JustPearlyThings - Are ＂Dating The Same Guy＂ Groups Good or Bad？ (Call-in Show)

00:00:00.000 Being asked the following question, do we need men?

00:00:04.680 Most answered very quickly, no, because men are useless.

00:00:10.480 This headline from The Hill, it caught my eye.

00:00:13.380 Most young men are single, most young women are not.

00:00:16.400 Young men have fallen faster than any demographic in America over the last 40 years.

00:00:21.100 It's a different world now, like we don't need men the way that they used to.

00:00:24.160 Nobody needs men!

00:00:25.380 The future is female.

00:00:26.980 Men and women are drifting further apart, and society is crumbling because of it.

00:00:34.960 A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage.

00:00:38.220 You've kind of got the trad con versus red pill thing.

00:00:40.920 This men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way.

00:00:44.520 You need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and actually become men.

00:00:48.580 Marriage is a bond, and it's a sacred bond.

00:00:51.040 It's a machine designed to extract resources from you.

00:00:54.180 Now many of the red-pilled have taken the position that it's bad for men to get married.

00:00:59.020 It's Hannah Pearl Davis, or just pearly things.

00:01:02.800 One of the most controversial faces in all of the internet.

00:01:06.480 She goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men.

00:01:09.280 Because if me and you were in a business contract, you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave.

00:01:14.440 Gee, what could go wrong there?

00:01:15.740 Seventy-four percent or something of divorces are initiated by women.

00:01:20.200 Men have everything to lose, primarily their own children.

00:01:23.080 Men get killed by the courts and by divorce laws.

00:01:25.760 I had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity, not courts of law.

00:01:30.700 Because in family court, you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse.

00:01:33.900 You need no evidence.

00:01:34.900 When you guys say get married young, a lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for,

00:01:38.760 and you're not going to be there when their entire life falls apart.

00:01:42.120 I interviewed them on the other side.

00:01:43.720 I didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old.

00:01:47.120 How much did you spend trying to get him back?

00:01:49.180 The legal fees alone was about $200,000.

00:01:51.500 Before you know it, you're homeless.

00:01:52.940 You're literally just thrown out onto the street.

00:01:54.840 We absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women.

00:01:57.220 Wives are taught to leave their husbands, and then daughters grow up without their fathers.

00:02:01.480 Family is a foundation of society.

00:02:03.200 Every problem in society comes from single mother homes.

00:02:06.360 A lot of women will just chase this negative rabbit hole of happiness, endless happiness.

00:02:10.700 Feminism's biggest failure is it lies to women.

00:02:12.540 We tell women to date as many guys as possible.

00:02:14.440 We tell them to put off family into marriage.

00:02:16.200 You are allowed to leave your perfect husband.

00:02:18.960 You are allowed to end a relationship with a really great boyfriend.

00:02:23.440 Oh, freeze your eggs.

00:02:24.280 Have an abortion.

00:02:25.320 What?

00:02:25.720 You're evil.

00:02:26.540 I don't think there's anything else in life that we actually ever go into preparing to fail.

00:02:30.180 If you have the mentality of this is going to go wrong and be pessimistic, naturally the outcome is going to be that it's going to fail anyway.

00:02:37.140 It's self-sabotage.

00:02:38.080 That's the thing.

00:02:38.680 Women are so willing to leave marriages because they're not happy.

00:02:41.880 This is not about happiness.

00:02:43.640 The most important thing is the children.

00:02:45.600 And the problem is we have a modern society where it's me, me, me, my feelings, leave when I feel like it, instead of doing what's best for the kids.

00:02:54.580 This myth that we live in an age of male privilege, where's my male privilege?

00:02:58.300 They think, well, men have all the rights.

00:02:59.840 They have all the power.

00:03:01.200 Privilege, patriarchal system that we have.

00:03:03.500 Why doesn't our society care about men's rights?

00:03:06.100 I have no friends, no wife, and no social life.

00:03:09.140 Men are alone in this situation.

00:03:11.240 Men are homeless.

00:03:12.200 Men are thinking about eating guns.

00:03:13.960 I've seen so many men on the brink of suicide, and they didn't do anything wrong.

00:03:18.340 How are you equal if the men are the ones that have to fight and die to defend the country?

00:03:23.740 The men are the ones that build and maintain all the infrastructure.

00:03:27.640 Women are helplessly dependent upon men.

00:03:30.240 The so-called deaths of despair from suicide, overdose, or alcohol, three times higher among men than among women.

00:03:37.160 Culture is telling men, you are no good.

00:03:39.220 You've got to get your act together.

00:03:40.440 I think men have failed themselves.

00:03:42.040 What kind of a man are you?

00:03:43.300 What kind of a woman are you going to attract?

00:03:45.240 If men are in trouble, so are women.

00:03:47.900 Everybody knows this is a huge problem, but nobody wants to admit it.

00:03:51.560 Every single woman at the table said they wanted a man-

00:03:53.800 500K, 500K, 300K, 200K.

00:03:56.360 Am I crazy?

00:03:57.080 Everything is really set up against you to fail as a man.

00:03:59.320 If men make less than women, women don't want to marry them.

00:04:02.740 So you know who wants more economically and emotionally viable men?

00:04:06.120 Women.

00:04:08.280 I don't want to be an independent woman anymore.

00:04:10.420 I don't want to be a strong, independent woman.

00:04:12.680 I'm over it.

00:04:13.840 When is it going to be my turn?

00:04:15.140 Where are we meeting the men that don't stop?

00:04:16.900 I can't keep having these same conversations.

00:04:19.680 The only simp here is you, Pearl.

00:04:20.940 You simp for men.

00:04:21.380 No, I think you simp for women.

00:04:22.980 She's a provocateur.

00:04:23.960 She says stupid stuff, but Pearl is right about this.

00:04:26.400 It's already happening.

00:04:27.540 It's just not out in the open yet.

00:04:28.960 Now it's just hookup culture is going to be our fairy tale ending because men don't want a wife

00:04:32.940 and women can't find a husband.

00:04:34.680 The future, if everybody follows your path, is there is no future.

00:04:38.960 We go into population decline and our economy goes into decline.

00:04:42.900 Civilization will crumble.

00:04:44.600 The American story does not end well.

00:04:47.140 This is an existential crisis failing young men.

00:04:50.080 What is going on, everybody?

00:04:58.240 Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily.

00:05:00.820 Thank you.

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00:05:22.960 Yesterday, I did thumbnails and people learned a lot.

00:05:27.560 You know, I talked about what makes a shitty thumbnail and why you guys are ruining your

00:05:32.180 thumbnails by the choices that you're making.

00:05:35.120 All right.

00:05:35.800 So welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily.

00:05:38.960 The tea app has been all over the news lately.

00:05:41.720 The tea app is used by women to share their stories about men, and the app allows them

00:05:47.340 to share pictures and private data about men without their consent.

00:05:51.540 The idea for this app is not an original one.

00:05:54.100 Groups on sites like Facebook, Am I Dating the Same Guy, where women share photos of men

00:05:59.340 and compare notes about who they've been dating and how their experience has been around since

00:06:05.080 the 2010s.

00:06:06.820 Men do not have access to these spaces, and anything can be said about these men.

00:06:10.800 Well, the women choose to remain anonymous.

00:06:13.300 Let's get right to the point.

00:06:14.540 We all know that women created these groups.

00:06:17.180 It's because they don't know how to take L's in dating, especially when they're older.

00:06:22.260 Women hate, and I mean hate, when they get got.

00:06:26.040 They hate when a man plays the game better than they do, and this is how they get revenge.

00:06:32.080 Dating is a risk, and women want to minimize that risk of taking an L by destroying the reputation

00:06:39.060 of a man.

00:06:40.140 Things used to be so simple before feminism.

00:06:43.520 Men used to see a pretty woman and ask her out on a date.

00:06:46.660 Then he would go to her house and ask her father if he could take her out on a date.

00:06:51.380 A man used to court a woman, marry a woman, and then they would move on down the path of

00:06:56.780 life.

00:06:57.600 Women called that patriarchy, and feminism blew that whole thing up.

00:07:00.920 Now, we have a deregulated sexual marketplace where women can do what they want.

00:07:07.100 When left to their own choice, modern women are trying to date the top 20% of men.

00:07:11.380 These men have so much choice that they don't want to commit to women, which is really understandable

00:07:15.940 when you think about all these baddies today.

00:07:18.860 Sleep with multiple women and leave relationships when they see fit.

00:07:23.400 How have women responded to having this much choice?

00:07:27.200 They've responded with these groups and shaming men to prevent them from enjoying what they've

00:07:33.040 earned, the ability to be able to do by becoming a man of means.

00:07:39.620 Men have started fighting back, and now they are suing the women in these groups.

00:07:44.540 So a guy in Tuscan, Arizona, are we dating the same guy as suing?

00:07:50.620 Going out on a first date, how do you know for sure that the person you're seeing isn't

00:07:54.780 already dating someone else?

00:07:56.280 Well, in Tucson, there are nearly 4,000 women in a Facebook group called Are We Dating the

00:08:01.600 Same Guy?

00:08:02.620 13 News reporter Shelby Slaughter has been looking into the story.

00:08:05.380 She joins us now live in studio.

00:08:07.200 Shelby.

00:08:08.300 Well, Dan, it is hard to get out there and meet people.

00:08:11.380 And naturally, when you have a bad experience with someone, you want to tell your friends

00:08:15.320 and even warn others.

00:08:16.920 And that's what this group.

00:08:18.840 I'm sorry. There's a difference between friends and the American public.

00:08:24.160 You know, you can crash out with your friends, but you're not supposed to crash out in public,

00:08:29.520 you know.

00:08:30.020 To do.

00:08:31.020 It started as a way for women in Southern Arizona to make sure other women in the area aren't

00:08:38.380 dating the same guy.

00:08:39.760 I want to change the way women look at women.

00:08:41.980 And six months ago, Nirvana Spivey set out to do just that, creating a Facebook group called

00:08:48.340 Are We Dating the Same Guy?

00:08:50.340 Now, with nearly 4,000 women looking to find out if their boyfriends or even their husbands

00:08:55.720 are being dishonest.

00:08:57.820 A lot of women, they go through this thing where they're like dating one guy and he's

00:09:01.380 living a whole double life.

00:09:02.440 He's seen like six other girls and she has no idea.

00:09:05.600 Spivey says the goal of the group isn't to bash men, but to keep the door for transparency

00:09:11.040 open among women.

00:09:12.420 Yeah, okay.

00:09:13.580 And that could be the idea.

00:09:15.180 But the problem is when you let anonymous people make up any story about a man,

00:09:19.860 and the challenge is a lot of stuff gets through that's not true.

00:09:24.720 Area.

00:09:25.440 It kind of gives other girls like a knowledge.

00:09:28.260 So when they're out there in the dating world, they're like, ah, you're a player.

00:09:31.920 No, thank you.

00:09:32.620 They already have a hand and they already have a no.

00:09:34.680 The group shows posts like these.

00:09:37.100 We've blurred the men's faces and names, asking for things like tea or dirt on a man before

00:09:42.500 things get too serious.

00:09:44.480 Yeah.

00:09:44.720 And so what you have is a bunch of women going into something in bad faith.

00:09:48.460 So they meet a guy and they're already looking for things wrong with him.

00:09:52.360 And the thing is, guys, if we had women being posted in these groups and they said, has anyone

00:09:57.580 gone to date with her?

00:09:59.160 I mean, come on, ladies.

00:10:00.520 Have we never ghosted a man?

00:10:02.260 I have.

00:10:03.260 You haven't ever ghosted a guy where he maybe expected something.

00:10:08.340 Like, he would probably blast us in these groups.

00:10:12.460 And, you know, I'm not saying it's the right thing to do, but the game is the game, right?

00:10:16.100 I'm not always a good person and neither are most people.

00:10:19.760 All right.

00:10:20.700 Sometimes that doesn't sit well with men who find out about the group.

00:10:24.340 Attorney Alex Morey, an expert on free speech and defamation, tells me unless these women

00:10:30.100 are making threats in the group, they aren't violating any laws.

00:10:34.400 A lot of speech online, people go like, oh, I hate this conversation or they were being

00:10:38.200 mean or they were being a jerk.

00:10:39.480 Yeah.

00:10:39.800 OK, but they can.

00:10:40.980 The women can ruin my life.

00:10:42.900 They can.

00:10:43.340 They can flag my posts and whatever of me.

00:10:47.400 But if they do it, it's perfectly fine, legal, and it's just about safety.

00:10:53.020 I hate.

00:10:54.400 Oh, my gosh.

00:10:55.240 I don't hate women.

00:10:56.340 I don't hate women.

00:10:58.480 I don't.

00:10:59.660 I don't.

00:11:00.180 I love women.

00:11:01.800 I just love them so much.

00:11:03.860 They're so awesome.

00:11:06.600 They were, you know, criticizing me really harshly.

00:11:10.360 A lot of that is protected by the First Amendment, even if the guy that's being talked about doesn't

00:11:17.120 like it, Maury tells me women in the group would have to be saying things that are provably

00:11:21.720 false to fall under defamation.

00:11:24.360 Other things like giving general warnings is considered free speech.

00:11:29.120 If women are making provably false claims about these particular men, they could open themselves

00:11:39.460 up to potential defamation suits.

00:11:43.760 And Nervy tells me this is already something she has in mind.

00:11:48.340 And when posts come in warning other women about things like sexual assault and domestic

00:11:52.760 violence, she makes sure the women provide things like police reports before it gets

00:11:57.800 published in the group.

00:11:59.420 You can't stick out there that this man did this without backup proof to it because then

00:12:03.780 you could be victimizing the man as well.

00:12:06.340 And I spoke with a couple of the women in that group and they tell me having a space to

00:12:10.680 go while putting feelers out there in the dating world has made them feel safer.

00:12:14.820 Reporting live in studio, I'm Shelby Slaughter with their Tunes.

00:12:17.400 And remember, they doxed a lot of the women in these groups and a lot of them are fat.

00:12:22.220 So remember, ladies, when a woman says he's just playing games, she's probably just not

00:12:27.000 hot enough to be with him.

00:12:28.140 And you might not be either.

00:12:29.420 You might not be.

00:12:30.140 And I think that looks play a big part and they're not everything, but they do get you

00:12:37.320 in the door.

00:12:37.980 So if you're wondering why a guy doesn't like you, look at your pictures together and ask

00:12:42.460 yourself, does this make sense?

00:12:44.400 And sometimes it doesn't.

00:12:46.400 Well, can a bad date land you a court date after you post about it online?

00:12:50.800 Well, a group of local women say they are now forced to defend themselves in court after

00:12:55.920 they took to social media to warn other women about a potential suitor.

00:13:00.420 Tonight on your sites, Christine Lazar takes a look at the case and what it could mean for

00:13:05.200 our free speech.

00:13:06.860 The First Amendment protects you from any laws meant to limit your free speech, but it doesn't

00:13:12.260 prevent someone from taking you to court because they don't like what you said about them online.

00:13:17.960 Now, a group of women say they're being bullied into silence by a guy who didn't like what they

00:13:23.580 had to say about his online dating behavior.

00:13:27.040 Anything is possible, really, when you meet strangers off the Internet.

00:13:31.300 But most don't think comments about a bad date will lead to a defamation lawsuit filed by the

00:13:37.460 guy they wish to forget.

00:13:39.440 I felt like I was big.

00:13:40.420 Take that, Alho.

00:13:41.960 You got passed.

