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00:01:38.000Alright, so what we're going to basically do, guys, is we'll be on Rumble for two weeks, and then we'll pretty much be on some good behavior for the next month or so, and then we'll be straight.
00:03:10.000I talked about the mistrial for YW Melly, so go check that one.
00:03:13.000I was doing good on the views, and I broke down what a mistrial is, what's going to happen from this point forward, what I predict is going to happen.
00:03:19.000I also broke down why the prosecution wasn't able to get a guilty verdict.
00:03:22.000I broke that down because they did some serious mistakes in the trial.
00:04:21.000But without further ado, ladies, if you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course, and we're going to start right here.
00:13:35.000Yeah, no, I, uh, because I heard that they're going to change, basically the uniform is like the classic old uniform and they're going to change it to modernize it.
00:21:54.000So the problem is, right, is with the translator, if you don't have, like, answers, for example, action behind it, it's going to be, like, very boring.
00:22:00.000So you've got to play the part and actually, like, show emotion and show, like, you know, back and forth banter, kind of, like, in-person focus versus, like, texting just, like, text randomly back and forth.
00:22:11.000Yeah, and guys, don't forget Rumble.com slash Sneeko.
00:27:03.000Um, I'm really big on communication and personality for guys, especially, like, I don't like guys who are, like, one way in front of their friends and then one way with a girl, you know?
00:30:16.000And, I mean, he might not be emotional and, like, manifest it out to you from an outward perspective of telling you, like, oh, my God, I love you.
00:30:21.000But I would say actions speak louder than words, and him being there is the ultimate personification of love.
00:30:26.000It's just that men and women are very different.
00:30:42.000Because, I mean, when I was your age, well, a little bit younger, like, my dad was like that too, very stoic and didn't really show emotion and shit, and it, like, rubbed me the wrong way a little bit, but then I realized, like, what the fuck?
00:33:07.000You may not be as stable as you want to be right now, but as long as you have that ambition that you want to have a goal because in the end of the day, it's all about being in profit.
00:42:43.000She's saying that they're raised like that because women have to also be independent and work for, like, the head of the house.
00:42:57.000The head of the house, but not the head when it comes to the head of the workforce.
00:43:01.000So what you guys are all setting up for, because if you're going to emulate the way your mothers are and what you respect and women, you are going to have a bunch of combative, argumentative Terrible relationships.
00:43:12.000Getting into it where you're always going to be competing.
00:43:13.000That's what you see with Aisha Curry and Steph Curry where she always looks at Steph and she's always competing because she wants to be the hard-working boss too.
00:43:49.000Do the ladies kind of get where he's going with on this panel?
00:43:52.000A lot of you guys mentioned, the traits that you guys mentioned, hardworking, ambitious, making money, being independent, these are all fairly masculine traits that you guys all described.
00:44:00.000These are traits that men are supposed to have.
00:44:44.000It infects the rest of culture from hip-hop and from what you see on TV. Women think that they need to demand respect the same way that men need to demand respect.
00:44:53.000And that's not how we're going to be happy.
00:44:57.000No, it's like once you find, like a woman finds a man that's like supportive enough, sorry, supportive enough and like caring for a woman, then the woman can not have to be as like strong.
00:45:08.000But that's the double standard that we always see.
00:45:10.000Imagine if a man was being feminine all the time until we found the woman that we want to be with and then we start being masculine.
00:45:31.000So, for example, let's say a guy was wearing heels three days of the week, but then when he hangs out with you the other four days of the week, he acts like a man.
00:45:50.000So in other words, you can pick and choose when you want to be a lady.
00:45:54.000You can boss up and be a boss babe four or five days a week.
00:45:57.000And then on the weekends, you'd be a lady to him.
00:45:59.000But if we flipped it around and he wore heels Monday through Friday and then was a man on the weekends, you would never accept that, correct?
00:51:52.000Would it be fair to say that a lot of men that you just described, like a boss babe or whatever, are the same men that you're not attracted to?
00:52:17.000They're gonna end up, they're gonna find no women are gonna be attracted to them and so their only solution is cutting off their dick and becoming girls.
00:52:24.000No, I'm saying there is a lot of boss ladies out there, and I think that's great.
00:52:30.000But yeah, I think a lot of men do like that, and I guess that's just like...
00:52:34.000But the thing is, the boss ladies aren't attracted to those femboys.
00:54:29.000I honestly think that nowadays, some of the girls are saying that there is some men that do find that attractive, especially men that do already have their own money, their own business.
00:54:42.000I feel like if you get another girl that has the same thing, y'all can be more powerful.
00:54:47.000Do you think successful men want a successful woman?
