Gaines for Girls with Riley Gaines - October 23, 2024


The Global Impact of Gender Ideology


Episode Stats

Length

37 minutes

Words per Minute

188.27032

Word Count

7,103

Sentence Count

10

Misogynist Sentences

38

Hate Speech Sentences

26


Summary

In this episode, Giggle founder Sal Grover joins me to talk about the dangers of the gender ideology cult movement, and how she became a vocal advocate for women's rights, privacy, safety, and equal opportunity. Giggle is a social networking app designed specifically for women.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 hello everybody welcome back to the gains for girls podcast thank you guys for tuning in
00:00:12.480 uh be sure to check us out anywhere where you get your podcasts apple spotify uh be sure to
00:00:18.360 check us out at outkick.com fox nation is now running my show other shows on outkick and so
00:00:23.900 you can check that out at fox nation.com uh super duper excited for today's guest her name is sal
00:00:31.920 grover she is not an australian entrepreneur but i think most notably she is the founder of a social
00:00:39.720 networking app giggle which was designed specifically for women she will tell us what giggle is what the
00:00:47.400 platform is about but if we're talking about a female only space in this case an app and we're
00:00:54.700 on this podcast then you can probably assume that the gender ideology cultists have tried to eliminate
00:01:01.920 this protection and so now sal grover is involved in a landmark lawsuit and has become a vocal advocate
00:01:08.900 for women's rights women's rights to privacy to safety uh to equal opportunity and so this has
00:01:15.200 now made her a controversial figure in discussions around the harm of the gender ideology movement
00:01:22.640 which you and i know is really just a badge of honor that she would or at least should wear proudly which
00:01:28.500 i know that she does and so check out this interview with sal grover well sal thank you for joining the
00:01:35.480 gains for girls podcast uh we were talking before this i feel like i have known you i feel like i mean for a
00:01:42.220 long time since really i got thrusted into this space you have been a voice that i have admired
00:01:47.760 um i have looked to really on how to use clear language um and so i just respect you a whole lot
00:01:55.480 and so first before anything uh would you tell us a little bit about what giggle is and what inspired you
00:02:03.320 to create it okay so also massive fan so fan going over here too um so basically um
00:02:12.040 i created a an app a social networking app exclusively for women my it was actually my mom's idea and it
00:02:19.460 was sort of inspired by basically my previous life i've been a screenwriter in hollywood i moved to la
00:02:25.620 from australia when i was 24 knew no one was just like i'm gonna go and write movies um got into the
00:02:32.320 industry relatively quickly and easily and then it just turned to hell i mean this is pre me too i mean
00:02:39.080 it's not better now but this was definitely pre me too hollywoods this is like 20 2009 sort of
00:02:44.480 officially in the industry by 2010 just hell it was just you know sexual assault sexual harassment and
00:02:51.980 it was it was constant and no one cared and i hung on for as long as i could um because i just i refused
00:03:00.000 to give up i was just like no this is what i want to do and i can cope with this i can i can get beyond
00:03:04.820 this and then just one day i was like i woke up and i was looking at my ceiling and i was like i
00:03:08.780 can't i am in an absolute depression moved to new york for a bit to try and keep the dream alive
00:03:14.320 and in the end i came back to australia and i went into therapy just to sort of i just had to recover
00:03:19.300 i was just such a shell of a person when i was in therapy just sort of getting the tools to be able
00:03:24.880 to deal with it all and move on um it was my therapist that said you need a strong female
00:03:31.160 support network in your life and it was this complete light bulb moment i was like she's
00:03:35.760 completely and utterly right and so when i then went and told my my mom and i would just be talking
00:03:40.920 about it because my mom was really sad about stuff that had happened to me too she said why don't we
00:03:45.420 create an app for women it was so it started with the idea of just doing a roommate app so that women
00:03:50.420 could just sort of connect to find roommates you know there's lots of sexual harassment just online
00:03:54.840 stupid shit on roommate apps and things like that and so we were like oh that's cool and then we
00:03:59.640 sort of scaled it and went like oh we can have this and this and lesbian dating and you know just
00:04:04.060 general emotional support like a woman only twitter type feed and like just we tried to think of
00:04:09.820 anything there was like so many apps in one so we were developing it and getting it built and you
00:04:15.340 know creating a startup in 2019 and it was on the app store on google play at the beginning of 2020 and