00:13:43.180 You got smashed and passed.

00:13:45.000 And women, look, I'll tell you what.

00:13:49.000 But you are much better off knowing that this could happen to you in the dating game and

00:13:55.600 just taking that out.

00:13:56.960 It's an L.

00:13:58.120 Look, it's sometimes men sleep with you and don't call you back.

00:14:02.360 And that just is an L.

00:14:04.380 And there's all these trad con guys that want to act like, oh, my wife, that would never

00:14:08.940 happen to her.

00:14:09.760 Look, they don't want to get married because they're not accepting what's on the marketplace.

00:14:15.840 I'm just being honest here.

00:14:20.040 If you're a mid, it's probably going to happen.

00:14:22.120 If you're beautiful, it might never happen.

00:14:24.640 But that's why mids have higher body counts.

00:14:26.540 So honestly, just by the things that were coming out of his mouth.

00:14:30.260 Back in 2021, Olivia Berger had a single date with a guy she met online.

00:14:35.300 She says she ended that date early and didn't think about him until years later when she saw

00:14:41.000 this post in a private Facebook group called Are We Dating the Same Guy?

00:14:46.500 The post had photos of her former date and read T in comments, asking if others had met

00:14:52.640 him in person.

00:14:54.020 Olivia weighed in.

00:14:55.620 I want to emphasize I had never had a date like this ever.

00:14:58.740 Years before Olivia met him, Vanessa Valdez matched with him on a dating app.

00:15:03.180 She also commented on the post that I said, how is this guy still allowed to be on dating

00:15:09.920 apps, harassing women?

00:15:11.380 Vanessa says that a lot of time.

00:15:13.640 This is like the alpha got women get angry when they can't either lock down alpha or don't

00:15:18.220 get the attention they want from alphas.

00:15:20.560 So they just try to ruin his life reputation.

00:15:24.640 Or when a beta acts like an alpha, not sure which this is.

00:15:28.300 It was anything but routine.

00:15:30.060 He took issue with her having a male friend in one of her profile photos and in a message

00:15:35.580 called her a moron and wrote, it's fun watching you burn.

00:15:40.440 And at that point, my stomach dropped.

00:15:44.620 Hearing someone say it's fun watching you burn, a stranger from the internet, it was very unsettling.

00:15:50.740 Vanessa responded that he should stay away from women and get help before reporting him

00:15:55.960 to the dating app.

00:15:56.880 And that's the info she says she relayed on that Facebook post.

00:16:01.780 But in my post, I redacted his phone number and just tell the truth and share my experience.

00:16:07.440 But her version of the truth will now be put to the test.

00:16:11.120 The guy she and Olivia and 10 other women claim to have dated and later dissed in the

00:16:16.260 Are We Dating the Same Guy Facebook group are now being sued for defamation, sex-based...

00:16:21.660 Yeah, yep, take that out.

00:16:23.900 Take that out.

00:16:24.460 And this is the challenge.

00:16:27.300 We used to have freedom of speech in this country, but women ruined it with all these

00:16:31.180 bullshit lawsuits.

00:16:32.540 I'm getting dragged to court currently.

00:16:36.060 And none of this would happen if women didn't ask for this.

00:16:40.300 So, yeah, women, it's women's fault, in all honesty.

00:16:48.820 And now women are eating the consequences of what they fought for, which is you don't have

00:16:54.100 freedom of speech.

00:16:55.340 And if you ruin a man's reputation for fun, like women do for men, you are going to face

00:17:00.600 the consequences.

00:17:01.840 Invasion of privacy by a man named Stuart Lucas Murray.

00:17:06.260 I think my initial reaction is, this can't go anywhere.

00:17:10.540 This is, there's nothing I said that wasn't true.

00:17:14.960 But, yeah, I felt silenced.

00:17:18.820 I felt like I was being intimidated into silence.

00:17:21.940 And that could be a problem, according to defamation attorney Jeff Lewis.

00:17:26.380 In First Amendment world, we call that a chilling effect, meaning when people fear they're going

00:17:31.700 to be sued, they either stop talking or they change what they're going to say because they're

00:17:36.900 worried they're going to be sued.

00:17:38.540 And men have to do this all the time.

00:17:41.920 Men have to change their speech to not offend women all the time.

00:17:45.580 But when women have to do it, it's World War III.

00:17:47.620 Anyone can sue another person for what they say about them online, but that doesn't mean

00:17:55.980 they'll win.

00:17:56.660 You know, I wonder if men made a site called, are we effing the same girl?

00:18:03.800 And if how that directory would work out.

00:18:06.940 The best way to avoid being sued for saying things on the internet is to say things that

00:18:10.320 are true or that are opinion.

00:18:12.340 And if you step outside of truth or opinion, there's a good chance you might get sued if

00:18:16.400 it's something negative.

00:18:17.100 In this case, the women say that's what they did.

00:18:19.860 They spoke their truth.

00:18:21.640 Murray disagrees.

00:18:23.260 In his lawsuit, he claims one of the women falsely said he was involved in the murder of

00:18:27.820 his ex-wife.

00:18:29.100 What?

00:18:30.480 You guys are saying he committed murder?

00:18:33.680 You guys are nuts.

00:18:35.540 Oh my gosh.

00:18:37.240 At STDs, both and Vanessa say they never posted that or saw any other women make comments of

00:18:44.500 that nature.

00:18:45.080 In a statement to us, Murray says he has never met, much less dated, some of the women posting

00:18:50.920 about him.

00:18:51.520 He went on to accuse the women of catfishing him, saying they posted highly filtered and

00:18:56.800 enhanced photos on their dating profiles, concluding, perhaps these women are not successful at

00:19:02.280 dating for obvious reasons.

00:19:04.840 Lewis believes this case will make it to court.

00:19:07.780 Because a judge at this early stage can't believe one side or the other, that's a jury question.

00:19:14.860 So this case will likely go to trial if it doesn't settle.

00:19:17.260 And without representation and not a lot of expendable income to fight a lawsuit, the women

00:19:22.860 worry this could bankrupt them.

00:19:25.100 At the end of the day, these kinds of suits don't just affect me and Vanessa and our co-defendants.

00:19:30.940 And I feel that a lot of times women are still being silenced.

00:19:35.280 In January, a similar lawsuit was filed in Chicago by a man who was also the subject of

00:19:41.260 a post in the Facebook group, Are We Dating the Same Guy?

00:19:44.920 I did reach out to the moderator of that group, but she has not responded.

00:19:49.280 That moderator, by the way, has created a fundraiser to help the women in Chicago being sued.

00:19:54.140 But these women here in L.A. says she has not offered to help them.

00:19:59.300 Christine Lazar, KCAL News.

00:20:03.920 Well, isn't it the consequences of our own actions?

00:20:07.880 All right, let's see who else we got.

00:20:10.780 All right, we got some more lawsuits.

00:20:13.040 The women we spoke with feel they did nothing wrong.

00:20:16.040 They say the truth.

00:20:17.140 Of course they feel they did nothing wrong.

00:20:19.440 It just never ends.

00:20:20.600 And their opinions are protected against defamation.

00:20:25.820 It's very crazy eyes.

00:20:28.980 You see that?

00:20:29.940 Yeah.

00:20:31.040 Are the accusations are baseless.

00:20:34.300 I feel not just for myself, but for my co-defendants and for the other women that he's gone after.

00:20:40.000 Olivia Berger and Vanessa Valdez are just two of multiple women being sued for defamation, libel, sex-based discrimination, and other allegations by Stuart Lucas Murray.

00:20:53.300 He's basically suing us for $2.6 million in damages.

00:20:56.620 It all started with this post on the Facebook group, Are We Dating the Same Guy?

00:21:01.680 When Olivia and Vanessa saw the post and all the comments, they added their own experiences.

00:21:08.900 He seemed, in my opinion, pretty smug and very arrogant.

00:21:13.140 The entire date, he was putting me down for various things, my job included.

00:21:18.820 Vanessa never went on a date with Murray because she says she didn't like the messages he sent her, at one point even calling her a moron.

00:21:28.300 Everything I said was just my experience with him and my opinions on how I think, you know, he should not be on dating sites.

00:21:36.200 We contacted Murray for comment, but he declined an on-camera interview.

00:21:40.440 Instead, he directed us to this website with a long statement that says, in part...

00:21:45.820 Yeah, so this is a Chad running through these hoes, and now their hoes are...

00:21:49.900 It's like women beg to be run through.

00:21:51.800 They're like, please run through us.

00:21:54.020 We don't want to be a main chick.

00:21:55.060 We want to be a side chick.

00:21:56.060 If you like us too much, we're going to crash out.

00:21:58.080 And the men are like, fine, we'll run through you.

00:22:00.600 You guys insist.

00:22:02.020 We'll treat you like a piece of meat.

00:22:03.680 And so they do it, and then the women cry.

00:22:06.480 Now we're here.

00:22:07.760 This action is not a game.

00:22:09.700 And the accusations against the defendants are serious.

00:22:13.620 I rejected each of them and cut them off quite swiftly.

00:22:17.980 Instead of going their separate ways, they went on for months and...

00:22:21.620 Yeah, because women never take L's.

00:22:23.540 And so they, of course, hold on to any attention they've gotten and reminisce on it for the rest of their life.

00:22:30.920 And if they can, they'll brag about it and then ruin the man's life.

00:22:35.480 Here's to spread misinformation about me and countless others.

00:22:39.700 Their actions were deliberate and they are now playing the victims, unquote.

00:22:45.160 His full statement will be up on our website.

00:22:47.600 This is not his first lawsuit.

00:22:49.720 It's not his second lawsuit.

00:22:51.160 It's not his fifth lawsuit.

00:22:53.180 He has a pattern.

00:22:55.160 And it seems to me that that pattern is most often directed towards women.

00:23:00.780 What have you learned from this experience?

00:23:02.500 The importance of speaking up and telling the truth and not being silenced.

00:23:13.780 Take that out.

00:23:15.420 Take that out, old ladies.

00:23:18.240 You know what?

00:23:18.800 Old ladies can win.

00:23:20.240 They really can.

00:23:21.020 I've seen many women that are old.

00:23:22.900 They have kids.

00:23:23.460 I have seen so many women win in my life that I actually think nothing is too big of a red flag for you to win.

00:23:30.000 There is somebody that will take you.

00:23:31.340 There are so many men in the world.

00:23:33.720 But the challenge is we make it so difficult for ourselves.

00:23:38.140 We just make it even harder.

00:23:39.420 News 5 at 6 starts now.

00:23:42.100 It's a he said, she said playing out on social media.

00:23:46.100 It's always the mids, isn't it?

00:23:47.840 Yeah, it's never the beautiful women.

00:23:49.300 Because the beautiful women have so many more choices.

00:23:52.440 Where the mids, this is the most exciting thing that's happened.

00:23:55.220 You know, this is the challenge.

00:23:57.440 If you guys, like, flirt too low, they get too excited.

00:24:01.020 And now you're the most exciting thing that's happened to them in their life.

00:24:03.640 Where the beautiful women are used to being hit on, so they don't care.

00:24:06.520 They'll forget about you tomorrow.

00:24:08.860 Facebook groups all across the country.

00:24:10.860 There are thousands of people vetting their next date in a group called Are We Dating the Same Guy?

00:24:17.860 The idea is to provide a safe space to share dating experiences.

00:24:21.880 News 5 anchor Tessa DeTiro sits down with a Northeast Ohio man who feels the sharing in these groups has gone too far.

00:24:29.480 This is how a typical conversation begins on the Facebook group Are We Dating the Same Guy?

00:24:35.320 This is a screenshot of a post from the Cleveland-Akron Canton page.

00:24:39.620 The group has more than 55,000 members.

00:24:43.500 This picture shows a dating profile set up by Matthew Napier.

00:24:47.960 The anonymous poster asks, anyone waiting for the tea to spill?

00:24:52.720 It was just a big bash fest pretty much.

00:24:56.000 And that's pretty regular in that group.

00:24:59.220 Matthew Napier sat down with me to share his experience being reviewed more than once.

00:25:04.600 Imagine if a man did this to a woman and all the men were like saying how evil a woman was or how bad or how she was bad in bed or she doesn't want anything serious.

00:25:17.240 It would be pretty invasive, wouldn't it?

00:25:19.800 I wouldn't want a Google review of the guys that have gone on dates with me.

00:25:23.760 That would be pretty embarrassing.

00:25:27.240 But women just feel like they can do whatever.

00:25:30.380 Several of these groups where he was called pushy, creepy, and even weird.

00:25:35.420 She made it sound like I was a danger to people with the terminology that she was using.

00:25:41.320 And then people started ridiculing me.

00:25:43.000 They started making fun.

00:25:43.780 There are less simps every day.

00:25:45.220 Let it crumble.

00:25:46.360 Yeah, I know.

00:25:46.820 But some woman, some guy will do it.

00:25:48.620 It just never ends.

00:25:50.080 The group rules are clear.

00:25:52.420 Do not take screenshots or share any information outside of the group.

00:25:56.720 Don't share personal info, phone numbers, family members, or employment information.

00:26:01.480 Stating, the group is about protecting women, not judging men.

00:26:06.340 Napier contends in his case, those rules weren't followed.

00:26:10.120 They looked at my LinkedIn and they saw my previous employer and they looked it up, who the head of HR was.

00:26:17.260 And then they posted her information.

00:26:20.060 Women never quit.

00:26:21.860 They never quit.

00:26:23.600 Like, oh my gosh, if I could go into detail of the way vengeful women have tried to get back at me.

00:26:29.800 I actually almost reacted to all my hit pieces today.

00:26:33.440 Not for, just for money, because these usually do pretty well.

00:26:39.200 Her phone number and her email address and told everyone to call.

00:26:44.300 Can you see the other side?

00:26:46.960 Can you see the idea that this was created to weed out a bad dating experience?

00:26:53.340 Yeah, I think that the original idea about, you know, creating a safe spot for-

00:27:00.400 Pimping ain't easy.

00:27:01.880 Thank you.

00:27:02.560 Thanks for the super chat, Danny.

00:27:04.200 I appreciate it.

00:27:05.440 This is the last day of the month, so I do get paid next month off of this month's donation.

00:27:10.580 So thank you guys.

00:27:11.780 You could put your hard-earned money anywhere and you choose to do it here.

00:27:14.940 So I do appreciate you guys.

00:27:16.940 Well, for women to actually find men who are bad people or violent, things like that, absolutely.

00:27:26.560 I see, you know, the need for that.

00:27:30.300 But it's not being used for that.

00:27:32.820 To follow the group rules, a local member chose to speak with me anonymously.

00:27:37.640 She uses the community to make sure she's dating safely.

00:27:40.980 Before I even go on any date, I literally go on that page just to gather just a little

00:27:48.000 bit more information about the person.

00:27:50.680 And at one point, when she was in a serious relationship, she looked up her fiancé.

00:27:56.200 My answers were within that group based on, you know, the woman that came forward.

00:28:00.460 Yeah, so a lot of times women go to the group, and you can kind of see the way women do this.

00:28:06.140 It might not be a group like this, but it's their friend group, it's their family group.

00:28:09.620 Women care a lot about being accepted into their group more often than they care about

00:28:15.180 the relationship with the man.

00:28:17.380 I had gone on a date with them.

00:28:19.120 Meanwhile, we were engaged, so it was one of those things I was like, okay, this is exactly

00:28:23.740 what I needed.

00:28:24.760 Matthew Napier has hired attorney Mark Trent.

