JustPearlyThings - Andrew Tate On Why Marriages Happen

00:00:00.000 Do you think that men marry for like high status families? Like I'm thinking of like Ivanka Trump, like would someone marry a girl for like status in that way?

00:00:09.100 Well, that is one of the most, I mean, if you look at arranged marriages, it's off a status, right? That's an example. But men, men primarily marry for, I'd argue that men, and I say this about men, but women do the same thing, right? 0.61

00:00:19.960 Women love the idea of getting status from a man. Women love the idea, and this is where it actually gets a bit messy, the waters get muddy, because women love the idea of bragging about the man they're with, but they can only brag about the man they're with if other women want that man. 0.98

00:00:32.980 So you're saying you love women who get cheated, women love getting cheated on, that's not true. But women do not like men that other women don't want. If you were to say, look, I got my man, he's perfect, he's rich, and every girl in the room would go, I would never touch him. She'd be like, oh, shit. Well, I don't want him either then, what the fuck is this?

00:00:46.800 But you know, can I add on top of that? But it's true, right? Women want men that all the women want. 0.99

00:00:52.700 Do you know what's the best man that a woman wants? It's the one that every girl wants, but he doesn't want them. A selective man.

00:00:58.460 That's more valuable than the top. But that's the fantasy. That's the fantasy.

00:01:03.160 You're saying that men are now polygamous, and women should accept that. That's the problem. Men are continuously disrespecting their woman.

00:01:10.720 Like, yeah, you know what, you can't be with one woman. Now you want to keep cheating with all these different women. 0.95

00:01:15.620 That's not what he said. He's saying if you're going to go for a high-status guy, if you're going to go for the top 5% of guys, that's what comes with it.

00:01:23.620 And if not, then go for the average guy.

00:01:25.620 Can I just say, though, that before...

00:01:27.320 So, is it okay for average guys to stick with one woman, then?

00:01:30.120 It's not about okay. It's okay for anyone to do whatever they want.

00:01:33.640 I'm not sitting here saying what's okay and what isn't okay.

00:01:36.400 What I am talking about is observations about the baseline realities of how humans function.

00:01:40.780 What I'm telling you is that if you give a man unlimited options, like the men at the top of society have, on a long enough timescale, he will explore said options.

00:01:48.320 That is a fact.

00:01:49.380 Like I said earlier, you can walk into a car garage and buy a Nissan, and that's reliable, and it'll never let you down.

00:01:54.620 Or you can buy a McLaren.

00:01:56.200 You cannot sit, like women do, and go, I want the McLaren that's reliable like the Nissan. 1.00

00:02:01.280 Well, guess fucking what? 0.99

00:02:02.460 That's not real. 0.99

00:02:03.580 So, you have to choose.

00:02:04.740 Can I ask you something, Mr. Tate?

00:02:06.180 Can I ask you something?

00:02:07.260 Years ago, right, do you think it makes a difference?

00:02:10.520 Because years ago, if you went to meet a man, you go out there and you actually talk.

00:02:14.920 But now you meet a guy, he can go and check out your ID and see what you're all about.

00:02:18.960 Don't you think that by them being able to look and see what you're all about, that makes a difference to how they perceive you?

00:02:24.480 A hundred percent.

00:02:25.220 I think society is fundamentally and utterly broken.

00:02:28.420 I think the way that men and women interact is broken. 1.00

00:02:30.580 I think that men are broken.

00:02:31.820 I think that women are broken. 1.00

00:02:32.680 I think everything is completely fucked. 1.00

00:02:34.980 Genuinely. 0.99

00:02:35.620 And this is where we go into the small things.

00:02:37.760 We're talking about status.

00:02:38.600 You're right about IG.

00:02:40.000 If I go on a date with a girl and I look at her Instagram page, I'm sitting there thinking, does this make me look good or bad?

00:02:44.980 Yes, I want her to be hot. 1.00

00:02:46.340 Yes, I want her to have followers. 0.98

00:02:47.460 Yes, I want everyone chasing her.

00:02:48.780 But what's that caption about? 0.99

00:02:50.060 About fucking city life. 0.99

00:02:51.560 What's this about? 1.00

00:02:52.440 What's that?

00:02:52.720 That's not, that's not, nah.

