Courage is a Habit
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Today's guest is the President of Courage is a Habit, Alvin Lyles. He is a political refugee from California who moved to the midwest only to find that the same ideologies that ruined his old home were spreading across the country.
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welcome back to the games for girls podcast uh today's guest is a guest i found through x
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through social media um i saw the work he was doing and honestly i was so impressed
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uh this is a true activist uh we don't have a lot of activists on our side we have a lot of people
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who complain uh who take to social media to to share their frustrations with what's going on in
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the world but not a lot of people who are actually willing to do something about it but this person
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is he is the president of courage is a habit i encourage everyone to go look up courage is a
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habit follow it on social media go to the website his name is alvin louie he is a political refugee
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from california he moved to the midwest only to find that these same ideologies that ruined his
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old home are now spreading across the country again courage is a habit it is an organization that
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creates actionable tools and strategies for the average parent and legislator even to take action
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in defending children from indoctrination for lack of a better word i could not be more excited to
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talk to him we're going to get his take on w path which has taken social media by a storm over the
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past few weeks uh so check out the interview with alvin louie well alvin welcome to the show um i feel
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like i only know you as courage is a habit based off of your social media name and your the platform
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that you've been able to build now uh so i wanted to give you the opportunity to tell us a little bit
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about who you are what you do uh how you got here absolutely well courage is a habit is a hell a lot
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more important than alvin louie i'll tell you that uh the people i work with uh the team that i work
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with and the things that we put out it's all them um you know i i just i love taking the arrow so that
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way they can they can do the work but courage is a habit um it's an organization that uh produces
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products uh strategies tools for the average parent and the average legislators because in the k
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through 12 uh in the education world it's very convoluted it's convoluted on purpose and so our
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tools distill things down to an easy understandable tool that parents can consume very quickly but more
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importantly we give parents call to actions because we believe that if you create outrage without outlet
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it just creates hopelessness and that's what happens to a lot of people and not just in education
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but in general in america america and americans they go what do you want me to do about it so
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that's one side of what we do the other side of what we do is we expose the psychological gambits
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and the brainwashing that parents go through we talk about children being brainwashed but really
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the parents get brainwashed first so the other side of courage is a habit as we produce uh strategies
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and tools for parents to de-brainwash them because we believe that if you can de-brainwash parents
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and take away some of the some of the stuff we'll talk about today they will naturally know how to
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fight for their kids of course yeah it seems as if it should be an instinct that i'm not a parent
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myself but any parent i know my parents right i know it's an instinct my parents had uh how did how
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did this start for you um when when did you feel it necessary to really get involved well my great
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grandfather ran from communism uh escaped communism he was an older man um and you know when you when
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you run from communism you bring nothing with you uh and he didn't even you know he tried to bring
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our his sons you know my great grandfather my grandfather and my my dad uh when he got here
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he he didn't even know if they made it or not because he passed away before anybody you know got
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here and so my family is not uh we understand what happens when something like this takes over now of
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course we never thought that we would find ourselves in the same position and so you know i'm originally
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from california and i moved my family from california to indiana and because i was i didn't want to raise
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children in in california for a lot of obvious reasons but when i got to indiana i saw a lot of
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the same seeds that destroyed my old home in indiana and it started in the education and so it was like
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going back uh going back in time 20 years and seeing the same reactions from people going it can't happen
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here it's not that bad it's just fear-mongering and so that's when it kind of really dawned on me that
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uh america really is the last place for people to escape uh things things like communism and marxism
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and uh nobody's escaping on a boat in the middle of the night to go to cuba and you know my great
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grandfather came here and gave us a an opportunity to do to live the life we have in america but
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there's nowhere else for my children or anyone else's children to go once america falls and that
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was really uh i thought you know i i have to at least try and that's what courage is a habit it's about
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it's about it's not about us fighting for anybody it's about reminding americans that they have that
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to make courage a habit we can beat anything but today i see that we've made fear a habit and that's
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the problem and now it relies on people like you who should be enjoying her life and doing other
