JustPearlyThings - December 26, 2022


Andrew Tate Explains The Concept Of Cheating


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Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

235.75574

Word count

2,153

Sentence count

192

Harmful content

Misogyny

15

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Hate speech

19

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Summary

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In this episode, I talk about cheating and why it's a thing. I also discuss why cheating is a bad thing and why you should be allowed to cheat on your partner if you're not in love with them. And I explain why you shouldn't have to be a high status man to cheat.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 When would you say, when would you say it's too far?
00:00:03.340 I'm just curious if there's a line that you would,
00:00:06.040 like if he spends money on another girl, if he like,
00:00:08.800 when does it, and other second question,
00:00:11.200 do you think that men ever fall in love with side chicks? 1.00
00:00:13.640 Very good question.
00:00:14.760 And this is a long and in-depth answer,
00:00:16.760 but it's a good question.
00:00:17.600 Let me peel my Clementine, but no,
00:00:19.440 but it's a good question where it's too far.
00:00:20.800 I think publicly disrespecting is too far.
00:00:23.340 So like, you'll notice, let's take the Moscow G, all right?
00:00:25.900 Let's take an oligarch, billionaire from Moscow.
00:00:27.740 He has his wife.
00:00:28.820 He has the girls he's in the club with.
00:00:30.400 The girls he's in the club with
00:00:31.480 wouldn't fucking dare message his wife. 0.54
00:00:34.280 They wouldn't dare step out of line.
00:00:36.120 Like they know their place, right?
00:00:37.440 So if there's a hierarchy and they know their place,
00:00:38.960 that's one way of doing it.
00:00:40.580 Spending money on a girl, certainly, yeah. 0.50
00:00:42.420 Because men show love primarily through our hard work,
00:00:45.580 not just through our resource, but through our hard work.
00:00:47.920 If you take a man who's not particularly rich,
00:00:49.320 he shows his wife love by getting up every day,
00:00:52.140 going to work nine to five,
00:00:53.520 working his ass off and paying those bills. 0.72
00:00:55.300 That's how he shows love.
00:00:56.440 That's why he does it for his wife and his children.
00:00:58.820 Most men are out here working bullshit jobs, carrying trash. 1.00
00:01:01.480 They're doing that to show love.
00:01:03.320 So giving money, yeah, that would be a far more scary indicator than just sex.
00:01:08.120 Let me give you all an example.
00:01:09.620 I don't know if you all know my history,
00:01:10.720 but I used to run a webcam business long time ago.
00:01:12.360 Don't want to talk about it, blah, blah, blah.
00:01:13.360 But I had a bunch of girls who used to sit online and talk to guys and they had laptops, right?
00:01:17.280 Like, this is a long time ago.
00:01:18.780 And I used to sit and say to some of the webcam girls, I'd say,
00:01:21.780 this man who is sitting in and logging in every night and sending you money every day and telling you he's obsessed with you from the other side of the world and missing out on time with his family to sit here and talk to you and send you money.
00:01:34.180 That is more cheating than if he just went out and banged something.
00:01:37.120 If he went out and banged something and came home, then done.
00:01:39.840 But he's sitting here giving you his time, his money, his affection.
00:01:44.140 That's cheating for a man, for a man to sit there and give money and time away, right? 0.55
00:01:47.940 So you have to stop this idea of sexual exclusivity.
00:01:50.760 Yes, that's for females. 1.00
00:01:51.780 That's how females show their love to men. 1.00
00:01:53.300 It's not how high status, at least, males show their love to females.
00:01:56.760 And anyone who wants to disagree with me, call me wrong, call me misogynist, whatever bullshit.
00:02:00.380 Look at a history book.
00:02:01.920 Every king, every sultan, every conqueror, every emperor, every knight, all of them.
00:02:06.200 All of them had maidens, wives, all of them.
00:02:09.280 That's history.
00:02:10.060 What level of G do you have to be to be allowed to cheat?
00:02:13.020 It's not about even being allowed to cheat.
00:02:15.120 I'm not even saying that.
00:02:15.860 And it also depends on the partner you're with.
00:02:17.340 I'm not trying to sit here and advocate for men to run around and fuck a bunch of women. 1.00
00:02:19.980 I'm not saying that.
00:02:20.720 That's what you're doing, man.
00:02:21.540 No, but I'm not.
00:02:22.260 No, no, no.
00:02:22.760 Let him explain.
00:02:23.840 Let him land.
00:02:24.340 Let him land.
00:02:24.840 It's about to come.
00:02:25.740 Now, sister, let him.
00:02:26.760 No, but I'm not.
00:02:28.140 I'm not.
00:02:28.720 What I'm actually trying to do is describe the baseline unfortunate realities of human dynamics.
