Fresh & Fit - March 02, 2025


Why Dating Will Never Be The Same Ft. Coach Greg Adams

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Kicking Out Old Annoying Hoes In Las Vegas! Why Modern Women Can’t Keep A Man

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On this episode of Live from Las Vegas, Myron and I catch up with our good friend, Coach Greg, who has been in Vegas for a few years now. We talk about how he's been able to travel the world, how he met his wife, and what it's like to be a free-age male in the 21st century. We also talk about what it means to be "purity" on social media and how it's changed over the years.

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00:00:02.000 All right.
00:00:03.000 I think we're live.
00:00:03.000 And we're live.
00:00:04.000 What's up, guys?
00:00:05.000 Welcome.
00:00:05.000 Live with CGA from Las Vegas.
00:00:09.000 It's been a minute, hasn't it?
00:00:10.000 It's Saturday.
00:00:11.000 So not our on day, but it's our off day.
00:00:13.000 It's all day.
00:00:13.000 Yeah, yeah.
00:00:13.000 We're here, though.
00:00:14.000 It's been a minute since...
00:00:16.000 Been a couple years.
00:00:17.000 21?
00:00:18.000 22, 22, 23. I think it was around 23 or maybe end of 22. Something like that.
00:00:22.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:00:22.000 I think it's 21, man.
00:00:23.000 Hold on.
00:00:23.000 Look it up.
00:00:24.000 Fresh and fit.
00:00:25.000 Coach Greg, hold on.
00:00:27.000 I'll tell you right now.
00:00:28.000 But Coach, what's up with you, man?
00:00:28.000 What's new?
00:00:29.000 Man, back in...
00:00:30.000 I'm here in Vegas, man.
00:00:31.000 Last time I came on your show, I was in California.
00:00:33.000 So I'm in Vegas now.
00:00:34.000 So making my home here and doing all the Vegas activity, you know?
00:00:39.000 We're live on Twitter right now, too.
00:00:40.000 Awesome.
00:00:41.000 He's back.
00:00:41.000 He's back, baby.
00:00:43.000 We're back on Twitter.
00:00:44.000 So it was three years ago.
00:00:46.000 Three years.
00:00:46.000 Okay, yeah.
00:00:47.000 Probably 23, 22. After hours with the girls?
00:00:50.000 No, he came on after that, though.
00:00:51.000 He came on one time after that.
00:00:53.000 Really?
00:00:53.000 Yeah, he did.
00:00:54.000 Oh, there you go.
00:00:56.000 It's lost.
00:00:57.000 You sure?
00:00:57.000 Three years, bro.
00:00:58.000 I see three years here.
00:00:59.000 I know, I know, I know.
00:01:00.000 It's lost.
00:01:01.000 Either way, it's been a while.
00:01:02.000 We here.
00:01:03.000 Yeah.
00:01:03.000 So, Coach, you've been traveling the world, man.
00:01:05.000 Yep.
00:01:05.000 Doing your thing.
00:01:06.000 Living a free-age lifestyle.
00:01:07.000 Yeah.
00:01:08.000 What's that like, brother?
00:01:09.000 Because I know most people complain, oh, bro, passport, this or not, but what's that like, bro?
00:01:12.000 Well, I mean, I'm going to tell you, man, the limitations of the American male, most guys just don't have the experience to go outside.
00:01:20.000 So, they live in Tupelo, Mississippi.
00:01:23.000 They live in Jacksonville, Florida, some of these podunk towns.
00:01:26.000 And they think that's where everything is.
00:01:28.000 That's the epicenter of everything.
00:01:30.000 So their fear is to be able to leave the country and go find something a little bit that might be suitable for them.
00:01:35.000 Instead, they stay here.
00:01:36.000 They complain.
00:01:37.000 They don't make a better life for themselves.
00:01:39.000 So once you start traveling internationally, I wrote about this in the first book.
00:01:44.000 I'm like, you got to travel internationally.
00:01:45.000 It's going to open your mind.
00:01:47.000 The possibilities, yeah.
00:01:48.000 Also, dating itself here in America has totally changed, I think, from when I got here, obviously from when you've been here.
00:01:54.000 How would you say it's changed over the years?
00:01:55.000 Well, I'd say it's monetized.
00:01:57.000 It's overtly monetized.
00:01:59.000 Pay to play, huh?
00:02:00.000 It's pay to play.
00:02:01.000 They can disguise it for however the ladies want to say it, luxury dating. 1.00
00:02:05.000 They describe it as a whole bunch of things, but they're entitled to this.
00:02:08.000 They're like, hey, listen, this is how we want to be courted.
00:02:11.000 This is how we want to be romanticized.
00:02:13.000 This is how you build us to be more secure.
00:02:17.000 All of that is monetization.
00:02:19.000 And they monetize it in a variety of ways.
00:02:21.000 So it could be money.
00:02:22.000 It could be the amount of attention you spend.
00:02:25.000 The amount of time that you spend.
00:02:27.000 At the end of the day, it's overtly monetized.
00:02:30.000 So I made a discovery a couple weeks ago, myself, where I saw girls showing purity on Instagram, right?
00:02:36.000 But it's funny.
00:02:37.000 You go to their link in bio.
00:02:38.000 They have a Twitter.
00:02:40.000 They got a Snapchat.
00:02:40.000 And I'm like, let me go see what's happening there.
00:02:43.000 Bro, I kid you not.
00:02:44.000 I was fooled for a second.
00:02:47.000 Period.
00:02:47.000 On Instagram, I was like, okay, cool.
00:02:48.000 Modest.
00:02:49.000 Too crazy.
00:02:50.000 But on Twitter, it was the Wild West.
00:02:52.000 It was insane, bro.
00:02:53.000 Bikinis, half naked. 1.00
00:02:54.000 I'm like, what the fuck? 1.00
00:02:55.000 If you didn't click the bio, you would never know. 0.99
00:02:58.000 You would never know.
00:02:58.000 But I think this conversation has been here for a while.
00:03:01.000 Myron's even talked about he wants his girl to delete the Instagram, right?
00:03:05.000 So what was that?
00:03:06.000 Three, four years ago?
00:03:07.000 Yeah.
00:03:07.000 Right?
00:03:08.000 Now think about how much that's changed.
00:03:09.000 Or it's got to be private, bare minimum.
00:03:10.000 It's got to be private.
00:03:11.000 But think about that now.
00:03:13.000 These women can't live without it. 1.00
00:03:14.000 And they would rather...
00:03:19.000 They're not going to delete the Instagram.
00:03:21.000 They're like, well, forget it.
00:03:22.000 You know what I mean?
00:03:22.000 But that was the best possible relationship presented to them.
00:03:26.000 Or at least have a login.
00:03:27.000 You've got to be able to control it, is my point.
00:03:30.000 So you would have to be able to control it.
00:03:32.000 How many women are going to be able to do that today? 1.00
00:03:35.000 Most girls won't let you control their shit at all. 1.00
00:03:38.000 Exactly. 1.00
00:03:38.000 Why? 1.00
00:03:38.000 Because they get attention from it. 1.00
00:03:40.000 They get to be able to monetize themselves.
00:03:42.000 And options too.
00:03:43.000 And options.
00:03:45.000 It's difficult because when we were doing, like last time I was here, we're talking about millennials having problems with dating.
00:03:52.000 Now you've got to remember this.
00:03:53.000 It's coming back full circle.
00:03:55.000 So Gen Z, we're talking about 17-year-olds to 25-year-olds, really.
00:03:59.000 And they're being introduced to all of the stuff we've already talked about over the last few years with the Gen X and millennials.
00:04:05.000 So these guys are like 22, 23. They were like 17 when we started talking.
00:04:11.000 So they weren't listening to us.
00:04:12.000 But they're now experiencing.
00:04:14.000 What the hell do we do with this beast?
00:04:16.000 And I said, Gen Z guys will be the first generation that will have to deal with their girls being monetized.
00:04:24.000 They got a TikTok.
00:04:26.000 They got an OnlyFans.
00:04:27.000 And the guys have to date.
00:04:29.000 They have to consider dating girls with those things.
00:04:31.000 We never had to do that.
00:04:32.000 I would argue nowadays with the advent of social media, though, and TikTok itself, you get clues and information about the girl beforehand.
00:04:38.000 So, for example...
00:04:39.000 You go to her TikTok, she's talking about her last relationship, why it failed, why she got ghosted.
00:04:43.000 She's telling you about herself in real time.
00:04:46.000 So it is a benefit to it as well, but also don't say, as you mentioned earlier.
00:04:49.000 Yeah, I would say, I agree with that, that the Gen Z guys are going to have to deal with monetized women. 0.97
00:04:54.000 And I would say, like, for us, it was monetized on the low.
00:04:58.000 Correct.
00:04:58.000 For them, now it's going to be monetized overtly.
00:05:02.000 It's gonna be to a point where in the next 10 or 15 years a guy might get with a girl, marry her, whatever.
00:05:06.000 Then he finds out later on that his girl used to be a sugar baby or she used to be IG thot or she used to self-heat pictures or whatever.
00:05:12.000 And that's kind of where we're going, where women are overtly sexualizing themselves for modernization. 1.00
00:05:18.000 Whereas before growing up...
00:05:19.000 Check my strip, but nobody knows.
00:05:22.000 She might have a sugar daddy, but it was on the low.
00:05:25.000 Nobody knew.
00:05:25.000 So they moved a lot more quiet.
00:05:27.000 But now, with the internet, and also because we have kind of mainstreamed it for girls to be promiscuous and to make money off of men, it's mainstream now. 0.91
00:05:35.000 And OnlyFans has shown that.
00:05:37.000 You get girls that are wildly successful.
00:05:40.000 We had Amaranth down.
00:05:41.000 She made like $70 million on OnlyFans.
00:05:44.000 So you've got to imagine, if you're a young woman, you see that?
00:05:47.000 Why wouldn't you take that route?
00:05:48.000 Exactly.
00:05:48.000 So they're going, and listen, I know a lot of young ladies, they're now 23, 24, 25. They told me when they were 18, they signed up.
00:05:56.000 You know what I mean?
00:05:57.000 So you're right.
00:05:59.000 A lot of women are going to try it, at least. 1.00
00:06:02.000 Or they're going to sell some feed pictures.
00:06:03.000 They're going to have a sugar bag.
00:06:04.000 So now...
00:06:05.000 The guys have to deal with that in their past, whereas before, I stripped, I had to pay my way through college.
00:06:11.000 That was the old thing.
00:06:12.000 I had to pay my way through college, you understand?
00:06:14.000 But today, the strippers are doing it to make money. 1.00
00:06:17.000 They're not paying no way through college.
00:06:17.000 I find it funny.
00:06:18.000 Even Amrath herself said that women shouldn't do this at the very beginning, especially because you're not making any money. 1.00
00:06:23.000 She's a special occasion.
00:06:24.000 But with them, bro, you may make, what, less than $1,000 if you try?
00:06:27.000 They're not going to make that much money.
00:06:28.000 They're doing the most.
00:06:29.000 The average is like $100 a month.
00:06:30.000 Yeah.
00:06:30.000 Something like that.
00:06:31.000 And they're doing the most.
00:06:32.000 Smashing on camera, doing everything, and it's like...
00:06:34.000 That's how you're getting paid?
00:06:35.000 Yeah.
00:06:36.000 So is it worth it?
00:06:37.000 No.
00:06:37.000 But I'll tell you this, though.
00:06:38.000 It's even more discreet.
00:06:40.000 You know what they do as well?
00:06:41.000 Premium Snapchat.
00:06:42.000 Right.
00:06:43.000 So I'm like, hold on.
00:06:44.000 Okay, no OnlyFans.
00:06:45.000 This is great.
00:06:45.000 No X. Awesome.
00:06:47.000 But Snapchat, they sell videos on the low.
00:06:49.000 And they make bank.
00:06:50.000 I'm like, wow.
00:06:51.000 Yeah, they can sell it on the low.
00:06:52.000 They can go on Sugar Daddy site.
00:06:53.000 And so that's all they're going to do is sell pictures to guys that want pictures.
00:06:58.000 And so they don't want to have that digital footprint.
00:07:01.000 Because listen.
00:07:02.000 I'm in Las Vegas.
00:07:04.000 I mess with some girls. 1.00
00:07:05.000 These girls, if I take their picture and run a reverse image search, it is crazy what pops up. 1.00
00:07:12.000 I mean, I've had girls come up and they did the whole BDSM. You know what I mean? 1.00
00:07:17.000 It's crazy.
00:07:18.000 I'm not talking about very older women. 0.91
00:07:19.000 These are 18, 19, 20-year-old women. 1.00
00:07:21.000 They already have a digital footprint.
00:07:23.000 So the problem is they're going to want to be enticed by the money.
00:07:26.000 I mean, if I play ball, I see somebody sign 70 million.
00:07:30.000 I'm going to go up there and go shoot.
00:07:32.000 But they're doing the same thing to that.
00:07:35.000 The problem is they're going to burn out 2021-22.
00:07:39.000 Right?
00:07:40.000 So the majority of them are going to burn out. 1.00
00:07:42.000 They're going to flame out, make $1,000, and get their pussy pop all over the damn country getting flown in. 1.00
00:07:47.000 Now what's going to happen? 1.00
00:07:49.000 Somebody's going to marry them.
00:07:50.000 That footprint's going to be there.
00:07:53.000 That's dangerous.
00:07:54.000 So, Coach, you're a bit older than us, a bit more experienced and refined.
00:07:59.000 You're in your 40s, right?
00:08:00.000 49, man.
00:08:01.000 I'm about to be in my 50s, bro.
00:08:03.000 Perfect. 1.00
00:08:03.000 Damn, I nigga old. 1.00
00:08:04.000 Yeah, old. 1.00
00:08:05.000 Old head ass. 1.00
00:08:07.000 I've reached old head status. 1.00
00:08:08.000 But here's the thing.
00:08:09.000 A lot of wisdom, and I want to ask you this.
00:08:11.000 Can you kind of go through the decades of how dating has shifted from, let's start maybe the 90s?
00:08:17.000 Yeah.
00:08:18.000 Into the 2000s?
00:08:19.000 The 2010s?
00:08:20.000 To now.
00:08:20.000 And to now.
00:08:21.000 And we could just go through a decade.
00:08:22.000 Because I don't meet many guys that are red pillow wear that reach your age.
00:08:26.000 So I really want to know, someone that has that red lens, you can kind of tell me.
00:08:30.000 Cultural and dating differences each decade.
00:08:32.000 Let me tell you something, why that's important.
00:08:34.000 Yeah.
00:08:34.000 Because people hear, oh, in the 90s it was better, in the 2000s, right?
00:08:39.000 You hear about that and people romanticize that.
00:08:41.000 But we all had our issues as well.
00:08:43.000 Of course.
00:08:44.000 Now down the line, you got to take Gen Z or a young millennial. 1.00
00:08:48.000 They don't know shit. 1.00
00:08:50.000 This is their reality. 1.00
00:08:51.000 That's all they know.
00:08:51.000 And they know hyper-feminist women, masculine women.
00:08:54.000 They know women kind of playing both sides. 1.00
00:08:57.000 They want a guy to take care of them, but then they want to be independent.
00:09:00.000 We didn't have this thing.
00:09:02.000 I was born in the mid-70s.
00:09:04.000 You got the 80s.
00:09:06.000 They had a song called Ain't Nothing Going On But The Rent.
00:09:09.000 No romance without finance.
00:09:10.000 That was in the 80s.
00:09:11.000 Really?
00:09:12.000 Yeah, that was in the 80s.
00:09:13.000 So you're a kid hearing this.
00:09:14.000 So yeah, you're a kid hearing this.
00:09:16.000 And it was like, okay, woman's going to take half your money in divorce, right? 0.98
00:09:19.000 That was on Eddie Murphy Raw or Delirious.
00:09:22.000 So no romance without finance.
00:09:24.000 Ain't nothing going on but the rent.
00:09:25.000 So there was a little bit of this conversation going on.
00:09:28.000 And the ladies would be like, yeah, yeah. 1.00
00:09:29.000 But the problem is women didn't make as much money as men. 1.00
00:09:34.000 Okay.
00:09:35.000 Like the corporate world wasn't like these boss baits.
00:09:37.000 There was still that expectation of the man being the breadwinner.
00:09:39.000 Exactly.
00:09:40.000 Okay.
00:09:40.000 So that makes sense.
00:09:41.000 So there was still, there was, it was like 80-20.
00:09:44.000 20% of women could go that way. 1.00
00:09:46.000 But the majority of women were like, hey, you know what I mean? 1.00
00:09:48.000 I'm going to need a man to take care of myself financially.
00:09:50.000 So you, if you were out here single, you were out here struggling. 0.98
00:09:53.000 So this strong independent bullshit wasn't a thing in the 80s? 0.97
00:09:55.000 It wasn't that thing. 0.99
00:09:56.000 Okay.
00:09:56.000 It was starting to happen.
00:09:57.000 But the majority of women hadn't latched on. 1.00
00:09:59.000 Gotcha.
00:10:00.000 The 90s, you start seeing it a little bit.
00:10:02.000 A lot more, right?
00:10:04.000 In the 90s, you're old enough to date now, right?
00:10:06.000 Yeah, in the 90s, I'm dating.
00:10:08.000 93, I'm 18. Okay, perfect.
00:10:10.000 93, I'm 18. I'm in college.
00:10:12.000 What was that like?
00:10:13.000 So, it still was women were in love.
00:10:16.000 There was a time where the woman was sprung on you. 1.00
00:10:18.000 You know what I mean?
00:10:19.000 Like, you were with her.
00:10:20.000 She was your girl.
00:10:22.000 You still had BS. You still had cock-blocking ass, dirty macking ass. 1.00
00:10:26.000 You still had the BS, but it was still women were looking to get married. 1.00
00:10:30.000 They wanted to have a family.
00:10:32.000 R&B times?
00:10:32.000 What's that?
00:10:33.000 R&B times?
00:10:34.000 R&B times, yeah.
00:10:35.000 You're talking about Jodeci and women would sit around. 1.00
00:10:38.000 You could call a little TV show, the radio show, I dedicate my song to my girl.
00:10:42.000 There was still that sense of relationships one-on-one were possible.
00:10:47.000 Now, most guys here, they wanted to be like, Everybody got a girl.
00:10:52.000 Not really.
00:10:53.000 Not everybody got a girl.
00:10:54.000 You still have to introduce yourself.
00:10:57.000 Cold approach.
00:10:57.000 Run game.
00:10:58.000 You can do that.
00:11:00.000 Would it be fair to say it was a requirement back then?
00:11:03.000 Yes.
00:11:04.000 There's no other option.
00:11:05.000 There was no digital.
00:11:06.000 You got to walk up and get the phone number.
00:11:08.000 You had to have the pen and paper or remember the phone number.
00:11:12.000 And then you had to go back and decipher the phone number if she wrote it.
00:11:15.000 Is that an 8?
00:11:17.000 Is that a 9?
00:11:18.000 And you dial 158 times.
00:11:20.000 To make sure you get that number.
00:11:22.000 And then you call her, and then you still have the game.
00:11:24.000 It's like, okay, I'm going to wait two days to call her back.
00:11:26.000 Or you hit the answer machine.
00:11:27.000 I'll put a pin in that one, because I've got to ask you about that one later on.
