 Exactly.

02:30:43.000 It's going to hurt your profession to say you have a man.

02:30:45.000 Which is why guys typically don't like to commit to sex workers because their business is contingent upon them appearing single, unfortunately.

02:30:53.000 Whether it's Instagram modeling, strippers, OnlyFans, etc.

02:30:56.000 Your business is contingent upon selling purity and being single.

02:31:00.000 I started my OnlyFans with my man.

02:31:03.000 We did it together.

02:31:06.000 Who came up with the idea?

02:31:07.000 You or him?

02:31:08.000 I brought it up and he agreed to do it and we talked about how much money it could make us.

02:31:14.000 But he had to be involved?

02:31:15.000 He was involved.

02:31:16.000 Yeah, he had to be involved when I was with him.

02:31:18.000 Well, that's an exception to the rule because he's actively involved in the content creation versus you had it just by yourself and it's only you running it.

02:31:24.000 That's much different.

02:31:28.000 Alright.

02:31:30.000 I mean, yeah, it's not the same at all.

02:31:33.000 Do you have anything else that you want to add before we move on?

02:31:36.000 I do not.

02:31:38.000 Alright, what about you?

02:31:41.000 Should men put boundaries on girls given all the pretty privilege that they have?

02:31:46.000 If he loves her, then he definitely should.

02:31:51.000 Okay.

02:31:51.000 So what if he tells her, hey, you should drop your OnlyFans if we're going to be serious here?

02:31:55.000 Then he should do that.

02:31:57.000 I definitely agree.

02:31:58.000 I mean, I feel like...

02:31:59.000 Should the girl drop it then? 0.99

02:32:02.000 Yeah, she should.

02:32:03.000 I honestly feel like she should.

02:32:04.000 But you don't follow your advice?

02:32:05.000 No, I would follow my advice if a man who was worthy of me following that advice came along.

02:32:11.000 Perhaps.

02:32:12.000 Perhaps.

02:32:12.000 She said perhaps.

02:32:14.000 We'll give her that.

02:32:15.000 We got some chats here.

02:32:17.000 Oh, God. 0.99

02:32:19.000 Fresh's balls. 1.00

02:32:21.000 Bro, who is this nigga, man? 1.00

02:32:24.000 What? 1.00

02:32:25.000 You got your balls. 1.00

02:32:26.000 You got your toothbrush. 1.00

02:32:27.000 What's going on, bro?

02:32:28.000 Shorty to them from Fresh.

02:32:30.000 You're coming with us home.

02:32:31.000 First tacos, then crib.

02:32:33.000 Fresh is going to make sweet balls music. 0.73

02:32:35.000 Clapping your cheeks from this African bambuta. 1.00

02:32:38.000 It's for real music.

02:32:39.000 Don't like Fresh's terrible rap.

02:32:41.000 Are you doing, Shorty?

02:32:41.000 Please stop.

02:32:42.000 Next.

02:32:43.000 Franklin Benjamin says, been watching FNF for two weeks.

02:32:46.000 You guys' podcast is awesome.

02:32:48.000 One thing I've noticed that women don't pay attention to is that their body count is expressed in their behaviors and actions. 1.00

02:32:53.000 That's a good point.

02:32:55.000 Pablo says, knew I would one day see Ximena on this show.

02:33:00.000 Average girl who twerked on TikTok and blew up proves that girls live on easy mode. 1.00

02:33:04.000 P.S. Love you guys.

02:33:05.000 Been watching you for months now.

02:33:06.000 Just got $200K in funding.

02:33:08.000 I'm a fourth straighter, six-figure earner at $21.

02:33:11.000 Okay, sugar daddy. 0.92

02:33:12.000 I think he knows you.

02:33:14.000 Everyone knows me from TikTok.

02:33:18.000 DMT says do you believe that the majority of modern women are narcissists? 0.93

02:33:22.000 Explain.

02:33:23.000 That's fine.

02:33:25.000 Elijah Tichborn says, CEO of AMD, Lisa Su, is a woman.

02:33:29.000 If you're the best fit for the job, you will get it.

02:33:31.000 One of the biggest mining companies, BHP, have a 50-50 equal employment scheme.

02:33:36.000 They're hiring women over men and giving high roles to women in order to make the mining force equal. 1.00

02:33:41.000 Don DeMarco?

02:33:42.000 Interesting.

02:33:46.000 It's pretty good, bro. 0.98

02:33:47.000 IRS says, I think some of these ladies' brains are cooked. 1.00

02:33:49.000 They're being asked basic questions and can't formulate a sentence.

02:33:53.000 I bet their 1040 is full of inconsistencies.

02:33:56.000 Ladies, you can manifest an audit in your bleak future. 1.00

02:33:59.000 Goddamn, nigga. 1.00

02:34:01.000 The Rational Mail, Rola Somasi, says, What's disrespectful is that dropping OnlyFans for a high-value man without ever being asked by that guy isn't even out of thought to any of these girls. 1.00

02:34:11.000 Hmm.

02:34:14.000 Greta, not funny.

02:34:15.000 Question for the women. 1.00

02:34:16.000 To those who believe OnlyFans is okay, how would you feel if your daughter was doing those things?

02:34:21.000 Genuinely, can you defend all that today and stand by it?

02:34:24.000 I have no problem in 20 years if your daughter is on it.

02:34:27.000 Real quick.

02:34:27.000 I'm going to stick with Saro.

02:34:29.000 I'm going to stick with Saro.

02:34:31.000 Let's start here.

02:34:33.000 I don't think it's okay.

02:34:34.000 It's her image.

02:34:34.000 It's going to be looked back on years from now, so I wouldn't.

02:34:38.000 You want to approve?

02:34:39.000 No.

02:34:40.000 Okay.

02:34:40.000 For you?

02:34:41.000 Same thing.

02:34:42.000 Same thing?

02:34:44.000 If she grown, let her do what she do. 0.89

02:34:46.000 Even if it means, like, they make fun of her at school?

02:34:48.000 If she grown, let her do what she do. 0.89

02:34:50.000 Bullet her? 0.97

02:34:50.000 You don't care? 0.97

02:34:51.000 If she grown, like, 25 and older, let her do what she do.

02:34:55.000 Okay.

02:34:56.000 What about you?

02:34:56.000 I wouldn't love it.

02:34:57.000 I wouldn't support it.

02:34:58.000 But, I mean, if she's an adult, I can't tell her what to do.

02:35:01.000 Unless she's living in my house. 0.99

02:35:02.000 If she's living in my house, you want to do it, get the fuck out. 0.99

02:35:04.000 But, if she doesn't live with me, I can't control her. 0.99

02:35:08.000 You know?

02:35:08.000 But I wouldn't love it.

02:35:10.000 So what if your grandkids got bullied because your daughter's OnlyFans at school?

02:35:15.000 Your grandkids?

02:35:16.000 Would you be okay with it?

02:35:17.000 No, I wouldn't be okay if nobody get bullied.

02:35:20.000 Okay.

02:35:21.000 What about you?

02:35:22.000 I feel like same thing here.

02:35:25.000 Same thing that my mom does with me too.

02:35:26.000 I don't love it.

02:35:27.000 I don't accept it.

02:35:29.000 But you're an adult and you get to make your own choices.

02:35:33.000 Okay.

02:35:34.000 I feel like exactly what she said was right.

02:35:36.000 I agree with what she said.

02:35:38.000 What'd she say?

02:35:39.000 She said, if you're an adult, then all I can do is voice my opinion, tell you I don't like it, and if you continue to do it, you're an adult.

02:35:46.000 You're grown.

02:35:46.000 But if you're living with me, I can say, either cut this off or get out my house.

02:35:51.000 Okay.

02:35:52.000 And if you don't want to, then get a kid.

02:35:54.000 Alright.

02:35:55.000 For you?

02:35:55.000 The question was basically, if your daughter had OnlyFans, how did you feel about that, dealing with it?

02:36:02.000 I would, if my daughter had OnlyFans, I would offer to compensate for whatever she was trying to earn, doing OnlyFans.

02:36:10.000 Like, even though I do it, I wouldn't want my daughter to do it.

02:36:13.000 But if she's an adult, I mean, it is her choice, but I would rather compensate than have my daughter do that.

02:36:19.000 Okay.

02:36:19.000 What about you?

02:36:21.000 I would take accountability as a mother.

02:36:25.000 Why is my daughter at this point?

02:36:27.000 And even if she was living under my house, I wouldn't say, if you want to do it, you're an adult.

02:36:32.000 I don't care if you're 20 years old, you're still my daughter.

02:36:35.000 And I think kicking your daughter out at 18 is just...

02:36:39.000 is not...

02:36:43.000 I don't think that's natural to kick your daughter out at 18.

02:36:46.000 And I wouldn't say if you want to do it, get out.

02:36:49.000 I would keep her under my wing and I would find a different way.

02:36:54.000 I would absolutely not be okay with it, even if she is an adult.

02:37:00.000 Okay.

02:37:01.000 And lastly, what about you?

02:37:02.000 I feel like people are entitled to their own decisions even though she's my child.

02:37:06.000 You know, I probably wouldn't be okay with it.

02:37:09.000 I probably wouldn't like it.

02:37:10.000 I'd probably be hella judgmental but I would try to come from a place of understanding and walk with her through her decisions.

02:37:17.000 I got a question for the ladies. 0.99

02:37:18.000 Seems like a lot of you guys would have an issue with your daughter being involved in OnlyFans.

02:37:22.000 So let me ask you this.

02:37:23.000 Does a woman working in sex work and or monetizing their beauty, whether it's modeling, dressing provocatively, whatever on the internet, hurt her ability to find a husband in the future? 1.00

02:37:33.000 Yeah.

02:37:34.000 We'll start hearing their work our way.

02:37:36.000 Yes or no?

02:37:37.000 Does it hurt her ability to find a husband in the future? 0.99

02:37:39.000 Yeah.

02:37:40.000 Most likely.

02:37:41.000 Yeah.

02:37:42.000 Okay.

02:37:42.000 Why?

02:37:44.000 Because...

02:37:46.000 Men want a certain type of woman. 1.00

02:37:49.000 It's just...

02:37:51.000 She's realizing these are all the things that I'm not.

02:37:56.000 Men want a certain type of woman. 1.00

02:38:01.000 Alright, we can leave it at that.

02:38:02.000 What about you?

02:38:03.000 Does it hurt her ability to find a guy? 0.90

02:38:06.000 You said sex work or modeling?

02:38:08.000 Yeah, or monetizing her beauty.

02:38:09.000 I think there are two different things.

02:38:11.000 I think sex work, absolutely.

02:38:13.000 Okay.

02:38:14.000 Being a model or a TikTok influencer, not as much as a sex worker.

02:38:22.000 But does it still hurt it, you think?

02:38:24.000 I don't know.

02:38:25.000 It depends because maybe...

02:38:27.000 Remember, she's monetizing on her beauty, so she's like... 0.99

02:38:30.000 Well, that beauty's gonna fade at some point. 1.00

02:38:32.000 So, if she doesn't lock down a husband before that beauty fades, then, yeah, I think she's fucked. 1.00

02:38:37.000 Low-key. 1.00

02:38:38.000 But...

02:38:39.000 Modeling is different than sex work.

02:38:41.000 So, I don't know.

02:38:44.000 Sex work, absolutely.

02:38:46.000 Okay, so if a girl posts pictures of herself always in no clothes, but she's a model, so to speak, you don't think it hurts her ability?

02:38:53.000 I'm talking about a real model.

02:38:54.000 If you're a real model with your clothes on, like...

02:38:57.000 That's what I was thinking of.

