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- May 01, 2021
Will society ever return to normal?
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What are public manners going to be like in Canadian society moving forward as we step out
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of this pandemic? What are handshakes going to be like? What are greetings going to be like? I've
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been thinking about this a lot lately, as I think opinion is very starkly divided right now among
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Canadian society. You know, I was remembering about a year ago, Tony Fauci, Dr. Fauci, he said
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on CNN or at some press conference or something that the shaking of hands may be a thing of the
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past. We may never do it again. I think that's a bit of an exaggeration, a bit over the top. I've
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already had circumstances, encounters where you meet someone and they extend the hand for a
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handshake. Maybe people do the handshake or maybe they go, oh yeah, I forgot we're not really supposed
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to do that. And they go for the elbow thing or, you know, what have you. But there's people out there
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who are not horrified by the idea of a handshake. Let me put it that way. And there are other people
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who I think really are horrified by the idea of a handshake and they do not want to go back to it.
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How's that going to happen moving forward? Sort of very basic social interactions, exchanges that
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we've taken for granted throughout our lives. They're going to be a little bit different moving
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forward, whether you like it or not, because maybe you're okay with going back to these things, but
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other people may not be. And you never know. You don't know how to navigate that terrain.
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And I guess that also brings me to ask, well, who is the onus on to sort of make sure the social
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exchange is a pleasant one for all? Is the onus to sort of take what the lowest barometer of
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offense is and go, okay, because there's some people out there who are not going to like the
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handshake. We're not going to do the handshake anymore. And we all just have to say no handshake.
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Or is it up to that percentage of people who are really uncomfortable with the handshake?
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I don't know what the percentage is for them to just exempt themselves and for them to kind of
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feel awkward. So you extend the hand for the handshake and then they just kind of, oh, no,
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thanks or what have you, or they extend for the fist bump or what have you. One thing that's kind
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of been frustrating me a lot lately is the dynamics around the joggers, around the running. I like to go
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running and it's something I've been doing for years. And I've always considered myself a well-mannered
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runner, by which I mean, I'm not running close to people on the sidewalk or, you know, you don't
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want to startle people and so forth. You give folks a, a wide berth and so forth when you're passing
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them. And if there's a person on the sidewalk who has a stroller or they're in a mobility device or
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whatnot, of course you just, you know, get out of the way. You're not running near them. You're the
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faster person. You don't want to inconvenience them or be disrespectful to them and so forth. So be a
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polite runner. I'm all about that. But one thing that's, that's getting a little odd is those people
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who, when they see you coming, they don't just, you know, move six feet out of the way or expect
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you to move six feet of the way or whatever, but they make a point of walking far up some other
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person's driveway. This happens so much. Walk up all the way up this driveway and kind of glare at you
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as you go by or something. They stop and they kind of wait. It happens a lot. If you're a runner,
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you've may have had this experience. And I'm kind of like, look, when I got sort of close to you,
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I would have certainly left the sidewalk. I probably would have done that anyway in non-COVID
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times. I would have left the sidewalk and I would not have been six feet close to you. COVID times
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or non-COVID times. So number one, that. Number two, generally infectious diseases experts say
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outdoor transmission just isn't really a thing in those fleeting moments. I mean, the various studies
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and reports they've done have shown there has been some degree of outdoor transmission, very,
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very few cases that they found. But when people are at prolonged close contact together, so like
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really sitting right beside each other on the bleachers or something, talking for a long period
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of time, that, that kind of thing. But this, this passing someone, like someone running by you or
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bicycling by you, it's just not a thing. So I'm kind of like, yes, I'm, I'm a polite runner. I want to be
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polite and respectful to people I pass by. But then at the same time, I'm like, you're, you're walking
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all the way up a driveway, like 10, 15 feet away. You're kind of glaring at me as if I've done
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something wrong when like, I, I haven't done something wrong. So I got to say, you're kind of
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the person who's kind of messing up the social nicety there. We were not going to be six feet
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apart anyway. And yet you're doing this kind of oddball thing that I got to say six months ago,
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I was like, well, you know, whatever. People are still navigating this COVID thing. Fine. Now I'm like,
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what is the reason behind doing this? What is the evidence besides like extreme antisocial
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behavior? So there you go. That's clearly a pet peeve that I've been experiencing of late. And I
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don't know, are people going to come together on these things in the months ahead as Canada probably
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sees the case rates drop again, more and more folks are vaccinated and so on. It should mean that
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people are okay with going back to shaking hands or that yes, they don't want to jog or bumping into
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them, but they're not going to flee and glower at the person or maybe they are what's going to
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happen in the months ahead. I hope it's a coming together, but I'm really worried that the social
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fabric is kind of already frayed.
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