00:54:50.000Or better yet, care about a successful woman?
00:54:56.000I feel like men would want to pretty much have a girl and then like they can both be successful.
00:55:08.000Do you think a successful man that already has his own money, builds himself up, cares about a woman that built herself up and is successful?
00:55:41.000If it's a successful woman and she knows what she's doing, she can help the man, obviously, have more knowledge with more things because you're not going to know everything in the world.
00:55:49.000But do you think he cares about that as much?
00:55:50.000No, but I think it's good to have in a relationship.
00:57:20.000Just because you can, just because you're told that women can do the same things that men can do, that doesn't mean that that's going to be a happier relationship.
00:57:27.000If you're motivated, then you can do it.
00:57:29.000It doesn't matter that you can do it or not.
00:57:34.000The main objective should be having a happy relationship.
00:59:07.000You're like, this guy thinks he's better than me.
00:59:10.000Do you think a career and being independent and a boss makes you more attractive in the dating market?
00:59:20.000I really think it just depends on how the guy was raised.
00:59:24.000Because if he was raised with a mom that was independent, you know, like, single mom lifestyle, I feel like he would lean more towards women that are independent.
00:59:35.000Would you want that man, though, realistically speaking?
00:59:37.000A man that comes from a single mother household?
01:00:28.000If anything, because you don't have anyone rearing you in your, you know, early years, and you're by yourself a lot, that leads to a lot of issues.
01:00:36.000And then, worse yet, let's say the mom is doing some, like, nefarious work to make ends meet, being a hoe, whatever it is, right?
01:00:41.000Because sex work is accepted nowadays.
01:00:44.000Yeah, but you can have another form of, like, you can have, you can, oh my god, your mom can be a single mom, but you can have another form of, like, a dad.
01:01:02.000Yeah, but sometimes that doesn't happen.
01:01:04.000Okay, so going back to my original question, so you think that it would make you more attractive in the dating marketplace if the guy came from a single mom?
01:01:11.000No, I'm just saying it depends to the guy how he was raised, what he would prefer.
01:05:40.000Do you think your career and your status and your money helps you in the dating marketplace?
01:05:45.000I also think it depends on the person.
01:05:48.000Okay, for the man that you typically would want, a successful man that has his shit together, that's ambitious and driven, do you think he would care?
01:05:59.000I think in general, it doesn't matter, but I have had a situation where a guy was like, until we make this amount of money together, we're not going to take you on a date.
01:06:08.000Or it was like, what else was the other thing?
01:06:35.000I think it depends on the guy for sure because there are broke guys out here and it may seem like it's intimidating to them because it's like, oh, do they make more money?
01:06:46.000No, I just want someone that's definitely ambitious and wants to be stable as well because if I'm going to be that woman for him, then I want to bring peace and love and loyalty and have a family.
01:06:55.000My question is if he's stable and has his shit together, do you think he cares about you having it as much?
01:07:00.000I mean, I feel like he would want more from me is me bringing him peace, bringing a family, like, you know, like being that nurturer in the home, like, you know what I mean?
01:07:10.000Of course, this would be added if I make money, but I don't know.
01:07:13.000It really does depend on the guy, though, because there's guys out there that are doing well and, like, they're good.
01:07:17.000They're probably like, hey, mommy, like, I'm gonna take care of you.
01:09:08.000If he spent more time getting dressed than you did, spent more time at the gym than you did, looked at himself in the mirror more than you did, was more handsome than you, he commanded more attention than you did, he was a fairer...
01:09:19.000I mean, I'd take a long time to get ready, so, like, I would understand.
01:09:22.000Yeah, but he would take longer than you just to beat you out.
01:09:23.000And then when you get to the restaurant, he asks you to take pictures of him standing in front of the restaurant with his hand on his hip?
01:10:10.000I'd be concerned because, like, I wouldn't understand why it would be taking longer than you when they don't have to wear, like, a full face of makeup or...
01:10:47.000Just like you don't gain anything from a man being handsome and his beauty, we don't gain anything from your career and your money or your ambition.
01:12:21.000A very handsome, metrosexual man that annoys you is the same exact situation as a woman that's a boss that gets her money and screams that she's independent.
01:12:28.000It doesn't benefit me to be with a woman that wants to compete with me.
01:12:31.000Just like it doesn't benefit you to be with a man that wants to compete with you from a look standpoint.
01:15:25.000But yeah, but in other Hooters, I guarantee, like in liberal cities, like in New York and shit, they probably got fat bitches working there.
01:15:31.000Hung Nerd goes, debatable, according to Rockefeller culture, looking at history from the 50s and 60s till present time, boss babe culture has made society slash quality of life ethically and economically worse in many ways.
