JustPearlyThings - A 37 Years Old that Identifies as a 28 Years Old

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00:00:00.940 I'm Peachy Suze.

00:00:02.460 I'm 37.

00:00:03.880 I identify as 28.

00:00:05.240 I stick by that.

00:00:06.180 I don't care what people say about it.

00:00:08.160 This is delusion, you know.

00:00:09.740 You can't identify as 10 years younger.

00:00:13.560 I can identify.

00:00:14.380 Listen, if we can change genders, we can change age.

00:00:17.720 And pronouns.

00:00:18.360 Don't forget the pronouns.

00:00:19.460 Where do we, where, how, I don't think I'm wrong.

00:00:22.160 I identify as Jeff Bezos.

00:00:25.760 Can I have that million?

00:00:26.920 You know what?

00:00:28.080 Anna Delvey did it. 0.73

00:00:29.680 Why not?

00:00:30.540 Who?

00:00:31.120 Anna Delvey.

00:00:32.000 You don't know Anna Delvey?

00:00:33.020 No. 0.92

00:00:34.200 She's one of the greatest criminals. 1.00

00:00:37.320 Oh, my. 0.97

00:00:38.280 You don't know Anna?

00:00:39.360 She lied and said she was like a French heiress. 0.99

00:00:42.700 And she lived off of other people's wealth for years,

00:00:45.440 staying at, like, the Ritz and all that in New York.

00:00:47.700 Anna Delvey.

00:00:48.220 There's a whole Netflix special about her.

00:00:49.900 German-Russian.

00:00:50.880 Oh, I think I know who that is.

00:00:52.380 Pretending to be Anna.

00:00:53.240 The girl that made that fake.

00:00:54.840 She made the fake company?

00:00:56.560 Yes, yes.

00:00:57.640 Yes, yes.

00:00:58.940 Okay, yeah.

00:00:59.880 Fake billions.

00:01:01.060 You can identify as Jeff Bezos.

00:01:02.380 Hey, Jeff.

00:01:04.780 Are women needed in society? 1.00

00:01:07.840 Yes, yes.

00:01:09.180 So, so I had a tweet on Twitter.

00:01:12.200 Now, I've been tweeting a lot lately, guys.

00:01:14.660 Follow my Twitter.

00:01:15.640 Pearly things with a Z at the end.

00:01:18.000 Can you put it up on the screen?

00:01:19.520 So, I said, outside of reproduction, society, I can't read it.

00:01:27.080 I need you to put it up, if you don't mind.

00:01:30.980 I've got to remember.

00:01:32.500 Outside of reproduction, society would function fine without women. 1.00

00:01:37.400 Yeah, and I had a video.

00:01:39.580 Now, I know this sounds crazy.

00:01:41.380 You're like, what?

00:01:42.880 How could you think that?

00:01:44.740 But I put a very nice video to explain my views.

00:01:48.280 So, you know, pull the clip, King.

00:01:51.500 Enlighten us.

00:01:52.560 Yes.

00:01:58.560 All right, we got this couple, man, woman, right?

00:02:00.940 What does society, like, what do we need for society to work?

00:02:05.180 We need a house.

00:02:06.620 We might need the internet, right?

00:02:09.260 I mean, we don't need it, but we all, you know, we need a car, hypothetically.

00:02:14.560 You live in, like, I know, I can't draw.

00:02:16.400 I can't draw, so just, you know, bear with me.

00:02:19.220 We need electricity.

00:02:21.340 We need plumbing.

00:02:22.240 And what percent of women do these jobs? 1.00

00:02:24.500 I can't really think of one job where women dominate in that we need. 1.00

00:02:28.820 What up, guys?

00:02:29.540 Welcome to the Just Pearly Things YouTube channel.

00:02:32.980 Today, I am going to be giving a special whiteboard presentation called

00:02:37.300 Ladies, You Are Not As Special As You Think. 0.99

00:02:41.580 Wait, wait, actually, a better name for this would be

00:02:44.360 Ladies, You're Not As Important As You Think. 1.00

00:02:48.100 Yes.

00:02:48.340 Now, I get a lot of hate for, for, I got a lot of hate this week.

00:02:52.240 For a tweet that I said that said, men make society run and women don't. 1.00

00:02:57.240 Our jobs, we could, all the women could stop working tomorrow. 1.00

00:03:00.340 So, what do I mean by that?

00:03:01.800 What, if we have a society, right?

00:03:04.020 So, we got a guy here.

00:03:05.840 What, what do we, you know what, maybe I'll make it orange, so it's a little darker.

00:03:09.400 Another guy here.

00:03:11.000 All right, we got this couple, man, woman, right?

00:03:13.140 What does society, like, what do we need for society to work?

00:03:17.380 We need a house.

00:03:18.200 We might need the internet, right?

00:03:21.460 I mean, we don't, we don't need it, but we, we all, you know, we need a car, hypothetically.

00:03:26.740 If you live in like a, I know, I can't draw, I can't draw, so just, you know, bear with me.

00:03:31.360 We need electricity.

00:03:33.200 We need plumbing.

00:03:34.460 And what percent of women do these jobs? 1.00

00:03:36.740 So, it's roughly 90 plus percent of men are building the houses, they're building the cars, 0.78

00:03:43.260 they're doing the electricity, they're doing the plumbing.

00:03:46.440 I can't really think of one job where women dominate in that we need. 1.00

00:03:51.040 Now, this is what they'll tell me, right?

00:03:53.620 Because I got some, I got some haters.

00:03:56.240 Shocked.

00:03:56.640 They'll say, well, women work at the DMV. 1.00

00:04:00.360 Women are teachers and healthcare. 1.00

00:04:02.960 Now, here's, here's the problem.

00:04:04.500 All of these jobs, men could easily learn.

00:04:08.300 On top of that, healthcare is still roughly 50-50, and men still lead the way in healthcare

00:04:14.500 when it comes to the most competitive and hardest jobs like brain surgery, you know, research

00:04:20.320 development, even inventions, 80% men.

00:04:23.900 So, my question is, if, let's just say the green guy is the guy.

00:04:28.280 If the men are making the society run, why are women starting to out-earn men? 1.00

00:04:33.760 Because that's a new feminist talking point that I hear. 1.00

00:04:37.420 Oh, well, the women are coming up. 1.00

00:04:39.500 Now, you know, we're starting to out-earn men.

00:04:42.000 Now, I'm going to give you two reasons that women are out-earning men. 1.00

00:04:45.060 We can monetize.

00:04:46.480 And I'm going to give you an example of this at the highest levels.

00:04:49.560 Who offers more value to society?

00:04:52.120 Kim Kardashian or Elon Musk?

00:04:53.920 Kylie Jenner or Elon Musk?

00:04:55.880 Or Kylie Jenner, Bill Gates?

00:04:57.320 These are two female billionaires and two male billionaires.

00:05:01.500 The male billionaire is trying to put life on Mars, electric cars, you know, software companies,

00:05:08.120 where the female billionaires are monetizing beauty. 1.00

00:05:12.300 So, that's one way that women out-earn men. 1.00

00:05:14.300 And we can even see this in corporate America.

00:05:17.640 Like, women—I worked in sales. 0.99

00:05:19.660 As a woman, you have an inherent advantage in sales because you're a woman. 1.00

00:05:25.500 You're pretty to look at.

00:05:26.400 They're going to talk to you easier than a man. 0.99

00:05:28.520 And the men know this.

00:05:30.300 So, you know, typically when women do get ahead, it's in places where you can monetize your beauty. 1.00

00:05:36.240 Now, the second place reason, subsidizing.

00:05:39.480 There are a bunch of government jobs and grants that reward corporate America for hiring women. 1.00

00:05:46.300 So, we take tax-paying—the men's—and we give it to the women because, you know, they tax the men, 0.99

00:05:53.980 take the money from the men, and create grants and programs to reward corporate America for hiring women.

00:06:02.400 But does that mean the women are offering equally as much value?

00:06:06.400 No.

00:06:06.820 So, the crazy thing is, is that women are getting these high-paying jobs that men are really paying for. 0.99

00:06:13.880 And, guys, you're going to ask me the data numbers, but let's just look in real life.

00:06:19.240 What happened at Twitter?

00:06:20.460 Elon Musk said, okay, we've got to make money.

00:06:22.660 We're losing money.

00:06:23.500 Look at the before and after picture.

00:06:25.180 They got rid of all the women. 1.00

00:06:26.560 All the women were gone. 0.97

00:06:27.860 There was just a couple left.

00:06:29.020 Now, this is not to say that women have no place in society. 1.00

00:06:33.240 But as a whole, we all think we're more important than we are.

00:06:37.280 You know, there's always been exceptions in history for, you know, high-IQ women making advancements in society. 1.00

00:06:45.060 But it's the exception.

00:06:46.000 It's not the rule.

00:06:46.920 And unfortunately, I'm also really tired of us acting like teachers are like a godsend.

00:06:52.940 One, all of these—you know the crazy thing is the industries that women run are the industries we complain about. 1.00

00:06:59.380 So, health care is mostly women.

00:07:01.380 We're always complaining about how health care is not there to help you.

00:07:05.260 Same with teachers, okay, colleges.

00:07:08.520 The institutions run by women, we all complain about. 1.00

00:07:12.300 So, one, the teachers are these single feminist women that don't have kids of their own, so they just try to indoctrinate yours. 1.00

00:07:20.120 Health care.

00:07:21.240 Everybody complains about how health care gives you drugs and it doesn't fix the problem.

00:07:27.400 So, let's be honest.

00:07:28.760 If women left work and went back into the home, you would need less health care because you'd actually have the mother caring about what the kids eat. 1.00

00:07:37.340 We have a whole generation of people that don't know how to cook, that don't know proper nutrition because the mom, instead of being at home, was busy teaching other kids, working in health care, working at the DMV. 0.99

00:07:49.360 All right, then teaching, now you have the state teaching your kids where, again, if the mom was home, she could homeschool the kids and you wouldn't need any of these industries. 0.98

00:08:00.500 So, my point is, if women stopped working tomorrow, I actually, I think we would have an increase in efficiency, not a decrease, not a decrease. 1.00

00:08:08.920 And the problem is, we have all these women that think they're doing more than they are because they're hot and they make money off of being hot and they're subsidized by the government. 1.00

00:08:18.780 So, yeah, ladies, we are not as special as we think we are.

00:08:22.980 But, you know, could be wrong.

00:08:24.280 Let me know what you guys think of the comments.

