Based Woman SCHOOLS Only Fans Models On Female Promiscuity
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the concept of purity and why it's important to have multiple partners in a healthy relationship. We discuss the benefits and risks of sleeping with multiple partners and how it can affect your overall well-being.
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for you what what value i don't agree with that it's and and i will say that because i sitting at
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this table here i have had the longest relationship and i say that and i say that because a huge part
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of and i'm not going to say it's superior because i'm not going to tell people how to live their
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lives everybody live live life how you how you want to live you know but i will say the simplest
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way i can explain it is when you involve multiple people in anything it's very complicated and and
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hearing all of these stories from all of you what i hear is it's really complicated it's really
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stressful and i've actually talked to my husband about this before but i just told him i was like
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i'm really glad that i didn't sleep with anybody before you because it does seem like it's really
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stressful and it's really complicated and there is an outsized amount of risk for women there is
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we are the ones that end up on the receiving end of all of we are the ones that end up on
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the receiving end of a lot of scds we have the complications from that down the road and it
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is risky and so the less risk you expose yourself to the the less risk you will actually have
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happen to you and so that's all i can speak to yeah because i've only slept with one person when
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it goes into being judgmental about it yeah yeah and i'm not it's not my place to be your decision
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if you want to be with just your husband that's fine but i think that i can't i don't i can't agree
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with any problem but the price sitting here saying oh it's bad for you and you're making bad decisions
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i am going to say this though like but but you did say you don't think it's healthy to be with one
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person and like fundamentally even though i i understand you don't like the stat she's talking
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about and i'm not going to say that people don't have successful relationships any any which way
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right it doesn't matter it's there are people that have successful relationships and they come from all
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different backgrounds and they have all different body counts but what i will say is the idea that one
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man and one woman only sleeping with each other is not a healthy relationship that's not true you're right i
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that's probably not the words that i wanted to use and you're right about that i it's not that i
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don't think it's healthy i don't think that it's it can be healthy like i don't think like you think
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it's like for you i don't know your relationship personally yeah and your relationship could be
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perfect i don't know that no but i think no relationship is perfect you know what i mean i don't
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know you i don't know you personally and i don't know your relationship but i do think that pushing the
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the the purity narrative is oh a really easy way to put a lot of girls in a really unsafe
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did you hear i didn't say anything about religion i didn't say anything about purity i said i only
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slept with one person that's all i said oh like you like pushing the narrative that being with only one
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person it it can fast track women and do a lot of all i said it was no sleeping with multiple partners
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can fast track you because it's like i said more factors yeah but that's why i'm saying i think it matters to
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an extent i think just just fundamentally more factors more risk less factors less risk it's
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literally that simple my life has been easier my life has been happier because i have because you
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got lucky and you picked the right guy it wasn't luck it was very intentional and that's actually
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something i think a lot of people this is what happens with the dating apps too and sorry now i'm
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going off track she said she dated her her husband correct me if i'm wrong she said she was in a eight
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year right all together five years yeah yeah so she dated him for like three years before she
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but i'm saying that there are a lot of women who don't see that that kind of man when women are
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getting abused that man is not always abusive from day one but most you know i wouldn't say that most
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men are abusive and most women are abused so and what i'm talking about is the fact that like because
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what you're what you're talking about is you're saying that women are being put at risk by sleeping with
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one person only and that's fundamentally not true i don't think that that i think that maybe you're
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misunderstanding what i'm saying okay that's fair that's fair i'm just saying that by pushing that
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narrative but the narrative i'm saying is that it's simpler to only sleep with one person that's
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not really a narrative but lack of experience is what puts you in unsafe situations i guarantee
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you know what i mean and i'm not saying sexually i'm just saying with people in general when you just go
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when you decide like one person that's it you yeah you get to know someone for a long time
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but you don't know who that person is until they show you who they are well then you know you know
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the people you by that logic though then you know the people you sleep with even less because of the
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amount of time i spent with my husband i so you're again exposed to more risk not you specifically but
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you the theoretical but that's why when i when i say like i think body count matters to a certain
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extent you know what i mean it matters because like i said people people come like i'm not going to say
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that and do i think that it has an effect in the data yeah but am i going to say that it's going
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to affect someone's personal relationship i don't know i don't know because there is data but there
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are also people i agree with what you said earlier yeah and that kind of that kind of reminds me of
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um you actually had this one girl on here she was wearing like a pink mask and had a kind of accent
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i don't know if you remember who i'm talking about but she but she didn't she didn't she was saying
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something that i kind of agree with when she said you know you can't just narrow someone down to just a
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a number i i agree when you when you say that and i know that you're not coming from that standpoint
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at all whatsoever so don't think i'm just directly talking to you but just like when a guy here is a
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high a higher number than six five eight whatever your statistics whatever i mean i'm just saying they
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immediately put you into a box and that's something that even justin on the last podcast and him and i
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talked about like it's just this thing where it's like this construct of oh i'm going to be compared
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to this many men so holy shit and i mean i get it to an extent but it's like bro if you feel like
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if you feel like you're not up to the like it's it shouldn't even matter because it's very simple
