JustPearlyThings - Andrew Tate Triggered These Modern Women

00:00:00.000 So you're talking about him handle you.

00:00:02.340 I don't know.

00:00:03.120 I can't answer the question exactly.

00:00:04.440 But if you're sitting there constantly arguing over small points or correcting him, he's probably thinking this is a bow.

00:00:10.100 I don't have the energy for another fight.

00:00:12.000 Okay.

00:00:12.180 So now let me add extra context to what I mean as well.

00:00:15.100 So obviously submission is something that people talk about a lot.

00:00:18.620 For me, I'm a logical person, I believe.

00:00:20.480 And I submit with logic.

00:00:22.760 I don't submit by default because there's a level of respect that I believe I need to have to be able to submit.

00:00:29.260 Obviously, it's not that I go around and I disrespect all men and everything.

00:00:32.600 But I find that my level of thought process a lot of the times.

00:00:40.500 It makes it hard.

00:00:41.440 No.

00:00:41.920 So I know what you're trying to say.

00:00:43.620 Yeah.

00:00:43.920 Thank you.

00:00:44.520 No.

00:00:44.800 But you need to find a man you truly respect to submit to him.

00:00:47.140 And I completely respect that.

00:00:48.420 And that's the same with 99% of women. 1.00

00:00:51.140 You're never going to submit to a man you don't respect.

00:00:54.160 And respect is ultimately important because you're not going to sleep with a man you don't respect.

00:00:57.520 You're not going to be attracted to a man you don't respect.

00:00:59.720 Respect is the bottom line of it.

00:01:01.040 And the man has a job to do.

00:01:02.420 He has a duty to do to be worthy of respect.

00:01:04.520 But this all goes back into a very interesting point, some of the points I've kind of mentioned earlier.

00:01:09.040 If I was a woman, if I was a chick, the chance of me ending up in a relationship with a man I don't respect is 0%.

00:01:15.520 I don't understand how you girls end up. 0.92

00:01:17.740 Well, I do understand how you girls end up here. 0.96

00:01:19.100 You end up here because of feminism, promiscuity, promises that running around taking dick is fine, dumb shit, stupid decisions. 1.00

00:01:26.180 I'm independent, so it doesn't matter that he's a dummy.

00:01:28.320 Bunch of garbage.

00:01:29.160 When you should be waking up going, you know what?

00:01:31.080 I'm going to be extremely selective.

00:01:33.200 And I'm going to take my time and be very, very smart.

00:01:35.500 Because you're the gatekeeper.

00:01:36.980 By the time you're in a relationship with somebody, you should have immense respect for that man.

00:01:40.640 Absolute immense respect.

00:01:41.620 You shouldn't be able to get there any other way.

00:01:44.120 The only reason you got there is because you've been tricked by society and lied to and told a bunch of fucking bullshit.

00:01:49.140 So you're talking about submission and respect.

00:01:51.360 Yeah, it'll come when you meet the right man, naturally.

00:01:54.160 And this is another point I make because I have a lot of men message me.

00:01:56.760 I trust guys.

00:01:57.620 Please understand the most Googled man on the planet.

00:01:59.640 I have 100,000 emails a day.

00:02:01.740 Bam.

00:02:02.660 And I get dudes email me.

00:02:04.140 How do I get my woman to submit? 1.00

00:02:05.260 And I don't reply to it.

00:02:06.160 I can't reply to all the emails.

00:02:07.200 But if I ever read them, I'm like, bro, you're a fucking dork.

00:02:09.980 Why would she reply to you?

00:02:11.980 Why would she submit to you? 0.99

00:02:13.480 You're a fucking nerd.

00:02:15.200 That's the truth.

00:02:16.080 I'm not out here saying, submit to all men.

00:02:18.540 Men are the boss. 0.97

00:02:19.420 I'm saying, listen, there's natural balance in the universe.

00:02:22.740 When you meet a G, I've never had trouble with a woman obeying me. 1.00

00:02:28.280 She just wants to.

