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00:01:33.000We're going to probably start on YouTube and, you know, once we get into this other stuff, the JQ, if you guys know what I'm saying, we're going to have to go on Rumble for that one, all right?
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00:04:07.000And then also, I'm going to be dropping Numek, how a certain state that can't be named on YouTube stole the nuclear bomb from the United States and was involved in...
00:05:08.000Okay, if you don't mind, ladies, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course, your body count.
00:10:20.000When you say dancer, does that mean you're dancing to denominations of currency being thrown at you, or are we talking like pop and lock-in?
00:12:37.000I tried giving him another chance and then after his sister's wedding, the day after I was in all the family photos, he asked for a divorce and I said, okay, I want a divorce too.
00:13:34.000It was that he said I love you to another woman and was talking down on me.
00:13:39.000So if you just smashed her and not cared, you'd still be together?
00:13:47.000I'd be pissed, but I'd probably get over it because I do understand how temptation works and I've been through a lot of experiences, a lot of relationships.
00:18:21.000Alright, so first I'm going to hit off the first question here, but I'll read these chats.
00:18:25.000And then from this point forward, guys, I'll read the ones that came in from before, but you guys already know it's going to be 20 and up from this point forward.
00:18:31.000And then once we attend, we're going to go 50.
00:18:33.000Wyatt, ladies, what is your main goal in life?
00:18:35.000What do you think with age it will change?
00:19:46.000The actual question is, since women deny being hoes, why do women feel comfortable being seen in public with hoes or think that it's ever okay for a woman to have a high body count?
00:21:15.000So you're saying it's okay, which is fine, but you do understand that saying something is okay is the equivalent to saying it's not a problem, because a problem means it's not okay.
00:21:53.000But I think if you're out with a girl who like, I don't know, like I don't really have a lot of whole friends, but if I did have whole friends, I feel like they respect my boundaries when we out.
00:22:14.000I mean, I don't have a lot of hoes, but if I see a man out and I know he'd be out in the streets, I'm assuming that everybody he with out in the streets, too.
00:25:02.000And so they're hoes on the street, men and women, right?
00:25:05.000And then they find the person that they're supposed to be with and they are reformed.
00:25:09.000They settle down and they realize what they did in the past was wrong.
00:25:12.000They become the example that you were just speaking of.
00:25:15.000They grew from their past experiences, realized it was wrong at the time, but that doesn't make them a bad person for what they were doing at that time.
00:27:07.000Let's say you meet a guy, everything is going great, and then you find out that, you know, he used to suck dick every now and then, like back in the day.
00:28:56.000But, I mean, y'all see what I mean here, right?
00:28:57.000Like, a woman is expected to, you know, be accepted regardless of her past, but if a man went ahead and tried to play that game, he would never get accepted.
00:29:03.000Well, see, what I was saying was, I think everybody should be accepted.
00:32:28.000Or have you ever tried it before, and what was your experience with dealing with women?
00:32:32.000I would say I love my friends dearly, and my friendships are like, and I have a sister, you know, and we're really close and tight-knit, so if there were anything like my family, I'm sure it'd be great.
00:35:00.000I think with men they're more logical and if I'm like acting crazy and I like you know not gonna make a good decision I think a guy will kind of like snap me into place and be like hey like this is like what you're doing you know make me realize what's going on.
00:35:15.000With girls I think we just act on emotion and I need like a logical like manly figure.
00:35:21.000So, when are you going to find your Jay-Z? Maybe he'll be in the chat.
00:40:23.000Like, at the end of the day, you do what you gotta do, but you hustle.
00:40:26.000At the end of the day, if you're bringing money home and you're taking care of me and I could be able to take care of you, Realistically speaking, are women going to the club and making money a lot of the times?
00:41:06.000The point of the analogy is that women get angry when guys say, I want you to be home, but they don't realize that you have all this opportunity and all these situations that come into play that could fuck up the relationship just by you being a woman.
00:41:18.000And then you're saying, well, you get to go out and do shit A man going out and a woman going out are not the same at all.
