JustPearlyThings - Andrew Tate On Male Infidelity

00:00:00.000 Can I ask you something? What does the woman want in your eyes? What do you think? And what's the game you give for the boys? 0.95

00:00:05.660 I'm going to tell you, but before that, I need another Clementine, and I need to give half to our friend here because she just rolled her eyes at me. 1.00

00:00:10.940 And I'm perspicacious. I notice everything. She doesn't realize that I'm a ninja. I detect these things. Even when I'm looking directly ahead, I can detect it.

00:00:16.740 So I'm going to give her some of my Clementine, and she's going to feel better. So I'm going to get a Clementine for you. Would you like some Clementine, my dear? 0.91

00:00:22.640 I'm sure.

00:00:23.500 Do you want some Clementine? 1.00

00:00:24.020 I just, I think for me, it's like...

00:00:25.720 I asked you a question. Would you like some Clementine? 0.57

00:00:26.640 Yeah, I would love some.

00:00:27.420 You want some Clementine? 1.00

00:00:28.180 Yeah.

00:00:28.380 We're going to hook it up. Clementine's coming. All right. Go on. Continue.

00:00:32.040 Okay.

00:00:32.600 No, I mean, I just feel like this is definitely a different conversation for me because I'm very open-minded.

00:00:40.060 I love hearing different perspective, and I do feel like this is a newer idea.

00:00:45.720 Like you said, it was in the last 30, 40 years. This is a new concept. We don't know how it's going to end.

00:00:50.240 I just know from my experience, other women that I've met as well, it's like the reason for even like relationships, 0.99

00:00:58.100 why they're not lasting is because people don't want to put up with the disrespect.

00:01:01.680 And like, even when you were talking about like, oh, it's okay for me to cheat, but not for you.

00:01:05.660 So my thing is, is like, why not have transparency and have it be polygamous, polyamorous, whatever works for you?

00:01:11.880 That's like to me where it loses me with the traditional stuff.

00:01:15.020 I get it.

00:01:15.360 It's like, why can't we have transparency if I sign up for that? Cool.

00:01:18.380 So how does it...

00:01:19.060 No man in a million years. Let's all be realistic, right?

00:01:22.000 No man in a million years is going to meet a girl he likes and go, I want to be polyamorous. 0.97

00:01:25.380 Like, come on, that's gay. Let's cut this bullshit. 1.00

00:01:27.320 So let's be realistic. How does a man show love to a woman? 1.00

00:01:30.720 Tell me.

00:01:31.340 Exclusivity.

00:01:32.020 Wrong.

00:01:33.160 Time, resources, and something else.

00:01:34.840 Time, resources.

00:01:35.800 So that's a good way to start.

00:01:37.600 So sexual exclusivity is how a female shows primarily that she's interested in a man. 0.99

00:01:42.760 He's the only man who has sexual access to me because I can get pregnant and this man is the only man who can do it.

00:01:46.940 That's how it's done.

00:01:48.180 A man, yes, I'm not saying all men can cheat.

00:01:50.560 I'm not saying all men should cheat.

00:01:51.540 I'm not saying that. 0.99

00:01:52.120 I'm saying that if I truly love a woman, she won't sit there and go, he shows me his love because he doesn't fuck anyone else. 0.97

00:01:57.860 She'll sit there and go, he shows me his love because my bills are paid. 0.98

00:02:00.840 I'm in a Bentley.

00:02:01.720 I fly private.

00:02:03.080 I go to Dubai anytime I want.

00:02:04.600 I have a Chanel bag.

00:02:05.500 And I'm not talking about just money.

00:02:07.120 I'm talking about resource and a lifestyle as a whole.

00:02:09.340 This is not just me.

00:02:10.200 This is the world and most of the world today.

00:02:11.980 If you go to Moscow and you find a big G, a rich guy, right?

00:02:15.220 He has his wife.

00:02:16.180 She's pushing a Bentley. 0.97

00:02:17.120 She has the kids.

00:02:17.660 She's living in a mansion, whatever. 0.98

00:02:18.620 When he goes to the club with his boys, you think he ain't with 19-year-old strippers? 1.00

00:02:21.000 Of course he fucking is. 1.00

00:02:21.780 Can I ask you? 1.00

00:02:22.100 But she's just like, whatever.

00:02:23.400 Don't care.

