JustPearlyThings - October 31, 2023


Based Man EXPOSES The Trans Movement


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Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

211.86043

Word count

2,109

Sentence count

250

Harmful content

Misogyny

8

sentences flagged

Hate speech

7

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Summary

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In this episode we discuss public displays of affection in public, gay pride parades, and the gay slur "gay slur" and how it affects our children. We also talk about whether or not we should allow gay people to be in public with their partners.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 People should be able to live their life free of other people's judgment unless it's you and affecting you.
00:00:05.080 Like if I was a whore and an OnlyFans girl and you're trying to get to know me.
00:00:10.100 It's affecting our children, though.
00:00:12.060 It's affecting our children.
00:00:13.380 Then you can place judgment.
00:00:14.740 If it comes into you and it's something to have to judge you.
00:00:17.060 Miss, miss, miss.
00:00:17.700 But everybody judges everybody.
00:00:19.540 But I have to look at it.
00:00:21.060 No, no, no, no, no.
00:00:21.700 I have to see it.
00:00:23.100 Thank you.
00:00:23.780 I want to.
00:00:26.680 Well, sometimes I will if I see it in public.
00:00:29.340 Oh, my God.
00:00:30.540 No, but I don't.
00:00:31.560 Why do we have to like cater to them? 0.50
00:00:33.780 Oh, I didn't say cater.
00:00:35.680 I don't feel like anyone has to cater to your beliefs.
00:00:38.240 Well, they don't because I don't shove it in their face.
00:00:41.900 You have a whole issue.
00:00:43.560 That people can choose.
00:00:44.800 You've got a big YouTube channel.
00:00:45.340 No, no.
00:00:45.780 That people can choose to watch it or they don't choose to watch it.
00:00:49.480 Do you not kiss the boyfriend?
00:00:50.320 I think in general.
00:00:52.240 If I'm in public.
00:00:53.480 Public disguise of affection or gross.
00:00:55.120 I agree.
00:00:56.360 I'm not really into.
00:00:57.480 I've never really been into the public.
00:00:58.900 I agree with you about that.
00:01:00.380 Affection in general.
00:01:01.560 But gay people throw it in your face. 1.00
00:01:03.460 They have flags dedicated to us.
00:01:05.800 But if there's two men walking down the street holding hands, like let them hold their hands.
00:01:10.200 Well, but here's the problem.
00:01:11.680 Why does it bother you so much that you have to make a nasty comment?
00:01:14.600 Because one day you're going to have children.
00:01:17.040 And when you make it normal, then it confuses the kids.
00:01:21.660 Thank you.
00:01:22.140 Thank you.
00:01:22.840 When it gets told to them that it's in the schools, then it's like, all right.
00:01:28.860 Wait, no, no, hold on.
00:01:29.740 But the thing is, it used to be like what you did in the bedroom was your business and nobody asked questions.
00:01:40.300 And that's my problem with it today is now they're making it super public when it's supposed to be just like whatever you.
00:01:47.080 I'm not going to go look in your bedroom.
00:01:48.680 I don't care.
00:01:49.480 Okay.
00:01:49.780 But I just don't like it when they throw it in our face.
00:01:52.260 Okay.
00:01:52.600 Yeah.
00:01:52.780 I agree with that, but I agree with that like all across the board and not just with like gay people.
00:01:59.860 I don't care who you are.
00:02:01.140 Like public displays of affection are just.
00:02:03.400 Do you have kids?
00:02:04.340 Of course I have kids.
00:02:04.980 Okay.
00:02:05.120 So that's what I'm saying is that it affects the kids.
00:02:08.220 You're saying, well, why does it matter?
00:02:10.000 Why does it bother you, Pearl?
00:02:11.060 Why does it bother you?