02:38:58.000 An Instagram model?

02:38:59.000 Yes.

02:39:00.000 Oh, no.

02:39:00.000 It still hurts their ability, you think?

02:39:01.000 Absolutely.

02:39:02.000 Okay.

02:39:03.000 Yeah.

02:39:04.000 Alright, what about you?

02:39:05.000 What do you think?

02:39:05.000 I think it hurts their ability.

02:39:07.000 Okay.

02:39:08.000 I think, I mean, guys, I can't speak for all men, but I would think that they would want, like, Their woman to be more private than doing sex work.

02:39:20.000 What about you?

02:39:21.000 The first thing I have to say is, can I get a shot?

02:39:24.000 I am sobering up.

02:39:27.000 I'm loving the podcast.

02:39:28.000 I'm loving the debate.

02:39:30.000 Don't worry, we're soon over.

02:39:31.000 We're soon over.

02:39:34.000 I love it here.

02:39:37.000 Ask the questions.

02:39:42.000 Would a woman monetizing off of her beauty hurt her or impact her in a negative way finding a husband in the future? 1.00

02:39:48.000 Why monetize?

02:39:49.000 You mean like getting like...

02:39:50.000 Monetizing off her beauty.

02:39:51.000 Being a model.

02:39:53.000 It can be any of the following professions.

02:39:55.000 OnlyFans, stripper, go-go dancer, Instagram model, even being a bartender and dressing provocatively at a bar.

02:40:03.000 Right?

02:40:04.000 Do any of these things hurt her ability to find a man?

02:40:07.000 No.

02:40:07.000 You don't think so?

02:40:08.000 Absolutely not, because I got a lot of money, and it's not hard for me to find a man.

02:40:12.000 Didn't the man that you were with before have an issue with it, that you were going to move here and be a bartender?

02:40:16.000 Yeah, he had an issue with it, but that was years ago.

02:40:19.000 But that's my point.

02:40:20.000 I have no issues now.

02:40:22.000 Okay.

02:40:23.000 All right, so you don't think it impacts at all?

02:40:26.000 Okay.

02:40:27.000 It depends on what it is, because as a bartender, I feel like...

02:40:30.000 Merch.

02:40:31.000 Merch.

02:40:33.000 I don't feel like it's such a big deal.

02:40:35.000 I don't feel like they look at it as a big deal.

02:40:36.000 Do you think men in general would prefer that you stay at home and, you know, be chilling?

02:40:40.000 Or at a bar where hundreds of men are going to hit on you endlessly every night where you're working? 1.00

02:40:46.000 It takes a strong-minded man to do it, but they can handle it.

02:40:50.000 But the point is, what do you think men in general would prefer?

02:40:53.000 The first option where you're home or the second option where you're at the bar?

02:40:56.000 I know you're working, but men are hitting on you. 1.00

02:40:59.000 What do you think guys would prefer?

02:41:03.000 I guess they'll prefer me to stay at home.

02:41:04.000 But at the same time, I can say from my experience that they don't have a problem with it.

02:41:09.000 They don't have a problem with it.

02:41:10.000 They don't.

02:41:11.000 To your knowledge.

02:41:12.000 To my knowledge, they don't got a problem with it.

02:41:14.000 Okay.

02:41:15.000 Just give me your phone password.

02:41:21.000 So I want to be fair to say that they're asking I need your phone password to compensate for the fact that you're going there, which was my point that they don't like you being at the bar.

02:41:28.000 They gotta trust me.

02:41:31.000 What about you?

02:41:33.000 Do you think a woman being involved in sex work and or any type of profession monetizing her beauty hurts her ability to find a husband? 0.82

02:41:39.000 First-hand experience as somebody who's been doing it for like four years now.

02:41:45.000 Most definitely.

02:41:46.000 I recently ran into something like this where I was talking to a guy and I was like, yeah, I work at Booby Trap.

02:41:54.000 And then he automatically distanced himself because he was like, no, like all my friends go there.

02:42:00.000 Like my friends are going to get to see you and I don't feel comfortable with that.

02:42:04.000 Did you lose some opportunities with men that you like because of that?

02:42:08.000 Most certainly.

02:42:09.000 I lost a three-year relationship over it.

02:42:12.000 Fair enough.

02:42:13.000 Because I chose my job over the relationship, but also considering that he was not providing anything.

02:42:24.000 No emotional, no financial.

02:42:25.000 It just wasn't worth my time.

02:42:27.000 So I chose my job, yes.

02:42:29.000 Okay.

02:42:30.000 Do you think maybe he just didn't want to invest once he found out what your job was?

02:42:35.000 No, he's just young and just, I just, I don't want to put his business out there, but yeah, he was just in a situation where he was still living with mom and dad and he's 24, 25.

02:42:46.000 Okay.

02:42:48.000 What about you?

02:42:50.000 Do you think a woman being involved in sex work and or monetizing her beauty hurts her ability to find a husband? 1.00

02:42:56.000 Yes, but can I ask one question that I want to know on the topic?

02:43:00.000 So now, monetizing on beauty, right?

02:43:02.000 Like, you know how there's normal influencers on Instagram that they're fashion, they're showing clothes and makeup, like they're not in skimpy outfits and showing off.

02:43:10.000 Would that also fit into that category with what you're clarifying?

02:43:14.000 I would say that's an exception to the rule.

02:43:17.000 Most of the women that make big money absolutely monetize their sexuality. 1.00

02:43:21.000 But I know some influencers that they've built like a female following, you know what I'm saying? 0.99

02:43:21.000 Right. 0.99

02:43:26.000 But they monetize because they're pretty and they're cute.

02:43:28.000 But that's far and few between.

02:43:29.000 That's maybe one out of two female influencers, maybe two at the most. 0.99

02:43:33.000 Most overwhelmingly have to show their body to get that same level of attention and to get paid more.

02:43:37.000 Yeah, so my answer stays yeah.

02:43:39.000 You say yeah?

02:43:40.000 Okay.

02:43:41.000 What about you?

02:43:42.000 I think yeah.

02:43:42.000 What do you think?

02:43:43.000 Yeah?

02:43:44.000 Okay.

02:43:44.000 Mhm.

02:43:45.000 What about you?

02:43:46.000 I think that yeah, for sure.

02:43:48.000 Yeah.

02:43:48.000 Yeah?

02:43:49.000 Experience.

02:43:50.000 Yeah?

02:43:50.000 What about you?

02:43:52.000 Yeah, it's an image that you're gonna carry with yourself always.

02:43:55.000 People are always gonna be able to see that.

02:43:56.000 Okay.

02:43:57.000 Real quick, how many of you guys want a husband? 1.00

02:43:59.000 Raise your hands at the table.

02:44:03.000 So, for the girls that want a husband, why are y'all involved in sex work? 1.00

02:44:06.000 Knowing even by your own admission that it's gonna hurt your ability to find a guy.

02:44:10.000 That husband's not helping me pay the bills right now.

02:44:13.000 That future husband that I don't have is not helping me pay the bills right now.

02:44:16.000 So your reasoning is because you're not getting support at this moment, okay?

02:44:21.000 What about you?

02:44:22.000 What's your reasoning?

02:44:23.000 Same thing.

02:44:24.000 I have student loans. 0.99

02:44:25.000 I have all types of shit going on. 0.98

02:44:27.000 And a husband right now, they're not doing it. 0.99

02:44:30.000 Okay.

02:44:30.000 Yeah.

02:44:31.000 Who else?

02:44:31.000 Same thing?

02:44:32.000 Not paying bills?

02:44:32.000 Bills to pay.

02:44:33.000 Bills to pay.

02:44:34.000 I can't go back to a regular job right now.

02:44:37.000 So until somebody wants to finish.

02:44:39.000 Why can't you go back to a regular job? 0.99

02:44:40.000 You're shitting me? 0.99

02:44:41.000 I make more than a doctor right now. 1.00

02:44:43.000 Okay.

02:44:43.000 So it's because the money, you want to make the same amount of money.

02:44:47.000 I don't feel comfortable working a 9 to 5 because I would not receive the same financial, whatever you want to call it.

02:44:55.000 Would you take a temporary pay cut to earn less money but increase your ability to have better prospective men that will take you seriously?

02:45:02.000 I don't want to sound dumb but say that in layman's terms.

02:45:05.000 Would you be willing to make less so you can find a man that will make more and take care of you? 0.99

02:45:10.000 Don't contradict.

02:45:13.000 Yes.

02:45:14.000 Yes.

02:45:15.000 Okay, wait.

02:45:16.000 Before I find a man or after I find a man?

02:45:20.000 Hold on.

02:45:20.000 I'm confused.

02:45:21.000 Before.

02:45:22.000 Because you already said it by your own experience.

02:45:23.000 So right now I quit my job and I start working.

02:45:25.000 Because you said you had opportunities with guys, but they found out what you did and it limited your ability to get serious with them.

02:45:30.000 Right.

02:45:30.000 So what I'm saying is would you get a regular job now, get a pay cut a little bit to find that man.

02:45:36.000 No.

02:45:36.000 If I had found a guy and he looks at me and he says, hey, you know, and he meets up to my checks.

02:45:43.000 He checks all the boxes, right?

02:45:45.000 And he goes, hey, I don't like what you do.

02:45:48.000 Cool.

02:45:48.000 I'll quit and I'll get a regular job.

02:45:50.000 I'm assuming since you're a higher earner, the guy would have to make more than you, right?

02:45:53.000 Most definitely.

02:45:54.000 How much does he have to make a year?

02:45:57.000 Your bare minimum requirement.

02:45:59.000 A milli, a milli, a milli, a milli.

02:46:02.000 No, I don't want to say milli.

02:46:03.000 Because you said you make over a doctor, so the guy would probably have to earn quite a bit.

02:46:07.000 What would he need from you to quit your job?

02:46:10.000 I feel like you need to be making at least twice of what I'm making right now.

02:46:15.000 Okay, what's that number?

02:46:16.000 Double what I'm making right now.

02:46:18.000 What's that number roughly?

02:46:19.000 I don't know.

02:46:19.000 I started Booby Trap Christmas, so I'll tell you by the end of this year how much I made this year.

02:46:25.000 I'm making like $1,000 to $2,000 a night, and I work five nights a week.

02:46:28.000 I'm asking the guy.

02:46:29.000 You don't have to talk about your money.

02:46:30.000 I'm simply asking how much does the guy have to make to get you to quit.

02:46:33.000 Right.

02:46:33.000 I don't know how much my money adds up to right now for me to tell you, but I know I'm making more than a doctor.

02:46:37.000 I make $1,000 a day, five days a week.

02:46:39.000 So do the math.

02:46:40.000 Can you give me a number of what the guy has to make?

02:46:42.000 Cool.

02:46:42.000 Let's do math real quick.

02:46:43.000 $30,000 a month.

02:46:44.000 Let's go.

02:46:45.000 Yeah.

02:46:46.000 Is that?

02:46:46.000 You doing it fresh?

02:46:47.000 Yeah, I'm doing it right now.

02:46:48.000 Yeah.

02:46:49.000 Okay.

02:46:51.000 It's 240k, I think.

02:46:52.000 30k?

02:46:53.000 No.

02:46:54.000 Times 3.

02:46:56.000 Well, 30 times 12.

02:46:57.000 No, but she wants to make money. 1.00

02:46:58.000 Wait, 5,000 a day?

02:47:00.000 Yeah.

02:47:01.000 No, no, no.

02:47:02.000 Oh, it's more.

02:47:02.000 No, she needs like, no, 365k a year, roughly.

02:47:06.000 No, no, no.

02:47:07.000 Bro, 5,000 a day?

