JustPearlyThings - All WOMEN Are Destined To EXPIRE？ @StirlingCooper THE PREGAME SHOW ｜ EP 153

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00:01:15.440 So today we have a lovely panel.

00:01:18.740 Why don't we go around, everyone say your name, age, relationship, status, and a fun fact about yourself.

00:01:23.900 Starting here, and actually add your profession too today.

00:01:27.080 So starting here, go around.

00:01:29.240 Okay.

00:01:30.060 My name's Deja.

00:01:31.320 I'm 25.

00:01:32.740 I'm single.

00:01:33.540 I work in film and television production.

00:01:36.960 And I'm from Atlanta.

00:01:39.440 My name is Rebecca.

00:01:42.580 I'm 30 years old.

00:01:44.820 I am starting up events, so event management.

00:01:49.700 Fun fact about me, my son's birthday is Christmas Day.

00:01:52.920 Oh, wow.

00:01:54.460 My name's Rachel.

00:01:55.920 I'm 40 years old.

00:01:57.820 Fun fact about me, as some people know already, is that I only eat meat, and I've been doing that for four and a half years.

00:02:06.560 Yeah, that's that.

00:02:09.440 Hi, I'm Natasha Boone, and I am a singer, and I also have a flower company.

00:02:15.840 I'm 32 years old, and I'm single.

00:02:20.200 Hi, I'm Shirazan.

00:02:21.880 I'm 31 years old, and I'm working in marketing.

00:02:25.720 Fun fact.

00:02:26.880 Oh, fun fact about me, is I was born in South Africa and raised.

00:02:31.340 Cool.

00:02:33.460 Yes, that's me.

00:02:34.460 I'm Sterling, 36, single.

00:02:36.280 I'm a sex coach for men, and fun fact, I just bought some farmland.

00:02:41.380 Oh, nice. 0.84

00:02:43.060 Can anyone hear milk a cow?

00:02:44.920 I could try.

00:02:46.140 I could try.

00:02:46.740 All right.

00:02:48.180 Disqualified.

00:02:50.380 Can you?

00:02:51.740 Of course I can.

00:02:53.280 Can you?

00:02:54.220 Of course.

00:02:54.560 He's got land.

00:02:55.120 Of course.

00:02:55.980 Of course. 1.00

00:02:56.360 Can you kill a cow and butcher it? 1.00

00:02:58.700 Easy. 1.00

00:02:59.300 Oh.

00:02:59.780 Easy.

00:03:01.280 Is that like a normal thing for you?

00:03:04.180 No, I'm just a capable person, so of course I can do that.

00:03:08.580 Okay, go ahead.

00:03:09.780 Hi, I'm Christine.

00:03:11.100 I'm 23 years old.

00:03:13.080 I am a YouTuber here at the Audacity Network, and I'm in a relationship.

00:03:18.100 Fun fact, my favorite band is Pink Floyd.

00:03:26.180 Go ahead.

00:03:27.620 Hi, my name's Q.

00:03:29.200 I'm 34 years old, currently single.

00:03:33.540 Own a couple of companies.

00:03:35.420 Own QSOC Construction, Nazareth Nail Lounge.

00:03:39.700 Got ownership in Performance Hub, Sports Car Garage, and fun fact about me is I'm humble.

00:03:46.480 I'm humble enough.

00:03:49.120 Go ahead.

00:03:50.180 My name's Jerome Derouche.

00:03:51.760 I'm a singer, songwriter, actor, a whole all-round entrepreneur, fashion designer, and the fun fact about me is I am the fun.

00:04:02.540 Wow.

00:04:04.640 That's awesome.

00:04:05.700 All right.

00:04:07.520 Okay.

00:04:08.360 So today, our topic today is when do women expire? 0.86

00:04:13.460 Yes, my question is do women have an expiration date, and if so, when is it? 1.00

00:04:18.960 Oh, she's shocked.

00:04:19.820 She's like, oh, no.

00:04:23.440 So we're going to start with a very nice video, which is amazing and awesome.

00:04:30.480 Let's pull it up, Kate.

00:04:31.600 Oh, nice.

00:04:32.220 That wasn't that beautiful.

00:04:33.220 Oh, okay.

00:04:55.200 So the reason, okay, I guess I'll tell you how I came up with this awesome topic today.

00:05:04.520 So basically, I tweeted a couple of months ago, and I had a very profound and amazing tweet.

00:05:12.060 And I said, 25-year-old women are hotter than 35-year-old women. 1.00

00:05:16.400 Now, to me, I just thought this was basic.

00:05:19.060 Oh, she's shocked.

00:05:19.920 She's like, oh, no.

00:05:22.680 To me, I just thought this was basic.

00:05:24.940 Water is wet.

00:05:26.040 The sky is blue.

00:05:27.260 Younger women tend to be more attractive than older women. 0.99

00:05:30.460 And it got me to thinking, you know, is there a date or is there an age where women are over,

00:05:36.620 where they're basically considered just for fun for men, where they're too old to start a family with

00:05:42.220 and they would not consider them long-term?

00:05:44.160 I also wondered if there were any exceptions to this, like if she was really hot, like she's 47, but she's an 8. 1.00

00:05:53.020 She looks like J-Lo.

00:05:54.180 Was there an exception?

00:05:55.780 I don't know.

00:05:56.720 I thought we would ask the panel today.

00:05:58.460 So it also was inspired during this video that I saw, which was women documenting their experience, really,

00:06:06.080 with dating after divorce.

00:06:07.900 Let's pull it up.

00:06:12.960 I can't hear it.

00:06:14.160 I can't hear it.

00:06:14.880 I can't hear it.

00:06:15.740 I can't hear it.

00:06:16.080 I can't hear it.

00:06:16.440 Know that your best years are ahead of you.

00:06:18.760 And life has been more fulfilling for me since my mid-30s than it ever was before that.

00:06:24.120 So just know that your best years are ahead of you and you are never too old and it's never too late.

00:06:29.580 This is probably the loneliest I've ever felt in my life.

00:06:32.960 And I'm in therapy and I'm in a codependency group.

00:06:35.840 I'm like, I'm so done.

00:06:39.060 You have so much leverage and so many options.

00:06:42.280 I can't even tell you.

00:06:43.620 When the check came, he asked me for $6.

00:06:45.500 Definitely the thing that I would stay alone for ever.

00:06:51.580 My God.

00:06:53.020 Jesus Christ.

00:06:54.680 Are we not opening doors anymore?

00:06:56.280 Are we not doing that?

00:06:57.160 Never used a dating app in your life?

00:06:58.980 Well, the good news is you're about to have so much fun.

00:07:07.300 Yeah, so much fun.

00:07:09.540 You see?

00:07:10.420 Yeah, so there we go.

00:07:12.760 So my question is, is there an age that women expire at starting here and then go around? 0.81

00:07:18.460 I would say no, especially like this day and age we have TikTok and everything and we see like all these older women flaunting, you know, their appearances and everything. 1.00

00:07:26.980 I would say women don't expire. 1.00

00:07:29.800 No.

00:07:30.220 Okay.

00:07:31.020 Go ahead.

00:07:33.300 I know we've kind of had this conversation before when I've been on the show before.

00:07:36.300 And you basically told me after you're 25, you're done.

00:07:38.940 No, I didn't say after you're 25, you're done.

00:07:40.940 Or was it 30?

00:07:41.860 No.

00:07:42.140 It's like, you're basically not worth it.

00:07:43.600 No, no, no.

00:07:44.540 I said it.

00:07:44.980 I said it.

00:07:45.540 I said, no, no.

00:07:46.440 This is what I said.

00:07:47.200 I said, if I was a guy.

00:07:49.140 You wouldn't want to date somebody.

00:07:51.260 Yeah, over 25 because most of the time they're so set in their ways. 1.00

00:07:54.860 It's like you can't, the feminism is like in the ears and stuff. 1.00

00:07:58.380 There's exceptions though, but most of them, yeah.

00:08:01.800 Go ahead.

00:08:02.500 Do women expire? 1.00

00:08:03.440 Wait, what do you think though?

00:08:04.460 Don't, I didn't ask you what I thought.

00:08:06.260 I'm already trying to say that.

00:08:07.560 How did you dodge this question?

00:08:09.600 What do you think?

00:08:10.260 I just, I have my opinions.

00:08:12.260 Go ahead.

00:08:13.400 Personally, I think 30.

00:08:15.160 30?

00:08:15.840 Okay.

00:08:16.200 Women are expired. 1.00

00:08:17.660 You're right.

00:08:18.080 You're 30 though.

00:08:18.960 Yeah, I'm expired.

00:08:19.940 You just put yourself at the game.

00:08:25.160 Yeah, I am all the game.

00:08:27.020 Did you say you're single as well?

00:08:29.060 Yeah.

00:08:31.440 There's some humility in this trick.

00:08:34.280 You know, go ahead.

00:08:35.220 When are women expired? 1.00

00:08:36.640 I do think it's individual.

00:08:38.420 I'm older than some of the people here today.

00:08:41.440 Okay.

00:08:42.140 And yeah, I do think it's individual.

00:08:43.640 I think if someone looks after themselves, they look after their appearance and they're a good person, then, you know.

00:08:49.800 There's no expiration date.

00:08:51.600 No, I do think there is.

00:08:53.500 Okay.

00:08:53.780 But you can push it a bit further.

00:08:55.420 Okay, so when is the expiration date for someone that takes care of themselves?

00:08:59.720 So, I don't think I've expired at the age of 40.

00:09:02.360 So, that's all I can say.

00:09:03.100 Okay, well, I didn't ask about you.

00:09:04.860 I asked about when do women expire. 1.00

00:09:09.740 Let's say, give me a girl that takes care of herself and a girl that doesn't. 1.00

00:09:14.100 Okay, so a girl that doesn't take care of herself. 1.00

00:09:16.560 Well, is she ever in the game if she's not taking care of herself? 0.92

00:09:20.480 Well, I mean, haven't you heard that Patrice O'Neill thing?

00:09:23.560 That where it's like a ugly 18-year-old is still hotter than a hot 30-year-old?

00:09:28.420 No.

00:09:29.180 Yeah, well.

00:09:29.820 No.

00:09:30.340 I don't agree.

00:09:32.460 Well, older women typically don't. 1.00

00:09:34.840 No offense.

00:09:37.520 That's it.

00:09:39.140 No, because think about it.

00:09:40.500 It's like at 40, at 40 or 45, a guy can't get a kid out of you.

00:09:45.380 The 18-year-old can lose weight.

00:09:47.600 No, I think you can have a child at 40.

00:09:49.540 Yeah, but it's not probable.

00:09:52.260 I think it's doable.

00:09:53.560 If you've looked after yourself.

00:09:54.800 It's not likely.

00:09:55.820 You're on the carnivore diet.

00:09:56.960 You're good.

00:09:57.460 Okay, so what age does a woman that takes care of herself expire? 1.00

00:10:05.480 Maybe she needs to be settled down by 45 at the most. 1.00

00:10:10.880 Okay, 45.

00:10:12.180 Go ahead.

00:10:12.600 I don't think that women have an expiration date just purely because different needs are 1.00

00:10:21.240 met at different ages.

00:10:23.760 So I might have been really for someone when I was younger, but really even more for them

00:10:29.860 when I'm older, once I've experienced a few more.

00:10:33.460 So I am over 30, but I don't think I'm expired.

00:10:36.320 Okay.

00:10:36.820 I didn't ask about you.

00:10:38.560 But when do women... 1.00

00:10:40.080 It's me.

00:10:40.840 I said no.

00:10:41.460 No, so they never expire.

00:10:43.340 So at 55, she is equally as wanted on the market as she was at 25.

00:10:49.400 She could be wanted, but it depends on who wants her.

00:10:52.500 This is what I'm saying.

00:10:53.480 So it's like, depends on...

00:10:55.000 Men.

00:10:55.740 So men of what age?

00:10:57.360 So an older man might appreciate the more older woman. 0.98

00:11:00.300 He might have had enough of the younger.

00:11:01.740 So I'll tell you what.

00:11:02.660 They surveyed men between the ages of like 20 and 80, and they all found 22-year-olds roughly

00:11:07.880 the most attractive.

00:11:09.500 What?

00:11:09.940 And women? 1.00

00:11:10.580 Yeah.

00:11:10.760 22.

00:11:11.460 Yeah.

00:11:11.920 I can see why they're youthful.

00:11:14.220 I remember 22.

00:11:15.560 Yeah, yeah.

00:11:16.360 Sometimes.

00:11:16.900 But it's like, if we don't expire, why do women get Botox to look younger? 0.77

00:11:21.120 I don't know.

00:11:23.160 I don't know.

00:11:23.900 They want to be more youthful, reminiscing.

00:11:26.540 Right.

00:11:26.900 But it's like, we almost know that we do because we all try to look young.

00:11:30.620 Yeah, it's true.

00:11:32.060 Okay.

00:11:32.520 So we do expire.

00:11:33.780 What age?

00:11:34.240 I don't think we expire.

00:11:36.760 I don't think we expire.

00:11:38.000 I don't think we expire.

00:11:38.020 Just because we want to be youthful.

00:11:40.020 Just because we want to be youthful doesn't mean that women expire. 1.00

00:11:43.240 Women do not expire. 0.94

00:11:44.580 Okay.

00:11:44.900 Women are, okay. 1.00

00:11:45.880 Go ahead.

00:11:46.260 What about you?

00:11:46.700 Well, expiration dates.

00:11:49.340 Well.

00:11:49.500 It depends on what, what exactly what she said or the fact that who, again, men, but what's

00:11:56.380 the purpose?

00:11:57.540 So milk can go off, but I'm sure once it's off, you can use it for something else.

00:12:01.540 Well, yeah, that's when they become, that's when like side chicks for sure. 0.97

00:12:04.680 No, not necessarily.

00:12:08.080 You can get 50 year old side chicks. 0.96

00:12:10.420 No, I know.

00:12:10.980 I agree with you.

00:12:11.740 They tend to, women tend to accept that when they're older. 1.00

00:12:15.720 No.

00:12:16.440 They do.

00:12:17.040 So, yeah, I mean, again, I think it depends on what it is that you want out of the person.

00:12:23.340 Well, I would say, I would say for a long-term relationship or marriage, when are women. 1.00

00:12:28.820 If you pass the middle age, what is long term?

00:12:31.300 Long term these days can be two years.

00:12:34.280 Long term can be.

00:12:35.600 Okay.

00:12:35.940 So, but when a man is looking for a woman to settle down with, is there an age where women 1.00

00:12:41.580 typically are expired just based on their age?

00:12:44.940 Biologically, yes.

00:12:45.820 Again, if you look after yourself or not, I'd hope that a woman that sits after themselves 1.00

00:12:50.180 biologically, hopefully the clock can push to 40 plus.

00:12:54.900 Okay.

00:12:55.640 40, 40.

00:12:56.920 Plus.

00:12:57.820 Okay.

00:12:58.260 So, 50, is she expired?

00:13:01.860 Biologically, perhaps.

00:13:03.060 Okay.

00:13:03.540 Thank you.

00:13:04.020 I'm actually going to do the men's second.

00:13:05.740 So, I'm going to go Christine and then I'm going to ask the guys.

00:13:08.720 I mean, we're talking about the dating market here.

00:13:13.200 So, we're talking about the general rule.

00:13:14.840 Of course, there are exceptions.

00:13:16.740 I mean, someone like Rachel, you don't look 40, right?

00:13:19.560 Truth is, most 40-year-olds don't look like you.

00:13:21.800 So, if we're talking the majority, I would say 27, 28.

00:13:28.860 27, 28 expired.

00:13:31.220 Okay.

00:13:32.000 Let's go to the men.

00:13:33.180 When do women expire for you for long-term prospects? 1.00

00:13:37.800 I'll make this loud and clear.

00:13:38.940 Women do expire. 1.00

00:13:42.000 You get to about 30 years old and there's no point in getting married.

00:13:45.680 There's no point in having kids and stuff like that.

00:13:47.400 Imagine having a kid at 40 years old and then being 50 with a 10-year-old.

00:13:51.880 Yeah.

00:13:52.580 That's kind of crazy. 1.00

00:13:53.820 So, for you over 30, you're kind of dumb. 1.00

00:13:56.200 Over 30, there's no hope in a long-term relationship and planning marriage and all that kind of stuff. 0.99

00:14:01.360 I'll say over 30, it's just...

00:14:04.340 So, I have a question.

00:14:05.460 What if she's 30 but she looks like J-Lo at 30?

00:14:08.360 Would you make an exception?

00:14:09.820 For me, me personally, it's a smash and dab.

00:14:12.960 You're still...

00:14:13.640 It doesn't matter what she looks like, 30? 0.90

00:14:15.720 Okay.

00:14:16.420 What about you?

00:14:18.340 I just think it's...

00:14:20.040 The terminology expiration for me is a bit harsh.

00:14:22.920 So, I don't really want to talk on it on that sense of using that terminology.

00:14:28.340 But what I will say is, I don't think there's an expiration date.

00:14:32.720 It is what it is.

00:14:33.620 So...

00:14:33.920 Your own individuality.

00:14:35.280 But I'm asking for you.

00:14:37.360 For...

00:14:37.840 Regarding women.

00:14:38.620 Yeah.

00:14:38.900 So, when you...

00:14:39.580 You're dating a woman... 0.89

00:14:40.220 I don't think that.

00:14:40.560 If I'm dating somebody and their head's screwed on and we're both getting it together,

00:14:44.800 then I'm not looking at her in that aspect of an expiration date.

00:14:48.680 Do you want kids and, like, a family?

00:14:50.500 Oh, I've got kids.

00:14:51.280 Okay.

00:14:51.540 You've got kids?

00:14:52.120 I'm single, but I've got kids.

00:14:53.220 But I would love to...

00:14:54.100 I'm a family man.

00:14:55.000 You understand?

00:14:55.700 So, I could...

00:14:56.740 I'm 36.

00:14:57.360 I could see someone that's 40 or so forth.

00:14:59.600 I'm not going to say she's expired.

00:15:01.240 Okay.

00:15:01.520 My mindset isn't...

00:15:02.280 So, 40.

00:15:02.620 But what about 50?

00:15:04.320 I don't want to say the word expiration.

00:15:06.380 Maybe...

00:15:06.820 Maybe we've got to a point of...

00:15:08.480 Okay.

00:15:08.780 We've got to a point of...

00:15:10.160 It's coming to your time.

00:15:12.080 Okay.

00:15:12.720 And in a respectful way.

00:15:14.560 But, yeah.

00:15:15.680 Okay.

00:15:16.160 So, roughly for you, 50.

00:15:17.740 I'd say, yeah.

00:15:18.680 What about 45?

00:15:19.900 That's cool for me.

00:15:20.800 45 and under.

00:15:21.860 Yeah.

00:15:22.080 Okay.

00:15:22.480 He doesn't discriminate.

00:15:23.540 No, I don't.

00:15:24.300 Sterling, what about you?

00:15:26.700 So, the same age that I think women will start to pay a lot more attention to themselves

00:15:32.620 and put a lot more effort and work in to being beautiful is the same age where I cut her off,

00:15:38.500 and that's 24.

00:15:39.620 24.

00:15:40.600 That's very good.

00:15:41.700 And what's the difference?

00:15:43.540 Like, what makes you pick 24?

00:15:46.820 Typically, less indoctrination.

00:15:49.480 Like, less feminism, more feminine, because they've got less years in the workforce being 1.00

00:15:55.400 in, like, their masculine energy, kind of having that drilled into them all the time.

00:16:00.720 Yeah.

00:16:01.580 The primary reason is there's a lot more runway for making a family. 0.96

00:16:05.000 Like, there's a lot more years on the clock.

00:16:06.920 I want a lot of kids.

00:16:07.800 I want a big family.

00:16:09.040 You can really only crank out, like, one a year.

00:16:10.800 She needs some time off. 0.93

00:16:12.260 Right?

00:16:12.940 Maybe if she's got twins in the family. 1.00

00:16:14.740 Maybe twins are in the family.

00:16:15.900 Cool.

00:16:16.060 We can crank out two a year.

00:16:16.720 Everyone loves to buy one, get one free.

00:16:18.580 Right?

00:16:20.900 If that's coming out, if she's guaranteeing twins, we can push that time frame up a little

00:16:24.920 bit.

00:16:25.120 But the womb needs the rest. 0.72

00:16:25.940 Yeah.

00:16:26.480 Like, you know, I want a lot of kids.

00:16:28.060 So, we're going to need some runway.

00:16:30.560 And, like, the younger a woman has kids, the older she can actually keep having kids 1.00

00:16:37.160 until.

00:16:37.800 The danger becomes when a woman has her first kid in, like, the later years of her life, 0.99

00:16:42.960 that's when you get things like geriatric pregnancy. 0.89

00:16:45.420 You have to have C-sections.

00:16:46.920 Otherwise, there's serious dangers there.

00:16:49.840 Like, my mother, she had me.

00:16:51.860 She's the exception of the rule.

00:16:52.660 She had me at, like, 37.

00:16:54.240 She was worried I was going to have Down syndrome because that's one of the complications of a

00:16:58.200 geriatric pregnancy.

00:16:59.480 Like, it's more likely and stuff like that.

00:17:01.160 So, there's risk for them.

00:17:03.060 Okay.

00:17:03.380 So, I want to go through a woman's life here. 0.99

00:17:06.440 So, under 25, 30, 30 to 35, 35 plus.

00:17:12.800 Okay.

00:17:13.340 So, I want to say, is there ever an age where a woman should consider, you know, like, take

00:17:19.460 marriage off the table?

00:17:21.180 Like, marriage is, you know, marriage is no longer for you.

00:17:25.080 I don't think...

00:17:25.460 The average age of first marriage is 31 in the UK, I would say.

00:17:29.040 Anyway, so, at what age would it be easier if a woman took marriage off the table? 1.00

00:17:35.480 I don't think women should take marriage off the table. 1.00

00:17:37.600 Never.

00:17:38.280 Never.

00:17:41.540 That's women. 1.00

00:17:42.620 Men might have a different answer to that, but marriage, yeah, no.

00:17:45.840 I'm going to...

00:17:46.520 I'm going to want some hands here.

00:17:49.020 All right.

00:17:49.620 So, if a woman is 50, should she take marriage off the table? 1.00

00:17:53.020 Raise your hand.

00:17:54.620 Who wants to marry a 50-year-old? 1.00

00:17:56.500 Really?

00:17:57.160 50?

00:17:57.520 Okay.

00:17:58.480 All right.

00:17:59.320 35, should she take marriage off the table?

00:18:02.800 35?

00:18:03.760 Okay.

00:18:04.340 Then, all right.

00:18:05.380 So, basically, the women think marriage is on the table forever. 1.00

00:18:09.120 Yes.

00:18:09.660 Why would a man marry a woman that's over the age of 35? 1.00

00:18:13.660 For what purpose?

00:18:14.460 Because you got an attorney with you.

00:18:16.500 Love.

00:18:19.480 Wow.

00:18:22.520 What value does a guy get from a woman over the age of 35? 1.00

00:18:27.460 Companionship.

00:18:28.140 If you was with that individual for a substantial amount of time, that's okay.

00:18:32.060 If you met somebody randomly, it's a bit iffy, buddy.

00:18:35.520 No, no.

00:18:36.080 She's... 1.00

00:18:36.560 You met her 35-plus.

00:18:38.640 Well, 35, there's no problem with that at all.

00:18:41.500 Okay.

00:18:41.820 50-odd.

00:18:43.620 Do you know what?

00:18:44.740 For me, yeah, this is a bit mad.

00:18:46.360 Like, if you meet someone that's 50, yeah, and you like them, and you have a connection

00:18:50.660 with them, and companionship, why would you not want to marry them?

00:18:54.780 Well, what's the purpose of marriage?

00:18:56.960 Say it again.

00:18:57.380 Family, kids.

00:18:58.720 Disagree.

00:18:59.420 Agree.

00:19:00.040 You're not going to get none of that.

00:19:01.300 And that's it.

00:19:02.420 But what if both partitions don't want that?

00:19:04.720 They don't want kids? 1.00

00:19:05.520 You get enough headaches for 30, 20-year-olds.

00:19:06.220 I would say, what's the point of marriage?

00:19:07.880 Yeah, zero point.

00:19:08.760 But I think marriage is different for 50-year-olds than it would be for a 30-year-old.

00:19:11.980 30-year-old, yeah.

00:19:13.120 I think it's completely different.

00:19:15.000 Their mindset of marriage is completely different.

00:19:16.460 Well, I would say that at that point, just being in a long-term relationship, what's

00:19:21.400 the point of marriage?

00:19:23.540 That's why I say, when does it go off the table?

00:19:25.700 Because it benefits the women, and the women's going to get something. 1.00

00:19:28.660 You say never.

00:19:29.820 You say never.

00:19:30.780 It's never off the table.

00:19:32.300 You guys, when did you?

00:19:33.460 When should, Sterling, when do you think?

00:19:35.180 Well, I'm like.

00:19:36.180 Under 25 to 30.

00:19:37.440 Under 25 is the kind of woman I would ask to marry me. 1.00

00:19:40.340 Okay.

00:19:40.720 Above that, again, like I said before, I don't see the runway there.

00:19:44.520 But, like, the time, there's not enough time.

00:19:48.120 So you wouldn't marry anybody over 25?

00:19:50.060 No, I'm going to go with 25 as well.

00:19:51.720 I'd only go with 30 if I've been over it for a while.

00:19:54.140 But I just met her.

00:19:57.300 He's like, let me bargain with it.

00:19:58.640 You get it?

00:19:59.660 Okay, so all the, and you say under 45.

00:20:02.540 Yeah, 50 is pushing it, but around the 40 mark, cool, we're good.

00:20:06.380 All right.

00:20:06.960 So I'm going to wait.

00:20:09.060 50 should be gone before I'm gone.

00:20:10.500 One.

00:20:13.140 All right.

00:20:14.520 Who here thinks women should never take marriage off the table?

00:20:20.080 Wow.

00:20:21.060 We love selling dreams.

00:20:23.660 Yeah, let them be happy.

00:20:25.480 Let them go get their little marriage thing. 1.00

00:20:27.040 No, you know what your chance, if you, after you're the age of 35,

00:20:30.080 is of getting a ring, ladies? 0.99

00:20:31.520 Who wants to know?

00:20:32.380 It's like 5%.

00:20:33.360 Higher than that.

00:20:34.920 Oh, okay.

00:20:36.800 It's 15% over the age of 35.

00:20:40.080 They get a ring.

00:20:41.080 Uh-huh.

00:20:41.700 They get married.

00:20:42.200 And that's, that's the previous generation.

00:20:44.240 So I would guess if you're not married after 35 in this generation, where marriage is less

00:20:48.800 common, it's probably going to go down.

00:20:49.840 I was going to say this generation will probably never get married. 0.99

00:20:51.900 I think we're just setting ourselves up for failure at this point.

00:20:54.660 At the end of the day, if we say we're never taking marriage off the table, you're ultimately

00:20:57.880 setting yourself up to fail.

00:20:59.240 Because I think realistically, if you're not actually, you know, married or engaged by

00:21:03.900 25, chances are it's probably never going to happen.

00:21:06.200 And if you tell yourself one day it's going to happen, one day it's going to happen, you're

00:21:09.840 constantly living in hope and expectation.

00:21:11.680 So then when it doesn't happen and you're on your deathbed and you're not married, you're

00:21:14.800 going to be thinking, oh, I've not, I've not found love.

00:21:17.400 But it's like, if you put it out your mind, if you just say like, by the time I'm 25,

00:21:22.520 if I'm not married, I'm going to put it out of my mind.

00:21:24.740 If it happens, great.

00:21:26.840 But then if it doesn't, at least then you're not going to be upset that you didn't get

00:21:30.880 it.

00:21:31.260 Well, we've been sold, we've been sold a lie that women deserve a husband and that all 0.99

00:21:35.760 women are going to get them. 1.00

00:21:36.760 When the truth of the matter is most women, most women will not have a happy ending. 1.00

00:21:41.020 Like most, if you look at the stats, half of women aren't going to have kids or a husband 1.00

00:21:45.080 out of the half that do have kids, if they get married.

00:21:48.880 So maybe, let's say the other half gets married, half will fail.

00:21:52.820 So you have one in four women that'll stay married, if that. 1.00

00:21:55.840 And I'd argue it's even lower because you have to account for women that had kids and 1.00

00:21:59.840 didn't get married.

00:22:00.940 There's a big thing here as well.

00:22:02.300 Like a big part of why I set that age range so low is because the higher up that ladder

00:22:08.760 you go, the more entitlement women tend to have. 1.00

00:22:12.940 Like if you look at that video we watched before, there was at least one of those women 1.00

00:22:16.560 in that clip.

00:22:17.160 She was like, why don't men open doors anymore?

00:22:19.580 That's just one little example.

00:22:21.260 You'll see lots of clips like that on TikTok of women who are in their 30s, not just in 0.98

00:22:26.820 that clip, but the level of entitlement seems to stack up the longer they have waited for

00:22:34.380 someone to pop the question.

00:22:35.520 Do you think men shouldn't open doors? 0.99

00:22:37.700 I think they absolutely should open doors, 100%.

00:22:40.120 No, I was going to say, so you feel like women feel more entitled after 25? 0.91

00:22:44.040 Yeah, because they haven't got what they were promised.

00:22:46.540 Like Pearl just said, there's this level of, they've been promised, they've been sold

00:22:49.760 this dream their whole life since they were a young girl.

00:22:52.460 Like you're a princess, you're going to find your prince charming.

00:22:54.740 This is going to happen.

00:22:55.740 And it hasn't happened yet, hasn't happened yet, hasn't happened yet.

00:22:58.080 That expectation is building up and up and up and that builds that entitlement along

00:23:01.500 with it.

00:23:02.420 But if we're raising young girls to believe that they deserve prince charming, are we 0.51

00:23:08.180 raising our sons to be prince charming?

00:23:11.260 No, we're not.

00:23:12.640 So how do you expect to expect something if it's not even been brought forward?

00:23:18.840 Wait, are you, can you explain that more?

00:23:20.440 Are we raising our sons to be prince charming?

00:23:22.260 If you, he said, you know, the entitlement is almost installed in you from a young girl.

00:23:27.280 You're a princess, you deserve this.

00:23:28.940 So when you don't get it past 25, the entitlement is already a part of you.

00:23:33.060 Yeah.

00:23:33.360 So touch whatever age.

00:23:34.960 But so is this supposed prince charming that we've raised her.

00:23:38.340 If we have a son, are we raising him to be the perfect gentleman that we expect for

00:23:42.300 someone's daughter?

00:23:43.900 Because if someone's son.

00:23:45.320 Right, but who is he being a gentleman for?

00:23:47.140 No, but that's my whole point.

00:23:49.000 If we're raising her to have expectations, I mean, somebody has a son, are you raising

00:23:54.080 your son to be a prince charming as a young woman, as a wife or a mother?

