Gaines for Girls with Riley Gaines - The Battle for Parental Rights

00:00:00.000 welcome back to the gains for girls podcast it has been a crazy past few weeks uh really we have a

00:00:16.580 front row seat to history we have seen the assassination attempt of a former president

00:00:21.180 the rightful president the future president donald trump um who survived a bullet to the head by

00:00:27.540 merely a quarter of an inch he picked his vp we saw biden now drop out of the race and then endorsed

00:00:32.920 kamala harris uh who is probably still unburdened by what has been or what can be or what will be

00:00:39.000 done whatever the nonsensical quote is um but we're witnessing history in real time uh today's guest

00:00:47.880 um where i just mentioned a lot of things that sound uh grim and dooming and looming today's guest

00:00:56.560 and today's story is a story of hope it is a a victory uh coming out of the state of california

00:01:03.940 which is definitely never a given uh we are talking to father harrison tinsley uh this is a

00:01:10.360 father uh he has a son a son who is four and a half years old by the name of sawyer um and he just won

00:01:16.840 full custody of his son one full custody from what uh from a mom who was trying to push the gender 1.00

00:01:23.900 ideology movement on this four-year-old boy um identifying him as non-binary making him wear

00:01:31.540 dresses uh really tragic stuff uh but again this is a a winning story i cannot wait for you to hear

00:01:37.340 the details of what harrison what his family what sawyer uh has faced at the hands of the california

00:01:44.680 um education system at the hands of cps uh at the hands of of the court in california

00:01:51.840 um california is of course a battleground uh we have seen some recent news come out of california

00:01:57.540 surrounding an assembly bill ab1955 some of you might have seen on on x where elon musk said he is

00:02:04.080 removing his businesses from the state of california uh taking them and his money to texas which is huge

00:02:10.480 because of this bill and stories like harrison tinsley's in particular um check out the interview

00:02:16.680 here to hear from harrison tinsley about his family what he's had to endure and what ab1955

00:02:23.100 really is well harrison thank you so much for joining the gains for girls podcast uh i have been

00:02:29.620 excited to talk with you for a while uh you and i have been in communication for i mean several months

00:02:35.260 now uh in learning about your story but recently we got to get reconnected um and hear of a of a

00:02:43.400 victory uh that is what today's story is it is one of hope and it is one of of blessings and it's a win

00:02:49.740 but before we get into any of that uh would you share a little bit about yourself um who you are

00:02:56.400 uh and how you find your found yourself uh with the platform that you have

00:03:00.740 my name is harrison tinsley i'm 32 years old i grew up in the bay area california just grew up like a

00:03:08.340 normal guy not too political or anything playing sports and extreme sports and causing mayhem and

00:03:14.640 uh when i became a dad well i always really wanted to be a dad i always knew that in my heart i have a

00:03:20.960 family but when i became a dad it became abundantly clear that that's the most amazing important thing

00:03:26.880 in this world and so after that happened i just made it my mission to do anything i can for my

00:03:33.420 fight for him and then seeing some of the crazy stuff that's happening in california to fight for

00:03:38.520 all children so important they're innocent they're wonderful and they need to be protected

00:03:42.560 no doubt about that uh yeah you you mentioned california you mentioned the bay area i mean this

00:03:50.140 is a battleground uh the state of california it is a battleground for uh parental rights it's a

00:03:57.020 battleground for the safeguarding of children it's a battleground for for women's rights uh the issues

00:04:02.820 that i spend a lot of my time talking about so uh no doubt about that i kind of want to get into

00:04:08.760 your story a little bit uh you have a son and um he's your your typical boy right hockey i think i read

00:04:18.860 he plays football uh he's young um but take us through what you and your family went through

00:04:27.760 what you faced in your personal lives uh but also in in the court systems and where it has led you to

00:04:34.860 now and the son named soria he's four and a half years old he's amazing total man's man he loves all

00:04:41.400 the sports riding bikes and scooters and the best jujitsu he loves fireworks and i just think it's really

00:04:47.800 sad that anyone would try to change you know who he is as a person when he's so happy being a boy

00:04:52.500 you say anything to the contrary or give him anything early he'll scream at you

00:04:56.380 it's not about it at all and i just think it's so crazy to push these ideas and confuse children that

