JustPearlyThings - August 05, 2023


Based Girl Gets RED PILLED By This Fact

Topics
equality and feminism
Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Pearl Puts EVERYBODY On The Spot With This Question Why Modern Women Pick Bad Partners

Episode Stats


Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

184.83

Word count

1,725

Sentence count

210

Harmful content

Misogyny

16

sentences flagged

Hate speech

5

sentences flagged


Summary

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In this episode, we talk about feminism and why women should be paid the same as men in the workplace. We also talk about the benefits of a 50/50 relationship and why we should have a 50:50 work/life balance.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 I feel like it's extreme feminists, though, that have turned that kind of narrative, where 1.00
00:00:05.640 they've gone, we can say what we want, because we're females, but really, neither person 0.96
00:00:12.040 can say what they want. You have to have, regardless of what gender you are, you have
00:00:16.240 to have mutual respect. But feminists have flipped that, and they've gone, because they 1.00
00:00:20.580 don't want, they don't want equality. They want to be better than this. I'm not, I'm
00:00:26.240 equality. Everyone should be equal. But in retrospect, so you should only, you, it's
00:00:32.260 like saying a goldfish should do the same test as a bear. Like a goldfish can't climb
00:00:37.560 a tree. You know what I mean? Being equal doesn't necessarily mean that you're
00:00:43.200 gonna do the same things, or be able to be tested on the same things. But feminists, 1.00
00:00:48.560 they want to switch the whole narrative around. I think men and women can't ever be equal because
00:00:52.860 we're not. I agree. No, but biologically, we're totally different. Totally different.
00:00:56.800 So when they say, oh, we want equality, it's like, what does equality look like? You want
00:01:00.040 to do half of the bricklaying, half of the plumbing, half of the electric? Yeah, but
00:01:03.500 some of the women do that. No, they don't. They're doing loads of sewage 1.00
00:01:06.600 rebuilding, aren't they, in London at the moment. So maybe women could get on board with that. 0.99
00:01:10.040 No, not for sure. No, thanks. I'll sit in the kitchen cooking. I'll do three meals. I used
00:01:16.620 to work in construction. The majority of the employees are men. It's like, I think it's
00:01:22.380 98% men in all those fields. Yeah. The women usually take on the admin rules. It's not usually 1.00
00:01:29.060 the hard labour, which they're more, most of them are more than able to do it, but they
00:01:35.500 don't want to. I quite like that women. Which is where feminism comes from. Yeah. Sorry. 1.00
00:01:40.480 I quite like that. Yeah, it's fine, darling. I quite like that women can have this independence
00:01:46.680 in a way, but then I kind of, but like, I still agree with, you know, being that wife
00:01:55.800 and staying at home. The housewife. But personally, to some extent, I like to work as well.
00:02:05.500 And, obviously, earn money. And realistically, the man is always going to be making more.
00:02:13.040 You know? And I'm not on about, like, job-wise or anything, because it is equal. I'm on about,
00:02:19.160 you know, like I've said before, like, when I do have kids, I won't be working. He'll be
00:02:24.360 working. You know, so. The other thing, would you guys submit to a guy in a 50-50 relationship?
00:02:32.420 Submit. Submit. Submit. So, what he says goes. You're not going out tonight. No argument.
00:02:39.080 So, you have no input. If it's 50-50. Yeah. No. Sacrifice. I'm not being surprised. There's 0.94
00:02:45.200 sacrifice, but then there's submission. Submission isn't sacrifice. I'm not. So, it's not even
00:02:51.460 that. It's just, I feel like I'm a wife. Do you know what I mean? So, I'm going to do what
00:02:56.740 he says, but the respect isn't always going to be there for him, because it's just 50-50.
00:03:03.080 Why are you asking me to bring 50%? Like, you're telling me you're not capable of, you know,
00:03:09.860 you need my help, basically. And that's not attractive to women when men say that.
00:03:14.380 Here we go. It's the burden of performance again, isn't it? The guy's got to be stepping
00:03:17.720 up. I'm just being real. As a woman, when a guy says, like, oh, I need you to help me with
00:03:21.180 this. It's a bit like, oh, you haven't got it then. But it's also, the one thing, the
00:03:26.020 one thing that was in the long run, most women aren't going to want to work the same when 1.00
00:03:28.960 they're older. Yeah. So, it's like, okay, you know, let's just say you're in your 30s,
00:03:33.460 you're single, right? We're not bringing the same youth and fertility that we used to bring.
00:03:37.800 So, how can we expect them to take over 100% of the bills? And it's like, okay, the next,
00:03:43.560 you're going to be with him the next 50 years. Maybe you only work the next 20 and 30.
00:03:47.700 But he's probably going to work longer than you.
00:03:49.640 So, yeah. What was the question? Sorry.
00:03:54.780 Would you submit if it's 50-50?
00:03:59.760 I don't think I would. But submit as in, like, do what he says or like...