00:23:58.420 Well, I would say, I would say women don't reward prince charming. 0.98

00:24:01.920 They don't, they don't, women do not reward good behavior in general. 1.00

00:24:06.560 Not at all.

00:24:06.820 I would say if women did reward good behavior and chivalry, then you would see more of it 1.00

00:24:11.560 because men will do anything to get sex. 1.00

00:24:13.660 But if we don't reward it, how can we be mad when they don't do it?

00:24:16.140 So who's entitled?

00:24:20.140 Women. 0.81

00:24:20.920 Oh.

00:24:21.600 Women, because. 1.00

00:24:22.500 Not because they want a reward for being, having decency and manners and courtesy and

00:24:28.420 chivalry.

00:24:28.660 Women, women, no, because they, because, because they're not, we're not traditional. 0.98

00:24:32.980 Exactly.

00:24:33.680 That's the point.

00:24:34.580 So it's like we're asking for traditional.

00:24:37.340 A 25 year old was probably, a 24 year old was born not that long ago, 24 years ago.

00:24:43.840 We're in a society where this is not a part of their norm.

00:24:48.700 What isn't a part of the norm?

00:24:50.280 To be traditional.

00:24:52.540 Right.

00:24:52.920 Yeah.

00:24:53.060 So you are raised, you, she's being raised to be a part of a masculine world.

00:24:59.580 That is what the norm is now.

00:25:01.340 Right.

00:25:01.620 So a more traditional woman is probably going to be older, but unfortunately she's been 1.00

00:25:06.000 cut off because she's expired.

00:25:08.060 No, I would say more traditional women are going to be married. 1.00

00:25:11.920 It's traditional.

00:25:12.680 Right.

00:25:12.960 Because traditional women get married before the age of 25, typically. 1.00

00:25:16.820 Perhaps.

00:25:17.120 Yeah.

00:25:17.680 So, so I would say no, the older women that are still single, like they have a term for 1.00

00:25:22.440 it.

00:25:22.560 It's called leftover in China.

00:25:26.280 They, they call women over.

00:25:28.100 And I think it's over the age of 30 or maybe even 27, 28.

00:25:32.360 And they just call them leftover.

00:25:33.700 Cause like if the product's amazing, wouldn't someone have bought it?

00:25:40.440 Notice in the language you're using as well.

00:25:42.720 It's like, it's, it's all always, what does she deserve?

00:25:48.040 It's not, what has she earned?

00:25:50.640 It's this, that's what, that's what I'm saying about the entitlement, right?

00:25:53.080 Because women aren't, yeah, exactly. 1.00

00:25:54.880 That's what I'm, I'm just elaborating.

00:25:56.560 Right.

00:25:57.220 It's not, we're not teaching young women like, oh, you need to earn your Prince Charming. 0.96

00:26:02.660 You need to earn a good man, a good husband.

00:26:04.860 You should just be given.

00:26:05.820 You should, you're entitled to it and it should just come to you one day magically from the sky

00:26:10.560 without you actually like sitting down and saying, you know what?

00:26:14.560 I, I, here's, here's when I want to get married by.

00:26:16.760 I want to get, and I'm going to put it at a reasonable age because I'm, I, I know that

00:26:20.080 it's a competition because everything's competition in life.

00:26:22.960 Right.

00:26:24.060 And so I'm going to take my dating decisions a lot more seriously.

00:26:30.000 Right.

00:26:30.360 Then, then most women tend to do at a younger age. 1.00

00:26:34.420 Okay.

00:26:34.980 So.

00:26:35.960 All right.

00:26:36.220 Would you have a question?

00:26:36.800 Go ahead.

00:26:36.960 I'm just wondering what a woman at 24 has done to earn a good man. 0.58

00:26:40.700 Because at that point in life, you probably haven't had a secure career.

00:26:44.340 You're still young.

00:26:45.180 You haven't stacked up that expectation.

00:26:47.260 I don't care about a career.

00:26:48.920 Don't care.

00:26:49.540 I make, I make more than enough for.

00:26:51.360 So you, you aren't looking for necessarily a partner.

00:26:53.840 You're more so looking for a wife.

00:26:55.680 A wife.

00:26:55.880 She, she, as a partner, it's complimentary, right?

00:26:59.020 I don't need another me.

00:27:00.240 Yeah.

00:27:00.580 I don't need someone to replicate what I'm doing and not as good as I do it either.

00:27:03.700 Like I make more than enough money for both of us.

00:27:06.060 I want a woman who's going to be feminine, who wants to be a mother, who's going to provide 1.00

00:27:10.040 that nurturing energy.

00:27:11.220 You look after her.

00:27:11.920 Right.

00:27:12.680 And yeah, someone to look after my kids, someone to look after me, like in, in the aspect that

00:27:17.000 she can, and it's my job to keep us all alive.

00:27:19.820 Yeah.

00:27:20.660 And be the man.

00:27:21.520 Yeah.

00:27:22.140 We've got different roles.

00:27:23.080 Complimentary.

00:27:23.500 And you asked what value a girl at 24 brings.

00:27:26.980 I mean, typically they're thinner.

00:27:28.560 Typically they're more pure.

00:27:29.920 Typically they're more youthful.

00:27:31.060 Typically they have less baggage.

00:27:32.260 So I would say like, those are the things that men select for.

00:27:36.560 Okay.

00:27:37.320 It just, it just sounds like we're comparing tools or pieces, not women with, you know.

00:27:43.760 But do we, sorry.

00:27:45.480 Are we looking at also what your foundation is?

00:27:49.740 So a lot of people, maybe it's religious or something like that.

00:27:52.960 Those are things that are installed in young boys and young girls to value certain things.

00:27:57.500 And whether it's Christianity or Islam, like you hold yourself in a certain manner and then

00:28:03.720 it becomes what is valued to you.

00:28:06.120 So if you don't have these things at home, I'm not saying any religion does it because

00:28:09.200 you don't have to be under a certain religion to do it.

00:28:11.700 But if your fundamental foundations with your parents or whether you're, however you're

00:28:16.060 raising a child, if that's not installed in them from a young age, as they're growing,

00:28:21.440 why would they know to value it?

00:28:22.780 How would they know to value yourself as a young woman?

00:28:26.120 I wouldn't know at all.

00:28:26.900 So it all comes back to what you're, that entitlement and your teachings.

00:28:29.880 So if a guy was raised by drug dealers and then he chooses to deal drugs, should he not

00:28:34.440 go to jail?

00:28:35.920 For sure.

00:28:36.660 He should still go to jail, right?

00:28:38.300 That's the point.

00:28:38.980 Even if you were raised by bad parents and you don't know how to be a wife and you make

00:28:42.460 certain decisions, like it doesn't alleviate you from the consequences of those decisions.

00:28:46.560 So, um, so I'm curious now, I kind of wanted to go into this.

00:28:54.580 All right.

00:28:54.940 I wanted to, I had some ideas.

00:28:57.340 What could, if you found a woman that was over the age that you typically date for, for

00:29:02.700 this, for the guys, well, she's 32, let's just say, except for you, 50.

00:29:08.640 Um, but she has, that makes up for it.

00:29:18.140 What does she have?

00:29:18.900 Yeah.

00:29:19.120 Yeah.

00:29:19.360 Could, cause there's something that a girl could do if she's over a certain age to make 1.00

00:29:22.860 up for the fact that she's old. 1.00

00:29:25.860 Company, home cooked food, house clean, um, there when I get home, you know, going out

00:29:32.960 partying, um, respect for my parents.

00:29:36.200 Okay, so you would, you would, if she was really respectful, you would date a 32 year

00:29:40.960 old, if she had all that stuff.

00:29:42.480 I need to come home to peace about someone complaining about something or someone, you

00:29:47.980 know, whinging about her friends or gossiping.

00:29:50.220 I don't need all of that.

00:29:51.200 I mean, I just need to know that I'm comfortable when I get home.

00:29:54.740 Okay.

00:29:55.380 As long as she's bringing me comfort and peace.

00:29:57.300 Yeah, that's all right.

00:29:58.100 But then I would normally go for someone a lot younger.

00:30:01.140 I probably wouldn't even pay attention to her at first.

00:30:03.160 Okay.

00:30:04.440 So no.

00:30:06.200 Okay.

00:30:08.420 What about you?

00:30:09.360 Um, basically I was with someone that was 35 year for three years.

00:30:14.240 So she's like 38 now, nearly 40 year.

00:30:17.320 And she's got four kids.

00:30:19.020 And like, I stayed with her because of the companionship and we was good together.

00:30:24.920 She could cook.

00:30:25.760 She was doing everything right.

00:30:27.100 So like, I wouldn't read.

00:30:29.640 This is why I'm stressing the fact of this expiry date thing, because at her age and the age

00:30:34.620 she's at now, obviously if we did stay together, then it would have been good.

00:30:37.780 But for me, it's just a case factor of she did everything that was okay for me.

00:30:44.020 So, yeah, I didn't drop her out because of the age.

00:30:47.340 Okay.

00:30:48.100 Sterling, what about you?

00:30:49.080 She's, she's 25 and a month.

00:30:54.800 Out the door.

00:30:56.660 Not a chance.

00:30:58.360 Her birthday's next week.

00:30:59.940 She's almost 25. 0.98

00:31:04.260 Throwing out the rest of the trash. 0.97

00:31:05.600 Can she milk a cow? 1.00

00:31:12.480 She's 20, she's 29, but can milk a cow. 1.00

00:31:15.820 That's 49, it's too many years.

00:31:17.880 Bring that, bring that number down a bit.

00:31:19.280 So 20, all right, 28, but can milk a cow.

00:31:22.140 25 and can milk a cow.

00:31:24.640 And knows how to garden.

00:31:26.820 Okay.

00:31:27.800 We might go.

00:31:28.940 If she has a garden, that's like a plot. 0.70

00:31:30.660 No, no, knows how to garden. 0.90

00:31:31.340 Yeah, it was a good green thumb, right?

00:31:32.940 Okay.

00:31:33.240 Knows how to make gross veggies.

00:31:34.640 Knows how to cook.

00:31:35.600 I mean, a lot of these things I'm already going to select for things like,

00:31:39.100 even in the 24 year old, it's not just the fact that she's 24.

00:31:41.660 Yeah.

00:31:41.940 Like there's other things that go into that.

00:31:43.720 It's not just like the age I'm looking for, right?

00:31:46.160 There's like, obviously like purity.

00:31:48.480 There's like political leanings towards my kind of political leanings,

00:31:52.620 or at least like, you know, maybe conspiracy.

00:31:57.260 If she, okay, I'll add numbers.

00:31:58.960 I'll add age here.

00:31:59.620 If she's like a conspiracy theorist, she gets at least 27. 0.99

00:32:02.920 At least 27.

00:32:03.800 She's like a full blown conspiracy theorist. 1.00

00:32:05.920 All right.

00:32:06.700 All right. 0.86

00:32:06.940 This, this girl's kind of crazy in a good way. 0.95

00:32:09.600 I could get a kid in her real quick. 1.00

00:32:12.980 Yeah.

00:32:13.320 Yeah.

00:32:13.540 Yeah.

00:32:13.800 Like she's like, all right, we ain't got time.

00:32:15.580 The world's ending.

00:32:16.560 Yes.

00:32:17.040 All right.

00:32:17.340 That's my girl.

00:32:18.520 You know?

00:32:18.780 Okay.

00:32:21.200 Um, what, what else do you select for?

00:32:23.300 Like what, give me, give me your list of standards in a girl. 1.00

00:32:26.660 Cool.

00:32:26.940 So we went over age, ideally like not college educated.

00:32:31.580 Okay.

00:32:31.940 Ideally.

00:32:32.340 Like, in fact, if she, if she went to like a really big college,

00:32:34.980 that would be a massive red flag.

00:32:36.580 Okay.

00:32:36.960 So she's, she's 22, but she went to a mainstream college.

00:32:41.520 Like if she went to like in America, for example, 0.60

00:32:43.500 if she went to like a big, like a big college with like fraternities 0.98

00:32:46.400 and sororities and shit, that's a giant red flag. 0.99

00:32:48.720 Okay. 1.00

00:32:49.180 Huge red flag.

00:32:50.260 Okay.

00:32:50.680 That woman has partied a lot. 1.00

00:32:52.960 Is she off the, is she off the table completely? 1.00

00:32:55.580 Oh, okay.

00:32:56.080 Basically.

00:32:56.680 Yeah.

00:32:56.840 So she says I went to, unless, unless like, if I can, I mean,

00:33:00.300 look, a girl's Instagram will give a lot of this stuff away. 1.00

00:33:03.280 Yeah.

00:33:03.700 Like I can tell if she was in like a sorority party. 1.00

00:33:06.080 I can tell if she was like going up and down Berman street or whatever.

00:33:09.580 I guess they'll tell on themselves on their Instagram.

00:33:13.080 That's a big one.

00:33:14.060 Does she have an Instagram?

00:33:15.160 If she doesn't have an Instagram, we'll push that. 0.79

00:33:17.400 We'll push that, that age right up.

00:33:19.680 No Instagram.

00:33:20.600 Could you, no social media at all?

00:33:22.080 No, 27.

00:33:23.040 No problem.

00:33:23.500 What about, okay.

00:33:24.220 No social media.

00:33:25.300 Yeah.

00:33:25.780 30.

00:33:26.380 Yeah.

00:33:27.880 I've got one.

00:33:29.020 This ain't a negotiation.

00:33:30.620 This is a dictatorship.

00:33:32.220 We ain't negotiating yet.

00:33:33.460 I just, I don't know how many years it gets you.

00:33:36.440 What about 30, but she's a virgin? 1.00

00:33:39.580 That's pretty hard.

00:33:40.900 That's pretty hard.

00:33:43.800 Oh, what if she's a magical unicorn? 0.99

00:33:49.260 It does happen. 1.00

00:33:51.000 She has six tits. 1.00

00:33:54.300 We're talking in fantasy land. 1.00

00:33:55.940 Someone said if she went to ASU, she's done for sure.

00:33:59.160 Arizona State.

00:34:00.360 Definitely.

00:34:01.040 Yes.

00:34:01.620 Definitely.

00:34:02.160 Yep.

00:34:02.460 Okay.

00:34:02.980 So what else?

00:34:04.400 What about, okay, go ahead.

00:34:06.220 Let's say, let's say she's, she likes the, she wants to be a mother.

00:34:09.800 Okay.

00:34:10.100 She wants to be a mother and have a family. 0.91

00:34:11.460 That's giant green flag.

00:34:13.100 Like, cause she's looking for the same thing I'm looking for.

00:34:15.140 A family.

00:34:15.700 Right.

00:34:16.380 She likes to cook. 1.00

00:34:17.860 Right.

00:34:18.500 Doesn't have to be the greatest cook, but she's willing to learn to cook the things I like. 0.98

00:34:21.860 Excellent.

00:34:23.360 Random acts of kindness.

00:34:24.480 So like something as simple, something as simple as like, I'm sitting down and working at my desk and she comes up and just gives me a nice shoulder massage out of the blue. 0.72

00:34:31.380 That is a giant like winner.

00:34:33.640 That'll add a, that'll add a year.

00:34:35.280 Right?

00:34:35.840 Right.

00:34:36.900 Not two years.

00:34:40.360 You got one more year run away.

00:34:43.200 All right.

00:34:44.420 These kind of things.

00:34:45.640 Not two though.

00:34:46.280 We don't want to get carried away.

00:34:47.360 What is, prefers like country life over city life.

00:34:55.320 Okay.

00:34:56.020 Like quiet town, small town life over city life.

00:34:59.400 Okay.

00:34:59.780 Not a giant partier, not a big heavy drinker, doesn't do drugs, doesn't do weed.

00:35:05.140 That's a big red flag for me.

00:35:06.200 The girl does weed. 1.00

00:35:07.300 Nope.

00:35:07.880 I don't care how young she is.

00:35:09.140 Nope.

00:35:09.820 20, 20, 20, but weed.

00:35:12.340 Out.

00:35:13.160 No, no, no.

00:35:15.080 You can't negotiate with me on this.

00:35:16.400 I don't negotiate with terrorists.

00:35:20.680 All right.

00:35:21.420 20, 22, but, but goes to the club twice a month.

00:35:31.240 I would have to find some of her friends or the people she's hung out with and get like the dirt.

00:35:39.100 Get some like insider intel.

00:35:41.480 Are women snitches? 1.00

00:35:43.320 100%. 0.97

00:35:43.960 100%.

00:35:45.160 100%.

00:35:45.960 Everyone's nodding.

00:35:47.260 100%.

00:35:48.140 They stitch on themselves.

00:35:50.400 Of course they're going to stitch on their girlfriend. 0.98

00:35:55.280 Okay.

00:35:56.020 I wanted to ask about icks.

00:35:58.580 Okay. 0.92

00:35:58.960 Women have icks. 1.00

00:35:59.940 Men have icks. 0.98

00:36:01.180 So I want to talk about what is the last time you've broken up with someone over something? 0.97

00:36:06.800 Like what was the ick or like stopped going on dates with someone?

00:36:10.140 I'm curious from the women. 1.00

00:36:12.440 Tell me the last like ick you got with someone you were seeing.

00:36:15.440 I would say like he has some sassy gestures like picking stuff up like the way you're drinking out of a glass.

00:36:27.660 We're sitting at the movies and you got to have like.

00:36:29.900 Is it the pinkie?

00:36:30.980 Is it like the tea?

00:36:31.840 It's the pinkie.

00:36:32.200 It's the pinkie.

00:36:33.120 It's the potent like why are you eating a popsicle as a grown man?

00:36:36.700 Like I don't know.

00:36:40.700 I saw a TikTok and it's like men have to eat certain stuff like break it off. 0.72

00:36:45.420 Like the banana.

00:36:46.080 Like you need to be breaking the banana off and toss it in your mouth.

00:36:48.340 Like you don't need to be doing all these sassy gestures.

00:36:51.640 So yeah, that's definitely ick for me because why are you so loose?

00:36:59.640 You sound pickier than me.

00:37:04.640 He can stop with the sassy gesture.

00:37:07.340 She can't unage. 0.62

00:37:12.260 Okay, go ahead.

00:37:14.600 Mine has been for communication.

00:37:17.160 I can't deal with somebody that.

00:37:18.340 It doesn't communicate well with me.

00:37:20.620 Okay.

00:37:21.440 What does that actually mean?

00:37:22.320 What does that, yeah, that's it.

00:37:23.620 Communication as in we can have our conversation, right?

00:37:26.940 But if you're still walking away and saying, well, you're still in the wrong.

00:37:31.280 That wasn't, the communication wasn't really there.

00:37:33.480 Because you've listened to what I've said, but I'm still in the wrong.

00:37:35.480 You're talking about arguments specifically?

00:37:37.640 Communication barrier needs to be there.

00:37:39.200 Why don't you just not argue?

00:37:40.960 Yeah.

00:37:41.580 Because it depends on what the argument is about.

00:37:42.980 It may not have wanted to be an argument.

00:37:44.780 It may have just been something that I've brought up.

00:37:47.220 And now, I may be the bad one because I've nagged.

00:37:51.880 But yeah, yeah.

00:37:52.340 He gets called as nagging.

00:37:53.720 Or hear me out.

00:37:56.820 We could just not bring it up.

00:37:59.540 Yeah, we could.

00:38:00.600 But then that's why I would rather walk away from it.

00:38:02.300 Either way, that's where the relationship ends.

00:38:04.200 Because if I can't, if I actually cannot open my mouth.

00:38:06.840 Express yourself.

00:38:07.280 And to say, yeah.

00:38:08.500 If I feel like I'm being.

00:38:09.480 But why do you have to express to him?

00:38:10.940 Can't you like.

00:38:12.100 Because what I'm hearing, it just.

00:38:14.680 I could be wrong.

00:38:15.300 I don't know you, right?

00:38:15.960 But from what you're saying, it sounds like codependency.

00:38:18.320 Where the other person needs to adhere to all of your emotional needs.

00:38:21.580 So what I would say is, why can't you let it build up a bit.

00:38:24.960 But at least then you keep the peace in the home.

00:38:27.100 And then maybe you can call your mum or you can call your friend and go.

00:38:29.380 He did this really annoying thing.

00:38:30.620 But it's a little annoying thing.

00:38:31.880 Yeah, no.

00:38:32.240 I don't believe that relationship should be involved in family members and friends.

00:38:35.600 I'm sorry.

00:38:36.040 I'm not going to call my friend and be like, oh, he did this.

00:38:39.040 A little thing.

00:38:40.260 So if it's something big.

00:38:41.400 Yeah.

00:38:41.700 Unless it's something big, what am I even talking about anyway?

00:38:44.280 Right.

00:38:44.580 But you said, you mentioned the word nagging.

00:38:46.460 Communication.

00:38:46.680 Yeah, so it gets classed as nagging because it may be something that I've brought up.

00:38:50.040 But you're just expressing yourself.

00:38:51.220 And it's been slept under the carpet.

00:38:52.240 And I've let it go.

00:38:53.460 Could be like six months later now.

00:38:54.960 And I've decided, you know what?

00:38:55.860 I want this conversation again.

00:38:57.940 And it gets slept under the carpet again.

00:38:58.880 Can I have an example of like, what?

00:39:02.140 You're thinking of a situation.

00:39:03.700 What happened?

00:39:06.080 It's not a specific situation.

00:39:07.840 No, no.

00:39:08.460 There's something in your head.

00:39:09.800 I see you thinking.

00:39:11.060 Do you know what it is?

00:39:11.580 I hear it a lot as well from women. 1.00

00:39:13.560 It's just that.

00:39:14.300 It's just the communication.

00:39:15.620 For me, it's communication.

00:39:17.020 But you see how broad this is to a guy.

00:39:19.800 Because there's guys watching, right?

00:39:21.300 And they think, communication.

00:39:23.020 That's all women say is communication. 1.00

00:39:24.960 They don't communicate with me.

00:39:26.020 Yes, yes.

00:39:26.520 Just sit there.

00:39:27.300 Listen and just tell me yes.

00:39:28.820 Listen, listen.

00:39:29.280 But you're the.

00:39:29.820 Done.

00:39:30.700 If you're the.

00:39:31.620 Okay.

00:39:32.140 So, but isn't that sort of narcissism?

00:39:34.340 I need to be told yes all the time.

00:39:36.380 Well, no.

00:39:36.860 Not yes all the time.

00:39:37.940 But I mean, at least just try and take in whatever I may be expressing at the time.

00:39:41.780 If it feels like it's gone over your head. 1.00

00:39:44.200 But what if what you're saying is stupid? 1.00

00:39:46.560 Then tell me I'm being stupid. 1.00

00:39:47.900 I would rather that in the whole. 0.99

00:39:50.580 From what I'm hearing, right?

00:39:53.060 It sounds.

00:39:53.860 I had a friend who went through a kind of situation similar to this in the way his missus was communicating this.

00:39:59.060 To me, it kind of sounds like you just needed him to tell you everything's going to be okay. 0.95

00:40:05.240 I just wanted to know if what I'm saying, you actually feel that it is stupid or you agree with what I'm saying. 0.96

00:40:11.180 There needs to be some sort of understanding. 0.97

00:40:13.060 If we haven't come down to a decision of, yeah, you're being over the top.

00:40:17.600 How is you coming across?

00:40:18.620 Sometimes it's not what you see.

00:40:19.860 It's how you see it.

00:40:20.300 It's how you deliver it.

00:40:21.040 Yeah.

00:40:21.220 And sometimes a lot of women are very aggy. 1.00

00:40:23.560 We don't approach it correctly.

00:40:26.320 That is another thing.

00:40:26.780 I'll just keep it stepping.

00:40:27.640 That is another thing.

00:40:28.760 It is how you approach it and how you, yeah, open up the conversation. 1.00

00:40:33.360 You're not going to accept for calling you stupid. 0.99

00:40:34.940 But I have, listen, I'm very understanding. 1.00

00:40:40.360 I know how to communicate.

00:40:41.460 I'm very grown. 0.99

00:40:42.760 If the option was stupid, how would you react to that? 1.00

00:40:45.500 I'd want you to explain why the fuck I'm being stupid. 1.00

00:40:49.040 But then again, it does, but you know what, it does, it ends up coming down to that, the cycle of the argument, 1.00

00:40:54.340 how women get into arguments with guys and the whole communication.

00:40:56.360 Well, that's it.

00:40:56.900 It sounds like you wanted an argument.

00:40:58.620 Yeah.

00:40:58.940 Sometimes it's what you wait.

00:40:59.220 Because you wanted his attention.

00:41:00.780 Yeah.

00:41:01.240 You wanted his attention.

00:41:02.360 So you'll rev it up.

00:41:03.660 You'll rev it up.

00:41:04.360 You get an argument going.

00:41:06.340 It may have been something simple.

00:41:07.780 You get five minutes of his attention, but he's fired up and he's passionate with you.

00:41:11.140 No, it could be something simple like every day I'll ask you, babes, can you make sure that the dishes that you put in the sink, you wash it?

00:41:16.540 If I've now dealt with that for a whole year and after a year I'll be like, you know what, babes, I've dealt with you not washing the dishes that I've asked you every single day to make sure you wash.

00:41:24.940 And then you come up with some silly response of, well, I put them in the sink.

00:41:29.580 Yeah, don't you just accept that he's not going to wash the dishes in the sink?

00:41:32.980 And then just leave it.

00:41:33.900 And just like, hey.

00:41:34.540 Because it's about acceptance.

00:41:35.900 I'm just using an example.

00:41:39.260 Babe, get me a dishwasher. 1.00

00:41:40.240 I'm just thinking like, what's up?

00:41:41.900 Buy me a dishwasher.

00:41:43.260 Thank you.

00:41:44.780 Give me your credit card, please.

00:41:46.340 I'm just thinking, what else is the chick there for? 0.99

00:41:48.880 Isn't that your job?

00:41:49.620 No, that was just an example.

00:41:51.080 You didn't want to do 50-50 bills.

00:41:52.400 That was just an example.

00:41:54.400 I couldn't think of another example.

00:41:55.940 I just thought this is an sink.

00:41:57.140 But I mean, like, you have to remember, I'm a mother at the end of the day, so I speak to my child all day long.

00:42:01.580 I have to, don't do this, don't do that.

00:42:03.320 I don't want to have to deal with a man and say, babes, don't, you know, after that, that's it.

00:42:07.000 I have to keep reminding you not to do something.

00:42:08.700 So, but, but, so do exactly, live exactly how I want other, but that's the point, like, you're not supposed to try to control someone.

00:42:17.800 Someone, yeah.

00:42:18.380 Yeah, like, only off the 30th, they try to do that.

00:42:20.900 Also, I was going to say, I was also going to say, if that's the way you're even going to put it, ain't no daughter of you is going to tell me, I told you to wash the plates.

00:42:32.620 That was an example.

00:42:35.560 No, but the fact is that how you wash their plates.

00:42:38.440 No, but the point is, even if it's an example, that is the way you gave the example, so that's more than likely the way you're going to do it.

00:42:43.580 How you approach it.

00:42:45.000 Is that how you approach, though, on a normal day?

00:42:46.980 That's how she's probably going to approach it, because if that's not how she was going to approach it, she would have given the example.

00:42:50.840 Of the, of the, yeah.

00:42:52.240 Fact.

00:42:52.720 I'm scared of you.

00:42:53.540 Ladies, we're getting to our family. 0.94

00:42:55.420 Stop it, don't be scared of me.

00:42:57.120 I mean, I'm very, I like to get my point across.

00:43:00.360 Do you get angered very quick by men?

00:43:03.040 I would say, I would say a few years ago, 1,000%.

00:43:06.020 You did, but now you control your emotions.

00:43:07.480 I've calmed down a lot.

00:43:08.940 Yeah, because it's very much learning to understand the person that you're with.

00:43:12.960 Understanding my wrongs.

00:43:14.440 Right.

00:43:15.100 I feel like, correct me if I'm wrong, so I feel like your preference of communication comes from, like, instead of just sweeping on the rug and, you know, leaving you because I realized something about you, let me make sure and confirm this is who you are.

00:43:27.860 And I'm not saying that's the right mindset, because if somebody is not washing the dishes for a year, then they're probably not going to ever wash the dishes.

00:43:33.580 So you need to accept that.

00:43:34.840 But some people would rather communicate, fight through it.

00:43:38.300 And maybe if you get some understanding, you can change somebody's mind, not necessarily change their habits, but change their mind, get some clarity on, this is how you think, this is how you move, this is how the person you are, rather than just sweep it under the rug.

00:43:49.680 A year later, now I'm pissed off.

00:43:51.500 I'm just going to leave you because you've done X, Y, Z.

00:43:54.220 We've had a conversation and you understand, I'm not going to accept this, now I'm going to leave you.

00:44:00.180 Can I ask you, if you does wash the dishes, what's your response? 0.99

00:44:03.720 Damn. 0.99

00:44:04.440 Go and hoover now, go and hoover, you're not hoovering. 0.99

00:44:06.920 You're not hoovering now.

00:44:09.000 Well, no.

00:44:09.700 I mean, during these conversations, there's always going to be a reason.

00:44:15.020 If I'm stating that there's a problem, yeah, I'm going to say, this is the problem.

00:44:19.360 If you can't give me a reason as to why you do what you do, or you don't acknowledge that it's something that irritates me, that is a form of lack of communication.

00:44:31.180 I just need the man to be understanding.

00:44:33.840 I hear what you're saying, but I think the truth is, I think it's all about mindset, really.

00:44:39.400 I don't think most men think, I don't even think people should think like that, of like, why do you do something, why do you do something?

00:44:46.480 Like, at the end of the day, if I go into the middle of London and start beheading people, does it matter why I did it?

00:44:51.860 You've done it.

00:44:53.460 I don't think it matters why.

00:44:56.740 I think what matters is what is.

00:44:58.020 I need the whole story.

00:44:58.840 I need, like, from, like, the start all the way to the end.

00:45:02.840 That's you searching for meaning.

00:45:05.700 Does that not mean that you're lacking meaning somewhere because you're trying to find it in something else outside of yourself?

00:45:10.760 I wouldn't say I'm lacking meaning, no.

00:45:13.140 I just say I need...

00:45:16.480 Okay, let me try and phrase this right.

00:45:19.820 I just like somebody who can communicate.

00:45:21.900 I've had relationships where, do you know what the man can tell me?

00:45:23.900 Do you know what? 1.00

00:45:24.060 You're being a dickhead. 1.00

00:45:26.300 How do you take that? 1.00

00:45:27.860 Yeah, how do you respond to that?

00:45:29.820 No, but wait, didn't you say earlier your first question is, well, why?

00:45:33.940 Yeah, why?

00:45:34.420 That's exhausting to a guy.

00:45:35.940 That means he has to, like, go back.

00:45:37.380 Exactly, but it's exhausting to me, too.

00:45:38.560 But no, but that's, that's, the point is, the point is, it's like you're looking for an argument when you do that.

00:45:43.800 Like, to a man's point of view.

00:45:45.720 But we just never hear this because we don't really hear the man's point of view.