00:04:20.860 we woke up on the morning of february 7 2020 to thousands thousands of one-star reviews calling us
00:04:28.860 transphobic um bigots um men had gotten onto the app they were just writing um things like you know
00:04:35.720 kill turfs i didn't know what a turf was and so it was just literally going what is going on and then
00:04:41.480 just started researching it and went oh okay so not only are men claiming to be women but some powerful
00:04:48.700 people are actually taking them seriously and so like literally the cancelled right out of the gate i thought
00:04:56.180 that it would be i thought that because this was so stupid i was like if we just speak up and just
00:05:01.860 defend ourselves like this will blow over it will be i literally said that i was like this will be it'll
00:05:08.100 be a few months and then it'll all be gone i didn't yet know that women had actually been fighting this
00:05:12.460 for a lot longer than 2020 and um so four and a half cut to four and a half years later i'm still fighting
00:05:20.020 it and basically was taken to federal court by a man who claims to be a woman and um for gender
00:05:25.780 identity discrimination because i won't accept him as a woman and a week ago we got the verdict and
00:05:31.300 i lost this round an australian judge has said that men can be women so that's where we are that's my
00:05:37.180 entire life right now in a nutshell that um i love how you say i lost this round uh because that implies
00:05:44.020 that you of course are not done fighting which um if anyone follows you on x or any social media
00:05:52.240 account uh they would know that based off of your tweets based off of how you portray yourself
00:05:57.060 um i mean how strong of an advocate you are for women uh but really for for truth uh for
00:06:04.940 reasonability for rationality for sanity and so we thank you uh you mentioned this case uh this case
00:06:12.300 the giggle versus tickle which sounds funny i mean it looks funny when you read it but it sounds even
00:06:18.160 funnier i don't think i've ever said it out loud actually it sounds even funnier when you say it out
00:06:22.440 loud it sounds like a puppet show it sounds like it sounds as stupid as this whole thing actually is
00:06:27.820 it's tickle v giggle because he was taking me to court but when we appeal it will actually become
00:06:33.520 giggle v tickle so it's um that's where we're going yeah basically um a man who goes by the name
00:06:39.960 roxy tickle who's a man in his 50s yeah i mean he i basically nothing personal against him like i
00:06:47.760 just would have seen like we had onboarding like to get to make sure it was woman only it was basically
00:06:52.820 you took a selfie when you were onboarding ai would say male or female human eyes checked it behind the
00:06:58.000 scenes to make sure everything was working it did occasionally a man would get on because
00:07:02.080 technology is not perfect and we only had it set to 94 accuracy um because in our testing that was the
00:07:07.260 best way to do it um he got on i would have at some point seen his selfie just i don't even remember
00:07:13.640 it because it wasn't like a it was not a standout thing like it was a normal regular day at the office
00:07:18.140 it was like oh man block and yeah then i got an australian human rights commission complaint for
00:07:24.140 gender identity discrimination and to settle it in the australian human rights commission
00:07:27.860 basically i would have had to agree to let him on the app let all men who claim to be women on the app
00:07:33.380 go to sex and gender education which could only be re-education and also moderate the content so
00:07:39.280 that men who claim to be women weren't offended by what the women were saying so basically that the
00:07:43.940 women would be saying men aren't women um because they did have lots of conversations about that and
00:07:48.220 i was like absolutely no way like this completely negates the entire reason for it like i may as well
00:07:53.720 just close it down there's no point and so i said no to basically conciliation in the ahrc stage and
00:08:02.260 yeah that's why it escalated to the virtual court and so you mentioned the ruling uh basically the
00:08:07.700 federal court said that he's allowed on the app i mean really what they've said is that women don't
00:08:13.500 exist that that's what i took from the ruling oh no completely so the app has actually been offline
00:08:18.700 for the past two years in part because of this case we had we he'd filed and then he withdrew and
00:08:25.700 so in this sort of window where he'd withdrawn and so we were sort of taking that as a win we were
00:08:29.140 like we have to update lots of things we had to do a new build and you know we're not we're not
00:08:33.900 twitter we don't have elon money so we can't do like huge big builds in the background while the
00:08:38.880 app was still going for what we actually had to do at that point and so we were like we'll take it
00:08:43.280 offline do all the new things and put it back out there in like three three and a half months
