In this episode, we discuss the role of fathers in raising their kids and the impact that they can have on their kids. We also discuss what it means to be a good father and how important it is to take care of your kids.
00:00:00.000and you and you you and your parents brought both around right now yeah no
00:00:05.220like growing up right yeah so who's who's richer like you who might have
00:00:09.420grown up and you said it was poor he's really poor but but your parents were
00:00:14.000around or you know Kim's kids where they see their dad twice a month and they
00:00:20.280don't really see their mom either because there's a nanny watching them
00:00:22.880yeah I didn't have that I had both devoted yeah but I'm saying like who's
00:00:27.120in a better-off position really I would argue that the kid with both of their
00:00:40.200parents involved is in a better position than the one that has money so much time
00:00:46.140and especially like in the rest yeah especially in the West there's so many
00:00:51.360times where they we equate money can replace parents and it can't it's
00:00:57.660neglect you feel neglected and abandoned when you don't have them but you have
00:01:02.520the material like kids no offense like if you notice like if you give kids money
00:01:08.160and stuff like that they don't seem as grateful compared to if you want to see
00:01:13.920messed up kids look at the kids of rich people like yeah yeah if you want to see
00:01:19.240the thing that you can always give your kids is yourself yeah and and and there
00:01:24.580are always going to be competing interest from that because society you know this
00:01:27.460is I love capitalism but the one bad thing about capitalism is it can price an
00:01:31.840individual exactly exactly the minimum amount it needs to pay them to not spend
00:01:36.220time on their kids on their family and so remember you know yeah just just be
00:01:41.680aware that this system it's gonna try to take you away from your family and and you are the
00:01:45.940most important thing they have and these traditions I love you talk about growing
00:01:49.280up Rastafarian and these traditions that they had were so important to you and the
00:01:53.620traditions that you build for your kids you know I think a lot of us we come
00:01:56.740from backgrounds now where we feel we don't have a connection to our ancestors
00:02:00.380anymore or our traditions and and that can mean work with your spouse and build new
00:02:04.660ones you know if you have to because this matters to kids it matters to them you know it
00:02:09.520matters to their kids so it goes back to our culture though because when you when I speak to again going back to
00:02:14.280speaking to women right when I speak to women and I ask them like okay so if a
00:02:19.200guy tells you he's got two three four kids what do you say usually they say
00:02:23.660well I'm not interested even if he's got one yeah and then and then he tells me
00:02:27.240that there's a problem with our culture you know we look down on that and and I
00:02:32.640personally don't if I'm speaking to a girl she says look I've got two kids I
00:02:36.080think that's a beautiful thing yeah but that's because you've got kids though I've never had kids I don't have kids I've never had kids
00:02:41.000I've never had kids though welcome to the show what's your name Ty hi what do you think do do women owe society children oh that's a strong question
00:02:57.920question I look around the room that's a strong question to women oh society kids
00:03:05.060in my opinion women are very different okay so in different situations you're
00:03:11.180gonna come across different I guess mentalities so for me depends on on the
00:03:15.780person you're not really oh anyone anything in my opinion that's my opinion
00:03:20.640you know you know do men owe it to society to be productive no no no when they
00:03:26.160choose to not be have you seen the consequences of
00:03:29.280unproductive men and what they have on society like if we choose not to be
00:03:32.400productive what is the consequences well the consequences we ruin society it's
00:03:35.480like you know Chris Rock has that joke if you're outside at 1 p.m. in a
00:03:38.200neighborhood and moms are walking strollers you're a nice neighborhood if
00:03:40.540you're outside a neighborhood 1 p.m. and dudes are working out you you in danger so
00:03:43.960you would say yeah that every man that is not being productive at this present
00:03:47.880moment or never has a child they are just no I'm not not the child thing is a little
00:03:52.940like that's that's a few steps ahead I'd say that a man who's not
00:03:55.740being productive or not taking steps towards being productive he's not
00:04:00.000building society and it is a man's job to build like a man always has to be
00:04:03.360building something otherwise a man becomes a danger to himself and society
00:04:06.540and we see that you know represented in the preponderance of you know criminals
00:04:09.420for example and you see in countries that have high unemployment rates you see a
00:04:12.700lot of very negative correlations with that but the question you know the
00:04:16.240reason that I postulate that earlier is because like for a woman to be able to
00:04:21.060reach her potential to have kids she needs a man who's reaching his potential and a man
00:04:24.580has to lead and that's why a man and I also think there's a reason why we look
00:04:28.260down on the homeless like bum crackheads down the street like that that aren't
00:04:33.380doing anything they're not paying anything like they're not contributing to
00:04:36.280society there's a reason why they're considered losers in society I don't look
00:04:40.740okay I'm not saying you personally but I'm saying as a society do they tend do the do we
00:04:47.700tend to put crackheads on a pedestal no no do we do we tend to say grow up grow up and be home
00:04:53.140but I mean I think if you're not doing anything it's not even just homeless people it's guys who
00:05:02.260drive buses or bin men we we don't put them on pedestals either we actually look down on men