00:45:49.140 But that whole thing, like, that's exhausting.

00:45:51.060 It is exhausting. 0.98

00:45:52.100 And it's why I'd rather just, darn it. 0.98

00:45:54.160 Because if you can't communicate with me, then that's, that's just, that's my ick, anyways. 0.97

00:45:57.760 And for me, it's understanding communication.

00:45:59.340 If you can't do that with me.

00:46:00.760 Okay.

00:46:01.280 It's just not manning your communication.

00:46:02.780 When I hear, when I hear chicks talk about communication, it always, and I'm telling you just how it sounds to me, do exactly as I want. 0.92

00:46:10.640 And I need to tell you every time I'm irritated.

00:46:13.440 Otherwise, there's going to be problems.

00:46:15.420 Not really, because then I wouldn't end up being with some of the people that I have been with.

00:46:19.020 Because I've, I would say I've compromised with allowing certain things.

00:46:23.700 Like what?

00:46:25.280 Not willing to piss.

00:46:26.760 Okay, you, you said it, you said it.

00:46:28.820 That's the only reason I'm out.

00:46:30.180 State certain things.

00:46:31.100 But yeah, I would, I would say I'm, I'm willing to compromise with a man.

00:46:35.300 Okay.

00:46:35.660 Do you, do you feel like men have compromised on you?

00:46:38.800 Yeah, 1,000%.

00:46:39.520 Okay.

00:46:39.840 So it's like a mutual compromise.

00:46:41.760 Oh, yeah.

00:46:42.460 Okay.

00:46:42.840 Say that.

00:46:43.500 Okay.

00:46:43.900 Okay.

00:46:44.420 Well, what about you, ick?

00:46:46.340 Icks.

00:46:46.940 So, icks would be bad manners.

00:46:48.900 The way someone holds themselves, how they treat others, eating with their mouth open would be a massive ick.

00:46:57.880 That would be a no.

00:46:58.840 How about eating vegan food?

00:47:01.100 Oh, my gosh.

00:47:03.080 The vegan food.

00:47:04.140 Straight up, ick.

00:47:06.960 I haven't done a lot of dating or anything.

00:47:09.000 I've only ever had long-term relationships, really.

00:47:11.180 So I don't have a major experience.

00:47:13.720 In my relationships, I don't think arguing is a good thing.

00:47:16.760 I don't think, so I, you know, in my last relationship, I didn't argue or anything like that because, you know, you're there to actually complement each other.

00:47:26.280 You're there to make each other's life advance.

00:47:29.260 You want to actually, you know, your man advancing advances your life, too.

00:47:34.860 You guys didn't argue at all?

00:47:37.360 No.

00:47:38.060 Until the end.

00:47:38.940 Okay.

00:47:39.320 Until the end.

00:47:39.900 I was like, you guys, you should get married then.

00:47:44.240 That sounds like a great relationship.

00:47:45.640 No, yeah, we were together for a long time.

00:47:47.440 Oh, okay.

00:47:48.000 Yeah.

00:47:48.460 But no, to the end because of situations and things that happened.

00:47:53.700 Okay.

00:47:54.460 What about you, ick?

00:47:56.400 Ick in general.

00:47:58.240 Yeah, just the last ick, the last time you were, maybe you went on a date or two or you, and you thought, I can never see this guy again ever.

00:48:06.800 And this is the reason why.

00:48:09.220 I feel like so bad saying it though.

00:48:12.000 But the last ick that I had was someone asked me out for a coffee and he's like, come and meet me for a coffee.

00:48:20.380 So there I was, happy to go meet him for a coffee.

00:48:23.000 And he turned up with his friend.

00:48:25.060 So I was like, what's going on here?

00:48:28.240 Who does that at the age we're at now?

00:48:29.800 Right.

00:48:30.220 How old was he?

00:48:33.900 He's my, he's 30.

00:48:35.540 He's 30.

00:48:36.460 It's his mentality.

00:48:37.380 Imagine.

00:48:38.000 So I was like shocked and I thought, nah, this can't be real.

00:48:43.800 Where's the camera?

00:48:47.100 Honestly, I did.

00:48:48.040 I think so.

00:48:48.620 I thought some of my friends were setting me up.

00:48:51.020 And then I thought, no, he's, he's not joking.

00:48:54.920 So the lady in Starbucks, am I allowed to say that? 0.99

00:48:57.960 The lady knows me there. 0.95

00:48:59.240 So she's like, coconut mocha. 1.00

00:49:01.060 And I'm like.

00:49:03.020 So I look behind me and he's then gone and ordered his drink and his mates drink.

00:49:09.200 But I've got my app ready to pay.

00:49:11.420 And I'm like, no way am I paying for him and his mates coffee.

00:49:14.560 I swear to God, I paid and left.

00:49:19.500 Yeah.

00:49:19.840 I swear.

00:49:20.340 I swear.

00:49:20.940 Paid and left.

00:49:21.720 I don't blame you.

00:49:22.580 Wow.

00:49:22.860 I paid and left because.

00:49:24.140 That's so awkward.

00:49:24.900 I was like.

00:49:25.920 Yeah.

00:49:26.380 Because.

00:49:26.980 Listen, it's my local.

00:49:28.520 I couldn't do that to myself.

00:49:30.160 It's my local.

00:49:31.160 It was too shameful.

00:49:32.220 Plus my points were nearly collected for my three new ones.

00:49:34.900 So that was a big ick for me.

00:49:41.460 And some of my friends were like, that's really shallow.

00:49:44.580 What was it?

00:49:45.100 Shallow.

00:49:45.640 It's not at all.

00:49:47.340 Because I felt so violated and disrespected in that instance of him just showing up with

00:49:52.620 his friend in the first place.

00:49:54.180 Yeah.

00:49:54.500 It's not one masculine trait.

00:49:56.020 Like it wasn't, it wasn't like a business meeting or something.

00:49:58.940 No, no, no.

00:49:59.780 Imagine.

00:50:00.480 No.

00:50:00.580 He don't have a company.

00:50:01.420 Brought him for coffee too.

00:50:02.560 No.

00:50:02.860 And I have a company.

00:50:04.160 So if it was a company setting.

00:50:06.720 No, I know.

00:50:07.240 I paid.

00:50:07.820 I had to.

00:50:08.580 So what?

00:50:09.020 I was so embarrassed.

00:50:10.760 I swear.

00:50:11.200 So she won't.

00:50:12.060 Checkmate.

00:50:13.100 I was embarrassed.

00:50:14.300 I was embarrassed.

00:50:15.120 She just wants to exit.

00:50:16.340 Yeah.

00:50:16.640 I had to take the lead.

00:50:17.860 I left.

00:50:18.860 That is weird.

00:50:19.920 I am ultimately quite bossy though.

00:50:22.160 Like I was going to lead on to.

00:50:23.700 If it was a meeting, a business meeting, fair enough.

00:50:26.540 I'm used to sitting on boards with all people and buying the coffee.

00:50:30.180 That's all right.

00:50:30.680 I don't mind that.

00:50:31.820 But he was asking me out to get to know me.

00:50:35.140 That's why I was shocked that he even bought a friend.

00:50:38.120 Did he mention at all why the guy was there?

00:50:41.380 He just completely lost over the situation.

00:50:45.420 No, no, no.

00:50:45.900 He did.

00:50:46.340 To be fair, he wasn't from the area, right?

00:50:50.020 To be fair.

00:50:50.960 And he was like, my friends.

00:50:52.980 I was like, why have you bought your mate?

00:50:54.720 And he's like, well, he was just, you know, in the area.

00:50:57.280 And I was like, oh, it was getting worse.

00:51:00.720 How did you meet him?

00:51:01.920 So we was talking for like, I would say about a year or two.

00:51:05.800 On Instagram?

00:51:06.980 We met.

00:51:07.460 Yeah.

00:51:07.760 So we met through other friends.

00:51:09.360 And yeah, it continued through Instagram.

00:51:11.200 So I would say Instagram relation.

00:51:12.340 Wow.

00:51:12.380 Two years leading up to this date.

00:51:13.680 What a legend.

00:51:15.120 Exactly.

00:51:15.820 You will never get that time back.

00:51:18.180 To be fair, in all fairness, it was an invested time on my part.

00:51:25.460 But I'm just saying in general, for about two years, we had been in communication and hadn't

00:51:30.240 met up in person.

00:51:31.860 So when it come to that time, I was so upset.

00:51:34.960 Like, I couldn't believe it.

00:51:35.960 But that was an ick.

00:51:36.760 Yeah, it put me off.

00:51:37.340 He dropped the ball.

00:51:38.500 It put me off.

00:51:40.140 I get it, though.

00:51:40.800 I get it.

00:51:41.220 I get it.

00:51:42.220 Weird.

00:51:42.460 Yeah, that was my end.

00:51:43.720 What about you?

00:51:44.400 Last ick.

00:51:45.040 The inability to lead.

00:51:50.140 Yeah.

00:51:51.600 What is, like, can I have an example of that?

00:51:54.760 Not buying the coffee.

00:51:55.640 Two.

00:51:57.420 I'm taking it.

00:52:00.160 I like, I, okay, it's about what I like.

00:52:03.860 Obviously, this is about me.

00:52:05.260 So I like a man, a masculine man that's not intimidated by somebody else or the next person

00:52:12.600 next to me.

00:52:12.980 If you're into me, I want to feel your aura, your presence around me.

00:52:17.460 Because I'm, clearly, I'm into you and I'm all about you.

00:52:20.480 And I don't need you to be all about me, like, drooling on me.

00:52:23.720 But I feel your presence.

00:52:27.920 Energy.

00:52:28.500 Energy.

00:52:29.440 And if I don't feel that, it's just such a, you don't have to do the grandest gestures.

00:52:34.440 But the lead, like, in a restaurant, not being able to open the menu, yes, you're getting

00:52:41.600 to know me.

00:52:42.460 But what would be nice and what would be good is after you've gotten to know me, I would

00:52:47.980 like you to place my order.

00:52:50.360 I think that's what my man should be able to do.

00:52:52.940 Okay.

00:52:53.320 So the inability to do that is a big ick.

00:52:55.740 Okay.

00:52:56.160 So if he doesn't place your order, then?

00:52:58.520 I want a traditional man. 0.99

00:53:00.060 So if you're not traditional, you're an ick. 0.98

00:53:01.940 Okay. 0.74

00:53:02.260 Do you think you're traditional?

00:53:03.960 100%.

00:53:04.360 Okay.

00:53:05.300 What makes you traditional?

00:53:06.320 Probably no.

00:53:06.900 No.

00:53:07.080 Let me take that back.

00:53:08.780 I'm ready to strike.

00:53:11.740 Let me go to 78%.

00:53:13.920 Okay.

00:53:15.440 Very precise.

00:53:16.520 What makes you traditional?

00:53:18.480 I have a lot of traditional values.

00:53:20.040 I was born and raised in a different country.

00:53:21.740 So my morals compass is a little bit more different than people that were born and raised more.

00:53:29.900 West.

00:53:30.560 Okay.

00:53:31.040 So I'm just going to say that.

00:53:32.660 Like what?

00:53:34.080 I'd like to be a homemaker.

00:53:37.580 I absolutely love family, the traditional, I'm saying traditional, older way.

00:53:45.420 Old school way.

00:53:46.060 Older way.

00:53:47.700 Because the traditional, when you go and say the word tradition, it means something from before.

00:53:52.520 Right.

00:53:52.700 So it's an older way.

00:53:54.240 Today's traditions are different.

00:53:56.060 Yeah.

00:53:56.560 Because of the way the world is.

00:53:58.480 Okay.

00:53:58.760 So therefore, if I could, in the ideal world, when things are all rosy and it goes my way,

00:54:06.720 I have like my five or six kids and my husband and yeah.

00:54:10.680 Okay.

00:54:11.520 But I'm still not hearing what makes you traditional.

00:54:14.180 Me?

00:54:15.000 Yeah.

00:54:15.440 I'm peace.

00:54:18.600 What does that mean?

00:54:19.860 I am peace to my partner.

00:54:22.600 Right.

00:54:23.080 But what is, like, what do you do specifically that brings me, like, okay.

00:54:26.360 I cook, I cook, I clean, I run our home effectively.

00:54:30.860 I do my part.

00:54:31.740 Okay.

00:54:32.200 So, and you were like raised to do that?

00:54:33.900 Your mom taught you that?

00:54:34.660 Um, my family taught me to do that.

00:54:37.280 My mother, my grandmothers, my, the men in my family.

00:54:40.920 Um, yeah.

00:54:42.500 Okay.

00:54:43.040 But I do my part.

00:54:44.380 But they did their part too.

00:54:46.220 They, they, what was their part?

00:54:47.260 As in the men in my family did their part too.

00:54:49.000 Right.

00:54:49.020 They, they provided and.

00:54:50.280 Yeah.

00:54:50.640 Okay.

00:54:51.000 So you're, so you're saying you're actually.

00:54:52.380 All good examples of what men do and still do and have done.

00:54:58.280 So my grandfathers, my actual father, um, and yeah, my moral compass, I think is, we all

00:55:06.140 again, the 78%, not a hundred percent.

00:55:08.700 We all do things.

00:55:10.620 That precise number again.

00:55:13.920 Yes.

00:55:14.420 We live in 20, 20, what do you have three?

00:55:16.400 So wait, how, how old are you again?

00:55:18.080 31.

00:55:18.900 Okay.

00:55:19.140 So usually traditional women marry young. 1.00

00:55:21.740 Typically.

00:55:23.160 So what made you not?

00:55:24.100 Cause I'm only asking cause if a guy.

00:55:26.000 I don't think I said I was single in the beginning, did I?

00:55:28.080 Okay.

00:55:28.740 Um, I, I didn't say.

00:55:29.980 I thought you said you weren't married.

00:55:31.780 I didn't say that, but I'm not married.

00:55:33.780 Okay.

00:55:34.460 Okay.

00:55:34.980 So in the Western world, no.

00:55:36.600 Okay.

00:55:36.980 But you're, you got like a ring or something.

00:55:39.320 Yeah.

00:55:39.780 I've got plenty of rings.

00:55:41.860 No, I meant like you did it in the church or something.

00:55:44.500 I don't know.

00:55:45.100 We don't do that.

00:55:46.060 Okay.

00:55:46.780 Are you married?

00:55:47.580 Are you married?

00:55:48.760 Yes.

00:55:49.020 I have a partner.

00:55:50.400 Are you married?

00:55:51.740 We are, yeah.

00:55:53.240 I mean, to us, we are together.

00:55:55.340 Yes.

00:55:56.020 Are you married?

00:55:56.760 So, so no, no to what the Western sign legal documents that count.

00:56:01.480 Well, I don't, no, no, I don't have.

00:56:03.500 Is it a religious marriage?

00:56:04.460 Islamically married.

00:56:06.000 Yeah.

00:56:06.880 Okay.

00:56:07.280 So, okay.

00:56:08.620 So you are married?

00:56:09.740 Yeah.

00:56:10.040 We, yeah, we, we go together.

00:56:12.460 Real bad.

00:56:13.200 Real bad.

00:56:14.460 Okay.

00:56:14.920 Okay.

00:56:15.440 Cool.

00:56:15.680 So your parents raised you to do that?

00:56:17.800 One of the, one of my purposes, yes.

00:56:20.040 Okay.

00:56:20.620 What about you?

00:56:21.420 Last ick?

00:56:22.660 I think I already said it.

00:56:23.780 Weed.

00:56:24.220 Weed.

00:56:25.100 Was that, you went on a date with someone and she was a smoker?

00:56:28.460 Like, I, I, I rocked up at her house to pick her up and like the door opened and it was

00:56:33.860 just weed.

00:56:35.540 Central.

00:56:36.060 Weed central.

00:56:37.340 Amsterdam.

00:56:37.960 It was Amsterdam.

00:56:38.780 I'm like, all right, dinner, cool.

00:56:40.600 See you next time.

00:56:41.560 Like, I'll still, I'll still take her, I'll still be a gentleman, take her out for dinner 0.96

00:56:43.680 and get to know her a little bit.

00:56:44.420 But it was just like that, that was just in the back of my head the whole time.

00:56:47.180 It would be that much of a big ick if you still took her out.

00:56:49.320 Well, I didn't see her again.

00:56:52.200 You just thought it was true.

00:56:53.260 I was also hungry and wanted to eat.

00:56:57.080 I'm on my way.

00:56:59.720 You know, I booked the table for two. 0.99

00:57:02.080 I don't want to sit like a dickhead. 0.97

00:57:04.020 Can I ask you why? 0.98

00:57:05.440 Why the weed is an ick?

00:57:07.820 I've just been around enough women when I was living in California and it just irritates 1.00

00:57:12.480 the hell out of me. 0.97

00:57:13.300 Like, women who are high are the most annoying women on the planet. 1.00

00:57:17.360 Really? 0.97

00:57:17.920 I cannot stand it.

00:57:19.320 Okay.

00:57:19.880 I cannot stand it.

00:57:20.520 Yeah.

00:57:20.840 And it's, and like, they're always, they're always messy.

00:57:24.460 Their apartment is always a complete pigsty.

00:57:27.940 Like, everything just stinks of weed all the time. 0.86

00:57:32.080 They think they're spiritual.

00:57:36.260 No, they think they're spiritual.

00:57:38.140 I know what you mean.

00:57:39.300 That's funny.

00:57:40.420 That's funny.

00:57:42.200 The biggest problem with a chick who smokes weed is like, they get so dependent on it. 1.00

00:57:49.200 If you date a girl who's like, smokes weed, because I did in the past, I've dated a girl 0.99

00:57:54.440 for like, maybe, maybe it lasted like two weeks.

00:57:57.480 She was like a big weed smoker. 1.00

00:57:58.820 She couldn't go anywhere without a joint or a bong.

00:58:03.500 Like, if she was without it for like half a day.

00:58:06.840 She'll start bugging out. 0.92

00:58:08.220 Man, they go nuts.

00:58:09.280 It's like, they become hyper irritable, like super paranoid and annoying.

00:58:13.520 It's just like, calm down, woman. 1.00

00:58:15.420 Like, dear God, you have a problem.

00:58:18.080 You're addicted to this thing and you don't even admit it.

00:58:21.200 They'll never admit that they're hooked on it.

00:58:23.220 They'll never admit it.

00:58:23.780 Indulged.

00:58:24.380 So is it codependency?

00:58:25.740 Yeah.

00:58:25.980 Someone that has a codependency.

00:58:27.740 On marijuana.

00:58:28.740 Yeah.

00:58:28.920 Or anything.

00:58:29.480 So what if it's, yeah, what if it's another form of advice?

00:58:32.660 Yeah, I mean, any other form.

00:58:34.160 I'm not, if she does, just any other like hardcore drugs.

00:58:36.900 Coffee?

00:58:37.200 It's a no.

00:58:37.600 Some people, if they don't have coffee, they might start doing exactly what you should say.

00:58:41.560 Maybe.

00:58:41.920 I mean, I've never met someone who sits there and chain drinks.

00:58:45.540 Chain coffee.

00:58:46.240 Like the caffeine.

00:58:46.980 I want more.

00:58:47.500 I want more.

00:58:47.860 I want more.

00:58:48.200 I want more.

00:58:48.540 I want more caffeine.

00:58:49.400 More caffeine.

00:58:53.280 What about you? 0.96

00:58:54.160 Biggest ick?

00:58:57.420 Biggest ick, I think, is like political views and like values.

00:59:03.040 Like if they're a liberal, just don't even come near me at all.

00:59:06.380 I missed that one.

00:59:07.120 That's a good one.

00:59:08.560 Like if they're like, oh, I'm six boosted and I believe everything.

00:59:12.480 The government says, please don't come near me right away.

00:59:18.240 I have one.

00:59:19.480 I'm a feminist. 1.00

00:59:20.740 Like a guy that says he's a feminist. 0.96

00:59:22.240 If a guy says to me he's a feminist, I will throw up in my mouth. 0.99

00:59:27.100 I've been on a date like that.

00:59:30.460 He told me that.

00:59:30.980 I'm like, you were talking to the wrong.

00:59:32.260 Wait, was that recently?

00:59:37.320 Was that in the last few years?

00:59:38.680 No, this was a couple of years ago.

00:59:41.000 Oh, okay.

00:59:41.320 So he wasn't aware.

00:59:42.320 No, no, no, no.

00:59:43.520 But I was like, this is the wrong.

00:59:44.600 That's a big red flag. 1.00

00:59:46.660 Because not only are you thick as shit, but you're just not even a man at that point. 1.00

00:59:55.600 Yeah. 1.00

00:59:55.800 They're very feminine. 0.98

00:59:56.980 They're very feminine. 0.98

00:59:58.220 Preach.

00:59:58.720 Preach.

00:59:58.980 They have a, just, it's like a hive mind.

01:00:03.800 It's like they're just sort of robots.

01:00:06.420 Like they're not even people at that point.

01:00:08.160 NPCs.

01:00:08.980 NPCs.

01:00:09.780 Like you're just an NPC.

01:00:11.220 Men that wore masks.

01:00:13.100 I don't know.

01:00:13.900 I don't mess around with people like that.

01:00:15.680 That's an ick.

01:00:16.180 I'm liking this panel more and more.

01:00:19.220 That and an inability to see into the future.

01:00:22.800 And that just gives me an ick in people in general.

01:00:24.680 Like if you can't see what you want and be able to put things into place to execute it,

01:00:31.120 that just tells me that you have an inability to think critically and strategically about

01:00:35.120 things, which I think is a really masculine trait to be able to do that.

01:00:38.480 And I think you were talking about the whole, a woman when she's older having to be in her 1.00

01:00:42.800 masculine energy more.

01:00:44.100 Well, that's because then women have to think about, right, I have no one to depend on who's 1.00

01:00:47.900 going to do this for me.

01:00:48.760 So I have to use my brain myself, which means I need to think about where I'm going to get

01:00:52.120 to and how I'm going to get there.

01:00:53.260 I think it's really attractive when you don't have to think around a man and you just know

01:00:59.640 they're going to get you somewhere.

01:01:01.840 But I do think women do need to have a level of being able to operate because, again, you 1.00

01:01:08.560 know, if you have someone who can't operate, well, then you end up with a liberal.

01:01:13.980 King, do not start on the ability to make scrambled eggs.

01:01:19.440 King thinks scrambled eggs are an omelette basically chopped up.

01:01:23.820 No.

01:01:25.240 I get it, though.

01:01:25.820 I get it.

01:01:26.320 I get it.

01:01:26.820 Are scrambled eggs supposed to be fluffy?

01:01:28.820 Yeah.

01:01:29.260 Thank you.

01:01:29.720 They are.

01:01:30.140 They're the best.

01:01:30.780 They're the best.

01:01:31.780 Yeah.

01:01:32.780 Yeah.

01:01:33.780 Okay.

01:01:34.780 What about you?

01:01:35.780 Ick?

01:01:36.780 Ick? 0.92

01:01:37.780 Probably somebody that's loud-mouthed, overweight, a dictator.

01:01:41.780 Someone that's like, oh, I'm going to sit there like, oh, I don't like the way that looks

01:01:47.000 or complains like the waiter or something like that.

01:01:49.160 Someone just doesn't make the whole night peaceful.

01:01:51.160 Have you been on a date recently where a girl did something and made you not want to talk

01:01:56.060 to her again?

01:01:56.760 See, I'm more of a long-term, all my relationships have been long-term, but in between those gaps.

01:02:05.380 See, me as well, I'm a bad responder as well.

01:02:07.800 What you're saying about responses and that, I'm the kind of guy that will message you and

01:02:10.760 they won't message you back for a good couple of hours.

01:02:12.920 It's not that I'm doing it on purpose, so I'm busy.

01:02:15.460 Do you know what I mean?

01:02:15.820 And then for someone to keep consistently messaging me, consistently messaging me, and that's kind

01:02:20.320 of an ick for me as well.

01:02:21.680 Okay.

01:02:22.500 I kind of like to be.

01:02:23.540 Oh, so if they're messaging you too much.

01:02:25.820 Yeah, and just don't look after themselves.

01:02:28.180 They need to look after themselves.

01:02:29.020 Yeah.

01:02:29.440 I wake up in the morning, I'm in the gym by the clock.

01:02:32.000 But she needs you.

01:02:33.160 She's like so excited.

01:02:34.820 Yeah.

01:02:35.320 He's like, no.

01:02:36.740 He's like, no.

01:02:38.860 Again, I'm a busy person.

01:02:41.460 I don't know.

01:02:42.240 Sometimes I find that kind of neediness you're talking about, sometimes I actually, I find

01:02:48.380 that attractive.

01:02:49.420 Yeah.

01:02:49.780 To a degree.

01:02:50.440 To a degree.

01:02:51.060 Yeah, because it means she's going to be obsessed with me.

01:02:53.740 Yeah.

01:02:54.400 Which is a good thing.

01:02:55.620 I want her to be obsessed with me.

01:02:56.260 But I agree with you at the same time.

01:02:58.040 I ain't sitting there all day texting with you.

01:02:59.760 There's a level to it.

01:03:00.480 Do you know what I mean?

01:03:00.920 I've given the girl freedom before and it backfired us. 0.99

01:03:04.220 Yeah.

01:03:04.560 So I do agree with the, you know, paying attention to me and stuff, but there's a level to it.

01:03:10.280 You can't overdo it because I'm not going to respond back to you and then you're not

01:03:13.280 going to like that.

01:03:14.040 Yeah.

01:03:14.300 You can't expect it in return.

01:03:15.900 Yeah.

01:03:16.100 You can't expect it to be like equal amounts of attention given back and forth.

01:03:19.660 It's good that you're obsessed with me, but I understand I'm busy.

01:03:24.560 Like you're going to get the occasional hi, I love you.

01:03:27.720 That's it.

01:03:28.240 Like, and you have to, you have to learn to be okay with that.

01:03:31.840 Yeah.

01:03:32.060 Because otherwise this ain't going to work.

01:03:33.260 Yeah.

01:03:33.580 See that with my ex-girlfriend, when she used to tell me that she loved me, that was enough

01:03:38.140 for me for the rest of the day.

01:03:38.980 I didn't need to hear it over and over and over again.

01:03:41.280 Do you know what I mean?

01:03:41.980 So if I say to her, I'm busy, she understands I'm busy for the whole day.

01:03:45.300 I'm not busy just for the next 20 minutes or so.

01:03:47.760 It's an understanding between you both.

01:03:49.340 I love that.

01:03:49.960 A lot of people don't understand that.

01:03:51.320 Because they're not at peace with them.

01:03:52.440 What are you doing now?

01:03:53.340 What are you doing now?

01:03:53.840 So they're angry.

01:03:54.280 Are you on your way?

01:03:55.840 Who are you with?

01:03:56.680 They're not.

01:03:58.200 What's her name?

01:03:59.040 What's her name?

01:04:00.560 Oh my God.

01:04:01.420 What's her name?

01:04:02.240 No joke.

01:04:02.840 Okay.

01:04:03.180 Can I tell a funny story, Pearl?

01:04:04.200 I had a French ex who did basically exactly that.

01:04:07.160 I went out to play poker with the guys, right?

01:04:10.480 Friday night, just me and the boys.

01:04:12.460 Phone died while I was there.

01:04:14.180 Wrong.

01:04:14.840 I get home, plug the phone in.

01:04:18.000 I just start hearing, bing, bing.

01:04:20.400 It's coming through.

01:04:21.360 It's coming through.

01:04:22.400 It did that for about two minutes straight.

01:04:24.620 It wasn't relenting.

01:04:25.780 I'm like, what on earth?

01:04:28.540 I look at it.

01:04:30.200 It's about 40 text messages, about 20 missed calls, and about seven voicemails.

01:04:36.360 And it starts off, I'm like doing them in sequential order.

01:04:39.180 And it starts off with, hey, babe, what are you up to?

01:04:42.940 I'm free later on.

01:04:44.000 Let me know when you're finished.

01:04:46.080 And then it goes, what are you doing?

01:04:49.140 You can feel the text is getting angry.

01:04:52.620 Who is she? 0.99

01:04:53.440 Who is she was the last text.

01:04:56.240 And then it went, and the voice notes were like just her crying into the phone.

01:05:00.320 Like again, again, again, again.

01:05:02.120 I'm like, whoa.

01:05:04.080 Broke up with her right after that.

01:05:05.800 That's what you're going to do with a 24-year-old.

01:05:08.340 Right.

01:05:09.960 That girl was older than 24. 1.00

01:05:13.320 25.

01:05:14.980 I've learned my lesson.

01:05:16.140 No, the biggest misconception is somehow older women are more mature. 1.00

01:05:20.960 No, no, no, no, no.

01:05:23.840 Or somehow easier to deal with.

01:05:25.140 No, no, no, no, no, no.

01:05:27.240 I think 100% of the women I've kicked out of here and that have not listened to the rules 1.00

01:05:32.580 have been over the age of 25.

01:05:34.740 100%.

01:05:35.820 Like I can't even think of, oh, no, there was one.

01:05:38.460 Sorry.

01:05:38.780 I thought of one.

01:05:39.480 But.

01:05:40.640 That was right.

01:05:41.720 I forgot about her.

01:05:44.640 But by and large, no.

01:05:47.100 Because when you think about it, when women like date, the more people women date, the higher 0.99

01:05:51.280 their standards get, and we admit this on social media, you'll see girls say, oh, I accepted 0.84

01:05:57.440 all this treatment in the past.

01:05:58.880 I'll never accept this treatment again.

01:06:01.280 It's basically making the men of the future pay for the mistakes of the past.

01:06:06.840 You disagree?

01:06:07.740 I feel like just in general, it seems like we're like taking every responsibility of

01:06:14.040 the relationship off of the men.

01:06:16.100 Like the women have the woman has to be understanding. 0.99

01:06:18.300 She has to conform to whatever you want to have going on in your household. 1.00

01:06:22.540 Like, I think maybe my idea of a relationship is just a little bit different.

01:06:27.520 Like, I don't know.

01:06:28.540 It kind of seems like you want a younger woman that you can like mold or like kind of make 1.00

01:06:32.980 a certain type of way or that will kind of like accept anything.

01:06:35.360 And I don't know if every woman is going to be that. 0.97

01:06:38.480 But it's somebody for everybody.

01:06:40.580 You think there's someone for everybody?

01:06:43.500 Somebody's going to like something about somebody.

01:06:46.020 No, that's not true.

01:06:47.840 There's a lot of very lonely, socially awkward men.

01:06:51.280 Maybe they just haven't been everywhere in the world.

01:06:53.660 They probably haven't.

01:06:54.340 You know, that's how people find their second wind.

01:06:56.800 That's why people do get remarried. 1.00

01:06:57.980 But how do people get around the world by being rich, which means that they're the top 10,

01:07:02.560 20 percent of people, which most people aren't going to get to?

01:07:05.360 I mean, I've traveled.

01:07:06.480 I live in another country.

01:07:07.360 I'm not rich.

01:07:08.800 So, I mean, I'm not saying that you have to be all around the world.