00:02:11.880 Because of the kids.
00:02:12.920 I'm saying as two adults, a male and a female walking down the street and two males walking down the street, that it does not affect you.
00:02:20.000 There are no kids around.
00:02:20.920 There is no reason for you to be casting out a gay slur because he just walks. 0.99
00:02:25.720 You have puppies.
00:02:26.940 I can't tell you.
00:02:27.900 Kids, you have puppies.
00:02:29.060 There are no kids in that situation.
00:02:30.400 I have kids.
00:02:31.580 A public show of affection between heterosexual couples, which is biologically the way that we reproduce, is looked down upon.
00:02:40.300 What makes you think that public show of affection between two, a man and a man or a woman and a woman should be accepted?
00:02:48.460 Like she just said, she just said, which I agree with you.
00:02:51.660 I don't even think a man and a woman should be showing each other too much affection in public.
00:02:55.700 I wasn't saying.
00:02:56.660 I wasn't.
00:02:57.320 I'm not making an argument for, I'm not making an argument for them to be doing public displays of affection.
00:03:03.380 That's what they do, though.
00:03:04.260 Oh, I understand that.
00:03:05.280 They have whole parades on streets.
00:03:07.280 They have whole restaurants dedicated to them.
00:03:09.020 So much so that they're even putting it in the school.
00:03:12.400 So much so that I think it's in California that if your child goes to you and says, I want to be a boy and she's a girl, and you say, no, you're a girl, and she goes and tells her teacher, my father doesn't assign, what do they call it, affirm my gender.
00:03:28.560 They can come and take my children from me.
00:03:32.120 We're having two different arguments.
00:03:33.300 No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:03:34.180 I'm saying that it all applies into the same argument because they're doing that right now.
00:03:38.940 The new Lightyear movie, they had two women kissing.
00:03:41.920 I did not allow my son to watch that movie as much as I love Toy Story.
00:03:45.580 They're putting it everywhere.
00:03:47.000 Arthur, what's his name?
00:03:49.180 Mr. Ratburn is a homosexual.
00:03:51.340 You're telling me that they're not attacking our children?
00:03:53.720 Yeah, no, they are.
00:03:54.440 I'm not.
00:03:54.640 They have a song.
00:03:55.740 They have a song.
00:03:56.740 That we're not.
00:03:57.620 Yeah, that's not what I'm saying.
00:03:59.340 Yeah, you're saying that you shouldn't judge them.
00:04:01.400 If it's too adult.
00:04:02.540 We openly judge each other on a daily basis on everything.
00:04:05.580 The moment you see me or I see you, I'm already making a judgment on who I think you are and what I think you do.
00:04:11.440 And you're doing it the same thing even that you are subconsciously.
00:04:15.060 No, I don't.
00:04:16.240 Oh, my goodness.
00:04:17.440 I know.
00:04:17.840 I don't.
00:04:18.260 I don't.
00:04:18.640 You do.
00:04:19.400 It's biological.
00:04:20.440 I grew up in a gay household.
00:04:22.500 My mom was a lesbian. 1.00
00:04:23.580 And I thought growing up, that was my mom's roommate.
00:04:28.040 I never found out my mom was a lesbian till I turned 15 years old.
00:04:32.760 That I accidentally saw my mom kissing her partner.
00:04:37.620 And that's when my mom had to come out and tell me.
00:04:40.100 But they were already living for seven years.
00:04:42.340 Mind you, they would do everything together.
00:04:44.280 To me, that was my mom's best friend.
00:04:46.520 I never saw no kissing.
00:04:47.940 I never saw no affection.
00:04:49.100 No nothing.
00:04:49.840 My mom was so embarrassed that she locked me in the room with her. 0.88
00:04:53.580 And she asked me how I felt about it.
00:04:56.780 Obviously, I told her how I felt about it.
00:04:59.840 That I wasn't okay with it.
