Gaines for Girls with Riley Gaines - May 05, 2026


Sarah Huckabee Sanders: Inside Trump’s White House & Fixing America’s Schools | The Riley Gaines Show


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00:00:30.000 she's gone from white house press secretary under president trump to being arkansas's first female
00:00:39.440 governor all while raising a family this is role model material i love her we are talking today to
00:00:46.060 governor sarah huckabee sanders we're going to be talking about how she met president trump the time
00:00:51.300 she got the phone call that she was going to be the press secretary and it was done in true trump
00:00:55.260 fashion, by the way. We're talking about what it means to be pro-life, pro-woman, pro-family,
00:01:00.220 pro-parental rights. We're talking about banning cell phones in schools and what a lot of critics,
00:01:05.100 even conservatives, have to say about this, but why it's working. Listen to all of this. Stay tuned.
00:01:13.000 Well, Governor, thank you for joining the Riley Gaines Show. I am so excited to chat with you.
00:01:19.080 You have been one of those people I have really, really looked up to. I think female leadership,
00:01:23.960 especially in the political realm is very sparse. So when you see those women modeling the 1.00
00:01:29.080 characteristics and the skill sets that you want to model, and of course that you hope your daughter
00:01:32.960 models, you really hold onto them. So have been watching you, following you, amplifying everything
00:01:37.680 that you're doing. So thank you for that. I wanted to ask you, I want to talk about Arkansas and what
00:01:42.480 you guys are doing in your state, but I wanted to ask you first, number one, how did you meet
00:01:47.000 President Trump? I don't think I've ever heard this story. And so I'm curious. And I want to
00:01:50.700 know what it was like when you got the call that he was tapping you in for his press secretary?
00:01:56.000 You know, it's interesting. I first met the president because he was running against my dad.
00:02:03.500 And if you even go back a little further, in 2012, there was a lot of talk about whether or not
00:02:09.860 Donald Trump might run for president. My dad had a show on Fox News, and he actually announced he
00:02:16.380 wasn't running on my dad's TV program. And so first got exposed and started following his kind
00:02:25.120 of political growth in those early days of 2012, but then really met him on the campaign trail
00:02:35.260 when I was working for my dad, who was running in 2016. And Donald Trump announces, as everybody
00:02:41.960 knows he comes down the escalator and immediately sucks all of the oxygen out of the room and just
00:02:48.700 completely dominated the field from the moment he stepped into the race. My dad got out and I was
00:02:55.780 looking at the field and knew growing up in Arkansas, I did not want Hillary Clinton to
00:03:00.640 become president. And I wanted to get behind and help somebody who I thought could best beat her. 0.65
00:03:06.560 And so I joined the Trump campaign fairly early, but in a very different role than what I ended up doing.
00:03:13.260 I came on board to help with outreach to women, to conservatives in the South and kind of the evangelical crowd as a senior advisor.
00:03:24.040 And I got a phone call one day from the campaign team, and they asked if I would be willing to do an interview on CNN the next morning.
00:03:31.760 I said, sure, why not?
00:03:33.020 I didn't know enough to say no, so I did it.
00:03:36.560 They called me that afternoon, and they didn't say I was good.
00:03:39.680 They said, you're not that bad.
00:03:41.220 Would you consider doing it again tomorrow?
00:03:43.680 So I did, and for the next week, every day, I was doing daytime news interviews representing the Trump campaign.
00:03:53.640 And I got a phone call with no hello, no greeting, but it was then candidate Donald Trump.
00:04:00.500 And he told me, he said, I don't care what they hired you to do.
00:04:03.360 This is what you're supposed to be doing.
00:04:04.980 I want you to go on TV every day and tell people why they should vote for me.
00:04:08.980 And so my role shifted and I ended up becoming a surrogate on the campaign.
00:04:13.900 The president obviously went on to win a historic victory in November.
00:04:19.900 And by December, I was selling my I'd sold my house in Arkansas and my family and our three kids were moving to D.C.
00:04:28.460 so that I could work in the president's administration and was one of the first wave of staffers
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00:05:06.580 You know, that that seems like true Trump fashion based on other conversations we've seen where it really is like no hello, no forewarning.
00:05:14.580 It's like, hey, you're going to be doing this. Next question, please.
