JustPearlyThings - June 08, 2023


Aunty Jenny Puts Modern Woman In Her Place


Episode Stats

Length

11 minutes

Words per Minute

209.95454

Word Count

2,448

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

6

Hate Speech Sentences

8


Summary

In this episode, the lads discuss the controversial topic of whether or not abortion should be legalised in the UK. The lads also discuss the issue of foster carers and the moral misalignment of the abortion system.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 there's there's a thing there's certain people that there's it just like a luck of the draw
00:00:04.100 there's there's people that are extremely blessed that the situation and they're actually blessed
00:00:07.560 with a with a mother that will take care of you from whatever situation make you be a wholesome
00:00:11.760 human being and show you all the love on the flip side there are people that then go on to abuse
00:00:15.920 their children because they don't know any better there are people that go to neglect their children
00:00:19.420 because they're not in a supportive relationship or because they can't handle it if you are real
00:00:23.500 did you hear what i said i said i was a foster carer i was a foster carer and i fostered 10
00:00:31.380 children those children you're talking about and they had better lives for it because you're
00:00:36.820 and i only fostered children primary school age so i had children that have been abused
00:00:43.020 physically and sexually at that age so nobody can't give me the excuse i mean that's your opinion i'm
00:00:50.380 giving you my experience so as far as i'm concerned if the care system that allows these women to have
00:00:57.440 the children that allows these women to have abortions they also allow these children to have
00:01:02.120 that allow these women to have the children and hand them over to responsible people that will look
00:01:07.660 after and nurture and care for those children rather than murder them yeah because people murder
00:01:13.000 their children too often and then those who don't get murdered i look after i look after i raise
00:01:20.000 i nurture and i look after them and i'm sure there's there's african children indian children white
00:01:26.080 children out there that i fostered that have been to university being models and having good stable
00:01:31.160 lives because of me so i'd rather even at my age now i would rather look after somebody else's child
00:01:40.020 i've looked after children that have been sexually abused at two and three years old i have had them
00:01:46.680 and i'd rather have them knowing that i looked after them then they got murdered and as far as i'm
00:01:53.620 concerned it's not that it's not these children it's society and if the people are messed up people are
00:02:01.460 going they're having sexual lessons and in school they don't teach them parenting lessons skills like
00:02:07.820 cooking skills managing money and that's what the people need because there's no poverty i'm going to be
00:02:14.160 the one to say there's no poverty in england england you get paid to have children it's the parents
00:02:19.460 and the people that have the money that are mismanaging it so rather than go out there and say
00:02:23.980 oh this is a poor person this look at what they're doing manage their money because i guarantee you
00:02:29.640 those children who come from those households look the parents are smoking they can afford to smoke
00:02:36.300 they can smoke a full smart screen tv they can afford jury the children have got all the latest phones
00:02:42.580 and tablets and everything but yet they're going to say there's poverty because they have no food
00:02:47.200 they have no clothes it's not to do with the government it's to do with them managing their
00:02:51.800 money so as far as i'm concerned no child deserves to be killed unless the mother's gonna die
00:02:57.860 may i say something auntie i appreciate what you're saying it's a very touchy topic because
00:03:02.840 obviously it's it's sensitive i believe that children to me are one of the purest things in the world
00:03:09.840 and if it gets to a stage where actually you have a choice either terminate this life right here
00:03:15.640 right now the energy is still in the world the energy still exists but terminated now instead of
00:03:19.240 a lot of playing with chance of letting a child go into the system and become an extremely wounded
00:03:24.580 human being i'd rather do the other because you'll go to a better place the same way i believe in
00:03:29.480 euthanasia is the same way i believe in abortion oh gosh see that's different because
00:03:33.420 i don't believe in any form of murder so that's why we're always going to differ that's why we're
00:03:38.980 always going to agree but because anyway i answered the question right so no no i want to hear what