00:11:29.000 Yeah.
00:11:30.000 So you still had to have game, mouthpiece.
00:11:32.000 But I think the advantage was to the men.
00:11:35.000 And so when you look at where women are, they don't want to go back to that. 1.00
00:11:39.000 Because you could have a rotation.
00:11:41.000 You could cheat on her. 0.99
00:11:43.000 You could cheat on her without knowing. 0.54
00:11:45.000 Like that type of stuff.
00:11:46.000 But that was the 90s.
00:11:47.000 You still could get a girl, and the girl would want to be with you. 0.99
00:11:50.000 But of course, if she was good-looking, extremely good-looking, monetized, they were looked upon as them girls over there.
00:11:58.000 Them hoes over there. 1.00
00:12:00.000 They're kind of out there.
00:12:02.000 There were girls still with the... 1.00
00:12:03.000 I lived in Los Angeles, so Southern Cal.
00:12:05.000 I had the Lakers, the Raiders, the Rams.
00:12:08.000 Everybody was out there.
00:12:09.000 At the end of the day, it was only a small percentage of girls that were doing that type of lifestyle. 1.00
00:12:15.000 Got it.
00:12:15.000 Most women by 24, they was packing it in.
00:12:20.000 They're packing it in.
00:12:21.000 They're like, okay, I had my fun, but now I'm trying to pack it in.
00:12:24.000 24, 25. So it was odd to run into single women at 25 years old? 0.75
00:12:29.000 If they were, they was going to be single for a long time.
00:12:31.000 They still had single mothers.
00:12:32.000 It wasn't every woman, but... 1.00
00:12:35.000 Would it be fair to say 25 in the 90s is the equivalent to maybe a 38-year-old today?
00:12:41.000 Correct.
00:12:42.000 That's how society looked at her. 0.99
00:12:44.000 Yes.
00:12:44.000 Like you're a spinster now, basically, at 25. At 24, 25. Like, if you're not trying to get serious and get a relationship, you're going to miss the window.
00:12:52.000 Gotcha.
00:12:53.000 What about men's income?
00:12:54.000 Was that a big factor back then as well?
00:12:56.000 In terms of?
00:12:57.000 Like, for example, average income, 50K. Oh, yeah.
00:12:59.000 Nobody was making 100K out there.
00:13:01.000 I mean, 100K is equivalent to 300, 400,000 today.
00:13:04.000 Yeah.
00:13:04.000 Got it.
00:13:05.000 So if you were making 100K in the 80s or 90s.
00:13:08.000 That's Dr. Money.
00:13:09.000 That's Dr. Money.
00:13:10.000 Yeah, you doctor lawyer.
00:13:11.000 Six papers in the 90s is Dr. Money.
00:13:13.000 Yeah, not many dudes were doing that.
00:13:15.000 And if you were, you had a wife.
00:13:17.000 You know, the women was going to not mess around with you. 1.00
00:13:19.000 You had a wife and you had a family and kids.
00:13:21.000 They used to call them yuppies.
00:13:23.000 Okay.
00:13:24.000 Yuppies had the BMW. Wow, yeah, that's a very, yeah.
00:13:29.000 1980. So you made 100K. You were a yuppie, especially if you were young.
00:13:34.000 But I would say, I'm going to tell you, man, boomers, they didn't make 100K until they were in their 50s or 60s. 0.89
00:13:40.000 So they grinded it out, making 30, 40, 50, 60, 70, right?
00:13:44.000 But then you go to the 2000s, right?
00:13:46.000 So you get to the 2000s.
00:13:47.000 Well, before we get to the 2000s, because I have some more questions on the 90s.
00:13:49.000 Yeah, because I want to really break this down by decade, because this is rare where you get someone that lived through all these decades that has a red pill lens.
00:13:55.000 So would you say that the...
00:13:59.000 The game, the dating marketplace back then, since men had to approach, did women actually value those approaches more than they do now?
00:14:07.000 I think they appreciated them more because if you weren't approaching, the woman gets nothing.
00:14:11.000 If she didn't accept an approach, she was cooked.
00:14:15.000 Now, you still would get shouted down and you ain't-ish, that type of thing.
00:14:20.000 But I think if you said something to a woman, like, we used to stand on a bridge in college, you know what I mean?
00:14:24.000 And we used to stand there, you know what I mean?
00:14:26.000 And the girls would just walk by all day, and everybody getting, you getting something.
00:14:30.000 You know, all the comments were flowing.
00:14:33.000 And so the women knew it. 0.99
00:14:35.000 They was going to cross that bridge.
00:14:37.000 So if they didn't cross that bridge, they wasn't going to be seen.
00:14:41.000 But at the same time, did they like it?
00:14:43.000 They might not have liked it, but you still wasn't going to get seen.
00:14:45.000 See, in the 90s, there was no way for the woman to get anything outside a social circle or approaching her. 0.98
00:14:54.000 Nightclub.
00:14:54.000 The woman had to be seen.
00:14:56.000 If she was sitting at the house in rollers...
00:14:59.000 Nobody would know.
00:15:00.000 Nobody sees her.
00:15:01.000 So you want a husband, you want a boyfriend, you want to be seen, you got to go outside.
00:15:06.000 Got it.
00:15:07.000 So there was a bit of impetus on the women, because they get a bunch of attention today. 1.00
00:15:13.000 So, they don't need to leave the house.
00:15:14.000 They don't need.
00:15:15.000 Right?
00:15:15.000 They get all the validation they need.
00:15:16.000 So, they had to actually step outside to get attention back then in the 90s.
00:15:19.000 And you're saying that they would appreciate that approach a bit more.
00:15:23.000 It was appreciated.
00:15:25.000 Versus now.
00:15:25.000 Approaching them was the expectation.
00:15:27.000 Yeah.
00:15:27.000 Versus nowadays, you know, a lot of the times if you're not a Chad, she's annoyed.
00:15:31.000 Right.
00:15:31.000 I've always said that I think modern women look at men as mosquitoes.
00:15:34.000 Like, what the fuck, man? 1.00
00:15:35.000 Get off. 1.00
00:15:36.000 Like, I've got my attention for the day.
00:15:37.000 I'm tired of you.
00:15:38.000 Exactly.
00:15:38.000 They're annoyed by it because I think 80...
00:15:41.000 As they say, 80% of men are invisible to them. 0.99
00:15:44.000 Whereas we would probably have sex with 80% of the women. 1.00
00:15:47.000 Absolutely. 0.70
00:15:48.000 I would argue it's now 90-95% of men are invisible now, I would say.
00:15:52.000 Correct.
00:15:53.000 Some women either know that and don't care or they don't realize it. 1.00
00:15:58.000 Also, nowadays, you know what it can do beforehand?
00:16:00.000 Research.
00:16:01.000 Oh, who's this guy?
00:16:02.000 That's true.
00:16:02.000 What's he about?
00:16:03.000 Look at Instagram.
00:16:04.000 Look at his social media.
00:16:05.000 Oh, he's popping.
00:16:06.000 I'll respond to his DM. Exactly.
00:16:08.000 In person, it's like, who's this nigga? 1.00
00:16:09.000 Yeah, exactly. 0.90
00:16:10.000 Exactly.
00:16:10.000 So you would have to demonstrate something of quality for her to be like, okay, maybe a car, maybe a lifestyle.
00:16:16.000 So I always tell guys, you know, I'm not a big cold approach guy, especially today because of those.
00:16:22.000 However, if I'm at the top floor or, you know, an area of Caesar's Palace that she knows you have to be somebody to be there, then she's going to probably be more recipient or better recipient of a cold approach.
00:16:37.000 Of course.
00:16:37.000 Or if I'm at the valet.
00:16:41.000 If I'm at the valet, she's probably going to be because when my car grows up in a valet, now all of a sudden they open.
00:16:47.000 But of course, without that knowledge, you're just a regular guy.
00:16:52.000 Especially for young black men, they all put us in the same category. 0.99
00:16:57.000 So you ain't shit from the start until they see something. 0.96
00:17:01.000 So the 90s, that's a very interesting dynamic. 0.99
00:17:04.000 So the main takeaway, 24-year-old woman is basically the equivalent of a 38-year-old woman today.
00:17:09.000 Women actually valued Approach more, and they had to go outside to get anything. 1.00
00:17:14.000 And they appreciated it more.
00:17:16.000 Guys, by the way, like the video, we got almost like 4K watching pretty much on YouTube.
00:17:20.000 And Coach, where can I find you as well?
00:17:22.000 Yeah, you can find me.
00:17:23.000 Coach Greg Adams is the big main channel, and Free Agent Lifestyle is the other channel.
00:17:27.000 So that's the one.
00:17:28.000 Let me add one more thing on the line.
00:17:30.000 So church was a big deal.
00:17:32.000 So women went to church. 1.00
00:17:34.000 Hallelujah.
00:17:34.000 So they went to church.
00:17:35.000 So you can find a woman. 0.93
00:17:36.000 You can find a God-fearing woman. 1.00
00:17:38.000 In church.
00:17:39.000 So, you know, it was like, you know, women had, like today, women will be hoes and go to church. 1.00
00:17:45.000 Pardon Saturday?
00:17:47.000 Now, they did have that back then, but you could still find a woman. 0.99
00:17:50.000 If a woman's in church, she might be intentional. 1.00
00:17:52.000 So the church was a more viable way to meet a chick? 0.61
00:17:54.000 Yes.
00:17:54.000 Matchmaker.
00:17:55.000 Okay, really?
00:17:56.000 They would match you up.
00:17:57.000 Versus nowadays, it's a joke, but back then, you're saying it was viable.
00:18:00.000 Oh, it was expected that people more went to church back then.
00:18:05.000 If you didn't, they'd call you a heathen.
00:18:06.000 So you could find a woman in church, and a woman wasn't pretty much done. 0.96
00:18:11.000 Like, if she was a single mother...
00:18:14.000 And under 30, she could find a guy.
00:18:17.000 Okay.
00:18:17.000 Whereas today, guys ain't trying to mess with it.
00:18:20.000 Let me ask you this.
00:18:21.000 Okay.
00:18:22.000 How did they look at single motherhood back then in the 90s? 0.72
00:18:25.000 It was like, oh, you poor girl.
00:18:27.000 You princess warrior.
00:18:28.000 You do it all by yourself. 1.00
00:18:29.000 That guy wasn't shit. 1.00
00:18:31.000 Also, they still were championing that shit. 1.00
00:18:32.000 Well, they would be like, you got taken advantage of. 1.00
00:18:34.000 Some guy did something to you to that point where he left.
00:18:39.000 And left you out there hanging.
00:18:40.000 So I'm going to come in and fix that for you.
00:18:42.000 Was that only in the church or outside as well?
00:18:44.000 Outside.
00:18:44.000 Yeah, outside.
00:18:45.000 Single mothers didn't have a negative reputation like they have today. 1.00
00:18:47.000 And the only reason I ask that is, this is a weird connection, but I'll never forget.
00:18:51.000 forget ted bundy's mom when she was raising him yeah she raised him in a home for women that don't have that basically bastard children right because it was like something that was very shameful like you couldn't be out in society as as a as a woman uh with without a dad that wasn't the 90s though so by 90s that's all that's kind of not stigmatized anymore it it It had less stigma that she was out here doing something.
00:19:13.000 Yeah, because the 50s and the 60s, bro, it was a problem.
00:19:16.000 They didn't want them outside.
00:19:18.000 You don't have a husband and you have a kid, they had shelters for them.
00:19:20.000 Let me tell you what. 1.00
00:19:22.000 They used to shun that shit, bro. 1.00
00:19:24.000 Shame was real. 1.00
00:19:27.000 So we don't have shame anymore.
00:19:29.000 So by the 90s, the shame had evaporated.
00:19:31.000 It was starting to evaporate.
00:19:32.000 Where guys could look at a woman and say, she got two kids. 1.00
00:19:36.000 That's a good woman still. 1.00
00:19:37.000 She's in church.
00:19:38.000 You know, she's focused.
00:19:40.000 Okay.
00:19:40.000 I think I can make something out of that.
00:19:42.000 So dudes will make families out of that. 1.00
00:19:44.000 Okay.
00:19:44.000 Yeah.
00:19:45.000 Scary. 1.00
00:19:46.000 Shit. 1.00
00:19:47.000 The other thing I was going to... 1.00
00:19:48.000 Oh! 0.60
00:19:50.000 Promiscuity.
00:19:50.000 How was it viewed in the 90s?
00:19:52.000 Listen.
00:19:54.000 This is what people have to understand.
00:19:55.000 Promiscuities have always been viewed bad, poorly.
00:19:58.000 Just like today.
00:19:59.000 We were like, these 304s. 0.99
00:20:01.000 But promiscuity, the reason why it hurt women back in the 90s was because women didn't have a reach. 1.00
00:20:08.000 Like they have today.
00:20:09.000 So, a woman had a 10-12 mile radius. 1.00
00:20:13.000 You know, people, like the cars that we have today, we could just be like, we're going to drive 400 miles.
00:20:17.000 Like, we didn't do that in the 90s, you know what I mean?
00:20:19.000 I was like a Trek.
00:20:21.000 So, especially for a romantic relationship in the 80s and 90s, nobody's driving.
00:20:26.000 300 miles going, flying out here and there.
00:20:29.000 An airline flight was like, you know, 500, 600. It was expensive.
00:20:33.000 So dudes weren't flying girls in.
00:20:35.000 You weren't going to just fly out on a whim to go meet somebody.
00:20:38.000 So your radius is right here.
00:20:40.000 Your high school and the five rival high schools.
00:20:42.000 Your college, your college campus, maybe the rival college if it's close.
00:20:47.000 And that was your circle.
00:20:50.000 Friendships matter.
00:20:51.000 People would set people up.
00:20:52.000 Hey, my friend Tony want to talk to you.
00:20:54.000 That's how people got together so that if she was a 304 with that group of people, she cooked.
00:21:03.000 Cooked.
00:21:04.000 So then if I date her, the odds that somebody dated her in that radius is high.
00:21:08.000 Where today, the woman could go boom. 1.00
00:21:10.000 She all over here and come back to you and you don't know nothing. 1.00
00:21:14.000 To your point, nowadays, Coach, women can travel from China? 0.86
00:21:18.000 Yeah.
00:21:18.000 To America.
00:21:19.000 Easy.
00:21:20.000 With no type of background. 1.00
00:21:21.000 And try some bullshit. 1.00
00:21:23.000 Yeah, you know this, right? 1.00
00:21:24.000 The area courts have changed.
00:21:25.000 So you're right, 100%.
00:21:26.000 So yeah, it's just they had a limited market.
00:21:29.000 And they had a limited time.
00:21:30.000 Because they only have these people right here.
00:21:32.000 So basically, women were more reluctant to engage sexually because they understood that there would be serious social consequence due to a more constrained environment. 0.99
00:21:42.000 When I was in college.
00:21:44.000 I started dating this girl.
00:21:46.000 My homeboy was like, oh, I banged her in the bushes. 0.98
00:21:48.000 That fast.
00:21:49.000 She was cooked.
00:21:51.000 You might have thought maybe because she went to the high school over here, nobody knew about her.
00:21:56.000 They don't enjoy the same anonymity.
00:21:58.000 Now they can move in a little bit of a different space and come out here and say, hey, I'm holier than now.
00:22:06.000 Let me ask this then, and then we'll go to the 2000s.
00:22:09.000 Obviously, early 90s, you're 18, 1993. At this point, Hip-hop has gone mainstream, right?
00:22:16.000 Obviously, and you're on the West Coast.
00:22:18.000 Snoop Dogg, Tupac, etc.
00:22:21.000 Violent gangster music as well as, you know, they're talking about women as well. 0.90
00:22:25.000 And, you know, having sex and all this other stuff.
00:22:27.000 How did that plant the culture? 0.96
00:22:29.000 Did it affect the black community more? 1.00
00:22:30.000 Were white people listening to it too and also engaging in the bullshit? 0.99
00:22:33.000 How did that affect? 0.99
00:22:33.000 Because they didn't look at hip-hop as music back then. 0.99
00:22:35.000 Hip-hop didn't become what we know of it today until about 92. Right?
00:22:41.000 Now, it was a thing in the late 70s and 80s.
00:22:44.000 It was a thing, but it wasn't respected.
00:22:46.000 It was kind of like, that's going to be phased out.
00:22:47.000 Nobody's going to listen to that in the future.
00:22:49.000 But right when gangster rap came in, which I called the time bomb of the black community, that was the time bomb.
00:22:55.000 It was almost worse than the crack era.
00:22:57.000 Where, let me tell you, in the 90s, you start hearing women say they wanted to openly date guys like Dr. Dre, Snoop, Tupac.
00:23:06.000 Like, they were their boyfriends.
00:23:08.000 Like, before that, they didn't want guys like this.
00:23:11.000 These guys were off limits.
00:23:13.000 Like, gangbangers were a small group of people.
00:23:16.000 Today, everybody a gangbanger.
00:23:18.000 Or a drug dealer or a pimp. 0.61
00:23:20.000 Like, these guys were the lowest of the low. 1.00
00:23:22.000 Holy shit. 0.99
00:23:22.000 So, are you saying the early 90s kind of ushered in this era of girls getting with crooks? 0.99
00:23:27.000 Yes.
00:23:27.000 Let me tell you where.
00:23:28.000 I'm going to tell you where.
00:23:29.000 There were a couple of songs that changed the trajectory of how women dated. 1.00
00:23:33.000 Now, women have always liked bad boys. 1.00
00:23:35.000 Always.
00:23:36.000 Yeah, of course.
00:23:36.000 Always liked bad boys, but they had a reputation to protect, so they can't just be out here with bad boys like that.
00:23:42.000 Not openly.
00:23:43.000 They can't just be out here with a rapper.
00:23:45.000 That was immediately a stain on her.
00:23:46.000 So what'll happen is they had songs.
00:23:48.000 They had a song by MC Light, Roughneck.
00:23:51.000 All right?
00:23:51.000 For the young people, go look it up.
00:23:53.000 Once Roughneck hit, game changer.
00:23:56.000 And the song was, I gotta have a roughneck.
00:23:58.000 He gotta be rough.
00:23:58.000 He gotta be, you know, Timberland boots, baggy jeans.
00:24:01.000 Before that, women weren't openly dating roughnecks, but that image started to become popular. 1.00
00:24:07.000 Wu-Tang Clan, you know, dude with the one pants leg up, I'm trying to bring some shit back. 0.96
00:24:11.000 So those guys became the ideal guy because rap became mainstream. 0.98
00:24:17.000 And white people were part of it too.
00:24:18.000 Without white people, there's no rap. 0.79
00:24:20.000 There's no hip-hop. 0.74
00:24:21.000 They're the ones that actually buy it.
00:24:23.000 Niggas are bootlegging, bro. 1.00
00:24:24.000 They're bootlegging.
00:24:25.000 Come on, man. 1.00
00:24:27.000 LimeWire, all that shit. 1.00
00:24:29.000 Niggas are giving you... 1.00
00:24:30.000 You know it's bullshit because they give you the CD and it's all thin and it has a little paper thing. 1.00
00:24:34.000 It's bootlegging. 0.99
00:24:35.000 Yeah, they call that bootleg.
00:24:36.000 We would say dub this.
00:24:38.000 So my homeboy get the DJ quick.
00:24:40.000 Hey, dub that.
