Fresh & Fit - Why Dating Is DEAD For 95% Of Men! Studies, Stats, And Data Paint A Grim Future For Relationships...

00:17:01.000 All right, and we are live.

00:17:02.000 What's up, guys?

00:17:03.000 Welcome to the Fresh Wave Podcast, man.

00:17:04.000 We're going to get right into it, man.

00:17:05.000 We got John MLD in the house.

00:17:07.000 We're going to be doing a very thorough PowerPoint on basically the dating market, and we're going to connect a lot of dots for you guys.

00:17:16.000 So, if you've been struggling with dating in the West or America specifically, and you kind of had questions, this presentation is going to answer all those questions.

00:17:23.000 It's going to be one of the most comprehensive looks at the landscape when it comes to modern dating.

00:17:28.000 John, can you quickly introduce yourself, and we'll get right into the presentation?

00:17:31.000 Welcome.

00:17:31.000 What's up, everybody?

00:17:32.000 Guys, thanks for having me here.

00:17:33.000 I'm John from Modern Life.

00:17:34.000 Dating, and I'm a dating coach.

00:17:36.000 I've been doing this for 11 years, and I have an international experience.

00:17:40.000 And, you know, the situation that we have in America with modern dating right now is quite frankly one of, no, not if it is the worst situation in the modern world.

00:17:56.000 If you want to talk about all 38 developed nations, America is the worst place in the world for men and dating right now.

00:18:04.000 And today's presentation, unfortunately, is.

00:18:08.000 A little bit on the black pill side because usually, you know, when I come here, I'm pretty like optimistic and positive and stuff.

00:18:15.000 But this data that I've done, I've deep dived using multiple AIs, census data, CDC data, GSS surveys, dating surveys, and so much has really shocked me.

00:18:28.000 And I wanted to do a very exclusive breaking report here on the Fresh and Fit podcast because this is the number one men's podcast in the world.

00:18:36.000 And yeah, we just need to comprehensively look at this data and dive right into it.

00:18:43.000 Since April?

00:18:44.000 Yeah, this has been.

00:18:45.000 I've actually just started working on the presentation since April, but I have since realizing this gigantic problem.

00:18:54.000 I have been actually analyzing the market here for over a year, starting in May 2025.

00:19:00.000 What inspired you to get into this?

00:19:02.000 Like, just, well, I've been doing dating coaching now for 11 years.

00:19:08.000 And one thing I've noticed, I don't know if you guys are noticing this, but I'm getting way more.

00:19:13.000 Distressed men contacting me.

00:19:16.000 And I've never seen men's mental health and overall disposition on life look so bad in the United States of America, you know? 0.73

00:19:25.000 And that made me look into this because at first I thought, oh, this guy's a crybaby. 1.00

00:19:30.000 This guy's being a pussy. 1.00

00:19:31.000 And this one, you're in Japan, obviously, because guys, he was living in Japan for, what, over a decade. 1.00

00:19:36.000 Yeah.

00:19:37.000 You were there from like 2012 and then you officially came back in 2025.

00:19:41.000 Yeah.

00:19:41.000 So it must have been a huge culture shock to be out the country and come back.

00:19:44.000 Yeah, yeah.

00:19:45.000 Cause when you're in the pot and it's slowly boiling, you know, you don't jump out of it, right?

00:19:52.000 But I jumped right into a boiling pot of water and immediately recognized the difference.

00:19:59.000 I just can't believe that everybody is thinking this is okay. 0.92

00:20:02.000 Like I come here, like I just think everything is just so ass backwards. 0.98

00:20:08.000 And it's like, I can't believe people are even tolerating living like this because this is a very, Sick society. 0.99

00:20:16.000 Yeah. 0.83

00:20:16.000 Mentally, physically, spiritually, we are a bankrupt country. 0.83

00:20:22.000 We are morally bankrupt.

00:20:23.000 We are spiritually bankrupt.

00:20:25.000 We have traded our culture for consumerism.

00:20:28.000 And it's really just a very, like, not very good situation, especially when I came from living in Japan, which is a highly functional. 0.91

00:20:37.000 I would say, in contrast to Japan, it's like, yeah. 0.95

00:20:39.000 Highly functioning society, extremely safe, you know, highest life expectancy on the planet. 1.00

00:20:46.000 Great medical care, great food, great public transportation, extremely cheap.

00:20:52.000 Nobody's getting stabbed in the subways, right?

00:20:54.000 Nobody's getting shot up in the subways like here, you know.

00:20:57.000 So, like outside of dating, like there's other obviously big pitfalls with the United States.

00:21:00.000 But, like, with the dating, when you came back, you noticed, like, why are men even dealing with this?

00:21:04.000 And you ever connect the dots for a lot of them?

00:21:06.000 I just really thought that guys were just like being crybabies and stuff until I moved back here and then started seeing it with my own eyes on the ground.

00:21:18.000 And it is just, this is unsustainable.

00:21:23.000 This is unsustainable.

00:21:24.000 I don't know what's going to happen, but we are not heading to a good place.

00:21:28.000 Because the last time the amount of sexlessness like this happened with a country was Weimar, Germany, which led to, you know, the Nazis and all that stuff, you know, coming to main power.

00:21:43.000 So I really don't think this is an experiment that's going to end well.

00:21:47.000 And like I said, I really try to be positive and optimistic, but data is data, numbers are numbers.

00:21:53.000 And after today's presentation, if you're a guy at home having trouble, struggling with your dating life, you're going to feel a little bit vindicated because.

00:22:03.000 Quite frankly, a lot of this stuff is not your fault.

00:22:06.000 And pay attention to what we're going to jump in today because it's going to be a very deep dive.

00:22:11.000 Okay.

00:22:11.000 All right.

00:22:12.000 So, yeah.

00:22:13.000 So, we got the lore, man.

00:22:14.000 He was in Japan for well over a decade, comes back in 2025.

00:22:16.000 I was like, what the hell is this?

00:22:17.000 And, you know, and I'm glad because, you know, obviously you have something to compare the BS that we deal with here to contrast with something else.

00:22:25.000 So, yeah.

00:22:26.000 So, we got a PowerPoint presentation here, guys.

00:22:29.000 John is going to be clicking through it.

00:22:30.000 It's going to be very informative.

00:22:31.000 This compiles a bunch of studies.

00:22:34.000 Stats, government databases, et cetera.

00:22:36.000 Everything is very well researched.

00:22:37.000 I mean, it took months to prepare this for you guys.

00:22:39.000 So he put on a lot of work.

00:22:40.000 So make sure to go follow his channel, Modern Life Dating.

00:22:42.000 And without further ado, man, take us through it.

00:22:44.000 All right.

00:22:45.000 So let's just jump right into it.

00:22:46.000 So this is the truth about what is causing the modern dating crisis for men in America. 0.99

00:22:54.000 This is exclusively for American men. 0.94

00:22:56.000 So if you're not an American guy and you want to come to America, this should make you not want to come here. 0.59

00:23:02.000 And would it be fair to say that though you made this explicitly for people from the United States?

00:23:07.000 Would it be fair to say that a bunch of this is probably going to bleed over to Australia, Canada, because they have similar trends? 0.99

00:23:14.000 No, it's when you see the data, you're going to write another book about women. 1.00

00:23:19.000 Okay. 1.00

00:23:20.000 Sure.

00:23:21.000 Hey, guys, I don't even know.

00:23:22.000 I have not seen this PowerPoint myself, guys.

00:23:24.000 So everything here, I don't even know what's in it.

00:23:26.000 So you guys are going to get it first time like me.

00:23:28.000 So cool.

00:23:29.000 We'll go ahead, man.

00:23:31.000 Let's go.

00:23:31.000 All right.

00:23:32.000 So here we go.

00:23:32.000 The truth about what is causing the modern dating crisis for men in America.

00:23:36.000 Okay.

00:23:37.000 So let's take a look here, real quick, and ask one question.

00:23:40.000 What's going on with men's data in the United States of America?

00:23:44.000 All right.

00:23:45.000 Men ages 22 to 34 with no sex in the last year is 24% of that population.

00:23:52.000 That is basically one in four.

00:23:54.000 Okay.

00:23:57.000 Male virginity ages 22 to 34 has risen from 4% to 10% in the last decade.

00:24:04.000 And 35% of young men have had no sex in the last three months, which is crazy.

00:24:11.000 Okay. 0.88

00:24:11.000 Because young people, that's what they do, they have sex. 0.88

00:24:14.000 That's all they do, right? 0.99

00:24:15.000 In a normal society.

00:24:17.000 Okay.

00:24:18.000 Over 60% of men under the age of 30 are single, which is nearly double the rate of women the same age.

00:24:27.000 That's approximately 15 million men.

00:24:30.000 Write that number down 15 million men, because that number is going to come up later in the presentation as well.

00:24:37.000 Okay.

00:24:38.000 So, how is this data showing up in the real world?

00:24:41.000 Let's take a look real quick.

00:24:41.000 Let's talk about men versus women on dating apps, okay?

00:24:44.000 So simply, men's median match rate is 2%, women's is 41%. 0.76

00:24:50.000 Women are 8.4% or 8.4 times more likely to match.

00:24:55.000 And the problem is they're overwhelmed with options. 1.00

00:24:58.000 That's the problem that women deal with. 1.00

00:24:59.000 They have a sea of men that they're not interested chasing after them, which is also a component of what's really going wrong here in the United States. 0.92

00:25:10.000 Above figure came from a simulation built on Tinder behavior data.

00:25:15.000 And men get an average of seven likes per day if they're lucky.

00:25:20.000 And women on average about 92 likes per day.

00:25:24.000 Can you imagine if you got 92 likes on a dating app a day? 0.94

00:25:27.000 I would have a lot of kids.

00:25:28.000 That adds up quickly.

00:25:29.000 Yeah, that adds up.

00:25:30.000 That would be great. 1.00

00:25:31.000 You'd be such a spoiled brat. 1.00

00:25:35.000 Yep. 1.00

00:25:35.000 We cover that later. 1.00

00:25:38.000 52% of men get fewer than one match per day.

00:25:43.000 That's half of men on dating apps get less than one match a day.

00:25:48.000 Bills, I think you hit something, buddy.

00:25:50.000 Oh, you hit something?

00:25:51.000 I think you did.

00:25:51.000 I don't think I was scrolling.

00:25:52.000 Yeah.

00:25:54.000 A man of average attractiveness is liked by 0.87% of women.

00:26:00.000 That is one like per 115 women.

00:26:04.000 And 67 to 76% of Tinder users are men.

00:26:09.000 So the ratio is already terrible just as soon as you download it.

00:26:14.000 And then women pass on 95% of profiles, men pass on approximately 47%. 0.58

00:26:21.000 Okay.

00:26:22.000 10% of men receive 60% of all profiles.

00:26:26.000 Likes on the hinge.

00:26:27.000 That's a thing you consistently hound on this channel is that the top 10% of men are pretty much getting all the attention.

00:26:34.000 The bottom 50% of men split 4.3%.

00:26:40.000 Think about that 50% of the men just split 4.3% of all the likes.

00:26:46.000 Okay. 0.73

00:26:48.000 So, and even the bottom 10% of women outmatch the top 10% of men. 0.95

00:26:55.000 That is absolutely Crazy, yeah. 1.00

00:26:58.000 The bottom 10 percent, the fucking Chaniquas, the big blob women are getting more likes than Chad's. 1.00

00:27:06.000 Yeah, can you just? 1.00

00:27:08.000 I've always said, like, a regular girl has more access than a celebrity. 0.82

00:27:12.000 Yeah, it's insane, dude.

00:27:13.000 It does, and I love this.

00:27:15.000 This presentation is now finally quantifying what we've been talking about for years.

00:27:20.000 Yes, yeah, and I think this is going to make a lot of men feel vindicated.

00:27:24.000 Yes, because you're not crazy.

00:27:26.000 I've been saying it for years, and it sounds like a meme when I say it, but. 1.00

00:27:30.000 American women are the bottom of the global barrel, and we're going to prove it here with data. 1.00

00:27:34.000 This is irrefutable. 1.00

00:27:36.000 And the only way they're going to try and shut us up is through censorship because facts are facts.

00:27:40.000 And if you can't deal with it, I mean, grow up. 0.99

00:27:42.000 And I think it's important because now that we've kind of quantified this for you guys, you understand how important it is to have your shit together. 0.99

00:27:50.000 Yes. 0.99

00:27:50.000 Okay. 0.99

00:27:51.000 The game, you can't cruise control on life anymore as a man.

00:27:54.000 Right now, 2026, you have to be locked in or you're going to be locked out.

00:27:59.000 You're going to be stuck in a permanent underclass.

00:28:01.000 Yeah, especially where we're going now with the new order.

00:28:05.000 Yeah.

00:28:05.000 But also, keep in mind, what are men doing now?

00:28:08.000 Paying for box. 0.70

00:28:09.000 Yes.

00:28:09.000 And he has a, I think you have a portion on that too, right?

00:28:12.000 Oh, you're going to see.

00:28:13.000 Yeah.

00:28:13.000 You're going to see.

00:28:14.000 We'll stop interrupting you.

00:28:15.000 Go ahead.

00:28:15.000 No, no, no.

00:28:16.000 I love that you guys, because it just shows you guys know what you're talking about.

00:28:19.000 Yeah. 1.00

00:28:19.000 It shows you know the fuck exactly. 1.00

00:28:21.000 We have numbers here to quantify this stuff that we've been talking about. 0.99

00:28:25.000 I'm seeing it in real time, bro.

00:28:26.000 I want to go aside in real time.

00:28:26.000 But I also want to be clear, too, guys, that, you know, don't use this as an excuse like, oh, I can't get girls, because it's like, the purpose of this.

00:28:34.000 Presentation is to let you guys know how the odds are stacked against you and you're going to overcome anyway.

00:28:39.000 Yeah.

00:28:39.000 Right.

00:28:40.000 I know this is very black pilling, but don't give up.

00:28:42.000 You know, and that's why we're obviously going to talk about solutions as well.

00:28:45.000 But I do think it's important that you guys understand the landscape you're in.

00:28:48.000 Yeah.

00:28:48.000 So, let's maybe give up.

00:28:50.000 Because you need to understand the problem to fix the problem. 1.00

00:28:52.000 Maybe give up your current strategy because that shit is not going to work no more. 0.99

00:28:55.000 Yeah, Bills, what's your password? 1.00

00:28:57.000 Oh, God.

00:28:58.000 They're alive.

00:28:59.000 All right, I got you, gang.

00:29:01.000 One second.

00:29:02.000 But isn't it crazy?

00:29:03.000 Like, you know, I got you.

00:29:04.000 I don't know if you've seen this, but like, obviously, I don't want to jump the presentation. 1.00

00:29:08.000 But more women are in survival mode than I've ever seen before. 1.00

00:29:14.000 Yeah. 1.00

00:29:14.000 And it correlates to them saying, you know what? 1.00

00:29:16.000 Other than waste time on a guy that may like me or may not think me serious, I'll just.

00:29:21.000 Run around town and get paid for what I do.

00:29:24.000 Yeah.