00:02:24.080 I'm the one who has the money. 1.00

00:02:25.060 Don't give a shit. 1.00

00:02:25.840 So you have to sit there and to a point, you have to sit and analyze the difference. 1.00

00:02:30.120 When you're saying disrespect, if you're going to go through life as a woman and say,

00:02:33.940 I only care about the sexual exclusivity of my man, then what you're going to end up 1.00

00:02:37.960 doing is having a bunch of failed relationships and fucking loads of dudes. 0.99

00:02:40.360 There has to get a point where you go, you know what? 0.99

00:02:42.140 This guy ticks so many boxes once a year, twice a year. 1.00

00:02:46.060 He's out with his boys, does some dumb shit. 0.99

00:02:47.680 I'm just going to pretend I didn't notice because my bills are paid. 1.00

00:02:49.800 I'm looked after.

00:02:51.080 I can tell he cares about me.

00:02:52.580 If I have a problem, he's going to fix it.

00:02:54.260 He's ticked so many.

00:02:55.300 That's the smart female move as opposed to go, I don't care how good he is to me. 1.00

00:02:59.380 He fucked that bitch once. 1.00

00:03:00.440 So I'm going to leave and I'm going to get another man who I don't love who'll fuck another 1.00

00:03:03.040 bitch anyway. 1.00

00:03:03.640 And then I'll get another man who I don't love who'll fuck another bitch. 1.00

00:03:05.700 And the cycle of dumb shit. 1.00

00:03:07.100 Can I ask? 1.00

00:03:08.400 I have a question.

00:03:11.960 Is there ever cheating that's too far?

00:03:13.880 Like, so if a guy cheats on a girl, is there ever a point where she...

00:03:17.640 Yeah, there's a law of cheating.

00:03:18.700 There's completely a law of cheating.

00:03:19.580 So if he knocks up another girl, would you say that's too far?

00:03:22.280 All right.

00:03:22.620 All right.

00:03:22.880 So first things first, I'm a man of my word.

00:03:24.780 I don't want anyone to think I'm a liar.

00:03:26.580 So here's your Clementine. 1.00

00:03:28.820 Thank you.

00:03:29.440 And he peeled it.

00:03:30.340 I'm a gentleman.

00:03:31.080 I'm a gentleman.

00:03:32.220 Right.

00:03:32.660 So obviously I'm not saying blatantly disrespect your woman, right?

00:03:36.800 She's your woman.

00:03:37.520 She's your queen.

00:03:38.100 She's the most important thing in the world to you.

00:03:39.760 She needs to be treated in a way that she feels that, right?

00:03:44.000 But it's unfortunate because I keep tying back to this baseline point.

00:03:48.020 But the reason I keep going back to this baseline point is to try and explain to everybody at

00:03:50.940 home how simple the world can be if you go back to the baselines of it.

00:03:54.140 Why do men cheat?

00:03:55.640 Most women don't know. 1.00

00:03:56.860 You'll see them all the time.

00:03:57.960 Why do men cheat? 1.00

00:03:58.560 Oh, because men are just stupid. 1.00

00:04:00.200 And why do men fuck girls uglier than their main chick? 1.00

00:04:02.600 Why do men do all this stuff? 1.00

00:04:03.660 Do you know why?

00:04:04.560 I'll tell you why.

00:04:05.440 Let's go back to the first thing I've been saying this whole time.

00:04:07.480 Status.

00:04:08.440 Yeah, that's my chick. 0.82

00:04:09.420 She's home.

00:04:10.300 Took this one home.

00:04:11.480 Yeah, I got that one.

00:04:12.280 She's chasing me.

00:04:12.920 Status.

00:04:13.500 Status.

00:04:14.140 Status. 1.00

00:04:14.640 But it's stupid to females. 1.00

00:04:16.560 I get it. 1.00

00:04:17.300 But that's the male world because sexual access is an easy indicator of status. 0.89

00:04:21.920 So that's one of the reasons they do it, right?

00:04:23.800 So you have to go back into the baseline of why men even cheat in the first place.

00:04:26.300 I'm telling you, if you're a woman, the smartest thing you can do is look after your 1.00

00:04:29.540 man, make him not want to cheat.

00:04:30.780 Be perfect.

00:04:31.760 But there's going to be a time across a 20-year marriage you might just need to be a little

00:04:35.560 bit blind.

00:04:36.640 A little bit.

00:04:37.500 Just a tiny bit.