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things but now you have to stand in front of them everybody the bullet for everyone because they've
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made fear a habit well i think it's incredible what you've been able to do um you popped up on my
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social media pages like a couple times and i i'd gone through your stuff um but really when i i think
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i first actually saw all that you were doing it was in regard to a bill out of maine i think it was
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ld 1735 or something at the time that's impressive i know right i know impressive well hey you know how it
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is tracking these bills uh you spend a lot of time on them so i totally understand um right this bill
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you phrased it in a way that i had never seen anyone call something like this and you called
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it a transgender trafficking bill so i wanted to give you the opportunity to share what this bill
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out of maine was doing when i first i guess got connected with you and really how this isn't only
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happening in just maine it's it's really across the nation it is across the nation so the transgender
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trafficking bill it's literally what that is this transgender trafficking is taking a social contagion
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and using that as excuse to move children across state lines so let me just give you an example so
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uh let's say tennessee they ban uh the surgeries and drugs for anybody under 18. if a child because
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they've already they already have that social the transgender social contagion from schools they get
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it from schools and social media but they mainly get it from schools uh they will say i'm gonna die
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if i don't get this drugs i'm gonna die if i don't get the surgery what the transgender trafficking
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bill out of maine and in other states what they say is that uh you little girl you can come over to
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maine cross state lines leave tennessee and if your parents come looking for you we will not reunite
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you that's exactly what it is because parents are now unsafe and abusive and we will put you in
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foster care and we will use taxpayer money to get you these drugs and surgeries that is the bill uh
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any adult can take the child over to maine if that bill if we didn't beat the bill and we did but if
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we hadn't beat it then they can go over to maine and any parent can do any any adult can take it to
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the child also it doesn't even have to be a legal guardian any adult no any adult oh my gosh any adult
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and if the parents come looking for the child they have to prove that they will be supportive of the
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transgender uh contagion and and getting the drugs and the surgeries um uh it will not honor custody
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agreements so let's say if john and mary got divorced and john has full custody of their daughter
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and mary doesn't mary can take their little girl over to maine and get these procedures and if john
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goes to say hey i have full custody this is kidnapping they will not honor that now people will ask of
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course a lot of your listeners are very smart so they'll ask this can't be constitutional you're right
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it's not but that's the point the point is that by the time it gets through the lawsuits and the
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supreme court it'll be years and it doesn't matter the damage is done the damage is already done to
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generation of kids so it doesn't matter if it's not constitutional it just matters that it's happening
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to children so that's what a transgender trafficking bill is uh and 15 states currently now we beat it in
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maine uh we we we handed them a 12-0 loss because of the amount of pressure that we brought onto the
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committee and they're not they weren't used to it but currently 15 states have some sort of
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transgender trafficking bill technically speaking 12 states have bills that are actually signed done
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by the governor already done passed uh and three states did it by executive order wow what do you
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know off the top of your head which three states that is i think it was new jersey arizona and then the
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other one i can't remember but i will have the link on your show notes this yeah yeah please
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yeah that's wild um i don't think people realize again that this is happening um we saw a case out
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of montana was it that got pretty big national attention um right where this exact scenario as you
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almost just exactly described happened and the parents could do nothing about it which is well what's
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interesting about that scenario is that they exactly right they banned well it got held up in their
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court but they were supposed to pass a bill that's still held up right now i believe that it bans the
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surgeries and drugs for minors and then they took that the daughter to another another state that had
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one i think wyoming or something like that it was one of the states i can't remember that had one of
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the transgender trafficking bills that's exactly what happened wow so maine now
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we talked offline and again following your social media pages and seeing what they're doing now
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you're right we brought a ton of public pressure which i will be the first to say i've seen it time
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and time and time again public pressure works public outrage works these people cave when their feet
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are being held to the fire so it's our job as everyday people as parents as students as coaches as
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medical professionals it is our job to call out their hypocrisy and their really the lunacy behind it
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all um so that was successful in maine at first but now walk us through kind of what they're doing
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really in secrecy what they're trying to do behind closed doors to get this done
