304 Claims That Good Men Are STUPID
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Summary
In this episode, I sit down with my good friend and co-worker, to talk about dating and relationships. We talk about the differences between a woman and a man when it comes to dating, what it takes to be a good romantic partner, and why women are more likely to abuse power than men.
Transcript
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Do you know more people who enjoy dating or who complain about dating?
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Because they're not happy in their relationships.
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Now, if there was one thing that you wish that men understood better about women, what would it be?
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How to be more catering, because I'm tired of giving.
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So would you say that reciprocity is key in relationships?
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Now, do you feel like, who do you think typically invests more into building a relationship, the man or the woman?
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Well, like, what exactly does a woman do to kind of build a relationship as opposed to what a man does?
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Well, I feel like we're more supportive, first off.
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And we're going to do more because we want to see you succeed more.
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It's about, like, the guy doesn't treat me well.
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And I've also been that guy who's done all of that.
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And you are overlooked, overshadowed easily by the guy who treats you like shit and is an absolute douchebag.
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So, well, see, when I think of, like, traditional, it's like the guy picking you up, taking you out to dinner, holding the doors, paying for the date, you know, waiting for sex.
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I mean, yeah, I think that all that all, though, that lies on the woman, though, like, that's the power the woman has.
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And they'll put this ideal up on a pedestal of what a man should be and what they want.
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And then what they actually go seek out is the entire opposite.
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And as someone who there's a lot of men out there just have a good heart and just want to be heard and really appreciated for that.
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And a lot of times you don't feel like you can show that because once you show that compassion, once you show your true colors, it's looked at as a weakness.
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Men have to, you know, basically give up their entire lives to please a woman.
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And when men, you know, we're only worth what we can provide.
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Women are worth just for their looks or for, you know, basic things.
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But we need to provide everything in a relationship or in any aspect of life.
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And even if you're able to, you know, attract a woman, are you able to keep her happy, keep her satisfied?
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So you think that women are really more interested in the situation than they are in the actual man?
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Why do women divorce men 70 to 80 percent of the time, 90 percent if they're college educated?
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If women have more unconditional love, doesn't it seem like then men would?
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Well, from what I've seen that and usually I've seen that most of the divorces are instigated by women.
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Instead of men are, I don't really know the answer to that.
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I know on the other side, men are just more willing to stick something out and just work
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And if a man typically has to have looks, money, and status in order to attract lots of beautiful women,
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A woman does love a man, but a woman loves money more.
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So, do you think women are more interested in love or power?
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The power, it's the power that a woman has naturally.
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Like her superpower, basically that's what grabs a man.
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That's what makes a man want you to begin with.
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And what's the difference between using power and abusing power?
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Using it is basically just utilizing it for its purpose.
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Because abusing it is using it for your advantage, but it's going to be at a disadvantage for that other person.
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So, when it comes to the power of the punani, do you think that women are more likely to use or abuse that power?
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Because men are not really going to complain about it.
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It's very rare that I've ever felt that I can open up to a woman.
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Because usually once you do, it kind of comes off as red flags.
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They want someone who's got their shit together.
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So, it's very easy for women to kind of move on from a man if you're not meeting those attributes.
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So, if women became more aware of these double standards and men's issues, how much do you think would actually change?
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And women go, you don't know what you're talking about.
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So, you kind of brush it aside and try and find a way around it.
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I mean, have you found certain women who are more receptive to these issues than other women?
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I've got some great friends who are very empathetic, very compassionate.
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But as a whole, most men don't get the experience of that.
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And they aren't treated that way by the majority of women.
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Now, what are your thoughts on the expression, women don't care about a man's struggles.
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They just want to show up at the finish line and pick the winners.
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I honestly, you said women don't care about a man's struggles.
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Basically, modern women today don't care about a man's struggles.
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They just want to show up at the finish line and pick the winners.
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Because someone like me, I'm going to be there for you and support you.
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But these new age girls, I don't know about them.
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And I feel like they're only in it to get what they can get out of it.
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So, why do you think there's the expression, where have all the good men gone?
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But nobody's asking, where have all the good women gone?
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They're stupid because they're dating these younger women.
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So, the reason why there's so many good women out here is because we're being looked over.
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Would you think that when they say that the answer to where have all the good men gone is in your 20s?
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Like where it's like an expression where women would look over the good men in their 20s and pick the bad boys.
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And then in their 30s, they're like, oh, well, take me now.
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But it's like they're kind of salty because we overlooked them in our 20s.
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And I can say we overlook them in our 30s because I've been stuck with some bad men in the 30s.
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And technically, I feel like now it's kind of like there are really no good men.
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Now, has there ever been a man you wanted that you weren't able to get?
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Now, if you had the opportunity to hook up with Bruno Mars, would you take it?
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So, when a woman says that I'm not that type of girl, isn't she really saying I'm not that type of girl with you,
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but I am that type of girl with a guy like Bruno Mars?
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No, because I'm going to be myself with him regardless of who he is.
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So, if he's going to like me for who I am, then he's going to see that I'm a good woman regardless of anything.
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Do you think it's true that women will make rules for the wrong guy but break rules for the right guy?
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Well, I mean, sometimes we like the bad boys, so we tend to break the rules for them.
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Do you think that women tend to lust after bad boys but want to settle down with nice guys?
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They just have that quality that just is so attractive.
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So, then why would you want to be with a bad boy when they treat you badly?
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Because they do other things that the good ones don't.
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