JustPearlyThings - June 15, 2023


Andrew Tate TRIGGERS Modern Woman By Saying This

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Hannah Pearl Davis
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11 minutes

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2,331

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219

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27

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14

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In this episode, the guys debate Tate's recent comments about women being better than men when it comes to dating. They also debate if women should be allowed to like men who are rich or not, and if men should be able to date smart women.

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00:00:00.000 Jen, we're going to try, we're going to look at Tate's emergency meeting.
00:00:03.460 Who here is familiar with Tate, Andrew Tate?
00:00:06.540 Oh, I'm familiar.
00:00:07.120 I think all of us.
00:00:07.940 Hi, everybody.
00:00:08.600 Does anybody, do you, all right, does anybody not like him?
00:00:11.760 Anyone got a strong anti-Tate?
00:00:14.860 I think.
00:00:16.300 Of course.
00:00:18.440 It's you.
00:00:19.820 It's you against the world today.
00:00:21.780 Let's go.
00:00:22.240 Maybe I'll be on your team.
00:00:23.900 Oh, please, for once.
00:00:25.180 No, basically, like, I have, like, in-between views on him.
00:00:31.680 So sometimes I understand him, like, when he talks about, you know, dating in an old-fashioned way,
00:00:38.640 because I think that is something that we should be doing.
00:00:42.100 But then when he says stuff like, you know, women are better when they are younger, 18, 19, go pursue them. 1.00
00:00:51.100 There was one, I can't remember word for word.
00:00:52.920 He said he'd rather date a 19-year-old than a 26-year-old.
00:00:55.700 Yeah, and then he was basically devaluing the older women.
00:00:59.440 Yeah.
00:00:59.740 So I was like, no, I don't like that, because that falls under my category, and that tricked me.
00:01:03.280 That triggered a nerve.
00:01:05.100 Okay.
00:01:05.700 But then other than that, he's cool, like, it just depends.
00:01:09.160 Do you think that men or women are allowed to like men that are rich?
00:01:12.360 A woman can like whoever she wants to like. 1.00
00:01:17.080 Yeah, but then why can't the men like whoever they want to like?
00:01:19.260 They can.
00:01:19.680 Yeah, you know?
00:01:20.240 I think everyone can have a preference, and they can like whoever they want to like,
00:01:24.380 as long as you're not disrespecting other people in different categories.
00:01:29.020 Okay.
00:01:29.620 I'm 26, you know.
00:01:31.100 Oh, I'm 26, too.
00:01:32.160 Yeah, but it's like, I think I understand where he's coming from, even being 26, because
00:01:37.340 it's like, there's less experience.
00:01:39.740 Like, does a guy want a girl with a ton of experience?
00:01:42.300 No.
00:01:42.660 Yeah, but why would you want someone who's so naive?
00:01:45.140 Because I remember when I was 18, 19, I thought I knew so much, but I didn't know nothing.
00:01:49.340 Because when you're not naive, it's like you're always arguing with him.
00:01:52.040 Like, oh, I know what you're doing, you know?
00:01:54.000 Like, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, she's laughing, right?
00:01:55.900 Because it's like, they don't want a girl that's like always, like, because of trauma 0.98
00:02:00.280 from previous relationships, always bringing up those problems.
00:02:03.320 Yep.
00:02:03.660 That's true.
00:02:04.340 You know?
00:02:04.360 Because like, imagine, like, you know, at 26, like, I might, if he had, I'm trying to
00:02:09.180 think of something.
00:02:09.820 I can't off the top of that.
00:02:10.420 Please be positive.
00:02:11.120 No, I'm trying to think of something off.
00:02:13.160 But you could think of something maybe an ex did that was like sneaky, right?
00:02:16.520 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:02:17.420 And if someone in the future does that same thing, you might think, like, I don't know, maybe
00:02:21.600 bring a phone to the bathroom, whatever it is.