01:07:12.680 But I do think, you know, if you put forth that effort, if that's what you want, if that's

01:07:16.180 what you're seeking, if you're going to put every energy.

01:07:19.320 Yeah, explore and meet people and date people and find people like you're it's going to

01:07:23.140 be and it might not be your choice, but there might be somebody who is into you and wants

01:07:27.860 what you have to offer.

01:07:28.800 Yeah, but it's not the people that women want. 1.00

01:07:32.400 So the difference between men and women is men already conform to what women want. 0.59

01:07:37.420 So men know they have to be tall.

01:07:39.500 They typically have to be in good shape.

01:07:41.540 They typically have to have a good job and make money.

01:07:44.040 They typically have to be charismatic to get women to even talk to them. 0.86

01:07:47.340 The difference is women don't know what men want because they'll still sleep with us 1.00

01:07:51.020 and give us attention.

01:07:52.120 So women are not forced to conform to what men want because we'll get the attention anyways. 1.00

01:07:57.420 And there's evidence that suggests that 50 percent of women are never going to have kids

01:08:01.180 or get married.

01:08:02.600 And then you take the women that do get married, 50 percent of them will divorce. 0.62

01:08:06.320 And that's by 2030.

01:08:07.620 So it's not even that far away.

01:08:09.460 So like if we take this room, for example, how many girls are there in this room? 1.00

01:08:13.000 Two, four, six, seven.

01:08:15.180 At least, let's make it nicer than it is.

01:08:19.380 At least three of us will never get married and never have kids.

01:08:23.040 And that's a fact.

01:08:24.140 Yeah, and that might be true.

01:08:25.100 I'm not saying just because there is somebody for everybody that's going to find that person.

01:08:28.120 You might not have the opportunity.

01:08:29.360 Like I could go out in the street and get hit by a car and I can die tomorrow

01:08:31.560 and I didn't have my opportunity to meet my soulmate.

01:08:34.460 But just because I might not be everybody in this room's cup of tea,

01:08:38.320 that might not be my ratio.

01:08:39.820 That might not be my room to be in.

01:08:41.920 And, you know, I actually agree.

01:08:43.740 There's always a guy that will date a woman. 0.99

01:08:46.460 And there's a woman who will accept a man. 0.97

01:08:48.160 No, but that's the difference.

01:08:49.700 Women will not accept the men. 1.00

01:08:50.960 There are.

01:08:51.420 And that's why there's so many divorces. 1.00

01:08:52.460 So I'll tell you, what percent.

01:08:53.860 So they surveyed 5,000 men.

01:08:55.920 And they asked what percent of men have had more than one sexual partner in the past year.

01:09:00.880 What percent of men said that they did?

01:09:03.420 Guess.

01:09:04.760 I would say 80%.

01:09:06.620 10%.

01:09:07.600 So women, it's basically 100% of women are sleeping with 20% of men. 0.83

01:09:13.000 And it's the same when you look at dating apps.

01:09:15.800 Women swipe no on men 80% of the time. 0.99

01:09:20.380 And they only swipe right 5%.

01:09:22.340 So that's the problem.

01:09:24.880 It's not that the women can't get anybody, but it's once we've hit a certain level, we can't go down. 1.00

01:09:29.920 And women admit this, right? 1.00

01:09:31.800 They go around and they say, raise your standards.

01:09:34.260 You're a queen.

01:09:34.820 You're amazing.

01:09:35.360 And then, like, don't accept the treatment that you accepted before.

01:09:38.740 But the problem is, you, there's not enough men that women want to go around. 1.00

01:09:45.860 Well, I think that might have something to do with the way our culture and mindset around relationships have definitely changed.

01:09:54.020 Like, you guys are saying you are wanting a traditional relationship.

01:09:57.460 Well, nobody is moving in a traditional way these days.

01:10:01.060 So that's why you're not going to find people.

01:10:02.720 You have older men looking for someone half their age because, you know, they're not, they're clashing with the women who have these mindsets that they've gathered from pop culture or whatever that's going on today. 0.74

01:10:13.620 So, you know, if we have this imbalance of people who are agreeing on what they want out of a relationship or what they actually can provide in that relationship, because I think a lot of people also aren't realistic with themselves, then, of course, you're going to have some type of imbalance in the amount of people that want to be married and the people that will get married.

01:10:31.500 No, but the reality is women today don't even understand what traditionalism is, because when women say they want to be traditional, they always have this idea of the man pays for everything. 0.98

01:10:42.640 The man earns so much money that he can cater for the family.

01:10:45.400 But the reality is most people that were traditional back in the day weren't even living that kind of life.

01:10:50.720 The women were literally working alongside their husbands and still gave them the respect of being the man of the house. 1.00

01:10:57.420 They weren't living any soft life.

01:10:59.540 Most people were poor for most of humanity.

01:11:02.220 So every family you see that have come through time, there's only a few of them that actually lived a soft life.

01:11:09.140 So women today all want to live like the queens of the past. 1.00

01:11:13.420 I agree.

01:11:13.980 And so do the men.

01:11:14.780 That's why you have something called the sassy man apocalypse.

01:11:17.100 Like men are literally running around bragging about finessing dates out of women.

01:11:21.520 I actually disagree, because all throughout history, only 40% of men have ever reproduced.

01:11:26.700 So the reality is throughout history, men have never really been at the table like women think. 0.85

01:11:34.180 The only reason why you think men have been is because it's the men you see.

01:11:37.560 And those are the men that are actually desirable.

01:11:39.120 Like what percent of men do you even think can finesse dates?

01:11:44.480 I think, like I said, it's somebody for everybody.

01:11:46.720 Like you literally have stuff like people that come out of prison and they find women on Facebook and now a woman is taking care of it and paying all their bills.

01:11:53.740 Women do love... 1.00

01:11:55.280 She's been watching the FBI.

01:11:56.680 You've been watching the FBI, girl.

01:11:58.280 No, no, she's actually... 0.99

01:12:02.780 Love off the look up.

01:12:04.580 Love off the look up.

01:12:06.640 That's real life.

01:12:07.560 So you're actually, you're not wrong about criminals.

01:12:12.940 Like violent criminals are more likely to reproduce, but that's because women are attracted to men that can protect them. 1.00

01:12:18.400 And there's some biology where women, you know, think that if a guy kills someone else, some reason that they can kill for her too. 1.00

01:12:26.020 And women hate to admit this. 1.00

01:12:28.620 Women absolutely hate to admit that that's what we find attractive. 1.00

01:12:31.620 But there is a reason that every single girl loves watching horror films and documentaries about serial killers.

01:12:38.500 I don't know if that's true.

01:12:39.440 Thank you.

01:12:40.040 It's absolutely true.

01:12:41.400 What percent of men do you think women find attractive?

01:12:44.940 What percent of men?

01:12:47.760 Probably like 25, 30 percent.

01:12:50.180 You're close, 20 percent.

01:12:51.460 But I also feel like that's an issue as well.

01:12:54.420 Like we think we have so many choices and we don't have everybody on the hinge.

01:12:58.340 It's not your choice.

01:12:59.560 Like you're not going to meet everybody in the world.

01:13:01.660 So you can't just base it off of who you're attracted to.

01:13:04.160 Like there's so many more things that go into a relationship.

01:13:06.560 You're right.

01:13:08.200 But the problem is that's what women select for in their 20s. 1.00

01:13:11.640 That's the number one thing women select for in their 20s is looks. 1.00

01:13:15.120 And money goes higher in their 30s.

01:13:18.020 And so when women have the most options, they're selecting for looks and they're only dating and sleeping with the top 20 percent of men. 1.00

01:13:24.880 Wow.

01:13:25.540 That's what I mean. 0.99

01:13:26.040 And that's why the women will say men are trash, men are the problem because they're all sleeping with 20 percent of men where 80 percent of men aren't really getting play at all. 0.99

01:13:34.280 No, I agree. 0.99

01:13:34.840 That means 80 percent of men on the hunt for these women.

01:13:37.360 I agree.

01:13:38.200 You don't got as many choices as you think.

01:13:39.760 For women, it should be very easy to get that 80 percent. 1.00

01:13:41.020 You need to settle down with the scrub with the bag.

01:13:46.340 Benzo is not coming.

01:13:47.860 Like he's not coming.

01:13:49.040 And that's why people think that women expire so early is because you're looking for somebody who has this certain image that you've seen on Instagram, you've seen on social media, where you're sleeping on, you know, every other aspect that is the important things in a relationship. 0.76

01:14:00.940 Looks will fade because if you ask me if women have an expiration date, so do men. 1.00

01:14:05.840 Like, just because you can keep going.

01:14:08.340 Like, but the difference is men don't expire the same way women do.

01:14:13.320 I would argue if men have an expiration date, it's maybe 55, 50.

01:14:17.480 But if you look on dating apps, what if you want the most swiped right age on?

01:14:22.400 I think it's like plenty of fish or something for women. 1.00

01:14:25.480 Guess what it is?

01:14:27.220 18.

01:14:28.560 18.

01:14:29.560 And guess what it is for men?

01:14:32.040 Probably 60 because it's not for love.

01:14:34.660 Not that.

01:14:35.360 No, no, no.

01:14:35.840 But it's what we're attracted to.

01:14:37.460 Don't you?

01:14:37.700 Okay.

01:14:37.960 Are you attracted to a guy that has a good career?

01:14:40.220 Yeah.

01:14:40.440 And he's hardworking?

01:14:41.420 Okay.

01:14:41.880 What does that come with?

01:14:43.740 Age.

01:14:44.560 That's true.

01:14:45.140 This is true.

01:14:45.640 But yeah.

01:14:46.420 And are you attracted to a guy that's wiser than you?

01:14:49.460 That knows more about the world than you?

01:14:50.840 Yeah.

01:14:51.280 In general.

01:14:51.980 Yeah.

01:14:52.240 But men don't care about that. 1.00

01:14:54.180 They don't care about what you do for work.

01:14:56.640 They don't care about how wise you are about the world.

01:14:59.920 Like, men are kind of attracted to girls that are naive.

01:15:03.220 And that comes with youth.

01:15:04.780 So we're just not attracted to the same things.

01:15:07.300 This is true.

01:15:08.400 And I feel like...

01:15:09.020 I'd say teachable instead of naive.

01:15:10.740 Okay.

01:15:11.280 Yeah.

01:15:11.640 Like willing.

01:15:12.280 Potato.

01:15:12.640 Potato.

01:15:12.860 Multiple has like a manipulative flavor to it.

01:15:16.220 Yeah.

01:15:16.560 But like, if I can teach her about the reality of the world and she's going to like learn it.

01:15:21.420 Conform.

01:15:22.100 Way better than someone who's ready to learn.

01:15:23.260 Well, like, if she's on my, like, if I can get her on my game plan, we're all going to win.

01:15:27.540 Right?

01:15:28.080 If she's like combating me and fighting it because she's got all this other programming in her head already.

01:15:31.880 Yeah.

01:15:32.300 We're going to be fighting each other the whole way.

01:15:34.360 That's it.

01:15:35.500 And if she's like, baby, going on 40, so many other people have tried to teach her stuff.

01:15:38.880 By the time she comes around to me, oh, I've got to teach you.

01:15:42.140 You're going to tell me everything.

01:15:43.120 But then that also comes down to, obviously, we're not talking about age, but when you're having a partner, one of my things is, I say to my friends before we got here, do you have the desire to want to unlearn some of your BS behavior?

01:15:59.280 Do you have that desire as a friend, as a family member, as a whatever?

01:16:04.480 Because some things may not be serving you the way you think it does.

01:16:09.420 So, for example, the young lady over there said, communication, effective communication, the way she receives, the way she delivers.

01:16:18.840 He may decide that, you know what?

01:16:20.720 I'm not saying he needs to conform to throwing her toys out the car to want an argument, whatever.

01:16:25.580 But he understands that maybe that means that she just wants a bit of attention.

01:16:30.300 So, I'm not even going to feed into that.

01:16:31.540 I'm going to go and give her a hug.

01:16:34.720 Whatever it is that he knows gets her to a place of comfort where she feels safe.

01:16:40.320 Whatever it is that, so that, again, you're understanding her communication.

01:16:44.240 That is the worst advice ever.

01:16:46.720 What?

01:16:47.200 What, to unlearn bad behavior?

01:16:49.620 No, like when you said, if she's doing all of that, then he just...

01:16:55.020 I'm not saying he needs to give a hug.

01:16:56.380 I'm just saying whatever works for her.

01:16:58.060 No, but whatever works for her is not what he should do.

01:17:00.640 Or whatever works for him.

01:17:01.540 Because what happens is just like the child analogy.

01:17:05.220 When a child throws a tantrum and then you suit their tantrum,

01:17:09.340 you literally tell them that whenever they want something, they can get it by doing that.

01:17:14.820 So, you're literally teaching her bad behaviors.

01:17:17.300 Right.

01:17:17.680 So, then back to my original point was, do we have the willingness to unlearn?

01:17:22.180 So, perhaps it's the open conversation that needs to happen at a later stage.

01:17:26.920 Or there and then if he wants to have that conversation.

01:17:29.400 Can he effectively communicate that?

01:17:31.800 Can they both take it in and understand?

01:17:34.040 Because you can listen and hear something, but you may not understand it.

01:17:37.720 So, you can just say, yes, okay.

01:17:40.420 Did you hear me?

01:17:41.360 Yeah, I do.

01:17:42.300 Did you understand me?

01:17:43.420 But then if I drill that into you, then maybe that's what you meant.

01:17:47.160 It's a nag. 1.00

01:17:48.000 No.

01:17:48.940 You know?

01:17:49.560 So, again, unlearning bad behavior or unlearning bad habits that were installed,

01:17:54.040 programmed, society, outside, social media, whatever it is.

01:17:57.600 That's one of the things we have to be willing to unlearn.

01:18:00.180 Things that don't serve you or serve the purpose of whatever the relationship is.

01:18:04.400 I'll just say, though, there are some things that men can actually tolerate in women. 0.98

01:18:09.500 But the worst thing is that particular behavior of wanting to nag or argue.

01:18:13.680 It's even in the Bible.

01:18:15.020 It's better for a man to live on the corner of his roof than to live in a house with a 1.00

01:18:18.280 car or some wife.

01:18:19.360 If that's in the Bible, then bruh. 0.93

01:18:21.620 Like, every religion on earth has actually have something to say about things like this.

01:18:28.480 So, it goes to tell you that there are just some things that women should actually work 1.00

01:18:34.200 on.

01:18:34.420 And this is the problem.

01:18:34.980 A lot of women don't want to work on some issues. 1.00

01:18:37.740 And they just want to, like we said, they feel entitled and they feel like they deserve

01:18:41.780 this.

01:18:42.020 But the reality is you can only get what you earn and what you work for.

01:18:47.040 So, I don't know.

01:18:49.580 King, could you pull up the video I sent you?

01:18:52.160 I don't know if you have it.

01:18:53.500 I'm going to ask them one more thing, though.

01:18:55.980 Did you guys give your icks?

01:18:57.400 You did.

01:18:58.020 You did. 0.91

01:18:58.640 Did you give your ick? 0.95

01:18:59.380 Okay, what's your ick? 0.97

01:19:00.860 It's mainly like a lady that is always negative. 1.00

01:19:04.840 And it's always moaning.

01:19:06.260 I'm a very positive individual.

01:19:08.460 But do you know what it is?

01:19:09.180 For me, it's all about understanding each other and I could be as happy as ever and

01:19:14.420 be around someone that is so not at peace with themselves and they use another person

01:19:19.620 to lean on for comfort.

01:19:21.740 And this is why I always try and tell people, even like with men and women, everybody, like

01:19:26.180 work on yourself from the core, from inside to then develop an understanding about yourself,

01:19:32.580 have a relation with yourself to then put yourself out there to know that you're comfortable

01:19:36.020 getting into a relationship because the negativity will consume.

01:19:40.360 And they always say, when you're around somebody, like you then become like that.

01:19:43.740 And I can't deal with it.

01:19:45.040 So I was like out with one lady one time and just nagging, talking about someone else and

01:19:50.740 negative about the icks and what he did.

01:19:52.660 And I'm like, baby, you know what?

01:19:55.020 I think I've got to go home now.

01:19:57.160 I'm tired.

01:19:58.840 I've got a migraine.

01:19:59.760 You get it?

01:20:00.280 So yeah, that's it for me, though.

01:20:01.840 That's the ick for me.

01:20:03.160 Just the negativity and the non-passion of wanting more for yourself and positivity.

01:20:08.500 So yeah.

01:20:09.840 What do you think men should get out of marriage?

01:20:13.400 Oh, I like that one.

01:20:14.480 Out of marriage.

01:20:15.580 I think they should get companionship.

01:20:19.200 Yes.

01:20:20.180 But you can get that out of a girlfriend. 1.00

01:20:22.060 Why?

01:20:22.300 What a wife. 1.00

01:20:23.200 Why a wife? 0.99

01:20:24.780 Okay.

01:20:25.360 So for me, I'm kind of with her on the fact of like marriage is kind of like a gray area

01:20:30.260 because that's kind of determined by the person because some people consider like relationships.

01:20:36.120 Some people consider like a marriage as just a legal document.

01:20:38.600 So I think it's based on like kind of what you believe or feel about that sort of thing.

01:20:44.960 But I just feel like in a serious relationship or like y'all are in a household together, married, whatever.

01:20:52.080 That's what I'm kind of referring to.

01:20:53.800 So I guess like the difference of companionship in a relationship versus a marriage is like you're being a homemaker.

01:21:00.940 You know, we're making decisions together about children.

01:21:04.220 Do you think men should make decisions with the wife? 0.91

01:21:07.120 I think that there should be a conversation.

01:21:09.960 But I definitely I think like I personally I would like a man who can lead.

01:21:14.040 And so, yeah, like but I do want somebody who is not just going to like because I'm not your child.

01:21:18.980 So I don't want somebody who's like making making decisions for me.

01:21:22.260 Well, why would he consult you if he's going to make the final decision anyway?

01:21:25.480 Because maybe as your wife, I could offer you a different insight, different perspective.

01:21:31.220 You know, I'm a grown woman, too.

01:21:33.220 So, you know, I have some wisdom.

01:21:35.620 What if he doesn't want your advice?

01:21:37.680 He just he wants to make the decision.

01:21:40.120 Is that OK?

01:21:41.160 Yeah, I would have to respect that.

01:21:42.400 But, you know, from there, then you would understand that there might be a conversation or communication had to follow up.

01:21:49.100 It's just like any other decision that's made.

01:21:51.100 OK, so he gets someone he can talk to about decisions.

01:21:54.680 He gets companionship.

01:21:56.260 He gets someone who's nurturing, going to take care of your kids, you know, handle the business at home.

01:22:03.120 So then by that logic, the older women couldn't do the kids thing. 1.00

01:22:07.260 Like, over 35, it's geriatric pregnancy. 0.95

01:22:09.560 So should that be out for women over 35 then? 0.74

01:22:13.080 Should what be out?

01:22:14.000 Marriage.

01:22:14.880 Um, everybody don't want kids.

01:22:16.660 No, but I said the like he would not get marriage from or he would not likely get children from a woman woman that's over the age of 35. 0.94

01:22:24.900 So she can't offer that in a marriage. 0.61

01:22:26.780 Yeah.

01:22:26.960 OK, but I'm saying by that logic, then the older woman couldn't offer that. 0.69

01:22:31.340 Right.

01:22:32.300 Um, correct.

01:22:33.940 Yeah.

01:22:34.240 OK, so what else does a guy get?

01:22:36.100 Um.

01:22:36.500 Um, a vibe, you know, like somebody to lay down with at night, you know, that's that's just yours that you're not sharing with anybody else on the streets.

01:22:51.040 Um, yeah, experience.

01:22:52.920 That whole married vibe.

01:22:55.800 No, a vibe, like something that you're not going to get from being out with your boys at the poker game, like that kind of vibe, like a different type of feeling.

01:23:03.120 OK, um, what do you think a man should get out of marriage? 0.57

01:23:08.320 Um, I'm not sure because I don't think a man can really gain anything from a marriage. 0.81

01:23:13.580 Oh.

01:23:14.340 Very well spotted.

01:23:15.420 Oh.

01:23:17.460 Yeah, I just, I don't, I don't, yeah.

01:23:19.820 Yeah, I just, I don't think, yeah, they, they don't actually benefit because anything they can get in a marriage they can get without being married.

01:23:26.760 Yeah.

01:23:28.140 Honest answer.

01:23:29.160 What do you think a man, what do you think a man can get out of marriage? 0.56

01:23:32.220 Well, I think they get a loyal woman. 0.99

01:23:34.560 I think they get a woman that is. 1.00

01:23:38.300 No, no, no, no, no.

01:23:39.900 No, if they choose right, they get a loyal woman because, you know, our choices are down to us and vice versa with men.

01:23:47.660 If a man chooses the wrong woman, then that's. 1.00

01:23:50.140 What is the right woman? 1.00

01:23:51.620 Wouldn't you say a woman under the age of. 1.00

01:23:54.780 No, I'm not going to say age.

01:23:56.400 OK.

01:23:56.820 I'm not going to say age.

01:23:57.060 So what is the right woman? 1.00

01:23:58.380 Because some people.

01:23:58.900 No kids?

01:23:59.720 No kids?

01:24:00.220 No.

01:24:01.300 It depends.

01:24:01.780 It depends.

01:24:02.380 Is the man, is the man divorced or did he have a previous where he had children as well?

01:24:07.740 And now he's looking for something different.

01:24:10.620 Well, but.

01:24:11.220 You do see that a lot.

01:24:12.180 But the reason, the reason I'm saying is we know the body count stats.

01:24:15.340 If a girl slept with two people, it's like 50-50 on if she, if it will be a successful marriage. 1.00

01:24:22.360 If she slept with four people, it's like you maybe have a 20% chance of having a happy marriage. 1.00

01:24:27.480 So, so my question is, what does the right woman look like with these numbers? 0.99

01:24:30.700 Okay, so the right woman is someone who's peaceful, who's got, got like, who's there for her man when needed.

01:24:39.480 And how do you measure that?

01:24:40.920 How do you measure that?

01:24:41.760 Yeah.

01:24:41.960 How do you measure it?

01:24:42.780 You know, because men need help emotionally as well.

01:24:45.960 And I know a lot of men would say they don't, but I've been in long-term relationships.

01:24:49.100 They do.

01:24:49.940 They definitely do.

01:24:51.580 They definitely confide in their woman and need that. 1.00

01:24:55.240 So, all I can say is when I was in a long-term relationship, I would be running around making sure that when he gets in from work, that the house is peaceful.

01:25:06.440 So, that would look like running a bathroom, making sure his food was done when he got in.

01:25:10.880 You know, all those kind of things.

01:25:13.600 But then mentioning that I wasn't married.

01:25:15.920 Yeah.

01:25:16.520 But I was living as if I was married.

01:25:18.520 I was playing that role.

01:25:19.440 But that's the question is like, what can a guy get out of marriage that he couldn't get from a girlfriend?

01:25:25.240 Because you can have a loyal girlfriend.

01:25:26.840 I mean, I've...

01:25:27.840 Yeah.

01:25:28.780 So, when I was younger, and obviously would have had the opportunity to get married, I didn't really believe in the piece of paper.

01:25:38.800 I believed in loyalty.

01:25:40.520 I believed in, you know, I'm here and I'm not going anywhere.

01:25:43.360 But you could do a church marriage.

01:25:45.000 That's fine.

01:25:45.600 But still...

01:25:45.880 Yeah, but I didn't believe in...

01:25:47.480 I'm not talking about you.

01:25:49.540 I'm not talking about you.

01:25:50.520 What I'm saying is it's hard to speak sometimes without basing it on yourself.

01:25:53.600 I think everyone's done that here so far.

01:25:55.540 It's the easiest way to speak on a subject.

01:25:58.940 That's like a female thing. 1.00

01:26:00.560 No.

01:26:00.960 Yeah, it is.

01:26:01.500 It's more of a...

01:26:02.340 No, I'm saying it's much more of a...

01:26:03.980 It's much more...

01:26:05.120 No, it's much more of a female. 0.67

01:26:07.140 No, because that was an individual question.

01:26:09.260 Where the second question is more general.

01:26:11.300 Women tend to interpret information more individually. 1.00

01:26:14.220 Where men will answer questions more, like, logically, typically. 0.84

01:26:17.640 Yeah, because we have...

01:26:20.360 Which is fine, but I...

01:26:22.640 That's why we complement each other.

01:26:23.780 Which is...

01:26:24.220 I'm not saying it's a bad thing.

01:26:25.900 That's what...

01:26:26.520 I'm just...

01:26:27.020 You're kind of arguing with me about it.

01:26:28.520 I'm just saying they're different.

01:26:30.360 But my question more is, like, what does a guy get out of marriage?

01:26:35.120 Like, what should he get out of...

01:26:36.020 I think those were good answers, though, the house peaceful.

01:26:38.360 Yeah.

01:26:38.440 Well, I think nothing then.

01:26:40.020 Because, you know, when...

01:26:41.500 Yeah, because the girlfriend's messing up the game. 1.00

01:26:43.660 I'm not sure that's the conclusion.

01:26:53.720 Yeah, it is the conclusion.

01:26:55.320 Before the boys are getting dumped.

01:26:57.300 I don't...

01:26:57.820 Wouldn't it be to offer more value?

01:27:00.880 No?

01:27:01.240 Okay.

01:27:01.840 What was that?

01:27:02.780 No?

01:27:03.300 To offer more value to the guys?

01:27:06.340 No?

01:27:06.920 No?

01:27:07.200 Okay, still me.

01:27:07.800 All right, next.

01:27:10.160 No, no, no.

01:27:11.080 Do you have anything else you want to add?

01:27:13.660 Um, yeah, I did have something, but I'll come back to it.

01:27:17.940 Okay.

01:27:18.340 Okay, thank you.

01:27:19.220 Go ahead.

01:27:19.980 Um, leading on from what you said as well, peaceful home, yeah.

01:27:24.440 But they do get the contract, the promise, ultimately, with the marriage,

01:27:29.460 which is different from the long-term relationship where you're playing housewife.

01:27:33.800 Um, I would say they get as well the...

01:27:39.360 Right, okay, so they get the contract, right?

01:27:41.260 It's the promise.

01:27:42.060 The contract.

01:27:43.380 Yeah, because it comes with punishment, doesn't it?

01:27:46.520 Mm-hmm.

01:27:47.340 Yeah.

01:27:47.540 So that's what they get.

01:27:48.880 For the guy, yeah.

01:27:49.740 Yeah, wait, for who?

01:27:50.960 Ah, no, whoa, whoa, whoa.

01:27:52.680 For who?

01:27:53.200 No, no, not always.

01:27:54.700 That's not fair.

01:27:55.420 The contract.

01:27:56.240 The contract.

01:27:57.220 Yeah, no, it depends what's in the contract.

01:27:58.680 Yeah, absolutely what's in the contract, but that's what it is.

01:28:01.340 It's a promise.

01:28:01.880 Who typically gets child support, men or women?

01:28:05.900 It depends on what family you're growing up in, but most women probably get it, right? 1.00

01:28:10.740 I don't know.

01:28:12.540 So couldn't we argue that women actually get a reward for leaving? 1.00

01:28:16.220 No, but you can't...

01:28:17.280 Because it's most women that will bring up the children, so the women are having to bring 1.00

01:28:23.460 them up.

01:28:23.700 Right, but that's like a catch.

01:28:24.500 But the man was bringing them up.

01:28:25.800 That's a catch-22, though, because they're punishing traditional men.

01:28:29.780 If the man does what he's supposed to do, which is protect and provide for the family, then

01:28:35.340 they say, oh, gotcha, now you don't get the kids because you didn't spend enough time

01:28:39.760 with the kids.

01:28:40.380 But if he was at home with the children, they would say, why don't you have a job?

01:28:45.760 Yeah, you get penalized.

01:28:46.920 So you think that men would prefer to bring the children up? 0.99

01:28:50.060 I think that most men would prefer to bring the kids up. 0.94

01:28:54.020 I think most men would prefer to have the authority on the decision, because men tend to

01:28:59.360 be better people, and they actually don't hold the kids, they don't take away the kids

01:29:03.800 out of spite.

01:29:04.840 That's something women do. 1.00

01:29:05.980 A lot.

01:29:06.360 A lot.

01:29:06.380 Single father homes turn out significantly better than single mother homes. 0.99

01:29:11.660 This is true.

01:29:12.100 And if you believe in patriarchy, if you believe in men having authority in the household,

01:29:17.520 why would they not have authority over their children?

01:29:19.760 Can I just say, everyone said they wanted the leader and stuff.

01:29:23.060 Wouldn't the father be a better person to raise the kid if he's a leader?

01:29:26.080 Yeah, but does he have the time to raise them if he's the leader?

01:29:29.360 He'd still be the better person.

01:29:30.280 He's got a round of money.

01:29:31.500 But no, but the point is, men will still give the kid to the mother. 1.00

01:29:36.100 That's a feminine, like, that's what women do. 1.00

01:29:38.220 They're the ones that keep the kid away from the dad.

01:29:41.360 Where did they learn this?

01:29:42.540 What?

01:29:42.980 Where did they start teaching this?

01:29:44.020 Where did they start doing that?

01:29:46.280 When did women start doing that? 1.00

01:29:47.660 Where did they learn this from?

01:29:48.980 Where did they learn this from?

01:29:50.840 Where did they learn this from?

01:29:51.840 Each other.

01:29:52.800 They learn it from each other.

01:29:54.140 They tell each other, call someone up.

01:29:55.640 All you have to say is, he abused you.

01:29:57.060 And then you get the kids, and then you'll get money as well.

01:29:59.980 But didn't you say to call your friend if you're having an argument?

01:30:02.520 I said, isn't that the same friend?

01:30:04.300 No, no, no, no, I did not say call your friend if you have an argument.

01:30:06.840 Absolutely not.

01:30:07.580 You don't tell people outside of your relationship about arguments.

01:30:10.320 I said, if you have something that you're nagging about, when I hear nagging, I think that that's something insignificant.

01:30:15.840 So, for example, she gave the example of dishes.

01:30:18.920 If it's something like the dishes, ultimately, that's her problem.

01:30:22.940 She's letting dishes annoy you. 1.00

01:30:24.080 If they annoy you that much, do it yourself.

01:30:25.880 So, you could go and call your mum or tell your friend, he didn't do the dishes and it drove me nuts because that's her issue.

01:30:31.760 An argument is an issue within the relationship.

01:30:34.200 That shouldn't go outside of the relationship.

01:30:35.540 I would never, ever tell anyone to take issues that are within a relationship, outside of a relationship, because that's wrong on all levels.

01:30:43.900 It fuels it more.

01:30:45.960 Where are women learning? 1.00

01:30:47.160 I just think when women get power, we're bad people. 1.00

01:30:50.000 Yeah, I don't know what it is.

01:30:51.280 Whenever.

01:30:52.260 Why?

01:30:52.840 Emotions.