00:41:30.000So if you just sit there and try to equate a guy going out and doing what he wants versus a woman going out and getting what she wants, it's not the same whatsoever.
00:41:36.000Women play the game on easy mode, so we're not equal.
00:46:46.000So it's like, a man is able to like, hold it down and shut up and like, if he's a man, a guy, or if he's been working on himself, he gonna be able to like, hold it down and not get an attitude and act like a female.
00:46:58.000He gonna be able to like, calm the woman down and like, understand what she need in the moment.
00:47:30.000You could try to be, like, patient and be, like, you know what I'm saying, with...
00:47:34.000In a woman-to-woman or man-to-man relationship, but it's just not going to work because you got to be man and woman.
00:47:40.000And then you build yourself up to that person, that woman that your man needs and your man build himself to that person that his wife needs.
00:48:52.000Like, without women, it's just, it's not going to work.
00:48:56.000So you're arguing sexuality when I asked you a sexuality question?
00:48:59.000You said, do men, if a man did not have, if a woman did not have vagina, did not have sex, would a man want to talk to her?
00:49:06.000I think a man gonna see a woman and be like, damn, this is a beautiful, let me get to know a little bit, let me find out, let me try to talk and pick her brain a little bit, at least.
00:49:15.000But the reason why men find women beautiful is because they want to have sex with them.
00:49:18.000Because that's what's out here all the time.
00:49:20.000But if sex was not out here and a man seen a woman without sex, without thinking about sex, he would still be curious and go and talk to her because we need that.
00:50:19.000No, no, no, I get that, but I think the conversations that you're talking about that you think they value you for is in fifth place compared to what they're really there for, but that's fine.
00:51:15.000If he wasn't attracted to you and didn't want to sleep with you, do you think he would sit there and tolerate being in the friend zone this long?
00:53:50.000Men work in construction, men do all that.
00:53:53.000So why would a man get more value talking to an individual that lives an easier life than talking to another individual that lives the same difficult life?
00:54:20.000Like, something to look up for every day, to wake up, to work, to make money.
00:54:24.000Like, Okay, let me ask this one more time, because you guys are clearly reacting with your emotions versus logic and rationale, which is why this conversation proves my point even further.
00:54:36.000I asked you, what value is a man going to get from having a conversation with a woman?
00:54:40.000And you're like, well, the female perspective is important.
00:54:45.000Who lives a harder life, men or women?
00:54:46.000You all agree that men live a harder life than women do.
00:54:48.000So then I went ahead and said, well, if men live a harder life than women, why would a guy get more benefit talking to a female versus talking to a male who lives the same difficult experience?
00:54:58.000And you guys rebutted that with saying, you came from a woman.
00:57:47.000Yeah, every argument you bring up, I'm just like, okay, well, realistically speaking, women aren't that great at that as you think they are.
00:57:55.000Like, let's see, where would that get you?
00:57:57.000Like, okay, yeah, a man could be experienced with female, but okay, you have- Men know how to manipulate a woman into their panties and stuff, because that's their goal.
01:00:22.000Because when you're looking at a girl, you're not going to hold her to the same standards that you hold them to a man.
01:00:27.000As a matter of fact, the whole reason I even asked that question is for me to come to this conclusion.
01:00:31.000I'm going to be very honest about this.
01:00:32.000You guys might not like it, but I'll turn it to you guys.
01:00:34.000I think women are fairly useless outside of sex.
01:00:37.000If I'm going to be all the way 1000, women don't offer much value to you unless they either A, are fucking you and they respect you so you can put them to work to do something for you and actually add value outside of sex, or B, they work for you directly and you're paying them.
01:00:49.000But other than that, women really don't offer men much value.
01:00:52.000That's why I tell guys don't have female friends because they're not going to give you that much value in return.
01:00:56.000You're better off hanging out with guys having male friends because you guys experience the same bullshit.
01:01:00.000You guys experience the same adversity.
