In this episode, we discuss how important it is to have options and not be a "thirsty bucket" when it comes to women. Having options gives you the ability to not become a thirst bucket, which in turn, gives you more opportunities to get them. If you're a guy out here that's thirsty, you end up becoming a casualty of your own choices because you don't have a vehicle to get there. You need at least one vehicle in order to get where you need to go, and that vehicle needs to be a vehicle that can get you there. We discuss the importance of options and why you should not be thirsty and why having options is better than having no options at all. We also discuss why cold approach is still the best way to get leads and how it's better than the old days of cold approach and how to get the girl you're looking for. Thank you Rumble for supporting us and as well we're back for Wednesday's show, The Dating Show, where we'll be back with more tips, tricks, and tips on how to find girls! We hope you enjoy this episode and don't forget to subscribe and share it with your friends and family! We'll see you next Wednesday for the Dating Show! Love ya! - The Fresh Day Crew! XOXO - Derek and Mario xoxo - Derek & Mario - The DATING SHOW! ( ) - Fresh Day Podcast - Derek: Don't Be Thirsty? - Don't be a Whistling? & Don't Know What to Do You Have a Girl Problem? & Mario: Don t be a Thirst Trap? (8:00) (9:30) - How to get a Girl Problems? (10:00- How to Get a Girl That's Too Thru It? (15:00 - How To Find a Girl Like That? (16:00/16:30/17:10) - Can I Have Options? (17:00 / 20:00 Can I have a Girl I'm Not Thru A Girl I'll Have A Girl That I Can I Talk To Me Like That's Good Enough? ) (19:00 Or A Girl Like This Will I Have A Woman Like That I'm Telling Me Better Than That? ?) - How Can I Get More Than I Can Have More Than That (20:00] - How I Can Get More Options?
00:13:30.000And you've seen it, guys, some of the OnlyFans, you know, thirsting for girls, doing crazy stuff, thirst traps, all this stuff.
00:13:36.000However, we're going to break it down for you today in a more succinct way, clearly.
00:13:41.000Now, mostly in here, right, you've seen a couple of videos, maybe some guys chasing their exes, doing crazy shit, breaking out cars, whatever it may be.
00:13:50.000And funny enough, if you're a guy out here that's thirsty without options, you end up becoming I would say this, a casualty of your own choices.
00:14:37.000Now, if you're thirsty, though, and you have nothing to go for you, you see a girl, you may do things that are inexplainable.
00:14:44.000And I hope you don't do these things, but we've seen it time and time again on X, you know, different websites, and you become an offender.
00:14:51.000So guys, please, you know what I'm trying to say here, don't be thirsty.
00:16:16.000If you're polarizing, only girls that kind of have your worldview will be attractive, which is kind of good.
00:16:21.000But in general, guys, cold approach is the first, the most tried-and-true method, and it simply works.
00:16:28.000And I would argue after the pandemic, it's actually a better time to do it because those four years locked indoors actually made a lot of people socially inept.
00:16:35.000So you getting out there and talking to girls in public again or doing cold approaches is kind of novel.
00:16:42.000Now, let me be clear about this, guys.
00:17:54.000And I walked into him and the books fell down and he just picked them up for me and he was just so charming like Like, girls like that story.
00:18:00.000So if you can be something close to that, though it's scary at first, don't get it twisted, it's not easy to be in a grocery store and just hit on random girls, like it's tough, but if you're able to, like, kind of build attraction there, it's gonna go a long ways, because she's gonna value that interaction more, guys, okay?
00:18:15.000Anyone that does Night Game or goes to the club, you guys all know this shit.
00:18:55.000Even myself as well, when I first came to America, I would go to sometimes lounges and bars and clubs.
00:19:00.000And you guys know I had a terrible stutter back in the day, even worse than now.
00:19:04.000And it was more like, okay, I can talk to ten girls, I'm going to start around three, the last seven I might pull through, and make it happen.
00:19:11.000But it took practice, more so like practice over a period of time.
00:19:14.000Granted though, I have a video I want to play for you guys real quick.
00:19:17.000And when you don't practice talking to girls or people in general, you kind of cram up a lot of times, especially if you're like someone like me or like myself.
00:19:24.000And what happens is you actually become this person in the video in real time.
00:20:02.000The more you can practice cold approach, talking to people in general, and there's a rule that we used to do back in the day.
00:20:07.000If you want to get your, I want to say, mindset off of being nervous or being cramped up at the very beginning, talk to somebody at least once a day.
00:20:43.000Now, I know some of you guys are like, oh, that's being simpish.
00:20:45.000Guys, remember, this is just for guys out there that have approach anxiety, right?
00:20:49.000So, you've got to learn to crawl before you sprint, right?
00:20:52.000So, once you're able to kind of just open and give out a compliment, you'll get better at maybe not giving up a compliment or giving a backhanded compliment and building attraction that way.
00:21:21.000You know, rest in peace to Tom Terrell.
00:21:23.000He used to talk about this a lot where you come in and you almost kind of, you give a compliment, but the reason why you're giving that compliment is to make the interaction man to woman immediately.
00:21:32.000It's not necessarily to try to sway the girl.
00:21:36.000It's to make the interaction man to woman immediately and then based off of you giving her that compliment, the way she responds to it is going to kind of dictate how you move from there.
00:22:23.000to ask you a poster girl in real life and you can talk smoothly you're not worried you're not nervous you're not like cracking it up then you just be out I would say a majority guys in the first place just by approaching you approach her when most people wouldn't and nightclubs don't count guys FYI like making like you know I would argue making like 50 approaches in a nightclub is like the equivalent to like maybe 5 daytime approaches bro you know what it is with a nightclub it is super easy with a table without a table you might as well just give up
00:22:52.000You might get a shot or two, but to be honest, I'll give an example.