00:02:23.680 The guys would rather just have a girl that's like, oh, why don't he, he's just bringing 1.00
00:02:27.420 his phone or whatever, whatever.
00:02:28.940 That's true.
00:02:29.840 But you know what, yeah?
00:02:31.060 He should date someone who's intelligent at the same time.
00:02:33.580 Because like, for me. 0.88
00:02:34.360 It doesn't mean she's dumb. 0.81
00:02:35.560 I know, but you got us in our bracket, yeah? 0.89
00:02:38.840 Yeah.
00:02:39.100 If we, like, okay, say now I have a relationship tomorrow, blah, blah, blah.
00:02:42.100 Not that I can't get one.
00:02:42.940 I'm just picky, by the way.
00:02:43.860 Don't get twisted.
00:02:44.500 I'm not desperate.
00:02:46.960 Sounds pretty desperate to me.
00:02:48.960 Nah, not even.
00:02:50.040 You and every woman, right?
00:02:51.760 Every woman's picky. 1.00
00:02:52.840 Yes, exactly.
00:02:53.540 That's not an issue.
00:02:54.740 Why does every girl say, like, I could be having a boyfriend right now? 1.00
00:02:58.640 Like, what?
00:02:59.360 Because I can't.
00:03:00.420 There's so many simps out there that would do anything for me.
00:03:02.820 Yeah, but the thing is, if you're single, it means the men that you want don't want you.
00:03:07.480 It does.
00:03:08.120 For everybody.
00:03:09.120 The same with the women. 0.99
00:03:10.300 If a guy's single, it's the same thing.
00:03:12.520 The women that he wants doesn't want him. 0.99
00:03:15.060 I would say, I don't know.
00:03:16.440 You can debate that.
00:03:16.940 What?
00:03:17.540 You can debate that to some degree.
00:03:18.820 What?
00:03:19.340 You know how you said, if a guy's single, that it could be, because he...
00:03:23.180 Or he doesn't want a relationship.
00:03:24.440 Yeah.
00:03:24.900 It's debatable, but yeah, I do.
00:03:26.180 Like, for example, the guy that I wanted to marry before, he met my standards.
00:03:31.820 I clearly met his.
00:03:33.080 We was talking about these things.
00:03:34.500 But, however, there were certain qualities that didn't like certain conversations that
00:03:37.580 we had.
00:03:37.960 Like, for example, he would ask me, in the future, if you have like 10 kids, would you...
00:03:43.180 We had 10 kids together, we've been married for 10 years, would you let me have a second
00:03:46.860 wife?
00:03:47.500 In Islamically, that's obviously allowed. 1.00
00:03:50.420 But some women are okay with it, and some women are not. 1.00
00:03:53.120 So I told him, I'm not gonna lie, I'm not okay with that.
00:03:55.620 You're basically rinsing me out.
00:03:57.520 And then after that, you're gonna go for someone younger, and then I'm just the first wife, 0.98
00:04:02.840 whatever.
00:04:03.540 I'm not really with that.
00:04:05.360 And then from there, we kind of started getting put off by each other.
00:04:09.500 So then that fizzled out.
00:04:10.960 So it had nothing to do with him wanting me, or him not wanting me.
00:04:14.320 Well, he wasn't the guy you wanted, because he wanted a different thing.
00:04:17.360 But the point is, the guy that matched all those requirements, the same guy that matches
00:04:22.160 those requirements and wants monogamy, he doesn't want you if you're not with him.
00:04:27.640 Are you a Muslim woman?
00:04:30.080 You're Muslim?
00:04:30.940 Yes, but I'm not religious.
00:04:32.400 I'm still practicing religious.
00:04:34.700 But I am gonna become religious one day.
00:04:36.540 So I do carry some of those traits.
00:04:38.320 Could it be the kind of high-value dude that you want to meet, though?
00:04:42.140 He might require that you share him.
00:04:45.480 You know, it could be that you meet another high-value guy who ticks all your boxes, and
00:04:49.220 he's gonna say something similar.
00:04:50.600 I always say that, though.
00:04:51.680 But I always say, I think it's terrible advice that guys give other guys, like forcing women 0.99
00:04:56.560 to accept the fact that other women are gonna be in the picture.
00:05:00.880 Because women with self-respect, they're not gonna accept that. 1.00
00:05:05.020 They're not gonna be like, yeah, just bring some other woman into the picture. 0.87
00:05:08.660 Like, normal women are not gonna tolerate that. 1.00
