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00:04:55.000So for all you literate makers that don't like to read or can't read, go ahead and check it out on the audible version where I narrowed it myself.
00:06:06.000That being said, ladies on the panel, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, day status, and if you want to, of course, your body count.
00:12:15.000Uh, we did some, I tried to get him on OnlyFans and stuff, but it was just like, I don't know, like, um, I'm kind of like the stepdaughter, or, sorry, stepmom, stepmother of his daughter and everything.
00:12:27.000She's about to be 18, so, like, I'm still, like, involved in the family with him and everything.
00:12:32.000Okay, so you were, you were, okay, so he was a father already when you met him, and you came in after the fact.
00:36:12.000Would you rather be single and unmarried, but you're a millionaire, but you will never have children and or family or a man or married to an average guy, but with children?
00:36:21.000An average guy, just so you guys know what an average man is in the United States, 5'8", about 5'7 to 5'8", about 37k to 50k per year.
00:37:31.000Most of the people I swipe right on, people think they average.
00:37:35.000I mean, I guess you're an anomaly, but yeah, I would say, and I think all the women here would probably agree with me, most women don't find most men attractive.
00:44:18.000I talk about it more on the Feta channel.
00:44:19.000Go watch the episode I did where I think I talked about a human smuggling case and I showed my word in there if you want me to go over the detail on it.
00:44:25.000They say a man can't define what a real woman is, but women can define what a real man is, but women don't know what a real woman is.
00:44:32.000Women just do what they see other women doing.
00:50:45.000I feel like you can't expect him not to talk to other girls because, like, if you have, like, your body on social media and stuff like that, even his home, like, for example, if it's, like, OnlyFans, his homeboys can easily buy the OnlyFans and, like, see what she got.
00:50:57.000Like, he's not gonna want to take you serious like that.
00:50:59.000So I feel like if she got, like, you know, her body and, like, all that on social media, he's gonna, you know, do him.
00:56:09.000If you're going to be in a relationship and you don't trust the bitch, then why the fuck are you with that bitch?
00:56:13.000I agree, but why not minimize the effort?
00:56:16.000And then the talking stage, you didn't discuss that in the talking stage, but why is it that only in the relationship you want to say all that when you should have been discussed that that's going to bother you when y'all are going to get to the relationship?
00:58:35.000All it takes is her to be in a bad mood, be in her emotions, be around shitty friends that are sluts, be emotionally erratic, and then them to say, let's go to the club, girl.
00:59:06.000Please explain to me why every religious text since the beginning of time, whether it was the Quran, the Bible, the Torah, every single religious text refers to women as being kept by men to a degree to control them from bad habits.
00:59:24.000Why did every society, whether it's the Asians, all the way to the Mayans, to the Mexicans, to the Arabs, to the Jews, every society did everything in their power, Hispanics culture, Hispanic culture, etc.
00:59:36.000Everything, all these societies did everything in their power to control females from themselves.
01:00:31.000The reason why you are able to be on this podcast and say the ridiculous and ludicrous things that you're saying right now is because there are men, a majority, that are willing to die to protect the freedom and rights that you currently enjoy now and you don't even know that they exist and they're in the military.
01:00:46.000Those men in the military are supporting an occupation across the world.
01:00:51.000The United States has 800 military bases across the world.
01:00:54.000They're engaging in ongoing colonialism and imperialism right now.
01:01:38.000The only reason you're able to say the things that you're saying freely and criticize the military and the police is because the military and police exist to give you that right that you're exercising right now this minute.
01:01:46.000I'm so sorry, but that's just not true.
01:01:48.000Like, I've had the police follow me for speaking up against issues of injustice.
01:01:54.000I've had to go to court several times.
01:01:57.000Like, I hear you saying that, but they not doing that.
01:01:59.000These niggas is arresting and hurting people who are speaking up against freedom of speech.
01:02:03.000That's what's happening in Atlanta right now with Cop City.
01:02:05.000Like, there are people who are literally fighting for their lives right now who are fighting for freedom of speech, and they're getting that shit stripped from them.
01:02:11.000Like, so I don't know what you're saying, bro, but that's just not it.
01:02:26.000Whether you want to acknowledge it or not or say that there's some issues, it's still the best when it comes to freedom of speech in the world.
01:02:32.000And again, the military, the police, the civil servants are here to allow you that right that you're enjoying and you're Literally exercising right now.
01:02:41.000I'm sorry, but if that was true, I wouldn't have gotten pepper sprayed by the police.
01:02:45.000I wouldn't have been beaten by the police.
