JustPearlyThings - November 04, 2023


23 Year Old Boss Babe Gets A REALITY CHECK

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Sean Strickland DEMOLISHES Salty Feminists Zherka ADMITS This To Pearl

Episode Stats


Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

189.87

Word count

1,784

Sentence count

—

Harmful content

Misogyny

23

sentences flagged

Toxicity

26

sentences flagged

Hate speech

18

sentences flagged


Summary

Summaries generated with gmurro/bart-large-finetuned-filtered-spotify-podcast-summ .

In this episode, I have a special guest on the pod, Rollo. She is a single mom, entrepreneur, writer, and all-around badass. In this episode we discuss what it means to be a single mother in the 21st century, why single moms are the most likely to cheat on their husbands, and how to deal with it.

Transcript

Transcript generated with Whisper (turbo).
Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Toxicity classifications generated with s-nlp/roberta_toxicity_classifier .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
Hosts, guests, and mentioned names generated with spaCy (en_core_web_sm), reconciled against Wikidata.
00:00:00.000 what it was well i'm saying that women did not have to vote policies that oppressed men women
00:00:04.700 did not have to vote in pol like women all of the politicians are catering to women they cannot get 0.99
00:00:09.960 elected without the female vote so i'm saying that women did not just because women were paid to leave 0.94
00:00:15.020 their families they didn't have to do it and women chose to do it and there were far more women that 0.99
00:00:20.260 chose to do that than there were men that had a choice in those policies so what about the women 0.97
00:00:25.880 that got knocked up and the father leaves why why okay that was a choice though like why did you
00:00:31.260 why did you choose to have a kid outside of marriage that's a choice i mean yeah that's a moral
00:00:36.220 i mean so that's still no fault to the man for not taking care of his child what happens to women's 0.99
00:00:45.260 intuition women's intuition they always know everything except they never picked the right 1.00
00:00:49.380 man yeah if she went for a dude if she went for a dude who was likely to cheat then that some of the
00:00:53.700 blame muscle on her right yeah it's only again only 10 of men have multiple sexual partners
00:01:00.060 so how is it that like we're only picking the 10 of men that cheat and there's far i don't think it
00:01:06.500 has anything to do with cheating i think it has to do with absent fatherhood you have you just said
00:01:10.380 there's i think i looked it up for my podcast there's 15.4 million single households and over 81
00:01:17.020 of them are females so where is the father why did they leave that is the question yes they
00:01:23.580 are 70 to 80 percent of the time i got something to say about that coming from a single mom um 0.79
00:01:29.800 usually women drive the man crazy and i can speak from facts because my father committed suicide over 0.82
00:01:37.840 my mother because she drove that's okay i took therapy people need therapy however usually the woman 1.00
00:01:45.320 is the one that makes bad choices i put myself in situations that i regret i put myself in a situation
00:01:52.260 where a guy tried impregnating me so i wouldn't leave him okay i put myself there because you know
00:01:58.480 i didn't leave so it all goes back to a woman having a choice to leave but did you would you say you
00:02:04.000 knew up front that that dude was likely to be that kind of guy no you know what i did you're saying
00:02:08.580 you're accepting culpability no you know what i he was never like that until a year later when he 1.00
00:02:16.940 starts showing signs but i was a fucking idiot and i still stayed because i was dumb i was dumb as 1.00
00:02:21.880 fuck and i'm like oh he'll get better you got love bombed oh yeah it's called narcissism but at the 1.00
00:02:27.180 same time which is the man that that's my website it's taking accountability though you gotta take 0.99
00:02:33.440 accountability plug it plug it yeah absolutely i think both should take accountability no but i'm
00:02:38.780 saying it's not equal because most men do not have a say where a lot women have much more of a say
00:02:44.220 in society than men in 2023 thanks feminism most guys like you said most dudes aren't getting laid
00:02:50.680 anyway yeah like the dudes down in public they're not getting any action in miami are they you know
00:02:54.900 what i'm saying so it's only a very small percentage you've got this kind of leverage
00:02:58.000 i mean i would argue i don't think you know who's screwing around in like oh you can tell i have a
00:03:05.300 question you can tell you're a really pretty person so how many guys do you turn down that approach
00:03:12.480 you um most i mean all of them there we go you just proved for all right i'm in miami and guys
00:03:21.520 don't approach me first of all so i will say that i've never i don't get approached here do you have
00:03:26.100 instagram i do have you get messages on instagram not from miami okay do you do you get messages
00:03:31.740 on instagram yeah from men that are trying to date you no not really there's zero okay
00:03:37.900 i already checked this she's gonna win i saw her i saw her stuff she's gonna win 1.00
00:03:52.380 i don't know if that really proves the point like actually the more attractive a woman is 1.00
00:04:11.740 outside of instagram messages the more fewer men talk to her yeah it's just it's just a fact well
00:04:19.920 but the point is you're still gonna have more choices than the average guy the average guy is
00:04:26.140 at walmart you know that guy at walmart that's the average guy some dude at walmart you don't even