00:05:01.980 have no interest in anything about sex or sexual identity or whatever craziness to try putting on kids

00:05:08.740 but my story is as i was meeting a girl in the bay area we fell in love things were normal and

00:05:16.600 she had some mental health issues but i always just thought i'd you know stick with her through it 0.64

00:05:21.700 and she got pregnant pretty quickly in our relationship and thankfully she wanted to keep 1.00

00:05:26.340 it we were both stoked when we found out it was a boy and we agreed upon the name sawyer even

00:05:31.300 again and as as her pregnancy went on it was kind of a seemed like a political battle almost

00:05:37.460 i can't speak for her but it really felt that because our political difference is that i was

00:05:42.460 just being constantly threatened that i wouldn't see sawyer as this or that political things and me not

00:05:48.900 being interested in the woman's march and things like that and it got to a point where she like broke

00:05:55.140 up with me sent me a cease and desist letter uh which i respected so i didn't find out sawyer was

00:06:01.460 foreign until about a week after from one of her friends on social media and i filed in court two

00:06:07.460 months later to establish custody visitation and maternity and then i would have abandoned and it

00:06:13.220 took 13 more months just for me to meet him so i finally met him at 15 months old in spite of

00:06:19.300 knowing the whole time since pregnancy and filing in court just two months after birth

00:06:22.980 and that was obviously heartbreaking travesty um i don't know what to say about it other than

00:06:29.860 it hurt and it made me stronger and become a better stronger man to take on you know whatever

00:06:36.020 this world entails for me including fighting for him and for all children and so i started to visit

00:06:41.540 with him and there were some weird things that happened in some of the visits it just seemed like

00:06:48.500 everything was always a battle to try to prove i'm doing something wrong finding like cameras

00:06:54.180 recording me and all these people hiding in the bushes watching me and all this weird stuff

00:07:00.580 but um i just pressed on did my visit sucked it up and then i moved to the bay area a few months

00:07:06.180 later and i was awarded half custody like immediately it was incredible super thankful for that

00:07:12.100 and so i started my half custody and that's around the time that i'm binary and calling him back

00:07:20.340 um some pictures of him in some girly clothes dresses um i don't know how many months later

00:07:25.700 he told me a story about going to disneyland and how he said he says his mom wouldn't let him go on

00:07:30.740 the rides unless he wore his princess shoes and he didn't want to wear princess shoes so that was a

00:07:35.860 really disheartening thing to hear but you know i just told him the truth like you know you're a boy

00:07:40.020 you'll always be a boy i'm sorry that anyone would you know try to take that from you but

00:07:45.140 he didn't buy into it at all he was really against from the get-go um his mom did some pretty severe

00:07:53.460 defamation and harassment of me online etc regarding you know sawyer and just pretty horrific lies

00:08:03.220 about me it's sort of like brett cabanaugh johnny depp kind of stuff uh to put it in perspective

00:08:09.300 without getting too specific that that was a really hard thing to deal with you know somebody

00:08:14.100 that you used to love to say such heinous things about you that are completely untrue

00:08:19.380 but thankfully i was able to dispel all of those in court i had five of my ex-girlfriends from like

00:08:26.260 high school on testified for me which i'm extremely thankful to all of them you know it's not hard

00:08:32.180 being to reach out to someone you haven't talked to in years but you know used to be dating and ask for

00:08:36.980 something that big and they all did that so thankful i mean it's just incredible

00:08:43.380 and um let's see so around this time to a few months later after winning half custody his mom was 0.99

00:08:49.780 arrested for a child endangerment placed on a 5150 hold there was a cps investigation so i i ended up

00:08:58.500 bringing all this to court oh and i got a restraining order um temporary restraining order because of the

00:09:04.100 harassment and defamation of me was so severe and so untrue so i brought all of that to court and i

00:09:09.540 got a trial in family court which is um i'm super lucky and like i got ended up getting a five-day trial

00:09:15.780 and most people get like 30 minutes and that's all you get so i was super lucky and thankful for that

00:09:21.860 right on it presented all this evidence and police reports and all the restraining order had been

00:09:26.180 violated she's treating them non-memory he doesn't like it and all these things and i felt so good about the

00:09:31.860 trial it seemed so one-sided and afterwards the court decided we're going to keep custody 50 50 and

00:09:38.100 that was you know pretty devastating to hear i felt helpless for a second and i was i was definitely i'm