00:29:24.000 I'm like, that's normal nowadays.

00:29:26.000 Like, really normal.

00:29:27.000 Yeah. 1.00

00:29:28.000 So, well, it's going to get worse for women too because three out of all the five main jobs that are going to be replaced 100% by AI are female dominated. 0.91

00:29:38.000 So, the comeuppance for women in this country is coming and it's not going to be good. 0.95

00:29:42.000 Yeah. 1.00

00:29:42.000 You know, there are going to be a lot of them on government welfare. 1.00

00:29:45.000 It's not like I said, the days of like, especially after being back here in America, the days of, You know, chilling, like I'm gonna go hang out, I'm gonna drink mimosas on the weekend with my friends.

00:29:57.000 Like, if you do that too much, you're gonna be cooked permanently.

00:30:01.000 You know what's crazy?

00:30:03.000 So, this is the most I've gotten, hey, stranger, hey, big head, in a minute.

00:30:08.000 Yep.

00:30:09.000 And it correlates to what we said earlier.

00:30:11.000 Yep.

00:30:11.000 Survival.

00:30:11.000 You know what's funny?

00:30:12.000 A lot of my guys, too, in my coaching groups, like, you know, because I'm a big guy in holding frame, a lot of these guys, like the girls are trying to make some ridiculous demands, and they're like, nah, the answer is no.

00:30:23.000 They disappear week two, week two.

00:30:25.000 Hey, listen.

00:30:26.000 To come back.

00:30:26.000 I think we should talk.

00:30:27.000 Yeah, to come back.

00:30:28.000 Oh.

00:30:29.000 So we have the power and our leverage now if you do the work.

00:30:31.000 Yeah.

00:30:31.000 You always have the power.

00:30:33.000 The men, the number one problem men do is they chase the wrong women and they give power away to women who don't deserve it and the women who don't like them.

00:30:40.000 You know, the number one problem I would think guys have with dating the wrong dating strategies in the United States of America is they're just chasing after women that don't like them at all.

00:30:48.000 And the only thing that women are going to do is going to financially extract as much out of you to level herself up to chase the Chad that she wants. 0.71

00:30:56.000 Right. 0.83

00:30:58.000 Yeah, I don't want to jump in the gun, but like we said, it's on point.

00:31:00.000 I got a story to tell you, but we'll do it later.

00:31:03.000 Listen, we're on slide four of 111.

00:31:06.000 So, yeah, we'll keep going.

00:31:07.000 All right.

00:31:08.000 Yeah.

00:31:08.000 So, take a look here at the next point.

00:31:10.000 All right.

00:31:11.000 So, let's talk about the male loneliness epidemic.

00:31:15.000 This is connected to the dating problem, right?

00:31:17.000 So, American men 15 to 34 are the loneliest young men in the Western world, according to Gallup, right?

00:31:25.000 And men with zero close friends is up five times since the 1990s.

00:31:31.000 Okay, from 3% to 15%.

00:31:35.000 Furthermore, men with six close friends collapsed from 55% to 27% in the last 30 years.

00:31:45.000 And 25% of men under 35 report feeling lonely frequently.

00:31:52.000 And in 2023, the Surgeon General said loneliness carries a mortality risk equal to smoking 15 cigarettes a day.

00:32:01.000 Mm hmm.

00:32:01.000 Can you imagine smoking 15 cigarettes a day, first of all?

00:32:06.000 And that's what loneliness does to you, you know?

00:32:09.000 So let's talk about men in marriage because number one reason men typically get married is for family creation, right?

00:32:15.000 35 year old men never married was 90% in the 1980s.

00:32:20.000 Now it's 60%.

00:32:22.000 And only 20% of 25 year old men have ever been married.

00:32:29.000 Okay.

00:32:29.000 This is near the lowest level ever recorded.

00:32:33.000 Okay.

00:32:34.000 And one in three young adults today are projected to never marry.

00:32:40.000 That's crazy.

00:32:41.000 One in three people are like, marriage is as old as time. 1.00

00:32:46.000 I mean, to be fair, that's true though. 1.00

00:32:50.000 Yep. 0.93

00:32:50.000 And for men, there's no benefit, so. 0.93

00:32:52.000 Well, I mean, with the wrong woman. 0.99

00:32:54.000 Yeah.

00:32:55.000 You know?

00:32:56.000 And I'm not talking about government paper marriage.

00:32:57.000 It's probably like, you know, you actually love and want to have a family with somebody decent.

00:33:00.000 Okay.

00:33:01.000 You know what I mean?

00:33:03.000 A median age of first marriage for men is now 30.2, which is the highest since records began in 1890.

00:33:11.000 Okay.

00:33:12.000 And the marriage rate down 60% in the last 50 years.

00:33:16.000 One in four 40 year olds have never been married.

00:33:20.000 Okay.

00:33:20.000 And 70% of single young men are in no romantic relationship at all.

00:33:29.000 70%.

00:33:30.000 Yet most say they want marriage and kids.

00:33:34.000 So let's talk about men in divorce.

00:33:36.000 We talk about that a lot in the red pill, the manosphere, and all that, right?

00:33:39.000 70% of U.S. divorces are initiated by the wife.

00:33:42.000 We talk about that here in Fresh and Fit a lot since inception.

00:33:46.000 Roughly 40 to 50% of U.S. first marriages end in divorce, second marriages fail at 60%, and third at 70%.

00:33:53.000 And among college educated women, the wife initiation figure runs even higher, 90% in some samples. 0.87

00:34:00.000 College education for women nowadays is not education, it's indoctrination. 1.00

00:34:04.000 It's a feminist indoctrination. 1.00

00:34:06.000 They go there and they become brainwashed to hate men, hate their femininity, hate everything about themselves, and then go be debt slaves in corporate America. 1.00

00:34:15.000 That's the truth about the education right there. 0.93

00:34:18.000 Divorce risk transfers wealth.

00:34:20.000 Divorced men lose roughly half their net worth on average, plus alimony and child support exposure. 0.83

00:34:27.000 Okay.

00:34:28.000 And the US divorce rate is that the claim is falling is a mirage.

00:34:33.000 It just reflects that marriage is not happening.

00:34:37.000 People, the marriages aren't getting healthier.

00:34:38.000 That's a very important distinction because a lot of people will say, oh, we have less divorces, but they're not accounting for the fact that the only reason we have less divorces is because less people are getting married in the first place.

00:34:48.000 Yep.

00:34:49.000 Exactly.

00:34:50.000 So as you can see, it's kind of a catastrophe we're dealing with right now.

00:34:54.000 The startling information here led me to one really simple question, right? 0.99

00:35:00.000 And that is what the fuck is going on? 0.99

00:35:03.000 Like, how the fuck did we get here? 0.99

00:35:05.000 What, like, literally, what is going on? 0.97

00:35:08.000 Why are we, why is nobody standing up?

00:35:10.000 Why is nobody saying anything?

00:35:11.000 And why are the people like us who are standing, saying something, why are we getting censored?

00:35:15.000 Why are we getting throttled?

00:35:17.000 Why are we getting demonetized?

00:35:18.000 Why are we getting chastised?

00:35:20.000 Yeah.

00:35:20.000 All we're trying to do is help people.

00:35:22.000 Yeah.

00:35:22.000 And, and I love how you've kind of given us a landscape.

00:35:26.000 You've painted a picture of like where we are now.

00:35:28.000 We're talking about male loneliness.

00:35:31.000 Lack of sex, lack of marriage.

00:35:34.000 It's like almost a perfect storm of different scenarios that's created a problem.

00:35:37.000 Now you're like, okay, this is the issue. 0.98

00:35:39.000 How the fuck did we get here? 0.92

00:35:40.000 Which you're going to go into now. 0.98

00:35:42.000 So take a look at this real quick.

00:35:43.000 So, as a dating coach now for 11 years, I knew I had to figure this out.

00:35:48.000 Okay.

00:35:49.000 And I take my work seriously and I have the credentials to back it up.

00:35:53.000 Okay.

00:35:53.000 First of all, I do have a bachelor's in science from the University of Central Florida in psychology.

00:35:58.000 So I'm not just incoherently rambling as a YouTuber, I do have a proper education in this stuff.

00:36:04.000 My YouTube channel does have over 100,000 subscribers, and the channel itself has 182 million views.

00:36:11.000 You can search there, Modern Life Dating, to verify yourself.

00:36:15.000 And last but certainly not least, I've done over $2 million in organic course sales regarding dating since 2019.

00:36:23.000 So, you know, I know what I'm talking about.

00:36:26.000 And over the next few slides, I promise you, I'm going to blow your mind and give you clarity, absolute clarity on why.

00:36:35.000 The USA is the worst dating market for men in the Western world.

00:36:40.000 And this is also really going to expose a lot of dating coaches who are touting the solution is this and touting the solution is that.

00:36:49.000 It's, you know, I know you said there's going to be hope at the end of this message, but honestly speaking, it's not going to look good.

00:36:59.000 There's just, it's going to get worse.

00:37:03.000 No, I agree with that.

00:37:04.000 And there's going to be a lot of men that end up dying alone.

00:37:07.000 Yeah.

00:37:07.000 No, it's.

00:37:08.000 Okay.

00:37:09.000 Yeah.

00:37:09.000 So, but you will have clarity.

00:37:11.000 And with clarity is power, and with power, you can make a choice.

00:37:15.000 And normal guys don't even know this.

00:37:17.000 So at least you guys will be equipped with the knowledge to know what you're up against and make changes.

00:37:21.000 Yes.

00:37:21.000 It's on you.

00:37:22.000 Obviously, a minority of guys are going to take this advice seriously, but.

00:37:25.000 I mean, we're all guys who dragged ourselves up to the top.

00:37:29.000 We're all just come from regular families, regular people.

00:37:32.000 We worked really hard.

00:37:33.000 We believed in ourselves.

00:37:34.000 We studied, money muscles game frame.

00:37:36.000 We locked in, and we were able to become something pretty good with our lives.

00:37:41.000 And so.

00:37:42.000 The same thing goes out to you guys because I used to be just like you guys, watching stuff at home in my 20s and trying to figure it out.

00:37:49.000 Came from a single mother household, you know, just trying to figure out how to survive and make it and surviving turned into learning how to thrive.

00:37:57.000 So, as a man, the number one thing you cannot do is become filled with despair and become with hopelessness because after that, you're definitely cooked. 0.99

00:38:05.000 Okay, so let's continue on here.

00:38:07.000 So, this is a fresh and fit exclusive presentation.

00:38:11.000 So, if you hear any of this repeated after the show, Know that you saw it here first on the number one men's podcast in the world with me, Jonathan, from Modern Life Dating.

00:38:19.000 So, I am a lot.

00:38:20.000 Guys, I don't even know what's in this presentation, just so you guys know.

00:38:23.000 I don't even know what's in it.

00:38:24.000 So, yes, this is the first time it's been debuted publicly.

00:38:27.000 And I'm just going to talk about my perception here, real quick.

00:38:29.000 I'm a lot different from other dating coaches on the internet because of my international dating experience, okay?

00:38:34.000 My timeline of dating experience is here, real quick.

00:38:37.000 Zero to 26, I was in the USA, started seriously dating in Orlando, Florida around 17 to 2003.

00:38:43.000 One month before I turned 27, on November 4th, 2012, I moved to Japan to challenge myself and explore the world.

00:38:50.000 And then I lived in Saitama, Japan, which is north of Tokyo, until December 2013.

00:38:55.000 And then after that, I moved to Waikiki, Hawaii, until January 2015.

00:39:00.000 And then from January of 2015 to March 2016, I went back to Japan, returned to teaching English in Osaka, Japan, on the West Coast.

00:39:08.000 And then from March 2016 to 2017, I returned to Orlando.

00:39:13.000 And this is the first thing I've noticed.

00:39:15.000 That the USA had gotten so much worse in that short four year period that I've been a part of. 0.87

00:39:21.000 Now, I don't count Hawaii as part of the USA because it's a completely different culture.

00:39:25.000 Hawaiians will tell you that too.

00:39:26.000 Right.

00:39:27.000 And they call us mainlanders.

00:39:28.000 They don't even consider us part of America, really.

00:39:31.000 But this shocking stuff here really, really, I noticed it, but it didn't really, I just noticed it.

00:39:39.000 I was like, I just don't want to deal with this, but I didn't realize how bad it actually was.

00:39:43.000 Okay. 0.98

00:39:44.000 The women in the USA had changed when I'd moved back in 2016. 1.00

00:39:47.000 Okay. 1.00

00:39:48.000 I noticed it was harder to find quality women in the USA versus Japan. 1.00

00:39:53.000 The women were meaner, more aggressive, harsh, masculine, and just downright unpleasant. 1.00

00:39:57.000 Okay. 1.00

00:39:58.000 I didn't think much of it at the time, but I knew after living in the USA that I didn't want to stay much longer after one year.

00:40:05.000 So I left and I returned to Japan.

00:40:08.000 That's me in Japan feeding a deer.

00:40:12.000 I lived in Tokyo from March 2017 to May 2025, and I noticed something even stronger.

00:40:20.000 After experiencing a nightmare of dating hell in the USA, I immediately had a way better pool of dating options.

00:40:29.000 The women were nicer. 1.00

00:40:30.000 The women were friendlier.

00:40:32.000 The women were far more feminine, far more feminine than American women, not like astronomically more.

00:40:38.000 Okay.

00:40:39.000 The women were more elegant and cultured, and I was way happier than in the USA. 0.92

00:40:46.000 Okay.

00:40:46.000 I even started a show called the Tokyo Love Show where I interviewed women living and dating in Tokyo to truly try and understand what was going on.

00:40:54.000 There's me with some of my girlfriends there.

00:40:57.000 But then I made a huge mistake.

00:41:00.000 I moved back to the USA in May 2025. 0.97

00:41:02.000 It was terrible.

00:41:06.000 Okay.

00:41:06.000 I figured because I was having gigantic dating success in Japan and Multiple countries around the world.

00:41:12.000 I figured the USA would be no problem, but my pride came before my fall and I was wrong and experienced hell once again.

00:41:23.000 Okay. 1.00

00:41:23.000 The women had gotten even worse. 1.00

00:41:25.000 Flakiness is through the roof. 1.00

00:41:27.000 Put a one in the chat if you agree with me at any of these things here.

00:41:29.000 Okay.

00:41:30.000 Bad attitudes mostly everywhere.

00:41:33.000 Okay.

00:41:34.000 Entitlement, entitlement, entitlement.

00:41:37.000 I have never seen this in my entire 40 years of being alive.

00:41:42.000 Okay.

00:41:42.000 Casually disrespected both online and in real life.

00:41:47.000 And to find a beautiful woman that wasn't taken seemed like a full time job.

00:41:53.000 Okay.

00:41:54.000 At first, I thought I was the problem, right?

00:41:57.000 It could be potential.

00:41:59.000 But I had tremendous dating success around the world in all countries for the last years, including Japan, Korea, Vietnam, Thailand, Philippines, the UK, Colombia, Paraguay, and a bunch of other countries as well.

00:42:11.000 Those are just some popular ones right there.

00:42:14.000 Okay.

