00:08:07.180Maybe some do, but as I understand it, at least the experience that I had,
00:08:11.580it's hard to come by with your insurance plan,
00:08:13.940especially if you're not paying an arm and a leg for health insurance every single month.
00:08:18.680Or maybe on the off chance that your insurance does cover this or some form of physical therapy,
00:08:24.300it's hard finding a pelvic floor therapist that will even take your insurance.
00:08:29.380to speak to my own experience, I did go to pelvic floor therapy and I would say the last probably
00:08:34.740six weeks of my pregnancy. And if I'm being totally honest, it was kind of hard for me to
00:08:39.380buy into at first prior to delivering. Um, you know, you go there and you learn how to breathe
00:08:45.760and you learn stretches and different techniques to, to open up your hips. It felt very elementary,
00:08:51.140but I actually did find myself in the moment it felt elementary, but I found myself resorting,
00:08:56.600resorting to some of the techniques that I learned during that time when I was actually
00:09:01.780giving birth. Um, and I learned some core movements to do following delivery to strengthen
00:09:07.120the pelvic floor muscle. Again, again, I just say that to say I had a good experience and I
00:09:12.300didn't have complications and I did value pelvic floor therapy. Um, I did have some tearing during
00:09:17.800delivery, uh, but it was very, very minor, nothing that really bothered me. Um, and because of that,
00:09:23.080I was really eager to start moving my body. Uh, I was about eight weeks postpartum when I did the
00:09:31.940turkey trot on Thanksgiving, Louie moved Louie married into a turkey trot family. It's like a
00:09:37.980little, we just did the little 5k race. Um, I ran it in about 21 or maybe 22 minutes. Uh, so not too
00:09:44.660shabby at that point at eight weeks postpartum, I was already feeling pretty good. I do think
00:09:49.540genetics maybe has a little bit of a play in it, but I think a lot of it is fitness levels prior
00:09:55.360to conception and maintaining that as best as you can throughout pregnancy. So my routine now,
00:10:01.360what am I doing at six months, almost seven months postpartum? I'm going to share my routine with you
00:10:06.720guys. And then I'm going to give you five tips that I have found to be useful, things that I
00:10:11.080have kind of clung to in my fitness journey. My routine, it varies by week. If I'm being totally
00:10:17.200honest with you because I spend so much of my time on the road and traveling, but even still,
00:10:22.280even when I'm on the road, um, I make it a priority to get in a workout, whether it's a
00:10:27.520hotel gym, whether it's going on a run, uh, it's a priority of mine. I run typically three to four
00:10:32.680times a week and I lift three to four times a week. So what does that look like? Okay. For my
00:10:37.360running, I try to run somewhere between five to six miles each run. Uh, if I'm in town for the
00:10:43.560full rate week. I'll run Monday, Wednesday, Friday, and Saturday was Saturday being a longer run.
00:10:50.000If this sounds scary to you, just know running five miles, six miles, sometimes even for example,
00:10:55.860this morning, I ran about eight and a half miles. If that sounds scary to you, I was right there
00:11:00.400with you. Like not that long ago. Okay. Um, don't let it discourage you. It sounded scary to me too.
00:11:06.800I was not a runner by any stretch of the imagination. Actually, it's, it's pretty common
00:11:11.100knowledge that those who excel in aquatic sports, such as swimmers typically are not good at land
00:11:18.140sports. That's why we do the aquatic sports. And that was definitely the case for me, but I started
00:11:23.480at low mileage at a slow pace and I just gradually increased. Um, I didn't like it at first. It took
00:11:29.660me a while to enjoy it. I liked the idea of being a good runner. So I stuck to it. Uh, so if you
00:11:36.400begin to run, or if you are a runner, you already know this, the first mile getting started is
00:11:42.220always the worst. But if you can push past maybe the first 10 minutes of running without stopping,
00:11:47.540then I promise you, you will feel better. The run, that individual run will get better.
