Based Girl Gets RED PILLED By This Fact
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about feminism and why women should be paid the same as men in the workplace. We also talk about the benefits of a 50/50 relationship and why we should have a 50:50 work/life balance.
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I feel like it's extreme feminists, though, that have turned that kind of narrative, where
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they've gone, we can say what we want, because we're females, but really, neither person
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can say what they want. You have to have, regardless of what gender you are, you have
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to have mutual respect. But feminists have flipped that, and they've gone, because they
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don't want, they don't want equality. They want to be better than this. I'm not, I'm
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equality. Everyone should be equal. But in retrospect, so you should only, you, it's
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like saying a goldfish should do the same test as a bear. Like a goldfish can't climb
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a tree. You know what I mean? Being equal doesn't necessarily mean that you're
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gonna do the same things, or be able to be tested on the same things. But feminists,
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they want to switch the whole narrative around. I think men and women can't ever be equal because
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we're not. I agree. No, but biologically, we're totally different. Totally different.
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So when they say, oh, we want equality, it's like, what does equality look like? You want
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to do half of the bricklaying, half of the plumbing, half of the electric? Yeah, but
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some of the women do that. No, they don't. They're doing loads of sewage
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rebuilding, aren't they, in London at the moment. So maybe women could get on board with that.
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No, not for sure. No, thanks. I'll sit in the kitchen cooking. I'll do three meals. I used
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to work in construction. The majority of the employees are men. It's like, I think it's
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98% men in all those fields. Yeah. The women usually take on the admin rules. It's not usually
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the hard labour, which they're more, most of them are more than able to do it, but they
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don't want to. I quite like that women. Which is where feminism comes from. Yeah. Sorry.
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I quite like that. Yeah, it's fine, darling. I quite like that women can have this independence
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in a way, but then I kind of, but like, I still agree with, you know, being that wife
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and staying at home. The housewife. But personally, to some extent, I like to work as well.
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And, obviously, earn money. And realistically, the man is always going to be making more.
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You know? And I'm not on about, like, job-wise or anything, because it is equal. I'm on about,
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you know, like I've said before, like, when I do have kids, I won't be working. He'll be
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working. You know, so. The other thing, would you guys submit to a guy in a 50-50 relationship?
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Submit. Submit. Submit. So, what he says goes. You're not going out tonight. No argument.
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So, you have no input. If it's 50-50. Yeah. No. Sacrifice. I'm not being surprised. There's
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sacrifice, but then there's submission. Submission isn't sacrifice. I'm not. So, it's not even
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that. It's just, I feel like I'm a wife. Do you know what I mean? So, I'm going to do what
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he says, but the respect isn't always going to be there for him, because it's just 50-50.
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Why are you asking me to bring 50%? Like, you're telling me you're not capable of, you know,
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you need my help, basically. And that's not attractive to women when men say that.
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Here we go. It's the burden of performance again, isn't it? The guy's got to be stepping
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up. I'm just being real. As a woman, when a guy says, like, oh, I need you to help me with
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this. It's a bit like, oh, you haven't got it then. But it's also, the one thing, the
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one thing that was in the long run, most women aren't going to want to work the same when
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they're older. Yeah. So, it's like, okay, you know, let's just say you're in your 30s,
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you're single, right? We're not bringing the same youth and fertility that we used to bring.
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So, how can we expect them to take over 100% of the bills? And it's like, okay, the next,
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you're going to be with him the next 50 years. Maybe you only work the next 20 and 30.
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But he's probably going to work longer than you.
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I don't think I would. But submit as in, like, do what he says or like...
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Submit is like a boss. Okay. So, when you go to work, right? I don't know what you do
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for work. I don't know if you work for yourself, but you've had a boss at some point. Or I think
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of it like a coach, right? I pick which coach I want, right? So, and what he says go.
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I have to listen to him at the end of the day. You know, I might make a case occasionally,
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but you really can't do that too much. Otherwise, they're going to kick you off the team or they're
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going to fire you. It's not your job. It's not your role to boss him around.
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Yeah. But the boss is giving me, you know, a full salary. So, of course, I'm going to listen
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to him. And I feel like that when you're married, it's like, if he's showing you that he's going
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out and working hard and taking care of you, then you're like, yes, boss. Yes. Yes, leader.
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Yes, leader. Yes, my king. Yes, my king. I will cook for you. I will feed you. I'll wash
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your clothes. No, no. Only one, maybe two meals that we asked earlier. If he's doing
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100% of the bills, I'll do three meals. There we go. That's my 10%. But I just, I think
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this is like the mentality that's going to leave a lot of women single and half of us
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probably. Because, I mean, there's only so many like guys that can take over 100% of
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the bills. We're in a modern time. Like, how can we expect them to take over 100% of the
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bills if we're not, we're not virgins anymore. We're not young anymore. Yeah. I mean, well,
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she still is, but, but, you know, like the average, but the average age of first marriage
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used to be like 22. It's 31 now here. But I quite like being equal, you know, like how
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that sense of power as well as the guy. But if you think of it in a deeper way, we don't
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I don't know. I kind of jumped from one side to another. I think, I think what you're
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saying is when you have children, you don't want to be equal. That's what you're saying,
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isn't it? Obviously you can. Oh no. When, I feel like when, when, when it comes to
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children and obviously like, if I'm a stay at home mom and like, it just depends on the
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situation. It's like either way I'm the mother and you're the father. And I think I
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wouldn't just listen to him if he says this goes, but you wouldn't, you wouldn't
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listen to him if he says something goes. About my child? No. Cause it's our child.
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If that makes sense. But. So it's 50% his DNA, 50% your DNA, right? Yeah. So if
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there's a big decision, how do you, and you guys disagree, how do you make it?
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Uh, again, it depends on the situation, but I'd always want to. Like someone has to give
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in. Do you expect him to give in or are you going to give in? Good question. I always
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give in. Um, I think just like. Do good, do good wives submit to their husband's authority?
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I don't think necessarily like if you're a good wife or a good husband, um, I think building
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that foundation of communicating well. So if it comes through an issue of anything, and
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obviously we're talking about children, I think it's just stating the facts and then solving
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it. So you both stated your facts and you both disagree. Who, who gives in? Happy wife,
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happy life. No, it's funny. You're not wrong. I mean, that's, I mean, that's, that happens
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all the time. How many women wear the pants in relationships nowadays?
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Yeah. I was about to say, there's a lot of men who would literally just do what their wife
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says. And are those women happy with them? Do they usually?
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They don't really like pushovers though. Sometimes we kind of want someone to put us in our
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picture. As much as we want to say. Wait, wait, go ahead. Say what you were going to say.
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Go ahead. Say, say, say, say. Okay. As much as we want to be like, yeah, um,
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I want to have a say and stuff that there's times where sometimes you, you want someone
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to put you in your place. Like, I feel like, so it doesn't, it makes sense for us to give
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in then. Yeah. I can't, I give in. As much as I give in, it's sad. I've switched her.
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Yeah. Um, sorry, sorry, darling. Uh, yes, because I feel like when it comes to men, I'm going
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to keep it nice and short because I can blub on. Um, so we expect a lot from a guy, obviously
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when it comes to women being independent, which again, I like an equality to some extent.
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Um, we don't really give that sense of power to like what means being a man, you know?
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No, no, no, no. We don't give them that respect that we should give them in a way.