JustPearlyThings - An Average Woman Doesn't Want to Date an Average Man

00:00:00.000 now when it gets hard they're running away so you get married back in the days they will work

00:00:04.720 and work and work until we can make it and that's why women bring less to the table because that 1.00

00:00:10.260 used to be the thing that the man got even if she wasn't a virgin he's like you know what if we get

00:00:14.440 married she cannot leave me but now 80 percent of women are 80 percent of women half of marriages 1.00

00:00:21.700 end in divorce and women leave 80 percent of the time children with them and they take the kids and 0.99

00:00:25.920 their money so that's why we see less and less men getting married today but we also have to look

00:00:31.020 at why is the generation society also they're not teaching you in schools what are they teaching

00:00:37.160 you they're not teaching you how to how to how to wash how to sew how to do all of these things as

00:00:41.980 a woman so when you come out of school you don't know what you're doing your mom and your dad's 0.98

00:00:45.940 not together do you know what i mean i think i think there's an agenda right but but it still

00:00:51.500 doesn't change the product yeah and and the truth is the product of of women as a whole is just worse 1.00

00:00:57.080 than ever before no i agree and also factor in the fact that everything is very convenient so like

00:01:01.460 you've got a dishwasher you've got you've you can just go out the road everything has changed you

00:01:06.040 don't even have to have those skills anymore because it's not it's not a necessity back then

00:01:10.240 it was a necessity to have these skills yeah but the problem is like what kind of i disagree with it and

00:01:13.860 i wish it was like that that's the thing i'm actually super old school in so many ways like

00:01:17.540 i wish so many of the habits we had today would just convert back to how it was i don't actually

00:01:22.600 like the way things are going i don't so but i just have to also be aware of what what we have

00:01:28.800 right now and also to answer your question um about whether it was created i don't think it was

00:01:33.160 something that was created i think it's something that's just natural and just work i think what was

00:01:37.360 created was the idea to actually go against it and go against the family structure i think that's

00:01:42.240 what has been created that's what's happened and i feel like if we go back to like just statistics

00:01:46.160 if we look at modern society today and you know how that divorce rates are skyrocketing what has

00:01:52.760 that done to society like society is literally falling apart do you know what i mean so i feel

00:01:57.220 like it's something that's natural and it's something that works and it's definitely not

00:02:00.500 something that just we just decided let's just create it that's all been done for a reason

00:02:05.840 exactly because your kids are getting taken away from you from young for a reason there's a reason why

00:02:11.080 dishwashers and all of these things have been created is to split up the families 1.00

00:02:15.140 so that they can take you on board and they can raise you to what they want you to be

00:02:20.480 exactly do you get what i'm saying so now you're not with your husband and your and your children

00:02:24.240 raising them how you want they're going to take them from young yeah for me for me i think you

00:02:28.800 don't get to be a traditional woman anymore i think for me no i think women choose not to be 0.99

00:02:33.020 traditional women that is true but it's also a bit of both no i think i think women kind of use 1.00

00:02:38.800 excuses for yeah yeah yeah like okay i'll give you an example one in three women have had an 0.97

00:02:42.940 abortion do traditional women go abort their children they wouldn't have done that no and 1.00

00:02:48.020 so it's like those those are like we constantly make choice after choice after choice that makes

00:02:51.840 us less all by yourself even if you're you get out in the world at 18 there's nothing stopping you

00:02:56.120 from learning how to cook learning how to clean so you know studying what men want men study what

00:03:01.100 women want all the time there's a million self-improvement things for guys there's a million 1.00

00:03:05.480 dating courses for guys all the women dating like self-help shit it's literally just reaffirming 0.99

00:03:11.180 women there's no actual actionable steps it's just like be confident yeah and society can lead you 0.99

00:03:17.180 to be exactly what i just said but then on the other hand is what you just said is for you to fight

00:03:21.260 for what's right you can either go down the easy path or the hard path it's up to you and what

00:03:26.940 you choose to do as a woman i think like feminist what is it called feminism has ruined a lot of 0.91

00:03:34.580 like traditional women and as has ruined us as well um i'll give an example even like working 1.00

00:03:39.900 i'll give an example working um now i'm working as them as a mom and you're working as a dad sorry

00:03:46.980 who's gonna take care of the kids yeah exactly now someone else gonna program our children and not just

00:03:51.540 that i'm paying tax and he's paying tax it's it's we're trapped it's it's not supposed to i feel like

00:03:58.500 but that's why i think being like a housewife when you have kids is actually essential like i think

00:04:03.140 that is so important to just be with your kids during those at least during those first like