00:04:05.400 Submit is like a boss. Okay. So, when you go to work, right? I don't know what you do
00:04:10.340 for work. I don't know if you work for yourself, but you've had a boss at some point. Or I think
00:04:13.980 of it like a coach, right? I pick which coach I want, right? So, and what he says go.
00:04:19.640 I have to listen to him at the end of the day. You know, I might make a case occasionally,
00:04:23.980 but you really can't do that too much. Otherwise, they're going to kick you off the team or they're
00:04:27.280 going to fire you. It's not your job. It's not your role to boss him around.
00:04:31.920 Yeah. But the boss is giving me, you know, a full salary. So, of course, I'm going to listen
00:04:39.480 to him. And I feel like that when you're married, it's like, if he's showing you that he's going
00:04:45.540 out and working hard and taking care of you, then you're like, yes, boss. Yes. Yes, leader.
00:04:50.440 Yes, leader. Yes, my king. Yes, my king. I will cook for you. I will feed you. I'll wash
00:04:55.640 your clothes. No, no. Only one, maybe two meals that we asked earlier. If he's doing
00:05:02.740 100% of the bills, I'll do three meals. There we go. That's my 10%. But I just, I think
00:05:08.700 this is like the mentality that's going to leave a lot of women single and half of us 1.00
00:05:12.660 probably. Because, I mean, there's only so many like guys that can take over 100% of
00:05:18.920 the bills. We're in a modern time. Like, how can we expect them to take over 100% of the
00:05:22.980 bills if we're not, we're not virgins anymore. We're not young anymore. Yeah. I mean, well,
00:05:27.220 she still is, but, but, you know, like the average, but the average age of first marriage 1.00
00:05:32.680 used to be like 22. It's 31 now here. But I quite like being equal, you know, like how
00:05:42.300 that sense of power as well as the guy. But if you think of it in a deeper way, we don't
00:05:52.980 I don't know. I kind of jumped from one side to another. I think, I think what you're
00:05:57.060 saying is when you have children, you don't want to be equal. That's what you're saying,
00:06:01.000 isn't it? Obviously you can. Oh no. When, I feel like when, when, when it comes to
00:06:05.260 children and obviously like, if I'm a stay at home mom and like, it just depends on the
00:06:10.200 situation. It's like either way I'm the mother and you're the father. And I think I
00:06:18.680 wouldn't just listen to him if he says this goes, but you wouldn't, you wouldn't
00:06:24.660 listen to him if he says something goes. About my child? No. Cause it's our child.
00:06:30.080 If that makes sense. But. So it's 50% his DNA, 50% your DNA, right? Yeah. So if
00:06:35.920 there's a big decision, how do you, and you guys disagree, how do you make it?
00:06:40.160 Uh, again, it depends on the situation, but I'd always want to. Like someone has to give
00:06:49.000 in. Do you expect him to give in or are you going to give in? Good question. I always
00:06:55.460 give in. Um, I think just like. Do good, do good wives submit to their husband's authority? 1.00
00:07:02.660 I don't think necessarily like if you're a good wife or a good husband, um, I think building
00:07:09.600 that foundation of communicating well. So if it comes through an issue of anything, and
00:07:16.120 obviously we're talking about children, I think it's just stating the facts and then solving
00:07:22.260 it. So you both stated your facts and you both disagree. Who, who gives in? Happy wife,
00:07:30.120 happy life. No, it's funny. You're not wrong. I mean, that's, I mean, that's, that happens
00:07:37.120 all the time. How many women wear the pants in relationships nowadays? 1.00
00:07:39.360 Yeah. I was about to say, there's a lot of men who would literally just do what their wife 0.98
00:07:42.780 says. And are those women happy with them? Do they usually? 0.98
00:07:45.960 Not always. Cause they aren't always.
00:07:47.580 They don't really like pushovers though. Sometimes we kind of want someone to put us in our
00:07:51.620 picture. As much as we want to say. Wait, wait, go ahead. Say what you were going to say.
00:07:55.360 Go ahead. Say, say, say, say. Okay. As much as we want to be like, yeah, um,
00:08:00.060 I want to have a say and stuff that there's times where sometimes you, you want someone
00:08:04.560 to put you in your place. Like, I feel like, so it doesn't, it makes sense for us to give
00:08:07.920 in then. Yeah. I can't, I give in. As much as I give in, it's sad. I've switched her.
00:08:12.600 Yeah. Um, sorry, sorry, darling. Uh, yes, because I feel like when it comes to men, I'm going
00:08:20.420 to keep it nice and short because I can blub on. Um, so we expect a lot from a guy, obviously
00:08:28.060 when it comes to women being independent, which again, I like an equality to some extent. 0.99
00:08:34.240 Um, we don't really give that sense of power to like what means being a man, you know?
00:08:41.980 So like responsibility and, you know?
00:08:48.380 Yeah, I know what you mean.
00:08:49.400 I'm not sure if that makes sense.
00:08:50.520 No, no, no, no. We don't give them that respect that we should give them in a way.
00:08:54.440 We don't let them lead.
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