JustPearlyThings - Aunty Jenny Puts Modern Woman In Her Place

00:00:00.000 there's there's a thing there's certain people that there's it just like a luck of the draw

00:00:04.100 there's there's people that are extremely blessed that the situation and they're actually blessed

00:00:07.560 with a with a mother that will take care of you from whatever situation make you be a wholesome

00:00:11.760 human being and show you all the love on the flip side there are people that then go on to abuse

00:00:15.920 their children because they don't know any better there are people that go to neglect their children

00:00:19.420 because they're not in a supportive relationship or because they can't handle it if you are real

00:00:23.500 did you hear what i said i said i was a foster carer i was a foster carer and i fostered 10

00:00:31.380 children those children you're talking about and they had better lives for it because you're

00:00:36.820 and i only fostered children primary school age so i had children that have been abused

00:00:43.020 physically and sexually at that age so nobody can't give me the excuse i mean that's your opinion i'm

00:00:50.380 giving you my experience so as far as i'm concerned if the care system that allows these women to have 0.98

00:00:57.440 the children that allows these women to have abortions they also allow these children to have 1.00

00:01:02.120 that allow these women to have the children and hand them over to responsible people that will look 1.00

00:01:07.660 after and nurture and care for those children rather than murder them yeah because people murder 0.95

00:01:13.000 their children too often and then those who don't get murdered i look after i look after i raise

00:01:20.000 i nurture and i look after them and i'm sure there's there's african children indian children white

00:01:26.080 children out there that i fostered that have been to university being models and having good stable

00:01:31.160 lives because of me so i'd rather even at my age now i would rather look after somebody else's child

00:01:40.020 i've looked after children that have been sexually abused at two and three years old i have had them

00:01:46.680 and i'd rather have them knowing that i looked after them then they got murdered and as far as i'm

00:01:53.620 concerned it's not that it's not these children it's society and if the people are messed up people are

00:02:01.460 going they're having sexual lessons and in school they don't teach them parenting lessons skills like

00:02:07.820 cooking skills managing money and that's what the people need because there's no poverty i'm going to be

00:02:14.160 the one to say there's no poverty in england england you get paid to have children it's the parents

00:02:19.460 and the people that have the money that are mismanaging it so rather than go out there and say

00:02:23.980 oh this is a poor person this look at what they're doing manage their money because i guarantee you

00:02:29.640 those children who come from those households look the parents are smoking they can afford to smoke

00:02:36.300 they can smoke a full smart screen tv they can afford jury the children have got all the latest phones

00:02:42.580 and tablets and everything but yet they're going to say there's poverty because they have no food

00:02:47.200 they have no clothes it's not to do with the government it's to do with them managing their

00:02:51.800 money so as far as i'm concerned no child deserves to be killed unless the mother's gonna die 0.85

00:02:57.860 may i say something auntie i appreciate what you're saying it's a very touchy topic because

00:03:02.840 obviously it's it's sensitive i believe that children to me are one of the purest things in the world

00:03:09.840 and if it gets to a stage where actually you have a choice either terminate this life right here

00:03:15.640 right now the energy is still in the world the energy still exists but terminated now instead of

00:03:19.240 a lot of playing with chance of letting a child go into the system and become an extremely wounded

00:03:24.580 human being i'd rather do the other because you'll go to a better place the same way i believe in

00:03:29.480 euthanasia is the same way i believe in abortion oh gosh see that's different because

00:03:33.420 i don't believe in any form of murder so that's why we're always going to differ that's why we're

00:03:38.980 always going to agree but because anyway i answered the question right so no no i want to hear what

00:03:45.860 the rest of what you had to say zuby i didn't hear your opinion yeah finish your opinion yeah well like

00:03:49.840 we wouldn't work right so that's the answer to the question very clearly that's a complete moral

00:03:55.020 misalignment i said maybe to you it's a complete moral misalignment right like everything you just

00:04:01.060 said there that's freaking horrifying zuby can i ask and i'm not disagreeing with you zuby can i ask 0.54

