00:14:54.000And you know, crazy part about this, like, before I get to the story, is that I think every guy can safely say that dating now is more transactional than ever before.
00:15:04.000Like, before it's more like, you know, you could put in the work, you could actually like really find that like sweet spot where you guys have that good consideration for each other.
00:15:35.000That's like the actual, I want to say going factor now where girls are saying, you know what?
00:15:43.000Instead of trying to get a job or go back to what was working before, I'm going to try to get money in different ways.
00:15:49.000If you could read between the lines, you know what I'm saying?
00:15:51.000But that's the actual thing happening right now.
00:15:57.000And um, not every relationship is transactional, but you know, for the most part it's gonna be that way for majority of people.
00:16:06.000Um, even tall guys that are successful in the looks department, they will have to have money as well, and this is why i'll say, guys like Cga oh, that's Golden Child.
00:16:17.000Yeah, you're right, Cga was ahead of his time.
00:16:20.000He called this out actually years ago.
00:16:25.000And guys, the beef between Myron and CGA squashed it on the phone yesterday.
00:17:20.000Actually, the Asian girl, if I had paid her, as you guys say I did, she wouldn't have been mad to the point where she wanted to show my name in public eye.
00:17:33.000There would never be a whole like podcast against me because, you know, I would just pay it and dipped.
00:17:39.000But this is why I always say all the time, things look a certain way online, but the facts of real life, you got to go and experience it.
00:17:47.000I actually took some time to experience life, fellas.
00:18:01.000Because without that, in the real world, you're kind of screwed.
00:18:06.000I've seen where people end up, and especially women, they tend to lean either two directions.
00:18:13.000Either they work their ass off, become the man that they want to date, or they go to a lot of easy to moderate light work where they show up at a job, but it's not a blowjob, it's a blowjob.
00:18:26.000And the point is that, like, right now, what's happening with the economy and society, it's only going to get worse.
00:18:39.000But yeah, I think for the most part, a lot of people have focused on obviously just finding a way to get their dating access done seamlessly.
00:18:50.000But again, this is why I say all the time.
00:18:53.000Even now with AI coming, it's going to get worse, a lot worse.
00:18:58.000So I'll put a video for you guys right now so you can see the video I was talking about.
00:19:01.000This one here was actually a couple days ago.
00:19:34.000I remember being so amazed that these girls were making so much money off of supplement deals and like the stuff they advertise on Instagram, whether it be like beauty products or clothing.
00:19:50.000And I was like, wow, like how are they getting paid this much?
00:19:55.000And they would be posting their lifestyle.
00:21:16.000There's the Miami people think of more of like a working place where there's Doral, there's Hyalia, there's Pembroke Pines, there's Miramar.
00:23:09.000Like, I could, I, my, could not wrap my head around it.
00:23:14.000And so for all the girls that like are watching YouTube and TikTok and being like, oh, like, I'm going to move to Miami and I'm going to be a fitness influencer, blah, blah, blah.
00:23:23.000You can make a lot of money off of social media.
00:23:26.000But what you're seeing online is not quite.
00:23:30.000If I had to put in like an actual number, we're like out of 100%, how many girls make money off of their actual boot camp and actual like training for booty building?
00:23:48.000It's crazy because like when you know the guys in the back end have the money and success and status, you get to understand how things really work.
00:23:55.000And, you know, we think it's black and white.
00:24:07.000Actually, I did a post on X about what trader we should bring on for Money Mondays.
00:24:11.000I got some really good ones, guys, for trading, especially nowadays with crypto, what's happening with the market, to make some good money.
00:24:18.000So we'll do that a little bit later, but not today.
00:25:22.000And recently, I had a similar experience, but more in detail.
00:25:28.000So again, and this is my preface here.
00:25:33.000Not every actual relationship is going to be transactional, but the foundation of it has to be because if you look at it from the point of view of like wife and husband, kids, you got to pay the bills.
00:25:47.000And this is where you say like at the very beginning, you got to run some tests on some girls because even with the highest level of success and looks, whatever, they're going to test you, bro.
00:25:57.000Like, even, you know, King 68 the Great, he gets tested too as well.
00:26:01.000Like, no one's actually preferred to get tested.
00:26:15.000So it's crazy because a lot of people focus on only one side of things.