00:42:15.000 And I never lead any dating interaction with money, status, social media, clout, or any other way.

00:42:22.000 I just lead with me being me, asking women out on dates.

00:42:26.000 And I know, despite what a lot of online dating coaches say, you need the Ferrari, you need this, you need that.

00:42:31.000 No, you need some balls and you need to have the confidence to walk up to a girl, say, Hey, I like you.

00:42:36.000 I want to ask you out. 0.97

00:42:37.000 And if she says no, you got to know that doesn't affect your value. 0.51

00:42:40.000 And you just walk away and you go talk to another woman.

00:42:42.000 And that's it.

00:42:43.000 You're not the first man to get rejected by a woman, and you're not the last man.

00:42:46.000 And it's not the end of your life.

00:42:48.000 Okay.

00:42:49.000 So, but there was one thing that really shook me to the core here that was happening in my dating business.

00:42:57.000 Men had started contacting me more and seemed to be in more despair than ever before, saying they couldn't get dates and it was affecting their mental health to a very bad extreme.

00:43:08.000 I had, in the 11 years of running my business, I had never seen such an influx of men suffering like this before.

00:43:14.000 And they were crying on phone calls with me, a lot of grown men crying, right?

00:43:19.000 A lot of depression.

00:43:20.000 Substance abuse as a coping method.

00:43:23.000 And the list goes on and on and on.

00:43:25.000 And this is from Montana to California to New York to Georgia. 0.50

00:43:30.000 I mean, and white, Arab, Lebanese, you know, the name, like the amount of guys that have contacted me, you know, even guys who unfortunately immigrated here and thought there would all be blonde white women everywhere, you know, they came like, wow, America's not like the movies, you know?

00:43:45.000 But this is across ages, across cultures, and across the country.

00:43:52.000 Okay.

00:43:53.000 And after one year of being in the USA, months of research and hundreds of client calls, I had figured out the root cause of all the dating problems in the United States of America.

00:44:06.000 All right.

00:44:06.000 And any other dating coach that says this is not it, they don't know what they're talking about.

00:44:10.000 And we're about to really shine some light and give some extreme clarity on the situation here.

00:44:15.000 Okay.

00:44:17.000 The answer on the next slide will shock most of you.

00:44:21.000 Okay. 0.87

00:44:23.000 But the number one reason why dating sucks for the average man in the USA is because.

00:44:29.000 You guys ready? 0.88

00:44:30.000 Drum roll.

00:44:31.000 Yeah, that's funny.

00:44:33.000 Drum roll, please.

00:44:34.000 Yeah.

00:44:34.000 All right, here we go.

00:44:41.000 And there are simply too many fat women in America. 1.00

00:44:46.000 Okay. 1.00

00:44:47.000 That's it right there. 0.89

00:44:48.000 The bottom line is we are the fattest first world country on the planet, and it's by a long shot.

00:44:58.000 So when he was saying New Zealand and Australia and all that are clear and close, Not even close.

00:45:06.000 They're not the same obesity rates as us.

00:45:07.000 Not.

00:45:07.000 We smoke them in obesity rate.

00:45:10.000 So, just add to your point, a lot of Europeans come here for a vacation. 0.99

00:45:13.000 Obviously, you know, Miami is a hot spot.

00:45:15.000 And they eat the food here.

00:45:16.000 They're like, why do they feel so full and lethargic?

00:45:19.000 You know, I feel like heavy.

00:45:21.000 Food in Europe is so light and pure. 0.99

00:45:23.000 It's kind of like eating a fucking minefield of just fatty food here in America. 1.00

00:45:28.000 Bro, 100%. 1.00

00:45:29.000 Every time I would come back from living in Japan and vacation here, I would get nostalgic.

00:45:33.000 I want to eat Chick fil A.

00:45:35.000 I want to go to Olive Garden.

00:45:36.000 I want to eat.

00:45:36.000 You know, Chipotle.

00:45:38.000 I want to do these things.

00:45:39.000 And I would eat it, and my stomach would bloat very, very, very, very strongly to the point it felt like my stomach was going to burst.

00:45:50.000 And there is something seriously wrong with the food supply in the United States.

00:45:54.000 I've been saying it since I'm coming on the show in 2020.

00:45:58.000 And there is something seriously wrong.

00:46:00.000 You know, I really try not to eat out.

00:46:02.000 I cook a lot of my meals at home.

00:46:04.000 I make sure I get food from a delivery service that ships me hormone free, grass fed beef.

00:46:10.000 And my diet's very simple.

00:46:12.000 Jasmine rice, steak and chicken, and vegetables, you know, because you're gambling with your health these days.

00:46:18.000 Do you know that right now?

00:46:20.000 I talked to you about it last night, Myron.

00:46:21.000 One in two Americans are projected to get cancer.

00:46:24.000 Oh, yeah.

00:46:25.000 Yeah.

00:46:25.000 That's 50%.

00:46:27.000 That's an insane story.

00:46:28.000 50%.

00:46:28.000 Yeah.

00:46:29.000 50%.

00:46:30.000 That's insane. 1.00

00:46:32.000 And nobody fucking cares. 0.99

00:46:33.000 Nobody's talking about this. 0.99

00:46:34.000 I didn't even know that.

00:46:35.000 Okay.

00:46:37.000 So let's continue because it gets worse. 1.00

00:46:41.000 All right, but bottom line is just simply too many fat women in America, okay? 0.98

00:46:45.000 The facts in this very simple, the facts are very simple in this matter. 0.99

00:46:49.000 The largest demographic of women in the United States of America is obese women.

00:46:54.000 The most common woman is an obese woman, okay? 0.99

00:46:58.000 Followed by overweight, and then the minority is regular weight, okay?

00:47:03.000 Obesity is defined by a body mass index, we're gonna say BMI of 30 or above.

00:47:09.000 Myron, you know about that as a fitness expert.

00:47:12.000 Overweight is a BMI of 25 to 29.9, and the normal body weight is a BMI of 18.5 to 24.9, right?

00:47:21.000 That's your ideal body weight, right, for healthy metabolic function.

00:47:25.000 12.6% of adult women have severe obesity.

00:47:32.000 Okay, that's a BMI of 40 plus.

00:47:34.000 That is double the amount of men.

00:47:38.000 If you could equate that to like pounds, maybe so people can understand what that is.

00:47:43.000 What a 40 BMI would kind of look like from a weight perspective.

00:47:46.000 I mean, it's different because, you know, it's height divided by weight.

00:47:48.000 Yeah.

00:47:49.000 So, but you're, you know, you're, I mean, you're pushing 250 pounds.

00:47:55.000 Oh, 250 pounds.

00:47:56.000 Yeah.

00:47:56.000 40 plus BMI.

00:47:57.000 12% of women are over 250. 1.00

00:48:00.000 Well, you know, if she's 5'4, she only needs to be like maybe 210. 1.00

00:48:03.000 Ah, gotcha. 0.98

00:48:03.000 Because BMI is your height divided by your weight. 0.98

00:48:07.000 Yep.

00:48:07.000 And that gives you a number.

00:48:08.000 Okay.

00:48:09.000 And so, but, you know, 12.6%, you know?

00:48:13.000 Yeah.

00:48:13.000 That's insane.

00:48:14.000 It is insane.

00:48:14.000 It's wildly overweight.

00:48:16.000 And like, there's more severely obese women than men.

00:48:20.000 You would think, you know, overall, there are technically more obese men than obese women in America, but that's because men carry more muscle.

00:48:27.000 You have like fat truck drivers that are also struck and huge, strong. 0.91

00:48:30.000 You got garbage men that are also big, strong, but also fat, you know. 0.99

00:48:34.000 But you can't lie about the 12.6% of the females being severely obese. 0.99

00:48:39.000 Yeah, there's no justification for that one. 1.00

00:48:41.000 No, she's not a strong lifter. 1.00

00:48:42.000 You know, she's a strong eater. 1.00

00:48:44.000 Okay.

00:48:48.000 According to the latest Center of Disease Control and Prevention data, take a look at this real quick. 1.00

00:48:52.000 The average American woman, age 20 and older, is 5'3, 172 pounds, and she has a 38%. 1.00

00:49:06.000 38 and a half inch waist. 1.00

00:49:08.000 You're a woman. 1.00

00:49:11.000 I can't even fit in that. 1.00

00:49:12.000 Yeah.

00:49:12.000 And I'm a man.

00:49:15.000 You know?

00:49:16.000 Like 31, 32. 1.00

00:49:17.000 This shit is crazy, dude. 1.00

00:49:18.000 38 is nuts. 1.00

00:49:19.000 Oh, don't worry.

00:49:19.000 It gets worse.

00:49:20.000 It gets worse, Myron.

00:49:21.000 I'm sorry.

00:49:23.000 When it comes to men seeking women to date, I would think, I want everybody in the group here, because we're all men, okay?

00:49:28.000 I would think it's safe to say that most men are ideally looking for these five things.

00:49:33.000 And if you agree with me in the chat, I want you to put a five.

00:49:36.000 Okay.

00:49:37.000 So first things first, right? 0.99

00:49:38.000 We're looking for a woman that's single, right? 0.93

00:49:41.000 Number two, we're looking for a woman, okay? 0.99

00:49:44.000 Female, okay? 0.99

00:49:47.000 I know some weird people that like to do other things. 0.98

00:49:49.000 But, anyways, 18 to 35 years old, right?

00:49:54.000 Typically, if you're going to go hook up for a girl, you're not looking for someone 35, 36, 37, 38, 40 something, right?

00:49:58.000 You're typically, this is like your appropriate range.

00:50:00.000 They're still attractive and fit in this range, you know, in most normal countries.

00:50:05.000 No children, right? 1.00

00:50:06.000 Nobody really wants to deal with baby mama drama and not fat. 0.98

00:50:11.000 BMI of 18.5 to 24.9. 0.82

00:50:16.000 Okay.

00:50:17.000 Again, just all math, all numbers, just keep it nice and simple, right?

00:50:20.000 You think that's a good baseline?

00:50:21.000 Yeah.

00:50:22.000 If you're looking for a girl to hook up with?

00:50:23.000 Yeah, absolutely. 1.00

00:50:24.000 Girl shake.

00:50:24.000 It's a good foundation.

00:50:25.000 Relationship, right?

00:50:26.000 Good baseline.

00:50:28.000 So, pop quiz, everybody. 0.96

00:50:30.000 What percent of the U.S. population is the following single female, 18 to 35 years old, no children and not fat?

00:50:41.000 Myron, what do you think?

00:50:42.000 What percent of the U.S. population?

00:50:43.000 It's going to be single digits.

00:50:45.000 Okay, give me a number.

00:50:48.000 Wait, I don't know if I want to say it because I think you told me already.

00:50:50.000 I don't want to ruin it.

00:50:51.000 Okay, Mo, what do you think?

00:50:54.000 Maybe like 15%.

00:50:59.000 15%?

00:50:59.000 What do you think, fresh?

00:51:02.000 10%?

00:51:02.000 10%.

00:51:03.000 Bills, you want to throw yours in the hat?

00:51:06.000 I'm like 10% too.

00:51:07.000 I'm going to go 10%.

00:51:08.000 10%, 15%.

00:51:09.000 No, it's good.

00:51:09.000 It's good.

00:51:10.000 Educated guess.

00:51:10.000 What do you think, Brett?

00:51:14.000 Hit me up.

00:51:15.000 Yeah, bro.

00:51:16.000 Nine.

00:51:19.000 Okay.

00:51:19.000 Chat, what do you think?

00:51:21.000 Put your percentages.

00:51:22.000 What percent of the USA population is the following?

00:51:25.000 Okay.

00:51:26.000 Are you guys ready?

00:51:26.000 Six percent.

00:51:27.000 Six percent?

00:51:28.000 Five percent. 1.00

00:51:31.000 Damn. 1.00

00:51:35.000 1.2 percent of the United States American population. 1.00

00:51:40.000 Really?

00:51:42.000 That's census data.

00:51:44.000 Really?

00:51:44.000 That's census data, my friend.

00:51:46.000 That's 4.1 million women in a nation of 350 million people.

00:51:53.000 It's like the reverse calculator. 0.91

00:51:56.000 It is the reverse calculator for sure.

00:51:58.000 Oh, don't worry, guys.

00:51:59.000 It gets worse.

00:52:00.000 Hey, well, you know what? 0.97

00:52:01.000 At least we're not fucking delusional. 0.72

00:52:02.000 We've kind of already known this, but now we can finally quantify it. 0.92

00:52:05.000 Yeah.

00:52:06.000 Okay, so let's take a look here.

00:52:08.000 Okay, so now what if I'm being too strict about the BMI?

00:52:11.000 Maybe I'm being too strict, right? 1.00

00:52:13.000 There are some women that technically are, you know, Overweight, but look good, right? 1.00

00:52:20.000 So, so what about this? 1.00

00:52:21.000 What if we, because you know, here, there's some women who are with a BMI that classifies them as overweight, but they're attractive, right? 0.99

00:52:29.000 This woman is classified as overweight, but she's relatively attractive.

00:52:34.000 She's all right. 0.93

00:52:34.000 She's not bad. 0.93

00:52:35.000 A couple coronas, I could do it.

00:52:41.000 But what if we included, Myron, 25 BMI, 26 BMI, and all the way up to 26.9, even though only a fraction of those women would actually be attractive, right?

00:52:53.000 But what if we just included all that?

00:52:54.000 Okay, so we're running out the net.

00:52:56.000 So surely that would provide a more optimistic number. 0.98

00:53:02.000 Especially because we're including all women in the BMI range of 25 to 26.9. 0.97

00:53:07.000 So, pop quiz number two. 0.94

00:53:09.000 This for you, Fresh.

00:53:09.000 You guys ready?

00:53:10.000 Fresh, this for you.

00:53:11.000 Pop quiz number two.

00:53:12.000 Yeah, this is Fresh's girlfriend. 0.99

00:53:16.000 What percent of the USA population is the following single, female, 18 to 35 years old, no children, normal body weight, and just a little fat? 0.88

00:53:26.000 We'll just say BMI 25, 26, and 26.9, all the way up to 26.9.

00:53:32.000 So earlier it was 1.2%.

00:53:34.000 So we're going to put some fatties in here.

00:53:36.000 Okay. 1.00

00:53:37.000 And remember, this doesn't adjust for beauty.

00:53:39.000 This is just.

00:53:39.000 Of course.

00:53:40.000 This is just.

00:53:40.000 Yeah.

00:53:41.000 Raw.

00:53:42.000 Okay.

00:53:42.000 What do you guys think?

00:53:43.000 You want to go around?

00:53:43.000 Myron, what do you think?

00:53:44.000 I think you told me this one too.

00:53:46.000 I don't know.

00:53:46.000 Fresh, what do you think?

00:53:48.000 We were at 1.2 before, so it's got to get better.

00:53:52.000 This is a true question, man.

00:53:53.000 This is a true question.

00:53:54.000 It's true.

00:53:54.000 You see, even you're an expert and you didn't know this.

00:53:57.000 That's why I'm saying nobody's paying attention to this data.

00:54:00.000 Yeah.

00:54:00.000 No, we.