00:28:27.900 We've had thousands of phone calls and emails from men throughout the country, even globally,

00:28:32.120 from even the UK that have contacted us.

00:28:34.320 Trent gained clients after filing this lawsuit in late July against Meta, the parent company

00:28:40.240 of Facebook, and the Are We Dating the Same Guy parent company known as Spill the Tea Incorporated.

00:28:46.860 We would like to have their specific posts taken down.

00:28:49.360 We want to have the group overall taken down because we don't think it has a positive purpose.

00:28:54.880 That suit is working its way through the courts.

00:28:57.960 Meanwhile, the group puts reputations in the court of public opinion.

00:29:02.500 What the group is there for is to really just inform other women as well as protect other

00:29:11.300 women.

00:29:12.060 Bullying people, both men and women, and it just, it needs to stop.

00:29:15.820 And the crazy thing is women feel entitled to not being bullied online, but men, they feel

00:29:22.260 the right to bully men on the internet and over-exaggerated makeup stuff.

00:29:27.560 Allowed it.

00:29:28.100 Even the admins and the moderators of the group has allowed it.

00:29:33.440 So Facebook has filed a motion to dismiss that case while a court ruling is still pending

00:29:38.520 here.

00:29:38.960 And Rob, I want to be clear.

00:29:40.460 I'm not in the group.

00:29:41.340 So we looked at it from the outside, but from a check today, it shows that just 40 posts

00:29:46.100 today, I shouldn't say Jeff, that's a lot in one day on that page.

00:29:50.180 And there are pages like this in major.

00:29:52.920 Okay.

00:29:54.120 All right, guys.

00:29:55.040 So we are going to be asking you guys the question, should men take legal actions against

00:30:00.540 these groups and the women running them?

00:30:02.600 What is your opinion on whether we are dating the same guy groups?

00:30:07.680 Are they necessary?

00:30:09.240 Or is it a case of women not being able to take an L?

00:30:12.940 Should men create a similar page?

00:30:15.680 Why haven't men created similar pages?

00:30:18.400 So we're going to pin that in the description and please call in and let me know what you

00:30:23.180 think.

00:30:23.620 If you've ever been posted in one of these groups, please call in.

00:30:27.320 It's pretty funny.

00:30:30.980 Doug MPA, are you on the line?

00:30:33.380 I am here.

00:30:34.160 How's it going?

00:30:34.620 I know you've been pinned in these groups.

00:30:38.660 So I was, I've talked, so I got put in one of those groups because, you know me, I'm,

00:30:46.620 I'm Mr. Ghost Women.

00:30:49.180 I don't think that you guys, if you're dating these women and you're just not feeling it,

00:30:53.220 you don't owe her any kind of logical explanation at all.

00:30:55.740 Who cares?

00:30:56.880 But women can't stand it.

00:30:58.420 They have to know and they need closure.

00:31:00.700 You see it in these, um, in these romance movies all the time.

00:31:05.120 I need closure.

00:31:07.160 He owes me.

00:31:08.060 Guys, you don't owe these women anything.

00:31:09.860 No, that means they want to get banged out one time by you.

00:31:12.680 You should take it, guys.

00:31:14.560 You should take it.

00:31:15.120 Well, actually, no, because you know how many guys I know that got the girl pregnant with

00:31:21.220 closure sex?

00:31:22.140 That's their own fault.

00:31:23.140 Wear a condom.

00:31:24.000 Problem solved.

00:31:25.220 Take your closure sex.

00:31:27.120 Wear a condom.

00:31:28.120 I don't care how much she says, daddy, poppy, take it off.

00:31:32.500 No, take, keep it on.

00:31:34.180 Keep it on.

00:31:35.240 Keep it on.

00:31:36.420 Get your closure, closure sex and get the fuck out.

00:31:40.580 That's, I mean, we talked about this before, Doug MPA.

00:31:43.540 It's, it's them.

00:31:44.840 They could, they could hit it one more time, stroke it right and pull out.

00:31:49.140 No, don't take that.

00:31:50.060 Don't take that chance.

00:31:51.120 She's wrapping her legs around, you know what I mean?

00:31:53.680 Like, she's not letting you pull out.

00:31:56.340 It's the last time she's not letting you pull out.

00:31:59.880 So wrap it up, fellas.

00:32:02.140 Get your closure set.

00:32:03.380 I'm all for you guys, you know.

00:32:05.680 You guys deserve some closure sex for the bullshit these women have put you through.

00:32:10.720 Seriously.

00:32:11.280 You've been posted in, you've been posted in that group.

00:32:13.720 You deserve some closure sex.

00:32:16.280 I'm for it.

00:32:18.420 So, so various as safety says the woman clapping, having sex with hot randoms online.

00:32:27.080 Yeah.

00:32:27.700 I mean, they don't care about safety.

00:32:30.380 So I've had multiple conversations with multiple women in my life about they're trying to justify

00:32:36.340 why a woman's, why women should be able to feel safe at the cost of men's privacy.

00:32:43.720 Well, you have to understand.

00:32:45.240 I don't have to understand anything.

00:32:46.660 No.

00:32:48.160 And, and then they're acting like women won't just assume something about you because you're

00:32:54.980 in that group in the first place.

00:32:56.520 Well, if he was a good guy, he wouldn't be in this group in the first place.

00:33:00.880 Yeah.

00:33:01.120 That's not true.

00:33:02.680 I mean, some, some women are crash out and they can't take an L so they post him anyway.

00:33:10.340 100% true.

00:33:11.260 Yeah.

00:33:11.480 I mean, just take that L.

00:33:13.720 And women will put a guy they don't even know his name on the birth certificate and

00:33:18.760 make him pay child support.

00:33:20.000 You don't think that they wouldn't put some guy, they wouldn't even know his face in a

00:33:24.140 Facebook group and say, I went on a date with this guy.

00:33:26.640 He's, he's a piece of shit.

00:33:28.960 And if there was, if there was a directory of women, it would be far worse than the

00:33:33.500 directory of men.

00:33:35.320 Yeah.

00:33:35.640 Like if there was, yeah, go ahead.

00:33:37.780 Oh, well, I'm sorry.

00:33:38.800 Go ahead.

00:33:39.100 Go ahead.

00:33:39.520 Because I was interested in some afterwards.

00:33:41.100 If there was a directory of women where you could look up women, it would include false

00:33:45.580 allegations, child support, herpes.

00:33:50.140 It would, it would have such messed up things.

00:33:53.320 Talking to fucking multiple men at the same time.

00:33:57.300 Yeah.

00:33:57.920 And men don't do that because they think, do you know what?

00:34:00.400 I don't want the drama.

00:34:01.880 Why actually you tell me, Doug MPA, why would you not do that?

00:34:06.220 Tell me.

00:34:07.500 Well, so here's the thing.

00:34:09.320 First off, guys learn how to take L's early in life because life makes them have to.

00:34:14.960 Number one.

00:34:15.560 Number two, we're taught from young that if you do anything, but take the L, uh, on the

00:34:23.700 chin and keep it moving, you're shamed and ridiculed and seen as dangerous.

00:34:27.960 You, how many videos have we seen online by now where a man will be staying there watching

00:34:34.100 some girl, uh, uh, spray paint his car or burn up his property and stuff.

00:34:39.940 I know he's expected to just take it.

00:34:42.780 Yeah.

00:34:44.200 That's where it is.

00:34:45.040 And guys, we're taught from young.

00:34:46.200 If you, if you take an L, you just have to take it and keep on moving.

00:34:49.480 But women aren't.

00:34:50.580 And then that's exacerbated by the fact that women don't really start taking L's until

00:34:56.300 they're in their thirties.

00:34:57.060 That's why all these broads that were exposed in that T app where the average age is what

00:35:01.200 33 to 38 or something like that.

00:35:02.880 Yeah.

00:35:03.020 It's when life starts giving, it's so crazy how we don't take L's until even almost our,

00:35:08.120 if it's 33 to 37, it's almost our mid thirties that we don't take an L.

00:35:13.460 Yeah.

00:35:14.300 And then all of a sudden, because I always say this guys, women always say, Oh, men will

00:35:19.160 never know what it's like to, to be pregnant.

00:35:21.660 It's so awful.

00:35:22.880 And then give birth and all this pain or whatever, blah, blah, blah.

00:35:26.520 I always say, well, women will never know what it's like to face the amount of rejection

00:35:31.860 that a man has to face.

00:35:33.220 Women wouldn't be able to take 10% of the rejection that the average guy faces.

00:35:37.840 Let's, let's role play here.

00:35:40.300 Let's role play.

00:35:41.760 Okay.

00:35:42.060 So I'm going to, I want you to reject me and I'll love to learn to take it.

00:35:45.600 Okay.

00:35:47.060 All right.

00:35:48.300 Okay.

00:35:48.740 Go ahead.

00:35:49.540 All right.

00:35:49.740 You're at the grocery store.

00:35:52.520 Hey, can you help me find something?

00:35:54.700 I'll be, first off, I'd say, wait, are you like a mid or are you, are you attractive?

00:36:03.540 A mid or what?

00:36:04.100 No, she's a chubby chick.

00:36:05.400 So, okay.

00:36:05.940 Oh, she's the type of girl on.

00:36:07.860 Hey, sir.

00:36:08.400 Excuse me, sir.

00:36:09.180 Could you help me find something?

00:36:11.200 So, so if she's the type of girl that's on the T app, I would just say, do I know you?

00:36:17.620 No, you don't.

00:36:18.640 But like, would you mind helping me like find something really quick?

00:36:21.520 And then I'd be like, um, I'm actually only in here for a couple of things and then, and

00:36:28.200 then I have to go.

00:36:29.020 Sorry.

00:36:29.700 Okay.

00:36:30.020 But I just had a quick, it was like a super quick question.

00:36:32.460 Is that okay?

00:36:34.020 No, it's not okay.

00:36:37.100 Oh, okay.

00:36:38.000 But thanks though.

00:36:38.760 Oh, okay.

00:36:39.320 Have a good day.

00:36:40.540 Let me log into the T app.

00:36:44.560 Yeah.

00:36:46.480 Remember, hey guys, I have a AJ's rant and reactions and I, we're actually brothers.

00:36:51.520 In real life, we're twin brothers.

00:36:53.640 So I have my, so if a woman comes up and starts talking, I say, oh yeah, wait, do I know you?

00:36:59.260 Cause I have a twin brother.

00:37:02.620 All right.

00:37:03.060 Let's try again.

00:37:03.740 We're at the gym.

00:37:04.840 Okay.

00:37:05.500 How about that?

00:37:05.980 I'm obviously, I'm obviously fat.

00:37:07.940 So.

00:37:08.900 Wow.

00:37:09.600 That's, are you doing, is that bench?

00:37:13.300 Wait, so.

00:37:14.800 You're doing, do you have a camera set up or no?

00:37:16.620 No, no camera set up.

00:37:17.760 I'm just coming up.

00:37:18.540 I'm just coming up and saying hi.

00:37:20.120 Is that, is that bench?

00:37:21.520 Are you doing bench right now?

00:37:23.600 I'd say, yeah, you know, I'm exercising.

00:37:29.400 Do I know you?

00:37:30.840 You have, you have something.

00:37:33.280 What's that on your face?

00:37:36.520 What's that on my face?

00:37:38.340 I'm like.

00:37:39.060 That smile.

00:37:41.380 Oh, then I'd be like, well, I'm just going to work out, but I hope you have a good workout

00:37:48.560 though.

00:37:48.960 And then I put my earphones back in and I would keep doing what I'm doing.

00:37:53.080 You got to keep it short and sweet and to the point.

00:37:56.340 Don't even, I don't even flirt back.

00:37:58.100 I just say, Hey, I don't know you very well.

00:38:01.020 I want to get back to my workout.

00:38:02.580 So see you later.

00:38:03.500 Have you had women approach you the last few years?

00:38:06.440 Have you noticed any difference?

00:38:08.740 Um, or no, it's okay.

00:38:11.120 If not, I'm just curious.

00:38:12.320 Well, so yes, because I always advocate guys, when you hit 35, the whole world opens up.

00:38:20.020 So yes, I have, but well, here's the thing.

00:38:25.480 Are you talking about like approach and hit on?

00:38:28.120 Yeah.

00:38:28.320 In real life.

00:38:29.140 I've just, I've heard a couple of guys say they've gotten approached in real life more

00:38:33.140 than ever the last few years.

00:38:34.540 Because I'm just curious if you've experienced that or no.

00:38:38.660 So I haven't had women hit on me.

00:38:41.940 I've had women initiate conversation.

00:38:44.320 That's like the same thing.

00:38:46.300 No, it's not.

00:38:47.640 Okay, fine.

00:38:48.580 It's not the same thing.

00:38:49.920 Because a woman hitting on you would literally be like you said, Hey, what's it on your face?

00:38:55.520 It's a smile that's hitting on you.

00:38:58.180 But women will come up and try to find something to talk about.

00:39:02.720 Yeah.

00:39:03.040 And women just, they haven't had to do it.

00:39:06.960 So they don't know how.

00:39:08.120 So guys, you think that men stumble talking to women?

00:39:12.500 Try watching women stumble talking to men.

00:39:16.580 Women will try to, they'll ask you what your favorite sports team is when you know for a

00:39:22.240 fact that they don't watch sports.

00:39:26.280 You know, they'll try to, or they'll talk about some kind of exercise in the gym that

00:39:33.360 like women don't normally do.

00:39:34.520 Like, oh yeah, you're doing a flat bench and they don't look like they do flat bench at

00:39:38.840 all.

00:39:40.720 You know?

00:39:42.160 So there's a difference between a woman initiating contact and a woman hitting on you.

00:39:47.100 I saw this.

00:39:47.980 And it's funny because a lot of guys, they don't know.

00:39:52.080 It's weird for them to get hit on.

00:39:54.540 Guys, put in the chat if you would be okay with a woman walking up to you and just hitting

00:39:59.340 on you and saying, Hey, I think you're attractive.

00:40:02.400 You have a nice smile.

00:40:03.580 Let's go out sometime.

00:40:06.680 I saw this video of this girl going up to an influencer and she was like, Are you single?

00:40:12.140 And he's like, I'm going to walk.

00:40:13.700 He's like, I'm going to walk with God.

00:40:15.660 And she's like, Can I join that?

00:40:21.520 She's like, Can I join?

00:40:24.300 And I was like, Okay, that was smooth, girl.

00:40:26.600 I see you.

00:40:28.500 I don't know why you rejected her.

00:40:30.100 She was pretty, but you know.

00:40:31.740 Yeah, but guys, we think that if a pretty girl is coming up to us in public, that we're

00:40:37.360 about to get got somehow.

00:40:38.800 If she's like an eight and she's walking up to a somewhat average guy who knows he's

00:40:46.900 average, we're just like, there has to be a camera around or she's going to set me up

00:40:52.580 to get robbed.

00:40:53.600 He was a Chad.

00:40:54.800 He was a Chad and he, he did have a camera, but it was because he was famous, but it was,

00:41:00.420 I just, I just respected the shot.

00:41:02.800 Do you know what I mean?

00:41:03.240 You got to respect, even if women get rejected, I have to respect the ones a little bit more.

00:41:09.900 I don't respect women, but like, you know, I would give them a little bit more like this

00:41:14.920 much more respect.

00:41:15.880 You know, at least you shot your shot, you know?

00:41:18.440 Yeah.

00:41:18.840 Yeah.

00:41:19.340 Well, especially in, in this current dating market, once again, men are being told not

00:41:24.160 to approach.