00:08:48.580 and in that time he refiled so we had to sort of keep it back and keep it offline to protect it
00:08:54.360 basically um so there isn't even an app for him to go on i mean i can't even use it i am i too am
00:09:00.080 excluded from this woman only app right now um but yeah the judgment was um it's an it's a it's an
00:09:07.700 active woke activist judgment i mean it's what it is um a lot of our arguments which are correct
00:09:14.880 were dismissed instead of ignored and you know where it was the what is a woman case because it was the
00:09:22.280 first case in the world essentially that so directly took like biological sex and gender identity
00:09:29.840 the conflict that is there because of gender identity and addressed it head on and what the judge
00:09:35.800 found was that in australia not only does gender identity have more weight than than biological sex
00:09:44.720 in the sex discrimination act so in our legislation that he actually basically found that biological sex
00:09:50.280 does not exist at all in legislation anymore it is only this concept of legal sex and legal sex is
00:09:55.780 gender identity because in australia what's happening is we don't have like in the uk like gender
00:10:01.640 recognition certificates or anything like that where they sort of is this sort of separation of church
00:10:05.880 and state these guys are actually changing the sex markers on their birth certificates so they become
00:10:12.580 legally female despite being biologically male and the tickle v giggle judgment has shown that for the
00:10:22.000 time being legal sex is you know it's the it's what it's what they're looking at it's it's all they
00:10:28.180 care about and so this is not obviously workable in law or society in any way like it has to be
00:10:33.040 changed the law is wrong but yeah so you don't you don't give up when you get a bad judgment that you
00:10:38.280 appeal when you know you're right you appeal okay i know i'm right this guy's not a woman so right
00:10:44.860 off we go yeah so we have to yeah it'll be like you know it's going to be another however long
00:10:51.440 very much at least a year and gosh yeah and you you've mentioned four i mean four and a half years
00:10:59.640 you've been immersed in this fight which i mean that's not only is that a time investment it's emotional
00:11:07.500 investment i'm sure there are finances um that come with it and so i'm sure it's just drained you
00:11:13.940 and your family the people around you the people who support you i'm sure it's been draining on you
00:11:18.980 guys yeah i'm very lucky because my mom and dad are in this fight with me because obviously my mom and i
00:11:25.200 started giggle together like it's ours it was very much you know my mom you know wanting something of
00:11:30.600 her own like her own like thing to have you know this stage of her life like it was something we do
00:11:36.280 together and so we just made the decision that we weren't going to give up one because i really
00:11:42.740 want there to be a woman only app i think that's really important this is what i want to do with my
00:11:46.260 life so there was that sort of personal slash professional thing then there's also i'm a woman
00:11:51.380 my mom's a woman i now have a daughter it's like no this actually does impact our lives in other ways
00:11:57.340 like you can't once you know what's going on and if you're given an opportunity to fix it you can't
00:12:02.140 just sit back like you have to do it so it was just yeah it was just like of course we'll just
00:12:08.940 go forth and do it and yeah it's sacrifice it's horrible some days are harder than others
00:12:13.140 um but i mean i have spent the last the last 18 months mentally and emotionally preparing for a
00:12:22.160 loss at this stage because i never wanted it to happen that we lost this round and i was just
00:12:27.880 devastated by it i wanted to be like okay that i'd like rationalized it all through thought it
00:12:33.900 all through and was like okay i can keep going because otherwise if i'd really put all my heart
00:12:39.220 and soul in just into expecting to win in this round i think right now i'd probably be on the floor
00:12:45.740 of course and you mentioned having almost i mean what seems like activist judges which we over here in
00:12:53.700 the u.s uh are very familiar with as well whether it's in the courts i mean our media seems like
00:12:59.500 activists half the time our academic institutions are controlled by activists so it seems and so
00:13:06.280 we're very familiar i don't think a lot of people will have understood or realize that this is really
00:13:12.500 global um i think sometimes in the u.s we get caught up we look at the issues happening here
00:13:18.240 but this is happening across the world as made very evident by you and your lawsuit what you're facing
00:13:25.880 yeah i mean it's happening in the countries that are completely captured by gender ideology
00:13:31.940 are countries like you know obviously the u.s the uk is sort of coming out the other side of it now