00:54:01.000 Yeah.

00:54:02.000 There was clearly a problem, but now it's like being quantified.

00:54:04.000 And I think showing the numbers on screen is like.

00:54:06.000 Really good to show.

00:54:08.000 What do you think, Fresh?

00:54:09.000 Give us a guess.

00:54:11.000 2%?

00:54:12.000 2%.

00:54:14.000 Bills?

00:54:14.000 Yeah, I'm going 2%.

00:54:16.000 2%?

00:54:16.000 Mo?

00:54:17.000 I was thinking a relatively small jump.

00:54:22.000 It's probably like 0.1, bro, for real.

00:54:24.000 I'm thinking like.

00:54:25.000 I was going to say 4, but.

00:54:27.000 4?

00:54:28.000 But that's still a lot.

00:54:29.000 That's a lot of fat, bro.

00:54:33.000 That's still a lot.

00:54:33.000 So I'm actually going down to 3.5.

00:54:37.000 3.5?

00:54:38.000 Okay.

00:54:38.000 What do you think, Brett?

00:54:39.000 So, this is just a little chunk.

00:54:41.000 Yeah.

00:54:43.000 I don't want to give him too much credit.

00:54:46.000 Maybe like 4%.

00:54:48.000 4%?

00:54:48.000 All right.

00:54:48.000 Good answers from everybody.

00:54:49.000 Let's take a look at the answer here.

00:54:50.000 You guys ready?

00:54:51.000 In 3, 2, 1, survey says.

00:54:56.000 God.

00:54:57.000 What?

00:54:57.000 Bro, that was a baby step, bro.

00:55:05.000 1.7% of the United States population.

00:55:09.000 Where do you get this?

00:55:10.000 Fatgirls.com.

00:55:11.000 All we did was add a fresh type, bro. 1.00

00:55:18.000 So you're looking at best at an ideal dating pool inflated with a little bit of fatties. 1.00

00:55:27.000 5.6 million women in the United States of America in a country of 340, 350 million people. 1.00

00:55:36.000 So let's go.

00:55:37.000 Let's continue with the presentation. 1.00

00:55:40.000 Fast fat facts about American women, real quick. 1.00

00:55:43.000 Okay. 0.96

00:55:43.000 So, the first world reality among the 38 developed nations that make up the Organization for Economic Cooperation and Development, the U.S. leads the pack by a significant margin, a very fat margin, if you will. 0.96

00:56:00.000 The U.S. rate over 40% of adult American women are clinically obese, and roughly 70% fall into the combined overweight and obese categories. 0.88

00:56:11.000 That's if you have 10 women in front of you. 1.00

00:56:14.000 Four are very fat. 1.00

00:56:17.000 Three are fat. 0.96

00:56:19.000 Okay.

00:56:20.000 And then you have three that are either regular weight or underweight.

00:56:26.000 Yeah.

00:56:26.000 Okay.

00:56:28.000 The runners up.

00:56:29.000 Other English speaking countries, developed nations, like you said, Myron, New Zealand, Australia, and the United Kingdom are the closest followers, but their female obesity rates hover much lower in the low to mid 30 range. 1.00

00:56:43.000 So they got bitchy women too. 0.99

00:56:44.000 They're just not as fat. 1.00

00:56:45.000 Well, the bitchy, yeah. 1.00

00:56:47.000 The thing is, you'll see about what makes the women bitchy and further down. 1.00

00:56:50.000 I love how you're just, you're already on it. 1.00

00:56:52.000 It's beautiful.

00:56:53.000 We'll continue.

00:56:54.000 I don't want to interrupt.

00:56:55.000 No, I mean, it just shows, you know, you know what you're talking about.

00:56:58.000 The European contrast, like just Fresh was saying about the food.

00:57:01.000 You know, Fresh, I just saw you were in France and you were living good over there.

00:57:04.000 In the majority of, excuse me, in major developed European countries like Germany, France, and Italy, the female obesity rate drops significantly to roughly 10 to 17%.

00:57:16.000 But check out, look at this.

00:57:17.000 This is my specialty, Asia.

00:57:19.000 In highly developed first world Asian countries like Japan and South Korea, the female obesity rate remains in the single digits around 4 to 5%.

00:57:32.000 Oh my God.

00:57:32.000 Meanwhile, 70% of ours are fat.

00:57:34.000 Crazy women. 1.00

00:57:35.000 What's even crazier is they have more obese women than we have fit women. 1.00

00:57:43.000 Irony, bro. 0.99

00:57:43.000 The irony. 0.99

00:57:44.000 It's insane.

00:57:45.000 I was in Korea in December and I lived in Japan for almost 11 years.

00:57:49.000 I can tell you from a firsthand experience that this data is extremely true.

00:57:53.000 Okay.

00:57:54.000 The contrast is shocking.

00:57:56.000 Okay.

00:57:56.000 Take a look at that on the graph.

00:57:57.000 On the left hand side, you see Japan's obesity rate 4.5% compared to the United States of America, 41.3%.

00:58:04.000 Nine to 10%.

00:58:06.000 Now it's two rich countries because Japan has a very strong economy, same food access, same education, arguably, but one outcome is culture and environment.

00:58:19.000 Okay, we're going to see about what happened with our culture and environment here.

00:58:23.000 Half of the country was a healthy weight now before, but now it's one in four.

00:58:28.000 The green line here, starting in 1976, shows normal body weight.

00:58:34.000 As you can see, that's trending down.

00:58:36.000 Overweight.

00:58:37.000 Is right in the middle.

00:58:39.000 But as you see in the middle there, as overweight is trending down, it looks good, right?

00:58:43.000 But it's a direct inverse correlation to obesity.

00:58:47.000 So they're graduating from overweight into obese.

00:58:52.000 That's what this data right here is showing when you see that line.

00:58:55.000 Gotcha.

00:58:56.000 Okay.

00:58:57.000 They're getting bigger, not going the other way.

00:58:58.000 Right.

00:58:59.000 Okay.

00:59:00.000 And as obesity rose, take a look at this.

00:59:03.000 This is where we're going to start getting into the meat of it. 0.81

00:59:05.000 Male sexlessness followed.

00:59:08.000 Wow.

00:59:08.000 That blue line right there.

00:59:10.000 Is an indicator of the amount of men with no sex in the past year.

00:59:16.000 And look how as obesity is shooting up drastically after 2010.

00:59:19.000 Right, right.

00:59:20.000 And I would say it's a little bit, it's two parts, right? 0.99

00:59:24.000 The first part is definitely the supply of attractive women is shrinking.

00:59:28.000 And also in about 2010, the proliferation of smartphones became popular.

00:59:35.000 And so you could look at the iPhone 4 came out in 2010, I'll never forget.

00:59:38.000 And you could look at pornography on your phone now.

00:59:41.000 I think that's a big thing.

00:59:42.000 I think that's a contributing factor. 0.98

00:59:44.000 Well, I mean, when you're subjected to being visually raped by all these pigs everywhere, I can understand if you're like, I just need to find something attractive. 0.98

00:59:53.000 I need to stay sane, right? 0.97

00:59:56.000 But I do not condone the use of pornography at all.

00:59:59.000 Let's continue.

01:00:00.000 This is an inversion table, real quick.

01:00:02.000 So you could see in 1990, 51% of the US population was overweight and obese, right?

01:00:08.000 But 10% of men were sexless.

01:00:10.000 And in the year 2000, it goes 62 to 15%.

01:00:13.000 And then it goes 64 to 12 to 15, 68% in 2018.

01:00:19.000 And then as 69 goes up in 2024, we're at 24 to 28% as well.

01:00:27.000 Okay.

01:00:29.000 So how is this affecting men?

01:00:31.000 How is this affecting men, right?

01:00:34.000 For that, we return to my education in psychology, refer to one fact that clears up part of the equation.

01:00:41.000 Okay.

01:00:42.000 The 0.7 rule, and that is the hourglass figure.

01:00:47.000 Okay.

01:00:48.000 Across every culture studied, men rate a waist to hip ratio near 0.7 as most attractive.

01:00:57.000 So this is one of the most replicated findings in the field of psychology.

01:01:00.000 Okay.

01:01:02.000 It, Holds worldwide and across eras.

01:01:05.000 Miss America winners and Playboy models cluster at 0.7 for decades, even as body weight fashions changed.

01:01:13.000 Okay.

01:01:14.000 The killer proof is here.

01:01:15.000 This is crazy.

01:01:17.000 Men blind from birth, judged by touching alone, preferred the same 0.7 ratio. 0.59

01:01:26.000 Zero media, zero cultural programming. 1.00

01:01:29.000 Damn. 1.00

01:01:30.000 Blind. 1.00

01:01:31.000 So, what men like is genetically built into us. 0.94

01:01:36.000 Right. 0.54

01:01:36.000 So when a guy says, I really like fat girls, he probably just says that because that's all he can pull. 0.54

01:01:40.000 You know, I was there.

01:01:42.000 I was there, brother.

01:01:43.000 Hey, I think we've all had to slay a few dragons in the past.

01:01:46.000 I mean, you know, I think that point right there, the third point there is that it shows again, men blind from birth, judged by touching mannequins alone and women alone, preferred the same 0.7 ratio.

01:02:01.000 I mean, that is insane.

01:02:03.000 You can't see.

01:02:04.000 You touch one's body, you're like, yeah, this one is.

01:02:07.000 This is the best one.

01:02:08.000 And it's, again, you know, if you look at the study right there, you can see the citation.

01:02:13.000 So, why?

01:02:15.000 Low waist to hip ratio biologically signals fertility, youth, and health.

01:02:20.000 It's wired in, it's not taught.

01:02:22.000 It is our biology as men.

01:02:25.000 And as they try to push this out of us, obviously, you know, men are pushing back, right?

01:02:32.000 The bridge is as weight climbs, weight to hip ratio degrades. 0.66

01:02:37.000 Double the obesity, the supply of 0.7 women collapses. 0.90

01:02:40.000 Preference didn't change.

01:02:42.000 Bodies did. 0.95

01:02:43.000 Ooh. 0.99

01:02:43.000 Okay. 0.99

01:02:45.000 That is not opinion.

01:02:46.000 It's 30 years of peer reviewed data, Myron.

01:02:50.000 Yeah.

01:02:50.000 No, that's insane.

01:02:52.000 Guys, real quick, I'm going to end my Myron Gaines Xtreme.

01:02:54.000 Come on over to Fresh of Fit on YouTube or go to my Kick, whatever you guys want.

01:02:57.000 But I'm going to end my MG Xtreme on YouTube.

01:02:59.000 Mo's going to rate it, but we'll continue on.

01:03:02.000 Okay.

01:03:02.000 So let's continue on.

01:03:04.000 Yeah.

01:03:04.000 Go to my Kick or Fresh of Fit YouTube, guys.

01:03:06.000 We're going to literally, we're building back up the Fresh of Fit YouTube channel.

01:03:09.000 So.

01:03:10.000 Right.

01:03:10.000 So take a look real quick.

01:03:11.000 Here's an example of a woman with a 0.7 hip to waist ratio. 1.00

01:03:18.000 So, chat, pay attention because I got a question for you. 0.95

01:03:20.000 Which do you men at home watching prefer?

01:03:24.000 Vote one for the normal body weight.

01:03:26.000 Number two is overweight and obese is number three.

01:03:33.000 You know, take a quick vote in the chat.

01:03:35.000 Let me see what you guys.

01:03:35.000 Should I put ones in the chat?

01:03:38.000 Yeah.

01:03:38.000 Yeah, of course, right?

01:03:39.000 Somebody put one to dash two. 1.00

01:03:42.000 Liar. 0.98

01:03:42.000 Somebody put three. 0.98

01:03:45.000 Yeah, we got a couple trolls.

01:03:46.000 It's all good. 0.99

01:03:47.000 We got a couple black guys in chat, clearly.

01:03:49.000 We're putting two or three. 1.00

01:03:50.000 Got some niggas in chat. 1.00

01:03:51.000 Okay, let's continue on. 1.00

01:03:53.000 But you guys get the picture here, right?

01:03:56.000 So, how did we get into this big fat mess?

01:03:58.000 Let's take a look at this.

01:03:59.000 This is where it gets dark.

01:04:01.000 Okay.

01:04:01.000 If you do the research and connect the dots, it's pretty simple.

01:04:05.000 And don't worry, I did it for you.

01:04:07.000 Okay.

01:04:09.000 There's me schizomaxing.

01:04:12.000 It all started with this photo from 2004 The Dove.

01:04:17.000 Real beauty campaign, right?

01:04:19.000 They wanted to empower women. 1.00

01:04:21.000 They wanted to show real bodies. 1.00

01:04:24.000 That's what their marketing department said. 0.99

01:04:26.000 But I assure you, this was a diabolical scheme that women fell for hook, line, and sinker. 0.99

01:04:34.000 Okay. 1.00

01:04:35.000 So Dove led the beginning of a 20 year campaign that taught women that weight has nothing to do with health or beauty.

01:04:43.000 Here's another example of their marketing right there.

01:04:47.000 And so this was the beginning of the end.

01:04:50.000 All right.

01:04:51.000 In 2004, Dove launched its real beauty campaign to challenge beauty stereotypes, the same beauty stereotypes that are genetically embedded into men, and promote body positivity.

01:05:00.000 The campaign was created in partnership with an advertising agency, Ogilvy and Mather.

01:05:05.000 If you look at the early life history of somebody there, you might be talking about that on Myron Gaines X. Dove wanted to differentiate itself from competitors and connect with women.

01:05:16.000 Every single time?

01:05:17.000 Every.

01:05:19.000 Let's continue.

01:05:22.000 Here we go. 0.99

01:05:23.000 Dove wanted to differentiate.

01:05:25.000 I knew you'd love that.

01:05:27.000 I looked into it too.

01:05:28.000 I was thinking of you when I looked into it. 1.00

01:05:30.000 God fucking. 1.00

01:05:31.000 Yo, it's like you can't, bruh. 1.00

01:05:33.000 Yeah, her name's Sylvia something.

01:05:34.000 I forgot.

01:05:35.000 Of course.

01:05:36.000 Yeah, from Unilever.

01:05:38.000 She gave the green light.

01:05:39.000 She was head of the marketing.

01:05:41.000 Dove wanted to differentiate itself from the competitors, connect with women on a more personal and emotional level. 1.00

01:05:46.000 Bullshit. 0.95

01:05:47.000 Their solution, Dove decided to feature real women with diverse shapes, sizes, and ages in their advertisements. 0.99

01:05:53.000 The campaign aimed to redefine beauty standards, promote self confidence amongst women.

01:05:58.000 It also included a series of videos, workshops, and events centered around the concept of real beauty.

01:06:05.000 Again, Trying to psyop people into believing something that men's genetics say this is what we want 0.7 hip to waist ratio.

01:06:14.000 Okay.

01:06:15.000 So the results the Real Beauty campaign garnered global attention and sparked conversations about body positivity and self esteem.