01:30:53.480 Why?

01:30:54.020 Emotions.

01:30:54.460 It's the scorn of a woman. 1.00

01:30:57.740 I think, I mean, I'm Catholic.

01:30:59.400 I think there's a natural order in the world.

01:31:01.220 So, I think it's supposed to go God, men, women, children. 0.61

01:31:06.120 Arguably, government in there, too.

01:31:07.740 But, let's just stick to the family unit.

01:31:09.720 God, men, women, children.

01:31:11.240 I think evil happens when you tell women that they're equal to men. 1.00

01:31:14.500 And that's typically, like, the last hundred years, what policies have women passed since they've gotten the most political power? 1.00

01:31:20.800 They've passed policies that oppress men.

01:31:23.560 Bob Powell.

01:31:24.320 Go ahead.

01:31:24.700 What King said earlier, that there was an equilibrium going on before, where the women would have to go out, go get a dinner, and then build the home.

01:31:36.320 Is that what he said?

01:31:37.180 An equal.

01:31:37.600 Yeah, I said that, but she was still under the authority of her man, even when she was working alongside him.

01:31:43.080 So, she could do everything.

01:31:45.320 No.

01:31:45.860 I'm not saying she has to do everything.

01:31:47.420 The man was still providing for the family, but the woman was working alongside him.

01:31:53.200 Yeah.

01:31:53.520 Yeah.

01:31:53.760 Now, this idea that women, now, to, oh, it was way harder before. 0.94

01:31:58.140 Oh, my gosh.

01:31:58.800 Have you Googled, like, have you heard of Amish people, anyone?

01:32:01.340 Yeah.

01:32:02.320 Google, like, a day in the life of the Amish, and tell me if most women could do that over a desk job. 1.00

01:32:07.760 Most women couldn't. 1.00

01:32:08.620 No, I couldn't.

01:32:09.080 No, for sure.

01:32:09.700 Could I?

01:32:10.240 For sure.

01:32:10.580 No, but that's, like, this idea that women were just at home, like, sitting, doing nothing. 0.98

01:32:14.880 I'm, like, life was hard for most of history.

01:32:18.180 Like, I promise you, your desk job is not harder than what the women of times past did. 1.00

01:32:25.760 Physically.

01:32:26.580 Yeah.

01:32:27.300 Mentally.

01:32:27.960 Well, I would say it's harder on women to be away from the family, right? 1.00

01:32:31.260 That's what we got, like, work husbands. 1.00

01:32:32.580 You know, it's tough when you're around people all the time, you know, to not mix that stuff.

01:32:37.540 That's why they typically do.

01:32:40.580 Um, okay, so, what about you, men, marriage?

01:32:46.460 Um, the traditional Western marriage?

01:32:48.760 Yeah.

01:32:49.540 Um, they don't gain nothing, as you said previously.

01:32:53.440 They can get everything without being married on a, contracts.

01:32:56.940 Okay.

01:32:57.520 You don't need to sign a contract.

01:32:58.780 You can get it all.

01:33:00.040 Okay.

01:33:00.940 What about you, Sterling?

01:33:02.200 What should a guy get out of marriage? 0.63

01:33:03.740 Well, I mean.

01:33:04.360 Cow milking?

01:33:07.700 Chicken coop building.

01:33:09.200 Yeah.

01:33:09.460 And maintenance.

01:33:10.420 Yeah.

01:33:11.400 What a guy can get, there's only one, there's only really one thing that a guy can actually

01:33:16.120 get out of, like, a traditional, like, legal government marriage, and that's immigration 0.99

01:33:21.520 papers.

01:33:22.280 Yeah.

01:33:22.780 Yeah, documents.

01:33:23.500 That's it.

01:33:25.040 That's it.

01:33:26.460 Passport.

01:33:27.420 And another passport.

01:33:28.560 Documents.

01:33:29.260 That's it.

01:33:30.000 That's the only circumstance.

01:33:31.760 That is the best answer.

01:33:32.600 That is the best answer.

01:33:33.640 Actually, also, also, I think potential alibi.

01:33:37.060 Yes.

01:33:38.180 Yeah.

01:33:38.720 You look like getting personal now, boy.

01:33:40.780 You look like getting real personal now.

01:33:42.420 Actually, I'll add to that.

01:33:44.920 Now you've mentioned it, I'll add to that.

01:33:45.880 There's one, there is, like, nuance, depending on how complex your business is, you can put

01:33:51.220 things in your wife's name that you couldn't put in a girlfriend's name.

01:33:54.240 Yeah.

01:33:54.460 Documents.

01:33:55.060 So there are some...

01:33:56.400 So basically, paper for what paper?

01:33:58.120 Paper for paper.

01:33:59.840 Paper.

01:34:00.880 If there's no benefit in it, if there's no benefit for a man, why are you seeking that?

01:34:05.880 I don't want to get legally married.

01:34:08.140 I would get religiously married.

01:34:09.760 Okay.

01:34:10.420 Because that's, like, for me, that's...

01:34:12.900 In your mind, what's the difference?

01:34:14.600 Well, government has nothing to do with it.

01:34:17.040 I'm not signing any paperwork.

01:34:18.620 Keeping the government out is good.

01:34:19.960 It's done in a church with a priest and maybe a couple of family members, but it's under God.

01:34:23.940 It's not... 0.99

01:34:24.600 The state has no goddamn business in it. 0.98

01:34:26.400 Like, that's why. 0.99

01:34:27.780 Yeah.

01:34:29.160 And...

01:34:29.600 Probably because I would primarily choose to be with a Christian girl. 0.92

01:34:32.360 Well, and he's marrying below 25, non-whore, no kids. 1.00

01:34:41.140 Like, there's some benefit, you know, but...

01:34:43.980 Loads of benefit for me.

01:34:44.920 Yeah, but he's not...

01:34:46.460 Yeah, he's not getting the old ladies, right? 1.00

01:34:50.300 That's what's back on me.

01:34:51.400 Um, okay, uh, what...

01:34:55.160 Okay, what do you think?

01:34:57.760 Yeah, I mean, if we're thinking actual, physical, what can you gain?

01:35:03.240 I think that you've said everything, really.

01:35:05.740 Um, I think if it's not a legal marriage and it's, uh, say, a religious marriage, um, you

01:35:12.440 know, what you should gain, if we say in an ideal world where women aren't incentivized 1.00

01:35:16.540 to get divorced and take the kids, in an ideal world, you should get what the vows are.

01:35:20.800 Someone who is undoubtedly going to follow your lead, doesn't need to have everything

01:35:25.320 ran by them, is just going to let you do whatever you want, not do whatever you want.

01:35:29.420 Like, you know, if you, if you say, oh, I'm going to go out and do something that's going

01:35:34.780 to get you hurt, you know, you would, you would try and say, maybe don't do that.

01:35:37.280 But if they do it at the end of the day, like it's someone who's going to stay with you in

01:35:40.460 sickness and in health till death do us part, till death do us part.

01:35:43.540 Not when I'm no longer happy.

01:35:45.540 And I decide that I deserve something else at 55 or whatever it may be.

01:35:51.160 It should be what the vows are, but we don't live in an ideal world.

01:35:54.240 So yeah, you don't really get anything out of it, apart from maybe a visa.

01:35:57.660 That was a good answer.

01:35:58.400 You guys are creative.

01:36:00.400 What about you?

01:36:01.560 What do you think men should get out of marriage?

01:36:03.820 Well, I mean, what they should get is the vows, like she said.

01:36:06.040 But what I believe that they should get is if I'm going to marry you, you should start

01:36:11.700 building my credit score or something.

01:36:13.640 Because I'm not going to...

01:36:14.240 You're cheeky.

01:36:18.080 It should build my credit score, especially if it's only just me spending the money.

01:36:21.200 Oh, that's something else, actually.

01:36:22.440 Anyway, in rare cases, I think you could gain status.

01:36:27.740 Credit.

01:36:27.860 So like, you mentioned about credit scores.

01:36:30.500 So for example, you know, when you get married and you go to get a mortgage, if you're with

01:36:37.040 someone who, say, the woman's got a better credit score, you know, that way you guys might 0.95

01:36:41.280 be able to get a house.

01:36:42.080 A guarantor.

01:36:42.420 Not her benefiting due.

01:36:44.180 Or a guarantor.

01:36:45.420 Yeah.

01:36:45.660 Yeah.

01:36:45.920 I mean, that's the case.

01:36:47.620 That's documents.

01:36:49.080 But other than that.

01:36:49.640 If you get Bill Gates' daughter.

01:36:51.300 Yeah.

01:36:52.440 King had some strong thoughts on that relationship, huh, King?

01:36:58.420 My man smiled.

01:36:59.560 I love for this one.

01:37:02.400 Okay.

01:37:03.340 What do you think?

01:37:04.740 If we're talking on the basis of the terminology, marriage, I just believe nothing.

01:37:09.780 I do agree with the vows.

01:37:11.500 And I do agree with what Sterling said.

01:37:14.500 So, and just respect.

01:37:15.920 And it should be the original vows.

01:37:17.400 I want to clarify that because I have spoken to people I know and asked them about the vow

01:37:25.280 of to, I think it's to submit and obey.

01:37:29.900 And almost everyone says that they chose to have that taken out.

01:37:32.840 But it's the main part of marriage. 0.52

01:37:34.140 And I think that's disgusting.

01:37:35.620 Yeah. 0.75

01:37:35.880 So, I guess the summary of all of this is that marriage by the state is designed for women.

01:37:42.860 Correct.

01:37:43.580 Yeah.

01:37:44.820 A thousand percent.

01:37:45.920 Do you want to pull up the video, King?

01:37:48.240 Do the song one first.

01:37:49.680 So, I was on Twitter and I saw this amazing song.

01:37:58.620 I actually, I covered it.

01:37:59.640 I covered it on Pearl Daily today.

01:38:02.420 Wanted to get you guys' take.

01:38:06.640 Oh, my gosh.

01:38:09.900 Yeah.

01:38:10.800 My bad.

01:38:11.440 My grandma paid me by the pound Said I should try to slim it down

01:38:22.180 Went to meetings with my mom The less I ate, the more they applauded

01:38:29.880 Being hungry made me feel so proud

01:38:34.880 Still not full yet Ten years off

01:38:42.040 Didn't know why to hate myself Till I learned it from someone else

01:38:51.740 Didn't see what was wrong with me Just lived in my body

01:38:58.620 Did my best to lose the weight Hoping the hurt would go away 0.99

01:39:06.580 But damn skinny feels just the same 0.99

01:39:10.460 I'll always carry it in my body 0.99

01:39:17.660 Okay, so, Christine, what did you think of that?

01:39:26.360 There's a lot.

01:39:27.480 Is that a joke?

01:39:28.340 She's joking, right?

01:39:29.960 No, no, I think it's serious

01:39:31.780 Yeah

01:39:33.320 I don't know, I thought I was

01:39:36.260 Potential heart disease feels the same as not potential heart disease

01:39:39.480 Is that what she's saying?

01:39:41.420 I guess

01:39:42.300 I don't know

01:39:43.040 I was thinking that was such a good opportunity

01:39:45.980 Like money-wise

01:39:47.000 I was like, you can make like 200 bucks

01:39:48.100 She said she tried really

01:39:49.380 I mean, no doubt she can sing, right?

01:39:51.600 Oh, I'm saying

01:39:52.360 Break her lungs 1.00

01:39:53.240 Yeah

01:39:53.520 But

01:39:55.460 You

01:39:56.120 I tried so hard

01:39:57.660 I mean, if you tried that hard

01:39:59.980 You wouldn't look like that

01:40:01.240 But she said

01:40:03.120 That's what she said

01:40:04.020 Being skinny and being big is the same

01:40:05.800 Skinnier version of her now

01:40:07.360 Where's the skinny version?

01:40:09.220 Yeah

01:40:09.420 Maybe she was bigger 1.00

01:40:10.000 They should have showed her

01:40:10.800 Yeah, they should have showed her

01:40:11.420 Comparison of

01:40:14.240 What do you think of the song, Sterling?

01:40:17.260 That's an American accent, right?

01:40:18.800 Yeah

01:40:19.080 I'm pretty sure that it sounds like an American

01:40:20.940 The thing that people get so wrong with like

01:40:23.340 Weight loss

01:40:25.240 Is like

01:40:25.820 They think it's a case of

01:40:27.820 Oh, like

01:40:28.920 Endless

01:40:30.880 Like you need like endless discipline

01:40:32.420 And you need to track every calorie

01:40:34.280 And all this kind of stuff

01:40:35.340 It's

01:40:35.640 It's a lot

01:40:36.740 It's a lot easier to lose weight

01:40:39.060 If you just have a bit of an education

01:40:40.900 About like

01:40:41.840 Hormones and how they affect your body

01:40:44.700 Like

01:40:45.120 Unless you want it

01:40:46.280 Look at this lady over here 1.00

01:40:47.320 Yeah

01:40:48.080 It looks stunning for her age

01:40:50.260 Yeah, she doesn't look for you

01:40:51.300 Right?

01:40:52.100 Thank you

01:40:52.280 The way you're

01:40:52.920 The way you're eating

01:40:53.700 Is producing a certain result in your body

01:40:56.180 Right?