00:02:34.380 And I'm trying to explain now to the world that any woman can get a man who will not cheat on her
00:02:39.080 if she's prepared to sacrifice a bunch of other things, perhaps, right?
00:02:43.180 In the olden days, it was different.
00:02:44.760 The world was a different place.
00:02:46.780 It was a completely different place.
00:02:47.680 And it was better.
00:02:48.800 Now it's all fucked up.
00:02:50.100 It's fucked up on every level.
00:02:51.840 And men, especially the high-status men, most of them have struggled so hard to become
00:02:56.360 high-status.
00:02:57.280 They've been through so much shit to get where they are.
00:02:59.700 It's like telling him, if you climb this mountain, you can go to a candy store.
00:03:03.080 And he climbs to the top of the mountain.
00:03:04.420 And the second he's in the candy store, after one piece of candy, that bitch is saying, no, 1.00
00:03:08.560 no more candy.
00:03:09.620 He's like, no, I just climbed this mountain.
00:03:11.420 I just got rich.
00:03:12.360 I just went through X, Y, Z.
00:03:14.260 I finally got here.
00:03:15.500 I'm finally in the candy store.
00:03:16.660 Now you're telling me I can only have one piece of candy?
00:03:18.360 Okay.
00:03:18.660 What man's without a beer that?
00:03:19.900 Do you think that men owe a woman loyalty if she was there from the beginning?
00:03:24.720 Absolutely.
00:03:25.420 They absolutely owe that woman loyalty.
00:03:27.260 Oh, sorry.
00:03:27.420 Sexual loyalty.
00:03:28.340 That's what I meant.
00:03:28.960 Sexual exclusivity is different.
00:03:31.660 Men, sorry.
00:03:32.340 I mean, sexual exclusivity and loyalty are completely disconnected for males.
00:03:37.940 Nobody wants to talk about this, but it's the unfortunate reality.
00:03:39.820 It's true.
00:03:40.620 I'm telling you, you can get a man.
00:03:43.100 He can go on a holiday, can fuck some stripper, can come home, and you can lie detector test
00:03:48.420 him.
00:03:48.680 Do you love your wife?
00:03:49.520 Would you die for your wife?
00:03:50.560 Would you take a bullet for your wife?
00:03:52.040 He'll pass the lie detector test.
00:03:53.760 He loves her with all his heart.
00:03:54.860 He'd do anything for her.
00:03:56.440 It's just pussy. 1.00
00:03:57.560 It's not a big deal.
00:03:58.560 It's different.
00:03:58.940 I feel like, I guess my question would be then is like, how do you view sex?
00:04:03.160 Because I like sex at the end of the day is spiritual unification.
00:04:07.240 I feel like I've gone through a lot of different stuff.
00:04:09.120 I've had a lot of different experiences where I did not value myself.
00:04:12.360 So I never had a man that valued me.
00:04:14.240 So it's like, yeah, you rack up guys and guys, you shouldn't be texting back or whatever.
00:04:18.660 But I feel like there, I understand that there is a difference with how men view sex and how
00:04:23.720 they move around in the world.
00:04:24.920 But it's like, sex is a sacred thing, no matter a male or female is doing it.
00:04:29.740 So that's why for me, like my biggest, like the hardest for me to understand is like, this is such a sacred thing.
00:04:36.840 And it's just being, it's like taking a piss for a guy.
00:04:39.560 Can I just say something?
00:04:40.700 Are you sure you weren't making love to somebody who was having sex? 0.79
00:04:43.760 I'm sorry?
00:04:44.420 Are you sure that you weren't making love to somebody that was just having sex?
00:04:48.620 A and T, that's a nice question there.
00:04:51.160 No, that's what it sounds like to me.
00:04:53.600 It sounds like as women, they make love to men that are just having sex. 1.00
00:05:00.220 Right.
00:05:01.260 That's the difference.
00:05:02.280 That's not the point.
00:05:03.040 But my thing is, okay, not all the time.
00:05:05.980 So I think when men hear that, though, it's like if it was sacred to you, you would have waited until you were married.
00:05:10.460 But it's like, right, no, I get that.
00:05:12.940 But the reality is, is that the world is not so black and white.
00:05:16.320 So I understand that there are these things in place that worked and made sense.
00:05:20.540 And now we're approaching an era that, like, we don't know what's going to happen.
00:05:23.620 But there's gray area.
00:05:24.700 You've had sex. 0.79
00:05:25.420 I've had sex.
00:05:26.020 She's had sex. 0.95
00:05:26.660 We've had sex with different guys.
00:05:27.880 That doesn't mean that we're damaged goods.
00:05:29.360 We're used goods.
00:05:29.960 I understand status is a big part of that.
00:05:31.660 I understand that sex is viewed differently.
00:05:33.380 But I feel like you should not, if you're looking at face value, I can understand why you'd be judged from your past.
00:05:40.140 But if I'm a guy interested in you, I don't care about what you've done.
00:05:43.420 But that's the thing.
00:05:45.020 Men do, though.
00:05:46.420 That's the thing.
00:05:47.500 Like, a virgin is more valuable to a man than a girl that's had sex with multiple men. 0.86