01:02:47.000I wouldn't have seen my friends get arrested.
01:02:49.000I wouldn't have been arrested by the police.
01:02:50.000If that was the case, if that was the reality, I would believe you.
01:03:37.000So when you're marching with them saying, Black Lives Matter, all sexual shit, they're burning buildings, doing whatever, they only have a split second to figure out if you are an antagonist or not, and they don't know.
01:03:45.000But people don't even understand the real definition of Antifa.
01:03:51.000The definition of a terrorist is someone, right, who tries to embark on violence or something for some type of political change or whatever.
01:04:11.000When we live in a country that engages in the certain kind of violence that the United States does, by any means necessary, are people going to fight back?
01:04:19.000Nobody in Africa got free from the people who colonized them by singing Kumbaya, being happy, all that.
01:07:20.000I love being able to talk about this stuff.
01:07:22.000But ladies, without a shadow of a doubt, in another foreign country, you will not be able to say the things that you're saying without fear of some type of violence, okay?
01:07:29.000You guys might not like the system, you might not like the United States, but it is still the best country in the world when it comes to the ability to say your opinion, say your thoughts, okay, with With peaceful protests compared to other countries.
01:08:01.000I'm saying I could trust a woman to be a woman, and if she has bad influences like alcohol, ho friends, bad environment, people in her ear telling her, fuck him, go cheat on him, etc.
01:08:24.000I hear you, but that's why you want to get to know the person first, what her background is, how she moves, what kind of person she is, and when she is in her feelings, how is she going to react to it?
01:08:38.000If she's going to react negatively, then you're going to keep note on that.
01:08:40.000But if you see that she's mature, She cools down, talks.
01:08:44.000You see her action speaks over her words and that's kind of different.
01:08:47.000That's why you want to be in a relationship with her.
01:08:49.000You don't want to be in a relationship with a woman just because of her looks and this little small talk.
01:09:18.000With your Instagram, that allows certain opportunities that I might not know about.
01:09:22.000There's certain avenues that women are able to enact on certain mindsets or thoughts or whatever without some type of reprise.
01:09:29.000That's why girls love Instagram so much.
01:09:31.000It lets girls do things in the dirt and deal with men and meet men that are higher status that they would never have had access to before without any type of negative consequences.
01:10:13.000But now with social media and the internet, girls are able to get literally thousands of men looking at their profile every hour, and then they're also able to get these men to send them DMs.
01:10:22.000I've seen average women look at their Instagrams, and there's celebrities in there, athletes in there, men that are in the top 1%.
01:10:29.000Now these girls have access to this guy.
01:10:31.000You're trying to tell me that if her boyfriend pisses her off and they're on a break for maybe two or three days and she's been drinking some alcohol and listened to some bullshit R&B, she won't entertain that?
01:10:38.000No, because I've been in a relation before and...
01:11:01.000Right in that second, but I'm saying there is smart girls that stick to themselves like...
01:11:07.000Be loyal to their man, be their rider guy and all that.
01:11:11.000There's two different sides of people.
01:11:13.000That's why I don't like to say generalized, because yes, there is females that react quickly, follow friends, follow all that bullshit, but there's also females that don't give a fuck with their friends, say that's not their life that they're living.
01:11:25.000Your opinion does not determine my life.
01:11:27.000That's easy to say in 20-20 hindsight, but if you're mad at your boyfriend, you've been drinking some alcohol, you've been listening to some fucking 1990s genuine pony and shit, It's easy for you to speak like that on a podcast where, objectively speaking, 2020 hindsight, but when you're in your feelings,
01:11:43.000your boyfriend pissed you off, you're mad, your girlfriend's in your air, he's a bitch-ass nigga anyway!
01:11:48.000Because I've always said it, single girls keep girls single.
01:13:21.000When you fuck that guy, your boyfriend is never going to respect you or look at you the same.
01:13:25.000Because a woman cheating is the biggest form of betrayal.
01:13:28.000So, I'm protecting you from you by saying, yo, I would prefer, if you're my main girl and I love you, I don't want you to even have the option to go with another guy.
01:13:37.000Because I know in the back of my mind, if I know and find out that you fucked another guy or went out with another guy, I will never respect you again.
01:13:43.000You will never be the mother of my children.
01:13:49.000I'll continue to fuck you, but I'll never take you serious.
01:13:51.000And men know that in the back of their mind.
01:13:52.000That's why they're scared to death of their girl stepping out on them.
01:13:55.000Because we will never look at you the same once you cheat.
