Why Dating Will Never Be The Same Ft. Coach Greg Adams
Summary
On this episode of Live from Las Vegas, Myron and I catch up with our good friend, Coach Greg, who has been in Vegas for a few years now. We talk about how he's been able to travel the world, how he met his wife, and what it's like to be a free-age male in the 21st century. We also talk about what it means to be "purity" on social media and how it's changed over the years.
Transcript
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22, 22, 23. I think it was around 23 or maybe end of 22. Something like that.
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Last time I came on your show, I was in California.
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So making my home here and doing all the Vegas activity, you know?
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So, Coach, you've been traveling the world, man.
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Because I know most people complain, oh, bro, passport, this or not, but what's that like, bro?
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Well, I mean, I'm going to tell you, man, the limitations of the American male, most guys just don't have the experience to go outside.
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They live in Jacksonville, Florida, some of these podunk towns.
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So their fear is to be able to leave the country and go find something a little bit that might be suitable for them.
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So once you start traveling internationally, I wrote about this in the first book.
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Also, dating itself here in America has totally changed, I think, from when I got here, obviously from when you've been here.
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They can disguise it for however the ladies want to say it, luxury dating.
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They describe it as a whole bunch of things, but they're entitled to this.
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They're like, hey, listen, this is how we want to be courted.
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So I made a discovery a couple weeks ago, myself, where I saw girls showing purity on Instagram, right?
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And I'm like, let me go see what's happening there.
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If you didn't click the bio, you would never know.
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But I think this conversation has been here for a while.
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Myron's even talked about he wants his girl to delete the Instagram, right?
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But that was the best possible relationship presented to them.
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You've got to be able to control it, is my point.
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How many women are going to be able to do that today?
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Most girls won't let you control their shit at all.
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It's difficult because when we were doing, like last time I was here, we're talking about millennials having problems with dating.
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So Gen Z, we're talking about 17-year-olds to 25-year-olds, really.
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And they're being introduced to all of the stuff we've already talked about over the last few years with the Gen X and millennials.
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So these guys are like 22, 23. They were like 17 when we started talking.
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And I said, Gen Z guys will be the first generation that will have to deal with their girls being monetized.
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They have to consider dating girls with those things.
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I would argue nowadays with the advent of social media, though, and TikTok itself, you get clues and information about the girl beforehand.
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You go to her TikTok, she's talking about her last relationship, why it failed, why she got ghosted.
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So it is a benefit to it as well, but also don't say, as you mentioned earlier.
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Yeah, I would say, I agree with that, that the Gen Z guys are going to have to deal with monetized women.
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And I would say, like, for us, it was monetized on the low.
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For them, now it's going to be monetized overtly.
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It's gonna be to a point where in the next 10 or 15 years a guy might get with a girl, marry her, whatever.
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Then he finds out later on that his girl used to be a sugar baby or she used to be IG thot or she used to self-heat pictures or whatever.
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And that's kind of where we're going, where women are overtly sexualizing themselves for modernization.
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She might have a sugar daddy, but it was on the low.
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But now, with the internet, and also because we have kind of mainstreamed it for girls to be promiscuous and to make money off of men, it's mainstream now.
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So you've got to imagine, if you're a young woman, you see that?
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So they're going, and listen, I know a lot of young ladies, they're now 23, 24, 25. They told me when they were 18, they signed up.
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The guys have to deal with that in their past, whereas before, I stripped, I had to pay my way through college.
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I had to pay my way through college, you understand?
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But today, the strippers are doing it to make money.
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Even Amrath herself said that women shouldn't do this at the very beginning, especially because you're not making any money.
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But with them, bro, you may make, what, less than $1,000 if you try?
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Smashing on camera, doing everything, and it's like...
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And so that's all they're going to do is sell pictures to guys that want pictures.
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And so they don't want to have that digital footprint.
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These girls, if I take their picture and run a reverse image search, it is crazy what pops up.
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I mean, I've had girls come up and they did the whole BDSM. You know what I mean?
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So the problem is they're going to want to be enticed by the money.
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I mean, if I play ball, I see somebody sign 70 million.
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The problem is they're going to burn out 2021-22.
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They're going to flame out, make $1,000, and get their pussy pop all over the damn country getting flown in.
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So, Coach, you're a bit older than us, a bit more experienced and refined.
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Can you kind of go through the decades of how dating has shifted from, let's start maybe the 90s?
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Because I don't meet many guys that are red pillow wear that reach your age.
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So I really want to know, someone that has that red lens, you can kind of tell me.
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Let me tell you something, why that's important.
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Because people hear, oh, in the 90s it was better, in the 2000s, right?
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You hear about that and people romanticize that.
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Now down the line, you got to take Gen Z or a young millennial.
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And they know hyper-feminist women, masculine women.
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They want a guy to take care of them, but then they want to be independent.
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They had a song called Ain't Nothing Going On But The Rent.
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And it was like, okay, woman's going to take half your money in divorce, right?
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So there was a little bit of this conversation going on.
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But the problem is women didn't make as much money as men.
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Like the corporate world wasn't like these boss baits.
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There was still that expectation of the man being the breadwinner.
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So there was still, there was, it was like 80-20.
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But the majority of women were like, hey, you know what I mean?
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I'm going to need a man to take care of myself financially.
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So you, if you were out here single, you were out here struggling.
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So this strong independent bullshit wasn't a thing in the 80s?
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In the 90s, you're old enough to date now, right?
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There was a time where the woman was sprung on you.
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You still had BS. You still had cock-blocking ass, dirty macking ass.
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You still had the BS, but it was still women were looking to get married.
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You're talking about Jodeci and women would sit around.
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You could call a little TV show, the radio show, I dedicate my song to my girl.
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There was still that sense of relationships one-on-one were possible.
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Now, most guys here, they wanted to be like, Everybody got a girl.
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Would it be fair to say it was a requirement back then?
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You had to have the pen and paper or remember the phone number.
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And then you had to go back and decipher the phone number if she wrote it.
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And then you call her, and then you still have the game.
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It's like, okay, I'm going to wait two days to call her back.
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I'll put a pin in that one, because I've got to ask you about that one later on.
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And so when you look at where women are, they don't want to go back to that.
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You still could get a girl, and the girl would want to be with you.
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But of course, if she was good-looking, extremely good-looking, monetized, they were looked upon as them girls over there.
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At the end of the day, it was only a small percentage of girls that were doing that type of lifestyle.
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They're like, okay, I had my fun, but now I'm trying to pack it in.
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24, 25. So it was odd to run into single women at 25 years old?
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If they were, they was going to be single for a long time.
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Would it be fair to say 25 in the 90s is the equivalent to maybe a 38-year-old today?
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Like you're a spinster now, basically, at 25. At 24, 25. Like, if you're not trying to get serious and get a relationship, you're going to miss the window.
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Like, for example, average income, 50K. Oh, yeah.
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I mean, 100K is equivalent to 300, 400,000 today.
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You know, the women was going to not mess around with you.
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Yuppies had the BMW. Wow, yeah, that's a very, yeah.
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1980. So you made 100K. You were a yuppie, especially if you were young.
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But I would say, I'm going to tell you, man, boomers, they didn't make 100K until they were in their 50s or 60s.
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So they grinded it out, making 30, 40, 50, 60, 70, right?
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Well, before we get to the 2000s, because I have some more questions on the 90s.
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Yeah, because I want to really break this down by decade, because this is rare where you get someone that lived through all these decades that has a red pill lens.
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The game, the dating marketplace back then, since men had to approach, did women actually value those approaches more than they do now?
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I think they appreciated them more because if you weren't approaching, the woman gets nothing.
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If she didn't accept an approach, she was cooked.
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Now, you still would get shouted down and you ain't-ish, that type of thing.
