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In this episode of Just Pearly Things, I talk about why women are not as important as you think, and how society would function without women in society if we don't have them. Ladies, You Are Not as Important As You Think is a whiteboard presentation I did for a class in high school.
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Listen, if we can change genders, we can change age.
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Where do we, where, how, I don't think I'm wrong.
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She lied and said she was like a French heiress.
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And she lived off of other people's wealth for years,
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staying at, like, the Ritz and all that in New York.
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So, I said, outside of reproduction, society, I can't read it.
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Outside of reproduction, society would function fine without women.
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But I put a very nice video to explain my views.
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All right, we got this couple, man, woman, right?
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What does society, like, what do we need for society to work?
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I mean, we don't need it, but we all, you know, we need a car, hypothetically.
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I can't really think of one job where women dominate in that we need.
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Welcome to the Just Pearly Things YouTube channel.
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Today, I am going to be giving a special whiteboard presentation called
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Wait, wait, actually, a better name for this would be
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Now, I get a lot of hate for, for, I got a lot of hate this week.
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For a tweet that I said that said, men make society run and women don't.
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Our jobs, we could, all the women could stop working tomorrow.
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What, what do we, you know what, maybe I'll make it orange, so it's a little darker.
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All right, we got this couple, man, woman, right?
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What does society, like, what do we need for society to work?
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I mean, we don't, we don't need it, but we, we all, you know, we need a car, hypothetically.
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If you live in like a, I know, I can't draw, I can't draw, so just, you know, bear with me.
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So, it's roughly 90 plus percent of men are building the houses, they're building the cars,
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they're doing the electricity, they're doing the plumbing.
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I can't really think of one job where women dominate in that we need.
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On top of that, healthcare is still roughly 50-50, and men still lead the way in healthcare
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when it comes to the most competitive and hardest jobs like brain surgery, you know, research
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So, my question is, if, let's just say the green guy is the guy.
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If the men are making the society run, why are women starting to out-earn men?
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Because that's a new feminist talking point that I hear.
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Now, I'm going to give you two reasons that women are out-earning men.
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And I'm going to give you an example of this at the highest levels.
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These are two female billionaires and two male billionaires.
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The male billionaire is trying to put life on Mars, electric cars, you know, software companies,
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where the female billionaires are monetizing beauty.
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As a woman, you have an inherent advantage in sales because you're a woman.
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They're going to talk to you easier than a man.
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So, you know, typically when women do get ahead, it's in places where you can monetize your beauty.
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There are a bunch of government jobs and grants that reward corporate America for hiring women.
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So, we take tax-paying—the men's—and we give it to the women because, you know, they tax the men,
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take the money from the men, and create grants and programs to reward corporate America for hiring women.
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But does that mean the women are offering equally as much value?
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So, the crazy thing is, is that women are getting these high-paying jobs that men are really paying for.
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And, guys, you're going to ask me the data numbers, but let's just look in real life.
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Now, this is not to say that women have no place in society.
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But as a whole, we all think we're more important than we are.
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You know, there's always been exceptions in history for, you know, high-IQ women making advancements in society.
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And unfortunately, I'm also really tired of us acting like teachers are like a godsend.
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One, all of these—you know the crazy thing is the industries that women run are the industries we complain about.
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We're always complaining about how health care is not there to help you.
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The institutions run by women, we all complain about.
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So, one, the teachers are these single feminist women that don't have kids of their own, so they just try to indoctrinate yours.
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Everybody complains about how health care gives you drugs and it doesn't fix the problem.
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If women left work and went back into the home, you would need less health care because you'd actually have the mother caring about what the kids eat.
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We have a whole generation of people that don't know how to cook, that don't know proper nutrition because the mom, instead of being at home, was busy teaching other kids, working in health care, working at the DMV.
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All right, then teaching, now you have the state teaching your kids where, again, if the mom was home, she could homeschool the kids and you wouldn't need any of these industries.
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So, my point is, if women stopped working tomorrow, I actually, I think we would have an increase in efficiency, not a decrease, not a decrease.
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And the problem is, we have all these women that think they're doing more than they are because they're hot and they make money off of being hot and they're subsidized by the government.
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So, yeah, ladies, we are not as special as we think we are.
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Let me know what you guys think of the comments.
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But all I could think is, why do you need women in society?
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Because women, again, do make the world go round.
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But do you think a man would get out of bed and work and actually try to achieve good things if it weren't for trying to gain a woman's attention?
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A man could sleep on a bench and be happy and sleep outside.
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They earn money, do everything they do to impress women.
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What would society look like if women disappeared outside of, I know we give them the kids, but let's take the kids out of this, the family.
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And I was thinking, I'm like, would men still explore?
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I think there's an innate nature of men that want to build things, explore the world.