02:47:09.000 No.

02:47:09.000 5,000 a week.

02:47:12.000 But she doesn't work, but she only works 5, what, 3 weeks? 1.00

02:47:17.000 5 days a week.

02:47:17.000 Oh, okay, so she makes 5k a week.

02:47:19.000 So, 5 times 4, 20, 20k times 12.

02:47:22.000 240k.

02:47:23.000 Yeah, okay.

02:47:24.000 So, he would need to make half a mil.

02:47:25.000 Double that.

02:47:26.000 He would have to make half a mil.

02:47:27.000 Double that and we could talk.

02:47:28.000 Okay.

02:47:30.000 Do you think men that make $500,000, what percentage of men do you think make that kind of money?

02:47:34.000 A year.

02:47:35.000 500k.

02:47:36.000 That's going to take you serious.

02:47:38.000 Well, I didn't get there.

02:47:39.000 Let's not make it too hard.

02:47:40.000 Just, yeah, 500k.

02:47:41.000 What do you mean?

02:47:42.000 What kind of men?

02:47:43.000 Like, what they do for a living?

02:47:44.000 No, no, no.

02:47:44.000 What percentage of men do you think earn that amount?

02:47:47.000 A year.

02:47:48.000 I don't know.

02:47:50.000 I don't know.

02:47:51.000 Alright, I'll answer for you.

02:47:52.000 It's less than 1% of men make that kind of money a year.

02:47:55.000 And that's why I am single. 0.99

02:47:57.000 Damn! 0.99

02:47:58.000 Less than 1% make that kind of money a year. 0.99

02:48:01.000 I haven't found him yet.

02:48:04.000 And the scary part is if you do find him, right, given your background and stuff like that, what's the chances he would take you seriously when he can find another girl to take seriously that doesn't have that background?

02:48:13.000 Yep.

02:48:14.000 That's fine.

02:48:15.000 That's his choice.

02:48:16.000 I'm very nonchalant.

02:48:17.000 But you said you wanted a husband though, right?

02:48:19.000 Yes, but that doesn't mean he's the only man in the world.

02:48:21.000 I mean... 0.98

02:48:22.000 Cool, he's in the 1 percentile, but how many people are in the fucking world, Myron? 0.98

02:48:26.000 That make 500k a year? 0.98

02:48:27.000 In the world.

02:48:29.000 In the world.

02:48:30.000 Okay, well, let's be honest here.

02:48:31.000 In the rest of the world, the people aren't going to even have the ability to make that kind of money, so we only have to go to the United States and first world countries.

02:48:38.000 And that's not many.

02:48:38.000 That's not many.

02:48:39.000 And is it ugly?

02:48:40.000 Is it weird?

02:48:41.000 The amount of money you just express, like, dude, that's the top 1% in the United States, which is the richest country in the world.

02:48:48.000 You're telling me only 1% of men make $500,000?

02:48:54.000 Okay, that's on paper?

02:48:56.000 That's in real life.

02:48:58.000 And you're assuming that they only want you.

02:49:02.000 I didn't say that at all.

02:49:03.000 No, no, but I'm just saying that's going to be an assumption because if they're going to date you, it's only you.

02:49:08.000 Yeah, the top 1% earning in the United States earns somewhere around $450,000 a year. 0.99

02:49:13.000 That's true shit. 0.99

02:49:14.000 That's real. 1.00

02:49:16.000 I don't know.

02:49:17.000 Honestly, that's what I said.

02:49:18.000 I'm currently not even interested in it.

02:49:21.000 I'm just working and getting my money up. 0.80

02:49:22.000 I want to go to school and get shit done. 0.84

02:49:24.000 So that way my name and my person looks good when I want a husband. 0.98

02:49:28.000 But y'all said y'all was going to quit y'all's job for that. 0.98

02:49:31.000 Girl, okay, one day my titties, they're going to sag. 1.00

02:49:35.000 One day my ass is going to flatten. 1.00

02:49:37.000 So why would this guy want you? 1.00

02:49:38.000 The fuck? 1.00

02:49:40.000 You got going on. 1.00

02:49:42.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

02:49:45.000 Okay. 1.00

02:49:45.000 I'm going to try to get higher than Booby Trap, see if they're higher than your ass. 1.00

02:49:52.000 Girl, I don't care. 1.00

02:49:54.000 It's subjective.

02:50:04.000 What about you?

02:50:05.000 Are you willing to accept the fact that your profession is going to limit your ability to find a man since you want a husband?

02:50:13.000 Am I willing to accept that?

02:50:15.000 Yes.

02:50:18.000 How much does your guy got to earn per year?

02:50:20.000 Because obviously you said it's for paying your bills so you have a financial requirement.

02:50:23.000 How much does your guy got to make a year?

02:50:25.000 I don't know.

02:50:26.000 I don't have a dead set amount of what I make right now.

02:50:29.000 What's the bare minimum you would accept?

02:50:30.000 But bare minimum would just, I guess, a little above mid-class.

02:50:36.000 Like, just financially comfortable.

02:50:38.000 Give us a number.

02:50:40.000 What would he have to make bare minimum to be able to get you to quit?

02:50:45.000 70,000?

02:50:46.000 60,000?

02:50:47.000 Oh, she's humble.

02:50:49.000 I mean, really, like, I don't...

02:50:51.000 Yeah, I mean, I'm just being honest, actually.

02:50:53.000 Okay, all right.

02:50:55.000 Who else is...

02:50:56.000 How much would a guy have to make for you to quit?

02:51:01.000 It's not about how much he makes.

02:51:04.000 But 150k would be nice a year.

02:51:07.000 But yeah, it's definitely not about how much he makes.

02:51:09.000 It's about how he treats me, what he's willing to do for me outside of money.

02:51:14.000 And then we can talk.

02:51:16.000 So only about 10 to 15% of the entire American population makes $100,000 a year.

02:51:23.000 That's a little better statistic.

02:51:25.000 Yeah, but you got to keep in mind that accounts for men, women, married men, and that's not $150,000.

02:51:31.000 It becomes less at $150,000.

02:51:33.000 So it's less than 10% for $150,000 per year.

02:51:37.000 This doesn't account for the man being charming, dressing well, not stinking, not being socially awkward, not being married.

02:51:43.000 Being straight.

02:51:44.000 Being attractive enough for you.

02:51:46.000 So the money is just the first factor that limits it.

02:51:49.000 Then you have to go into all the other things.

02:51:50.000 Being clean.

02:51:54.000 I mean, so the chances are fairly slim.

02:51:56.000 And then why would he pick you when he can pick another girl that doesn't have that stuff?

02:52:00.000 That's up to him.

02:52:02.000 I said $150k would be nice.

02:52:04.000 No, I get that.

02:52:05.000 But I'm just saying, like, I'm just trying to give you guys, like, the reality of, like, what you want, given what you're offering, doesn't match up.

02:52:12.000 I would like to make $150k. 0.97

02:52:14.000 I don't give a fuck what he makes as long as he's treating me right. 0.97

02:52:17.000 I haven't settled down because, yeah. 0.99

02:52:20.000 You date bums? 1.00

02:52:21.000 No, hell no.

02:52:23.000 So obviously how much they make matters.

02:52:26.000 You said a second ago, I don't care how much he makes, but you do care.

02:52:34.000 This is crazy.

02:52:35.000 Okay.

02:52:36.000 All right.

02:52:38.000 Let's finish this.

02:52:39.000 We'll continue on.

02:52:40.000 Three hours deep.

02:52:41.000 Question for the women. 1.00

02:52:42.000 To those who believe OnlyFans is okay, how would you feel if your daughter was doing that?

02:52:46.000 How sad that the young beautiful girls are actually, wait, hold on, are actually based and willing to listen, but the older single ladies whose eggs are more than half evaporated can't accept reality. 1.00

02:52:54.000 This is why you single.

02:52:56.000 All right. 0.99

02:52:58.000 The black women on the panel are perpetuating the stereotype of being undesirable for a relationship. 1.00

02:53:02.000 Thank you to the women who are listening. 0.99

02:53:04.000 The show is a candle in the darkness of delusion.

02:53:06.000 You guys have a response to him saying that black women are perpetuating that stereotype? 0.98

02:53:10.000 I'm going to say, people will always say black women are undesirable. 1.00

02:53:13.000 Who gives a fuck? 1.00

02:53:13.000 You go queen! 1.00

02:53:14.000 Next!

02:53:15.000 You go queen!

02:53:16.000 Next!

02:53:20.000 I'm about to say the masculinity was coming from the others, but next.

02:53:24.000 And I was trying for it. 0.94

02:53:26.000 Right now, in the chat, leave black queens alone, okay? 1.00

02:53:30.000 Please, because we're not the masculine ones in the room. 0.60

02:53:32.000 I'm about to say, y'all prefer what you prefer.

02:53:36.000 Y'all are masculine, too, though.

02:53:39.000 You two are masculine, too.

02:53:40.000 I mean, it's not just her.

02:53:41.000 There's a couple masculine women on the panel. 1.00

02:53:43.000 And she's, like, 40% black, so... 0.99

02:53:45.000 That is true.

02:53:46.000 25.

02:53:47.000 Yeah, see?

02:53:47.000 But remember, he was just saying the stereotype.

02:53:49.000 You guys are perpetuating the stereotype was his argument.

02:53:51.000 And I would say that you guys kind of are perpetuating the stereotype.

02:53:53.000 I'm not changing for no man.

02:53:55.000 Next.

02:53:55.000 I don't want to live off a man.

02:53:58.000 That's not right.

02:53:59.000 You know what I'm saying?

02:54:00.000 After I told you, who dictates the show?

02:54:02.000 Us, not you.

02:54:03.000 But you're still saying next.

02:54:05.000 Next.

02:54:05.000 So I'm trying to say it, bro.

02:54:06.000 Like, rambunctiousness.

02:54:07.000 Okay, and...

02:54:08.000 Shannon Bricks.

02:54:09.000 What do you want me to say?

02:54:10.000 Okay.

02:54:10.000 I mean, you can be quiet.

02:54:12.000 That's fine.

02:54:13.000 That always works, typically.

02:54:14.000 Silence.

02:54:14.000 I'm a man.

02:54:15.000 Okay.

02:54:15.000 Are you a man?

02:54:16.000 I might be.

02:54:18.000 Whatever the men say.

02:54:19.000 Fair enough.

02:54:20.000 Hopefully not. 0.80

02:54:21.000 The guys that you want probably aren't gay, so that might be why they're not talking to you. 0.81

02:54:25.000 Shannon Bricks goes, Again with selfishness, I won't change. 0.88

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02:54:52.000 That's true. 1.00

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02:54:53.000 Well, but here's the thing. 0.99

02:54:53.000 They even named a guy that is exceptional and they still won't leave. 0.99

02:54:57.000 Question.

02:54:58.000 Why would a high-value man trade a current girl in his rotation for you?

02:55:02.000 Hey! 0.99

02:55:06.000 I could go on the table on that one real quick.

02:55:08.000 Why should a guy pick you over another girl that he's dealing with?

02:55:11.000 High-status guy who has options. 0.99

02:55:13.000 Go ahead, shoot. 0.96

02:55:15.000 Because if he gets to know me, I could put him in a position. 0.97

02:55:17.000 Not financially, but I could put him in a position mentally, spiritually.

02:55:24.000 What are you going to do?

02:55:25.000 I'm going to support him.

02:55:27.000 I'm going to give him massages.

02:55:29.000 I'm going to show him love.

02:55:31.000 I'm going to build him up.

02:55:33.000 That's it.

02:55:34.000 That's what you need.

02:55:36.000 I mean, he could go hire a masseuse.