00:08:26.380 So, let me know what you guys think.

00:08:29.880 You went in.

00:08:30.400 Am I off base?

00:08:32.120 Am I?

00:08:32.720 Maybe I'm wrong.

00:08:33.460 Tell me.

00:08:34.460 Feel free.

00:08:35.180 I'm going to say this, right?

00:08:36.360 First of all, I love the breakdown.

00:08:37.920 I love how you really thought about it, right?

00:08:40.580 But all I could think is, why do you need women in society? 1.00

00:08:44.040 Because women, again, do make the world go round. 1.00

00:08:47.660 But do you think a man would get out of bed and work and actually try to achieve good things if it weren't for trying to gain a woman's attention? 0.95

00:08:55.240 A man could sleep on a bench and be happy and sleep outside. 0.99

00:08:58.580 They earn money, do everything they do to impress women. 0.56

00:09:02.160 So, I was thinking about this, too.

00:09:04.560 Okay.

00:09:04.760 I was like, let me think.

00:09:06.180 What would society look like if women disappeared outside of, I know we give them the kids, but let's take the kids out of this, the family. 1.00

00:09:12.740 Okay.

00:09:13.140 And I was thinking, I'm like, would men still explore?

00:09:15.680 I think yes.

00:09:16.520 Would men still build things? 0.96

00:09:18.260 I think yes.

00:09:19.000 I think there's an innate nature of men that want to build things, explore the world.

00:09:24.080 And they did do this on a TV show.

00:09:27.200 They took the men on one island and they put the women on the one island and they said, survive.

00:09:32.540 And the women had to be saved within a day.

00:09:35.260 The men had, like, water going.

00:09:37.180 They had houses.

00:09:38.500 They all had their assigned roles where the women were just, like, arguing about who could do what. 1.00

00:09:42.660 And so, I do think we wouldn't have Roombas because I think they built those for women. 1.00

00:09:48.000 I think we wouldn't have a dishwasher.

00:09:50.160 But I think, and everything would probably be plainer.

00:09:53.100 Like, we wouldn't have, like, guys don't see the point of these pillows, stuff like that.

00:09:56.660 But I think we would still have a society.

00:09:59.480 No, definitely not.

00:10:00.660 Like, there's something about a woman, right? 0.99

00:10:02.760 Men, they have egos.

00:10:04.120 So, when you get in these rooms with men, and let's say they're trying to even make simple decisions, what are they going to do?

00:10:09.660 Sit there and argue with each other because they're going to want to be right.

00:10:11.900 This is when you need that woman in society who is the level head to be, like, hey, here goes, this is it. 1.00

00:10:17.820 Okay, let's, let's, no, no, let's take this, okay?

00:10:20.740 Who argues more, men or women?

00:10:23.940 Let's, let's think of.

00:10:25.460 Both.

00:10:25.780 It really depends on the character of the person, isn't it?

00:10:28.520 No, I think, I think, I think women love to argue more than men. 1.00

00:10:33.120 Every war has been started by a man, though. 0.64

00:10:35.100 Not true, actually.

00:10:36.180 That's what they tell you.

00:10:37.260 Last five, no, no, no.

00:10:39.160 See, I looked into this stuff.

00:10:40.540 And it's okay, I don't expect you to know this.

00:10:42.640 You're just, you know, off the street.

00:10:44.240 You're, like, walking in.

00:10:44.980 Yeah, we're just pretty girls, you know.

00:10:45.620 It's all right.

00:10:46.120 We're just candy.

00:10:46.800 I can do.

00:10:47.480 It's all right. 0.83

00:10:47.840 No brain.

00:10:48.420 The last 500 years, they took the female rulers and the male rulers. 0.98

00:10:53.280 And do you know who is more likely to wage war?

00:10:55.780 The women. 0.81

00:10:56.880 So, this idea that, like, men, and I, and I tell you why I think that is, women have no consequence for anything when it comes to violence because the men will fight for them. 1.00

00:11:06.040 That's why you see the women, like, talking shit at the bar. 1.00

00:11:08.980 The men don't do that. 1.00

00:11:10.180 Like, the men will fight for the women. 0.79

00:11:12.940 Yes.

00:11:13.700 In the UK Parliament as well, though, when we've gone into Iraq and Syria, the female MPs were significantly more likely to vote for the intervention.

00:11:24.520 And I think, actually, perhaps with them, there was an element of social acceptability.

00:11:32.120 You know, they were whipped to do it by the party whips.

00:11:35.400 And it was, you know, when we went into Iraq, we had this fake story about weapons of mass destruction.

00:11:41.460 And it was, like, you know, the correct response at the time based on the blatantly fake evidence that someone with a more logical, rational perspective who maybe has spent time engaging with more historical literature, which, you know, these kind of special interests are more likely to be held by men, especially in the House of Commons.

00:12:09.000 Whereas women go in there wanting to represent women and, you know, trump all these feminist causes. 1.00

00:12:16.320 It's interesting how you separate, like, okay, women are good at this, men are good at this. 0.93

00:12:21.140 It's actually how the life treats us.

00:12:23.560 And probably I believe that a lot of things we take from and how we grow is from our childhood and our experiences in childhood.

00:12:30.700 So it's absolutely not necessary that the man is good at something and the woman is good at cooking. 0.95

00:12:36.620 It can be the other way around.

00:12:38.200 I am crap at physics and my son is, like, super mega wizard at physics.

00:12:43.460 I would never be able to homeschool him to the level of physics that he actually deserves. 0.84

00:12:48.920 So this is, there are specialists.

00:12:51.480 I looked, I actually, I learned something today.

00:12:54.360 So apparently the education system has been falling since the 80s.

00:12:58.940 It's been getting worse.

00:13:00.240 But it's not women, it's politics. 1.00

00:13:01.980 No, no, no.

00:13:02.620 I'll tell you why.

00:13:03.560 I'll tell you why.

00:13:04.340 Actually, we have, we have a teacher and a teacher's aide.

00:13:07.180 So it used to be male dominated before the 80s.

00:13:09.900 And after the 80s, it was female dominated.

00:13:11.860 You have to know this stuff, right?

00:13:13.340 Yeah.

00:13:13.680 And so now I'm like, wait, when the women came in, we taught worse than the guys. 1.00

00:13:17.860 And we had two women.

00:13:20.920 No.

00:13:21.540 I don't believe so.

00:13:22.600 Our schools where I am from, which is, it's okay to mention, I'm from West London.

00:13:27.340 A lot of our schools are outstanding.

00:13:29.460 And the children come out and they're going to universities and they're going to men's society.

00:13:33.580 And I have to disagree with you.

00:13:35.180 But the test scores don't.

00:13:37.440 It's in the US too.

00:13:38.440 Their test scores have been falling since like the 70s.

00:13:40.860 We can't even pass 11th grade tests from back then.

00:13:44.840 Maybe I'm just blessed to live around smart people.

00:13:48.860 Yeah.

00:13:49.260 So my premise is, I really think if women all went home tomorrow, I think society would function fine. 1.00

00:13:56.500 I'm not saying some industries wouldn't take a hit.

00:13:58.780 I think some would.

00:14:00.600 But I think HR departments would disappear tomorrow.

00:14:04.720 Yeah.

00:14:05.000 Yeah.

00:14:05.240 Who's filing the HR claim?

00:14:07.020 It's not the men.

00:14:07.820 It's the women. 1.00

00:14:08.860 Come on.

00:14:09.180 Everybody.

00:14:10.080 HR would disappear tomorrow.

00:14:11.940 I think society would still run.

00:14:16.440 But if the men stopped working, I think that society would crash and burn. 0.88

00:14:20.860 We'd maybe survive 30 days.

00:14:22.520 Who leads in the Ponzi scheme game?

00:14:25.100 Men.

00:14:25.280 I want to.

00:14:25.680 So do you really trust a lot of men with money?

00:14:27.740 Not me.

00:14:28.500 I trust it more than women.

00:14:29.700 We have 80% of the debt.

00:14:31.720 Women? 1.00

00:14:32.180 Yeah.

00:14:32.380 Yeah.

00:14:32.620 Women have 80% of the debt, even though we make less money. 1.00

00:14:35.180 We are not good with money.

00:14:36.300 I never had a loan in my life.

00:14:36.580 That's because.

00:14:37.080 I'm not talking about you.

00:14:37.960 Not talking about you.

00:14:38.680 I'm talking about us as a group.

00:14:39.420 I'm good with money.

00:14:40.380 Yes.

00:14:40.740 But I'm looking at us as a.

00:14:41.580 Women in my surroundings, they don't. 1.00

00:14:44.060 They are brilliant.

00:14:44.820 They're so good.

00:14:45.780 I'm looking about us as a whole, as a group.

00:14:48.340 But if you look at women as a whole, 80% of us are in debt probably because they have 1.00

00:14:52.680 a household to take care of because the men got up and left.

00:14:55.980 Not true.

00:14:56.920 If they have a household, if they have children and they have to take on the leadership role,

00:15:00.800 especially if they have to be in society working, of course they're going to be in debt.

00:15:03.220 Well, the men didn't leave.

00:15:04.220 The women leave. 0.99

00:15:05.140 And that's really clear.

00:15:06.540 70 to 80% of the time, women file for divorce. 1.00

00:15:09.160 And a lot of times, we make children with men that are not husbands.

00:15:13.960 What about daddies who disappear at the pregnancy?

00:15:16.860 What about daddies who disappear as soon as they find out that the partner is pregnant? 0.99

00:15:20.700 Well, I found that the majority of the time when that happens, it's because a woman's 1.00

00:15:24.640 in some sort of situationship.

00:15:26.680 She's trying to trap a man. 1.00

00:15:28.360 She's pregnant. 1.00

00:15:29.600 And then now she's like, maybe he'll commit.

00:15:31.700 And he's like, no, I will not, lady. 1.00

00:15:34.640 Now, now, but, but, but number two, that's, that's, um, that's not common though.

00:15:41.140 Because the majority of the time men, men do stay.

00:15:43.560 So with four different, if a man has four different kids with four different women, he's not daddy to any of them. 1.00

00:15:50.020 Well, that's, that's four, that's four stupid women and one stupid man. 1.00

00:15:53.740 Yeah, it's only women's fault, absolutely. 1.00

00:15:55.860 It is, it is.

00:15:56.520 He's just so smart.

00:15:57.200 I do, I do think it's whoever, I do think it, women, you are in charge of who your baby father is. 1.00

00:16:03.060 I think that is your fault.