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that's exactly right and by the way the behind closed doors that's a great segment to school
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counselor so we'll come right back to that that's wonderful um so when when you're talking about the
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transgender cult there's no such thing as winning there's no winning until the entire cult's completely
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falling apart until it's just done gone out of done done no no remnants of it because their entire
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mission is to transition kids and pull them away from parents that's it that's their mission so think
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of them as missionaries and your kids are their disciples that they're trying to get so there is no
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winning now when we when all the parents and like you said from all across the country helped us beat
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them 12-0 it was a great win because we wanted to show the american people that you individually can
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make a difference because we face a lot of things that we can't but there's a lot of things that we
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can and i think we waste a lot of time focusing on the things that we can't but there's a lot of
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things that we can do and that was a great win and i was so happy to give that to everybody that
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supported us supported you and everybody else but internally we knew that they were never just
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going to let that lie and so the strategy is that when they take a loss like this they always try to
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get the elements of a bill they either break it up into two or three other bills or they're trying to
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piggyback it on another bill but when when you win one of the weaknesses of regular people or the
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conservative side is that they're very naive in that once they win they go we're done and then
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they look away is the looking away that they they want you to do now we didn't look away because we
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know our enemies you know and so uh last week late last week they introduced uh the same elements of
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the transgender trafficking bill which was originally ld 1735 but forget that number the number i want you
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guys to all remember now is ld 227 ld 227 is them taking the transgender trafficking bill and piggybacking
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it on an abortion bill i kid you not that's what it is however and i'm going to say this and i've never
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said this and i never thought i would say this i have never seen a bill nastier than this it's shocking
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for me to be able to say from california because everybody always says oh this is like california i'm like
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you don't know california unless you live in california nothing's worse than california there's
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nothing you can pass that california haven't already done years ago i'm telling you amazingly
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today in march 2024 i finally able to say that a state's passed a bill nastier than anything i've
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seen out of california that's saying a lot so this is what the new a bill is we're calling this bill
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the transgender trafficker protection act that's what it is it's a transgender trafficker protection
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act it takes everything that the original transgender trafficking bill is everything i said earlier about
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you know kids crossing state line not honoring custody agreements but they've added they've added
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layers of protection for the traffickers so if you bring now if you bring an adult it could be an aunt
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it could be just a random adult brings a child over to maine and all these transgender procedures or
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abortions you can't they're protected that you can't you can't press legal action you can't call
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law enforcement you can't call anybody they will protect the trafficker the parents have no recourse
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that's a protection once you cross into maine but i'm not done then they've added punishment
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for parents that bring legal action for malpractice so like all the detransitioners uh there's several
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of them that brought suits some of them are obviously our friends and your friends and
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they're just they're just uh they're basically intimidating and making it so that new detransitioners
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cannot file suit in maine so for example chloe uh you know she's done you know amazing work
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lila jane if the next lila jane they can't and they're in maine and they're trying to sue for
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malpractice and say hey they told us that they're going to kill themselves and now they they're
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regretting the surgeries and things you didn't you didn't inform them what it is it doesn't matter it
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doesn't matter what it is whatever the malpractice is they are now putting all these layers of
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protection for the doctors and if you do sue and you lose there's all these penalties there's and and
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the way the bill is they label them hostile litigators literally that's the bill hostile
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litigators and then the last point i'll say about kids are hostile litigators hostile litigators
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riley hostile litigators and in the bill the word i mean it's it's it's incapacitated i incapacitated
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shows up six times meaning that if a if a they say if they bring a minor even if some even if a person
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who's incapacitated meaning they're drugged that's you're incapacitated it's okay they will still give
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them these procedures as long as the adult brings them literally the word incapacitated shows up six
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times in this bill everybody listening to me will think i've made this up it's it's like i said i mean
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we've been doing this for a long time i've never seen a bill this nasty and this is all the offshoot
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from the transgender cult that starts in k through 12 and it's the stuff you've been fighting of course
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you know at the collegiate level and at the sports level but it all starts at k through 12.
