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00:08:11.000When I had waves before and I used to put, like, grease in it, I hated the way it felt, man.
00:08:15.000And I like to wash my hair almost every day, which I know, oh, that's not good for your hair, but I work out, like, almost every day, guys.
00:08:20.000I'm not walking around with a stinky head.
00:09:09.000Oh yeah, and you guys can follow me at BigMo underscore B-I-T-W. That is B-I-G-M-O underscore B-I-T-W. Don't forget the memo to believe in Big Mo because that is the M-O. Alright, and Billz, what's up with you, man?
00:14:51.000Basically what it is, in less than 20 seconds...
00:14:54.000There's about 150,000 workers at Ford and GM and Stellantis, which is Chrysler.
00:15:01.000They're asking to get a 40% increase in their wages, bring back certain pensions, and Ford and GM CEO go on today and they're saying, you know, if we do this, we're going to go bankrupt.
00:15:16.000But it's kind of a leftist movement, so I thought you guys would know about it.
00:15:21.000Maybe check it out if you got some time.
00:15:23.000But it's definitely something I think, Myron, you'd be interested in just reading about.
00:15:29.000I don't know much because I can't comment now.
00:15:32.000I don't want to comment on things that I'm not very well educated and versed in.
00:15:36.000But what I will say is I'm not surprised because the automobile industry in the United States has taken a beating the past, you know, for the better part of the last two decades.
00:15:43.000Ever since we invaded Iraq, I've seen just...
00:15:46.000The automobile industry just like go through turmoil after turmoil after turmoil.
00:15:49.000So I'm not surprised that this is happening.
00:15:53.000You know, obviously inflation is hitting everybody because people want...
00:15:56.000The problem is that the cost of goods has gone up, but the cost of wages have not gone up to compensate for the increased price of goods.
00:17:11.000So, a big reason why Detroit is such a crap hole, by the way, is because the automobile industry is taking big tumbles down, and the industry as well.
00:17:20.000Detroit used to be a very blue-collar industry factory-type city, but a lot of those jobs went over to China.
00:17:26.000And then next thing you know, you end up with what we got now, which is the shitty Detroit.
00:17:58.000I just graduated from a really good school, but I decided I wanted to pursue acting.
00:18:03.000The only thing is, I'm living at home right now, and I'm having a lot of conflicts at home because my parents are upset about me acting instead of getting a salary job and less finance.
00:18:15.000So I was wondering, for someone that literally has What do you mean you don't have time to go get a job?
00:18:43.000Well, no, I do have time to get a job.
00:19:34.000It's not like I'm not willing to work at a restaurant or something, but It's just weird because I feel like I'm overqualified for these jobs.
00:20:19.000Yeah, I mean, look, man, there's nothing wrong with picking up a job that you're overqualified for for a period of time to get some money in while you find something else.
00:20:27.000I would say, you know, get something that you can work right now, right?
00:20:31.000It might suck that you're working a job that is, you know, in your eyes below you, but hey, bro, you know, beggars can't be choosers all the time, so it might be better for you to just pick up a job, keep your parents happy, right?
00:20:42.000And then, obviously, look for a better job in the meantime, just so that you can get some kind of income coming in.
00:20:47.000And that will get your parents off your back because they probably feel like you're a grown-ass man, you have a degree, you're not doing anything.
00:20:54.000And at the end of the day, bro, like, you know, your dad is probably getting annoyed because he's like, yo, you're a grown-ass man.
00:21:06.000I'm not telling you to put your dreams away, but what I am telling you is that you also have to live in reality to a degree and understand that the likelihood of you becoming an actor is very slim to none and you need to set yourself up where you got some income coming in right now.
00:21:21.000Well, that's what I was also trying to say.
00:21:23.000When I said overqualified, I didn't say that I wasn't applying just because I was overqualified.
00:21:28.000I still have been applying, but I'm not even hearing back from restaurant-level jobs.
00:21:33.000There's an equinox around the corner of my house.
00:21:52.000Yeah, I don't track it, but I usually shoot for like right before school.
00:21:57.000I try to crank out at least like 20 applications a day.
00:22:01.000Okay, so bro, I did over 400 applications and I got a response at 401.
00:22:10.000You have to understand, bro, for a month I didn't have a job.
00:22:12.000I was at Starbucks looking at jobs online every single day and it took time.
00:22:17.000Now for you, obviously speaking, you want to hurry up because your parents are on your ass, but it's like, bro, you didn't put in enough numbers yet.
00:26:11.000And the police came, and I just told them what happened, and he was just like, hey man, if you're dealing with a chick like that, just run.
00:26:19.000Don't have her come to your house no more.
00:26:21.000So, I mean, the police was cool, and I still got this shit on video.
00:26:26.000Alright, well, just keep that footage with you, bro, because that might be your saving grace from the craziness.
00:26:32.000And just, I mean, if you're really worried about it, I'll consult with an attorney, get ahead of this, just in case she tries to do something in the future.
00:27:36.000So don't make women feel like whores after you hook up with them, bro, because a lot of times they'll come up with fake allegations and say, oh, well, I didn't mean to hook up with you, or they'll try to retroactively withdraw consent.
00:27:47.000So you got to protect yourself and be intelligent here, bro.
00:28:16.000You kind of said to her, just get the fuck out.
00:28:17.000And I mean, after sex, it's kind of like what Myron said.
00:28:20.000Yeah, she's in a really vulnerable state, bro.
00:28:22.000And then the fact that you've already been smashing her and dogging her out, like, you know, what you basically did was you confirmed what she was hoping wasn't going on.
00:28:30.000Because, you know, women are delusional, and if you're smart, you can use that delusion to your advantage.
00:28:34.000She thought that there could be something there.
00:28:37.000You know, sell the dream and all that, but clearly you were doing something that had her invested in you, and then you went ahead and destroyed that dream right after smashing her when she's at a vulnerable point.
00:28:47.000So, you know, of course she's going to respond and say some dumb shit like, I'm going to go ahead and make a false allegation against you.
