JustPearlyThings - November 08, 2023


Based Man NUKES EVERYBODY With This Statement


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Length

11 minutes

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Word count

2,084

Sentence count

6

Harmful content

Misogyny

9

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Hate speech

10

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In this episode, we discuss the role of fathers in raising their kids and the impact that they can have on their kids. We also discuss what it means to be a good father and how important it is to take care of your kids.

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00:00:00.000 and you and you you and your parents brought both around right now yeah no
00:00:05.220 like growing up right yeah so who's who's richer like you who might have
00:00:09.420 grown up and you said it was poor he's really poor but but your parents were
00:00:14.000 around or you know Kim's kids where they see their dad twice a month and they
00:00:20.280 don't really see their mom either because there's a nanny watching them
00:00:22.880 yeah I didn't have that I had both devoted yeah but I'm saying like who's
00:00:27.120 in a better-off position really I would argue that the kid with both of their
00:00:40.200 parents involved is in a better position than the one that has money so much time
00:00:46.140 and especially like in the rest yeah especially in the West there's so many
00:00:51.360 times where they we equate money can replace parents and it can't it's 0.91
00:00:57.660 neglect you feel neglected and abandoned when you don't have them but you have
00:01:02.520 the material like kids no offense like if you notice like if you give kids money
00:01:08.160 and stuff like that they don't seem as grateful compared to if you want to see
00:01:13.920 messed up kids look at the kids of rich people like yeah yeah if you want to see
00:01:19.240 the thing that you can always give your kids is yourself yeah and and and there
00:01:24.580 are always going to be competing interest from that because society you know this
00:01:27.460 is I love capitalism but the one bad thing about capitalism is it can price an
00:01:31.840 individual exactly exactly the minimum amount it needs to pay them to not spend
00:01:36.220 time on their kids on their family and so remember you know yeah just just be
00:01:41.680 aware that this system it's gonna try to take you away from your family and and you are the
00:01:45.940 most important thing they have and these traditions I love you talk about growing
00:01:49.280 up Rastafarian and these traditions that they had were so important to you and the
00:01:53.620 traditions that you build for your kids you know I think a lot of us we come
00:01:56.740 from backgrounds now where we feel we don't have a connection to our ancestors
00:02:00.380 anymore or our traditions and and that can mean work with your spouse and build new
00:02:04.660 ones you know if you have to because this matters to kids it matters to them you know it
00:02:09.520 matters to their kids so it goes back to our culture though because when you when I speak to again going back to
00:02:14.280 speaking to women right when I speak to women and I ask them like okay so if a 0.99
00:02:19.200 guy tells you he's got two three four kids what do you say usually they say
00:02:23.660 well I'm not interested even if he's got one yeah and then and then he tells me
00:02:27.240 that there's a problem with our culture you know we look down on that and and I
00:02:32.640 personally don't if I'm speaking to a girl she says look I've got two kids I
00:02:36.080 think that's a beautiful thing yeah but that's because you've got kids though I've never had kids I don't have kids I've never had kids
00:02:41.000 I've never had kids though welcome to the show what's your name Ty hi what do you think do do women owe society children oh that's a strong question
00:02:57.920 question I look around the room that's a strong question to women oh society kids
00:03:05.060 in my opinion women are very different okay so in different situations you're 1.00
00:03:11.180 gonna come across different I guess mentalities so for me depends on on the
00:03:15.780 person you're not really oh anyone anything in my opinion that's my opinion
00:03:20.640 you know you know do men owe it to society to be productive no no no when they
00:03:26.160 choose to not be have you seen the consequences of
00:03:29.280 unproductive men and what they have on society like if we choose not to be
00:03:32.400 productive what is the consequences well the consequences we ruin society it's
00:03:35.480 like you know Chris Rock has that joke if you're outside at 1 p.m. in a
00:03:38.200 neighborhood and moms are walking strollers you're a nice neighborhood if
00:03:40.540 you're outside a neighborhood 1 p.m. and dudes are working out you you in danger so
00:03:43.960 you would say yeah that every man that is not being productive at this present
00:03:47.880 moment or never has a child they are just no I'm not not the child thing is a little
00:03:52.940 like that's that's a few steps ahead I'd say that a man who's not
00:03:55.740 being productive or not taking steps towards being productive he's not
00:04:00.000 building society and it is a man's job to build like a man always has to be 1.00
00:04:03.360 building something otherwise a man becomes a danger to himself and society 0.98
00:04:06.540 and we see that you know represented in the preponderance of you know criminals
00:04:09.420 for example and you see in countries that have high unemployment rates you see a
00:04:12.700 lot of very negative correlations with that but the question you know the
00:04:16.240 reason that I postulate that earlier is because like for a woman to be able to 1.00
00:04:21.060 reach her potential to have kids she needs a man who's reaching his potential and a man
00:04:24.580 has to lead and that's why a man and I also think there's a reason why we look
00:04:28.260 down on the homeless like bum crackheads down the street like that that aren't 1.00
00:04:33.380 doing anything they're not paying anything like they're not contributing to
00:04:36.280 society there's a reason why they're considered losers in society I don't look
00:04:40.740 okay I'm not saying you personally but I'm saying as a society do they tend do the do we
00:04:47.700 tend to put crackheads on a pedestal no no do we do we tend to say grow up grow up and be home