00:04:38.320 Just don't look at his phone.

00:04:39.420 And you'll be cool.

00:04:40.540 You'll be cool.

00:04:41.460 Just make sure the bills are paid.

00:04:42.660 He does his job as a man.

00:04:43.580 What if you can pay your own bills, though?

00:04:45.040 But this is it.

00:04:46.260 We'll talk about that in a second. 0.98

00:04:47.120 But I'm not saying allow this for some fucking Joe Schmo. 1.00

00:04:49.380 I'm not saying let some fucking loser pick you up, lock you down, and go cheat on you. 1.00

00:04:52.180 That's right. 1.00

00:04:52.320 I'm not saying that.

00:04:53.000 I'm saying if he's a G and he's doing enough of his other jobs.

00:04:55.160 As for you saying, what if you can pay your own bills, then what's the reality you face?

00:04:58.840 Just like I described earlier.

00:04:59.860 I'm going to decide that the thing that I prioritize above everything, above his resource, above the amount he cares for me.

00:05:05.440 You'll see men cheat on a woman and then cry his eyes out trying to get that woman back.

00:05:08.900 He still loves you.

00:05:09.820 It's not the same as if you cheated.

00:05:11.120 He loves you with all his heart.

00:05:12.100 He'd die for you. 1.00

00:05:12.780 He'd take a bullet for you, and he'd still fuck that bitch. 1.00

00:05:14.380 It doesn't matter. 1.00

00:05:15.220 It's a different game for men, right?

00:05:17.260 So you're sitting there going, well, I'm going to prioritize his sexual exclusivity over all of his other attributes. 0.99

00:05:23.420 You're just going to end up having endless failed relationships, fucking too many dudes, and then what's going to happen is your psychology is going to break. 0.99

00:05:31.000 Because females don't like to accept the fact that if you sleep with enough men and you get rid of the stigma around a new dick, your instant answer is constantly new dick. 1.00

00:05:38.640 Ah, he didn't text me today. 1.00

00:05:39.640 Fuck it. 1.00

00:05:40.000 Someone else. 1.00

00:05:40.620 Ah, he was rude to me. 1.00

00:05:41.560 Fuck it. 1.00

00:05:41.840 I'll cheat. 1.00

00:05:42.400 Ah, he was this.

00:05:43.060 I'll get a new boyfriend. 1.00

00:05:43.780 And then you end up just jumping on cock all day, and you're fucking done. 0.99

00:05:47.680 You need to – the reality is you have to come to a point where you get a guy, and he ticks the boxes, and you're like, you know what? 0.99

00:05:51.920 I'm wifey. 0.91

00:05:52.780 I've got the Bentley.

00:05:53.720 He does whatever he does, but my bills are paid.

00:05:55.900 That's it.

00:05:56.300 So when would you say it's too far?

00:06:00.040 I'm just curious if there's a line.

00:06:02.620 Like if he spends money on another girl, if he – like when does it –

00:06:06.120 Okay, that's a good question.

00:06:06.780 And another second question.

00:06:07.920 Do you think that men ever fall in love with side chicks? 1.00

00:06:10.320 Very good question.

00:06:11.040 And this is a long and in-depth answer, but it's a good question.

00:06:14.140 Let me peel my clementine. 1.00

00:06:15.420 But no, but it's a good question.

00:06:16.980 Where is too far?

00:06:17.540 I think publicly disrespecting is too far.

00:06:19.940 So like you'll notice.

00:06:21.380 Let's take the Moscow G, all right?

00:06:22.600 Let's take an oligarch, a billionaire from Moscow.

00:06:24.380 He has his wife.

00:06:25.540 He has the girls he's in the club with. 0.99

00:06:27.120 The girls he's in the club with wouldn't fucking dare message his wife. 1.00

00:06:30.960 They wouldn't dare step out of line. 0.99

00:06:32.880 Like they know their place, right?

00:06:34.140 So if there's a hierarchy and they know their place, that's one way of doing it.

00:06:37.280 Spending money on a girl, certainly, yeah, 0.98

00:06:39.120 because men show love primarily through our hard work.

00:06:42.280 Not just through our resource, but through our hard work.

00:06:44.640 If you take a man who's not particularly rich,

00:06:46.020 he shows his wife love by getting up every day,

00:06:48.860 going to work nine to five, working his ass off, and paying those bills. 0.69

00:06:51.980 That's how he shows love.