00:13:36.620 they they are definitely are beating the pope but there's still there's still problems but
00:13:40.380 they're in a much better position um canada is just um new zealand is insane but then so
00:13:46.520 is japan south korea india just these countries it's it's insane that this has spread how it
00:13:56.420 has and i just i think one of the reasons why it has is because i think there are a lot of really
00:14:03.900 powerful men who still run the world who want men to be able to do whatever they want they don't
00:14:09.380 think these men are women they just think men should be able to do whatever they want well if you've
00:14:13.720 seen a picture of mr tickle um you have to be clinically insane to look at him and actually
00:14:19.940 believe that he's a woman whether it's him or whether it's um this male who is just running in
00:14:26.020 the paralympics i mean you have to be insane to look at these people they to your point they know
00:14:32.380 that these men are not women oh yeah no i don't think for one second anybody actually believes this
00:14:37.500 um i think in law like how law works in the sense of like if you know you're a lawyer that's arguing
00:14:44.300 that he is a woman or something it doesn't necessarily they believe that he is it's just
00:14:48.260 lawyers seeing if they can argue the law in their favor like that's just how it is it's like you know
00:14:52.740 even rapists get legal representation it doesn't mean the lawyer agrees with like the rapist murderer
00:14:58.380 or something like that they're just arguing the law not to compare this person who to that not saying
00:15:06.480 that but you know what i mean it's just and you know it's just lawyers don't necessarily agree
00:15:11.460 with the premise of the case of what they're doing it's just they're doing their job
00:15:16.700 and yeah i mean i i think if anyone saps just with a lie detector and said do you think that these men
00:15:23.540 are women like they would fail instantly it was part of the case actually that was so frustrating they
00:15:29.300 always the australian human rights commission always insisted that basically you know tickle had been
00:15:34.940 removed from the app because he didn't look sufficiently cisgender and be like no he's just
00:15:42.780 not female like i mean it's just a fact way to say that totally they would always just sort of they
00:15:50.720 would always say that the app was just for cisgender women and it's like no it's just for females like a
00:15:56.960 female who called herself a man or non-binary or cat gender or any of these other nonsense she was
00:16:02.820 allowed on there like we're not policing people's thoughts and woman could a woman could go on the
00:16:08.160 app who thinks men are women like and so long as she's just not like harassing people and just you
00:16:12.800 know following normal social media like etiquette it's totally fine like it wasn't there wasn't any
00:16:18.380 thought police or anything like that it was just the only prerequisite to use the platform was to be
00:16:23.820 female and i mean i had no idea there was a concept of legal sex because for 99.9 percent of the human
00:16:32.080 population your legal sex is just your biological sex like even the concept that it could be something
00:16:38.200 different has been introduced because of gender ideology like the whole all everything worked the
00:16:44.280 law worked before this gender ideology being put into law completely changes everything and so that's why
00:16:50.980 it's so important for people in other countries to be aware of cases like tickle v giggle because
00:16:55.120 this is this is the warning of if you let gender ideology get anywhere close to your legislation this is
00:17:02.920 what will happen it doesn't work in law at all and it's just expensive and time consuming to undo the
00:17:09.520 mess of course especially where privacy or safety or equal opportunity are threatened it is necessary
00:17:18.220 that we define sex you mentioned spreading awareness and making sure people know about this and so
00:17:24.120 have you faced any sort of problems with with censorship uh whether it's the media in australia or or
00:17:31.980 really across the board has censorship affected you the app in your case yeah completely so before we
00:17:40.600 launched when we were just getting ready like in end of 2019 like our launch plan um ready there was just
00:17:47.360 media in australia that we were in contact with and this is like mainstream legacy type media and they
00:17:52.660 were all like oh this is such a brilliant idea this is fantastic like anything we can do to help we'll
00:17:57.380 have you on yay and just you know we'll promote giggle and then literally from the day on february 7
00:18:06.260 2020 i was called transphobic like they've never contacted me again like i would i would just send email
00:18:11.800 after email and never they've never responded again so it's just that one accusation from some deranged
00:18:16.920 trolls online is all it took well just basically just men invading the app but making it seem like