00:02:29.920 It's natural for our dynamic.

00:02:31.940 If she didn't want to obey me, we wouldn't even get to the point of a relationship.

00:02:35.280 If she didn't feel like she wanted to listen to me, we would have never got to where we want to get.

00:02:38.820 It just doesn't work.

00:02:39.780 That shit only happens when the female is fucking giving up sex too easy. 1.00

00:02:42.720 And the dude's just picking up easy pussy. 1.00

00:02:44.180 And they end up in some bullshit relationship.

00:02:45.560 They don't even like each other.

00:02:46.360 That's dumb shit.

00:02:47.280 That's dumb shit, right?

00:02:48.380 But I don't have any of these problems in my life.

00:02:50.140 And if you're a dude at home and you're watching this and you go, oh, my woman to submit.

00:02:53.140 And she doesn't.

00:02:54.000 Guess what?

00:02:54.680 She doesn't respect you.

00:02:55.560 And guess whose fault that is a lot of the time?

00:02:57.740 Your fault.

00:02:58.760 That is your fault as a man.

00:03:00.860 Yes.

00:03:01.560 It is.

00:03:02.480 No, it is.

00:03:03.300 Yes.

00:03:03.560 No, no.

00:03:03.960 That's what you guys need to damn here.

00:03:05.780 But it's not about blaming men and women because everyone has a problem.

00:03:09.460 But then there's also men who are worthy of respect who women refuse to respect because of society. 0.61

00:03:14.060 So there's two sides to it, right?

00:03:16.340 But a lot of it is if you're a capable enough man and you're brilliant enough, then the female has no choice. 0.97

00:03:21.740 But it's very interesting.

00:03:23.120 This goes back into a point I made earlier about how important it is for us men to find women who we don't believe have had a lot of life experience and look like they are.

00:03:30.140 Because I got attacked.

00:03:31.320 I'm going to make this point right now.

00:03:32.380 I got attacked when the Matrix attacked me and fucking lied about me.

00:03:35.560 They said that men are interested in women who are younger because they're more programmable and that they're trying to make out that I'm making out that men are out here trying to get women and fucking do bad things to them.

00:03:44.760 No.

00:03:45.160 What I'm saying is if you find a woman who's younger and been through less things, less trauma, less relationships, less headache, she's lived less life, your ideals. 0.77

00:03:54.140 If you ask any woman who loves her man, what's your favorite song, his favorite song, who do you vote for, who he votes for, what's your favorite car, his car.

00:04:02.100 That's how it happens when a woman loves a man. 1.00

00:04:03.860 And that makes the man feel good, right?

00:04:05.520 If she's been through too much shit, then that's a lot harder to pull off.

00:04:08.700 So that link is very important for men and women.

00:04:13.600 So, yeah, the Matrix attacked me with that.

00:04:15.060 But it's very, very interesting.

00:04:16.100 You have to understand all these small sub-dynamics and why things are happening and why the world is the way it is.

00:04:21.080 And the baseline of it is, is that everything's fucked.

00:04:24.840 Men are acting like men and women are acting like women and it's all messed up. 0.97

00:04:27.800 Oh, yeah.

00:04:28.140 So what about like your own autonomy and like just like you can, your favorite car is your favorite car.

00:04:33.580 My favorite car is my favorite car.

00:04:34.720 Like why does it have to, I guess that's where I'm confused.

00:04:37.140 Is it agreeableness?

00:04:38.040 Yeah, why does it have to be like that?

00:04:39.660 Yeah, and that's a good point, right?

00:04:41.240 I understand that completely.

00:04:42.320 But I'll give you an example.

00:04:43.620 I'll talk from personal experience because it makes it easy for me.

00:04:45.940 I have a bunch of cars.

00:04:46.840 I love cars.

00:04:47.360 I have 32 cars.

00:04:48.380 My favorite car is X.