01:40:56.540 Yeah

01:40:56.640 It's

01:40:57.500 And being American

01:40:59.360 Like I guarantee that woman is eating food that is empty 1.00

01:41:02.900 It's empty

01:41:04.200 There's nothing in it

01:41:05.140 She's

01:41:05.580 She's

01:41:06.360 Yeah, but she's starving herself as well

01:41:07.920 Yeah, she says she's starving herself

01:41:09.280 She'll tell you what my breakfast was

01:41:11.300 But that woman 1.00

01:41:11.940 What I was going to say was that woman 0.92

01:41:13.920 Even though she's like

01:41:15.360 Even when she's not starving herself

01:41:17.420 She's still starving herself

01:41:18.700 Yeah

01:41:19.040 Because there's nothing 0.99

01:41:19.700 American food is the biggest pile of trash 1.00

01:41:23.080 It's all poison 1.00

01:41:23.780 It's everything she's eating

01:41:24.980 Even when she's trying to eat

01:41:26.280 Yes, that's why you've got to grow your own chickens

01:41:27.860 And grow your own cows and stuff

01:41:28.820 And then she can probably do it 0.85

01:41:30.320 Because American land is very cheap

01:41:31.400 But like

01:41:32.520 Even if she's trying to like

01:41:34.600 Eat healthy and stuff

01:41:36.200 It's going to be like

01:41:37.040 Low fat

01:41:37.600 It's going to be packed full of sugar

01:41:38.540 It's just

01:41:38.880 There's so much deception

01:41:40.340 Around like weight loss

01:41:41.640 And how to do it correctly

01:41:42.440 Right

01:41:42.900 It's just going to be off honestly

01:41:44.040 When I see a woman like get 1.00

01:41:45.600 That woman could be gorgeous 1.00

01:41:47.720 Yeah

01:41:48.260 She could be gorgeous 1.00

01:41:49.220 Why isn't she gorgeous? 1.00

01:41:51.220 Because she's quite overweight 1.00

01:41:52.320 So weight equates to beauty

01:41:56.040 It doesn't make you prettier

01:41:57.920 It doesn't make you prettier

01:41:59.320 You will get prettier

01:42:01.320 When you are at a healthy weight

01:42:03.280 But I think pretty is subjective

01:42:04.620 To your opinion

01:42:06.920 Not to men

01:42:07.900 I think so

01:42:09.680 No, it's not

01:42:10.280 Because the men with the most option

01:42:12.360 Date the same types of chicks 0.92

01:42:13.780 So it's like saying

01:42:15.860 Like men that can't sleep 1.00

01:42:17.100 With anyone else 0.99

01:42:18.000 Will sleep with ugly 1.00

01:42:19.700 Overweight chicks 1.00

01:42:20.680 But the men with the most options

01:42:22.080 Don't do it

01:42:22.800 If you look at Leonardo DiCaprio

01:42:24.500 If you look at the hottest

01:42:25.360 Most successful men

01:42:26.440 But those people are hot 0.96

01:42:27.620 According to whoever

01:42:28.900 Is looking at

01:42:29.600 Whoever is deciding

01:42:30.520 So this is a question

01:42:30.820 That has pondered

01:42:32.320 In human history

01:42:33.680 For as long as we can remember

01:42:35.200 And I actually did a video

01:42:36.240 On my channel

01:42:36.760 Go check it out guys

01:42:37.700 Is beauty subjective

01:42:38.620 Or objective

01:42:39.220 But the point is

01:42:41.300 There has to be

01:42:42.360 An objective standard for beauty

01:42:43.900 Otherwise

01:42:44.520 How have we

01:42:46.280 Decided what we like

01:42:48.300 All over history

01:42:49.000 Take it away from

01:42:49.880 Human beings, right

01:42:50.940 We can all agree

01:42:52.280 That certain architecture

01:42:54.080 Is more beautiful

01:42:54.920 Than other architecture

01:42:56.120 So there is an objective standard

01:42:57.920 There that we are aware of

01:42:59.740 At least most people

01:43:01.060 Are somewhat aware of

01:43:02.100 But I feel like

01:43:03.520 People feed themselves

01:43:04.420 This lie

01:43:05.060 That because people

01:43:06.520 Have certain preferences

01:43:07.660 To things that they might

01:43:09.000 Find attractive in someone

01:43:11.220 That say someone else might

01:43:12.400 That doesn't take away

01:43:13.480 From the fact that

01:43:14.060 There is such thing

01:43:14.920 As objective beauty

01:43:15.760 They've done multiple studies

01:43:17.280 On this that find

01:43:18.040 For example

01:43:18.460 People whose faces

01:43:19.320 Are more symmetrical

01:43:20.100 Most people will agree

01:43:21.880 That those people

01:43:22.640 Are more attractive

01:43:24.260 Than people who have 1.00

01:43:24.980 Less symmetrical faces

01:43:25.960 There's actually something

01:43:26.840 Called the golden ratio

01:43:27.980 Which is a number

01:43:28.800 That appears in all of nature

01:43:30.340 I'm talking across

01:43:31.480 Cells to plants

01:43:33.080 To human beings

01:43:34.200 To buildings

01:43:35.300 I can't remember

01:43:36.640 The number now

01:43:37.420 Half the life of me

01:43:37.880 It's like a really crazy number

01:43:39.440 Like 6.18 something

01:43:41.080 Something

01:43:41.280 But when you see

01:43:42.800 This ratio reflected

01:43:44.140 In a human being's face

01:43:45.580 Not only that

01:43:46.380 In their body as well

01:43:47.740 Like how their body looks

01:43:49.060 There is an objective standard

01:43:50.860 That generally most people

01:43:52.320 Will find attractive

01:43:53.400 That's not to say

01:43:54.500 Like everything

01:43:55.620 There is always exceptions

01:43:56.780 To the rule

01:43:57.360 But there is an objective

01:43:58.780 Beauty standard

01:43:59.500 That's not something

01:44:00.240 Created by society

01:44:01.400 To make people feel bad

01:44:02.500 About themselves

01:44:03.020 That's just human nature

01:44:04.160 In the same way

01:44:05.440 That peacocks

01:44:06.120 They do that thing

01:44:06.960 Where they display themselves

01:44:08.140 In a certain way

01:44:09.020 That's because

01:44:09.860 The other peacocks

01:44:10.880 All agree

01:44:11.280 We like that

01:44:12.120 And we can't forget

01:44:13.160 That we are animals too

01:44:14.140 And we do have something

01:44:15.120 That we all like

01:44:15.960 And can agree

01:44:16.460 Is mostly attractive

01:44:17.760 Most men just like women 1.00

01:44:22.920 Women they like it 1.00

01:44:25.560 What did you think

01:44:26.720 Of the song

01:44:27.160 Hey

01:44:29.140 She sounds hurt

01:44:30.380 She seems sad

01:44:33.860 Yeah

01:44:34.380 She seems sad

01:44:35.280 Well my question is

01:44:37.140 I don't understand

01:44:37.880 Why she took it

01:44:38.900 As an insult

01:44:39.720 When like clearly

01:44:41.400 You're going to have

01:44:41.860 More problems

01:44:42.400 You're going to have

01:44:43.120 More problems later on

01:44:44.400 If you're heavier

01:44:45.040 And like you can

01:44:46.840 Either take it

01:44:47.400 As an insult

01:44:48.100 And be the victim

01:44:49.000 Or you can take it

01:44:50.020 As your family

01:44:50.780 Trying to love

01:44:51.560 And to help you

01:44:52.360 Try to incentivize you

01:44:53.660 To save your own life

01:44:54.540 Yeah

01:44:55.020 Yeah

01:44:55.880 What do you find

01:44:57.340 For people that

01:44:58.500 Want to lose weight

01:44:59.360 What do you think

01:44:59.800 The best way to do it is

01:45:01.000 I think something

01:45:01.920 More along the lines

01:45:02.840 Of like

01:45:03.200 Maybe not necessarily

01:45:04.300 Extreme carnival

01:45:05.100 But like

01:45:05.500 Just

01:45:06.020 Like I personally

01:45:07.680 Like the structure

01:45:09.020 Of the paleo diet

01:45:09.780 Because it's basically

01:45:11.200 Just

01:45:11.520 And people

01:45:12.040 People misconstrue it

01:45:12.980 As actually being

01:45:13.640 Like full on carnival

01:45:14.480 But it's really

01:45:15.220 All it really is

01:45:15.860 Is like

01:45:16.180 Eat meat and veg

01:45:17.420 It's no carbs

01:45:19.920 Isn't it

01:45:20.320 It ain't that complicated

01:45:20.920 Not necessarily

01:45:22.060 You can eat

01:45:22.640 Like you can add

01:45:23.180 You can add

01:45:23.620 Potatoes and sweet potatoes

01:45:24.460 Or is that keto

01:45:25.320 Potatoes and sweet potatoes

01:45:26.080 Are fine

01:45:26.400 Keto is totally no carbs

01:45:27.780 That's the extreme

01:45:28.540 But like

01:45:29.400 If you eat paleo

01:45:30.740 You're basically eating

01:45:31.320 Like a colourful

01:45:32.380 Array of vegetables

01:45:33.420 Good meat

01:45:34.200 A few carbs here and there

01:45:35.800 It's

01:45:36.260 But it's all

01:45:36.700 It's real food

01:45:37.720 Yeah

01:45:38.160 It's actually food

01:45:38.940 You know

01:45:39.640 It came out of the ground

01:45:40.400 You know

01:45:40.900 It didn't come out of a factory

01:45:42.220 It's really

01:45:43.320 It's not

01:45:43.700 That ain't rocket science

01:45:44.880 That's actually really

01:45:45.500 Really simple to do

01:45:46.820 Yeah

01:45:47.300 And you can

01:45:47.900 And if you just know

01:45:48.760 Like

01:45:49.080 All you need is like

01:45:50.080 Two or three good recipes

01:45:50.980 You'll get shredded

01:45:52.620 But you know what

01:45:53.520 Before all of that

01:45:54.380 You need to have

01:45:54.980 The right mindset

01:45:55.620 You have to want it

01:45:56.460 You need to be

01:45:57.180 Yeah you need that want

01:45:58.140 You need to be

01:45:58.860 In that right frame of mind

01:45:59.860 To even get to that

01:46:01.080 Before you're safe

01:46:01.760 Because all the food

01:46:02.300 We eat nowadays

01:46:02.880 Is so addictive

01:46:04.440 Yeah

01:46:04.720 It's so

01:46:05.860 It's designed

01:46:06.680 To like

01:46:07.240 Get you hooked

01:46:08.180 And if we're talking

01:46:09.700 About the food

01:46:10.520 That you said

01:46:11.040 Sorry

01:46:11.840 You said the family

01:46:12.820 Is essentially

01:46:13.340 Incentivising her

01:46:14.360 To better herself

01:46:15.060 You know

01:46:15.800 So a lot of

01:46:16.660 I can hear in my head

01:46:18.340 A lot of people saying

01:46:19.360 Oh but you know

01:46:20.680 They could put it nicer

01:46:22.180 And you know

01:46:22.720 We should cater to how she feels

01:46:23.980 This really bugs me

01:46:26.000 This idea

01:46:26.740 That how you deliver a message

01:46:29.160 If you put it nicer

01:46:31.620 It's going to make a difference

01:46:32.820 Actually

01:46:33.540 The truth is

01:46:34.720 The biggest change

01:46:35.860 Comes from the harshest delivery

01:46:37.300 Yeah

01:46:37.600 True

01:46:37.920 If you are told something

01:46:39.180 If someone really

01:46:40.140 Really insults you

01:46:41.100 That automatically

01:46:42.040 In your brain

01:46:43.320 Hopefully if you've got

01:46:44.180 A healthy mind

01:46:44.760 And not a victim mindset

01:46:45.720 That says

01:46:46.420 Well I'm going to prove you wrong

01:46:47.840 Whereas if I go

01:46:49.540 You know

01:46:50.840 I've noticed

01:46:53.260 That maybe you're getting

01:46:54.400 A bit bigger

01:46:55.100 How do you feel

01:46:55.720 Like that gives

01:46:56.780 The person who's receiving

01:46:57.680 That message

01:46:58.240 Every excuse under the sun

01:46:59.600 To go

01:47:00.000 Well they're still being nice

01:47:01.440 So it can't be that bad

01:47:03.000 Whereas if you're straight up

01:47:04.660 Blunt 0.99

01:47:05.620 You are going to kill yourself 1.00

01:47:06.820 You're huge 1.00

01:47:07.800 They're going to go shit 1.00

01:47:09.340 Right 1.00

01:47:09.680 And get their act together

01:47:10.900 It's more abrupt

01:47:11.680 Yeah

01:47:12.140 As harsh as it sounds

01:47:13.580 But actually I think

01:47:14.380 Harshness can be

01:47:15.300 The kindest policy

01:47:16.760 Because it just

01:47:17.480 It gets it done

01:47:18.660 It's a sharp

01:47:20.180 You know

01:47:20.780 Rip the plaster off

01:47:21.720 But it gets it done

01:47:22.720 Yeah I mean

01:47:23.140 You wouldn't mince words

01:47:24.440 If like a family member of yours

01:47:25.940 Was shooting up heroin

01:47:26.700 All the time

01:47:27.380 No

01:47:27.680 You're not going to like

01:47:28.380 Sugar coat that

01:47:29.140 Sort it out

01:47:29.740 You're going to be like

01:47:30.120 Absolutely 1.00

01:47:30.560 Look you're going to kill yourself 1.00

01:47:31.780 Yes 0.99

01:47:32.120 You need to look it up

01:47:33.940 Well and I was thinking

01:47:34.900 I'm like

01:47:35.400 I mean she's pretty big

01:47:36.520 She could have made 0.94

01:47:37.120 A decent amount of money

01:47:38.180 She said $5 per pound

01:47:39.920 That's like 50 bucks

01:47:41.080 For 10 pounds

01:47:41.980 I mean like

01:47:42.980 She's what 0.95

01:47:43.860 Is that what she's saying

01:47:44.860 The family did

01:47:45.440 How much time

01:47:46.000 Is that going to take

01:47:46.600 That's a terrible return

01:47:47.880 On investment

01:47:48.260 In terms of time spent

01:47:49.260 No but okay

01:47:50.380 Hear me out

01:47:51.080 Hear me out

01:47:51.640 Okay

01:47:51.860 She looks like 0.55

01:47:52.800 Like late 20s maybe

01:47:54.160 Okay

01:47:54.960 Back then

01:47:56.060 When you were a kid

01:47:57.140 Like at

01:47:57.760 That's a lot of money

01:47:58.520 That's a lot of money

01:47:59.620 I'm like

01:48:00.940 That was a lot of money

01:48:02.320 Like I would have been excited

01:48:04.060 If anything

01:48:05.740 It was an opportunity

01:48:06.760 For you know

01:48:07.880 You could get like cash

01:48:08.860 I was doing lemonade stands

01:48:12.940 From a young age

01:48:14.000 But I think

01:48:16.920 The biggest problem

01:48:17.740 I have with this

01:48:18.440 Weight issue thing

01:48:19.640 Is 0.88

01:48:19.960 We live in a society

01:48:21.900 Where people have

01:48:22.980 Kind of made it okay

01:48:24.360 And I understand

01:48:25.940 That you can be

01:48:27.120 Comfortable in your body

01:48:29.320 You can

01:48:29.940 Do all of that

01:48:31.260 But the problem

01:48:31.780 With that is that

01:48:32.720 If you look at reality

01:48:34.280 Reality always tells the truth

01:48:35.780 You can't escape reality

01:48:37.000 There's a reason

01:48:38.000 Why you don't see

01:48:38.820 So many

01:48:39.320 Overweight old people 1.00

01:48:40.900 There's a reason for that

01:48:42.840 That's because

01:48:43.600 They die before

01:48:44.380 They get to that age

01:48:45.220 Most of

01:48:46.560 Most of the old people 1.00

01:48:47.700 You see walking around

01:48:48.340 Are not overweight

01:48:49.000 So if

01:48:50.500 If you can't look at reality

01:48:51.980 And look at the truth

01:48:52.880 That is waiting

01:48:53.580 Ahead of you

01:48:54.260 That just means that

01:48:54.920 You're essentially saying

01:48:57.260 That

01:48:57.840 You don't care about

01:49:00.040 Your future

01:49:00.580 You don't

01:49:01.360 Because

01:49:01.640 I just find it weird

01:49:02.960 Like if I were to look

01:49:04.020 Out into the world

01:49:04.920 And see the fate

01:49:06.140 That men face

01:49:06.920 There's a reason why

01:49:07.780 I don't do crime

01:49:08.540 Because I can look out

01:49:09.500 Into the world

01:49:09.840 And see what happens

01:49:10.500 To people that do crime

01:49:11.440 So it should be the same 0.91

01:49:12.800 Ideology we should take

01:49:13.880 When people are telling you

01:49:15.360 Oh it's okay to be this

01:49:16.360 You can actually look out

01:49:17.660 In the world

01:49:17.980 And see the facts

01:49:18.740 Of reality

01:49:19.140 Because reality

01:49:19.720 We always tell the truth

01:49:20.380 So I just think

01:49:21.360 That people need to

01:49:22.140 Get off this bandwagon

01:49:23.260 Of

01:49:23.660 That narrative

01:49:24.960 Yeah that narrative

01:49:25.680 I think is very destructive

01:49:26.780 To people

01:49:27.220 Because reality

01:49:28.360 Doesn't agree with that

01:49:29.640 I mean the irony

01:49:30.900 Of calling it

01:49:32.660 Like body positivity

01:49:34.220 The irony there

01:49:35.300 Is you're actually

01:49:35.980 You actually don't

01:49:36.800 Respect and love

01:49:37.640 Your body at all

01:49:38.620 Because you're not

01:49:39.420 Giving it what it really needs

01:49:40.520 And you're harming yourself

01:49:41.340 You're not

01:49:41.700 You're harming yourself

01:49:42.360 And you're actually

01:49:42.920 Giving it the nutritious food

01:49:44.400 And the exercise

01:49:45.880 That it actually needs

01:49:47.560 To be its best

01:49:48.540 And performance first

01:49:49.320 Did you know I applied

01:49:50.440 To a body positive organization

01:49:52.360 I did a whole interview

01:49:53.820 I did

01:49:54.740 I did

01:49:55.020 Absolutely

01:49:55.520 Yeah

01:49:55.900 And I pitched in the interview

01:49:58.300 That like the best way

01:49:59.640 To be body positive

01:50:00.700 And it was like a social media intern

01:50:03.500 I'm like I'm great

01:50:04.180 At social media

01:50:04.920 And so I know

01:50:08.200 I pitched it to him

01:50:08.920 I said the best way

01:50:09.680 To be body positive

01:50:10.640 Is to lose weight

01:50:11.860 Oh

01:50:12.080 So

01:50:12.700 So on the social media

01:50:14.880 I would really like

01:50:15.860 To do some like

01:50:16.900 Running campaigns

01:50:18.600 Like

01:50:19.440 And I had all these ideas

01:50:20.700 They did not

01:50:21.900 They

01:50:22.540 Yeah

01:50:23.060 They actually ended

01:50:24.160 The interview right there

01:50:25.020 I was done

01:50:26.020 It's part of an agenda though

01:50:27.300 Isn't it

01:50:27.560 Yeah

01:50:27.740 To keep us fat

01:50:28.840 Sick

01:50:29.240 And easy to control 0.96

01:50:30.200 Yeah

01:50:30.420 Well

01:50:30.620 And it's

01:50:31.240 The government

01:50:31.680 That's it

01:50:32.140 And they

01:50:32.460 To believe

01:50:33.120 Body positive

01:50:33.800 I agree

01:50:34.220 Well and then they can just

01:50:35.280 Sell us more stuff

01:50:36.500 Yeah

01:50:36.820 They can sell us the drugs

01:50:37.840 Yeah

01:50:38.020 The drugs

01:50:38.440 It's money

01:50:39.080 It's money

01:50:39.800 Because when you're overweight

01:50:41.020 You're actually at a higher risk

01:50:43.080 Of all cause mortality

01:50:44.020 So it's not

01:50:45.240 It's not a good outcome

01:50:46.500 Yeah

01:50:46.880 And you lost a bunch of weight

01:50:48.340 Didn't you

01:50:48.720 I did

01:50:49.020 I would like to say

01:50:50.140 I actually was only that weight

01:50:51.760 For a few years

01:50:52.540 And it's because I got depressed

01:50:53.600 And in a hole

01:50:54.300 Put on a bunch of weight

01:50:55.980 And then lost it

01:50:57.080 Yeah about six stone

01:50:57.900 Wow

01:50:58.940 Well done

01:50:59.720 Well done

01:51:00.240 Congratulations

01:51:00.800 And that was like

01:51:02.200 Two years of my life

01:51:03.120 The rest of my life

01:51:03.860 I've been in shape

01:51:04.380 I grew up with a bodybuilder father

01:51:05.800 That was very strict

01:51:07.240 And if I

01:51:08.640 Kind of went out of

01:51:10.100 The realms of weight

01:51:11.780 He would be like

01:51:12.780 Army

01:51:13.540 Army

01:51:13.960 He would call

01:51:14.580 Army

01:51:15.160 I mean

01:51:15.800 Yeah

01:51:16.360 He would be saying

01:51:17.460 You can't eat that

01:51:18.220 You can't do that

01:51:18.900 Right here's some chicken breast

01:51:20.040 I mean bad advice

01:51:22.300 But back then

01:51:23.000 Everyone was like

01:51:23.920 Chicken breast

01:51:24.740 Is there something wrong

01:51:25.840 With chicken breast

01:51:26.680 Yeah you don't want to eat chicken breast

01:51:28.040 Where's the fat

01:51:28.580 You need the fat

01:51:29.480 For your

01:51:29.860 To support your hormones

01:51:30.940 You need the fat

01:51:31.540 Yep

01:51:31.740 Bingo

01:51:32.480 Oh wow

01:51:33.200 I didn't even know

01:51:33.680 Chicken

01:51:33.920 I didn't know chicken was

01:51:34.940 I thought there's not

01:51:35.620 It's not bad

01:51:36.840 But there's

01:51:38.020 There's better choices

01:51:38.960 Yeah if you're going to eat chicken breast

01:51:40.520 Really you want

01:51:41.160 Anything with skin on it

01:51:42.800 Oh okay

01:51:43.500 So wings are good

01:51:44.620 They're in

01:51:45.100 Oh I love wings

01:51:46.340 I love wings

01:51:46.980 But not American wings

01:51:48.680 Covered in sugar

01:51:49.320 No

01:51:49.700 That's what you're probably referring to

01:51:51.880 Yeah

01:51:52.420 Wait so how did you find carnivore

01:51:55.220 How did I find it

01:51:56.500 Yeah

01:51:56.680 So I actually started with keto first

01:51:58.960 Okay

01:51:59.320 And I was keto for about six months

01:52:01.180 And then I come across this doctor

01:52:02.600 Who I then became

01:52:03.920 You know started working for

01:52:05.700 Called Dr. Sean Baker

01:52:07.040 And he was on Joe Rogan

01:52:09.560 And I was listening to him

01:52:10.840 And he was saying

01:52:11.380 Yeah vegetables

01:52:12.040 This that

01:52:12.700 And I was thinking 0.92

01:52:13.240 This guy is absolutely insane 0.98

01:52:15.160 And 0.99

01:52:16.000 But what it did is

01:52:18.300 It planted a seed

01:52:19.160 And when I was eating my asparagus

01:52:21.220 Because all I was eating

01:52:22.220 Is meat and veg

01:52:23.140 Because I was keto

01:52:24.040 So there was no sugar

01:52:24.900 There was no junk

01:52:25.620 There was nothing

01:52:26.120 And

01:52:27.020 That did a lot of good

01:52:28.520 For my health

01:52:29.140 But

01:52:29.720 There were still some little things

01:52:31.320 My body

01:52:31.720 I wasn't happy with my body composition

01:52:33.340 Things like that

01:52:34.980 And then

01:52:36.260 I started thinking

01:52:37.540 Oh hang on

01:52:38.000 I just ate some asparagus

01:52:39.160 And now I'm bloated

01:52:39.920 Now I feel this

01:52:40.880 Like

01:52:41.180 I feel a bit lethargic

01:52:42.460 You know

01:52:42.720 There's all these downsides

01:52:44.060 To eating the plants

01:52:45.260 I thought

01:52:45.720 You know

01:52:46.020 I'm going to try it

01:52:47.300 It's going to go wrong

01:52:48.460 I'm going to try it

01:52:49.380 For two weeks

01:52:50.080 So I tried it for two weeks

01:52:52.000 And I was like

01:52:52.460 Wow

01:52:52.900 Rush of energy

01:52:53.800 Clarity

01:52:54.420 You know

01:52:55.300 All benefits

01:52:56.360 And not only that

01:52:57.500 First week I lost seven pounds

01:52:58.820 Second week I lost seven pounds

01:53:00.140 And then after that

01:53:01.260 I stopped weighing myself

01:53:02.080 Because I could start seeing my abs

01:53:03.340 I was feeling good about myself

01:53:04.660 And this was from the what sorry

01:53:05.800 What was this from

01:53:06.580 Carnivore diet

01:53:07.420 Oh okay okay

01:53:08.300 It's not a starvation

01:53:09.600 So going back to that song

01:53:10.860 Majorly talented woman

01:53:12.740 Unfortunately

01:53:15.240 She has been

01:53:17.120 Given some information

01:53:20.100 That's wrong

01:53:20.660 So her parents wanted

01:53:22.460 To her to lose weight 0.91

01:53:23.680 And her grandparents

01:53:24.420 And you know

01:53:25.160 Whoever else in her family

01:53:26.240 Because they wanted her

01:53:26.980 To be healthy

01:53:27.480 They were giving her

01:53:28.400 Really bad advice

01:53:29.340 That advice does leave you

01:53:31.040 To being overweight

01:53:31.820 Because you're restricting yourself

01:53:33.160 I don't restrict myself

01:53:34.340 I eat about 5,000 calories a day

01:53:36.340 Is that

01:53:36.760 After breakfast

01:53:37.740 Add 12 sausages

01:53:38.680 And that's your intake

01:53:40.460 Add 10 eggs

01:53:41.540 You know

01:53:42.280 You don't have to restrict

01:53:44.460 If you're eating

01:53:45.240 The human appropriate diet

01:53:47.140 Your body will do the rest

01:53:49.020 Yeah

01:53:49.340 Did you go through

01:53:50.120 A sugar withdrawal

01:53:50.920 When you went on

01:53:52.780 To the keto diet

01:53:53.740 Initially

01:53:54.420 I didn't

01:53:55.000 Did you go through

01:53:55.160 Any kind of withdrawals

01:53:56.460 I didn't

01:53:56.960 Which is really funny

01:53:57.860 Because before that

01:53:58.740 I was in my hole

01:53:59.520 And I was addicted

01:54:00.800 To coffee and cakes

01:54:01.880 I haven't drunk coffee

01:54:02.880 In about five years

01:54:03.780 I don't really drink alcohol

01:54:05.120 Occasionally

01:54:06.140 For the first three years

01:54:07.020 Of the diet

01:54:07.400 I didn't drink any alcohol

01:54:08.320 Whatsoever

01:54:08.880 Last couple of years

01:54:11.180 Every now and again

01:54:12.080 I drink a bit of alcohol

01:54:13.180 But yeah

01:54:15.000 No

01:54:15.340 Some people get keto flu

01:54:17.060 And that's because

01:54:17.780 They're not keeping up

01:54:18.400 With their electrolytes

01:54:19.220 When you go on to a diet

01:54:20.500 That's low carb

01:54:21.500 Or zero carb

01:54:22.460 Your body becomes

01:54:23.560 Really efficient

01:54:24.160 At dropping the water

01:54:25.420 And with that

01:54:26.400 You drop electrolytes

01:54:27.560 So you have to keep

01:54:28.100 Replenishing those

01:54:28.840 To keep those

01:54:29.520 You know

01:54:30.340 And is that through

01:54:30.920 Just drinking water

01:54:32.140 Salt

01:54:33.280 Salt

01:54:33.660 Salt

01:54:33.980 So basically

01:54:35.000 What I do

01:54:35.800 What I advise people

01:54:36.640 That are starting out new

01:54:37.580 Is to take

01:54:38.400 Magnesium glycinate

01:54:39.480 To take salt

01:54:42.280 I usually use

01:54:43.440 Pink Himalayan salt

01:54:44.340 And it's a lot of salt

01:54:46.600 Don't be scared of salt

01:54:47.780 Salt is like

01:54:48.620 As important to us

01:54:49.560 As oxygen

01:54:50.000 If your salt

01:54:51.020 If your electrolyte

01:54:52.020 Balance is out

01:54:52.700 Which is

01:54:53.600 You know

01:54:54.640 Your sodium

01:54:55.300 Your potassium

01:54:56.040 And your magnesium

01:54:56.840 You will have a heart attack

01:54:58.420 Right

01:54:59.360 So it's that important

01:55:00.300 You know

01:55:00.700 All this scaremongering

01:55:01.600 About salt 0.99

01:55:02.180 Is absolute rubbish 0.99

01:55:03.200 And so 0.98

01:55:05.880 What would you think

01:55:07.420 Of the song?

01:55:08.640 So

01:55:08.860 I think that

01:55:10.820 Yeah

01:55:11.160 Okay

01:55:11.480 They had good intentions

01:55:12.640 Because they wanted

01:55:13.360 Their daughter

01:55:13.860 Granddaughter to get better

01:55:15.220 They wanted us

01:55:16.200 To get healthy

01:55:16.680 They gave us

01:55:17.360 Some really bad advice

01:55:18.300 Yeah

01:55:18.600 And that bad advice

01:55:19.660 Leaves you

01:55:20.500 To constantly

01:55:21.340 Thinking about food

01:55:22.460 So if you're

01:55:23.620 Replenished

01:55:24.660 If you're

01:55:25.440 If you're full of nutrients

01:55:26.900 You never think about food

01:55:28.440 Right

01:55:29.120 It's like you eat

01:55:29.980 You're full up

01:55:31.580 You go

01:55:32.440 You don't have to

01:55:33.360 Keep thinking about it

01:55:33.960 I mean

01:55:34.180 When I go out

01:55:34.760 With people that are 0.99

01:55:35.520 On high carb diets

01:55:36.960 Can you walk a little bit

01:55:39.020 And they're like

01:55:39.560 Maybe we need some crisps

01:55:41.360 Maybe we need some sandwiches now

01:55:45.340 Maybe we need

01:55:46.400 And I'm like

01:55:47.020 I've got my 10 eggs

01:55:48.100 In my bag

01:55:48.620 I'll eat them

01:55:49.180 I'm good to go

01:55:49.960 I'm good for the day

01:55:50.800 You know

01:55:51.240 It's nothing

01:55:52.660 It stops you from

01:55:55.080 Thinking about food

01:55:55.820 What do you eat in a day?

01:55:57.720 Steak

01:55:58.120 Steak

01:55:58.720 Okay

01:55:59.720 On my favourite days

01:56:00.660 I'll be eating a lot of steaks

01:56:01.660 So sometimes I have

01:56:02.420 Two steaks for breakfast

01:56:03.440 Okay

01:56:03.840 And then what do you do

01:56:04.940 For lunch?

01:56:06.140 10 eggs

01:56:06.760 Well actually

01:56:07.400 A lot of the time

01:56:07.940 I start with 10 eggs

01:56:08.840 For breakfast

01:56:09.420 It depends what I fancy

01:56:10.980 I think when you eat

01:56:12.800 On your diet

01:56:13.440 You should be able

01:56:14.240 To do it intuitively

01:56:14.940 So when I wake up

01:56:16.040 Sometimes I need more fat

01:56:17.480 So I'll put some butter

01:56:18.340 On there

01:56:18.680 Or I get the fattier

01:56:19.820 Types of meat

01:56:20.780 I might have a kilo

01:56:22.000 Of chicken wings

01:56:22.820 For breakfast

01:56:23.280 I do that quite often

01:56:24.280 There's always going to be

01:56:26.600 Steak in there

01:56:27.380 Sometimes I make my own

01:56:28.920 Homemade burgers

01:56:29.760 Out of beef mince

01:56:30.840 Always the high fat

01:56:32.520 Beef mince

01:56:33.240 It has to

01:56:33.740 You have to

01:56:34.520 You do cheese or no?

01:56:35.660 You don't do cheese right?

01:56:36.440 Cheese sometimes

01:56:37.560 Okay

01:56:38.120 But cheese is addictive

01:56:39.080 Yeah

01:56:39.700 Cheese is very addictive

01:56:41.320 So I can do it

01:56:42.940 And I can get away with it

01:56:43.740 But if I have too much

01:56:44.680 Then I start getting

01:56:45.620 Dry skin and things

01:56:46.560 And I don't like dry skin

01:56:47.600 So I just think

01:56:49.580 When you're eating intuitively

01:56:51.180 And you can only eat

01:56:52.500 Intuitively when you're

01:56:53.380 Eating human specific foods

01:56:55.340 Because if you're eating 0.99

01:56:56.300 All that junk crap 1.00

01:56:57.340 You're actually addicted 1.00

01:56:58.660 And your body

01:56:59.980 Will send cravings

01:57:00.900 For some unnatural

01:57:02.000 Chemical laden 0.95

01:57:03.100 Nonsense

01:57:03.940 But when you get rid of that

01:57:05.320 You don't have those cravings anymore

01:57:07.120 You actually eat

01:57:08.100 What your body needs

01:57:08.860 Like I wake up

01:57:09.920 And I think

01:57:10.220 Okay today I need a bit of fat

01:57:11.900 So I'll have more fat

01:57:13.140 Or another day

01:57:13.900 I don't need so much fat today

01:57:15.320 So I won't have so much fat

01:57:16.900 It's just very

01:57:17.660 Individual to each day

01:57:19.160 Yeah I'm in tune

01:57:22.020 If I eat something

01:57:22.980 At a restaurant

01:57:23.680 And then the next day

01:57:25.020 I might wake up

01:57:25.940 With like a little tiny headache

01:57:27.240 And I think

01:57:27.620 Oh something was on that meat

01:57:28.760 You know

01:57:29.280 Maybe they put it in seed oils

01:57:30.820 Seed oils everyone should avoid

01:57:32.120 By the way

01:57:32.580 Do you eat all meat?

01:57:34.120 So on the carnival diet

01:57:35.340 You eat pork

01:57:35.980 You eat lamb

01:57:36.560 You eat

01:57:36.880 I don't tend to eat too much pork

01:57:39.280 Okay

01:57:40.140 I enjoy pork

01:57:41.060 Because you said you had sausages

01:57:42.740 So I was like

01:57:43.200 Oh I wonder if those were pork sausages

01:57:44.620 That's because

01:57:45.140 That's because

01:57:46.060 I don't like to waste

01:57:48.140 And I could see that

01:57:48.960 They needed eating

01:57:49.740 So I was like

01:57:50.400 I don't normally eat sausages

01:57:53.840 They're not normally

01:57:54.700 Part of my diet

01:57:55.560 Unless something like that happens

01:57:57.540 So I don't like waste

01:57:58.420 So but you don't cut out

01:58:00.260 Chicken or anything

01:58:01.580 Unless they need them

01:58:02.120 No I think it's

01:58:02.720 For the first three years

01:58:04.260 I didn't eat any chicken

01:58:05.420 I ate just beef

01:58:06.660 Right

01:58:07.160 And that will make you feel amazing

01:58:10.380 That will

01:58:11.360 And it'll give you

01:58:12.360 Really good skin

01:58:13.100 I found that

01:58:14.220 When I changed the diet

01:58:15.440 All my health issues went

01:58:17.040 Every single one of them

01:58:18.060 My body composition got really good

01:58:19.920 I had abs

01:58:20.940 You know

01:58:21.480 I've got abs sorry

01:58:22.820 It's very easy

01:58:24.860 To stay in shape

01:58:27.180 When you're eating

01:58:28.040 What you're meant to eat

01:58:29.260 As a human

01:58:30.620 It's like you know

01:58:31.600 When you go out

01:58:32.360 And you see all the animals

01:58:33.340 They're eating

01:58:34.380 Their species specific diet

01:58:36.300 And they are

01:58:37.800 Their body composition

01:58:38.900 Is exactly as it's meant to be

01:58:40.520 You know

01:58:41.080 It's really not rocket science

01:58:42.340 If you eat something

01:58:43.380 That you're not meant to eat

01:58:44.700 As a human

01:58:45.660 You know

01:58:45.920 We're animals

01:58:46.420 If you eat something

01:58:47.340 As an animal

01:58:47.920 That you're not meant to eat

01:58:48.740 Illness is there

01:58:50.080 You know

01:58:51.320 Body composition

01:58:52.100 That we're never meant to reach

01:58:53.580 Is there

01:58:54.180 You know

01:58:54.660 All these things

01:58:55.400 And you know

01:58:56.120 Saying

01:58:56.480 When I'm looking at a man

01:58:58.220 If a man's overweight

01:58:59.040 I wouldn't even consider him

01:59:02.200 Because to me

01:59:03.140 That's laziness

01:59:04.020 That's

01:59:04.700 He's not disciplined

01:59:05.620 He's not looking out

01:59:06.820 For his health

01:59:07.520 You know

01:59:08.040 There's so many things

01:59:09.400 That that then

01:59:10.780 Flags for me

01:59:11.860 So I could say

01:59:12.960 That was

01:59:13.360 An ick as well

01:59:14.440 There's way more icks

01:59:15.320 Than I mentioned

01:59:18.140 What did you think

01:59:19.560 Of the song

01:59:20.020 Yeah

01:59:22.840 I didn't

01:59:23.760 I don't know

01:59:25.080 See I used to be big myself as well

01:59:27.180 So I went from

01:59:28.260 Size 16

01:59:29.720 18

01:59:30.000 To a size 8

01:59:31.000 And I've recently started

01:59:32.440 To put the weight back on

01:59:33.240 But

01:59:34.180 I don't know

01:59:35.660 It wasn't the best

01:59:38.040 I thought she had a good

01:59:40.440 She had a good voice

01:59:41.120 It wasn't appealing

01:59:43.080 To me

01:59:43.600 Personally

01:59:44.280 I don't know

01:59:44.760 It just seemed like

01:59:45.820 She was just basically saying

01:59:47.340 She's still not happy

01:59:48.040 Yeah she's tried for how long

01:59:50.780 She's still in the same position

01:59:51.840 That she didn't

01:59:52.540 That's because she's doing low fat 1.00

01:59:53.840 She's starving herself

01:59:54.980 And she's spending 1.00

01:59:55.820 All of her miserable existence

01:59:57.900 Speaking about food

01:59:58.820 What if a guy made a song

01:59:59.960 About being broke

02:00:00.900 My mum told me to get a job

02:00:04.340 It would be really

02:00:06.260 Not very masculine would it

02:00:08.020 They've got another one

02:00:11.100 What

02:00:11.940 Your worst one

02:00:13.060 What

02:00:13.620 I was gonna

02:00:14.460 Ben I'll go

02:00:15.700 I was gonna

02:00:17.520 Yeah

02:00:18.320 Come on

02:00:19.760 Oh yeah

02:00:20.160 Come on

02:00:21.600 Just thought I'd say

02:00:22.580 Can I just say

02:00:24.100 What I thought about the song

02:00:25.280 I just

02:00:25.740 I feel like it was

02:00:26.760 A really mixed 0.99

02:00:27.760 Perception

02:00:29.320 I didn't know

02:00:30.580 What to take from it

02:00:31.500 In the beginning

02:00:32.180 I was kind of confused

02:00:33.500 Then as it went in further

02:00:35.680 I was thinking

02:00:36.440 Alright

02:00:37.460 Maybe this is to teach

02:00:38.780 All the other little girls 0.99

02:00:39.940 That it's okay

02:00:40.720 To be bigger

02:00:41.560 Maybe

02:00:42.440 Then as it went further

02:00:44.440 It says she was unhappy

02:00:45.580 Then she was happy

02:00:47.640 Because she's in front 1.00

02:00:48.840 Of the camera

02:00:49.380 In bra and knicker

02:00:50.380 I was very confused

02:00:53.540 So I wouldn't even

02:00:55.040 Be able to say

02:00:55.860 Whether I liked it

02:00:56.780 Or not

02:00:57.000 I did like the music

02:00:57.980 Side of it

02:00:58.800 But in terms of

02:01:00.060 Lyrically

02:01:00.700 Mixed signals

02:01:01.700 It was mixed signals

02:01:02.640 All over

02:01:03.160 Yeah

02:01:03.440 But why do women 1.00

02:01:04.840 Celebrate the wrong decisions

02:01:06.620 You know what I mean

02:01:08.060 Like okay

02:01:08.640 A guy

02:01:09.320 If he's a drug dealer

02:01:11.040 Or a criminal

02:01:11.740 He doesn't celebrate it

02:01:13.760 But for them

02:01:14.680 They do

02:01:16.460 They glamorize it

02:01:17.540 A lot

02:01:17.780 They do

02:01:18.160 Yeah they do

02:01:18.620 What?