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They took the men on one island and they put the women on the one island and they said, survive.
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They all had their assigned roles where the women were just, like, arguing about who could do what.
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And so, I do think we wouldn't have Roombas because I think they built those for women.
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But I think, and everything would probably be plainer.
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Like, we wouldn't have, like, guys don't see the point of these pillows, stuff like that.
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So, when you get in these rooms with men, and let's say they're trying to even make simple decisions, what are they going to do?
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Sit there and argue with each other because they're going to want to be right.
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This is when you need that woman in society who is the level head to be, like, hey, here goes, this is it.
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Okay, let's, let's, no, no, let's take this, okay?
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It really depends on the character of the person, isn't it?
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No, I think, I think, I think women love to argue more than men.
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And it's okay, I don't expect you to know this.
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The last 500 years, they took the female rulers and the male rulers.
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And do you know who is more likely to wage war?
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So, this idea that, like, men, and I, and I tell you why I think that is, women have no consequence for anything when it comes to violence because the men will fight for them.
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That's why you see the women, like, talking shit at the bar.
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In the UK Parliament as well, though, when we've gone into Iraq and Syria, the female MPs were significantly more likely to vote for the intervention.
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And I think, actually, perhaps with them, there was an element of social acceptability.
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You know, they were whipped to do it by the party whips.
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And it was, you know, when we went into Iraq, we had this fake story about weapons of mass destruction.
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And it was, like, you know, the correct response at the time based on the blatantly fake evidence that someone with a more logical, rational perspective who maybe has spent time engaging with more historical literature, which, you know, these kind of special interests are more likely to be held by men, especially in the House of Commons.
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Whereas women go in there wanting to represent women and, you know, trump all these feminist causes.
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It's interesting how you separate, like, okay, women are good at this, men are good at this.
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And probably I believe that a lot of things we take from and how we grow is from our childhood and our experiences in childhood.
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So it's absolutely not necessary that the man is good at something and the woman is good at cooking.
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I am crap at physics and my son is, like, super mega wizard at physics.
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I would never be able to homeschool him to the level of physics that he actually deserves.
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I looked, I actually, I learned something today.
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So apparently the education system has been falling since the 80s.
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Actually, we have, we have a teacher and a teacher's aide.
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So it used to be male dominated before the 80s.
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And so now I'm like, wait, when the women came in, we taught worse than the guys.
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Our schools where I am from, which is, it's okay to mention, I'm from West London.
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And the children come out and they're going to universities and they're going to men's society.
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Their test scores have been falling since like the 70s.
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We can't even pass 11th grade tests from back then.
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Maybe I'm just blessed to live around smart people.
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So my premise is, I really think if women all went home tomorrow, I think society would function fine.
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I'm not saying some industries wouldn't take a hit.
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But I think HR departments would disappear tomorrow.
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But if the men stopped working, I think that society would crash and burn.
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So do you really trust a lot of men with money?
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Women have 80% of the debt, even though we make less money.
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But if you look at women as a whole, 80% of us are in debt probably because they have
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a household to take care of because the men got up and left.
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If they have a household, if they have children and they have to take on the leadership role,
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especially if they have to be in society working, of course they're going to be in debt.
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And a lot of times, we make children with men that are not husbands.
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What about daddies who disappear at the pregnancy?
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What about daddies who disappear as soon as they find out that the partner is pregnant?
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Well, I found that the majority of the time when that happens, it's because a woman's
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Now, now, but, but, but number two, that's, that's, um, that's not common though.
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Because the majority of the time men, men do stay.
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So with four different, if a man has four different kids with four different women, he's not daddy to any of them.
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Well, that's, that's four, that's four stupid women and one stupid man.
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I do, I do think it's whoever, I do think it, women, you are in charge of who your baby father is.
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And at the end of the day, you, these, I always say it, that these men always come as, everybody comes into a relationship with their representative.
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But it is facts, facts, facts, facts, that once a woman gets pregnant, that's it.
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The relationship literally goes into the toilet after that.
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No, no, after, after a child, anytime you bring a child into a situation, that's it.
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Like, bring a baby in, everybody's stressed, bills go up, lack of intimacy, there's so many things that lead to that.
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So, men are not, if women are leaving, it's only because men have checked out of the situation and checked out of their duties a long time before.
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No, no, they list the reasons they leave, and it's, it's like irreconcilable differences.
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They don't even say on which side, but it's pretty split on fidelity.
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But I'm saying, like, what you're saying isn't true, that the men are leaving, it's the women leaving.
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They're filing for the divorce, but what's leading to the divorce?
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If I'm a woman at home with your, your kids, and I'm taking care of the household, and I'm being faithful to you, and just because you're paying the bills, you're out, you know, sleeping with every Sarah and Jessica that walks by.