00:04:49.400 I pick up a chick.

00:04:50.080 This is my, what's your favorite car?

00:04:51.720 This one.

00:04:52.200 I like that one.

00:04:53.120 I'm like, all right, cool.

00:04:53.800 Whatever.

00:04:54.080 No big deal.

00:04:54.940 But the agreeableness is ultra attractive.

00:04:58.600 It depends what the woman wants to do, right? 1.00

00:05:00.300 If I was a woman and let's say, let's say I'm 22 years old and I meet a billionaire and it's my goal to marry this man.

00:05:05.840 And I go to his house and I say, wow, you have so many cars.

00:05:08.600 What's your favorite car?

00:05:09.140 This one.

00:05:09.900 Really?

00:05:10.380 I thought that one too.

00:05:11.460 It looks so good.

00:05:12.120 Why that one?

00:05:12.740 Because this, this, this.

00:05:13.820 Oh, really?

00:05:14.280 Okay.

00:05:14.460 I'll try and remember that.

00:05:15.820 That's how you get the dude, right?

00:05:17.140 You don't get the dude by going, well, that one is a better color.

00:05:20.080 You're a dickhead.

00:05:21.640 It may be small things.

00:05:23.880 It may be tiny things, but men are ultra interested in things like agreeableness.

00:05:28.320 We're ultra interested in the idea of a woman absorbing our worldviews. 0.99

00:05:32.380 We're ultra interested.

00:05:33.320 We are.

00:05:33.940 That's what we're looking for.

00:05:34.780 That's taken away from the woman's identity though.

00:05:37.040 Wait, what if you say.

00:05:37.960 Because she doesn't like the car.

00:05:39.020 No, no, no.

00:05:39.440 So why should she agree to your car that she doesn't like? 0.83

00:05:42.640 Why do you want to be with someone that doesn't know who they are?

00:05:46.060 She doesn't have to agree.

00:05:46.680 Can I say, oh, I like this one.

00:05:48.620 This is my favorite, but I like yours too.

00:05:50.680 Yours is quite nice, you know.

00:05:51.800 Actually, now that I'm looking at it, it's quite good.

00:05:53.660 But I like this one, but I like that one as well.

00:05:55.220 It's not like you want a slave.

00:05:56.860 It's someone that doesn't have their own mind.

00:05:58.280 That's just not going against me.

00:06:00.160 It's just being nice.

00:06:00.980 It doesn't cost you much.

00:06:01.820 It's like, yeah, you can say, oh, baby.

00:06:03.120 Men don't want a girl that's nagging on them for the smallest things. 0.99

00:06:06.400 It's like, why are you giving a guy a headache over a car?

00:06:08.640 That's not nagging.

00:06:09.600 That's not nagging though.

00:06:10.680 He's saying, oh, what car do you like?

00:06:13.220 Why does she have to say his car?

00:06:15.220 She likes a different car.

00:06:16.360 I just gave you a solution though.

00:06:18.120 I'm talking about how as a female to be as attractive as possible to men. 0.95

00:06:24.380 Now, I'm not saying you can't get a man if you say another car. 0.54

00:06:27.460 I'm saying, how do you be as attractive as possible?

00:06:30.320 Because you also don't understand how men think.

00:06:32.820 It's different if you come to my house and choose to like another one of my cars.

00:06:36.420 But what if I only have one car?

00:06:38.360 And now you say, well, no, I picked you up in my BMW.

00:06:41.200 Oh, yeah, it's nice.

00:06:42.000 I prefer Mercedes.

00:06:42.800 You know what a man thinks the second you say that?

00:06:44.280 Who picked you up in a Merc?

00:06:46.280 That's the first thing that goes to his fucking mind.

00:06:47.960 How do you know about Mercedes?

00:06:49.300 What if you can buy your own Mercedes?

00:06:51.820 That's not what crosses the man's mind.

00:06:54.340 I'm telling you how men think.

00:06:55.340 But then that's why.