00:04:05.200 why you don't support killing people yeah no well i used to be a crip so i'm with you but can i support

00:04:11.660 why you don't uh can i can i i just want to know i don't get to talk to people that have always varying

00:04:18.860 different opinions all the time because we live in echo chambers of course so i'm very interested

00:04:22.880 and i'm not that i disagree i'm very interested in why you don't believe in abortion outside of the

00:04:27.980 the killing people because we kill people with tons of other things but what is the thing about

00:04:32.680 abortion very simple i think it i think it is wrong to intentionally terminate an innocent human

00:04:37.720 life yeah period i think it's a crime to corrupt an innocent human life if i had an abortion i would

00:04:47.140 never been able to have another child again and i would have been childless and i was on the pill

00:04:51.940 but i would have never had a child again and you know what when i got pregnant i actually told i had

00:04:57.260 an old aunt which was a you know like auntie and i went to her and i said to her two people i told

00:05:02.880 first my stepdad and that aunt and i went to her and i said explained to her i said i'm pregnant

00:05:10.040 and she sat me down and she said and this is in the old days and she said jennifer she said

00:05:15.760 i've been seeing this married man for years and you know like when you get them women back in the day 1.00

00:05:21.140 that they were that was the woman and he and she said and i got i got pregnant she goes and he said

00:05:25.900 to me it's either me or the child and this man was everything to her her world took her out

00:05:34.420 they went places and she said i decided to choose my child and she said to me when i was having the

00:05:40.980 child there were complications and she said i'll never be able to have another child and she's only

00:05:46.300 got one son she goes to me have your child and exactly what happened to her happened to me 1.00

00:05:50.840 and i got the one child well i'm i'm not gonna lie i can sympathize when i speak before i don't want

00:05:56.660 sympathy i i i i too was in a very complicated relationship i'll put it as that and i was in

00:06:04.540 that same situation and i just determined you know why because i said listen i would rather take that

00:06:10.280 risk and to create do that for my child because this person is definitely not going to be a good

00:06:13.500 father to my child i already vetted the situation and if it gets to a point where i can't have any

00:06:17.460 children i'll do an alternative i will bless other souls and give my love and my energy to somebody

00:06:22.080 that is not even my child regardless of whatever happens whether i can have children or not i'll

00:06:26.260 still bless people i'll still give love i will still be able to be a mother even if biologically

00:06:30.340 that was my not meant to be my destiny that's it you can always find alternatives to things but one

00:06:35.200 thing that i believe that we should do is ensure that whatever energy we put into or whatever

00:06:39.380 children we are raising we're going to put them in a situation where they can be better

00:06:43.160 to human beings otherwise society is going to do whatever that's why situations now are what

00:06:47.500 they are in england it's very easy like for people to have children when they're teenagers

00:06:51.060 look at how everybody is acting now it's very easy because the majority of abortions are not

00:06:55.540 from teenagers no it's actually from women no and what i'm saying is in the uk i think the uk

00:07:00.640 is actually the country in europe that has the highest rate of teenage pregnancy and you can see

00:07:05.040 actually how that's affecting society there needs to be a certain way of controlling this type of

00:07:09.580 of i would say unhealed traumatized kind of dna to keep passing on if you're not ready to have a

00:07:17.400 child and you can recognize that you have a choice to either make the situations worse for you and

00:07:22.180 affect an innocent child or take the chance now and make it better and if it means you don't have

00:07:26.900 kids again save somebody else's child go foster go adopt there's too many people that are needing

00:07:31.640 your love why don't you give it up for adoption because giving it up for adoption you're putting your

00:07:36.360 child in a situation where actually you can fall on either side of statistics are you going to be

00:07:40.500 with an angel person or you're going to be with the devil that's going to physically abuse you

00:07:43.720 sexually abuse you why does your mind always go to like the worst possible it goes on to both like

00:07:49.520 no no but i'm saying like extreme i could think of many situations where adoption worked out really