00:04:53.140 but I mean I think if you're not doing anything it's not even just homeless people it's guys who
00:05:02.260 drive buses or bin men we we don't put them on pedestals either we actually look down on men 0.99
00:05:06.740 unfortunately I don't like I think if you have a job that contributes to society I think that's fine but
00:05:11.860 I do think you owe your society to be a productive member of society and if women aren't going to go 1.00
00:05:18.020 down the kids route like I think they owe the same exact thing yeah I agree with that yeah I
00:05:23.220 absolutely agree with that I just want to say sorry sorry to interject um in terms of
00:05:28.100 owing to society etc my thing is if you're not doing anything or contribute contributing towards
00:05:33.860 the society in any way can be anything I personally think you deserve nothing and I don't mean it in a
00:05:39.380 horrible way you know I don't mean in a horrible way you need to put something in to get something
00:05:44.740 back yeah and that's how it's always been the cause and effect the greatest lie I think this this urban
00:05:49.540 monoculture I talk about this this dominant culture in our society tells people is that if you do
00:05:53.620 whatever you want whatever you want to do it that you're going to be happy and fulfilled you you will
00:05:58.660 not our biologies are wonderfully structured uh perhaps god made us this way but when you do whatever
00:06:04.740 you want whenever you want to do it a hollowness builds inside you when you are out there working to
00:06:09.540 make the world a better place you will feel a type of happiness that cannot be achieved from
00:06:15.700 anything else true happiness is only achieved by effectively living your value system and more
00:06:21.780 specifically and more specifically that leads to some form of suffering through growth and so therefore
00:06:26.580 and this is the Viktor Frankl argument right so very cool um so the next quest actually I'm gonna read
00:06:34.260 super chats really quick um guys make sure you like the video that's the most important metric
00:06:40.980 that youtube uses to push out these streams okay um Bryden says the true question is what brings you
00:06:47.940 meaning Thane mattress says classic case of a suit maketh is that a suit a suit i've never oh a classic case
00:06:57.620 of a suit maketh a man not good frank castle what i have no idea what you just said
00:07:14.660 it's a little it's a little joke there's a quote the suit make of the man he's saying a suit make of the
00:07:18.340 man not oh same oh i totally yeah i totally got it glenn lawrence oh god here comes the servant leader
00:07:28.500 talk juan um figuara as a man uh as a man and father of 3 21 75 we want children but the laws are unfair
00:07:38.180 and the risk 18 to 25 years of child support to reproduce the female market is unstable to risk this 0.98
00:07:46.020 amount of effort um paying paying curl i can't read your username i'm sorry women that don't have 1.00
00:07:53.380 children are super lucius a society strictly all men can do everything except have children cruxy 0.93
00:08:02.340 says um simone and malcolm i appreciate your gene selection work related
00:08:06.900 related please recommend pearl to talk to edward dutton
00:08:16.740 i don't get what's the uh-ohs this is spicy stuff yeah okay he has greatly helped my understanding of
00:08:23.140 why our world is in the current state emily ziegler thanks to your pearls of wisdom i've been finding
00:08:29.380 more and more ways to serve and submit to my husband my husband has been the happiest man and
00:08:33.940 my family is thriving ever since we love you pearl thank you emily uh i can't guys i can't say your
00:08:43.380 usernames talk about um talk about the dancing in rail israelis on 9 11. oh my god i don't know what
00:08:55.140 that is oh oh sorry that's from a zirka thing i think um anyways um i think that's all
00:09:03.700 the soup how do you guys think a cat would answer that question do women owe it to society to have 1.00
00:09:07.620 kids like if i if i wasn't a human if i was just a group of cats sitting here in a suit pretending to
00:09:11.940 be a person what i what what would i what would i say about the subject they would be irrational
00:09:17.540 yeah what would i answer yeah how would you know cats would just say please shut up and give me some
00:09:23.380 tuna right now they'd be like nah girls don't have any kids it's cool cats do not care you know i
00:09:29.620 i think there's a pretty pretty strong like uh correlation between the cat population and the
00:09:33.860 amount of single childless women isn't there no some people use animals to masturbate the instinct 1.00
00:09:41.780 to have kids um no it's true they they and this is done both because they don't have some sometimes
00:09:48.260 it's not their choice you know sometimes they just end up single without kids for whatever reason
00:09:52.100 but there are ways that you can this is why they call it their baby right can we just can we just
00:09:56.500 expand on that masturbating your instincts so if i smell delicious cupcakes but i don't eat them 0.82
00:10:00.900 am i just masturbating my instincts well what i mean by that is in the same way when an individual 0.52
00:10:05.460 masturbates they are taking sex and they are i understood what you meant i just i just love 0.83
00:10:09.780 they are fulfilling an instinct by looking at a simulacrum uh of of the thing that they really want
00:10:16.500 um with a kid or a little dog it looks like a little child it's got the big eyes it's sweet to you
00:10:22.100 but it doesn't require real sacrifice not at the same level uh in the same way that porn doesn't
00:10:27.140 require the real real sacrifice of going out there and impressing a person a cat's a lot cheaper than
00:10:32.820 a baby yes it is a lot cheaper than a date you just haven't you just haven't seen a you haven't
00:10:38.740 seen a fat enough cat i challenge that i think men need to desexualize themselves though i think
00:10:45.060 little corn i think is it's definitely not a good thing for men we need to stop it personally myself i've
00:10:51.220 been practicing um um you know semen retention yeah and i feel so much more energized honestly i'm just
00:10:59.300 like even like i just think differently i just get up in the morning without no coffee just active