01:13:58.000But I can still love you and go fuck another bitch, though.
01:14:00.000If anything, it'll make me love you more because I'm like, damn, this bitch useless!
01:14:04.000I think it's more like an emotional level with women.
01:14:07.000Because you get attached at that moment that you're cheating on a man is literally cheating on a man is the biggest betrayal you could do to a man because men don't ask for much, yo.
01:15:18.000No, it's controlling you from being a dumb whore and ruining the relationship that we're building together because I see you as the mother of my children.
01:19:07.000If you are protecting her, but you got into it and you see she still jumps in, you didn't even ask for it when she would look at her like, wow, she really got my back.
01:21:38.000I don't want to say the roles were reversed, but in the same situation, what if the guy that he was getting in a fight with, what if the guy had a female?
01:21:52.000That wouldn't be something that you just want the female to just stand there and not fight the other female?
01:21:58.000Okay, so that changes the scenario drastically, but again, alright, very masculine men, okay, typically, guys that got their shit together that are masculine guys that are capable and dangerous, you know what they do?
01:23:03.000I got to worry about these attackers, etc.
01:23:05.000So typically, the more trained the man is, the more masculine the man is, the more feminine the woman, the more feminine the woman, she's not capable of fighting.
01:23:12.000He's going to tell her, get the hell out of there.
01:23:26.000But what I'm saying is that it's not a requirement.
01:23:29.000So what if you're from where I'm from and people don't like to fight, they just pull out and start shooting if somebody doesn't know how to fight?
01:24:00.000The reality is most women are not trained with firearms.
01:24:05.000Most women don't even know how to shoot and properly handle a firearm properly.
01:24:08.000Most of them don't even know about muzzle discipline.
01:24:11.000So if anything, most girls, unless she's law enforcement, I don't want her nowhere near her gun.
01:24:18.000So that's what I was saying, like, besides the violence and her jumping up, my point was, if you see her actions more than just over social media and stuff, when that kind of changed something, like, let's just say she don't even use social media like that,
01:24:33.000but she already gets attention, but she barely be on it.
01:24:36.000Like, is that reasonable for you to tell her to delete it?
01:24:40.000If she don't even be on it like that, you see she don't respond to nobody, like, she's showing you her actions.
01:25:12.000Because you mentioned she's very attractive and she's on Instagram, but she don't be on it like that, blah, blah, blah, all this other stuff.
01:26:10.000So you have to take an extra requirement to protect it.
01:26:14.000That's exactly how it is with your woman.
01:26:16.000The more attractive, the more value she has, the more steps you must take to protect it in a very cold world where people will steal your asset.
01:28:46.000Yeah, a rich simp inviting her to a yeah.
01:28:49.000And then another simp inviting her on a mansion party.
01:28:52.000There's just too much temptation that comes with social media and being exposed.
01:28:56.000And if you're in a relationship with a man who you really do value and respect, it would really just not take anything out of you to get rid of it.
01:29:05.000Of course, if that's not your source of income.
01:29:08.000The question is, are you going to do it?
01:38:35.000And then for the male scenario, every single one of you pretty much, except for Miss Organ Stealer and Black Lives Matter, Wakanda, basically all of you said broke bum.
01:44:51.000So why don't we run around and empower women to be sluts, be promiscuous, keep their Instagram open, talk to a million guys at the same time, go on dates while they're seeing somebody, right?
01:46:39.000I don't qualify for a majority of hot girls or whatever.
01:46:42.000Like, there's some girls that will take me being a bum, that's cool, but I'm not gonna attract the baddest chicks, I'm not gonna get the best women.
01:46:49.000If you're a whore, I'm not saying you don't deserve a man, but you're going to be disqualified from a majority of the good men that you want a lot of the times.
01:46:55.000They may not tell you why, but they see it.
01:53:00.000I didn't really care until I met my boyfriend.
01:53:02.000That's why, like, I always, like, knew that me and my boyfriend had, like, heartstrings attached because me and my boyfriend, before we've been together for three years, he had broken up with me at first.
01:53:11.000And he was the first guy that I could never let go of.
01:53:16.000He was the one person that I always thought of.
01:55:10.000I worked at CVS at the time, and it was almost time for me to go, so I started sucking his dick for like two minutes, and I said, look, I gotta go.
01:55:20.000And so I told him, he drove me to work, and I said, I'll see you again, and I kissed him goodbye, and I texted him.
01:55:30.000Wait, you kissed him after you texted his dick?
01:55:34.000No, like, after I sucked his dick for like two minutes, I said I had to go.