02:01:19.000 They do

02:01:19.460 You know what

02:01:20.080 I'm gonna take that

02:01:20.980 I forget about that

02:01:26.420 I don't really listen

02:01:27.040 I don't listen

02:01:27.640 I don't listen

02:01:28.560 To it

02:01:28.820 It's like rap

02:01:30.080 I don't really listen

02:01:31.560 To that

02:01:31.960 But

02:01:32.360 Yeah but

02:01:32.940 They glamorize it

02:01:34.480 But

02:01:34.760 It's still

02:01:36.020 Generally frowned upon

02:01:37.780 By most men

02:01:38.540 That's the thing

02:01:39.840 You're not gonna see men 0.93

02:01:40.800 Just come around

02:01:41.580 Especially men

02:01:42.480 That are doing things in life

02:01:43.460 Are not just

02:01:43.800 Gonna come and say

02:01:44.660 Yeah

02:01:45.020 We want to be like that guy

02:01:46.680 Yeah that makes sense 0.98

02:01:47.720 Yeah he's a drug dealer

02:01:48.920 Yeah that's the life 0.84

02:01:49.700 We should live

02:01:50.200 Or

02:01:50.760 You

02:01:51.320 Typically the men 0.98

02:01:52.560 That push that on young kids

02:01:53.960 Those are like

02:01:55.320 You wouldn't see

02:01:56.220 A responsible man

02:01:58.460 Even if he does drugs

02:02:00.180 As a side hustle

02:02:01.140 You wouldn't see him

02:02:02.080 Come out on TV

02:02:02.820 And try to tell young kids

02:02:03.960 This is what you should do

02:02:04.920 Yeah

02:02:05.560 But that's what I meant

02:02:07.180 That lady was very 1.00

02:02:08.380 Confusing

02:02:09.080 Do you not think

02:02:10.760 What did you take from that

02:02:12.880 Eat more

02:02:14.200 Eat less

02:02:14.920 Well my thing is

02:02:16.500 Like I just don't know

02:02:17.480 You know everyone's got

02:02:18.600 Struggles in life

02:02:19.680 So like that's

02:02:20.400 That's her struggle

02:02:21.240 Fine

02:02:21.740 Yeah

02:02:22.140 But I just don't know

02:02:22.860 Why do we celebrate

02:02:24.060 The wrong

02:02:25.300 Like it's clearly

02:02:26.180 Better to be in shape

02:02:27.380 It's clearly better

02:02:28.240 To be healthy

02:02:28.920 That's clearly

02:02:29.460 The better way to go

02:02:30.660 Why do women 1.00

02:02:32.000 Celebrate the wrong thing

02:02:34.000 But I don't think

02:02:34.820 It's just women 1.00

02:02:35.420 Like where did this

02:02:36.600 Whole thing about

02:02:37.440 Just women 0.99

02:02:38.100 Glorifying something

02:02:39.100 Because I think

02:02:40.300 If anything

02:02:40.920 Men do the same thing

02:02:43.360 Just going back

02:02:44.140 To the reference

02:02:45.180 That you just gave

02:02:45.960 About drug dealers

02:02:46.820 Or whatever

02:02:47.740 That's the whole

02:02:48.580 Popular culture right now

02:02:50.420 Everybody loves rap music

02:02:51.540 Everybody is mimicking

02:02:52.540 Rappers

02:02:53.200 Talking about things

02:02:54.200 They don't know

02:02:54.900 What the rappers

02:02:55.420 Are talking about

02:02:56.260 That's literally the wave

02:02:57.940 So I'm not gonna

02:02:59.140 Agree with you

02:03:00.100 On the fact

02:03:00.540 That only women 1.00

02:03:01.360 Glorify

02:03:01.740 I mean even

02:03:02.300 This whole idea

02:03:03.320 Of threesomes

02:03:03.920 And monogamy

02:03:04.540 And whatever

02:03:05.060 Is glorified

02:03:06.380 It's like

02:03:06.900 One of the reasons

02:03:07.700 That people don't

02:03:08.360 Want to be in

02:03:08.900 Traditional relationships

02:03:10.100 Because it's in the music

02:03:11.720 It's on TV

02:03:12.580 It's in

02:03:13.420 Who's the decision makers

02:03:15.340 Behind these things

02:03:16.560 Being put out

02:03:17.180 Et cetera et cetera

02:03:17.860 It's men 0.99

02:03:18.360 Women 1.00

02:03:18.940 Women they do it 1.00

02:03:20.540 For the audience

02:03:21.180 Well women 1.00

02:03:21.660 Women 1.00

02:03:21.960 No you're from Atlanta

02:03:23.520 That's like especially

02:03:24.640 Like no women make 80 1.00

02:03:26.060 Because there's a lot

02:03:26.760 Of high earning women

02:03:27.560 In Atlanta

02:03:28.100 No I understand that

02:03:28.900 Yeah so women make 80% 1.00

02:03:31.060 Of consumer buying decisions

02:03:32.320 So the stuff you see

02:03:33.260 In the music

02:03:33.740 The stuff you see on TV

02:03:34.780 It's catered to women 1.00

02:03:35.960 I'm talking about

02:03:36.720 The people that are

02:03:38.120 Signing off

02:03:39.320 On putting it out

02:03:40.320 The people that are

02:03:41.060 Accepting that

02:03:42.800 This is being glorified

02:03:43.800 This is what we're going

02:03:45.000 To accept money

02:03:46.400 In exchange for

02:03:47.220 Is men

02:03:48.680 Generally

02:03:49.360 Older white men 0.60

02:03:50.480 Who have nothing to do

02:03:51.680 With whatever is

02:03:52.840 Even being put out

02:03:53.880 But you just hit the nail

02:03:54.780 On the head

02:03:55.200 It's men making 1.00

02:03:56.380 The smart decisions

02:03:57.000 Of how to make money

02:03:57.760 How do you make money

02:03:58.600 Well you pick the best

02:03:59.460 I'm sure that girl

02:03:59.980 Made money

02:04:00.420 Because we just sat here

02:04:01.140 And watched her video

02:04:01.840 You just said about

02:04:02.980 The general culture

02:04:03.900 And who's putting

02:04:04.360 The things out there

02:04:05.100 I think you're hinting

02:04:05.900 Towards the fact

02:04:06.400 That the media

02:04:06.860 And the music

02:04:07.300 Is all owned

02:04:07.780 By the same people

02:04:08.560 And you just mentioned

02:04:09.840 The typical

02:04:10.540 Well that's all

02:04:11.740 Middle aged white men

02:04:12.640 Fine

02:04:13.140 But the point is

02:04:14.080 But the point is

02:04:14.100 Is that

02:04:14.600 They must be smart men

02:04:15.860 Because they're making

02:04:16.640 Bloody money

02:04:17.200 Yeah but that wasn't

02:04:17.920 The question

02:04:18.280 The question was

02:04:18.960 Why do women 1.00

02:04:19.840 More so glorify

02:04:21.200 Doing bad things

02:04:22.600 Versus men 0.98

02:04:23.160 But why do you think

02:04:23.740 It is that

02:04:24.240 That stuff sells

02:04:25.660 More

02:04:26.260 When women 1.00

02:04:27.340 Make up 95%

02:04:28.560 Of the consumer market

02:04:29.560 I think it's because

02:04:30.240 We have a follower culture

02:04:31.320 So men

02:04:32.540 See these other men

02:04:33.640 Getting money

02:04:34.200 Looking flashy

02:04:34.820 Looking good

02:04:35.580 Taking care of their bodies

02:04:37.200 Building their bodies

02:04:38.000 Etc

02:04:38.380 Whatever it is

02:04:39.400 And they want to do

02:04:40.440 The same thing

02:04:41.020 They want to flex

02:04:42.080 They want to look

02:04:42.620 A certain way

02:04:43.240 They want to get

02:04:43.920 A certain type of woman 0.98

02:04:44.700 Because of other men 1.00

02:04:45.860 But wait

02:04:46.180 Do you see what you just said

02:04:47.500 There all of those

02:04:48.160 Are good things

02:04:49.040 Minus the drug part

02:04:50.320 Minus the drug part

02:04:51.040 You just said

02:04:51.480 They want to get

02:04:52.020 Like they want to make money

02:04:53.060 Good thing

02:04:53.680 They want to be in shape

02:04:54.520 Good thing

02:04:55.120 They want to attract women 1.00

02:04:56.080 Good thing

02:04:56.760 But the women 1.00

02:04:58.180 That are celebrated

02:04:59.220 Tend to be

02:05:00.280 Like I think of

02:05:00.960 Who has gotten more

02:05:01.880 Of an audience

02:05:02.920 Than Taylor Swift

02:05:03.920 She's a 30 something 0.89

02:05:05.380 Year old spinster

02:05:06.360 Who makes an album

02:05:07.800 About every single

02:05:09.060 Relationship

02:05:10.020 That's gone wrong

02:05:10.780 Those are the women 1.00

02:05:12.060 We celebrate

02:05:12.740 You know

02:05:13.480 And then I can think

02:05:14.100 Of like Nicki Minaj

02:05:15.200 Right

02:05:15.640 You know

02:05:16.000 I just saw

02:05:16.680 A video of her

02:05:17.440 Y'all don't want to hear

02:05:17.460 A woman saying 0.96

02:05:18.100 Nothing positive

02:05:18.700 Or saying something good

02:05:19.780 Like even if we're

02:05:20.960 Going to go back

02:05:21.360 To the fat conversation

02:05:22.040 No women do want to hear 1.00

02:05:23.040 Nicki Minaj literally

02:05:24.080 Has lyrics that says 1.00

02:05:25.020 You a stupid hoe 1.00

02:05:25.860 You a stupid hoe 1.00

02:05:26.740 You a stupid hoe 1.00

02:05:27.740 That's silly 1.00

02:05:28.740 That's silly 0.91

02:05:29.740 That's silly 0.91

02:05:30.740 That's silly 0.84

02:05:31.740 No but so okay 0.99

02:05:36.480 Why do we have a slut walk 1.00

02:05:37.680 Oh my god 1.00

02:05:39.500 The same reason that we have

02:05:40.760 Everything else

02:05:41.340 I've seen something in London

02:05:42.720 Where it's a bunch of grown men

02:05:43.940 Riding around

02:05:44.500 Bicycles butt naked 1.00

02:05:45.620 No okay

02:05:46.180 So why do we

02:05:46.700 Why do we 0.98

02:05:47.260 Why do we have a slut walk 1.00

02:05:51.140 Why do we have that 0.98

02:05:52.420 So that women can 1.00

02:05:53.520 Take their power back

02:05:54.640 And feel like okay

02:05:55.520 They can accept it

02:05:56.200 But that is just

02:05:57.120 Because I'm saying this

02:05:57.920 Doesn't mean that

02:05:58.520 I'm necessarily agreeing 0.98

02:05:59.500 With a slut walk 1.00

02:06:00.480 So I'm not gonna 1.00

02:06:01.240 Why would women 1.00

02:06:01.980 Want to encourage that

02:06:03.320 Because we have things

02:06:05.440 Like Roe v. Wade

02:06:06.180 Going on where women 1.00

02:06:07.100 Are not in control

02:06:07.900 Of their bodies

02:06:08.460 So I'm gonna assume

02:06:09.540 That you know

02:06:10.780 Is abortion generally

02:06:12.260 A good thing

02:06:12.900 I don't know

02:06:14.060 That's depending on

02:06:14.980 Yourself and your situation

02:06:15.980 Okay okay

02:06:16.440 Why do women encourage it 1.00

02:06:18.400 Because it should be

02:06:19.820 Your choice

02:06:20.280 What you're going to do

02:06:21.100 No no no

02:06:21.440 You just made an issue

02:06:22.280 Of being in control

02:06:23.140 Of your body right

02:06:23.960 No I did not

02:06:24.940 She asked me 0.98

02:06:25.360 Why is there a slut walk 1.00

02:06:25.820 No you said that 0.97

02:06:26.780 With regards to Roe v. Wade

02:06:28.420 That's an issue

02:06:28.940 That's going on right now

02:06:29.780 Where women don't have 1.00

02:06:30.540 Control over their bodies 0.74

02:06:31.500 Yeah somebody's making a law

02:06:33.060 That if somebody

02:06:34.880 Can get pregnant 0.99

02:06:35.760 Physically

02:06:36.300 That I have no choice

02:06:37.980 In whether I have to

02:06:38.800 Carry this baby to term 0.97

02:06:40.240 And push it out

02:06:40.900 And raise it

02:06:41.760 That's not control

02:06:43.140 If somebody else

02:06:43.800 Has a decision

02:06:44.400 But if women 1.00

02:06:45.100 If women want 1.00

02:06:46.080 Okay but I'm not

02:06:47.640 Giving you my opinion

02:06:48.740 On abortion at all 0.51

02:06:49.700 But the point is

02:06:50.480 Is that you said

02:06:51.040 It's about women 1.00

02:06:51.560 Have a control

02:06:52.100 Over their bodies

02:06:52.720 Do women not 0.98

02:06:53.300 Have the option

02:06:53.860 To say

02:06:54.300 Maybe I'm not 0.92

02:06:55.420 Going to have sex 0.99

02:06:55.880 With a man 1.00

02:06:56.180 That I don't want

02:06:56.720 To have children with 0.99

02:06:57.380 Some women 1.00

02:06:58.080 Get raped 0.99

02:06:58.880 The exception 1.00

02:06:59.780 To the role

02:07:00.420 1% of abortions

02:07:02.920 Are because of

02:07:03.980 Right

02:07:04.280 Okay well I'm not

02:07:05.120 Personally going to

02:07:05.760 Have the abortion 0.82

02:07:06.400 Argument

02:07:06.800 Because that was

02:07:07.360 Not my intention

02:07:08.060 Of bringing up

02:07:08.640 Roe v. Wade

02:07:09.140 I'm just giving

02:07:09.600 An example of 0.98

02:07:10.420 The slut walk 1.00

02:07:11.500 Being a reason 0.98

02:07:12.300 But why do

02:07:13.920 Women fight 1.00

02:07:14.620 So hard

02:07:15.340 For the wrong decisions

02:07:16.420 Because men have been 0.99

02:07:16.460 In control of

02:07:17.220 Every decision

02:07:17.980 For the existence

02:07:18.980 How have men

02:07:20.580 Been in control

02:07:21.260 When men were the ones 1.00

02:07:22.540 That typically

02:07:23.100 Had to fight in wars

02:07:24.280 Women did not have 1.00

02:07:25.880 To fight in wars

02:07:26.780 I don't understand

02:07:28.760 That question

02:07:29.180 Okay in order to live

02:07:30.900 In order to survive

02:07:32.020 As a species

02:07:32.820 Right

02:07:33.300 You need to protect society

02:07:35.400 Women have never 1.00

02:07:36.820 Had to do that

02:07:37.740 Never

02:07:38.880 Okay

02:07:39.460 So how were men

02:07:41.520 In control

02:07:42.220 The average man

02:07:43.180 Is in

02:07:43.520 How is he in control

02:07:44.440 When they're the ones

02:07:45.320 That have to sacrifice

02:07:46.140 Their body

02:07:47.020 Their life

02:07:48.540 For the country

02:07:49.580 Because they decided

02:07:50.640 That we're the only people

02:07:51.760 That's strong enough

02:07:52.380 Who decided

02:07:53.480 Men

02:07:53.980 Who

02:07:54.520 What

02:07:55.680 What

02:07:56.980 What

02:07:57.300 What

02:07:57.620 What

02:07:57.900 Wait guys

02:08:00.260 Guys

02:08:00.600 Guys

02:08:01.060 So you're not

02:08:12.780 You're just not correct

02:08:13.840 So when women 1.00

02:08:14.980 Wait

02:08:15.280 Wait

02:08:15.780 Wait

02:08:16.280 Listen

02:08:17.140 Wait

02:08:18.000 And they

02:08:18.760 They teach you history wrong

02:08:20.500 It's not correct

02:08:21.620 If you actually read

02:08:22.440 Historical accounts

02:08:23.400 At the time

02:08:24.040 They rewrite history

02:08:25.380 So one thing people think

02:08:27.740 Is they think that men

02:08:29.100 Are the ones that started

02:08:30.080 All these wars

02:08:30.980 When really

02:08:31.980 They've taken

02:08:33.040 Wait

02:08:33.380 Wait

02:08:33.680 You just did

02:08:34.720 Right

02:08:35.140 No you did

02:08:35.600 But no you did

02:08:36.620 Because you said

02:08:37.100 Men are starting 0.99

02:08:37.800 All of these wars

02:08:38.800 No I didn't say

02:08:39.620 Bring a war 0.99

02:08:40.160 But you said

02:08:41.160 That's the reason

02:08:41.820 They have to defend

02:08:42.740 The country

02:08:43.300 Because the men

02:08:44.060 Were starting these wars

02:08:45.100 No that's not what I said

02:08:46.100 I said they started

02:08:47.240 The decision

02:08:48.020 That only the men

02:08:49.180 Are going to go to war 0.73

02:08:50.020 Okay okay

02:08:50.440 Which is what you brought up

02:08:51.360 Okay okay

02:08:51.900 Wait wait

02:08:52.680 So I'm saying

02:08:53.340 In the last 500 years

02:08:54.760 They took the men

02:08:55.740 That were in power

02:08:56.480 And the women 1.00

02:08:57.000 That were in power

02:08:57.760 Women are more likely 1.00

02:08:59.200 To wage war 0.64

02:08:59.980 Than men 0.99

02:09:00.980 So this wasn't just

02:09:03.400 The men's decision

02:09:04.320 There were women rulers 1.00

02:09:05.360 And they were more likely

02:09:06.800 To wage war 0.64

02:09:06.980 I understand that completely

02:09:07.680 But that was not the

02:09:08.600 Predictor of our conversation

02:09:08.980 So my point

02:09:09.540 My point

02:09:10.840 My point

02:09:11.480 Is in all of history

02:09:12.800 There was choices

02:09:13.560 And trade-offs

02:09:14.380 Right

02:09:14.660 And it wasn't

02:09:15.920 Most men had very little power 1.00

02:09:17.740 Most people had very little power

02:09:19.600 So this idea

02:09:20.680 That most men

02:09:21.780 Somehow oppressed women 1.00

02:09:23.300 It's just not true

02:09:24.340 Women had much more privilege 1.00

02:09:26.240 In a lot of ways

02:09:27.280 Than men 0.99

02:09:27.820 Much more

02:09:29.060 You know

02:09:29.420 Even in all of

02:09:30.840 In the last thousand years

02:09:32.020 If a woman committed a crime

02:09:33.340 She was not likely

02:09:34.280 To get the same punishment

02:09:35.380 As a guy

02:09:36.000 There was

02:09:36.880 There's been writings

02:09:38.300 For like

02:09:38.720 That are 200 years old

02:09:40.160 Of men complaining

02:09:41.280 About how unfair

02:09:42.460 The court system is

02:09:43.520 And how women 0.99

02:09:44.020 Just get off

02:09:44.740 In the

02:09:44.980 In the West

02:09:46.120 In what?

02:09:47.520 In the West?

02:09:47.920 In the West

02:09:48.460 Well in the West

02:09:49.720 Yes

02:09:49.940 In the West

02:09:50.280 We're in the West

02:09:52.320 Right?