00:02:54.340 That puts me off, right?

00:02:55.320 So, it's interesting.

00:02:56.380 What's also interesting is the majority of women don't have a clue in the modern world what men find attractive. 1.00

00:03:01.920 So, we said earlier in the very beginning of this podcast about men who want their dick sucked, all this bullshit. 1.00

00:03:06.560 Men don't, that's not attractive to men. 1.00

00:03:08.260 We don't want any of that.

00:03:10.000 Most women, if you were to say, how do you attract a man? 1.00

00:03:12.360 They wouldn't have a scooby-doo.

00:03:14.460 They wouldn't have an idea.

00:03:15.880 I know.

00:03:16.780 They want a submissive woman. 1.00

00:03:18.520 Hello, my name is Anelba. 0.99

00:03:19.140 She kicks for him. 0.89

00:03:20.500 Give him some massage. 0.66

00:03:21.980 Feed him great.

00:03:23.280 It's not just, no, it's not, it's not.

00:03:24.760 Pat his head.

00:03:25.860 It's not just, it's not just about that.

00:03:27.840 The, one of the, one of the important things for being a man, especially in a relationship, is we want to be our woman.

00:03:34.040 If I have a woman and I love her, I want to be her portal to the world.

00:03:37.280 I want her to experience things through me and see things through me.

00:03:41.220 So for that, I need a degree of innocence and purity for her.

00:03:44.080 I want to be the first person to put her on a private jet.

00:03:46.540 I want her to get on the jet and go, wow, I did it.

00:03:49.280 Oh, you took me.

00:03:50.700 It's like giving, you wouldn't want to give someone a Christmas present if they'd had 10 presents better than you beforehand.

00:03:55.100 Would you?

00:03:55.720 It's like, well, duh.

00:03:56.620 So as a man, so as a woman, what makes you attractive to a man to a degree is your innocence and your purity.

00:04:02.760 This is very important.

00:04:03.800 And it can go down to very basic, simple things.

00:04:05.920 I'll tell you, if I walk in a club, do you know who the hottest girl in the club? 1.00

00:04:09.560 It's the girl who isn't dancing, isn't twerking on a fucking stage, not surrounded by dudes. 0.99

00:04:15.560 Girls, when girls want male attention in a club, they start drinking, twerking. 1.00

00:04:19.160 That is the most revolting, haram bullshit. 1.00

00:04:22.260 I may want to fuck you, but I don't want to be with you. 1.00

00:04:24.760 If you show me a girl sitting in the corner, shy. 1.00

00:04:27.960 I'm like, good.

00:04:28.340 She hasn't experienced too much life.

00:04:29.920 I can show her things.

00:04:31.180 And also not just show her things.

00:04:33.020 This is a very important point that I get attacked by the matrix for because they completely misunderstand me on purpose.

00:04:38.060 As a man, if I'm out here struggling and leading and trying to lead my household, I also want a woman who shares my values.

00:04:44.000 I want to a degree to educate my woman and show her things and for her to agree with me.

00:04:47.680 Like you said earlier, looking for a male role model.

00:04:49.600 You want to be a role model to your woman.

00:04:51.380 If she's too experienced with life, it's difficult to be a role model.

00:04:55.400 If she's sitting there shy and quiet, you can come along and say, no, you know what? 1.00

00:04:58.660 Don't take the fucking vaccine. 1.00

00:04:59.940 Listen to me. 1.00

00:05:00.900 And you can be a role model for her. 0.96

00:05:03.300 You can't do that for a woman who knows too fucking much, knows too many dudes, been too many places. 1.00

00:05:07.760 So it's this degree of purity that we're looking for that's super important. 0.97

00:05:10.860 I'm curious.

00:05:13.020 You said if she's done too many things, that's bad, right?

00:05:16.540 Yes, correct.

00:05:17.220 So I'm not even talking sexually, like been on a private jet.

00:05:20.260 I'm curious because I live to- 1.00

00:05:21.720 But how do you get on a private jet without sucking dick? 1.00

00:05:23.200 Oh, I was just curious because my dad's part of like, he's top like 1% in terms of like income. 1.00

00:05:28.380 And I was just curious.

00:05:29.320 Is it different if you did stuff with your dad?

