An Average Woman Doesn't Want to Date an Average Man
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about feminism and how it has affected society and the way we see women today. We discuss the impact feminism has had on society and how society has affected women and society as a whole. We also talk about the role of women in society today and how they have been affected by feminism.
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now when it gets hard they're running away so you get married back in the days they will work
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and work and work until we can make it and that's why women bring less to the table because that
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used to be the thing that the man got even if she wasn't a virgin he's like you know what if we get
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married she cannot leave me but now 80 percent of women are 80 percent of women half of marriages
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end in divorce and women leave 80 percent of the time children with them and they take the kids and
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their money so that's why we see less and less men getting married today but we also have to look
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at why is the generation society also they're not teaching you in schools what are they teaching
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you they're not teaching you how to how to how to wash how to sew how to do all of these things as
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a woman so when you come out of school you don't know what you're doing your mom and your dad's
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not together do you know what i mean i think i think there's an agenda right but but it still
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doesn't change the product yeah and and the truth is the product of of women as a whole is just worse
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than ever before no i agree and also factor in the fact that everything is very convenient so like
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you've got a dishwasher you've got you've you can just go out the road everything has changed you
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don't even have to have those skills anymore because it's not it's not a necessity back then
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it was a necessity to have these skills yeah but the problem is like what kind of i disagree with it and
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i wish it was like that that's the thing i'm actually super old school in so many ways like
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i wish so many of the habits we had today would just convert back to how it was i don't actually
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like the way things are going i don't so but i just have to also be aware of what what we have
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right now and also to answer your question um about whether it was created i don't think it was
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something that was created i think it's something that's just natural and just work i think what was
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created was the idea to actually go against it and go against the family structure i think that's
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what has been created that's what's happened and i feel like if we go back to like just statistics
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if we look at modern society today and you know how that divorce rates are skyrocketing what has
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that done to society like society is literally falling apart do you know what i mean so i feel
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like it's something that's natural and it's something that works and it's definitely not
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something that just we just decided let's just create it that's all been done for a reason
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exactly because your kids are getting taken away from you from young for a reason there's a reason why
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dishwashers and all of these things have been created is to split up the families
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so that they can take you on board and they can raise you to what they want you to be
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exactly do you get what i'm saying so now you're not with your husband and your and your children
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raising them how you want they're going to take them from young yeah for me for me i think you
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don't get to be a traditional woman anymore i think for me no i think women choose not to be
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traditional women that is true but it's also a bit of both no i think i think women kind of use
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excuses for yeah yeah yeah like okay i'll give you an example one in three women have had an
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abortion do traditional women go abort their children they wouldn't have done that no and
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so it's like those those are like we constantly make choice after choice after choice that makes
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us less all by yourself even if you're you get out in the world at 18 there's nothing stopping you
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from learning how to cook learning how to clean so you know studying what men want men study what
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women want all the time there's a million self-improvement things for guys there's a million
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dating courses for guys all the women dating like self-help shit it's literally just reaffirming
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women there's no actual actionable steps it's just like be confident yeah and society can lead you
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to be exactly what i just said but then on the other hand is what you just said is for you to fight
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for what's right you can either go down the easy path or the hard path it's up to you and what
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you choose to do as a woman i think like feminist what is it called feminism has ruined a lot of
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like traditional women and as has ruined us as well um i'll give an example even like working
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i'll give an example working um now i'm working as them as a mom and you're working as a dad sorry
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who's gonna take care of the kids yeah exactly now someone else gonna program our children and not just
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that i'm paying tax and he's paying tax it's it's we're trapped it's it's not supposed to i feel like
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but that's why i think being like a housewife when you have kids is actually essential like i think
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that is so important to just be with your kids during those at least during those first like
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very incremental years of their lives like i'm not saying it just for sure i'm saying because i
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actually want to look after you my kids the thing is women have always worked they just worked in the
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home true and the man pays a lot of times like women like they think they're just going to do nothing
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as a housewife but it's so true like you know what our grandmothers great grandmothers had to
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maybe great great grandmothers great great like they worked on the farm yeah i want an allotment i want like
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all of this when i at my house i'm not here you're going to be sitting listen i don't even do that
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now i don't sit on my ass that's the thing so i know what i bring to the table i i cater to my man
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literally in this day and age you have social media as well so if you're sitting at home as a as a you
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know stay at home mom yeah you can also have your own business you can there's so many things that you
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can do how do you how do you cater to your man if you don't care what men want
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because i don't care what other men want i care what he wants yeah but most men are the same
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well he's not i have a question for you if you think you're an average woman why wouldn't you date
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an average man like a bus driver that's an average man the reason why is because i don't aspire to
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stay average that's why that's why i am i want to become an above average person so if i just date
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an average man more than likely we are going to stay on that level yeah but how old are you you said
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you're 23 23 yeah you're only going to get less average from now you're not going to get better do
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you think so no you're i mean women fertility you're just going to get less and less fertile the older you
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get like women like if you look at women on dating apps like half of your options are gone by 30.