01:01:02.000You're able to identify on that and work together to overcome it versus a female doesn't understand your experience.
01:01:07.000Most women don't understand the male experience at all, which I'm not knocking you guys for it.
01:01:10.000But the reality is that men live life on hard mode.
01:01:24.000And I think as someone Who needs to be able to grab themselves from the bootstraps, you're better off being around men that are going to tell you how the world really works versus women who are going to say some bullshit like go see a therapist or whatever.
01:02:35.000I think the reason for that is because men offer way more value.
01:02:38.000So if you're going to be in a relationship with someone, at least be with someone that's stronger than you, could protect you, could provide for you, provision for you, be more logically sound.
01:02:45.000You don't have to deal with their bullshit hormones and emotions.
01:02:47.000They're going to be a lot more Rational and stable than another female.
01:02:57.000So since you believe that, do you believe that if you had the option, you would live in a world where you just chill with the homies, period, that's it.
01:03:07.000You would not choose to see one female not one day for the rest of your life.
01:03:13.000Well, I told you before that women provide sexual access, so yeah.
01:03:16.000But if I'm talking about having genuine conversation, talking about things...
01:03:21.000For your life to be successful, and to be great and amazing...
01:03:35.000If a man actually does want to be extremely successful, he's gonna have to go through a period of time where he doesn't focus on females because females are 100% of liability.
01:03:42.000The whole process of courting and dealing with women in itself is extremely time-consuming, monetarily consuming, and can fuck with your energy.
01:03:49.000So, as a man, you need to take that and channel it into being productive.
01:03:55.000Every guy that I know that does nothing but chase women throughout their life ends up either broke, depressed, sad, whatever it may be because women are expensive to maintain and deal with.
01:04:04.000I would argue, and I'll say this real quick, the reason why is because women are designed to extract resources.
01:04:11.000Men are designed to create resources, women are designed to extract resources.
01:04:14.000And even at the highest levels, let's say you got a girl that's a millionaire, makes a lot of money, she still wants a man that makes 1.5, 1.2, 1.3.
01:04:21.000No matter how much security a woman could provide to herself, she still expects a man to bring more to the table than herself.
01:04:27.000So that proves my point that regardless of how much security a woman has, she still wants more.
01:04:31.000So as the guy, you have to be able to take periods of time off, right, from females to focus on you and build the castle, and then they will come.
01:04:39.000Because women don't build, they move in.
01:04:40.000And I would argue that, once again, men and women should be together.
01:04:45.000I think that's the optimal standpoint.
01:04:48.000However, I would just say as well, in that same sentence, that most men would prefer to have women in life.
01:06:51.000This would be a different type of conversation, but you would have to work on yourself apart from the women of the world to get that woman of God that got everything that you could ever imagine.
01:07:45.000I'm telling you the attraction doesn't even come into play unless I cross the finish line.
01:07:50.000You don't understand what I'm talking about.
01:07:51.000When I'm talking about a relationship in the spirit, not the flesh people of the world, you don't want no women while you're building yourself up because those women of the world are distractions, like he was saying.
01:08:00.000Right, but while you're building yourself up, the Lord can give you your woman while you're building yourself up.
01:08:06.000Yes, he can, but it doesn't always happen that way.
01:08:08.000It doesn't always happen that way, but you don't know your story until you live.
01:09:10.000Because you don't understand the masculine experience.
01:09:12.000And a lot of girls don't understand it.
01:09:13.000So what the hell do I look like talking to women that live in spirit worlds?
01:09:17.000I'm better off talking to a guy who's on planet Earth that understands my struggles, understands the burden of performance, understands that we need to get out there and fucking get it, and we can't You guys have said some nonsensical things during this podcast.
01:09:37.000For example, we asked you your relationship status.
01:09:39.000You said, in spirit, I'm XYZ. You ever hear men speak like that?
01:09:59.000The answer to that is no, and I'm going to tell you why.
01:10:05.000All millionaire men typically have very similar characteristic traits, and one of the biggest ones, whatever, that's your opinion, but the one of the biggest ones is understanding that they have to go out there and get it and make it happen.