00:05:18.780 So that's that's interesting to hear.
00:05:22.080 Now, Governor, you were in the White House during the most one of the most intense media environments in modern politics.
00:05:29.140 What's your honest take on how the scope of the job as press secretary has changed?
00:05:34.300 And I think more broadly speaking, how just the media and the consumption of media from your everyday American, how do you think that has changed?
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00:06:11.720 well i think donald trump has literally changed everything and the way that it functions in
00:06:18.980 washington uh from the interactions that you have between the administration and capitol hill
00:06:25.580 certainly the media dynamic.
00:06:28.200 You know, one of the things that this president understood
00:06:30.740 that very few do is despite the fact that he was
00:06:34.100 and continues to be constantly at war
00:06:37.480 and at battle with the press,
00:06:39.160 he understands the power of it and how to use it
00:06:42.180 and how to use his own platform.
00:06:44.980 This was somebody who decided that he wasn't just going to stick
00:06:48.200 with the traditional types of media.
00:06:50.560 And if they were going to continue to attack him relentlessly,
00:06:54.340 which they have done, he would simply go around them.
00:06:57.160 And he's done that.
00:06:58.260 And he's proven that he can still be successful.
00:07:01.440 He can still get his message out
00:07:02.920 without having to use them as the only tool to do so.
00:07:08.160 And frankly, I think that's one of the things
00:07:10.500 they hated the most is that he didn't need them.
00:07:13.640 He was able to talk directly to the American people
00:07:16.880 without having to use the media
00:07:19.200 in a way that everybody who had come before him had to.
00:07:22.780 Now, that doesn't mean he doesn't still like to engage with them.
00:07:25.820 I think some of that is just the way he's wired, that he kind of enjoys some of that back and forth.
00:07:32.600 But they know that he doesn't need them, and he knows that.
00:07:37.020 And I think that was one of the things that drove them so crazy in those early days of 2017 and during that first administration.
00:07:45.400 And there was such a visceral anger towards him.
00:07:49.380 Nobody expected him to be there from their side.
00:07:52.140 And so when he showed up and he changed all the rules to the playbook they felt like they owned and had written, it made them pretty mad.
00:07:59.740 But I don't know that it ever goes back with the access of and through social media and podcasts like yours and all the other platforms that exist.
00:08:12.640 I don't know that the traditional media route will ever be the same or that any other administration will stick to the script the way that they had in previous years.
00:08:23.020 He's, I think, forever changed that landscape.
00:08:25.460 Yeah, I think so, too.
00:08:26.460 But I think it's his his delivery and how he communicates, whether it's like a true social posts in the wee hours of the morning in all caps.
00:08:36.540 It's desired by people.
00:08:38.600 Again, you're talking to your common sense everyday American.
00:08:41.400 I think they appreciate that level of just rawness and realness, and that's what the president delivers.
00:08:49.260 Now, with him back in office, of course, he is pushing big changes on, I mean, you name it, the border economy, making America healthy again.
00:08:58.360 How is Arkansas aligning with those efforts?
00:09:01.840 And maybe what advice would you give the administration based on what's working that you've seen in your state?
00:09:09.180 You know, I think you're exactly right.
00:09:10.580 One of the reasons that the president is so popular and was able to win the presidency and the reason he's been able to get things done is because he is not a scripted robot and he is very raw.
00:09:25.920 He tells you exactly what he's thinking, when he's thinking it, and people appreciate that level of access and authenticity that they get from this president that they've never had to any president before him.
00:09:38.640 And so I think that is one of the big appeals of why he's able to get things done.
00:09:44.720 In Arkansas, we're trying to complement a lot of the good work that they're doing, certainly on the economy and cutting taxes.
00:09:52.940 That was one of the key pieces of one big, beautiful bill.
00:09:56.340 As conservative Republicans, we believe that people can spend their money more wisely than the government can.
00:10:03.860 So let's let them keep more of it.
00:10:05.640 The more that we can do those kind of things, it grows our economy. It strengthens it.
00:10:10.420 We've been able to cut taxes three times in the last three years, knocking 20 percent off our state income tax.
00:10:16.800 We're on track to do that again here in the next couple of weeks.
00:10:20.400 And we will have returned more than a billion and a half dollars back to Arkansans through tax cuts.