02:55:38.000 He could.

02:55:49.000 Why would a high-value man trade a current girl in his rotation for me?

02:55:53.000 A guy that's already attractive, right?

02:55:57.000 He has multiple chicks.

02:55:58.000 Why should he pick you over those other girls? 0.99

02:56:00.000 Well, there's no should.

02:56:01.000 You know, I'm a God-fearing woman and I I don't know I feel like I have like a very specific spiritual hygiene and you know if I don't match with me I love that word yeah I you know it's it's hard to explain to men because they're all about can you define what a spiritual hygiene is absolutely well it's hard explaining myself to you guys because you guys are men that are logical but women were led by the unseen and I'm very spiritual and

02:56:32.000 I If you don't pray, if you don't believe in God, if you don't put God first, and I'm talking about Yahweh, Yeshua HaMashiach, Jesus Christ, not all these other gods.

02:56:43.000 What religion do you subscribe to?

02:56:44.000 Christianity.

02:56:48.000 I was raised Pentecostal and then Seventh-day Adventist, but I have came back to Christianity as an adult.

02:56:54.000 So very, you know, religious growing up.

02:56:57.000 But I don't know.

02:56:59.000 When I said I was praying for a husband, I mean that.

02:57:01.000 I think that God literally handmade a husband and a wife for each individual.

02:57:07.000 And it's not about...

02:57:09.000 I know that sounds like not logical, but that's what I believe.

02:57:12.000 And so when I say I'm praying and I'm magnetizing, because manifestation is manipulation.

02:57:17.000 That's what manifesting is.

02:57:19.000 Magnetizing is what femininity is. 1.00

02:57:23.000 We Women are receivers. 1.00

02:57:27.000 Men are electricity. 0.97

02:57:28.000 So it's like a magnet.

02:57:30.000 And yeah, I think that there's one man for every woman.

02:57:34.000 I think that women are supposed to be married. 1.00

02:57:37.000 And I think that's the highest calling as a woman, is to be married.

02:57:42.000 And I think that God...

02:57:43.000 So, you know, maybe a high-value man isn't even what I want.

02:57:47.000 I want who God wants me to want.

02:57:49.000 And yeah, spiritual hygiene is a real thing.

02:57:52.000 Yeah.

02:57:55.000 They can't drink.

02:57:56.000 No alcohol at all, even though I drank tonight for the first time.

02:58:00.000 I'm sober.

02:58:03.000 I had a drink tonight for the first time in like a year, but it was like one shot.

02:58:08.000 And I was feeling kind of dizzy.

02:58:10.000 Seems to me as though you were just kind of letting life come and you're hoping and praying.

02:58:15.000 No, no, no, no.

02:58:16.000 I'm not hoping and praying and just letting life come.

02:58:19.000 I'm very intentional.

02:58:20.000 I think every day is a ceremony and the world is my altar.

02:58:25.000 The way that I think, the way that I consume on the internet, the way that I eat and drink, the water that I drink, everything is very intentional.

02:58:34.000 We live in a chemical.

02:58:36.000 Everything is like chemicals nowadays.

02:58:38.000 It's like BDL, GMO, godless.

02:58:42.000 Modern society is fun.

02:58:44.000 Basically, your faith in God is going to bring the man to you.

02:58:47.000 Absolutely.

02:58:48.000 And I think that God handmade one man for me.

02:58:51.000 So I don't...

02:58:52.000 Yeah, I don't know.

02:58:54.000 I don't know if a high value man...

02:58:55.000 Do you think the guy that you're currently with right now is that handmade guy that God made for you?

02:58:59.000 You know, it's hard because being in a modern society in 2022...

02:59:05.000 Relationships...

02:59:08.000 Are so distorted, and everybody is so programmed, and especially with social media.

02:59:14.000 But do you think that guy is the guy?

02:59:16.000 No.

02:59:16.000 Yes or no?

02:59:17.000 No.

02:59:17.000 So why waste your time with him?

02:59:19.000 So that's what I was going to try to get to.

02:59:21.000 I think that every individual is made to...

02:59:26.000 It's like a thread.

02:59:30.000 And...

02:59:33.000 I'm listening.

02:59:34.000 Continue.

02:59:34.000 Don't worry about them.

02:59:35.000 I don't know.

02:59:37.000 It's hard because I feel like God brought him into my life.

02:59:40.000 But do I think that he's going to marry me?

02:59:44.000 Wait, wait, wait.

02:59:44.000 Hold on.

02:59:45.000 I need to stop you there.

02:59:46.000 You said you're Christian, right?

02:59:48.000 Absolutely. 1.00

02:59:49.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

02:59:49.000 So, God brought him into your life. 1.00

02:59:51.000 Yep. 1.00

02:59:52.000 Y'all fucking... 1.00

02:59:54.000 We fucked. 1.00

02:59:57.000 X. Gone. 1.00

02:59:59.000 That's cap.

03:00:00.000 That's cap.

03:00:01.000 And you're probably right.

03:00:02.000 You're probably right. 1.00

03:00:04.000 So this all special Heidi bullshit is trash. 1.00

03:00:06.000 Anyhow. 1.00

03:00:08.000 It's garbage. 0.98

03:00:09.000 It's not trash. 0.98

03:00:10.000 Just say you want a nigga to take you serious and you want to smash. 1.00

03:00:13.000 But don't call it Christianity because it's not Christianity. 0.99

03:00:16.000 Because you know what time it is. 0.97

03:00:18.000 If you're a Christian, you don't have sex before marriage. 1.00

03:00:21.000 That's bullshit. 1.00

03:00:23.000 If you're a Christian, that's not bullshit. 1.00

03:00:26.000 What kind of Christian are you? 0.99

03:00:27.000 So you guys are religious and you've never had sex before marriage?

03:00:31.000 Cap.

03:00:31.000 No, no.

03:00:32.000 I'm saying if you made that choice moving forward, that's what it should be if you're going to be a Christian.

03:00:36.000 It's a difference.

03:00:38.000 You believe in God.

03:00:39.000 God brought you that man, but you still smashed him twice.

03:00:42.000 Yeah.

03:00:42.000 Absolutely.

03:00:44.000 So is he really sent from God?

03:00:46.000 You think?

03:00:47.000 Yes.

03:00:53.000 Let's get to the bottom of it today.

03:00:55.000 Whenever you speak, you confuse me.

03:00:57.000 Literally, I'm confused whenever you speak.

03:00:58.000 I don't know how you do that.

03:00:59.000 Shout out to you. 1.00

03:01:00.000 Shit, I even lost the question here. 1.00

03:01:03.000 The question was... 1.00

03:01:05.000 Next.

03:01:06.000 No, just kidding.

03:01:07.000 Why would he choose you?

03:01:11.000 Yeah, why would he choose you over kicking another girl that he's dealing with?

03:01:16.000 What redeeming quality would you do to replace her?

03:01:21.000 He'd just have to come see and find out.

03:01:22.000 I could teach him things, probably.

03:01:24.000 Oh, okay.

03:01:25.000 What would you teach him?

03:01:26.000 OnlyFansTricks.

03:01:27.000 What would you teach him?

03:01:33.000 If he's the right man, he just come see and find out.

03:01:35.000 Okay.

03:01:36.000 He gonna find out.

03:01:37.000 What about you?

03:01:38.000 If he's already dealing with a girl, he ain't gotta pick me.

03:01:40.000 Thank you.

03:01:41.000 That's what I was about to say.

03:01:43.000 Exactly.

03:01:44.000 I'm not gonna persuade him to leave a girl that he's already talking to for me.

03:01:50.000 Realistically speaking, have you ever heard the term that if you get a bad chick, it means you took her from someone else?

03:01:55.000 No.

03:01:55.000 Have you ever heard that phrase before?

03:01:57.000 I've never heard that.

03:01:59.000 I took my husband from someone else.

03:02:01.000 But the reality is, if you get a bad chick, that means you took her from someone else.

03:02:05.000 You do realize that if you got a higher status guy, he's going to have other women, right?

03:02:09.000 That's just how it is.

03:02:10.000 Men aren't monogamous by nature.

03:02:12.000 They're not monogamous by nature.

03:02:14.000 We're not, no.

03:02:15.000 You can't be faithful.

03:02:17.000 No. 0.91

03:02:18.000 Do you think a man that worked his ass off to make a bunch of money, become successful, have status, etc., is going to have sex with one girl? 0.94

03:02:24.000 No, you're right. 0.91

03:02:25.000 You're not.

03:02:26.000 So you guys can have sex before marriage, but we can't?

03:02:29.000 Well, I'm not saying what can and can't be done.

03:02:31.000 I'm not saying that because I'm not claiming to be religious.

03:02:34.000 I'm just speaking from a straight biology standpoint that women, I mean, men are not designed to be monogamous versus women are to a more significant degree.

03:02:43.000 Absolutely. 0.99

03:02:44.000 So, I mean, so what I'm trying to say here is that if you meet a high value guy, he's going to have other bitches. 1.00

03:02:49.000 So what would you do to get him? 0.99

03:02:50.000 Not bitches. 1.00

03:02:53.000 He's gonna have other women. 1.00

03:02:54.000 Like, you're gonna have to compete.

03:02:55.000 I don't know why you're saying, like, oh, no, I just wouldn't compete.

03:02:58.000 It's like, okay, there's not enough of these guys to go around.

03:03:00.000 You have to compete.

03:03:01.000 That's life.

03:03:02.000 I would want a little competition with a man, too.

03:03:05.000 Like, I would want to know that there's other women that want him. 0.99

03:03:08.000 Okay.

03:03:09.000 Fair enough.

03:03:10.000 What you just stated, actually, is a biological fact, by the way, despite women don't want to admit that. 0.89

03:03:14.000 Yeah, that's true.

03:03:14.000 When they're in a relationship, I feel like they're more attractive for some reason.

03:03:17.000 Is that not true?

03:03:19.000 You know what's fascinating, though?

03:03:22.000 No, that's right.

03:03:22.000 No, it is true.

03:03:24.000 You're denying it.

03:03:25.000 I haven't denied nothing today.

03:03:27.000 Someone said it's not true.

03:03:28.000 But it's been empirically proven that women prefer men that have other women.

03:03:32.000 But it's not the other way for men, though.

03:03:34.000 You don't think?

03:03:35.000 Is it proven or...

03:03:38.000 Okay, when a guy's in a section at the club, right, and I like to use the club because it's one of the most primitive ways to look at human beings in their natural setting in modern day society.

03:03:46.000 Where are all the women concentrated? 1.00

03:03:48.000 With the guy with all the girls. 0.61

03:03:50.000 Fantastic.

03:03:51.000 So, but are you going to see girls and a bunch of dudes in a section?

03:03:55.000 No.

03:03:58.000 Because it's a status symbol when a man can attract a bunch of women, but a girl surrounded by a bunch of dudes is a turnoff. 1.00

03:04:03.000 Yep.

03:04:04.000 Okay.

03:04:06.000 That's the difference.

03:04:06.000 Cool.

03:04:07.000 Alright, so she ain't competing.

03:04:08.000 Fantastic.

03:04:09.000 What about you?

03:04:11.000 How would you take a high-value man from another girl?

03:04:14.000 What qualities do you have that differentiates you?

03:04:17.000 I have the ability to take collective criticism.

03:04:24.000 I'm a balanced person.

03:04:27.000 I'm understanding.

03:04:29.000 So, I don't know.

03:04:30.000 I feel like those would be traits that a man with a woman would look at. 0.83

03:04:34.000 Do you think that's a fair trait for a guy making $500k per year though?

03:04:38.000 You got high standards.