00:06:56.200 What percent of women can really afford their own Mercedes? 1.00

00:07:01.560 Especially when you go crazy.

00:07:03.000 No, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys.

00:07:06.020 I bought my own car.

00:07:06.920 I drive a BMW.

00:07:07.760 I said, okay, I'm really happy for you.

00:07:13.500 I'm really happy for you.

00:07:14.640 I said, what the average woman makes $35,000 a year? 1.00

00:07:18.420 It's not that hard in this UK.

00:07:19.540 It's not that hard.

00:07:20.320 I said, okay, I'm really happy for you.

00:07:26.000 I'm really happy for your car.

00:07:27.080 But the average woman, I'm saying, but the whole point is that what percent of women even earn that much? 0.99

00:07:32.320 It's not a high percentage.

00:07:33.420 So when a guy hears that you've been in this car and that car and that car, his automatic assumption is that you're an average girl.

00:07:42.600 And that foolishness.

00:07:43.320 And that you've been with a bunch of guys to get to that point.

00:07:46.060 I've had a lot of experiences because of my dad, because my dad's very successful.

00:07:49.640 But I've been in situations where I've said, like, oh, I did this, I did this, I did this.

00:07:54.000 And they think it's with a guy, but it's with my dad.

00:07:56.080 Because most guys assume that you are an average person.

00:07:59.460 And that's demeaning a woman. 1.00

00:08:02.320 Can I just say that she can't afford a lot of people?

00:08:04.560 It's not demeaning a woman.

00:08:06.000 It's looking at a balance of probabilities.

00:08:08.080 If I meet an average guy, I assume he makes average money.

00:08:11.480 Sounds like a traumatized brother.

00:08:12.520 I think it's just based on.

00:08:14.940 Wait, wait, stop.

00:08:16.300 Wait, it's based on a balance of probabilities.

00:08:19.640 Can I just say something?

00:08:20.640 That it's all about making a man feel like everybody says, oh, he's a top G.

00:08:25.720 But it's like, if your man put up a light fitting, and you're standing there watching them put up a light fitting,

00:08:31.780 or you, Denalva, they're watching a man put up a light fitting, what would you say while he's putting it up on?

00:08:36.420 How would you react?

00:08:37.340 I'd be like, you're probably doing it wrong, but I'll let you finish, and then you just have to fix it.

00:08:40.980 Right, all right, then, but hang on a minute.

00:08:42.360 And how would you act if your man was putting up a light fitting?

00:08:44.460 I wouldn't have told him.

00:08:44.600 I'd be like, well, thank you, baby.

00:08:45.640 Okay.

00:08:46.380 Oh, I'll be like, see, the thing is.

00:08:48.300 No, just answer the question.

00:08:49.480 I'll just answer the question.

00:08:50.220 No, no, please.

00:08:50.440 What would you say if your man was putting up the light fitting?

00:08:52.680 I'm just asking the question.

00:08:53.800 I would be like, thank you, babe.

00:08:55.180 Thanks for putting up the light fitting.

00:08:57.040 I appreciate you.

00:08:58.080 My man put up a light fitting.

00:08:59.320 I was like, wow.

00:09:00.360 He got it all out.

00:09:01.080 It was all in boxes.

00:09:02.260 He got his toolbox.

00:09:03.400 He was up there on the ladder.

00:09:04.260 Whatever you want me to hand you.

00:09:05.600 I was like, oh, my God, you're stripping wires.

00:09:08.440 Oh, my God.

00:09:09.280 Then he said, oh, turn it.

00:09:10.100 When it finished, I was like, it works.

00:09:12.480 That's what he's talking about.

00:09:13.800 I agree.

00:09:14.280 That is what he's talking about.

00:09:15.320 When he's talking about the car, he's not saying you can get your own car.

00:09:18.180 He's saying make the man feel like he's doing something.

00:09:20.480 Make him feel appreciated.