00:10:26.980 So we're trying to follow and support some of those things.
00:10:31.360 Security on the border, public safety is one of the most important responsibilities that the government has.
00:10:37.960 People want to know that they can walk down their streets, live in their communities, raise their families in places that are safe.
00:10:46.000 That's been a huge tenet of what the president campaigned on and what he's delivered on, whether that's through supporting law enforcement, whether that's through securing the border.
00:10:56.240 There are a number of different ways that this president has shown that we are going to provide safe communities for our kids to grow up in.
00:11:05.340 And I think that will continue to be something we focus on here in Arkansas and continue to help this president enact across the country.
00:11:13.940 Yeah, and you mentioned the big, beautiful bill.
00:11:16.500 One portion of that was dedicated to defunding Planned Parenthood.
00:11:21.640 Arkansas has been named the most pro-life state in America, I think, for, what, six years straight?
00:11:27.860 And so I wanted to ask you, I think especially as a woman and as a mother, what does being unapologetically pro-life mean to you?
00:11:36.800 And how, I guess, do you respond to critics who say that conservatives only care about life before birth?
00:11:44.240 birth. Yeah, I firmly believe that if we are going to be pro-life, which I'm proud of the
00:11:50.880 fact that Arkansas is the most pro-life state in the country, that it can't just be about the baby
00:11:57.260 in the womb, but the baby from conception to natural conclusion. That's why in Arkansas,
00:12:02.480 we've also focused so heavily on education. That's been my biggest priority since coming
00:12:08.200 into office. I want to make sure every kid growing up in Arkansas, once they're born,
00:12:13.000 has great opportunity to live the highest quality of life
00:12:17.200 and be able to do that right here.
00:12:19.180 That means opening up access to great schools,
00:12:22.840 whether public or private or charter,
00:12:25.100 for every single student in our state makes a difference.
00:12:28.560 We have universal school choice,
00:12:30.580 and that's something I'm really proud of.
00:12:32.480 At the same time, we've invested more in our public schools
00:12:35.900 than we ever have before in state history.
00:12:39.680 And so opening up access and opportunity.
00:12:43.120 We want kids when they graduate from those schools to have a place that they can either be employed, enrolled or enlisted.
00:12:50.760 We want kids to have a lot of different success paths.
00:12:54.220 And so we're trying to create those opportunities here.
00:12:56.960 We've also spent a lot of time on maternal health here in our state.
00:13:00.820 Arkansas had some of the worst numbers when it came to maternal health anywhere in the country.
00:13:06.000 So last year, we dedicated annually $45 million to help support mothers, not just while they're pregnant, but well after and continue to show the types of support that are needed so that we can have healthy moms, healthy babies right here in our state.
00:13:22.800 a lot of the things and one of something that I think you would enjoy and probably one of my
00:13:27.800 favorite things that we have and we're trying to lead by example we started a bring your baby to
00:13:33.800 work program here in the governor's office and it goes across our state agencies but you can
00:13:40.360 as a mom or a dad up until six months you can bring your baby into the office with permission
00:13:46.540 of a supervisor and since then I think we've had six babies here in the office at various times
00:13:53.980 and frankly not only does it help the mom and the dad not have to decide between whether or not
00:14:01.280 they want to start and raise a family or a career and helps that but it also makes our office and
00:14:07.440 our workplace a lot more enjoyable and it's a great reminder of the work that we're doing here
00:14:13.340 why it matters because we have these permanent reminders that are in our office that are
00:14:19.880 showing us that every decision that we're making will have a direct impact on their lives and all
00:14:25.700 the kids that are growing up in our state. That's been a great thing. We'd love to see more people
00:14:31.280 follow our lead and adopt a program similar to that. Yeah, I don't think I'd heard of something
00:14:36.720 like that. And so normalizing babies in public, I love this. And of course, the other things you
00:14:42.760 mentioned. I mean, that's what it means to be pro-woman, to be pro-child, pro-family, pro-parental
00:14:48.080 rights. Another thing in talking about what we've seen in the educational realm as it affects kids,
00:14:54.640 you recently launched the Razorback Ready 2026 Fitness Challenge to bring back the presidential
00:15:00.780 fitness test in Arkansas schools. Why is getting kids active and healthy again such a priority for