00:03:45.860 the rest of what you had to say zuby i didn't hear your opinion yeah finish your opinion yeah well like
00:03:49.840 we wouldn't work right so that's the answer to the question very clearly that's a complete moral
00:03:55.020 misalignment i said maybe to you it's a complete moral misalignment right like everything you just
00:04:01.060 said there that's freaking horrifying zuby can i ask and i'm not disagreeing with you zuby can i ask
00:04:05.200 why you don't support killing people yeah no well i used to be a crip so i'm with you but can i support
00:04:11.660 why you don't uh can i can i i just want to know i don't get to talk to people that have always varying
00:04:18.860 different opinions all the time because we live in echo chambers of course so i'm very interested
00:04:22.880 and i'm not that i disagree i'm very interested in why you don't believe in abortion outside of the
00:04:27.980 the killing people because we kill people with tons of other things but what is the thing about
00:04:32.680 abortion very simple i think it i think it is wrong to intentionally terminate an innocent human
00:04:37.720 life yeah period i think it's a crime to corrupt an innocent human life if i had an abortion i would
00:04:47.140 never been able to have another child again and i would have been childless and i was on the pill
00:04:51.940 but i would have never had a child again and you know what when i got pregnant i actually told i had
00:04:57.260 an old aunt which was a you know like auntie and i went to her and i said to her two people i told
00:05:02.880 first my stepdad and that aunt and i went to her and i said explained to her i said i'm pregnant
00:05:10.040 and she sat me down and she said and this is in the old days and she said jennifer she said
00:05:15.760 i've been seeing this married man for years and you know like when you get them women back in the day
00:05:21.140 that they were that was the woman and he and she said and i got i got pregnant she goes and he said
00:05:25.900 to me it's either me or the child and this man was everything to her her world took her out
00:05:34.420 they went places and she said i decided to choose my child and she said to me when i was having the
00:05:40.980 child there were complications and she said i'll never be able to have another child and she's only
00:05:46.300 got one son she goes to me have your child and exactly what happened to her happened to me
00:05:50.840 and i got the one child well i'm i'm not gonna lie i can sympathize when i speak before i don't want
00:05:56.660 sympathy i i i i too was in a very complicated relationship i'll put it as that and i was in
00:06:04.540 that same situation and i just determined you know why because i said listen i would rather take that
00:06:10.280 risk and to create do that for my child because this person is definitely not going to be a good
00:06:13.500 father to my child i already vetted the situation and if it gets to a point where i can't have any
00:06:17.460 children i'll do an alternative i will bless other souls and give my love and my energy to somebody
00:06:22.080 that is not even my child regardless of whatever happens whether i can have children or not i'll
00:06:26.260 still bless people i'll still give love i will still be able to be a mother even if biologically
00:06:30.340 that was my not meant to be my destiny that's it you can always find alternatives to things but one
00:06:35.200 thing that i believe that we should do is ensure that whatever energy we put into or whatever
00:06:39.380 children we are raising we're going to put them in a situation where they can be better
00:06:43.160 to human beings otherwise society is going to do whatever that's why situations now are what
00:06:47.500 they are in england it's very easy like for people to have children when they're teenagers
00:06:51.060 look at how everybody is acting now it's very easy because the majority of abortions are not
00:06:55.540 from teenagers no it's actually from women no and what i'm saying is in the uk i think the uk
00:07:00.640 is actually the country in europe that has the highest rate of teenage pregnancy and you can see
00:07:05.040 actually how that's affecting society there needs to be a certain way of controlling this type of
00:07:09.580 of i would say unhealed traumatized kind of dna to keep passing on if you're not ready to have a
00:07:17.400 child and you can recognize that you have a choice to either make the situations worse for you and
00:07:22.180 affect an innocent child or take the chance now and make it better and if it means you don't have
00:07:26.900 kids again save somebody else's child go foster go adopt there's too many people that are needing
00:07:31.640 your love why don't you give it up for adoption because giving it up for adoption you're putting your
00:07:36.360 child in a situation where actually you can fall on either side of statistics are you going to be