03:04:41.000 I feel like any woman looking for a husband to settle down and have children should have those kinds of standards. 0.99

03:04:47.000 I'm not looking to do that anytime soon, by the way.

03:04:50.000 I didn't say I wanted to, but if the day I do look for a husband and for somebody to have children with, yeah, I have those standards.

03:04:56.000 Realistically speaking though, you're saying every woman should choose that, but does every woman qualify for a guy that makes that kind of money? 1.00

03:05:02.000 No.

03:05:03.000 I wouldn't say I qualify.

03:05:05.000 I wouldn't say I qualify.

03:05:07.000 That's what I want, but I wouldn't say I qualify.

03:05:09.000 I say I still have some growing up to do.

03:05:12.000 I say I still have some changes to make about myself, which I am.

03:05:15.000 By the way, guys, currently sober.

03:05:17.000 About to get back into school.

03:05:19.000 I'm getting my life together.

03:05:20.000 Good job.

03:05:21.000 I'm getting sober.

03:05:22.000 Yeah, it's not something I want to do for life.

03:05:24.000 It's not something I'm proud of.

03:05:25.000 It's something that with the circumstances I've been given, that's how I'm dealing with it, you know, right now.

03:05:31.000 But am I going to change that?

03:05:33.000 Of course.

03:05:33.000 Do I want to build up for a man to want to give me that kind of life?

03:05:38.000 Yes.

03:05:39.000 So what age would you start looking for a husband at? 1.00

03:05:42.000 Honestly, I want to be done with what I'm doing by 24-ish.

03:05:48.000 Okay, so you're 22, right?

03:05:49.000 I'm 22 right now. 0.98

03:05:50.000 I need like two years to get my shit together. 0.98

03:05:52.000 And I've already started. 0.99

03:05:54.000 I'm on the path.

03:05:55.000 So I think, yeah, I think men like seeing change even though women don't like changing. 1.00

03:06:01.000 To be honest, we just want a girl that didn't have to change in the first place.

03:06:04.000 I'm going to be a thousand with you.

03:06:06.000 Very much so true.

03:06:07.000 We just want a girl that comes with no baggage, no history.

03:06:12.000 But what are the chances?

03:06:13.000 You're in Miami.

03:06:14.000 What are the chances?

03:06:15.000 Well, here's the thing.

03:06:16.000 That's why a lot of guys go other places.

03:06:19.000 I mean, can't turn a hoe into a housewife. 1.00

03:06:21.000 Yeah, I mean, guys would prefer that the odometer was on zero or close to it versus it's been refurbished and the odometer's on 100k, but it looks new.

03:06:29.000 And also understanding, I feel like this has been said a lot, just because some of us have sex work, some of us have OnlyFans or strippers, that does not mean we belong to the streets.

03:06:41.000 You know where I go after work?

03:06:44.000 Home, to my bed, to sleep.

03:06:46.000 How much do you want to bet?

03:06:49.000 I'm not doubting that at all.

03:06:51.000 But honestly speaking, if a guy came up to you at the club but he wasn't attractive, would you give him a chance?

03:06:57.000 Like, he was ugly and he kind of stuttered when he spoke and had a limp?

03:07:00.000 Would you give him a chance? 0.68

03:07:01.000 I talk to all kinds of men regularly and daily.

03:07:03.000 From a romantic standpoint, would you give him a chance, realistically speaking?

03:07:06.000 If he was ugly?

03:07:08.000 Yeah, not the most attractive guy. 0.54

03:07:09.000 Like Chris?

03:07:10.000 I think I... Chris is not like ugly.

03:07:18.000 My point is would you give that guy a chance if he had a little bit, some defects, some physical defects?

03:07:26.000 Would you give him a chance? 0.96

03:07:28.000 I feel like I would give him No, I was looking at him being crazy.

03:07:39.000 I want to hear what he has to say for the first 15 minutes of his conversation.

03:07:43.000 Well, he has a little bit of a tick when he talks.

03:07:45.000 Like he stutters?

03:07:46.000 Like Chris.

03:07:48.000 Like Chris.

03:07:49.000 You want to give him a shot, right?

03:07:50.000 No, I grew up with a little brother with disabilities, so no.

03:07:53.000 Yeah.

03:07:54.000 I wouldn't.

03:07:54.000 So my thing is, right, you judge the book by its cover.

03:07:57.000 No, I wouldn't judge.

03:07:58.000 No.

03:07:58.000 My point is, you're missing what I'm trying to say here.

03:08:01.000 You made a decision.

03:08:03.000 You're not going to give him a chance.

03:08:04.000 You judge the book by its cover, which is cool.

03:08:05.000 That's human being nature.

03:08:06.000 I didn't say that.

03:08:07.000 You declined him.

03:08:08.000 No, I didn't say that.

03:08:09.000 I said no, I wouldn't judge him.

03:08:11.000 But you wouldn't go on a date with him.

03:08:13.000 I didn't say that.

03:08:15.000 I didn't say that.

03:08:17.000 I've done dated a man with a lazy eye already.

03:08:20.000 I really don't care.

03:08:21.000 So long as you make sense in the head.

03:08:23.000 Why you laughing though?

03:08:25.000 The point I'm trying to make here, I'm just trying to illustrate an example that all human beings judge a book by its cover.

03:08:31.000 So if you're involved in sex work, well, what's the keyword?

03:08:33.000 Sex. 0.99

03:08:34.000 People are going to assume you're fucking. 1.00

03:08:35.000 Whether you are or not. 1.00

03:08:37.000 That's one of the negatives of that profession.

03:08:39.000 I know.

03:08:39.000 So it comes with negative stigma.

03:08:41.000 I didn't say it didn't.

03:08:43.000 I'm just saying. 0.94

03:08:43.000 Because you're saying, well, that doesn't mean I'm always fucking, but I'm saying people are always going to assume they can't change that. 0.94

03:08:47.000 I'm speaking for myself here. 1.00

03:08:50.000 But most girls in your profession, especially the ones that make a lot of money, are fucking. 1.00

03:08:54.000 I don't want to speak for them either. 1.00

03:08:56.000 I don't know what goes on in between their legs.

03:08:58.000 I'm sure you do.

03:09:02.000 Myron's a man of God.

03:09:03.000 Look at Fresh being quiet.

03:09:05.000 I think Fresh is more of a man of God.

03:09:08.000 I never claimed to be a man of God.

03:09:10.000 Yes, he is.

03:09:11.000 He's a man of God.

03:09:13.000 Facts.

03:09:13.000 I admit that I'm not the most religious guy.

03:09:15.000 I'm just saying that that line of work is always going to be judged the book by its cover, which, you know, I always find it funny.

03:09:21.000 Girls get mad when they get judged, but I would argue women judge men way more than men judge women.

03:09:25.000 Generally. 0.99

03:09:26.000 I'm so fucking nonchalant. 0.99

03:09:28.000 You know that. 0.99

03:09:29.000 Okay.

03:09:29.000 What about you?

03:09:32.000 I don't argue. 1.00

03:09:34.000 I shut the fuck up. 0.99

03:09:35.000 I'm quiet. 1.00

03:09:36.000 I cook.

03:09:36.000 I clean.

03:09:37.000 I'm fun.

03:09:38.000 I like to be at home.

03:09:42.000 She needs a ring. 0.94

03:09:43.000 Yeah, she does.

03:09:45.000 I was going to ask the same question.

03:09:47.000 No shade.

03:09:49.000 I'm picky.

03:09:50.000 I guess I haven't really found anyone that I like.

03:09:56.000 How much money does your guy got to make bare minimum for you to give him a shot and take him seriously?

03:09:59.000 I I live in Miami.

03:10:02.000 What's your minimum?

03:10:03.000 If I'm going to stay at home.

03:10:05.000 If I'm going to stay at home, maybe like, I don't know, at least like 250k at least.

03:10:13.000 At least.

03:10:14.000 Annual?

03:10:15.000 Annual, right?

03:10:15.000 250k annual?

03:10:17.000 Yeah, at least.

03:10:18.000 That's like 21, 22k a month.

03:10:20.000 Alright.

03:10:22.000 What about you? 1.00

03:10:24.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

03:10:26.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

03:10:31.000 I don't know. 1.00

03:10:31.000 Like, if I'm in a relationship, my man always gonna be right. 1.00

03:10:34.000 No, but the question is, how would you get a guy that's high value to take you seriously over another girl that he's dealing with?

03:10:40.000 But if he's dealing with me, then he already taking me some sort of serious, right?

03:10:45.000 But I'm saying, how would you replace the other girl and be the main one? 0.82

03:10:47.000 What would you do?

03:10:48.000 You can never replace other girls if men cheat.

03:10:51.000 They do what they do.

03:10:51.000 Yeah, but you can absolutely be the main girl at the top of the totem pole.

03:10:54.000 How do you become number one? 1.00

03:10:56.000 Shit, just being loyal. 1.00

03:10:58.000 Loyal in what regard? 1.00

03:11:00.000 Loyal in every regard he wants me to be. 0.99

03:11:02.000 What if the other girl isn't fucking other dudes too? 1.00

03:11:05.000 But you can't fuck other dudes and expect the man to just fuck with you. 1.00

03:11:09.000 No, I'm saying she's being loyal to the other girl. 1.00

03:11:12.000 Loyalty is kind of like a default for a woman. 1.00

03:11:14.000 So that's what you would bring is loyalty, which is default trait.

03:11:17.000 I mean, everything goes too, but I really don't do it.

03:11:19.000 I mean, I don't do wifey stuff unless he's my man.

03:11:23.000 So I'm not going to be cooking.

03:11:25.000 I'm not going to be sleeping and doing all that.

03:11:27.000 I ain't going to be cleaning, watching the kids.

03:11:29.000 So he's got to marry you for you to do that.

03:11:32.000 I wouldn't say marry me, but you could not have other girlfriends.

03:11:35.000 No. 1.00

03:11:35.000 Shit. 1.00

03:11:36.000 Nah, nigga. 1.00

03:11:37.000 Nah.

03:11:38.000 But wouldn't it be fair to say that when a guy's dating you, he's testing you out?

03:11:41.000 So you would probably want to put on a good performance?

03:11:43.000 But I'm testing him too. 0.93

03:11:44.000 Yeah, nigga. 1.00

03:11:45.000 Yeah, but who's the employer? 0.97

03:11:49.000 Who's the employer?

03:11:50.000 Yeah, who's the employer?

03:11:51.000 The man or the woman? 0.99

03:11:53.000 The woman.

03:11:54.000 I would argue it's the other way around because the man is the one that gives you the relationship and the commitment.

03:11:58.000 He's the employer, you're the employee.

03:11:59.000 But you just said that- If you want to be vice president, don't you have to work up the ranks and become vice president?

03:12:03.000 But you just said we have our pick of many men.

03:12:05.000 We can have any man we want if we're pretty, right? 0.55

03:12:08.000 Yeah, but the man that you want, you have to compete for because there's very few of them.

03:12:12.000 There's plenty of pretty girls, not very high status men that you want. 0.58

03:12:15.000 I do agree, but I'm not competing over a man that got another girl because you already lost.

03:12:19.000 Period.

03:12:20.000 You already lost.

03:12:23.000 Okay, so you're not going to compete?

03:12:25.000 No.

03:12:26.000 You do realize the math doesn't add up there?

03:12:29.000 No.

03:12:30.000 If you're going to make me compete, I'm going to break my back and you're still going to do what you do?

03:12:36.000 What's more common, attractive women or high-status men?

03:12:41.000 Attractive women. 1.00

03:12:42.000 So doesn't that mean automatically supply and demand?