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oh my gosh who writes a bill like this alvin well i'm glad you asked riley i'm glad you asked
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because it is eight woke white women who wrote this bill who's on the committee and uh we'll put
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the link there on your show notes so you can feast on their face as to who would support something
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like this i don't know if we want to feast on their face that's not definitely not what i want
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to do but again we it's it's we could have all guessed we could have all guessed we could have
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predicted i mean i would say nine out of ten people would have guessed that it is white women
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our own worst enemy insufferable white women if i said okay now the committee could be made up of
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indian women south african women korean women or woke white women which one do you think if you
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had to guess who do you think is on the committee and of course but now here's the good news here's
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the good news i don't want to just i brought a lot of bad news here the good news is we're going to
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kick their ass again and we can do it with everybody's help so again it'll be on the link
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be on the show notes but this is super easy as courage is a habit.org courage is a habit.org
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slash pound ld227 or just go to courage is a habit.org and it'll be the first it'll be the
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first graphic right there you click on it and it's a it's a form that has all their all their emails
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preloaded it has a sample email we do ask that you you know write two or three custom sentence you
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know your own words sentence but it's a it's an email that's already a sample email and you can let
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them hear about it and that will help us and like we said pressure works it worked last time in maine
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it worked in south carolina recently in regard to a bill that would criminalize medical professionals
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who administer these hormones and perform these surgeries 63 house republicans voted to kill the
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bill and then right two hours later after they got a ton of public pressure because of social media
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because of the people the power is the people's they all 63 of them change their vote so it's our
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job again we have to do it um so that's awesome we'll put some draft some draft responses up too
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because i know sometimes it can be hard to to formulate your thought perfectly but it's necessary
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it's urgent and it's our our duty as everyday americans um so again this is happening across the
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nation we see a lot of the like um gender affirming care i hate that that verbiage um for minors we see
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a lot of the sports bill but this transgender trafficking bill uh that's i think a newer one
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that hasn't gotten the same amount of attention but just as awful just as horrible um so people pay
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attention come on a logical conclusion to the things that you're fighting um you're talking about a men and
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women's sports men in locker rooms the next the next is this a logical thing if you think that
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this is life-saving and children are going to die you got to pass a bill to get them away from their
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parents that's the whole that's why they're keeping secrets from schools in in schools and school
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counselors mostly in k-12 is the school counselors that are pushing this they're the one who set the
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tone about saying parents are abusive and unsafe because they're not using the pronouns they're not giving
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the binders they're not giving the penis tucking they're not giving the puberty blockers so we we
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saw this coming because we deal with the the origins of that argument and that came from school counselors
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in k-12 so by the time these transgender trafficking bills came we knew exactly where their arguments is
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and where the weaknesses are because we've been dealing with it at the k-12 so the rest of the country
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this is very new but to us it's not because that's what they've been telling parents for quite some time
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now in k-12 so yeah make no mistake uh this of course is about the safeguarding of children
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but this is an attack on parental rights um without a doubt so that's that's huge um speaking of the
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k-12 arena here um indicating how this really is starting when these kids are the most impressionable
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and the most vulnerable what can parents do i know you have a ton of resources provided uh for parents
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um you mentioned previously like ways that we can fight this i want you to be able to plug your your
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website again um just so so parents are inclined to go look because again it is important even in states
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where you don't think this is happening uh that would be your first mistake because it is um those
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states are actually as you said the most susceptible um to allow this lunacy to infiltrate in
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they are so when it comes to k-12 it doesn't matter if you live in a red or blue state
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and i i want to say this very very clearly it doesn't matter if you live in a red county
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it doesn't matter if you live in a red state keeping secrets from parents is happening in all states