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like half of the options you have at like 21 or 22. if you look at like men from the ages of 20 to 80
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they ask them what age they find women the most attractive it's like 22 23. and some say 18. some
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say lower than 18. if you don't tell them the age but like actually yeah it's just gonna get worse
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like you you have the most value you're ever gonna have about now really yeah i mean personally i feel
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like i'm doing that work right now it's not a thing where i'm just sitting on my bum just doing
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nothing not trying to manage myself i'm definitely doing the work now and i'm hopeful of the fact that
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i will actually find someone because um yeah that's what i definitely feel like i will find someone
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before that time i'm not like a silly girl that just sits down and does nothing i'm realistic i know
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the actionable steps that i need to take i'm taking those steps and it's definitely working for me
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and i'm curious what steps are you taking so one thing i'm definitely trying to do is lose weight i
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definitely want to get in shape another thing i'm trying to do is i want to learn how to cook
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especially traditional food another thing i'm trying to do is grow closer with god as well
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i feel like you know when you're closer to god that's when you actually reach your peak of femininity
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and uh what else how much weight do you want to lose i'm a size 12 right now i want to be a size 10.
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size 10 yeah okay and like how much do you cook in a week how much do i cook i cook once a week only
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because i work from no yeah i cook once a week um yeah it's not like my cooking skills are bad i just
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want to my cooking skills actually good when would you like to have lost the weight by i want to lose
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it by the end of this year okay you can come back into this year yeah i'll be skinny sized then
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come back we do we're pro self-improvement here so no i think that's great but i i just think a lot
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of times like like women we always think we're going to get better tomorrow and when like honestly it's
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better to cash out when you're young i think that's what i'm doing yeah i think that's what
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i'm doing do you mean like if you find somebody just hold on to them yeah yeah yeah i would agree
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yeah because the other thing let's let's show can we bring up the same video same video of the girl
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i just want to point something out um yeah i just want to show them like i just want her picture
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that's all i want on the screen like i'm not going to play it the one we were watching before
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um it can be the second one too if you want i just want her picture the girl
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i can't see i've got terrible eyes i'm blind to show that's me getting old
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all right actually actually first first i want to say what do you rank that girl one to ten
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i think she's really pretty okay i think she'll be like an eight yeah her age is what's hindering
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her but yeah you can tell she's an older lady but she's very attractive i want i want to hear from
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the guy what do you rate her one to ten actually i want to hear from you oh can every guy zoom in
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okay wait wait actually wait wait i'm gonna have all the girls rate her and then i'm gonna have the
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guys rate her so you said eight does anyone think she's lower than an eight i still can't see her face
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can you zoom in well obviously basing it purely on just her face right yeah you guys saw her earlier
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right in the other video play it for a second just so they can see your face 50 000 plus comments posted
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on social i only saw a handful that even considered the possibility of a bus owner being a more
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aspirational position and recognizing that i am actually speaking and you can pause it okay so one
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one to ten no i'm gonna i'm gonna say i'm gonna say seven seven okay i'm so sorry i literally cannot
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see her face yeah can you zoom in king or can you google her maybe uh let's see i think it's in the title
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uh e e bonnie williams e bonnie k what i'm sorry if i said that wrong i don't pronounce names well
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okay blessing can you move for a sec um can you zoom in at all
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okay oh here we go be able to can you guys see her now yeah i'd say seven okay i'd say like a solid
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seven there okay uh where what do you think i would say an eight eight okay what do you think seven okay
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no no no not guys yet you i'd say the seven seven i still can't see but i think she's really cute she's
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got a cute face cute nose yeah i'd say maybe eight yeah eight okay i'll say about eight yeah eight i
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think seven seven okay so that can i think there's more eights than this like 7.5 is the average okay
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what do you what do you rate her this just appearance wise yeah yeah appearance that's seven back in the
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day she probably was like a nine okay seven king what do you rate her come on six six okay what do you
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guys rate her six six okay so the guys say six they're mostly six six point two so what do you rate her well um
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so how old do you guys think she is she looks 40 40 i'm guessing yeah like 46 i think she's probably about
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40 but she looks a bit younger yeah so she's 39 so so because she's 39 i'd say she's like a five yeah
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smart oh really yeah yeah yeah no i think look based on her looks though not her age but age plays a part
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yeah but age kind of plays a part you think she's a five so what you really think she's a five when you
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look at her yeah yeah if she was 29 if she was 20 what would you rate her eight but she's not 20
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she's 40. oh but that's not based on her looks and that's based on her age but i think it's just purely
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based on her picture well i think she looks old what's so you don't look a bit older
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the younger that you go the higher you'd rate her yeah so basically old people are not cutie
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basically old people can't be beautiful i think you think i didn't say old people can't i didn't say
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old people can't go above five no no no no no old women can't go above women are not as cute yeah
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old men and men age like wine women age like is this like have you seen me along like but is this
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something we're in struggle with as women wait wait wait wait wait wait wait guys guys stop stop um
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so this is the thing women insert exception this one woman that looks good it's like
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come on but if most of the people in the room would rate her a seven into eight and it's only you that's
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rated her five doesn't that make her pretty hot most of the men rated her six so mine's slightly lower
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than so like six that's above five so wouldn't she be above average or pretty since most of us if we're
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speaking on a general sense yeah i mean you could you could say six but like that's not that different
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than a five i just think when you're 40 it's like minus a point i think there's like your looks and
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then you lose a point when you're old that's that's what i think is it something like like as as women
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like we're all pretty similar ages but is it something like as women like we're we're aware of
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feeling like less beautiful as we get older like yeah do you guys think you're getting prettier the
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older you get yeah but then looks brings an age so when you see but what if you're 20 and you look old
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because i've seen that a lot yeah or if you're 40 and you look young yeah because i've seen that just
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and i look younger as i've got older actually i mean we could we could talk about exceptions or we
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could talk about the rule like most people look their age you know