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That's only a small percentage of men that can sleep with multiple women.
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So it's only like 15 to 20 percent of men, maybe 30 tops.
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I mean, it's, so the majority of men cannot sleep with multiple women, so it's not them cheating.
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Well, even if they sleep with one woman, it's still cheating.
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Like women, no, no, no, I'm saying like, like women find 80 percent of men as unattractive, ugly, not, not just okay, not decent.
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So just because you find ugly doesn't mean we're not cheating with them.
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Well, I mean, I'm not a cheater, but I'm saying like as women in whole, like a lot of times women were emotional cheaters.
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There's, you know, some women might cheat off of looks, but when we decide to step out of a relationship, it is always because emotionally at home, something is being neglected.
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When you lack something in the relationship, you look for it elsewhere.
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If you try to deal with it first and you ask and you address the issue and you try to resolve it within and then another, you know, don't know, 10, 8 years later and nothing has happened to be resolved.
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But it's interesting because it's like you guys, whenever the woman does something wrong, like she leaves or she cheats, it's always like, well, why?
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But if a man, no, no, no, you guys didn't give that benefit of the doubt to the dad who left.
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When the earth was made, men back then were having multiple wives.
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So now we have this thing where, okay, you know, they're bringing polygamy back.
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But before they really brought polygamy back, now we have this thing where, you know, it's one and one.
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Well, it's actually, women are picking polygamy.
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I actually think that monogamy benefits more men than benefits women.
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Because when we're in monogamy, that means like more men are getting laid.
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And that's primarily the switches when women have more mate selection.
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So 100 years ago, that was when women started to move into apartments and be able to basically like be on their own.
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Before it was like, yeah, before it was like dad's house, husband's house.
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And it's funny because the more mate selection we have, the stupider we are.
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But it's always, the bigger the menu, you don't know what to eat, right?
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We'll go for a smaller and smaller percentage of men.
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I've had so many girls come on the show and say they've dated a celebrity.
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How many girlfriends does Chris Brown, how many girlfriends do they break?
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How many girlfriends still is like all of these high value, you know, guys have.
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But the fact that you know this shows it's common, right?
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But if you actually look like eligible men when it comes to dating, if you look like eligible
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men, not even just age, the ones that are not in jail, that are not dead.
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What person of the population do you think is in jail?
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Like if you're running into men in jail, that's you probably.
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You literally can go to the corner store in New York and get locked up.
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Like there is no, you know, so you can be dating a guy and he gets locked up.
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But I'm saying if you actually think of like eligible single bachelors, right?
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So if you add that into it, who's really left for women?
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I mean, I would argue what women are left for men.
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But it's just if you look at an evolutionary point of view.
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But 95% of women are not virgins on their wedding.
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If we're going from a historical point of view.
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What percentage of male are virgin on their wedding?
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Like women don't give a shit about a man's virginity.
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Like if we're going to go for traditional values.
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One out of three men are either virgins or having had sex in the past year.
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When you when you look at those statistics you got to remember that's just a like a small
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population that they sit there and and you know study and ask these questions.
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Well I bet we can argue they're lying by 10 percent but if they do it in multiple cities
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and they're coming up with the same conclusion in the West you start to see a trend.
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Because like like I mean if you want to take like body count statistics for women tend to
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be way more variable than like men because again they'll do it in different cities to
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But which is but it's still a targeted populated audience.
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It's not like in whole because if you actually look at it in whole and you like fairly went
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to every single different group every cultural race wise all of that those statistics would
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But they sit there and it's a certain audience they target so they can get the results that
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So in multiples it's like so in multiple cities they're all talking to each other and saying
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So when you're in the West it's like they've done it in different cities and it's roughly
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So if you look in the UK and US right did they sit there and go to the same demographic
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as far as like hospitals or whatever like did they sit there and go to maybe all of the
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well-to-do hospitals or were they going to the hood as well accidents?
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Were they going into every single region, like different cultural regions to get these
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There was probably one set group that they wanted to get.
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So what numbers would you like to go off of that?
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I'm a black woman so the statistics that are given to us is actually 1 in 23 for black
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Like as far as like to get a single man, 1 in 23 for black women to get a single black
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I thought it was like 45% were single childless and in the middle class of black men.
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I could be wrong but I thought it was like 35 to 45%.
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This is why so many black women are unmarried and it is hard for us to get married because
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we are fighting with thousands of other women just to get one man.
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Well, but, but this is the problem as women, it's like, we'll kind of blame the men instead
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of looking at the quality of women because the trend of women not getting married is across
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Like, like I think white women, it's 50% like, and, and every generation it's coming
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So a lot of times it's like, well, we'll blame the men when it's like, we don't look at the
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But you're looking at the things that like men want in like that women want in
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If you're a man and you have 20 different hot women in front of you, it's like the
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You're literally playing the Hunger Games to get a man these days.