01:15:43.000Okay, so he's saying that women entering the workforce has hurt society.
01:15:51.000Okay, what he's saying is that Since the 60s, which is when feminism basically started to take heed or become a thing, it's made society and the quality of life worse economically and in many ways.
01:16:05.000Do you agree or disagree that feminism has hurt society in general?
01:16:53.000But where you're wrong is that it's also hurting women, too, because women are becoming masculine the same way that men are becoming feminine.
01:16:59.000Just because you have more power and you're more dominating, that doesn't mean that it's necessarily a good thing.
01:17:04.000I know that you think that it's equal, but that doesn't mean that it's better just because you're working.
01:18:17.000I think she made a lot and just didn't publicize them all.
01:18:21.000So the one example of a woman who's smart with business is somebody who got famous and successful taking BBC. Or Kylie, but that's her sister.
01:18:32.000The other one who married a guy, a rapper, or got a baby with a rapper.
01:18:36.000And she's piggybacking off of that BBC fame.
01:18:39.000She's only famous because her sister took BBC. Pretty much.
01:19:02.000Because, well, I'd say it's helped, I guess you could say women's society because they're able to do what they want to do, but then for the men, it's...
01:23:24.000Why do you prefer to work for a man over a woman?
01:23:27.000I think because of mostly protection, I feel like if there were something to happen in my workplace, a female can't do, a female can't protect me like a man could.
01:23:54.000I just feel like men have that masculinity and absolutely in situations like that a woman would not be capable because we would just emotionally freeze in certain things like that.
01:24:10.000But yeah, I definitely do agree with the two girls as well, is that you feel more safe with a man, also, for any type of situation.
01:24:17.000Isn't it interesting how they said boss babes, etc., but none of them would want to work for a female boss.
01:24:22.000Also, females are very competitive, too.
01:24:24.000Being a boss babe, ambitious, or whatever.
01:24:27.000I'm going to say the cold-hearted truth that you guys don't want to admit.
01:24:30.000Women don't do well when they have power.
01:24:32.000That's the real reason that you guys don't want to work for a woman, because when a woman has authority and power over you, We're good to go.
01:24:54.000And the other thing, too, is that it's natural for a woman to follow a man in a boss-employee-type relationship, but it's not natural for a woman to follow another woman a lot of the times.
01:25:03.000Typically, in a work setting, if the woman is the boss, and let's say you're a rising star in a company, you're doing well, she's like, you know what?
01:26:18.000If you have a subordinate and your boss is older than you and she's miserable, she's going to treat the younger woman that's more attractive than her like shit a lot of the times.
01:26:24.000It just happens because women have this natural tendency to hate women that are prettier than them.
01:27:42.000Okay, I agree, but I also think that realistically right now, girls can't completely rely on just being pretty because it's not like the olden days.
01:27:49.000You can't just go have a man and the man takes care of you forever.
01:28:48.000I think, realistically, men can't completely blame women for wanting to be boss babes, I think, because you can't really just rely on being pretty anymore.
01:28:58.000Because not a lot of men are bosses or anything.
01:29:01.000Not a lot of men are successful in that case.
01:29:04.000That's true, but you have the internet to make up for that now.
01:29:10.000You have access to more of these successful guys than before.
01:29:13.000Even though there's less of them, which I agree with you on, there are less of them, there's less traditional men, but you make up for that with the sheer abundance of men on the internet.
01:29:22.000But I would say the men on the internet and men that before times, what we would go through more masculine and stuff like that, they're very picky.
01:29:31.000And it's hard to find a man in that sense.
01:29:35.000Well, I mean, you have more options, though.
01:29:37.000But don't forget, if you're the actual prize, so to speak, that he wants to be with, then it's not really that hard because he wants you because you're so different than all the other girls.
01:29:45.000But most men like that don't only want one girl.
01:29:55.000I mean, you even said, I wrote it down, do you want a guy that's going to be honest when he wants to fuck other girls that you can have that conversation, correct?
01:31:01.000And we understand that girls, a lot of times, do need to provide for themselves on the front end, but it goes back to the first question, based on respect.
01:31:07.000That shouldn't be your priority, trying to get respect based on how much you earn and how much you make.
01:31:12.000Your priority should be keeping your body count low, being feminine, being pretty.
01:31:16.000And if you are those things, based on how many girls, and we see it in the panel, are girl boss queens, you're going to get scooped up immediately.
01:31:21.000If you're feminine just like that, like you're...
01:31:24.000I'm going to Google translate you right after the show just because of how few there are.
01:31:29.000So you will get scooped up if you keep those things.
