JustPearlyThings - June 08, 2023


Aunty Jenny's Advice To Modern Women


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Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

211.91534

Word count

1,986

Sentence count

164

Harmful content

Misogyny

15

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Hate speech

16

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In this episode, the lads talk about what women should do when it comes to a man and how to deal with a guy that is not good enough for them. They also talk about why women should keep their hands where they can see them.

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00:00:00.000 I was going to say, what young women need to do. If I was a man and I took a woman on a date and fed her and spent my hard-earned money and not even get the potential of a relationship at the end of it, I'm going to be totally pissed off.
00:00:18.000 Yep. Because that's like false advertising. I think that when you go on dates, from the time you accept or you say, excuse me, but I'm only dating with the attention of having a relationship. That's why I'm dating, like to vet people. But if you know that instantly you're not attracted to him, do him a favour. Just say no. Say no, sorry, I don't see you like that. I just see you as a friend.
00:00:45.220 Because otherwise you're just building him up to fail him. And most of the time it's all the ugly men, they're the most loyal ones out there.
00:00:53.740 Of course.
00:00:54.240 And then when the women treat them like this, they just get in themselves and those are the ones that will go at home and watch porn and jerk off and then get fed up with women because of how women treat them. 0.91
00:01:09.720 And I listened to all these men earlier. That's why I was so quiet. I listened to you about your box, you know, the box. I'm learning all these new things.
00:01:20.240 Throwing the box around in there. Throwing the box.
00:01:22.840 There was another one, but I can't remember. But the women, I know there's loads of women listening to this. The way men were talking about treating the women. To me it was like cheap piece of dirt, you know, no value, no whatever.
00:01:39.340 If you know that this is what the men think of you and the men know, you know that the men want a woman, a woman with low body count, shut your legs. Simple. Don't have no sex. 1.00
00:01:54.880 Because all the women are going out there, the modern women are going out there looking for all these handsome men with money and then they're going to sleep around with all of them. 1.00
00:02:06.960 That's how they, that's how they vet. They don't vet by conversation anymore. They vet with their vagina. 1.00
00:02:12.820 Shame.
00:02:13.440 And you're not supposed to vet men with your vaginas. You're supposed to talk to them. 1.00
00:02:18.480 And that's what you're supposed to do. And that's what women are doing now. 1.00
00:02:20.820 And then they're complaining that the men don't want them. And the men are saying, oh, I don't want a woman with high body count. 0.79
00:02:28.360 It's just simple. If the men don't want women with a high body count, and the women want certain type of men.
00:02:36.940 If women decided, you know what, I'm going to shut my legs and only open it with the intention of a relationship, then the men will get what they want and so are the women. 0.99
00:02:46.420 But the ugly men that use a lot of turning down, I guarantee that they'll be more loyal and they'll be the ones that will stick with you forever than these ones that have got the money, that are all flash, that the women are actually going for. 0.98
00:03:01.300 Because nobody looks at the ugly people.
00:03:05.340 I mean, I'm saying about ugly women, yeah. 1.00
00:03:07.160 I ain't going to really marry nobody.
00:03:09.060 But I wouldn't go, and the thing is, when you're dating, you're supposed to be dating with the intention of looking for a husband, not dating with the intention of looking, you know, I need sex.
00:03:18.060 Exactly.
00:03:18.940 If you want sex nowadays, I see, and the most that makes it worse, the women are going out there having loads of sex and then you go to their house and they've got loads of rabbits in there and roses and all that kind of stuff. 0.95
00:03:28.920 Do you know what I mean?
00:03:29.320 You're not glued in, auntie, I love that.