00:24:40.000 I give him a tape, and he just copies it.
00:24:43.000 So, you know, the rap industry is overwhelmingly consumed.
00:24:46.000 White people are overwhelmingly consumed. 1.00
00:24:47.000 Yeah, they're the actual ones paying for it. 0.81
00:24:49.000 Yeah, so when a guy went platinum in the 90s, a rapper, it was white people.
00:24:52.000 Of course.
00:24:53.000 White people. 0.69
00:24:53.000 It wasn't black people supporting him. 0.69
00:24:54.000 You ain't gonna platinum off niggas, bro. 0.99
00:24:56.000 Yeah, yeah. 1.00
00:24:56.000 Fuck no. 1.00
00:24:56.000 Yeah, and the manager is proof of that, too. 1.00
00:24:59.000 You can't go big without that.
00:25:00.000 You gotta have a crossover.
00:25:02.000 But what I will say is, in the black culture, when they sport something heavily, what I've been saying is, white people say, oh, that's cool now. 0.62
00:25:08.000 Right.
00:25:08.000 And then they go by after.
00:25:09.000 So the black community has to. 1.00
00:25:10.000 Yes.
00:25:11.000 Yeah, they have to support it. 0.79
00:25:12.000 So you need the base of black people, 100%. 0.99
00:25:13.000 Exactly. 0.80
00:25:14.000 Yeah, but that's just to give it the credentials.
00:25:16.000 But then the white people are the ones that actually buy.
00:25:18.000 They're going to take it, like N.W.A., Straight Outta Compton. 0.89
00:25:20.000 They're going to pay for the concerts of the white people. 0.94
00:25:22.000 Yeah.
00:25:22.000 Overwhelmingly, it was white people who bought that album.
00:25:24.000 But they don't think it's cool until we think it's cool.
00:25:26.000 Correct.
00:25:26.000 So you need to have...
00:25:27.000 Straight Outta Compton?
00:25:28.000 Yeah, white people.
00:25:29.000 Oh, yeah.
00:25:29.000 Overwhelmingly.
00:25:29.000 That was the first.
00:25:30.000 I believe it was the first album that went platinum.
00:25:32.000 All right.
00:25:33.000 Oh, yeah.
00:25:34.000 Went straight out of Compton because I lived in the city and moved to the suburbs.
00:25:40.000 White people love NWA. They love Public Enemy. 0.99
00:25:42.000 They love these fringe, rebellious bands.
00:25:45.000 And those bands were on labels.
00:25:48.000 I ain't gonna get Myron started.
00:25:52.000 You guys know the sound effect.
00:25:55.000 Those bands were promoted.
00:25:57.000 They weren't underground type bands.
00:25:59.000 So they got pushed forward.
00:25:59.000 Run DMC. These were all white people.
00:26:02.000 Supporting groups, Beastie Boys.
00:26:03.000 So that's the only way you would go platinum.
00:26:06.000 But back then, so Roughneck came out.
00:26:08.000 Then after that, there was another song that I tell my audience that came out in the 90s that changed the way women can openly date the bad boy. 0.74
00:26:16.000 But what happened was, what happened to the men, the men started to adopt this bad boy characteristic.
00:26:22.000 They started to dress like gangbangers and thugs. 0.71
00:26:24.000 Bandanas. 0.90
00:26:25.000 Bandanas, you know what I mean?
00:26:26.000 They started to wear the Timberland boots, the baggy pants.
00:26:29.000 So the men said, oh, the women are going to date those girls. 1.00
00:26:31.000 Those guys that I'm going to date, I'm going to become that guy.
00:26:35.000 And a lot of dudes probably in jail right now, overthugging to try to get some girls.
00:26:42.000 So that's when dating started to change in terms of women openly dating guys like that. 1.00
00:26:49.000 So that's mid-90s going into the late 90s.
00:26:52.000 I'm trying to think if there's anything else I need for the 90s.
00:26:55.000 Oh, so basically, the last thing I'll say is, so you would say...
00:26:59.000 Early gangster rap was what created this ideology of dating thugs and made it okay, socially acceptable.
00:27:07.000 Made it okay.
00:27:07.000 Girls, it used to be, you have a thug boyfriend, you kept it from everybody, you didn't tell them.
00:27:11.000 But now, after NWA, Snoop Dogg, Dr. Dre, Tupac, etc., now it's sort of date a thug.
00:27:18.000 And publicly do it.
00:27:19.000 Publicly, they're walking down the street with him, and everybody's like, you know he ain't gonna be no good for you.
00:27:23.000 So this is the whole conversation about...
00:27:26.000 Who's the victim in single motherhood? 1.00
00:27:27.000 Is it the woman or the man?
00:27:28.000 Well, the woman openly chose these type of guys. 1.00
00:27:33.000 So they want to blame the guys.
00:27:34.000 Well, he didn't take care of the kids.
00:27:37.000 But I'm like, those women openly dated those guys. 0.77
00:27:40.000 Okay.
00:27:42.000 You just said something really profound.
00:27:44.000 So two things happened in the 90s from what I'm hearing from you.
00:27:47.000 The commercialization and acceptance of dating.
00:27:51.000 Hoodlums.
00:27:51.000 That's what I call them.
00:27:52.000 Hoodlums. 0.94
00:27:54.000 Basically hoodlums, right?
00:27:55.000 Like guys that, quite frankly, are not going to be able to be good providers.
00:27:59.000 Correct. 1.00
00:28:00.000 Then, due to them accepting this, the acceptance of single motherhood from dating those motherfuckers. 1.00
00:28:07.000 Exactly, because they can still be the victim at that point. 0.99
00:28:10.000 Oh, these guys don't take care of their kids, but they openly dated those type of guys or guys that became those guys.
00:28:17.000 So it's a two-part situation.
00:28:19.000 Now it's acceptable to date thugs.
00:28:21.000 But on the other end, we're also going to accept the fact that they might get you pregnant and leave you. 0.91
00:28:25.000 And we're going to support you.
00:28:26.000 And we're going to support you.
00:28:27.000 You poor lady. 1.00
00:28:28.000 You know these guys ain't shit. 1.00
00:28:29.000 What about TLC? No Scrubs. 0.99
00:28:31.000 There you go.
00:28:32.000 So No Scrubs goes into...
00:28:33.000 That was the 90s.
00:28:34.000 So that was the other song.
00:28:35.000 So you had No Scrubs and Roughneck. 0.98
00:28:37.000 That was the 90s.
00:28:38.000 So women can openly say... 1.00
00:28:41.000 Can I take it back for a second?
00:28:43.000 Yeah, please, man.
00:28:44.000 Check this out.
00:28:44.000 We got time.
00:28:47.000 There was a time where...
00:28:49.000 For women, like today they listen to rap. 1.00
00:28:53.000 They be in the club, to the window, to the wall.
00:28:54.000 They be in the club rapping.
00:28:55.000 To the window! 0.85
00:28:56.000 Yeah, they be rapping in all races of women. 1.00
00:28:58.000 They be out here rapping the worst lyrics.
00:29:00.000 And they'll dance and shake to it.
00:29:01.000 Let me tell you, man, that's new.
00:29:04.000 Women didn't listen to rap like that. 1.00
00:29:07.000 They didn't sing the raunchy-ish stuff in the early 90s. 0.91
00:29:11.000 They weren't like, hey, we like this raunchy-ass rap.
00:29:14.000 They were like, this disrespects women. 1.00
00:29:16.000 This makes us look bad.
00:29:17.000 Y'all talking about your mama.
00:29:19.000 I'm not a hoe. 1.00
00:29:21.000 Where today, these women at future concert, they doing the raunchiest shit. 1.00
00:29:25.000 And then they want you to be a gentleman. 0.99
00:29:28.000 Or they'll date those guys openly. 0.86
00:29:30.000 So women didn't listen to rap like that. 1.00
00:29:32.000 But I think TLC was a more hip-hop R&B group.
00:29:37.000 Like, the rapper was Left Eyes.
00:29:39.000 You started seeing groups mix hip-hop and rap.
00:29:41.000 Yeah, she was rapping. 0.79
00:29:42.000 Yep, she was.
00:29:42.000 Before, R&B was distinct.
00:29:44.000 Because she couldn't sing.
00:29:45.000 Yeah, she couldn't sing.
00:29:46.000 So they started to mix hip-hop and rap so that then they could put out this No Scrubs and the women and men could hear it.
00:29:52.000 You know what's funny?
00:29:53.000 When I hear Chris Brown, these hoes ain't loyal, and they sing along, and I'm like... 1.00
00:29:57.000 But that's you, though.
00:29:59.000 Right.
00:29:59.000 That's you!
00:30:00.000 Exactly.
00:30:00.000 Right.
00:30:01.000 They sing along to that.
00:30:02.000 Yeah.
00:30:02.000 But they'll do that.
00:30:04.000 They'll sing along to the music now, but say, well, that's different.
00:30:08.000 Right?
00:30:08.000 They'll twerk to it.
00:30:09.000 They'll dance all that.
00:30:10.000 But that all transpired in the 90s.
00:30:12.000 Once you start the 90s, you started to see more.
00:30:14.000 Listen, Coach.
00:30:15.000 I know you're Coach Greg.
00:30:16.000 I know you're Chef Greg.
00:30:17.000 Cooking right now.
00:30:17.000 Cooking.
00:30:18.000 Cooking, bro.
00:30:19.000 So, all right.
00:30:20.000 We just covered the 90s.
00:30:23.000 Okay, so now we're going into the 2000s.
00:30:25.000 2000s.
00:30:26.000 So R&B started to kind of make a comeback.
00:30:28.000 I credit Diddy for this, unfortunately.
00:30:31.000 So he started to bring rap and R&B merger.
00:30:34.000 R&B was dying.
00:30:35.000 All these Luther Vandross and all these Patti LaBelle, they phased out.
00:30:39.000 But then you started seeing 112, Jagged Edge.
00:30:42.000 You started seeing more of these groups come back with a hip-hop flavor.
00:30:45.000 So they started to come back with a hip-hop flavor.
00:30:48.000 R&B came back.
00:30:50.000 Diddy was behind a lot of these bands.
00:30:52.000 So was Jermaine Dupree and ish like that.
00:30:54.000 So now what happened is there was still the emphasis on getting married.
00:30:59.000 Like I got married in the 2000s, right?
00:31:01.000 There's still an emphasis on getting married.
00:31:04.000 So what you would see is people more or less.
00:31:09.000 Still go out there and want to do the club thing, but still women wanted to get married overwhelmingly, but you're kind of seeing more strong and independent stuff coming. 1.00
00:31:18.000 Because Destiny's Child, if I'm not mistaken, that's 2000s.
00:31:22.000 Independent women.
00:31:23.000 Independent women came out. 0.94
00:31:25.000 Pay my bills.
00:31:25.000 Alright, so pay my bills.
00:31:27.000 You're still seeing this kind of a monetized thing and the women's strength. 1.00
00:31:31.000 This is when you've seen women empowerment. 0.95
00:31:33.000 We're women. 1.00
00:31:34.000 Survivor was the big one.
00:31:35.000 Survival.
00:31:36.000 You're seeing that, but you're still seeing women play both sides.
00:31:40.000 I want to get married.
00:31:41.000 But they're putting more restrictions or requirements on the guy.
00:31:47.000 Alright, I've got no one else.
00:31:48.000 No, because we're monitoring the different chats.
00:31:52.000 Oh, different chats.
00:31:53.000 Yeah, different things.
00:31:54.000 So you're seeing women play both sides a little bit more than it was in the 90s and the 80s.
00:32:00.000 I'm going to be a boss babe.
00:32:02.000 I'm going to go out there and have a career.
00:32:04.000 I'm going to get my career started.
00:32:05.000 I'm going to go to school, be educated.
00:32:07.000 And you guys got to accept this new form of woman.
00:32:10.000 So would it be fair to say that we're starting to see the rise of the independent woman in the 2000s now?
00:32:14.000 This is when it's getting hardcore, yeah.
00:32:16.000 Okay.
00:32:16.000 Now they're like...
00:32:18.000 In the 80s, 20% of the women were doing it. 0.96
00:32:20.000 In the 90s, what would you say?
00:32:22.000 90s, I would say 30, 40, 30, 30. Increases slightly.
00:32:25.000 And then now in the 2000s, now they're starting to stand on it.
00:32:27.000 50, 60, 70, yeah.
00:32:28.000 Now it's like, I'm gonna, like, alright.
00:32:30.000 Are we bringing in also dating apps as well?
00:32:32.000 Or like, Christian Mangle? 0.85
00:32:34.000 That didn't come 2010s, right?
00:32:35.000 It's still too early.
00:32:36.000 Like, there was Match.com.
00:32:38.000 Let me tell you, yeah.
00:32:38.000 Yeah, we're going from 2000, this one, 2000 to 2010. 2010, yeah.
00:32:42.000 So, Match.com was a thing back then, but you were considered a loser. 1.00
00:32:47.000 Loser. 0.99
00:32:48.000 Like, absolute loser if you were on Match.com. 1.00
00:32:51.000 I'm going to use this dating app. 0.93
00:32:52.000 Because, you know, you have some movies like You Got Mail started to come out in the 90s, and this internet started to come in.
00:33:00.000 You can meet people on the internet.
00:33:01.000 I'm telling you, it's unsafe.
00:33:03.000 You're going to meet some guy you don't know.
00:33:06.000 This is unsafe, uncharted territory.
00:33:08.000 People use dating match services in the 80s and 90s, but dating services like...
00:33:14.000 Match was, like, off limits. 1.00
00:33:16.000 You're a straight loser. 0.98
00:33:17.000 Yeah, I mean, I remember when there used to be, like, intense shame if you even mentioned that you met someone online. 0.99
00:33:24.000 Oh, yeah.
00:33:24.000 In the 90s, it wasn't a thing, but the 2000s, because the internet was still new.
00:33:28.000 People didn't trust it like that.
00:33:30.000 Yeah, dude.
00:33:31.000 I'll never forget.
00:33:32.000 I went on, like, my first, like, family trip as a kid. 0.98
00:33:35.000 And, like, my little sister, she had, like, booked a bunch of shit on the internet. 0.96
00:33:38.000 I'm like, this ain't gonna work. 0.92
00:33:39.000 Like, these tickets aren't gonna work.
00:33:42.000 You're not gonna be able to get a hotel?
00:33:43.000 And it all worked.
00:33:44.000 I was like, what the hell?
00:33:45.000 We could do this on the internet now?
00:33:46.000 Like, that's when it, like, hit me on.
00:33:47.000 This is, like, early 2000s.
00:33:48.000 People really only used the internet at that point for work.
00:33:51.000 You know what I mean?
00:33:52.000 Like, there was not much of this, I'm gonna have a life on here.
00:33:57.000 Right?
00:33:57.000 I'm gonna have romance and buy groceries and, like, all the stuff we do easily.
00:34:02.000 I'm trying to think. 0.88
00:34:03.000 What the hell were niggas doing on the internet? 1.00
00:34:04.000 Not even read the news.
00:34:07.000 What about computer love?
00:34:09.000 That was in the 80s.
00:34:10.000 What would people do on the internet?
00:34:13.000 You would do your work.
00:34:14.000 You would go on there. 0.92
00:34:15.000 Well, porn.
00:34:17.000 Without porn, there's no internet. 0.82
00:34:20.000 I'm going to tell you what you used to do.
00:34:21.000 You young guys, man.
00:34:22.000 It was tough.
00:34:23.000 We had dial-up.
00:34:25.000 It would be one picture and that thing would load like...
00:34:30.000 And you're looking at it.
00:34:31.000 Oh, there's her hair. 0.99
00:34:32.000 And then you down there, there's her neck. 1.00
00:34:34.000 You know what I mean? 0.99
00:34:35.000 Like, there's her nipples. 1.00
00:34:37.000 You know, like, you just watch it and shit. 1.00
00:34:39.000 You know what I mean? 0.99
00:34:39.000 And then, you know, you probably try to print it out or something like that. 0.99
00:34:42.000 You couldn't save it.
00:34:43.000 Nobody was saving it. 0.97
00:34:44.000 Well, yeah, and they have, like, the, like, porn shops where you can, like, go there and pick up a magazine or a Playboy and shit. 0.99
00:34:50.000 Like, niggas go in there in their trench coat and shit. 1.00
00:34:52.000 They go in there with the hood in. 1.00
00:34:53.000 Like, yeah, yeah. 1.00
00:34:53.000 You go in there with your glasses and shit. 1.00
00:34:55.000 You go in there. 1.00
00:34:56.000 We used to, yeah, that's how you used to get dirty magazines. 1.00
00:34:58.000 You know, you have to get the magazine.
00:35:00.000 That's where the best stuff was.
00:35:01.000 But going in the 2000s, you know, one of the most searchable people on the internet were porn stars.
00:35:06.000 Gotcha.
00:35:07.000 So that changed a lot.
00:35:09.000 So when it comes to dating now, so we saw the culture shift in the 90s where single mothers are starting to be accepted, thugs are starting to be accepted. 0.98
00:35:16.000 And then you mentioned that R&B starts making its way back.
00:35:18.000 How did that influence dating and how men needed to move with women? 0.91
00:35:22.000 And then what was the, I guess, the approach like?
00:35:25.000 Were guys still cold approaching at this point?
00:35:27.000 Yeah, you still cold approach.
00:35:28.000 The club was still viable.
00:35:31.000 Like, nightclubs is like, what are we going to do tonight?
00:35:34.000 You got to go to the club.
00:35:35.000 Yeah.
00:35:35.000 So even women went to the club.
00:35:37.000 They went to the club.
00:35:38.000 Men went to the clubs.
00:35:39.000 There's no cell phones.
00:35:39.000 So everybody's either standing around or they dancing.
00:35:42.000 Gotcha.
00:35:42.000 Right?
00:35:43.000 Or you buying a drink.
00:35:44.000 The women's expectation, you buy me a drink, you get a conversation. 1.00
00:35:46.000 But they're still kind of finessing it a little bit.
00:35:48.000 I do also want to say this. 0.98
00:35:50.000 You know, growing up in the 2000s, I remember in the early 2000s, almost every fucking music video was the club. 0.98
00:35:56.000 Was the club. 0.99
00:35:57.000 They were in the club.
00:35:58.000 Yep.
00:35:58.000 Girls there, etc.
00:36:00.000 Versus music videos nowadays, number one, they're not as creative and they don't spend as much money on the music videos.
00:36:05.000 Because back then, major record labels ran everything.
00:36:08.000 There was no independent artist.
00:36:09.000 So they'd have these big budgets.
00:36:10.000 But every single time, now that I think about it, if you look at music videos from the early 2000s, they were almost always in a nightclub or some type of social situation party. 0.78
00:36:20.000 And if they did have a cell phone, it was like they'd pull out a sidekick or some bullshit like that.
00:36:24.000 That was the cool thing. 0.76
00:36:27.000 Cold approach is still viable.
00:36:28.000 Girls still aren't getting attention unless they go outside. 1.00
00:36:31.000 Were they still valued the cold approach?
00:36:35.000 Yeah, you weren't going to meet nobody.
00:36:37.000 Let's see how many numbers we're going to get.
00:36:39.000 It was the expectation you were going to approach, but now since no scrubs, they can shoot you down.
00:36:45.000 So now you're getting hardcore rejection.
00:36:49.000 I was going to ask you.