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Just, I think that you're kind of removed from the average male's experience dating.
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Because I don't think that's the average guy's experience dating at all.
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The average, ooh, the average Joe definitely, there's definitely, if you look at each man,
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right, the average man, he's at least probably talking to six women.
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No, because the data shows, the number one way people under 30 are meeting is dating apps.
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So, so a lot of people say dating apps isn't real life, but it is now.
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That's the number one way that people are meeting under 30.
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So what percent of the time do you think women swipe right and say, yes, I'd like to go on
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But I have actually friends who met on Tinder and got married.
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Oh, how many pics she swipes until she says, yeah.
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As an avid dating app user, I would probably say less than 10%.
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So if women, the number one way people are meeting is dating apps, and we're only swiping
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right 5% of the time, how is a guy going to talk to six chicks at a time?
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Because as soon as you walk out your building, yo, ma, hey, ma, can I talk to you?
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As women, we go on these dating apps a lot of time because it's easier for us to not waste
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Some men may be intimidated to come up and walk to a woman and be like, hey, let me come
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Okay, so how many girls does a guy typically have to approach to get a number?
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I would say probably like every 15 to 20 girls, maybe.
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Yeah, I mean, it depends on someone's ability and how much reference they have.
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But I mean, if I was out of a guy and seeing him throw it down, he's probably going to
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What kind of average are we talking about, though?
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Are we talking about, you know, the average for Johnny or are we talking about the average
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All men, how many women are they going to have to approach to get a number?
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And like, they're not going to, you know, like, there's no trickery.
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I mean, I think that there's, well, yeah, but I don't think they're average men, Johnny.
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You've been taking them to India to meet the Dalai Lama.
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That's a certain sex, but that's not for all the guys.
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To be quite honest, I think that there are a huge number of men who could walk around
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asking women for their number for the rest of their lives and they wouldn't get one.
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Yeah, I've had 15 years of experience doing this.
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Well, I mean, you know, you've got the opportunity to meet someone for the first time as soon
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as you leave your house, and that's what we like to encourage people to do, men or women.
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When it comes to strategy, you've got to have a bit of an audit on how you live in your life,
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where you're spending it, who you're spending it with, and be honest.
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If not, let's move some parts around to get that better return on your time.
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Who's giving you the access to the demographic that you want?
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It's going to hurt, but you're going to get better.
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And then eventually, you're going to show up as the version that they want to experience of you.
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And that's when you start getting a high percentage of their contact details.
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I think, though, there is a real difficulty for young men in particular.
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They've been fed these messages that women are all terrified of them.
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And a lot of women are actually terrified of them.
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Feminism is teaching women that actually, if a man gets a chance, he will want to, S-A-U or whatever.
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And so, yeah, boys or young men are scared to try because they don't want to scare a woman.
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And, you know, if they don't try, then they're not going to build the confidence.
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We've got, you know, the force of the law behind, you know, kind of misogyny as a hate crime laws and all of this kind of stuff that is threatening.
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And certainly HR departments, you know, you go and ask one of your colleagues who, if you're, say, a man who's not overly confident,
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but he knows this woman because he works with her all the time, so maybe he could ask her for a coffee.
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If she responds badly and goes to HR, he's lost his job.
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I know someone that got kicked out of a gym for looking at a girl the wrong way.
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I bet that the evidence was on her phone as she filmed herself for TikTok.
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And so women will wear these trashy outfits that clearly men are going to want to look.
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And then they get mad that when they look, it's like, what did you think was going to happen?
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They do stretches overly extensively in your face.
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Like me as a girl, I'm like, oh, my God, let me go.
00:32:30.280
But you have to remember, we as women are fighting for equality.
00:32:37.980
But I do believe that you should have the right to wear what you want.
00:32:41.600
If I want to go, I'm going to be hot in the gym, right?
00:32:44.100
So why can't I work out in something that small?
00:32:49.940
To work out because men can't control their eyes.
00:32:51.820
Because I respect people who are out of the gym.
00:32:53.760
You can wear what you want, but don't whine about the consequences.
00:33:10.420
But, too, I don't think women can ever be equal to men.
00:33:18.300
We should celebrate our differences and our similarities and work together as a team and not say, oh, my God, I want to be.
00:33:23.920
I don't want to be the same like, dude, I want to be me.
00:33:28.580
It's just you find your own ways to work as a team.
00:33:30.940
And this separation of like, oh, my God, let me be like a man.
00:33:34.940
But then if he doesn't pay the full bill, right, when he invites me for the dinner, I get offended because he asked me to split 50-50.