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and here's why all school counselors get their mission objectives and their standards of care
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their policies from an organization called the american school counselor association
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the american school counselor association is the biggest purveyor of the transgender cult
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the reason why they're dangerous is because they work with children and their mental health
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and they work with children one-on-one and they drive the culture of a school
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the pronoun enforcement keeping secrets from parents it all comes from them
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so it doesn't matter if your state has bills laws we ban this we ban that
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counselors are doing it in the states that have laws against it it's a little easier to sue them when
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it happens but it doesn't prevent the fact that they are doing it because like i said earlier
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they're missionaries there no bill is going to stop them they're dedicated they want to make
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what they're doing is is right um these people are just deceived as and honestly i think you know
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we talk a lot a lot about especially my generation younger people being deceived it is the deceivers
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who are more dangerous than the deceived um i actually probably flip-flopped because the deceived
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they don't know right from wrong anymore right um they actually think what they're doing is right
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which is just crazy um i wanted to get your perspective on the w path leaks of course w path
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is the world professional association of transgender health this is what hospitals and medical staff
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hold as the gold standard for these trans procedures and and what they call care and it's got everyone
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in a stir on social media i even saw jk rowling tweeted yes yes he said that it's beyond doubt
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that surgeries and drugs of unproven benefit are being given to those who cannot give informed
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consent and she even went as far to say like if you're still cheering this on you are complicit
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um so i wanted to ask you you know can you kind of break this leak down for everyone and what it
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really means happy to do it and it's great that you're talking about the schools so what parents
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can do and this ties right into that w path leak if you go to courage as a habit.org and click
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on school counselors it is a campaign that we created called behind closed doors which is a
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great setup from you um it shows you exactly who the school counselors are but no matter which one
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of those items under courage as a habit.org you can find the school counselors no matter which one
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you click on at the end is an opt-out form i want every single parent that's listening to your
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wonderful show to fill out that form and turn it into your school on monday make sure that your
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children have no access to any mental health professionals so that's the first thing get your
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kids away from these counselors because you didn't vet them you didn't review them you didn't get
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referrals there's zero reasons why and there's zero benefits when you take a child to a swim class
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you vet that or that teacher in that organization so fill that out that's what every parent listening
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to the show can do every parent monday in that opt-out form so the w path let's bring it down
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to what parents what what what's in why is it important to parents when it comes to the school
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counselors and they talk about oh children are going to commit suicide they're going to commit suicide
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they quote mostly from the trevor project okay it's a nasty transgender cult organization but the
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trevor project gets every single one of their recommendation from the from the w path
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so now that the w path has been exposed as a fraud and that internally the documents basically show
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these doctors and these people laughing and joking and being flippant and saying yeah we know that's
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kind of dangerous but oh well when you see that you know this is pseudoscience it's not based on
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anything w path internally knows it but they continue pushing it the trevor project takes all that all the
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stuff that w path said and said they're going to kill themselves if you don't if you don't let them
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have this and literally that's the entire foundation for schools keeping secrets from parents
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so i want every every parent to go to that w path exposure and i'm sure you guys will link that
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in your show notes you've got a great graphic we'll show okay there you go do that too i made that we
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made that graphic just for you and so so you take that take a piece of that it's a long it's a huge
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it's a huge leak but take a piece of it go to your principal and superintendent and school board
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and school counselors and go you guys quote trevor project say they say if we don't do this kids are
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going to kill themselves they take their entire guidance from w path now what that's what i want
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every parent to do and they won't know what to do they won't know how to respond to this are you
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kidding me they won't they won't um so you put them in the position in writing to say we still go by