00:06:53.160 That's why he does it for his wife and his children. 1.00

00:06:55.580 Most men are out here working bullshit jobs, carrying trash. 1.00

00:06:58.420 They're doing that to show love. 1.00

00:07:00.140 So giving money, yeah, that would be a far more scary indicator than just sex.

00:07:04.880 Let me give you all an example.

00:07:05.900 I don't know if you all know my history, but I used to run a webcam business a long time ago.

00:07:09.120 Don't want to talk about it, blah, blah, blah.

00:07:10.420 But I had a bunch of girls who used to sit online and talk to guys, and they had laptops, right?

00:07:14.480 This is a long time ago.

00:07:15.860 And I used to sit and say to some of the webcam girls, I'd say,

00:07:18.660 this man who is sitting in and logging in every night and sending you money every day

00:07:24.780 and telling you he's obsessed with you from the other side of the world

00:07:27.380 and missing out on time with his family to sit here and talk to you and send you money,

00:07:31.380 that is more cheating than if he just went out and banged something.

00:07:33.840 If he went out and banged something and came home, then done.

00:07:36.800 But he's sitting here giving you his time, his money, his affection.

00:07:40.900 That's cheating for a man, for a man to sit there and give money and time away, right? 0.55

00:07:44.700 So you have to stop this idea of sexual exclusivity.

00:07:47.500 Yes, that's for females. 1.00

00:07:48.520 That's how females show their love to men. 1.00

00:07:50.040 It's not how high status, at least, males show their love to females. 0.98

00:07:53.840 And anyone who wants to disagree with me, call me wrong, call me misogynist, whatever bullshit, 0.96

00:07:57.160 look at a history book. 0.98

00:07:58.380 Every king, every sultan, every conqueror, every emperor, every knight, all of them.

00:08:02.940 All of them had maidens, wives, all of them.

00:08:06.040 That's history.

00:08:06.800 What level of G do you have to be to be allowed to cheat?

00:08:09.720 It's not about even being allowed to cheat.

00:08:11.860 I'm not even saying that.

00:08:12.580 And it also depends on the partner you're with. 1.00

00:08:14.080 I'm not trying to sit here and advocate for men to run around and fuck a bunch of women. 1.00

00:08:16.720 I'm not saying that. 1.00

00:08:17.440 That's what you're doing, man.

00:08:18.280 No, but I'm not.

00:08:18.980 No, no, no.

00:08:19.500 Let him explain.

00:08:20.560 Let him land.

00:08:21.080 Let him land.

00:08:21.560 It's about to come.

00:08:22.500 Now, what's this?

00:08:23.160 Let him land.

00:08:23.840 What I'm actually trying to do is describe the baseline unfortunate realities of human

00:08:30.160 dynamics.

00:08:31.120 And I'm trying to explain now to the world that any woman can get a man who will not cheat

00:08:35.480 on her if she's prepared to sacrifice a bunch of other things, perhaps, right?

00:08:39.920 In the olden days, it was different.

00:08:41.500 The world was a different place.

00:08:43.520 It was a completely different place and it was better. 0.99

00:08:45.540 Now, it's all fucked up. 1.00

00:08:46.840 It's fucked up on every level. 0.99

00:08:48.040 And men, especially the high status men, most of them have struggled so hard to become 0.99

00:08:53.080 high status. 0.99

00:08:54.020 They've been through so much shit to get where they are. 0.99

00:08:56.440 It's like telling him, if you climb this mountain, you can go to a candy store. 0.99

00:08:59.820 And he climbs to the top of the mountain and the second he's in the candy store, after 1.00

00:09:02.840 one piece of candy, that bitch is saying, no, no more candy. 1.00

00:09:06.360 He's like, no, I just climbed this mountain. 1.00

00:09:08.160 I just got rich.

00:09:09.260 I just went through X, Y, Z.

00:09:10.980 I finally got here.

00:09:12.220 I'm finally in the candy store.

00:09:13.400 Now you're telling me I can only have one piece of candy?

00:09:14.820 Okay.

00:09:15.400 What man's going to agree with that?

00:09:16.660 Do you think?

00:09:16.980 Do you think that men owe a woman loyalty if she was there from the beginning?

00:09:21.520 Absolutely.

00:09:22.160 They absolutely owe that woman loyalty.