00:36:50.000 That was the dovetail right in my question.
00:36:52.000 Were the major differences in dating between the 90s and the 2000s?
00:36:55.000 Did you say it just got harder?
00:36:55.000 It got harder because I could stop a girl 80s and 90s.
00:36:58.000 Hey, how you doing?
00:36:59.000 Let me talk to you real quick.
00:37:00.000 She either be, you know, she hit you with that or keep walking and you might have to catch up. 0.98
00:37:05.000 Hey, let me talk to you.
00:37:07.000 She might be like, okay, go ahead and put your work in. 1.00
00:37:10.000 Let me see if you a fool. 0.99
00:37:12.000 They'll give you the chance at least. 1.00
00:37:14.000 Or they'll be like, you know, that type of stuff. 0.99
00:37:17.000 It wasn't this cash at me shit. 0.99
00:37:19.000 You know what I mean? 0.99
00:37:20.000 It wasn't that or this straight where they just look through you and around you.
00:37:23.000 Yep.
00:37:24.000 That was not the norm.
00:37:27.000 Today, that's the norm, right?
00:37:28.000 Where they could just be like, cash at me.
00:37:30.000 They look through you or around you.
00:37:31.000 And to be fair, women got more going on today. 0.97
00:37:34.000 Yeah, way more.
00:37:35.000 For sure.
00:37:35.000 They got jobs.
00:37:36.000 They got make more money than a lot of these guys in many cases.
00:37:39.000 They got virtual options.
00:37:41.000 They got options.
00:37:41.000 They got social media.
00:37:43.000 So they're monetized.
00:37:44.000 That's where I say they're monetized.
00:37:45.000 Leverage out the wooza, man. 0.99
00:37:46.000 They got leverage.
00:37:47.000 So, okay.
00:37:48.000 And it's interesting, too, because in the 90s, you're in your late teens, early 20s.
00:37:53.000 So now you're an adult now.
00:37:55.000 You're going into your 20s and 30s in the 2000s.
00:37:57.000 So you're saying it actually was harder for you in the 2000s than it was in the 90s.
00:38:01.000 Easily.
00:38:02.000 Wow.
00:38:02.000 Even though you're making more money and you're more successful now.
00:38:05.000 Easily.
00:38:05.000 So I got married.
00:38:07.000 I cold approached my wife.
00:38:08.000 So I met her.
00:38:11.000 But we were in the same social circle.
00:38:12.000 So it was easy for us.
00:38:14.000 We were in the same profession.
00:38:15.000 But we just didn't work at the same place.
00:38:17.000 But I just met her.
00:38:18.000 Hey, what's going on?
00:38:19.000 This type of thing.
00:38:20.000 But it was expected.
00:38:21.000 And she didn't shoot it down.
00:38:23.000 It was like, oh, let's see what happens here. 0.99
00:38:26.000 I regret that day for the rest of my damn life. 0.98
00:38:29.000 I wish I could go back to the future and stop myself. 0.99
00:38:33.000 But that's another thing.
00:38:35.000 But you're still seeing women want to get married.
00:38:38.000 There's still this, I want a husband, kids, creating a family.
00:38:44.000 It still exists more than it doesn't exist today.
00:38:49.000 2000s got a bit harder.
00:38:50.000 Women are more open with rejecting you. 1.00
00:38:52.000 Would you say the women becoming more independent through Destiny's Child and this culture of I'm going to get work made it where women's standards went up and they just were not willing to tolerate certain things and that's what made it harder? 1.00
00:39:02.000 I suppose, but still there was still shame though.
00:39:05.000 There was still this sense of the woman couldn't just be out here.
00:39:08.000 Now they were there, but you had video vixens, models.
00:39:12.000 These women were... 1.00
00:39:13.000 Okay, these girls are over here. 1.00
00:39:15.000 I'm going to go give me a good girl.
00:39:16.000 I'm going to go give me a good girl.
00:39:18.000 So you can still go find a good girl where that good girl doesn't have a digital footprint on OnlyFans or Instagram. 0.75
00:39:24.000 Okay, before we get into the 2010s, because I predict that there's going to be a lot of shift here into the 2010s, what is the magic age now at this point?
00:39:31.000 So in the 90s, you said that age was 24. You don't got a man at 24, you're basically cooked.
00:39:36.000 You're getting made fun of, what's wrong with you.
00:39:38.000 Now we're in the 2000s.
00:39:39.000 What is that age now?
00:39:40.000 Say 28, 29. Okay.
00:39:42.000 Where the woman would go to Thanksgiving for the eighth time with no boyfriend, no man.
00:39:46.000 Oh, you ain't got no boyfriend, you ain't got no man?
00:39:48.000 So their relatives would tell them, even though female relatives, what's going on?
00:39:53.000 Okay.
00:39:53.000 You know, why you don't got a boyfriend?
00:39:55.000 So the shaming began at around 28, 29 now.
00:39:57.000 28, 29, yeah, yeah.
00:39:58.000 In the 80s, what was that number?
00:39:59.000 I know you were a kid back then.
00:40:01.000 Yeah, in the 80s, shoot, man, look, man, I'm telling you, people would have kids and families at 21, 22. Okay.
00:40:06.000 So if a woman isn't married by 22? 0.99
00:40:08.000 You can still say 24, 25. 24, 25 still?
00:40:11.000 Okay.
00:40:11.000 She could do some damage.
00:40:12.000 I mean, my mother had me at 20. Okay.
00:40:15.000 You know what I mean?
00:40:15.000 So you can still have young moms where women weren't pushing that career thing in the 80s all the way to 32 and 38. Gotcha.
00:40:25.000 This is definitely a 20s thing.
00:40:26.000 Okay.
00:40:27.000 Still a 20 thing.
00:40:28.000 Yeah.
00:40:28.000 All right.
00:40:29.000 So it was unheard of now where it's like you don't got a kid and you're 30. Something's wrong with you.
00:40:34.000 I'm telling you, man.
00:40:35.000 I don't think people realize how big of a deal that is.
00:40:38.000 That's why I'm harping on it.
00:40:39.000 I want the audience because some of the guys that are watching are older so they know this.
00:40:42.000 I want the younger guys to know, bro, these older women that are single still, they're failures. 1.00
00:40:47.000 They're failures.
00:40:48.000 They got women 32 and 44 still talking about marriage and children. 0.97
00:40:52.000 In the 80s and 90s, this was non-existent.
00:40:55.000 Now, that didn't mean women weren't having children at that age. 0.82
00:40:59.000 They could have had their fifth kid in their 40s, right?
00:41:01.000 Or they could have married their third husband.
00:41:04.000 So it was something still there.
00:41:06.000 But women are going, I'm going to trick off my 20s, and then maybe mid-30s, I'm going to think about having a family and husband. 1.00
00:41:15.000 This is new, and not only new from the 80s, this is new in the history of human beings.
00:41:19.000 How important is money at this point?
00:41:22.000 Is it still important for dating?
00:41:24.000 I mean, you could be broke.
00:41:25.000 You could have some struggle love.
00:41:26.000 You could have some struggle love.
00:41:28.000 You could have that Jaheim. 0.58
00:41:29.000 You know, Jaheim was in the 2000s, that struggle love. 0.96
00:41:31.000 You know, type of shit like that where y'all gonna build together. 0.90
00:41:34.000 Yeah.
00:41:34.000 We gonna get together and we gonna put a family together, build, and we gonna have our apartment, sleep on crates, and then we'll eventually build something together.
00:41:43.000 That was more likely the idea both for the men and the women. 0.92
00:41:47.000 Okay.
00:41:48.000 Now, once you get into 2020, that's...
00:41:50.000 It's over.
00:41:51.000 That's done.
00:41:51.000 Yeah, that's good.
00:41:52.000 Should we reach out before we get into 2010s?
00:41:54.000 Because I know that's going to be a big shift.
00:41:56.000 Is there anything that we need to look at?
00:41:58.000 And shout out to all you guys.
00:41:59.000 Guys, I'm live on Twitter right now.
00:42:00.000 We're live on Rumble.
00:42:01.000 We're live on YouTube.
00:42:01.000 We're live on other platforms.
00:42:02.000 We've got Coach Greg Adams in the house.
00:42:04.000 It's a great discussion going through the different decades.
00:42:08.000 Also, CryptoCourse is still live for only our people at this point.
00:42:11.000 Yes, yes.
00:42:12.000 It's only live for us, guys.
00:42:13.000 So get in there. 0.98
00:42:13.000 Don't be a brokie so you don't end up with the struggle of... 0.98
00:42:17.000 Ain't no struggle love out here no more.
00:42:19.000 Yeah, they want you pre-assembled.
00:42:21.000 You gotta be ready.
00:42:22.000 Yeah.
00:42:23.000 Okay, so let's go into the 2010s.
00:42:26.000 I predict that there's gonna be a lot of changes here.
00:42:27.000 This is what destroyed everything.
00:42:29.000 So the 2010s, obviously, Tinder, Bumble comes out 2012. Well, Instagram comes out 2012. Tinder, Bumble, the iPhone 3 comes out.
00:42:38.000 This is the biggest selling iPhone.
00:42:40.000 iPhone 1 and 2 didn't do anything.
00:42:42.000 I think Instagram had a part in that because people were still using Android.
00:42:46.000 The first iPhone was 2008, 2009. I think the iPhone 4, that was the big one.
00:42:49.000 That came out 2010. I think it was 3S, then the 4. So this is 2010 going into 2011-12.
00:42:55.000 So this is when most people are getting an iPhone now.
00:42:59.000 They're turning in their Android.
00:43:00.000 They're turning in their Palm Pilot and their BlackBerry.
00:43:03.000 They're like, oh, it's iPhone, right?
00:43:05.000 So now we have apps.
00:43:06.000 BlackBerrys are starting to die.
00:43:07.000 Yeah, so now we have apps.
00:43:09.000 And the apps work better on the iPhone than they do.
00:43:12.000 So everybody's like, oh, let me see this, right?
00:43:13.000 So Instagram's out, 2010, 2012. Tinder, this is hookup culture.
00:43:20.000 So hookup culture for people, many people were born in hookup culture.
00:43:24.000 Hookup culture is brand new, 2012. You can swipe, swipe, swipe.
00:43:28.000 You're not a loser too much anymore for joining Tinder, although if you met a girl.
00:43:33.000 And then you met her family down the line, you would never say, hey, I met my girl on Tinder.
00:43:37.000 You probably would be like, I met her at a coffee shop.
00:43:39.000 It still was passe.
00:43:41.000 But now women can reach the woman that is considered four, five, six, and seven. 1.00
00:43:47.000 She can reach six-pack, ab, muscle.
00:43:50.000 She can reach a guy, and she would hook up with him. 1.00
00:43:54.000 She wouldn't want a relationship with him.
00:43:56.000 She's trying to get her rocks off underneath. 0.97
00:43:59.000 Then she would go find Beta Man.
00:44:01.000 So, basically, this whole social circle, circumference game that they had to adhere to and to avoid being shamed in the 90s and the 2000s, that's gone now.
00:44:12.000 Now that anonymity is finally here that they'd be looking for.
00:44:14.000 They could just do under the cover at night.
00:44:17.000 9.30, meet somebody on Instagram, meet somebody on Tinder, come through.
00:44:20.000 Now, women will blame the men for this, but I'm telling you, it was them doing this whole thing where they can get their rocks off and... 1.00
00:44:29.000 You know, get the sex that they want. 1.00
00:44:31.000 Get choked, hair pulled, all the dirty shit that they're watching. 1.00
00:44:33.000 Now women are more likely to consume porn at this point. 1.00
00:44:37.000 Because if you were a guy in the 80s and 90s, early 2000s, and you bought a Playboy magazine, women are like, ugh, he's one of those guys.
00:44:44.000 Now women want to be Playboy models. 1.00
00:44:47.000 Now you're seeing model mayhem, and a lot of the women want to be models now. 1.00
00:44:51.000 And they're saying they want to be models.
00:44:53.000 And you're like... 0.82
00:44:53.000 What the hell? 0.82
00:44:54.000 You know, I think they had a show on E! with Hugh Hefner and he had three girlfriends. 0.95
00:44:58.000 Now the women are like, we like that. 1.00
00:44:59.000 Paris Hilton's out.
00:45:00.000 We like that.
00:45:01.000 We want to be her.
00:45:03.000 So now they're wanting to be this, exploring their sexuality a little bit more.
00:45:06.000 Being sexually free. 0.61
00:45:08.000 When did Kim have the sex tape again with Ray? 1.00
00:45:10.000 That was probably late 2009, 2007. Yeah, like 2007 and around there.
00:45:16.000 But Paris Hilton was before that.
00:45:18.000 Yeah.
00:45:19.000 So would it be fair to say that like, This hookup culture began basically in 2010 where women were now indiscriminately. 0.97
00:45:28.000 Well, they're discriminant, but to a degree.
00:45:30.000 Where it's like mass, where they're starting to hook up with guys.
00:45:33.000 They're exploring their sexual freedom.
00:45:36.000 It would be on reality TV a little bit.
00:45:38.000 I remember Jersey Shore and The Real World and all this stuff.
00:45:41.000 You would see hookup culture there.
00:45:43.000 Maybe that was something reserved for television entertainment.
00:45:46.000 Now we're saying normies are doing it now.
00:45:49.000 The normal woman is now going. 1.00
00:45:51.000 I want to get my hair pulled. 0.91
00:45:53.000 I want to get choked. 0.96
00:45:55.000 Where before it was like a type of woman. 1.00
00:45:57.000 So the woman could say, there's good girls out here. 1.00
00:45:59.000 But now the normal woman is going, going, going. 1.00
00:46:02.000 I'm going to match with this guy.
00:46:04.000 He's just going to come through, beat the brakes off of me, and then go. 0.99
00:46:06.000 But sex was more free.
00:46:08.000 I think it was like 60s free love.
00:46:11.000 Hookup culture was free love.
00:46:13.000 It allowed an opportunity for regular women to find the guy they want to bang, the dangerous guy, the bad guy, but not put relationship restrictions on him. 0.86
00:46:24.000 At the same time, she's dating me, you, and telling us we need to date them, wait 90 days, want to get married.
00:46:31.000 So she's playing both sides. 0.97
00:46:32.000 So women are also starting to date multiple men now.
00:46:36.000 They're having rosters.
00:46:38.000 Versus they couldn't do that before.
00:46:40.000 The social circle would find out.
00:46:42.000 Everybody would find out.
00:46:43.000 Because I could be like, go to church.
00:46:44.000 Hey, what about Tiffany?
00:46:46.000 Oh man, don't mess with Tiffany. 1.00
00:46:48.000 Right now, Tiffany could be out there.
00:46:50.000 But over here, And then also dating over here.
00:46:53.000 So what would you say...
00:46:54.000 You mentioned a bunch of different dating apps, social media, whatever.
00:46:57.000 But what do you think was the biggest contributor to the hookup culture that began in the 2010s?
00:47:01.000 Tinder and Instagram.
00:47:02.000 But Instagram wasn't what it was today.
00:47:05.000 Instagram was a photo filter app.
00:47:07.000 What about Facebook?
00:47:08.000 Because Facebook is still popular at this point.
00:47:10.000 But would people use it for...
00:47:13.000 Facebook is a facade.
00:47:16.000 People want to put their best...
00:47:17.000 So people wasn't out there hoeing on Facebook. 0.99
00:47:20.000 Now you might cheat on your wife on Facebook. 0.91
00:47:22.000 It's more family.
00:47:23.000 It's more family oriented.
00:47:25.000 I'm a good person here and I'm on my job.
00:47:27.000 What about Myspace?
00:47:27.000 Because Myspace was a thing too.
00:47:28.000 Well, Myspace and Black Planet was a thing. 0.53
00:47:30.000 Yeah, that was a thing.
00:47:31.000 Black Planet? 0.52
00:47:31.000 Black... 0.52
00:47:32.000 Yeah, it was called Black Planet.
00:47:34.000 Yeah, back in the day.
00:47:35.000 Can I go even further than this?
00:47:38.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:47:39.000 I don't even know.
00:47:39.000 What the hell is Black Planet?
00:47:40.000 Whatever the black community does, the greater society will do 5, 10, 15 years down the line. 1.00
00:47:46.000 So the debauchery started with black people on Black Planet. 1.00
00:47:49.000 That came out of Freaknik. 0.96
00:47:51.000 So Black Planet was a place where the thoughts was on.
00:47:56.000 And MySpace was kind of along right around the same time.
00:47:59.000 But you still weren't really meeting a girl on MySpace and banging her.
00:48:03.000 Got it.
00:48:04.000 It was just some girl out there. 1.00
00:48:06.000 Just chatting.
00:48:06.000 Yeah, you just chat with her.
00:48:07.000 And you really wasn't like, okay, fly out, drive out.
00:48:11.000 I'm going to go see you.
00:48:12.000 She was just a woman out there. 0.92
00:48:13.000 Whereas in 2010, 12, 13, Instagram started to become before.
00:48:19.000 And a lot of you guys don't remember this.
00:48:20.000 There weren't celebrities on Instagram.
00:48:23.000 There were Instagram celebrities.
00:48:25.000 There were people that were popular.
00:48:27.000 They started getting popular on Instagram.
00:48:29.000 Celebrities still were like, oh, speak to my publicist.
00:48:31.000 They would go out and get a popular.
00:48:33.000 That's a very important distinction.
00:48:35.000 This whole internet influencers was not a thing.
00:48:39.000 It wasn't real.
00:48:41.000 You're right.
00:48:42.000 The real celebrities were your traditional celebrities.
00:48:45.000 Personal trainers.
00:48:49.000 Girls weren't dotting, I think, at the time. 0.94
00:48:51.000 It was the whole duck lip.
00:48:53.000 There were those girls. 1.00
00:48:56.000 So you're starting to see women getting attention doing scantily clad. 0.66
00:49:02.000 Today it would be innocent.
00:49:04.000 You're like, that's what was popular.
00:49:05.000 But women started to get a little bit more... 1.00
00:49:08.000 Women had to be doing something. 1.00
00:49:09.000 They had to be a personal trainer. 0.74
00:49:12.000 Scantily clad.
00:49:13.000 They couldn't just be like this dot.
00:49:15.000 But that changed.
00:49:18.000 2017, 18?
00:49:20.000 You know what we'll do? 0.82
00:49:21.000 Because the 2010s are so goddamn revolutionary for dating.
00:49:23.000 We can go from 2010 to 2015 then up to 2020. Real quick. 0.70
00:49:29.000 LomasD12 says, 2012 was the beginning of the end for dating.
00:49:33.000 It was.
00:49:33.000 Pretty much.
00:49:34.000 You could just say that was the year it was done.
00:49:36.000 Okay.
00:49:37.000 So, hookup culture was the defining situation.
00:49:42.000 Alright, so now we're in 2015. Trump is about to run for president.
00:49:46.000 So what are some of the differences now at this point in 2015?
00:49:49.000 I think by that time, celebrities are on Instagram.
00:49:52.000 So now this is the blue checkmark. 0.99
00:49:54.000 So now if you don't have a blue checkmark, you shit out of luck. 0.95
00:49:59.000 And how do you get the blue checkmark? 0.96
00:50:02.000 How do you get a major following?
00:50:04.000 It's hard to build your Instagram following if you're not a celebrity.
00:50:07.000 So now this is the rise of internet celebs now.