00:09:45.060 also completely out of money and race and stuff are so expensive in family court and i ended up

00:09:52.100 deciding i was just going to go public and sort of tell the world you know my story because i thought

00:09:57.140 you know people should know this and i didn't want to feel like i was the only one dealing with it and

00:10:02.500 so i feel unfaithful the daily wire wrote my story matt walsh and i know after that happened it just seemed

00:10:10.660 like my story started taking off and i became part of like that army and our duty all these parent groups

00:10:17.460 and finding out i'm not alone and started fighting some of these crazy anti-parent in california

00:10:23.620 and fighting this nonsense in general and it's just been amazing to be part of that sort of purpose

00:10:30.900 of fighting your children and fighting that matters and be courageous in your life and the world opens up

00:10:38.340 to you in so many ways and it's just crazy i mean i've met some of the most wonderful people that are so

00:10:44.660 supportive and they really mean it too just incredible people incredible movement you know we need to protect

00:10:51.940 kids and save women's sports i mean i admire what you do so much you're so courageous speaking up about

00:10:57.060 it and i'm just thankful to be a part of it so i i do all these interviews i pretty much did every

00:11:04.420 interview i was ever offered i'm just thankful or lucky enough to be part of a couple movies like the

00:11:10.340 war on children and um my appeal is still going so we're we're hoping to win that just sort of

00:11:20.340 for our unpraceable but we fast forward a little there's some tiny little family court battles that

00:11:26.740 are sort of irrelevant but it ends up being that i get a call one day to pick up sawyer because his

00:11:32.500 mom's been arrested and i went and picked him up and there was a whole police report and cps investigation

00:11:41.300 and they told me what happened and it was really scary situation that sawyer had to witness

00:11:45.060 and his mom had gotten in a fight with dad uh one of her dads she was adopted she has two dads

00:11:52.260 and she got in a fight with one of them a really physical scary altercation where she had like

00:11:57.780 broken his nose even and they were like really really severe physical violence for a four-year-old

00:12:03.540 to see i guess he sort of snuck up you know to see what was happening he was hiding at first because i'm

00:12:08.980 sure it was scary sandy and he snuck up like with this little kid's plastic baseball bat something

00:12:14.900 similar to that and according to him his mom said yeah hit him in the face him in the face so he had

00:12:21.060 to like hit his own grandpa in the face at the instruction of his mom which is just like such a

00:12:27.940 not okay thing for a four-year-old to have to go through and uh the mom claims that he just did it on

00:12:34.260 his own and she didn't instruct him i don't know what the truth is i tend to believe sawyer but

00:12:39.540 it happened and he ran the whole police report and seep against her court and there's even photo

00:12:45.220 evidence of his baseball bat with blood on it so it's really horrible that he had to go through that

00:12:52.100 and it's just crazy because i tried telling the court and cps and everything for so long that you

00:12:57.140 know this sort of thing's gonna happen if they don't give me custody and no one listens and then it

00:13:02.100 takes something so severe but thankfully after this incident that cps did take it seriously the

00:13:07.300 family court did not um i filed an ex parte the very next day and then denied it which

00:13:14.500 was very surprising and me and my attorney's opinion they pretty much had to grant this

00:13:19.060 ex parte on a temporary basis which is a request for an immediate emergency custody orders

00:13:25.700 and they denied it but cps said that's okay we're not gonna put up with that you know cps took

00:13:32.020 custody temporarily giving me full custody and they did about a four-month investigation

00:13:37.940 very thorough did their jobs they weren't political um the first cps report i felt like politics

00:13:44.580 didn't matter almost but this one they just did their job they put politics aside

00:13:49.060 i felt like it was a miracle i got a really counting male cps worker who really just cared about

00:13:56.420 doing the right thing and what's best for sawyer and at the end of it you know his recommendation was

00:14:04.660 to give full physical and legal custody to me and so i was in agreement with that and sawyer's appointed

00:14:12.180 counsel was in agreement with that so it was just us three versus the mom and her attorney and we ended

00:14:17.380 up settling right before the trial so that i have full physical custody we have split legal custody but

00:14:24.260 i have the final say if we don't agree it's very important and she has some driving alcohol testing

00:14:32.020 and a couple visits and those visits are monitored and her visits for the four months prior to that were