00:04:07.940 very incremental years of their lives like i'm not saying it just for sure i'm saying because i

00:04:12.020 actually want to look after you my kids the thing is women have always worked they just worked in the 1.00

00:04:16.900 home true and the man pays a lot of times like women like they think they're just going to do nothing 1.00

00:04:22.180 as a housewife but it's so true like you know what our grandmothers great grandmothers had to

00:04:28.100 maybe great great grandmothers great great like they worked on the farm yeah i want an allotment i want like

00:04:33.460 all of this when i at my house i'm not here you're going to be sitting listen i don't even do that 0.95

00:04:37.300 now i don't sit on my ass that's the thing so i know what i bring to the table i i cater to my man 0.89

00:04:42.740 literally in this day and age you have social media as well so if you're sitting at home as a as a you 0.99

00:04:47.940 know stay at home mom yeah you can also have your own business you can there's so many things that you

00:04:52.980 can do how do you how do you cater to your man if you don't care what men want 1.00

00:04:56.660 because i don't care what other men want i care what he wants yeah but most men are the same

00:05:02.820 well he's not i have a question for you if you think you're an average woman why wouldn't you date 1.00

00:05:09.380 an average man like a bus driver that's an average man the reason why is because i don't aspire to

00:05:15.460 stay average that's why that's why i am i want to become an above average person so if i just date

00:05:21.300 an average man more than likely we are going to stay on that level yeah but how old are you you said

00:05:25.220 you're 23 23 yeah you're only going to get less average from now you're not going to get better do

00:05:30.100 you think so no you're i mean women fertility you're just going to get less and less fertile the older you 1.00

00:05:35.380 get like women like if you look at women on dating apps like half of your options are gone by 30. 0.94

00:05:41.780 like half of the options you have at like 21 or 22. if you look at like men from the ages of 20 to 80

00:05:47.620 they ask them what age they find women the most attractive it's like 22 23. and some say 18. some

00:05:53.300 say lower than 18. if you don't tell them the age but like actually yeah it's just gonna get worse

00:05:59.780 like you you have the most value you're ever gonna have about now really yeah i mean personally i feel

00:06:04.020 like i'm doing that work right now it's not a thing where i'm just sitting on my bum just doing

00:06:08.020 nothing not trying to manage myself i'm definitely doing the work now and i'm hopeful of the fact that

00:06:12.740 i will actually find someone because um yeah that's what i definitely feel like i will find someone

00:06:18.180 before that time i'm not like a silly girl that just sits down and does nothing i'm realistic i know

00:06:22.820 the actionable steps that i need to take i'm taking those steps and it's definitely working for me

00:06:28.180 and i'm curious what steps are you taking so one thing i'm definitely trying to do is lose weight i

00:06:32.980 definitely want to get in shape another thing i'm trying to do is i want to learn how to cook

00:06:37.220 especially traditional food another thing i'm trying to do is grow closer with god as well

00:06:41.860 i feel like you know when you're closer to god that's when you actually reach your peak of femininity

00:06:47.380 and uh what else how much weight do you want to lose i'm a size 12 right now i want to be a size 10.

00:06:52.820 size 10 yeah okay and like how much do you cook in a week how much do i cook i cook once a week only

00:06:58.340 because i work from no yeah i cook once a week um yeah it's not like my cooking skills are bad i just

00:07:04.340 want to my cooking skills actually good when would you like to have lost the weight by i want to lose

00:07:08.820 it by the end of this year okay you can come back into this year yeah i'll be skinny sized then

00:07:14.980 come back we do we're pro self-improvement here so no i think that's great but i i just think a lot

00:07:20.500 of times like like women we always think we're going to get better tomorrow and when like honestly it's 1.00

00:07:25.460 better to cash out when you're young i think that's what i'm doing yeah i think that's what

00:07:29.860 i'm doing do you mean like if you find somebody just hold on to them yeah yeah yeah i would agree

00:07:35.380 yeah because the other thing let's let's show can we bring up the same video same video of the girl 0.99

00:07:39.860 i just want to point something out um yeah i just want to show them like i just want her picture

00:07:46.660 that's all i want on the screen like i'm not going to play it the one we were watching before

00:07:50.180 um it can be the second one too if you want i just want her picture the girl

00:08:01.860 okay you see how old do you guys think she is

00:08:04.740 i can't see i've got terrible eyes i'm blind to show that's me getting old

00:08:07.940 all right actually actually first first i want to say what do you rank that girl one to ten 0.99

00:08:11.540 i think she's really pretty okay i think she'll be like an eight yeah her age is what's hindering

00:08:20.020 her but yeah you can tell she's an older lady but she's very attractive i want i want to hear from 1.00