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guys don't want whores we don't want to we don't want to date the town bicycle but they want you to be a
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whore in the bedroom it just no not not necessarily but look guys care about body count point blank
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period like it is what it is and why are we making such blanket statements like we know every man
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everyone generally speaking generally speaking men don't want to date promiscuous women or women with
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a high body count what's high i mean it varies it varies but i mean he said over six before i think
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right right i don't want to put words in your mouth it depends i mean that's some of the studies
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indicate that once you get over six that's when your likelihood of for example uh divorce increases
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dramatically um i i don't remember the exact numbers on the other side the biggest dip is actually i'm
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gonna come back on the podcast when i'm married for three years i'm gonna do it maybe they'll take
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you but the whole point is whenever men have standards we shame them for having standards like if a girl
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if a girl says like i don't want to date a guy that's short and broke and fat okay fine no like they're not
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going to argue with that but if a guy says i want a girl with a low body count like we argue for for
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hours and so i would argue with a woman that said that they want to say but you're saying but you're
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saying like don't judge and i just i honestly think you said that you said that earlier yes you did i
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never said that i was gonna judge a guy who wants to be with a girl no no but who's only had one one
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partner or you were saying we shouldn't be so judgmental i never i never said anything judgmental
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about a man who prefers that we're talking we've been talking about body count for the past 30 minutes
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okay but my my whole point is that like what did i say that was judgmental my whole no i said you
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said something about that we shouldn't be so judgmental yeah yeah okay okay that's what i'm
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addressing and i'm saying you know i i don't think it's kind to act like people don't judge you
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for promiscuity i don't think that's kind to women i think it's better to be honest and the world
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doesn't owe you understanding the world will judge you for your decisions like you don't get to get out
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of jail free card and i i think it's dishonest to say that like men don't care about that stuff and
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there's going to be no consequences because a lot of you guys have said yourself that there are like
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you said out of your mouth i wouldn't change this but because i don't know i mean i don't think that i
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have sat here and said that there aren't consequences okay don't worry about that but you were saying that
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there's something about value you were upset that men value this in women and that you're thinking that
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men are diminishing women's value to their body count that's not the case i don't think i don't
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think hold on let me just finish let me finish it's just a metric by which men look at a potential
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partner and decide is this someone i want to have a relationship with is this someone i even want to
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be with justin was talking about buckets so it's like there's relationship there's relationship and
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there's hookup so and a lot of guys will do that so like a girl who's promiscuous they might not care
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so much if you have a high body count if they're they just want to fuck you but for a relationship
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for long-term commitment for marriage it's going to matter much much more no and i'm understanding
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of that and the person that the person that i choose to be with in the future i hope is understanding
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that my hypersexuality is something that i embraced during a time in my life and that i can
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say goodbye to when i'm when i meet that person well that's convenient isn't it but that's that's
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i mean yeah it's convenient if i'm ready for love and that's something i want to experience next but
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it's not something i'm like fucking it's not that like earning for or something it's not that simple
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though because the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior and maybe i'll be alone
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forever and you guys are right if you've had certain i don't know what your personal like this isn't a
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personal thing but but it's like it's like if someone's done something for five years ten years
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whatever it is it's going to be harder and harder to quit so the longer you like engage in certain
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decisions it's harder to stop and we don't even have to make it about like sleeping around it could
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be about like if you drink every day for 10 years it's going to be harder to stop yeah yeah i don't
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disagree you can you know you can get over we have some we're on the same i don't i'm not against
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you on everything i just no by the way i don't want to be heard i don't know if we got to go fully
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around the table as far as uh body count goes but uh or zoe did you answer no no no i really don't
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think it matters but mine's probably upwards somewhere as 100 and this is my let me just
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like interject a little bit because i'm waiting to talk this is why i consider myself closer to the
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mic please this is why i consider myself very middle ground because at the end of the day what
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she said i agree with someone she said i agree with something she said i agree with some you said
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at the end of the day it literally comes down to the reason people are bitching about this dumb
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stuff is because they're so unhappy and they're projecting right they're like oh you're wrong for
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only sleeping with one man in your life uh prude oh you're wrong for sleeping with that's many people
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like oh if people just minded their freaking business and worried about what truly makes them happy if we
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were just like holy crap half of this stuff that's why half of my comments on my tiktok videos like
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she just ended all relationship podcast because i come down to it from a people a human experience
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right like men are not here to fund your life and make you happy women aren't here to do whatever the
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fuck men think women are here to do fuck them i don't fucking know at the end of the day it's like
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what do you want you want a girl with a low body count guess what go get it you want a girl who's a
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whore and will just suck your dick at any point and at the time of day at the drop of a hat guess what she
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exists and you can find it and that's where i find that a lot of people find solace in my content
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because i love the arguments you know what i mean it makes its content it makes the world go around
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it's entertaining but at the end of the day if people were truly happy in how they lived life
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no one would argue with each other but the fact that people are so and it's not like oh don't judge
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only god it's not that simple if people were actually doing the things that make them happy yeah
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it's just about no one would give a shit about it