00:26:20.000After being outside for this long and meeting people connections, I realized there's a black, there's a white, and then a gray area.
00:26:29.000Now, in the REPL space, nobody really covers the gray area because it's kind of like a nuance where it's not that actual like, you know, importance to it.
00:26:40.000But it does matter because if you look at it from the standpoint of black and white and then gray area, you understand black and white better when you understand gray.
00:26:46.000So what I'm saying is this preface is that a lot of things we see, oh, he's a simp, he's paying, he's doing this.
00:27:36.000But the problem that I see is that, like, a lot of guys here, especially Miami, New York, and major cities, they've been either jammed up before by a girl or lied on by a girl, and now they just said, F it.
00:27:48.000I don't want to ever go back on that path again.
00:27:50.000I'm just going to pay, get over it, and leave.
00:32:02.000And this is why I say, like, even at the lowest level of, like, IQ people, where they focus on, oh, bros, I'm just like, you know, you don't know how the world actually works, do you?
00:32:14.000Because if you knew how it works properly, or even in the slightest, you would understand how things actually operate.
00:32:19.000But again, you know, that's just kind of like my yapping here.
00:32:22.000But I've seen it happen a lot where, you know, when you pay, there's no issues at all.
00:34:23.000Some of them are going to say, deuces them out.
00:34:26.000And that's what it is because they want to have a fun time.
00:34:29.000So, that's why I'm telling you guys, like, honestly speaking, even with the looks factor that King has, bro, sometimes you're not going to hit all targets.
00:34:38.000Because, again, this is where I say there's a white, black area, and then a gray area.
00:34:43.000And look, if there was money involved or like an event involved or like a secondary or third venue, yeah, she'll probably stay and he'll probably be able to put some more game on her and then work it out that way.
00:36:02.000I like going on dates, you know, getting to see her mindset, what she's about.
00:36:06.000And then if we actually have a good vibe and wink wink vibe, then we can go to the next stage, which is probably just Smash and have a good time.
00:36:14.000But again, I made some mistakes, by the way, fellas.
00:36:17.000I've made some mistakes where I focus on only looks, where that's that's dope.
00:36:22.000Looks are great, but then it's a lot of times issues where like they're either bipolar, they're a bit crazy.
00:36:28.000Even the hottest girls, bro, like Damn, they're even OnlyFans girls.
00:39:48.000And I'm like, if you had a choice to make, what do you think is the better out for you?
00:39:54.000Getting married with kids, which I think is definitely optimal and what you should do, or having your money and your sanity and then enjoying whenever you're ready.
00:40:06.000That's the two things I see happening there.
00:40:11.000But the reality is, as the window closes for opportunity, making money and rich and poor, the gap is closing very fast.
00:40:19.000And I'm telling you guys, like, real talk, this is not going to end well because it's going to be the haves, as you guys know, and have-nots, rich and poor.
00:41:42.000But I'm just saying, from what I've seen, especially in the current marketplace here, a lot of girlfriends and wives I've seen are going for guys that are paying.
00:42:13.000So yeah, about yesterday around 8 p.m., you know, some friends came into town and they were having a great time at Castanios, which is a spot over here.
00:42:29.000Have a great time, um, you know, in Miami, and they wanted to go to the next spot, you know.
00:42:35.000Um, I said, Okay, I'll hook you guys up, you know, just uh, make sure you guys tip the guys, whatever.
00:42:41.000And I got a table, and they're like, Fresh, meet some girls.
00:42:46.000I'm like, Yeah, okay, okay, you know, send some over to you guys, like, you know, somebody know from back in the day or you know, from Instagram, cool, whatever.
00:43:02.000Okay, because, like, okay, I have my like main girls I'm cool with, and girls are just like, okay, friends are in town, cool.
00:43:11.000And what happened is, like, in that moment, I sent a text to some girls and I said, hey, listen, um, this is dinner party at you know, this spot, you can pull up, it's gonna be lit, you know, just show some love.
00:43:24.000You know, they told me, man, you know, all them told me, you know, all like it was three girls, bro, three girls, right?
00:43:32.000And they all said something to the similar effect.
00:43:35.000And I'm like, okay, one of them, you know, I'm saying, like, I already, the rest, cool.
00:43:42.000But it was astounding to see because in real time, I was like, wow, this is bad.