00:09:21.940 That's right.

00:09:22.120 Like, act like a child.

00:09:23.420 No, I agree.

00:09:24.380 I agree.

00:09:24.600 And that's what he's saying.

00:09:25.500 He's not saying that, oh, yeah, you don't like that car.

00:09:27.780 It's like, my man got a car.

00:09:29.580 It's like, oh, my God, it's got to hit his seats.

00:09:31.520 That's the same way a girl likes to hear. 0.60

00:09:33.080 You're the most beautiful girl in the world.

00:09:34.940 I think it's got to be a balance, though.

00:09:36.940 Like, yeah, I agree.

00:09:38.000 I like to make my man feel good.

00:09:39.980 When my man dresses up, I'm like, girl, you look so fine.

00:09:43.120 Like, I like to make my man feel good.

00:09:44.880 But he has to do that to me as well.

00:09:46.420 Listen, right.

00:09:46.900 He has to offer me that sexual expression.

00:09:48.120 I listen to Mr. Tate, right, say about, let me put, for instance, there's an artist that I like.

00:09:53.860 My man likes it, too.

00:09:55.780 COVID are just sort of, like, finished.

00:09:57.680 I've got two free tickets to go to the, to go.

00:10:01.320 My man said to me, you're not going.

00:10:02.580 What would you do?

00:10:04.260 I'm going.

00:10:05.500 What would you do?

00:10:06.580 Why am I not going?

00:10:09.380 It doesn't matter.

00:10:10.140 He said to you, you're not going.

00:10:11.180 Because that's just the logical submission.

00:10:13.160 I know.

00:10:13.720 Why tell me why I can't go there?

00:10:15.120 But the whole point is you pick someone that you respect enough to trust his judgment, even when you disagree.

00:10:21.660 That's the whole point.

00:10:22.820 I want to find somebody who respect enough to not bring me stupid.

00:10:26.780 Just because you're in a relationship.

00:10:28.620 Guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, stop, stop.

00:10:30.060 Wait, wait, wait.

00:10:31.280 We need one at a time.

00:10:32.380 Why would you think it's something stupid or whatever?

00:10:35.040 You trust a man enough to be with him.

00:10:36.640 You trust a man enough to sleep with him.

00:10:38.260 So why won't you trust an opinion?

00:10:39.840 Why does he have to give that?

00:10:40.900 If I say to my man, like, if I say to my man, don't do this.

00:10:45.040 The first thing is me thinking, not she's telling me what to do.

00:10:46.980 There must be a reason behind it why she's telling me not to do.

00:10:49.820 Because she trusts me.

00:10:50.940 I did not go.

00:10:51.760 I had two free tickets.

00:10:53.040 I did not go.

00:10:54.100 I'll tell you why.

00:10:55.020 Wait, wait, wait.

00:10:55.880 Until you ask me a question, I'll tell you why.

00:10:57.280 Because the same way a man wants that sort of validation, a woman wants assurance. 0.76

00:11:01.140 I don't want to just blindly do everything all the time.

00:11:03.400 Especially sometimes thinking, okay, that's a bit strange.

00:11:05.320 So let's make a point.

00:11:08.280 Antti made a really important point.

00:11:10.680 Because the point she's making is twofold and it's extremely important.

00:11:13.120 Because a lot of women talk about being submissive, but they're submissive when it suits them. 1.00

00:11:17.240 That's not submission.

00:11:18.220 So she wanted to go to the concert.

00:11:20.220 He said no.

00:11:21.000 She trusts him as a man.

00:11:22.060 She didn't go.

00:11:22.860 Absolute respect for that.

00:11:23.940 That's exactly what my woman would have done. 1.00

00:11:25.480 Exactly the same thing.

00:11:26.680 Women go, I'm submissive. 1.00

00:11:27.840 You're submissive when he's buying you shit in bed and you're submissive.

00:11:31.680 But the second he says something you don't like, you instantly turn off the submission, run your fucking mess. 0.92

00:11:35.320 That's not submissive.