00:16:04.560 Don't hit the player, hit the game, right?

00:16:06.760 And at the end of the day, you, these, I always say it, that these men always come as, everybody comes into a relationship with their representative.

00:16:12.780 Hey, I'm going to show you my good side.

00:16:14.420 But it is facts, facts, facts, facts, that once a woman gets pregnant, that's it. 0.98

00:16:19.200 The relationship literally goes into the toilet after that.

00:16:22.140 After the woman, like the woman switches up? 0.90

00:16:24.300 No, no, after, after a child, anytime you bring a child into a situation, that's it.

00:16:28.840 Like, bring a baby in, everybody's stressed, bills go up, lack of intimacy, there's so many things that lead to that.

00:16:35.000 So, men are not, if women are leaving, it's only because men have checked out of the situation and checked out of their duties a long time before.

00:16:42.580 No, no, they list the reasons they leave, and it's, it's like irreconcilable differences.

00:16:48.720 It's money, sometimes infidelity.

00:16:51.260 They don't even say on which side, but it's pretty split on fidelity.

00:16:54.660 It's roughly 50.

00:16:55.640 Women actually are out cheating men under 30. 1.00

00:16:59.340 Yeah, women are out cheating. 1.00

00:17:00.840 Good thing I'm over 30.

00:17:01.320 Yeah, yeah.

00:17:03.560 Tinder did his job.

00:17:05.220 But I'm saying, like, what you're saying isn't true, that the men are leaving, it's the women leaving.

00:17:09.660 Yeah, but they're filing for divorce. 0.93

00:17:11.240 They're filing for the divorce, but what's leading to the divorce?

00:17:14.260 If I'm a woman at home with your, your kids, and I'm taking care of the household, and I'm being faithful to you, and just because you're paying the bills, you're out, you know, sleeping with every Sarah and Jessica that walks by.

00:17:25.340 So, so I'll give you a couple numbers.

00:17:26.920 That's only a small percentage of men that can sleep with multiple women.

00:17:30.620 So it's only like 15 to 20 percent of men, maybe 30 tops.

00:17:34.460 I mean, it's, so the majority of men cannot sleep with multiple women, so it's not them cheating.

00:17:40.320 Well, even if they sleep with one woman, it's still cheating.

00:17:42.460 Like women, no, no, no, I'm saying like, like women find 80 percent of men as unattractive, ugly, not, not just okay, not decent. 0.98

00:17:49.800 We find 80 percent of men as ugly. 0.99

00:17:51.440 I love ugly men. 1.00

00:17:52.640 I sleep with ugly men all the time. 0.99

00:17:54.060 So just because you find ugly doesn't mean we're not cheating with them. 0.98

00:17:57.640 That we're not cheating with them?

00:17:59.360 Well, I mean, I'm not a cheater, but I'm saying like as women in whole, like a lot of times women were emotional cheaters. 0.59

00:18:04.880 We don't necessarily cheat.

00:18:06.220 There's, you know, some women might cheat off of looks, but when we decide to step out of a relationship, it is always because emotionally at home, something is being neglected. 0.97

00:18:13.980 And we found that in somebody else.

00:18:15.900 Yes, thing is both ways, men and women. 0.92

00:18:17.800 When you lack something in the relationship, you look for it elsewhere.

00:18:21.220 If you try to deal with it first and you ask and you address the issue and you try to resolve it within and then another, you know, don't know, 10, 8 years later and nothing has happened to be resolved.

00:18:33.240 Just promises, promises, promises.

00:18:34.940 Then this is where infidelity comes in.

00:18:36.920 And I mean, it's sad, but.

00:18:38.240 But it's interesting because it's like you guys, whenever the woman does something wrong, like she leaves or she cheats, it's always like, well, why?

00:18:45.840 It's men the same way.

00:18:47.040 That's why I just said.

00:18:47.800 But if a man, no, no, no, you guys didn't give that benefit of the doubt to the dad who left.

00:18:51.940 There wasn't no, why did he leave?

00:18:53.580 What, four times?

00:18:54.480 The one, that one.

00:18:56.220 You know what it is?

00:18:57.000 Because it's expected of a man. 0.71

00:18:58.360 Like you expect, it's very hard.

00:19:00.300 Like you got to think about it.

00:19:01.120 When the earth was made, men back then were having multiple wives. 0.99

00:19:05.560 So now we have this thing where, okay, you know, they're bringing polygamy back.

00:19:09.920 But before they really brought polygamy back, now we have this thing where, you know, it's one and one. 0.73

00:19:14.820 Well, that's not in a man's nature.

00:19:16.300 Well, it's actually, women are picking polygamy. 1.00

00:19:18.540 I actually think that monogamy benefits more men than benefits women.

00:19:22.620 Because when we're in monogamy, that means like more men are getting laid.

00:19:26.000 That means like 60, 70.

00:19:27.860 But it's funny.

00:19:28.640 No, I'm serious.

00:19:29.560 It's funny.

00:19:30.180 One out of three men are virgins.

00:19:31.420 They haven't had sex in the past year.

00:19:32.820 And that's primarily the switches when women have more mate selection. 1.00

00:19:36.720 So 100 years ago, that was when women started to move into apartments and be able to basically like be on their own. 0.94

00:19:42.120 That makes sense?

00:19:42.680 Before it was like, yeah, before it was like dad's house, husband's house.

00:19:46.000 There was no in between. 0.99

00:19:47.060 And it's funny because the more mate selection we have, the stupider we are. 0.99

00:19:50.780 Yeah, we'll go for a, yes, yes. 0.99

00:19:52.400 But it's always, the bigger the menu, you don't know what to eat, right?

00:19:55.060 We'll go for a smaller and smaller percentage of men. 0.99

00:19:57.520 So it's like, we'll go for 10, 20, 30% of men.

00:19:59.720 I've had so many girls come on the show and say they've dated a celebrity. 0.99

00:20:02.240 They're average chicks. 1.00

00:20:03.900 You think she was the only one?

00:20:05.380 How many girlfriends does Chris Brown, how many girlfriends do they break?

00:20:08.060 How many girlfriends still is like all of these high value, you know, guys have.

00:20:12.020 But did he know he's dating her too?

00:20:14.420 That part.

00:20:15.580 She knew she's dating.

00:20:16.820 I know it's dated.

00:20:17.800 Like they say dated.

00:20:18.540 But the fact that you know this shows it's common, right?

00:20:22.220 Where the girl's like, we're dating. 0.78

00:20:23.940 But we outnumber men.

00:20:25.360 So really it's the men that have more choices.

00:20:27.300 It's like dating is like one to eight.

00:20:29.420 It's like one man from every eight women.

00:20:31.300 No, it's not.

00:20:31.740 It's 55% men.

00:20:34.180 It's 45% women. 1.00

00:20:35.320 It's not.

00:20:35.940 Sorry, it's the other way around.

00:20:37.140 55% women, 45% men.

00:20:39.140 But if you actually look like eligible men when it comes to dating, if you look like eligible

00:20:43.840 men, not even just age, the ones that are not in jail, that are not dead.

00:20:50.580 What person of the population do you think is in jail?

00:20:52.860 I like that.

00:20:53.380 No, no, but I'm not.

00:20:54.200 Like if you're running into men in jail, that's you probably.

00:20:56.280 But when you really look at like.

00:20:58.000 Is this a comment?

00:20:58.740 Do you date men in jail?

00:21:00.200 I've dated men in jail before.

00:21:01.820 I live in New York.

00:21:02.620 You have to date a man in jail.

00:21:03.760 No, you do not.

00:21:04.960 You don't have a choice.

00:21:05.960 No.

00:21:06.840 Why were you in jail?

00:21:08.420 Why were you in jail?

00:21:09.560 I wasn't in jail.

00:21:11.260 I'm a good criminal.

00:21:12.340 No, I'm not in jail.

00:21:13.440 You're the pro.

00:21:14.340 Yeah, I wasn't in jail.

00:21:15.400 But of course, you might talk to a guy.

00:21:17.660 You literally can go to the corner store in New York and get locked up.

00:21:20.820 Like there is no, you know, so you can be dating a guy and he gets locked up.

00:21:24.760 That's happened to me a couple of times.

00:21:26.260 More than once.

00:21:26.620 It's 1% of the population.

00:21:29.000 For what?

00:21:29.460 That's in jail.

00:21:30.300 Yeah.

00:21:30.460 But I'm saying if you actually think of like eligible single bachelors, right?

00:21:34.320 Who's not married.

00:21:35.660 Who's not dead.

00:21:36.300 Who's not in jail.

00:21:36.460 I guess one out of every 20 for a lifetime.

00:21:38.620 So 5%.

00:21:39.500 And who's not.

00:21:40.600 This is like taking starter of the menu.

00:21:42.720 All the men now.

00:21:44.060 And I don't want to bring it here.

00:21:45.480 I don't want to offend anybody. 0.78

00:21:46.280 But there's a lot of gay men in the world now.

00:21:48.300 So if you add that into it, who's really left for women? 0.99

00:21:52.300 Single men that are actually left for women. 0.91

00:21:54.460 I mean, I would argue what women are left for men. 0.97

00:21:57.300 A lot.

00:21:58.280 No, no.

00:21:59.080 If you look.

00:21:59.480 Okay.

00:21:59.660 If you look by.

00:22:00.460 And a lot of people think I hate on women.

00:22:01.940 But it's just if you look at an evolutionary point of view.

00:22:04.980 Most women today would be cast out. 1.00

00:22:08.280 Yeah.

00:22:08.740 Based on what?

00:22:09.820 Age for one.

00:22:11.580 Like over 30.

00:22:12.540 You were kind of done.

00:22:14.500 Kids from other marriages.

00:22:16.300 Or guys.

00:22:17.420 Done.

00:22:18.400 Not being a virgin on your wedding night.

00:22:20.580 Your chance of being married was like.

00:22:22.240 No.

00:22:22.560 You're a concubine at that point. 0.99

00:22:24.380 But 95% of women are not virgins on their wedding.

00:22:27.340 I'm not saying we have to be.

00:22:28.680 But I'm saying.

00:22:29.700 If we're going from a historical point of view.

00:22:32.560 Most women today would have been thrown out. 1.00

00:22:35.500 Yeah.

00:22:36.100 But.

00:22:36.480 Because it was chauvinist male society.

00:22:38.580 That's why.

00:22:39.160 No.

00:22:39.640 What percentage of male are virgin on their wedding? 0.99

00:22:42.600 Well.

