Based Woman DEBUNKS 50⧸50 Relationships
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss what makes a good wife, and what it takes to be a good partner in a relationship. We discuss the benefits and drawbacks of being a good husband, and how to make the most out of your partner.
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So, in all honesty, I think just being there as the other half.
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Yeah, I know you discuss it as being like, you know, a woman has a role in a relationship,
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but I'm actually bisexual, so to me, it could work either way.
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And to me, I feel like 50-50 is where that kind of stuff needs to fall into place.
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So, if you have to look at the person's attributes, what they give to a relationship,
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and break it down that way, I don't think it's a one-size-fits-all.
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I don't think everyone can say, right, you're going to do this, you're going to do that,
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I think that's what works in a relationship, when you let the other person work to their strengths.
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But I think there are some things that, regardless whether you're traditional or not,
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there are some things that, naturally, a man might be better at, a woman might be better at,
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So, there's always going to be things that a man's going to be slightly better at than a woman,
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unless you're an anomaly, and you're going to be 10 times stronger than a man.
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I think everything has to be looked at retrospectively, and it has to be broken down about each person's
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attributes and what they can give to the situation.
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So, what do you think makes a woman a good wife?
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Because this is just a bit broad, so I'm just trying to rein it in.
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So, being able to provide in a sense that you can provide emotionally, whether you can provide financially is irrelevant.
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If the other person can provide financially, perfect.
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So, as a wife, you might need to be able to kick, be able to look after children, or be able to look after the man,
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or the man be able to look after you, and you be receiving to that.
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Because I think a lot of women nowadays look at a relationship and think the man should have to make the first move.
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But that makes a lot of men very, not a lot of men, but nowadays, it makes them quite intimidated.
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And then they get nervous, and then they think, oh, what if I can't do that?
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You have to be receptive to what they want to do.
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If they want to take you out on a date, and they want to pay for everything, let them.
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Yeah, okay, but I'm asking, what does she have to do?
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Other than receive, what else does she have to do?
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Well, um, again, see, because it's something that I personally don't, yeah, it's something that I wouldn't really have values on.
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So I don't really think what I'm going to say is going to give you much, much information, to be honest.
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Um, I am not enthusiastic about it with the way that marriage is, with laws, and just with the way the culture is in general.
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I mean, like, as it was, my parents divorced when I was a kid, so I never really had a great argument, you know, a great example for sort of marriage and that kind of thing anyway.
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And obviously, as time's gone on, you know, we've seen what's happened in terms of the way that society is here in the USA and Canada and Australia, you know, those Western countries.
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It's, it's, it's not a good deal, to be honest.
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It's never been something that I've been particularly keen on.
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I've become less keen on the idea as I've gone on, really.
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Now, in a sense, I agree with what you said, because I think long-term relationship, fine.
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You know, there'd have to be a very good reason for doing it, or do it somewhere else.
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Like, do it over in, um, maybe one of the Latin, you know, Latin American countries or something like that.
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I was going to say, what, what did you hear today?
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Was there anything you heard that you thought, yes, that would make a good way?
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I think a lot of the women were a bit light on specifics, to, to, to be honest, you know,
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there's a lot of stuff, yeah, support and blah, blah, blah, but there's, there's, there's
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a lot, there wasn't much specifics in terms of what, what is the woman actually going to
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So, um, I would say that, but I mean, I, I think really you want somebody who is going
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to support you, who's going to be easy to be around, you know?
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Um, and I think marriage worked pretty well back in the day when things were more traditional
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And, um, we're seeing that and, you know, as we know, the majority of divorces are
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caused by women, you know, 70% of divorces are initiated by women.
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So it's women who are, which is why modern women are shitty wives.
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But that's, but that's another reason, another reason I'm not keen to, to go into it.
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Cause for guys, it's a bit of a bad deal because, you know, the women are very keen to get married.
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You know, women will try to push the agenda of like, oh, you know, where are we?
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But then they get fed up, you know, 10, 15, 10, 15 years, like down the line and they initiate
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I, well, I think, I mean, there's going to be many different reasons for that and we could
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go into lots of different examples, but I think a lot of it is that they lose the, the, you
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know, the butterflies go and it's inevitably going to go over a longer period of time because
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we all know you have that honeymoon period and then, you know, it gets, yeah, then it
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And the problem with that is that if you're then putting that into a legal contract where
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one of the parties can just say, I'll sod that and walk out, that's a dangerous ground,
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I don't know, like, I've got, I don't know, like, I've just got a thought.
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Like, obviously you said women leave in a marriage, of course, which I understand.
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But I'm 21, like, I know I'm still young, but I feel like there's a specific time period
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And I feel like, I don't know, like, there's a lot of pressure because if I put myself in
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a guy's perspective or shoes, like, I'm not bearing a child and that changes your body.
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Of course, we have the biological clock where we're all aware of it as women.
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That's why, probably why we want to lock it down.
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And, like, with women leaving, again, this is such a broad subject, so I'm not, I'm not
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But, yeah, one-off, it's like, I get and understand why men do, like, cheat and leave and go for
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Well, men don't typically leave for younger women.
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I mean, I think, personally, I think that sex is to men as attention is to women.
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So I think women need attention, like, like, men need sex, but women are never expected
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But men are expected to stop having sex with other girls.
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But women can post ass pics on their Instagram.
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Well, I don't know about ass pics on their Instagram.
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I mean, I was even looking at, I was, okay, this is, can we pull up, can we pull up Hailey
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I don't know shit about the Selena, Hailey, whatever.
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I was like, she's married to a world famous pop star.
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And so it's like, you're married to a world famous pop star and you still got.
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And the funny thing is he comments on it as well.
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If he was to be commenting under somebody else's post?
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Like you can't, you can't take one side just because one's a female and then not back
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Like pick your own battles all, all the same, but don't.
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If she's going to put it out there as if she's going to cheat as well.
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Well, I just think of it as like, like mating strategies.
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Like women want to get attention from high status men.
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Where men want to screw as many people as possible.
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So like how many, I don't know anyone that got married and closed their Instagram.
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Yeah, but you could argue Justin Bieber's job is to screw groupies on tour.