JustPearlyThings - Annoying Beta Male Gets KICKED OFF The Show

00:00:00.000 and this is what prenatalism about it's about rethinking as a society what it means to be

00:00:04.560 married to somebody what it needs to sacrifice for somebody because that's what i owe all of

00:00:09.440 this to is her because she's given up so much for me i like this guy he's hard i don't know

00:00:15.200 because it's a society i owe it to my wife but i haven't met her yet you know what i mean i haven't

00:00:20.560 met her you owe it to your mom too though yeah but not just your wife you don't even have a wife

00:00:24.160 listen and let me tell you where i'm coming from before i get kicked off the show

00:00:31.520 yeah i'm not talking for humanity for myself you said my mom my mom's in the sky she's been dead

00:00:38.080 for like seven years so be careful what you say and how you say it because each individual person

00:00:44.720 are going through their own pains and their own mental brain processes are different everyone's

00:00:51.120 not the same and that's all i want everyone to understand we're not the same everyone's trying

00:00:57.200 to put us on the same playing field but we're not the same that's like water is wet the sky is blue

00:01:03.360 you're talking in parables i don't care about parables parables parables water's wet black

00:01:09.360 i don't really understand that okay the sky is blue but the sky is a reflection of the sea

00:01:14.960 i do like can we go back to the point where like if we got help we would actually reproduce because for

00:01:19.200 example you always see footballers at like 25 with bare kids yeah and it's because they can afford it

00:01:25.200 they can actually give that child a really good life that they may never have had if i had money

00:01:30.080 i would be on the hunt for a guy and i would be able to focus okay so no i don't think it's money

00:01:34.320 i think it's that women throw themselves at these guys yeah 1.00

00:01:37.280 i don't know come on yeah but it's so nice and easy saying let's reproduce but people can't afford

00:01:42.880 that like okay i actually i want to let um pearl pearl this was exactly the second point i was starting

00:01:48.960 a point and then this dude brilliantly hijacked my point twisted it into a new point presented a third

00:01:54.240 point and got an applause for it so thanks for stealing my thunder he's a good dude um so the the

00:02:02.240 question i postulate is do i do we men owe it to society to be the best versions of ourselves to

00:02:07.680 produce useful labor to build institutions right and if the answer is yes because it gives us a

00:02:12.080 purpose to aim for something higher why is it then that men owe it to society to build institutions

00:02:17.280 because building institutions being reliable being of high character being of value of economic value to

00:02:23.360 society what you do is you make money and by the way the stripes on my suit say make money for that

00:02:28.880 purpose because it because it teaches you it's not it's not supposed to be as reductive as it

00:02:33.520 seems it's very simple it just teaches you to be self-reliant and independent because it's a

00:02:37.520 high purpose to shoot for to not have to rely on the government that's all that says it's like

00:02:41.440 a freedom from government about relying on the government i said some people don't have the

00:02:44.960 same opportunities as you maybe you grew up in a very nice i don't know i don't know listen i'm saying

00:02:50.080 maybe right i'm very okay cool maybe you didn't stop i'm not done yet no let me finish this point

00:02:55.040 i i grew up in a predominantly social housing ghetto neighborhood because i'm an immigrant

00:03:04.800 from the soviet union and i ate at the food bank and it was embarrassing so what does that mean

00:03:09.440 it means it means that i had a food bank to me what does that mean i'm not what does that mean

00:03:16.000 guy that's guy that's dressed like a grasshopper stop interrupting bro what are you talking to me

00:03:21.840 yes you're talking to me exactly so what hey what we do hey what we do let me let me let me

00:03:29.760 let me mute his mic let me i've given you so many warnings please guys get rid of him

00:03:34.560 pick up your comments no okay pick up your comment i love that but you see the button

00:03:39.600 you're trying to press mute his mic please thank you mute my mic yeah no you have to go i've told you to stop

00:03:45.600 um okay um dimitri go ahead anyway so so the aspiration for a man there has to be a higher

00:03:55.040 purpose right i'm not saying that we're all you know the same and we have the same opportunity it's

00:03:58.400 not that the idea is not that we have the same uh potential we all have different potentials you're

00:04:03.120 probably a better musician than i am i'm not very creative right we have different potentials in

00:04:07.040 academia we have different potential in the way we present ourselves we all have different potential

00:04:10.640 right but the idea of being a productive and the idea of being productive and a man of value

00:04:16.720 is that you have a higher purpose to aim for so pearl i want to answer your question do women 1.00

00:04:21.600 owe it to society to have kids i'm not going to tell women what they owe or they don't know but the idea 0.94