00:22:42.940 But women. 1.00

00:22:43.260 But women don't. 1.00

00:22:43.980 But women don't select for that. 1.00

00:22:46.060 Like women don't give a shit about a man's virginity. 1.00

00:22:48.540 True. 1.00

00:22:48.840 Women don't care about purity. 1.00

00:22:50.240 So it's not the same.

00:22:51.140 Stability is what.

00:22:52.340 Well like dirty.

00:22:53.040 Most women after a certain age go for. 1.00

00:22:54.700 Yeah.

00:22:55.100 But women still out earn men. 1.00

00:22:56.980 You know it's funny.

00:22:57.420 Because women. 1.00

00:22:58.260 Like if we're going to go for traditional values.

00:23:00.100 Like maybe men don't make. 0.56

00:23:01.540 Like enough for one income.

00:23:03.240 But they still make more money than women. 1.00

00:23:06.640 But I would say most women. 0.99

00:23:07.740 Are more sexually experienced than most men.

00:23:11.760 I doubt that.

00:23:13.340 This doesn't sound right.

00:23:15.020 Well.

00:23:15.420 It doesn't mean I'm not wrong. 1.00

00:23:16.200 Well because I.

00:23:16.960 Yeah because I just.

00:23:17.840 One out of three men are either virgins or having had sex in the past year.

00:23:20.660 I don't see that same trend.

00:23:21.880 I don't see that same trend in women. 1.00

00:23:23.520 When you when you look at those statistics you got to remember that's just a like a small

00:23:28.560 population that they sit there and and you know study and ask these questions.

00:23:32.760 So this is not in.

00:23:34.140 No.

00:23:34.460 They got it from doctors.

00:23:37.440 I think that's how they gathered that data.

00:23:39.400 It was from.

00:23:39.760 Everybody lies to their doctors.

00:23:41.320 It's like are you kidding me.

00:23:42.840 Well I bet we can argue they're lying by 10 percent but if they do it in multiple cities

00:23:46.500 and they're coming up with the same conclusion in the West you start to see a trend.

00:23:50.340 But this is right.

00:23:50.980 Do you know what I'm saying?

00:23:51.380 Because like like I mean if you want to take like body count statistics for women tend to 1.00

00:23:56.120 be way more variable than like men because again they'll do it in different cities to

00:24:00.460 see.

00:24:01.660 But which is but it's still a targeted populated audience.

00:24:05.300 It's not like in whole because if you actually look at it in whole and you like fairly went

00:24:11.560 to every single different group every cultural race wise all of that those statistics would

00:24:17.620 be so much different.

00:24:19.220 But they sit there and it's a certain audience they target so they can get the results that

00:24:23.500 they want to get.

00:24:24.160 So in multiples it's like so in multiple cities they're all talking to each other and saying

00:24:29.140 try to get these results.

00:24:30.660 When are we talking about worldwide?

00:24:32.320 So when you're in the West it's like they've done it in different cities and it's roughly

00:24:36.380 the same.

00:24:37.140 Europe?

00:24:37.760 US?

00:24:38.680 UK and US.

00:24:40.020 Okay.

00:24:40.420 So if you look in the UK and US right did they sit there and go to the same demographic

00:24:45.300 as far as like hospitals or whatever like did they sit there and go to maybe all of the

00:24:50.440 well-to-do hospitals or were they going to the hood as well accidents?

00:24:54.160 Were they going into every single region, like different cultural regions to get these

00:25:00.260 statistics?

00:25:00.840 Probably not.

00:25:01.400 There was probably one set group that they wanted to get.

00:25:04.500 So what numbers would you like to go off of that?

00:25:06.580 I mean like I said it's different.

00:25:09.220 I'm a black woman so the statistics that are given to us is actually 1 in 23 for black

00:25:15.580 women dating a single black man.

00:25:17.380 So it's, that's why I say it all depends.

00:25:19.260 Wait, 1 in 23 what?

00:25:20.200 Like as far as like to get a single man, 1 in 23 for black women to get a single black 1.00

00:25:26.300 man.

00:25:26.940 Like that's what we're looking at.

00:25:28.300 23 women at one man. 0.99

00:25:29.600 23 women at one man. 0.99

00:25:30.840 Wow.

00:25:31.840 A straight man.

00:25:33.800 I thought it was like 45% were single childless and in the middle class of black men.

00:25:39.660 I could be wrong but I thought it was like 35 to 45%.

00:25:42.420 But a single straight black man. 0.94

00:25:46.180 Single straight black man. 0.55

00:25:48.840 This is why it's so hard.

00:25:50.300 This is why so many black women are unmarried and it is hard for us to get married because 1.00

00:25:53.660 we are fighting with thousands of other women just to get one man. 1.00

00:25:59.100 Well, but, but this is the problem as women, it's like, we'll kind of blame the men instead 1.00

00:26:03.600 of looking at the quality of women because the trend of women not getting married is across

00:26:08.100 the board.

00:26:08.600 Like, like I think white women, it's 50% like, and, and every generation it's coming 1.00

00:26:13.540 less and less and less.

00:26:14.740 So a lot of times it's like, well, we'll blame the men when it's like, we don't look at the

00:26:18.260 quality of the women, but these are good. 0.56

00:26:20.220 These are good quality women. 1.00

00:26:21.320 These are doctors.

00:26:22.160 These are lawyers.

00:26:22.760 These are good, good, good.

00:26:24.540 But you're looking at the things that like men want in like that women want in 0.99

00:26:28.980 men, like men don't care about your career. 0.88

00:26:31.080 They don't care if you're a doctor.

00:26:32.060 They don't care if you're a lawyer.

00:26:33.000 They don't care if you make money.

00:26:34.040 They just want you to be hot.

00:26:35.300 But which is true.

00:26:36.020 But think about it.

00:26:37.140 If you're a man and you have 20 different hot women in front of you, it's like the

00:26:41.980 Hunger Games.

00:26:42.620 You're literally playing the Hunger Games to get a man these days.

00:26:45.620 Just, I think that you're kind of removed from the average male's experience dating.

00:26:51.940 Because I don't think that's the average guy's experience dating at all.

00:26:56.640 That what there's many women to choose from? 1.00

00:26:58.980 No.

00:26:59.680 The average, ooh, the average Joe definitely, there's definitely, if you look at each man,

00:27:04.980 right, the average man, he's at least probably talking to six women.

00:27:08.200 No, no.

00:27:08.920 You don't think so?

00:27:09.540 No, because the data shows, the number one way people under 30 are meeting is dating apps.

00:27:14.660 Yeah.

00:27:15.020 So, so a lot of people say dating apps isn't real life, but it is now.

00:27:18.360 That's the number one way that people are meeting under 30.

00:27:21.120 So what percent of the time do you think women swipe right and say, yes, I'd like to go on 1.00

00:27:25.460 a date with this man?

00:27:27.340 Just swipe.

00:27:28.040 Just a swipe.

00:27:28.720 Not even what percent.

00:27:29.740 Yeah.

00:27:29.940 It's vanishingly small, isn't it?

00:27:31.680 Like what?

00:27:32.080 One in 20 pictures or something like that?

00:27:34.020 One in 20.

00:27:34.760 Okay.

00:27:34.920 What do you think?

00:27:35.460 No idea.

00:27:36.460 I've never been on one.

00:27:37.400 Just guess.

00:27:37.620 But I have actually friends who met on Tinder and got married.

00:27:40.880 Okay.

00:27:41.240 But what percent?

00:27:42.200 What percent?

00:27:42.660 What a percent of?

00:27:43.680 Of men do you think?

00:27:45.060 Oh, how many pics she swipes until she says, yeah.

00:27:47.280 Yeah.

00:27:47.400 What percent?

00:27:49.920 Let's say 35.

00:27:51.420 Okay.

00:27:51.840 35.

00:27:52.340 What do you think?

00:27:53.340 As an avid dating app user, I would probably say less than 10%.

00:27:58.640 It's less than 10%.

00:27:59.980 What do you think?

00:28:00.740 Yeah.

00:28:01.020 I'd say one in 50.

00:28:02.580 It's 5%.

00:28:03.800 So if women, the number one way people are meeting is dating apps, and we're only swiping 1.00

00:28:09.440 right 5% of the time, how is a guy going to talk to six chicks at a time? 0.54

00:28:14.920 Because as soon as you walk out your building, yo, ma, hey, ma, can I talk to you?

00:28:18.820 Volume.

00:28:19.060 They approach women. 0.93

00:28:19.880 Volume of possibilities.

00:28:21.760 We try to date smarter.

00:28:22.960 As women, we go on these dating apps a lot of time because it's easier for us to not waste 0.98

00:28:27.200 our time in public.

00:28:28.900 Some men may be intimidated to come up and walk to a woman and be like, hey, let me come

00:28:32.500 hit on you or whatever like that.

00:28:33.800 Okay, so how many girls does a guy typically have to approach to get a number?

00:28:39.680 I would say probably like every 15 to 20 girls, maybe. 0.96

00:28:44.040 15 to 20 girls.

00:28:44.940 I would say.

00:28:45.860 Are you?

00:28:46.620 Yeah, I mean, it depends on someone's ability and how much reference they have.

00:28:50.140 But I mean, if I was out of a guy and seeing him throw it down, he's probably going to

00:28:54.140 do 10 interactions until he finds one.

00:28:56.680 What kind of average are we talking about, though?

00:28:59.140 Are we talking about, you know, the average for Johnny or are we talking about the average

00:29:04.820 for all men?

00:29:05.900 Average guy.

00:29:06.400 All men, how many women are they going to have to approach to get a number? 0.97

00:29:13.160 And like, they're not going to, you know, like, there's no trickery.

00:29:16.580 Like, oh, I've got a parcel that's yours.

00:29:20.540 Can I borrow your number?

00:29:21.540 Like, this is legitimate.

00:29:22.860 We know what it's about.

00:29:25.420 I'm working with these guys all the time.

00:29:27.640 I mean, I think that there's, well, yeah, but I don't think they're average men, Johnny.

00:29:33.400 You've been taking them to India to meet the Dalai Lama.

00:29:36.060 That's a certain sex, but that's not for all the guys.

00:29:41.040 To be quite honest, I think that there are a huge number of men who could walk around

00:29:49.140 asking women for their number for the rest of their lives and they wouldn't get one. 1.00

00:29:54.020 So you said you do this all the time?

00:29:56.460 Yeah, I've had 15 years of experience doing this.

00:29:58.340 Okay, tell me your experience.