01:31:31.000It's interesting because their answer is 100% actually, you know, they contradict what we've been talking about.
01:31:37.000So it's true that a lot of girls need to do that, but then don't think that that's how women earn respect because you all know that that's not what you respect in women.
01:31:46.000You know that the Victoria's Secret model is the alpha female in the room over Hillary Clinton.
01:31:52.000But I feel like it's a reassuring thing.
01:31:54.000Like, if a girl has a job, or no, if a girl doesn't have a job in a relationship, and God forbid, like, they split up, the woman is left with nothing.
01:32:05.000Yeah, but do men actually initiate a breakup still, realistically speaking?
01:34:51.000Most of you guys don't have any interesting hobbies or stories, right?
01:34:55.000And most of them don't bring a lot of value to a man in a relationship.
01:34:58.000So my thing is, being a thousand percent honest, a lot of times guys just want sexual variety because women in general a lot of times don't bring a lot to a man.
01:35:05.000So the only difference between a regular guy that's monogamous and a successful guy is the successful guy has the ability and the status to be able to get multiple women.
01:35:13.000So the girls will go ahead and take that guy that's a winner and share him over having a guy that's a loser alter herself.
01:35:19.000And the reason why is because women are very, how do I say this, you guys all have very similar traits and characteristics and behaviors, and you guys are more alike than you guys think you are, but a lot of you guys think that you're special, when a lot of times you're not.
01:35:30.000And I'm not saying that men are special either.
01:35:31.000Men are, we're very similar in the way that we behave.
01:35:34.000The only difference is, the more of a loser the guy is, the more he has to lie about his real intentions.
01:36:33.000There is a small percentage of guys that do that.
01:36:35.000But if you keep on jumping from relationship to relationship, thinking that you're going to find that guy, the truth is that guy who really wants to be monogamous and settle down, he's probably already done it since he was 18, 19, and they've been together for a long time.
01:36:45.000So the more relationships that you jump from, you're going to have baggage.
01:36:48.000You're going to have emotional damage.
01:36:50.000And that 1% guy that you really want to be with, he's already settling down with the girl, and he's not going to want you because that guy probably wants a virgin.
01:36:58.000So you should probably settle with that guy.
01:38:02.000If you have a multimillionaire that's self-made and another one that trusts one baby, can the trust one baby tell the self-made millionaire how to spend their money?
01:39:29.000Are you going to communicate with that, though?
01:39:31.000Like, are you going to tell your girl, yo, like, I do want to, like, mess around with other girls, too, or let her know, like, hey, like, I'm tempted?
01:39:37.000Well, it's a very uncomfortable conversation.
01:39:38.000You could tell that we just had just now, right?
01:40:44.000Everyone here is a contradiction because everyone wants like a big boss and like a big woman and when you ask her the pretty and pretty and you ask?
01:42:28.000Yeah, I was gonna say back to like where you guys as men would want to sleep with multiple women.
01:42:34.000Would it be random women or would it be a select woman?
01:42:38.000I personally want to get married to multiple women.
01:42:41.000I want to have two or three wives, maybe four.
01:42:43.000That seems like a lot of work, but I would rather have two or three wives where there's an understanding.
01:42:47.000The women are probably never really going to like each other.
01:42:50.000Ideally, they do, but I understand that that's difficult.
01:42:54.000And Meyer, for example, he wants to be able to sleep with a lot of women, but I would rather have two or three women that I provide for and we're all one big family.
01:46:55.000That's why I said before, being able to sleep with a lot of girls is typically a byproduct of the success that you've accumulated, but it doesn't increase your lower status from banging the girls.
01:47:29.000Just because I can afford a lot of cocaine and just because I can take time off and I can skip work and just do coke all day because it's fun doesn't mean that I should do it.
01:47:35.000And I would probably be a better man if I exercise restraint and don't do the cocaine all day.
01:48:56.000You know, I understand because obviously, like, it's just like some women, like, they can't have one dick for their whole life either because there's girls out there that are the same way.
01:49:19.000I think maybe could consider it if I was like obsessed with the guy like I'd have to really like him it wouldn't have to be just an option you know what I mean like I'd have to actually want it not just it be like a good option that I should have you know okay do you think if you need him more than you want him that'll work out better no I have to want him if I just need him then I can wait you know okay interesting okay for you yeah If I'm the main girl he could provide for me,
01:50:42.000If he's being honest throughout the beginning, I feel like that would be my choice, of course, because if I'm going to get involved with you, I would have to, of course, be okay with it.
01:57:45.000Like, I respect his, like, opinion of, like, just, like, maybe, sorry, I respect his opinion of, you know, having, like, three or four or five wives, but only, like, the wives, not just random women that he's gonna sleep with on the side.