00:09:24.000 Oh, sorry.

00:09:24.180 Sexual loyalty.

00:09:25.080 That's what I meant.

00:09:25.680 Sexual exclusivity is different.

00:09:28.400 Men, sorry.

00:09:29.080 I mean, sexual exclusivity and loyalty are completely disconnected for males.

00:09:34.680 Nobody wants to talk about this, but it's the unfortunate reality is true. 0.99

00:09:37.440 I'm telling you, you can get a man, he can go on a holiday, can fuck some stripper, can 1.00

00:09:43.340 come home, and you can lie detector test him. 1.00

00:09:45.420 Do you love your wife?

00:09:46.140 Would you die for your wife? 1.00

00:09:47.300 Would you take a bullet for your wife? 0.99

00:09:48.820 He'll pass the lie detector test.

00:09:50.520 He loves her with all his heart.

00:09:51.620 He'd do anything for her. 1.00

00:09:53.160 It's just pussy. 1.00

00:09:54.300 It's not a big deal. 1.00

00:09:55.300 It's different.

00:09:55.680 I feel like—I guess my question would be then is, like, how do you view sex?

00:09:59.900 Because I—like, sex at the end of the day is spiritual unification.

00:10:04.160 I feel like I've gone through a lot of different stuff.

00:10:05.940 I've had a lot of different experiences where I did not value myself, so I never had a man

00:10:10.000 that valued me.

00:10:10.860 So it's like, yeah, you rack up guys and, guys, you shouldn't be texting back or whatever.

00:10:15.200 But I feel like there—I understand that there is a difference with how men view sex and

00:10:20.300 how they move around in the world.

00:10:22.140 But it's like, sex is a sacred thing, no matter a male or female is doing it.

00:10:26.420 So that's why, for me, like, my biggest—like, the hardest for me to understand is, like, 0.97

00:10:31.700 this is such a sacred thing, and it's just being—it's like taking a piss for a guy.

00:10:36.100 Can I just say something? 0.98

00:10:37.440 Are you sure you weren't making love to somebody that was having sex? 0.74

00:10:40.500 I'm sorry? 0.62

00:10:41.160 Are you sure that you weren't making love to somebody that was just having sex? 0.95

00:10:45.540 A and T. 0.65

00:10:46.380 That's a nice—that's the question there.

00:10:47.900 No, that's what it sounds like to me. 0.99

00:10:50.280 It sounds like as women, they make love to men that are just having sex. 1.00

00:10:56.940 Right. 0.98

00:10:57.940 That's the difference.

00:10:58.980 That's not the point.

00:10:59.780 But my thing is—

00:11:01.280 Okay, not all the time.

00:11:02.440 So I think when men hear that, though, it's like if it was sacred to you,

00:11:05.580 you would have waited until you were married.

00:11:07.220 But it's like I—

00:11:07.880 Right.

00:11:08.640 No, I get that.

00:11:09.680 But the reality is, is that the world is not so black and white.

00:11:13.140 So I understand that there are these things in place that worked and made sense,

00:11:17.260 and now we're approaching an era that, like, we don't know what's going to happen.

00:11:20.440 But there's gray area. 0.57

00:11:21.420 You've had sex. 0.99

00:11:22.160 I've had sex. 1.00

00:11:22.760 She's had sex. 0.99

00:11:23.400 We've had sex with different guys. 0.97

00:11:24.660 That doesn't mean that we're damaged goods.

00:11:26.080 We're used goods.

00:11:26.700 I understand status is a big part of that.

00:11:28.320 I understand that sex is viewed differently.

00:11:30.120 But I feel like you should not—

00:11:32.580 If you're looking at face value, I can understand why you'd be judged from your past.

00:11:36.900 But if I'm a guy interested in you, I don't care about what you've done.

00:11:40.400 But that's the thing.

00:11:41.740 Like, men do, though.

00:11:43.160 That's the thing.

00:11:44.640 Like, a virgin's more valuable to a man than a girl that's had sex with multiple men. 0.85

00:11:49.860 Like, it just is what it is.

00:11:51.220 There's a limit.

00:11:51.660 But the modern man's solution is not a virgin. 0.52

00:11:54.920 A modern man needs a partner, somebody that's actually smart and can survive in the world of today.

00:11:58.600 And that's going to be a lived woman. 0.99

00:12:00.660 The men with the most choice are going to pick women that are more pure, in general. 0.86

00:12:04.760 The ones that are already self-made, I guess so.