00:33:42.340
I can pay for a whole dinner today and he can pay for it tomorrow.
00:33:49.360
But when you were saying like you're fighting for equality, I don't think women can ever be equal to men because men will always have to enforce.
00:33:55.940
Like women will always have to ask men to enforce our rights.
00:34:02.500
So if I said, OK, I want men to stop looking at me in the gym, how would we enforce that?
00:34:08.580
I'd have to go to the men and say enforce this.
00:34:12.060
No, but I'm saying in a society, how do you how do you get the gym?
00:34:17.200
How do you how do you if I wanted to start a woman's gym, then how do I how do I start it?
00:34:32.780
I couldn't I couldn't I couldn't do this without the microphone that men invented the building that men built the plumbing that men installed the electric.
00:34:42.560
Those those industries are like 95 plus percent.
00:34:45.120
I understand like a manual workers are mostly men.
00:34:50.800
And let's be honest, physically built men are they are built stronger than women are.
00:34:57.040
However, we do other jobs that involve the building as administration and accounting and I don't know all the different kind of jobs.
00:35:06.000
Do we think the paperwork is equally as needed as the building the building?
00:35:13.300
If you're building a building, I need you to just like think.
00:35:17.860
So the girl doing the paperwork is equally as important.
00:35:22.100
We could we need her just as much as the man laying down the bricks for the building and the concrete.
00:35:28.900
The contracts, the, the, the, the, the paperwork of how is it going to be, how is it going to be built?
00:35:37.060
Listen, you can sit there and you could build this building, right?
00:35:40.180
But if you don't have the right contract, nothing behind it that you need her to do, it's going to be a shame.
00:35:46.480
Okay, okay, so where would they get the financing from?
00:35:50.240
It's a lot of women bankers and a lot of women who actually work with like mortgages.
00:35:54.320
I'm sorry, you realize we can literally walk out into the jungle and build a house without financing and paperwork.
00:36:03.920
The point is building a house doesn't require paperwork.
00:36:08.240
Yes, we just were discussing about women building gym, women only.
00:36:12.720
No, we're talking about importance, importance.
00:36:20.080
If you want to have a functioning business, yes, that man might build that business, but what is going to keep it running?
00:36:42.560
I don't, I don't, I don't see why like men ran society for all of history.
00:36:46.720
I don't see why this time is with the women as their backbone.
00:36:50.640
That's, that's like this delusion that women think that everything men do is because of them.
00:36:57.840
I don't see the problem with men running society or having higher paid jobs than women.
00:37:12.560
But my point is one, the jobs that men do are necessary for the backbone of society.
00:37:28.400
And we'll just as a group decide which ones are more important.
00:37:40.800
In the U.S., 93.8% of construction workers are men.
00:37:45.760
In the U.K., 99% of construction workers are men.
00:37:49.680
99% of plumbers and pipe fitters in the U.S. are men.
00:37:57.840
95.5% of sewage disposal workers are men in the U.S.
00:38:02.800
99% of sewage disposal workers in the U.K. are men.
00:39:06.400
So which would you guys, if you had to guess, is more needed?
00:39:16.080
Nurses can't help you if there's not sanitation.
00:39:19.840
We need the men for the practical running of society.
00:39:25.840
I know you are making me like, you have to pick, you have to pick.
00:39:30.240
Can I just drop a little message on the background?
00:39:47.680
We're doing building, painting, driving, everything.
00:39:52.080
Literally, we're doing everything from gardening to building to carrying things.
00:39:55.840
So, for me, it's like really weird that these things are separated to male and female jobs.
00:40:06.240
So, I'm gonna go with women because for life, right, you can have all of this stuff,
00:40:12.320
but for life to keep on surviving and keep on going on and thriving, you need the women.
00:40:26.640
If you get sick, where do you have to go, right?
00:40:39.360
Nurse practitioners do the same thing as a doctor.
00:40:48.080
Maybe built by men, but everything you do can be in the tent.
00:40:53.040
All of the jobs you described were, if you live in a thriving city, right, go to another
00:41:00.240
place in the world where they don't have buildings and all of that, you don't need
00:41:04.000
the men because the women can sit there and build as well with sticks and stuff.
00:41:08.320
So, okay, okay, okay, so again, they tried this.
00:41:15.360
They put men on an island and they put women on an island and they said survive.
00:41:20.000
The men, because men naturally order themselves with hierarchy.
00:41:25.040
So the men will say, you do this, you do this, they'll naturally listen to the most competent
00:41:34.880
Women would just bicker and they trend more towards egalitarianism.
00:41:42.400
So they, they literally had to be rescued within like two days.
00:41:48.720
But what, but again, what type of woman is that?