00:05:53.140 Like, it just is what it is.
00:05:54.480 There's a limit.
00:05:55.100 But the modern man's solution is not a virgin. 0.52
00:05:58.180 A modern man needs a partner. 0.97
00:05:59.320 Somebody that's actually smart and can survive in the world of today.
00:06:02.160 And that's going to be a lived woman. 0.99
00:06:03.940 The men with the most choice are going to pick women that are more pure in general. 0.81
00:06:08.020 The ones that are already self-made, I guess so.
00:06:09.640 But that's the thing.
00:06:10.380 The reality is that there's a lot of men out there, especially in the world that we live in today,
00:06:15.360 that need a partner. 0.96
00:06:16.400 So it's time for those masses of men to start respecting women for the role they can play in their lives.
00:06:20.760 I don't think average men expect women to be virgins.
00:06:23.700 Do you know what it is?
00:06:24.220 But it's this rhetoric that actually then is pumped into these minds and creates what people now complain about,
00:06:28.840 the misogynistic world.
00:06:30.220 That's what it is.
00:06:31.060 Even in schools, it's like permeated through it all and perpetuated.
00:06:34.320 Why is it misogynistic for men to prefer women that are more pure?
00:06:36.700 It's not that it's, but it's not, that's not the problem.
00:06:39.040 The problem is now, listen, the maths is very simple.
00:06:41.940 You've got people like Andrew Tate talking about these things with such clarity,
00:06:45.760 and it makes so much sense because it is true, right?
00:06:48.540 And then you have men that are in these situations where just average, working an average job,
00:06:53.260 and they cannot fulfill whatever definition is called to be a man in these definitions.
00:06:57.820 Yes, they can, and that's what he said.
00:06:59.360 He did say that.
00:07:00.120 Yes, they can.
00:07:01.020 A nine to five man can do it.
00:07:02.600 But then again, but wait, wait.
00:07:04.560 This is the thing.
00:07:05.500 What we're talking about as a man, and this is why I say it's very important for us to understand
00:07:08.940 the person that we're speaking to, and I'm very glad that you clarified everything that you mean.
00:07:12.140 Not every man is like Andrew Tate.
00:07:14.360 Not every man is going to be able to even realistically demand for certain things from a woman. 0.89
00:07:19.760 So the same way women need to compromise if it comes to a man who is going to cheat on her 1.00
00:07:24.160 because he's a top G, is the same way men are going to have to compromise and stop blabbing about purity
00:07:28.760 when they can't demand for that.
00:07:30.880 You just didn't get none of what you were saying.
00:07:33.680 I made my point.
00:07:34.460 That was the whole point.
00:07:35.540 What point?
00:07:36.440 Well, duh.
00:07:37.040 Because you just quoted him.
00:07:38.220 You just said about his thing, and you didn't know.
00:07:39.640 And not only did I get clout, I made my point.
00:07:42.200 I said the average man does not have what he takes to demand for a virgin or more.
00:07:47.580 Hang on a minute.
00:07:48.520 He already said that.
00:07:49.580 He already said that.
00:07:50.140 And I reiterated in my own words for my own content for my page, and so watch.
00:07:53.860 Do you know what it is, right?
00:07:54.520 Is that too many women, they see regular guys, and they feel they're settling. 0.98
00:07:57.920 You're not settling.
00:07:58.980 You're getting what you deserve.
00:08:00.380 But you can't be asking for a virgin, though.
00:08:02.360 You're not settling.
00:08:03.500 But the difference is men know this.
00:08:05.760 Like, most average men aren't demanding.
00:08:07.340 The average men never say what they want. 0.99
00:08:09.360 They don't even deserve a virgin. 0.95
00:08:10.000 Kind of.
00:08:11.000 But the difference is the difference.
00:08:12.080 But that's what's enough of a saying.
00:08:13.000 Wait, wait, wait.
00:08:13.480 The difference is average men know they don't deserve a 10.
00:08:16.320 They know they don't deserve an 8.
00:08:17.580 They know they don't even deserve a 7.
00:08:19.140 And they still go messaging them on the stories and all this dumb stuff that is just ugly.
00:08:23.120 Most men in history haven't even reproduced.
00:08:26.520 And so it's like men know.
00:08:28.080 But the women are the ones that are delusional. 1.00
00:08:30.420 There's regular men out there.
00:08:31.700 There's regular men out there.
00:08:32.580 Chris Hemsworth.
00:08:34.340 Chris Hemsworth.
00:08:35.500 There's regular men out there that will have you down. 1.00
00:08:38.280 Yeah, but can I just say, people are watching Tate not understanding that Tate is part of
00:08:43.800 that 1% of success and they think that they can demand the same thing.
00:08:48.440 They can demand purity.
00:08:49.920 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok and we are demonetized on a daily basis on
00:08:58.300 this platform.
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