00:11:36.220 That's manipulation.

00:11:36.880 That's bullshit.

00:11:37.460 So that's the first thing.

00:11:38.540 The second thing is responsibility and authority are linked.

00:11:42.380 And as a man, if I'm going to be responsible for a woman, I need a degree of authority over her. 0.98

00:11:47.720 This is the reality of it.

00:11:48.860 If I'm going to be responsible for paying your bills, responsible for your personal safety, responsible for your personal development, responsible for fixing the life fitting, responsible for everything that I'm supposed to do as a man, I need a degree of authority to sometimes come along and say X, Y, Z and be obeyed.

00:12:03.120 If I'm going to have a ship, if you have a ship, the reason the captain has to go down with the ship is because he is responsible for everything that happens on that ship.

00:12:11.260 And because of that, he has authority.

00:12:13.240 If he yells at the shipmates and they all ignore him, then he can't be considered responsible for the problems on the ship, which means he doesn't have to die with it.

00:12:20.140 If you want a man invested in a relationship, he needs to be responsible for you, but he needs authority over you.

00:12:26.520 And you know what?

00:12:27.040 The smartest thing you can do as a woman is sit and go, you know what? 1.00

00:12:29.480 Going to this concert is two hours, but this is going to piss him off.

00:12:33.480 And it's going to be a splinter in his mind for years.

00:12:37.000 Is this really worth it?

00:12:38.740 Now, I'm not saying let some man abuse you.

00:12:41.400 Let some man treat the shit. 1.00

00:12:42.140 But if you have a good man who's good to you 99% of the time and he comes along and he really cares about something, you should give him that grace and give him that, you know what?

00:12:50.400 He's the man.

00:12:50.960 He said it.

00:12:51.500 Boom.

00:12:51.880 Done.

00:12:52.260 Because if something happened to you at that concert, if your bag was snatched, if you got fucking robbed, if someone tried to punch you, if someone grabbed you, who would you call?

00:13:03.360 Help! 0.98

00:13:03.760 The police!

00:13:04.540 Help me!

00:13:04.880 The police!

00:13:05.740 You call your man!

00:13:06.720 The police!

00:13:07.280 You call him!

00:13:08.080 Senor Andrew, Mr. Tate King, master supreme leader of everything, the universe, the matrix and all of that.

00:13:13.740 No, I just say this because it keeps him chilled.

00:13:15.720 I've got to make my voice the right way, you know?

00:13:17.860 But Tate, do you not think that he's not respecting?

00:13:20.400 Wait, wait, wait.

00:13:21.340 Guys, wait one second, one second.

00:13:22.820 I just, I, you go ahead.

00:13:24.580 You want to say something?

00:13:25.760 Just doing the most.

00:13:26.920 Of course I have to do the most.

00:13:28.100 This is the thing.

00:13:28.960 What you don't understand is that as a lady, I am displaying to you that it's very easy to speak to a man like Andrew Tate, as long as you don't need to step on his toes and you respect the authority.

00:13:38.080 That he has.

00:13:38.720 I'm not going to sit here and try and fight against a man that has done a lot more in my life, been in rooms that I haven't been in because he's Andrew Tate.

00:13:45.200 I respect you, but I can still put my point across, okay?

00:13:49.040 My point is, no, but there is a point, of course.

00:13:51.960 Look, I'm just saying something.

00:13:52.860 When you say but after something, you just can't see everything you said before.

00:13:55.840 However, it's a point, it's an acknowledgement and then comes the counter argument because I don't have to agree with things to speak, okay?

00:14:02.780 So my point simply is, fine, I get that.

00:14:05.520 But at the end of the day, the same way that we have evolved now, as a woman I have evolved, I would expect and what I do want is not equality, is a certain level of respect.

00:14:14.720 Which means that if I am also somebody that is quite smart, somebody that can take care of themselves, I've done all of this for about 30 years of my life, you can't tell me just no.