00:41:24.880 Women are, are too weak to approach or are too scared of rejections.

00:41:30.820 So now there's a big staring contest out in public.

00:41:32.920 So.

00:41:34.940 Yeah.

00:41:35.680 Um, is anyone on the line to talk about RB dating the same guy?

00:41:39.540 Yeah.

00:41:39.980 So before I bring the people up, like the video guys, we really appreciate you being

00:41:44.480 here.

00:41:45.280 Subscribe to the channel.

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00:41:48.440 So subscribe to the channel.

00:41:49.700 Thanks to see it.

00:41:51.380 It's good to see all the regulars in the YouTube chat.

00:41:53.940 And I just wanted to say thank you to Joseph Jellick, oddly man.

00:41:59.860 And who else is in the audacity chat?

00:42:02.400 I think that's everyone in the audacity chat.

00:42:05.240 Thank you for being in the audacity chat.

00:42:06.840 Everyone who really appreciate it.

00:42:08.140 Oh, and Rufo, Rodolfo, you're in there too.

00:42:11.100 Good to see you.

00:42:12.080 First up, we have.

00:42:16.420 Ben.

00:42:18.120 Ben is coming up.

00:42:21.120 Uh.

00:42:25.840 Ben, are you there?

00:42:27.120 Hey, yeah.

00:42:28.240 Sorry about what's going on.

00:42:29.980 Ben, what's going on?

00:42:32.440 Hey, I, uh, I actually.

00:42:37.680 I.

00:42:38.800 Oh, can you hear me?

00:42:40.260 All right.

00:42:40.640 I can hear you now.

00:42:42.400 Okay.

00:42:42.920 Sorry about that.

00:42:45.260 Yeah, I'm here.

00:42:46.540 Okay.

00:42:46.960 So tell me what you think.

00:42:48.500 Um, do you, have you ever been in one of those groups?

00:42:51.920 Um, what do you think men should sue?

00:42:54.900 Should men create a similar page?

00:42:56.640 What are your thoughts?

00:42:57.600 I had to mute that.

00:42:59.720 I think that, um, men should sue.

00:43:03.320 I was actually posted on one of these pages recently.

00:43:07.260 Actually, it's happened three times, but the most recent one really pissed me off.

00:43:11.200 Okay, Chad.

00:43:14.720 I'm not a Chad, really.

00:43:16.440 I don't think.

00:43:17.360 But, um.

00:43:19.580 Tyrone, Gloctavius, Gavin.

00:43:21.860 And, and I made a post about it because it just really pissed me off.

00:43:28.100 And then what I don't get is, is that to me, it's just a slander group.

00:43:33.440 I, I, I don't see it as any other thing that I'd like.

00:43:36.900 That's all that I've really seen on there.

00:43:38.860 And I know some of the guys on there sometimes, and you can tell that they're lying, um, because

00:43:43.860 you know, these people, um, and I really just think they need to get rid of it.

00:43:49.720 And I think if they can sue, they really should.

00:43:51.720 I wish I could sue, you know?

00:43:53.360 I mean, uh, but you should see the post I made though.

00:43:56.880 It's pretty funny.

00:43:57.540 Anyways, that's all I have to share.

00:43:58.880 Can you tell me, can you tell me like, what was the story they put on?

00:44:02.780 And what actually happened?

00:44:05.460 I mean, I could, I could show you the post, I guess.

00:44:08.560 Well, you can just give me, you don't have to show it word for word, but give me a summary

00:44:11.560 of what they said happened versus what actually happened.

00:44:15.300 Okay.

00:44:15.600 So I'm in, I'm on the Facebook dating.

00:44:17.600 And then all of a sudden a friend of mine tells me that I'm on this webpage, a girlfriend,

00:44:22.960 you know, not a girlfriend, but a friend who's a girl.

00:44:25.420 So then a couple other girlfriends that I know start telling me about it.

00:44:29.140 So they started sending me screenshots of it.

00:44:31.080 So now I'm like, I'm like, Oh my God, this is crazy.

00:44:34.580 And I do have kind of a color, colorful past, but I'm really not a violent, I'm not a violent

00:44:39.740 person or anything like that.

00:44:40.920 But I did have like drug issues like throughout my life, but I don't anymore.

00:44:44.720 Um, anyways, I, anytime that I'm dating someone, I will tell them who I am.

00:44:50.920 Like, Oh, it's like, I don't do people really hide who they are that much when they get into

00:44:56.220 relationships.

00:44:57.100 Cause in my experience that that hasn't been the case on either end with me or her.

00:45:02.740 Um, so yeah, I think it's just entirely fucked up.

00:45:07.460 And that mentioned, I was talking to one of my friends and I said, look, um, the sad part

00:45:17.480 about it is I know a lot of guys, you know, a lot of red pill channels like, Oh yeah, you

00:45:22.260 know, don't spend more than $20 on a date and only take it a coffee.

00:45:25.360 Um, but guys, a lot of us still take women on traditional dates, especially a lot of us

00:45:31.980 older guys.

00:45:32.560 It's what we were taught to do.

00:45:34.060 Yeah.

00:45:34.620 And so you plan this date, no, you met this woman, you plan this date, you paid for this

00:45:41.600 date to invite this woman into your life, to do this to you understand what I'm saying?

00:45:49.380 It's a no starter.

00:45:50.800 Yeah.

00:45:51.020 It's almost like you're paying her to trash you in a way.

00:45:54.480 Yes.

00:45:55.000 I mean, it's a no starter.

00:45:56.360 There is no future with a girl who's done that.

00:45:58.660 And I don't understand why they don't see that either.

00:46:01.460 Yeah.

00:46:02.280 Well, usually it's a woman that took, was the girl that said that about you, someone who

00:46:05.900 took an L like that you wouldn't have seen anyway.

00:46:09.060 I feel like it's just their crash out on the way out.

00:46:11.500 You know what I mean?

00:46:12.440 Yeah.

00:46:12.700 I can expound.

00:46:13.680 So, um, what happened was, okay.

00:46:16.320 So there was a girl on the, and she kept talking to me and then she saw, you know, whatever they

00:46:19.920 said.

00:46:20.240 And she's like, well, I still kind of want to see them and go out.

00:46:22.980 I asked all the girls, I go, did you post me on this?

00:46:26.640 And she admitted it.

00:46:27.820 And I said, that's really messed up.

00:46:29.560 And I kept talking to her, um, but I held my ground with it.

00:46:33.300 Cause it's just, I was, I was not going to go on a date with her.

00:46:35.700 What was her counterargument would be as the women I talked to her, like, well, you have

00:46:39.660 to understand that women need a safe place and it's not about you.

00:46:43.580 It's about the women.

00:46:44.460 It's just like, are you trying to convince me that it's okay that my privacy was compromised?

00:46:48.360 Yeah.

00:46:49.360 Yeah.

00:46:50.360 So, so they think that it's to protect women.

00:46:53.060 I do not think it's to protect women.

00:46:55.020 In fact, I think probably a bunch of women messaged me after.

00:47:00.200 So I'm kind of thinking that it does the opposite.

00:47:03.360 Um, and really, so you got posted and they like found you on Instagram or where'd they

00:47:08.500 message you?

00:47:09.360 Yeah.

00:47:10.360 So either like, you know, friend, people I'm friends with, um, people that knew me mostly,

00:47:17.700 you know, but a lot of girls messaged me that, you know, I could probably, and if I'm such

00:47:21.920 a like horrible, horrible person, they don't know me like, it's like from my hometown, like

00:47:26.740 acquaintances, right?

00:47:27.740 Like we all grew up to it together, even if we're in a friend group, you know?

00:47:31.740 Yeah.

00:47:32.740 Um, but, um, I don't, I don't, I, again, I just, I'm off track with my thinking.

00:47:39.120 Cause it's been pissing me off for days.

00:47:40.620 I like lost sleep over it and I just, just kind of done with it.

00:47:46.140 And again, like I said, it was the third time it's happened and I don't understand why a

00:47:49.740 girl would think that she can post your photo on one of these groups and that you would

00:47:53.920 ever like, isn't the goal like long-term or marriage or like a stable relationship, but

00:47:58.800 like you, you've started it off with that, that there is, I don't just, I don't see a

00:48:03.560 future with that.

00:48:04.800 Um, so I don't understand why they don't see that part of it.

00:48:08.340 And like, personally, I wouldn't want like a guy reviewing, like what kind of pressure

00:48:13.280 does that put you under if someone's reviewing every date that you go on?

00:48:17.340 Like, come on, ladies, you've never been an asshole on a date.

00:48:20.460 I have like, come on, like ever in your whole life.

00:48:25.100 You've never done anything a little weird, a little awkward, like, come on.

00:48:28.840 Yeah.

00:48:29.840 The main thing about it is women will, will.

00:48:32.780 Okay.

00:48:33.780 The majority of women still want to approach a man, date a man, court a man, and propose

00:48:37.840 to a man, but they have all sorts of opinions as to how men do it.

00:48:43.840 That's why women shouldn't be able to do this kind of thing because unless you're going to

00:48:48.780 step up to the plate and approach a man and plan a date, well then stop talking about how

00:48:54.720 men do it.

00:48:55.840 So, so once again, now we have the great staring contest now.

00:48:59.840 Yeah.

00:49:00.840 I'm just afraid that at some point that, you know, it's going to get me in trouble.

00:49:05.740 I had a marriage that when it was horrible, I was, I was like, I was behaving really good.

00:49:11.840 I had a business, me and my father were working and I meet this girl, I get her pregnant.

00:49:15.720 I break up with her.

00:49:16.720 I didn't know she was pregnant.

00:49:17.840 She tells me she's pregnant.

00:49:18.840 So I marry her.

00:49:19.840 So I'm a simp.

00:49:20.840 Like this is like 12, 13 years ago, right?

00:49:24.060 I marry her.

00:49:25.060 Then later on, I found out she's cheating on me the whole time, all this stuff.

00:49:28.440 She ultimately gets into drugs.

00:49:30.480 And then like I leave her and then I found out she's prostituting on the, this is well

00:49:34.880 before fucking OnlyFans.

00:49:36.500 This is when it was still a shocker, right?

00:49:38.340 You know, ultimately I left her, we had a kid together.

00:49:43.660 And you know, through that, I ended up with my own drug and depression issues and I got

00:49:48.940 through that myself.

00:49:49.940 So I'm not, you know, clean and I admit that, but like, I still don't think that you should

00:49:54.680 be able to put my photo up on something.

00:49:56.940 That's a public forum.

00:49:57.940 If you want to search me, like say on a, you know, like a background check or ask people

00:50:04.920 about me and all that, I think that's totally fine, you know, but it's a public forum.

00:50:09.520 That's it's a big difference.

00:50:11.100 And if you wanted, if you cared about your safety, why are women going over to men's

00:50:15.400 houses?

00:50:16.400 They don't know.

00:50:17.400 You know what I mean?

00:50:18.720 Like for like hookups and whatever, like there's women that go straight to men's houses off

00:50:23.900 of Tinder and whatever.

00:50:25.660 If you're really that concerned about safety, why are we going out at night?

00:50:28.480 Why are we solo traveling?

00:50:29.480 Like, come on, women don't give a shit about safety.

00:50:32.640 Cool.

00:50:33.640 I think it turns them on.

00:50:37.620 Yeah.

00:50:38.620 Okay.

00:50:39.620 Thanks for calling it.

00:50:41.620 Call it anytime.

00:50:42.620 Okay.

00:50:43.620 You're welcome.

00:50:44.620 Bye.

00:50:45.620 Bye.

00:50:46.620 Cool.

00:50:47.620 Great call.

00:50:48.620 We've had some really good calls as of late.

00:50:50.620 Okay.

00:50:51.620 Next up says zoom user, zoom user, zoom user, you're on mute.

00:51:03.120 Why you didn't change your name.

00:51:04.440 It just says zoom user.

00:51:05.440 I have no idea.

00:51:06.440 We're going to give you a couple more seconds because you're probably listening to the YouTube.

00:51:10.440 Okay.

00:51:11.440 It says zoom user, zoom user going once, zoom user going twice, zoom user, I'm putting you

00:51:19.260 back in the waiting room.

00:51:21.260 Okay.

00:51:22.260 Next up we have Peter.

00:51:24.260 Peter's coming up.

00:51:25.260 Guys, hit that like button.

00:51:26.260 We really appreciate it.

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00:51:28.260 And we have Peter, are you there, Peter, Peter, I'm not going to say your last name, Peter,

00:51:50.020 Peter going once, Peter going twice, see you back in the waiting room.

00:51:56.500 Next up we have Nick.

00:51:59.680 What?

00:52:00.680 Are you there?

00:52:01.680 Yes.

00:52:02.680 How you doing?

00:52:03.680 Hey, Nick.

00:52:04.680 How are you?

00:52:05.680 I'm doing fantastic.

00:52:06.680 Pearl.

00:52:07.680 How are you?

00:52:08.680 Are you Chad, Tyrone, Glock, Tavius?

00:52:11.680 Have you been in these groups?

00:52:13.680 Well, I called in, uh, I think last week or two weeks ago, I was on the STD call and show.

00:52:21.300 You remember me?

00:52:22.300 Um, can you remind me what was your story?

00:52:26.240 I'm bad with names.

00:52:27.240 I was 21 years old, caught chlamydia.

00:52:30.420 Oh yeah.

00:52:31.420 I remember this guy.

00:52:32.420 And then I gave it to 10 girls around six girls.

00:52:35.420 Oh, okay.

00:52:36.420 Happens to the best of us.

00:52:37.420 Yeah.

00:52:38.420 Yeah.

00:52:39.420 Okay.

00:52:40.420 Did that get you in the, I'm going to read a super chat, but then think about the question.

00:52:44.160 Did that get you in the group or was it something else?

00:52:46.840 Support from a woman who identifies falling into the category.

00:52:49.720 Not all.

00:52:50.720 Not all.

00:52:51.720 Not all.

00:52:52.720 Not all.

00:52:53.720 Love your content.

00:52:54.720 It helps protect my son.

00:52:55.720 Thank you, Alexia.

00:52:56.720 Um, I do say not all.

00:52:57.720 And I, I guess I mean it, but pretty much all 99%, you know, but I guess there might be one.

00:53:04.900 Okay.

00:53:05.900 Okay.

00:53:06.900 Sorry.

00:53:07.900 Um, do you have an answer to the question?

00:53:08.900 Did that get you in the group or did something else?

00:53:11.900 Well, so actually that did not get me in the group actually, but I was posted in the group.

00:53:17.900 Uh, it's been like three months ago now.

00:53:20.900 Okay.

00:53:21.900 Um, I got blasted in there.

00:53:24.800 Someone posted like a picture of me is like, any red flags before I go on a date with them.

00:53:29.900 I know him.

00:53:30.900 That's what was posted.

00:53:31.900 It wasn't even like, she'd never even hung out with me.

00:53:33.900 I was just texting her.

00:53:35.900 Um, and then the comments blew up.

00:53:38.900 Cause I, I would text a lot of girls, a lot of the same texts and apparently they didn't

00:53:45.900 like that.

00:53:46.900 So they were every girl in the city was posting a screenshot of our conversations of me sending

00:53:51.900 them the same videos and pictures and all that.

00:53:54.900 Was it at least fire?

00:53:55.900 Like, did you look good in the pictures at least?

00:53:58.900 No, it wasn't even like pictures of me.

