Dating in the US is pretty much a losing battle, especially in the South of America. Dating outside of the country is much different than dating in the United States. Dating in a foreign country can be a whole different experience.
00:16:29.000But at the same time, a lot of people don't have that luxury because they got either family here or things going on here, so they can't really leave full-time.
00:16:36.000What you can do, and this is why I've seen it work for a lot of people, is they'll work their ass off here, of course, maybe for six months to nine months or so, and then they'll take a month or two, or even a week or two, out the country, have their fun.
00:16:49.000So for example, they'll go to like Colombia, they'll go to DR, go to Brazil.
00:16:54.000And that's the way of kind of like saying, you know what, even though I don't like the system, I'm going to work within it and then find dating elsewhere.
00:17:01.000Now, of course, that comes with someone.
00:17:30.000But again, I just think dating nowadays is not the same.
00:17:34.000And it's crazy because all the time we've been talking about this for years, guys, about the dating marketplace, how social media has changed the game.
00:20:17.000Have all these things from this one guy.
00:20:19.000And it's crazy because that whole experience that she has with one guy, it ends up becoming like a whole like dream for her because now she touched it, she felt it.
00:20:29.000You know, like when is it, they're gonna manifest, they'll feel it, they'll have that experience, maybe a nice car, wink, wink, maybe a nice like lifestyle where they have like a lot of like, you know, designer stuff bought for them for the ones or twice times.
00:20:41.000And then they're like, okay, this is my standard living now.
00:20:44.000Not really, because she just wanted to smash.
00:20:46.000But again, this is what they believe is their actual inherent blessing because they've just showed up and came to them.
00:20:53.000Hey, I'm here and I have all this stuff.
00:20:55.000So it's kind of like both men and women are in their own way delusional.
00:21:31.000That's good and all, but like, bro, they're going to want you to have a certain lifestyle where you can actually either maintain what they have already or do better.
00:21:37.000And if you don't have that, they don't care what you got to say because they're going to play the part.
00:21:42.000And then, of course, oh, I don't want you to go outside and go party.
00:21:45.000They're going to look at you like you're crazy.
00:22:24.000But again, I've seen girls come over here with nothing but a passport, and they'll legit just come and get a free ride to like everything, guys.
00:22:33.000And I'm like, how's this even possible?
00:22:35.000But real quick, we got some new channels up.
00:22:39.000I want you guys to see real quick before I get into this any deeper.
00:22:42.000We have here, and this is my first solo stream ever, guys, just doing this on a Saturday night instead of going out.
00:24:32.000I just don't talk about it because, quite frankly, why should I?
00:24:35.000But you're going to see it, of course, from the actual videos and content.
00:24:39.000So if you guys don't mind, hop on those and follow if you don't mind.
00:24:42.000But yeah, so back to why you're happy dating.
00:24:46.000I'm also going to cover as well some fan clips from the actual Discord.
00:24:50.000So guys, if you're in Discord, man, go hop in there because I'm going to be talking in there every day with you guys, building a community.
00:24:55.000We're going to do reactions to videos from the actual Discord itself.
00:25:10.000So this is the thing I want you guys to understand with dating, right?
00:25:15.000Most high-level guys don't worry about dating anymore because either they pay or they made a solution for themselves that works with dating, right?
00:25:35.000However, the problem is that like that whole like rock and a hard place, you end up becoming like a calculator because you're going to have to deal with the bullshit that women do and then you can't have the authority to tell them what to do.
00:28:53.000You damn any girl that's high-profile on Instagram, they're probably going to charge you an arm or leg.
00:28:58.000Or, or they're going to want something from you from the get-go.
00:29:01.000So, this is why I say for the average guy, it's kind of cut because nowadays, especially, if you actually want to, I want to say a better-looking girl.
00:29:10.000Obviously, not every girl's like this, of course.
00:29:11.000This is a general statement here, but a lot of them are doing pay-for-play.
00:29:15.000And the sad part is that you may never know until it's too late.
00:29:19.000We had a guy recently, part of our community.
00:29:22.000I don't want to say his name because, obviously, speaking, you know, exposing him, but he met a girl.
00:29:28.000She came to him a certain way, obviously selling purity.
00:31:19.000So I think marriage in itself for men is a bad play unless you do it unconventional way, which is outside the country, through the church, then it makes sense.
00:31:29.000But through the state, guys, as you guys know, it's never really a good thing to do.
00:32:24.000But the reality is that when you have the actual fish in front of you Of where dating is going, where the world is going, where money's going, it's not looking good, guys.
00:32:36.000So, what I'm saying is, in everything that's happening here, if you even focus only on girls only, you're cooked.
00:32:44.000Because without leveling up, guys, so what I'm saying is, in everything how you want to live to be happy, you don't need to be a fucking millionaire with a Lamborghini.