01:10:16.000Nothing in the spirits and all this other reading tarot cards.
01:10:18.000Women believe in that because you guys have the privilege of being in a looney tour world.
01:10:40.000If I asked a man, what's your relationship status?
01:10:43.000Nine out of ten times, they would never say some crazy shit like, in spirit, I'm blah, blah, blah.
01:10:48.000But women say crazy stuff like this all the time and no one says anything because women are allowed to be in a looney tour world in general, being honest here.
01:10:55.000That's the beauty of women because we have the beauty.
01:12:58.000From a holistic standpoint, you want to be good in fitness, mindset, money, status, and by default, you're going to find a woman of value that way as well.
01:13:07.000But just wishing and hoping that God's going to give it to you, I mean, that's good and all, but without works, what's the faith?
01:16:01.000But I usually, when I talk with a guy and I give them the option when we're hanging out, I say, do you want to be my friend, friend with benefits?
01:21:50.000We got 20k watching pretty much between YouTube and Rumble.
01:21:53.000So what you guys don't realize is men typically lie to women to get laid and to get relationships because I love how some of you guys admitted, oh, if he makes enough money, I'm willing to accept it.
01:22:29.000Well, unfortunately, they don't have the value to dictate those terms to you because they don't make enough money, they don't have enough status.
01:22:34.000She said it, and she was honest about it.
01:22:36.000And I think a lot of women at the table, based off your question, if the man makes enough money and has enough status and takes care of you, you would probably look the other way and follow what he said and not go out with your girls, let them fuck other girls, whatever.
01:22:47.000And even though you're shaking your head saying, no, that's fine, maybe you, but a lot of girls would take that deal.
01:22:52.000So what I've realized is women don't want honesty a lot of the times unless it's coming from a top-tier guy.
01:24:02.000I think even if a woman's able to provide that stability for herself, but the man is still higher status than her and she can't replace him, she will go ahead and accept it.
01:26:04.000And the person I'm dating, he makes way, way more than me.
01:26:08.000He don't give a Can you also admit that, like, that whole six-figure, like, lifestyle is pressure on yourself because you're freaking working your ass off, and it's a lot of pressure on you.
01:27:35.000But you think when those high-classmen who have value or have a lot of money are out there cheating, and they go home and be honest to their partner, you don't think them women out there cheating, too, when they're supposed to be at home nannying and stay at home?
01:28:42.000No, I appreciate the girls being honest about that part because I mean a lot of girls sit there and say I'll never accept cheating and I'm like you get the fuck out of here, man.
01:31:26.000And we're going to go to Rumble as well.
01:31:27.000Yeah, we're going to switch over Rumble.
01:31:29.000So I'll read these chats, and every single chat that comes through will be shown, but we're only going to read 50 and up for the rest of the show.
01:35:26.000Question of the day would be with a wealthy man who told you yes 100% of the time or a faithful man who told you no 45% of the time to the chat.
01:35:35.000If you walk up to a girl and she turned you down, get fart spray and spray it on your ass.
01:35:53.000Of course they're going to say the wealthy man who said yes to them 100% of the time, but the problem is that when you tell women yes all the time, they don't respect you.
01:36:01.000You might have to be able to tell women no.
01:36:02.000You might have to put port spray on your ass.
01:36:39.000I mean, if it becomes discrimination or harassment, then yes.
01:36:44.000So they have to use the proper pronouns?
01:36:46.000They don't have to, but they need to at least acknowledge it and respect it.
01:36:51.000But wouldn't it be fair to say that if they didn't use it, that by definition they're not acknowledging it?
01:36:55.000If they don't use it, then yeah, they're not acknowledging it, but they need to at least respect the fact that that's someone's pronouns and just not be derogatory.
01:38:24.000Ladies, why women keep telling me to have more self-love and self-care because all my life goals are towards being a provider and to do for others.