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trevor project and they go by the w path and we stand by it but this despite the leaks you got to
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get them on you get them write them an email and say i met with you today i showed you these files
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i you you you you quote asca they quote the trevor project and the trevor project based everything on
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w path i met with you today i showed you these files it's fraudulent it's a lie and you claim you're
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still going to keep the transgender policy to keep secrets from parents get that in writing
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yeah when it all falls apart you're going to come back to that email exactly yeah that's huge um and
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yeah these these leaks if you haven't seen the leaks and the files i encourage everyone to go look at
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them because it really it tells us what we already knew honestly it's it's it doesn't seem as if it's
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anything groundbreaking or or um pivotal to us people who who were pretty easily able to call
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this what it is which is fraudulent and um the biggest medical malpractice in history um but for
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the everyday person or for people who have actually bought in to um this idea of gender affirming care
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it is riveting so i encourage everyone to go look at these files 100 100 but that's how you can
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weaponize something like this to protect your kids that's how you use it and leverage it because
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it's these big things a lot of people go my god but they can't tie it to their real life but that's
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how you tie it to your real life and that's how it works that's how schools justify keeping secrets from
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you can you highlight the importance of language or as you describe it language contamination uh because
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i've mentioned several times on on this show just how important language is and the words that we use
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um but i want to get your perspective on this sure so the core power to all this and not really the same
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thing it's just a way to get to the communism at the end of the day anyway um it's language contamination
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so here's the easiest way i'll give you a phrase that everybody can remember and i'll give you an example
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language contamination is the usual vocabulary but not your dictionary the usual vocabulary but not
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your dictionary i'll give you two examples one it's just have nothing to do with politics and
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the other one is right in the schools so let's say if you know so let's say the two of us go hey we're
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gonna go and and meet for coffee okay i have a meeting for coffee and then you go okay you're like
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alvin why don't you meet me in this corner here and i'm gonna pick you up i'll be like great and then
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you'll go i'm driving a red sedan that's okay so then you call me and you go hey i'm right here
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come on over and i'll be like i don't see a red sedan you go i'm right here just look over to your
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right and i look over and it's a blue truck i'd be like i thought you i was like riley i thought you're
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said you're gonna drive a red sedan this is a blue truck and you go no this is this is a red sedan
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this is a blue truck are you are you crazy and you go no to me this is a red sedan imagine if you
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did that and everyone did that it would be chaos we wouldn't understand each other you're using my
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vocabulary but not my dictionary that's what they're doing to children in schools seven hours
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a day for five days a week for 13 years it's all this language contamination all this is just about
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empathy so when they tell parents so the second example where they tell parents we're just teaching
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empathy that's all it is social emotional learning is just about teaching empathy what you and i think
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of empathy is like oh you teach the kids to you know think of yourself before someone else put
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yourself in their shoes how would you feel if this happened to you that's what we mean by empathy
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what they mean by empathy is hey we're gonna work these children from kindergarten on by the time they're
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13 14 15 if a man walks into a bathroom instead of you getting that reaction that girls should you
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have to have empathy for him how would you like it if someone kicked you out of the bathroom
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how would you like it if someone pointed at you and say you don't belong here how would you feel
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the empathy goes towards the mentally ill man and now when i give this example when i do speeches
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parents go no that's not that's horrifying that's not what i mean right because the usual vocabulary
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not your dictionary everything that americans are facing today starts with language contamination
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and if you can understand that if you can understand that everything that they tell you is through
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that lens of language contamination you won't fall for it whether it be open borders vaccines would
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name it name your problem it starts with language contamination and if you really think about it
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that's how it starts that's why people go i don't understand there's a disconnect that disconnect is what
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they want you to have so that you can't fight it because you don't know where to point with your efforts