00:05:06.740unfortunately I don't like I think if you have a job that contributes to society I think that's fine but
00:05:11.860I do think you owe your society to be a productive member of society and if women aren't going to go
00:05:18.020down the kids route like I think they owe the same exact thing yeah I agree with that yeah I
00:05:23.220absolutely agree with that I just want to say sorry sorry to interject um in terms of
00:05:28.100owing to society etc my thing is if you're not doing anything or contribute contributing towards
00:05:33.860the society in any way can be anything I personally think you deserve nothing and I don't mean it in a
00:05:39.380horrible way you know I don't mean in a horrible way you need to put something in to get something
00:05:44.740back yeah and that's how it's always been the cause and effect the greatest lie I think this this urban
00:05:49.540monoculture I talk about this this dominant culture in our society tells people is that if you do
00:05:53.620whatever you want whatever you want to do it that you're going to be happy and fulfilled you you will
00:05:58.660not our biologies are wonderfully structured uh perhaps god made us this way but when you do whatever
00:06:04.740you want whenever you want to do it a hollowness builds inside you when you are out there working to
00:06:09.540make the world a better place you will feel a type of happiness that cannot be achieved from
00:06:15.700anything else true happiness is only achieved by effectively living your value system and more
00:06:21.780specifically and more specifically that leads to some form of suffering through growth and so therefore
00:06:26.580and this is the Viktor Frankl argument right so very cool um so the next quest actually I'm gonna read
00:06:34.260super chats really quick um guys make sure you like the video that's the most important metric
00:06:40.980that youtube uses to push out these streams okay um Bryden says the true question is what brings you
00:06:47.940meaning Thane mattress says classic case of a suit maketh is that a suit a suit i've never oh a classic case
00:06:57.620of a suit maketh a man not good frank castle what i have no idea what you just said
00:07:14.660it's a little it's a little joke there's a quote the suit make of the man he's saying a suit make of the
00:07:18.340man not oh same oh i totally yeah i totally got it glenn lawrence oh god here comes the servant leader
00:07:28.500talk juan um figuara as a man uh as a man and father of 3 21 75 we want children but the laws are unfair
00:07:38.180and the risk 18 to 25 years of child support to reproduce the female market is unstable to risk this
00:07:46.020amount of effort um paying paying curl i can't read your username i'm sorry women that don't have
00:07:53.380children are super lucius a society strictly all men can do everything except have children cruxy
00:08:02.340says um simone and malcolm i appreciate your gene selection work related
00:08:06.900related please recommend pearl to talk to edward dutton
00:08:16.740i don't get what's the uh-ohs this is spicy stuff yeah okay he has greatly helped my understanding of
00:08:23.140why our world is in the current state emily ziegler thanks to your pearls of wisdom i've been finding
00:08:29.380more and more ways to serve and submit to my husband my husband has been the happiest man and
00:08:33.940my family is thriving ever since we love you pearl thank you emily uh i can't guys i can't say your
00:08:43.380usernames talk about um talk about the dancing in rail israelis on 9 11. oh my god i don't know what
00:08:55.140that is oh oh sorry that's from a zirka thing i think um anyways um i think that's all
00:09:03.700the soup how do you guys think a cat would answer that question do women owe it to society to have
00:09:07.620kids like if i if i wasn't a human if i was just a group of cats sitting here in a suit pretending to
00:09:11.940be a person what i what what would i what would i say about the subject they would be irrational
00:09:17.540yeah what would i answer yeah how would you know cats would just say please shut up and give me some
00:09:23.380tuna right now they'd be like nah girls don't have any kids it's cool cats do not care you know i
00:09:29.620i think there's a pretty pretty strong like uh correlation between the cat population and the
00:09:33.860amount of single childless women isn't there no some people use animals to masturbate the instinct
00:09:41.780to have kids um no it's true they they and this is done both because they don't have some sometimes
00:09:48.260it's not their choice you know sometimes they just end up single without kids for whatever reason
00:09:52.100but there are ways that you can this is why they call it their baby right can we just can we just
00:09:56.500expand on that masturbating your instincts so if i smell delicious cupcakes but i don't eat them
00:10:00.900am i just masturbating my instincts well what i mean by that is in the same way when an individual
00:10:05.460masturbates they are taking sex and they are i understood what you meant i just i just love
00:10:09.780they are fulfilling an instinct by looking at a simulacrum uh of of the thing that they really want
00:10:16.500um with a kid or a little dog it looks like a little child it's got the big eyes it's sweet to you
00:10:22.100but it doesn't require real sacrifice not at the same level uh in the same way that porn doesn't
00:10:27.140require the real real sacrifice of going out there and impressing a person a cat's a lot cheaper than
00:10:32.820a baby yes it is a lot cheaper than a date you just haven't you just haven't seen a you haven't
00:10:38.740seen a fat enough cat i challenge that i think men need to desexualize themselves though i think
00:10:45.060little corn i think is it's definitely not a good thing for men we need to stop it personally myself i've
00:10:51.220been practicing um um you know semen retention yeah and i feel so much more energized honestly i'm just
00:10:59.300like even like i just think differently i just get up in the morning without no coffee just active