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But I think if you said something to a woman, like, we used to stand on a bridge in college, you know what I mean?
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And we used to stand there, you know what I mean?
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And the girls would just walk by all day, and everybody getting, you getting something.
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So if they didn't cross that bridge, they wasn't going to be seen.
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They might not have liked it, but you still wasn't going to get seen.
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See, in the 90s, there was no way for the woman to get anything outside a social circle or approaching her.
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So you want a husband, you want a boyfriend, you want to be seen, you got to go outside.
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So there was a bit of impetus on the women, because they get a bunch of attention today.
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So, they had to actually step outside to get attention back then in the 90s.
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And you're saying that they would appreciate that approach a bit more.
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Versus nowadays, you know, a lot of the times if you're not a Chad, she's annoyed.
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I've always said that I think modern women look at men as mosquitoes.
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Whereas we would probably have sex with 80% of the women.
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I would argue it's now 90-95% of men are invisible now, I would say.
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Some women either know that and don't care or they don't realize it.
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Also, nowadays, you know what it can do beforehand?
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So you would have to demonstrate something of quality for her to be like, okay, maybe a car, maybe a lifestyle.
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So I always tell guys, you know, I'm not a big cold approach guy, especially today because of those.
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However, if I'm at the top floor or, you know, an area of Caesar's Palace that she knows you have to be somebody to be there, then she's going to probably be more recipient or better recipient of a cold approach.
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If I'm at the valet, she's probably going to be because when my car grows up in a valet, now all of a sudden they open.
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But of course, without that knowledge, you're just a regular guy.
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Especially for young black men, they all put us in the same category.
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So you ain't shit from the start until they see something.
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So the main takeaway, 24-year-old woman is basically the equivalent of a 38-year-old woman today.
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Women actually valued Approach more, and they had to go outside to get anything.
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Guys, by the way, like the video, we got almost like 4K watching pretty much on YouTube.
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Coach Greg Adams is the big main channel, and Free Agent Lifestyle is the other channel.
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So, you know, it was like, you know, women had, like today, women will be hoes and go to church.
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Now, they did have that back then, but you could still find a woman.
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If a woman's in church, she might be intentional.
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So the church was a more viable way to meet a chick?
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Versus nowadays, it's a joke, but back then, you're saying it was viable.
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Oh, it was expected that people more went to church back then.
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So you could find a woman in church, and a woman wasn't pretty much done.
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Whereas today, guys ain't trying to mess with it.
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How did they look at single motherhood back then in the 90s?
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Well, they would be like, you got taken advantage of.
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Some guy did something to you to that point where he left.
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Was that only in the church or outside as well?
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Single mothers didn't have a negative reputation like they have today.
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And the only reason I ask that is, this is a weird connection, but I'll never forget.
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forget ted bundy's mom when she was raising him yeah she raised him in a home for women that don't have that basically bastard children right because it was like something that was very shameful like you couldn't be out in society as as a as a woman uh with without a dad that wasn't the 90s though so by 90s that's all that's kind of not stigmatized anymore it it It had less stigma that she was out here doing something.
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Yeah, because the 50s and the 60s, bro, it was a problem.
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You don't have a husband and you have a kid, they had shelters for them.
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Where guys could look at a woman and say, she got two kids.
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Promiscuities have always been viewed bad, poorly.
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But promiscuity, the reason why it hurt women back in the 90s was because women didn't have a reach.
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You know, people, like the cars that we have today, we could just be like, we're going to drive 400 miles.
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Like, we didn't do that in the 90s, you know what I mean?
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So, especially for a romantic relationship in the 80s and 90s, nobody's driving.
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An airline flight was like, you know, 500, 600. It was expensive.
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You weren't going to just fly out on a whim to go meet somebody.
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Your high school and the five rival high schools.
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Your college, your college campus, maybe the rival college if it's close.
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That's how people got together so that if she was a 304 with that group of people, she cooked.
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So then if I date her, the odds that somebody dated her in that radius is high.
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She all over here and come back to you and you don't know nothing.
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To your point, nowadays, Coach, women can travel from China?
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Because they only have these people right here.
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So basically, women were more reluctant to engage sexually because they understood that there would be serious social consequence due to a more constrained environment.
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My homeboy was like, oh, I banged her in the bushes.
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You might have thought maybe because she went to the high school over here, nobody knew about her.
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Now they can move in a little bit of a different space and come out here and say, hey, I'm holier than now.
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Let me ask this then, and then we'll go to the 2000s.
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Obviously, early 90s, you're 18, 1993. At this point, Hip-hop has gone mainstream, right?
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Violent gangster music as well as, you know, they're talking about women as well.
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And, you know, having sex and all this other stuff.
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Were white people listening to it too and also engaging in the bullshit?
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Because they didn't look at hip-hop as music back then.
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Hip-hop didn't become what we know of it today until about 92. Right?
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It was kind of like, that's going to be phased out.
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Nobody's going to listen to that in the future.
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But right when gangster rap came in, which I called the time bomb of the black community, that was the time bomb.
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Where, let me tell you, in the 90s, you start hearing women say they wanted to openly date guys like Dr. Dre, Snoop, Tupac.
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Like, before that, they didn't want guys like this.
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Like, gangbangers were a small group of people.
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So, are you saying the early 90s kind of ushered in this era of girls getting with crooks?
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There were a couple of songs that changed the trajectory of how women dated.
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Always liked bad boys, but they had a reputation to protect, so they can't just be out here with bad boys like that.
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He gotta be, you know, Timberland boots, baggy jeans.
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Before that, women weren't openly dating roughnecks, but that image started to become popular.
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Wu-Tang Clan, you know, dude with the one pants leg up, I'm trying to bring some shit back.
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So those guys became the ideal guy because rap became mainstream.
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You know it's bullshit because they give you the CD and it's all thin and it has a little paper thing.
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So, you know, the rap industry is overwhelmingly consumed.
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Yeah, so when a guy went platinum in the 90s, a rapper, it was white people.
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But what I will say is, in the black culture, when they sport something heavily, what I've been saying is, white people say, oh, that's cool now.
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Yeah, but that's just to give it the credentials.
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But then the white people are the ones that actually buy.
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They're going to take it, like N.W.A., Straight Outta Compton.
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They're going to pay for the concerts of the white people.
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Overwhelmingly, it was white people who bought that album.
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But they don't think it's cool until we think it's cool.
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I believe it was the first album that went platinum.
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Went straight out of Compton because I lived in the city and moved to the suburbs.
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Then after that, there was another song that I tell my audience that came out in the 90s that changed the way women can openly date the bad boy.
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But what happened was, what happened to the men, the men started to adopt this bad boy characteristic.
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They started to dress like gangbangers and thugs.
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They started to wear the Timberland boots, the baggy pants.
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So the men said, oh, the women are going to date those girls.
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Those guys that I'm going to date, I'm going to become that guy.
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And a lot of dudes probably in jail right now, overthugging to try to get some girls.
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So that's when dating started to change in terms of women openly dating guys like that.
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I'm trying to think if there's anything else I need for the 90s.
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Oh, so basically, the last thing I'll say is, so you would say...
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Early gangster rap was what created this ideology of dating thugs and made it okay, socially acceptable.
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Girls, it used to be, you have a thug boyfriend, you kept it from everybody, you didn't tell them.
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But now, after NWA, Snoop Dogg, Dr. Dre, Tupac, etc., now it's sort of date a thug.
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Publicly, they're walking down the street with him, and everybody's like, you know he ain't gonna be no good for you.
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Well, the woman openly chose these type of guys.
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But I'm like, those women openly dated those guys.
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So two things happened in the 90s from what I'm hearing from you.
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The commercialization and acceptance of dating.
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Like guys that, quite frankly, are not going to be able to be good providers.
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Then, due to them accepting this, the acceptance of single motherhood from dating those motherfuckers.
