Andrew Tate On Male Infidelity
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss Polyamory, Polyamorous relationships, sexual exclusivity, and polyamory in the dating world. We discuss the benefits of being polyamorous and how it can improve your dating life.
Transcript
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Can I ask you something? What does the woman want in your eyes? What do you think? And what's the game you give for the boys?
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I'm going to tell you, but before that, I need another Clementine, and I need to give half to our friend here because she just rolled her eyes at me.
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And I'm perspicacious. I notice everything. She doesn't realize that I'm a ninja. I detect these things. Even when I'm looking directly ahead, I can detect it.
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So I'm going to give her some of my Clementine, and she's going to feel better. So I'm going to get a Clementine for you. Would you like some Clementine, my dear?
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I asked you a question. Would you like some Clementine?
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We're going to hook it up. Clementine's coming. All right. Go on. Continue.
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No, I mean, I just feel like this is definitely a different conversation for me because I'm very open-minded.
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I love hearing different perspective, and I do feel like this is a newer idea.
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Like you said, it was in the last 30, 40 years. This is a new concept. We don't know how it's going to end.
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I just know from my experience, other women that I've met as well, it's like the reason for even like relationships,
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why they're not lasting is because people don't want to put up with the disrespect.
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And like, even when you were talking about like, oh, it's okay for me to cheat, but not for you.
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So my thing is, is like, why not have transparency and have it be polygamous, polyamorous, whatever works for you?
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That's like to me where it loses me with the traditional stuff.
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It's like, why can't we have transparency if I sign up for that? Cool.
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No man in a million years. Let's all be realistic, right?
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No man in a million years is going to meet a girl he likes and go, I want to be polyamorous.
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Like, come on, that's gay. Let's cut this bullshit.
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So let's be realistic. How does a man show love to a woman?
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So sexual exclusivity is how a female shows primarily that she's interested in a man.
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He's the only man who has sexual access to me because I can get pregnant and this man is the only man who can do it.
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I'm saying that if I truly love a woman, she won't sit there and go, he shows me his love because he doesn't fuck anyone else.
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She'll sit there and go, he shows me his love because my bills are paid.
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I'm talking about resource and a lifestyle as a whole.
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If you go to Moscow and you find a big G, a rich guy, right?
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When he goes to the club with his boys, you think he ain't with 19-year-old strippers?
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So you have to sit there and to a point, you have to sit and analyze the difference.
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When you're saying disrespect, if you're going to go through life as a woman and say,
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I only care about the sexual exclusivity of my man, then what you're going to end up
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doing is having a bunch of failed relationships and fucking loads of dudes.
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There has to get a point where you go, you know what?
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This guy ticks so many boxes once a year, twice a year.
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I'm just going to pretend I didn't notice because my bills are paid.
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That's the smart female move as opposed to go, I don't care how good he is to me.
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So I'm going to leave and I'm going to get another man who I don't love who'll fuck another
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And then I'll get another man who I don't love who'll fuck another bitch.
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Like, so if a guy cheats on a girl, is there ever a point where she...
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So if he knocks up another girl, would you say that's too far?
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So obviously I'm not saying blatantly disrespect your woman, right?
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She's the most important thing in the world to you.
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She needs to be treated in a way that she feels that, right?
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But it's unfortunate because I keep tying back to this baseline point.
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But the reason I keep going back to this baseline point is to try and explain to everybody at
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home how simple the world can be if you go back to the baselines of it.
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And why do men fuck girls uglier than their main chick?
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Let's go back to the first thing I've been saying this whole time.
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But that's the male world because sexual access is an easy indicator of status.
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So that's one of the reasons they do it, right?
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So you have to go back into the baseline of why men even cheat in the first place.
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I'm telling you, if you're a woman, the smartest thing you can do is look after your
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But there's going to be a time across a 20-year marriage you might just need to be a little
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But I'm not saying allow this for some fucking Joe Schmo.
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I'm not saying let some fucking loser pick you up, lock you down, and go cheat on you.
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I'm saying if he's a G and he's doing enough of his other jobs.
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As for you saying, what if you can pay your own bills, then what's the reality you face?
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I'm going to decide that the thing that I prioritize above everything, above his resource, above the amount he cares for me.
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You'll see men cheat on a woman and then cry his eyes out trying to get that woman back.
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He'd take a bullet for you, and he'd still fuck that bitch.
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So you're sitting there going, well, I'm going to prioritize his sexual exclusivity over all of his other attributes.
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You're just going to end up having endless failed relationships, fucking too many dudes, and then what's going to happen is your psychology is going to break.
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Because females don't like to accept the fact that if you sleep with enough men and you get rid of the stigma around a new dick, your instant answer is constantly new dick.