00:43:50.000And it went to the tune of, hey, my time isn't free anymore.
00:45:49.000And I'm like, you know, this is where I say, like, if guys only knew what's happening under the surface, they would understand that, like, this is way more than just, oh yeah, bro, black and white pay for bucks.
00:51:09.000And then, and then, and then, and then, um, the one that responded that, I don't show her because it's kind of fucked up if I show her her face.
00:51:17.000I'm going to show you the guys on that shit, but like, she asks, why I unfollow her.
00:51:22.000Homeboy paid her $300 late night discount.
00:51:48.000It sounds crazy, but if you, guys, I know this sounds like very obscure and very not normal, but like I've seen enough guys go through bullshit where they're like, you know what?
00:52:05.000I wish I could do this, but I wouldn't even get my dick hard, bro.
00:52:10.000Like, like, like, because you know what is, I just know too much about how women operate.
00:52:15.000And the fact that he can pay for her and get her, and I could too if I was doing that shit, it just turns me off.
00:52:22.000I don't know what you guys, but like, if I know too much, and then that's when I'm like, okay, I get why people do it, but maybe my mental is not really able to adapt to that.
00:52:32.000But I just, yo, bro, I can't do it, man, bro.
00:52:36.000But, like, like, I tell my all the time, bro.
00:52:38.000It'd be way easier if you just pay for box, but dude, it's just maybe when I get older, maybe that'll be holy be the way, but I just, I don't know, man.
00:54:21.000This is why you don't help Blue Pillow Simps, bro.
00:54:23.000You just don't, because, bro, you never know their reaction.
00:54:27.000It's probably gonna be negative to you.
00:54:28.000Unless it's like your boy where you're like, bro, wake up, bro, like, get out of this funk.
00:54:33.000But even that's kind of bad because you never know how they may react.
00:54:39.000So, I promise you, man, this is like a problem.
00:54:43.000And the worst part is that, like, it's not getting any better.
00:54:49.000Like, look at it other ways, like, right now, what is your biggest pain point with dating?
00:54:56.000It's probably going to be you not having options because you don't source girls or because maybe you don't want to improve yourself physically, mentally, financially.
00:55:07.000Which, if you want to do that, that's fine.
00:55:41.000Like, strip away all the things you know about like dating and like having like game and having like access.
00:55:51.000Well, access is very important too, but this is gonna come down to you having money to be sustainable with the coming economy crash and recession.
00:56:00.000Because at the end of the day, fellas, I get it.
00:56:15.000So I've also found a way where, here's a solution for you guys.
00:56:22.000If you could pull this off, you're friggin' G, you understand the game and you've mastered discipline and self-control.
00:56:29.000Because for a while, guys, I was, I'm not holding you, I was wild.
00:56:34.000There's a part of dating where you're foundationally and financially stable, your health is in check, and you have time after you work your ass off to enjoy.
00:56:49.000Now, as the economy gets worse and worse and worse, you become more and more attractive.
00:57:49.000Like, if I have money, time access, maybe because I work maybe here, but like, you would go somewhere else where it's cheaper, women are more feminine, and you get more access.
00:58:54.000And they made their lives over there with their condo, whatever, their money.
00:58:59.000And they realize, and this is their point of view, that financially, just being over there and dating, they saved thousands of dollars, if not millions.
00:59:12.000And then come full circle, bringing this back to where it was before, with the prices going up.
00:59:19.000If you focus on, by the way, from what I've seen, that's low.
00:59:25.000Like, some girls are charging niggas to $2,000, by the way.
00:59:30.000And my friend that pays for box, like, he said there's metrics to it because the metrics are, the more followers a girl has, the more they charge.
00:59:59.000All right, here's my question, you could say.
01:00:03.000If I'm going to have to pay for some BS box that other niggas could just pay for and they've ran through, If I'm a passport, bro, that's the willing to pay, I just go somewhere else where it's cheaper and then figure out how I want to operate over there.
01:00:20.000Obviously, never bring them back to America because that's going to ruin their um psyche.
01:00:24.000But my point is, is like financially and logically speaking, here I get why passport bros do what they do, bro.
01:00:30.000I understand because you get a thoughtful here, nigga.
01:00:34.000Yo, if you're paying for box, bro, you're being ripped off.