00:11:53.320And with practice and consistency, of course, it will only get easier for you. Actually, Louis,
00:11:59.780he has run with me the past three weeks in the first mile. Again, he's cursing me the entire
00:12:04.520time. Like, I hate this. Why are we doing this? But once he gets into the groove of it, so his
00:12:09.480stride, his rhythm, even your breathing pattern, um, all of that gets regulated. Then he feels
00:12:14.980really good. Um, I'm not interested in running overly long distances or being super competitive
00:12:21.980and running, but I like this form of exercise because it's cheap and you can do it anywhere.
00:12:28.100So no one has an excuse not to be able to go outside and run so long as you are physically
00:12:33.320able to do so. Now for lifting, I try and do three to four days a week where I am in the gym.
00:12:40.500The split is typically one day legs, one day back and bicep, and then the third day chest,
00:12:46.000shoulders, and triceps. If I make it to the gym the fourth time that week, as I said, three to
00:12:51.080four times, then I just do whatever muscle group feels like it didn't get enough attention that
00:12:56.280week. We have dumbbells and just a squat rack in the garage actually of my house, which is typically
00:13:02.380where I do that. Um, if you guys are interested in looking at what a specific breakdown of that
00:13:09.980looks like would be more than happy to do it. You guys have to let me know. I don't know if I'm
00:13:14.520being like cringy posting fitness content content. Again, it's what I enjoy. Um, but would be curious
00:13:20.360to see if you guys want to see more of that. So if you do leave some comments down below, reach out
00:13:25.620over, um, over on the Riley gain show or my personal Instagram. Um, in terms of group fitness,
00:13:31.840I've talked about this before. I also have an F45 membership, which I know this is getting
00:13:37.280excessive and crazy, but that one's really special to me because that's where my family
00:13:41.320works out. Um, I mean, my mom, my dad, my sisters, my grandma, even all of us. So, uh, we do that
00:13:47.720together. If you don't know what F45 is, um, actually I think it stands for functional 45.
00:13:52.560It's like 45 minute workout class. It's kind of like the hit training model. So high intensity
00:13:57.840interval training, everything is timed. You have instructors who tell you what to do. There's TV
00:14:01.780screens on the wall with the movements, all the equipment is laid out for you. Now's the time
00:14:07.900when you're probably thinking, you know, Riley, you're able to do all of this because you have
00:14:12.620a flexible job or you have a nanny, which let's debunk those things. Yes, my job is flexible in
00:14:18.860a sense where it's not a standard nine to five. And I really do appreciate that. I could not
00:14:23.240imagine working a nine to five or sitting behind a desk all day. So God bless the people who do,
00:14:28.540especially those of you who are moms who have to spend time away from your babies. You guys are
00:14:32.520superheroes to me, but I don't have a nanny. So how am I able to do this? This is the first tip
00:14:39.240that I want to give you guys because I win the first hour of every single day. That's my first
00:14:44.040piece of advice for you. I know I might be in a different place than you. I'm a new mom with just
00:14:49.640one baby and a fantastic husband, which I'm going to get into that support system in a second. It1.00
00:14:54.520feels like even when I don't have a lot going on, my day is just somehow entirely consumed by I
00:15:01.460don't I don't even know what even when I'm at home with the baby, it just feels like my day
00:15:05.120flies by. I take that first hour of the day when I wake up very, very seriously. It feels like when
00:15:12.020I even when I don't have a lot going on, or if I don't have many things on my calendar for that day,
00:15:17.640even still, my day is just somehow like entirely consumed by I don't even know what when I'm just
00:15:23.900at home with the baby, my day gets away from me. There's just always something that needs to be
00:15:28.140done or there's something that somebody needs from you. That 5 a.m. hour is the time that I
00:15:34.920just carve out for myself. If that sounds scary to you, don't make that drastic of a step. If