00:05:11.200 I think a lot of women will tolerate cheating. 1.00
00:05:13.840 Cheating is one thing.
00:05:15.500 Not another main thing.
00:05:16.420 If you can keep it in the shadows, that's different.
00:05:19.540 Cheating is God's work.
00:05:21.200 Because I think so many women accept... 1.00
00:05:22.980 Cheating is for women. 1.00
00:05:24.100 Men do it for women. 1.00
00:05:25.000 Okay, but you know what's interesting?
00:05:26.080 Women in a way accept being side chicks all the time. 1.00
00:05:31.800 Because we start out in situationships.
00:05:34.480 Right.
00:05:34.840 Right?
00:05:35.200 So what is that?
00:05:36.800 Don't you think it depends on the society?
00:05:38.240 You know.
00:05:38.940 What do you mean?
00:05:39.640 Like, for example, let's say when a westernized society or an eastern society,
00:05:43.280 don't you think that the way that someone would accept their side chick or not would vary?
00:05:47.080 Yeah, it's gonna depend where you're at.
00:05:48.680 I think, like, if you look at...
00:05:49.640 It's more of a western thing, I think.
00:05:50.540 Yeah, I think if you, like, look at somewhere like Dubai or towards the eastern side of things,
00:05:54.360 like, I think they'd look at things more from a, what's my future gonna look like financially,
00:05:59.360 how my family, how's things gonna be set up.
00:06:01.100 But then if you come further to, like, the westernized side, I think it's more emotion-based
00:06:04.620 and it's an attention-based economy.
00:06:06.400 That's actually very funny.
00:06:07.300 A lot of Japanese wives, like, when they kind of, like, you know, are kind of checked out, 0.97
00:06:11.640 they just want to be a mom. 1.00
00:06:12.820 Like, Japanese wives are notoriously known for after they have children, 1.00
00:06:16.560 they basically stop having sex with a husband. 0.94
00:06:18.840 And some of them are just like, just go get a girlfriend.
00:06:22.780 They're just like, yeah, go get a girlfriend. 0.79
00:06:24.080 Why do you think that is?
00:06:24.820 Because they just want to take care of the kids.
00:06:26.860 Like, when a woman has children, nothing is more important than her children. 1.00
00:06:33.140 That's true.
00:06:33.540 I also agree with you there.
00:06:35.280 But wouldn't you also, back to the possibility that it could be the way that they were also raised in their households?
00:06:42.880 So, for example, let's say that they're raised in their households with the mindsets that, yo, you're going to have a husband one day,
00:06:49.000 so be like this, be like that, be like that.
00:06:51.160 And when you've got all those predetermined rules beforehand, don't you think that kind of affects the romanticism of a relationship?
00:06:57.420 But it doesn't depend on life stage as well, because he's describing, you know, women who are a little bit older, maybe,
00:07:02.860 and they've already been married, they've had their kids, so now their priorities have shifted a bit.
00:07:10.320 You know how you even said, like, oh, could it also be a factor because of age and so on and so forth?
00:07:15.440 Like, I do believe that some factors can combine with other factors.
00:07:18.200 Yeah, of course, yeah, yeah, for sure.
00:07:19.760 But I think in the West you get that as well, because you might get the young girl who's, like, happy to party,
00:07:23.460 and she's happy to, you know, be a side chick and everything else,
00:07:26.020 but she's not necessarily going to be so comfortable to accept that when she, you know, when she gets married to a dude. 0.55
00:07:30.800 And I'll say this, the girls that I know who have agreed to be side chicks, like, they're a little off.
00:07:37.120 Why? 0.99
00:07:37.260 They're just, like, they have, like, they have a dick-stained past. 0.96
00:07:44.220 They might be, you know, party people, they might be addicted to drugs, or casually smoke weed, and think, like, you know. 0.79
00:07:50.160 They're just not, they're not 100% there.
00:07:52.360 But my original statement is agreeing with the young lady over there.
00:07:55.940 I'm sorry, it's Haney?
00:07:56.660 Haney.
00:07:57.240 Haney.
00:07:57.820 Haney.
00:07:58.220 Yep.
00:07:58.580 Haney.