00:14:24.180 The condition is, instead of telling me, no, give me the assurance as to why you said no.

00:14:29.520 Because actually, I am agreeable when you make me feel assured that what you're doing makes me feel safe.

00:14:34.740 Actually, because what women are looking in love for is stability. 1.00

00:14:37.820 And stability comes from knowing that you can trust the man.

00:14:40.520 I don't trust blindly.

00:14:41.720 It takes for your assurance.

00:14:42.820 It doesn't count if you're only agreeable when you feel like being agreeable.

00:14:46.140 Can I just say something, Denalva?

00:14:47.520 That's why I said I'm submissive, I'm submissive, out of logic, law.

00:14:51.520 You're only submissive when you feel like being agreeable, like when you feel like it's not submissive.

00:14:55.760 Can I just say something, Denalva?

00:14:57.140 Out of respect.

00:14:58.200 We live in different houses.

00:14:59.480 Of course.

00:14:59.740 If I went, he'd never know.

00:15:00.980 Me and my man, because I'm a caregiver.

00:15:03.440 If I went, he would have never known.

00:15:05.660 Right.

00:15:06.480 So I still didn't go.

00:15:07.840 Okay.

00:15:10.160 And?

00:15:11.300 So what you were saying?

00:15:12.620 So I'll say to you, okay, baby, you don't want me to go, why don't you want me to go?

00:15:15.500 Like, what's worrying you?

00:15:16.180 What's the matter?

00:15:16.760 Why would you not want me to go?

00:15:17.780 But why would I want to question him when he's always got my best interest at heart?

00:15:20.260 Well, I want to know.

00:15:21.200 He's not explaining that to you.

00:15:21.540 I don't know why, because my best interest in me.

00:15:23.320 Why should he have to explain everything?

00:15:24.720 Because you're not a child.

00:15:26.440 You are also an adult.

00:15:27.580 And it's not only that.

00:15:28.140 I'm treating a woman like she doesn't have her own mind. 1.00

00:15:30.900 It's very disrespectful.

00:15:31.480 It's an acknowledgement.

00:15:32.880 It's like, I'm sorry.

00:15:33.880 Think about it.

00:15:34.800 Right.

00:15:35.000 I'm a 26.

00:15:36.300 I'm 26.

00:15:37.140 Right.

00:15:37.600 I've lived my life all by myself.

00:15:39.820 And then I'm in a relationship and this man is telling me I can't go out.

00:15:42.400 Let me give you an example.

00:15:43.000 With no reason.

00:15:44.320 Girls, let me give you an example. 1.00

00:15:45.040 Does that make sense?

00:15:45.800 Can I do that to a man and just say, I don't want you to go out?

00:15:48.260 If I told him, if I told my man, listen, right, you know, you said you're going such and such.

00:15:52.340 Well, you know what?

00:15:52.900 I don't really think you should go.

00:15:54.280 He'll think about it and he'll say, you really don't want me to go?

00:15:56.320 And I'll say, no, he won't go.

00:15:57.540 That's a lie.

00:15:58.520 That's not a lie.

00:15:59.200 There's no man.

00:16:00.180 That's a lie.

00:16:00.920 If we can do videos like that.

00:16:03.740 Baby, I can veto you.

00:16:05.160 Let me ask you girls a question. 0.95

00:16:07.420 The reason she decided not to go is because this is obviously not a regular occurrence.

00:16:11.040 Right?

00:16:11.320 So he had a reason and she trusts his judgment.

00:16:13.520 Let me give you girls a scenario. 1.00

00:16:14.740 Let's imagine I'm with a chick, whatever, whatever.

00:16:18.020 She has a concert.

00:16:18.980 I said, I don't want you to go.

00:16:20.060 And she replies like you, why can't I go?

00:16:22.140 And I say, I've got a bad feeling.

00:16:24.540 Don't go.

00:16:26.020 Now what?