00:07:55.060 well like my mom got pregnant when she was 17 and she she could have thought you know my life was

00:08:00.160 over and she gave that kid up for adoption he just got married he has a kid now he grew up with a

00:08:04.900 completely different family well it's good yeah and well unfortunately for you see the good

00:08:09.640 unfortunately on my side where actually because i i'm even from my demographic where i come from

00:08:14.900 what i see and what is actually a lot of what i feel like is the masses most of the people that i

00:08:19.360 know that in those situations come from very hard um stories and backgrounds and when they speak to

00:08:24.480 me i can see how damaged they are and how much pain they still feel now because not everybody's even

00:08:29.420 equipped to learn how to heal themselves so it's either we're going to create this but they're

00:08:34.580 alive but they're alive but they're still suffering and this is the thing they're alive for example i'll

00:08:39.220 give you an example one of my my friend my sister she had a friend she her parents abused her her 0.86

00:08:44.160 stepdad sexually abused her she was on drugs she was 16 and actually she had an accident um and she died

00:08:50.380 and the friends were all very upset they all really really sad and they cried and everything but

00:08:54.880 amongst them they said you know what actually i feel like she's in a better place because

00:08:58.220 this world was not treating her right her situation was making her more depressed and

00:09:01.820 people are living by suffering they're not living to live wait i think i asked just quickly is are

00:09:07.260 you religious i'm spiritual you're spiritual there i think that's a big part of it i think what's

00:09:12.540 happening now is i don't know zuby if you're religious okay so this is religious but i'm not

00:09:18.540 my argument's not coming right but i'm not saying that it is zuby i'm not because i'm i'm spiritual i'm

00:09:23.740 i don't know what the fuck i am but i'm not saying that it is what i'm saying is i think a big part of it 0.73

00:09:28.140 is a lot of times like i have i don't believe in abortion but i do not also think that i have 0.93

00:09:35.580 the right to tell a woman what to do with her body so so what i think not that you guys are this but i

00:09:41.100 think that i think a big part of it is that you a lot of times i have aunts and people who are very

00:09:46.220 religious life is suffering to them that's what it is one of the the things and i think what you're 0.98

00:09:51.420 arguing no offense to you or anybody i think it's very different than what she's saying i think it's a

00:09:56.780 very two different points i agree with zuby i agree with auntie for the most part uh both of you

00:10:02.300 guys and i also agree with you like i just said but i think what you're getting at is from your

00:10:08.460 personal experience in life and what you've been through and how you came out of that experience

00:10:13.820 versus auntie and and um zuby and pearl are coming from a different pearl's talking about she had a

00:10:20.700 relative who was a sibling who was raised in a wonderful world because they were adopted i think

00:10:26.940 you're coming from your personal experiences of what you've seen and not the overall global

00:10:33.180 of course but that's life i'm not coming from any perspective experience i'm i'm not usually i'm

00:10:39.820 saying from her i'm saying not you i'm just saying in general i don't i don't think it's a religious

00:10:44.380 thing no it's not a religious thing i'm just saying in my head i go i just want to know if she

00:10:48.220 would say she was just spiritual religious because nine times i'm saying to my per this is just my

00:10:52.380 personal experience when i talk to spiritual or or not really religious people they lean towards her

00:10:58.060 more and the religious people lean towards this it does but on both sides it happens but what i'm

00:11:03.340 saying is pearl you're saying you had a sibling raised beautifully out of adoption right zuby's saying

00:11:09.900 he doesn't believe in abortion it's taking human life auntie's saying the same thing this young woman is 0.53

00:11:13.740 saying a very different thing but it's based in her personal experience and life and so on and so

00:11:18.700 forth which is okay i'm just saying i don't believe in abortion but at the same time i don't think i can

00:11:25.500 tell a woman or anybody what to do with their person i'm in this weird place

JustPearlyThings - June 08, 2023

Aunty Jenny Puts Modern Woman In Her Place

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