00:41:51.600
If you, if you're going to pick 10 women who, you know, have, you know, jobs where they're
00:41:56.800
not getting their hands wet and they've never really been out and doing this, do that.
00:42:03.760
So I just listed to you, all the women, there's no barriers.
00:42:12.400
You know what a big initiative that they're doing in America right now, a big initiative
00:42:15.600
is that they're trying to get more women into these spaces, physics, pilots, all different
00:42:33.040
There's all these programs to get women in engineering.
00:42:38.320
All these programs, all these grants, basically had free school for her.
00:42:45.120
If I'm growing up and I'm taught that, do this, do this, do that, that's what I'm going
00:42:49.040
The more and more that we show women, you can work in this field, the more and more.
00:42:58.800
But once you actually start seeing women that are top engineers, top, there's now more
00:43:05.200
women are going to be like, oh, okay, a woman has done it.
00:43:07.440
And then you also got to think the competition in the world.
00:43:13.600
I don't think that these women will be selected as partners.
00:43:18.880
If me and you both show up to a construction site, who do you think they're going to hire first?
00:43:23.760
No, I would guess you because there's all these government grants, especially in those industries.
00:43:49.520
If you took that out of it, if you really took that out of it, and we were like, seriously,
00:43:53.280
if we both show up, they're going to go for the male.
00:43:55.280
So a lot of times these women try to get jobs in these, you know, jobs.
00:44:04.640
I was actually going to go into motorsport engineering.
00:44:08.400
And as I was studying it, you know, as you can imagine, it's predominantly all men,
00:44:15.600
And you could see it was something in her that she wanted to go that direction.
00:44:20.240
She wanted to get her hands dirty and, you know, and then I went to see her in a work placement.
00:44:26.480
And then after a year or two, she just dropped out.
00:44:29.600
She wanted she didn't want to be in a masculine.
00:44:35.120
So she found something that was more suited towards that.
00:44:42.320
I think it may sound attractive to go in that direction,
00:44:45.680
but I don't think that you would be selected as a mate because it's, it's not feminine.
00:44:50.960
What, it's either you enjoy your job or not, or you do it because it's well paid.
00:44:55.440
It gets to a point where it's just like men aren't finding me attractive.
00:44:59.520
Oh, men are not finding her attractive because she's doing a manly job.
00:45:03.440
And I'm, I'm, I'm seeing this is a big, big thing in society at the moment.
00:45:07.280
We're, we're experiencing a lot more women that are stepping into the masculine.
00:45:16.720
They end up single because they're, they are seen as a threat.
00:45:26.640
I think men want, yeah, pretty and agreeable and pleasant and interesting.
00:45:32.720
But also they want a woman who will look after their children well.
00:45:37.040
And if you've got a woman who has been so focused on her career, you know, it's like,
00:45:41.840
is the kid even going to be breastfed or is she going to be like,
00:45:51.760
But, but it's also as well, like if you are in a relationship and
00:45:54.880
your job wants you to have these masculine traits,
00:45:58.480
then you're going to take the energy back into the home.
00:46:01.200
And then what happens is the man then feels like he hasn't got a place
00:46:09.360
And that's when he starts to lose interest and find someone that does allow him to,
00:46:18.560
Should men start earning more money so they can fully take care of women,
00:46:26.640
We're seeing a rise in femininity coaches right now.
00:46:30.160
There is more need than ever for, for, for these people, these modalities.
00:46:33.520
And they're just helping women get back in touch with their feminine side.
00:46:36.960
You can have these jobs, but make sure that you've, you're not losing that side to yourself.
00:46:41.600
And my question for you is why do you always put it on the men?
00:46:48.640
Because, because most women, even if they met a guy that could provide all of the bills.
00:46:54.560
And like, I meet guys that want to take care of their women all the time,
00:46:57.920
but there's not a lot of wives on the market right now.
00:47:00.640
Like women that actually know how to be a wife.
00:47:03.040
Which is, well, which is true because again, it, it, the way you are raised,
00:47:07.440
the way you're brought up definitely affects how you're going to be as an adult.
00:47:12.480
So if you come where you're used to working and all that,
00:47:16.000
yes, there are women that do need to learn how to be wives.
00:47:23.440
men stopped taking care of women in the households and women were forced to go get jobs.
00:47:27.600
So once you're out there getting a job, once you're watching somebody.
00:47:34.640
This is what the government, no, the government, the government said,
00:47:45.920
So how are they going to provide for their kids?
00:47:51.360
a hundred years ago, 85% of people were married and they stayed married.
00:47:55.680
I don't know exactly what the divorce rate was, but I know it was significantly lower.
00:47:59.920
Now people don't even want to get married because the divorce laws are so bad.
00:48:04.320
But, but my, my whole point is women are offered incentives to leave.