00:54:00.900 It was just like, uh, like sometimes like I'll send a picture of like my motorcycle and then

00:54:05.900 I'll just send it to like a hundred girls or whatever.

00:54:07.900 And there was like six girls like, Oh my God.

00:54:10.900 He texted me at the same time, the same picture, all this shit.

00:54:13.900 And then they were all just, they were just loving it.

00:54:16.900 They're like, who's this guy?

00:54:18.900 Uh, he's kind of handsome.

00:54:19.900 Like they were just gassing me up in the comments, but they were like, yeah, he just seems like

00:54:24.900 he just wants to hook up though.

00:54:25.900 Like that's why never I stopped responding to him.

00:54:28.900 And so from your point of view, was it true?

00:54:29.900 Did you just want to hook up or were you open to something serious?

00:54:33.900 No, I'm always open for the right one.

00:54:36.900 But were the women posting you?

00:54:39.900 Were you open with them or no?

00:54:41.900 Well, the thing is I had no idea who they even were.

00:54:44.900 So like, I don't know.

00:54:45.900 Okay.

00:54:46.900 Like I have a big list of phone numbers, which I just spam through whenever like I want something.

00:54:52.900 But the fact is like most of the comments from in the comments though, was girls that

00:54:57.900 we'd never been on a date with.

00:54:59.900 So the actual girls that I did like have relationships with or like I slept with none of them got posted.

00:55:06.900 No one said anything bad about me on a date, which I'm glad for.

00:55:10.900 But I did have one person asked me these like, um, she made up a lie in the comments.

00:55:16.900 She was like, um, let me see if I can remember.

00:55:19.900 She was like, yeah, my friend met him at the bar and he was dancing with her.

00:55:24.900 But then he turned around to talk to another girl while dancing with my friend, which wasn't true.

00:55:29.900 I was helping this girl that was on the floor that fell down.

00:55:32.900 But then she got mad at me saying I was trying to hit on another girl.

00:55:35.900 So she didn't say that, but most of the girls really didn't care about that.

00:55:39.900 I didn't.

00:55:40.900 But that was the worst thing that got posted on there.

00:55:43.900 Cool.

00:55:44.900 So again, PA, you got any other questions for him?

00:55:47.900 You know, it's just, what can you do, man?

00:55:51.900 You're just going to see less and less guys dating.

00:55:53.900 Like why?

00:55:54.900 Because like I said on the last call, you're, you're trying to date these girls and they're going in in bad faith.

00:56:01.900 It's just costing you money and time, dude.

00:56:03.900 I have, I completely agree as a guy with like a, like a high body count, whatever, which a lot of guys in here listen to like certain guys, like fresh and faded and stuff like that.

00:56:12.900 I do admit that after a while it does get boring and there's limited returns.

00:56:18.900 Like there's not really any good returns from this lifestyle.

00:56:22.900 Um, all you're really going to end up getting at the end of the day is you're going to end up either with a kid or you're going to end up getting STDs.

00:56:30.900 Or you're going to end up getting with the charge.

00:56:32.900 Chlamydia.

00:56:33.900 Chlamydia.

00:56:34.900 Yeah.

00:56:35.900 So it's important to not, not have a lifestyle like this where you're constantly everywhere you go.

00:56:40.900 Like everywhere I go now, ever since that post, like I go to the bars, like girls recognize me.

00:56:45.900 They all like.

00:56:46.900 No way.

00:56:47.900 They recognize you at the bars from that post.

00:56:50.900 Just so like.

00:56:51.900 Yeah.

00:56:52.900 The bar would be like, Oh, I seen you on the Facebook group and some shit like that.

00:56:56.900 Yeah.

00:56:57.900 I know a guy that was posted in there and like, um, some of the women at his work walked up that he was friends walked up and said, why are you in this group?

00:57:06.900 Yeah.

00:57:07.900 Yeah.

00:57:08.900 And then he's on the back foot and he, and he, it's like, if you don't say anything, they're going to assume the worst.

00:57:14.900 And then, so you quote unquote, have to explain yourself.

00:57:17.900 Cause someone turned to told a version of a story that they never should have heard in the first place.

00:57:23.900 Yeah.

00:57:24.900 I've been lucky.

00:57:25.900 I've been lucky, but I had my wife, my one friend, he's more attractive than me.

00:57:29.900 He was like a definition of a Chad and he, he got posted as well.

00:57:33.900 And he got like a false allegation on him, but, um, some girl that ended up sleeping with him ended up posting in the comments.

00:57:41.900 She was like, Oh, he was such a creep.

00:57:44.900 Like he was trying to hook up with me.

00:57:46.900 And it was just, and, and I, I rejected him and he got upset.

00:57:50.900 That's what she said.

00:57:51.900 Even though she ended up sleeping at his house the whole night and all this.

00:57:55.900 So like that ruined his reputation as well.

00:57:58.900 So there is guys that do get false falsely accused on there.

00:58:02.900 Um, and there's not really any way you could even defend yourself since the group is private.

00:58:06.900 Right.

00:58:07.900 And if any girl like wants to like, uh, defend you, they'll just ban them as well.

00:58:12.900 Yeah.

00:58:13.900 Yeah.

00:58:14.900 I agree.

00:58:15.900 All right, Nick.

00:58:16.900 Thanks for calling in buddy.

00:58:17.900 Really appreciate it.

00:58:18.900 Thanks for calling in Chad.

00:58:20.900 I'm not, I'm not a Chad.

00:58:22.900 I don't believe I don't think I'm a Chad.

00:58:24.900 I think I'm pretty average looking, but I think it's important that like, I don't think looks

00:58:29.900 is everything.

00:58:30.900 I know Pearl always says that, but I think there's, there's a lot of ugly guys.

00:58:34.900 Like, Hey, you know, you're totally correct for men.

00:58:37.900 Yeah.

00:58:38.900 I don't think it's a hundred percent.

00:58:40.900 The look, there's a lot of guys that care too much about looks, but girls end up like,

00:58:45.900 even in these groups, they'll pull some ugly ass guys in there and they're still getting

00:58:48.900 some motion as well.

00:58:49.900 So even as an ugly guy, you can still have a reputation as well.

00:58:52.900 It's not, not dealing with the world.

00:58:54.900 Cool.

00:58:55.900 Well, thanks for calling in.

00:58:56.900 Okay.

00:58:57.900 Call in anytime.

00:58:58.900 All right.

00:58:59.900 Thank you, bro.

00:59:00.900 Bye.

00:59:01.900 Bye.

00:59:02.900 I'm going to let in.

00:59:03.900 I see.

00:59:04.900 Friend of the channel.

00:59:06.900 Sean.

00:59:07.900 What's up, buddy?

00:59:08.900 What's good?

00:59:09.900 He was good.

00:59:10.900 Hey, Sean, how are you?

00:59:12.900 Super good.

00:59:13.900 Super good.

00:59:14.900 Super good.

00:59:16.900 Super good.

00:59:18.900 So tell me, have you been, do they have, are we dating the same guy?

00:59:23.900 Where are you at?

00:59:24.900 Thailand?

00:59:25.900 Yeah.

00:59:26.900 They got it.

00:59:27.900 Come on.

00:59:28.900 Thailand.

00:59:29.900 Can you, do you, I don't even know what language they speak there.

00:59:35.900 I don't know that this might sound really dumb.

00:59:38.900 Is it a different language or is it English?

00:59:40.900 No, no.

00:59:41.900 It's a different language.

00:59:42.900 It's called Thai.

00:59:43.900 So they speak Thai.

00:59:44.900 Okay.

00:59:45.900 So can you even read if they, if they post about you, can, can you even read what they're

00:59:49.900 saying?

00:59:50.900 Yeah.

00:59:51.900 Pearl Google translation.

00:59:53.900 Yeah.

00:59:54.900 Stupid question.

00:59:55.900 My bad.

00:59:56.900 So.

00:59:57.900 No, no, no.

00:59:58.900 So tell me, have you ever been posted in there?

01:00:01.900 Did they, oh, do you know what?

01:00:02.900 Maybe they would put the best breakup ever.

01:00:05.900 Right.

01:00:06.900 Yeah.

01:00:07.900 Right.

01:00:08.900 Yeah.

01:00:09.900 Right.

01:00:10.900 It was an amazing experience, you know, exactly.

01:00:14.900 But I want some copyrights.

01:00:15.900 I want some royalties.

01:00:16.900 If they put that in there, but no, no, they have one.

01:00:20.900 Um, they have one for different areas.

01:00:22.900 So sometimes, you know, if you live in like Pattaya, then they have one for Bangkok.

01:00:26.900 So the girls just share information about guys that they need to make sure that they're

01:00:31.900 not dating the same investment vehicle.

01:00:33.900 They're not invested in the same investment vehicle.

01:00:36.900 That's how I see it.

01:00:37.900 Okay.

01:00:38.900 Um, have you ever been posted?

01:00:40.900 Go ahead.

01:00:41.900 Have you ever been posted in one?

01:00:43.900 Yeah, but it was just something like, oh, Hey, this guy, is anybody dating this guy?

01:00:49.900 Um, but it's kind of weird too, for me, because I tell girls, like, I'm not exclusive to you.

01:00:54.900 So at the end of the day, if you put me, well, not put me in the chat, but if you just know

01:00:59.900 anything about dating me is I'm never closed on my end, whether I want to do it or not,

01:01:04.900 it's up to me, but I'm never just gave an ultimatum to be closed on my end.

01:01:09.900 And so they don't do it so much, but sometimes they still do it because they want what they

01:01:14.900 want.

01:01:15.900 Right.

01:01:16.900 So boom.

01:01:17.900 Do you ever sell them a dream or no?

01:01:18.900 Nah.

01:01:19.900 Well, being with me is a dream.

01:01:21.900 I don't need to sell you a dream.

01:01:23.900 I'm living the American dream.

01:01:24.900 So at the end of the day, I don't need to sell them that.

01:01:28.900 But at the end of the day, I know what you mean.

01:01:29.900 Do I give them experiences that is like a dream?

01:01:32.900 Then you could say yes, but I don't sell them a dream.

01:01:35.900 I tell them who I am and what I want, but they create their own dreams.

01:01:38.900 You know how that goes.

01:01:39.900 You know how it is, Doug.

01:01:40.900 They're going to create whatever they want.

01:01:41.900 I know.

01:01:42.900 We have like a little hamster wheel in us at all times.

01:01:45.900 So do you think that men, do you think they should create their own version of this?

01:01:50.900 Like, are we the same girl app and you can just look her up and then see what her history

01:01:56.900 is?

01:01:57.900 Has she falsely accused a guy?

01:01:58.900 Has she done this?

01:01:59.900 That?

01:02:00.900 What do you think?

01:02:01.900 Yeah.

01:02:02.900 I think guys should fight fire with fire.

01:02:03.900 So the guys who's suing, the guys who are saying, hey, I'm going to do this.

01:02:07.900 I'm going to take legal action.

01:02:08.900 I think you should do it, man.

01:02:09.900 I'm not going to be one of those guys hating in the background.

01:02:11.900 Oh no, men should just shut up and be quiet and take the L.

01:02:14.900 No, that's why you losing.

01:02:15.900 So net net at the end of the day, you know, fight fire with fire.

01:02:18.900 I don't have nothing against it.

01:02:20.900 I think it's a smart thing for people to do.

01:02:22.900 Yep.

01:02:23.900 Yep.

01:02:24.900 This whole men taking the high road thing and men just take, press charges, press charges,

01:02:31.900 equal rights is equal lefts, all that stuff, guys.

01:02:36.900 You know, give them the equality they ask for.

01:02:40.900 Exactly.

01:02:41.900 I see nothing wrong with providing equality out.

01:02:44.900 So at the end of the day, yeah, if they put you on there and they do that and you feel

01:02:47.900 like as though, and you think you should do X, Y, and Z, go get it done.

01:02:51.900 You'll never hear me say nothing.

01:02:53.900 Run down on you and say, Hey man, real men don't do that.

01:02:56.900 No, whatever.

01:02:57.900 Dummies don't do that.

01:02:58.900 Yeah.

01:02:59.900 Real, real men don't negotiate with terrorists.

01:03:02.900 So that's what I would say.

01:03:04.900 Yeah.

01:03:05.900 But we do take them out.

01:03:06.900 So.

01:03:09.900 All right.

01:03:10.900 Thanks Sean.

01:03:11.900 Thanks for calling in.

01:03:13.900 No problem.

01:03:14.900 Peace out.

01:03:15.900 Oh, good talk to you, buddy.

01:03:17.900 We do take them out.

01:03:18.900 That's funny.

01:03:21.900 All right.

01:03:22.900 We're going to try it.

01:03:23.900 Zoom user again.

01:03:24.900 Yes.

01:03:25.900 Doug.

01:03:26.900 Oh, you're back.

01:03:27.900 Yes.

01:03:28.900 Hey buddy.

01:03:29.900 How you doing?

01:03:30.900 Good.

01:03:31.900 Are you a Chad, Tyrone, Glocktavia?

01:03:34.900 Have you been posted in these groups?

01:03:36.900 Let me know.

01:03:38.900 Pearl, I'm the Casanova.

01:03:41.900 Oh yeah.

01:03:42.900 Happens to the best of us.

01:03:45.900 All right.

01:03:46.900 So what'd they say about you?

01:03:49.900 What did the ladies say?

01:03:52.900 That's a good question.

01:03:54.900 To be honest, you have to ask, you have to ask the local ladies.

01:04:01.900 I'm not, I'm not at liberty to divulge that kind of information because it doesn't appear online at the moment from what I know.

01:04:13.900 Okay.

01:04:14.900 So you're not on those pages.

01:04:17.900 No.

01:04:18.900 What do you think about them though?

01:04:21.900 Do you think that they're a legit thing for women to do?

01:04:24.900 Do you think it's wrong for women to post guys on there?

01:04:26.900 What do you think?

01:04:27.900 I guess, you know, it's regional, right?

01:04:32.900 So ladies, they love to talk.

01:04:37.900 They love to communicate.

01:04:39.900 They, they love to feel safe.

01:04:42.900 Right.

01:04:43.900 That's important.

01:04:44.900 I guess if.

01:04:46.900 Yeah.

01:04:47.900 But the biggest problem is there's a difference between being safe and feeling safe.

01:04:52.900 A lot of women don't feel safe in some of the safest cities in the world.

01:04:58.900 And you can call the cops.

01:05:00.900 It's like, I mean, I guess he can rape you, but like, not for that long.

01:05:06.900 The cops are coming.

01:05:07.900 If you call 9-1-1.

01:05:09.900 Don't say that.

01:05:10.900 God, no.

01:05:11.900 In most, in most Western cities, especially the United States, women can walk around half

01:05:20.900 naked, drunk, and nothing happens to them.

01:05:23.900 So like this whole, in fact, they're putting a stat showing that men have less reason to

01:05:29.900 feel safe at night because we're more likely to be victim of a violent crime, which happens

01:05:35.900 much more often than an essay.

01:05:38.900 So like, you know, I don't, there's feeling safe and then actually being safe.

01:05:44.900 And it's funny because a lot of these women who, who don't feel safe and like, you know,

01:05:49.900 major cities in the U S try go into other areas of the world and tell me how safe you

01:05:55.900 feel.

01:05:56.900 Hmm.

01:05:57.900 I, yeah, I mean, I guess maybe that's like also a psychological problem.

01:06:04.900 I mean, I don't know why they would kind of like, you know, if, if they're like all in

01:06:11.900 their heads and they confront trust their, like their girlfriends, then maybe like as a,

01:06:23.900 like a, a cheap kind of like solution is to post in a group.