01:00:37.000Because imagine these are American hoes that have been ran through for decades.
01:00:47.000But if you are smart, you feel me, and you're going to do this method, which quite frankly, I don't want to be a part of, but I understand what it is.
01:00:57.000You go to like Brazil, Colombia, someplace like that, maybe even, I don't know, Europe.
01:01:04.000But here's my point: my point is: this is the new and improved dating scale.
01:01:11.000It's going to be the factor of how much money you have to be sustainable in this recession, and then two, how do you look up to the standards for stability long term?
01:01:21.000Because, fellas, all fun, all in all, I get it, but people are paying to smash these girls, bro.
01:01:31.000And to me, it's incredible because I'm like, why not just go to somewhere cheaper, somewhere else where there's hotter girls in this less BS?
01:01:39.000But again, this is why I say, like, after all my experiences here in Miami, Vegas, New York, LA, dude, they're all going, bro.
01:01:50.000Like, yo, bro, most of them are, bro, man, bro.
01:03:08.000Whether you have to go to Midwest or someplace way more chill, understandable.
01:03:14.000But then again, you run the risk of losing money with divorce and other things.
01:03:19.000So that's up to you how you want to do it, which I recommend getting married by the church, not living a common law state, or have separate properties in that regard to avoid that being done to you.
01:03:30.000Number two is you can have the option of being a bachelor for life, have one or two mains.
01:03:36.000And I see guys here doing magnet all the time.
01:03:42.000They make a bunch of money, pay, move and go, travel the world with their friends, enjoy life.
01:03:46.000And honestly, I can understand why they do it.
01:03:50.000It's less stress, but also I don't think it's long-term a good strategy, but hey, they make it work.
01:03:57.000Or number three, you stay single, lock in, and you have a main girl or two that you rock with, that you can trust and you respect, and you just run it like that.
01:04:10.000You don't make a pressure of a title, you just run it like that.
01:04:14.000Or there's a fourth option that most guys do that are married, where they do join OnlyFans or they join the actual escort sites.
01:04:25.000But again, as a man, it's your choice to meet what you want to do.
01:04:29.000I'm just saying, bro, like, bro, it's getting bad out here, bro.
01:04:31.000Because, dude, that was three shorties that said that in a span of like an hour coming to the party.
01:04:38.000And I'm like, bro, you're not coming to the party.
01:04:56.000Like, like, dinner should be you talking with a chick that you actually know likes you versus like to me, it's just like a waste of time and money.
01:05:07.000And long-term success, that's not how it should start.
01:05:10.000You got to start the right way to finish the right way.
01:05:13.000And this whole topic itself is disgusting, but the point is, it's happening.
01:06:01.000Oh, no, here's five bands to stay longer.
01:06:06.000I mean that didn't go very well for them, but for the girls, they made a bunch of money.
01:06:12.000Some of them are strippers, some of them were escorts, and it's like, wow.
01:06:16.000So now their mindset is, well, if he's going to pay me this money, I can get it elsewhere.
01:06:22.000So imagine girls are getting paid to go on dates just to go have dinner, go home and smash their boyfriend at home after the fact.
01:06:29.000Or if the guy pays enough, they may smash the boy, the guy on the date, and the boyfriend after.
01:06:37.000So yeah, fellas, my point here is that you need to make some money, prepare for what's coming next with the recession, what's already here.
01:06:44.000And understand that this is going to be the final factor for dating the long run.
01:06:48.000Other than sex dollars, or maybe, for example, maybe like in real life or like a virtual world where you're with a girl or maybe even some factor of OnlyFans may be an option.
01:07:01.000But other than that, if you want to have actual real-life physical love, your money needs to be on point.
01:07:09.000I'm just saying, generally speaking here, for long-term success, your money should be on point because that's going to dictate a lot of how things go you and your girl.
01:07:18.000I know all guys that have girlfriends as well, where the girl makes most of the money, and they're surviving, but like, you're not really a man in that scenario.
01:07:24.000You're kind of like the girl because now she's taking care of you.
01:07:28.000If you're not taking care of her, at some point, it may mess you up where, like, mentally, you know what?
01:08:01.000What I'm going to do, guys, I'm going to actually do a session with Organic tonight after hours because I'm going to focus on the war with Iran.
01:08:09.000Which is very important, by the way, guys.