00:15:08.760 you? Well, I think there are several reasons. One, something that we've tried to promote pretty
00:15:15.140 heavily here is getting more kids outside and off screens. We have seen the mental health crisis
00:15:22.160 that is plaguing our country. More and more of our students are seeing skyrocketing anxiety,
00:15:30.380 depression, suicide rates directly tied to sitting and looking at a screen all day to
00:15:37.240 unfettered access on social media. We know that by getting kids outside and off screens,
00:15:43.260 we're raising their quality of life, we're raising their mental health. And so that's
00:15:48.760 incredibly important. There's also a huge financial side. We are seeing our country
00:15:54.300 get more and more unhealthy every day. And we want to help our kids live long, healthy lives,
00:16:01.220 promoting physical activity, promoting good nutrition. And so this is one of the ways we're
00:16:05.780 trying to incentivize kids to get moving. We heard a statistic the other day that our prisoners now
00:16:14.000 spend more time outside than our kids do. Our kids are only spending about seven minutes a day
00:16:22.640 outside and seven hours a day on a screen. That is not good for Arkansans. That's not good for 1.00
00:16:29.860 Americans. We have to shift the culture, and we're hoping this will be one additional way to get kids 0.97
00:16:35.760 moving, get them outside, and help them to have a much higher quality of life long-term.
00:16:42.820 Okay, you guys, I want to tell you about something that I actually think is really worth your time,
00:16:46.600 especially if you have kids, or I guess if you just appreciate a story that makes you think a
00:16:51.340 little bit deeper. My husband and I, we got an early access screening to the new Animal Farm
00:16:56.100 movie. Of course, this is an adaptation of the classic George Orwell story. It's in theater
00:17:02.340 starting May 1st. It's animated, which I love. I'm a sucker for the classic Disney films. This
00:17:08.540 is better because it's not Disney. Now, I know a lot of you probably read Animal Farm in school.
00:17:14.660 I know I did. I was a freshman in high school when we had to read this. But this version,
00:17:19.180 it brings the story to life in a way that's actually engaging. And to be honest with you,
00:17:24.420 it's kind of funny. And of course, it is eye-opening, the storyline of it. It follows
00:17:29.100 this young pig named Lucky, and you kind of get to experience everything through his perspective.
00:17:35.080 So that means the hope and the shift in power and how quickly things can change or go off the
00:17:40.460 rails when people stop questioning what they're being told to do. I'll say this, watching it
00:17:46.380 reminded me how important it is not just to go along with things because it's easier not to just
00:17:54.300 go along to get along. It reminded me of the importance of saying what is true, questioning
00:17:58.380 what doesn't make sense, and not being afraid to stand your ground. This movie, it wasn't just
00:18:04.120 entertainment. It actually leaves you thinking. I think it is really helpful in sparking those
00:18:09.240 important conversations. It's something that you could watch with your kids, especially if you have
00:18:13.300 kids in middle school and high school and who can kind of better understand the storyline. You can
00:18:18.460 actually talk about the theme with your kids after the movie, which let's be honest, most movies
00:18:22.980 don't really allow for that anymore. This was brought to theaters by Angel Studios Guild. So
00:18:27.900 it's one of those projects people genuinely cared enough to make happen, which I always respect. So
00:18:32.920 if you're looking for something different, something with a little substance, I definitely
00:18:37.740 recommend checking it out. Animal Farm is in theaters on May 1st. Tickets are available now.
00:18:42.740 You can go grab yours at the link in the description. And I want you guys to let me
00:18:46.700 know what you think after you see it. Yeah. And with that, you signed the bell to bell,
00:18:53.300 no-sell bill, which basically prevents cell phones in schools during school hours. Talk about that
00:19:00.680 because I see a lot of pushback online, even from conservatives when something like this is
00:19:05.640 mentioned, but just the importance of reclaiming kids' attention from screens and social media
00:19:11.440 and maybe what some of the results have been. Yeah, I mean, what we have seen already
00:19:17.760 is pretty amazing.
00:19:20.200 I read Jonathan Haidt's book,
00:19:22.020 The Anxious Generation,
00:19:23.300 quite a while back
00:19:24.560 and was so taken by the information
00:19:27.000 and the data that he had
00:19:28.640 that I sent a copy of that book
00:19:30.700 to every governor in the country
00:19:32.540 and every member of our state legislature
00:19:34.940 and then pushed for reforms.