01:06:24.000 It helped Dove establish itself as a brand that cares about its customers and their well being, leading to increased brand loyalty and sales. 0.92

01:06:32.000 Obviously, all corporate bullshit talk, but. 0.94

01:06:36.000 I digress. 0.99

01:06:37.000 Let's continue on here, right? 0.99

01:06:39.000 The end result Dove lied to women and said that being fat is healthy and beautiful, all for the sake of money. 0.77

01:06:45.000 Period.

01:06:47.000 Full stop.

01:06:48.000 Okay.

01:06:50.000 So, and this led to a catastrophic chain of events.

01:06:55.000 2008, fat shaming enters Oxford English Dictionary.

01:06:59.000 Pointing at the problem now becomes a crime.

01:07:02.000 2009, healthy at every size goes mainstream.

01:07:07.000 Weight loss is no longer a medical goal.

01:07:11.000 H A E S as a framework comes from the Association for Size, Diversity, and Health, a nonprofit founded in 2003, trademarked the phrase healthy at every size.

01:07:25.000 And genderqueer activist Lindo Bacon published a book, and that is Healthy at Every Size The Surprising Truth About Your Weight.

01:07:33.000 And then she published it under the name Linda Bacon. 0.65

01:07:36.000 It's like they're trolling you.

01:07:37.000 They're trolling you. 0.54

01:07:38.000 Spitting right in your face.

01:07:40.000 In front of you, yeah. 0.95

01:07:40.000 You know? 0.95

01:07:41.000 She is a nutrition researcher whose book became the movement's Bible and pushed it from activist circles into diet, uh, uh, dietitians, medicine, and eventually corporate HR.

01:07:52.000 So now you have corporate HR telling the workers that they can be fat and it's okay.

01:07:58.000 It's crazy, it's absolutely crazy. 0.78

01:08:00.000 If you really look into this, it is diabolical.

01:08:03.000 All right, that's just 2009.

01:08:05.000 Remember, we're in 2026 here. 0.83

01:08:07.000 Okay, so she's crazy. 0.89

01:08:08.000 Her last name is Bacon. 0.98

01:08:09.000 Yeah, you can't make this up, bro.

01:08:11.000 Like, what?

01:08:11.000 How you got, dude, who came up with that?

01:08:14.000 Bacon's your last name. 0.98

01:08:15.000 What the heck. 0.94

01:08:16.000 Yeah. 0.92

01:08:17.000 That's wild, bro.

01:08:17.000 We're in a simulation.

01:08:19.000 Bills, click on that PowerPoint so I can get to the next one.

01:08:22.000 Thanks, buddy.

01:08:22.000 That's crazy, bro.

01:08:23.000 So, 2010, Instagram launches.

01:08:25.000 The toxic message now has a delivery system.

01:08:28.000 2012, Facebook buys Instagram.

01:08:31.000 Algorithmic feeds take over and engagement rewards validation, not truth.

01:08:36.000 And we've all seen this in the comment section.

01:08:38.000 Fresh, Myron, we have all seen women lying to obese women in the comment section of Instagram, telling them they're beautiful no matter what. 0.64

01:08:45.000 TikTok, too. 0.91

01:08:46.000 TikTok is literally like a girl will be in a car complaining about some stuff, and her comment section is all, you go, girl, you're a queen, fuck him, blah, blah, blah. 1.00

01:08:52.000 It's like constant reaffirmation of their stupidity and bad behavior. 1.00

01:08:55.000 Remember Lizzo? 1.00

01:08:56.000 She's a queen of. 1.00

01:08:57.000 Making people feel better about being fat. 1.00

01:09:00.000 Remember, they shit on her for losing weight? 1.00

01:09:01.000 Yeah. 1.00

01:09:03.000 You lost your appeal, girl.

01:09:04.000 Yeah.

01:09:04.000 What's wrong with you?

01:09:05.000 Bruh. 0.93

01:09:05.000 Are you sick? 0.93

01:09:06.000 Yeah.

01:09:06.000 I love you guys.

01:09:07.000 You guys are so on it.

01:09:08.000 I love it.

01:09:08.000 Okay.

01:09:11.000 So, 2013 to 2018, the acceleration and full takeover.

01:09:16.000 Okay.

01:09:17.000 This is when wokeism really started going full, full speed ahead.

01:09:22.000 Tumblr, body positivity boom.

01:09:24.000 Hashtag F your beauty standards on 2013 went viral.

01:09:28.000 Plus size models on every magazine covers and Brands and medicine fall in line.

01:09:34.000 The brakes are gone on this runaway train.

01:09:37.000 2016 to 2020, TikTok arrives and every platform now algorithmically boosts all bodies are beautiful while burying the health data.

01:09:48.000 Okay.

01:09:49.000 The dark truth.

01:09:51.000 Okay.

01:09:52.000 The lie didn't spread because it was true, it spread because it was profitable for the platforms, the brands, and the influencers selling it.

01:10:02.000 Okay.

01:10:02.000 Including Linda Bacon.

01:10:04.000 Right.

01:10:05.000 Body positivity was not a grassroots movement. 1.00

01:10:08.000 This was a socially engineered thing that has killed so many women. 0.99

01:10:13.000 Okay. 1.00

01:10:14.000 Because, you know, where the body positivity for men doesn't exist. 0.98

01:10:17.000 It doesn't exist. 0.94

01:10:18.000 You know, this was a socially engineered marketing scam that generated a $35 billion a year industry.

01:10:25.000 $35 billion a year, guys.

01:10:27.000 That's insane.

01:10:28.000 In the U.S. alone.

01:10:30.000 Yep.

01:10:32.000 Yeah.

01:10:32.000 No, that's a huge ethical problem.

01:10:35.000 Okay.

01:10:35.000 You know, it's a.

01:10:37.000 And.

01:10:38.000 Furthermore, here, Bill said, I think you got to click.

01:10:41.000 There we go.

01:10:42.000 US plus size clothing market alone is $37 billion a year in 2024.

01:10:47.000 I just looked it up.

01:10:50.000 Is Lindo Bacon Jewish?

01:10:54.000 Fresh, fresh. 1.00

01:10:56.000 Fuck! 1.00

01:10:56.000 Let me do a life check. 1.00

01:10:58.000 What?

01:10:59.000 Let me do a quick word for our sponsor. 1.00

01:11:02.000 Yo, bruh!

01:11:06.000 Ain't no way, bro.

01:11:08.000 Okay, I'm checking early life right now.

01:11:10.000 It's not on early life.

01:11:11.000 I checked too.

01:11:12.000 Okay.

01:11:13.000 Look at her, bro. 0.99

01:11:14.000 I'm looking at her right now.

01:11:18.000 Yo, bro, this is awesome.

01:11:19.000 Send that picture to Bill's.

01:11:20.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:11:22.000 Just Google Lindo Bacon, bro.

01:11:25.000 Oh, yeah, yeah, my bad.

01:11:25.000 Okay, let me.

01:11:27.000 I'm going back to the thing here.

01:11:28.000 Just U.S. plus size clothing alone $37 billion a year.

01:11:34.000 Confirmed.

01:11:35.000 Yes.

01:11:36.000 Every single time. 1.00

01:11:39.000 What the fuck? 1.00

01:11:39.000 Yo, bro. 1.00

01:11:40.000 The name's Bacon, bro.

01:11:43.000 How do you get the.

01:11:43.000 The name's Bacon.

01:11:45.000 That's crazy.

01:11:45.000 The name's Bacon, bro.

01:11:46.000 Yeah. 1.00

01:11:47.000 Like Bacon, bitch. 1.00

01:11:47.000 That's crazy work, bro. 1.00

01:11:49.000 That's crazy.

01:11:49.000 That's insane, bro.

01:11:50.000 The irony's just like in your.

01:11:52.000 Bro.

01:11:52.000 I know.

01:11:53.000 They're trolling you in your face.

01:11:54.000 I know.

01:11:55.000 Listen, listen.

01:11:56.000 I'm sorry to tell you, but this gets worse.

01:11:59.000 This gets worse.

01:12:01.000 Okay.

01:12:01.000 This is the great noticing for me.

01:12:02.000 Yeah.

01:12:03.000 Okay.

01:12:03.000 For me.

01:12:04.000 Bruh.

01:12:05.000 Listen. 1.00

01:12:05.000 Goddamn, bro. 1.00

01:12:05.000 You're going to notice, or, I mean, you're putting your head in the sand if you don't. 1.00

01:12:09.000 It's just, it is what it is.

01:12:11.000 The global market runs to $120 to $330 billion, brother, depending on the research house definitions.

01:12:19.000 Okay? 1.00

01:12:20.000 Now we can officially say that the Jews are behind fat people as well. 1.00

01:12:24.000 Where are we fucking going, bro? 1.00

01:12:27.000 Don't be bored. 0.99

01:12:28.000 Bro, pornography, banking, usury, you know, politics, social media, and now they're also the foundation of obesity in America. 1.00

01:12:39.000 It's like, bro, every single fucking time, man. 0.99

01:12:42.000 Yeah. 0.99

01:12:43.000 Yeah.

01:12:44.000 They were the main pushes of COVID as well.

01:12:45.000 Oh, I know.

01:12:46.000 Trust me, I know.

01:12:48.000 So let's take a look at this chart that I made here.

01:12:51.000 They said that weight had nothing to do with health or beauty, the scale kept climbing anyway.

01:12:56.000 20 more years, eight more points.

01:12:58.000 Okay.

01:13:00.000 Look at those lines right there.

01:13:01.000 But the Dove Real Beauty campaign started in 2004.

01:13:05.000 Obesity rate was 32.1%.

01:13:07.000 And between then and 2009, it only went up a little bit, only went up about, you know, like a percent and some change.

01:13:15.000 But after Healthy at Every Size, the book by Linda Bacon came out.

01:13:20.000 And following 2010 with Instagram and then Facebook acquiring them, look at it.

01:13:26.000 Look, people might think that obesity sparked because of COVID, but look, 2020, look at the data.

01:13:32.000 It actually went down a little bit.

01:13:33.000 Yeah, exactly.

01:13:34.000 It just went up.

01:13:34.000 And, you know, that's a great point.

01:13:36.000 Let's actually, why did it go down right after COVID?

01:13:38.000 Let's take a look at that real quick. 0.97

01:13:40.000 So it seems, Myron, that women have accepted to be obese and overweight and they're happy, right?

01:13:46.000 This is a screenshot from the Dove website currently, right now. 0.97

01:13:49.000 Oh, wow.

01:13:50.000 This is right now. 1.00

01:13:51.000 Because, you know, she's a tattooed minority. 1.00

01:13:52.000 You know, you got to check all the diversity boxes, right? 1.00

01:13:57.000 Yeah, that's crazy. 1.00

01:13:58.000 That's a dove picture right now.

01:14:00.000 That's on the dove website right now.

01:14:01.000 They're our mission redefining beauty.

01:14:03.000 We want to change your genetic makeup as a man in your head. 1.00

01:14:08.000 And I'm sorry to say this, but only women are stupid enough to believe this shit. 1.00

01:14:12.000 I mean, this is retarded. 1.00

01:14:13.000 This is peak retardation. 1.00

01:14:15.000 Okay. 1.00

01:14:16.000 So let's continue.

01:14:18.000 Take a look at the next one here.

01:14:19.000 Okay.

01:14:20.000 But something happened, Myron.

01:14:22.000 Did you notice in that dip what happened that the machine never planned for, or did they?

01:14:28.000 We'll see.

01:14:30.000 2021, a weekly injection arrives.

01:14:33.000 Enter GLP1s.

01:14:36.000 Okay.

01:14:37.000 GLP1s are the weight loss shots Ozempic, Wagovi, Manjaro, Zepbound.

01:14:43.000 And in 2021, when you saw that dip, Myron, Wagovi got FDA approval to be used not only for diabetes, but for weight loss.

01:14:52.000 Because initially, it was just a diabetes drug, right?

01:14:55.000 A weekly injection that mimics the natural gut hormone.

01:14:59.000 Glucagon like peptide 1.

01:15:01.000 That's what GLP 1 stands for.

01:15:02.000 Glucagon like peptide 1.

01:15:04.000 It targets the glucagon receptor in your body, in your brain.

01:15:10.000 It tells your brain you're full and slows your stomach's emptying so your appetite simply shuts off, right?

01:15:16.000 Interesting, eh?

01:15:17.000 Originally a diabetes drug, but FDA approved for weight loss in 2021.

01:15:21.000 So the average result was about 15 to 20% body weight loss.

01:15:26.000 No willpower required. 1.00

01:15:29.000 And the women quietly got in line. 1.00

01:15:32.000 19 million women are currently on GLP 1s right now. 0.98

01:15:36.000 And that's above market data. 1.00

01:15:38.000 There's also a gray market and black market.

01:15:40.000 Gotcha. 1.00

01:15:41.000 This is just how they get it legitimately.

01:15:43.000 Gotcha.

01:15:43.000 Exactly.

01:15:44.000 It's not account for people getting it through the dark market.

01:15:49.000 Websites, you can buy it with Bitcoin.

01:15:51.000 There's plenty of sites, Chinese sites. 1.00

01:15:54.000 Women take them at 15%.

01:15:56.000 That is almost double the male rate of 9%.

01:16:00.000 And the usage nearly quadrupled in two years from 3% to 11%.

01:16:06.000 Even Lizzo tried the shot and then she, quote, dieted her BMI down 10.5 points.

01:16:13.000 I was laughing early because you guys brought up Lizzo and you're like, you guys are like right ahead of the presentation.

01:16:20.000 I love it.

01:16:21.000 Insane.

01:16:21.000 Okay.

01:16:22.000 Even one of the biggest faces of the fat acceptant movement proved she didn't believe in it herself, despite making millions from promoting it.

01:16:30.000 Because let's be honest, nobody really wants to be fat.

01:16:32.000 Yeah.

01:16:33.000 Okay. 1.00

01:16:34.000 How body positivity lied to women adjusted scale.

01:16:37.000 Okay.

01:16:38.000 So taking a look there, where you notice that drop off, Myron, that is when Wagovi was approved in 2021.

01:16:45.000 And we saw the first ever drop off in obesity.

01:16:50.000 If you look at the, as long as back to the 1980s.

01:16:55.000 Now, this is a Gallup self reported number there, the dashed line, but the solid red line, that is actually measured.

01:17:03.000 Okay.

01:17:04.000 And then the blue line on the right just shows how many people percentage wise are on GLP ones.

01:17:09.000 Look at that number. 1.00

01:17:11.000 Look at that fucking number. 1.00

01:17:12.000 Okay. 1.00

01:17:13.000 Now, look at this.

01:17:14.000 Body positivity didn't lose the argument.

01:17:17.000 Obesity is falling for the first time in the entire data series.

01:17:21.000 Nobody ever truly believed in the moment, in the movement. 0.62

01:17:25.000 The women promoting it, the women following it, for 20 years they told women the scale was the enemy.

01:17:31.000 And then a weekly shot showed up, and 19 million women revealed that what they actually believed the whole time.

01:17:36.000 Yeah. 0.99

01:17:37.000 They know deep down being fat as a female is unacceptable. 0.99

01:17:39.000 They know it. 0.97

01:17:39.000 And despite. 0.97

01:17:40.000 They just don't want to put in the workforce.