01:58:00.000Okay, so your parameter is if it's random women, no, but solid connections, yes.
01:59:09.000Do you think that you'd be compromising if it was two or three wives instead?
01:59:13.000Instead of just random club whores and like all this, if it was secure and if it was an actual connection, would that be something that you could be happy with or would you be compromising?
02:01:52.000It's like, I'd rather like the risk how she's saying, like, I'd rather him get the wives pregnant instead of some random whore that pops up and they're like, Hey, I'm pregnant.
02:02:00.000Like, you know, so I guess the three wives.
02:02:12.000Instead of investing yourself in all these random women that you don't care about, having some sort of emotional connection and exercising polygyny in the Islamic way is the way to go.
02:02:39.000Firepower shot goes, WMRN, WFresh, and question for the girls.
02:02:42.000What if you found your dream man that is perfect in every aspect, but the only way you could date slash marry him is if you converted to Islam.
02:04:16.000So don't think of that being a wife and being a mother as NPC. That's your happiest state.
02:04:21.000We've established that this girl boss thing is not going to make you happy, that you don't want to do it and you're actually just doing it to cope for the fact that you need to make money.
02:04:28.000What you actually want to do is being your feminine.
02:04:30.000Being an Islamic wife, that would be, based on what you've all said in this podcast, that's better than everything else you're saying.
02:06:44.000Make no mistake, tonight one or two things are going to happen on FNF. The manager is either going to get Frank Castle or she's going to cry and FNF saves another life from degeneracy.
02:07:45.000Can you ask the girl who respects her dad if she thinks he's going to like seeing her in front of a large audience that she wants to kiss a black man's cock?
02:12:06.000So we're going to turn it over to the ladies if you guys have a comment or question or disagreement or anything like that that we discussed.
02:12:10.000We talked about how being a boss isn't necessarily conducive to you finding the man that you want.
02:17:06.000All your girls will leave their guys, so guys don't know.
02:17:09.000Yeah, all girls, you're all the same with that.
02:17:12.000You're always going to use that against you.
02:17:14.000Then I think when that situation happened that the girl would use against, they should communicate it and it should be fixed before anything else goes on so then they won't be able to bring it up because it's already done.
02:17:24.000That's the ideal way right now in this conversation, but relationships are two people trying to be together for the rest of their lives.
02:17:33.000It's two people putting everything on the line.
02:17:35.000That ideal situation is not going to happen.
02:17:37.000That ideal relationship isn't It doesn't work like that.
02:17:40.000There's one leader and there's one follower.
02:17:42.000And so when the follower ever questions the leader, it's the same thing when you think about the president.
02:17:45.000Like when you see Trump kiss the wall, for example, or the fact that Trump shilled the vaccine.
02:17:50.000Anytime that a politician drops his guard or a politician isn't perfect, you remember it and that's the reason why you're not going to vote for him again.
02:17:57.000So yeah, ideally, you look for somebody's best moments and different traits, but you don't want to see anybody mess up.
02:18:02.000You don't want to see your leader ever mess up because you're going to remember it.
02:18:34.000Men are superior to women in almost every which way.
02:18:36.000When you look at the peak of excellence, whether it's through sport, through philosophy, through technology, through any type of human endeavor, it's always men at the top.
02:18:44.000Women don't really contribute much to society.
02:19:31.000You want to know if I lost my job or I'm broke or I don't have my shit together so that you can get a real-time piece of information and make a decision that will benefit you.
02:20:24.000They can't tell you the truth because they know if they tell you the truth, they're not high value enough to be able to keep you with the truth.
02:21:26.000But I feel like if there's a problem and then if a solution comes up, if there's multiple options, she's there not to help, but to help you decide on what the best solution would be.
02:21:51.000The only point of me talking it out with you is not because you are going to be able to provide any solutions, because you're not going to be able to.
02:21:57.000The only reason I would talk to you about it is to talk about my feelings more.
02:22:00.000And the more I get into that state, the more I talk about my feelings, the more I become like you.
02:22:03.000And then we're like two girls sitting on the couch with a bottle of wine.
02:22:22.000The only way I'll talk to you about it is if, for example, I've already solved the issue.
02:22:26.000I'm telling you what happened and I solved it as your leader because once again, I'm showing you an issue where it could have been bad for us, but I solved it quickly so we know we can move on and do something fun or exciting in that instance.
02:22:41.000If they think that they're not having the best opportunity to get the best guy, they're going to leave.
02:22:45.000That's just how women operate, unfortunately.
02:22:47.000There is no loyalty when it comes to females.