01:55:38.000Like, I didn't finish sucking his cock.
01:58:36.000I told you it was a nine-year relationship my second year being with him that's when I got in the industry so no but I did make what I'm trying to say all right all right I need y'all listen up The more attractive the man,
01:58:56.000okay, the more work you have to do to keep him.
01:59:00.000And what I mean by the more attractive the man, that means the more options he has.
01:59:04.000The more options he has, the more competitive to get his attention the way you want.
01:59:08.000Not just his sexual attention, I mean his real attention.
01:59:10.000He'll listen to your problems, he'll talk to you, he'll hang out with you, he'll give you his non-sexual attention.
01:59:45.000Girls that are just, like, bad and give sex, cool, that's great, but I'm not going to take them seriously or give them certain benefits.
01:59:51.000So your job as a girl is to add value after you fuck the guy so you can go up the totem pole and get into a position where you actually start to, you know, provide him value and then he provides you value in return.
02:00:01.000But the problem is that a lot of girls fuck and think, that's good enough.
02:02:04.000He's just trying to look for a female that's just dumb, that don't speak up for herself and all that, because I would like point little things, like how you want, because he'd been asking me to be his girl, and we've been talking for like five months, and I already said no.
02:02:32.000So, I just think that when I confirm of little things like, hey, how do you expect this when you're doing this wrong and he still didn't fix it or whatever, but I feel like...
02:03:36.000I just think he was just looking for a girl that is kind of slow, don't speak up for yourself, and money will keep her around and good dick.
02:04:30.000He wasn't that arousing to her, which is why she made him wait two months.
02:04:33.000But the thing is, is that in his mind, he was like, alright, I can wait this two months because this girl isn't at the top of the list anyway.
02:08:00.000You need to change yourself if you want that man.
02:08:02.000Or you can continue to be the girl that you are, get a regular dude, argue with him because he'll tolerate it, and you can be his main chick.
02:12:35.000After that night that that happened, we, like, chilled a couple times after that, but then I ended up finding out that he had just got out of a relationship, like, a month ago.
02:12:45.000So after I found that out, I was like, I'm not gonna, like, put in my efforts and try to convince a guy into, again, I'm not looking for anything serious, so I'm not gonna go on my way to try to convince this guy into trying to, like, take me seriously when I know he just got out of a relationship.
02:17:43.000So, we know that if I had sex with you, and you're not even willing to, like, put in a little bit of effort, in my head, I'm gonna think, hold on, in my head, I'm gonna think, damn, she probably does this often.
02:18:23.000It might have been, it was my fuck-up, but I'm going to think it was her fuck-up because guys, again, think, she must do this with everybody.
02:18:31.000Because it's going to make them feel a little bit better about her not contacting.
02:18:33.000So what I'm saying is that as a girl, when you don't contact a guy and you didn't like him, he might think you're a slut and then just not take you seriously.
02:18:40.000I mean, I put in the effort and I only did this because I don't like just letting anybody know where I live.
02:18:48.000So I think me driving from Hialeah to like Kendall is an effort.
02:20:37.000The girls that I take to travel with me, the girls that get certain benefits, the girls that get to hang around me and get certain types of benefits from being around me, they're all, they're pick-me girls.
02:20:45.000Yeah, but none of them are your girlfriend girlfriends.
02:20:58.000But what I'm trying to say, ladies, is that as a girl, you should strive to be a pick-me girl.
02:21:04.000Like, women need to get out of this mindset of, I'm going to make him compete for me and all this other bullshit.
02:21:09.000You can do that with a regular guy that's a loser, maybe, whatever.
02:21:13.000But if you guys all want a guy that makes more money than you, more attractive than you, not more attractive, but more successful and attractive guy that other women want, bro, you're going to have to compete.
02:21:21.000There's not enough of these guys to go around.
02:21:23.000But doesn't that look desperate for a girl to go out their way to get your attention?
02:21:26.000I'm saying in her circumstances, though.
02:21:27.000But then again, it falls back to, I'm truly, like, it's not that I'm faking it.
02:21:32.000I'm truly happy, like, single right now.
02:22:32.000If you're not looking for a guy, that's cool.
02:22:34.000If it comes, I'm not going to block it, but I'm not going on my way to look for it.
02:22:39.000Ultimately, once again, if you had to bring in that point about having his ex and breaking off a month ago, you would have actually pursued it more seriously.
02:22:46.000Ultimately speaking, you would have went for it.
02:23:20.000Let's say you got a couple people that are candidates that want to work for you, right?