00:18:23.240 i was the bad one was all it took for everyone to go oh yeah she is that's what has flawed me since day
00:18:30.380 one but then when it sort of came to the tickle v giggle case it was mind-blowing so it's gotten good
00:18:38.520 coverage like the verdict um and it's sort of got legs it's still going which is good making people aware
00:18:43.880 of it but i was crowdfunding to pay for this because it was half a million dollars to pay for
00:18:49.700 federal court going forward we need to raise about eight hundred thousand dollars so we're in the
00:18:54.400 starting phases of that now um and you know obviously to be able to get support from people
00:19:00.800 and be like look you know not only fighting for my own here i'm fighting for everybody like this case
00:19:05.880 affects us all and to get that support obviously i need attention like and i in the end had to get
00:19:13.800 on a plane and go to the uk because literally no one in australia would speak to me no one and i was
00:19:21.420 just i the beginning of this year i was going feeling like i was going insane i was like this is like the
00:19:27.800 biggest you know women's rights court case in modern history in australia and no one will speak to me
00:19:35.380 about it and even now they still do when they do report on it they they call it a transgender rights
00:19:43.020 case but it's not it's not a transgender rights case because females who call themselves trans will
00:19:50.940 welcome on so it's not about trans rights it's about it's sex-based this is about women's rights
00:19:56.400 because women's rights are sex-based this is about men wanting to invade female spaces it's as simple as
00:20:01.740 that yeah no you're right and it's it's honestly it's more than just the gender ideology movement
00:20:09.740 and the inability to define this word or other sex-based terms woman whether it be the word
00:20:15.960 woman or whether it be sex as a whole and so we've seen what's gone on in the middle east recently
00:20:25.400 where you have islamic countries like afghanistan where the taliban are putting laws in place that
00:20:32.000 that ban women from even speaking publicly women aren't allowed to to speak and so i've got to get
00:20:39.080 your thoughts on on this and again how it shows what you are fighting your case it's broader than
00:20:47.800 the gender ideology movement every single human being on this planet knows what a woman is
00:20:52.540 everyone does it cannot be that the only people in the world who actually actually are allowed to
00:20:59.260 accurately acknowledge what a woman is are the predators of women but that's the situation we're
00:21:04.900 heading into so in afghanistan they are they are actually like recognizing who the women are they
00:21:14.020 know very clearly and then they are using that to destroy women's i mean they just there's no women's
00:21:19.180 rights it's not even in it's not even in the vocabulary in afghanistan at the moment i mean
00:21:24.120 women are like beyond second-class citizens it's done they like property at this point dogs have more
00:21:31.900 rights in afghanistan because at least dogs can bark without being reprimanded or jailed or stoned
00:21:38.700 and i'm i'm sure many instances women can't go to the gym they can't get an education past i think
00:21:45.240 sixth grade uh they're not allowed to see male doctors but again if you can't get an education past
00:21:51.220 sixth grade there aren't female doctors um so women just don't get to go to the doctor they're not
00:21:57.040 allowed to sing they're not allowed to even look at men it's beyond even second-class citizens they're
00:22:03.360 not allowed to live like they're they're afforded a life in terms of they can breathe if they follow
00:22:08.360 the rules but they're not living in any measurable way that we would say is something that every human
00:22:16.400 being should be afforded like this is a obviously a complete human rights violation and it's just
00:22:20.880 you do you want to scream you want to scream for them you want to scream because
00:22:24.840 you know how how do you stop this i there was someone who did a great tweet i don't remember who it
00:22:30.760 was but they just said basically open immigration borders to afghani women and children they can leave
00:22:37.000 they are welcome no men let the taliban die out in a generation like yeah but this is like this all
00:22:43.560 comes up comes back to the reality of sex and the actual role that it plays both negatively and
00:22:48.980 positively in our lives so in the west we're having a situation where no one knows what a woman is and
00:22:55.920 it's destroying our our rights in places like afghanistan everyone knows what a woman is and it's
00:23:00.860 destroying women's rights all that actually goes to prove is how just delicate women's rights are
00:23:09.820 globally that if we take our eye off the ball even for a second they'll take everything away from us
00:23:16.700 like do i think that do i think that there are some bad bad people out there who look to places like