00:05:31.780 Well, no, that's fine.

00:05:33.000 No, not like that.

00:05:34.800 That's sexual.

00:05:35.660 That's a lot.

00:05:36.500 No, I'm not like-

00:05:37.360 She said private jet.

00:05:38.400 Yeah, private.

00:05:38.940 I know what you're saying.

00:05:39.300 Well, I know exactly what you're saying.

00:05:40.660 Yeah.

00:05:40.840 But my point is that we're looking for a true degree of innocence inside of females. 1.00

00:05:45.100 And it's that innocence that's going to make us feel protective over them.

00:05:47.240 And that the protectiveness is going to make us be good men.

00:05:49.760 So when we're looking at society as a whole and how broken it is, I understand that.

00:05:53.900 Men have a massive role to play.

00:05:54.960 Women have a massive role to play. 1.00

00:05:56.240 But a lot of the paternal instincts and instinctual behaviors of men, because the instinctual behavior of man is to die for his woman.

00:06:03.900 Like someone comes to try and take her, pull a sword, die to defend her, right?

00:06:08.340 Like if you're going through life and you find that men don't really feel about you that way, that's because a lot of their instinct is being eroded by the fact that you, like you said, they look through your IG or they look through your life and you've lived so much life.

00:06:20.020 And they just feel like there's nothing new I can bring to this girl's reality.

00:06:23.940 But I don't feel like that's true, though, because like I think it's like I get what you're saying to a degree, right?

00:06:28.940 But it's like you could be on a private jet 10 times, but it's going to be special because it's with you.

00:06:34.200 Not for him it isn't.

00:06:35.400 Not for him.

00:06:36.120 For him it's special because it's your first time.

00:06:37.500 Because men, maybe it's a biological predisposition, maybe it's just the way we're designed, but let's tie it back to sex. 0.94

00:06:44.460 Virginity, first time.

00:06:45.500 It's not that you've done it, it's that you've done it with the first time with me.

00:06:48.980 That's what is important.

00:06:50.460 It's experience as a whole that men find.

00:06:52.620 It's just the truth.

00:06:54.000 Call me misogynistic, cancel me, whatever.

00:06:55.820 I'm telling the truth I always have done.

00:06:57.240 It's experience of life as a whole that men, to a degree, find off-putting. 0.98

00:07:02.500 We don't want a woman who's had a bunch of trauma, had a bunch of experiences, done a bunch of shit, knows a bunch of people, been a bunch of places. 1.00

00:07:11.040 That's the absolute opposite of what we want. 0.99

00:07:13.380 We want the complete polar opposite of that.

00:07:15.220 And what's funny is, women want men who have done those things.

00:07:18.680 I'll tell you right now.

00:07:20.080 Go out there and find a virgin woman and say, do you want to have your first boyfriend? 0.99

00:07:23.700 Do you want to lose your virginity to a virgin man or a man who's had a couple girls? 0.76

00:07:28.640 She'll choose a dude with experience as a virgin herself. 0.99

00:07:32.080 Experience is always coveted and respected in men.

00:07:34.580 It's the opposite in women. 1.00

00:07:35.740 That's true.

00:07:36.960 It's true. 0.99

00:07:37.700 So we have to look at how fucked up the world is. 0.98

00:07:40.120 Women, especially between their 18 and 28, or 18 and 25, let's say, are living these crazy lifestyles, these crazy lives, with the most important people, richest people on the planet, doing everything that can be experienced under the sun. 0.99

00:07:51.440 And then at 29, 30, some dude's expected to come along, know he's second place to X, Y, Z, and be happy with that, and not allow it to hurt his ego, and sit there and pick it up and put a fucking brave face on. 0.98

00:08:06.200 It kills him every day inside. 0.98

00:08:08.180 That's the reality.

00:08:09.100 He's in love with you. 0.99

00:08:09.920 And you've been fucking where with fucking who? 1.00

00:08:11.900 I can't afford a jet. 0.99

00:08:13.180 I'm Joe Schmoe. 1.00

00:08:14.200 That fucking breaks their hearts. 1.00

00:08:15.860 Do you think that hoes can never be turned into housewives? 1.00

00:08:18.660 Okay, I'll answer that question.