00:28:52.000And women know that they have that ace up their sleeve, bro.
00:29:59.000I don't have small curls like Fresh does.
00:30:02.000Yeah, that's why your waves are really big, because it stretches out.
00:30:06.000Okay, but with that said, I got a wolf longer, I got a brush harder, and it's harder for me to get waves than someone who has more coarse hair.
00:30:13.000People that have coarse hair, it's easy for them to get waves because their hair has little curls, so they don't have to have their hair as long and wolf as long to get the waves.
00:32:43.000But we're definitely the most diverse by far.
00:32:45.000I think between the different types of shows we do, the different topics we cover, different guests we have on the show, we're the most diverse.
00:32:51.000But obviously that diversity comes at a cost, right?
00:32:55.000Which is, you know, you guys learn a lot from or is super educational, but then others are super controversial.
00:33:01.000And, you know, to be diverse, you have to risk being controversial to some degree.
00:33:06.000So, yeah, man, I mean, it's a lot of experimenting, but That's where we see ourselves in the next five years is we want to definitely be a top, like a household name type podcast.
00:33:17.000Because, I mean, obviously we're not politically correct and being non-politically correct nowadays is not necessarily a way to grow.
00:33:25.000But, you know, you can see that a lot of people want this type of content because they can watch it without, you know, it's what a lot of people really think.
00:34:02.000You know, I'm like deep in the hole, but I come from that track con kind of situation.
00:34:08.000And, you know, but that was 10, 15 years ago, you know what I mean?
00:34:12.000So it kind of still, you know, it's working great right now, but I'm the exception to the rule.
00:34:17.000But I wish these guys will listen because I see when I was first dating to today, where I see young gentlemen still dating, and I really pray for them, man.
00:36:01.000Personifies what I've told you guys since before.
00:36:03.000We live in a world now where women are not only encouraged to be hypergamous, they're incentivized to be hypergamous, and they're rewarded for being hypergamous through social media attention, etc.
00:36:13.000Girls like to be on their Instagram, flexing their lifestyle to make other girls feel inferior, okay?
00:36:20.000They don't care if it lowers their own sexual market value.
00:36:22.000They care about flexing on other girls and saying, look at what I'm able to do.
00:36:47.000I can't tell you how many times we tell girls, yo, you do realize that you're posting sexy photos of yourself or yourself in foreign locations or on a private jet.
00:36:54.000That's a huge red flag to a lot of men, and they're going to find you less attractive.
00:36:58.000They don't care because they want to flex on their friends, they want to flex on other females, they want to get to the Discover page, and they want to tell people, oh, look at my lifestyle, I'm so lit.
00:37:06.000But, it's funny though, because like now, you'll go on Instagram, or you'll go on TikTok or whatever, and girls like, we'll post this stuff, and see dudes in the comments just roasting them chicks now.
00:37:17.000Like some girl, I remember someone sent me like a video, some chick like talking about her lifestyle in Boston as like a programmer, right?
00:37:26.000In like, you know, somewhere in the seaport in like a five to ten thousand dollars a month apartment, like traveling around doing a bunch of random fuck all shit.
00:37:35.000And it's like, wait, how do you have the money to afford this shit?
00:37:37.000And everyone's like roasting her like, you know, sugar baby or, you know, parents money, blah, blah, blah.
00:37:41.000But yo, like people are starting to call out the BS, dude, because it's like, yo, Why?
00:38:28.000No, I know that, but do we have a hater, though?
00:38:30.000We're gonna make sure we get to everybody, but for all the haters, right, because we get a lot of criticism, which is cool, but I'd like to get one of y'all on the phone, okay?
00:39:23.000So, basically, you tell women to search for a guy versus, you know, put their career first, put their education first.
00:39:32.000And I just feel like we live in an economy to where a man, the average man can't support a family, let alone just a woman or, you know, a woman or kids.
00:39:43.000So I just feel like that's just like bad advice because it's not practical.
00:39:49.000Okay, so you think it's impractical to tell women to prioritize finding a man?
00:39:56.000To tell them to prioritize finding a man over, you know, finding a job, finding an education, stuff like that.
00:40:03.000Well, I've always said it, that there's absolutely nothing wrong with women going to school and educating themselves and entering the workforce.
00:40:10.000But what I am saying is that that comes second to the man that they meet and the family.
00:40:15.000So, I'm okay with a female going to school, working, getting an education, all that stuff, getting a job.
00:40:22.000But my thing is, once she finds the man, right?
00:40:25.000And this is on her to pick the right guy, by the way, that can take care of her or put her in a position where she doesn't necessarily have to pay a majority of the bills or she doesn't have to split.
00:40:36.000I've never said, you know, don't go to school, don't get a job.
00:40:38.000I'm saying that that needs to come second once you find the man.
00:40:43.000The career now becomes, you know, second place.
00:40:48.000Okay, so with that being said, so say they do get married to the guy, they have a family, but they don't have a career, they don't have, like, educational background, so they can't easily just, like, Mm-hmm.
00:41:10.000I mean, that kind of puts the woman at a really shitty situation.
00:41:14.000Because, I mean, she doesn't have any sort of backing.
00:41:21.000And I would argue that's one of the biggest excuses that women use for why they need to be educated and go to school and make money and everything.
00:41:29.000But the reality is simply men aren't the ones walking away from relationships.
00:41:34.000Even if a man has an affair and has sex with another woman, the likelihood is that he's going to go back to his wife.
00:41:40.000I mean, there's a phrase called, it's cheaper to keep her, and the reason why that is is because men understand that the family courts are absolutely designed to destroy that man should he do exactly what you just said.
00:41:50.000Find another woman, knock her up, leave his wife, etc.
00:41:54.000There's serious consequences for a man doing that if a woman doesn't have education and money coming in and the guy leaves her.
00:42:00.000So men rarely, if ever, leave their wife, realistically speaking.