00:23:23.720 afghanistan what's happening now and are watching it as a as like an instruction manual if given the
00:23:29.100 opportunity they would stop us from speaking in public of course some something that's the dream
00:23:34.320 like some people really hate women and it's so frustrating because when even when we start to
00:23:40.340 just comment on all of this stuff i've even just had it this morning people come back with also do you
00:23:45.100 hate men no no i don't hate men there are male only apps before giggle i mean i can't tell you an app
00:23:51.940 that was female only um i mean you have grinders you have other apps like that the lesbian dating app
00:23:59.080 her technically started as being female only because it did start as being for lesbians but then they
00:24:04.520 broadened their demographic to basically be lgbtqi because like it became like a queer app so therefore
00:24:12.120 then sex becomes irrelevant um grinder also started as an app exclusively for gay men and that was actually
00:24:18.380 kind of weirdly that was sort of like the model that we were looking at in the sense of like
00:24:22.820 you know when it's for a specific demographic they are called niche social networking apps and so we
00:24:28.400 were we were going like you know like so you've got grindy here this is like literally a sex-based app
00:24:33.260 in the sense that it was just for males with something like grinder for the first like 10 years of its
00:24:38.940 existence it didn't actually need any gay people like women just stayed away from it it's the difference
00:24:44.620 between things for male and women and the different protections that are necessary like male only things
00:24:50.380 a lot of women will just self-exclude from we don't want to go in even how that plays out in the real
00:24:54.640 world like you can have a male only gym quite easily it just has to be quite industrial loud music huge
00:25:00.900 men in there like punching or lifting really heavy weights and a woman just won't go in but the moment
00:25:05.360 you create like a woman only gym it's like an invitation to a certain type of man to want to go into it
00:25:10.720 whether he's claiming to be a woman or he's just a predator in general and so that's why women only
00:25:15.180 things actually do need protections in law whereas a lot of male only things can just exist
00:25:19.860 like i know i i know that there's so many men that will be screaming here going like women took away
00:25:27.140 male only spaces no we made boardrooms in the government unisex and that was necessary because
00:25:32.820 they reflect society but if you want male only spaces for recreation i will support you i will help you
00:25:39.140 do it like stay in them for all i care it's that how they play out in society and law the difference
00:25:46.220 between male and female spaces um is proof of the difference between male and females basically well
00:25:52.140 you don't see women trying to enter into men's prisons you don't see women trying to enter into
00:25:56.900 men's sports or men's bathrooms or fraternities but of course the contrary it's it's a daily occurrence
00:26:04.540 and so i think that's a good point like when i first got involved in this i found out what was
00:26:09.720 going on four and a half years ago it was like a it's like a bi-monthly occurrence like there'd be
00:26:15.360 at least a story every like two weeks or something it is daily now that we are getting these stories of
00:26:22.480 men in women's sports men in women's change rooms bathrooms just sororities just destroying
00:26:28.920 everything but it's the thing with gender ideology it's so incompatible with like
00:26:34.540 secular normal society and like a liberal society in the sense that you know of the even of the live
00:26:41.620 and let live because it takes away everything and it's why i always say like obviously i got into this
00:26:46.600 for women's rights and and female in the spaces it's how i was brought into it but this affects
00:26:52.100 everybody this is freedom of belief freedom of speech freedom of association and that's
00:26:56.160 literally everybody is affected by it because once you are forced to believe that that man is a woman
00:27:02.080 the state can force you to believe anything
00:27:04.540 of course it's so dangerous well and i think it speaks to the differences especially in the realm
00:27:12.440 of sports the difference the physical differences between men and women are obvious and again anyone
00:27:17.640 with eyeballs or or a heart for that matter um would be able to see the differences but it speaks to
00:27:24.580 to the characteristics that differ on average between men and women of course men are more dominant
00:27:33.040 they're more assertive they're more aggressive women they tend to be more emotionally driven more
00:27:39.860 apologetic um which i think it shows you know you don't see many women demanding the verbiage by which
00:27:48.160 uh men call them again the difference yes i mean it's just there are some young women who are sort of