03:12:45.000 There's less men, so that means the girls got to compete? 1.00

03:12:48.000 No.

03:12:49.000 You don't have to do nothing.

03:12:51.000 Myron!

03:12:52.000 You can be an independent woman if you want to.

03:12:54.000 She doesn't understand the basic concept of supply and demand.

03:12:57.000 He is, I'm not.

03:12:58.000 You're on your own.

03:12:59.000 I'm with her.

03:12:59.000 I agree with her.

03:13:00.000 Okay, what about you?

03:13:02.000 Save us.

03:13:03.000 Please save us.

03:13:03.000 So if someone is already in a relationship or has already a girl...

03:13:07.000 What would you do to become the main girl? 0.98

03:13:10.000 I wouldn't even bother, honestly.

03:13:11.000 But if I want to actually be with that man, I want that man so bad, and I want him to be by my side and not that girl's side, then I can bring him loyalty, commitment, respect.

03:13:23.000 But wouldn't it be fair to say that's a requirement of any guy?

03:13:26.000 That's basic stuff. 0.96

03:13:27.000 You shouldn't be f***ing other guys in a relationship. 0.92

03:13:30.000 I know, that's what I'm saying. 0.98

03:13:31.000 For three basic stuff that I told you, what I will...

03:13:36.000 But the other girl's already giving him that. 0.96

03:13:37.000 But y'all ain't in a relationship.

03:13:39.000 Why would he pick you over the other girl? 0.72

03:13:41.000 I'm kidding. 1.00

03:13:42.000 You said what, pussy? 1.00

03:13:43.000 Pussy. 1.00

03:13:44.000 Pussy. 1.00

03:13:45.000 So you bring to the table some loyalty, commitment, and pussy. 1.00

03:13:50.000 Pussy. 1.00

03:13:52.000 Yo, this is crazy, bro. 1.00

03:13:54.000 Okay, what about you?

03:13:57.000 So she brings nothing, basically.

03:13:59.000 Great.

03:14:00.000 There's a bunch of liabilities.

03:14:01.000 My Instagram!

03:14:08.000 Wait, wait, hold on.

03:14:17.000 Do you go to the inn?

03:14:28.000 Mo, let's go to the Yim. 1.00

03:14:34.000 Mo, let's go to the Yim to get some pussy. 1.00

03:14:43.000 Say chuchu. 1.00

03:14:46.000 No manches way. 1.00

03:14:47.000 Oh shit! 1.00

03:14:50.000 Mono is Spanish! 1.00

03:14:52.000 Is that Spanish?

03:14:54.000 Yes, yes! 1.00

03:14:55.000 Mom made the pussy wet! 1.00

03:15:00.000 Okay, sorry, go ahead. 1.00

03:15:03.000 I'm very realistic in the sense that if this is a high-value man, I'm aware he's going to have multiple women.

03:15:11.000 So I'm not trying to replace her.

03:15:13.000 I just need to be added to, like, the main rotation.

03:15:16.000 That's it.

03:15:17.000 I can cook.

03:15:17.000 I just want to be your favorite.

03:15:19.000 I'm a really good cook.

03:15:20.000 I like cleaning.

03:15:21.000 I just want to be one of the mains ones.

03:15:23.000 I'm not tripping.

03:15:23.000 I'll be the only one.

03:15:24.000 Yeah, I just want to be the number one.

03:15:26.000 Okay.

03:15:27.000 Yeah.

03:15:28.000 Understanding.

03:15:28.000 All right.

03:15:30.000 Fair enough.

03:15:30.000 All right, so we got some chats here and then let's head out of here.

03:15:33.000 Was that it?

03:15:34.000 Yeah.

03:15:34.000 Yo, two down from Fresh giving Juwanaman vibes.

03:15:39.000 I know that pH level is all over the charts because that masculinity is stinking the place. 0.93

03:15:43.000 You want to say back to him?

03:15:45.000 Is that child?

03:15:46.000 Yeah.

03:15:47.000 God bless you.

03:15:48.000 All right.

03:15:49.000 There you go.

03:15:50.000 Ozzy88.

03:15:51.000 Myron, is your original intro song available anywhere online?

03:15:53.000 Ladies, rate Myron and Fresh on Looks Only and Fresh and Myron will rate you back.

03:15:56.000 Shout out to the crew.

03:15:58.000 Should we do that?

03:15:59.000 Sure, we'd be happy to let you guys get your revenge. 1.00

03:16:02.000 No, no, y'all be able to shit on us. 1.00

03:16:03.000 It's fine. 0.99

03:16:05.000 Wait, the song?

03:16:07.000 Bro, we always put it in the description.

03:16:09.000 It's the Festa remix of Push It to the Limit.

03:16:12.000 We go around the table, have them rate us?

03:16:14.000 Do that last?

03:16:15.000 Yeah, last.

03:16:16.000 Yeah.

03:16:16.000 All right.

03:16:16.000 Don't worry, ladies.

03:16:17.000 You'll be able to rate us.

03:16:18.000 Johnny Black. 0.92

03:16:19.000 Shout out to Icy for putting the mittens on that fake Israeli chick. 1.00

03:16:23.000 That was for the ancestors right there. 0.97

03:16:25.000 She was an imposter anyway. 1.00

03:16:26.000 It was very refreshing.

03:16:27.000 Felt that in my soul.

03:16:28.000 Love Icy for that one.

03:16:30.000 All right, Johnny Black.

03:16:31.000 Are the women on the panel aware that if they do not adhere to the boundaries that mentally sound men want, the chances of them not having a family and further pushing this false matriarchal mindset to the good women who are programmed by a mainstream is very high.

03:16:48.000 I think girls are going to continue to do what benefits them and unfortunately that doesn't mean a family sometimes. 0.95

03:16:53.000 Crash TV, you have glasses.

03:16:55.000 Do you really think a high value man will want his children needing them?

03:16:58.000 You have five on your best day. 1.00

03:17:00.000 You can suck it. 1.00

03:17:01.000 I'm from New York. 1.00

03:17:02.000 Suck my dick. 1.00

03:17:06.000 Do you think a guy that makes Fondra Camp Rear is going to want a girl with a dick? 1.00

03:17:13.000 Oh, that must have just happened. 1.00

03:17:17.000 Oh, what the?

03:17:19.000 Just please, uh, take a seat.

03:17:23.000 This is a family show.

03:17:25.000 Twenty-five percent.

03:17:27.000 You can pray all you want.

03:17:29.000 Prayer's not getting any higher than the ceiling.

03:17:32.000 He's not coming.

03:17:33.000 Jesus has bigger things to worry about.

03:17:38.000 Okay, you have anything you want to say back to him?

03:17:39.000 Did that make you feel good?

03:17:41.000 Okay.

03:17:43.000 Irrational goes, Western women forget that they have an important role for humanity that will dictate our future as a species. 1.00

03:17:48.000 Strong families are secondary.

03:17:50.000 I'm leaving the country.

03:17:51.000 All right.

03:17:53.000 First is 2023, not 2022.

03:17:56.000 Second, this is for your hair follicles.

03:17:59.000 I'm losing my hair again.

03:18:01.000 Put them in a spiritual position.

03:18:03.000 It's called the missionary position.

03:18:05.000 And you ruined that tonight.

03:18:07.000 Spiritual hygiene? 0.61

03:18:09.000 Baptize your attitude. 0.99

03:18:10.000 It stinks.

03:18:11.000 Pfizer, Boone Farms, boxed wine, and local cat shelters.

03:18:14.000 Thank you, ladies.

03:18:15.000 Thank you, ladies, for the future patronage.

03:18:17.000 Anyone have anything to say back to that?

03:18:18.000 I don't like cats.

03:18:23.000 I work an average job at a warehouse making 80k a year plus with an eye condition, but you wouldn't know would you talk to me?

03:18:32.000 Oh, and 21, FNF lit tonight.

03:18:34.000 So we're going to go around and let the girls rate us now? 1.00

03:18:39.000 Rumble real quick.

03:18:42.000 Chazina, the warrior princess.

03:18:43.000 All right.

03:18:44.000 Yeah, after that time, definitely a warrior.

03:18:45.000 Debbie Zina for handling that.

03:18:46.000 Well, I see.

03:18:48.000 Debbie Zina for finally getting claimed by Sneeko.

03:18:48.000 Okay.

03:18:50.000 Don't mess up.

03:18:51.000 Okay.

03:18:52.000 Jesse Stay goes, the fourth girl on the first side looks like Sid from the Ice Age. 0.97

03:18:56.000 Wait, the fourth?

03:18:57.000 I think that'd be me.

03:18:59.000 No, girl. 0.96

03:19:00.000 Yeah, you look like Sid from Ice Age.

03:19:04.000 And Gloria from Madagascar had a baby.

03:19:06.000 Appreciate you guys for all the hard work and being an icon.

03:19:08.000 Appreciate it, bro.

03:19:09.000 To the Shaniqua 3 down from Fit, if money is so easy to make, the concept of 1% wouldn't exist. 0.94

03:19:15.000 Bitches really prove that they don't really know the most poor people on earth are men. 1.00

03:19:21.000 Watermelon each. 1.00

03:19:22.000 What?

03:19:23.000 I don't get it.

03:19:24.000 I don't get that.

03:19:25.000 W. Chris, I'm still wondering what you was going to say.

03:19:27.000 I'm good.

03:19:28.000 Okay.

03:19:28.000 And the last one, the archer.

03:19:30.000 Women demand that men change. 1.00

03:19:32.000 I like her.

03:19:33.000 You don't got a choice.

03:19:34.000 Okay, ladies, this is the last part of the show.

03:19:36.000 Let me all go home.

03:19:37.000 So we're going to rate...

03:19:38.000 They should rate us, right?

03:19:39.000 Yeah, they're going to rate us first.

03:19:40.000 Yeah, you can rate us.

03:19:41.000 One out of ten.

03:19:42.000 Should we tell them it's looks only or based on...

03:19:45.000 Okay, looks only.

03:19:46.000 Looks only.

03:19:48.000 I think looks only.

03:19:49.000 Listen, I'll let you pick.

03:19:51.000 How about we do two?

03:19:53.000 How about we do looks only and then, like, whole personality?

03:19:56.000 That's too much, man.

03:19:57.000 If you saw them from afar, how would you feel?

03:20:02.000 Look, because the thing is, it's confusing because with men, we're able to say, yo, we only care about looks so men are able to rate women based on looks. 1.00

03:20:08.000 But women use a bunch of different shit. 1.00

03:20:10.000 Money, income, confidence, ambition, all this bullshit. 1.00

03:20:14.000 So what do you ladies want to use? 0.99

03:20:15.000 Looks only or do you want to use the full package?

03:20:16.000 I'll let y'all pick.

03:20:17.000 Full package looks.

03:20:19.000 Raise your hands if you only want looks.

03:20:21.000 Raise your hands.

03:20:22.000 I want both.

03:20:22.000 I don't know.

03:20:23.000 I want both.

03:20:23.000 Whatever.

03:20:24.000 So only two girls only want... 1.00

03:20:25.000 Okay, so I guess full package then is what it is.

03:20:28.000 So go ahead.

03:20:29.000 And if you want to...

03:20:31.000 Delineate and be like, okay, your looks is this and then everything else is this.

03:20:34.000 I'll give it to you guys open, whatever the hell you want.

03:20:34.000 You can do that too.

03:20:36.000 Yeah, let's do that.

03:20:37.000 Go ahead.

03:20:37.000 We'll start here?

03:20:38.000 Speaking of packages, who I'm starting with?

03:20:42.000 Whoever you choose.

03:20:43.000 This is your chance to get revenge.