01:38:48.000I feel like what that person means is that a lot of men are taking care of the household, taking care of like men take care of their moms, their families and all different things like that and sometimes they forget to take care of themselves in different ways.
01:43:52.000So does that go to say, like, y'all don't really care if women are hoes versus us who, like, we want to know about men and want to care about us?
01:43:58.000What I'm simply saying is that Men don't need social proof to be attracted to a woman, but a woman absolutely needs social proof to be attracted to a man.
01:44:23.000I said a man who's not the most attractive but has social proof and has other women around him is gonna be more attractive than a guy that is actually physically attractive but has no bitches.
01:44:33.000That's why I'm trying to explain how powerful social proof is for female attraction.
01:44:51.000Women are 100% attracted to men that have other women that other men want to be.
01:44:56.000I hate to use the nightclub as an example, but if you go into a nightclub, where are all the women concentrated?
01:45:00.000The most attractive women are concentrated in the sections with the highest status men in this certain situation at the club that have tables.
01:45:06.000But you ain't seeing chicks at a table with a bunch of dudes around.
01:45:10.000Because men don't need social proof to be attracted to a woman.
01:45:14.000A guy that has social proof will gladly date a girl that's a fucking nobody.
01:45:17.000Matter of fact, guys that have status typically want girls that don't have status.
01:45:32.000But on the other hand, though, a woman wants a guy that's outside, that has a social media profile, that has friends, that has social proof, that can go out and politic, etc.
01:45:53.000If given the option, you would prefer a guy that has some social proof and had respect from his peers over a dude that's a fucking nobody that has no status.
01:48:48.000If I have a party, right, and I invite you to the party, and there's a hundred bitches there, you're going to respect me more than if I invited to the party and there's a hundred niggas there.
01:49:06.000They will share you if you're the right guy.
01:49:09.000So, again, you know, I know girls try to say, oh, that's not me, and I'm special, and I'm different.
01:49:12.000All you motherfuckers think you're 2 Chainz.
01:49:14.000But women really aren't that different.
01:49:15.000Like, they're really not that special.
01:49:17.000They have very hardwired attraction triggers, and social proof is absolutely, irrefutably, indisputably one of the most important things when it comes to attracting women.
01:49:26.000This is why guys that are ugly, that are musicians, that are celebrities, still get bitches.
01:51:19.000Because what God given me already, all the pain and suffering that I've been through already, like, come on, I'm going to keep doing what I've been doing.
01:51:27.000I'm going to keep doing what I've been doing.
01:54:39.000So this whole time we're talking, right, I was thinking to myself, okay, why she's posting so much about being a woman of God, all this stuff, and then hit me.
02:00:30.000But it's also a lot of people that's in this polygamy relationship because they be like, my sex drive, my first wife don't, she don't give it to me enough, so I gotta go get another wife.
02:04:05.000Female standards, when it comes to joining in law enforcement or joining anything else, especially when there's physicality involved, it's always watered down to let women in.
02:05:54.000So therefore, if you're pickier, you have higher standards, correct?
02:05:58.000Would it be fair to say that only a minority of men check off all the boxes that women are picky about?
02:06:02.000Height, strength, income, competence, confidence, being attractive, being charming, having nice teeth, all this other bullshit that women want, good dresser.
02:06:10.000Would it be fair to say that only a fraction of men have these things?
02:06:34.000Because we live in a world where women tend to say, oh, I'm the prize, and I argue, actually not.
02:06:39.000Once a man reaches a certain level, it's the man, because there's less attractive men than there are attractive women, and that's by women's own doing, by being picky.
02:06:46.000And I think another thing also that girls don't realize is, as you make more money, you become more successful, you actually fuck yourself up.
02:06:52.000Because as you make more money and rise through the ranks, like you two right here, right?
02:06:55.000You guys said, who are the six-figure earners in here?
02:08:55.000More successful, rising to the top than some men.
02:08:59.000Knowing what you know now, right, at 30 years old, that men don't give a fuck about any of that stuff that you mentioned, what if you changed things around a bit and looked for a guy when you were younger?