00:12:06.480 But that's the thing.

00:12:07.100 And beautiful, too.

00:12:07.760 The reality is that there's a lot of men out there, especially in the world that we live in today, that need a partner.

00:12:12.980 So it's time for those masses of men to start respecting women for the role they can play in their lives.

00:12:17.480 I don't think average men expect women to be virgins.

00:12:20.420 Do you know what it is?

00:12:20.960 But it's this rhetoric that actually then is pumped into these minds and creates what people are not complaining about, the misogynistic world.

00:12:26.800 That's what it is.

00:12:27.800 Even in schools, it's like permeated through it all and perpetuated.

00:12:31.060 Why is it misogynistic for men to prefer women that are more pure?

00:12:34.040 But that's not the problem.

00:12:35.800 The problem is now, listen, the maths is very simple.

00:12:38.700 You've got people like Andrew Tate talking about these things with such clarity.

00:12:42.500 It makes so much sense because it is true, right?

00:12:45.200 And then you have men that are in these situations where just average, working an average job, and they cannot fulfill whatever definition is called to be a man in these definitions.

00:12:54.540 Yes, they can.

00:12:55.260 And that's what he said.

00:12:56.100 He did say that.

00:12:56.860 Yes, they can.

00:12:57.760 A nine to five man can do it.

00:12:59.340 But then again, but wait, wait.

00:13:01.300 This is the thing.

00:13:02.240 What we're talking about as a man, and this is why I say it's very important for us to understand the person that we're speaking to.

00:13:06.720 And I'm very glad that you clarified everything that you mean.

00:13:09.140 Not every man is like Andrew Tate.

00:13:10.720 Not every man is going to be able to even realistically demand for certain things from a woman. 0.89

00:13:16.520 So the same way women need to compromise if it comes to a man who is going to cheat on her because he's a top G, is the same way men are going to have to compromise and stop blabbing about purity when they can't demand for that. 0.85

00:13:27.620 You didn't get none of what you were saying.

00:13:30.420 I made my point.

00:13:31.180 That was the whole point.

00:13:32.260 What point?

00:13:33.180 Well, duh.

00:13:33.580 Because you just quoted him.

00:13:35.000 You just said about his thing and you didn't know.

00:13:36.380 Not only did I get clout, I made my point.

00:13:38.940 I said the average man does not have what he takes to demand for a virgin or more.

00:13:44.400 Hang on a minute.

00:13:45.260 He already said that.

00:13:46.340 He already said that.

00:13:46.880 And I reiterated in my own words for my own content for my page.

00:13:50.160 And so what?

00:13:50.600 Do you know what it is, right?

00:13:51.220 Is that too many women, they see regular guys and they feel they're settling. 0.99

00:13:54.660 You're not settling.

00:13:55.800 You're getting what you deserve.

00:13:57.100 But you can't be asking for a virgin, though.

00:13:59.120 You're not settling.

00:14:00.140 But the difference is men know this.

00:14:02.540 Most average men aren't demanding.

00:14:03.780 The average men never say they were a virgin.

00:14:06.780 They were kind of.

00:14:08.020 But the difference is average men know they don't deserve a 10.

00:14:13.080 They know they don't deserve an 8.

00:14:14.320 They know they don't even deserve a 7. 0.91

00:14:15.860 And they still go messaging them on the stories and all this dumb stuff that is just ugly.

00:14:19.640 Most men in history haven't even reproduced. 0.98

00:14:22.640 And so it's like men know, but the women are the ones that are delusional. 1.00

00:14:27.180 There's regular men out there. 0.59

00:14:28.460 Shooting a shot at Chris Hemsworth.

00:14:31.060 Chris Hemsworth.

00:14:32.220 There's regular men out there that will have you down. 1.00

00:14:35.020 She's a two. 1.00

00:14:35.460 A two.

00:14:35.740 Yeah, but can I just say, people are watching Tate not understanding that Tate is part of

00:14:40.540 that 1% of success.

00:14:42.160 And they think that they can demand the same thing.

00:14:45.180 They can demand purity.

00:14:47.200 One second.

00:14:48.100 One second.

00:14:48.320 Sorry, sorry.

00:14:48.880 I understand the point you're all making.

00:14:50.040 But let's understand something.