00:33:14.000And you can't, you can, obviously you can buy that, but if you never felt that, it's almost like if you're spiraling, waiting, a leaf in the wind, trying to figure out where to go.
00:33:26.000There's nobody there, but the point is, is you want to have things in place so you're good to go.
00:33:31.000And look, at the end of the day, guys, if you don't level up, shit, I don't care.
00:34:29.000180,000 jobs have been lost in the job market for tech, which means it's going to get worse.
00:34:36.000And usually, if you guys notice with the actual trends, tech is first, and every other genre is after that.
00:34:42.000So I'm just saying, like, right now, obviously we're talking about dating today, but for the most part, having actual people around you that are successful or going in the right direction.
00:34:54.000I'm just saying like right now, dating segment, I'm going to cover today some topics for you guys on Discord you want me to react to on stream.
00:35:16.000From Daily Loud, Houston Rockets player Dylan Brooks has filed for a temporary restraining order against his baby mama, Heather Andrews, claiming she made violent threats, including saying she cut off his fingers, come after his mother, and even hacked his social media accounts.
00:36:10.000When girls in the community for celebrities, athletes, and they've been in the circle, usually they're quiet.
00:36:17.000They don't say much about people's past or what they got going on.
00:36:21.000But the problem is that, like, these girls have been literally ran through, which means they've been with other players, other people, celebrities.
00:36:34.000And girls like this, man, are never truly happy.
00:36:37.000They'll always want you to be a certain way or do certain things.
00:36:41.000And it's not a matter of like how, it's a matter of when.
00:36:46.000Because you can guarantee at some point, she's going to flip the switch, and things are going to turn bad.
00:36:51.000Because when it comes to dating, guys, you can do everything for a woman, but you're only as good as your last day.
00:36:57.000Which means if you mess up, she's going to flip the switch, and things are going to turn bad.
00:37:14.000Because for them, it's like, all right, I'm not getting what I want.
00:39:12.000Yeah, his cousin is really good at playing on Phantom's weaknesses and using it to his advantage to kind of out him, get attention, and then get the views for himself.
00:39:21.000See, this whole strategy with social media marketing, guys, where like you can use your actual family members or haters to your advantage.
00:39:29.000And this is what his cousin does very well.
00:43:16.000I'm supposed to be able to handle these things.
00:43:20.000And I, I'm, like, I don't years of just being confused and not knowing and like figuring things out slower and like not like I haven't built anything.
00:43:38.000I haven't nothing like to show for this time.
00:43:43.000I just don't know what I'm doing here.
00:50:01.000Honestly, I recommend going through this process yourself as a guy.
00:50:04.000This is just to feel the burn and feel like the pain of it.
00:50:07.000Because once you pass this stage and you actually go ahead and are comfortable with getting rejected, like guys, I've been rejected hella times.
00:57:41.000But yeah, man, it's funny because girls and cars, not a good mix, but this is why you need a man in your life, ladies, if you're watching, because you're going to have to have an expert in the endeavor field.
00:57:54.000Because listen, you're going to be strong and independent.
00:58:14.000A man who is not ready to grow, who is not ready to hold himself accountable, who is not ready to look himself in the mirror and say, oh, there's some habits and some behaviors, some patterns that I maybe need to change.
00:58:26.000He will go from a woman who challenges him and who holds him accountable To a woman who is easy and relaxed and maybe doesn't do those things.
00:59:05.000Their boundaries or their ability to like assert their needs, who those men will go.
00:59:10.000Yo, hero hasn't built her own self-worth yet, but she will eventually.
00:59:23.000And so oftentimes, what you see is the guy will go from somebody their age to somebody younger, and then maybe even stay with them for a long time.
00:59:30.000But then that younger woman grows up too, and she finds her boundaries in her voice.
00:59:36.000And eventually, she starts to hold him accountable.
00:59:38.000And then he goes to a younger woman, or they break up, or something happens.
00:59:44.000Walter the Goomba finding that in chat.
00:59:51.000You know, I don't think that's a diss, by the way.
01:00:45.000I want to be happy with who I'm with and not be nagged all day or be annoyed.
01:00:50.000And listen, this is a cult that women do, right?
01:00:53.000This all this shit, but she's single with a dog.
01:00:55.000Bro, you're going to buy a dog on that loan because nobody wants, dude, there's so many women here, especially in the Miami-grade area, where like they just have a dog.
01:01:04.000They go to bars, fuck random dudes, and that's your life.
01:01:08.000And then they get mad why you niggas don't want to wipe them up because like, bro, your whole life is cult.
01:01:12.000Because like you, your life fucking sucks.