02:09:12.000Knowing what you know now about what men are actually attracted to and how female status and income doesn't really matter that much, would you have found a guy when you were younger?
02:10:59.000Like telling you to chase a career, make money, etc.
02:11:01.000and it's gonna make you more appealable to men?
02:11:05.000I mean, I think everyone's attracted to someone who's going somewhere in their life than someone who's just sitting at home all day and doesn't have anything going on for them.
02:11:14.000Yeah, but that might not necessarily always equate to money.
02:11:17.000You can have a hobby that doesn't pay you and I think men would not give a shit either way.
02:19:59.000Women don't have the same propensity to go out and work hard and work more hours and work dangerous jobs, more laborious jobs like men are.
02:20:06.000Men are more willing to sacrifice their dreams of being a musician or an artist to be an engineer even though they fucking hate it because they understand that their values derive from how much money they make.
02:20:15.000But on the other hand, I've seen plenty of girls give up their medical degree, give up all this other bullshit because they want to chase their dream and do what they want to do.
02:20:23.000Versus men aren't, because no one cares if a woman's a bum, to be honest with y'all.
02:20:27.000If you're pretty, someone else will rescue you.
02:20:29.000But as a man, no matter how handsome you are, if you're a bum, you have limited options when it comes to mating.
02:20:34.000Also, that lifestyle itself is fun and exciting.
02:20:37.000However, the money that you make during that lifestyle is a lot.
02:20:41.000So to go to a regular job is kind of like, for what?
02:20:43.000Yeah, you ain't gonna be able to have a boss tell you what to do for like 50k a year.
02:20:47.000That's why I tried to do solar, because it was like fast money, but it was just waiting for the back end, and it was a lot.
02:20:54.000I've rarely ever seen girls, like, leave that life.
02:20:57.000I mean, we know two girls that left that life, but it's hard.
02:20:59.000And it's funny because that same lifestyle, you might have a plan going into how to exit, but unless that plan is really ironclad, like, tight, and you actually stick to it, you're going to fall off.
02:21:55.000A lot of dudes are going to be like, nah, I can't wait for it.
02:21:58.000Even if you stop doing it, because men are very interested...
02:22:01.000I would say women are interested in a man's future, men are very interested in a woman's past.
02:22:05.000Yeah, even Bottle Girls is a step below, but I wouldn't even say that either.
02:22:09.000Yeah, I talked to a guy and I tried to get his opinion on strippers and he was like, you know, basically belittling them, saying he could never be with one.
02:22:18.000And then we were like out in Cancun We came back and I told him, like, I don't want to be with you, you know, like, and I'm a stripper.
02:22:28.000I've been stripping for a couple years now.
02:22:30.000And he was like, and I was like, and I'm not ashamed of it.
02:22:33.000You know, like, I didn't tell him that before.
02:22:34.000But then, you know, I came forward and told him after he told me the truth.
02:22:38.000And he was like, no, no, no, it's fine.
02:22:40.000Like, I wouldn't expect you to be ashamed of it.
02:22:42.000Like, you know, we can keep working this out.
02:22:56.000I'll make it very simple for you guys.
02:23:00.000If you take you right now, right, dancing, and then I take you again, your identical twin, and she's in school or works a secretary job making 20k per year.
02:23:11.000And I lined up 100 dudes and I said, yo, same exact girl.
02:23:14.000One does this profession, one does the other.
02:23:16.000They're always going to go for the other profession every time.
02:23:19.000So all things equal, they would prefer you to not be in that job field.
02:23:35.000That's why, if you guys look, why do women initiate most of the breakups?
02:23:39.000They initiate the breakups because men don't have the same ability to find another mate like a woman does.
02:23:43.000Women can get back on the marketplace and find a guy like that.
02:23:46.000A guy, unless he's higher status, more attractive, it's gonna be very difficult for him to do it.