00:03:30.020 No, yeah, about the rose and the lips and whatever.
00:03:32.600 But what you've got to do now is keep them.
00:03:35.280 Do you want me to get you one?
00:03:36.080 No, wait, no, wait.
00:03:37.220 Do you want me to get you one of my dildos?
00:03:39.080 Yeah, it's, yeah.
00:03:40.940 So what you need, as far as I'm concerned, keep your toys and forget about the boys.
00:03:48.540 Yeah, put it on a shirt. 0.95
00:03:50.440 Put it on a shirt.
00:03:51.060 I like it.
00:03:52.300 Leave your toys and forget about the boys.
00:03:55.460 Yeah, I like a high body count.
00:03:57.620 I'm not trying to teach you nothing.
00:03:59.940 For a wife? 0.67
00:04:01.180 I don't give a goddamn.
00:04:02.240 Like, I'm not going in this to be like, oh, you don't know how to fuck?
00:04:04.960 Like, are you serious?
00:04:05.780 Get your body count up.
00:04:07.080 I agree with you as well.
00:04:08.000 Do you want, like, do you want, like, learn yourself.
00:04:10.740 The problem that I've run into a couple of times is maybe a different topic.
00:04:16.040 But the problem I've run into a couple of times is you don't even know how to please yourself.
00:04:21.600 Like, you don't know what you like.
00:04:23.200 So I'm doing my thing and it's like, I don't know, like, I'm trying to learn what you like.
00:04:28.300 And if you tell me, like, oh, you know, Terrell used to do this.
00:04:31.840 Cool.
00:04:32.040 I'll do what Terrell used to do and improve on it.
00:04:34.120 Oh, wow.
00:04:34.740 But I'm not one of these dudes who's like, oh, like, let me show you what it is.
00:04:38.360 Because it's, like, vagina's a snowflake, baby. 1.00
00:04:41.760 So you're cool with, like, girl raising your kids that you slept with 50 dudes?
00:04:46.120 I don't care about that.
00:04:46.980 50?
00:04:47.680 You're a cool mother? 1.00
00:04:48.480 She's very honest.
00:04:49.680 Let me tell you why I don't care about it.
00:04:51.580 Because I've never, ever, including, like, anybody that I know, I don't know.
00:04:57.160 I've never had someone be honest about their body count.
00:05:01.400 Like, I don't, like, a woman might, thank you, a woman might tell me, oh, I only had 10 dudes.
00:05:05.560 You're full of shit.
00:05:06.780 Like, you're full of shit.
00:05:07.880 Two.
00:05:08.280 Because I think the only reason why is because I know how easy I got it.
00:05:12.740 And my game ain't that damn strong.
00:05:14.300 Oh.
00:05:15.200 That's true.
00:05:16.080 That's true.
00:05:16.720 I know how easy I got it.
00:05:18.120 I feel.
00:05:19.160 And it's not to say it don't make you loose.
00:05:21.140 It don't make you no hoe. 1.00
00:05:22.080 It don't make you none of that.
00:05:22.940 It just means you know what you like and what you want.
00:05:26.060 50 is a lot.
00:05:26.820 First of all, let me go back.
00:05:28.860 Within reason, that's a lot.
00:05:30.480 But, like, if you, like, oh, I'm 37, you 37, you say I fuck 20 guys, that's not bad.
00:05:36.680 That's, like, because I'm surprised my penis is still attached to my body.
00:05:43.580 Oh, my God.
00:05:44.080 Like, you know what I mean?
00:05:44.880 My guy, just on your point, yeah, so you're saying that you want to experience, right?
00:05:48.380 But aren't you the man to teach her and experience?
00:05:50.420 No, I don't know.
00:05:51.620 No, I'm lazy.
00:05:53.280 I'm lazy.
00:05:54.400 No question, though, quickly.
00:05:55.420 I just eat pussy and move my body. 1.00
00:05:57.980 E-man, T is looking for E-man. 0.88
00:06:00.640 Yeah, so how did you, for that guy you said that you weren't attracted to at the start,
00:06:03.840 how did you get to that point to speak to him to then go on a date?
00:06:07.560 His conversation, literally, I found him very intriguing.
00:06:10.100 He was, like, he was fresh.
00:06:12.240 Not from the first time he messaged you?
00:06:13.980 Not from the first time he messaged.
00:06:15.300 Like, it was a consecutive period of time where we were speaking, and I found him as an interesting
00:06:19.700 person, and that's how it kind of, I went on a date with him.
00:06:23.700 Okay.
00:06:23.960 And also, like, attraction comes with time.
00:06:26.800 Like, you get to know a person more, and if they've got a good personality, then they
00:06:30.220 become more and more attractive.
00:06:30.920 Did he meet you on the street, or was it a dating night?