02:09:52.960 So we just say

02:09:53.600 In the West

02:09:54.160 In the world

02:09:54.580 Well the 500 years

02:09:56.540 Was actually in the world

02:09:57.620 Which kind of makes sense

02:09:58.860 Because I don't think

02:09:59.480 Women understand violence 1.00

02:10:00.600 The same way men 0.99

02:10:01.420 Understand violence

02:10:02.640 But

02:10:03.420 Yeah

02:10:05.160 So this idea

02:10:05.880 That like

02:10:06.260 Women were oppressed 0.58

02:10:07.380 And like

02:10:07.860 Men had all this power

02:10:08.840 Most people

02:10:09.600 Did not have power

02:10:10.600 Okay

02:10:11.880 Okay

02:10:13.200 Yeah

02:10:14.080 Well I don't understand

02:10:15.460 How that relates

02:10:16.240 Back to the original question

02:10:17.520 Which was

02:10:18.300 Women 1.00

02:10:19.220 Glorify wrongdoings 0.84

02:10:21.360 More so than men 0.99

02:10:22.260 But

02:10:23.180 I agree to disagree

02:10:24.460 On your word

02:10:25.120 Okay

02:10:25.560 Okay

02:10:26.540 But

02:10:28.020 You don't see how

02:10:29.040 Women glorify 1.00

02:10:30.040 Wrongdoings 0.99

02:10:31.080 When we have a slut walk 1.00

02:10:32.220 I mean 0.99

02:10:33.720 That's one example

02:10:34.780 There's so many other things

02:10:35.840 That both

02:10:36.480 Okay

02:10:37.060 What about the

02:10:38.280 Body positive walk

02:10:39.600 Or the body positive movement

02:10:41.500 And what's

02:10:42.700 That's bad

02:10:43.580 According to whoever

02:10:44.480 Is deciding

02:10:45.480 That that's your opinion

02:10:46.360 That that's bad

02:10:47.080 Would you not agree

02:10:48.640 That being more likely

02:10:49.820 To die is bad

02:10:51.040 I 1.00

02:10:52.320 Well we all have to die 0.99

02:10:53.460 For one 0.97

02:10:53.900 But I agree that

02:10:55.020 You know

02:10:55.440 Making decisions

02:10:56.300 That are going to

02:10:57.000 Shorten your life

02:10:57.640 Could be considered bad

02:10:58.980 If that's what you value

02:11:00.160 Everybody has a range

02:11:01.480 Of things that they value

02:11:02.280 But so we shouldn't

02:11:02.740 Celebrate it right

02:11:03.780 Um

02:11:05.060 I think you should celebrate

02:11:06.060 Whatever you want to celebrate

02:11:07.000 If you want to celebrate

02:11:07.940 Feeling confident

02:11:09.260 In however

02:11:09.880 Whatever state you are in today

02:11:11.140 That's your business

02:11:12.460 Okay

02:11:12.860 Exactly

02:11:13.120 And men would say

02:11:14.560 You shouldn't celebrate

02:11:15.460 Whatever you want to celebrate

02:11:16.340 There are things

02:11:16.760 That are worth celebrating

02:11:17.620 And there are things

02:11:18.100 That should never be celebrated

02:11:19.360 That's what most

02:11:20.400 Level-headed men

02:11:21.520 Would think

02:11:22.200 But most women 1.00

02:11:23.120 Have this idea of

02:11:24.380 Oh

02:11:24.960 Egalitarian

02:11:26.180 Fairytale land

02:11:27.160 Where everything

02:11:27.760 Can be whatever it wants

02:11:29.000 Where

02:11:29.580 If you think something

02:11:30.600 Is good

02:11:30.920 Then it should be good

02:11:31.680 If you think something

02:11:32.280 Is bad

02:11:32.620 Then it should be bad

02:11:33.080 No

02:11:33.340 There are objective

02:11:34.120 Truths about life

02:11:35.140 That's the fact

02:11:36.820 Okay

02:11:38.120 Another movement

02:11:39.240 That we celebrate

02:11:40.060 Is the trans movement

02:11:41.460 That's 80% women 1.00

02:11:43.000 Most women 0.99

02:11:44.140 Are a part of that

02:11:45.080 And support that

02:11:46.060 And people that do

02:11:48.380 Actually

02:11:48.740 I've actually interviewed

02:11:49.480 People that do that surgery

02:11:50.920 They're more likely

02:11:52.280 To commit suicide 0.88

02:11:53.160 A lot of them

02:11:53.880 Have really bad complications

02:11:55.300 After

02:11:55.800 And I personally

02:11:57.720 Don't think that's something

02:11:58.640 That should be celebrated

02:11:59.720 Maybe because women 1.00

02:12:00.880 Are naturally nurturers

02:12:02.100 That we're taking that

02:12:03.420 Negative judgmental factor

02:12:05.320 Out of our

02:12:05.900 Maybe

02:12:06.300 Because me personally

02:12:07.440 Just speaking from my

02:12:08.420 Personal life experience

02:12:10.040 I'm not

02:12:10.940 I don't

02:12:11.360 I don't care about

02:12:12.220 What you do

02:12:12.960 Because the same way

02:12:13.840 You're having an opinion

02:12:14.880 On something that I do

02:12:15.780 The fact that I'm overweight

02:12:16.740 The fact that I'm this

02:12:17.540 I'm that

02:12:17.940 Maybe you have something

02:12:19.220 That's like you said

02:12:20.320 Everybody has a flaw

02:12:21.260 Something that they're dealing with

02:12:22.260 So who are we

02:12:23.740 To judge and decide

02:12:25.140 That just because

02:12:26.240 Somebody is

02:12:27.200 Accepting that

02:12:28.300 This is what people

02:12:29.120 Are going to do

02:12:29.660 With their lives anyway

02:12:30.660 And not

02:12:31.300 You know

02:12:32.160 Casting another

02:12:33.020 Sin of judgment

02:12:34.900 Onto them

02:12:35.920 So I

02:12:37.000 I don't disagree 0.95

02:12:38.080 Everybody's got struggles

02:12:39.480 Right

02:12:39.700 Everyone's got problems

02:12:40.720 I totally agree

02:12:41.720 But where I disagree

02:12:43.000 Is I don't agree 0.98

02:12:44.080 With celebrating it

02:12:45.260 I don't agree

02:12:46.220 With celebrating

02:12:46.940 I don't

02:12:47.680 Wait wait wait

02:12:48.160 I don't agree

02:12:48.820 With celebrating

02:12:49.720 The fact that

02:12:50.440 Taylor Swift

02:12:51.060 Has ten failed relationships

02:12:52.640 I don't think

02:12:53.300 That's something

02:12:53.760 We should

02:12:54.180 Yay hurrah

02:12:55.160 I don't think

02:12:56.140 We should celebrate

02:12:57.180 You know

02:12:57.840 Nicki Minaj

02:12:58.640 Saying you a ho 1.00

02:12:59.580 You a ho 1.00

02:13:00.360 You a ho 1.00

02:13:00.800 I don't

02:13:01.300 I don't think

02:13:01.960 We should celebrate

02:13:02.720 Cardi B

02:13:03.440 Having a song

02:13:04.340 About WAP

02:13:05.120 I don't think

02:13:05.960 We should celebrate

02:13:06.820 Being overweight

02:13:07.960 Because I think

02:13:08.760 Those are all

02:13:09.360 Negative things

02:13:10.720 So that

02:13:11.700 That's where I disagree

02:13:12.820 I don't disagree 0.95

02:13:13.600 That everybody's got problems

02:13:14.980 Everybody's got struggles

02:13:16.180 Nobody's perfect

02:13:17.520 Obviously everyone

02:13:18.340 In your circle

02:13:18.980 Is going to have

02:13:19.660 Problems and struggles

02:13:20.760 You know

02:13:21.460 I'm not going to

02:13:22.360 Not be friends

02:13:22.960 With someone

02:13:23.380 Just because

02:13:23.800 They're overweight

02:13:24.380 Right

02:13:24.880 But where I disagree

02:13:27.280 Is the celebrating

02:13:28.340 That's where I disagree

02:13:30.000 So how do you feel

02:13:30.640 About pub culture

02:13:31.420 Because you know

02:13:32.260 Some people might

02:13:32.860 Look at that

02:13:33.280 As alcoholism

02:13:34.200 Or like

02:13:34.560 Even just drinking

02:13:35.240 Culture in general

02:13:36.040 Oh I'm not a fan

02:13:37.380 People that drink

02:13:38.100 Smoke cigarettes

02:13:38.900 I'm not a big

02:13:39.980 I'm not a big drinker

02:13:41.240 I wouldn't celebrate

02:13:42.160 That either

02:13:42.900 I guess

02:13:44.820 But when I walked in

02:13:45.560 They told me

02:13:45.880 To get a drink

02:13:46.440 So I'm just like

02:13:47.560 Trying to understand

02:13:48.820 The balance of like

02:13:50.160 You know

02:13:51.040 It's the men and women 0.99

02:13:52.040 Thing for me

02:13:52.740 Yeah everybody

02:13:53.340 Has a choice

02:13:54.020 And it's like

02:13:54.820 Okay we can sit here

02:13:55.800 And we can pit men

02:13:56.480 And women against each other 1.00

02:13:57.500 But I think

02:13:58.380 We offer

02:13:59.460 We offer

02:14:00.940 We had a coffee

02:14:02.100 We make cups of tea

02:14:03.740 Okay

02:14:05.240 Yeah I don't

02:14:06.840 I was like

02:14:07.380 No I don't make anybody

02:14:08.520 I'm just saying

02:14:08.880 Like if that's the case

02:14:10.620 If we're gonna put

02:14:11.280 Some type of like

02:14:12.060 You're bad

02:14:13.020 Because you sat here 0.95

02:14:14.160 And you ate

02:14:14.700 XYZ

02:14:15.580 And now you're 500 pounds

02:14:16.640 It's not an issue

02:14:17.500 Of your bad

02:14:18.820 Because

02:14:19.140 It's not an issue

02:14:20.220 Of your bad

02:14:20.900 Because you drink

02:14:21.540 It's not an issue

02:14:22.100 Of your bad

02:14:22.780 Because you're overweight

02:14:23.580 Your bad

02:14:24.260 No no no no

02:14:24.980 That's not it

02:14:25.740 It's

02:14:26.240 This is bad for you

02:14:28.020 It actually comes

02:14:29.260 From a nice place

02:14:30.060 And you're hearing it

02:14:30.940 As judgement

02:14:31.560 And you're saying

02:14:32.880 You know like

02:14:33.460 Who are we to judge

02:14:34.500 Each other

02:14:34.840 And I get where

02:14:35.340 You're coming from

02:14:35.920 And you think

02:14:36.240 That's coming from

02:14:36.780 A nice place

02:14:37.340 But the truth is

02:14:38.100 That's not nice at all

02:14:39.480 Because if you have

02:14:40.520 Someone who is

02:14:41.620 Self-harming

02:14:42.400 And you give them

02:14:43.520 The razor

02:14:44.060 How are you helping

02:14:45.100 Because they wanna do it

02:14:46.340 In their mind

02:14:47.200 It helps

02:14:48.120 It relieves something

02:14:49.520 It helps me

02:14:50.040 The same with anorexia

02:14:51.080 If someone believes

02:14:51.940 They are huge

02:14:52.660 But they are actually

02:14:53.740 Seriously 0.70

02:14:54.420 Seriously anorexic

02:14:55.540 If you reaffirm

02:14:57.260 That broken problem

02:14:58.640 In their mind

02:14:59.280 And you go

02:14:59.740 Well if you're happy

02:15:00.640 And you give them

02:15:01.700 Laxatives or diet pills

02:15:03.040 How are you helping them

02:15:04.440 The truth is

02:15:05.180 Is that without tolerance

02:15:06.280 We can't discern

02:15:07.200 What's good and bad

02:15:08.220 For society

02:15:08.840 And that actually

02:15:09.580 Comes from a place of love

02:15:10.780 If we can decide collectively

02:15:12.780 It's not good to be overweight

02:15:14.380 So we don't celebrate it

02:15:15.900 It's not good

02:15:16.600 And I agree

02:15:17.100 Pop culture

02:15:17.700 It's not good

02:15:18.280 To celebrate drugs

02:15:19.160 And alcohol 0.51

02:15:19.760 If we can make

02:15:20.860 Definitive decisions

02:15:21.800 On what's good and bad

02:15:23.060 It's not about

02:15:23.740 Your individual spirit

02:15:25.860 Being good or bad

02:15:26.820 No no no

02:15:27.380 It's just telling you

02:15:28.300 You're making a decision

02:15:29.320 That ultimately

02:15:30.080 In reality

02:15:30.700 Isn't gonna be

02:15:31.620 Good for you

02:15:32.680 And it's like

02:15:33.520 If you go with

02:15:34.300 The whole mentality

02:15:35.000 Of who are we

02:15:35.720 To judge each other

02:15:36.600 How far does that go

02:15:38.120 Because if we don't

02:15:38.880 Judge each other

02:15:39.540 How do we decide

02:15:41.020 Murderers are bad

02:15:41.980 No I agree

02:15:44.220 I agree with you

02:15:44.560 Because you said

02:15:45.040 Everyone can

02:15:45.800 You know

02:15:46.740 It's that egalitarian mindset

02:15:48.900 That King was referring to

02:15:50.320 If you're

02:15:51.600 If you're deciding

02:15:52.460 Okay

02:15:52.880 Everyone can

02:15:54.320 Can do what they want

02:15:55.120 And you can celebrate

02:15:55.800 What you want to celebrate

02:15:56.820 Some people are really messed up

02:15:59.460 Yeah

02:15:59.980 Some people want to celebrate murderers

02:16:01.540 And what you think

02:16:02.420 We should just let them

02:16:03.160 Absolutely not

02:16:04.060 We should collectively decide

02:16:05.400 As a society

02:16:06.160 What is good for us

02:16:07.040 And what is bad for us

02:16:07.840 Because without that

02:16:08.700 We descend into chaos

02:16:10.460 It's not about you being bad

02:16:13.820 It's about you making a choice

02:16:15.080 That's bad for you

02:16:15.680 Every nail on the head

02:16:16.960 Yeah I agree

02:16:19.880 But I also feel like

02:16:21.220 Everybody is entitled to

02:16:22.980 Especially as far as

02:16:25.020 There is a line

02:16:25.740 Because we have laws

02:16:26.700 So there is definitely a line

02:16:28.260 That you know

02:16:29.120 Has been established

02:16:29.940 And voted

02:16:30.420 And agreed upon

02:16:31.220 That this is what

02:16:32.420 Everybody has collectively

02:16:33.640 Agreed that's wrong

02:16:34.560 If you're not hurting somebody

02:16:35.980 If you're drinking

02:16:36.600 If you're smoking

02:16:37.240 If you're vaping

02:16:37.880 If you're overeating

02:16:38.860 You're hurting yourself

02:16:39.520 So what is it to you

02:16:41.440 To go and project your opinion

02:16:43.440 On someone else

02:16:44.440 In this country

02:16:45.220 You're then going to

02:16:46.360 Put your health issues

02:16:48.000 On to the NHS

02:16:48.720 Which is going to cost

02:16:50.200 In tax

02:16:50.820 And other things

02:16:51.780 Everyone else has to pay

02:16:52.940 For like

02:16:53.920 Everyone has to pay

02:16:55.100 For the air pollution

02:16:56.000 Because everybody's outside

02:16:57.120 Smoking cigarettes

02:16:57.780 It's in vaping

02:16:58.360 Everybody has to pay

02:16:59.180 For it

02:16:59.580 No no

02:17:00.080 A lot of

02:17:00.460 It's not comparable

02:17:02.520 That's not

02:17:03.260 That like

02:17:03.700 Okay

02:17:04.220 You think that

02:17:06.040 Vaping has the same effect

02:17:07.820 On the healthcare system

02:17:09.000 And our taxes

02:17:09.940 As obese people

02:17:11.060 Maybe not

02:17:11.720 But I think that

02:17:13.220 Everything

02:17:14.100 You die too young

02:17:15.400 You're going to upset

02:17:16.120 Your family and your friends

02:17:17.520 What about

02:17:18.180 That's going to cause

02:17:19.080 A ripple effect

02:17:19.860 What about like

02:17:20.460 Yeah what about your kids

02:17:21.300 There's a lot of things involved

02:17:22.640 Yeah so

02:17:23.300 I'm not arguing

02:17:24.220 That being overweight

02:17:25.320 Is somehow like

02:17:26.420 An exception

02:17:28.000 Or it's okay

02:17:28.720 I'm not even arguing

02:17:29.440 Over the overweight topic

02:17:30.540 At all

02:17:30.820 I'm arguing over the fact

02:17:32.560 That

02:17:33.000 It's not your say

02:17:34.840 Or your decision

02:17:35.680 Or

02:17:36.060 Yeah so I'm not saying

02:17:37.560 You're a bad person

02:17:38.400 To say women are celebrating 0.99

02:17:39.260 Things that are bad

02:17:40.100 If there's a group of people

02:17:41.220 Who want to get together

02:17:41.940 And celebrate

02:17:42.580 Whatever it is

02:17:43.460 Then that's their right

02:17:44.500 To do so

02:17:44.960 So what I'm disagreeing with

02:17:47.120 Is you said

02:17:47.620 It doesn't affect anyone

02:17:48.980 It does

02:17:49.500 And that's where I'm disagreeing

02:17:50.900 I'm saying it does

02:17:52.100 Okay

02:17:52.580 Because when you have

02:17:53.500 Health issues

02:17:54.320 Everyone around you

02:17:55.620 Has to take care of you

02:17:56.700 And then the health system

02:17:58.760 Has to pay for it

02:17:59.740 So that's where I'm saying

02:18:00.720 I disagree

02:18:01.380 That it doesn't affect anybody

02:18:03.100 And the point of freedom

02:18:04.140 Like I also agree with

02:18:05.380 People should be allowed

02:18:06.560 To exercise their freedoms

02:18:07.700 To do whatever they want

02:18:08.980 Like ultimately

02:18:09.880 If people are telling you

02:18:11.520 Don't do this

02:18:12.260 Don't do this

02:18:12.700 And you still decide to do it

02:18:13.860 You know

02:18:14.060 I'm not a tyrant

02:18:15.020 I'm not then going to 0.99

02:18:16.080 Absolutely put a gun to your head 0.99

02:18:17.560 Until you do what I want you to do 1.00

02:18:19.160 Because it's coming from

02:18:20.180 A place of love

02:18:20.820 If you decide not to listen 0.99

02:18:21.960 And you kill yourself 1.00

02:18:22.960 That is ultimately 1.00

02:18:24.300 Your fault

02:18:25.520 At the end of the day

02:18:26.340 But the point

02:18:27.180 That Pearl was making

02:18:27.840 Was about celebration

02:18:29.040 And the thing

02:18:29.840 And that's what I was talking about

02:18:30.720 The thing with body positivity

02:18:32.080 And the trans movement

02:18:33.860 The two examples

02:18:35.220 That we just gave

02:18:36.100 Is that

02:18:36.800 When you celebrate something

02:18:38.560 You are encouraging it

02:18:41.000 So without the celebration

02:18:42.580 Because it's like

02:18:43.100 People can still do that

02:18:44.060 Right

02:18:44.280 Trans people can still exist

02:18:45.640 People can still be overweight

02:18:47.240 And be positive in themselves

02:18:49.140 But it's the point

02:18:50.000 The point is

02:18:50.880 Is that it's projected

02:18:51.720 And celebrated upon society

02:18:53.620 And we shouldn't be doing that

02:18:55.780 Because it's not good for individuals

02:18:58.320 But if individuals decide

02:18:59.460 That they want to do that

02:19:00.540 Great

02:19:00.920 I don't think anyone

02:19:01.780 Should be forced to do anything in life

02:19:03.840 But if you celebrate it

02:19:06.100 You encourage it

02:19:07.120 And what good does that do

02:19:08.340 In encouraging people

02:19:09.280 You know

02:19:09.540 We had a woman

02:19:10.240 On the front of

02:19:10.800 Sports Illustrated magazine

02:19:11.980 Who was 300 pounds

02:19:13.200 We all know

02:19:15.620 Girls 0.98

02:19:16.260 We've all heard this narrative

02:19:17.980 For years

02:19:18.480 You know

02:19:19.080 It was in the 90s

02:19:20.360 It was girls are seeing women 0.99

02:19:21.600 Who are too skinny

02:19:22.460 So girls are then starving themselves 1.00

02:19:24.700 Okay

02:19:25.200 Well now they're seeing women 0.99

02:19:26.940 Who are too fat

02:19:27.800 So now they're thinking

02:19:29.160 Oh well

02:19:29.780 That's okay

02:19:30.660 And that's celebrated

02:19:31.580 And the truth is

02:19:32.340 Either way

02:19:33.840 That's not good

02:19:35.100 So I think the point is

02:19:36.220 Is that people can do

02:19:37.380 What they want

02:19:38.020 But as a society

02:19:40.380 We should not celebrate

02:19:42.120 The things that are bad

02:19:43.120 For humankind

02:19:43.720 That's the point

02:19:44.740 And ultimately

02:19:45.440 If you then decide

02:19:46.300 To go against that

02:19:47.220 You know

02:19:48.720 More power to you

02:19:50.020 But don't go out

02:19:50.880 And project it

02:19:51.460 Onto the rest of the world

02:19:52.340 Because it's not good for people

02:19:53.500 I don't think people

02:19:54.440 Making a choice

02:19:55.040 To celebrate something

02:19:55.880 That they feel strongly about

02:19:57.360 That they care about

02:19:58.080 That they feel

02:19:58.580 That they relate to

02:19:59.360 Is influencing

02:20:01.620 Other people

02:20:02.360 I think that

02:20:02.900 If you have a 0.98

02:20:03.600 Weak mind

02:20:04.860 Or you're easily influenced 0.89

02:20:06.280 Or you maybe are not

02:20:07.540 Securing your own foundation

02:20:08.860 But children are weaker

02:20:10.080 That's why

02:20:10.640 I agree

02:20:10.960 I agree

02:20:11.580 That's why children

02:20:12.400 Shouldn't be on TikTok

02:20:13.020 Or whatever

02:20:13.980 They shouldn't be

02:20:14.620 Having so much access

02:20:15.840 To these things

02:20:16.560 Because in the world

02:20:17.380 People are going to do

02:20:18.180 What they want to do

02:20:19.100 People are going to kill

02:20:20.100 People are going to

02:20:21.020 Do other things

02:20:21.680 People are going to touch children 0.99

02:20:22.660 Children walk around

02:20:23.660 In the streets

02:20:24.020 Somewhere like New York City

02:20:24.940 I've never been

02:20:25.740 But I know that you guys

02:20:26.580 Have huge billboards

02:20:27.640 Right

02:20:27.920 What are they seeing

02:20:29.000 On those billboards

02:20:29.620 Look at the latest Dove adverts

02:20:31.160 Right

02:20:31.440 Things like that

02:20:32.100 That's what I'm saying

02:20:32.600 So if we look on a societal level

02:20:35.040 Children are a part of our society

02:20:36.780 You know

02:20:37.460 We go to something like

02:20:38.380 The trans movement

02:20:39.040 That is absolutely

02:20:39.980 100% targeted towards children

02:20:42.560 My point is

02:20:43.660 We shouldn't be celebrating

02:20:44.640 Things in our society

02:20:45.920 That are bad

02:20:46.940 For the vulnerable people

02:20:47.940 Within our society

02:20:49.040 And that includes children

02:20:50.280 That includes people

02:20:51.020 Who are weak minded

02:20:51.820 You know

02:20:52.460 It should be our human duty

02:20:53.640 To look out for one another

02:20:54.700 And people putting stuff out there

02:20:56.840 I agree with you

02:20:57.460 Kids shouldn't be on TikTok

02:20:58.300 Kids shouldn't be on Instagram

02:20:59.520 The point is

02:21:00.440 They are

02:21:01.220 So we should be aware of that

02:21:03.640 As competent adults

02:21:04.900 So to not expose children

02:21:06.620 To things that could encourage

02:21:07.760 Them to make bad decisions in life

02:21:09.240 Can I just say

02:21:10.340 Ask a question

02:21:11.200 But being that

02:21:12.040 A competent adult

02:21:12.940 That's raising these children

02:21:14.360 The family that

02:21:15.960 That are so concerned about her

02:21:17.720 These

02:21:18.180 Let's say she's a 0.99

02:21:19.080 Traditional family girl

02:21:20.720 Who was leading this family

02:21:23.420 As to what was put

02:21:25.040 In this child's mouth

02:21:26.040 For her to then

02:21:27.580 Gain this weight

02:21:28.580 And then for them

02:21:30.100 To now sit down

02:21:31.380 And say to this child

02:21:32.960 You are now overweight

02:21:34.100 Because now they've created

02:21:35.860 Habits and addictions

02:21:37.520 And so on and so forth

02:21:38.780 Because they see

02:21:40.780 That this is not healthy

02:21:42.080 And they

02:21:42.800 Because they have

02:21:43.440 The knowledge

02:21:44.100 Because they know better

02:21:45.120 They are the competent adult

02:21:46.760 They were competent enough

02:21:48.220 To provide the food

02:21:49.340 From birth

02:21:50.680 To whatever said date

02:21:51.800 That she is now overweight

02:21:53.060 So oh now we have a problem

02:21:54.740 And I'm going to tell you 0.98

02:21:56.140 That you are the problem

02:21:57.220 And we need to fix this problem

02:21:59.920 But I created this problem

02:22:01.420 So are we going to come down

02:22:02.520 And sit with our leader

02:22:04.660 Whoever that may be

02:22:05.560 In that family

02:22:06.240 And together as a family

02:22:07.600 And we're going to change

02:22:08.300 The habits

02:22:08.820 And unlearn

02:22:09.600 These bad behaviours

02:22:10.900 That have caused

02:22:11.880 This child

02:22:12.600 To now then be overweight

02:22:13.880 And we're going to do it

02:22:14.560 Together as a family

02:22:15.500 Or are we going to just magnify

02:22:17.220 This child who has now

02:22:18.440 Learned this terrible behaviour

02:22:19.940 Which has now caused

02:22:20.720 Possible health problems

02:22:22.160 And she feels bad

02:22:23.680 Or whatever it is

02:22:24.480 Negative, positive

02:22:25.300 Whatever it may be

02:22:26.140 It started at the foundation

02:22:27.680 Of her being a baby

02:22:28.900 Because the baby

02:22:29.520 Did not put the processed food

02:22:31.260 On the table

02:22:31.860 The baby did not go and buy it

02:22:33.400 The baby did not see the billboard

02:22:35.000 And say

02:22:35.540 Mummy I want that McDonald's

02:22:36.900 And mummy said 0.92

02:22:37.500 Yes you can have every time

02:22:39.060 You say you want McDonald's

02:22:40.140 You can have it

02:22:40.740 You have to be able

02:22:41.980 To make that executive decision

02:22:43.360 As a competent adult

02:22:44.780 That chose to raise a child

02:22:46.380 And together as a collective

02:22:48.440 With whoever your village

02:22:49.500 Or your support is

02:22:50.320 And your leader

02:22:51.300 And make that

02:22:52.800 Then don't go and make

02:22:53.700 The child feel bad

02:22:54.420 For your choices

02:22:56.480 I agree with you

02:22:57.460 But she wasn't a child

02:22:58.360 The problem with that

02:22:59.300 She started somewhere

02:23:00.120 But the problem with that

02:23:01.140 Those habits started somewhere

02:23:01.880 The problem with that is

02:23:02.520 In the West

02:23:03.080 We live in a gynocentric society 1.00

02:23:04.960 So even if you notice

02:23:07.520 Women make most of the decisions 1.00

02:23:09.180 Women are the ones 1.00

02:23:10.000 That are raising these kids

02:23:10.940 Most men

02:23:12.660 And this is what I noticed

02:23:13.800 I'm African

02:23:15.320 I came from Nigeria

02:23:16.320 I only came to this country

02:23:17.240 In 2019

02:23:17.820 Back in my country

02:23:19.920 Even though it's changing

02:23:22.020 But back in the day

02:23:22.900 The men were the leaders

02:23:24.680 Of the family

02:23:25.840 What they said goes

02:23:27.340 But that even started changing

02:23:29.140 A couple of like

02:23:29.980 Years ago

02:23:31.580 But the reality is

02:23:33.160 Women are the ones 1.00

02:23:34.020 That make all the decisions

02:23:34.940 If a man tries to

02:23:36.260 Stand his ground in the West

02:23:37.960 He is literally shut down

02:23:40.260 He is literally kicked out

02:23:41.400 Of his home

02:23:41.820 He is literally seen

02:23:43.000 As the enemy

02:23:43.680 Men can't even enforce 1.00

02:23:47.980 Their masculinity

02:23:48.840 On their own families

02:23:50.220 And this is the point

02:23:50.820 We're saying

02:23:51.260 Of the whole thing

02:23:52.520 So then you should

02:23:53.120 Vet your partner

02:23:53.860 Probably before

02:23:54.520 It's not about

02:23:54.960 Vetting your partner

02:23:55.600 It's not about

02:23:56.380 Vetting your partner

02:23:56.840 It's about the society

02:23:58.360 No matter how much

02:23:59.720 Do you think society

02:24:00.620 Can have an impact

02:24:01.920 About what my husband

02:24:03.120 Is telling me

02:24:03.660 I'll tell you why

02:24:05.160 Because there are many women 1.00

02:24:06.360 Who were raised in Nigeria

02:24:07.780 Who were raised

02:24:09.140 With traditional values

02:24:09.980 The moment they stepped

02:24:10.820 Foot into this country

02:24:11.940 It went haywire

02:24:12.960 So therefore

02:24:14.520 Vet your wife 0.99

02:24:15.560 Or your husband

02:24:16.080 No the reality is

02:24:17.100 The society creates

02:24:18.680 The toxic environment

02:24:21.240 For women to be able 1.00

02:24:22.120 To run rampant

02:24:23.100 And do whatever they want

02:24:24.420 Okay

02:24:24.960 So how do you combat that

02:24:26.440 Do you now then

02:24:27.400 When you're fighting a war

02:24:28.940 Do you go to war

02:24:30.280 Without equipment

02:24:31.520 I mean some men

02:24:33.260 Won't fight it

02:24:34.000 That's the point

02:24:34.700 The point is that

02:24:35.800 That's the reason why

02:24:36.440 Men are no longer 0.97

02:24:37.320 Getting married

02:24:38.280 Because they see that

02:24:39.600 They cannot have

02:24:41.060 Any sort of

02:24:42.200 Authority in their homes

02:24:43.880 That's the reason

02:24:44.780 Why men run from 0.77

02:24:45.520 Commitments these days

02:24:46.860 In the West

02:24:47.200 Well it used to take

02:24:48.000 Three months

02:24:48.740 For a guy to marry you

02:24:49.960 Now it takes

02:24:50.380 Three years on average

02:24:51.420 So it's like

02:24:54.120 That's what men are doing 0.99

02:24:55.300 They're vetting harder

02:24:56.540 But honestly

02:24:57.480 Just doing this

02:24:58.120 Divorce documentary

02:24:59.080 I would say

02:25:00.060 There's no way

02:25:00.680 You could possibly know

02:25:01.660 Women switch up 1.00

02:25:02.660 Switch up very quickly

02:25:03.920 After they get

02:25:04.580 What they want

02:25:05.220 It's really

02:25:06.400 I would say

02:25:06.920 It's a roll of the dice

02:25:07.960 There's high risk women 1.00

02:25:09.200 There's low risk women 1.00

02:25:10.180 But you're never gonna know

02:25:11.100 100%

02:25:11.980 What do women get 1.00

02:25:13.060 Out of marriage

02:25:13.800 Protection and provisioning

02:25:16.020 Most men out earn women 1.00

02:25:17.380 So the average man still

02:25:18.900 Even if it's more of a

02:25:19.900 50-50

02:25:20.460 Even the 50-50 0.89

02:25:21.520 Relationships that I look at

02:25:23.000 Men still work longer 1.00

02:25:24.340 Longer hours

02:25:25.180 And they contribute

02:25:25.800 More financially

02:25:26.640 You also get protection

02:25:28.640 I mean there's some

02:25:29.720 Where are they

02:25:30.420 Well I mean

02:25:32.100 Most men

02:25:33.200 Earn enough for

02:25:34.600 A wife and kids

02:25:35.680 Do they

02:25:36.360 Yeah I mean

02:25:36.980 It's just

02:25:37.400 No but the problem is

02:25:38.620 But the problem is

02:25:39.360 I'll tell you guys

02:25:40.140 The problem

02:25:40.680 You see

02:25:41.620 You have jewelry

02:25:43.000 You have makeup on

02:25:44.080 You have

02:25:44.320 I know

02:25:46.020 I know

02:25:46.560 But I'm saying

02:25:47.400 Most women won't go down 1.00

02:25:48.620 Wait wait

02:25:49.320 Most women won't go down 1.00

02:25:50.520 In lifestyle for a family

02:25:51.820 So I'll give you an example

02:25:53.240 My friend Rachel

02:25:54.340 She is a homeschooled mom

02:25:56.880 She had four kids

02:25:57.780 And what she did

02:25:59.120 They never took vacation

02:26:00.260 She never had any of

02:26:01.520 The latest fashion trends

02:26:02.680 She barely bought makeup 0.99

02:26:03.980 She homeschooled her children

02:26:05.840 She lived on

02:26:07.380 Like they had chickens

02:26:09.360 She did all of that stuff 0.99

02:26:11.360 Most women aren't willing 1.00

02:26:12.420 To do that for a family

02:26:13.680 And what she

02:26:15.600 And what she explained

02:26:16.440 She's from Midwest

02:26:17.980 So Chicago

02:26:19.660 Or Michigan

02:26:20.560 Oh in America

02:26:20.680 Yeah Michigan

02:26:21.360 Grand Rapids

02:26:22.180 Yeah I'm from Chicago

02:26:23.280 Okay

02:26:23.880 And so what she

02:26:24.640 What she explained to me

02:26:25.780 Is kids really aren't

02:26:26.700 As expensive as people

02:26:27.880 Want to believe

02:26:28.680 It's just

02:26:29.220 It's just like

02:26:30.200 The women want the vacations 1.00

02:26:31.660 They want their

02:26:32.340 They won't do hand-me-downs

02:26:33.600 With the kids

02:26:34.260 Yeah

02:26:34.500 Like they don't

02:26:35.300 They don't want to

02:26:35.920 Homeschool the kids 0.57

02:26:36.880 They'd rather have

02:26:37.500 A career too

02:26:38.480 And the thing is

02:26:39.800 When you start

02:26:40.240 Breaking down men's income

02:26:41.540 Men's income peaks 0.97

02:26:42.640 At about 55

02:26:43.520 And typically

02:26:45.760 Over the age of 30

02:26:47.120 Men are making enough 1.00

02:26:48.780 For like to have a family

02:26:51.720 To have two to three kids

02:26:53.000 Right

02:26:53.620 But that doesn't mean

02:26:54.560 That they actually share

02:26:55.780 Or give

02:26:56.380 Or actually provide

02:26:57.880 Most men do

02:26:59.260 Most men

02:27:00.040 So if you look at the stats

02:27:01.640 There's only really about

02:27:03.060 And this is why

02:27:03.900 I don't really get the

02:27:05.120 There's like this group

02:27:06.760 That's like

02:27:07.260 Basically insinuating 0.98

02:27:09.440 Most guys are losers 0.75

02:27:10.700 The stats don't really 0.99

02:27:11.740 Back that up

02:27:12.320 The number one employer

02:27:13.180 Of men in the U.S.

02:27:14.100 Is truckers

02:27:14.900 And there's only like

02:27:16.640 15%

02:27:17.100 They make good money

02:27:17.800 Yeah

02:27:18.140 They do

02:27:18.520 They do

02:27:18.820 They do

02:27:19.340 There's only like

02:27:20.620 15% of men

02:27:22.480 That are like

02:27:23.380 The 20% 0.99

02:27:24.240 I think it is 0.55

02:27:25.020 That are the losers

02:27:26.220 Throughout their lifetime

02:27:27.320 And the other thing

02:27:29.100 Is men are having 0.96

02:27:29.680 A harder and harder time

02:27:30.720 Getting jobs

02:27:31.580 In high paying industries

02:27:32.660 Because they are

02:27:33.440 Discriminated against

02:27:34.440 Like I've talked to

02:27:35.180 Recruiters

02:27:35.880 In like tech

02:27:37.160 For example

02:27:37.800 And there was even

02:27:39.040 A tech conference

02:27:40.700 For women

02:27:41.220 Men were so desperate

02:27:42.260 To get like

02:27:43.060 Into that field

02:27:43.880 They infiltrated it

02:27:45.120 They literally like

02:27:46.180 Pretended

02:27:46.820 Yeah

02:27:47.060 No but that

02:27:49.020 But that tells you

02:27:49.800 How much like

02:27:50.460 They're being discriminated

02:27:51.840 Against for certain jobs

02:27:53.460 So there's more

02:27:55.900 Traditional men 0.72

02:27:56.980 Wanted to be equal

02:27:57.960 Yeah

02:27:58.320 There's

02:27:58.800 I would say

02:27:59.620 It was a good idea

02:28:00.960 Yeah

02:28:01.240 Well I would say

02:28:01.980 There's definitely

02:28:02.820 A lack of masculinity

02:28:04.140 Like I don't think

02:28:05.180 Most men were taught 0.81

02:28:06.100 To be like masculine 0.98

02:28:07.540 But it's like

02:28:08.600 Who are we

02:28:09.200 Most women weren't 1.00

02:28:09.980 Taught to be feminine 1.00

02:28:10.800 And we'll always say

02:28:12.440 We want a leader

02:28:13.180 But like

02:28:13.560 What percent of women 1.00

02:28:14.260 Know how to follow

02:28:15.080 But those points

02:28:16.320 You said about

02:28:17.020 The benefits of a woman 1.00

02:28:18.120 Being married

02:28:18.720 She could still get those

02:28:20.280 If she wasn't married 0.98

02:28:21.040 Right

02:28:21.420 That's where

02:28:22.080 We're gonna go

02:28:22.700 It actually works

02:28:23.040 The same way 0.72

02:28:24.620 She could have

02:28:26.200 But the difference

02:28:26.920 Financial support

02:28:27.740 But the difference

02:28:28.460 But the difference

02:28:29.680 No not the same

02:28:31.000 Because you can have

02:28:32.220 More

02:28:32.620 Basically you have

02:28:34.940 More legal rights

02:28:36.000 As a woman

02:28:36.660 In marriage

02:28:37.400 So

02:28:38.260 Okay

02:28:38.640 Quick question

02:28:39.380 And then

02:28:39.760 You mean in

02:28:40.620 Like when it becomes

02:28:42.140 Divorce

02:28:42.940 Yeah

02:28:43.640 You have more protections

02:28:44.860 Yeah

02:28:45.420 You have more protections

02:28:46.400 For a woman

02:28:47.060 Is this a marriage

02:28:47.900 That

02:28:48.160 Who

02:28:48.680 And I would say

02:28:50.220 Men typically 0.90

02:28:50.940 Actually stay

02:28:51.940 So women typically 1.00

02:28:53.160 Actually get the vows

02:28:54.360 That are promised

02:28:55.120 Where men do not 1.00

02:28:56.080 Like men don't 1.00

02:28:58.060 Typically file

02:28:58.780 For a divorce

02:28:59.360 And there are reasons

02:29:00.160 I can't remember

02:29:01.100 Them off the top

02:29:01.820 Of my head

02:29:02.180 But the reasons

02:29:02.720 That men file 0.97

02:29:03.400 For a divorce

02:29:04.060 Are

02:29:04.920 Like one

02:29:06.000 Is substance abuse

02:29:07.100 Like they're typically

02:29:07.920 More serious

02:29:08.680 Than the reasons

02:29:09.360 That women file 1.00

02:29:10.180 For a divorce

02:29:10.760 In general

02:29:11.500 Are these

02:29:12.760 So quick

02:29:13.660 In terms of

02:29:14.460 Like marriage

02:29:14.960 And divorces

02:29:15.620 That are signed

02:29:16.160 By

02:29:16.300 A contract

02:29:17.080 That you're

02:29:17.580 Going to

02:29:18.380 Society

02:29:19.420 Has created

02:29:20.080 A contract

02:29:20.620 And in a contract

02:29:21.780 There's obviously

02:29:22.400 Rules that you

02:29:23.560 Cannot break

02:29:24.240 And if you choose

02:29:24.980 To then

02:29:26.300 Break this contract

02:29:27.280 We can all

02:29:27.840 Pass separate ways

02:29:28.620 And somebody

02:29:29.140 Has to pay

02:29:29.620 To come

02:29:29.980 So you pay

02:29:30.360 To get into

02:29:30.840 A contract

02:29:31.300 And now you

02:29:31.980 Have to pay

02:29:32.340 To get out

02:29:32.800 Of this

02:29:32.980 Are you talking

02:29:33.300 About a prenup

02:29:34.220 No no no

02:29:34.900 Sorry say that again

02:29:35.960 So marriage

02:29:36.940 In like when you

02:29:38.000 Go to the court

02:29:38.560 And you legally

02:29:39.140 Do these documents

02:29:40.080 It's a contract

02:29:40.840 Correct

02:29:41.160 Because you

02:29:41.560 Contract

02:29:42.280 Say together

02:29:43.360 Now we bind

02:29:44.080 Together

02:29:44.440 This is the contract

02:29:45.200 So we paid

02:29:45.940 To get into

02:29:46.500 A contract

02:29:46.920 That was

02:29:48.220 Created by

02:29:49.500 A third party

02:29:50.480 And then we

02:29:52.380 Have to pay

02:29:52.780 This third party

02:29:53.540 Again when we

02:29:54.280 Decide

02:29:54.540 But this contract

02:29:55.140 No longer serves us

02:29:56.020 Right

02:29:56.520 So now

02:29:57.920 So the third party

02:29:59.200 The third party

02:30:00.120 Has collected money

02:30:00.940 From you twice

02:30:01.600 To get together

02:30:03.680 Right

02:30:04.400 And so now

02:30:06.160 Because something

02:30:06.960 In this contract

02:30:07.980 You now decided

02:30:09.280 To exercise

02:30:09.820 This law

02:30:10.620 This contract

02:30:11.160 That both of us

02:30:12.400 Have agreed

02:30:12.880 That we can abide

02:30:13.680 By this

02:30:14.180 Whatever is in

02:30:15.620 This contract

02:30:16.160 But we also have

02:30:17.180 The choice to

02:30:17.660 Create our own

02:30:18.180 Contracts as

02:30:18.880 Individuals

02:30:19.860 We don't necessarily

02:30:20.680 Have to go to

02:30:21.220 The law

02:30:21.580 And sit down

02:30:22.420 So I agree

02:30:23.440 With you

02:30:23.760 But the issue

02:30:24.480 Is in this

02:30:25.400 Country

02:30:25.800 And in the

02:30:26.500 U.S.

02:30:27.500 When you have

02:30:28.280 A child

02:30:28.780 You're automatically

02:30:29.660 Put into that

02:30:30.500 System regardless

02:30:31.620 You know I've

02:30:32.240 Interviewed divorce

02:30:33.020 Attorneys about this

02:30:34.080 And you know

02:30:35.140 I asked one of them

02:30:36.300 If he was afraid

02:30:36.980 Of marriage

02:30:37.640 And he said

02:30:38.640 No I'm not

02:30:39.420 Afraid of marriage

02:30:39.980 I could get

02:30:40.400 An ironclad prenup

02:30:41.580 I'm not afraid

02:30:42.160 Of that

02:30:42.420 But what I am

02:30:43.520 Afraid of

02:30:44.240 Is having a child

02:30:45.460 Because when you

02:30:46.140 Have a kid

02:30:46.660 That kid is not

02:30:47.480 Yours

02:30:48.000 And you are

02:30:48.780 Always at the

02:30:49.420 Mercy of her

02:30:50.300 And her family

02:30:52.000 If they start

02:30:52.700 Getting in her ear

02:30:53.660 Her friends

02:30:54.640 If they start

02:30:55.240 Getting in her ear

02:30:56.000 If she starts

02:30:56.460 Watching the wrong

02:30:57.440 Stuff on TikTok

02:30:58.360 And he said

02:30:59.320 Every man thinks

02:31:00.240 That they can

02:31:00.680 Prevent it somehow

02:31:01.660 But you just

02:31:03.040 Never know

02:31:04.000 For sure

02:31:04.760 So again

02:31:06.000 Back to the

02:31:06.920 Decision makers

02:31:07.720 Right

02:31:08.240 Was it

02:31:09.260 I don't know

02:31:09.880 Because again

02:31:10.360 It's a genuine

02:31:10.980 Question

02:31:11.500 Was it a

02:31:13.380 Man or a woman 0.99

02:31:14.420 That thought

02:31:14.860 It was a good

02:31:15.300 Idea to put

02:31:15.880 This contract

02:31:16.320 Together that

02:31:16.960 Benefits a woman

02:31:18.320 Because that's

02:31:18.880 What we're saying

02:31:19.320 It only benefits

02:31:20.060 A woman 0.57

02:31:20.560 When the family

02:31:21.440 Because nobody

02:31:22.480 Wins when the family

02:31:23.240 Fights

02:31:23.520 So I'll tell you

02:31:24.260 I'll tell you why

02:31:25.000 Because I had

02:31:25.640 This question

02:31:26.280 Like why

02:31:26.820 Are these laws

02:31:27.700 So hard to change

02:31:28.760 And so I started

02:31:29.460 Interviewing men's

02:31:30.940 Rights activists

02:31:31.660 Who have been

02:31:32.180 Trying to get

02:31:32.660 Them changed

02:31:33.300 For years

02:31:33.900 And their

02:31:34.540 Overwhelming

02:31:35.340 Consensus is that

02:31:36.580 We cannot get

02:31:38.000 Them changed

02:31:38.740 Because the

02:31:39.820 Politicians can't

02:31:41.060 Get their job

02:31:41.780 They can't get

02:31:42.320 Elected unless

02:31:43.000 They cater to

02:31:44.180 The female voters

02:31:45.140 And the female 0.99

02:31:46.860 Voters

02:31:47.440 Unfortunately

02:31:48.120 For whatever

02:31:48.900 Reason women 1.00

02:31:49.560 Are very selfish

02:31:50.480 With our voting

02:31:51.300 Power

02:31:51.680 And we have

02:31:54.120 Voted for

02:31:54.660 Policies that

02:31:55.460 Break down

02:31:55.940 The family

02:31:56.480 And in the

02:31:57.000 1920s

02:31:57.960 You know we

02:31:58.760 Always hear about

02:31:59.200 The suffragettes 0.79

02:32:00.020 So the women 1.00

02:32:00.480 That like fought

02:32:01.180 For the women

02:32:01.680 To get the right

02:32:02.340 To vote

02:32:02.760 The terrorists

02:32:03.320 Yeah

02:32:03.920 Yeah

02:32:04.340 But what they

02:32:05.320 Don't know

02:32:05.760 Is those

02:32:06.100 Women 1.00

02:32:06.680 Yeah they

02:32:07.040 Were actually

02:32:07.500 They were

02:32:08.000 Known as terrorists

02:32:09.000 They planned

02:32:09.560 Assassinations

02:32:10.360 They planned

02:32:10.920 Bombings

02:32:11.640 They were women 0.99

02:32:12.160 Who couldn't

02:32:12.560 Get husbands 0.89

02:32:13.020 Yeah

02:32:13.360 And that's

02:32:14.440 What they were

02:32:14.800 Known as

02:32:15.300 Yeah

02:32:15.540 They were known

02:32:16.040 As that in

02:32:16.460 The community

02:32:17.040 The anti-suffragists

02:32:18.260 Were a movement

02:32:18.860 That were against

02:32:19.640 The suffragettes 0.79

02:32:20.480 And they said

02:32:20.900 No no no

02:32:21.760 We cannot let

02:32:22.960 Women have the 0.98

02:32:23.620 Right to vote

02:32:24.160 There will be

02:32:24.680 Increased spending

02:32:25.680 And you will see

02:32:26.620 The breakdown

02:32:27.140 Of the family

02:32:27.960 Unit and you

02:32:28.680 Will see an

02:32:29.060 Increase in

02:32:29.620 Regulations

02:32:30.260 Now it's

02:32:31.460 Quite yeah

02:32:31.900 It's been a

02:32:32.440 Hundred years

02:32:33.100 Who passed

02:32:33.960 The law

02:32:34.460 No but that

02:32:35.160 That's my point

02:32:35.940 Women voted

02:32:37.140 To get the

02:32:37.780 Laws passed

02:32:38.640 Because those

02:32:39.460 Laws were not 1.00

02:32:40.060 Passed when women 1.00

02:32:40.820 Did not have

02:32:41.360 Voting power

02:32:42.180 So you could

02:32:43.140 Argue that a

02:32:43.900 Small percentage

02:32:44.700 Of men

02:32:45.460 Were involved

02:32:47.020 In that

02:32:47.440 Decision

02:32:48.040 But more

02:32:49.780 Women are 1.00

02:32:50.420 Involved in

02:32:51.020 Voting

02:32:51.360 Than men 0.99

02:32:51.860 Involved in

02:32:52.540 Politics

02:32:52.940 So it's a

02:32:53.500 Very small

02:32:54.120 Percentage of

02:32:54.760 Men where

02:32:55.400 Women have 0.95

02:32:55.980 Overwhelmingly

02:32:57.040 Voted to

02:32:57.740 Break down

02:32:58.220 The family

02:32:58.760 So we're

02:32:59.580 Saying that

02:33:00.060 Women had 0.99

02:33:00.680 A say

02:33:01.280 In this

02:33:02.020 Contract

02:33:02.420 That was

02:33:02.740 Put together

02:33:03.320 For them

02:33:04.720 To benefit

02:33:05.220 If the

02:33:05.580 Family

02:33:05.920 Or when

02:33:06.360 The family

02:33:06.720 Breaks

02:33:07.060 Women have 0.95

02:33:08.900 To say

02:33:09.340 Yeah

02:33:09.640 When the

02:33:10.180 Contract

02:33:10.400 Is drawn 0.80

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JustPearlyThings - October 26, 2023

All WOMEN Are Destined To EXPIRE？ @StirlingCooper THE PREGAME SHOW ｜ EP 153

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