00:48:09.360
So if you leave, you get money from the government.
00:48:11.680
If you leave, you can take money from his pocket and women choose to take that.
00:48:19.920
Well, if you're equal to a man, then be a man, pay your own way.
00:48:23.280
But I don't think that women choose to take that.
00:48:25.360
I, I definitely believe that the government has broken up family.
00:48:30.000
That's why, like you said, they offer the money and all that.
00:48:32.000
So the government definitely has a hand in breaking up a lot of families.
00:48:36.560
If I get pregnant and I have to take care of a child, I can't take that child away from me.
00:48:39.840
I say, I say, give the kid to the person that can afford it.
00:48:42.240
It doesn't make sense for you to have the kid if you can't afford it.
00:48:45.680
You leave the family and now he has to pay for it.
00:48:48.000
And the majority of women are the ones that leave.
00:48:51.600
So the idea that men leave, and a lot of people think that generation of men left,
00:48:57.120
but it's actually the women mostly drove them out of the house and left.
00:49:01.040
If you look at the numbers, it doesn't support the deadbeat, like dad narrative.
00:49:05.520
But if you, okay, so you can, but that's the thing.
00:49:08.560
If you're looking at statistics, that's just what people are reporting.
00:49:11.600
If you actually, in real life, what is driving them to leave?
00:49:15.040
You know, I've done a lot of these interviews because I interview guys that have like,
00:49:21.840
Women can be very spiteful and use the kids as a pawn to hurt the dad.
00:49:26.320
But are men only trying to get the custody so they don't have to pay child support?
00:49:29.760
Because a lot of times there's men who fight to try to get custody
00:49:33.200
because they don't want to pay high child support.
00:49:35.200
Well, I don't, well, one, I don't think men should pay any child support.
00:49:38.800
I think, I think if you leave, that's like, that's on you.
00:49:49.920
I would say the kids and that's why dads should be awarded custody off the back.
00:49:53.200
Because every data statistic will tell you that single father homes fare better than single mother homes.
00:49:58.480
Well, yeah, but when parents separate, it is the,
00:50:04.080
as close to equal time with both parents that is the, it provides the best outcomes.
00:50:10.480
And so that is what you're aiming for, like as close to 50-50 as is humanly possible.
00:50:17.440
You say that men are needed to build these homes, build everything sewage, plumage.
00:50:21.840
How are they going to do that if they have custody of the kid?
00:50:25.200
Well, I think the person that can afford the kids should have that choice.
00:50:29.200
So he can still like, it's not like I'm saying he should never give the mother access,
00:50:34.080
but I think he should have the primary decision.
00:50:37.120
I think, I think when it comes to have a nanny.
00:50:41.440
Well, I'd imagine men aren't as spiteful as women.
00:50:43.680
They'd be much more willing to let the mother like watch the kids.
00:50:46.640
The women are the ones that use the kids as a tool.
00:50:53.520
But I will still say, if you think about it, men, especially alpha males,
00:51:02.400
Who is going to, if they have custody of the children, who's going to watch the children?
00:51:06.640
So there's a man and a woman and the woman leaves, right?
00:51:16.800
I think he should get primary custody and decision-making because she decided
00:51:20.640
to leave and he earns more, meaning he can afford the kids.
00:51:24.000
I'm not saying that he should not let the mother see the kids.
00:51:27.440
I think when he cannot watch the kids, the mother should.
00:51:30.560
And if he's working 80 hours a week, she's going to get plenty of time with the kids.
00:51:34.240
So if he's working 80 hours a week, she's going to have the kids anyway.
00:51:38.800
She's the one who is teaching them their morals, their values, their cooking for them,
00:51:43.520
taking care of them, teaching them everything, loving them, doing all of that.
00:51:49.600
If he's not going to be there anyway, then you're damaging the kids now.
00:51:53.440
Honestly, off the bat, I think it should be 50-50 if it's mutual.
00:52:00.320
What if a woman is abused and she chooses to leave because she's beaten up or she's
00:52:04.560
just mental abuse, various things, various scenarios, can be millions of them.
00:52:08.880
What if she chooses to leave because she cannot survive there and she would be dead
00:52:14.640
It's interesting how we always go to like the worst case scenario.
00:52:22.720
And so we would have to have safeguards so that women could escape really unhealthy relationships.
00:52:29.520
And so if there was that safeguard, but if, you know, unless you proved that you were abused,
00:52:37.920
you knew that the father was going to get full custody, then what would happen is that false
00:52:44.400
I just, and you know, I really want to just take the whole child access issue out of the courts.
00:52:51.840
You know, you're dealing with families who are struggling to split up amicably and do what's in
00:52:58.240
the best interests of their children by minimizing conflict.