00:07:40.500 with an angel person or you're going to be with the devil that's going to physically abuse you
00:07:43.720 sexually abuse you why does your mind always go to like the worst possible it goes on to both like
00:07:49.520 no no but i'm saying like extreme i could think of many situations where adoption worked out really
00:07:55.060 well like my mom got pregnant when she was 17 and she she could have thought you know my life was
00:08:00.160 over and she gave that kid up for adoption he just got married he has a kid now he grew up with a
00:08:04.900 completely different family well it's good yeah and well unfortunately for you see the good
00:08:09.640 unfortunately on my side where actually because i i'm even from my demographic where i come from
00:08:14.900 what i see and what is actually a lot of what i feel like is the masses most of the people that i
00:08:19.360 know that in those situations come from very hard um stories and backgrounds and when they speak to
00:08:24.480 me i can see how damaged they are and how much pain they still feel now because not everybody's even
00:08:29.420 equipped to learn how to heal themselves so it's either we're going to create this but they're
00:08:34.580 alive but they're alive but they're still suffering and this is the thing they're alive for example i'll
00:08:39.220 give you an example one of my my friend my sister she had a friend she her parents abused her her
00:08:44.160 stepdad sexually abused her she was on drugs she was 16 and actually she had an accident um and she died
00:08:50.380 and the friends were all very upset they all really really sad and they cried and everything but
00:08:54.880 amongst them they said you know what actually i feel like she's in a better place because
00:08:58.220 this world was not treating her right her situation was making her more depressed and
00:09:01.820 people are living by suffering they're not living to live wait i think i asked just quickly is are
00:09:07.260 you religious i'm spiritual you're spiritual there i think that's a big part of it i think what's
00:09:12.540 happening now is i don't know zuby if you're religious okay so this is religious but i'm not
00:09:18.540 my argument's not coming right but i'm not saying that it is zuby i'm not because i'm i'm spiritual i'm
00:09:23.740 i don't know what the fuck i am but i'm not saying that it is what i'm saying is i think a big part of it
00:09:28.140 is a lot of times like i have i don't believe in abortion but i do not also think that i have
00:09:35.580 the right to tell a woman what to do with her body so so what i think not that you guys are this but i
00:09:41.100 think that i think a big part of it is that you a lot of times i have aunts and people who are very
00:09:46.220 religious life is suffering to them that's what it is one of the the things and i think what you're
00:09:51.420 arguing no offense to you or anybody i think it's very different than what she's saying i think it's a
00:09:56.780 very two different points i agree with zuby i agree with auntie for the most part uh both of you
00:10:02.300 guys and i also agree with you like i just said but i think what you're getting at is from your
00:10:08.460 personal experience in life and what you've been through and how you came out of that experience
00:10:13.820 versus auntie and and um zuby and pearl are coming from a different pearl's talking about she had a
00:10:20.700 relative who was a sibling who was raised in a wonderful world because they were adopted i think
00:10:26.940 you're coming from your personal experiences of what you've seen and not the overall global
00:10:33.180 of course but that's life i'm not coming from any perspective experience i'm i'm not usually i'm
00:10:39.820 saying from her i'm saying not you i'm just saying in general i don't i don't think it's a religious
00:10:44.380 thing no it's not a religious thing i'm just saying in my head i go i just want to know if she
00:10:48.220 would say she was just spiritual religious because nine times i'm saying to my per this is just my
00:10:52.380 personal experience when i talk to spiritual or or not really religious people they lean towards her
00:10:58.060 more and the religious people lean towards this it does but on both sides it happens but what i'm
00:11:03.340 saying is pearl you're saying you had a sibling raised beautifully out of adoption right zuby's saying
00:11:09.900 he doesn't believe in abortion it's taking human life auntie's saying the same thing this young woman is
00:11:13.740 saying a very different thing but it's based in her personal experience and life and so on and so
00:11:18.700 forth which is okay i'm just saying i don't believe in abortion but at the same time i don't think i can
00:11:25.500 tell a woman or anybody what to do with their person i'm in this weird place