00:08:19.880 And the answer is, actually, truthfully, yes, which I know a lot of people are confused by.

00:08:25.120 They can. 0.99

00:08:26.200 If you're a good enough, high enough level man, you absolutely can turn a hoe into a housewife, but why the fuck would you? 1.00

00:08:31.320 Because you don't have to. 0.98

00:08:32.520 A man like me, I could, but I don't have, I'm not low on options, so I would never decide to do that.

00:08:38.240 If you're a billionaire, could you, you know, you can find an old rusty car and rebuild it, or you can just buy a new one, right?

00:08:43.080 So it's not about what could be done.

00:08:45.360 It's about what will be done. 1.00

00:08:46.480 So once women hit a certain status of man, I don't think women are stupid. 1.00

00:08:50.880 I actually argue the fact that women have a beautiful intuition. 1.00

00:08:53.900 I think that women, to a degree, their intuition is truly almost psychic.

00:08:57.640 The number of girls, number of times I've come home and she's like, you were cheating. 1.00

00:09:00.920 And I was like, how the fuck did she know how the fuck are you cheating? 0.99

00:09:04.100 You have intuition and it's real. 0.99

00:09:06.180 You guys are smart, right?

00:09:08.600 And if they get to a certain echelon of man, they're not going to go anywhere because there's nowhere else to go.

00:09:12.400 They're going to get to a guy eventually, they're going to stop at the buck and go, you know what, where am I going to surpass this specimen?

00:09:19.500 So I'm just going to behave for him.

00:09:21.060 So you could turn a hoe into a housewife that way. 1.00

00:09:22.940 But why would a man at that level want to do that?

00:09:24.980 Why do some guys at certain, and this is obviously a celebrity example, but I'm sure we can all think of examples in like day-to-day life where a guy with a lot of options does pick a hoe. 1.00

00:09:35.060 And like wife her, like for example, Kim and Kanye, because Kanye clearly has options.

00:09:40.680 She did not want to be a housewife. 0.99

00:09:42.400 She was a project.

00:09:43.200 Okay, I understand.

00:09:44.000 I'm just asking because some guys do pick.

00:09:46.920 Yeah, they do.

00:09:47.600 And it's a really good point.

00:09:48.600 And I have nothing bad to say about Kanye.

00:09:50.400 In fact, I think a lot of the work he's doing now in terms of attacking the Matrix is important.

00:09:53.880 But I can give you a generalized answer. 0.99

00:09:55.360 But it's a man who is not true to his masculine imperative, which is going to fall for the propaganda machine, which is being purported upon him, who's going to believe that all the crap that is being told by society, like a female's past doesn't matter, and all this shit doesn't matter.

00:10:07.480 This is what's interesting in the fight against the Matrix, because people always say to me, Andrew, why do you come here and say all these things? 0.94

00:10:11.840 They're literally trying to destroy your life for what you say.

00:10:14.320 And the truth is, as a man, you have two choices.

00:10:16.420 You either fight against the programming and the brainwashing they're trying to put inside of all of our minds, or you end up fighting against yourself. 0.98

00:10:21.900 If you're a man and you sit down and you believe the garbage that society is telling you about how society functions between men and women, you're going to end up getting fucking wrecked, like these dudes do. 0.99

00:10:31.540 They sit there and go, just because she's fucked everyone doesn't mean she'll do it again. 1.00

00:10:35.420 And they sit there like dummies, and they get fucking wrecked, right? 1.00

00:10:38.600 You have to sit there as a man and go, no, I don't give a shit what society is telling me. 1.00

00:10:41.520 I understand something, baseline, about humanity, right? 0.97

00:10:44.560 And that's why they make these poor choices, and a lot of men do make these poor choices, but it's only in the West.

00:10:49.060 It's only in the West where this propaganda machine exists. 1.00

00:10:51.400 You will not find a Russian billionaire doing this dumb shit. 1.00

00:10:55.100 You will not find a Chinese billionaire doing this dumb shit. 1.00

00:10:57.460 You do not go to Saudi and find a sheik doing this dumb shit. 1.00

00:11:00.040 None of it. 1.00

00:11:00.720 You only find it in the West.

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JustPearlyThings - December 27, 2022

Andrew Tate On Why Marriages Happen

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