00:08:24.180 the guy what do you rate her one to ten actually i want to hear from you oh can every guy zoom in

00:08:30.020 okay wait wait actually wait wait i'm gonna have all the girls rate her and then i'm gonna have the 1.00

00:08:33.780 guys rate her so you said eight does anyone think she's lower than an eight i still can't see her face 1.00

00:08:38.660 can you zoom in well obviously basing it purely on just her face right yeah you guys saw her earlier

00:08:43.780 right in the other video play it for a second just so they can see your face 50 000 plus comments posted

00:08:50.820 on social i only saw a handful that even considered the possibility of a bus owner being a more

00:08:57.860 aspirational position and recognizing that i am actually speaking and you can pause it okay so one

00:09:04.340 one to ten no i'm gonna i'm gonna say i'm gonna say seven seven okay i'm so sorry i literally cannot

00:09:10.660 see her face yeah can you zoom in king or can you google her maybe uh let's see i think it's in the title

00:09:22.420 uh e e bonnie williams e bonnie k what i'm sorry if i said that wrong i don't pronounce names well

00:09:36.820 okay blessing can you move for a sec um can you zoom in at all

00:09:56.260 okay oh here we go be able to can you guys see her now yeah i'd say seven okay i'd say like a solid

00:10:11.060 seven there okay uh where what do you think i would say an eight eight okay what do you think seven okay

00:10:18.980 no no no not guys yet you i'd say the seven seven i still can't see but i think she's really cute she's 0.99

00:10:24.820 got a cute face cute nose yeah i'd say maybe eight yeah eight okay i'll say about eight yeah eight i

00:10:30.580 think seven seven okay so that can i think there's more eights than this like 7.5 is the average okay

00:10:37.460 what do you what do you rate her this just appearance wise yeah yeah appearance that's seven back in the 1.00

00:10:44.020 day she probably was like a nine okay seven king what do you rate her come on six six okay what do you 1.00

00:10:53.620 guys rate her six six okay so the guys say six they're mostly six six point two so what do you rate her well um

00:11:10.340 so how old do you guys think she is she looks 40 40 i'm guessing yeah like 46 i think she's probably about 0.99

00:11:18.180 40 but she looks a bit younger yeah so she's 39 so so because she's 39 i'd say she's like a five yeah 0.63

00:11:26.500 smart oh really yeah yeah yeah no i think look based on her looks though not her age but age plays a part

00:11:33.860 yeah but age kind of plays a part you think she's a five so what you really think she's a five when you 1.00

00:11:39.460 look at her yeah yeah if she was 29 if she was 20 what would you rate her eight but she's not 20 0.98

00:11:48.180 she's 40. oh but that's not based on her looks and that's based on her age but i think it's just purely

00:11:52.900 based on her picture well i think she looks old what's so you don't look a bit older

00:11:59.300 the younger that you go the higher you'd rate her yeah so basically old people are not cutie 0.99

00:12:04.900 basically old people can't be beautiful i think you think i didn't say old people can't i didn't say

00:12:10.500 old people can't go above five no no no no no old women can't go above women are not as cute yeah 1.00

00:12:17.140 old men and men age like wine women age like is this like have you seen me along like but is this

00:12:24.260 something we're in struggle with as women wait wait wait wait wait wait wait guys guys stop stop um

00:12:32.580 so this is the thing women insert exception this one woman that looks good it's like 1.00

00:12:39.620 come on but if most of the people in the room would rate her a seven into eight and it's only you that's

00:12:44.900 rated her five doesn't that make her pretty hot most of the men rated her six so mine's slightly lower

00:12:50.020 than so like six that's above five so wouldn't she be above average or pretty since most of us if we're 1.00

00:12:55.700 speaking on a general sense yeah i mean you could you could say six but like that's not that different

00:13:00.580 than a five i just think when you're 40 it's like minus a point i think there's like your looks and

00:13:04.580 then you lose a point when you're old that's that's what i think is it something like like as as women 1.00

00:13:09.460 like we're all pretty similar ages but is it something like as women like we're we're aware of

00:13:13.700 feeling like less beautiful as we get older like yeah do you guys think you're getting prettier the

00:13:19.700 older you get yeah but then looks brings an age so when you see but what if you're 20 and you look old

00:13:38.340 because i've seen that a lot yeah or if you're 40 and you look young yeah because i've seen that just

00:13:44.020 and i look younger as i've got older actually i mean we could we could talk about exceptions or we

00:13:48.180 could talk about the rule like most people look their age you know

JustPearlyThings - May 09, 2023

An Average Woman Doesn't Want to Date an Average Man

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