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Exactly, because they can still be the victim at that point.
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Oh, these guys don't take care of their kids, but they openly dated those type of guys or guys that became those guys.
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But on the other end, we're also going to accept the fact that they might get you pregnant and leave you.
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They be in the club, to the window, to the wall.
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They didn't sing the raunchy-ish stuff in the early 90s.
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They weren't like, hey, we like this raunchy-ass rap.
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Where today, these women at future concert, they doing the raunchiest shit.
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So they started to mix hip-hop and rap so that then they could put out this No Scrubs and the women and men could hear it.
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When I hear Chris Brown, these hoes ain't loyal, and they sing along, and I'm like...
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They'll sing along to the music now, but say, well, that's different.
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Once you start the 90s, you started to see more.
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All these Luther Vandross and all these Patti LaBelle, they phased out.
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You started seeing more of these groups come back with a hip-hop flavor.
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So they started to come back with a hip-hop flavor.
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So now what happened is there was still the emphasis on getting married.
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Still go out there and want to do the club thing, but still women wanted to get married overwhelmingly, but you're kind of seeing more strong and independent stuff coming.
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Because Destiny's Child, if I'm not mistaken, that's 2000s.
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You're still seeing this kind of a monetized thing and the women's strength.
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You're seeing that, but you're still seeing women play both sides.
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But they're putting more restrictions or requirements on the guy.
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No, because we're monitoring the different chats.
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So you're seeing women play both sides a little bit more than it was in the 90s and the 80s.
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And you guys got to accept this new form of woman.
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So would it be fair to say that we're starting to see the rise of the independent woman in the 2000s now?
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90s, I would say 30, 40, 30, 30. Increases slightly.
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And then now in the 2000s, now they're starting to stand on it.
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Yeah, we're going from 2000, this one, 2000 to 2010. 2010, yeah.
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So, Match.com was a thing back then, but you were considered a loser.
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Because, you know, you have some movies like You Got Mail started to come out in the 90s, and this internet started to come in.
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People use dating match services in the 80s and 90s, but dating services like...
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Yeah, I mean, I remember when there used to be, like, intense shame if you even mentioned that you met someone online.
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In the 90s, it wasn't a thing, but the 2000s, because the internet was still new.
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I went on, like, my first, like, family trip as a kid.
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And, like, my little sister, she had, like, booked a bunch of shit on the internet.
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People really only used the internet at that point for work.
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Like, there was not much of this, I'm gonna have a life on here.
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I'm gonna have romance and buy groceries and, like, all the stuff we do easily.
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What the hell were niggas doing on the internet?
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It would be one picture and that thing would load like...
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And then, you know, you probably try to print it out or something like that.
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Well, yeah, and they have, like, the, like, porn shops where you can, like, go there and pick up a magazine or a Playboy and shit.
00:34:50.000
Like, niggas go in there in their trench coat and shit.
00:34:56.000
We used to, yeah, that's how you used to get dirty magazines.
00:35:01.000
But going in the 2000s, you know, one of the most searchable people on the internet were porn stars.
00:35:09.000
So when it comes to dating now, so we saw the culture shift in the 90s where single mothers are starting to be accepted, thugs are starting to be accepted.
00:35:16.000
And then you mentioned that R&B starts making its way back.
00:35:18.000
How did that influence dating and how men needed to move with women?
00:35:22.000
And then what was the, I guess, the approach like?
00:35:25.000
Were guys still cold approaching at this point?
00:35:31.000
Like, nightclubs is like, what are we going to do tonight?
00:35:39.000
So everybody's either standing around or they dancing.
00:35:44.000
The women's expectation, you buy me a drink, you get a conversation.
00:35:46.000
But they're still kind of finessing it a little bit.
00:35:50.000
You know, growing up in the 2000s, I remember in the early 2000s, almost every fucking music video was the club.
00:36:00.000
Versus music videos nowadays, number one, they're not as creative and they don't spend as much money on the music videos.
00:36:05.000
Because back then, major record labels ran everything.
00:36:10.000
But every single time, now that I think about it, if you look at music videos from the early 2000s, they were almost always in a nightclub or some type of social situation party.
00:36:20.000
And if they did have a cell phone, it was like they'd pull out a sidekick or some bullshit like that.
00:36:28.000
Girls still aren't getting attention unless they go outside.
00:36:39.000
It was the expectation you were going to approach, but now since no scrubs, they can shoot you down.
00:36:52.000
Were the major differences in dating between the 90s and the 2000s?
00:36:55.000
It got harder because I could stop a girl 80s and 90s.
00:37:00.000
She either be, you know, she hit you with that or keep walking and you might have to catch up.
00:37:07.000
She might be like, okay, go ahead and put your work in.
00:37:14.000
Or they'll be like, you know, that type of stuff.
00:37:20.000
It wasn't that or this straight where they just look through you and around you.
00:37:36.000
They got make more money than a lot of these guys in many cases.
00:37:48.000
And it's interesting, too, because in the 90s, you're in your late teens, early 20s.
00:37:55.000
You're going into your 20s and 30s in the 2000s.
00:37:57.000
So you're saying it actually was harder for you in the 2000s than it was in the 90s.
00:38:02.000
Even though you're making more money and you're more successful now.
00:38:26.000
I regret that day for the rest of my damn life.
00:38:29.000
I wish I could go back to the future and stop myself.
00:38:35.000
But you're still seeing women want to get married.
00:38:38.000
There's still this, I want a husband, kids, creating a family.
00:38:44.000
It still exists more than it doesn't exist today.
00:38:52.000
Would you say the women becoming more independent through Destiny's Child and this culture of I'm going to get work made it where women's standards went up and they just were not willing to tolerate certain things and that's what made it harder?
00:39:02.000
I suppose, but still there was still shame though.
00:39:05.000
There was still this sense of the woman couldn't just be out here.
00:39:08.000
Now they were there, but you had video vixens, models.
00:39:18.000
So you can still go find a good girl where that good girl doesn't have a digital footprint on OnlyFans or Instagram.
00:39:24.000
Okay, before we get into the 2010s, because I predict that there's going to be a lot of shift here into the 2010s, what is the magic age now at this point?
00:39:31.000
So in the 90s, you said that age was 24. You don't got a man at 24, you're basically cooked.
00:39:36.000
You're getting made fun of, what's wrong with you.
00:39:42.000
Where the woman would go to Thanksgiving for the eighth time with no boyfriend, no man.
00:39:46.000
Oh, you ain't got no boyfriend, you ain't got no man?
00:39:48.000
So their relatives would tell them, even though female relatives, what's going on?
00:40:01.000
Yeah, in the 80s, shoot, man, look, man, I'm telling you, people would have kids and families at 21, 22. Okay.
00:40:15.000
So you can still have young moms where women weren't pushing that career thing in the 80s all the way to 32 and 38. Gotcha.
00:40:29.000
So it was unheard of now where it's like you don't got a kid and you're 30. Something's wrong with you.
00:40:35.000
I don't think people realize how big of a deal that is.
00:40:39.000
I want the audience because some of the guys that are watching are older so they know this.
00:40:42.000
I want the younger guys to know, bro, these older women that are single still, they're failures.
00:40:48.000
They got women 32 and 44 still talking about marriage and children.
00:40:55.000
Now, that didn't mean women weren't having children at that age.
00:40:59.000
They could have had their fifth kid in their 40s, right?
00:41:01.000
Or they could have married their third husband.
00:41:06.000
But women are going, I'm going to trick off my 20s, and then maybe mid-30s, I'm going to think about having a family and husband.
00:41:15.000
This is new, and not only new from the 80s, this is new in the history of human beings.
00:41:29.000
You know, Jaheim was in the 2000s, that struggle love.
00:41:31.000
You know, type of shit like that where y'all gonna build together.