02:23:24.000Responding to the thirsty motherfuckers.
02:23:26.000Would you prefer someone that had 20 jobs, working for 20 different OnlyFans models, doing text messages, or somebody that worked for just one model and stood with them for five years?
02:24:08.000I'm just saying, I think women in general, this is for all the girls, not just you, because a lot of girls agree with you on this whole pick-me thing, which I think is extremely problematic.
02:24:17.000When a girl's scared to be a pick-me girl, you're never going to get picked by the man that you want.
02:24:23.000Because when you have a man that you actually want that's attractive, tall, money, all this shit, guess what?
02:26:42.000I think part of it isn't necessarily like the pick me thing, but it's self-love and how much like love and commitment and dedication you have to yourself before getting in a relationship.
02:26:52.000Because I think a lot of women end up entertaining men who aren't worth Aren't worthy of them or they're not worthy of that man just because they don't love themselves or in a position to be loyal, to treat that person with respect.
02:27:04.000And so even before you get to being a pick-me, I think the security in yourself is the most important thing for all women.
02:27:52.000If you look at a woman's phone roll versus a man's phone roll, nine out of ten times, a woman's going to have Way more pictures of herself than a man is.
02:28:51.000So narcissistic traits and narcissism as a mental illness, as something that people fully experience, are two different things.
02:28:57.000So I hear you when you say that, that women might be beautiful and experience narcissism as a trait or as a thing, because we do live in a narcissistic society.
02:29:06.000But narcissism as an illness, as people engaging in violence and abusive, unhealthy relationships is a completely different thing.
02:29:14.000I just want to say that the word narcissist comes from the god Narsicus, and he was condemned, and that's why we got the word, because he was stuck looking at himself at the river all day long, his reflection.
02:32:08.000Would it be fair to say that you knowing that there's going to be other bad bitches there competing for the same spot that you want at that club where you're going to be around higher status men stems from insecurity.
02:32:22.000Y'all can call it tomato, tomato, blah, blah, blah.
02:32:24.000That insecurity was a fuel for you to get dressed that night, put yourself in a tight-ass dress, wear pounds of makeup, sit in uncomfortable heels, go into a nightclub with dark, loud music, right, to compete against other women for a spot at a prestigious table while higher-status men.
02:33:59.000Honestly, I agree with you because there's some scenarios where there'll be a guy chasing a girl for such a long period of time, but the second she finds out that he's in a relationship or he's taking a girl seriously...
02:34:15.000Although he's been trying to get her for the longest just because she knows there's another girl in the picture and he's not going to be paying no more mind to her.
02:36:15.000And then someone also said BLM doesn't march for black people who get killed by other black people.
02:36:20.000I've been in several protests in Chicago where we marched for black people who are murdered by other black people and spoke out against gang violence.
02:36:33.000They only go super hard and televise it for the police shootings.
02:36:38.000The news stations are kind of scared to go into certain neighborhoods where we have the protests, where we're speaking up against gang violence.
02:37:00.000I was just saying why I think women need to be insecure and religious for it to work.
02:37:04.000And I was explaining the club dynamic, women competing, the need for women to compete to be attracted to a man versus it's not necessarily required for a man to be attracted to a woman.
02:37:12.000When you mean by insecure, exactly what do you mean?
02:37:23.000Like, competition isn't always a bad thing.
02:37:25.000Like, I feel like as women, we're raised to think, like, comparing ourselves with other women is a bad thing, but it's actually really not.
02:37:32.000Especially, like, if you're an- You guys already do it anyway.
02:42:09.000Ladies, imagine you are engaged in planning your wedding and you find out that he has a good amount of money in his savings, but he doesn't want to spend it on the wedding.
02:43:06.000When you're thinking about like what really matters, like what truly matters to me, what really matters is just me celebrating that love with my partner and that's it.
02:43:16.000I don't care for everybody else to witness and sit there and freaking judge for my food and my dress and wow her dress looks terrible.
02:43:23.000Did you ever have a guy that you thought you were gonna get married to?
02:45:17.000I was like the breadwinner and I was still trying.
02:45:20.000I was a breadwinner and I was doing all this wifey work and I was doing all this commitment, being loyal and everything and for you to try me like that.
02:45:28.000It was an asymmetrical investment from her part.
02:46:09.000Let me ask you this because you and your sister actually do seem fairly bright.
02:46:13.000If your dad was able to build a good family and have two daughters and y'all came out alright and he was fucking chicks, what makes you think that you can't do it too?