00:50:10.000 So I remember...
00:50:11.000 When I came to this space, people said, Instagram is not a dating app. 0.96
00:50:15.000 You're crazy. 0.96
00:50:16.000 You're trying to sell a course. 1.00
00:50:17.000 I'm like, no.
00:50:18.000 This is the new matter for dating.
00:50:20.000 And it's funny because the blue check mark meant something back in the day.
00:50:23.000 It meant something.
00:50:23.000 It meant you're an actual celebrity, verifiable, and this is actually you.
00:50:28.000 Nowadays, what is it?
00:50:29.000 It's a statement to say, I can buy it.
00:50:31.000 That's pretty much it.
00:50:32.000 And guess who was mad at that?
00:50:33.000 Celebrities.
00:50:34.000 They were mad because now we can put ourselves on par and their check doesn't mean anything anymore.
00:50:40.000 I'll be honest, bro.
00:50:41.000 Me and him both had legacy verifications.
00:50:42.000 We were pissed. 0.99
00:50:44.000 We're like, what the fuck, bro? 0.99
00:50:45.000 Yeah, because now I can get in. 0.99
00:50:47.000 Because I think I was kind of like, how do I get a blue check?
00:50:50.000 Because they were hard to get, dude.
00:50:52.000 It's very hard to get.
00:50:53.000 Back in the day, you needed a publicist or you needed a bunch of articles with a bunch of press to get that actual check.
00:50:59.000 For real.
00:51:00.000 Nowadays, you just pay, what, $12?
00:51:01.000 $12 a month, you get a check.
00:51:02.000 Yeah, exactly.
00:51:04.000 I was pissed.
00:51:06.000 Because you're paying a lot of money.
00:51:08.000 Yeah, because I had the real check.
00:51:10.000 You needed actual articles and shit like that. 1.00
00:51:13.000 Dude, I had so many articles of them talking shit like Fox News, misogynist, whatever the fuck. 0.99
00:51:17.000 Right, so that's how you get verified, but today you don't have to do that. 0.99
00:51:20.000 Back in 2016...
00:51:22.000 And Vine was huge too.
00:51:23.000 I forgot to mention this.
00:51:25.000 Vine, like a lot of these big celebs that we have now, internet celebrities, a lot of them started out like the Logan Pauls, etc.
00:51:31.000 They were Vineers, yeah. 1.00
00:51:32.000 Vine was big.
00:51:33.000 To our point, Lomas...
00:51:35.000 Super Todd, again, he said, only NBA players can get girls on Instagram.
00:51:38.000 Every good life message on Instagram ignored me.
00:51:41.000 Well, who is Lomas?
00:51:43.000 I don't know who you are. 1.00
00:51:43.000 You ugly nigga, man. 1.00
00:51:44.000 You're right. 1.00
00:51:44.000 Exactly. 1.00
00:51:45.000 Let me tell you something.
00:51:45.000 I don't want to tell you.
00:51:46.000 We play ugly nigga, bro. 0.99
00:51:47.000 Fresh was talking about. 0.98
00:51:48.000 Fresh said Instagram is the number one dating app in the world.
00:51:51.000 100%.
00:51:51.000 It's the number one dating app in the world.
00:51:53.000 It trumps any of them by far.
00:51:55.000 Now, the problem is we're talking about monetize now.
00:51:58.000 You're going to have to have some lifestyle money to be able to very much do well on Instagram or be fit.
00:52:04.000 And for us as men, it's competition.
00:52:06.000 No matter where you look, okay, who is the best man that I can find in my area to date?
00:52:11.000 Instagram is worldwide now.
00:52:12.000 So you're competing against Odell Beckham, a Drake, a Future.
00:52:16.000 It's like, bro, these niggas got the majority of women looking after them. 1.00
00:52:20.000 And you're a regular guy with a regular job posting selfies in the mirror like, huh?
00:52:24.000 But you know what's crazy though? 0.99
00:52:27.000 Where guys don't understand, Drake will fuck a five in your area. 0.99
00:52:31.000 Bro, thank you. 0.99
00:52:33.000 But you're looking at her saying, she ain't all that.
00:52:35.000 We got a five right now that we're going to put on camera soon.
00:52:37.000 Yeah, we got a video rack too after this.
00:52:40.000 Coach, that's genius.
00:52:42.000 It was crazy. 1.00
00:52:43.000 Niggas be like, oh bro, I ain't gonna fuck baddies. 1.00
00:52:45.000 I'm gonna fuck tens. 1.00
00:52:45.000 I'm like, really? 1.00
00:52:47.000 Let me see your ten.
00:52:47.000 Oh nah bro, nah, nah, nah.
00:52:49.000 But then, when you go actually see them in person, bro, they're fucking fours or threes. 0.99
00:52:53.000 That's the other thing. 1.00
00:52:54.000 But then, they see you, oh I'm gonna hit on this nigga. 1.00
00:52:56.000 Oh, she's a five or six. 0.99
00:52:57.000 Right.
00:52:57.000 To bring you down.
00:52:58.000 Yeah, right. 0.99
00:52:58.000 Come on, nigga. 0.99
00:52:59.000 Come on, man. 0.97
00:53:00.000 Exactly.
00:53:01.000 Let me capping, bro.
00:53:01.000 Exactly.
00:53:02.000 It's funny, though.
00:53:04.000 So now we're in 2015. So in 2015, you're saying we're starting to get the shift in the rise of the e-celebrity.
00:53:10.000 The e-celebrity.
00:53:11.000 Yeah, because Vine at this point is like...
00:53:13.000 Was mine still around 2015?
00:53:14.000 I think it had just started.
00:53:15.000 It just started.
00:53:16.000 I believe.
00:53:17.000 It might be started phasing out.
00:53:18.000 Yeah, I think it started.
00:53:19.000 Because I think it came out 2013-ish.
00:53:20.000 Yeah.
00:53:21.000 And then it maybe started phasing out.
00:53:23.000 Maybe 2017, 2018. I think Twitter bought it at one point.
00:53:25.000 Yeah.
00:53:25.000 But Instagram is mainstream now.
00:53:27.000 Everyone got an Instagram.
00:53:28.000 Everybody got an Instagram.
00:53:28.000 You don't got an Instagram?
00:53:29.000 What the fuck's wrong with you? 1.00
00:53:30.000 Like, what? 1.00
00:53:30.000 Yeah. 1.00
00:53:30.000 We're banned, so yeah. 1.00
00:53:31.000 Yeah, I would say, yeah.
00:53:33.000 We're banned now.
00:53:34.000 Maybe we'll come back.
00:53:34.000 But yeah, at this point, so you're starting to see Instagram.
00:53:36.000 Like, if you don't got Instagram, people look at you like you're weird.
00:53:38.000 Right.
00:53:38.000 So we start to see the rise of...
00:53:41.000 Social media.
00:53:41.000 What else do you think, I guess, from the 2015s?
00:53:44.000 Well, actually, you know what?
00:53:44.000 Compare and contrast it to the 80s and 90s.
00:53:46.000 Okay, so now let me tell you something.
00:53:48.000 A woman could not get married. 1.00
00:53:50.000 Like, that couldn't be her goal.
00:53:52.000 She can push off.
00:53:53.000 She can say, hey, I got my 20s.
00:53:55.000 I'm going to live out in my 20s.
00:53:57.000 I'm going to have fun.
00:53:58.000 You're starting to see this fly-out element where people are going to Dubai.
00:54:01.000 Oh, where are they going for?
00:54:03.000 Now we know they're getting doo-dooed on right by a sheep.
00:54:05.000 But for the most part, women are looking at it like, I have extended life. 0.99
00:54:10.000 The options just aren't in front of me anymore.
00:54:13.000 And for men, you're seeing that men are going, okay, I don't have a blue checkmark.
00:54:18.000 I don't have a physique, six-pack abs.
00:54:21.000 I don't have, you know, a nice car.
00:54:24.000 And we're seeing women give these guys attention. 0.99
00:54:27.000 And we're seeing men going, I can't compete with that.
00:54:30.000 So this is the whole 80-20 rule being lived out in front of everybody.
00:54:34.000 But hookup culture is going to start to phase out at this point.
00:54:37.000 So I would say hookup culture.
00:54:40.000 Really only lasted really to about 2020, COVID. So 2012 to 2020 was hookup culture where you could be like, I'm getting sex for free.
00:54:49.000 Okay. 0.81
00:54:49.000 Right. 0.81
00:54:50.000 All right.
00:54:52.000 Now let's get into 2020 now.
00:54:54.000 2020. Because this is also a big shift from the plandemic.
00:54:58.000 Yep.
00:54:59.000 So you got the plandemic, you got COVID, everybody's at home.
00:55:03.000 Yeah.
00:55:03.000 They're on their phones.
00:55:04.000 They're on YouTube.
00:55:05.000 They're on social media.
00:55:06.000 They didn't have a huge jump in social media.
00:55:08.000 Everything's going crazy.
00:55:10.000 COVID, you start seeing women more latch on to try to get a relationship because they're at home or they want somebody.
00:55:16.000 I call them a quarantine boo. 0.90
00:55:18.000 They can quarantine with some dudes. 1.00
00:55:20.000 At the same time, you're also seeing women still out there using their 20s to fuck around. 1.00
00:55:26.000 And hustling and monetizing. 1.00
00:55:28.000 And hustling and monetizing.
00:55:29.000 Because a lot of them lost work.
00:55:31.000 A lot of these women that were bartenders or strippers or any of this stuff where they monetized their beauty and they had to go somewhere to do it, now they don't have a job. 1.00
00:55:40.000 Now they don't have a job.
00:55:41.000 So now OnlyFans started in 2016, but it still was like...
00:55:45.000 I'll say sugar dating became huge too at this point.
00:55:47.000 So at this point, now they're overtly sugar dating.
00:55:51.000 It was like a joke before.
00:55:53.000 I'm going to give me a rich guy.
00:55:55.000 Now you're seeing them do it.
00:55:57.000 So seeking arrangements is 2018, 2019. Women are losing their jobs, young women. 1.00
00:56:03.000 They're not going to school because of COVID. So now you're seeing it overtly being lived out.
00:56:09.000 So I call it the monetized dating marketplace right around COVID. Also, back then, there were scouts going to strip clubs, going to clubs, trying to find girls that were working.
00:56:17.000 So you know what? 1.00
00:56:18.000 Stop this shit. 1.00
00:56:18.000 The OnlyFans. 1.00
00:56:19.000 I'll manage you.
00:56:20.000 Oh, wow.
00:56:20.000 Constantly.
00:56:21.000 Oh, yeah.
00:56:21.000 The Rise of OnlyFans, too.
00:56:22.000 Yeah, Rise of OnlyFans.
00:56:23.000 A lot of people forget that OnlyFans has been around since, like, 2016. Yep.
00:56:27.000 But it became huge in 2020. And COVID. Because all these girls that made money being bottle girls, strippers, dancers, everything else like that, now they're like, damn, I need to make money. 1.00
00:56:36.000 So they get OnlyFans.
00:56:37.000 Like, every dancer, every stripper did OnlyFans.
00:56:39.000 Had to.
00:56:40.000 I mean, because you don't have any means to be able to go out there.
00:56:43.000 You couldn't do nothing.
00:56:44.000 So you got a sugar daddy, you got OnlyFans.
00:56:46.000 So now what happened was guys started to see it.
00:56:49.000 At this point, we're popular.
00:56:51.000 You're popular.
00:56:52.000 You're flowing, right?
00:56:54.000 At that point, we're already doing this type of content.
00:56:56.000 We're exposing this, right?
00:56:57.000 YouTube was huge, too.
00:56:59.000 Basically, I would say 2020 was a turning point where a lot of people started to shift to watch their favorite concert creator versus television.
00:57:08.000 Correct.
00:57:09.000 We started to see the mainstream media die a bit.
00:57:11.000 Trump had already been doing this too, calling it fake news for four years.
00:57:14.000 So we're starting to see the rise of independent media, the rise of people using the internet and watching their favorite influencer versus like television.
00:57:22.000 But yeah, sorry, continue on.
00:57:24.000 Well, I remember I went to right when COVID hit.
00:57:26.000 My channel's already, I'm over, over.
00:57:28.000 100,000 subs.
00:57:29.000 But I'm going to Best Buy during COVID and people are buying lights, cameras, microphones.
00:57:34.000 So people are becoming influencers.
00:57:36.000 Women, men, couples, families.
00:57:39.000 TikTok is now gaining traction.
00:57:43.000 So now people want to be...
00:57:44.000 Now you're a celebrity.
00:57:45.000 YouTube became super... 0.99
00:57:46.000 I remember dudes used to just record with their iPhone and put videos up on some bullshit. 0.99
00:57:51.000 Bro, have you tried to do that shit now? 0.99
00:57:53.000 Like, and you're new, if you're already in the game, you can get away with it. 0.98
00:57:57.000 But like, let's say you're new and you're just making a channel, bro, it ain't gonna cut it.
00:57:59.000 You just sit in there with your phone.
00:58:01.000 I remember at Best Buy, we used to go buy cameras back in the day.
00:58:03.000 It was sold out.
00:58:04.000 Sold out.
00:58:05.000 Yeah.
00:58:05.000 I'm like, wait, hold on.
00:58:06.000 Camera sold out.
00:58:07.000 How's this possible?
00:58:08.000 How?
00:58:08.000 I want to be a creator.
00:58:09.000 Oh, yeah. 0.97
00:58:10.000 Actually, now that you mention it, bro, I couldn't get a fucking... 0.98
00:58:14.000 You couldn't get roll mics. 0.99
00:58:15.000 You couldn't get roll mics?
00:58:16.000 You couldn't get cam links?
00:58:19.000 Cam links, I remember?
00:58:20.000 Cam links, that's right.
00:58:20.000 So for everyone watching this, if you want to stream, one of your best friends that you're going to need, if you don't have a switcher, which most people don't use switchers, that's a bit more sophisticated when you've got multiple cameras.
00:58:29.000 But what you would do if you have one camera and you're streaming, you use a cam link.
00:58:33.000 And that cam link, what it basically does is it connects your computer to the camera.
00:58:36.000 And I will never forget, Elgato had these cam links.
00:58:39.000 Bro, they were selling them for like triple the price because you couldn't get it.
00:58:42.000 And then the lights, you couldn't get those out of the Elgato lights?
00:58:47.000 Yeah, I remember the Elgato lights.
00:58:48.000 You couldn't get those?
00:58:48.000 You couldn't even get them.
00:58:49.000 I had to buy like five of them at once.
00:58:51.000 Bro, because you guys are bringing back memories because at this point I remember I had to buy all the equipment for the studio when we did our studio.
00:58:57.000 And I remember everything being hard to find and expensive. 0.97
00:58:59.000 I was like, what the fuck? 0.98
00:59:00.000 But yeah, you're right because you start to see people. 0.99
00:59:02.000 Get into being in content creation.
00:59:04.000 And then also you're starting to see television companies, news broadcasters, etc.
00:59:08.000 They're getting on YouTube now.
00:59:10.000 I don't know if you remember that.
00:59:12.000 YouTube around 2019 tried to sell out all the YouTubers.
00:59:15.000 Was that the Adpocalypse?
00:59:17.000 It was after the Adpocalypse. 0.83
00:59:19.000 But what happened was Jimmy Kimmel and all of these corny ass people, YouTube started to favor them right before COVID. So YouTube was like, hey, the mainstream people want to be over here.
00:59:29.000 And then right before COVID, all those people, like these late night show guys, they started, Trevor, whatever.
00:59:36.000 Trevor Noah. 1.00
00:59:37.000 The fucking rich ass liberal South African. 1.00
00:59:40.000 Right. 1.00
00:59:40.000 So these people started to get on YouTube. 1.00
00:59:42.000 But what happened was COVID hit and shut down their production because they would just shoot it from their studio.
00:59:47.000 And they're in LA. And they're in LA. And they had the worst restrictions.
00:59:50.000 So now YouTube had to pivot back to Kevin Samuels.
00:59:54.000 They had to pivot back to the regular YouTubers.
00:59:55.000 Yep.
00:59:56.000 Because they wasn't ready to sell us out.
00:59:57.000 I said that in 2019. They was ready to sell us out to the mainstream.
01:00:01.000 But then COVID hit, and then they gave it back.
01:00:03.000 And they're all based in LA, and we know LA had some of the most severe restrictions on lockdowns.
01:00:07.000 Exactly.
01:00:08.000 Oh, man.
01:00:09.000 Yeah.
01:00:10.000 And this is bringing back so many memories, because it was only five years ago, but I remember, dude, struggling to get a Cam Link.
01:00:15.000 I remember how much of a pain that is.
01:00:17.000 And a webcam.
01:00:18.000 There's the webcam.
01:00:19.000 Logitech.
01:00:20.000 I remember seeing Logitech webcams for $900.
01:00:23.000 Yeah.
01:00:23.000 That's crazy.
01:00:24.000 They're robbing everybody, bro.
01:00:26.000 Couldn't get them.
01:00:27.000 And the thing, too, also is that what ended up happening, I realized, is if you guys watch YouTube creators from 2019 or prior, you're going to see people use their phones.
01:00:37.000 They use more rudimentary equipment.
01:00:39.000 But then once you get into the 2020s, dude, people are using damn near TV-level stuff.
01:00:45.000 In this space, you change the game.
01:00:48.000 And I always say that.
01:00:48.000 You change the game because...
01:00:50.000 Like, AMS would just get his phone.
01:00:52.000 He'd just hit it up like this.
01:00:54.000 AMS would just be like, you know what I mean?
01:00:55.000 He would come on.
01:00:56.000 One of a kind.
01:00:57.000 And so, we all was like, that's how we get put on.
01:01:00.000 Right?
01:01:00.000 But then you came in with the lights and the studio.
01:01:04.000 And it completely changed the game.
01:01:05.000 Because I looked at how everyone was using rudimentary equipment.
01:01:09.000 So I was like, okay, if we're going to come into the Red Pill, we got to come in.
01:01:12.000 Not just come in, but we got to come in like... 0.99
01:01:14.000 On some super high quality shit, high production shit, to stand out. 0.99
01:01:17.000 And that's kind of what was my thought when I was buying the equipment. 0.99
01:01:20.000 And then also, having it more as a talk show, I thought was a better idea because what I noticed, because the other thing too, and I'll talk about this because I know you had talked about it to some other people.
01:01:29.000 Everyone was scared of censorship for YouTube, right? 0.99
01:01:32.000 And it's one thing when you're just sitting there just shitting on women all day, right? 0.99
01:01:35.000 But if you are having a discussion or a debate or a conversation... 0.99
01:01:40.000 It's going to be a little bit easier to kind of maybe bypass hate speech a bit, right?
01:01:45.000 And then obviously that led the way for having these discussions with women. 0.99
01:01:48.000 But yeah, I remember in the manosphere, man, guys were getting censored and shit like that because they were just shitting on chicks all day. 1.00
01:01:54.000 Yeah, all day. 0.99
01:01:54.000 And most of the guys were doing car videos. 0.99
01:01:57.000 You know what I mean?
01:01:58.000 They in the basement.
01:01:59.000 There's some dark dingy.
01:02:00.000 So they're just like these guys that aren't respectable.
01:02:03.000 Once the studio element came in, it was like, okay.
01:02:07.000 We got to treat these guys with respect.