03:20:44.000 Go ahead.

03:20:45.000 How big is your package?

03:20:48.000 Who got the biggest in the world?

03:20:50.000 You don't know?

03:20:51.000 I'll measure it tomorrow.

03:20:57.000 Fresh vision.

03:20:59.000 I think we found our culprit.

03:21:04.000 Wait, what?

03:21:05.000 It's your turn.

03:21:06.000 Go ahead.

03:21:07.000 Or do you not want to answer?

03:21:08.000 If you don't want to answer, I'll move on.

03:21:09.000 It's cool.

03:21:11.000 Just looks.

03:21:12.000 We're not going to get mad. 0.99

03:21:13.000 I don't give a fuck. 0.99

03:21:15.000 Fantastic. 0.99

03:21:17.000 Go ahead.

03:21:17.000 Yeah, she don't want to answer.

03:21:18.000 Alright, cool.

03:21:19.000 I'm going to start with my own.

03:21:20.000 I think I have an eight.

03:21:21.000 Okay.

03:21:22.000 Is that just looks or everything?

03:21:25.000 Everything.

03:21:26.000 But looks, looks, I think you're like a 7.5.

03:21:32.000 Like a high 7.5.

03:21:34.000 But with everything, you're definitely like a high 8.

03:21:34.000 Alright.

03:21:36.000 Alright.

03:21:37.000 For sure.

03:21:38.000 Thank you.

03:21:38.000 I appreciate that.

03:21:39.000 Fresh looks, you're like a 2, bro.

03:21:42.000 I'm sorry.

03:21:44.000 You just made Chris's day.

03:21:47.000 No, no, no. 1.00

03:21:50.000 But your energy, I fuck with you. 1.00

03:21:52.000 Like, I love your confidence and, like, your personality. 1.00

03:21:56.000 Your personality, I'd say you're, like, an eight, like Myers.

03:21:58.000 With everything.

03:21:59.000 Chris is going to have a field day with Chris.

03:22:03.000 Should we wait Christmas?

03:22:05.000 You can wait, Chris.

03:22:06.000 Sure.

03:22:06.000 Go ahead.

03:22:08.000 Go ahead, Chris. 1.00

03:22:09.000 Put the camera on you, nigger. 1.00

03:22:12.000 Looks... 1.00

03:22:13.000 I'd say, like, a 6.5... 1.00

03:22:19.000 But his personality, I fuck with him. 1.00

03:22:22.000 He's like an 8.5 for sure. 1.00

03:22:24.000 I fuck with his energy. 1.00

03:22:25.000 What about you? 1.00

03:22:25.000 Cool. 1.00

03:22:26.000 You can be as raw.

03:22:27.000 We don't get offended.

03:22:27.000 Trust me.

03:22:28.000 Fresh, I would give you like a 4 on the looks.

03:22:33.000 But the personality is there.

03:22:34.000 I swear.

03:22:35.000 The personality is there.

03:22:36.000 You're cool.

03:22:37.000 But a 4 on the looks.

03:22:39.000 So that would probably level you up to like a 6.

03:22:42.000 Okay.

03:22:43.000 And then Myron, I would give you Probably an 8 on the look.

03:22:51.000 And like...

03:22:53.000 I can be brutal?

03:22:55.000 No, go ahead.

03:22:57.000 And then I'll probably give you like a 5 on the personality because I like a smart guy but not like I'm the smartest in the room type of guy.

03:23:04.000 It kind of gives that a little bit.

03:23:06.000 Well, I'd argue in this situation I definitely am.

03:23:08.000 But that's fine.

03:23:08.000 But yeah.

03:23:10.000 But okay.

03:23:11.000 That's okay.

03:23:12.000 You don't like the thing.

03:23:15.000 The non-agreeableness.

03:23:16.000 Fair enough.

03:23:17.000 I could take that.

03:23:19.000 No, you can't skip.

03:23:21.000 No, she can skip if she wants.

03:23:22.000 You don't want to say?

03:23:23.000 You're bogus.

03:23:23.000 Bro, we can take criticism, man.

03:23:25.000 It's fine.

03:23:25.000 Go for the chat.

03:23:26.000 Go for the content.

03:23:27.000 I'm not a mean person.

03:23:28.000 I can't do it.

03:23:29.000 I'm not a mean person.

03:23:31.000 She called on herself.

03:23:33.000 She'll do it after that. 0.79

03:23:35.000 Fix her a shot. 1.00

03:23:36.000 Maybe after that.

03:23:36.000 You want Hennessy?

03:23:38.000 Tito.

03:23:39.000 Okay, what about you?

03:23:46.000 Fresh, I'm gonna give you a three, looks-wise. 0.64

03:23:57.000 You're a cool guy, so I'll give you like a seven, personality-wise.

03:24:04.000 Myron, you're like a Six, mix-wise. 1.00

03:24:11.000 Okay.

03:24:12.000 And personality, I want to say you kind of have your head on straight, so I'll give you an eight. 0.99

03:24:19.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

03:24:20.000 I thought it'd be like a two or some shit. 1.00

03:24:22.000 All right. 0.99

03:24:23.000 What about you?

03:24:24.000 Fresh, I'll tell her you.

03:24:28.000 It's going to contribute to my answer.

03:24:30.000 5'11, bro!

03:24:30.000 5'10.

03:24:32.000 Almost 6 foot.

03:24:34.000 5'11, you're usually 5'10, 5'9.

03:24:37.000 So, I give you like a 6.5. 0.95

03:24:40.000 You have good energy, your confidence is high, you're nice, you're not an asshole, you're not too short! 0.88

03:24:48.000 And that's a totality? 0.91

03:24:50.000 Totality.

03:24:51.000 You're going not off looks, just totality?

03:24:52.000 I'm just totality.

03:24:53.000 I'm always totality.

03:24:55.000 That's fine.

03:24:58.000 Myron.

03:24:59.000 Like an 88.5 because you're tall.

03:25:05.000 He's got muscles.

03:25:06.000 You're tall.

03:25:06.000 You're fit.

03:25:07.000 You're successful.

03:25:10.000 I'm trying to self-improve.

03:25:16.000 You're dominant.

03:25:17.000 You're smart.

03:25:19.000 I like dominant men.

03:25:20.000 How tall are you?

03:25:22.000 6'3".

03:25:23.000 Can I ask how old you guys are too?

03:25:24.000 I've been wondering that.

03:25:25.000 How old are you?

03:25:27.000 33.

03:25:28.000 How old are you?

03:25:28.000 30.

03:25:30.000 How old is Chris?

03:25:31.000 34. 1.00

03:25:33.000 Oh, shit! 0.99

03:25:35.000 Was I supposed to rate Chris, too? 1.00

03:25:40.000 No.

03:25:42.000 Chris, can you flip the camera back, please?

03:25:44.000 Yeah, there you go.

03:25:46.000 Look at his eyes.

03:25:47.000 His eyes give you like a seven.

03:25:51.000 He looks like he's like a cuddler.

03:25:55.000 Yeah, you look like a teddy bear.

03:25:56.000 I feel like I could like snuggle for you and you'd be real like warm and like, you know, I don't know.

03:26:04.000 I love it.

03:26:05.000 I love it.

03:26:08.000 Yo.

03:26:09.000 Yo.

03:26:13.000 It sounds like a 7.

03:26:14.000 A 7.

03:26:15.000 Alright, cool.

03:26:16.000 Alright, what about you?

03:26:17.000 I feel like it's the best of all worlds up in here.

03:26:21.000 Everybody look good to me.

03:26:23.000 I mean, I give everybody a 10 on looks. 0.99

03:26:25.000 Goddamn. 0.99

03:26:26.000 Honestly, he's chocolate. 1.00

03:26:28.000 I love chocolate man.

03:26:29.000 I love big man.

03:26:30.000 And he just fine.

03:26:32.000 So, I feel like everybody get a 10 for looks.

03:26:34.000 Everybody gets a 10.

03:26:35.000 For looks.

03:26:40.000 It's not realistic because I don't think we're perfect, but that's fine.

03:26:43.000 What about you?

03:26:47.000 So, you're really chill.

03:26:52.000 I like you.

03:26:52.000 Your personality is awesome.

03:26:54.000 You're sweet.

03:26:55.000 You're not mean.

03:27:11.000 I feel like you're a really smart person.

03:27:18.000 I feel like you'd like search of things before going on podcast.

03:27:20.000 I would hope so.

03:27:23.000 I like that you're fit.

03:27:24.000 I was looking at your muscles earlier.

03:27:26.000 Oh yeah?

03:27:29.000 What about Chris?

03:27:40.000 Wait, what's the number?

03:27:41.000 Oh, you said nine?

03:27:42.000 Nine.

03:27:43.000 Okay.

03:27:43.000 What about Chris?

03:27:44.000 Chris.

03:27:47.000 Let's go home, baby!

03:27:56.000 Period.

03:27:56.000 Good job, Chris.

03:27:57.000 Yeah.

03:27:58.000 I will say this. 0.99

03:27:58.000 You were right about the warmness because no homo one time I was like, yo, Chris, it's cold as fuck out here, bro. 0.99

03:28:04.000 Let me borrow your hoodie. 0.98

03:28:05.000 Pause. 1.00

03:28:06.000 Yo, that shit was like fucking burning. 1.00

03:28:08.000 I was like, what the hell is going on? 1.00

03:28:09.000 Why does he got all this body?

03:28:11.000 He looks so snuggly.

03:28:12.000 I was like, yo, you got a fever?

03:28:16.000 What's wrong with you? 0.99

03:28:18.000 I thought this nigga was sick. 1.00

03:28:20.000 All right. 0.99

03:28:21.000 So yeah, you were on the money with that.

03:28:22.000 All right.

03:28:22.000 What about you?

03:28:25.000 I'll give you 5.5.

03:28:29.000 Chris, I want to see your reaction to that.

03:28:34.000 He loved this too much, bro. 1.00

03:28:36.000 Screw you, dog. 0.99

03:28:37.000 Y'all don't understand. 1.00

03:28:38.000 You guys are literally giving Chris content for weeks to talk shit to Fresh. 0.98

03:28:43.000 It's cool, man. 0.97

03:28:46.000 It's cool, Chris.

03:28:47.000 What's the highest number you've gotten, Fresh?

03:28:51.000 She gave him an 8.

03:28:53.000 Yeah, she gave him an 8.

03:28:54.000 I'd say a 10.

03:28:55.000 You mean this show or in general?

03:28:57.000 In general, like throughout all the podcasts?

03:29:01.000 I think I'm a 9.

03:29:03.000 There's been a few times where you beat me out.

03:29:06.000 The girls like darker guys. 0.99

03:29:08.000 You beat me out completely.

03:29:10.000 And the Lambos. 1.00

03:29:12.000 Shut up, Chris. 1.00

03:29:14.000 Alright, go ahead. 1.00

03:29:15.000 Sorry.

03:29:16.000 Yeah, 5.5 and a 9.5.

03:29:19.000 Alright, cool.

03:29:20.000 What about Chris?

03:29:21.000 Yes, what about Chris?

03:29:25.000 Look at those nostrils, bro.

03:29:30.000 What do you eat, bro?

03:29:33.000 You matched Fresh.

03:29:35.000 Okay.

03:29:37.000 Five?

03:29:38.000 Yeah. 0.99

03:29:38.000 Damn, Chris, you can't say he ugly now. 0.99

03:29:40.000 You matched him. 1.00

03:29:42.000 Yeah, okay.

03:29:43.000 All right.

03:29:44.000 Fair enough.

03:29:45.000 I think...

03:29:45.000 What else?