00:15:42.080you're waking up at 8 a.m. now, I would encourage you to increase it by 30 minutes every single
00:15:46.940morning or maybe a week at a time until you're at a place where you have an hour to yourself
00:15:52.340before the rest of the house wakes up. I love the concept of already doing so many things,
00:15:59.060so many hard things before most people even hit snooze on their alarm clock. My husband works,
00:16:05.000so I have to have everything done, all of the exercises and classes and gym and running and
00:16:10.560things that I do by seven or eight in the morning so I can come back home and be with the baby while
00:16:15.620he then goes to work. And I find in doing that and exercising early in the morning,
00:16:20.500it just like boosts my energy it feels like my focus is improved i feel like you know yes of
00:16:26.200course it strengthens your body physically but also just the mental resilience of training
00:16:30.980yourself to wake up to show up to push through and to follow through on commitments it like sets
00:16:36.280your tone for the whole rest of the day and that mindset of you know i can do hard things
00:16:42.100it carries into work or to relationships or into decision making etc and so my pro tip for you
00:16:49.140if you are someone who struggles with waking up early, but you want to make it a priority to get
00:16:54.380to the gym or to have that hour to yourself, my pro tip is to lay out your outfit. Uh, you got
00:17:00.460this like cute matching workout set, lay it out the night before. Uh, that way the morning when
00:17:05.520you wake up, all you have to do is throw it on. Um, it's laid out for you. You put it on,
00:17:10.560you're ready to go out the door. Um, pro tip. My second piece of advice for you is to find
00:17:16.140an accountability partner. When you're a mom, you already feel like the weight of the world
00:17:21.340is on your shoulders. So that solo motivation, it fades really, really fast, especially when
00:17:27.460you're sleep deprived and when a whole nother human being relies on you, like solely you for
00:17:33.520the most part, especially if you're breastfeeding. So find a friend or find an online mom group or
00:17:38.200your husband or reach out to me over Instagram DMS or post about it online, find something or
00:17:43.960someone or some way to keep you accountable. Uh, when you have someone who is following up with
00:17:50.100you, who's checking in, who's celebrating your wins, it makes it easier to show up every single
00:17:54.540day. For me, it's my husband and it's my family. Uh, and I actually have one college teammate,
00:18:00.280uh, a training partner of mine when we were at university of Kentucky, who has now moved to
00:18:05.360this area in Tennessee that I live in. Um, so she's a fantastic accountability partner for me.
00:18:11.200Um, even if this person isn't going to the gym with you, just finding someone who makes it easier for you to be able to prioritize that again, my family here cannot be understated. They are the village. They are the village to me. I cannot imagine how moms do it without having their family nearby, being able to leave my baby with my husband in the morning.
00:18:34.440or if we both want to go to the gym together, being able to leave my baby with my parents,
00:18:38.500it is a very, very big blessing that I don't take for granted. Uh, and last thing, I guess,
00:18:42.920when it comes to having an accountability partner, tell them your goals, uh, like attainable and
00:18:49.580measurable things. It could be something like walking 20 minutes every day or getting 10,000
00:18:54.860steps a day, or, uh, you know, lifting three sessions a week or hitting 100 grams of protein
00:19:00.200daily. These are all wins that you can track. And I promise you they stack up faster than you think.
00:19:05.640And the bonus of having an accountability partner is it turns fitness into something
00:19:11.880that you can do together as opposed to like a chore or a burden. It is time for Y Refi student
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00:19:29.080compete for the Cardinal. But her story is really about her intellect and her heart and her
00:19:34.760character. She's a bioengineering major. Okay. Props all while being a D1 athlete, a bioengineering
00:19:40.960major who wants to use her experience to innovate new ways for people to move and to thrive.