01:02:08.000 They're official.
01:02:09.000 They got podcasts, studio, equipment.
01:02:12.000 It just changed.
01:02:13.000 So now that the guys today, they're like, oh, I got something to say.
01:02:16.000 And then they pull their phone out.
01:02:17.000 They're not going to get in traction.
01:02:18.000 And I think the other thing with us that I, you know, I don't want to pat myself too much on the back, but we were able to, like, bring...
01:02:23.000 Red Pill creators like you, like Rolo. 0.98
01:02:25.000 And people are seeing you guys in another environment.
01:02:27.000 Yes, right.
01:02:28.000 In a professional environment.
01:02:30.000 In a professional environment, in a studio.
01:02:32.000 So I think people really enjoyed seeing that. 0.98
01:02:34.000 Like, oh shit, I'm watching Coach, but he's not at his regular studio. 0.92
01:02:38.000 He's here hanging out with these dudes, and they're sitting together at a table, and they're talking. 0.99
01:02:42.000 This is awesome.
01:02:43.000 Because we didn't have that in Red Pill yet.
01:02:45.000 Most people would do these little, I'm going to pull you up on the stream, and then you got the stream, but now we're live.
01:02:51.000 We're more colorful.
01:02:53.000 And I just think for that, it changed the game for everybody else.
01:02:57.000 But all genres were doing more better cameras, better quality content, better editing.
01:03:03.000 People are starting to get teams.
01:03:04.000 You got a team. 0.99
01:03:05.000 Live streaming and shit. 1.00
01:03:06.000 Live streaming, yep. 1.00
01:03:07.000 And I'll say this too, right?
01:03:10.000 I genuinely think, though we kind of did the thing with the podcast and the Red Pill space.
01:03:16.000 Look, if you came up with us, you're going to continue to come on the show.
01:03:18.000 No matter how fucking big we get, we're always going to bring people on because at the end of the day, this start off as a Red Pill podcast is going to end as a Red Pill podcast and whether it's women or politics or whatever it is, it's the truth.
01:03:30.000 That's one thing I really like because it's bringing other guys in. 0.99
01:03:33.000 Because a lot of you guys do your own shit, right? 0.99
01:03:35.000 So you stream, it's just you. 0.99
01:03:36.000 But I think there's a certain satisfaction viewers get from having them right now watching their favorite streamer.
01:03:42.000 Maybe you're their famous streamer, but now they're able to see you interact with us and us ask you questions and kind of have you in a different situation where it's like, oh, I'm answering questions and it's off the cuff versus when you stream, I know you're very organized and you have a template.
01:03:54.000 Well, with us, it's like now you're able to be more chill.
01:03:56.000 More of a personality.
01:03:57.000 So, Coach, in the game, I think you're one of the best.
01:04:00.000 Actually, I said you're one of the top ones, right?
01:04:02.000 YouTube, YouTube.
01:04:04.000 Monetize your bro so I can get some traction.
01:04:05.000 We're there with you, bro.
01:04:06.000 We're there with you.
01:04:07.000 I would argue you set the pace for a lot of creators.
01:04:10.000 Your whole show segments, people copy it, they don't give you credit, all that stuff.
01:04:13.000 But you made a video.
01:04:14.000 What was right with you, bro?
01:04:15.000 You made a video about the manosphere.
01:04:17.000 Yeah.
01:04:17.000 Why it died, why it's not developing, why it won't go anywhere.
01:04:22.000 Can you kind of put it in a more concise way for the audience real quick?
01:04:25.000 Yeah, just real quick.
01:04:26.000 Yeah, very important.
01:04:26.000 I think what happened, And this is where I'm going to give you credit.
01:04:32.000 As you just said, you brought people in with their philosophy and you allowed them to showcase it.
01:04:38.000 Where I think happened was around 2021, 2022. Kevin Samuels is big by now.
01:04:45.000 You guys are half a million to a million.
01:04:47.000 Now we're starting to see, oh, we can make money from this.
01:04:50.000 So then we started seeing the carbon copy. 1.00
01:04:54.000 Oh, all we got to do is get the studio equipment and then repeat this shit. 0.99
01:04:58.000 And we're going to pop off. 0.99
01:04:59.000 So now, nobody's getting credit.
01:05:02.000 Where now, Alan Rodger Curry's not getting credit.
01:05:04.000 CGA, they can just bury me.
01:05:06.000 And they can just watch my show because I still am a big show for a demonetized channel.
01:05:10.000 So what they do is they just say, we're going to watch CGA in the morning and we're going to do a video on one of his segments by the middle of the afternoon of the night.
01:05:17.000 Or are we going to say what somebody similarly said without giving credit?
01:05:20.000 You know what's funny?
01:05:21.000 Alan Roger Curry, rest in peace to him.
01:05:23.000 He had emailed me saying, hey man, you're talking about no free attention.
01:05:27.000 You got to shut your boy out.
01:05:28.000 I was like, oh, I didn't know that that was your thing.
01:05:30.000 How about you come on the show?
01:05:32.000 And he came on the show and we had him on and we talked about Mode 1 and everything else like that. 1.00
01:05:35.000 So instead of me saying, fuck you, bro. 1.00
01:05:37.000 We're bigger than you. 1.00
01:05:37.000 We're not going to listen. 1.00
01:05:38.000 I was like, you know what, bro?
01:05:39.000 I have an enormous amount of respect for you because I knew who he was.
01:05:42.000 But I didn't know that that was his quote.
01:05:43.000 I genuinely knew that.
01:05:44.000 So I was like, you know what, bro?
01:05:45.000 Come on the show, and you tell us about Mode 1, and you tell us about No Free Attention.
01:05:48.000 And I'm honored that I was able to have him on before he passed away.
01:05:53.000 Right.
01:05:53.000 You had him on right there, but most people aren't doing that.
01:05:56.000 And I said everybody's guilty of that in the space, more or less the same.
01:06:00.000 Well, you know, we've been contacting you for like a year.
01:06:02.000 We always want to bring you on, man.
01:06:05.000 Show love.
01:06:06.000 But a lot of guys typically are just, and listen, great minds think alike.
01:06:09.000 So we do have a lot of new voices that were motivated to do content because of me, because of you guys.
01:06:15.000 But what happens is it gets lost where it came from.
01:06:20.000 Where did that come from?
01:06:21.000 Where did that statement you say came from?
01:06:24.000 What then happens is the person who said it gets buried, and then they become bigger, and they never had to acknowledge it. 0.99
01:06:32.000 And I think that's bullshit. 0.85
01:06:35.000 I'll never forget, when we hit a million subs, I did a little speech, and I thanked everybody that helped us on the way up. 0.91
01:06:40.000 And I said, the big thing with us is we're going to make sure that ladder's always Still there. 0.56
01:06:45.000 We're not gonna we're not gonna climb up and then retract the ladder We're gonna keep it there and bring everybody up with us because here's the thing that I've noticed is we've gotten bigger and I know that you mentioned this in your video and I want you to talk about it as We got bigger if we pretty much put a target on the entire red pill community Yeah, and one that what ended up happening and I realized this is these loser reaction bottom feeder piece of shit channels Started coming in and saying, look at these misogynistic assholes, these toxic alpha males, whatever. 0.99
01:07:13.000 Because this was a relatively underground concept and movement. 0.99
01:07:17.000 But then once we hit the mainstream and then we started to hit the YouTube algo, this was radical to a lot of people.
01:07:21.000 It wasn't radical until you and Kevin.
01:07:26.000 People were just like, we could dismiss these guys.
01:07:28.000 But yeah, y'all made it.
01:07:30.000 And then Andrew Tate, etc. 1.00
01:07:31.000 And then people started to say, oh, these are like some radical extremists, misogynist assholes. 0.99
01:07:36.000 And I look at it like the whole community started to get targeted. 0.99
01:07:39.000 Because I remember they used to make hit pieces on us.
01:07:40.000 They used to make hit pieces on Rolo, Andrew Tate.
01:07:42.000 I'm sure they probably made some on you.
01:07:44.000 So it's like...
01:07:47.000 I saw the rise as the Red Pill started to become more popular in the 2020s. 0.97
01:07:51.000 I also saw a rise of reaction channels talking shit about it. 0.52
01:07:54.000 And there was a bunch of influencers that basically, their whole mantra was going after, you know, because if they say Alpha Male gets owned, they would get a bunch of views. 0.99
01:08:03.000 And there were a couple YouTubers that literally would just do that shit all day, bro. 0.99
01:08:07.000 Just attack Red Pill channels. 0.99
01:08:08.000 And I look at it, the reaction genre.
01:08:14.000 I don't have to make content.
01:08:16.000 I can just watch somebody's content and react to it and make content.
01:08:19.000 I don't call them content creators, to be honest with you.
01:08:22.000 I just call them some sort of reactionists.
01:08:25.000 That's what they want to do.
01:08:26.000 It's all good.
01:08:27.000 But they pay their bills.
01:08:28.000 This is what the viewer has to understand.
01:08:30.000 They pay their bills going after the big names in this space.
01:08:34.000 Pearl, Fresh and Fit, well Kevin at that point is not around, but Andrew Tate.
01:08:39.000 So now, if they Could just focus on these three individuals.
01:08:43.000 They'll make money.
01:08:44.000 They're going to make a lot of money.
01:08:45.000 So now you got 200,000, 300,000 views.
01:08:47.000 For the people who don't know, that's 30 grand.
01:08:50.000 That's 30 grand if you get a video to pop off.
01:08:52.000 So I'm looking at this reactor going, oh, if I go on a freshman foot every week, I'm going to make that amount of money.
01:09:00.000 Yeah.
01:09:00.000 We've got channels.
01:09:01.000 Depends on the CPM.
01:09:02.000 Because I think like, well, every.
01:09:03.000 It just depends.
01:09:04.000 I'm just saying.
01:09:05.000 Yeah.
01:09:05.000 You can make quite a bit of money.
01:09:06.000 Yeah.
01:09:07.000 Yeah.
01:09:07.000 The whole career off of talking about us.
01:09:10.000 Right.
01:09:10.000 And it's like.
01:09:11.000 Oh, yeah.
01:09:11.000 There's.
01:09:12.000 Yeah.
01:09:12.000 Literally.
01:09:12.000 I think I think there's reacting to something.
01:09:15.000 And then I think there's targeting.
01:09:16.000 I don't think it's fair because I had several channels where every video is about me.
01:09:20.000 So I'm like, okay, that's not reacting.
01:09:24.000 I don't focus on the same person when I'm reacting to something.
01:09:27.000 Bro, there's people right now I can think of.
01:09:29.000 I know one dude that made 100 plus videos on us.
01:09:31.000 Literally, I counted it up. 1.00
01:09:32.000 And then another two idiots that made like 70. So it's like, bro, it's like, as I saw like the... 0.99
01:09:39.000 Okay, so what I've realized is like with the Red Bull, it's fairly polarizing and considered extreme.
01:09:42.000 Whenever you go really hard to one side... 1.00
01:09:45.000 You always have these idiots that make videos and try to... 1.00
01:09:48.000 They're gonna go over here. 1.00
01:09:49.000 They're gonna go more center and then try to criticize you on that.
01:09:51.000 But the thing is, which I've always said about reaction YouTubers is, by definition of them being a reaction YouTuber, they have to be centered.
01:09:57.000 They can't be left or right.
01:09:59.000 So they don't really stand for nothing.
01:10:00.000 Correct. 0.99
01:10:01.000 So that they can continue to make the bullshit content they make. 0.99
01:10:03.000 Because then they make fun of the people on the left, then they make fun of people on the right and say, look at these extremists. 0.99
01:10:07.000 And they're safe.
01:10:08.000 And they're safe.
01:10:08.000 And they'll get pushed through the algorithm.
01:10:10.000 But I think also, like if you're getting reacted to...
01:10:14.000 That's favorable to you, too.
01:10:15.000 Yeah.
01:10:16.000 Because then people are going to watch your show.
01:10:18.000 You got hate watchers, which does help you with some content and help you get pushed through the algorithm, whereas if no one's making hate content on you, nobody knows who you are.
01:10:27.000 For me, I don't get that much hate content.
01:10:29.000 Kevin Samuels, you guys, Andrew Tate got a lot.
01:10:33.000 Pearl, so guess what?
01:10:34.000 They're gonna get more views.
01:10:35.000 It's free marketing.
01:10:37.000 So their channel's gonna get more people watching them, or at least recognize them. 0.77
01:10:40.000 You know, it's funny, like, you know, as much as these dudes, I've been pretty stock shit, they've actually brought us a lot of supporters. 0.74
01:10:45.000 Correct. 0.93
01:10:46.000 Because what they fail to realize is we provide something that they totally don't.
01:10:50.000 Like, they just make reaction content.
01:10:51.000 We teach dudes, like, how to make money and not be like them.
01:10:53.000 Well, I think at one point somebody even accused you guys of working together.
01:10:57.000 Like, they're like, oh, he paid him.
01:10:59.000 I mean, I heard that earlier.
01:11:01.000 Oh, really?
01:11:01.000 Wow, I never heard that theory.
01:11:02.000 They must have paid them to react to them because they're a big channel.
01:11:05.000 At that point, you guys were rising up.
01:11:07.000 Remember, hold on.
01:11:08.000 We were going to catch up.
01:11:09.000 So at one point, that was a conspiracy theory.
01:11:11.000 Like, oh, I think Myron paid them to react.
01:11:14.000 But no, at one point, I figured it out.
01:11:16.000 They made that many videos on us that people really think that we paid them, bro. 1.00
01:11:19.000 I'm paying them nigger shit. 1.00
01:11:21.000 Bro, that's funny. 1.00
01:11:22.000 Bro, they made 70 videos on us, bro.
01:11:24.000 Like, between 50 to 70. That's their most viewed shit. 1.00
01:11:29.000 So what are you going to do if you're a consecrator? 1.00
01:11:31.000 You're going to keep doing that.
01:11:33.000 I've often said that people said they were responsible for destroying the manosphere.
01:11:37.000 I'm like, they only went in on a couple people.
01:11:40.000 So I don't see them that big.
01:11:42.000 They went in on Fresh, Pearly, and something like that.
01:11:46.000 But I think also...
01:11:47.000 Those niggas have no reach off YouTube, bro. 1.00
01:11:49.000 That's the other thing, too, people need to understand. 0.76
01:11:51.000 Anytime I mention them, or anything like that, they're like, I don't know who these niggas are. 1.00
01:11:55.000 Nobody knows who they are.
01:11:57.000 Your audience doesn't know.
01:11:59.000 My audience does sometimes.
01:12:01.000 People that casually, they don't know who they are.
01:12:06.000 I don't think they disagree with the entire message because I've seen them make videos.
01:12:13.000 I'll see them react to your video and then the next video they're talking about dating and relationships and women.
01:12:17.000 I'm like, wait a minute.
01:12:18.000 That sounds exactly like what I would have said.
01:12:20.000 For the money, they'll switch up.
01:12:22.000 I need to go get the girls real quick because I'll be right back for the girls. 1.00
01:12:25.000 But let's do this, the 2020s, and then we can...
01:12:27.000 The 2020s, you can...
01:12:29.000 No, no, he can go.
01:12:30.000 Yeah, he can go.
01:12:31.000 Also, we got video to play right after I come back.
01:12:33.000 Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:12:33.000 And then we'll close it up.
01:12:34.000 But the 2020s is where I call it the monetized dating marketplace.
01:12:38.000 So right now, women can openly say, I want a man that makes six figures. 1.00
01:12:43.000 I want a guy that's established.
01:12:44.000 I want a guy that has his life together, essentially a complete version of a guy.
01:12:49.000 Yep.
01:12:50.000 And they can have access to that guy.
01:12:52.000 That guy is on the Sugar Daddy website.
01:12:54.000 That guy is on Instagram.
01:12:56.000 That guy.
01:12:57.000 So now you're seeing women participate in it.
01:13:01.000 However, they'll say, I don't want that anymore.
01:13:04.000 Because they'll realize they don't have an advantage over there.
01:13:07.000 Because they go over there and they're like, well, he has a rotation.
01:13:11.000 You know, he's famous.
01:13:13.000 I can't really lock him in.
01:13:15.000 So then they'll pivot out of it and say, well, money doesn't matter anymore.
01:13:20.000 Well, they've already done it.
01:13:21.000 They've already done it.
01:13:22.000 So I'm like, well, you can say that now because you went over there.
01:13:25.000 So today, in 2020, it's hard to distinguish the good girls and the bad girls.
01:13:30.000 Where in the 80s, you knew.
01:13:32.000 It was plain as day.
01:13:34.000 Plain as day.
01:13:35.000 They dress a certain way, whereas I think now women dress like strippers and they don't realize it because that's fashion. 1.00
01:13:43.000 I was with a young woman.
01:13:44.000 She was one of my young girls at the JUCO. I remember we were at a strip club.
01:13:50.000 I took her to a strip club. 1.00
01:13:51.000 She was a little bisexual chica. 1.00
01:13:53.000 Flatback Supreme. 0.97
01:13:54.000 But anyway, we were at the strip club.
01:13:56.000 She was like, oh, they're wearing what I wear. 0.63
01:13:58.000 I said, you're wearing what they wear.
01:14:01.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:14:01.000 So that's how different it is with the women.
01:14:04.000 And that also goes to show how much we've made it mainstream for women to behave and dress. 0.99
01:14:12.000 Like streetwalkers, bro.
01:14:13.000 Like streetwalkers.
01:14:14.000 But then they try to not, you know, well, just because I'm dressed like this doesn't mean I am.
01:14:18.000 Oh, yeah.
01:14:19.000 Now, in the 80s and 90s, when they dressed like that, that meant they were.
01:14:22.000 Right?
01:14:22.000 That was the uniform.
01:14:24.000 Yeah. 0.98
01:14:24.000 The hooker uniform. 0.98
01:14:25.000 The hooker uniform. 0.98
01:14:26.000 Like, okay, you're dressed like that. 1.00
01:14:27.000 That means you're a hooker. 1.00
01:14:29.000 Where today, a woman can dress like a hooker and say, I just want to express myself. 1.00
01:14:33.000 I want to be free. 0.98
01:14:34.000 I'm not wearing it for male attention.
01:14:36.000 Yep.
01:14:36.000 And this is how I dress.
01:14:39.000 You know, and...
01:14:40.000 Now that we've recapped almost 30 plus years of hypergamy and dating and everything else like that, what would you say are the five biggest differences between now versus, we could say, the 90s?
01:14:53.000 Okay, so obviously women are extending their single life. 1.00
01:14:58.000 They're extending their single life.
01:14:59.000 Instead of trying to settle down at 20, 22, 24, where they call that a child now.
01:15:04.000 Yeah.
01:15:04.000 If you try to tell a girl you should be married at 24, they look at me like I'm crazy when we're on the show, bro.
01:15:08.000 They're like, what? 1.00
01:15:08.000 I'm dumb. 1.00
01:15:08.000 My brainstem ain't developing my frontal lobe. 1.00
01:15:11.000 They'll come up with every reason.
01:15:12.000 Versus in the 90s, you're 24, they're laughing at you.
01:15:14.000 They're like, hey, you better pick somebody because it ain't nothing but duds left out here.
01:15:18.000 So I think they've extended their dating life out to 30s, some even 40s.
01:15:25.000 So shame has been removed was the second one.