00:41:34.000
We gonna get together and we gonna put a family together, build, and we gonna have our apartment, sleep on crates, and then we'll eventually build something together.
00:41:43.000
That was more likely the idea both for the men and the women.
00:42:04.000
It's a great discussion going through the different decades.
00:42:08.000
Also, CryptoCourse is still live for only our people at this point.
00:42:13.000
Don't be a brokie so you don't end up with the struggle of...
00:42:26.000
I predict that there's gonna be a lot of changes here.
00:42:29.000
So the 2010s, obviously, Tinder, Bumble comes out 2012. Well, Instagram comes out 2012. Tinder, Bumble, the iPhone 3 comes out.
00:42:42.000
I think Instagram had a part in that because people were still using Android.
00:42:46.000
The first iPhone was 2008, 2009. I think the iPhone 4, that was the big one.
00:42:49.000
That came out 2010. I think it was 3S, then the 4. So this is 2010 going into 2011-12.
00:42:55.000
So this is when most people are getting an iPhone now.
00:43:00.000
They're turning in their Palm Pilot and their BlackBerry.
00:43:09.000
And the apps work better on the iPhone than they do.
00:43:12.000
So everybody's like, oh, let me see this, right?
00:43:13.000
So Instagram's out, 2010, 2012. Tinder, this is hookup culture.
00:43:20.000
So hookup culture for people, many people were born in hookup culture.
00:43:24.000
Hookup culture is brand new, 2012. You can swipe, swipe, swipe.
00:43:28.000
You're not a loser too much anymore for joining Tinder, although if you met a girl.
00:43:33.000
And then you met her family down the line, you would never say, hey, I met my girl on Tinder.
00:43:37.000
You probably would be like, I met her at a coffee shop.
00:43:41.000
But now women can reach the woman that is considered four, five, six, and seven.
00:43:50.000
She can reach a guy, and she would hook up with him.
00:44:01.000
So, basically, this whole social circle, circumference game that they had to adhere to and to avoid being shamed in the 90s and the 2000s, that's gone now.
00:44:12.000
Now that anonymity is finally here that they'd be looking for.
00:44:17.000
9.30, meet somebody on Instagram, meet somebody on Tinder, come through.
00:44:20.000
Now, women will blame the men for this, but I'm telling you, it was them doing this whole thing where they can get their rocks off and...
00:44:31.000
Get choked, hair pulled, all the dirty shit that they're watching.
00:44:33.000
Now women are more likely to consume porn at this point.
00:44:37.000
Because if you were a guy in the 80s and 90s, early 2000s, and you bought a Playboy magazine, women are like, ugh, he's one of those guys.
00:44:47.000
Now you're seeing model mayhem, and a lot of the women want to be models now.
00:44:54.000
You know, I think they had a show on E! with Hugh Hefner and he had three girlfriends.
00:45:03.000
So now they're wanting to be this, exploring their sexuality a little bit more.
00:45:10.000
That was probably late 2009, 2007. Yeah, like 2007 and around there.
00:45:19.000
So would it be fair to say that like, This hookup culture began basically in 2010 where women were now indiscriminately.
00:45:30.000
Where it's like mass, where they're starting to hook up with guys.
00:45:38.000
I remember Jersey Shore and The Real World and all this stuff.
00:45:43.000
Maybe that was something reserved for television entertainment.
00:45:57.000
So the woman could say, there's good girls out here.
00:45:59.000
But now the normal woman is going, going, going.
00:46:04.000
He's just going to come through, beat the brakes off of me, and then go.
00:46:13.000
It allowed an opportunity for regular women to find the guy they want to bang, the dangerous guy, the bad guy, but not put relationship restrictions on him.
00:46:24.000
At the same time, she's dating me, you, and telling us we need to date them, wait 90 days, want to get married.
00:46:32.000
So women are also starting to date multiple men now.
00:46:54.000
You mentioned a bunch of different dating apps, social media, whatever.
00:46:57.000
But what do you think was the biggest contributor to the hookup culture that began in the 2010s?
00:47:08.000
Because Facebook is still popular at this point.
00:47:40.000
Whatever the black community does, the greater society will do 5, 10, 15 years down the line.
00:47:46.000
So the debauchery started with black people on Black Planet.
00:47:51.000
So Black Planet was a place where the thoughts was on.
00:47:56.000
And MySpace was kind of along right around the same time.
00:47:59.000
But you still weren't really meeting a girl on MySpace and banging her.
00:48:07.000
And you really wasn't like, okay, fly out, drive out.
00:48:13.000
Whereas in 2010, 12, 13, Instagram started to become before.
00:48:29.000
Celebrities still were like, oh, speak to my publicist.
00:48:35.000
This whole internet influencers was not a thing.
00:48:42.000
The real celebrities were your traditional celebrities.
00:48:56.000
So you're starting to see women getting attention doing scantily clad.
00:49:21.000
Because the 2010s are so goddamn revolutionary for dating.
00:49:23.000
We can go from 2010 to 2015 then up to 2020. Real quick.
00:49:29.000
LomasD12 says, 2012 was the beginning of the end for dating.
00:49:34.000
You could just say that was the year it was done.
00:49:42.000
Alright, so now we're in 2015. Trump is about to run for president.
00:49:46.000
So what are some of the differences now at this point in 2015?
00:49:49.000
I think by that time, celebrities are on Instagram.
00:49:54.000
So now if you don't have a blue checkmark, you shit out of luck.
00:50:04.000
It's hard to build your Instagram following if you're not a celebrity.
00:50:07.000
So now this is the rise of internet celebs now.
00:50:11.000
When I came to this space, people said, Instagram is not a dating app.
00:50:20.000
And it's funny because the blue check mark meant something back in the day.
00:50:23.000
It meant you're an actual celebrity, verifiable, and this is actually you.
00:50:34.000
They were mad because now we can put ourselves on par and their check doesn't mean anything anymore.
00:50:47.000
Because I think I was kind of like, how do I get a blue check?
00:50:53.000
Back in the day, you needed a publicist or you needed a bunch of articles with a bunch of press to get that actual check.
00:51:13.000
Dude, I had so many articles of them talking shit like Fox News, misogynist, whatever the fuck.
00:51:17.000
Right, so that's how you get verified, but today you don't have to do that.
00:51:25.000
Vine, like a lot of these big celebs that we have now, internet celebrities, a lot of them started out like the Logan Pauls, etc.
00:51:35.000
Super Todd, again, he said, only NBA players can get girls on Instagram.
00:51:38.000
Every good life message on Instagram ignored me.
00:51:48.000
Fresh said Instagram is the number one dating app in the world.
00:51:55.000
Now, the problem is we're talking about monetize now.
00:51:58.000
You're going to have to have some lifestyle money to be able to very much do well on Instagram or be fit.
00:52:06.000
No matter where you look, okay, who is the best man that I can find in my area to date?
00:52:12.000
So you're competing against Odell Beckham, a Drake, a Future.
00:52:16.000
It's like, bro, these niggas got the majority of women looking after them.
00:52:20.000
And you're a regular guy with a regular job posting selfies in the mirror like, huh?
00:52:27.000
Where guys don't understand, Drake will fuck a five in your area.
00:52:33.000
But you're looking at her saying, she ain't all that.
00:52:35.000
We got a five right now that we're going to put on camera soon.
00:52:43.000
Niggas be like, oh bro, I ain't gonna fuck baddies.
00:52:49.000
But then, when you go actually see them in person, bro, they're fucking fours or threes.
00:52:54.000
But then, they see you, oh I'm gonna hit on this nigga.
00:53:04.000
So now we're in 2015. So in 2015, you're saying we're starting to get the shift in the rise of the e-celebrity.
00:53:23.000
Maybe 2017, 2018. I think Twitter bought it at one point.