00:19:46.480Why refi believes in that kind of vision. They know that your future shouldn't be stalled by
00:19:51.360debt. They work with you to help you find a path forward so you can chase your biggest dreams,
00:19:56.440just like Sydney is doing at Stanford, because at the end of the day,
00:19:59.860it's about your family. It's about your goals. It's about your future. Why refi can help you
00:20:05.400achieve that. Okay. Third tip for you guys, protein, protein, protein. Yes, it's true. No,
00:20:13.680it's not a fad. Protein is what builds your muscles and keeps you lean. The simple breakdown
00:20:18.880here. Basically when you eat protein, your body breaks it down into amino acids. These are like
00:20:25.080the brick and mortar for repairing and growing muscle tissue. And if you don't have enough of
00:20:31.820them, enough protein, then your body cannot effectively repair the tiny tears that happen
00:20:37.240during strength training, which is the good kind of damage that leads to stronger, more lean muscles
00:20:43.100that then triggers muscle protein synthesis, which is the biological process where your body
00:20:49.260uses those amino acids to create new muscle proteins. Uh, if you are not eating enough
00:20:55.060protein, then you're kind of fighting an uphill battle. Uh, you'll have more breakdown than build
00:21:02.040up. It's, it's really a simple model here. Um, and outside of the physical and the strength
00:21:07.580aspect of it, if you're breastfeeding, you need even more protein. Uh, your body is literally
00:21:13.680making a whole human's worth of nutrition in your milk. And that pulls from your stores. If you
00:21:20.880don't eat enough, what I try and do, I try to have one gram of protein per pound of body weight
00:21:26.300every single day. So if I weigh about 135 pounds, I try and have 135 grams of protein every single
00:21:32.880day. Now I know that is a lot. I try and keep it about 40 grams of protein per meal, plus my
00:21:40.100snacking or maybe like a protein shake throughout the day. Uh, some good things for this. I love
00:21:44.680Greek yogurt, eggs, chicken. I love red meat. Um, I don't know if you guys know, like the
00:21:50.620chopsticks, uh, Costco even has a cheaper version. I think it's like the Kirkland's version. Uh,
00:21:56.640they have those little beef sticks. They're really, really good. A fantastic source of
00:21:59.940protein, especially for, you know, a snack, uh, for protein or for the energy drinks. I like those
00:22:05.720Nuri drinks. I think that's how you say it. Uh, again, those are found at Costco, which by the
00:22:10.380way, Costco is a fantastic place to shop for any of the things that I mentioned. Or if you're
00:22:14.500interested in meal prepping, highly recommend going to Costco. They have awesome foods and
00:22:19.420ways to make it really easy for you. Um, and no women protein, eating protein, high levels of1.00
00:22:26.140protein is not going to make you bulky. I hear that all the time from women. They're scared of1.00
00:22:30.460protein. It's not true. Myth busted. It will keep you lean. You will feel fuller for longer as
00:22:36.700opposed to snacking throughout the day or eating how you would feel if you eat a heart, a high carb
00:22:41.840diet. Energy levels are better. And again, your milk supply stays up. My husband and I, we tried
00:22:48.060the carnivore diet for a few weeks and I found that the high protein, high fat, it increased my
00:22:54.320milk supply tremendously. So you guys should try bumping your protein this week and telling me
00:22:59.720how you feel. Um, let me know in the comments if this is something that you do, because I want to
00:23:04.480hear your wins. Um, consider me your accountability partner this week. Okay. Number four, I have you
00:23:09.920guys commenting on my posts all the time asking about my ab routine or my core. What workouts do
00:23:16.440I do to get my core to look the way that it does? I should actually insert photos of, um, kind of
00:23:23.000the place I'm at now. Again, I post some of this on my Instagram, maybe sometimes on my TikTok.
00:23:26.760Um, I try not to often because again, I don't know if it's cringy or not. I don't know
00:23:31.680Uh, but i'll insert a photo on screen of kind of just where i'm at currently with my core
00:23:37.920Um, again, I do think genetics unfortunately
00:23:41.100Maybe fortunately for me, maybe you're listening to this and you feel as if you weren't blessed in this area
00:23:46.100I do think genetics plays some sort of role in this
00:23:49.100But that's not to understate the hard work that does go into it
00:23:52.860Uh, you guys might be shocked by this, but I don't actually do a ton of core specific exercises.