01:15:28.000 So there's no more shame.
01:15:29.000 You can't shame them anything.
01:15:31.000 And if you do, they just say you're shaming me.
01:15:34.000 I would say women openly dating monetarily.
01:15:39.000 He needs to make six figures or any variety of that where bottle service girl can want a high-value man. 0.88
01:15:46.000 These are all monetized dating.
01:15:48.000 Sugar babies and this type of thing. 1.00
01:15:49.000 Would it be fair to say that back then in the 90s, women understood where they stood as far as what they can attract? 1.00
01:15:58.000 To me, I look at it like women are delusional and they over-inflate their sense of self-worth. 1.00
01:16:03.000 Back in the 90s was a girl that was a 5. She knew.
01:16:06.000 Understood that she was a 5 and like, damn, this guy might be out of my league. 0.96
01:16:09.000 Because, bro, there's girls here that are 5s and they think that they deserve a dude that's a 10. But you know why? 0.97
01:16:13.000 What? 1.00
01:16:13.000 Because the 10 will fuck them. 1.00
01:16:15.000 Gotcha. 1.00
01:16:15.000 They've hooked up with them already. 1.00
01:16:16.000 Yeah.
01:16:17.000 Versus the 90s, that might not have been a thing.
01:16:19.000 Nah.
01:16:19.000 Because that guy was like, I ain't messing with her.
01:16:21.000 And if he did, he'd be like, hey, just keep this on the low.
01:16:24.000 You know, don't say anything.
01:16:25.000 Keep it on the down low.
01:16:26.000 Yeah.
01:16:26.000 Don't, don't.
01:16:27.000 Don't tell anybody I hit. 1.00
01:16:29.000 So yeah, basketball players, like the high school basketball player, will fuck the nerd chick. 1.00
01:16:32.000 But the nerd chick knew not to go blow up his spot. 1.00
01:16:35.000 Gotcha.
01:16:35.000 But today...
01:16:36.000 She's getting an NBA player to hit her up. 1.00
01:16:38.000 Hit her up. 1.00
01:16:39.000 And then she's coming out telling you, I was with Jalen Green.
01:16:42.000 I was with...
01:16:43.000 Gotcha.
01:16:44.000 Now the woman could say... 0.99
01:16:45.000 Women were a bit more humble back then. 1.00
01:16:47.000 Right.
01:16:48.000 If I got him, that means that's the new level.
01:16:50.000 They cannot go backwards in lifestyle.
01:16:53.000 Women do not go backwards. 1.00
01:16:54.000 I've always said that.
01:16:54.000 You heard that?
01:16:55.000 They can't go backwards, bro.
01:16:56.000 So once she's experienced a guy like in high school, if you had a car, she's not dating nobody without a car.
01:17:01.000 Yep.
01:17:02.000 If you have an apartment, she's not going back to the dorms.
01:17:05.000 Yep.
01:17:05.000 If you have a house, she's not going back to an apartment.
01:17:07.000 Right?
01:17:07.000 It just goes along.
01:17:08.000 If you have a luxury car, it's hard for her to date you with a Toyota.
01:17:12.000 Yep.
01:17:12.000 So they don't go backwards.
01:17:14.000 So once they've experienced it, that's where they are.
01:17:17.000 That's their new level.
01:17:18.000 Yeah.
01:17:19.000 You can't tell them otherwise.
01:17:19.000 And to be fair...
01:17:21.000 Dude's still banging them, girl. 1.00
01:17:23.000 So, you know, I mean... 1.00
01:17:25.000 Damn. 0.99
01:17:25.000 So, you know, do you feel sorry for the... 0.99
01:17:29.000 Not necessarily feel sorry, but guys are kind of cooked, huh?
01:17:34.000 What do you see as the future?
01:17:35.000 I mean, you've lived through multiple decades of this and seen literally the change, the evolution of the modern woman. 0.93
01:17:42.000 Where do you see things going from here?
01:17:45.000 From what you've seen already?
01:17:46.000 Well, it's going to be hard.
01:17:47.000 Well, marriage is cooked.
01:17:48.000 So for the average guy, you cook.
01:17:50.000 You're not going to be able to say, I have a blue-collar job and I'm a good, faithful man.
01:17:55.000 You're getting a reform 304. That's what you're getting.
01:17:59.000 So, yeah, you're cooked. 0.71
01:18:01.000 If you don't chase a bag and you ain't got a bag, I'm going to beat you. 0.76
01:18:05.000 I'm going to beat you at 30, 40, 50, 60, and 70 in your 20s.
01:18:09.000 So average men, it's a wrap for y'all. 0.96
01:18:12.000 Yeah, you better figure something out.
01:18:13.000 You better go get a bag.
01:18:15.000 I've been saying that since 2020, bro.
01:18:16.000 Average men are cooked, bro. 1.00
01:18:18.000 I think that's the biggest red pill for men.
01:18:22.000 Average is no one good enough.
01:18:23.000 Here's the thing, though.
01:18:24.000 They do have options.
01:18:25.000 They can travel.
01:18:28.000 Guys will be like, hey, I'm only 5'5".
01:18:29.000 I'm 5'7".
01:18:30.000 I'm 5'8".
01:18:31.000 I'm like, well, you're a giant in Guam.
01:18:36.000 You're tall in Honduras.
01:18:40.000 You're tall in Honduras.
01:18:43.000 Go to Honduras. 0.51
01:18:43.000 You're tall in Peru. 0.51
01:18:44.000 Let me ask you this.
01:18:46.000 We've seen an explosion in this password bro thing, right?
01:18:48.000 And I've always said, you know, I'm not a password bro, but I completely understand why it exists.
01:18:53.000 Absolutely. 0.94
01:18:54.000 Was being a password bro even a thing in the fucking 90s? 0.98
01:18:57.000 Yeah. 0.96
01:18:58.000 Okay, so there were dudes that were password bros even back then.
01:19:01.000 White guys and people in the military.
01:19:03.000 Okay.
01:19:04.000 Okay, so these people knew because, you know, their father or they themselves.
01:19:10.000 We're in the Vietnam War, Korean War.
01:19:11.000 Okay.
01:19:12.000 They went to Desert Storm.
01:19:14.000 So military guys were the passport bros.
01:19:16.000 Okay.
01:19:16.000 But those guys are more because of their job, right?
01:19:18.000 Right. 0.99
01:19:19.000 Not like today where it's like, I'm just going to get a passport and travel because I hate the bitches here. 1.00
01:19:22.000 Yeah. 0.99
01:19:22.000 No. 0.99
01:19:23.000 No.
01:19:24.000 Okay.
01:19:24.000 No, no, no.
01:19:24.000 So they were passport bros kind of by...
01:19:26.000 By default.
01:19:27.000 ...extension of their job.
01:19:27.000 Yeah.
01:19:28.000 They were there.
01:19:29.000 They got the...
01:19:29.000 And then they brought a Korean wife over.
01:19:31.000 Gotcha.
01:19:31.000 That type of thing.
01:19:32.000 Versus like now it's like they're just leaving because like the women weren't that bad where they just needed to leave. 0.97
01:19:36.000 But like now they are.
01:19:37.000 Well, I'm going to tell you, interracial, like, the things that we think are normal today were taboo 30 years ago. 0.99
01:19:44.000 Black guy with a white girl.
01:19:46.000 It's still taboo.
01:19:47.000 They had a movie called Jungle Fever at that time.
01:19:49.000 No way.
01:19:49.000 Right?
01:19:50.000 Yeah.
01:19:51.000 Who was in Jungle Fever?
01:19:52.000 Wesley Snipes and some Italian lady, right? 0.81
01:19:55.000 I haven't heard anyone use that term, Jungle Fever, in years, bro.
01:20:00.000 Jungle Fever.
01:20:00.000 So, it's still taboo to interracially date.
01:20:03.000 It's still, like, for black men to have economic prowess is, like, You got money and you're not a celebrity or a doctor. 0.97
01:20:11.000 Today, you could be a black guy and be working tech and make $150,000. 0.96
01:20:15.000 You can be economically solvent where you're not stuck in Jacksonville.
01:20:19.000 So, not only that, passports.
01:20:21.000 For a black man to travel internationally that was not in the military, it's rare.
01:20:26.000 You would just stay where you were. 0.55
01:20:28.000 And airline.
01:20:30.000 For people to just be like, I'm going to fly somewhere.
01:20:33.000 You have to have money to fly.
01:20:36.000 So, flying wasn't as cheap as it is now.
01:20:39.000 What about passport women? 1.00
01:20:41.000 Is that a thing?
01:20:42.000 Yeah, it's been a thing.
01:20:43.000 Women been getting their cheeks clapped in the islands. 1.00
01:20:45.000 You know this, brother.
01:20:46.000 You know they go down to the Caribbean.
01:20:47.000 Speaking of which, we've got a video to play here that demonstrates what passport women are dealing with nowadays, especially leaving America to find their dream man.
01:20:54.000 If you don't mind, Travis?
01:20:55.000 Now, he's threatening to have my page deleted.
01:20:59.000 So, you guys want to know what happened to the Tulum guy?
01:21:02.000 Well, let me tell you, we went on four dates.
01:21:05.000 It went really well.
01:21:07.000 First date, we went to dinner, which you guys saw.
01:21:11.000 Then we went to a cenote and then dinner afterwards.
01:21:14.000 Third date, we also went to dinner.
01:21:18.000 And then fourth date, we went for coffee.
01:21:19.000 I felt something was off when we went for coffee.
01:21:21.000 I don't know what happened, but he basically ghosted me.
01:21:26.000 Not basically, he did.
01:21:28.000 Uh, so things were going super well.
01:21:29.000 Conversation was amazing.
01:21:31.000 Um, banter was so good.
01:21:33.000 I think what happened and like, maybe not the case, but like, again, I haven't spoken to him.
01:21:39.000 So this is just what my take is on it is that someone, a friend of mine who's good friends with him was like, Oh my God, he's amazing.
01:21:47.000 He's so not, he's not at all.
01:21:49.000 She was like, he's healthy, masculine.
01:21:51.000 And I was like, okay, very rare for Tulum.
01:21:54.000 Um, but even though he's not a F-boy?
01:21:58.000 I think he just wanted to F. You know?
01:22:03.000 Because he was very handsy.
01:22:04.000 I'm not against it.
01:22:06.000 But it was very much of that nature.
01:22:08.000 Even though conversation and ventral, all of that was good.
01:22:11.000 But we had a lot of sexual chemistry.
01:22:13.000 So what is going on here?
01:22:16.000 There was a lot of sexual chemistry for sure.
01:22:19.000 And there was a lot of sexual talk.
01:22:22.000 And so I think that's just what he wanted, and I'm looking for a relationship, so that's it.
01:22:29.000 He might not be an F-boy, but it doesn't mean that he just is not DTF. People have needs, so maybe he just wanted to F and that was it.
01:22:38.000 And then after that, just like off the face of the earth.
01:22:41.000 So again, I don't have his take on it.
01:22:43.000 This is just what I, from my perspective, what I think happened.
01:22:47.000 So that's it.
01:22:48.000 No hard feelings.
01:22:48.000 I mean, it has to be mutual.
01:22:52.000 But yeah, I would have just appreciated the conversation considering he was older as well.
01:22:56.000 I just would have expected that out of respect for me and just like be open, be honest.
01:23:02.000 I'm a big girl.
01:23:03.000 I can take it.
01:23:03.000 I'm looking for a relationship whenever that happens.
01:23:08.000 I'm not searching for it, but the next thing that I get into, I want to get into a relationship.
01:23:14.000 I don't want to just be hooking up with someone.
01:23:16.000 So that's it.
01:23:17.000 Search for love continues.
01:23:18.000 Clearly Montreal didn't work out. 0.95
01:23:21.000 Bro, that nigga left because she talks too much. 1.00
01:23:24.000 The fuck, man? 1.00
01:23:25.000 Her mouth is moving, but it ain't moving importantly for what he wants. 1.00
01:23:29.000 Yeah, he's like, I'm not here for this.
01:23:30.000 So apparently she went to Tulum to find love.
01:23:32.000 She went to other countries before that.
01:23:34.000 Didn't work out.
01:23:35.000 And the guy that she met was an older guy.
01:23:37.000 Ghosted her after four dates. 0.93
01:23:39.000 But here's the thing.
01:23:40.000 I gotta know.
01:23:40.000 Did he smash or not?
01:23:41.000 I think he did.
01:23:42.000 She's saying he didn't, but I know he did.
01:23:44.000 Yeah, I think he did. 1.00
01:23:46.000 Well, it could also be he didn't smash and he said, fuck this bitch. 1.00
01:23:49.000 Yeah, left her there. 1.00
01:23:51.000 She said he was very handsy, but you know what I'm saying?
01:23:55.000 Listen.
01:23:55.000 I didn't hear all of it.
01:23:57.000 Because my thing is, she's annoying, and then if he didn't smash it, I could see why he fucking left, because this is annoying. 1.00
01:24:03.000 But with these stories, they're always pointing towards them looking good, so him smashing would make her look bad. 0.94
01:24:08.000 He's annoying.
01:24:08.000 I could tell right now that she's annoying.
01:24:10.000 So after four days of this, he had to have hit. 0.99
01:24:13.000 Pulsing up clarity, he done with it, and she said he's not a fuckboy. 0.91
01:24:16.000 Well, like I said, the market's monetized, so he don't have to be. 0.88
01:24:20.000 I got I got tickets.
01:24:22.000 You know what I mean?
01:24:23.000 I'm going to give you $1,500 when you get home pure cash.
01:24:26.000 She accepted it, but now she didn't get to capitalize.
01:24:29.000 As I was saying, these women do it, and now what are they doing? 1.00
01:24:32.000 She's probably 27, 30, whatever she is.
01:24:35.000 I want a relationship.
01:24:37.000 Do you start with relationships going to Tulum?
01:24:40.000 But in a monetized dating marketplace, you can start a relationship.
01:24:43.000 Tulum is actually where everyone went during the pandemic, too.
01:24:45.000 It was the only place that was open the whole time.
01:24:48.000 Why would a woman want a relationship to start with a guy that takes her too long? 1.00
01:24:52.000 100%.
01:24:52.000 But you know what's crazy?
01:24:53.000 She left America, right? 0.51
01:24:55.000 To find guys.
01:24:55.000 I guarantee that guy was American or Western, though.
01:24:57.000 Probably. 1.00
01:24:57.000 These bitches ain't fucking Mexican, bro. 1.00
01:24:59.000 No, it wasn't a Mexican guy. 1.00
01:25:00.000 When a girl travels, she's going to still have her hypergamy. 1.00
01:25:05.000 She'll go to Dubai, or if she does go to a poor country, it's going to be someone that is an American or something. 0.91
01:25:09.000 No, that was a guy that had money.
01:25:11.000 As someone that travels herself, why are women leaving America to find men now? 1.00
01:25:16.000 Also, she said he's older.
01:25:18.000 That's a code word that women use to say the guy has money. 1.00
01:25:20.000 Yeah, older guy with money.
01:25:22.000 Women will never say, oh, he's rich when they're making a video. 1.00
01:25:26.000 That'll make them look bad.
01:25:27.000 They'll say, oh, he's older and more mature.
01:25:28.000 He could have been 45, 50, 55. He had money.
01:25:31.000 He had enough to take a woman to Tulum.
01:25:33.000 Wait, he took her?
01:25:35.000 That's what I heard.
01:25:36.000 No, I think she met him there.
01:25:38.000 Oh, she met him there.
01:25:38.000 Yeah, randomly.
01:25:40.000 Okay.
01:25:40.000 Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
01:25:41.000 Maybe he didn't...
01:25:42.000 Okay, well, why are you looking for a relationship?
01:25:45.000 You meet with somebody at Tulum. 1.00
01:25:46.000 She idiot. 1.00
01:25:47.000 Passport woman? 1.00
01:25:48.000 Exactly, yeah.
01:25:49.000 So that's what happened.
01:25:50.000 So she went there.
01:25:51.000 Yeah.
01:25:51.000 And the guy, you know, tried to sweet talk her out of her pants.
01:25:54.000 So she's a whole TikTok channel about traveling to find men. 1.00
01:25:57.000 Literally.
01:25:58.000 Okay, so she's a passport.
01:25:59.000 Okay, got it.
01:26:00.000 Yeah.
01:26:00.000 All right.
01:26:01.000 That's rare though, bro.
01:26:02.000 It's rare.
01:26:02.000 Not for a relationship.
01:26:04.000 No, she wants a relationship. 0.99
01:26:05.000 Well, it's rare that she's going to find that.
01:26:08.000 Because I'm going to show you this.
01:26:10.000 Think about this.
01:26:11.000 Think of all of the countries where you say, men leave this country to find women.
01:26:16.000 I have yet to hear any man say, I'm going to America to find a woman.
01:26:22.000 Not one.
01:26:24.000 They go everywhere but America to find a woman. 0.99
01:26:27.000 There's no man on the planet that says, I'm going to go to...
01:26:31.000 And think about this.
01:26:31.000 We have more single women.
01:26:33.000 We have attractive women. 1.00
01:26:35.000 We have women that are... 1.00
01:26:37.000 Nobody says, I'm going to America to find a woman.
01:26:39.000 They're coming here for tourism.
01:26:41.000 Like, the girls as a whole, that's not why they're coming here. 1.00
01:26:44.000 When niggas go to Columbia, they're going to fuck girls. 1.00
01:26:46.000 Exactly. 1.00
01:26:46.000 They don't come to America to fuck girls. 1.00
01:26:48.000 That's like making life harder on yourself for no goddamn reason. 1.00
01:26:50.000 Why would you do that? 0.99
01:26:51.000 I mean, you're dealing with highly hyper-mistrustful women that have been promiscuous. 1.00
01:26:56.000 They don't have shit. 1.00
01:26:56.000 Like, nobody's coming here to rescue women. 1.00
01:26:58.000 And you would think, even in the black community, you got 78% single women there. 0.95
01:27:03.000 And these women are all tens and queens. 1.00
01:27:06.000 Not anybody's coming to get them.
01:27:08.000 And they're in poverty.
01:27:09.000 Like, you would think.
01:27:10.000 You could go to St. Louis and clean up.
01:27:12.000 The other thing, too, is they outpriced themselves from the market.
01:27:14.000 So, like, they're in the U.S. with super high standards, but they're hoes. 1.00
01:27:17.000 Right. 0.99
01:27:17.000 So, it's like, dude's got to come here and pay full price to these girls that, like, quite frankly, don't fucking deserve it. 0.99
01:27:22.000 Why? 0.98
01:27:23.000 Yeah.
01:27:23.000 But notice, right?
01:27:24.000 He had the power to walk away.
01:27:25.000 Why?
01:27:26.000 He had money.
01:27:27.000 He had money.
01:27:27.000 Guys, get your money up, man.
01:27:29.000 Link down below for the course for crypto.
01:27:31.000 Listen, Bitcoin's down right now.
01:27:32.000 Is that what?
01:27:33.000 80k?
01:27:33.000 Is it in the description?
01:27:34.000 We got in the description?
01:27:34.000 Yeah, down below.
01:27:35.000 YouTube and Rumble?
01:27:36.000 Yeah.
01:27:37.000 Travel the world, get your money up, and enjoy life.