00:30:00.500 Well, I mean, you know, you've got the opportunity to meet someone for the first time as soon

00:30:03.840 as you leave your house, and that's what we like to encourage people to do, men or women.

00:30:08.580 When it comes to strategy, you've got to have a bit of an audit on how you live in your life,

00:30:13.420 where you're spending it, who you're spending it with, and be honest.

00:30:17.880 Is it giving you a good return on your time?

00:30:20.000 If not, let's move some parts around to get that better return on your time.

00:30:24.200 Who's giving you the access to the demographic that you want?

00:30:27.540 And also, you need to improve your confidence.

00:30:29.680 You need to do it.

00:30:30.640 You need to start talking to people.

00:30:32.160 You're going to get shot down.

00:30:33.180 It's going to hurt, but you're going to get better.

00:30:36.120 And then eventually, you're going to show up as the version that they want to experience of you.

00:30:39.360 And that's when you start getting a high percentage of their contact details.

00:30:44.080 I think, though, there is a real difficulty for young men in particular.

00:30:49.380 They've been fed these messages that women are all terrified of them. 0.95

00:30:53.880 And a lot of women are actually terrified of them.

00:30:56.120 Feminism is teaching women that actually, if a man gets a chance, he will want to, S-A-U or whatever. 1.00

00:31:06.800 And so, yeah, boys or young men are scared to try because they don't want to scare a woman. 0.99

00:31:18.320 And, you know, if they don't try, then they're not going to build the confidence.

00:31:21.840 They're not going to build the resilience.

00:31:23.020 They're never going to learn how to do it.

00:31:25.240 And it's not only the societal messages.

00:31:27.540 We've got, you know, the force of the law behind, you know, kind of misogyny as a hate crime laws and all of this kind of stuff that is threatening.

00:31:37.300 And certainly HR departments, you know, you go and ask one of your colleagues who, if you're, say, a man who's not overly confident,

00:31:45.680 but he knows this woman because he works with her all the time, so maybe he could ask her for a coffee.

00:31:51.960 If she responds badly and goes to HR, he's lost his job.

00:31:55.440 It's scary.

00:31:57.140 I know someone that got kicked out of a gym for looking at a girl the wrong way. 0.77

00:32:01.180 He got kicked out of a gym.

00:32:02.560 I bet that the evidence was on her phone as she filmed herself for TikTok.

00:32:08.380 No, you know what's crazy?

00:32:09.640 She was wearing the sluttiest outfit. 1.00

00:32:11.960 And so women will wear these trashy outfits that clearly men are going to want to look. 1.00

00:32:17.460 To the office, obviously.

00:32:17.980 And then they get mad that when they look, it's like, what did you think was going to happen?

00:32:21.680 It's like at the gym, yeah?

00:32:23.060 They do stretches overly extensively in your face.

00:32:26.500 Like me as a girl, I'm like, oh, my God, let me go.

00:32:30.280 But you have to remember, we as women are fighting for equality.

00:32:33.980 I know people hate that, right?

00:32:35.200 I'm not a feminist. 0.96

00:32:36.080 Sometimes I do have feminist ways. 1.00

00:32:37.400 I'm not a feminist. 0.96

00:32:37.980 But I do believe that you should have the right to wear what you want.

00:32:41.600 If I want to go, I'm going to be hot in the gym, right?

00:32:44.100 So why can't I work out in something that small?

00:32:46.800 What am I supposed to wear?

00:32:47.440 A sweatpants and a nightgown?

00:32:48.900 A bikini?

00:32:49.340 Yeah.

00:32:49.940 To work out because men can't control their eyes. 0.75

00:32:51.820 Because I respect people who are out of the gym.

00:32:53.760 You can wear what you want, but don't whine about the consequences.

00:32:57.060 Yeah, don't tell them.

00:32:57.800 Oh, my God. 0.68

00:32:58.380 I hate whiners.

00:33:01.460 It's like, okay, that's fine. 1.00

00:33:04.120 Go dress like a hooker. 1.00

00:33:06.640 But don't whine when men look. 1.00

00:33:08.700 I agree with you to an extent.

00:33:10.420 But, too, I don't think women can ever be equal to men. 1.00

00:33:13.400 Never.

00:33:13.860 But we don't need to be.

00:33:14.840 We can be equal as an understanding.

00:33:17.100 We are not the same.

00:33:18.300 We should celebrate our differences and our similarities and work together as a team and not say, oh, my God, I want to be.

00:33:23.920 I don't want to be the same like, dude, I want to be me.

00:33:27.580 And that is okay.

00:33:28.580 It's just you find your own ways to work as a team.

00:33:30.940 And this separation of like, oh, my God, let me be like a man.

00:33:34.940 But then if he doesn't pay the full bill, right, when he invites me for the dinner, I get offended because he asked me to split 50-50.

00:33:41.180 But it's not about that.

00:33:42.340 I can pay for a whole dinner today and he can pay for it tomorrow.

00:33:45.220 And it's not about offense.

00:33:46.500 It's about communication.

00:33:49.360 But when you were saying like you're fighting for equality, I don't think women can ever be equal to men because men will always have to enforce. 0.98

00:33:55.940 Like women will always have to ask men to enforce our rights. 1.00

00:33:58.960 I don't.

00:33:59.220 The thing is, I don't think women. 1.00

00:34:00.640 Because how would you enforce it?

00:34:02.500 So if I said, OK, I want men to stop looking at me in the gym, how would we enforce that?

00:34:08.580 I'd have to go to the men and say enforce this.

00:34:10.760 You go to women's gym only. 1.00

00:34:12.060 No, but I'm saying in a society, how do you how do you get the gym?

00:34:16.760 Yeah.

00:34:17.200 How do you how do you if I wanted to start a woman's gym, then how do I how do I start it? 1.00

00:34:20.960 Easy.

00:34:21.620 I have to go to them to me.

00:34:22.920 I'll help you.

00:34:23.520 No, no, no.

00:34:24.720 I'm saying like I have to go.

00:34:25.860 I have to get a building, right?

00:34:26.980 How do you get a building?

00:34:27.880 The men have to build it.

00:34:29.560 So everything we do in society relies on men. 0.79

00:34:32.780 I couldn't I couldn't I couldn't do this without the microphone that men invented the building that men built the plumbing that men installed the electric.

00:34:39.560 Women. 0.81

00:34:40.800 It's a teamwork.

00:34:41.440 No, no, no, no.

00:34:42.560 Those those industries are like 95 plus percent.

00:34:45.120 I understand like a manual workers are mostly men.

00:34:47.680 Yes, you are correct.

00:34:48.640 Inventions, they are stronger.

00:34:50.800 And let's be honest, physically built men are they are built stronger than women are. 1.00

00:34:55.840 And that's okay.

00:34:57.040 However, we do other jobs that involve the building as administration and accounting and I don't know all the different kind of jobs.

00:35:05.440 Women. 0.81

00:35:06.000 Do we think the paperwork is equally as needed as the building the building?

00:35:10.180 Of course, yes, because yes, think about it.

00:35:13.300 If you're building a building, I need you to just like think.

00:35:15.700 Okay, wait, wait.

00:35:16.420 I just want to repeat it.

00:35:17.860 So the girl doing the paperwork is equally as important. 0.81

00:35:22.100 We could we need her just as much as the man laying down the bricks for the building and the concrete.

00:35:28.900 The contracts, the, the, the, the, the paperwork of how is it going to be, how is it going to be built?

00:35:34.980 You can't, you can't seriously believe that.

00:35:37.060 Listen, you can sit there and you could build this building, right?

00:35:40.180 But if you don't have the right contract, nothing behind it that you need her to do, it's going to be a shame.

00:35:46.480 Okay, okay, so where would they get the financing from?

00:35:50.240 It's a lot of women bankers and a lot of women who actually work with like mortgages. 1.00

00:35:54.320 I'm sorry, you realize we can literally walk out into the jungle and build a house without financing and paperwork.

00:36:00.400 Yes, of course, but it's not the gym, is it?

00:36:03.120 No, that's not.

00:36:03.920 The point is building a house doesn't require paperwork.

00:36:08.240 Yes, we just were discussing about women building gym, women only. 0.99

00:36:12.720 No, we're talking about importance, importance.

00:36:14.560 So when we say importance, right?

00:36:15.760 If we're talking about society, right?

00:36:17.280 Different things.

00:36:18.160 We're talking about in society, right?

00:36:20.080 If you want to have a functioning business, yes, that man might build that business, but what is going to keep it running?

00:36:26.560 You could build the business all you want.

00:36:28.000 How is it going to run?

00:36:29.040 Men.

00:36:29.360 You have to have that paper trail.

00:36:30.880 You have to have who owes me money.

00:36:32.560 You need, you need that organization.

00:36:34.400 Could men not do that?

00:36:35.920 Of course.

00:36:36.480 Organize.

00:36:37.040 Can not women do that? 1.00

00:36:38.720 Build and organize.

00:36:39.680 Are we not strong enough?

00:36:40.880 They could barely build and organize a family.

00:36:42.560 I don't, I don't, I don't see why like men ran society for all of history. 0.99

00:36:46.720 I don't see why this time is with the women as their backbone. 0.99

00:36:50.640 That's, that's like this delusion that women think that everything men do is because of them. 0.96

00:36:56.560 I think it is.

00:36:57.840 I don't see the problem with men running society or having higher paid jobs than women.

00:37:02.160 We're all different.

00:37:03.120 We should be doing things we are good at.

00:37:05.520 Not because someone said so.

00:37:07.040 It's a girly things or manly things.

00:37:09.040 We should do things we're good at.

00:37:10.640 And that would be beautiful.

00:37:11.680 And I agree with you.

00:37:12.560 But my point is one, the jobs that men do are necessary for the backbone of society.

00:37:18.160 We could not survive without them.

00:37:20.000 But we can also do them.

00:37:20.640 Jobs that women do. 1.00

00:37:21.920 Okay.

00:37:22.240 So I'm going to read you some numbers.

00:37:23.760 Okay.

00:37:24.560 Of the top professions that men and women do.

00:37:28.400 And we'll just as a group decide which ones are more important.

00:37:31.360 Maybe I'm crazy.

00:37:32.240 I don't know.

00:37:32.640 Maybe they all are important.

00:37:33.840 Okay.

00:37:34.080 Okay.

00:37:34.160 No, no, no.

00:37:34.640 We got to pick one, not equal. 0.69

00:37:37.120 We got it.

00:37:37.520 You got to pick one.