02:48:12.000Yo, Myra, back in November 2022, I ask you, my girl hasn't given me box in a month, and turns out she wasn't cheating, never was, and I talked it out with her 100%.
02:48:19.000I have a nice red BRZ stage 2 plus, and y'all say women don't care.
02:48:52.000Ladies, do you feel like merch, if your significant other wants to smash other chicks that he doesn't truly love you, and do you feel the relationship is threatened if he exercises options?
03:03:18.000Okay, so one of those deliberate actions is accepting that this is what comes with the territory of this man, that he is less common than you are, so you have to acclimate to him.
03:03:28.000You're like, well, I have my perspective.
03:03:31.000Well, what about your perspective might be wrong on the man that you want?
03:03:35.000Wouldn't it be fair to say that if I want a bad bitch, if I want a girl that's very attractive, that is an IG model or a girl that's really bad, I probably have to be a successful guy to be able to pull her from all the other guys that want her?
03:05:22.000Or someone that doesn't report their money, you probably want someone from that statistics because those are people that pay taxes that report their income.
03:07:36.000You're not going to talk to everybody.
03:07:38.000It's better to look at the people around you or the cost of living because if you're living in an area where things are expensive, you're going to want to be with someone that makes more money.
03:08:25.000And you want a guy that makes around $65,000 or more, statistically speaking, you're going to meet a lot more guys that reach your requirements.
03:09:00.000I just think the delusion calculator is inaccurate in that sense.
03:09:04.000It's extremely accurate because it extrapolates from two reporting systems that are very accurate in the United States.
03:09:10.000The U.S. Census Bureau from 2020, which accounts for all Americans living in the United States that actually report what they're doing and report their taxes.
03:09:17.000Then you got the National Health Survey.
03:09:18.000So it's the most accurate assessment of men in the United States.
03:09:37.000I think what she's trying to say is that depending on what city you're in, there's a different financial status and you put yourself in positions in other cities to engage with folks.
03:09:51.000I shouldn't have an expectation that a nigga is going to make $100,000 when I know that the cost there is probably a lot less, like around $50,000.
03:10:00.000And so I think that's what she's saying is just be mindful of what city you're in, how much a nigga might make is going to impact.
03:12:10.000Rare Chris W. Okay, ladies, this is the last part of the show.
03:12:13.000Thank you for coming, but give us your thoughts on the show.
03:12:15.000Hit it, love it, comments, questions, and we'll start right here.
03:12:20.000I thought it was kind of like very educational because it gives like views on both sides because you don't in everyday life you don't genuinely like sit down and you're like yo like what do you think about this or what do you think about that you know you don't genuinely like sit down and you like talk about it or you get in depth about it or you have somebody like tell you like yo like you're wrong you know because most of the time people won't tell you you're wrong you know because they're scared of how you're going to react you know what I mean?
03:14:00.000It's always super educational and it's helped me a lot throughout the last couple of years.
03:14:07.000In so many ways, like, I mean, I was 25 when I first came on the show, and I'm 27 now, and I feel like I'm just, yeah, like, we're growing old together, guys.
03:15:25.000Basically, when we have a question, you're able to back it up and I get to understand and not just listen and still not get what you're saying.
03:17:56.000I guess let's just start with the basics that you broke down like the whole cheating aspect.
03:18:03.000I was more of like, I'm more of the type that is like, well, I'm loyal, I'm this, I'm that, I'm willing to like put up, you know, the good aspects and all the good things about me because I'm very submissive.
03:18:24.000I'm very submissive, but when you broke down the whole cheating aspect as to how men, like, obviously if they bring money to the table, that cheating is acceptable or whatever the case may be.
03:21:26.000I have a quick question about that, though.
03:21:30.000Why is it that when women, they want advice from other women that are in a relationship, which, cool, I get it, of course you want that type of advice, why do they still contradict themselves and still end up getting advice from a single person,
03:21:58.000What I'm saying is, if women are so pro, oh, yeah, go ahead and let's just take advice from other women that are in a relationship, why do you still question yourself and still contradict yourself on still getting advice from a single woman regardless of you just saying that?
03:23:34.000If you're in a relationship and their single girls tell you, let's go to the club, you're going to be like, oh, you know, what's the club going to hurt?
03:24:26.000Yeah, when a woman is with a guy that she really truly respects and loves, she doesn't give a damn about anyone's attention.
03:24:36.000She doesn't even want the attention from other guys.
03:24:38.000I'm just curious because I do have a friend that, yeah, she goes ask for advices to take in women, but yet she still contradicts herself and also asks as advices from single women.