02:22:49.000It's about, let me get the best guy that I can, or a guy that has the potential to be the best guy, right?
02:22:54.000So that's why a girl date a bum, because she thinks, he'll change, he'll eventually become a somebody.
02:22:58.000But the reality is women date opportunistically.
02:23:00.000So since women date opportunistically, it's not in your best interest to be honest with them if you don't have your shit together a lot of times.
02:23:06.000Because most women can't handle honesty.
02:23:07.000And if you do tell them the truth, they're going to make a decision that isn't in your favor.
02:23:11.000So that's why so many guys lie to women, because women can't handle the truth in general.
02:23:25.000Because you don't care about geopolitics.
02:23:27.000You don't want to know stuff that's uncomfortable.
02:23:29.000Women like to live in this comfortable la-la-land reality.
02:23:32.000The same reason why you all lied about what you respect in people, because you like to think things that make you happy.
02:23:38.000That's the same reason you watch the shows that you watch and you consume the music and the culture that you consume because women operate like children.
02:23:45.000The same reason that kids like to be in the playground.
02:23:47.000They don't want to know what's happening in Russia or Ukraine.
02:25:10.000And the reason why, if you understand them, you can't respect them, is because you don't hold them to the same masculine standard as a man.
02:25:16.000That's why when I go out with a woman, I pay for the date, I plan everything, etc.
02:25:19.000I don't look at women as equals at all.
02:26:54.000I think it's realistic and that's what women want.
02:26:56.000Women don't want a man who treats them as an equal.
02:27:00.000You want to know how you're getting better at this?
02:27:01.000Because maybe two years ago, there would have been more anger in it.
02:27:04.000I think a lot of the reason that the girls are saying that they want to be girl bosses and that respect ambitious qualities is because they're interacting with a lot of guys that don't know how to explain it properly or not at that level yet.
02:27:13.000But you're getting better at this point where all of them are listening to what you're saying, which is naturally heard from a lot of other people as misogynistic.
02:27:18.000But when you explain it in a logical way, when I say that women are children and want to go just play with the little toys and make sandwiches and stuff, that used to be something that girls would get extremely triggered by.
02:27:28.000I'm saying this now, and I'm so used to girls immediately arguing, and no one's even challenging that point.
02:31:10.000I don't even know what she said anymore.
02:31:12.000Even though in reality a girl shouldn't be a girl boss and stuff, you still gotta respect the girls that go out there and have to work for themselves.
02:39:09.000Okay, I guess the question without the attitude, Myron, is if you find the ideal woman, why do you think that the ideal woman cannot expect her ideal man?
02:45:07.000You're saying like, yeah, you're the man, you're dealing with the problems, you would rather not tell her because you're coming to her because she's supposed to be your piece.
02:45:15.000So you don't even want to talk about that stuff because you're already dealing with it and you'd rather not her even know about it because you know that you're going to end up fixing it.
02:45:23.000Yeah, that was what we were talking about earlier, but she's saying when she's pissed off about something, what are you going to be nagging about?
02:46:39.000Instead of ask questions that you know the answer to because you want to be like, well, you are asking that question so that I'm like, no, I like your ass.
02:48:19.000My argument is that if you look at the top comedians, you look at the top entertainers, etc., it's almost always men because there is a burden of performance on men.
02:48:26.000Men actually need to be funny if they're going to be comedians.
02:48:28.000Men actually need to be entertaining if they're going to run a podcast or have some kind of long-form content.
02:48:35.000That's why if you look at female entertainers or social media influencers, they dominate TikTok and or Instagram where it's visual in short duration.
02:51:20.000Why try to make a point when you're just going to get argued with?
02:51:22.000Because you can't make a I understand.
02:51:45.000But like I'm just saying I'm trying to make a point and like he just proved the point where like when we bring something up it's usually contradicted or just you're stupid or why are you talking and all of that.
02:51:55.000Yeah we're just challenging your points because if it made sense we wouldn't challenge it but okay we see that but what I'm trying to say is that the reason why is because I don't know if you guys all noticed you guys all agree to what the first girl said she's the prettiest even though a lot of you probably don't think so but women are group thinkers in general and kind of go with the flow this is why women are easier to control and they're more consumers I think that they're seeing it boring because they can defend themselves.
02:52:23.000So they think the panel is boring because they can't defend themselves.
02:55:31.000Because I guess it's just because y'all asking questions that are a bit uncomfortable and it's not something that we're asked on the daily.
02:55:37.000So it's kind of like picking our brain, you know?
02:55:39.000So like, absolutely, like we're a little, you know, like, hmm, and we're listening and kind of, you're picking our brains.