00:37:38.240 One's more important.

00:37:39.120 I am all for teamwork.

00:37:40.480 All right.

00:37:40.800 In the U.S., 93.8% of construction workers are men.

00:37:45.760 In the U.K., 99% of construction workers are men.

00:37:49.680 99% of plumbers and pipe fitters in the U.S. are men.

00:37:53.680 98.5% of plumbers are men in the U.K.

00:37:57.840 95.5% of sewage disposal workers are men in the U.S.

00:38:02.800 99% of sewage disposal workers in the U.K. are men.

00:38:06.640 Vehicle technicians, 99% men.

00:38:09.120 Carpenters, 98% men.

00:38:11.120 Electricians and electrical fitters, 98% men.

00:38:14.800 Metal workers, 98% men.

00:38:16.720 Plumbers and heaters, 98% men.

00:38:19.040 Machine drivers and operators, 97% men.

00:38:22.560 Forklift drivers, 97% men.

00:38:24.880 Large vehicle delivery drivers, 97% men.

00:38:28.240 On-site construction workers, 95% men.

00:38:31.520 Window fabricators, 96% men.

00:38:34.000 So now let's talk about the women. 0.91

00:38:37.120 Nurses and nurses assistants, 97% women.

00:38:41.040 Legal secretaries, 96% women. 0.87

00:38:44.560 Medical secretaries, 94% women.

00:38:47.520 Daycare workers, 94% women.

00:38:50.480 Personal assistants, 94% women. 0.87

00:38:53.200 Teaching assistants, 90% women.

00:38:55.760 School secretaries, 90% women.

00:38:58.240 Therapists, 89% women.

00:39:00.720 Housekeepers, 89% women.

00:39:03.120 Dancers, 89% women. 0.85

00:39:06.400 So which would you guys, if you had to guess, is more needed?

00:39:10.800 If you had to pick one?

00:39:12.000 You have to pick, okay?

00:39:13.440 No equal. 0.89

00:39:14.640 Uh, yeah.

00:39:16.080 Nurses can't help you if there's not sanitation. 1.00

00:39:19.840 We need the men for the practical running of society. 1.00

00:39:23.200 Okay.

00:39:23.600 What about you?

00:39:24.240 I cannot pick.

00:39:25.840 I know you are making me like, you have to pick, you have to pick.

00:39:28.160 You gotta answer the question.

00:39:30.240 Can I just drop a little message on the background?

00:39:33.040 You can drop it.

00:39:33.840 Drop it after.

00:39:34.800 Drop it.

00:39:35.440 I need one.

00:39:36.480 Pick one.

00:39:38.160 I cannot pick both.

00:39:39.040 No, no, you gotta pick one.

00:39:40.160 Okay, I'll pick the men's.

00:39:41.520 Yeah.

00:39:41.760 Thank you.

00:39:42.160 Okay, now what's your message?

00:39:43.280 Go ahead.

00:39:44.080 I grew up around really strong women. 1.00

00:39:46.240 And we were doing all these jobs.

00:39:47.680 We're doing building, painting, driving, everything.

00:39:52.080 Literally, we're doing everything from gardening to building to carrying things.

00:39:55.840 So, for me, it's like really weird that these things are separated to male and female jobs. 0.98

00:40:01.680 Just things you're good at or you're crap at. 0.98

00:40:04.000 As simple as that. 0.99

00:40:05.280 Okay, go ahead.

00:40:06.240 So, I'm gonna go with women because for life, right, you can have all of this stuff, 1.00

00:40:12.320 but for life to keep on surviving and keep on going on and thriving, you need the women. 1.00

00:40:16.480 You need health care.

00:40:17.440 No, no, no.

00:40:17.520 What did I start with?

00:40:18.400 You need health care.

00:40:19.280 What did I start with?

00:40:20.320 I said no reproduction.

00:40:21.680 We're taking that out of this.

00:40:23.040 No, no.

00:40:23.360 When I say life, I don't mean reproduction.

00:40:25.120 Okay.

00:40:25.760 I mean just in general.

00:40:26.640 If you get sick, where do you have to go, right?

00:40:28.800 Okay.

00:40:29.200 Life, right?

00:40:29.840 That woman is gonna make sure you... 1.00

00:40:30.960 Okay, you just die. 0.99

00:40:31.840 Okay, so what's more needed?

00:40:35.120 A doctor or a nurse?

00:40:39.360 Nurse practitioners do the same thing as a doctor. 0.98

00:40:41.520 Okay, okay.

00:40:42.240 And where do they do their job?

00:40:44.480 At a hospital.

00:40:45.920 Which is built by?

00:40:48.080 Maybe built by men, but everything you do can be in the tent.

00:40:51.200 Wait, let me say one thing.

00:40:52.240 Let me say one thing.

00:40:53.040 All of the jobs you described were, if you live in a thriving city, right, go to another

00:41:00.240 place in the world where they don't have buildings and all of that, you don't need

00:41:04.000 the men because the women can sit there and build as well with sticks and stuff. 1.00

00:41:08.320 So, okay, okay, okay, so again, they tried this.

00:41:12.400 They really tried this.

00:41:13.520 They went out into the wilderness.

00:41:15.360 They put men on an island and they put women on an island and they said survive. 0.85

00:41:20.000 The men, because men naturally order themselves with hierarchy.

00:41:25.040 So the men will say, you do this, you do this, they'll naturally listen to the most competent

00:41:29.520 men.

00:41:30.400 Men like size each other up in a room.

00:41:32.080 I don't get it.

00:41:32.560 I'm a woman, but that's just what they do. 0.99

00:41:34.880 Women would just bicker and they trend more towards egalitarianism. 1.00

00:41:40.160 We're all equal.

00:41:42.400 So they, they literally had to be rescued within like two days.

00:41:46.000 But what the men, can we go next time too?

00:41:48.720 But what, but again, what type of woman is that? 1.00

00:41:51.600 If you, if you're going to pick 10 women who, you know, have, you know, jobs where they're 0.84

00:41:56.800 not getting their hands wet and they've never really been out and doing this, do that.

00:41:59.840 Of course they're not going to survive.

00:42:01.120 All of the women are not picking these jobs. 1.00

00:42:03.760 So I just listed to you, all the women, there's no barriers. 0.98

00:42:06.400 We can work whatever we want.

00:42:07.680 We're not strong.

00:42:08.560 We're not, our belt is different.

00:42:10.400 We're built differently.

00:42:11.680 It's not even that.

00:42:12.400 You know what a big initiative that they're doing in America right now, a big initiative

00:42:15.600 is that they're trying to get more women into these spaces, physics, pilots, all different 1.00

00:42:21.040 types of stuff like that.

00:42:21.680 Because if you think about it, society-

00:42:23.360 And they can't convince us to do the hard job.

00:42:25.520 They're doing it.

00:42:26.240 Women are doing it. 1.00

00:42:28.000 No, no, no, no.

00:42:28.560 Men's still out.

00:42:29.360 One, one front way is engineering.

00:42:31.920 And the men are still there.

00:42:33.040 There's all these programs to get women in engineering. 1.00

00:42:35.360 My roommate my freshman year was an engineer.

00:42:38.320 All these programs, all these grants, basically had free school for her. 0.90

00:42:41.920 They can't convince women to do these jobs. 1.00

00:42:44.080 But it has to start somewhere.

00:42:45.120 If I'm growing up and I'm taught that, do this, do this, do that, that's what I'm going

00:42:48.640 to go at.

00:42:49.040 The more and more that we show women, you can work in this field, the more and more. 0.88

00:42:53.440 And we're just now doing that.

00:42:54.240 We've told women that for over 50 years.

00:42:56.480 That's all we heard growing up.

00:42:57.920 You can do anything.

00:42:58.800 But once you actually start seeing women that are top engineers, top, there's now more 1.00

00:43:05.200 women are going to be like, oh, okay, a woman has done it. 1.00

00:43:07.440 And then you also got to think the competition in the world.

00:43:10.080 No, I disagree.

00:43:10.800 That's an excuse.

00:43:12.240 I don't need to.

00:43:13.600 I don't think that these women will be selected as partners. 1.00

00:43:17.200 I don't think it's attractive.

00:43:18.080 No, but this is what I'm saying.

00:43:18.880 If me and you both show up to a construction site, who do you think they're going to hire first?

00:43:22.880 They're going to hire you.

00:43:23.760 No, I would guess you because there's all these government grants, especially in those industries.

00:43:28.720 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:43:29.360 It depends what you wear.

00:43:30.400 They're like a woman, finally. 0.99

00:43:31.760 You interviewed the outfit.

00:43:32.800 We needed to check off a box.

00:43:35.840 Like you would.

00:43:36.480 Like inclusivity.

00:43:38.240 Yes, yes.

00:43:38.880 They would be like you.

00:43:39.680 Let's do this girl.

00:43:40.320 I like how quick you are on your feet.

00:43:41.760 I do.

00:43:42.160 I really love it.

00:43:43.520 I know a lot about this topic.

00:43:45.440 I know a lot about it.

00:43:46.560 Let's get helmets and boots and get it on.

00:43:48.800 I like it.

00:43:49.520 If you took that out of it, if you really took that out of it, and we were like, seriously,

00:43:53.280 if we both show up, they're going to go for the male. 0.56

00:43:55.280 So a lot of times these women try to get jobs in these, you know, jobs. 1.00

00:44:00.880 All right.

00:44:01.520 I'll tell you something.

00:44:02.640 I went to college and I studied engineering.

00:44:04.640 I was actually going to go into motorsport engineering.

00:44:06.480 That was my passion.

00:44:07.120 That's what I wanted to do.

00:44:08.400 And as I was studying it, you know, as you can imagine, it's predominantly all men,

00:44:12.080 boys, should we say, but there's one girl.

00:44:15.600 And you could see it was something in her that she wanted to go that direction.

00:44:18.960 She wanted to go against the grain.

00:44:20.240 She wanted to get her hands dirty and, you know, and then I went to see her in a work placement. 1.00

00:44:26.480 And then after a year or two, she just dropped out.

00:44:29.600 She wanted she didn't want to be in a masculine.

00:44:32.160 She wanted to be in touch with a feminine. 0.91

00:44:35.120 So she found something that was more suited towards that.

00:44:38.960 And, you know, that's my reference point.

00:44:42.320 I think it may sound attractive to go in that direction,

00:44:45.680 but I don't think that you would be selected as a mate because it's, it's not feminine. 1.00

00:44:50.960 What, it's either you enjoy your job or not, or you do it because it's well paid.