00:53:34.000
But yeah, at this point, so you're starting to see Instagram.
00:53:36.000
Like, if you don't got Instagram, people look at you like you're weird.
00:53:41.000
What else do you think, I guess, from the 2015s?
00:53:58.000
You're starting to see this fly-out element where people are going to Dubai.
00:54:03.000
Now we know they're getting doo-dooed on right by a sheep.
00:54:05.000
But for the most part, women are looking at it like, I have extended life.
00:54:10.000
The options just aren't in front of me anymore.
00:54:13.000
And for men, you're seeing that men are going, okay, I don't have a blue checkmark.
00:54:24.000
And we're seeing women give these guys attention.
00:54:27.000
And we're seeing men going, I can't compete with that.
00:54:30.000
So this is the whole 80-20 rule being lived out in front of everybody.
00:54:34.000
But hookup culture is going to start to phase out at this point.
00:54:40.000
Really only lasted really to about 2020, COVID. So 2012 to 2020 was hookup culture where you could be like, I'm getting sex for free.
00:54:54.000
2020. Because this is also a big shift from the plandemic.
00:54:59.000
So you got the plandemic, you got COVID, everybody's at home.
00:55:10.000
COVID, you start seeing women more latch on to try to get a relationship because they're at home or they want somebody.
00:55:20.000
At the same time, you're also seeing women still out there using their 20s to fuck around.
00:55:31.000
A lot of these women that were bartenders or strippers or any of this stuff where they monetized their beauty and they had to go somewhere to do it, now they don't have a job.
00:55:41.000
So now OnlyFans started in 2016, but it still was like...
00:55:45.000
I'll say sugar dating became huge too at this point.
00:55:47.000
So at this point, now they're overtly sugar dating.
00:55:57.000
So seeking arrangements is 2018, 2019. Women are losing their jobs, young women.
00:56:03.000
They're not going to school because of COVID. So now you're seeing it overtly being lived out.
00:56:09.000
So I call it the monetized dating marketplace right around COVID. Also, back then, there were scouts going to strip clubs, going to clubs, trying to find girls that were working.
00:56:23.000
A lot of people forget that OnlyFans has been around since, like, 2016. Yep.
00:56:27.000
But it became huge in 2020. And COVID. Because all these girls that made money being bottle girls, strippers, dancers, everything else like that, now they're like, damn, I need to make money.
00:56:37.000
Like, every dancer, every stripper did OnlyFans.
00:56:40.000
I mean, because you don't have any means to be able to go out there.
00:56:46.000
So now what happened was guys started to see it.
00:56:54.000
At that point, we're already doing this type of content.
00:56:59.000
Basically, I would say 2020 was a turning point where a lot of people started to shift to watch their favorite concert creator versus television.
00:57:09.000
We started to see the mainstream media die a bit.
00:57:11.000
Trump had already been doing this too, calling it fake news for four years.
00:57:14.000
So we're starting to see the rise of independent media, the rise of people using the internet and watching their favorite influencer versus like television.
00:57:24.000
Well, I remember I went to right when COVID hit.
00:57:29.000
But I'm going to Best Buy during COVID and people are buying lights, cameras, microphones.
00:57:46.000
I remember dudes used to just record with their iPhone and put videos up on some bullshit.
00:57:53.000
Like, and you're new, if you're already in the game, you can get away with it.
00:57:57.000
But like, let's say you're new and you're just making a channel, bro, it ain't gonna cut it.
00:58:01.000
I remember at Best Buy, we used to go buy cameras back in the day.
00:58:10.000
Actually, now that you mention it, bro, I couldn't get a fucking...
00:58:20.000
So for everyone watching this, if you want to stream, one of your best friends that you're going to need, if you don't have a switcher, which most people don't use switchers, that's a bit more sophisticated when you've got multiple cameras.
00:58:29.000
But what you would do if you have one camera and you're streaming, you use a cam link.
00:58:33.000
And that cam link, what it basically does is it connects your computer to the camera.
00:58:36.000
And I will never forget, Elgato had these cam links.
00:58:39.000
Bro, they were selling them for like triple the price because you couldn't get it.
00:58:42.000
And then the lights, you couldn't get those out of the Elgato lights?
00:58:51.000
Bro, because you guys are bringing back memories because at this point I remember I had to buy all the equipment for the studio when we did our studio.
00:58:57.000
And I remember everything being hard to find and expensive.
00:59:00.000
But yeah, you're right because you start to see people.
00:59:04.000
And then also you're starting to see television companies, news broadcasters, etc.
00:59:12.000
YouTube around 2019 tried to sell out all the YouTubers.
00:59:19.000
But what happened was Jimmy Kimmel and all of these corny ass people, YouTube started to favor them right before COVID. So YouTube was like, hey, the mainstream people want to be over here.
00:59:29.000
And then right before COVID, all those people, like these late night show guys, they started, Trevor, whatever.
00:59:42.000
But what happened was COVID hit and shut down their production because they would just shoot it from their studio.
00:59:47.000
And they're in LA. And they're in LA. And they had the worst restrictions.
00:59:50.000
So now YouTube had to pivot back to Kevin Samuels.
00:59:54.000
They had to pivot back to the regular YouTubers.
00:59:57.000
I said that in 2019. They was ready to sell us out to the mainstream.
01:00:01.000
But then COVID hit, and then they gave it back.
01:00:03.000
And they're all based in LA, and we know LA had some of the most severe restrictions on lockdowns.
01:00:10.000
And this is bringing back so many memories, because it was only five years ago, but I remember, dude, struggling to get a Cam Link.
01:00:27.000
And the thing, too, also is that what ended up happening, I realized, is if you guys watch YouTube creators from 2019 or prior, you're going to see people use their phones.
01:00:39.000
But then once you get into the 2020s, dude, people are using damn near TV-level stuff.
01:00:57.000
And so, we all was like, that's how we get put on.
01:01:00.000
But then you came in with the lights and the studio.
01:01:05.000
Because I looked at how everyone was using rudimentary equipment.
01:01:09.000
So I was like, okay, if we're going to come into the Red Pill, we got to come in.
01:01:12.000
Not just come in, but we got to come in like...
01:01:14.000
On some super high quality shit, high production shit, to stand out.
01:01:17.000
And that's kind of what was my thought when I was buying the equipment.
01:01:20.000
And then also, having it more as a talk show, I thought was a better idea because what I noticed, because the other thing too, and I'll talk about this because I know you had talked about it to some other people.
01:01:29.000
Everyone was scared of censorship for YouTube, right?
01:01:32.000
And it's one thing when you're just sitting there just shitting on women all day, right?
01:01:35.000
But if you are having a discussion or a debate or a conversation...
01:01:40.000
It's going to be a little bit easier to kind of maybe bypass hate speech a bit, right?
01:01:45.000
And then obviously that led the way for having these discussions with women.
01:01:48.000
But yeah, I remember in the manosphere, man, guys were getting censored and shit like that because they were just shitting on chicks all day.
01:02:00.000
So they're just like these guys that aren't respectable.
01:02:03.000
Once the studio element came in, it was like, okay.
01:02:13.000
So now that the guys today, they're like, oh, I got something to say.
01:02:18.000
And I think the other thing with us that I, you know, I don't want to pat myself too much on the back, but we were able to, like, bring...
01:02:25.000
And people are seeing you guys in another environment.
01:02:34.000
Like, oh shit, I'm watching Coach, but he's not at his regular studio.
01:02:38.000
He's here hanging out with these dudes, and they're sitting together at a table, and they're talking.
01:02:45.000
Most people would do these little, I'm going to pull you up on the stream, and then you got the stream, but now we're live.
01:02:53.000
And I just think for that, it changed the game for everybody else.
01:02:57.000
But all genres were doing more better cameras, better quality content, better editing.