00:19:37.720 But we didn't just want to go
00:19:38.860 with a top-down, heavy-handed approach
00:19:40.980 and force legislation.
00:19:42.500 So we started with a pilot program
00:19:44.680 where we opened up
00:19:46.240 and asked districts to voluntarily participate in going phone-free.
00:19:51.140 And if they did, that the state would cover the cost of the pouches or the lockers
00:19:55.160 or whatever way they chose to implement that.
00:19:58.500 And within the first couple of months of opening up that pilot program,
00:20:03.360 70% of school districts in our state voluntarily chose to participate.
00:20:08.260 And we tracked the success of the program as it was implemented.
00:20:12.700 We saw a 51 percent decrease in drug use in schools that went phone free, 57 percent decrease in behavioral problems in schools that went phone free.
00:20:24.740 And we saw a massive increase in student engagement and participation.
00:20:28.720 All the things that we want to see happening in our schools were happening at a much higher level when we took phones out of the classroom.
00:20:35.840 We have even heard from students.
00:20:37.900 They didn't like it at first, but now that it's been implemented, we've had students that have come up and thanked us for removing the anxiety that comes with, did somebody respond to my text?
00:20:49.800 Did somebody like my post?
00:20:51.040 It gives them some freedom in the day.
00:20:54.140 One of the things that the guy who started the Yonder Pouch, he likes to talk about in a great line is that we're not taking anything away, but we're actually giving kids a phone-free education, which is something that is so important and something that I think we can do a much better job of.
00:21:12.260 We've now seen, I think, nearly 30 states enact similar legislation.
00:21:17.200 I'm not anti-technology.
00:21:19.540 I'm not anti-social media.
00:21:21.520 But I am against us giving just total and completely open access at all hours of the day to our kids.
00:21:29.700 I think we can do a better job.
00:21:31.380 And we want to lead by example in this space.
00:21:33.980 And I think we have.
00:21:35.100 Heck, yeah.
00:21:35.480 That sounds amazing.
00:21:36.420 And in the way that you rolled it out is really incredible and certainly a model for other states to follow.
00:21:43.020 You know, I'll never forget, I was thinking about this before you joined, I will never forget
00:21:47.660 watching your rebuttal to the State of the Union, I think back in 2023.
00:21:52.440 This was the first State of the Union address that I actually got to attend.
00:21:56.120 And so, you know, I was what, 22, maybe 20, I think I was 22 years old.
00:22:00.460 I was pretty naive to politics in general and how they worked.
00:22:02.960 And I will never forget sitting in the gallery and watching just the theatrics of it all
00:22:08.920 and seeing how performative it was. Of course, this was when President Biden was still president.
00:22:16.000 And I'll never forget the line that you gave in this rebuttal where you said,
00:22:19.780 the dividing line in America is no longer between right versus left. The choice is now normal versus
00:22:25.340 crazy. And I so appreciated you saying that because that's how I felt. And again, I was just
00:22:30.360 a 22-year-old girl. I didn't know the correct or presidential terms to use, but you summed it up in
00:22:36.920 such a perfect way. And so looking ahead to 2028 and even beyond, what do you think the future
00:22:43.500 of politics or maybe more specifically the Republican Party, what do you think that looks
00:22:49.760 like for you and maybe especially for women and for moms who are kind of tired of the radical 0.99
00:22:56.160 left's agenda? You know, I think that it is the reason that that line resonated so much is because
00:23:04.100 that's what people are experiencing every day.
00:23:06.320 They see headlines and they see legislation
00:23:10.400 and things that are getting passed.
00:23:11.900 And you think, surely that's a joke.
00:23:13.600 Surely that's a headline from the Babylon Bee
00:23:16.860 that it's total satire, but it's not, it's real life.
00:23:19.800 And these things are actually happening.
00:23:21.180 And we have people that are pushing this crazy ideology.