00:05:00.920 That I felt disrespected.
00:05:02.020 That I felt betrayed.
00:05:02.820 Because she didn't let me know.
00:05:04.540 And what did my mom say?
00:05:05.800 It is not your right to know.
00:05:08.340 So, can I ask you a question real quick?
00:05:10.180 Has she been honest with you from the beginning?
00:05:12.500 How do you feel about gay people in general?
00:05:14.920 Well, I wouldn't say they suck.
00:05:18.780 They literally suck.
00:05:19.340 But they do.
00:05:20.780 Okay.
00:05:22.180 But do you feel like maybe the reason you have this outlook on gay people is because you have maybe that distrust with your mom?
00:05:35.560 Absolutely not.
00:05:36.860 Because I can go up to my mom and talk to her about everything.
00:05:39.800 My mom.
00:05:40.420 No, you can't.
00:05:41.180 Yes, I can.
00:05:42.060 Do you have a question?
00:05:42.760 Yes, I can.
00:05:43.580 No.
00:05:44.060 My entire life.
00:05:45.340 My entire life.
00:05:46.120 Do you like your mom?
00:05:46.980 I love my mom.
00:05:47.840 Okay.
00:05:48.280 So, no trauma.
00:05:49.620 No.
00:05:49.980 There is absolutely no trauma.
00:05:51.940 No, no, no.
00:05:52.620 So, so, let's traumatize my family members.
00:05:54.620 Let's, let's, let's, let's, let's, let's, let's.
00:05:56.340 No, why don't, why don't you guys believe her?
00:05:58.640 What is it?
00:05:59.360 Are you traumatized?
00:06:00.640 No, I am not.
00:06:01.360 No, I'm not saying that.
00:06:02.580 Okay.
00:06:02.800 Okay.
00:06:02.900 Okay.
00:06:03.120 So, say.
00:06:03.840 I actually appreciate when you have never shown you.
00:06:06.060 Right.
00:06:06.380 Listen.
00:06:06.820 Yeah.
00:06:07.240 With another woman.
00:06:08.160 If you.
00:06:08.820 How would I have felt when my friends would have came over, seeing my mom and her partner kissing?
00:06:13.660 That's embarrassing.
00:06:15.100 Yeah.
00:06:15.700 And you are heterosexual.
00:06:16.440 You're heterosexual now.
00:06:17.660 I'm sorry?
00:06:18.140 You're heterosexual.
00:06:18.800 Yes.
00:06:19.120 You don't have a class.
00:06:19.900 Okay.
00:06:20.100 But isn't the, isn't the whole argument here that this could damage, you know, the children?
00:06:23.020 Yeah.
00:06:23.520 And she was 50.
00:06:24.360 I mean, I suppose, I guess you could argue.
00:06:26.320 And they started living together when I was around, because I came back from Colombia around
00:06:30.140 seven, eight.
00:06:31.340 So, they started living together around that age.
00:06:34.260 When I came back, they were already living together.
00:06:35.920 So, they were in a very long-term relationship.
00:06:38.600 Bought a house and everything.
00:06:39.960 We moved to Texas.
00:06:41.100 And I promise you, I never saw them in no type of kissing or nothing, because my mom knew
00:06:46.380 that I was not comfortable.
00:06:46.580 She kept you from it.
00:06:47.540 She kept you from it.
00:06:48.400 All of us together, and there was no holding hands.
00:06:51.740 We would be in the car, and there was no holding hands.
00:06:53.300 I never saw no argument.
00:06:54.440 I never saw no argument.
00:06:54.840 Well, I guess you could argue they did the right thing, then.
00:06:56.800 So, they were, you know, they were, they conducted it in a way that it didn't affect.
00:07:00.100 Have you got brothers and sisters?
00:07:01.220 No, I'm an only child.
00:07:02.340 Okay.
00:07:02.660 But they did it in a way, they conducted it in a way that, you know, kept it polite.
00:07:05.700 Well, you're saying they kept it private.
00:07:06.900 They kept it in the bedroom, which is, which is right, I guess.
00:07:09.920 That's not where I go.
00:07:10.560 Well, I mean, you know, in the context of them having a relationship.
00:07:13.740 I mean, she was trying to avoid me from having traumas and becoming a lesbian. 1.00
00:07:16.660 We respected a little more.