01:03:10.000
I genuinely think, though we kind of did the thing with the podcast and the Red Pill space.
01:03:16.000
Look, if you came up with us, you're going to continue to come on the show.
01:03:18.000
No matter how fucking big we get, we're always going to bring people on because at the end of the day, this start off as a Red Pill podcast is going to end as a Red Pill podcast and whether it's women or politics or whatever it is, it's the truth.
01:03:30.000
That's one thing I really like because it's bringing other guys in.
01:03:33.000
Because a lot of you guys do your own shit, right?
01:03:36.000
But I think there's a certain satisfaction viewers get from having them right now watching their favorite streamer.
01:03:42.000
Maybe you're their famous streamer, but now they're able to see you interact with us and us ask you questions and kind of have you in a different situation where it's like, oh, I'm answering questions and it's off the cuff versus when you stream, I know you're very organized and you have a template.
01:03:54.000
Well, with us, it's like now you're able to be more chill.
01:03:57.000
So, Coach, in the game, I think you're one of the best.
01:04:00.000
Actually, I said you're one of the top ones, right?
01:04:07.000
I would argue you set the pace for a lot of creators.
01:04:10.000
Your whole show segments, people copy it, they don't give you credit, all that stuff.
01:04:17.000
Why it died, why it's not developing, why it won't go anywhere.
01:04:22.000
Can you kind of put it in a more concise way for the audience real quick?
01:04:26.000
I think what happened, And this is where I'm going to give you credit.
01:04:32.000
As you just said, you brought people in with their philosophy and you allowed them to showcase it.
01:04:38.000
Where I think happened was around 2021, 2022. Kevin Samuels is big by now.
01:04:47.000
Now we're starting to see, oh, we can make money from this.
01:04:54.000
Oh, all we got to do is get the studio equipment and then repeat this shit.
01:05:02.000
Where now, Alan Rodger Curry's not getting credit.
01:05:06.000
And they can just watch my show because I still am a big show for a demonetized channel.
01:05:10.000
So what they do is they just say, we're going to watch CGA in the morning and we're going to do a video on one of his segments by the middle of the afternoon of the night.
01:05:17.000
Or are we going to say what somebody similarly said without giving credit?
01:05:23.000
He had emailed me saying, hey man, you're talking about no free attention.
01:05:28.000
I was like, oh, I didn't know that that was your thing.
01:05:32.000
And he came on the show and we had him on and we talked about Mode 1 and everything else like that.
01:05:39.000
I have an enormous amount of respect for you because I knew who he was.
01:05:45.000
Come on the show, and you tell us about Mode 1, and you tell us about No Free Attention.
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And I'm honored that I was able to have him on before he passed away.
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You had him on right there, but most people aren't doing that.
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And I said everybody's guilty of that in the space, more or less the same.
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Well, you know, we've been contacting you for like a year.
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But a lot of guys typically are just, and listen, great minds think alike.
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So we do have a lot of new voices that were motivated to do content because of me, because of you guys.
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But what happens is it gets lost where it came from.
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What then happens is the person who said it gets buried, and then they become bigger, and they never had to acknowledge it.
01:06:35.000
I'll never forget, when we hit a million subs, I did a little speech, and I thanked everybody that helped us on the way up.
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And I said, the big thing with us is we're going to make sure that ladder's always Still there.
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We're not gonna we're not gonna climb up and then retract the ladder We're gonna keep it there and bring everybody up with us because here's the thing that I've noticed is we've gotten bigger and I know that you mentioned this in your video and I want you to talk about it as We got bigger if we pretty much put a target on the entire red pill community Yeah, and one that what ended up happening and I realized this is these loser reaction bottom feeder piece of shit channels Started coming in and saying, look at these misogynistic assholes, these toxic alpha males, whatever.
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Because this was a relatively underground concept and movement.
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But then once we hit the mainstream and then we started to hit the YouTube algo, this was radical to a lot of people.
01:07:26.000
People were just like, we could dismiss these guys.
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And then people started to say, oh, these are like some radical extremists, misogynist assholes.
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And I look at it like the whole community started to get targeted.
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Because I remember they used to make hit pieces on us.
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They used to make hit pieces on Rolo, Andrew Tate.
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I saw the rise as the Red Pill started to become more popular in the 2020s.
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I also saw a rise of reaction channels talking shit about it.
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And there was a bunch of influencers that basically, their whole mantra was going after, you know, because if they say Alpha Male gets owned, they would get a bunch of views.
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And there were a couple YouTubers that literally would just do that shit all day, bro.
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I can just watch somebody's content and react to it and make content.
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I don't call them content creators, to be honest with you.
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They pay their bills going after the big names in this space.
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Pearl, Fresh and Fit, well Kevin at that point is not around, but Andrew Tate.
01:08:39.000
So now, if they Could just focus on these three individuals.
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For the people who don't know, that's 30 grand.
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So I'm looking at this reactor going, oh, if I go on a freshman foot every week, I'm going to make that amount of money.
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I don't think it's fair because I had several channels where every video is about me.
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I don't focus on the same person when I'm reacting to something.
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I know one dude that made 100 plus videos on us.
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And then another two idiots that made like 70. So it's like, bro, it's like, as I saw like the...
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Okay, so what I've realized is like with the Red Bull, it's fairly polarizing and considered extreme.
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You always have these idiots that make videos and try to...
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They're gonna go more center and then try to criticize you on that.
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But the thing is, which I've always said about reaction YouTubers is, by definition of them being a reaction YouTuber, they have to be centered.
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So that they can continue to make the bullshit content they make.
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Because then they make fun of the people on the left, then they make fun of people on the right and say, look at these extremists.
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But I think also, like if you're getting reacted to...
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Because then people are going to watch your show.
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You got hate watchers, which does help you with some content and help you get pushed through the algorithm, whereas if no one's making hate content on you, nobody knows who you are.
01:10:29.000
Kevin Samuels, you guys, Andrew Tate got a lot.
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So their channel's gonna get more people watching them, or at least recognize them.
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You know, it's funny, like, you know, as much as these dudes, I've been pretty stock shit, they've actually brought us a lot of supporters.
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Because what they fail to realize is we provide something that they totally don't.
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We teach dudes, like, how to make money and not be like them.
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Well, I think at one point somebody even accused you guys of working together.
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They must have paid them to react to them because they're a big channel.
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They made that many videos on us that people really think that we paid them, bro.
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Like, between 50 to 70. That's their most viewed shit.
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So what are you going to do if you're a consecrator?
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I've often said that people said they were responsible for destroying the manosphere.
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I'm like, they only went in on a couple people.
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They went in on Fresh, Pearly, and something like that.
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That's the other thing, too, people need to understand.
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Anytime I mention them, or anything like that, they're like, I don't know who these niggas are.
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People that casually, they don't know who they are.
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I don't think they disagree with the entire message because I've seen them make videos.
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I'll see them react to your video and then the next video they're talking about dating and relationships and women.
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That sounds exactly like what I would have said.
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I need to go get the girls real quick because I'll be right back for the girls.
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But let's do this, the 2020s, and then we can...
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Also, we got video to play right after I come back.
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But the 2020s is where I call it the monetized dating marketplace.
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So right now, women can openly say, I want a man that makes six figures.
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I want a guy that has his life together, essentially a complete version of a guy.
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However, they'll say, I don't want that anymore.
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Because they'll realize they don't have an advantage over there.
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Because they go over there and they're like, well, he has a rotation.
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So then they'll pivot out of it and say, well, money doesn't matter anymore.
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So I'm like, well, you can say that now because you went over there.
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So today, in 2020, it's hard to distinguish the good girls and the bad girls.
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They dress a certain way, whereas I think now women dress like strippers and they don't realize it because that's fashion.
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She was one of my young girls at the JUCO. I remember we were at a strip club.