00:23:25.540 And frankly, so many more, I think moms and dads
00:23:29.740 and parents are waking up and engaging and say,
00:23:32.500 I don't want this for my kids. I want something better. I want us to go back to the normal and
00:23:40.000 remove some of the crazy. I think that is why you saw the rise and the win of candidates like
00:23:46.700 Glenn Youngkin in Virginia. He won because you had so many moms that didn't like what they were
00:23:52.960 seeing in their kids' schools. I think we're, and I'm hopeful that we'll continue to see more and
00:23:58.120 more of that level engagement, I certainly will continue to try to drive that message,
00:24:06.160 try to get more and more people to engage because it matters to our kids. It matters to the future
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00:25:33.240 last thing for you you've lived a super cool life obviously with your dad and your family
00:25:42.080 and you've been the white house press secretary under president trump now you're arkansas's first 0.99
00:25:46.900 female governor all while raising a family. What do you say to women who think they kind of have 0.99
00:25:53.840 to pick one or the other, you know, be fully present as a mom, uh, live that kind of life
00:25:59.200 where you stay at home and you don't have an occupation beyond being a mom, which certainly 1.00
00:26:02.880 is a job, uh, or those women who want to kind of pursue the boss babe path. What, what does that 0.98
00:26:08.160 balance really look like for you? Yeah. And I think it's different for every person. I mean,
00:26:13.580 for me. Finding balance can sometimes be tricky. Having an amazing husband makes a very big
00:26:21.700 difference because I'm not doing it all by myself. I think so often women make the mistake of thinking
00:26:27.620 they have to do everything on their own and we don't. We are designed to have a partner in this 0.69
00:26:33.660 process. I have an amazing one. When I am tired, when I am defeated, he picks up the pieces and
00:26:40.880 helps move our family forward. And that makes a huge difference. I think also not feeling like we
00:26:46.500 have to be all things to all people makes a big difference. I learned a long time ago, I was never
00:26:53.680 going to win on the quantity side. I wasn't going to be the mom that got to come to every sports
00:26:59.420 practice or every class party or president of the PTA. So I had to win on the quality side. I have
00:27:05.860 to be really intentional about the time that I have with my kids. If that means putting my phone
00:27:11.440 aside at night and really focusing, even if I only have 15, 20 minutes, let that be 15 or 20
00:27:18.340 minutes that matter. Let it be doing something that my kids really want to do. There are so many days
00:27:24.240 where I'm totally exhausted at the end, and all I want to do is be in pajamas and check out,
00:27:31.780 But my middle, my 12-year-old wants me to come play basketball in the driveway for 15 minutes.
00:27:37.760 You got to dig deep, do those things that matter, try to look for those intentional moments that your kids know and feel that they are a priority.
00:27:47.680 I don't think you have to choose, but I do think that finding out what works for your family makes a big difference.
00:27:54.920 Having a good partner has been critical for our family, and I think that I'm a better governor because I'm a mom, because my kids are so good at helping me live and see what I'm dealing with and the legislation that we're passing I know is going to impact my own family.
00:28:18.500 And that's not something I take lightly.
00:28:20.420 It's something I really try to think about
00:28:22.540 whenever we're doing something,
00:28:24.020 how will this impact my kids
00:28:26.120 as well as every kid growing up in my state?
00:28:28.340 And so for me, I think it makes me better at both.
00:28:31.800 And I love the fact that I get to be a mom
00:28:34.960 and be a governor.
00:28:36.420 Being a mom is the coolest, best job,
00:28:39.100 probably the hardest thing I will ever do,
00:28:41.640 but also the most rewarding.
00:28:44.000 That's honestly inspiring.
00:28:46.780 and to hear you say that about your husband too, I could not agree more. Having kind of that support
00:28:52.720 wheel around you to pick up the pieces, to be a shoulder to cry on, all really important, at least
00:28:59.520 what I have found in our relationship. And so thank you, Governor, for coming on, for chatting,
00:29:05.780 and for your service, and for being a model for other states to follow, and even what Washington,
00:29:12.200 D.C. can look back to for some some good tips and direction moving forward. Very, very grateful for
00:29:18.100 you. Absolutely. Thank you so much for what you're doing and for continuing to be such a strong voice
00:29:24.660 and somebody that I think girls across the country can look up to. So thank you for being so bold in
00:29:30.320 your faith and your conviction and really appreciate the great friendship as well. Onwards.
00:29:35.920 you rock
00:29:36.760 thanks
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