01:06:31.900 And we've talked about it multiple times.

01:06:34.900 Women can't take L's.

01:06:36.900 Impossible.

01:06:37.900 Men, when we're young, you probably still remember the first time that you got your heart

01:06:42.900 ripped out.

01:06:43.900 The first time you were told that you weren't tall enough, that you weren't athletic enough,

01:06:46.900 that you don't run fast enough.

01:06:48.900 It happens early.

01:06:49.900 And so women have, have accepted that men have to take the L's and women don't.

01:06:55.900 And if women have to take an L, everyone has to pay for it.

01:06:58.900 It's just like, uh, in the house.

01:07:00.900 Okay.

01:07:01.900 Okay.

01:07:02.900 But, but, but, but, but do we always accept defeat?

01:07:06.900 Yes.

01:07:08.900 Yes.

01:07:09.900 Most men do every day.

01:07:10.900 Most men do.

01:07:11.900 Yeah.

01:07:12.900 They just take it.

01:07:13.900 A hundred percent.

01:07:14.900 There was maybe a time like 10 years ago.

01:07:16.900 I remember more men would be like pushy, even if like you said, no, nowadays they're like,

01:07:21.900 okay, see ya.

01:07:22.900 Like they don't care.

01:07:23.900 Yep.

01:07:24.900 Um.

01:07:25.900 Hmm.

01:07:26.900 But even when we were young, you're taught that if you just don't take it, if you don't

01:07:31.900 just take the L and keep it moving, you could be a creep.

01:07:35.900 You're, you're toxically masculine and all this stuff.

01:07:40.900 That's why you, you see these women.

01:07:42.900 Um, yeah, but dude, dude, dude, dude, dude.

01:07:45.900 Why did he keep pursuing me?

01:07:47.900 I told him no, but then he stopped right then.

01:07:50.900 He, he's supposed to keep going after I say, I mean, no, doesn't really yet.

01:07:55.900 Now more than ever, no means no to men.

01:07:58.900 Hey lady, how you doing?

01:07:59.900 Can I get your number?

01:08:00.900 Well, I don't think so.

01:08:01.900 Okay.

01:08:02.900 Bye.

01:08:03.900 Keep going.

01:08:05.900 You see it all the time.

01:08:06.900 Why don't men keep trying after I say no?

01:08:09.900 There is no keep trying after you say no.

01:08:11.900 Once you say no, goodbye.

01:08:15.900 Yeah.

01:08:17.900 Yeah.

01:08:18.900 Women just can't take L's dude.

01:08:19.900 Do you have any, you can't do it.

01:08:20.900 Do you have any other thoughts on the Facebook group?

01:08:25.900 The Facebook, I'm not even on Facebook.

01:08:27.900 Well, I'm on Facebook, but like, I don't really see the point in being on Facebook.

01:08:32.900 Yeah.

01:08:33.900 All right.

01:08:34.900 Well, thanks for calling in calling anytime.

01:08:35.900 All right.

01:08:36.900 All right.

01:08:37.900 Thanks buddy.

01:08:38.900 Yeah.

01:08:39.900 All right.

01:08:40.900 Guys, make sure to like the video.

01:08:45.900 If you haven't already subscribed to the channel, we're on our way to 2 million.

01:08:49.900 But thanks for all the super chats, all the super chats go towards the divorce documentary.

01:08:54.900 So keep hitting that button for the super chats.

01:08:57.900 Next up, I'm going to try Peter again.

01:09:05.900 And it says joining.

01:09:09.900 Joining.

01:09:10.900 Um, Doug and PA don't kill me.

01:09:13.900 Uh huh.

01:09:14.900 I'm so thirsty.

01:09:15.900 Do you mind talking to them while I fill my water?

01:09:18.900 It'll take five minutes.

01:09:19.900 Oh yeah.

01:09:20.900 Go ahead.

01:09:21.900 Go ahead.

01:09:22.900 I'm like so thirsty.

01:09:23.900 I'll be back.

01:09:24.900 Go ahead.

01:09:25.900 Uh, it's not joining with Peter.

01:09:28.900 Peter, are you there?

01:09:31.900 Peter, if I count to three and you're not on there, I'm going to kick you out of the call.

01:09:39.900 Cause it's second time.

01:09:41.900 Peter going once.

01:09:42.900 Peter going twice.

01:09:44.900 And I'm removing you from the call.

01:09:50.900 You gotta get your technology together.

01:09:52.900 Please.

01:09:53.900 Gotta get your technology together.

01:09:55.900 Up next, we have Dan.

01:09:57.900 Dan's coming into the call.

01:10:02.900 Please be ready.

01:10:03.900 Please have your sound connected.

01:10:05.900 You're on mute.

01:10:06.900 Dan.

01:10:08.900 Dan.

01:10:10.900 Dan.

01:10:13.900 Yes.

01:10:14.900 Gotta get your stuff together.

01:10:16.900 Dan going once.

01:10:18.900 Dan going twice.

01:10:20.900 Put you back in the waiting room.

01:10:22.900 He's probably listened to the YouTube.

01:10:24.900 So have probably realized in about 10 seconds that I tried to call him into the call.

01:10:29.900 Okay.

01:10:30.900 We have another good friend of the channel.

01:10:32.900 Sean.

01:10:36.900 With the Eeyore avatar.

01:10:38.900 Always good to see him in here.

01:10:40.900 So I'm going to bring him in here.

01:10:41.900 He always makes good conversations.

01:10:43.900 Sean, how you doing buddy?

01:10:44.900 Hey, how's it going?

01:10:45.900 Can you hear me?

01:10:46.900 Yep.

01:10:47.900 How's it going?

01:10:48.900 Uh, going all right, man.

01:10:50.900 So what do you think about this whole, cause we've been talking about the T app.

01:10:53.900 I think you called it on that one, but the Facebook groups, are we dating the same guy?

01:10:59.900 I guess came first.

01:11:00.900 So first off, do you think that these guys should legally sue these women?

01:11:04.900 And then what do you think about the, are we dating the same guy groups?

01:11:08.900 So my opinion is no, to be honest.

01:11:11.900 Like I, I think guys shouldn't sue.

01:11:13.900 Cause in my, in my experience and from what I've seen, cause I know girls that are like in New York City that are on that page, given that there's just so many guys that are, I mean, there's a higher girl to guy ratio.

01:11:25.900 So usually the girls are actually dating the same guy.

01:11:28.900 That's actually very common.

01:11:29.900 Yeah.

01:11:30.900 That's what I'm saying though.

01:11:31.900 You look, there's a lot of guys.

01:11:32.900 There aren't a lot of guys.

01:11:34.900 Yeah.

01:11:35.900 I mean, so over there, things are very slanted in men's favor.

01:11:37.900 So that's why I would say there's a lot more active users on those specific cities in particular, whether it's New York City, Albany, like basically everywhere across New York for the most part, like major cities.

01:11:49.900 But I would say like in general, if you're getting posted on there, it's to your benefit because a girl who's not that into you, maybe she goes on a date with you or two.

01:11:58.900 She's not posting you on there.

01:11:59.900 She's only posting you on there if she's highly emotionally invested.

01:12:04.900 And at that point, no matter what feedback she hears, whether it's positive about you or it's negative about you, in my opinion, it's still going to play in your favor.

01:12:12.900 Because from what I've observed is that because I've been posted on there and, you know, girls who will come to me saying, oh, you know, I heard such and such about you.

01:12:21.900 But they'll be like, oh, I heard it from a friend.

01:12:23.900 But I know someone who's on the forum who like, oh, that was posted about you.

01:12:27.900 And I'll just be like, oh, no, you know, that girl was just jealous that, you know, I didn't stick around, you know, with her.

01:12:32.900 But, you know, she's just sad that, you know, you're going to end up with me.

01:12:35.900 So, like, I'm obviously lying. Right.

01:12:37.900 But, like, you know, you just play it that way.

01:12:39.900 I missed it.

01:12:40.900 And it just plays to their emotions.

01:12:41.900 How did you get posted on there?

01:12:43.900 Did you did you feel like it was earned or did you feel like it was unwarranted?

01:12:48.900 You know what I mean?

01:12:50.900 Go ahead.

01:12:51.900 I would say I mean, as far as what she was aware of, I would say it is unwarranted.

01:12:57.900 I think the girls who are generally posting guys on there are already active members of that group because they've been cheated on in the past.

01:13:03.900 So they're just bitter and jaded to some extent.

01:13:06.900 They just think all men cheat.

01:13:08.900 OK, fair enough.

01:13:09.900 There's a lot of there's some truth to that.

01:13:11.900 But, you know, at the same time, like I would say it's unwarranted.

01:13:14.900 I didn't do anything in that interaction that would have led her to believe that.

01:13:18.900 But no, I mean, my observation is it tends to play to guys favors who do get posted on there, because whether you get positive feedback or negative feedback.

01:13:27.900 What's that saying? All press is good press.

01:13:30.900 Yeah.

01:13:31.900 And if no one's posting anything, like if no one's responding anything about you, you know, that's probably, you know, neutral at best.

01:13:38.900 But I would say in general, it does play to the guy's favor because you're already like you already own the real estate inside her brain, if that makes sense, because she's probably thinking about you all the time.

01:13:48.900 But yeah, I mean, I would say they should honestly rename that group to Am I in a situation ship?

01:13:54.900 You know what I mean?

01:13:56.900 Yeah, I do.

01:13:57.900 I found that some people haven't even met the guy yet.

01:14:00.900 It's like, do you expect him to be loyal now?

01:14:03.900 Yeah, I mean, I don't know why they had that expectation.

01:14:07.900 It's very weird to go along with that.

01:14:11.900 They don't even say what dating is like me.

01:14:15.900 I saw the girl once and she put me on there because I ghosted her.

01:14:21.900 And I'm like, I don't owe you anything when you didn't even like you guys weren't even hooking up, right?

01:14:28.900 We didn't even get to that point.

01:14:30.900 I know, but that's my point.

01:14:31.900 I'm like, like, oh, so it's like, are we dating?

01:14:34.900 What's the tea?

01:14:35.900 There is no tea because I just didn't want to talk to you anymore.

01:14:39.900 See, because that's what I'm saying.

01:14:42.900 Women have been telling men for the past 60 years, we don't owe you our time, our resources, our bodies, anything.

01:14:49.900 But they don't like how men are responding.

01:14:51.900 I don't owe you anything either.

01:14:53.900 The tea app is women assuming that men owe them transparency.

01:14:59.900 Men owe them something socially.

01:15:01.900 We don't owe you anything.

01:15:03.900 And they're trying to make up for the fact that, like, men aren't giving that to them.

01:15:07.900 And that's what pisses me off the most.

01:15:09.900 Men have had to accept this dynamic, but women are doing everything to stop equality from happening.

01:15:17.900 Once again, 50, 60 years, we don't owe you anything.

01:15:21.900 If I tell you no, no, leave me alone.

01:15:24.900 But then men do the same thing.

01:15:27.900 They can't stand it.

01:15:29.900 I'm on a conceptual level here, you know?

01:15:32.900 Take that L.

01:15:34.900 Take the L. Move on.

01:15:35.900 We should make a commercial that's like how to take the L.

01:15:39.900 Ladies, ladies, ladies.

01:15:41.900 Go ahead.

01:15:42.900 No, I was going to say, like, so a friend of mine in New York City, she actually posted,

01:15:47.900 and this was like about a month ago, a guy who she was basically dating.

01:15:51.900 And quite frankly, still is dating.

01:15:53.900 And, you know, basically the comments that came back was, oh, he's a nice guy.

01:15:58.900 And, you know, oh, you know, just we things did not match up and things like that.

01:16:03.900 And I'm talking to her because, like, I'm trying to get to know, you know, what is this guy like?

01:16:06.900 And I realized this guy's a brokie.

01:16:07.900 He's a bum.

01:16:08.900 And somehow this guy's getting posted on there.

01:16:11.900 So, you know, like, it doesn't make sense to me, like, why girls are posting usually low quality guys that are on there other than, like, you know.

01:16:18.900 Drama, that's why.

01:16:20.900 Yeah, it's just emotions and drama that are quite frankly on there.

01:16:23.900 And then, you know, they'll stay in these situationships forever and then wonder why the guys, you know, are not committing.

01:16:29.900 It doesn't make sense to me.

01:16:31.900 In my opinion, I think if they're posting the guy on there, they've already lost, if that makes sense.

01:16:35.900 Like, I don't think anyone who's ever posted a guy on these forums has ever actually ended up in a real relationship with those guys, let alone married.

01:16:44.900 Yeah, I agree.

01:16:46.900 So, I mean, yeah, I mean, so my take on is, I think it is an invasion of privacy.

01:16:52.900 I will say that because I don't know how often they actually take those pictures down.

01:16:56.900 And obviously, I don't think men want their, you know, pictures on the internet forever, you know, undisclosed.

01:17:01.900 And on the T app, they let you put the guy's phone number, where he lives, where he works.

01:17:10.900 Yeah.

01:17:11.900 They have everything on there.

01:17:12.900 You're like, oh, yeah, it's not that bad.

01:17:13.900 It can be that bad.

01:17:16.900 They're literally posting all of your private information, your phone number, your address.

01:17:22.900 What I never understood is, like, you know, you would think they'd be just trying to figure out, is that guy married or something like that?

01:17:28.900 Or, like, is he in a relationship? But that's usually not it. It's like, it's almost like it's become more normalized.

01:17:34.900 And I think it's because, like, you know, whenever when I started using online dating, I noticed just about every girl I went on a date with was searching me on LinkedIn.

01:17:41.900 And I could tell because it could kind of say, you know, who your searches are coming from and you can see what companies that they're at.

01:17:46.900 And it's pretty much the person who I recently went on a date with.

01:17:50.900 And I think it's just become more normalized in women's mind that any information that they can find about you is now fair game.

01:17:56.900 So whether it's, you know, social media stalking you or, you know, using these forums that they believe only women have access to that now it's become more and more legitimized.

01:18:06.900 I think it's just become more normalized.

01:18:09.900 But to me, it doesn't make any sense as far as, quote unquote, safety, because if safety is concerned, like, why are there so many girls who will meet strangers who they've never met before as opposed to guys who they know in real life?

01:18:18.900 Like that used to not be a thing 20 years ago, like, you know, we just like the drama.

01:18:24.900 We just like the drama.

01:18:26.900 Yeah.

01:18:27.900 Yeah.

01:18:28.900 I mean, 20 years ago.

01:18:29.900 Right.

01:18:30.900 The idea of a girl being on match.com or a guy being on match.com was considered very weird.

01:18:33.900 Like people would just question that.

01:18:35.900 And now I think the idea of searching up strangers is now more legitimized.

01:18:40.900 So women, women will get baby rabies because one woman gets pregnant and they're so jealous of the, of the status that the, of what the attention that the woman is getting from being pregnant, that they'll go out and get pregnant.

01:18:56.900 Yeah.

01:18:57.900 That is true.

01:18:58.900 So you think that women aren't just posting stuff about men to, to participate in the conversation and get the same amount of likes and attention in these groups.

01:19:08.900 Come on now.

01:19:09.900 Women will make a stupid mistake, like getting pregnant by some loser, just to be able to participate in a friend's group with a bunch of other women pregnant.

01:19:18.900 Come on now.

01:19:19.900 No, that's true.

01:19:20.900 I mean, you know, I've gone on dates with girls and I'll take them back to my place.