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And that also goes to show how much we've made it mainstream for women to behave and dress.
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But then they try to not, you know, well, just because I'm dressed like this doesn't mean I am.
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Now, in the 80s and 90s, when they dressed like that, that meant they were.
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Where today, a woman can dress like a hooker and say, I just want to express myself.
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Now that we've recapped almost 30 plus years of hypergamy and dating and everything else like that, what would you say are the five biggest differences between now versus, we could say, the 90s?
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Okay, so obviously women are extending their single life.
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Instead of trying to settle down at 20, 22, 24, where they call that a child now.
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If you try to tell a girl you should be married at 24, they look at me like I'm crazy when we're on the show, bro.
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Versus in the 90s, you're 24, they're laughing at you.
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They're like, hey, you better pick somebody because it ain't nothing but duds left out here.
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So I think they've extended their dating life out to 30s, some even 40s.
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And if you do, they just say you're shaming me.
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He needs to make six figures or any variety of that where bottle service girl can want a high-value man.
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Would it be fair to say that back then in the 90s, women understood where they stood as far as what they can attract?
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To me, I look at it like women are delusional and they over-inflate their sense of self-worth.
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Back in the 90s was a girl that was a 5. She knew.
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Understood that she was a 5 and like, damn, this guy might be out of my league.
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Because, bro, there's girls here that are 5s and they think that they deserve a dude that's a 10. But you know why?
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Versus the 90s, that might not have been a thing.
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Because that guy was like, I ain't messing with her.
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And if he did, he'd be like, hey, just keep this on the low.
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So yeah, basketball players, like the high school basketball player, will fuck the nerd chick.
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But the nerd chick knew not to go blow up his spot.
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And then she's coming out telling you, I was with Jalen Green.
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So once she's experienced a guy like in high school, if you had a car, she's not dating nobody without a car.
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If you have an apartment, she's not going back to the dorms.
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If you have a house, she's not going back to an apartment.
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If you have a luxury car, it's hard for her to date you with a Toyota.
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So once they've experienced it, that's where they are.
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Not necessarily feel sorry, but guys are kind of cooked, huh?
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I mean, you've lived through multiple decades of this and seen literally the change, the evolution of the modern woman.
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You're not going to be able to say, I have a blue-collar job and I'm a good, faithful man.
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You're getting a reform 304. That's what you're getting.
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If you don't chase a bag and you ain't got a bag, I'm going to beat you.
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I'm going to beat you at 30, 40, 50, 60, and 70 in your 20s.
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We've seen an explosion in this password bro thing, right?
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And I've always said, you know, I'm not a password bro, but I completely understand why it exists.
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Was being a password bro even a thing in the fucking 90s?
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Okay, so there were dudes that were password bros even back then.
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Okay, so these people knew because, you know, their father or they themselves.
01:19:16.000
But those guys are more because of their job, right?
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Not like today where it's like, I'm just going to get a passport and travel because I hate the bitches here.
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Versus like now it's like they're just leaving because like the women weren't that bad where they just needed to leave.
01:19:37.000
Well, I'm going to tell you, interracial, like, the things that we think are normal today were taboo 30 years ago.
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They had a movie called Jungle Fever at that time.
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I haven't heard anyone use that term, Jungle Fever, in years, bro.
01:20:03.000
It's still, like, for black men to have economic prowess is, like, You got money and you're not a celebrity or a doctor.
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Today, you could be a black guy and be working tech and make $150,000.
01:20:15.000
You can be economically solvent where you're not stuck in Jacksonville.
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For a black man to travel internationally that was not in the military, it's rare.
01:20:30.000
For people to just be like, I'm going to fly somewhere.
01:20:43.000
Women been getting their cheeks clapped in the islands.
01:20:47.000
Speaking of which, we've got a video to play here that demonstrates what passport women are dealing with nowadays, especially leaving America to find their dream man.
01:20:59.000
So, you guys want to know what happened to the Tulum guy?
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First date, we went to dinner, which you guys saw.
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Then we went to a cenote and then dinner afterwards.
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I felt something was off when we went for coffee.
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I don't know what happened, but he basically ghosted me.
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I think what happened and like, maybe not the case, but like, again, I haven't spoken to him.
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So this is just what my take is on it is that someone, a friend of mine who's good friends with him was like, Oh my God, he's amazing.
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Even though conversation and ventral, all of that was good.
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And so I think that's just what he wanted, and I'm looking for a relationship, so that's it.
01:22:29.000
He might not be an F-boy, but it doesn't mean that he just is not DTF. People have needs, so maybe he just wanted to F and that was it.
01:22:38.000
And then after that, just like off the face of the earth.
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This is just what I, from my perspective, what I think happened.
01:22:52.000
But yeah, I would have just appreciated the conversation considering he was older as well.
01:22:56.000
I just would have expected that out of respect for me and just like be open, be honest.
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I'm looking for a relationship whenever that happens.
01:23:08.000
I'm not searching for it, but the next thing that I get into, I want to get into a relationship.
01:23:14.000
I don't want to just be hooking up with someone.
01:23:21.000
Bro, that nigga left because she talks too much.
01:23:25.000
Her mouth is moving, but it ain't moving importantly for what he wants.
01:23:46.000
Well, it could also be he didn't smash and he said, fuck this bitch.
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She said he was very handsy, but you know what I'm saying?
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Because my thing is, she's annoying, and then if he didn't smash it, I could see why he fucking left, because this is annoying.
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But with these stories, they're always pointing towards them looking good, so him smashing would make her look bad.
01:24:10.000
So after four days of this, he had to have hit.
01:24:13.000
Pulsing up clarity, he done with it, and she said he's not a fuckboy.
01:24:16.000
Well, like I said, the market's monetized, so he don't have to be.
01:24:23.000
I'm going to give you $1,500 when you get home pure cash.
01:24:26.000
She accepted it, but now she didn't get to capitalize.
01:24:29.000
As I was saying, these women do it, and now what are they doing?
01:24:37.000
Do you start with relationships going to Tulum?
01:24:40.000
But in a monetized dating marketplace, you can start a relationship.
01:24:43.000
Tulum is actually where everyone went during the pandemic, too.
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It was the only place that was open the whole time.
01:24:48.000
Why would a woman want a relationship to start with a guy that takes her too long?
01:24:55.000
I guarantee that guy was American or Western, though.
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When a girl travels, she's going to still have her hypergamy.
01:25:05.000
She'll go to Dubai, or if she does go to a poor country, it's going to be someone that is an American or something.
01:25:11.000
As someone that travels herself, why are women leaving America to find men now?
01:25:18.000
That's a code word that women use to say the guy has money.
01:25:22.000
Women will never say, oh, he's rich when they're making a video.
01:25:42.000
Okay, well, why are you looking for a relationship?
01:25:51.000
And the guy, you know, tried to sweet talk her out of her pants.
01:25:54.000
So she's a whole TikTok channel about traveling to find men.
01:26:11.000
Think of all of the countries where you say, men leave this country to find women.
01:26:16.000
I have yet to hear any man say, I'm going to America to find a woman.
01:26:24.000
They go everywhere but America to find a woman.
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There's no man on the planet that says, I'm going to go to...
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Nobody says, I'm going to America to find a woman.
01:26:41.000
Like, the girls as a whole, that's not why they're coming here.
01:26:44.000
When niggas go to Columbia, they're going to fuck girls.
01:26:48.000
That's like making life harder on yourself for no goddamn reason.
01:26:51.000
I mean, you're dealing with highly hyper-mistrustful women that have been promiscuous.
01:26:58.000
And you would think, even in the black community, you got 78% single women there.
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The other thing, too, is they outpriced themselves from the market.
01:27:14.000
So, like, they're in the U.S. with super high standards, but they're hoes.