00:14:41.620 all supervised perfectly which i'm thankful for but yeah so we came up with a good deal and even to mom's

00:14:47.620 credit she agreed to this these terms so now i think that things are looking really good for sawyer

00:14:54.580 and even in just four months or however long it's been now and i've had him full-time he's just doing

00:14:59.140 so well he's just flourishing you know less temper tantrums and he seems to be doing so well it's just

00:15:03.860 incredible i'm so thankful to cps for you know doing the right thing and just doing their job and putting

00:15:09.860 politics aside it's not always actually i would say it's fairly uncommon uh based off of of experiences

00:15:20.500 of others um people that i have heard from uh where cps uh is effective and what they do in a way that

00:15:29.620 that benefits the child uh in a way that that is um i guess represents what is good represents you as a

00:15:38.420 parent um it's tragic uh it is actually horrific that it takes instances like that it takes saw your

00:15:47.460 seeing uh the harm and the severity that he saw um to ultimately come to a a good conclusion but

00:15:56.580 again that's the sad reality of it a couple things i noticed and in in allowing you to tell your story

00:16:01.860 and what you said um i can't imagine having a a child having a son and not being able to see him

00:16:10.900 after he until he's already a year old i mean that's a year of i mean he's four years old that's

00:16:15.940 a quarter of his life uh the most critical impressionable age where a father wasn't able to see

00:16:22.500 his son uh i loved that you told him or that you said look i just told him the truth that he's a boy

00:16:31.460 uh it's really that that simple you just told him the truth i think that's incredible

00:16:37.380 um did you ever find out i guess mom's motives you know or really the motive of of anyone i mean what

00:16:46.260 what's your your best guess here as to why mom or anyone would push this kind of agenda

00:16:54.180 on children children as young as three four years old well she has some pretty severe mental health

00:17:00.740 issues that could play into it but as well you know she actually identifies herself now as non-binary

00:17:05.860 so i think that could you know be projecting onto him as well or trying to and i think a lot of people

00:17:13.060 get caught up in this sort of getting wanting their kids to be part of it so that they can have some

00:17:21.300 sort of social media hierarchy or you know look compassionate or look like they're special because

00:17:26.580 their kid has this thing and it's just that and i of course don't know i can't speak for her but it

00:17:36.740 either way it's unacceptable and thank god sawyer hasn't bought into it in any way shape or form

00:17:41.780 and he has me um and my lovely wife now and all my family and friends and just telling them the

00:17:48.100 truth and letting him be who she is that cannot be changed can't stress that enough you know we can't

00:17:55.300 change people's sex and the whole idea is just crazy it's gone on long enough and it's time where we 0.99

00:18:02.340 just say no more you you are weirdos your groomers you're crazy people we're not letting you put a sexual 0.99

00:18:10.020 idea things and be inappropriate with kids brainwash our kids but the time in history to stop it's 0.99

00:18:17.140 right now everyone knows it's wrong i live in the bay area i don't know any parents or people that go

00:18:21.460 along with this or agree with in any way i haven't met any and i don't know what gavin newsom and like

00:18:28.420 that or scott weiner are doing signing bills like ab1955 to try to take away parental rights and take away

00:18:34.820 our only way of even being involved in the school basically taking away like the school board's

00:18:39.540 rights and mandate something they basically took that away with that bill they're just trying to

00:18:45.060 take our kids from us and it's demented it's evil and we just we need people more people to speak up

00:18:50.420 like you and me we have to stop it kids deserve to be protected at times now this is the moment in history

00:18:55.940 harrison i was so appalled uh where recently we saw uh video circulating uh of san francisco this

00:19:05.540 the streets of san francisco and the pride events uh that were taking place there um it was all over

00:19:13.140 my timeline on every social media platform on twitter on instagram everywhere uh i couldn't even

00:19:20.100 retweet i couldn't even amplify these things because it's it was quite literally pornographic 0.97

00:19:27.300 you saw men uh giving sexual oral favors to other men on the streets of course like naked 0.93

00:19:35.220 uh you saw men who were urinating on people they had like a little kiddie pool that was set out 0.99

00:19:42.020 in the middle of the street uh people who would take turns sitting in the pool take turns being urinated

00:19:47.940 on uh all the while the police uh were standing idly by just watching kids are running around kids