00:27:56.160 going after gay men but it's a fight they're going to lose very quickly and they're definitely not as loud
00:28:00.200 like there is a reason that gender ideology didn't lead with trans men and men
00:28:03.860 no one would have like just would have been dismissed in a day um yeah it's it's tactical
00:28:10.280 to say trans women are women and that's really the only slogan that they they use frequently because
00:28:15.540 it's the only one that has any power because at the end of the day a lot of men and far too many
00:28:21.280 women don't care about women's rights of course it's yeah it's it's disgusting but yeah i feel
00:28:31.540 there's been a big change what's the direction that you see women-centric platforms and spaces going i
00:28:40.380 mean do you feel like like we're on the horizon of this or do you feel as if it's going to get worse
00:28:46.020 before it gets better it's getting better in australia it's just it's in australia it's just
00:28:51.700 gotten worse before it gets better but as my dad when i was i remember when i was like a teenager
00:28:55.420 and i'd be like hysterical about something he'd always be always say to me you have to take sometimes
00:29:00.220 you have to take one step back to take two steps forward and that's definitely how i'm feeling right
00:29:03.960 now so i don't think that the evolution of female only spaces is that they would eventually just
00:29:09.480 include men it's just right um i think female only spaces i mean because they've become front page
00:29:16.280 news more than they were in 2018 when mom and i got the idea we just thought women only app this is like
00:29:21.420 cute and fun and chris wanted to make an app now you know sort of we're fighting these massive fights
00:29:27.580 for them and i think i think they have become more important both in the real world and in the digital
00:29:34.200 world we spend so much of our time online and even already in the infancy of like virtual reality
00:29:41.300 in these like meta type worlds and all of that like there have been like stories out there of like
00:29:47.480 women's avatars being raped by men and you're going like what like even in the digital world
00:29:53.980 our cartoons aren't safe and so i like i go well okay so even in a virtual reality universe we'd need
00:30:03.020 female only spaces to protect women like we can't even we can't even solve the problem
00:30:07.500 there like it's just it seems to be this absolutely disgusting just fault in in some human nature to go
00:30:18.160 after women this way you know we have to we have to work in a sense with what we've got or what we've
00:30:24.480 already worked out to be the best way to deal with these things like but it's 2024 we're not fighting
00:30:30.640 for female only spaces and female only sport on a whim or for something to do it's because through
00:30:36.180 like millennia of human civilization we've realized that this is actually the best way to do some
00:30:43.300 things like women do need female only refuges for safety men don't need them for safety for privacy
00:30:50.220 and dignity yes and for recreation that's fine but that safety thing that's a huge point that that
00:30:56.560 definitely can't uh be ignored but i also say to women we shouldn't have to bring up the worst things
00:31:02.800 that have ever happened to us at the hands of men to justify them to justify the want of female
00:31:07.780 only spaces we want them even if you just want a woman only book club okay like one of the things
00:31:13.460 like in a female only app one of the things that was so great to see was women um sharing their
00:31:19.580 opinions on different things whether it was politics religion like astrology just the general news like
00:31:25.340 current affairs just they were shared they shared opinions in a different way to what you do in like
00:31:32.540 a unisex environment there's no and the responses are different like the tone everything is really
00:31:37.860 really different i think it's really really healthy to have a refuge like that to be able to go to
00:31:42.520 and then and then yeah we all coexist in this colorful world together and you know you just sort of
00:31:47.960 get on with it but it's nice to have places to go and sort of rebuild yourself have a refuge have a
00:31:52.560 break from it all and yeah as i say men can do it too of course you mentioned you're not done
00:31:58.920 fighting um and kind of next steps for you what does that look like how can we support you um whether
00:32:05.900 that's you personally or again your case where can we follow you so the next stage um is the appeal
00:32:15.080 so how it will work we is we will go to the full bench of the federal court first and that will
00:32:22.080 happen sometime next year we won't know the date yet until they assign it to us we could win that
00:32:26.680 the reason i always say it will go to the high court is that i've been told by by everybody that's
00:32:34.300 involved in this that this case i've always been told this case would end up in the high court which