01:27:17.000
So, it's like, dude's got to come here and pay full price to these girls that, like, quite frankly, don't fucking deserve it.
01:27:37.000
Travel the world, get your money up, and enjoy life.
01:27:41.000
I'm pretty sure he smashed, though, from my point of view.
01:27:47.000
Whether he did or didn't, either way, she's insufferable, and she couldn't keep him because she was annoying, and she talks so much.
01:27:53.000
Because she wouldn't care if, for example, his fashion leaving is worse because she's talking about it now in detail.
01:28:06.000
That nigga spend that much time talking to her, she might be invested at that point.
01:28:08.000
And here's the other thing, too, about women that I realize.
01:28:10.000
Women are okay with going to the internet and taking their L's online.
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Like, you got flaked on, you got shit on by a girl.
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Bro, women are the only retards that go on the internet and complain about their daily life.
01:28:28.000
We can just look and go, hey, there's another one.
01:28:37.000
From my experience, it's only because he smashed and then dashed.
01:28:45.000
I've seen girls, bro, not smash and still get mad when a dude leaves them, though.
01:29:07.000
But I have seen it where the girl liked the dude, and then she didn't want to give him no pussy.
01:29:32.000
If a woman leaves the country, this is cold word for she getting digged down somewhere else.
01:29:37.000
Especially when they're getting a foreign dick, man.
01:29:39.000
Well, because I know when I travel the country, I'm going to put hands on some hips, so I know what they do.
01:29:43.000
When I leave the country, I'm folding something up like a love letter from the second grade.
01:29:55.000
Because you did a reaction to this on your actual ex account.
01:29:57.000
No, I just tweeted about it, but yeah, we could play it.
01:29:59.000
You want to tell them a little bit about that reaction?
01:30:04.000
She's talking about a certain rapper that you guys are probably all familiar with.
01:30:07.000
So this girl came on a podcast about a year and a half ago.
01:30:22.000
But mind you, she was dating this rapper the whole time, talking about she's independent, and I'm like, wait a minute.
01:30:31.000
So let's see what happens after this relationship has ended, how she reacts to this interaction.
01:30:43.000
But it's like, at the end of the day, babe, I will take this off TikTok, and we will go to Instagram with it, okay?
01:31:06.000
Listen, at the end of the day, I promise you, I promise you on my life, on my fucking life, on everything in my life, all you have to do is shut the fuck up.
01:31:17.000
All you have to do is keep on fucking playing with me over and over and over and over and over and over again.
01:31:37.000
Because she exposed their relationship five years plus.
01:31:49.000
Because Future even admitted that he'd be tricking.
01:31:51.000
Didn't he do that when he did the Kevin Sanders shit?
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People call it tricking, but I look at it differently.
01:32:05.000
Because it's much cheaper to do what he's doing.
01:32:09.000
And then most of the time, an honest hoe wouldn't do this.
01:32:15.000
And I think the reason why is he kept her too long.
01:32:22.000
And of course, if he was removing any monetary value, this is her only recourse.
01:32:26.000
I said from the 80s and the 90s, there was a phrase called sprung.
01:32:31.000
Where a woman was sprung on you and you were sprung on a woman.
01:32:37.000
The only time they do have this is when there's something else attached to it.
01:32:42.000
So I tell guys, a woman can never really love you.
01:32:44.000
She loves you and I love you for what you do for her.
01:32:49.000
The minute you remove that one thing, she'll fall out of love.
01:33:00.000
The breakups and just move on because they have a lot more options.
01:33:03.000
They can be like, alright, you don't want to do that?
01:33:05.000
I'll just go back on Instagram or I'll go back on Tinder.
01:33:07.000
Where in the 90s, there was no other thing to go back to.
01:33:13.000
Women absolutely get over men way faster now because they're more promiscuous and they have more options.
01:33:19.000
That's one of the telltale signs actually of a chick.
01:33:21.000
If you think about this, where I said for women, 80% of the men are invisible.
01:33:31.000
I was like, okay, go park in Target parking lot.
01:33:58.000
But the time he got out of the car, and he could tell you, I saw the granny with the soggy titties.
01:34:10.000
They tend to say, this guy's not valuable to me.
01:34:17.000
Like, you go to CVS, you don't remember nobody from your trip to CVS. Oh, there you go, yeah.
01:34:23.000
It could be a chick behind the reception thing.
01:34:29.000
And we'd be like, I think I could do something with this.
01:34:40.000
How does a man bent or, I guess, level up to have freedom in life and have the actual power to say, no, I'm good.
01:34:54.000
Dude, man, for guys, I think the best course for young guys is to stay single.
01:35:03.000
But then you have guys out here, but I want love.
01:35:06.000
These girls are out here 20 to 32 doing what they want.
01:35:13.000
Do the exact same thing and build up abundance.
01:35:17.000
If you don't have leverage or options in this dating marketplace or in marriage, you're cooked.
01:35:22.000
So you're begging and now you don't have negotiation power.
01:35:29.000
The JUCO. That's the monetized dating marketplace.
01:35:31.000
So the JUCO, initially when I said it, it was me going to a junior college, so I'm going down to younger women.
01:35:38.000
And then it evolved into the monetized dating marketplace, so it's a place for you to be able to lease your pleasures.
01:35:46.000
Not buy, and then you can put it back on out there for somebody else to lease, yes.
01:35:50.000
So when guys say, man, y'all don't know how to spit game and talk to girls with just a mouthpiece, y'all are lacking.
01:35:59.000
The mouthpiece is for, number one, low-quality men for broken women.
01:36:03.000
So that's normally the people for women that are going to respond to that.
01:36:06.000
Now, you still do have to have a conversation and be able to talk no matter who you are, whether you got a million dollars or you got done.
01:36:13.000
But guys that solely depend on that don't realize that the quality of women they're getting are trash.
01:36:28.000
It's only going to be for broken niggas and broken women.
01:36:38.000
Because when you were gone, we were definitely chopping up about a bunch of stuff.
01:36:45.000
The Free Agent Lifestyle channel is where I live stream every day.
01:36:55.000
I'm streaming for 7 to 8 hours a day during the weekday.
01:37:00.000
So Coach Greg Adams, the Free Agent Lifestyle channel.
01:37:04.000
If you type in Coach Greg Adams, YouTube is fucking with me, man.
01:37:15.000
10, but you guys gotta realize that list was 30, 40, 50 people.
01:37:20.000
Everybody's on the list, but it's a matter of where I was.
01:37:23.000
Every Red Pill channel is like Shadowband of Hell, and everyone's views are down.
01:37:28.000
Dude, you can type in my name, Coach Greg Adams, and my channel will not come up.
01:37:40.000
Now, with Trump in office, he literally signed his ex-voter on day one.
01:37:43.000
No more government collusion, because that's what it was.
01:37:46.000
DHS wrote a fucking hit piece on us, on all of us.
01:37:51.000
We're all put on this list, and they're saying like...
01:37:58.000
He ain't Red Poe, but like, yeah, he just reacts to our shit, but like...
01:38:04.000
But yeah, bro, they put us on this hit list, and I've noticed that a lot of them have taken a nosedive as far as views and shit because of the shadow ban.
01:38:13.000
So hopefully he changes that so we can get out here and get a conversation.
01:38:21.000
Big tech from colluding from the government to suppress American citizens.
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Well, the government specifically, like you said, so that was a government.
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And what we know about the Biden administration, they were going to certain platforms to say censor them.
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And so if they're doing that from the Homeland Security, that's an overreach and censorship.
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Yeah, working with big tech to censor U.S. citizens.
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Yeah, so yeah, no, it's definitely the shadow ban.
01:38:47.000
But anyway, guys, you want to tell them what's coming up?
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Yeah, so we're going to do a show with some girls, I believe.
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And then Coach will do something in the future as well in Miami.