00:42:39.000I think it's extremely smart and it's extremely practical because if you know that a majority of men are prone to cheat and will cheat if given the opportunity, it's better to prepare yourself for the uncomfortable truth versus hoping that something else will happen.
00:42:53.000I always use the analogy, if I tell you it's raining outside and I hand you an umbrella and you choose not to use the umbrella and you go outside and you get wet, whose fault is it?
00:43:01.000Well, it's your fault, because I gave you the umbrella, I gave you the necessary tools to shield yourself from the water, yet you decided, you know what?
00:43:07.000Water's just gonna roll off my back, I'll be fine.
00:43:09.000No, you're gonna get drenched like everyone else that walks into the rain.
00:43:11.000So, what I tell women is, be prepared, where if your man does have an affair or has sex with another woman, because most men will, if given the chance and opportunity without getting caught, let's just be honest here, we're all men, okay?
00:43:23.000Just don't leave for something like that.
00:43:25.000Because more than likely, as Fresh always says, you're going to go to the next guy and he's going to probably do the same thing.
00:43:29.000And then the unfortunate thing is the more money and status the man has, the more likely this is going to happen.
00:43:59.000If he was to cheat on her, I mean, that's a realistic fear that he could completely leave the family, no longer support the family, and then the wife's left on her own.
00:44:10.000Women initiate 80% plus, bro, of breakups and divorces, etc.
00:44:14.000So there's a minority chance that he's going to leave.
00:44:18.000But men rarely leave women, especially with the exact scenario that you gave, where he's the primary breadwinner, he makes all the money, he's the, you know...
00:44:52.000So they're going to take an L if they try to leave their chick with all that leverage.
00:44:58.000Okay, I mean, I see what you're saying, but I just feel like that's not the average guy.
00:45:02.000The average guy doesn't have enough money to support an entire family.
00:45:06.000So it's like, if you're talking to the average guy, the average guy is, he has a wife that's most likely working, also supporting the family.
00:45:16.000So if he was to cheat, he doesn't have the same amount of leverage than...
00:45:20.000Versus a guy that's literally supporting the family all on his own income.
00:45:25.000Okay, well, in that scenario, because now you're switching scenarios, in that scenario, she's still going to get her pound of flesh.
00:45:34.000She's still going to get in that scenario because now you're switching scenarios.
00:45:37.000Now you're saying, well, okay, well, she needs to have an education to be able to back herself up.
00:46:07.000So with the scenario to where it's like the average couple, which is like both people are working, the husband and wife are both working, it's not practical to tell the husband and say, hey, you know, I'm going to sleep around when I can, and I feel like you should accept it.
00:46:22.000That's not a practical, that's not practical advice.
00:46:30.000So then you would know that when we tell guys about telling their girls, hey, this is my lifestyle, this is what I do, they are of a certain value.
00:46:37.000If he's the average guy, there's no point in him even saying that.
00:46:41.00050-50, she'll never accept that at all.
00:46:44.000So it's kind of like, I get what you're saying, but we tell this for high-value guys.
00:47:20.000Yeah, and Cole, you missed some valid points, but once again, if you heard what we said on the show, you would understand that we had things to kind of cover these points as well.
00:48:42.000It just so happens when men are emotional...
00:48:44.000There tends to be violent outcomes which leads to prison time, but that does not necessarily mean that men in general are more emotional than women.
00:48:50.000It just means that you're just using the metric of, okay, men are in prison so that means they're more emotional, but you've got to remember that there's ways to be emotional without necessarily having the bottom line become prison.
00:49:04.000And also, let's say the scenario is a man and woman gets pulled over and they're both drunk.
00:49:09.000He could say, oh man, I'm trying to get home, bro.
00:49:17.000It's like the woman's always going to get lesser time or no time at all.
00:49:21.000Yeah, using the criminal justice system isn't the best barometer to assess female and male emotional levels.
00:49:27.000I guess you can make an argument that it's a component, but it's not the best way to gauge.
00:49:33.000It may not be the best way to gauge emotional judgment, but it is a good way to judge irrationality.
00:49:39.000And you guys argue that men are much more logical than women are, but if you're a logical person, you'll be able to understand how to stay out of jail.
00:49:50.000Well, I mean, a lot of guys, right, that are in prison are there for, you know, crimes that aren't necessarily violent.
00:49:57.000It's crimes that involve making money through nefarious ways, whether it's scamming, selling drugs, etc.
00:50:29.000I think it's actually a very logically sound way to make money, given the fact that they have limited opportunities to earn income.
00:50:34.000So, I don't think the criminal justice system argument is a valid way to assess female and male emotion levels, because women show emotion all the time, and it might not necessarily...
00:51:28.000Well, that's because you're using the metric of prison and jail to assess that, but there's a bunch of irrational things that women do, too, that you can't necessarily capture through statistics.
00:51:44.000Yeah, I mean, bro, if we're going to have this discussion, I mean, I think it's pretty damn factual at this point that women are absolutely more emotionally driven than men are.
00:53:02.000Like I said before, we could agree and disagree on some points, but as far as female emotion and women chasing careers over family, I mean, I think you misinterpreted what we said on the first part, but what we say is like, hey, she could get a job and everything, but she's got to understand that once she does get a man,
00:53:17.000that comes first, and priorities have to shift.
00:53:33.000But the thing is that they've got to accept reality.
00:53:37.000And that's why I tell them these things, because no one else is going to tell them.
00:53:40.000And to be honest, they're not going to listen anyway, but it's mostly for the audience to see that even in the face of fact, women don't like the truth.
00:57:41.000That's key to success in any endeavor, whether it's fitness or your business.
00:57:45.000And then as far as three guiding principles, integrity, loyalty, honesty.
00:57:53.000If you have those three things, you're going to go far in life and people are going to respect you because these are three things that are very difficult to For people to adhere to.
00:58:00.000There are three things that I live by.
00:58:02.000You know, people might say that I'm loyal to a fault, or I practice integrity to a fault, whatever.