00:04:31.520 notice him and he's staring at you you know you know what rollo said to me rollo said have you ever
00:04:36.740 gone through the airport and looked at people when you go through the airport walmart and you look
00:04:42.960 at everybody and they're average yeah like no homo you're like a seven or eight you're above a mid 1.00
00:04:48.780 average i know you get attention because i know there's a bunch of message requests from all these 0.95
00:04:56.040 incels that want to bang the shit out of me and i leave it unread they're absolutely right because 0.99
00:05:01.540 all these motherfuckers hit me up they come i had guys approach me last night at the bar 0.99
00:05:06.820 and i'm like please leave i'm not interested please leave i'm not interested guys do not get laid 0.99
00:05:12.080 because they won't fucking stop trying and they don't take no for it but isn't it about value as 0.94
00:05:16.140 well though because we're in fucking miami right there's a bunch of high fucking value dudes here 0.97
00:05:19.920 and again if you're the walgreens guy are you getting any action probably not it's not it's not just about 0.97
00:05:24.580 money it's about all the other elements so i have a question who has more choice in dating men or women
00:05:29.300 women please i'm gonna say women yeah okay who has more choice when it comes to birth control men or 0.94
00:05:35.920 women women women yeah okay who has more choice when it comes to abortion men or women women yeah who has 0.71
00:05:41.420 more choice when it comes to child support men or women women who has more choice when it comes
00:05:45.560 to child custody men or women women so who has who has who is more who has more choice when it comes 0.97
00:05:51.940 to marriage men or women men no no women women no you think yeah mia mia mia mia mia khalifa got married
00:06:00.140 mia khalifa got married if only if only because a guy wanted to marry her a guy got on his knee and 1.00
00:06:06.740 i i understand that but i'm saying who we we said we said that what what comes first in 2023
00:06:13.000 typically sex or relationships sex okay so who has more sexual options men or women women okay
00:06:20.260 so who has more marriage and relationship options men or women i think it's the men okay how how
00:06:26.020 how would that how would that work when women have more sexual options you just acknowledge because 1.00
00:06:30.640 like we're seeing the rise in only fans and sex working there's a difference between these guys 0.79
00:06:35.760 wanting to screw them and these guys wanting to marry but but how do you but how do you 1.00
00:06:39.820 right right but how do you how do you get in the door if you don't have if sex is starting 0.99
00:06:58.620 first wait wait wait if sex is starting first how do you get in the door do you think sex is starting 0.66
00:07:04.340 first because females think they need to have sex with a man to get his attention first i i think 1.00
00:07:10.120 just hook up culture and i think women could have chosen to be anything and we've chosen to be 0.97
00:07:14.820 whores so i think if there's something about women that's different women in society have basically 1.00
00:07:19.680 said right no one's we're done no one's getting any pussy until you put a ring on it then things 1.00
00:07:23.660 would be very different i agree with that yeah yeah well i actually i think it's women competing for 0.99
00:07:28.040 the top 10 percent 20 percent of men and it's like well no no i'm saying like it's like fives and
00:07:33.160 sixes are trying to compete they're not going to get in the door any other way because again you'll
00:07:37.020 tell drake to marry you yes you'll say the guys have leverage and to some extent they do because
00:07:44.120 there's the old idea okay so women are the gatekeepers of sex and uh men are the gatekeepers of 1.00
00:07:49.460 relationships because once you're you know you're screwed with that girl you decide if you're going to
00:07:53.000 continue things or not but you've got to have got in the door in the first place and who's who's
00:07:57.800 getting through the door well really it's the 80 20 rule isn't it it's the top 20 percentile of dudes
00:08:01.720 who are getting most of the leverage and then most men are swiped on left on dating apps because women 1.00
00:08:08.480 have the options most of those guys that you swipe left on probably swipe right on you and you're like
00:08:13.180 yeah not my style all those fishermen you swipe left on every guy holding a fish 0.98
00:08:19.140 but out here in the real world so you have men if they can just pick women off and have sex with 0.90
00:08:28.680 them they still ultimately they're going to discard them quickly and they ultimately go back to what 0.80
00:08:33.920 you were saying earlier that they have their primal hunting instincts they want the one that they
00:08:38.080 can't have and that'll be the girl they marry if they can catch her well the men want the one they 0.99
00:08:44.760 can't have that's there's some truth in that but i mean some dudes can't get anybody well there's
00:08:49.520 there's there's truth in that even for them and the fact is women have been convinced that sex 1.00
00:08:55.060 positivity is awesome and they're spreading your legs for everybody is going to make you happy it
00:08:59.760 doesn't and it just makes you a discardable another hole that's all that's well there's also the five
00:09:05.860 percent of the the let's talk about the anomaly here there's also five percent that are lifestyle
00:09:11.440 people like i said that's an anomaly that's a very small percentage what is lifestyle what's that 0.99
00:09:16.560 mean they're whores they're whores there's not whores whores get paid sluts don't i see so there's a 1.00
00:09:23.320 difference 1.00