03:24:50.000And she's in a good stance with the person right now.
03:26:04.000So, just a different perspective from taking women, accepting relationship advice from single women, that can actually be really dangerous because a lot of women, like a lot of single women, As shitty as this sounds,
03:26:21.000a lot of single women want their friends and relationships to break up.
03:26:26.000They want their friends back to their son.
03:26:30.000In high school, one of my best friends is a homewrecker.
03:26:33.000She would go out of her way to steal or fuck some other...
03:28:58.000But if you want a guy that's going to treat you well, be that guy, you know, oh my god, you're my only one, give me flowers, all that bullshit, and you'll get bored with him in a year, get a more average guy.
03:29:07.000But be content with the two different things.
03:29:10.000One guy's gonna bore you to death and not arouse you, and you're probably gonna be annoyed and not happy, or the other guy, you'll be a little bit sad, he'll fuck other bitches, but you'll be the main one, learn to accept and be happy in that environment.
03:29:22.000Because at the end of the day, that's gonna give you the best environment for who?
03:30:42.000And just to hear different perspectives and just to learn what you said about how insecurity, how women's insecurity can keep the man interested.
03:31:46.000Alright, first I want to say thank you for this opportunity and also shout out to Fist of Wakanda in the chat because he's the one that put me on with watching your guys' show in the first place.
03:31:57.000And then I would say like the two things that stick out to me the most that I'm gonna walk away with here and use it in my next relationship would be The narcissistic, like the other definitions that you guys have made me see a different point of view on.
03:33:18.000I always enjoy being here on the show and just listening to everyone's perspective.
03:33:25.000I've learned a lot the first time I was on the panel and the second time here I feel like it's basically covering almost the same stuff that, you know, I was here the first time.
03:33:36.000But it's just crazy, like, hearing the delusions of other women that I had to let go, and that's why I feel like I'm in my relationship now, is letting go of those delusions.
03:33:52.000So you said some things that girls said on the panel today, you said that before, and you had to let go of some of those things to make your relationship better?
03:33:58.000Yeah, like, oh no, he's not going to cheat.
03:34:23.000Not being insecure or a pick-me-girl, but yeah, I feel like I am a pick-me-girl, and if you're not, then you will lose the competition with the man that you want to be with.
03:34:36.000So it's important to please your man and offer different things that It's just not pussy and say, oh, I'm beautiful and I have great pussy.
03:34:46.000I give good head because there's hella visions that have the same thing that I have.
03:34:52.000There's millions of beautiful women here.
03:35:04.000And also, like, the thing with standards, as far as, like, you know, having, like, an average man or, like, you know, like, someone who might be less attractive but could still provide for you, like, I feel like that you should give everyone a chance.
03:36:27.000I think one of the things that I'm taking away here is that I really don't think love is a competition.
03:36:32.000I feel like the way that y'all have been talking about it feels like it is.
03:36:35.000And I would really push people to read All About Love by Bell Hooks.
03:36:39.000And I think she does a really good job of explaining relationships and how to engage in them healthfully.
03:36:45.000I feel like here we've been talking about how to engage in relationships that You can pretend or fake or act to get what you want.
03:36:52.000And I think that's very unhealthy and can be really scary.
03:36:55.000And so I hope people are really considering what they actually need and what is going to be good for them and not necessarily like, what can I do to get somebody?
03:41:12.000Go ahead, read Bell Hooks, read Audre Lorde, like, these black feminists who actually have fought, died, trying to push forth our own liberation.
03:41:21.000And, like, we here, having men tell us, be picknets.
03:41:23.000You guys are the freest you've ever been in history.
03:44:50.000So these women are consciously and willingly sexually objecting themselves to wear no clothing and then put pads on and then running to each other and Like, what?
03:48:09.000Rightfully so, as they should run it because they built that business up.
03:48:12.000Or maybe because men have engaged in the long practice of colonialism and exploitation that has instilled certain European gender roles in our society.
03:48:40.000Is it really European colonialism when you look at the Asian dynasties, you look at the Arab dynasties, you look at Native American dynasties, they were all patriarchies, yet they never spoke to each other and there was no way of communicating back then in the old ages?
03:49:03.000And I'm trying to explain to you, they adopted a patriarchy, yet all these other societies did as well, and none of them spoke to each other.
03:49:10.000Without the advent of modern telephones, technology, etc.
03:49:13.000But they all practice patriarchies and they all existed.
03:51:04.000If y'all keep reading, then you're not reading.
03:51:06.000Look, it's not about reading, because I read.