01:01:41.000And younger women at least have more of a not cleaner slate because nowadays they started earlier, like under 18, which is kind of weird because that's where like you should be pure and growing and not like go through some bullshit.
01:01:56.000But okay, unpopular opinion, I think the good age now, especially what's going on in the world, is between 21 and 24.
01:14:37.000It's like, you hear the good, the bad, ugly.
01:14:40.000Actually, my channel, guys, I'm actually going to highlight a show for you guys where, like, I'm going to go into deep how these girls actually are.
01:14:46.000And because I'm cool with them, they talk to me, like, you know, really deep and all that shit like that.
01:14:52.000So you have to understand the real behind why they do what they do because, bro, it's despicable sometimes what they do.
01:14:58.000But, you know, really deep and all that shit like that.
01:17:32.000And then at the end of the day, and you sit up here like big old mighty, like, yo, like, yo, I got experience to downgrade my people's, my culture.
01:17:44.000But go ahead, tell me all the books you read.
01:26:04.000Just because we're talking about the current case, I'm low Q. It's a low IQ argument.
01:26:08.000You was an FBI and you said you would take a bunch of tensors and you this and you got so much, you got one experience when the one black girl that you dated in your whole life of your career, you read a bunch of books, you know, a bunch of friends, and you know so much of black.
01:26:22.000You got two white employees and now you're not racist.
01:35:08.000And our chats, guys, the Theophile Podcast and Freshman CEO and all of those channels, we're going to definitely need some solid mods.
01:35:15.000So if you're a solid mod and you have some experience, especially, and you know you've been, especially if you're a vetted, and we know you personally, make sure to tap in because we need you.
01:42:42.000And if you've ever been to Paris, guys, you're going to realize that, like, in Paris specifically, people are unhinged and they're ready for anything.
01:43:46.000If you do that in Paris, bro, I promise you, walahi, someone's gonna fuck you up.
01:43:51.000So, I know Jay Single didn't understand what's happening here, but after being there around the locals and see what's happening, understanding the behind the scenes, you can't record people in public, Bro, it's not, it's not normal, like this is not America.
01:50:21.000Because he went home and lived another day.
01:50:23.000Obviously, it was Moldine, so it's not that serious, but like, people that are from these places, bro, don't give a fuck about Americans, bro.
01:53:06.000Yeah, but that was basically in the church, there's gifts you get from God where you can prophesy, speak the future, and one of them is speaking in tongues, which means you kind of like speak the language of God out of your mouth without even knowing what's happening.
01:53:25.000Apparently, that's what she was doing here.
01:53:27.000And I'm not laughing because it's funny.
01:53:31.000I'm just laughing because, like, well, hold on, I didn't really laugh.
01:54:17.000But hey, listen, if it's true, happy for her.
01:54:20.000But usually, fellas, I'm telling you, this is the issue with modern-day women.
01:54:27.000They only come to God when they're at their wits' end and when they have nothing offer themselves other than the church because they have failed in either their career, finding a husband, finding a man.
01:54:39.000And this is the final straw to say, listen, God, save me from my impending doom of having nobody in my life.
01:54:44.000Because their actions created their results.
01:54:48.000Listen, fellas, hopefully she's saved from God.
01:58:00.000We get a call yesterday with the CEO of a company, so it's gonna be pretty dope.
01:58:04.000So, if you like gaming, guys, we're gonna game as well on Discord, and of course, the community on that platform to make money as we stream and have some fun.
02:03:11.000If he sees that you're fat, he doesn't want to do business with you.
02:03:15.000So we need to level up our muscles, money.
02:03:19.000Fresh has got that, but I put a lot of content on nutrition, on strength workouts, and everything you need to actually get the body that you want.
02:03:28.000And if you need a custom approach, you know, that's worth a conversation, but I don't want to take too much of your time, but a lot of value here.
02:03:46.000Like, he's always like telling me tips, and I'm like, fucking grateful because I'm new to like the gym stuff of like getting actually like the perception of like sticking about the thing um current he's always like move here do this do that and it's very helpful so check out him bro all supporting me i'm down on 22 pounds bro um yeah it was working man it was working okay go ahead thank
02:04:21.000you bro um i mean listen we need more community man uh actually we're supposed to do a space in here oh yes sir join the discord you can join the call yeah just raise your hand we'll pull you up any haters any anybody with issues you can come up to as well man it's all good yeah it's it's we're cutting everyone up not one by one all right
02:04:52.000one by one of course but like one by one yeah we'll take a turn keep their hands up keep them cool oh yo let's cut uh fresh and fit and let's go to um only freshprints yeah no locals is good but everything else so we're gonna cut uh youtube and rumble fresh and fit and we're gonna head to uh only freshprints you on this one yeah show me real quick all right there we go yep