00:14:51.220 To the sexual marketplace, females have always been, and still to a degree, are the gatekeepers. 1.00

00:14:57.840 It's men will, you can think about it in a very simplistic way. 0.56

00:15:01.080 This is not the case, but let's simplify it for the sake of argument. 0.99

00:15:03.940 Imagine men will run around and fuck anything. 1.00

00:15:06.140 And women are the ones who say yes or no. 1.00

00:15:08.380 You are the gatekeepers that have all the power.

00:15:10.780 And this is what's actually truly interesting about the sexual marketplace.

00:15:13.340 Because whenever women go, there's not enough good men. 1.00

00:15:16.100 Then why are you fucking, of course, why would they be good if you don't make them be good? 1.00

00:15:19.420 You're a fucking loser. 1.00

00:15:20.140 That's a good point. 1.00

00:15:21.580 So women, so you're talking about, I'm saying that, you know, a man at a certain level can't do certain things.

00:15:26.580 If you were with Joe Schmo and he wasn't treating you the way you believe Joe Schmo should treat you, then why are you with him?

00:15:32.020 Leave. 0.99

00:15:32.840 Sis, leave. 1.00

00:15:33.280 Like women have the gatekeeping. 1.00

00:15:35.260 So if you get Joe Schmo and he treats you like you're his queen, treats you perfect, good. 0.99

00:15:39.620 If you get a fucking guy at the absolute upper echelons of value and you still aren't happy with what he's giving you, then leave. 0.99

00:15:45.840 Women are the gatekeepers. 1.00

00:15:46.860 You women actually have all of the power. 1.00

00:15:49.480 This is what's beautiful about the whole thing.

00:15:51.240 Women are constantly complaining. 1.00

00:15:52.860 You have all the power.

00:15:54.320 You're the ones who get to choose. 1.00

00:15:55.860 Do you know who you should be mad at for all this shit? 1.00

00:15:58.860 I'll tell you who you should be mad at. 1.00

00:16:00.200 Do you know who threw away all the female power in the sexual marketplace? 1.00

00:16:03.060 Promiscuous females because now you've got chicks who will bang anybody without trying. 1.00

00:16:08.580 So why should a dude get up and try? 0.96

00:16:10.060 Do you have any idea how hard it is to actually be?

00:16:13.820 Let me make this clear.

00:16:14.960 Go on, sir. 0.98

00:16:15.300 Do you have any idea how hard it is to actually be, no bullshit, a man? 0.96

00:16:20.400 And I say this and women go, oh, yeah, dude, as soon as most women encounter any kind of problem, the first thing you do is turn to a man. 1.00

00:16:27.740 Their man, their dad, the mechanic, the police, a man. 1.00

00:16:30.540 If you actually put a woman in front of a problem and go, no men, they're like, oh, whoa, fuck. 1.00

00:16:34.980 It's a mental breakdown. 1.00

00:16:36.060 Men, day after day, especially if you're a high level man, let me make something clear from my life.

00:16:41.200 I'll talk from personal experience.

00:16:42.620 I'm not just looking after me.

00:16:44.200 I'm not just looking after my chick.

00:16:45.820 I'm the guy in about 300 people's phone books that they call when anything big goes wrong.

00:16:51.640 You get arrested in Russia.

00:16:52.880 You need extraction from Ukraine. 0.98

00:16:54.440 You need a million dollars.

00:16:55.800 Whatever it is, Kazakhstan, abduction, they call me.

00:16:58.860 I'm the first phone call.

00:17:00.100 I'm fixing 400 different lives.

00:17:02.100 I'm a problem solver. 1.00

00:17:03.280 Chicks can't fix fucking any of this shit, right? 1.00

00:17:06.060 This is how hard it is to be a man. 1.00

00:17:07.660 And it's amazing because society expects it of you, but so do women.

00:17:12.100 If you had a man, be honest.

00:17:13.840 You had a man and you went to your man and said, oh, I've got this problem.

00:17:17.280 I can't fix this.

00:17:18.180 It's broken.

00:17:18.620 The car tire is broken.

00:17:19.540 And he went, I don't know.

00:17:21.580 You would dry up. 1.00

00:17:22.800 You'd be like, well, fuck it. 1.00

00:17:23.500 What the fucking point are you? 1.00

00:17:25.260 That's the truth. 1.00

00:17:26.280 You could sit here and go, oh, we'd call a mechanic.