00:32:37.880 is obviously the highest court in australia so the important of the supreme court yeah but in australia
00:32:43.020 the yeah it's a the high court in australia is an error in law court and it's where you
00:32:47.520 um challenge you know through the constitution and legislation so because the issue that we're
00:32:52.980 dealing with is bad legislation it that's why it has a it has very much the potential to end up in
00:32:59.940 the high court either side's going to take it there neither of us are going to sit down like like when
00:33:05.140 you're dealing with men who claim to be women it's not like they're going to have a judgment that
00:33:09.260 doesn't go in their favor and they'll be like oh okay well guess we're not women like they're
00:33:13.600 fighting tooth and nail as well as us so um yeah so the next stage is full court of federal
00:33:20.080 sorry full bench of the federal court we you know i mean if we win that round like it would be great
00:33:26.860 if that was sort of the end of it and we set the precedent then that sex has more weight in what law
00:33:31.880 than but than gender identity that sex is biological and that female only spaces in sport can exist so
00:33:37.760 basically women can say no that's what we're fighting for women to be able to say no um but
00:33:42.960 otherwise we are we go on to the high court so it's going to be anywhere between 500 and 800 000
00:33:49.880 to fight this we've just bought on oh yeah it's just it's crazy having to raise in like raise an
00:33:58.200 amount in a year that's more than most people earn in a year like it is a full-time job that i don't get
00:34:02.760 paid for like it it took all of last year for me to raise five hundred thousand dollars and i'm just
00:34:06.620 i'm so grateful to the people who have you know donated money and just support or if they can't
00:34:12.920 donate money they spread the word because all i what i all i can say sort of in repaying them is
00:34:19.860 i'm not going to give up like i'm going to see this through to the very end and part of the process of
00:34:26.200 is it is getting the word out there of making people realize because then what happens is once
00:34:33.280 you have like the power of the people basically once it's people pushing back and going absolutely
00:34:38.860 no way we do not want this then you have basically the political capital to get politicians to go okay
00:34:46.000 this is a serious issue which has happened to an extent in america it's very much happened in the
00:34:50.620 uk they made it a political issue which is that's why you've got to be in the courts you've got to be in
00:34:55.860 in sort of the government rooms to make these changes happen because we have to repeal laws here
00:35:01.540 so yeah so gigglecrowdfund.com is where there's more information about this
00:35:05.820 i'm not an expert i'm not an expert in law but i'm always trying my best to explain it but there is
00:35:11.580 stuff written on the website that is all about that's written by people who know the law and how
00:35:17.240 to explain it a lot better than i do well i implore everyone to go to giggle crowdfund check out the
00:35:24.000 the more legal mumbo jumbo um but support financially if you can because as sal so eloquently
00:35:33.000 explained yes this is big for for australia but this is setting the press it's a it's it's a landmark
00:35:39.800 lawsuit this is setting the precedent for the rest of the world we are following we are watching um sal
00:35:47.240 her case what's going on there and we are cheering you on and everyone should follow her on x
00:35:52.740 um she is one of the most unapologetic people which is rare especially on this topic um there are so
00:36:00.360 many of your tweets actually every one of your tweets um every single one of your replies like
00:36:05.480 it's just amazing how truthful um how matter of fact how profound you are without actually saying
00:36:14.500 anything that's overly profound you know what i mean i'm just saying men and not women like that's my
00:36:19.440 first principle here and i'm just like from there you can't like it's just the most truthful
00:36:26.680 statement and so literally no one has a credible argument against what i'm saying so it's my job is
00:36:32.640 very easy in that respect but yeah it's just stupid laws make it a little bit harder in the real world
00:36:37.700 but we'll get there i have no doubt we're going to win eventually so yeah well me too and that's because
00:36:41.940 of people like you fighting so thank you i appreciate you coming on it is uh early in the
00:36:47.320 morning in australia time and so we appreciate you a whole lot thank you thank you guys for tuning in
00:36:54.320 again check out giggle crowdfund it is so important to support the people who are doing the on the ground
00:37:01.660 work if you can support financially again she said this will cost upwards of of half a million if not
00:37:07.480 more dollars uh if you can support financially of course that's a a wonderful way uh to contribute
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