00:58:37.000You can't go to someone's house, work with that individual, and then go ahead and make a video, talk a shit about them three to four months later, right?
00:58:44.000And then go ahead and claim that you have integrity, which some other people have done.
01:00:08.000I mean, you could keep doing what you're doing and just focus on making more money in that career field, or you could go ahead and do, what is it, computer programming you mentioned?
01:00:33.000Don't start a business in that unless you're absolutely sure you want to do that.
01:00:36.000But, bro, you already got a high-income skill, man.
01:00:37.000I mean, I would stick with that, scale it up, make more money in that, and then, you know, invest in real estate and then start buying your time back.
01:00:44.000That's what I would personally do versus, like, starting a whole new business.
01:01:03.000Oh no, actually, if you guys make a FNF network and give new hosts once a week, a show by themselves will help the brand grow because, right, Myron is doing all the caring and there is a ceiling with that, especially with no mainstream guest pull-up at Zerka.
01:03:04.000Um, I watch the show all the time, but, like, my critique that I was, is like, um, you say a lot, like, average, like, an average five can still get, like, a high-value man, and it's like,
01:03:22.000Like, uh, unless the girl is above average, like, no high-value niggas get an average joint, like, not happening.
01:03:33.000Okay, question caller, just to clarify, can you verify this yourself?
01:03:41.000Yeah, the reason I feel like I have this opinion is because if, like, so if I don't consider a girl attractive, I would not, like, want to be with her.
01:03:54.000Can you admit, sometimes, as a man, can you admit, you just want to smash?
01:04:02.000No matter what it is, like, alright, she and that ballerkin, I'll smash here and there, just because you want to bust a nut.
01:04:45.000He can smash, but, like, she won't really...
01:04:46.000And also, my second thing I wanted to also say was that, like, I feel like y'all also underestimate how many, like, simp niggas there are in terms of, like, oh, if a girl is a single mother or she's on some thought shit, like,
01:06:37.000And also, one more thing, too, because you used your own personal example to, you know, validify your argument, saying, oh, well, I'm not fucking with a bitch unless she's hot.
01:06:52.000A lot of guys will gladly go four, five, damn near seven points below their standard of what they normally like or want To get some sex.
01:06:59.000And a lot of times that will end up with them being with a girl that's below average for a night, maybe a week, whatever it is.
01:07:06.000But the point is that women can absolutely bat way out of their league and get a man that's above them in every regard for a period of time.
01:07:37.000What was the second thing you were bringing up?
01:07:40.000Oh, I said the second one was that, um...
01:07:43.000Like, I feel like it's underestimated the amount of, like, simp niggas that will get with a girl when she already is, like, a single mother or...
01:07:53.000When she's like 35, I'd be saying things do it.
01:08:14.000Why do we have to keep screaming this to men?
01:08:15.000It's because most men, right, think with their dick and not with their head, and they commit to women that don't necessarily deserve commitment that are single mothers.
01:08:24.000Most dudes are simps, hence why this channel exists.
01:08:27.000Hence why I have to say the crazy things that I say about single mothers, because most guys are simps and will absolutely commit to a girl that's a single mom.
01:08:37.000Yeah, I know, but it's like in the actual show, like when a joint is a single mom, it's literally like, I see why she believes like, oh, well, I can find another nigga because it's like, yeah, because they probably see someone they know Has done it.
01:08:51.000So they're just like, oh, I can do the same thing.
01:08:53.000Like, I'll leave my nigga and find someone else.
01:11:29.000We listen to your podcast, and given the thousands of women and some ladies that you've interviewed and the dynamics of the dating scene today, where do you guys think the world of dating is leading for my kids?
01:11:42.000Five to ten years, we're already talking about relationships, what's appropriate, what's not, where things are going.
01:11:47.000Do you think it's going to swing back, like that pendulum swinging, right?
01:11:51.000Is it going to swing back to more of the traditional, where it's going to empower men to be men and women to be women for what they really need and want?
01:12:06.000If you had children, you'd tell your daughter or your son to be successful in the future.
01:12:12.000That's a really good and insightful question.
01:12:13.000Well, the first point you made about it swinging back to masculine and feminine roles being the main thing people look for, I would say no.
01:12:21.000Just because, like Myron Al says on the show, feminists have fought so hard for their position, they've gone so far, they don't want to regress back.
01:12:28.000But at the same time, even advances of social media, technology, AI, you know, OnlyFans, you know, all these devices that we have nowadays, to go back to what we had before, it's almost not like an option anymore.
01:12:43.000And with social media itself, just because, like, girls can...
01:12:47.000The problem with social media is that, like, average guy or girl can be on the right path, and then they go on social media, and they see the opposite of that.
01:12:54.000They see, like, people live a certain lifestyle, have certain options, and then they kind of get, like, a twist of reality in a different way.
01:13:00.000So you can raise them the right way, but social media, you just never know.
01:13:04.000So, I would say no for the first point of going back to traditional standards.
01:13:11.000The reason why, and Fresh said it a second ago, that feminists fought really hard to get to this point and they're not going to yield any ground.
01:13:19.000The reason why I don't see us going back to traditional values is because being traditional is hard and human beings in general don't like doing hard things.
01:13:28.000If you tell women that they can go ahead and be promiscuous Chase a career, make money, and then have a shining knight in armor waiting for them at the end of their, you know, cock carousel riding.
01:13:39.000Most women are gonna go with that narrative versus you need to preserve yourself, you need to, you know, if you want to pursue an education, that's fine, but that comes second to family.
01:13:47.000It's easier to just be a 304 and live your life in YOLO. So, typically human beings go with the path that is Where there's least resistance.
01:14:00.000I mean, a lot of guys have bought into this equality mantra of men and women are equal.
01:14:04.000I want a woman that's strong and independent.
01:14:06.000I want a chick that's going to pay half the bills, all this other stuff.
01:14:08.000When in reality, they don't even know that they don't want that.
01:14:12.000And women don't even know that they don't want that.