00:44:54.800 It's not about that.

00:44:55.440 It gets to a point where it's just like men aren't finding me attractive.

00:44:59.520 Oh, men are not finding her attractive because she's doing a manly job. 1.00

00:45:03.200 Yeah.

00:45:03.440 And I'm, I'm, I'm seeing this is a big, big thing in society at the moment.

00:45:07.280 We're, we're experiencing a lot more women that are stepping into the masculine. 0.80

00:45:13.360 And they're not being selected.

00:45:16.720 They end up single because they're, they are seen as a threat.

00:45:20.560 Not a threat.

00:45:21.440 Not a threat.

00:45:23.440 I think they're seen as not, not a material.

00:45:25.680 Sorry.

00:45:26.640 I think men want, yeah, pretty and agreeable and pleasant and interesting.

00:45:32.720 But also they want a woman who will look after their children well. 1.00

00:45:37.040 And if you've got a woman who has been so focused on her career, you know, it's like, 0.99

00:45:41.840 is the kid even going to be breastfed or is she going to be like, 0.91

00:45:44.960 I've done my six weeks maternity leave.

00:45:47.200 I'm back to the office.

00:45:48.880 Like give the kid to anyone.

00:45:51.760 But, but it's also as well, like if you are in a relationship and

00:45:54.880 your job wants you to have these masculine traits,

00:45:58.480 then you're going to take the energy back into the home.

00:46:01.200 And then what happens is the man then feels like he hasn't got a place

00:46:05.120 to step into his masculine.

00:46:07.120 So the polarity is off.

00:46:09.360 And that's when he starts to lose interest and find someone that does allow him to,

00:46:14.640 to, to, to be the man.

00:46:15.520 So then should men start earning,

00:46:16.400 There is a fine line between the balance.

00:46:18.560 Should men start earning more money so they can fully take care of women, 1.00

00:46:22.160 so women don't have to go out and work? 1.00

00:46:23.520 It's not necessarily that.

00:46:24.080 Because that's always an option.

00:46:26.640 We're seeing a rise in femininity coaches right now. 1.00

00:46:28.960 It's prevalent.

00:46:30.160 There is more need than ever for, for, for these people, these modalities.

00:46:33.520 And they're just helping women get back in touch with their feminine side. 0.99

00:46:36.960 You can have these jobs, but make sure that you've, you're not losing that side to yourself.

00:46:41.040 Don't bring it home.

00:46:41.600 And my question for you is why do you always put it on the men?

00:46:44.400 Like the men need to earn more. 0.97

00:46:45.920 Why don't the women be more of wife material? 1.00

00:46:48.640 Because, because most women, even if they met a guy that could provide all of the bills. 1.00

00:46:54.560 And like, I meet guys that want to take care of their women all the time,

00:46:57.920 but there's not a lot of wives on the market right now. 1.00

00:47:00.640 Like women that actually know how to be a wife. 1.00

00:47:03.040 Which is, well, which is true because again, it, it, the way you are raised,

00:47:07.440 the way you're brought up definitely affects how you're going to be as an adult.

00:47:12.480 So if you come where you're used to working and all that,

00:47:16.000 yes, there are women that do need to learn how to be wives. 1.00

00:47:19.840 Yes.

00:47:20.160 I agree with that.

00:47:21.280 But why I say it comes down to the men,

00:47:23.440 men stopped taking care of women in the households and women were forced to go get jobs.

00:47:27.600 So once you're out there getting a job, once you're watching somebody.

00:47:30.880 That's not true though.

00:47:31.680 That's not true.

00:47:32.560 They, they were not forced.

00:47:34.640 This is what the government, no, the government, the government said,

00:47:38.400 Hey, we'll pay you guys to leave.

00:47:41.680 Here is money for being a single mother. 1.00

00:47:43.840 The women did not have to take it. 1.00

00:47:45.920 So how are they going to provide for their kids?

00:47:48.080 So no, before the fathers were in the home,

00:47:51.360 a hundred years ago, 85% of people were married and they stayed married.

00:47:55.680 I don't know exactly what the divorce rate was, but I know it was significantly lower.

00:47:59.920 Now people don't even want to get married because the divorce laws are so bad. 1.00

00:48:04.320 But, but my, my whole point is women are offered incentives to leave. 1.00

00:48:09.360 So if you leave, you get money from the government.

00:48:11.680 If you leave, you can take money from his pocket and women choose to take that. 1.00

00:48:17.200 But at the same time, say that they're equal.

00:48:19.920 Well, if you're equal to a man, then be a man, pay your own way. 0.94

00:48:23.280 But I don't think that women choose to take that. 0.99

00:48:25.360 I, I definitely believe that the government has broken up family.

00:48:30.000 That's why, like you said, they offer the money and all that.

00:48:32.000 So the government definitely has a hand in breaking up a lot of families.

00:48:34.480 But how is the woman supposed to survive? 1.00

00:48:36.560 If I get pregnant and I have to take care of a child, I can't take that child away from me.

00:48:39.840 I say, I say, give the kid to the person that can afford it.

00:48:42.240 It doesn't make sense for you to have the kid if you can't afford it.

00:48:45.680 You leave the family and now he has to pay for it.

00:48:48.000 And the majority of women are the ones that leave. 1.00

00:48:51.600 So the idea that men leave, and a lot of people think that generation of men left,

00:48:57.120 but it's actually the women mostly drove them out of the house and left. 1.00

00:49:01.040 If you look at the numbers, it doesn't support the deadbeat, like dad narrative.

00:49:04.800 It's not there.

00:49:05.520 But if you, okay, so you can, but that's the thing.

00:49:08.560 If you're looking at statistics, that's just what people are reporting.

00:49:11.600 If you actually, in real life, what is driving them to leave?

00:49:15.040 You know, I've done a lot of these interviews because I interview guys that have like,

00:49:19.680 that are trying to get custody of their kids. 0.53

00:49:21.840 Women can be very spiteful and use the kids as a pawn to hurt the dad. 1.00

00:49:26.320 But are men only trying to get the custody so they don't have to pay child support?

00:49:29.760 Because a lot of times there's men who fight to try to get custody

00:49:33.200 because they don't want to pay high child support.

00:49:35.200 Well, I don't, well, one, I don't think men should pay any child support.

00:49:38.800 I think, I think if you leave, that's like, that's on you.

00:49:42.720 That's my personal opinion.

00:49:43.920 I don't know why we're rewarding bad behavior.

00:49:45.760 What is the teamwork?

00:49:46.800 So who is the priority of the relationship?

00:49:48.880 A child?

00:49:49.920 I would say the kids and that's why dads should be awarded custody off the back.

00:49:53.200 Because every data statistic will tell you that single father homes fare better than single mother homes. 0.95

00:49:58.480 Well, yeah, but when parents separate, it is the,

00:50:04.080 as close to equal time with both parents that is the, it provides the best outcomes.

00:50:10.480 And so that is what you're aiming for, like as close to 50-50 as is humanly possible.

00:50:16.160 So let me ask you this question.

00:50:17.440 You say that men are needed to build these homes, build everything sewage, plumage.

00:50:21.840 How are they going to do that if they have custody of the kid? 0.93

00:50:24.000 Who's going to watch the kid?

00:50:25.200 Well, I think the person that can afford the kids should have that choice.

00:50:29.200 So he can still like, it's not like I'm saying he should never give the mother access,

00:50:34.080 but I think he should have the primary decision.

00:50:36.320 So what does it mean?

00:50:37.120 I think, I think when it comes to have a nanny.

00:50:39.120 What?

00:50:40.080 He affords to have a nanny.

00:50:41.440 Well, I'd imagine men aren't as spiteful as women. 1.00

00:50:43.680 They'd be much more willing to let the mother like watch the kids. 1.00

00:50:46.640 The women are the ones that use the kids as a tool. 1.00

00:50:48.880 They certainly agree with you.

00:50:50.800 I agree with you with that.

00:50:51.920 I definitely agree with you with that.

00:50:53.520 But I will still say, if you think about it, men, especially alpha males,

00:50:58.320 are not putting in 40 hours a week.

00:51:00.000 They might be putting in 80 hours a week.

00:51:02.400 Who is going to, if they have custody of the children, who's going to watch the children?

00:51:06.640 So there's a man and a woman and the woman leaves, right? 0.97

00:51:10.480 That's the situation we're talking about.

00:51:12.000 That's the situation that I'm talking about.

00:51:13.920 Yes.

00:51:14.400 And maybe he has to work a lot.

00:51:16.000 Okay.

00:51:16.800 I think he should get primary custody and decision-making because she decided

00:51:20.640 to leave and he earns more, meaning he can afford the kids.

00:51:24.000 I'm not saying that he should not let the mother see the kids.

00:51:27.440 I think when he cannot watch the kids, the mother should. 0.99

00:51:30.560 And if he's working 80 hours a week, she's going to get plenty of time with the kids.

00:51:33.840 Exactly.

00:51:34.240 So if he's working 80 hours a week, she's going to have the kids anyway.

00:51:38.800 She's the one who is teaching them their morals, their values, their cooking for them,

00:51:43.520 taking care of them, teaching them everything, loving them, doing all of that.

00:51:46.560 So why would the man have primary custody?

00:51:48.560 Why?

00:51:48.720 Because he can afford it.

00:51:49.600 If he's not going to be there anyway, then you're damaging the kids now.

00:51:53.440 Honestly, off the bat, I think it should be 50-50 if it's mutual.

00:51:57.520 But I'm saying if the woman chooses to leave. 0.89

00:52:00.320 What if a woman is abused and she chooses to leave because she's beaten up or she's 0.50

00:52:04.560 just mental abuse, various things, various scenarios, can be millions of them.

00:52:08.880 What if she chooses to leave because she cannot survive there and she would be dead

00:52:12.240 if she didn't leave?

00:52:13.200 Then what then?

00:52:14.640 It's interesting how we always go to like the worst case scenario.

00:52:17.760 Because it's realistic.

00:52:18.640 It's realistic.

00:52:19.200 Yeah, but those situations do happen.

00:52:22.720 And so we would have to have safeguards so that women could escape really unhealthy relationships. 1.00

00:52:29.520 And so if there was that safeguard, but if, you know, unless you proved that you were abused,

00:52:37.920 you knew that the father was going to get full custody, then what would happen is that false

00:52:42.480 allegations would skyrocket.

00:52:44.400 I just, and you know, I really want to just take the whole child access issue out of the courts.