01:27:39.000 Remember, he walked away from her. 1.00
01:27:40.000 He said, fuck this shit. 1.00
01:27:41.000 I'm out. 1.00
01:27:41.000 I'm pretty sure he smashed, though, from my point of view. 1.00
01:27:44.000 Yeah, I mean, I don't know.
01:27:45.000 Let me just tell you.
01:27:47.000 Whether he did or didn't, either way, she's insufferable, and she couldn't keep him because she was annoying, and she talks so much. 1.00
01:27:52.000 I can see why.
01:27:53.000 Because she wouldn't care if, for example, his fashion leaving is worse because she's talking about it now in detail. 1.00
01:27:59.000 If he didn't smash her, fuck this nigga. 1.00
01:28:00.000 Right, she wouldn't care. 1.00
01:28:01.000 Four dates, bro.
01:28:02.000 Four dates.
01:28:02.000 She might have been invested at that point.
01:28:04.000 Four dates, bro?
01:28:05.000 Nah, bro.
01:28:05.000 Not four dates.
01:28:06.000 That nigga spend that much time talking to her, she might be invested at that point. 1.00
01:28:08.000 Nigga, she don't care. 1.00
01:28:08.000 And here's the other thing, too, about women that I realize. 1.00
01:28:10.000 Women are okay with going to the internet and taking their L's online. 1.00
01:28:13.000 Like, bro, could you imagine? 1.00
01:28:15.000 Like, you got flaked on, you got shit on by a girl. 1.00
01:28:17.000 You go on the fucking internet. 1.00
01:28:18.000 Oh, my God. 1.00
01:28:18.000 Life sucks. 1.00
01:28:19.000 Bro, women are the only retards that go on the internet and complain about their daily life. 1.00
01:28:23.000 But we should love that, though. 0.99
01:28:24.000 It's good for us.
01:28:26.000 That's good for us.
01:28:27.000 It's good intel.
01:28:27.000 It's good for us.
01:28:28.000 We can just look and go, hey, there's another one.
01:28:31.000 I see a pattern here.
01:28:31.000 It's good intel.
01:28:32.000 But to that point, notice, right?
01:28:35.000 She's upset that he walked away.
01:28:37.000 From my experience, it's only because he smashed and then dashed.
01:28:41.000 Otherwise, why talk about a stroke? 0.98
01:28:42.000 I know you look crazy a little bit. 0.97
01:28:43.000 Well, bro, I agree with that. 0.96
01:28:45.000 I've seen girls, bro, not smash and still get mad when a dude leaves them, though. 0.99
01:28:49.000 Wait, to not smash though. 0.99
01:28:50.000 He didn't fuck, but he stopped talking to her. 0.99
01:28:53.000 And she enjoyed the conversation with him. 1.00
01:28:55.000 She thought, I could string this nigga along. 1.00
01:28:57.000 She thought she had a gun. 0.99
01:28:59.000 She thought she had one on the hook.
01:29:01.000 She's like, I got him on the hook.
01:29:03.000 He's already invested.
01:29:03.000 He's going to want to hang out with me.
01:29:05.000 But she went out with him three or four times. 1.00
01:29:07.000 But I have seen it where the girl liked the dude, and then she didn't want to give him no pussy. 1.00
01:29:11.000 And he said, fuck this bitch. 1.00
01:29:12.000 And she complains. 1.00
01:29:14.000 He left because she didn't give him no pussy. 1.00
01:29:15.000 She sucked his dick, at least. 1.00
01:29:16.000 Something. 1.00
01:29:17.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:29:17.000 She did something.
01:29:18.000 She did something, bro.
01:29:19.000 I agree she did something.
01:29:21.000 I agree she did something, for sure.
01:29:22.000 All right.
01:29:23.000 And we've got another video as well. 1.00
01:29:24.000 Bro, girls that go to Tulum are sluts. 1.00
01:29:26.000 Yeah, 100%. 1.00
01:29:27.000 Yeah.
01:29:27.000 By themselves, too?
01:29:28.000 It's crazy. 0.56
01:29:29.000 Hell nah. 0.56
01:29:29.000 Listen. 0.56
01:29:30.000 Oh, bitches that travel by themselves? 1.00
01:29:31.000 Whores. 1.00
01:29:31.000 Listen, let me tell you something. 1.00
01:29:32.000 If a woman leaves the country, this is cold word for she getting digged down somewhere else. 1.00
01:29:36.000 I mean, there's no way they going without it. 1.00
01:29:37.000 Especially when they're getting a foreign dick, man. 1.00
01:29:39.000 Well, because I know when I travel the country, I'm going to put hands on some hips, so I know what they do. 1.00
01:29:43.000 When I leave the country, I'm folding something up like a love letter from the second grade. 0.99
01:29:47.000 Ah, shit, man. 0.99
01:29:48.000 All right. 0.99
01:29:48.000 And then last video here. 0.99
01:29:50.000 Now, he's threatening to have my page deleted.
01:29:53.000 So, if you know.
01:29:55.000 Because you did a reaction to this on your actual ex account.
01:29:57.000 No, I just tweeted about it, but yeah, we could play it.
01:29:59.000 You want to tell them a little bit about that reaction?
01:30:01.000 I'll ruin it, though, if I do that.
01:30:03.000 Cool.
01:30:03.000 Yeah, we'll just play this girl.
01:30:04.000 She's talking about a certain rapper that you guys are probably all familiar with.
01:30:07.000 So this girl came on a podcast about a year and a half ago.
01:30:10.000 So she's an entrepreneur. 0.97
01:30:11.000 She's doing her own thing.
01:30:12.000 She's a single mom.
01:30:13.000 And we're like, okay, cool, whatever.
01:30:14.000 Bro, you're good at remembering these.
01:30:15.000 I don't remember her, man.
01:30:16.000 Yeah, a gorgeous doll.
01:30:17.000 She wasn't rude, but she was like, there.
01:30:19.000 Mind you.
01:30:20.000 Did she get kicked out or no?
01:30:21.000 I don't think so.
01:30:22.000 But mind you, she was dating this rapper the whole time, talking about she's independent, and I'm like, wait a minute.
01:30:28.000 And I see her out, and I'm like, ah, gotcha.
01:30:31.000 So let's see what happens after this relationship has ended, how she reacts to this interaction.
01:30:37.000 Now, he's threatening to have my page deleted.
01:30:40.000 So if you know, go follow my other page.
01:30:43.000 But it's like, at the end of the day, babe, I will take this off TikTok, and we will go to Instagram with it, okay?
01:30:47.000 I will go to Twitter with it.
01:30:48.000 I will go to ever social.
01:30:49.000 Listen, babe.
01:30:51.000 Babe, who are you playing with? 1.00
01:31:00.000 Don't text my phone.
01:31:02.000 Don't text.
01:31:03.000 Excuse me? 1.00
01:31:05.000 Stop fucking playing. 1.00
01:31:06.000 Listen, at the end of the day, I promise you, I promise you on my life, on my fucking life, on everything in my life, all you have to do is shut the fuck up. 1.00
01:31:17.000 All you have to do is keep on fucking playing with me over and over and over and over and over and over again. 1.00
01:31:22.000 You're going to fucking learn. 1.00
01:31:23.000 I promise you. 1.00
01:31:24.000 Because I'm going to fucking teach you. 1.00
01:31:26.000 I promise I'm going to teach you, bitch. 1.00
01:31:31.000 Bro. 1.00
01:31:31.000 So she calls Future, records this phone call. 1.00
01:31:34.000 What else is going to say?
01:31:36.000 And I post it online.
01:31:37.000 Because she exposed their relationship five years plus.
01:31:41.000 Relationship, you said, though.
01:31:42.000 She called it a relationship.
01:31:44.000 Translation to just a side piece.
01:31:46.000 He could afford her and keep her at bay.
01:31:49.000 Because Future even admitted that he'd be tricking. 1.00
01:31:51.000 Didn't he do that when he did the Kevin Sanders shit? 0.99
01:31:53.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 0.99
01:31:54.000 All rappers.
01:31:55.000 All of them, bro.
01:31:58.000 People call it tricking, but I look at it differently.
01:32:01.000 I call it just...
01:32:03.000 Kind of lowering your liabilities.
01:32:05.000 Because it's much cheaper to do what he's doing.
01:32:08.000 And then I can keep a rotation.
01:32:09.000 And then most of the time, an honest hoe wouldn't do this. 1.00
01:32:13.000 But this is a bad hoe. 1.00
01:32:15.000 And I think the reason why is he kept her too long.
01:32:18.000 So now she's more attached and hurt for it.
01:32:22.000 And of course, if he was removing any monetary value, this is her only recourse.
01:32:26.000 I said from the 80s and the 90s, there was a phrase called sprung.
01:32:31.000 Where a woman was sprung on you and you were sprung on a woman. 1.00
01:32:34.000 Today, women don't have that as much. 1.00
01:32:37.000 The only time they do have this is when there's something else attached to it.
01:32:42.000 So I tell guys, a woman can never really love you. 1.00
01:32:44.000 She loves you and I love you for what you do for her.
01:32:49.000 The minute you remove that one thing, she'll fall out of love. 1.00
01:32:53.000 And I think women today are more... 1.00
01:32:56.000 They can handle a lot of the rejection.
01:32:59.000 They can handle...
01:33:00.000 The breakups and just move on because they have a lot more options.
01:33:03.000 They can be like, alright, you don't want to do that?
01:33:05.000 I'll just go back on Instagram or I'll go back on Tinder.
01:33:07.000 Where in the 90s, there was no other thing to go back to.
01:33:11.000 She'd just go back to her college.
01:33:12.000 I'll say this.
01:33:13.000 Women absolutely get over men way faster now because they're more promiscuous and they have more options. 1.00
01:33:19.000 That's one of the telltale signs actually of a chick. 1.00
01:33:21.000 Instagram.
01:33:21.000 If you think about this, where I said for women, 80% of the men are invisible.
01:33:29.000 And women are like, that's not true. 1.00
01:33:31.000 I was like, okay, go park in Target parking lot.
01:33:33.000 I think it's 90, bro.
01:33:34.000 As a woman, go park in a Target parking lot. 1.00
01:33:37.000 Tell me, and go in and go out.
01:33:39.000 How many men did you see?
01:33:41.000 One?
01:33:42.000 Zero?
01:33:42.000 She didn't see the guy pushing cart.
01:33:44.000 Right?
01:33:45.000 She didn't see the guy bagging groceries.
01:33:47.000 She didn't see the creepy dude walking down.
01:33:49.000 She didn't see any of those.
01:33:50.000 Now, I'll tell a guy.
01:33:52.000 Do the same thing for a guy.
01:33:54.000 He is acknowledged and saw every woman.
01:33:57.000 In and out. 0.99
01:33:58.000 But the time he got out of the car, and he could tell you, I saw the granny with the soggy titties. 1.00
01:34:02.000 I saw the girl over there. 1.00
01:34:04.000 I saw this girl with the big booty. 1.00
01:34:06.000 I saw the girl at the makeup counter.
01:34:07.000 I saw the clerk.
01:34:08.000 So we see everybody.
01:34:10.000 They tend to say, this guy's not valuable to me.
01:34:13.000 I don't see him.
01:34:14.000 Yeah, dude.
01:34:15.000 Good point.
01:34:15.000 That's so true.
01:34:16.000 We say that all the time.
01:34:17.000 Like, you go to CVS, you don't remember nobody from your trip to CVS. Oh, there you go, yeah.
01:34:20.000 Right?
01:34:20.000 And it's true.
01:34:22.000 But like us...
01:34:23.000 It could be a chick behind the reception thing. 1.00
01:34:25.000 We'll remember her.
01:34:26.000 She got buck teeth. 1.00
01:34:27.000 Yep. 0.98
01:34:28.000 Big-ass bifocal glasses.
01:34:29.000 And we'd be like, I think I could do something with this.
01:34:32.000 Transformer.
01:34:33.000 I could fix this up.
01:34:34.000 You know what I mean?
01:34:35.000 Put some braces on her. 0.61
01:34:36.000 And then I could clean her up real good.
01:34:37.000 Yeah.
01:34:38.000 So cool.
01:34:38.000 Just to close this off real quick.
01:34:40.000 How does a man bent or, I guess, level up to have freedom in life and have the actual power to say, no, I'm good. 0.97
01:34:50.000 I want her.
01:34:51.000 And I want to say, win a life at large.
01:34:54.000 Dude, man, for guys, I think the best course for young guys is to stay single. 0.97
01:35:00.000 You know, we promote this for women. 1.00
01:35:02.000 Stay single in your 20s.
01:35:03.000 But then you have guys out here, but I want love.
01:35:05.000 I'm like, well, who?
01:35:06.000 These girls are out here 20 to 32 doing what they want. 1.00
01:35:09.000 They're not settling down.
01:35:11.000 So I'm telling guys.
01:35:13.000 Do the exact same thing and build up abundance.
01:35:16.000 You have to build up leverage and options.
01:35:17.000 If you don't have leverage or options in this dating marketplace or in marriage, you're cooked.
01:35:22.000 So you're begging and now you don't have negotiation power.
01:35:26.000 Yeah.
01:35:26.000 Good point.
01:35:26.000 Stay single.
01:35:27.000 And then last thing, what does JUCO mean?
01:35:29.000 The JUCO. That's the monetized dating marketplace.
01:35:31.000 So the JUCO, initially when I said it, it was me going to a junior college, so I'm going down to younger women. 1.00
01:35:38.000 And then it evolved into the monetized dating marketplace, so it's a place for you to be able to lease your pleasures.
01:35:45.000 Not buy, lease.
01:35:46.000 Not buy, and then you can put it back on out there for somebody else to lease, yes.
01:35:50.000 So when guys say, man, y'all don't know how to spit game and talk to girls with just a mouthpiece, y'all are lacking.
01:35:58.000 What do you respond to that?
01:35:59.000 The mouthpiece is for, number one, low-quality men for broken women. 0.99
01:36:03.000 So that's normally the people for women that are going to respond to that. 1.00
01:36:06.000 Now, you still do have to have a conversation and be able to talk no matter who you are, whether you got a million dollars or you got done. 0.98
01:36:13.000 But guys that solely depend on that don't realize that the quality of women they're getting are trash. 0.99
01:36:19.000 They're broken. 0.99
01:36:20.000 They're broken into a million pieces.
01:36:21.000 So they are going to possibly...
01:36:23.000 React to a guy that's spitting game.
01:36:26.000 But in 2025, game is dead. 0.98
01:36:28.000 It's only going to be for broken niggas and broken women. 1.00
01:36:33.000 Damn. 1.00
01:36:34.000 That's real talk. 0.99
01:36:35.000 Any last questions for Coach?
01:36:36.000 No.
01:36:37.000 I'm good, man.
01:36:38.000 Because when you were gone, we were definitely chopping up about a bunch of stuff.
01:36:41.000 So Coach, where can I find your brother?
01:36:43.000 The Coach Greg Adams channel.
01:36:45.000 The Free Agent Lifestyle channel is where I live stream every day.
01:36:49.000 Every day but the Saturday.
01:36:50.000 What time do you go live?
01:36:50.000 I go live at 8 o'clock on the West Coast.
01:36:53.000 So I get everybody through their workday.
01:36:55.000 I'm streaming for 7 to 8 hours a day during the weekday.
01:36:57.000 So I get you through your workday.
01:36:59.000 Then you can come home and watch me.
01:37:00.000 So Coach Greg Adams, the Free Agent Lifestyle channel.
01:37:03.000 You can find me on Instagram. 0.99
01:37:04.000 If you type in Coach Greg Adams, YouTube is fucking with me, man. 0.95
01:37:08.000 Sometimes my channel is coming up. 0.92
01:37:09.000 Were you on the DHS hit list?
01:37:12.000 No.
01:37:13.000 Well, I always say I wasn't in the top.
01:37:15.000 10, but you guys gotta realize that list was 30, 40, 50 people.
01:37:19.000 Okay, you're on that list.
01:37:20.000 Everybody's on the list, but it's a matter of where I was.
01:37:23.000 Every Red Pill channel is like Shadowband of Hell, and everyone's views are down.
01:37:28.000 Dude, you can type in my name, Coach Greg Adams, and my channel will not come up.
01:37:32.000 The big channel will only come up.
01:37:34.000 I got search for it to find it.
01:37:36.000 Go all the way down.
01:37:38.000 You know what it is, bro?
01:37:39.000 But you know what?
01:37:40.000 Now, with Trump in office, he literally signed his ex-voter on day one.
01:37:43.000 No more government collusion, because that's what it was. 0.99
01:37:46.000 DHS wrote a fucking hit piece on us, on all of us. 0.99
01:37:48.000 Us, Andrew Tate, Pearl, you, Sneeko. 0.99
01:37:51.000 We're all put on this list, and they're saying like... 0.99
01:37:53.000 Even bitch ass MTR. Right. 1.00
01:37:56.000 He was like number two or three on the list. 0.99
01:37:58.000 He ain't Red Poe, but like, yeah, he just reacts to our shit, but like... 0.92
01:38:04.000 But yeah, bro, they put us on this hit list, and I've noticed that a lot of them have taken a nosedive as far as views and shit because of the shadow ban. 0.86
01:38:13.000 So hopefully he changes that so we can get out here and get a conversation.
01:38:16.000 Yeah, bro.
01:38:17.000 Because the executive order was to prevent...
01:38:21.000 Big tech from colluding from the government to suppress American citizens.
01:38:24.000 Well, the government specifically, like you said, so that was a government.
01:38:27.000 And what we know about the Biden administration, they were going to certain platforms to say censor them.
01:38:32.000 So that's an overreach.
01:38:33.000 And so if they're doing that from the Homeland Security, that's an overreach and censorship.
01:38:38.000 Yeah, working with big tech to censor U.S. citizens.
01:38:40.000 That's unacceptable. 1.00
01:38:41.000 Fuck that shit. 1.00
01:38:42.000 W. Trump, man. 1.00
01:38:43.000 W. Trump.
01:38:43.000 Exactly.
01:38:44.000 Let's get him in.
01:38:44.000 Yeah, so yeah, no, it's definitely the shadow ban.
01:38:46.000 So we'll see what happens.
01:38:47.000 But anyway, guys, you want to tell them what's coming up?
01:38:50.000 Yeah, so we're going to do a show with some girls, I believe. 0.95
01:38:53.000 And then Coach will do something in the future as well in Miami.
01:38:56.000 Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:38:57.000 As soon as I get back from my world tour.
01:39:00.000 Where are you going, bro?
01:39:01.000 I'm going London, Paris, Amsterdam next.
01:39:04.000 I just came back from Costa Rica.
01:39:06.000 We're going to be in London soon.
01:39:07.000 I think I'm before you.
01:39:09.000 We're going to April.
01:39:10.000 Yeah, I'm leaving in two weeks.
01:39:11.000 I want to see Coach on grilling, bro.
01:39:12.000 That would be hilarious.
01:39:13.000 I'm on grilling with Cheyenne.
01:39:15.000 Yeah, we can ask him.
01:39:16.000 Yeah, I got you.
01:39:17.000 We'll work on it.
01:39:19.000 Guys, this was a great show.
01:39:20.000 Thank you for coming, Coach.
01:39:21.000 Yeah, man.
01:39:22.000 Good to see y'all.
01:39:23.000 Went back in time.
01:39:24.000 Yeah, man.
01:39:24.000 OG. Exactly.
01:39:25.000 And we'll see you guys later.