01:14:13.000And it's not until they get in a relationship where they deal with the opposite gender and they see that equality being done that they're like, oh, I'm really not attracted to this.
01:14:44.000Your woman being equal to you in every way and behaving like you.
01:14:47.000She should be a go-getter and a bag-getter and all this other crap.
01:14:50.000So what I'm saying is that strong fathers like you and families need to deprogram their kids and constantly reaffirm to them that social media isn't real.
01:16:00.000There really isn't, because unfortunately, thanks to social media and society, everyone is woke and liberal, and they don't understand that children need to be protected and need to be shielded from certain things, or at least...
01:16:12.000Told the truth of how the world really works so that when they do see the social media, they do see the BS, they're able to look at it and be like, okay, this is not how things really work.
01:16:20.000But unfortunately, we don't have that benefit anymore of strong, tight-knit communities because there's not many nuclear families like that.
01:16:33.000So do you think that traveling down that path, everything that we talk about, everything you guys say, Look out with the ladies and the fellas and all your other, you know, joiners and your people.
01:16:46.000Do you think that it's still worthwhile to maintain those traditional mindsets and, you know, lead your children towards that path of like, hey, everyone else is going to be doing this.
01:16:55.000You know, you're going to run into a wall if you're 30 or you're 40 and you hate life because you didn't do what you knew you were supposed to do or what we, you know, let you along and help coax them that way or be more along the lines of, well, you know, you might as well get yours, right?
01:17:22.000So if you choose to stay in the United States, then yeah, I think the self-serving mindset, right, especially for your son, especially telling that's your son, I think is important.
01:18:10.000I mean, for your son, I think you need to teach your son to be selfish to a degree because to deal with the way that modern women are, you need to teach your son that because I think if he goes in under a gentleman route and he tries to be a nice guy, the women are going to eat him up and spit him out.
01:18:28.000Obviously, to preserve our value, what you're already doing.
01:18:30.000I mean, ultimately, you have to make a path for your kids because they will, in some choice, some instance, choose for themselves what's best for them.
01:18:38.000But having that reference point saying, okay, my dad taught me this ought to be a woman, this ought to be a man.
01:18:43.000Because I think, bro, even in the Bible, it says that we're in end times because men become women and women become men.
01:18:49.000And it's kind of like this whole world that we live in right now is just distorted.
01:18:53.000So having that good reference point of your teachings would actually help them along the way.
01:18:58.000So I would say still do it for sure, but just know that out there is going to be a lot of chaos too.
01:19:04.000Keep that frame, keep that perspective, you know, situate them in reality, but actually give them the tools that they're going to need to progress.
01:19:12.000Obviously, don't force it on them, but let them know, hey, kids, we love you, and these are the facts here.
01:19:18.000You decide for yourself what you want to do, but it's the right way you should do it.
01:19:21.000Yeah, and it's going to be like a constant reaffirmation all the time because every time you tell your kids something, they're going to go out into the real world and see the clown world, and then you kind of almost have to remind them.
01:19:31.000A lot of people watch red pill content like this all the time to stay focused and understand, okay, what I'm seeing when I walk out into the Matrix isn't real.
01:19:38.000I need to understand how the world really works, and you're going to have to kind of be that red pill for your children every time.
01:19:44.000Because you're fighting TV, social media, spirits, people, teachers, government.
01:19:49.000They're Dumbass parents, like your children's friends, dumbass parents who might have weird views.
01:19:54.000Like, bro, it is so tough to be a parent, which is why I respect the hell out of anybody that's raising a family nowadays because you have so much BS coming into your children that you didn't have to worry about 20 years ago that you now have to worry about and deprogram out of your kids.
01:20:10.000That's the challenge, too, is, I mean, talking to the older folks, right, you know, you're trying to get that wisdom from older people and have people respect them and Yeah.
01:20:32.000There's just so many assaults on so many senses to our children, and then when they come home, they're like, what about this?
01:20:37.000And you're like, who the fuck did you hear that from?
01:20:39.000That's insane, but you can't say it like that, because then they go tell their teacher that they're a fucking cunt, and then you're in trouble, and it's like, well, you are, but where are we going to go from here, right?
01:20:49.000I mean, it's amazing to me how a child can come home from school today in 2023 and tell you, Hey mom, hey dad, I learned that there's 97 genders in school.
01:21:00.000Versus if you go back to 1953, they might say, oh, I learned Tyrannosaurus Rex had two small arms.
01:21:07.000Now you have to go ahead and deal with a whole bunch more bullshit, bro.
01:21:47.000Well, and that's the interesting thing because I'm actually an atheist, but I'm really looking and I've talked to people, to my friends who are religious, so they're either Catholic or Christian or even Muslim, and they're like, hey, look at religious schools, and I used to be very against it.
01:22:01.000But now I'm looking at them like, well, looking at the values, looking at the traditional mindset, right?
01:22:05.000Yeah, I don't want to push religion on them, but if that's where it's going to take my children and it's going to set them up for success, okay, I guess we'll just have that religious, you know, conversation and you're going to sit down with the fucking nuns.
01:22:18.000I am seriously looking at that as an atheistic father in an atheistic family, so...
01:22:23.000Yeah, I mean, hey man, you know, I respect your belief system and everything else like that.
01:22:27.000I'm never going to knock anyone for what they believe in.
01:22:29.000But the one thing I will say about, you know, religious-centric schools, whether it's, you know, a Catholic school or something like that, they instill morals into the education system, which helps with, you know, character development.
01:22:42.000The thing about religion is religion teaches you to be a good person.
01:22:45.000Most of the religions of the book, whether it's Christianity, Judaism, Islam, etc., they all teach you how to be a good person from a moral standpoint.
01:22:55.000So if anything, at least, they'll teach your children how to be good people.
01:22:59.000And sometimes people need that reaffirmation from religion.
01:23:03.000Thou shalt not kill, thou shalt not steal, etc.
01:23:07.000And like I said before, I don't have a problem with anybody's religion because religion typically makes you a better person most of the time.