01:17:41.000 This is my favorite part. 1.00

01:17:42.000 Despite reports of Ozempic making some people go blind, women are still lining up to get this shot. 0.99

01:17:48.000 So they're like, hmm, I might lose my sight, but I also might lose 30 pounds. 0.99

01:17:52.000 Yeah.

01:17:53.000 And I don't want to go to the gym.

01:17:54.000 It's worth the trade off.

01:17:55.000 Yeah. 1.00

01:17:55.000 Fuck it. 1.00

01:17:56.000 I'll just fucking feel my way through life, you know? 1.00

01:18:00.000 All this blindness, and I go to the gym. 0.97

01:18:02.000 And again, Big Pharma, if you want to talk about who's running it, is getting paid again.

01:18:07.000 US users, 10 million in 2025, 25 to 30 million projected by 2030.

01:18:13.000 Okay.

01:18:13.000 Global users, 13 million to 52 million.

01:18:17.000 Global market, $53 to $78 billion today. 0.99

01:18:22.000 That's more than the fat people fucking clothing market. 0.98

01:18:27.000 130 to 200 billion by 2030. 0.99

01:18:30.000 And that's in about four years.

01:18:32.000 So if you're not buying Eli Lilly stock, not financial advice, but they're coming out with a GLP3 called Reddit True Tide.

01:18:37.000 They have the patent on that.

01:18:39.000 That is an even stronger weight loss drug.

01:18:41.000 Okay.

01:18:42.000 And safer.

01:18:43.000 Way safer.

01:18:44.000 Morgan says 200 billion.

01:18:45.000 You know, the number's there.

01:18:46.000 And oral GLPs just launched.

01:18:49.000 I know you guys don't use Snapchat because you have a real life, but this is being pushed all over Snapchat.

01:18:54.000 Really?

01:18:54.000 Well, a lot of young people use it.

01:18:56.000 GLP1 pills are being pushed all over Snapchat.

01:18:59.000 Okay.

01:19:00.000 All over.

01:19:01.000 Okay.

01:19:02.000 No needles equals mass adoption because a lot of people are afraid of needles.

01:19:05.000 A lot of people don't have the strength to jab themselves, right?

01:19:09.000 So, employer insurance also coverage is 44% in 2024.

01:19:13.000 It's projected to be 65% by 2027 because the insurance companies know there's so many fat people that we're going to make some money off of them losing weight. 1.00

01:19:23.000 Corporations told women to get fat and they listen.

01:19:26.000 Now they're being told to get skinny and they're listening again.

01:19:29.000 Okay.

01:19:29.000 It's a little life lesson there.

01:19:32.000 This will take time.

01:19:32.000 There's no guarantees that this will work.

01:19:35.000 However, we're still dealing with a lot of fat women in the USA dating market. 1.00

01:19:39.000 And this is the main problem for men. 1.00

01:19:43.000 There are too many fat women in the dating market. 1.00

01:19:46.000 Okay. 0.98

01:19:47.000 And this should also be a little bit eye opening for you guys at home because it just shows you that what women say and what women do are usually two different things. 0.94

01:20:00.000 Completely different. 0.98

01:20:00.000 Right. 0.98

01:20:01.000 Because if you truly believed in the fat acceptance movement, this wouldn't be a multi hundred billion dollar market.

01:20:08.000 That only started five years ago. 0.77

01:20:10.000 And the trend and the projections for these GLP ones, twos, and threes, it is only going up.

01:20:20.000 It is only going up.

01:20:21.000 Okay.

01:20:22.000 So let's talk about how this is affecting men, right?

01:20:26.000 Again, obese women, 41% of the U.S. women, including 12.1% with severe obesity.

01:20:32.000 Okay.

01:20:33.000 Overweight women is in second place, 27.5%. 0.98

01:20:37.000 Normal weight, 20%, 30%, depending on your estimates. 0.87

01:20:42.000 And then underweight, 1% to 2%.

01:20:43.000 Honestly, a normal weight is, that's a very generous number.

01:20:47.000 It's probably somewhere more around 24%.

01:20:49.000 Okay. 1.00

01:20:50.000 And combined overweight and obese women, 69%.

01:20:54.000 So, roughly seven in 10 American women, again, are either overweight or obese.

01:21:00.000 Normal women is below in the minority, about three in 10. 0.83

01:21:03.000 Okay.

01:21:04.000 So, three out of 10 are already very bad odds, right?

01:21:09.000 But it gets worse as we previously mentioned. 0.98

01:21:12.000 Of the 30% of women that are normal weight, you subtract for age, only one in four are 18 to 35. 0.97

01:21:20.000 Relationship status, 45 to 55% are partnered. 1.00

01:21:25.000 And then no children, that's how 30% of the women collapses down to lock figures. 0.94

01:21:29.000 4.1 million is just 1.2% of the population that's qualifying according to my model there, right? 1.00

01:21:35.000 The single female, 18, 35 childless, BMI sub 25.

01:21:39.000 And this last summer, I was able to work one on one with Alex Harmozzi at the acquisition.com headquarters in Las Vegas, Nevada.

01:21:48.000 There's me and Alex, he's a great guy, taught me a lot.

01:21:50.000 One of the things he taught me about and he talks about a lot is.

01:21:55.000 The supply and demand curve.

01:21:58.000 All right.

01:21:58.000 So, simply explained, right?

01:22:03.000 Regardless of how a man looks, weighs, whatever, he still desires women with a 0.7 hip to waist ratio, AKA non fat women.

01:22:15.000 At best, in America, there are 5.6 million women in the USA who fit the model of female single 18 to 35 and sub 27 BMI.

01:22:25.000 That doesn't include the 0.7 hip to waist ratio as well.

01:22:29.000 So, One in five married men admit to having cheated on their spouse.

01:22:33.000 So, when we factor in the data next, which is you're going to get about 20 million men when you include single men and men who are cheating on their wives or girlfriends.

01:22:43.000 Okay.

01:22:44.000 You got 20 million men, guys, pursuing 5.6 million women. 1.00

01:22:51.000 Shit. 1.00

01:22:52.000 Okay. 1.00

01:22:52.000 Yeah. 1.00

01:22:54.000 Eligible female candidates. 0.55

01:22:55.000 Right here is a very simple demonstration of what's exactly happening. 0.97

01:23:00.000 You got 20 million on the left and you got 5.6 million on the right.

01:23:03.000 And now nearly four men for every one woman before looks, money, game, any that comes in to play. 1.00

01:23:13.000 These are your starting odds, unless you want to settle down with a big fat bitch. 1.00

01:23:17.000 Yeah. 1.00

01:23:18.000 If you want to settle down with a fat bitch, you can just shut off this episode and go, you know, you'll be fine. 1.00

01:23:23.000 You can go walk outside, you'll find a fat girl today. 1.00

01:23:26.000 Okay. 1.00

01:23:28.000 So let's continue here.

01:23:31.000 This is the supply and demand in the USA dating market.

01:23:35.000 And Fresh, earlier you talked about the price, right?

01:23:37.000 Well, if you take a look there, remember earlier when I said there's about 15 million men that are sexless?

01:23:44.000 Yes.

01:23:44.000 Yeah.

01:23:45.000 14.4 million right there are priced out.

01:23:48.000 Yep.

01:23:48.000 Just based on this simple economic model applied to dating.

01:23:53.000 Priced out.

01:23:54.000 It's pay to play.

01:23:55.000 So, yeah. 1.00

01:23:56.000 So, like, they don't qualify financially for the women. 1.00

01:23:58.000 Let's see the next slide. 1.00

01:24:01.000 This is why dating got expensive. 1.00

01:24:04.000 The amount of fit women is at an all time low in the United States right now. 0.89

01:24:08.000 The men chasing pretty much hasn't changed. 0.95

01:24:10.000 We really, in the 80s, 90s, 70s, we all like the same type of woman. 0.54

01:24:14.000 Yep. 0.99

01:24:14.000 So the price is up. 0.99

01:24:17.000 You pay more.

01:24:19.000 Not actually pay more, but also you do.

01:24:25.000 Because you gotta.

01:24:26.000 You need to increase your sexual market value significantly to have a fighting chance, basically.

01:24:30.000 Not even that. 0.51

01:24:31.000 That's just to get a look.

01:24:34.000 That's just to get a glance.

01:24:35.000 Yeah.

01:24:35.000 That's to just play the game.

01:24:37.000 To be on the radar.

01:24:38.000 Yeah.

01:24:38.000 Team and play the game.

01:24:39.000 Because, you know, you hear all the girls, they say, oh, there's no good men.

01:24:41.000 There's no good.

01:24:41.000 There's no, you know?

01:24:42.000 Everyone's invisible to them anyway.

01:24:44.000 Yeah. 1.00

01:24:45.000 Yeah, because the girls in the gym, they'll fuck the fit guys. 1.00

01:24:48.000 But they won't wife up the guys that are fit. 1.00

01:24:50.000 They'll find a guy that has money or status.

01:24:52.000 Yeah.

01:24:53.000 Yep. 1.00

01:24:54.000 It's a little mating strategy. 0.99

01:24:55.000 Yeah. 0.64

01:24:55.000 Okay. 0.64

01:24:56.000 So if you look at this, musical chairs, you're looking at a four to one odds.

01:25:01.000 Okay.

01:25:01.000 And that's with the 5.6 million gracious model.

01:25:06.000 The real qualifying model is the 4.1 million. 1.00

01:25:08.000 Because if we include no fat girls, you're looking at 4.1. 0.99

01:25:12.000 But graciously, 5.6. 1.00

01:25:14.000 We let some of the chubby girls in, right? 1.00

01:25:17.000 You're looking at four to one odds. 1.00

01:25:18.000 So.

01:25:20.000 This is a modern crisis for men because there's simply not enough women to meet the demand. 0.62

01:25:25.000 Okay.

01:25:26.000 This is what most men blame the dating crisis on in the United States.

01:25:30.000 They say it's hoflation, right?

01:25:32.000 The concept that men have to work 20 times harder than their grandfathers did for women 20 worse than their grandmothers were.

01:25:41.000 But this is not the real source of the problem.

01:25:46.000 And here on Fresh and Fit, we're going to debut a new term that I'd like to call.

01:25:51.000 All right. 0.89

01:25:52.000 This is the truth of the new term that I've coined, and that is we are dealing with fat flation.

01:25:58.000 Yo, we are dealing with fat flation.

01:26:01.000 So go ahead and write fat flation in the chat right now, guys, because this is our World War II.

01:26:09.000 This is our Great Depression.

01:26:12.000 This is the fight of our life. 1.00

01:26:13.000 So we are fighting fat women, okay? 1.00

01:26:16.000 Fat flation is the problem, guys. 1.00

01:26:19.000 Fat flation is terrible. 0.97

01:26:22.000 And it's the number one reason your dating life sucks in the United States of America. 0.98

01:26:26.000 Okay. 0.99

01:26:27.000 So, fat flation is defined quickly. 1.00

01:26:31.000 If you're using a one to scale, one to 10 scale, right, to rank female attractiveness, it's now inflated due to the large amount of obese and overweight women in the dating market. 0.98

01:26:42.000 Furthermore, if the average woman in the United States is now obese, that puts her right in the middle as a five. 1.00

01:26:47.000 That's your average woman. 1.00

01:26:49.000 Yeah. 1.00

01:26:49.000 So you're like, oh, you're obese. 1.00

01:26:50.000 Okay.

01:26:51.000 So you're a five. 1.00

01:26:52.000 So, Therefore, that makes a woman who's overweight a six. 1.00

01:26:56.000 Yeah. 1.00

01:26:57.000 And fucks up the entire. 0.88

01:26:59.000 Yeah. 1.00

01:26:59.000 The regular weight woman is now a seven. 1.00

01:27:03.000 And nobody changed. 0.99

01:27:05.000 The bar just got lower.

01:27:08.000 Okay.

01:27:09.000 So that's it charted out right there.

01:27:11.000 So look at the normal baseline in the 1980s.

01:27:13.000 The average BMI in the 1980s was 23, five, average body. 0.68

01:27:19.000 Now, if you look at below, five is the obese woman, BMI. 0.99

01:27:24.000 Right? 1.00

01:27:25.000 The overweight is the six and the normal weight is a seven. 1.00

01:27:28.000 If she's severely obese, she's a four. 0.99

01:27:31.000 You know, when before it would be severely obese is a one, obese is a two, you know, overweight is three, obese, excuse me, obese, overweight, and then regular weight was right in the middle at five.

01:27:43.000 It was normal. 0.83

01:27:44.000 Now we're in clown world. 0.91

01:27:46.000 Okay. 0.97

01:27:47.000 Again, if you took a look at this information right here in the 1960s, the average weight of an American woman was 140 pounds.

01:27:56.000 Now it's 171.8. 0.99

01:27:58.000 Does that 31 pound difference.

01:28:00.000 In the span of how many years was that?

01:28:01.000 In the span of, okay.

01:28:03.000 Go back if you can.

01:28:05.000 Give me one second.

01:28:05.000 Let me see if I could go back here.

01:28:08.000 If it's too much of a pain, no worries.

01:28:09.000 I think I got it.

01:28:10.000 Okay.

01:28:11.000 So 1960.

01:28:12.000 Okay.

01:28:13.000 Yep.

01:28:13.000 1960 average weight was 140.

01:28:15.000 Yep.

01:28:16.000 And now it's today.

01:28:18.000 So 46 years later.

01:28:19.000 Okay. 0.87

01:28:20.000 Holy crap. 0.68

01:28:21.000 Now it's 171? 0.89

01:28:23.000 He's right there.

01:28:24.000 171, 172, basically. 0.99

01:28:26.000 Holy shit, bro. 0.99

01:28:27.000 Yeah. 1.00

01:28:27.000 Rounded up on these bitches. 1.00

01:28:29.000 Insane. 1.00

01:28:29.000 All right. 1.00

01:28:30.000 Let's continue.

01:28:32.000 So the real problem is how men are trying to tackle this problem.

01:28:36.000 This is where the problem of the men are not going the right way to solve it.

01:28:40.000 Okay. 0.97

01:28:42.000 Because of the low supply of attractive women, men are now trying to compete by raising the price they pay for women.

01:28:50.000 This is what Fresh was alluding to, right? 1.00

01:28:53.000 Coffee dates are now frowned upon by women because they're getting spoiled by men overpaying just to get a shot at a date at her, AKA simping. 1.00

01:29:03.000 Simping is the real root cause of all this because men are continuously paying the high price. 1.00

01:29:10.000 The only reason some woman will ask you for $200, $300, $500 to have sex with her is because she probably had four guys already that did that or her girlfriends are doing it. 1.00

01:29:21.000 Yes. 1.00

01:29:21.000 You know, can I do that real quick? 1.00

01:29:23.000 Yeah, absolutely.

01:29:24.000 So, typically, right, if your dating strategy works with either men or women, you want to do it over and over again because it works, right?

01:29:31.000 So, I used to wonder okay, I'm out here dating, I'm still in the data market. 0.65

01:29:37.000 Why is it every girl is trying to position herself to make money instantly or within that time frame of meeting somebody, right? 0.64

01:29:44.000 Instantly, right? 0.83

01:29:45.000 And it's because prior to meeting you or somebody else, she's been given this multiple times.