02:55:45.000It's a bit, you know, a bit reprogrammed.
02:58:25.000As girls, like, we tend to, like, be with, like, the wrong guys and, like, settling for the love that we think that we deserve and, like, giving our all to the wrong dude when they're not even filling up our cup and we should be reciprocated.
02:58:40.000But heart-wise, though, I get it that you guys are talking about providing and all that things.
02:58:44.000It's just great because the man should play that role to make the girl feel safe and everything's good and we can provide for our family and we don't have to worry about that.
02:58:52.000But I'm saying when it comes to mental, dude, you're saying that we'll use whatever guys are going through and manipulate them.
02:59:01.000That sounds like very narcissistic behavior.
02:59:04.000You shouldn't be treating no one like that and using their pain To make them feel even worse.
02:59:09.000Vulnerability is growth at the end of the day.
02:59:11.000I don't think that there's nothing wrong with a man being upset once in a while.
02:59:16.000There's nothing wrong with having emotions.
02:59:19.000I think he should be upset with his friends, not with a woman.
02:59:22.000He can go ahead and cry and complain to them, but not with his girl.
02:59:27.000But I'm not saying like you gotta act like a, you know, like a bee to me, but I'm saying, no, it's just like, if anything, I would like you to express yourself.
02:59:36.000I wouldn't want you to keep yourself in because that's not healthy either.
02:59:39.000Yeah, I'm saying express yourself to your guys, not to your girl.
02:59:42.000Because you don't want to look like a pussy to your girl?
03:00:33.000But, I mean, I'm saying, like, there's nothing wrong with showing that type of emotion to your spouse that you're having that compatibility and team.
03:00:41.000Like, you're supposed to be a team at the end of the day.
03:00:43.000So, for example, you said earlier, right, you can handle the issues of the truth and issues that he may bring up to you, right?
03:00:49.000But just because you can handle it doesn't mean she can handle it.
03:00:50.000Which means I'm taking a gamble of hoping that she can handle my issues and she won't break it with me or take it to a point where, you know what, it might mess us up.
03:00:58.000So I'm just saying, in general, why bring that in the first place when I could lose my girl in general?
03:05:03.000And I think more men need to adopt this mindset that I have that you don't look at women as equals because when you look at them as children and that you're the leader, it automatically puts a responsibility on you.
03:05:15.000If I look at you as an equal, you're not going to respect me.
03:06:52.000Were y'all raised with two parents in the household and do y'all think that it was a stepping stool for y'all or made y'all work harder for being successful?
03:07:00.000I grew up, yeah, I grew up in a two-parent household and I think it drove me to do the right thing and work hard.
03:10:19.000Being honest with women and telling them how men really think or lying to them and telling them you're going to have a dream man to yourself.
03:11:37.000It's going to hurt to put the umbrella on.
03:11:38.000I'm not going to be comfortable because you can't show your beauty off.
03:11:41.000Of course, I can take the umbrella, but if your term is, I don't have a volume for you because the old woman in the world is the same thing for you.
03:11:53.000The old woman in the world because you are the best guy in the world.
03:12:04.000I'm saying men in general are going to want to have multiple women.
03:12:06.000Whether it's me, your ex-boyfriend, this Cuban guy that you're seeing now, they're all going to have multiple women or want multiple women.
03:14:05.000She's going to continue trying to fight this for some reason.
03:14:07.000Even though you understand that that's the reality of men, she's making this stink face because you think that you're going to change the weather for some reason.
03:14:13.000The truth is you cannot control the weather.
03:16:24.000You guys gave me a lot more insight about how, I guess, I'm delusioned because I don't see all the quality men that you guys are talking about, like, what men are supposed to be in you guys' eyes.
03:19:09.000It's like I can't say that there's one more than the other because they're completely different.
03:19:13.000Just like we've established this entire podcast that men and women are not equal and they're completely different, I can't equate the respect level for men that I can for the respect level for women.
03:21:33.000So if you're sitting here telling me your mom, let's say your mom is in front of you right now, and you're sitting here telling me you tell your mom, I respect our father for walking away.
03:27:40.000Myron, would you value, compared to like a random girl in Publix of Miami, what about an 18-year-old Nakabi, unvaccinated virgin girl, and you meet her father, and then you're able to get that marriage through the brother and the father.
03:27:52.000Would you value her the same way as a random girl in Miami?
03:33:20.000So in other words, what I'm trying to say is that from the time you're a little girl, You're indoctrinated and you know that your values stemmed and tied to that of a man that you get married to.
03:33:30.000Everything from the female experience is typically tied to some type of relationship with a man.
03:33:36.000So what I'm trying to say is, I say all that to say this, bring it full circle.