00:19:55.140 are everywhere i saw a video where uh and i think it was some sort of journalist or just a bystander

00:20:01.460 approached the police and said hey uh isn't this some form of like voyeurism or indecent exposure to

00:20:10.020 have people naked and performing sexual acts in the public streets of san francisco to which the

00:20:16.740 the police responded back with well no because no one is being sexually gratified that is what the

00:20:23.380 police said um again all to just kind of to to hit home um that this is happening of course we know

00:20:32.020 it's happening in california but this is happening all around us uh which is why it's so crucial we have

00:20:38.420 people like yourself who who live in uh these battleground areas who are willing to push back because if you

00:20:46.020 don't uh then who in the world will uh one other thing i noticed about what you said uh you mentioned

00:20:53.700 a couple times uh this feeling of helplessness um not really knowing how to continue on or or if you

00:21:02.980 would ever really persevere in this fight and so i guess my question to you is then why why continue

00:21:11.220 what was your your motivating factor that allowed you to see this through to the end

00:21:18.500 well first of all that that's sick and demented that that was happening at pride i didn't realize

00:21:23.860 it was that that that's insane that blows my mind i don't know how anyone thinks that's okay to do

00:21:29.140 in front of children i think that we need some serious reform on what's illegal in front of children

00:21:35.460 and i don't i really think that's horrific and that needs to be stopped entirely how do we put up

00:21:40.740 with that like we're adults in charge of protecting kids and their instincts and why would we let

00:21:44.900 something like that happen i mean just like how if you were walking on the street with your kid

00:21:49.140 would never be okay with that it seems so radical and extreme and to touch on the elon musk thing i think

00:21:55.940 elon musk is an american hero and will go down as one i mean from buying twitter x to you know moving

00:22:01.460 tesla and spacex i really think he's just done actually a great service and i'm so thankful for

00:22:07.140 someone like him he's actually i i think liked or betrayed my story before so i know he's aware of it

00:22:12.580 and it's just it's so cool to see someone with so much influencing power and you know just care so

00:22:19.380 much about regular people because i'm sure he could just live his life and not worry about what's

00:22:23.860 happening with regular people like us but he he does care and that means something and um yeah ab1955

00:22:32.020 these sorts of bills i don't know who they're catering to because no one agrees with them you

00:22:36.820 know for the most part i'm sure there's radicals in arsak that do but you know there's also 665 and 223

00:22:43.860 past and bad bills he did veto 957 last year which i fought against which i was super thankful for

00:22:49.540 but um yeah these anti-parent bills need to stop they're definitely have marxist roots whether that's

00:22:54.980 intentional or not that's still what it is separating you know children from families and uh i think we're going

00:23:01.140 to see a great comeback of california it really feels that way to me i feel the momentum i feel

00:23:05.300 like the tide's turning and i really feel that people are ready to start speaking up and stop

00:23:10.980 putting up with this child abuse and child craziness protect their children as far as i go

00:23:19.620 i mean i'm mr bright side i always hop in i'm like a hopeless optimist and no matter what happens i always

00:23:26.820 try to find the one way out whether it's a one percent chance i'll take it and i always just

00:23:32.340 try to do the right thing and see the best in people and best possible scenario happening and

00:23:38.900 the fight for that and i believe in that and just no matter what you do to me or say to me it's never

00:23:45.300 going to stop me from loving sawyer and protecting sawyer and from doing the right thing and fighting for

00:23:50.260 kids and protecting girls you know like you or my sisters or my nieces like it's it's unacceptable to

00:23:57.220 help guys in girls locker rooms just like we're talking about the pride stuff this is no different

00:24:01.620 it's like even more personal it's totally insane and we just we need brave people to start speaking

00:24:07.060 up and more people will follow like this is insanity you people are sick you should be ostracized from

00:24:12.500 society and we're not just going to pretend it's normal anymore and like just live our lives and pretend

00:24:18.740 it's not happening it is happening it's wrong we're gonna fight you to the bitter end no matter what

00:24:25.300 it takes and yeah i just see you have to be brave you have to speak the truth that's what we need

00:24:31.780 right now and that's what i've always found the way to do in my life well we're grateful for it and

00:24:37.860 yeah i believe stories like yours uh like i said elon musk said uh that ab1955 and other stories and laws