01:19:23.900 And in my neighborhood, there's pretty much a lot of, uh, new couples that have like kids and stuff like that.

01:19:28.900 Like, so they're like, you know, they had their first kid or second kid there.

01:19:31.900 They're all like under seven years old.

01:19:33.900 Cause there's like a good middle elementary school around.

01:19:35.900 And so anytime I take a girl for a walk in that neighborhood, you know, after a date, they start like thinking, Oh, you know, I could get married to this guy.

01:19:42.900 I could start having kids with this guy.

01:19:44.900 So I think that's definitely is true.

01:19:46.900 Like, uh, you know, when they start seeing their friends have kids, they start thinking, Oh no, I got to have kids.

01:19:52.900 And I got to find a guy and who's going to give me commitment.

01:19:55.900 And, you know, is this guy commit a phobe?

01:19:57.900 Is he just leading me on?

01:19:58.900 So I think that's why they go on this sort of T app.

01:20:01.900 Uh, are we dating the same guy type stuff?

01:20:03.900 But to be honest, any girl who's 35, who's basically on those forums, I think they're pretty much all screwed.

01:20:07.900 They're all going to be on that.

01:20:08.900 Uh, what is that?

01:20:09.900 Ask women over 40 subreddit.

01:20:10.900 You know what I'm talking about, right?

01:20:11.900 All those bitter women, like they pretty much are the same girls that are on, uh, you know, the ask women over 30, 10 years later, you know, and they're the same ones that are going to be on that T app and whatnot.

01:20:23.900 So.

01:20:24.900 Cool.

01:20:25.900 All right.

01:20:26.900 Well, thanks for calling Sean.

01:20:27.900 Always a good call.

01:20:28.900 Always good insight.

01:20:29.900 Yeah.

01:20:30.900 Thanks for calling in.

01:20:31.900 Thanks guys.

01:20:32.900 Uh, next up.

01:20:33.900 Thanks for, um, doing that while I got my water.

01:20:34.900 Oh yeah, of course.

01:20:35.900 I usually try to fill it before the show, but yeah, you look like you were kind of hurting a little bit.

01:20:48.900 Okay.

01:20:49.900 So we're going to bring up Joe and then I'm going to try Dan again.

01:20:53.900 Joe, you there.

01:20:54.900 Hey, Hey, how's it going?

01:20:56.900 Hey Joe.

01:20:57.900 How are you?

01:20:58.900 Hey, good.

01:20:59.900 Good.

01:21:00.900 I just had a couple of thoughts I wanted to share.

01:21:03.900 I haven't actually been on one of these apps myself, but, um, I have had false accusations.

01:21:10.900 Uh, and, uh, you know, my wife is, uh, trying to take the kids away and everything.

01:21:17.900 So, um, what I was thinking and I, I saw, I've been watching a lot of content related to this T app thing.

01:21:25.900 Um, and I saw there was a man version of it, uh, apparently called T born.

01:21:29.900 Uh, but it was, uh, within a couple of days, it was banned from all of the app stores from Apple and Google and everybody.

01:21:38.900 Um, but what I was thinking was, um, I don't know if you could do Facebook, um, groups or whatever, but, um, I was thinking that men should do a version of it, but actually follow the rules where you just post a picture, maybe a first name, not reveal everybody's like full, uh, full name and address and everything.

01:21:58.900 And then if you have like court documents or something, basically just say, are you currently dating them?

01:22:04.900 Or when did you date them?

01:22:05.900 Give a date range.

01:22:07.900 Cause that's supposedly what the whole thing was about in the first place.

01:22:10.900 Just, are you dating this person at the same time that I'm dating them?

01:22:14.900 And then, um, and then you could have multiple people line up and they could show overlap.

01:22:19.900 Um, but then if you had like court documents or something, um, like my ex has an assault was a aggravated assault with a deadly weapon from like 2007 or whatever.

01:22:31.900 Like I've got those, uh, documents.

01:22:34.900 Um, so I could maybe submit them and then a moderator could basically authenticate them and then just put, you know, aggravated assault with a deadly weapon 2007.

01:22:46.900 And, uh, without revealing the entire document, like to the entire world or whatever.

01:22:51.900 So anyway, that's what I was thinking.

01:22:54.900 I was thinking guys should do it, but they should do it right.

01:22:56.900 And, you know, not just docs everybody and make up a bunch of dumb stories, like only facts, please.

01:23:03.900 You know what I mean?

01:23:04.900 And basically show them like, yes, this is, this can be a good idea, but you can do it right.

01:23:10.900 And not just embarrass everybody.

01:23:12.900 Also the last time I thought, Oh, go ahead.

01:23:16.900 Look, I, I'm for equality, man.

01:23:19.900 I don't think that you see, you're kind of saying that men should take the higher ground and you just, you just the right way.

01:23:25.900 But why?

01:23:26.900 Why?

01:23:27.900 I mean, cause I mean, I mean, cause anybody can make up stories about anybody.

01:23:33.900 Then the whole thing is completely worthless.

01:23:35.900 Cause men are actually held to the rules.

01:23:38.900 Women aren't.

01:23:39.900 So it's like, well, no, cause I think, I think the idea does actually have value.

01:23:45.900 Like, you know, um, I, you know, if I'm dating somebody, I want to know if other guys are seeing her, if she's seeing other people behind my back or whatever.

01:23:55.900 But you're never going to really know anyway.

01:23:58.900 I mean, you just assume she is because it's, if, if the, if, if the woman's even slightly attractive, it's easy for her to sleep with other people.

01:24:06.900 If you assume she is though, well then what do you want to know for if you assume she is?

01:24:12.900 It's still, it would still be nice to know for sure.

01:24:17.900 Like, like, for example, um, would you tell her or would you just go say, what would be your plan?

01:24:25.900 I here, here's, here's like a very specific example.

01:24:32.900 So like, um, in my, my marriage lasted 13 years and, uh, ended in December.

01:24:41.900 Of 2024.

01:24:43.900 So, um, and, and after, after the fact I've looked into it and, and I missed a bunch of, uh, apparently very obvious red flags.

01:24:53.900 But, um, starting about seven years ago, when we moved into the town that we had moved into, um, my wife started saying that she wanted to go out.

01:25:03.900 She likes singing karaoke.

01:25:05.900 I've never really been into karaoke or whatever.

01:25:07.900 So like about twice a month, sometimes three times a month, she would go out on the weekends or on Wednesdays or whatever the day was that they had karaoke or whatever.

01:25:17.900 And she would go out and have some drinks.

01:25:20.900 And, you know, I felt like, you know, she needed a night out.

01:25:23.900 She was always like, I hate being cooped up with the kids and less than that or whatever.

01:25:27.900 Mm-hmm .

01:25:29.900 So now that she left me in December, I'm like, um, everybody was telling me when she left, they're like, there's no way she would leave unless she had another guy.

01:25:39.900 Right.

01:25:40.900 Or somebody to stay with, or somebody else is taking care of.

01:25:43.900 Why did you just say she had one?

01:25:44.900 Like what's, what's the point of even knowing?

01:25:46.900 Well, I'm just saying like, I, I would, um, I would have been, if I had been able to know earlier, then I think I would have been better prepared.

01:26:00.900 Cause she, she very specifically basically tried to blindside me.

01:26:04.900 She basically just left with the kids and didn't say a single word to me.

01:26:07.900 She never talked about divorce.

01:26:08.900 She never said she wanted to separate.

01:26:10.900 She never said anything.

01:26:11.900 She just disappeared with the kids.

01:26:13.900 And then about 30 days later, I get hit with this court notice or whatever, saying that she wants a restraining order.

01:26:21.900 And I'm a danger to, she's afraid of me and everybody, you know, I'm apparently the worst person on the planet earth.

01:26:27.900 Um, but the last time I talked to you, I did say we had a hearing on July 22nd.

01:26:32.900 Um, and we had that hearing and, uh, a big surprise to me.

01:26:39.900 She had the kids taken away from her.

01:26:42.900 The custody evaluator.

01:26:44.900 No way.

01:26:45.900 Uh, had an argument with her, right?

01:26:47.900 The, the custody of the evaluator is making recommendations on what should be done with the kids.

01:26:51.900 And she had a fight.

01:26:53.900 She had a fight with the custody evaluator.

01:26:55.900 And then the custody evaluator got CPS involved and had the kids taken away from her.

01:26:59.900 Do you have them now then?

01:27:01.900 No, nobody has them.

01:27:04.900 But when they, when they took the kids away from her, that means they don't have to pay her child support anymore.

01:27:10.900 And, and I didn't, and I didn't know this.

01:27:12.900 I think everybody should know this.

01:27:14.900 Um, the office of the attorney general will garnish your paycheck automatically.

01:27:21.900 If you, if you have a pending divorce, uh, that involves child support.

01:27:25.900 Like I thought they could only garnish your paycheck.

01:27:28.900 Like if, uh, you were behind on payments or if you messed something up or no, they start taking money out of your paycheck immediately.

01:27:39.900 And if the judge thinks that you have investments that could be liquidated, they, they're basically taking 65% of my paycheck since January.

01:27:51.900 And then on top of that, they were trying to charge me $800 a month for child visitation.

01:27:57.900 So basically, basically a hundred percent of my paycheck has been going down the tubes since January.

01:28:04.900 And, um, but that's all stopped, uh, at the hearing at July 22nd.

01:28:09.900 So that's all good news now, now they're going to do another round of, you know, basically fitness evaluations or whatever, where everybody has to basically prove, you know, that they're not insane.

01:28:22.900 But, um, but also good news on, on the, on the other side of the good news was, um, my mom had actually taken care of my, uh, nieces and nephews when my sister was getting divorced a couple of years ago.

01:28:35.900 And so, um, she wants to take care of the kids.

01:28:39.900 And so all she has to do is get, you know, the home study done from, uh, from CPS.

01:28:46.900 And then she can probably get the kids.

01:28:48.900 And the other good news is I don't have to pay for visitation anymore.

01:28:52.900 So I get free visitation and my paycheck's not getting garnished anyway, but I know that's all, that's all side information, but man, I didn't know any of this.

01:29:03.900 I didn't know any of this until I was right in the middle of it.

01:29:05.900 That's what happens.

01:29:06.900 You know, you, you have a lot of guys, they get their, they go down to Kinko's and, and make their copies and print out everything.

01:29:12.900 They think they're all ready.

01:29:13.900 Then they go to actual court.

01:29:15.900 It's insane what they, what they can get away with.

01:29:19.900 And basically that's the other thing I was thinking about related to this T app is women can say anything they want.

01:29:26.900 And it's like everybody automatically, automatically believes them.

01:29:30.900 Same thing in court.

01:29:31.900 Like the wife can make any kinds of accusations that she wants against the husband saying he's scary or he's dangerous or he's emotionally distant.

01:29:39.900 Who's not emotionally distant.

01:29:41.900 Right.

01:29:42.900 But, um, you know what you're emotionally distant to a woman that's trying to destroy you.

01:29:49.900 Gee, imagine that.

01:29:50.900 Oh yeah, exactly.

01:29:51.900 Like, yeah, exactly.

01:29:52.900 Like she would, she would, uh, she would try to start these fights and she'd be yelling at me and then she'd say, well, you're just shutting down.

01:29:59.900 You're just emotionally shutting down or whatever.

01:30:01.900 I'm like, what, what am I supposed to do?

01:30:03.900 You want me to scream back at you?

01:30:04.900 Like, that's not going to help anything.

01:30:06.900 Like we've, you know, this is, this is just dumb.

01:30:09.900 Yeah.

01:30:10.900 Yeah.

01:30:11.900 Um, but anyway, I can hear the good news and we're going to move on to the next caller.

01:30:16.900 Cause we, okay.

01:30:17.900 Thanks for calling in.

01:30:18.900 All right.

01:30:19.900 Yeah.

01:30:20.900 Yeah.

01:30:21.900 Yeah.

01:30:22.900 Thanks.

01:30:23.900 Thanks.

01:30:24.900 Thanks for the check-in.

01:30:25.900 Bye.

01:30:26.900 All right.

01:30:27.900 Next up we have Dan.

01:30:28.900 I think that there was a woman in the call queue earlier.

01:30:32.900 Call back in.

01:30:33.900 Cause I was going to bring you up.

01:30:36.900 Um, but they're not there anymore.

01:30:38.900 Danny there.

01:30:39.900 I can hear it.

01:30:40.900 Yeah.

01:30:41.900 Hey, Dan.

01:30:42.900 Um, are you a Chad or you put in the group?

01:30:45.900 Are we dating the same guy?

01:30:47.900 So, yeah.

01:30:48.900 Um, I was actually posted in there, uh, three times.

01:30:51.900 Um, the first time I was ever posted, I, I kind of actually deserved it.

01:30:59.900 Cause at the time it was, uh, this was, uh, December of 2023 and, uh, my, I was with

01:31:06.900 the, my girlfriend at the time and I was on a dating app.

01:31:10.900 So yeah, I got, I got busted, uh, cheating and someone, someone was asking about me, seeing

01:31:16.900 if they were, you know, dating this guy and whatnot.

01:31:19.900 Um, someone from my work who I was friends with on Facebook, uh, obviously, you know, like

01:31:26.900 noticed that I was posting on there and then I'm, I'm guessing it was her who messaged my

01:31:32.900 girlfriend.

01:31:33.900 And you know, that, that relationship ended.

01:31:37.900 Um, just so fast.

01:31:38.900 Hold on.

01:31:39.900 C pro you see what I said about people at your job and stuff.

01:31:42.900 There, there are people at your job and your personal life that will go on there.

01:31:46.900 I mean, I guess his was blatant, but you know, being put in there opens up to people

01:31:51.900 and opens you up to people in your life, seeing you in there.

01:31:55.900 Anyway, go ahead, Dan.

01:31:56.900 Yeah.

01:31:57.900 And, um, but it's kind of funny because that my, my ex girlfriend, uh, nine months later

01:32:05.900 after that relationship ended, she messaged me out of the blue and cheated on, on her

01:32:12.900 current boyfriend, uh, with me.

01:32:15.900 Um, not nine months later saying she messaged me how much she missed me and saying that she

01:32:20.900 wanted a family with me.

01:32:21.900 And so that was kind of funny that she broke up with me for cheating.

01:32:24.900 And then she ends up going and she owned her boyfriend, but yeah, anyway, um, four months.

01:32:29.900 So four months later, after that happened, um, there was this other girl who posted me

01:32:34.900 in there for, she got mad at me for ghosting.

01:32:37.900 I hooked up with her a couple of times and then we were going to meet up a third time.

01:32:41.900 But then I just, I just honestly wasn't in it.

01:32:45.900 Like, I don't know.

01:32:46.900 I didn't feel like it.

01:32:47.900 And then she posted in, in there saying, Oh, I was a, you know, I was an asshole or whatever.

01:32:52.900 And, um, she ended up reporting me on a bumble and hinge for ghosting.

01:32:59.900 And then I got kicked off of there for ghosting, you know?

01:33:02.900 And, um, and then later the third time that I was posted, um, was, I believe it was November

01:33:13.900 of 2024 was the last time.

01:33:18.900 And, uh, this girl and I had hooked up or whatever, a couple of times.

01:33:22.900 And, um, she was just asking, you know, she's like, Oh, I heard this guy was posted in here

01:33:28.900 before for cheating on his girlfriend.

01:33:30.900 I just wanted to make sure that he wasn't dating anyone, you know?

01:33:33.900 And then I had someone else from my work who I didn't know.