03:29:46.000 Oh, and then the last thoughts.

03:29:47.000 Yeah, last thoughts.

03:29:48.000 Oh, the last thoughts on the show.

03:29:50.000 Go ahead, and then we'll work our way around.

03:29:51.000 It's always great to be here.

03:29:53.000 You guys are great.

03:29:54.000 The show's great.

03:29:55.000 Thank you for having me.

03:29:56.000 Thank you for coming.

03:29:56.000 Thanks for coming.

03:29:57.000 It was really fun.

03:29:58.000 I love the drama and I love what's going on over here.

03:30:01.000 I liked it.

03:30:02.000 It's interesting.

03:30:20.000 I had fun, even though, you know, I was cutting everybody off.

03:30:25.000 I'm sorry.

03:30:26.000 That's Courtney. 0.58

03:30:27.000 Oh, wow.

03:30:27.000 She took accountability at the end of the show.

03:30:29.000 That's awesome.

03:30:29.000 Fantastic.

03:30:31.000 All right.

03:30:32.000 Thanks.

03:30:32.000 What about you?

03:30:33.000 It was good.

03:30:34.000 I liked it.

03:30:34.000 Happy to be here.

03:30:35.000 I actually listen to the show, and I'm the only women in the world that I feel like listens to this.

03:30:39.000 Oh.

03:30:40.000 You know, I will say this.

03:30:41.000 There's a surprising amount of girls that are starting to watch.

03:30:43.000 We're almost at 10% viewership for girls.

03:30:46.000 Still 90% men, but we're almost at 10%.

03:30:48.000 I feel like a lot of women watch, especially if Tate's on the show. 1.00

03:30:51.000 Yeah.

03:30:51.000 Then I'll always watch.

03:30:52.000 Okay.

03:30:53.000 He'll be back here soon.

03:30:55.000 Yeah, soon.

03:30:56.000 Good.

03:30:56.000 Call me in.

03:30:57.000 Yeah.

03:30:59.000 It was nice being back.

03:31:00.000 It was fun.

03:31:02.000 You've been out before?

03:31:03.000 Yeah.

03:31:04.000 I had red hair.

03:31:06.000 I was emotional damage, long-term relationships.

03:31:08.000 You guys kept calling it.

03:31:10.000 Emotional damage!

03:31:12.000 We're healed.

03:31:13.000 We're healed.

03:31:13.000 How long ago?

03:31:15.000 This was probably in June or July.

03:31:17.000 Something like that.

03:31:18.000 It was with Smiley.

03:31:20.000 Jordans of Diamonds.

03:31:21.000 Yeah, it was Smiley.

03:31:22.000 It was a while back.

03:31:23.000 It's been a minute.

03:31:24.000 When you said you had red hair, you looked way different?

03:31:26.000 Oh yeah, I was going through it.

03:31:28.000 Yeah, you were going through it alright.

03:31:29.000 Yeah, we're healed.

03:31:30.000 We're better.

03:31:32.000 But now she's awesome. 1.00

03:31:33.000 She's cool.

03:31:34.000 So, welcome back.

03:31:35.000 Okay, you know her too because you be going to booby trap all the time. 0.70

03:31:38.000 Well, I used to not anymore.

03:31:39.000 I'm a man of God now.

03:31:41.000 Yes, sir.

03:31:44.000 What about you?

03:31:45.000 Your final thoughts?

03:31:46.000 Hate us, love us.

03:31:48.000 I had a great time.

03:31:49.000 Thank you guys so much for having me. 0.84

03:31:51.000 You can say it sucked. 0.56

03:31:52.000 No, it did not suck. 0.98

03:31:53.000 I had a good time.

03:31:54.000 Did you learn anything?

03:31:58.000 Did you learn anything or no?

03:32:00.000 No, I didn't learn anything.

03:32:03.000 Okay, I can take that.

03:32:05.000 What about you?

03:32:06.000 I think we had a good talk.

03:32:07.000 It was fun.

03:32:08.000 I enjoyed meeting you ladies.

03:32:10.000 It was a good debate.

03:32:12.000 It was just a good time.

03:32:13.000 I enjoyed it.

03:32:14.000 I didn't watch it before I did it, but I'll probably start watching after this.

03:32:17.000 Wow, you came in blind?

03:32:20.000 I came in so blind.

03:32:21.000 A lot of girls watch the show with their girlfriends or their husbands and stuff like that. 1.00

03:32:25.000 Boyfriends.

03:32:26.000 Well, a lot of couples watch it and then girls with their boyfriends too.

03:32:31.000 Hey, man, I'd be saying, if girls actually listen to the podcast and put their feelings aside, we will teach y'all how to find a man. 1.00

03:32:36.000 Easy.

03:32:36.000 Could I? They need to read the book?

03:32:38.000 What?

03:32:38.000 Comment on that?

03:32:39.000 Huh?

03:32:39.000 Go on, sure.

03:32:40.000 Ever since I started listening to, like, this thing, this is when I started picking up cues of, like, I wanted a high-value man forever, but, like, I realize now what they want from listening to this kind of stuff and, like, entertain. 0.78

03:32:54.000 And I feel like women will take little clips you see on the internet, and then you'll judge and be like, oh, that's anti, like, I'm just crap, whatever. 0.53

03:33:04.000 But I feel like when you actually sit and listen to the whole episode, like, Hours of and listen to the whole discussion, then you actually understand the point of views and sides where you guys are coming from.

03:33:15.000 Prior to listening to our podcast or listening to Andrew or whatever it may be, did you like have zero clue of what higher status men wanted back from their girl?

03:33:23.000 Absolutely.

03:33:24.000 Zero clue.

03:33:25.000 One hundred percent.

03:33:26.000 And I actually had like a high value guy that I met that I like really, really, really liked.

03:33:31.000 Like I was very interested in, but I was like clinging and annoying and I wanted all this attention.

03:33:36.000 And I like talk back and argue points all the time.

03:33:40.000 And like he was left and I still am like sad about that.

03:33:46.000 Was it because, like, you thought, like, oh, guys like confident, ambitious women that can challenge them?

03:33:51.000 Is that why?

03:33:52.000 Yeah, I kind of more so thought about it as, like, men want to solve our problems.

03:33:58.000 But, like...

03:33:59.000 They don't want to hear you complain all the time.

03:34:02.000 Like, I feel like now I've kind of realized like men want women to be their piece, especially if you're like successful, high value, and you deal with a lot of stress on a day to day, especially in business and things like that.

03:34:11.000 Like, so when, you know, they have time to talk with you at the end of the day, they don't have time to text back and forth and answer a million FaceTimes and phone calls.

03:34:20.000 And they're not just sitting around, you know, they have things to do. 0.99

03:34:23.000 So when they finally do get that moment to talk to you, they don't want to hear 8 million complaints about how terrible your life is and how terrible your day was and how this went wrong and stupid shit that doesn't matter and hear you complain and complain and complain because it's more stress. 0.99

03:34:39.000 Okay, cool. 1.00

03:34:40.000 I'll take that.

03:34:41.000 I'm glad that it helped you.

03:34:42.000 Awesome.

03:34:43.000 Because even if it's able to connect dots as to why your last relationship failed, that's still a W because lessons learned, right?

03:34:51.000 All right.

03:34:51.000 What about you?

03:34:53.000 Shout out Daddy Tate. 1.00

03:34:55.000 He's the reason why I found this podcast.

03:34:58.000 And yeah, I love it. 1.00

03:35:01.000 I love the range of emotion and I enjoy the constructive criticism, even if I have a wrestling bitch face and I come off like a fucking asshole. 1.00

03:35:09.000 You know, once you get to know me, I'm the sweetest, most lovable, most giving person. 0.99

03:35:16.000 It's one of my, you know, personal traits and qualities that can't be bought.

03:35:23.000 And I know, you know, first impressions are not my forte.

03:35:26.000 And I'm willing to take accountability, but I appreciate you guys having me on.

03:35:30.000 And yeah.

03:35:31.000 All right, cool.

03:35:33.000 What about you?

03:35:34.000 Thank you for having me.

03:35:35.000 I had a really good time.

03:35:37.000 You don't gotta lie. 1.00

03:35:37.000 You can say fuck yeah. 1.00

03:35:38.000 I'm not lying. 0.99

03:35:39.000 I really enjoyed everybody's personality. 1.00

03:35:42.000 I'm about to say it was all over the place, but I like that type of shit. 0.99

03:35:45.000 I like chaos. 1.00

03:35:46.000 I do.

03:35:47.000 I like chaos.

03:35:50.000 All right.

03:35:50.000 Cool.

03:35:51.000 This was a great show.

03:35:53.000 Sorry, we got three more chats.

03:35:55.000 Okay, we'll run through these.

03:35:56.000 Thanks for rating, but remember Myron and Fresh to rate them too.

03:35:59.000 Also, Myron, when I said original intro, I meant the intro you guys used before this one.

03:36:03.000 Is it available anywhere?

03:36:04.000 I love that song.

03:36:05.000 Thank you guys.

03:36:05.000 It's the same exact intro.

03:36:07.000 So they want us to rate the girls?

03:36:08.000 Fresh, you go first.

03:36:09.000 Before we go.

03:36:10.000 I'm good, bro.

03:36:12.000 Alright, ladies, don't go down the route of modern women. 1.00

03:36:16.000 Be feminine. 0.86

03:36:17.000 Find a good man and keep him.

03:36:18.000 Question for the team.

03:36:20.000 How to go about contacting you guys to expand the show down here in Bali, Indonesia.

03:36:24.000 Tons of girls to interview and move the brand forward. 1.00

03:36:28.000 If we were to do another FNF in another location, bro, we'd probably do one in Dubai before we did one in Dubai.

03:36:35.000 Because you guys know I like Dubai a lot.

03:36:37.000 Dubai's fun.

03:36:38.000 Sometimes.

03:36:38.000 Awesome show tonight.

03:36:39.000 Well, you hate it, but I like it.

03:36:41.000 Awesome show tonight.

03:36:42.000 Thank you for all the quality content.

03:36:43.000 Best live podcast.

03:36:44.000 Hands down.

03:36:45.000 Keep up the great work.

03:36:46.000 Y'all appreciate that.

03:36:47.000 Nicole, too smooth. 0.95

03:36:48.000 All I thought about this podcast is that the one guy that called in last week bitching about Sneeko on blank women.

03:36:54.000 By the way, Myron definitely wasn't being argumentative.

03:36:56.000 He had Jesus today.

03:36:57.000 Fair enough.

03:36:58.000 All right.

03:36:59.000 I think...

03:37:00.000 All right, guys.

03:37:00.000 We'll catch you guys on the next episode of Fresh and Fit.

03:37:02.000 Friday.

03:37:03.000 I don't think the girls really care about our ratings. 0.99

03:37:05.000 Who gives a fuck? 0.99

03:37:05.000 They're going to get a bunch of attention from dudes anyway. 0.99

03:37:07.000 They don't need us.

03:37:07.000 Don't matter.

03:37:07.000 Our validation.

03:37:09.000 So, all right.

03:37:09.000 Cool.

03:37:09.000 We'll catch you guys on the next episode on Friday.

03:37:11.000 Probably going to be a call-in show or maybe a special guest.

03:37:14.000 And, yeah.

03:37:15.000 See you guys soon.

03:37:16.000 Like the video.

03:37:17.000 Subscribe to the channel.

03:37:17.000 Subscribe to the new channel.

03:37:19.000 More Fresh and Fit clips.

03:37:20.000 Catch you guys on the next one.

03:37:20.000 Peace.

03:37:27.000 We're good to go.

Fresh & Fit - April 20, 2023

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