00:22:57.000Okay, keep going, because you just brought something up that's very important.
00:24:04.000Well, celebs, of course, too, because Instagram made them more reachable.
00:24:06.000But bottle service absolutely is one of the main killers of Night Game because now, since women are hierarchy-based when it comes to being attracted to men, guys, when they go into a club, And they see that there's men there of status via a table, they're naturally going to want to go to those guys at the table, right?
00:24:55.000I'm getting in the weeds here, but I really want you guys to fucking burn this in your heads.
00:24:58.000Status is by far the number one amplifier.
00:25:01.000So since status is by far the number one amplifier, guys that are half your fucking SMV Can pull a girl to their section, have almost no game, and have damn near a shot as you.
00:25:20.000And what Bottle Service has effectively been able to do, it's allowed women to be concentrated in one area and all, like, few guys have all the women.
00:25:31.000The nightclub is nothing more than a natural manifestation of human mating dynamics.
00:25:37.000In a very primitive format with some fucking techno music.
00:25:41.000That's what a nightclub is guys and ain't nobody gonna tell you that in the fucking nightlife industry.
00:25:45.000They want you to think you're gonna go in there and have a chance.
00:25:48.000They want you to think women are there to actually socialize.
00:25:50.000They want you to think women put their phone away and give you their unyielding you know attention and want to go home with you after.
00:25:56.000But the reality is girls are going in there Seeing who they can finesse, who they can get free drinks from, like you had said before, like you get them at the table, but you got to be vigilant.
00:26:06.000Who can they sit in whose section because they got heels and they want to be able to sit down and be comfortable?
00:26:09.000All these little things, guys, come into play, right?
00:26:11.000And it's your job as the man to identify the women that are looking for a benefit that doesn't benefit you.
00:26:18.000And kick them out of your section immediately, if you're going to do that.
00:27:23.000And what I mean by this is, there's girls there that you could have probably had an opportunity to talk to that you're not even going to get the chance to now because there's a table that has it there.
00:31:48.000A little bit different, but what you gotta understand is bars a lot of times don't attract the hottest girls, so it depends, especially if it's a dive bar that doesn't have bottle service.
00:33:37.000So if you're a brokie, also you can do it pretty much for free and get access to the club and the table without putting or spending any money.
00:35:34.000So since they don't know who the other girls are, they're going to assume that That either you or someone in your team is dating one of those girls.
00:37:53.000So what'll happen is, even if you spit your best game to one of the girls and she's feeling you, more than likely she probably won't leave with you, right?
00:38:02.000Unless maybe you have a wingman and the other girl is down, whatever.
00:38:07.000The stars gotta fucking align is my point, right?
00:38:10.000So, and you probably, well, why won't she leave, Meyer?
00:38:43.000Because when you bring this group of girls in, you're gonna have to entertain them.
00:38:48.000And if you don't actually succeed, you're gonna be fucking mad when they all leave together.
00:38:53.000So you're better off bringing different groups of girls, letting them use their imagination, and then they subconsciously compete for your attention.
00:39:01.000Versus the entire group there, they could conspire against y'all niggas.
00:39:03.000Yeah, we're just gonna go in there and drink.
00:41:49.000The guy that holds the bottle and the guys that recruit and then a guy there to also entertain the girls when they get there, that is so fucking important.
00:41:56.000Some of y'all may say, yo, that's overkill, my internet, that's serious.
00:43:54.000Hey guys, I should have mentioned this.
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00:44:09.000Now, Fresh, can you tell us what prompted you to pick this video and this topic?
00:44:16.000Yeah, so I'm scrolling on X, man, early morning, and I'm like, wait a minute, what is this shit?
00:53:56.000Because what he should have did was, maybe later if you're lucky, because what that does is it demonstrates higher value, and then all the other girls keep their balloons.
00:54:04.000And like it or not, all those girls there with their balloons still out show that you're a more attractive guy.
00:54:10.000And for those of you guys that are wondering, they pop the balloon if the guy's unattractive.
00:54:13.000Also, him doing that shows that he's not thirsty.
00:54:24.000But do you know how many times we've been out, either us or other people that we know, and a guy's on the dance floor with his chick, or supposed to be a chick, and so this guy, like, bro, surgery nowadays has gone beyond the limits, bro.
00:54:56.000Yeah, so your best friend, guys, in this situation, and that's kind of going back to the whole nightclub thing, other women desiring you makes you far more attractive.
00:55:34.000Because I was like, wait, that looks like a biological woman.
00:55:36.000Like, you don't get natural hips like that as a dude.
00:55:38.000But regardless, it was disrespectful for her to do that shit, knowing it's going to be on a fucking YouTube channel.
00:55:43.000Guys, if you guys want, man, we could do like a club expose.
00:55:47.000You tell us your experience in the club, and we can tell you where you failed, where you could have improved, where you could have done better.
00:55:51.000And, you know, we'll tell you personal stories of us in the club, because we've got some stories for days, bro.
00:55:55.000Us in the club doing shit behind the scenes that we can't send you to because, obviously speaking, it's behind the scenes, so.
00:56:35.000Some new details came out that Corey found.
00:56:37.000If you guys missed the last podcast we did on this, guys, anyone that's fascinated with history and John F. Kennedy and the assassination, probably one of the most famous assassinations in the world if I'm going to be honest with you, we're going to go after, not go after, but we're going to expose who was really behind it and go deeper into some of the stuff that was going on.
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