01:23:14.000Most religious people I've met, regardless of what they're devout to, are good people.
01:23:18.000Yeah, we're not going to smack on you for your beliefs, but I just hope that you do find God, Christ's King, and yeah, man, wish you the best.
01:23:28.000But you're fighting the fight, my friend.
01:23:29.000You're on the front lines, and we respect men like you.
01:23:38.000Yeah, it's tough being a parent nowadays, bro.
01:23:40.000No one talks, and you know, honestly, fucking shout out to him, and I'm going to give him a down to Marco.
01:23:44.000Because if we had more men that thought like that and behaved like that and are willing to even compromise what they might think is like their belief system with atheism, like, yo, I might have to put my kids in a Catholic school...
01:25:59.000Quick question regarding the current landscape of men.
01:26:01.000Unlike the last caller from North Carolina, it was very, very good.
01:26:05.000I've been listening to Calling Trip a little bit and just kind of realized that I guess a lot of men these days lack self-awareness, even conduct in like public platforms, whether it's through conversation and etiquette.
01:26:18.000My question for you, Myron, as well as for Freshfield to jump in as well.
01:26:23.000Where do you think some of the shortcomings Where do you think the lack of shortcomings is coming from?
01:26:38.000It comes from guys not getting made fun of or punched in the face.
01:26:42.000And let me expand on that a little bit, right?
01:26:46.000The reason why so many guys are weak nowadays or don't have certain, like, you know, male codes is because they haven't suffered the consequences for not doing so.
01:27:49.000And then the other thing too is that the internet has isolated people where they don't necessarily have to feel the consequences for their fuck ups, right?
01:27:57.000So it used to be if you talk smack about someone, you would be prepared for the potential consequence of violence for doing so.
01:28:05.000There's a reason why when men are sitting together, there's an unspoken level of respect because men know that there's always that threat of violence which can then lead to death.
01:28:14.000That's been pretty much eliminated thanks to the internet.
01:28:16.000That's why you have people that talk smack on the internet.
01:28:20.000They say what they're gonna say, et cetera, because they don't have to worry about getting punched in the face.
01:28:24.000And I think that threat of violence and danger is healthy and good, and it keeps people respectful.
01:28:31.000And when you remove some of these things, you remove the bullying, which, you know, incentivizes meant to become better and compete and grow stronger, and you remove the consequences of getting punched in the face, you end up with a lot of soy boys that run their mouth and say stupid shit that they shouldn't necessarily be saying because there's no consequence.
01:28:47.000You know, you guys can use us, for example, right?
01:28:50.000We've never talked shit about YouTubers, right?
01:29:12.000Might identify me as that and then go ahead and talk shit.
01:29:14.000And they do that through the comfort of their own home, through a Sony fucking camera.
01:29:17.000And sure, Mike, because they know that they're sure I'm not going to punch them in the face.
01:29:21.000But the reality is, is that back in the day you couldn't do that.
01:29:25.000Because there were consequences for talking shit.
01:29:27.000So, I think the removal of bullying...
01:29:31.000The emergence of the internet where there's consequence-free shit-talking has kind of built a foundation upon men not necessarily adhering to certain codes.
01:29:45.000And there's a bunch of other things I could go into as well, but I don't want to go on a rant here.
01:29:48.000But that's just two things I could just think of off the top of my head.
01:29:59.000No, I was going to say just also the culture as well.
01:30:02.000Definitely, for example, the TV that we watch, men or women, women or men, it's in reverse.
01:30:08.000And not only that, but being a man nowadays is kind of demonized.
01:30:12.000If you're masculine, if you're ever that, I want to say, alpha guy, so to speak, as people would say, you're considered a threat or toxic.
01:30:19.000So the whole culture itself is against men becoming men and women being women because if you want to be a stay-at-home mom, you're ashamed for that as well.
01:31:25.000The masculine figure is fucking skinny soy boys like fucking Tom Holland, who you don't know if they're fucking gay or not.
01:31:31.000We got gay superheroes coming around and etc.
01:31:34.000There's an attack on masculinity that you guys, you know, if you're on this side of the internet, you're seeing it, but there's been an attack on masculinity for the better part of the past 20 to 30 years, right?
01:31:45.000Now, if you go to the gym and you train or whatever, they call you a toxic alpha male or whatever.
01:31:50.000We're sitting here, you know, watching creators on YouTube that are fat, out of shape, no life accomplishments, haven't fucking done anything, and yet people respect their fucking opinion.
01:32:05.000Half these YouTubers that talk shit or whatever it may be, that have their stupid little reaction channels or whatever, they haven't accomplished fucking anything.
01:32:12.000And they're not in good shape, so I don't fucking respect them.
01:32:15.000They're fucking faggots and they continue on with talking shit about other people that are doing better than them.
01:32:55.000It's sick to me that we live in a world where if some faggot soy boy YouTuber puts in, crazy toxic alpha male says this, it gets a million views.
01:33:04.000People fucking love shitting on guys that are naturally masculine that got their shit together.
01:33:22.000Because their soy boy audience wants you, right, to not strive to be in good shape, to be a leader, to be dominant, to have your fucking life together, to have accomplishments behind your fucking name.
01:34:09.000When I was a rookie agent on the southwest border, going after these cartel motherfuckers, whatever, the first couple years, I shut the fuck up and let the work speak for itself.
01:34:18.000I didn't sit there and mouth off to the older guys and tell them, this is how we're going to do it, blah, blah, blah.
01:34:32.000They would volunteer to help me go and sit up on a house when I'm doing a search warrant.
01:34:36.000I had to earn the respect from my peers.
01:34:39.000I'm talking about guys that did special forces, guys that were prior military, guys that fucking killed people for the United States of America.
01:34:46.000I had to earn that respect, rightfully so, so I understood that I shut the fuck up until I did something.
01:34:52.000But people don't understand that shit.