03:51:08.000What I'm trying to explain to you is how is it a social construct when societies that don't even know each other since the beginning of time, Asians, Native Americans, Europeans, Arabs, etc., they never spoke to each other, but they all had patriarchies.
03:52:49.000I'm not here to disrespect or belittle you.
03:52:51.000I'm just telling you that if you're going to have an argument here based on debate and logically sound arguments, you have to argue in logic, in fact, not necessarily your feelings.
03:53:01.000But I am, and what you're doing is you're just not listening, so I'm not going to continue to get...
03:53:22.000So I was gonna say because I know that you mentioned that there's like certain jobs that men get and women don't but I've been interviewed for plenty of jobs that they ask you directly like are you a female because people are more comfortable speaking to a female at the front than with a man.
03:53:40.000That's why like I see where you're trying to get with this mommy but like At the same time, you also have to understand that this fear that women have towards men, it's not gonna go anywhere.
03:53:51.000So there are certain jobs that only us women can do because only us women give that motherly, that nurturing nature.
03:55:39.000We're saying, okay, look, it's very simple.
03:55:42.000That energy that you take into the BLM protest, go ahead and apply for a construction job or something in science, technology, engineering, or math, do porcelain asphalt, go Alaska fishing, you know, whatever you want to do.
03:55:52.000Work one of these very difficult manual labor jobs that women don't want to work.
03:55:56.000Now, you also said something about social constructioning makes you go into certain jobs.
03:59:59.000What I'm trying to get at is that we are raised in a culture where we're getting messages, where we're being told this is how we're supposed to look, how we're supposed to be as women, and that there's certain jobs that we're being told growing up that this is what women do, that this is what you can do.
04:00:12.000And it's rare that we're being told, oh, you can go into these other paths until later on when they start doing more STEM programs for women.
04:00:19.000All I'm trying to say is that we are raised in a culture that tells us this is what women are supposed to be like, how we're supposed to exist, and doing a lot of women choose to do that.
04:00:48.000Because it can't be both because you're contradicting yourself.
04:00:50.000How am I contradicting myself by saying we are raised with certain messages about what it means to be a woman in this world and that those ideas of a woman is what's given to us and that they're being a choice?
04:01:00.000Again, if you have a choice in life and you're raised a certain way, it's still a choice.
04:01:04.000I'm going to be honest, brutally honest here.
04:01:06.000This is typical leftist propaganda that poisons a lot of women and people in the West in general where you don't want to take accountability.
04:01:12.000You want to blame society and the past for why you make the decisions in the current.
04:01:16.000And this is a very toxic mindset to have because you skirt accountability for your own decisions.
04:01:27.000If I get caught selling drugs and I sit there and tell the police, yo, you gotta understand, it's a social construct that grew up in a neighborhood where there was a bunch of drug dealers and I couldn't control it.
04:01:54.000But we live in this crazy clown world where it's black people's, it's the police's fault, it's the society's fault, everything is sexist, we live in this crazy patriarchy, blah blah blah.
04:02:01.000This patriarchy has given you the opportunity to get on this podcast and speak in a comfortable environment where you're not attacked for your opinions and you're able to speak freely, backed by U.S. military, run by men that you say oppress you so you can be protected from the country that you left, Ethiopia.
04:02:47.000If you don't like it, you can always go back to Ethiopia.
04:02:49.000But you're here because you're able to enjoy certain freedoms and certain privileges and rights that you would never be afforded anywhere else.
04:02:56.000Because it's backed by the U.S. military, run by men, run by these people that you are going ahead and saying that were oppressed.
04:03:02.000Okay, look, you don't have to be here if it's a fascist government.
04:03:05.000You can go back to Ethiopia where there's no government.
04:03:07.000The United States constantly sells what you're saying as propaganda to the rest of the world and then the rest of the world comes to the United States.
04:06:16.000No, but that's just because, like, my sister and I, like, we're very different.
04:06:20.000Like, I grew up being a gamer, and, like, she grew up wanting to be an activist, and so, like, we're just that, we've always just been different.
04:06:33.000And then, Jose Perez, she having a stroke mid-argument from getting cooked LMAO. She definitely about to get a cheeseburger after this to calm down.
04:06:40.000Guys, I hope you enjoyed that show, man.
04:06:48.000And then Friday we got a bank for you.
04:06:51.000And then, oh, we're going to go to Texas.
04:06:52.000We're going to be with Christian Guzman, Max Tuning, and then Friday we're going to have a panel show for you guys with MJ Get Right, FedEx Fearless, and Austin Dunham.