00:07:59.080 I was agreeing with Haney, and I talked to, and actually, yesterday, when I was doing the duo stream with Pearl,
00:08:05.540 and I talked to Pearl about the same thing, I definitely agree.
00:08:09.240 I think it's terrible advice that these content creators are telling regular guys, like, get out there and force your girl to take, to accept you and another woman.
00:08:22.120 Because the average woman with, like, a fraction of self-respect is just not going to be okay with that. 1.00
00:08:29.880 And if she is, she's not going to love you with the entirety of her being, compared to if she knows it, it's just you two together.
00:08:39.400 I'm curious.
00:08:40.700 You don't have to answer this, but I'm just curious.
00:08:42.840 You keep talking to me, I'll answer anything.
00:08:44.640 Because it has to do.
00:08:45.480 The other, like, content creators in the space that push, like, non-monogamy, is that what you found, like, when you've met their girlfriends?
00:08:51.760 Like, something has been off?
00:08:53.040 No, this is not a diss at any of these guys or any of their women or any of the things.
00:08:58.860 All I'm saying is from my life experience and talking to other people who are really good at understanding female nature and are dating coaches,
00:09:07.580 and my experience as well, because I did the whole thing.
00:09:09.880 I tried to openly tell, you know, multiple women I was dating them at the same time, and it was hell.
00:09:17.060 Oh, really? What happened?
00:09:17.960 Well, okay, it was hilarious, because, you know, female pettiness knows no end. 1.00
00:09:22.320 Yeah.
00:09:22.680 There was, like, this medicine cabinet in my penthouse that I was living in in Tokyo, right?
00:09:29.420 And one girl would put her stuff in there, and another girl started snooping through it, 0.97
00:09:35.740 and there was two Japanese girls and a Chinese girl, and they all started, like, this silent civil war.
00:09:42.540 Of toothbrushes.
00:09:43.520 Of toothbrushes and makeup in this little medicine cabinet, 0.96
00:09:47.560 and all it did, despite me getting sex and servitude from all these women, 0.99
00:09:52.820 it stressed the fuck out of me. 1.00
00:09:55.300 And I was just stressed out from their bullshit fighting at all times. 0.99
00:09:59.040 They never got in line, and they all, all three of them, 0.99
00:10:02.920 vented to me every time we got together on how much they hated the other girls.
00:10:08.860 And eventually, I lost all three of them.
00:10:12.840 So, am I a low-value beta male?
00:10:15.340 I don't know.
00:10:15.820 Shall I tell you what I think the mistake in that is?
00:10:20.180 I think it sounded like they were all three of them had the position of being your main woman. 0.99
00:10:27.780 No, there was a hierarchy there.
00:10:30.540 Yeah, but what I mean is you were giving all three of them a level of emotional and time investment, right?
00:10:36.780 As opposed to having one main girl, right?
00:10:40.000 And then she's like, okay, she understands that maybe every now and again you may exercise a physical option.
00:10:46.740 But that woman isn't going to be leaving her toothbrush around because that woman you're not really dating seriously. 1.00
00:10:51.540 Do you understand what I'm saying?
00:10:52.420 Yeah, I see what you're saying, but I just don't think it's going to, I don't think it works.
00:10:55.860 I don't.
00:10:56.200 Because women are so competitive with each other and they hate each other and they are so petty. 1.00
00:11:04.900 One girl, when she would wash clothes or whatever, and sometimes this other girl left her bra or panties in my washing machine and she would just take it and throw it behind the washing machine. 1.00
00:11:14.580 And then the other girl would always find her underwear. 1.00
00:11:17.000 She's like, somebody's throwing my underwear down.
00:11:19.020 And I was like, no, it's my cleaning lady.
00:11:20.540 I'm so sorry.
00:11:21.220 She's from Vietnam.
00:11:24.660 If you also look at how men and women also express themselves though, I say men are a lot more close to the physical side of things and women are a lot more close to the emotional and verbal.