00:24:00.280Instead of that, I try to engage my core in full body movements, uh, maybe a hot take,
00:24:06.820but I think the best ab exercise that you can do is back squats. So I'm very, very mindful and
00:24:13.080intentional about engaging my core, whether it's shoulder pressing, whether it's running. Um, I
00:24:18.560think, especially with being postpartum, I've realized that your deep core and your pelvic
00:24:23.280floor, first of all, they got stretched for nine months. Uh, they kind of need to be retrained
00:24:28.360on purpose with intention. So in every single exercise that I do, I think about drawing my
00:24:34.400belly button toward my spine and gently lifting my pelvic floor. Um, I brace myself with my core
00:24:41.160every single time I do a glute bridge or squats. Uh, you know, one actually kind of silly thing
00:24:47.980that I do, and I've done it for a long time now actually, is every single time my car stops at a
00:24:53.380red light, I engage my core. Like I contract and flex my abs. So it's almost like you're training
00:25:01.120your muscles to contract without having to do the crunches or the planks or the sit-ups. I think
00:25:07.340that you guys will find that your abs will literally be sore if you are very intentional
00:25:12.060about how you are using them in your full body exercises and movements and just in your daily
00:25:18.120life. So that is my best advice or what I have found to be useful on how to get a really strong
00:25:24.520and defined core. Last tip for you guys, number five is to be consistent. It is consistency
00:25:31.640that turns these hard workouts into real results. I feel like it goes without saying that progress
00:25:39.000does not come from one brutal leg day. Uh, it comes from showing up again and again and again,
00:25:45.020so that your body can adapt and learn. That's how you build strength and endurance and resilience
00:25:50.500without consistency. You're just like repeatedly starting over. Uh, how many times have you guys
00:25:56.940said like diet starts Monday and maybe you make it to Wednesday and then you're back to unhealthy
00:26:01.220eating habits. And then you tell yourself, you know, diet starts again, Monday, you're really
00:26:04.440not doing anything. Actually, uh, you're confusing your body. You're not creating real results by
00:26:09.700that. You're throwing off your hormones and your endocrine levels and your nervous system.
00:26:13.500Physiologically, your muscles, your, your cardiovascular system, your nervous system,
00:26:17.760they all improve through repeated exposure. Uh, so one tough workout that might leave you sore,
00:26:25.240but it's 10 consistent workouts. That's what makes you stronger. It's the difference between
00:26:30.280strain and growth. Plus it also protects you. Consistency does because when you train regularly,
00:26:35.540your body just becomes more durable, uh, your joints, your tendons, your movement patterns,
00:26:41.100they all get more efficient. Uh, and so if you only go hard occasionally, you're more likely to
00:26:46.560get injured because your body is just not prepared for that sort of intensity. Uh, and it's good for
00:26:51.440you mentally. Uh, it's that consistency that builds discipline, which turns into confidence.
00:26:58.660You stop like negotiating with yourself and start identifying as someone who follows through and that identity shift is really powerful and it carries into every area of life, which matters when you are a mom.
00:27:12.500So the key here is that consistency does not mean perfection. It just means you keep showing up even when the workout isn't your best or your favorite, even when life is busy, even when it means you have to wake up really early or when your motivation
00:27:28.300dips, uh, because it's in that intense training that you realize that it's not the hardest day
00:27:35.140that defines you, but instead it's the hundreds of ordinary days, uh, that you chose not to skip
00:27:41.480again, reiterating the point. I'm not a doctor. If you're dealing with something or if something
00:27:47.180doesn't feel right, uh, don't push yourself. Don't, don't take it from me. Of course, I would
00:27:51.860encourage you to consult your physician or your OBGYN or your primary care doctor.
00:27:56.380I just want to use my platform and whatever influence that I have to encourage healthy habits.
00:28:02.480That's all this episode was, uh, being fit is good for my physical and mental health. Um,
00:28:09.640but most importantly, it is good for my baby. Um, healthy habits are realistic. They really are.
00:28:16.180Uh, and it's your habits that create your baby's future. Uh, I'm actually doing something really
00:28:21.900exciting with pertaining to my health, um, this week with Louie and I'll try and vlog that we're
00:28:29.220going to have an ultrasound done of every major organ and several other things. Toxicity screenings
00:28:34.300are genome tested. I'm really, really excited about this. Again, this is something that like
00:28:38.380peaks my interest. If you guys are interested, we'll vlog it and put it on the YouTube channel.
00:28:43.100Uh, we appreciate you guys. Thank you for tuning into this episode of the Riley Gaines show.
00:28:47.640if you have questions, if you are increasing your protein, I want to know about it. Let me
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