01:33:38.900 I worked at a hospital.

01:33:39.900 So of course it was like these nurses, you know, and, um, she, um, she, she was saying

01:33:47.900 that she made up this crazy rumor saying that I was sleeping around in the hospital, which

01:33:54.900 wasn't true at all.

01:33:55.900 She was saying I was sleeping with like 80% of the nurses in the hospital that I've only,

01:34:00.900 I only slept with one nurse at the hospital at the hospital.

01:34:03.900 But, and she's, she was like saying I was spreading STDs.

01:34:06.900 Um, some, some other girl who I, who I did go on a date with was mad saying that, Oh,

01:34:13.900 like he, I'm a dickhead for like ending the date in like 45 minutes.

01:34:18.900 Um, uh, what is the girl who posted me the second time saying that I ghosted her came

01:34:26.900 on.

01:34:27.900 Another girl said that I was, uh, I was an ass because I ghosted her, uh, because she

01:34:32.900 sent me a picture of her body and then I didn't like it.

01:34:35.900 So I just stopped talking to her.

01:34:38.900 Did you say you didn't like it?

01:34:43.900 Or did you know, I, I just, she sent me a little heart.

01:34:47.900 Fat?

01:34:48.900 What was wrong with it?

01:34:49.900 Flat or flat?

01:34:50.900 Oh yeah.

01:34:51.900 Yeah.

01:34:52.900 She had like cellulite and whatnot.

01:34:53.900 Yeah.

01:34:54.900 She was, she was chubbier than I thought.

01:34:55.900 And, um, she, she sent me a picture of a body and I like, she just sent it.

01:34:59.900 And then I didn't say anything.

01:35:02.900 So I might be a little bit of an ass for that, but I don't know.

01:35:06.900 But, uh, yeah, so, so that is what happened.

01:35:09.900 Uh, but yeah, I, the, the, the thing, the whole thing about the, the STDs and whatnot,

01:35:14.900 uh, saying that I was spreading and I never had an STD in my life.

01:35:17.900 So, and, and then I, and I, I know I've seen that girl who I worked with before, but I never really knew her.

01:35:25.900 And she was, she was gross.

01:35:27.900 Like this girl was like a 1.5 out of 10.

01:35:31.900 She was gross.

01:35:32.900 And then I, so I had no idea why she mentioned to me like that.

01:35:36.900 And then my, my best friend's ex-girlfriend was saying that it was like commenting, like on my sex life, like saying that, um, like, Oh, you know, he's, he's had girls come in and out, but I hadn't heard nothing about him recently.

01:35:52.900 I was like, why, why, why would you even say that?

01:35:55.900 Like, I, I'm not, you know, I don't know.

01:35:57.900 It's, it's, it was weird.

01:35:59.900 And the whole thing, um, made me mad enough, uh, to the point where I had made this, uh, are we dating the same guy exposed group on Facebook?

01:36:10.900 And, um, I had it, it was running for about, I don't know, three months, something like that.

01:36:16.900 Uh, and, and it started like the followers on it started picking up so fast.

01:36:20.900 Like I had about 5,000 followers before we finally got, we finally got banned.

01:36:25.900 Cause women just kept reporting to group, kept reporting to group.

01:36:28.900 And, and what we were doing is me and my girlfriend, uh, my current girlfriend, um, were screenshotting, uh, are we dating the same guy post?

01:36:37.900 Cause she was in there, you know, and then we were just posting everything that they were posting.

01:36:41.900 And yeah.

01:36:42.900 And like, yeah, we would like, you know, when, when we see, we, we would.

01:36:45.900 You know, um, when they would talk shit about, you know, a guy on there, we would do the same.

01:36:53.900 Like we would bully that girl back and, you know, uh, whatever, talk smack about her.

01:37:00.900 And then that's what, that's why our group got banned.

01:37:05.900 But I was like, well, we're doing the same thing that they were doing.

01:37:09.900 Why, why did our group get banned?

01:37:11.900 You know what I mean?

01:37:12.900 And these girls are so mad about that exposed group.

01:37:15.900 And like all, all these, it was so funny.

01:37:17.900 They were just like, oh, you don't care about women's safety.

01:37:19.900 You don't care about women's safety.

01:37:20.900 It's not about women's safety.

01:37:22.900 I literally don't care about women's safety.

01:37:25.900 Like what more do you guys want?

01:37:28.900 You have the police you can call.

01:37:30.900 I mean, it's pretty safe outside.

01:37:33.900 Um, yeah, exactly.

01:37:34.900 Yeah.

01:37:35.900 Like, I don't know.

01:37:36.900 Like, yeah.

01:37:37.900 If a man does rape you on a date, it's pretty easy to go press charges.

01:37:40.900 Like you'll probably win, even if you're lying.

01:37:43.900 So like, what more do you want?

01:37:45.900 I just think that, you know, modern women always talk about their intuition and their discernment,

01:37:50.900 all this stuff.

01:37:51.900 You either have it or you don't.

01:37:53.900 You can't say that you're, you know, you have all this intuition and women know before

01:37:58.900 guys know and women mature faster and stuff, but then have this victim narrative.

01:38:03.900 Would they have to be protected from these horrible men?

01:38:08.900 Yeah, I know.

01:38:09.900 And then like, yeah, my ex-girlfriend being a hypocrite, breaking up with me and then cheating

01:38:14.900 on it.

01:38:15.900 And I don't know.

01:38:16.900 That's just, they're, they're hypocrites.

01:38:17.900 It's, it's, it's, it's funny, but yeah, man.

01:38:20.900 All right.

01:38:21.900 I got to go.

01:38:22.900 My girlfriend's about to be here in a couple of minutes and let me talk.

01:38:25.900 I'm glad you found a non-crazy one.

01:38:28.900 So.

01:38:29.900 Yes.

01:38:30.900 She is so far the most sane one.

01:38:31.900 Yeah.

01:38:32.900 Thanks for calling in.

01:38:33.900 No problem.

01:38:34.900 Thank you.

01:38:35.900 And that is everyone.

01:38:38.900 Cool.

01:38:39.900 Yeah.

01:38:40.900 Any final thoughts?

01:38:42.900 Um, my infamous, um, my infamous friend.

01:38:47.900 No, it's just women don't know how to take L's.

01:38:52.900 And, um, like it's for what they say with the T app, the average age women on the IDs were

01:38:59.900 between 33 and 37.

01:39:01.900 Why do you think that is?

01:39:02.900 Cause that's when women have to start taking L's.

01:39:04.900 Ladies take the L and all you're doing is ruining dating.

01:39:08.900 Men didn't approach before, but they knew they're really not going to approach now.

01:39:12.900 And here's the thing.

01:39:13.900 Men used to actually put the real names on their online dating profiles, or they used

01:39:17.900 to tell you the real names during a date.

01:39:19.900 They're not going to do that anymore.

01:39:21.900 Ladies.

01:39:22.900 All they're doing is ruining dating.

01:39:24.900 Go ahead.

01:39:25.900 Ladies, online dating is the future.

01:39:28.900 Unfortunately, that's probably how you're going to meet your husband and just know you're

01:39:32.900 going to have to smash a couple of dudes.

01:39:34.900 Um, that'll probably pass you unless you're beautiful.

01:39:38.900 If you're beautiful, you might get around that.

01:39:40.900 Um, and when that happens, I would just take that L.

01:39:44.900 Yeah.

01:39:45.900 I would just eat it.

01:39:46.900 Cause this is just an example of what do I always say is the worst thing about modern

01:39:50.900 women parole.

01:39:51.900 Modern women are whores, baby mamas.

01:39:54.900 But the biggest problem is they, they talk too much.

01:39:59.900 And I say that in a sense of like social media and just saying their business.

01:40:05.900 Women of the past would keep things to their graves.

01:40:09.900 We'll keep secrets.

01:40:11.900 That's what it was about.

01:40:12.900 Now it's the exact opposite.

01:40:13.900 I mean, you guys keep secrets all the time.

01:40:16.900 Like the secrets of how much you hate us.

01:40:18.900 Like men, men don't really like women.

01:40:20.900 Like that's the thing.

01:40:21.900 Men don't.

01:40:22.900 I mean, they kind of do like, they like looking at us, having sex with us, maybe having someone

01:40:29.900 there sometimes, but in general, they don't really like our opinions.

01:40:34.900 They don't really like our nagging.

01:40:37.900 They don't really like our personalities.

01:40:40.900 Yeah.

01:40:41.900 So, you know, men lie to us all the time and tell us that we like those things.

01:40:46.900 Yep.

01:40:47.900 What does Prachita say?

01:40:48.900 We want you around, but we don't want you around.

01:40:50.900 Yeah.

01:40:51.900 Yeah.

01:40:52.900 Men lie and they're like, we like that.

01:40:54.900 We, they don't like that at all.

01:40:56.900 But women, you know, the difference is I said this the other day, men have the courtesy

01:41:02.900 of lying to women.

01:41:03.900 They lie about cheating on us.

01:41:05.900 You'd be like, did you cheat on me?

01:41:07.900 He'll look you in your eye, your eye and say no.

01:41:10.900 No.

01:41:11.900 And they do that for your benefit, ladies.

01:41:13.900 Well, women can't look them in their eye and say, I've never been with anybody but you.

01:41:20.900 You are the best I ever had.

01:41:22.900 We can't lie.

01:41:23.900 And we think there's some virtue in being honest and there's really none.

01:41:28.900 Like what?

01:41:29.900 Let me get this straight.

01:41:30.900 We want to say, we think there's a virtue and say, you're like the fourth best I've ever

01:41:35.900 had.

01:41:36.900 No, it's called the art of the lie.

01:41:41.900 Just like he calls you the most beautiful woman in the world.

01:41:44.900 Do you know what I mean?

01:41:45.900 Those two comparisons.

01:41:47.900 It's like, obviously you're mid because most women are, I'm sure maybe a beautiful woman's

01:41:54.900 watching my show.

01:41:55.900 Probably not.

01:41:56.900 Um, so you're probably mid and your husband has to lie to you, but you don't want him to

01:42:00.900 say, you know, Diane, you're like a 5.4 out of 10.

01:42:05.900 You'd be pissed.

01:42:06.900 Right.

01:42:07.900 But women, we, we feel like we could say, you know, I dated this rapper.

01:42:13.900 I dated this guy and that guy.

01:42:16.900 And, and look, I'm not saying to completely lie, but if you can, you should.

01:42:21.900 Yeah.

01:42:22.900 I would just.

01:42:23.900 Did you see that one video where this guy is walking up the couples on some boardwalk

01:42:28.900 somewhere and he's like, how did you two meet?

01:42:31.900 And so it's, it's this black guy.

01:42:34.900 No.

01:42:35.900 Oh, I think I know where she was like, I was getting older.

01:42:37.900 Yeah.

01:42:38.900 She's like, well, he kept hitting on me for like seven years and I was getting older.

01:42:42.900 So I decided, Hey, why not?

01:42:43.900 And they have two kids and he's looking at it like easy bro.

01:42:47.900 Like what?

01:42:48.900 And everyone, everyone was like, may this type of love never find me.

01:42:52.900 Yeah.

01:42:53.900 Like, look at that.

01:42:54.900 Maybe true.

01:42:55.900 Look, let's, let's be honest here for a second.

01:42:57.900 Ladies, most people don't marry the best sex of their life.

01:43:01.900 Can we just be on man or woman?

01:43:04.900 Most people are not going to marry the best sex they ever had.

01:43:09.900 Most people don't end up with their first choice.

01:43:12.900 Okay.

01:43:13.900 Men settle for us all the time.

01:43:16.900 Pretty much everyone.

01:43:18.900 They settle for someone older than they want.

01:43:20.900 They wanted someone 22 and they're like, fuck it.

01:43:23.900 I'll take 30 through 32.

01:43:25.900 Good enough.

01:43:26.900 They wanted a virgin.

01:43:28.900 They said, you know what?

01:43:29.900 Fuck it.

01:43:30.900 I'll take like 30 bodies.

01:43:33.900 Good enough.

01:43:34.900 I'll take it.

01:43:35.900 Um, the tip of me.

01:43:38.900 What?

01:43:39.900 Yeah, I agree.

01:43:40.900 Yeah.

01:43:41.900 Yeah.

01:43:42.900 But the women can't say, do you know what?

01:43:44.900 I wanted Chad, but I'll take Gavin, the starving musician.

01:43:51.900 I wanted Chad, but I'll take Brad or I'll take Eugene.

01:43:58.900 We can't do it for some reason.

01:44:01.900 Some reason.

01:44:02.900 I agree.

01:44:03.900 And it's just, it's like, yeah.

01:44:05.900 Um, so we gotta learn to take owls.

01:44:07.900 And we gotta, we gotta learn to just pretend and lie better.

01:44:12.900 We should do a show called how to lie better.

01:44:17.900 How about this?

01:44:18.900 No, no.

01:44:19.900 The best, the lies, the lies that you should learn as a man, as a, and a woman.

01:44:25.900 So the lies you should learn as a woman are like, you're the best I ever had.

01:44:30.900 Um, you, you're the man of my dreams.

01:44:35.900 Wait, Doug MPA.

01:44:36.900 Could you, could you ask me my body count really quick?

01:44:39.900 Could you ask me?

01:44:40.900 So, uh, Pearl, what's your body count?

01:44:43.900 One.

01:44:44.900 Well, okay.

01:44:49.900 Two.

01:44:50.900 Well, how about this?

01:44:52.900 A lot of guys, cause one of the problems with these groups is women won't even tell the truth.

01:44:59.900 They'll tell their truth.

01:45:01.900 You know what I'm saying?

01:45:03.900 Guys tell the truth.

01:45:04.900 Women will tell the truth through their feelings, which is their truth.

01:45:08.900 And that's a big problem right there.

01:45:10.900 Ladies.

01:45:11.900 Don't talk about your truth.

01:45:13.900 Don't feel entitled to tell a man your truth.

01:45:16.900 Keep that to yourself.

01:45:18.900 How about that?

01:45:20.900 Cool.

01:45:21.900 Well, um, thanks for tuning in.

01:45:24.900 You got any final thoughts?

01:45:27.900 Nope.

01:45:28.900 Yeah.

01:45:29.900 I said already, like I said, uh, these women, they're just making dating harder.

01:45:33.900 Now we're in the great staring contest.

01:45:35.900 Cause now less and less men are going to want to date and women are not stepping up to the plate.

01:45:41.900 They're just not.

01:45:42.900 And I'm sorry.

01:45:43.900 They're not going to be able to break the stereotype that women that hit on, that hit on men are hyper masculine and have all these problems.

01:45:52.900 So now we're still staring at each other.

01:45:54.900 Well, my, um, my final thought is we should start to lie better.

01:45:59.900 They're saying they're, they're guessing my body count in the chat.

01:46:02.900 Well, I'm a virgin.

01:46:04.900 So I'm at, it's actually zero.

01:46:09.900 So yeah, fuck all of you.

01:46:11.900 And that's what I'm going with.

01:46:14.900 Um, but anyways, um, yeah, we gotta learn to lie better.

01:46:18.900 Um, we gotta learn to men.

01:46:21.900 Give us the courtesy of lying to us and women.

01:46:24.900 We should try to do the same thing.

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01:46:29.900 Thank you guys for watching and I'll see you tomorrow.

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JustPearlyThings - July 31, 2025

Are ＂Dating The Same Guy＂ Groups Good or Bad？ (Call-in Show) ｜ Pearl Daily

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