00:24:45.860 that have preceded it um definitely contributed uh to his willingness uh to to remove himself

00:24:55.540 and his money which is is frank quite frankly uh what matters to california government um to remove

00:25:02.820 that from from the state of california so you're largely to thank uh your willingness to be outspoken

00:25:08.340 uh you mentioned you're not alone either uh have you talked to other parents uh across the country

00:25:15.940 who have faced a a similar tragic reality to that of what you faced parents who are are have been taken

00:25:25.620 to court uh for affirming their their child's god-given sex um parents who have have even some uh i've read

00:25:35.620 some accounts of parents who have not had the same outcome that you have had and ultimately have had

00:25:41.220 their children removed uh from from their houses um so so have you talked to other parents um what's

00:25:49.380 the consensus there well like how you said confirmed because it's interesting when i was fighting at

00:25:54.500 the capitol i've actually met scott wiener and stroking in front of this little council a few times

00:25:59.140 and i was talking about ab957 i was like well i'm going to use this bill and be the first person to

00:26:03.620 win custody because i'm the one affirming solar's gender because he says he's a bullet so if his

00:26:08.100 mom's saying he's non-binary that's not affirming his gender which means this bill should give me 1.00

00:26:12.660 custody um scott wiener doesn't seem to like me he won't talk to me the time since because that's

00:26:18.500 hard to say hi to him like and i've been nice to him like scott and he like just won't even say hi

00:26:22.980 he'll like have a security not let me talk to him you're way too loud for scott wiener yeah i just don't

00:26:30.500 get what motivates him though it just seems so weird something deeply wrong but um yeah i've met

00:26:36.820 a lot of fit parents and unfortunately some of them have it much much worse than me there's adam bina

00:26:41.860 jeff younger we need to save their boys they're having a really hard time in court and seem to be

00:26:46.980 getting really unfair trials but yeah i'm part of data army and our duty and i've met so many parents

00:26:52.660 doing these sorts of things and cps things and i always try to talk to everyone because they seem

00:26:57.940 you know so inspired by the fact that i won and or even have half custody at the time too

00:27:05.380 some people aren't even that lucky just because of this crazy gender nonsense but um yeah i mean i 1.00

00:27:11.540 just do my best to inspire them tell them what i did and hopefully lift their spirits to keep fighting

00:27:17.380 because we have to fight there's always a chance no matter how slim it seems you can't do nothing it's

00:27:23.140 your child even if you fail at least if you try your hardest you'll be able to look back and know

00:27:27.460 you tried your hardest but you can't just do nothing you have to fight has saw your seen his mom uh

00:27:34.740 since you have been awarded full custody yeah so i mean he's saw her like supervised and then now he

00:27:45.300 he sees her monitor meaning like a friend or someone's there for the visit but she sees him

00:27:52.580 regularly yeah well that's good overnights or anything yeah yeah well i um again i commend you

00:28:00.500 on your uh how you've handled this situation from from beginning to end which i'm sure this isn't really

00:28:08.260 the end right i'm sure that you will continue to to face pushback uh it seems as if the road has not

00:28:14.980 been paved before you but how you have handled it thus far uh is admirable in your optimism uh in the

00:28:23.140 way that you have had grace for those who have uh objectively done wrong by you but more importantly

00:28:30.340 done wrong to sawyer um i think it's admirable and incredibly respectable uh how can we support

00:28:40.580 you uh and your family you mentioned you are are now newly married um how can we support you guys

00:28:48.660 well thank you for saying that it means a lot i do my best you know i i really think sorry's mom has

00:28:54.740 lots of good qualities she's a human being i think the line between good and evil cuts through everyone's 1.00

00:28:59.460 heart and hopefully she can start to make better decisions and battle through her mental illness 0.67

00:29:04.660 etc and same with anyone who's you know going through this that god can get to them or just

00:29:09.620 they can have some sort of spiritual awakening to sort of see the truth and do right but uh my family

00:29:16.900 you know it's incredible i'd actually love to tell you the story because it adds even more sort of

00:29:20.820 hope from all of this but uh you know i have a give send go it's a give send go saving sawyer

00:29:26.500 we still have our appeal going unfortunately like you saying you were saying there's potential that

00:29:31.940 you know his mom can file like him or anytime she wants to try to change things and make things more