00:04:25.840 that if like a woman owes it to society to have kids that sets an extremely high bar of aspiration 1.00

00:04:31.440 because it's so damn hard to have to be a productive enough person for a man to attract the woman

00:04:37.360 who's got enough wisdom and and sagaciousness and long-term outlook and and by the way we talk

00:04:44.640 about we don't owe anything anyone like like servitude it's a very high bar to have children

00:04:49.520 is it not it is a high bar for yourself and that's aspirational and that's beautiful

00:04:55.440 oh sorry can i don't you feel like there has to be like some sort of stability within you and your

00:05:02.720 partner yeah by the way so for a second i take it on myself as a man that it is my job to bring

00:05:09.440 stability and every and all the stoic literature and all the biblical literature says that it is up

00:05:15.440 to a man to build institutions yes you do need stability and who's responsible for that so i aim

00:05:19.360 for the bar the high bar is a man that i can be productive and bring stability so that i give a woman

00:05:24.480 a safe place to have children yeah so multiple things can be true one thing we've talked a lot about

00:05:28.400 here it's the cost of raising children you know and i think two things can be true

00:05:32.000 simultaneously one thing that is just true across countries is the less money you have typically

00:05:36.400 the more kids you have um and this only really reverses when the family's income is over half a

00:05:41.040 million a year then it starts to go up again but you know that's that's a lot of money um but it's

00:05:44.960 also true that you have to make enormous sacrifices and it is enormously costly to have a kid in our

00:05:50.240 society and i actually think that half a million mark that's the market which people don't really have

00:05:54.400 to make sacrifices anymore to have kids so when you're dealing with below that level i think a question

00:05:59.520 that we need to ask ourselves when people say having kids is expensive what they mean is having

00:06:02.960 kids is expensive without significantly changing my lifestyle my wife and i we could be earning a lot

00:06:06.640 more money than we do but we live in like a farm you know um and and that is because it was cheaper to

00:06:11.360 raise kids out there um and so the cultural groups that do have high fertility you know often there's

00:06:16.320 these religious people call them religious extremists weirdos or whatever right like they're weird and

00:06:21.600 that they are different from the urban monoculture and that they are different from the dominant

00:06:24.960 cultures in our society and that's how we judge weirdness um and uh uh they they one of the things

00:06:31.200 that makes them weird is choosing lifestyles uh that are significantly below the lifestyle they could

00:06:36.640 live based on what they earn because they believe there are things more important than than showing

00:06:41.840 off how great they are to the world it's like a more selfless culture is what you're saying

00:06:46.240 can i um right absolutely who said something can i bring up something that you said earlier on

00:06:52.800 obviously about obviously when you're bringing in kids you want to obviously give them the best

00:06:58.400 and stuff what about the people who obviously do have kids and they can't give them the best

00:07:03.120 that was a choice yeah i do and yeah obviously it is a choice they can't give them the best these kids

00:07:08.400 are suffering but what is the best because you know we have all this money in the west and we really have

00:07:14.800 a higher standard of living than like any time in human history but people are more depressed than

00:07:19.360 ever and even like there's a clip that just went viral of kim kardashian um her her daughter north

00:07:25.440 right and north is talking about how she prefers to be at kanye's house because at kanye's house

00:07:31.600 there's no chef there's no she's like i don't like the chef i want to get there's no security there i

00:07:36.720 just want to go to dad's house yeah so it's like you know these kids can have everything but if they

00:07:41.680 don't have what matters i grew up can i say something yeah i grew up in jamaica in like

00:07:49.520 the countryside so it was very poor i saw knife crime violence sex just my parents used to sell

00:07:55.360 drugs so i could eat all this type of stuff my dad was a fisherman like we was poor we didn't have much

00:08:00.800 we lived in little board houses all of that and i had the best upbringing ever my parents are rastafarians

00:08:07.200 they used to take me to the hot springs the healing waters they're taking me to all like the rastafarian

00:08:11.920 events i was living my best life all i remembered from my childhood was getting fish like basically

00:08:19.680 cooking with my dad on the cold stove outside we're going to the hot springs them dancing together

00:08:25.120 that's all i remember was the time spent so i just feel like the western world we just have so much

00:08:30.480 stimuli being thrown at us that we just we're confused about every single aspect of our lives from down to

00:08:35.600 our agenda when we're made to have kids our bodies where this makes things so complicated when you

00:08:40.880 return to a simpler life if you unlearn to learn return to a more simpler form of living you realize

00:08:47.280 that there's so much joy in just actually having love and

JustPearlyThings - November 09, 2023

Annoying Beta Male Gets KICKED OFF The Show

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