02:23:50.000That's why if you look, guys are in relationships with girls that be slapping them and disrespecting them or fucking bad-mouthing them, whatever, and dudes are way more likely to tolerate that fuckery because it's not as easy for a man to replace a woman as it is for a woman to replace a man if the guy's average.
02:24:05.000Most average men, I would say, are invisible to most women.
02:24:07.000But if a guy's higher status, you can replace her.
02:26:52.000And your partner says, I don't like that on you.
02:26:54.000Then you probably shouldn't be together.
02:26:56.000So if you still go to the club knowing your partner doesn't want you to and then something fucked up like that happens, that's on you for going.
02:27:22.000I don't want to find them in the club.
02:27:23.000A couple different girls you shouldn't commit to.
02:27:25.000Girls that are in the club all the time, girls that are attention whores, girls that seek validation on the internet all the time, these are all problems that will rear their ugly heads later on in the relationship and will fuck you up as a man.
02:27:35.000But, you know, people always tell me, oh, that's insecure.
02:29:49.000We literally go step by step on how to invest in real estate, whether you want to put 25% down as an investor or if you want to 3% under FHA loan.
02:29:58.000We literally go through all of that, man.
02:30:02.000And we take you through getting a loan, getting prayer approved, how to find a house, what to look for, cash on cash returns, all that shit.
02:41:42.000We got two and obviously they're talking about me because they think I'm for the streets.
02:41:47.000Abraham goes, girls, we would like an honest, we would respect that if you believe in God, do you not believe God will question you on the way you dress, the photos you share online, sex before marriage?
02:46:55.000If your standards are there and you're already having a tough time dating, wouldn't it be fair to say you might want to lower your standards a bit?
02:52:43.000Now, if it's a general fact, that's But here's the thing though, the reason why, right, if I say something like, men in general don't commit to promiscuous women and don't like promiscuous women, since women lack critical thinking skills, they will immediately say, well, not all the time,
02:52:59.000I'm with a guy right now, blah, blah, blah, because the thing is, is that women are more narcissistic than men are, and they tend to be solacistic, so everything that I say, I don't know if y'all noticed it, a bunch of you guys, when you made your arguments, you made an argument for yourself versus the generalities that I'm speaking about.
02:53:13.000Women almost always attribute what I say to themselves and then rebut me off of their own experience.
02:53:19.000And I'm like, I don't give a fuck about your experience.
02:53:20.000I'm talking about how the world works in general.
02:53:22.000You might be an exception, but that does not mean that what I said isn't true.
02:53:26.000And what I've realized is that women have a very difficult time differentiating what I'm saying in general versus themselves.
02:53:31.000If the shoe fits, they say something about it.
02:54:42.000When I have a conversation with dudes, I'm like, most situation X, Y, Z. Dudes all sit there and be like, well, that's not me, blah, blah, blah, because that's some faggotry.
02:54:49.000They're going to be like, nigga, we don't give a fuck about what you think.
02:56:51.000Well, I said all human beings are inherently lazy, but I mean that women tend to be more prone to be lazy because they don't have the same...
02:57:00.000They don't have the same proclivity to go out and earn resources.
02:57:36.000So, for example, when you say something emotional first, like give your opinion, like, okay, well, women are stupid or...
02:57:51.000I think that the big thing about this podcast is that it's a lot of women on this show that listen to respond and not listen to understand.
02:58:14.000When I said women lack critical thinking skills in general, she interpreted it as women are stupid.
02:58:21.000What I'm saying is, for example, when you add an emotional word on top, like you say women lack critical thinking skills as a man or whatever and blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
02:58:32.000But you say women aren't as good as a man or whatever.
03:01:38.000They have more opportunities, they have more education, they have everything, yet they're still making less in general, and men still dominate certain career fields.
03:03:33.000This is what I mean when I say common sense is common.
03:03:35.000When I said men are better than women at everything that matters, I'm talking about human endeavor, creating society, keeping society safe, creating infrastructure for society to exist with each other, creating inventions, creating modern conveniences that you now enjoy,
03:03:50.000like running water, electricity, all the things.