00:29:38.100 difficult for me um thankfully this this order from the whole cps thing is a little bit more final than

00:29:44.340 all the other ones so it gives me a little more protection but still you know any day i could get

00:29:49.300 served with a new request for order so to speak to change custody so hopefully that doesn't happen we'll see

00:29:56.180 how it goes but um so like i was telling you my story blew up i was doing all these interviews

00:30:02.580 right and i'm i'm in arizona chick i'm never in arizona and i'm doing an interview with charlie

00:30:09.220 kirk who's someone i admire and respect so already that's like crazy i'm like i'm just some guy what

00:30:14.100 i'm interviewing with charlie kirk right now this is so crazy i was interviewing with alex park the next

00:30:18.180 day who's also awesome and um i was in arizona and i interviewed with charlie and then i was just sort of

00:30:24.740 hanging around turning point usa i had nothing to do for the day i was hanging out with the film

00:30:28.340 guys because i'm friends with them i've done some movie work with them and stuff and uh i saw this

00:30:34.740 beautiful you know girl and i flipped my hair and i she always reminds me of that and i opened her door 0.91

00:30:43.460 and i walked in her office and it was just like miracle frequency everywhere everywhere there's magic in

00:30:49.060 the air like this felt like something so profound and special even being near her and i talked to

00:30:54.820 her i told her she's incredibly beautiful and we ended up just like talking and laughing for like

00:30:59.140 an hour and we talked the next day for like about an hour and then it ended up she was in california

00:31:05.300 two weeks later and i took her on a date and and a date the next day and the rest is history and

00:31:12.500 she's the love of my life and we're married and it's just so incredible and divine that we met at that

00:31:16.820 time there's so many so much potential for us not to meet that day i won't get into specifics but

00:31:22.580 there was a lot of things that happened like my interview had been rescheduled and i just totally

00:31:27.460 missed her and she's just the love of my wife and i'm so thankful it's just so cool it's just it goes

00:31:32.900 to show like look i was i was doing interviews with all this and somehow i met my wife just by random

00:31:39.780 chance in arizona by you know having the courage to speak up it's it's crazy how god uses uh unfortunate

00:31:50.260 circumstances i mean circumstances that no one should have to go through uh to open doors and to allow for

00:31:58.260 goodness even in in the days that um seemed like nothing good could come from them um so god bless you

00:32:07.620 god bless your family uh again this is a a story that should leave everyone's smiling it's a roller

00:32:14.020 coaster of emotions that's for sure um but the outcome uh you with full custody of sawyer happily

00:32:20.420 married uh staying in california in the bay area nonetheless to continue fighting the good fight

00:32:28.740 um where a lot of people are ridding themselves of that uh people coming from california to my home state 0.99

00:32:35.860 of tennessee uh we're building up a border around our state now uh we don't want you guys here i'm 0.97

00:32:42.820 just kidding here and you and sawyer and your beautiful wife can come but after that i love

00:32:47.700 tennessee it's um but really we we appreciate you uh so thank you for coming on and we will be following

00:32:55.380 along anything that we can do to amplify and to continue throwing our support at you and families

00:33:02.580 like yours uh who have have uh been unfairly faced with with what you've been faced with

00:33:10.260 we will certainly be doing just that so thank you thank you riley god bless you and so appreciate

00:33:16.660 you taking the time to have me on and speak my story hopefully it inspires some people and we're

00:33:21.060 going to win this war on children it's coming to an end so people should really start to think

00:33:25.220 what side of history they want to be on i know that's kind of the cliche term but it's true 0.98

00:33:29.540 and it's coming it's coming soon and it's never been on the wrong side of history to defend killed

00:33:34.500 children so exactly i know where i'll be and i think it's right there with you uh so thank you

00:33:39.860 harrison that's right thank you guys for tuning in to the gains for girls podcast make sure you like

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00:33:56.820 give sin go for harrison tinsley and his family he mentioned uh that fighting this battle in the

00:34:02.020 courts has taken a a big toll uh both emotionally um it has taken a toll financially uh so be sure to

00:34:10.180 support him if that is something that you feel called to do if that is something that you can do

00:34:14.420 uh but again we thank you for tuning in and we will see you guys next week on the gains for girls

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Gaines for Girls with Riley Gaines - July 24, 2024

The Battle for Parental Rights

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