01:29:53.000 So, first, like, why did they eat you for free when they're paying me just to be around?

01:29:57.000 Yeah. 0.99

01:29:57.000 And it's like, damn, like, he burled you? 0.99

01:30:00.000 I get it because, bro, you're getting paid just to go on a fucking date. 1.00

01:30:03.000 Yeah. 1.00

01:30:04.000 I'm not giving you shit other than some dick. 1.00

01:30:06.000 Yeah. 1.00

01:30:06.000 Like, so why would you go with me unless obviously I'm attractive, but like, that's not going to happen every single time. 1.00

01:30:10.000 Nope.

01:30:11.000 So, no.

01:30:12.000 I get it, man.

01:30:12.000 It's tough.

01:30:13.000 It's, and you're witnessing it, dude.

01:30:15.000 We are in the pay for play capital of the United States of America in Miami.

01:30:20.000 You know, what's like, I was telling Myron last night, the fact that Clay Thompson was paying Megan the Stallion $300,000.

01:30:27.000 Thousand dollars a month when they were dating, she has never hit a layup in her life.

01:30:33.000 Like, she has no NBA rings, she's gonna be washed in like five years, if not already. 0.99

01:30:38.000 Bro, I remember seeing her here with Tory Lanez back in the day, going to strip clubs and wilding out.

01:30:43.000 Bro, like, I think you guys understand, like, the dating market has been cooked for a while anyway, but it's more relevant because you can see it in real time.

01:30:51.000 And it was crazy that, like, pay for play hasn't always been in your face, but now it is.

01:30:57.000 And for most men, if you can't pay to play, you're out of the game. 0.98

01:30:59.000 Well, and because the women, Who are, you know, attractive are literally in the fucking 1%. 1.00

01:31:08.000 Bro, walking the streets here as a hot girl, you can post 10 times minimum. 1.00

01:31:12.000 Bro. 1.00

01:31:12.000 And remember that Miami's an anomaly. 1.00

01:31:14.000 Yeah, a guy in a Ferrari.

01:31:15.000 We're lucky here, but like for the rest of the US? 0.99

01:31:17.000 Yeah, a guy in a Ferrari, a guy in a Lambo, a guy in the fucking G Wagon, it's in on you. 0.99

01:31:22.000 Dude, constantly. 0.99

01:31:23.000 And when you start to apply this model, this, because when I was living in Japan, I was like, how are these fucking hoes making all this money on OnlyFans? 1.00

01:31:30.000 And then I realized I come here, I'm like, oh, every girl's fucking disgusting. 1.00

01:31:36.000 And so you are damn near a fucking celebrity because you are not even in the 1%. 1.00

01:31:40.000 You're in the top 1% if you're hot. 1.00

01:31:43.000 If you're hot, you have nice tits, nice ass, cute face, young, you're in the 0.0 something percent. 1.00

01:31:48.000 I'm going to give you something that no one talks about ever online. 1.00

01:31:52.000 Do you know why girls do OnlyFans? 1.00

01:31:53.000 Some of them? 1.00

01:31:54.000 Their dads don't love them.

01:31:55.000 That too.

01:31:57.000 But it's a marketing tick.

01:32:02.000 So, for example, if I am a hot girl and no one really knows me, I don't get much leverage or attention.

01:32:08.000 But if I do OnlyFans and do content, I'm out there constantly.

01:32:12.000 So, guys that have money are one of a simp on me.

01:32:15.000 Now they can find me.

01:32:16.000 Here's my Cash App.

01:32:17.000 Here's my email.

01:32:18.000 And they get booked.

01:32:19.000 They get things paid for. 1.00

01:32:19.000 I don't know if you want to tell this story, but I remember that bitch that me and you talked about. 1.00

01:32:25.000 She got on TikTok. 1.00

01:32:27.000 Oh. 1.00

01:32:27.000 And she blew up even though she's stupid as fuck. 1.00

01:32:30.000 Yeah. 1.00

01:32:30.000 You want to tell that story to them real quick? 1.00

01:32:31.000 Well, I got a better one.

01:32:33.000 Okay. 1.00

01:32:34.000 We had a girl on the show. 1.00

01:32:36.000 She wasn't ballet looking at all. 1.00

01:32:38.000 She's pretty hot. 1.00

01:32:39.000 But she had no type of income. 1.00

01:32:40.000 She was pretty much like probably escorting, right? 1.00

01:32:43.000 And.

01:32:44.000 Kind of find out, my boys are doing TikTok live battles, right?

01:32:47.000 You make a lot of money doing that.

01:32:48.000 You make like between four to eight K, depending on how you do.

01:32:51.000 If you got a good following.

01:32:53.000 But she's doing it now.

01:32:55.000 And it's funny because she started like zero, zero followers, zero like, obviously like community.

01:33:01.000 She's not 150 K plus, making eight K a day in her bedroom.

01:33:07.000 It's easy mode for them, dude. 1.00

01:33:08.000 And I'm like, bro, us as guys, we can't do that shit, bro. 1.00

01:33:11.000 Yeah, we can't. 0.99

01:33:12.000 We have to add value.

01:33:13.000 Here's the worst part not only is she getting paid for TikTok, Guys are taking her on dates, paying her to go on dates because they can see her now.

01:33:20.000 So, the new strip club is TikTok live, bro.

01:33:22.000 I'm telling you.

01:33:23.000 I believe it.

01:33:24.000 And, guys, it's 745, so we're going to keep going.

01:33:26.000 I don't want to hold.

01:33:27.000 And, guys, do me one favor before we continue on.

01:33:29.000 Smash the like button if you're watching on YouTube. 0.99

01:33:32.000 As you guys know, we do not stream on this channel like that because fuck YouTube. 0.95

01:33:35.000 But it is important that this message gets out there so you guys have it. 0.59

01:33:38.000 There's a reason why I turned my stream off and pushed it to all you guys to Fresher Fit.

01:33:42.000 Like the video, please, guys.

01:33:43.000 One of the most important, comprehensive videos we've ever done.

01:33:45.000 They answer a lot of the questions.

01:33:46.000 Timestamps are going to be up, obviously, as well after the show is done.

01:33:48.000 But smash the like button on YouTube.

01:33:50.000 Continue on, bro.

01:33:50.000 So the coffee dates are frowned upon because the average simp is inflating their value, right?

01:33:54.000 Artificially, okay?

01:33:56.000 And if we continue on here, you can see that here's the truth.

01:34:01.000 If a woman is genuinely interested, she will meet you for a very casual date.

01:34:05.000 If she likes you, she likes you. 0.86

01:34:06.000 But a woman's expectations are now being elevated due to an influx of weak men with no game that lead with their wallet, okay? 0.70

01:34:15.000 It's detrimental, brother. 0.65

01:34:17.000 Simply put, simps who pay girls to talk to them have ruined an entire generation.

01:34:24.000 That's just the bottom line.

01:34:26.000 Simping has got to go.

01:34:28.000 Yeah.

01:34:29.000 It has got to go.

01:34:30.000 It has got to go right now.

01:34:32.000 But the problem is, it's so profitable for the companies facilitating the transactions.

01:34:36.000 OnlyFans, Twitch.

01:34:38.000 Twitch used to be a gaming site. 0.94

01:34:40.000 Now it is a whore funnel to OnlyFans. 1.00

01:34:42.000 Facts, dude. 1.00

01:34:43.000 It is a literal e girl fucking scam. 0.99

01:34:46.000 That guy, Dan Clancy, or whatever the guy's name is, the CEO, that guy's a very creepy. 1.00

01:34:50.000 Oh, no.

01:34:50.000 The old man.

01:34:51.000 He once showed his For You feed. 1.00

01:34:53.000 It was all fucking thoughts. 0.99

01:34:55.000 All the thoughts on Twitch were in his feed. 1.00

01:34:57.000 Sicko.

01:34:57.000 That's why he didn't ever get banned.

01:34:58.000 Sicko.

01:34:59.000 Okay. 0.71

01:35:01.000 Simping never works, guys.

01:35:02.000 You may get temporary sexual access, but in most instances, you're just being strung along by a woman who does not like you.

01:35:10.000 A woman you have to pay for is never worth the price, even $4.99 for her OnlyFans.

01:35:15.000 Okay. 0.99

01:35:17.000 And this is here's the funny thing about simping.

01:35:20.000 If you take a look at here, What's happening is the bottom 80% of men, they cannot really compete.

01:35:27.000 So they take that money and they simp for that 5.6 million.

01:35:32.000 And really, they're simping for more. 0.82

01:35:33.000 They're simping for fat girls now. 0.90

01:35:34.000 That's how bad it is. 0.99

01:35:35.000 Yeah.

01:35:36.000 Okay.

01:35:36.000 But this is an extreme example here.

01:35:38.000 5.6 is just eligible women that aren't fat that are desirable. 1.00

01:35:41.000 Kind of fat. 1.00

01:35:42.000 Yeah.

01:35:42.000 Okay.

01:35:43.000 Remember, 4.1 is not fat.

01:35:44.000 Gotcha.

01:35:45.000 I'm being generous with the model here.

01:35:46.000 I'm trying to get some hope.

01:35:47.000 Yeah.

01:35:48.000 But it's not looking good. 1.00

01:35:51.000 And what's funny is when these women don't like you, They will take all your money and they'll buy themselves plastic surgery. 1.00

01:35:57.000 They'll get themselves a nice purse. 1.00

01:35:59.000 They'll get themselves a nice dress. 1.00

01:36:01.000 They'll get a fake ass. 1.00

01:36:02.000 They'll make themselves hotter or even give that money to the Chads because they'll take the simp money, level themselves up, and try to get to the top 1% of men. 0.99

01:36:10.000 You know, it's the biggest L men take I've seen in Miami, especially. 0.59

01:36:14.000 They'll have a girlfriend, wine at a diner, spoil her, everything, right? 1.00

01:36:20.000 But they buy her boobs. 0.99

01:36:22.000 And I'm just like, bro. 0.99

01:36:24.000 And then ask girls, I'm just curious, like, who did your boob job?

01:36:27.000 Oh, my ex.

01:36:28.000 Oh, where's he now?

01:36:29.000 Oh, I don't care.

01:36:30.000 Yeah.

01:36:31.000 You spent 20 bands.

01:36:33.000 I've got to date even like you.

01:36:34.000 Yeah. 1.00

01:36:34.000 To make her look better for other men. 1.00

01:36:35.000 Wes Watson just did that.

01:36:37.000 Bro.

01:36:37.000 He's in prison now.

01:36:38.000 Hurrah! 1.00

01:36:38.000 Girls on some other dude's dick. 1.00

01:36:40.000 Yeah. 1.00

01:36:41.000 Yeah.

01:36:41.000 By the way, I told West about her before he even.

01:36:43.000 I know you did.

01:36:44.000 Bro, that's another example of a guy who has money, status, but no game.

01:36:49.000 And he ruined his whole life because of two women.

01:36:53.000 Yeah. 0.62

01:36:53.000 I mean, I wish him the best, bro. 0.62

01:36:55.000 I do too.

01:36:55.000 I feel sorry for him, man.

01:36:56.000 I pray for that guy.

01:36:57.000 Because she finessed him, bro. 0.97

01:36:59.000 Like, she legit had a plan from the very beginning.

01:37:01.000 I know.

01:37:02.000 She never liked him.

01:37:02.000 Because he has no game.

01:37:04.000 Like I was saying earlier, game allows you to understand, it gives you a spirit of discernment.

01:37:11.000 Does this woman genuinely like me?

01:37:13.000 But when you lead with your wallet.

01:37:15.000 When you lead with status, when you lead with clout, when you lead with all this stuff, you can't really decipher if she likes you or not.

01:37:22.000 Remember Larry Wills?

01:37:24.000 Similar situation.

01:37:25.000 I know.

01:37:26.000 Yeah.

01:37:27.000 Yeah.

01:37:27.000 I feel sorry for Larry too.

01:37:28.000 I talk about it.

01:37:29.000 It's funny.

01:37:29.000 Unfortunately, I documented both those guys' breakdowns on my channel, you know?

01:37:34.000 But yeah, that's the big problem, man.

01:37:36.000 That's the big problem.

01:37:37.000 So let's continue because we're cutting into the home stretch here.

01:37:40.000 Now, men are going to extremes now in the USA just to have a chance to compete, okay? 1.00

01:37:46.000 They are throwing events just to meet women, AKA, you're paying for pussy. 1.00

01:37:49.000 If you're throwing events to meet women, I'm sorry, you don't have game. 1.00

01:37:52.000 This is retarded. 1.00

01:37:53.000 Okay? 1.00

01:37:53.000 Yo, wait, Was that a shot, MLD? 1.00

01:37:57.000 No.

01:37:58.000 Was that a shot at somebody in Vegas?

01:37:59.000 Well, no, Come on, man.

01:38:03.000 Listen, there are many guys doing this.

01:38:07.000 I see guys doing this in Tampa.

01:38:09.000 I see guys doing this in Atlanta.

01:38:11.000 Okay?

01:38:11.000 They're running Facebook ads to have event meetups where they only target women.

01:38:17.000 Okay, but you're paying at least a thousand dollars. 1.00

01:38:21.000 Oof.

01:38:23.000 A thousand dollars cold approach is free. 0.97

01:38:25.000 And it's an instant identifier if she's interested or not. 0.67

01:38:30.000 Yeah. 1.00

01:38:30.000 Because if she doesn't like you, she's like, get the fuck out of my face. 1.00

01:38:33.000 Who the fuck are you? 1.00

01:38:34.000 But if she likes you, she's going to talk to you and you can shoot your shot. 1.00

01:38:37.000 Fair. 1.00

01:38:38.000 But you know what you need for that?

01:38:39.000 Game.

01:38:40.000 You need some game. 1.00

01:38:40.000 You need some balls. 1.00

01:38:42.000 That's the real. 1.00

01:38:43.000 The cojones. 0.99

01:38:43.000 You need some real cojones. 0.99

01:38:45.000 The cojones. 0.99

01:38:46.000 You know what I mean? 0.99

01:38:46.000 So, no, that's not a shot at anybody, but that's just. 0.99

01:38:50.000 This is ridiculous. 1.00

01:38:52.000 I didn't see this shit in Japan. 1.00

01:38:53.000 I didn't see this shit in Korea. 1.00

01:38:55.000 I didn't see this in Thailand. 1.00

01:38:56.000 I didn't see this in the UK.

01:38:58.000 I didn't see any of this. 1.00

01:38:58.000 Throwing events just to meet women, you're paying for pussy, pal. 1.00

01:39:01.000 Next one is even more ridiculous. 1.00

01:39:03.000 I see guys paying $5,000 for photo shoots just to have a chance at an online dating market that is A, flooded with low quality women, B, flooded with men. 0.95

01:39:14.000 So the ratio is terrible for you. 1.00

01:39:16.000 And then C, a lot of chicks who use dating apps, they. 1.00

01:39:24.000 Are high body count, which is not a good indicator of a good relationship partner. 1.00

01:39:30.000 You need a lot of game.