01:34:54.000You got these fucking losers on the internet that a lot of you guys watch, by the way, that are flabby, triple chin, talking shit, giving their opinion on what matters.
01:35:03.000Why the fuck are people taking people seriously that are losers?
01:35:06.000They don't even have the discipline to go to the gym and train and get their body right, and they're trying to tell you how to view the world.
01:35:24.000Stop watching bullshit reaction channels where these guys are flabby, soft, pussy motherfuckers that haven't accomplished anything trying to give y'all their take on what matters.
01:36:56.000And my last question is related to what do you think, and candidly speaking for both of you as well, what do you think, from just a population percentage standpoint, do people fall into, you know, the camp that those who get it and those who don't get it?
01:37:10.000The first population is just the general population, and the second population is just the people who follow this content, you know, some of the callers.
01:39:41.000Versus actually giving y'all any type of real value on how to, etc.
01:39:44.000And my thing is, I think we need to go back to guys that are competent, that have actually accomplished things, should be the ones that you guys listen to.
01:39:51.000Not fucking losers that sit there and point the fucking fingers at others and talk shit.
01:39:56.000Because why is it such a thing to be an...
01:40:00.000Why are we demonizing being an alpha male?
01:40:29.000Is it better to be a bitch sitting in a dark-ass room talking shit about people that are superior to you in every way, and if they ever fucking saw you in person, they'd grab you by your skinny little neck and beat the fuck out of you?
01:41:53.000We literally have the phone lines open for all the haters, whether you hate me for putting on hoods or making jokes or Fresh for whatever the hell, because y'all seem to hate Fresh.
01:43:57.000Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.
01:43:59.000You don't even know what you're about to argue against and you're trying to do it.
01:44:03.000Think really hard before we go down this road.
01:44:06.000Do you really want to embarrass yourself?
01:44:07.000That's all I'm trying to ask you though, because I am familiar with the show, but I'm trying to figure out what was the last one because I don't even know what was the last one.
01:44:15.000So you're about to argue against something that you're not even 100% sure of.
01:46:25.000Alright, so since you clearly don't know what I really said, and you can't even name yourself, this is what I said specifically, alright?
01:46:33.000I said men need to be at least 35 years old, making 100k a year, have 6 months to 1 year of savings, Be in shape and have had sex with at least 50 girls before they even think about marriage.
01:46:46.000Because it's going to put them in a situation where they have experience and competence and they're of a certain caliber to command respect from a large demographic of females where they're going to be in the authority position and leadership role in that relationship where it will be successful.
01:47:10.000Well, you're implying that, so you're saying that they need to have all these things in place in order to command some certain respect, correct?
01:47:17.000To be in the best position to command respect from a majority of women and have the relationship last.
01:47:30.000But there's a lot, so we're talking the factors of risk, but when you talk about risk, when you're marrying a virgin, They have the least amount of experience.
01:47:39.000So when you come in with that much experience towards them, you're only setting yourself up for failure because psychologically, in the men's mind, they're thinking, hey, I could get better than this, or hey, I have better, more, better criteria than this woman.
01:47:56.000And that's why when you talk about the psychological effects, even this was brought up in the Tim Pool discussion, they brought up the psychological effects of having sex with so much women.
01:48:06.000Do you think men could just turn that off at the snap of a finger when they marry a virgin?
01:48:10.000You missed the whole point of the argument, bro.
01:48:12.000We're not referring to virgins at all.
01:48:20.000Well, I was talking about a virgin, though, not the modern-day woman.
01:48:24.000You do realize that the reason why I gave these parameters for men to have is because for them to be attractive to modern day women they need to have some level of competence and sexual experience and financial adequacy etc.
01:48:35.000That is why I gave that advice to combat the current state of the modern female.
01:48:42.000Now, if you want to talk about, you want to have a conversation with a guy that's experienced like this, getting with a virgin, well, men and women aren't the same.
01:50:20.000Because you've got to remember that these factors I gave, just to clarify, those factors I gave were to deal with modern women that aren't virgins by the time you marry them.
01:50:29.000But if we want to go ahead and talk about you have these traits in place and you go ahead and meet a virgin, which is likely zero to none, you're still going to be attractive to that woman because you have the prerequisite competence and experience.
01:50:43.000So what you're saying is that criteria you laid out, That's only for the modern day woman, correct?
01:51:01.000If you're attractive to a virgin, you're going to be attractive to a 304 because women typically have uniform things that make men attractive to them.
01:53:44.000No, you don't understand the argument.
01:53:47.000Because you're trying to say just because you got 50 bodies means all these positive traits come along with it.
01:53:55.000You don't understand the psychological effects that come with it, which is also which leads to the downfall of relationships.
01:54:02.000Bro, I understand what you're saying, but you're arguing for a virgin specifically.
01:54:06.000On the show, we said 100% that it's for the modern-day woman that you're dating, not a virgin.
01:54:13.000But it will work on a virgin, too, because you're going to be attractive to her because you have the prerequisite experience and confidence.
01:57:22.000It's like stuff like clothing and whatnot.
01:57:25.000Okay, so you get on a podcast with black belt experts on dating statistics and tell them what they're getting wrong because you sell fucking Gucci belts?
01:57:36.000Why would you enter a call with Myron?
02:00:20.000Let me tell you, so Myron said you have to have 50 bodies in order to get married and like have these certain traits that women find appealing.
02:00:27.000But what he's making is a fallacy where he's assuming that just because you have those 50 bodies, those traits come along with it.
02:00:35.000But what I'm arguing is that even if you do have those 50 bodies, those negative psychological traits that come along with that, that baggage, also comes into the relationship.
02:03:50.000Because you might make that 200k faster, but the downside is you could potentially not get it as well versus like it seems like you have something fairly sure in this space and you know it better.
02:04:17.000It might take you an extra year or two, but that's fine.
02:04:22.000Yeah, I was saying, like, because I was talking to him and he was saying that, like, he knows that people, like, when they come out of their schooling and they're in the apprenticeship program, basically, once they get hired, they're making, like, $300,000 plus, so that could be, like, maybe in the next two years.