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but if you can understand language contamination that's your first sign of not being fooled again
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the second thing that they do is they weaponize your kindness and those things go hand in hand
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don't you want kids to feel empathy don't you want kids to learn empathy that's your kindness and then
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they throw in language contamination so the parents they can't see it they don't it's like fighting a
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ghost but if you can understand that most of it is leveraging your kindness and the language
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contamination you're gonna you're gonna be a lot further ahead in this fight you're right about
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this uh infiltrating i guess beyond just this this movement uh to your point about the border we've
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seen the biden administration and and uh secretary mayorkas say now newcomers which sounds so pleasant
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it sounds so welcoming and and and you know it makes us this uh really homey country everyone's welcome
00:31:45.340
it sounds like a super positive thing but you're exactly right that is the newcomer it's like oh
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you know what someone's just visiting out of town this is a newcomer you know it's like
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process and and his gangs and the violent stuff going on behind the scenes don't mind that he's a
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newcomer he's or the dreamers why did obama call the dreamer act i'm just dreaming don't you love
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dreamers what's the matter don't you like don't you want people to dream like you that's your
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weaponizing kindness don't you want people to have a better life don't you want people to have
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a better life crazy and so my recommendation and again this is a very specific recommendation for
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the times that we're in because you can't apply this to interpersonal relationships if you try to
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apply it to your kids your spouse your girlfriend your boyfriend your parents this is going to destroy
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your relationships and this tool no one talks about and this is what we try to teach parents
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is indifference don't hate don't support don't love don't indifference indifference because when
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you're indifferent no one can manipulate you again terrible for a personal interpersonal
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relationship because you can't be indifferent to the people in your life if they say yeah you hurt my
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feelings if they say hey you did this and hurt my feelings of course you can't be indifferent
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but when you're dealing with this ideology the critical race theory losers the transgender
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child mutilation advocates the people who are pushing transgender trafficking bills those people
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will try to weaponize your kindness they'll talk about slavery they'll talk about kids killing
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themselves they'll talk about all these things to soften you you have to go i don't care i don't care
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i'm going to protect my children you're not i don't care what you say i don't care if someone has
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a plight i don't care if this happened in the past i don't care about anybody's plight i don't care
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and that's indifference it's not hate it's not support and in this country we've made people
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believe they have to either support something or be against it we give them that two binary
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and that's not true there's a third option i don't care amazing it's very true yeah everything's
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become black or white very polarized nation that we live in um more so than ever um so i could not
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agree more i think indifference that's a great way that's how you that's how you destroy the
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weaponizing your empathy and your kindness you say i don't care yeah once you say that you know i
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always say once you say that it's like someone playing tennis by themselves they can hit the ball
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but the ball ain't coming back yeah and so it destroys that weaponizing kindness is indifference
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it's not hate because even hate is now they're like look at them they're a bigot they're a white
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supremacist they're all those things but when you go i don't care yeah when it's indifferent
00:34:28.780
there's nothing and then people who've been in like really abusive relationships can tell you that
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that a lot of people in abusive relationships is because they keep caring the moment you go
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i don't care whatever yeah i leave you're gonna if you leave i'm gonna do this to myself i'm gonna
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do this and this and this if you go okay that's your problem all the narcissists all the like all the
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manipulation the narcissism the gaslighting all that goes away like that when you're indifferent
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yeah and to your point about the language stuff too if we're willing to deny man and woman
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there is there are no limits there's there's no limits to what we'll be asked to deny next
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so just looking i guess futuristically um it's a pretty chilling thought honestly again the most basic of
00:35:19.100
truths uh the people leading this country are telling us that that that's not the case so um
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i guess to understanding it's a limitless position that our leaders are in if we're willing to adhere
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to this um well the end goal there is the pedophilia because once you can say children can choose their own