00:53:01.600
And the way we respond to it is by throwing it into an adversarial court system.
00:53:09.680
Everyone involved needs to get down to the like psychiatrist's office.
00:53:13.520
And we need to, you know, we need to go back and build again.
00:53:23.840
It's so you don't think the family court system should exist at all?
00:53:31.440
I agree with you on the subject that women play up too much on all these fake allegations of
00:53:37.120
And I'm not going to mention because I can't remember the keywords.
00:53:42.240
I think the people who falsely allege someone of a crime that they have not committed, they
00:53:47.040
should be punished of an equal punishment that would have been in the court.
00:53:54.800
But the family court system is definitely needed.
00:53:58.640
Because let's say you're involved with a man, right?
00:54:01.840
And you think he put a condom on and he didn't.
00:54:09.040
When you have a family court system to enforce that he at least pays for, helps pays for his
00:54:19.200
You're telling me you didn't notice he didn't have a condom on.
00:54:21.760
There are times when you don't notice a man might slip it off.
00:54:24.160
But when you're in the moment, who's feeling like this the whole time?
00:54:26.960
Tell me what's more common, a man pulling off the condom or a woman lying about being
00:54:36.960
I would definitely say a man pulling off a condom.
00:54:38.960
I would, without a, no, a man even putting on a condom doesn't even put it on to begin with.
00:54:51.200
You keep talking about like, where's the demographic we're talking about here?
00:54:55.920
You're on birth control, but these men have been known.
00:54:58.800
I'm talking about in general, about somebody who, you know, I travel to where I talk to
00:55:05.760
Like, so I've talked to millions of people before.
00:55:09.280
And when you actually sit and talk to people and you find out their stories and stuff,
00:55:13.840
Well, my question is, why doesn't she require the men she sleeps with wears condoms?
00:55:18.560
You can see if they put it, like, this is so stupid.
00:55:21.120
No, you can, you can see if a guy puts a condom on, but how many times do you turn on Murray
00:55:25.520
and he's taking the condom off and now she's pregnant?
00:55:33.200
You know what, that is interesting though, because what is the response from the public
00:55:37.360
and the audience in situations where you get into these kind of real life stories
00:55:43.600
Like people, that is not socially acceptable and people think that he is awful.
00:55:49.600
Whereas there was a clip that went quite viral.
00:55:53.680
I think it was on Oprah or something like that.
00:55:56.160
And it was, you know, an audience full of women and they're having like,
00:56:00.560
they're asking questions and getting responses from different people.
00:56:05.120
And a woman stands up and she says, look, we have some number of kids, two or three kids.
00:56:16.080
Should I pretend that I'm taking my birth control, but stop.
00:56:20.560
And the entire audience, like all of these women jumped up, hollering, saying like,
00:56:28.880
Like, and that was, I've heard, I've heard, it's just stupid.
00:56:34.560
I've heard, I'm just questioning, like, there's four guys here.
00:56:38.800
Do you guys know any woman that has lied, that you think lied about being on birth control?
00:57:01.200
Okay, well, I was going to ask the women, the women, have you ever been like condom,
00:57:05.600
where the guy said he was wearing a condom and then he took it off and you didn't know?
00:57:21.440
This is random people that don't know each other.
00:57:23.600
So it seems like one's more common than the other.
00:57:27.440
They're both situations that definitely happen.
00:57:30.320
No, wait, I thought you talked to people, so now we're doing a random sample size.
00:57:37.040
First of all, men don't even try to wear condoms here in the UK.
00:57:49.440
I think that women just do that to play victim.
00:57:53.520
I think that's a lack of, like, accountability.
00:57:55.600
I'm going to tell you how you're not going to notice, right?
00:57:57.120
Let's say a man is hitting it from the front, right?
00:58:02.640
And he takes it off because he's about to climax.
00:58:20.320
Where does it put me if I lied about not taking birth control?
00:58:30.160
I was taking the birth control and I said I'm not.
00:58:45.680
I understand that a lot of men don't wear condoms, right?
00:58:48.720
But I'm kind of worried if you're saying that there are men
00:58:53.760
that would wear the condom and take it off when they are about to ejaculate.
00:59:02.800
It sounds like a crazy concept, but it is more common than what you think.
00:59:08.640
You need to think about the kind of men that would do that.
00:59:19.040
So, you would be surprised how many women I have come across
00:59:24.480
Like, men, if they're in it and it's feeling good,
00:59:31.120
All sleeping with the same, which goes back to my point.
00:59:39.600
If you're sleeping with a guy, what does that say about your decision making?
00:59:46.720
So, there's only the bozos like that that are left for us to pick from.
00:59:51.120
This whole, like, if you're not getting good men, it says something about you.