02:04:53.000Well, I want to, but the schooling is basically eight hours a day, four hours in the classroom, and then four hours of fieldwork, so I wouldn't really be able to hold down my aerospace job at the same time because they interfere with each other.
02:05:09.000I could switch over to an overnight shift, but there's such a large gap, I would only be sleeping three hours in between jobs.
02:05:40.000But if you got it locked in already and you're already making the money, bro, and you're on the path to making that 200K, hey, man, just be patient and make that money.
02:07:44.000I got scared to a point where I'm like, yeah, I love the fact that I would like to sleep with women, but after that experience makes me like, damn, man.
02:07:51.000So you're going to let a woman dictate how you move in life?
02:07:56.000Last time I checked, you're a fucking man, bro.
02:08:15.000And I was just like, you know, there's a lot of good guys here in the chat, but I'm just like, shouldn't we worry about that?
02:08:22.000Because, you know, any girl can, like, false accuse you of something, even though you experience with, you know, these women, like, you can have, like, 30 bodies, and you're going down that path, and then one girl can fuck you up after you became a high-value man.
02:08:35.000And that's, like, my really concern because I had a girl actually say that she was gonna do that.
02:12:35.000Number one, if you can't get the fuck out of California, number two, you need to work more hours and make more money.
02:12:41.000That's going to keep you out of the house, away from your sister, and you're going to earn more and start saving to get the fuck out of there.
02:13:35.000But second of all, I wanted to say that I don't even understand quite why you guys don't dress up on the show.
02:13:42.000You know, the attire that you guys have The goddamn shorts and the hoodie, I mean, it's not quite official.
02:13:48.000I think you guys could be doing a lot better.
02:13:50.000You know, you guys say you don't have much haters, but I mean, I don't know what the hell you got on right there, but I just need to bring that up for you.
02:16:25.000Shout out to you guys for everything you guys do.
02:16:27.000Watch the episode that we did with Steve where we talked about setting up your business properly with LLCs and S-Corps and all that other stuff.
02:16:33.000That will save you a lot of headache, bro.
02:18:27.000Yo, so I'm a college student right now, and I am under a scholarship, so I'm not paying for my school at all.
02:18:35.000And I just got an opportunity to go to Dubai in the spring for travel abroad.
02:18:40.000I have some questions for you guys about networking.
02:18:42.000I've already met some people in real estate that are working over there right now.
02:18:47.000And I was just wondering if you guys have any advice, because I know I was watching your vlog with Tate when you guys were over there in Dubai.
02:20:43.000With the money that I save from a job, what should I do with it?
02:20:46.000Should I just continue saving it or should I put it towards something?
02:20:50.000What you should do is, in the first, in the beginning, you should invest it towards acquiring knowledge that will help you earn more money.
02:21:01.000So you need to invest in yourself, basically.
02:21:04.000Yeah, so you make the money, you're going to have to, you're 18, you're going to work some low-skilled job, whatever it may be, work that job, save that money, and then invest that money into a skill set that will earn you more money.
02:21:14.000That's what you need to do in your younger years.
02:21:16.000Either for, like for example, an online course, certificate, whatever you can find.
02:21:35.000So then yeah, then continue going to mechanic school, work your side job, use that money from that side job to pay for the mechanic school so you get out with no debt and then you can start going ahead and cash flowing and saving that money to actually buy assets that pay you back.
02:21:47.000And avoid having a girlfriend that could definitely divert your money.
02:21:59.000You shouldn't be taking any women seriously at 18 years old.
02:22:01.000Go to school, get that trade, make money on the side, pay that trade off so you graduate with zero to no debt, and then all the money that you make from your high-income skill being a mechanic, you go ahead and you save that money and you buy assets with it.
02:22:14.000Earned income always goes to assets, not liabilities.
02:23:39.000I'm like, yo, this man's leading us as guys.
02:23:42.000He's like pointing out the blueprint on how to live life, be high value, all that other shit.
02:23:46.000But I'm like, yo, this nigga don't even hold himself accountable.
02:23:49.000So I'm like looking at it, like objectively, I'm like, yo, I watched the eight hour stream and I'm like, this nigga wilding out.
02:23:56.000I'm like, he got employees, he got people that are relying on him and FNF and he's out here Being mad reckless.
02:24:03.000Because I'm thinking to myself, I'm like, even if he's in the shadow realm, right?
02:24:06.000Even if he's doing all these things to kind of like keep things incognito, we know the ops are always watching.
02:24:12.000We know they're always keeping tabs on everything, getting clips, and always looking for new ways to throw you guys off the platform.
02:24:20.000YouTube right now is one of the biggest search platforms for videos.
02:24:24.000So for you to put yourself in a predicament where you already on like a fucking thin line, and on top of that too, you're being extra reckless.
02:24:33.000And on top of that too, the niggas around you can't even check you.
02:24:36.000I'm like, yo, He's just trying to burn the ship down.
02:25:48.000To get you to burn yourself down because they say that you are literally going to tie a rope around your neck and hang yourself just because of the fact that they know you're going to go into the joke too much and make a bad decision and basically fuck yourself over.
02:26:03.000Have we talked about that stuff recently?
02:26:24.000Already the people are looking at you like an anti-semi.
02:26:26.000You know that ADL is always coming after niggas, right?
02:26:29.000And on top of that, you know right now...
02:26:33.000FNF is already in YouTube's bad graces.
02:26:35.000The last thing you want to do is have something else go viral with you being, for lack of better terms, and I mean this with love because you've actually helped me out a lot in my life, right?
02:26:44.000Being immature to a point where it's juvenile.
02:27:46.000Are you going to stand for something or fall for anything?
02:27:48.000And my thing is, I look at it like, yo, obviously you have to operate on certain boundaries, etc., which we're obviously doing now with Shadow Realm and all this other crap.
02:27:56.000But if you're going to be authentic, you always take a risk.