03:33:39.000A woman's measurement of success is being married.
03:33:41.000A man's successive measurement is not being married.
03:33:43.000It's being able to have sex with as many girls as he wants, which is based on their ability to be successful.
03:37:43.000It's not just in terms of like, yes, you can get sexual loyalty from a girl without marriage, but it's still something that's sacred that it's a union between two people under God.
03:37:52.000You're not going to find a girl that's just...
03:37:54.000I agree marriage is a sacred unity and it should be respected.
03:37:57.000But at the same time, modern day marriage, who does it benefit?
03:38:01.000Yeah, when you get married within the government, boy, if you get married within a religion, that's a big measure of success for a man.
03:38:08.000People get married in terms of the law for the most part, so it's not going to benefit men.
03:38:12.000Well, if you view marriage as a unity within religion, within Islam or within Christianity or something like that, why are you disregarding that as a measure of success in a man's life?
03:38:21.000I think it's lower because you can't even get to the marriage unless you become successful in the first place, to a degree that it's actually going to last.
03:38:27.000But you see, you need to reach a certain status before you even think about getting married and having that marriage actually last.
03:38:33.000I think, what, 300k a year or more significantly decreases the chances of divorce.
03:38:37.000And I get what you're saying, like, right, you could do it within the confinements of religion, whatever, but we're talking about it conventionally within the confinements of the law and everything that women want.
03:38:45.000Because women don't want to get married a lot of times just for the ceremony.
03:38:48.000They want the security that comes with it from a legal perspective, too.
03:38:51.000You keep thinking of it in terms of comparison about who benefits more men or women.
03:38:54.000I'm just saying, as a man, getting married Islamically, why are you not viewing that as a measure of success?
03:39:30.000I'm saying in general, most people aren't Muslim.
03:39:32.000Most people are not necessarily going to look at marriage through that same Islamic lens.
03:39:36.000And they're not going to be able to get married in the masjid without all the...
03:39:40.000Serious consequences that can hit them getting married regularly.
03:39:42.000So you're only viewing your status based on the Miami world, but when it comes to the Arabic world or the Muslim world, your status is elevated when you're married.
03:41:42.000Okay, but so once you hit 30 million and then your status doesn't really elevate, like 30 million to a billion dollars, your status isn't that much different.
03:41:50.000But what I'm saying is that it's better to achieve that success first before marriage.
03:41:54.000But for women, their job is to get married first because no one gives a fuck about their success.
03:41:58.000Okay, so yes or no, does marriage elevate your success in life and your status as a man?
03:42:01.000To a degree, but not to the same significance of a female.
03:42:05.000Because women take on that man's status when they get married, versus the man does not take on her status when he gets married.
03:42:10.000So therefore, men do not stand to benefit to the same degree from marriage that women do, which is why it's so high on a female totem pole of being married.
03:42:16.000But you kind of changed, because at first you were like, it doesn't matter at all.
03:43:23.000That was like in the first 10 minutes of the show.
03:43:25.000Okay, but like it was kind of like repeating throughout the show.
03:43:29.000As in, like, you want the, like, now I know that you guys, like, actually would prefer a woman who's staying home and taking care of everything that needs to be done there than a woman who works.
03:43:42.000Isn't it crazy before you came here, you really thought that men wanted a girl who's running around working all the time?
03:43:48.000Well, that's not what I thought they wanted.
03:43:49.000I just thought it was just, like, more of a plus.
03:45:46.000I think a lot of girls play hard to get, and I mean, that works to some degree, but then once the guy smashes and you keep playing that game, he's like, man, fuck this bitch, bro.
03:46:47.000It was definitely really interesting to get the male perspective of you guys and actually know how you guys think and what you guys desire in a woman.
03:46:56.000I mean, absolutely, like, women have that role.
03:47:03.000Absolutely, like, yes, the women should have that role of being the nurturer because obviously you guys are working and doing your thing and it's like, We have that job of taking care, you know?
03:47:13.000Like, it's definitely admirable for a woman to have their own thing going, too.
03:47:19.000But, like, I can definitely say that us women should be able to be in our feminine energy and be able to, you know, nurture and, like, have our kids one day because that is an experience that all women should have, too.
03:47:33.000I mean, everybody has a perspective of not having kids and whatnot, but...
03:47:37.000With the cheating thing, I'm not really too agreeable with that, because obviously, like, you know, that's kind of like betraying your woman, and like...
03:47:45.000What if you told me straight up, and from the beginning, I'm going to smash other girls.
03:47:49.000Then whatever, like, I would probably, then I would know, like, thank you for letting me know, because I would rather know than not know.