00:52:51.840 You know, you're dealing with families who are struggling to split up amicably and do what's in

00:52:58.240 the best interests of their children by minimizing conflict.

00:53:01.600 And the way we respond to it is by throwing it into an adversarial court system.

00:53:06.080 It's insane.

00:53:06.800 Oh, interesting.

00:53:07.360 This is a public health issue.

00:53:09.680 Everyone involved needs to get down to the like psychiatrist's office.

00:53:13.520 And we need to, you know, we need to go back and build again.

00:53:17.920 Yeah, yeah.

00:53:18.480 These kids, they need both their parents.

00:53:20.640 They need all their aunties and uncles.

00:53:22.160 They need their grandparents.

00:53:23.840 It's so you don't think the family court system should exist at all?

00:53:27.760 No.

00:53:28.480 Wow.

00:53:28.800 I've never heard that view.

00:53:29.840 That's absolutely not at all.

00:53:31.440 I agree with you on the subject that women play up too much on all these fake allegations of 1.00

00:53:36.320 X, Y, Z.

00:53:37.120 And I'm not going to mention because I can't remember the keywords.

00:53:39.520 It did happen actually.

00:53:41.120 I hate it so much.

00:53:42.240 I think the people who falsely allege someone of a crime that they have not committed, they

00:53:47.040 should be punished of an equal punishment that would have been in the court.

00:53:52.880 Yeah, no, I'm just like, you know.

00:53:54.800 But the family court system is definitely needed.

00:53:58.640 Because let's say you're involved with a man, right?

00:54:01.840 And you think he put a condom on and he didn't.

00:54:04.800 Now you end up pregnant. 0.83

00:54:06.560 Now what?

00:54:07.440 All he has to do is just pick up and leave.

00:54:09.040 When you have a family court system to enforce that he at least pays for, helps pays for his

00:54:14.080 child.

00:54:14.400 Like women, we already have to take care of. 1.00

00:54:16.800 Okay.

00:54:17.120 Women, we already have to take care of. 1.00

00:54:18.000 I got to stop you there.

00:54:19.200 You're telling me you didn't notice he didn't have a condom on.

00:54:21.760 There are times when you don't notice a man might slip it off.

00:54:24.160 But when you're in the moment, who's feeling like this the whole time?

00:54:26.960 Tell me what's more common, a man pulling off the condom or a woman lying about being 1.00

00:54:31.440 on birth control?

00:54:33.360 No idea. 0.54

00:54:34.880 I would say a man pulling off a condom. 0.94

00:54:36.960 I would definitely say a man pulling off a condom. 0.72

00:54:38.960 I would, without a, no, a man even putting on a condom doesn't even put it on to begin with.

00:54:45.440 Where is your sample size?

00:54:47.200 Is this just in your bed?

00:54:49.200 You said where's your sample size?

00:54:50.480 Yeah.

00:54:51.200 You keep talking about like, where's the demographic we're talking about here?

00:54:54.400 Is it like specifically in your bed?

00:54:55.920 You're on birth control, but these men have been known.

00:54:58.800 I'm talking about in general, about somebody who, you know, I travel to where I talk to

00:55:02.320 different people.

00:55:02.960 I, you know, do this.

00:55:04.400 I used to have a radio show.

00:55:05.760 Like, so I've talked to millions of people before.

00:55:08.000 Research.

00:55:08.400 And when, yeah, research.

00:55:09.280 And when you actually sit and talk to people and you find out their stories and stuff,

00:55:12.880 you're gathering evidence.

00:55:13.840 Well, my question is, why doesn't she require the men she sleeps with wears condoms? 1.00

00:55:18.560 You can see if they put it, like, this is so stupid. 0.99

00:55:21.120 No, you can, you can see if a guy puts a condom on, but how many times do you turn on Murray 1.00

00:55:25.520 and he's taking the condom off and now she's pregnant?

00:55:28.000 Who's the daddy?

00:55:28.800 Or trying to prove that he is the daddy.

00:55:30.800 Like, it's more common.

00:55:31.840 That happens more than we think it happens.

00:55:33.200 You know what, that is interesting though, because what is the response from the public

00:55:37.360 and the audience in situations where you get into these kind of real life stories

00:55:41.440 about a man who slipped the condom off?

00:55:43.600 Like people, that is not socially acceptable and people think that he is awful.

00:55:49.600 Whereas there was a clip that went quite viral.

00:55:53.680 I think it was on Oprah or something like that.

00:55:56.160 And it was, you know, an audience full of women and they're having like, 1.00

00:56:00.560 they're asking questions and getting responses from different people.

00:56:05.120 And a woman stands up and she says, look, we have some number of kids, two or three kids.

00:56:12.400 I want another, but my husband doesn't.

00:56:16.080 Should I pretend that I'm taking my birth control, but stop.

00:56:20.560 And the entire audience, like all of these women jumped up, hollering, saying like,

00:56:26.000 do it, do it, sister.

00:56:27.200 You got to do it.

00:56:28.000 You want that kid. 1.00

00:56:28.880 Like, and that was, I've heard, I've heard, it's just stupid. 0.99

00:56:34.560 I've heard, I'm just questioning, like, there's four guys here. 0.74

00:56:38.800 Do you guys know any woman that has lied, that you think lied about being on birth control?

00:56:44.000 Yeah, that happened to me.

00:56:44.960 Yeah, that happened to you.

00:56:46.000 Ooh, tell us more.

00:56:47.040 Do you know anybody, do you know anybody?

00:56:49.200 Do you know anybody?

00:56:50.160 Wait, I just want to raise of hands.

00:56:51.360 Just there's four guys in here.

00:56:53.120 Do you know anybody?

00:56:54.000 Why are the girls excluded? 1.00

00:56:57.600 I know the woman who's done that.

00:56:59.360 I believe.

00:57:00.160 I'm not on birth control.

00:57:01.200 Okay, well, I was going to ask the women, the women, have you ever been like condom, 1.00

00:57:05.600 where the guy said he was wearing a condom and then he took it off and you didn't know?

00:57:10.800 That's never happened to me.

00:57:12.000 Yes.

00:57:12.640 Yes, it's happened to me.

00:57:14.160 I choose my partners wisely, so no.

00:57:16.080 No.

00:57:16.640 So, okay, so right now we got 25% and 100%.

00:57:21.440 This is random people that don't know each other.

00:57:23.600 So it seems like one's more common than the other.

00:57:27.440 They're both situations that definitely happen.

00:57:30.320 No, wait, I thought you talked to people, so now we're doing a random sample size.

00:57:34.320 This is a random sample size here in the UK.

00:57:37.040 First of all, men don't even try to wear condoms here in the UK.

00:57:39.840 No, I'm American.

00:57:41.360 Get out of here.

00:57:42.480 So you should come on now.

00:57:43.760 Let's be for real.

00:57:44.560 I'm so for real.

00:57:47.600 I don't know how you wouldn't notice.

00:57:49.440 I think that women just do that to play victim. 1.00

00:57:52.560 I'm going to be honest.

00:57:53.520 I think that's a lack of, like, accountability.

00:57:55.600 I'm going to tell you how you're not going to notice, right?

00:57:57.120 Let's say a man is hitting it from the front, right?

00:58:00.160 And he says, flip over.

00:58:01.200 Let me hit it from the back.

00:58:02.640 And he takes it off because he's about to climax.

00:58:05.520 Hello, how am I going to know?

00:58:06.800 All I know is I'm flipping over.

00:58:08.320 I'm not going to know.

00:58:09.840 I'm just going to know the feeling.

00:58:11.040 Like, oh, okay, he likes this position.

00:58:13.520 I'm not going to reach down there.

00:58:14.960 Oh, let me make sure I'm in the moment.

00:58:16.880 It happens.

00:58:18.720 That's true.

00:58:19.760 It happens.

00:58:20.320 Where does it put me if I lied about not taking birth control?

00:58:26.000 What I was taking?

00:58:27.600 Oh, you lied about it?

00:58:29.440 Yes.

00:58:30.160 I was taking the birth control and I said I'm not.

00:58:32.960 Oh, you were taking it.

00:58:34.080 That's really interesting.

00:58:35.200 That's a really interesting question.

00:58:36.800 Where does it put me?

00:58:36.880 Am I good or bad or ugly?

00:58:39.520 Honestly, I have something to say.

00:58:42.000 Are you responsible?

00:58:42.800 Give it to me, baby.

00:58:45.680 I understand that a lot of men don't wear condoms, right?

00:58:47.760 Yeah, I understand that.

00:58:48.720 But I'm kind of worried if you're saying that there are men

00:58:53.760 that would wear the condom and take it off when they are about to ejaculate. 1.00

00:58:57.600 That is wild as hell. 0.99

00:58:59.760 Like, that's crazy.

00:59:00.560 They want to have babies. 0.98

00:59:02.000 No, no.

00:59:02.800 It sounds like a crazy concept, but it is more common than what you think.

00:59:06.880 It is more common than what you think.

00:59:08.640 You need to think about the kind of men that would do that. 0.90

00:59:11.200 That's the point I'm trying to make.

00:59:12.800 Those are not stable individuals.

00:59:14.960 I live in New York. 0.89

00:59:15.760 Everyone's crazy there. 0.97

00:59:16.720 Every single person is crazy there, right? 0.97

00:59:19.040 So, you would be surprised how many women I have come across 1.00

00:59:22.720 that have said this exact same thing.

00:59:24.480 Like, men, if they're in it and it's feeling good,

00:59:26.400 they want to feel it.

00:59:26.640 No, you know what?

00:59:27.440 I'll tell you why.

00:59:28.160 They're all sleeping with the same guys.

00:59:29.680 Exactly.

00:59:30.160 That proves the problem.

00:59:31.120 All sleeping with the same, which goes back to my point.

00:59:34.000 They're picking the same kind of men.

00:59:36.000 The only guy in New York.

00:59:37.040 But this is what I mean. 0.82

00:59:38.080 Women select horribly. 1.00

00:59:39.600 If you're sleeping with a guy, what does that say about your decision making?

00:59:43.760 But you've got to think about it.

00:59:44.720 All the good guys are probably taken.

00:59:46.720 So, there's only the bozos like that that are left for us to pick from. 1.00

00:59:50.000 That's not true.

00:59:51.120 This whole, like, if you're not getting good men, it says something about you.

00:59:55.440 You are what you attract.

JustPearlyThings - August 02, 2023

A 37 Years Old that Identifies as a 28 Years Old

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