00:16:27.020 Now I'm like.

00:16:28.000 So would you think the woman should just go, I don't give a shit about your stupid feeling and bounce? 1.00

00:16:32.280 Or should she trust me?

00:16:33.480 What is the reason for that bad feeling?

00:16:35.000 There's no reason.

00:16:35.680 There's no reason.

00:16:36.380 I've got a bad feeling.

00:16:37.600 I've got a bad feeling.

00:16:38.480 This is the thing.

00:16:39.260 That doesn't make sense.

00:16:39.760 Wait, wait.

00:16:40.340 Look at the key.

00:16:40.940 A bad feeling.

00:16:41.540 Listen, listen, my sister, this is the key.

00:16:44.100 When you say, I don't know, I just got a bad feeling.

00:16:46.840 Let me tell you how that is getting translated into my head.

00:16:49.680 He cares about me and he's actually thinking about something that potentially could be happening

00:16:53.460 that I'm not aware of.

00:16:54.580 I love him for thinking outside the box.

00:16:56.440 But you've reassured me.

00:16:57.880 You've shown me respect for being able to make my own decision.

00:17:00.500 And that's all it takes.

00:17:01.560 That's all a girl wants to hear. 1.00

00:17:02.920 I'm sorry, you need a logical reason as to why you're going to tell me.

00:17:06.280 A feeling is not logical.

00:17:08.060 You can't just say you have a bad feeling.

00:17:08.980 A feeling is not logical.

00:17:10.000 Guys, guys, guys, guys, the whole point is a guy doesn't want to explain every decision

00:17:18.060 he makes.

00:17:18.860 Of course.

00:17:19.720 A lot of times men think things through a lot more than we realize.

00:17:24.880 And so he's already thought about it.

00:17:26.680 He's already made his decision.

00:17:28.060 It's a headache to him when every time he makes a decision, he has to explain it to you.

00:17:32.180 That's right.

00:17:32.500 And if you trust that man and you've been with him as long as auntie's been with her man

00:17:36.960 and he says something with the kind of relationship they have and the respect they have for each

00:17:40.480 other, of course, she's going to be like, oh, right. 0.78

00:17:41.780 Well, cool.

00:17:42.440 Done.

00:17:42.800 That's trust.

00:17:43.820 And that's trust.

00:17:44.600 I wasn't happy.

00:17:45.740 Of course.

00:17:46.580 And also, that's a really good point about submission because submission is largely misunderstood.

00:17:51.100 Like, I can tell you a million stories.

00:17:53.000 I've had girls who are like, yeah, you're the man.

00:17:54.640 You're in charge.

00:17:55.380 And yeah, no problem.

00:17:56.880 Yeah, she's cool.

00:17:57.900 She's cool on the jet.

00:17:58.960 She's cool in Dubai.

00:17:59.820 She's cool in the restaurants. 0.99

00:18:00.860 She's cool in the five stars.

00:18:01.980 She's cool in the Lambo.

00:18:03.000 But the second I say something that she half doesn't like, then she's like, well, you know

00:18:07.280 what?

00:18:07.840 Then she's a feminist. 1.00

00:18:09.120 Right?

00:18:09.320 So women do this very well. 1.00

00:18:11.020 A lot of women flip flop. 1.00

00:18:12.100 Like, if you trust your man and you really want to be with him and you really want to submit

00:18:15.080 to him, there's going to be times you're going to submit in ways you don't like.

00:18:17.840 That's the whole point of it.

00:18:18.960 There's going to be times you have to do things you don't want to do.

00:18:21.400 I've actually said this in the past.

00:18:22.800 I respect you in the fact that you're willing to give a woman a life. 0.68

00:18:27.420 You're willing to provide for her.

00:18:29.160 But as many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok and we are demonetized on a daily

00:18:34.780 basis on this platform.

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JustPearlyThings - December 26, 2022

Andrew Tate Triggered These Modern Women

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