00:06:33.120 No, it was via a friend.
00:06:34.560 Via a friend.
00:06:34.880 That don't count, then.
00:06:35.920 So you met in person?
00:06:36.420 That don't count because he's already been verified because that's through a friend.
00:06:44.120 You know what I'm saying?
00:06:44.700 That's different from a guy on the street who is ugly, who is...
00:06:48.500 A guy on Instagram DMed you.
00:06:49.960 No, no, no.
00:06:50.380 I was going to say, I was going to say as well, like, if it's a guy on the street, a complete
00:06:54.060 stranger, there's no, there's no CV, resume, nothing, like, and he's five foot three and
00:07:00.160 looks like Shrek, and then he's like, yo, oh my God, you're so, you're so gorgeous.
00:07:05.240 You're going to be like, ugh, like, who is this guy, like, you're not going to find
00:07:09.960 out if he's got a great character.
00:07:11.340 You're not going to care, bro.
00:07:12.700 That's the truth about it.
00:07:15.340 Can I say something?
00:07:16.340 I'm just not the type of person that would be approached on the street and just be okay
00:07:20.280 with going on a date with you.
00:07:21.340 It doesn't work for me like that.
00:07:22.480 Okay, but you get what, you get the point I'm making that, like, that guy that you're
00:07:26.520 talking about who was unattractive that you gave a chance to, there was, there was a
00:07:30.320 middle man.
00:07:31.320 Do you get what I'm saying?
00:07:32.320 There was someone that verified, oh no, he's a cool guy, he's calm in it.
00:07:35.160 And that gave him the license, that gave the license for you to even get to know him.
00:07:38.920 But if he was a complete stranger, like, you met me today and you thought, ugh, this
00:07:43.420 guy's ugly in the corner, like, and I was like, oh, what's your Instagram?
00:07:47.100 You'd be like, I wouldn't, ugh.
00:07:48.600 Sorry.
00:07:49.040 Like, do you know what I'm saying?
00:07:49.720 Intrigue me, intrigue me.
00:07:51.260 Like, would you not?
00:07:52.240 Like, excite my mental.
00:07:53.420 You don't go like that.
00:07:54.160 Excite your mental.
00:07:54.820 Yeah, excite my mental.
00:07:55.800 Sorry, sorry, quick one.
00:07:56.800 I'm going to, I'm going to give her a chance.
00:07:58.180 She won't let you go, Haggai. 1.00
00:07:59.560 You've been so good this show.
00:08:00.560 I know.
00:08:01.560 You've been so good.
00:08:02.560 It's good with a lot of people, so I'm trying to stay in my zone.
00:08:04.560 But, I'll tell you something, I, I, I do things a bit differently.
00:08:08.640 I don't go on dates, I go on meetings.
00:08:11.560 That means that, because before sexual, there's a person, which means that if you keep looking
00:08:21.860 at somebody, be like, oh, I'm attracted to my man, this, you miss out on the actual
00:08:24.720 value because that man, the same way it could be your husband, it could be your best friend,
00:08:28.140 it could be a business partner, it could be somebody.
00:08:30.420 So once you decline or accept based on looks, you're screwing yourself, number one.
00:08:35.660 Number two, sometimes as well, the looks don't really matter.
00:08:38.800 The person is really lovely, you can do it even out of, like, being a good person.
00:08:42.260 You're kind, you want to take me out, why am I saying no?
00:08:44.640 For no reason.
00:08:45.640 I'll go with you, but then you will know for sure you're not for me.
00:08:48.360 I'll let you know your friend zone, brother zone, family zone, whatever zone I need to
00:08:51.980 put you in.
00:08:52.980 It's very easy.
00:08:53.980 You create boundaries.
00:08:54.980 So you can do whatever you want.
00:08:55.980 Boundaries create freedom.
00:08:56.980 And then, lastly, what was the last question, is do you go on dates, oh, the, the, the friend.
00:09:02.300 Have you?
00:09:03.300 Okay, go ahead.
00:09:04.300 I'm a very honest person.
00:09:05.300 When my girls come to me and they start telling me about the man, I tell them first,
00:09:08.800 how did he approach you?
00:09:10.380 What did he say?
00:09:11.380 What did you say?
00:09:12.380 How did it go?
00:09:13.380 Okay.
00:09:14.380 He's just fucking you. 0.87
00:09:15.380 Please stop telling me about feelings.
00:09:16.560 And that's the first thing.
00:09:17.560 And that's whether you're pretty or whether you're well, honesty is needed.