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sex and man and women doesn't matter then it's and that they're happening now it's not like it's gonna
00:35:45.500
happen it's here where they'll say then a child can have sex with an adult because adult could identify
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as someone younger the child can identify someone older that's what happens when you break reality
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and when you get people to agree to something that everybody knows deep down inside that's not true
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but because of the making fear a habit you know we talked about that a little bit uh you know before
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uh when you make fear a habit your kindness gets weaponized against you very easily no i totally
00:36:14.540
agree with the push to normalize pedophilia whether it's this video of these kids sucking on toes how
00:36:21.580
crazy is that now i've seen multiple videos of this um whether it's men breastfeeding whether it's we've
00:36:28.540
had this democrat in kentucky uh who came out and said you know well these minor attracted persons and then
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came out the next day after again public attention and people were on her she said look you know
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i am i was we should as adults be able to have open conversations about this yeah there is no open
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conversations about pedophiles anywhere that's actually we should not be having open conversations
00:36:56.780
life in prison but that's really the only open conversation we should be having that's the only
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conversation yeah so and the toe licking and the armpit licking is in oklahoma
00:37:06.460
again it doesn't matter if it's red or blue state that's oklahoma that's if you people haven't
00:37:10.700
seen it they made some of the people hearing this may not have seen it but yeah it's videos from
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oklahoma where there were kids were like showed that students were licking the toes and licking the
00:37:17.980
armpits of adults i you just you cannot believe today what k-12 has become no that's that's what
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it is and so you know we uh that's in oklahoma so it doesn't matter if it's red or blue state
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this this rot in education brought in through social emotional learning critical race theory it's
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really about destroying children's minds and priming them for creating the new red guard
00:37:40.940
to the mouse new red guard that's really what it is and that's the goal people always ask us
00:37:45.660
what's the end game what's the goal here the goal is to separate the children from the parents
00:37:49.580
and create revolutionists out of them to come and dismantle america and we're seeing it it's not coming
00:37:54.780
they already dismantled the system we've already seen it they dismantle sports they dismantle the
00:37:58.860
government law organizations 100 year old 300 year old institutions it's all dismantled because of
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the weaponization of children well how can we support you in your work i want you to to be able to plug
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courage is a habit uh one more time uh tell us your socials so we can follow along um how we can how we
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can support you beautiful thank you uh and for first of all thank you for having me on it's a
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pleasure to talk to you and what you've been doing it's amazing and so we're happy to uh lend a hand
00:38:32.620
here so the best way to support us is uh first of all share our tools at courageisahabit.org those
00:38:38.540
tools are made for you the average parent the parents that don't have two hours a week to even look
00:38:45.260
at this stuff is to try to get it down to you it's not made for people like riley and i it's made for
00:38:50.300
people like you who have families and hobbies and and family and people to take care of and the life
00:38:55.900
and business and raising children it's made for you to take action so you can protect your kids
00:39:00.940
and stay on offense so that's the first thing uh our socials are courage habit at courage habit um
00:39:07.100
that's on you know instagram facebook and on x of course and so follow us there we try to put
00:39:12.300
out a lot of things we try to use a lot of these people as examples to show you how to fight
00:39:16.060
and we're a non-profit and we're trying to expand our team right now my biggest
00:39:20.060
issue is that there are more states that i can care to get to because we can't be in
00:39:24.380
more than a couple places at once and so we're trying to expand our team so literally any
00:39:28.620
every dollar that you uh donate to us and help support our mission it goes right back into our
00:39:33.020
fight and most importantly to expand our team so that we can push the courage as a habit model
00:39:37.900
everywhere and teach parents how to how to fight amazing well i'm so grateful for what you're doing
00:39:44.780
truly it's remarkable to have people who are uh not just complaining about it actually doing something
00:39:51.820
and helping others do something so could not be more grateful and appreciative appreciative of you
00:39:57.180
and your work i appreciate you and i'm sure that we'll be working together on on a couple of things
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and oh and by the way oh one last thing of course uh ld227 please courage as a habit.org slash pound
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ld227 or discourageshabit.org click that first uh graphic there depending on when you're watching
00:40:14.060
this um and fill out that uh that form let them hear it uh your voice counts i promise you your
00:40:21.020
voice counts we've proven that over and over again like riley said in other states so let them hear your
00:40:26.060
disgust don't just complain actually do something and we've given you a very easy it'll take you two
00:40:30.620
minutes um to put that to put your message in and let these uh eight insufferable woke white women
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hear your disgust on this bill public pressure works people um thank you alvin could not be more
00:40:44.940
grateful for you thank you riley we'll see you soon thanks for tuning in to the gains for girls
00:40:51.820
podcast uh again make sure you go to courage is a habit.com uh make sure you are emailing and reaching
00:40:59.580
out to not only your representatives but this bill in maine ld227 which is criminal
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unconstitutional what should be called illegal um public pressure works it worked last time
00:41:12.700
make sure you are reaching out it is necessary it is our job it is our duty as everyday people
00:41:18.220
we have the power it's our rights to exercise the power and we should be doing those things
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