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And then you end up just jumping on cock all day, and you're fucking done.
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You need to – the reality is you have to come to a point where you get a guy, and he ticks the boxes, and you're like, you know what?
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He does whatever he does, but my bills are paid.
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Like if he spends money on another girl, if he – like when does it –
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Do you think that men ever fall in love with side chicks?
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And this is a long and in-depth answer, but it's a good question.
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Let's take an oligarch, a billionaire from Moscow.
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The girls he's in the club with wouldn't fucking dare message his wife.
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So if there's a hierarchy and they know their place, that's one way of doing it.
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because men show love primarily through our hard work.
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Not just through our resource, but through our hard work.
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he shows his wife love by getting up every day,
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going to work nine to five, working his ass off, and paying those bills.
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That's why he does it for his wife and his children.
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Most men are out here working bullshit jobs, carrying trash.
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So giving money, yeah, that would be a far more scary indicator than just sex.
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I don't know if you all know my history, but I used to run a webcam business a long time ago.
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But I had a bunch of girls who used to sit online and talk to guys, and they had laptops, right?
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And I used to sit and say to some of the webcam girls, I'd say,
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this man who is sitting in and logging in every night and sending you money every day
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and telling you he's obsessed with you from the other side of the world
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and missing out on time with his family to sit here and talk to you and send you money,
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that is more cheating than if he just went out and banged something.
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If he went out and banged something and came home, then done.
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But he's sitting here giving you his time, his money, his affection.
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That's cheating for a man, for a man to sit there and give money and time away, right?
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So you have to stop this idea of sexual exclusivity.
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It's not how high status, at least, males show their love to females.
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And anyone who wants to disagree with me, call me wrong, call me misogynist, whatever bullshit,
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Every king, every sultan, every conqueror, every emperor, every knight, all of them.
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What level of G do you have to be to be allowed to cheat?
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And it also depends on the partner you're with.
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I'm not trying to sit here and advocate for men to run around and fuck a bunch of women.
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What I'm actually trying to do is describe the baseline unfortunate realities of human
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And I'm trying to explain now to the world that any woman can get a man who will not cheat
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on her if she's prepared to sacrifice a bunch of other things, perhaps, right?
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It was a completely different place and it was better.
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And men, especially the high status men, most of them have struggled so hard to become
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They've been through so much shit to get where they are.
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It's like telling him, if you climb this mountain, you can go to a candy store.
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And he climbs to the top of the mountain and the second he's in the candy store, after
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one piece of candy, that bitch is saying, no, no more candy.
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Now you're telling me I can only have one piece of candy?
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Do you think that men owe a woman loyalty if she was there from the beginning?
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I mean, sexual exclusivity and loyalty are completely disconnected for males.
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Nobody wants to talk about this, but it's the unfortunate reality is true.
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I'm telling you, you can get a man, he can go on a holiday, can fuck some stripper, can
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I feel like—I guess my question would be then is, like, how do you view sex?
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Because I—like, sex at the end of the day is spiritual unification.
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I feel like I've gone through a lot of different stuff.
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I've had a lot of different experiences where I did not value myself, so I never had a man
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So it's like, yeah, you rack up guys and, guys, you shouldn't be texting back or whatever.
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But I feel like there—I understand that there is a difference with how men view sex and
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But it's like, sex is a sacred thing, no matter a male or female is doing it.
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So that's why, for me, like, my biggest—like, the hardest for me to understand is, like,
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this is such a sacred thing, and it's just being—it's like taking a piss for a guy.
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Are you sure you weren't making love to somebody that was having sex?
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Are you sure that you weren't making love to somebody that was just having sex?
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It sounds like as women, they make love to men that are just having sex.
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So I think when men hear that, though, it's like if it was sacred to you,
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But the reality is, is that the world is not so black and white.
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So I understand that there are these things in place that worked and made sense,
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and now we're approaching an era that, like, we don't know what's going to happen.
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If you're looking at face value, I can understand why you'd be judged from your past.
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But if I'm a guy interested in you, I don't care about what you've done.
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Like, a virgin's more valuable to a man than a girl that's had sex with multiple men.
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A modern man needs a partner, somebody that's actually smart and can survive in the world of today.
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The men with the most choice are going to pick women that are more pure, in general.
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The ones that are already self-made, I guess so.
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The reality is that there's a lot of men out there, especially in the world that we live in today, that need a partner.
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So it's time for those masses of men to start respecting women for the role they can play in their lives.
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I don't think average men expect women to be virgins.
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But it's this rhetoric that actually then is pumped into these minds and creates what people are not complaining about, the misogynistic world.
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Even in schools, it's like permeated through it all and perpetuated.