00:07:18.380 Yeah.
00:07:18.720 They didn't allow her to be confused.
00:07:21.740 So, I have a question.
00:07:23.880 So, actually, I want to bring it back to Miami dating a little bit.
00:07:27.400 But, so, why is it, why is the culture so shit in Miami?
00:07:33.160 What's going on here?
00:07:34.380 I'm from Charlotte.
00:07:35.240 I don't know.
00:07:35.840 What?
00:07:36.460 Yeah.
00:07:38.140 It's based off that fact that social media and everyone has so many options.
00:07:43.700 And no one really has that, what they had back in the day of everyone wanting to work
00:07:48.000 it out and get it done.
00:07:50.200 Everyone's so quick to leave because there are so many options.
00:07:52.260 It's like, you don't have to stick around for something that isn't completely fulfilling
00:07:56.220 you.
00:07:56.500 And because it's easy to leave, people do.
00:07:58.840 Okay.
00:07:59.160 Can I ask you guys a quick question?
00:08:00.620 You can cover off at any time.
00:08:01.600 Can I ask you girls a quick question?
00:08:03.820 Because I'm obviously from London.
00:08:04.960 I've come here quite a lot.
00:08:05.840 So, I kind of know it a bit.
00:08:06.760 I've got friends.
00:08:09.460 I got friends here and stuff like that.
00:08:11.180 But is it, would you say, is it easier for guys to date here or for women to date here?
00:08:14.920 For guys or for girls to date here?
00:08:16.160 Is it easier for girls to find, you know, guys here or is it easier for guys to find girls here?
00:08:22.380 It's easier for guys to find girls here.
00:08:24.320 From the guys' perspective, we would say, so I've coached guys out here, right?
00:08:28.780 I've got clients who live here and stuff like that.
00:08:30.500 And we would say the problem with Miami for dating, there's obviously, there's a lot
00:08:34.740 of hot women here. 1.00
00:08:35.500 A hundred percent, a lot of hot Latinas and, you know, everybody else wandering around.
00:08:38.460 However.
00:08:39.000 Hot Latinas. 0.99
00:08:39.840 Exactly.
00:08:40.680 However, lots of Puerto Ricans, lots of Colombians.
00:08:43.180 However, there's also a lot of very high value men.
00:08:46.420 There's a lot of guys with a lot of money, with a lot of clout, with a lot of fame, with
00:08:50.000 a lot of celebrity.
00:08:50.660 So, that means for the average dude, it's probably going to be harder because these women have 1.00
00:08:53.740 got all of these options.
00:08:54.960 Would you agree with that?
00:08:55.840 Do you think that's fair?
00:08:56.380 Yeah, I would say there's a decent amount of high value guys, but the high value guys
00:09:01.620 want multiple women.
00:09:03.140 They don't want just one.
00:09:04.020 Rightly so.
00:09:04.760 And you guys are all fucking the same ones.
00:09:08.100 All 10.
00:09:08.460 All 10.
00:09:08.920 I would argue that a lot of high value men exercise sexual discipline.
00:09:15.080 Yeah.
00:09:15.480 A real high value men.
00:09:16.760 A real high value men.
00:09:18.000 I would just say that the women in Miami don't have the, anybody don't have the standards. 1.00
00:09:22.540 So, everybody's sleeping with everybody.
00:09:24.260 Right.
00:09:24.520 Because it's so nasty in Miami because women are just, they can do whatever they want. 1.00
00:09:29.720 I can do whatever I want.
00:09:30.780 Body autonomy, whatever, whatever.
00:09:32.180 But nobody takes the time to respect their own body.
00:09:36.700 They would rather have the fucking, the high value men instead of just.
00:09:41.380 I have a, I have a question for the ladies here. 1.00
00:09:44.380 Raise your hand if you've ever had a celebrity slide in your DMs.
00:09:49.360 Right.
00:09:50.240 What?
00:09:51.060 Did you?
00:09:51.640 So, one, two, three, four.
00:09:53.440 Wow.
00:09:54.240 So, that's four.
00:09:55.080 Okay.
00:09:55.420 Okay.
00:09:56.060 Yeah.
00:09:56.900 So.