00:17:27.920 No, you wouldn't.

00:17:28.420 You'd look at your man and go, what do you mean you can't fix it?

00:17:29.920 I'll do it myself, waste, man.

00:17:31.500 Yeah, and this is what she's saying about your man will get up and go.

00:17:33.980 And you know what's beautiful about masculinity?

00:17:36.060 Much of times a man will go up and he doesn't have a clue how to fix it himself.

00:17:38.580 But he'll go, don't worry, baby.

00:17:39.780 Okay.

00:17:40.160 And he'll stand up with no money and no clue. 0.98

00:17:42.540 And he'll go out there and fucking try and find a way because as a man, you need to be 0.96

00:17:45.360 useful. 0.99

00:17:45.980 It is so difficult to be a man.

00:17:47.640 You have no idea the amount of pressure that we're under from society and from the women 1.00

00:17:51.520 we even want to associate with on a whole.

00:17:53.980 It's difficult.

00:17:55.120 You have to keep all these things in mind.

00:17:56.420 It's hard.

00:17:57.320 But can I ask you, you see what you just said about you're the top G that if they had money,

00:18:01.940 you can fly planes and fly that.

00:18:03.280 Yeah, drop it down to if you were earning like say 50,000 a year.

00:18:08.460 Yeah.

00:18:08.940 Couldn't you be that same person amongst your peers?

00:18:11.500 A hundred percent you could.

00:18:12.180 That's what I'm trying to say.

00:18:13.080 A hundred percent you could.

00:18:13.820 And also, also you have to.

00:18:15.880 Money doesn't make you a top G.

00:18:17.340 No, money is an amplifier.

00:18:19.000 So that's the first thing about money.

00:18:20.160 Money amplifies.

00:18:21.240 Men can make money.

00:18:22.000 Money does not make men. 1.00

00:18:23.160 If you're a dork and you get rich, you're a rich dork. 0.99

00:18:25.860 If you're a G and you get rich, you're a top G. 1.00

00:18:27.940 Right?

00:18:28.220 So that's the first thing about money.

00:18:29.440 And I agree with you.

00:18:30.500 But traditionally, and this is the baseline.

00:18:33.100 And once again, when I say these things, I'm not looking to be attacked for being misogynist.

00:18:36.380 I'm just commenting on how I view the world and how I see things. 0.95

00:18:39.460 Traditionally, a man primarily gives his attention to a female to get sex. 0.99

00:18:45.300 And she gives him sex back to get the attention. 1.00

00:18:47.300 That's the swap. 0.99

00:18:48.100 Right? 0.99

00:18:48.600 So if I'm a dude and I want sex from a girl, I give her attention. 0.99

00:18:52.440 I talk to her. 0.98

00:18:53.140 I hang out with her.

00:18:54.060 I spend time with her. 0.99

00:18:54.880 Eventually, I get the sex. 0.99

00:18:55.680 That's how it works.

00:18:56.700 But the higher value you are as a man, the more valuable your attention is, the more valuable your time is, the less you have to give.

00:19:02.520 It's like potency.

00:19:03.860 Right?

00:19:04.060 So I can give five minutes to a chick. 1.00

00:19:06.580 And that's worth two weeks of some other dude's time.

00:19:09.260 But that's the reality.

00:19:10.180 So where you are on the scale is just basically how much of your time you have to give.

00:19:13.400 Now, you can still give all your time to a woman, treat her like a queen, be respected by your peers.

00:19:17.060 She can be happy with you.

00:19:18.220 I'm not saying she will be any. 1.00

00:19:19.680 In fact, I'll argue she'll be happier with that man than she'll be with a fucking guy like me. 1.00

00:19:24.280 I'm not even out here saying I'll make chicks happy. 0.99

00:19:25.800 I'm not even saying that.

00:19:26.820 I'm saying that she'll get the amount of time that she's going to want from that man.

00:19:30.300 The amount of attention is linked to his status.

00:19:32.260 But at a true high-level status of man, it's two DMs.

00:19:36.220 Boom, boom.

00:19:36.740 Ten seconds.

00:19:37.400 Ten seconds.

00:19:38.080 Ten seconds.

00:19:39.020 Done.

00:19:39.260 This kind of leads into my next question.

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00:19:44.380 And we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.

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JustPearlyThings - December 27, 2022

Andrew Tate On Male Infidelity

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