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Why is it misogynistic for men to prefer women that are more pure?
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The problem is now, listen, the maths is very simple.
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You've got people like Andrew Tate talking about these things with such clarity.
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It makes so much sense because it is true, right?
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And then you have men that are in these situations where just average, working an average job, and they cannot fulfill whatever definition is called to be a man in these definitions.
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What we're talking about as a man, and this is why I say it's very important for us to understand the person that we're speaking to.
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And I'm very glad that you clarified everything that you mean.
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Not every man is going to be able to even realistically demand for certain things from a woman.
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So the same way women need to compromise if it comes to a man who is going to cheat on her because he's a top G, is the same way men are going to have to compromise and stop blabbing about purity when they can't demand for that.
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You just said about his thing and you didn't know.
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I said the average man does not have what he takes to demand for a virgin or more.
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And I reiterated in my own words for my own content for my page.
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Is that too many women, they see regular guys and they feel they're settling.
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But the difference is average men know they don't deserve a 10.
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And they still go messaging them on the stories and all this dumb stuff that is just ugly.
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And so it's like men know, but the women are the ones that are delusional.
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There's regular men out there that will have you down.
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Yeah, but can I just say, people are watching Tate not understanding that Tate is part of
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And they think that they can demand the same thing.
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To the sexual marketplace, females have always been, and still to a degree, are the gatekeepers.
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It's men will, you can think about it in a very simplistic way.
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This is not the case, but let's simplify it for the sake of argument.
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You are the gatekeepers that have all the power.
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And this is what's actually truly interesting about the sexual marketplace.
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Because whenever women go, there's not enough good men.
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Then why are you fucking, of course, why would they be good if you don't make them be good?
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So women, so you're talking about, I'm saying that, you know, a man at a certain level can't do certain things.
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If you were with Joe Schmo and he wasn't treating you the way you believe Joe Schmo should treat you, then why are you with him?
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So if you get Joe Schmo and he treats you like you're his queen, treats you perfect, good.
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If you get a fucking guy at the absolute upper echelons of value and you still aren't happy with what he's giving you, then leave.
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This is what's beautiful about the whole thing.
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Do you know who you should be mad at for all this shit?
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Do you know who threw away all the female power in the sexual marketplace?
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Promiscuous females because now you've got chicks who will bang anybody without trying.
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Do you have any idea how hard it is to actually be?
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Do you have any idea how hard it is to actually be, no bullshit, a man?
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And I say this and women go, oh, yeah, dude, as soon as most women encounter any kind of problem, the first thing you do is turn to a man.
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Their man, their dad, the mechanic, the police, a man.
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If you actually put a woman in front of a problem and go, no men, they're like, oh, whoa, fuck.
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Men, day after day, especially if you're a high level man, let me make something clear from my life.
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I'm the guy in about 300 people's phone books that they call when anything big goes wrong.
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Whatever it is, Kazakhstan, abduction, they call me.
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Chicks can't fix fucking any of this shit, right?
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And it's amazing because society expects it of you, but so do women.
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You had a man and you went to your man and said, oh, I've got this problem.
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You could sit here and go, oh, we'd call a mechanic.
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You'd look at your man and go, what do you mean you can't fix it?
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Yeah, and this is what she's saying about your man will get up and go.
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And you know what's beautiful about masculinity?
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Much of times a man will go up and he doesn't have a clue how to fix it himself.
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And he'll go out there and fucking try and find a way because as a man, you need to be
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You have no idea the amount of pressure that we're under from society and from the women
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But can I ask you, you see what you just said about you're the top G that if they had money,
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Yeah, drop it down to if you were earning like say 50,000 a year.
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Couldn't you be that same person amongst your peers?
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If you're a dork and you get rich, you're a rich dork.
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If you're a G and you get rich, you're a top G.
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And once again, when I say these things, I'm not looking to be attacked for being misogynist.
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I'm just commenting on how I view the world and how I see things.
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Traditionally, a man primarily gives his attention to a female to get sex.
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And she gives him sex back to get the attention.
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So if I'm a dude and I want sex from a girl, I give her attention.
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But the higher value you are as a man, the more valuable your attention is, the more valuable your time is, the less you have to give.
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And that's worth two weeks of some other dude's time.
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So where you are on the scale is just basically how much of your time you have to give.
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Now, you can still give all your time to a woman, treat her like a queen, be respected by your peers.
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In fact, I'll argue she'll be happier with that man than she'll be with a fucking guy like me.
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I'm not even out here saying I'll make chicks happy.
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I'm saying that she'll get the amount of time that she's going to want from that man.
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The amount of attention is linked to his status.
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But at a true high-level status of man, it's two DMs.
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