01:39:31.000 Okay.

01:39:32.000 And this is happening right now, right now in 2026.

01:39:35.000 It has been happening.

01:39:36.000 You know, these, these, you know, photo shoots for five grand is insane.

01:39:42.000 Okay.

01:39:43.000 So the next one engaging in look maxing, which can include the abuse of steroids, facial fillers, makeup, and extreme surgeries just to give men the illusion.

01:39:55.000 Of being able to compete.

01:39:56.000 But this does not give them discernment skills to identify good women who are capable of relationship, nor does it teach them the mandatory skills of leadership a man needs to have a relationship with women.

01:40:08.000 Only learning game fixes this.

01:40:11.000 Okay.

01:40:12.000 So, this also does not factor in the danger of abusing pharmacological drugs or the risk of botched surgeries by less competent doctors.

01:40:21.000 Okay.

01:40:24.000 This has also led to a recent phenomenon that has become more mainstream.

01:40:29.000 And this is going to catch the attention of a lot of people here on this channel.

01:40:37.000 Okay. 0.78

01:40:38.000 And that's the Passport Bro movement. 0.97

01:40:40.000 Okay, if you were to do anything, you know, a lot of people say passport bro is a cope, passport bro is weak, passport bro is for losers.

01:40:51.000 No, the only losers are the people who haven't actually looked at the math of the situation right in front of them in the United States of America and realized the hopelessness of their situation.

01:41:03.000 Okay, so if you take a look at what's happening exactly here, men are leaving the United States of America in record numbers in order to find better living elsewhere.

01:41:14.000 And in 2025, the USA saw the first year since the Great Depression where more people left America than came into it.

01:41:27.000 The Wall Street Journal did a story on this recently.

01:41:30.000 And that is 2025, again, more people left America than came in.

01:41:37.000 And that's the first time that's happened since the 1920s when we had the Great Depression.

01:41:42.000 Okay? 0.95

01:41:44.000 And this is just a logical choice because, once again, they're just not enough attractive women, thin women in the United States to fulfill the needs of men. 0.98

01:41:53.000 It's just a logical conclusion that you have to come to. 0.96

01:41:56.000 If you have the balls to do it, you know, me moving to Japan when I was 26 years old and broke was the best decision of my life. 0.99

01:42:04.000 I changed, I grew, I dated so many fucking hot girls. 0.98

01:42:08.000 And, you know, it was really one of the best decisions of my life. 0.96

01:42:13.000 And compared to exactly what I'm experiencing right now in the United States of America, it is so depressing here as a man.

01:42:19.000 Because you're just outnumbered. 0.98

01:42:23.000 Because men pursuing the women that you're like are also like, you're outnumbered fucking at least three, four to one. 0.99

01:42:30.000 Okay. 0.86

01:42:31.000 So even top male streamer and popularity, Clavicular, has now officially decided to leave the USA.

01:42:38.000 He says this.

01:42:39.000 This was on the 13th, a couple of days ago.

01:42:41.000 My new strategy is going to be geomaxing, aka being a Packersport pro.

01:42:45.000 The United States is far too brutal of a dating market to compete in.

01:42:49.000 So I'm going to geomax to countries with poor economies to mog people.

01:42:53.000 All right.

01:42:55.000 You know, it's bad here when a multimillionaire popular streamer who is good looking is also leaving the United States of America.

01:43:02.000 Okay.

01:43:03.000 And again, simps leading with their wallets have ruined dating.

01:43:07.000 It's terrible.

01:43:08.000 All right.

01:43:10.000 But in case this presentation did not shock you enough, don't worry, it gets worse.

01:43:16.000 As we're coming down to the last couple of slides here, you know, pay attention to this last part here because if you're still thinking, because I just saw somebody in the chat saying, oh, rural America is better.

01:43:28.000 Than the cities.

01:43:29.000 You are so astronomically wrong.

01:43:32.000 And I just pray that you rewatch this and look at the data.

01:43:38.000 And more importantly, pay attention to these next two slides because this here is the darkest part of the presentation.

01:43:45.000 Okay, take a look at this. 0.54

01:43:47.000 So remember the 1.7% best case scenario for the datable women out of the United States of America, right?

01:43:58.000 That did not include low body count, mental health, beautiful face and bodily proportions. 0.92

01:44:07.000 That's included like nice boobs, nice butt, right? 0.99

01:44:11.000 Faithful, not a cheater. 1.00

01:44:15.000 Is she covered in tattoos? 1.00

01:44:18.000 Red flag for mental health. 1.00

01:44:19.000 And, you know, fun fact women in America now have more tattoos than men. 0.98

01:44:24.000 You know, yeah, it's very no bueno. 0.92

01:44:28.000 Okay.

01:44:29.000 So does she have relationship skills? 1.00

01:44:33.000 Simps ruin this for them, right? 1.00

01:44:35.000 Because, like, when a man gets dumped, right?

01:44:38.000 What happens?

01:44:38.000 You got to go home.

01:44:39.000 You got to look in the mirror.

01:44:41.000 You got to be depressed. 0.99

01:44:42.000 You got to think, okay, am I a loser? 0.99

01:44:44.000 Am I fat? 1.00

01:44:45.000 Am I ugly? 0.94

01:44:45.000 Is my fashion bad? 0.94

01:44:47.000 Do I smell bad?

01:44:48.000 You know, what's going on with me? 1.00

01:44:50.000 Why do I suck? 0.98

01:44:51.000 How can I come back from this? 1.00

01:44:52.000 Right.

01:44:53.000 Right. 1.00

01:44:54.000 But when a woman gets dumped in America, she has seven motherfuckers ready to pick up where that guy just left off right there. 1.00

01:45:03.000 She has a whole roster. 1.00

01:45:04.000 She has a queue of men waiting for her. 0.96

01:45:07.000 So, She doesn't get to do the most valuable part of a relationship reflection, figure out why you got dumped, right? 1.00

01:45:15.000 And then also, you have seven guys ready to fucking back you up on one side, and you have fucking 10 girlfriends telling you because of feminism, it's not your fault, men are the problem. 1.00

01:45:25.000 And that just literally retards your growth as a person. 0.99

01:45:29.000 And your relationship skills are not going to develop, okay?

01:45:35.000 And last but not least, this is something rare in America.

01:45:38.000 Is she genuinely a nice person? 1.00

01:45:39.000 I have no idea why these women in America are just such bitches. 1.00

01:45:43.000 But they're just not nice people. 1.00

01:45:45.000 They're just very mean.

01:45:46.000 They're very harsh.

01:45:47.000 They're very coarse.

01:45:48.000 They're very masculine.

01:45:49.000 I don't know what's happened to them, but it's truly terrible.

01:45:53.000 So, this is the real math right here.

01:45:56.000 This is what I call the unicorn funnel.

01:45:57.000 So, look at the top right there, right? 1.00

01:46:00.000 5.6 million women that are technically what we have qualified based upon my model, right? 1.00

01:46:07.000 Now, add beautiful face, nice ass, nice tits, proportions, right? 0.95

01:46:11.000 Now you're down to about 2.2 million. 1.00

01:46:14.000 Next one down, very important, not on psychiatric meds. 0.68

01:46:18.000 One in five women are on medications, SSRIs, you name it. 0.99

01:46:24.000 They are drugged up.

01:46:26.000 They are drugged up.

01:46:28.000 Okay.

01:46:29.000 And furthermore, now faithful, when you look at the GSS infidelity data, you're looking at a pool of 1.4 million and then relationship capable, assuming a 65% pass.

01:46:42.000 It's exactly.

01:46:44.000 So you're really looking at approximately.

01:46:46.000 Now, this is my own.

01:46:47.000 Model, this is you know my assumption model, but you're looking at about 900,000 women in the entire USA who fit this one in one in 50 of her own age, and you're looking at an odds of 22 one. 0.86

01:47:03.000 I didn't include tattoos in this either. 0.77

01:47:14.000 No, look at the odds.

01:47:17.000 So, again, going from the top one more time for the chat.

01:47:21.000 5.6 million, assuming down to 2.2 million, assuming they have a pretty face and proportions.

01:47:28.000 Not on psychiatric meds is 1.8.

01:47:31.000 Faithful, 1.4.

01:47:34.000 And the relationship capable is about 900,000.

01:47:36.000 So you're looking at 21 odds.

01:47:38.000 So it's you versus 19 other guys if you want to actually make this happen.

01:47:43.000 So 21 odds.

01:47:46.000 What do you think about that, Fresh?

01:47:50.000 Myron, what do you think about that?

01:47:51.000 Because if you want an actual decent woman, those are your odds right there in America. 0.57

01:47:55.000 Yeah, no, it's absolutely nuts.

01:47:57.000 I already outsourced my talent, bro.

01:47:59.000 I'm going to Europe.

01:48:00.000 And, guys, real quick, smash the like button if you're watching on YouTube.

01:48:03.000 For all my guys that are on Kick, one of the front page of Kick, make sure to follow the channel.

01:48:06.000 You guys enjoy content like this, whether it's dating, politics, whatever it may be.

01:48:10.000 Follow Myron Gaines X on Kick.

01:48:11.000 A lot of you guys are in here from the front page on Kick.

01:48:13.000 So follow that, but smash the like button.

01:48:15.000 And then obviously, you guys know home base for Fresh and Fit is Rumble.

01:48:18.000 So yeah, but we'll keep going on.

01:48:20.000 Because we got to do after hours here in a second.

01:48:22.000 Yep.

01:48:22.000 And we're down to the last couple of slides right here.

01:48:24.000 So that's where we're at.

01:48:25.000 So in closing, I'll say this The only way to truly have success in dating as a man is to learn game.

01:48:31.000 If you don't learn game, you're done.

01:48:33.000 The data shows it's sexlessness is up.

01:48:34.000 Your odds are 20 to 1. 1.00

01:48:36.000 Fat women are everywhere. 1.00

01:48:37.000 You're cooked. 1.00

01:48:39.000 If you don't learn game, you are done. 0.99

01:48:40.000 You are going to die alone.

01:48:42.000 That is a fact. 0.99

01:48:43.000 You're going to die alone. 0.85

01:48:46.000 It's a fact. 0.98

01:48:47.000 Okay. 0.98

01:48:47.000 Learning games simply means you understand female psychology and have the leadership skills to lead and guide her. 0.98

01:48:54.000 This also gives you the discernment to identify if a woman truly loves you, which is what we call genuine desire, or if she's just using you for the time being, aka the placeholder boyfriend.

01:49:05.000 Okay.

01:49:07.000 Nothing can replace having game.

01:49:08.000 And the biggest problem now is that men simply do not have game.

01:49:12.000 They simp by default now.

01:49:14.000 Okay.

01:49:17.000 If you're interested in having me on your show to talk about this presentation or have any questions, please send me an email.

01:49:23.000 I would love to connect.

01:49:24.000 MLD at modernlifedating.com.

01:49:26.000 Take a screenshot.

01:49:27.000 I don't care who you are.

01:49:28.000 Send him an email. 1.00

01:49:29.000 If you're a hot girl, send me a picture of your boobs. 1.00

01:49:33.000 No fat girls. 1.00

01:49:36.000 Oh, God. 1.00

01:49:37.000 Okay.

01:49:38.000 And then I would just like to say again thank you to the Fresh and Fit podcast.

01:49:42.000 Thank you guys for letting me have it.

01:49:43.000 On this, uh, on the show here, I really wanted to break this.

01:49:46.000 I think this is really valuable data.

01:49:48.000 Have you ever seen anybody talk about this in your six, seven year history here at Fresh and Fit?

01:49:53.000 No, no, no.

01:49:53.000 Most comprehensive, uh, not just details, data analysis of females, right?

01:49:57.000 So, you know, because here's the thing we all knew what the problem was to a degree, but we couldn't exactly put our finger on it.

01:50:01.000 This went ahead and made everything crystal clear where the problems are.

01:50:05.000 I want to where they lie.

01:50:06.000 I remember I was talking about this to Myron, guys.

01:50:09.000 It was so funny. 0.87

01:50:09.000 And Myron's like, only somebody as crazy as you could figure this out. 0.87

01:50:13.000 Yeah, I mean, you've been working on it since April, bro.

01:50:16.000 So, Extensive research. 1.00

01:50:18.000 It's fueled by my hatred for American women. 1.00

01:50:20.000 Yeah.

01:50:22.000 And you guys can tell from the work put in, he really hates them.

01:50:25.000 So, cool.

01:50:26.000 So, guys, we're going to go ahead and start up after hours here in a second.

01:50:31.000 Literally, we're bringing the girls in as we speak.

01:50:34.000 Real quick, Bills, can you go to chat real quick? 1.00

01:50:35.000 Boo, so next.

01:50:37.000 So, MLD actually brought up a very good point.

01:50:40.000 We got super chats, super high.

01:50:41.000 We're going to read it.

01:50:41.000 Well, we can read them on after hours.

01:50:42.000 Yeah. 0.87

01:50:43.000 And he brought up having women at parties you do yourself. 1.00

01:50:48.000 Is retarded. 1.00

01:50:48.000 It's stupid because you don't know how to set the environment, curate the experience so they can win. 1.00

01:50:55.000 Now, this is one of the photos from the parties. 0.99

01:50:57.000 My boy Adam here.

01:50:59.000 And what I did was I created a crazy environment where we have beautiful women, good food, and successful entrepreneurs. 1.00

01:51:08.000 That's when they came out in droves to find men. 1.00

01:51:10.000 You know what the biggest issue they had in that room was? 0.58

01:51:14.000 Hey, Fresh, the guys in my hair have girlfriends.

01:51:16.000 We're the hot single guys that make money.

01:51:19.000 So, if you're broke, you just won't work for you, of course, but I'm just saying we got the experiences here in Miami.

01:51:23.000 Come through, hit me up on Instagram.

01:51:24.000 I got you guys.

01:51:25.000 Actually, I got a video there as well, Bells, if you don't mind playing.

01:51:28.000 Here we go.

01:51:34.000 You can cut the music real quick.

01:51:36.000 So, next event is going to be Sunday with Andrew Tay, actually, here in Miami.

01:51:39.000 It's going to be pretty dope.

01:51:40.000 So, let me know for the details if you guys want to pull through.

01:51:43.000 And yeah, should be fun.

01:51:45.000 All right, cool.

01:51:47.000 All right, yo, guys, so we're going to get off right now.

01:51:48.000 We're going to read your super chats literally on, we're going to read your super chats.

01:51:52.000 On after hours, we're gonna bro less than like five minutes, we're gonna be right back on.

01:51:56.000 So, guys, stay tuned right here to the channel.

01:51:58.000 We're literally gonna restart our guests and girls right now, and we're gonna bring it in, and we'll be right back, guys.

01:52:03.000 So stay tuned where you guys are at.

01:52:05.000 Fresh Fit everywhere at Myron Gaines X as well.

01:52:07.000 We'll see you guys here in a second.

01:52:08.000 Peace.

Fresh & Fit - July 15, 2026

Why Dating Is DEAD For 95% Of Men! Studies, Stats, And Data Paint A Grim Future For Relationships...

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