JustPearlyThings - October 03, 2023


Ben Shapiro's OUTRAGEOUS Take On Marriage | Pearl Daily Ep. 52


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A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage and why it is a bad deal for men in the 21st century. Also, my producer King is fighting at the BXGP Contenders show this Sunday in London.

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00:00:00.000 What up guys? Welcome to the Just Pearly Things YouTube channel and welcome to Pearl Daily where
00:00:05.540 I cover this week's treachery, debauchery, and craziness. Before I start, don't forget to
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00:00:21.920 caused by women getting the right to vote. Let's take that shit away. Get yourself a women shouldn't 1.00
00:00:28.120 vote t-shirt. Also guys, my producer King is going to be fighting at the BXGP Contenders show this
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00:01:00.740 also find information in the description. And today guys, I think we have the final response from the
00:01:06.860 Daily Wire. So as you guys know, I have been going back and forth with the entire Daily Wire. All right.
00:01:13.400 I believe that marriage is a bad deal for men in 2023 and I think it is negligent to encourage young 1.00
00:01:20.460 men to get married without informing them of the risks. And no, I do not think informing them of
00:01:26.940 the risks is saying, yeah, the laws are bad, but just sign up anyway. And really, I would encourage
00:01:33.700 the Daily Wire. I'm hoping now that I've red-pilled them on marriage that you're going to see just video
00:01:39.620 after video after video after video demanding that the laws change for men, demanding that men get 0.99
00:01:46.680 custody. This is going to be their first question that they ask all of the politicians, right guys?
00:01:53.000 No, maybe not. I don't know. Let's see. Okay. So I couldn't believe it guys. When I was younger,
00:01:59.260 I'm still a big Ben Shapiro fan, but I do think he has it wrong and is a bit naive when it comes to
00:02:07.760 marriage. The reason being, I believe that Ben Shapiro is under the age of 45 and typically men that are in
00:02:14.900 a higher socioeconomic status have a different experience with women in marriage. You know, 0.98
00:02:20.760 Google says that Ben Shapiro is worth over $50 million. If you're worth over $50 million, I'm sure
00:02:28.440 you have a lot easier time getting women to respect you and listen to you than say the average Joe that
00:02:36.360 works down the street. Now, a lot of these influencers are a bit out of touch with the average
00:02:41.420 middle American man. The average man in America makes about $55,000 a year. This is a completely 0.97
00:02:48.040 different experience in the level of resources that they have access to. I mean, when you're worth
00:02:55.360 millions and millions of dollars, you can afford the best divorce lawyers and child custody lawyers.
00:03:00.420 You can't really do that when you're a working class American. And this is why I believe we are going 1.00
00:03:06.340 to see marriage stay in the upper class and high society, but you are going to see it disappear
00:03:12.340 from the average American family and middle America. So Ben Shapiro responds to me. And I will say I'm
00:03:21.760 getting, they're getting a little bit nicer. You know, when I first, I first was, you guys remember
00:03:28.040 personally attacked. I was called an old spinster by Matt Walsh's wife. But now, now Pearl's getting,
00:03:39.360 getting some real criticism. So let's pull up the video.
00:03:42.040 Well, folks, there's something called the red pill movement. It's sort of a far right movement
00:03:45.620 that focuses in on saying the unsable. And now many of the red pilled have taken the position that
00:03:49.640 it's bad for men to get married. A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage.
00:03:53.940 It's really interesting. So there are a bunch of people on the so-called red pilled right
00:03:56.680 who have now suggested that marriage is bad for men, that men should not get married.
00:04:00.640 Now, the case that they're making is not the liberal feminist case that basically men are 0.98
00:04:05.280 useless and terrible and a woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle or anything like that. The 1.00
00:04:08.640 case that they are making is that the stakes of marriage have been changed by things like no
00:04:11.860 fault divorce, custody arrangements, child support payments, and all the rest, spousal support,
00:04:17.260 that basically the legal regimen has made it not a bargain for men to get married. Now, I agree 1.00
00:04:22.120 with the critique of all of those policies. I think no fault divorce is a disaster area.
00:04:26.080 I think that the child custody arrangements that basically always go to mom no matter what, 1.00
00:04:30.840 that is a serious problem. When you shift the incentive structure, there's a reason
00:04:33.940 why the majority of divorces, the vast majority of divorces are now initiated by women. 0.99
00:04:38.700 That is not because in the past women were wildly abused and today they are wildly liberated. 0.87
00:04:44.280 What that really is is when you shift the incentive structure and it turns out that all the risk
00:04:47.100 is now taken by men, women aren't going to be the ones who actually activate and push that 1.00
00:04:50.880 divorce button. However, the red pilled have taken it one step further. And now they're telling 0.77
00:04:56.080 you should not get married. It's too dangerous to get married. Don't get married. That's foolish.
00:05:00.340 That's foolish. So let's go through some of these arguments because they become very popular 0.99
00:05:02.860 on the right. So let's start with Pearl Davis. So Pearl Davis is an anti-feminist who has become 1.00
00:05:08.020 pretty popular. A lot of people label her sort of a female Andrew Tate, although without the
00:05:11.680 checkered past. And here's Pearl Davis talking about marriage. 1.00
00:05:15.440 The Tradcon's Daily Wire conservatives were, are saying that Pearl's just a doom and gloomer
00:05:23.660 who lies about stats, just focuses on the negatives, never the positives. And all the men complaining
00:05:30.900 are just crybabies. And so one day he comes home and he finds out that his wife had called 0.94
00:05:38.220 the police on him and told them that the first time they hooked up 10 years ago, he, um, he had 0.94
00:05:47.300 quote unquote raped her. And the truth of the matter is when a man has children, they're not his kids. 0.77
00:05:52.340 A man has no way to have children and those kids be actually his. They're always hers because the courts 1.00
00:06:00.060 give the women custody 90% of the time. And rich men are really the only ones that have the money to 0.52
00:06:05.120 fight it and the time. So I asked the Daily Wire, Jeremy Boeing, Matt Walsh, um, is this just crybabies?
00:06:14.440 Are they just, are they just their crybaby, weak men who don't man up and want to risk that?
00:06:20.940 So, you know, it's interesting because instead of demanding that the laws change and demanding women 0.97
00:06:27.060 face repercussions for doing this stuff, you guys demand that men need to step up and take part in a
00:06:34.140 system that discriminates against them. You say, Oh, find a girl that prays. She won't do it. 0.99
00:06:38.660 But, and I had this thought too, until I found a Muslim girl that did the same thing. I found a 0.88
00:06:44.480 Christian girl that did the same thing. I found a Catholic girl. It's happening all over. Whether
00:06:48.560 you want to believe it or not, it is happening. I don't care about your religion. I don't care about 0.77
00:06:53.420 your church. This happens everywhere. Okay. So the argument that she's making against all these
00:06:58.160 marital policies, those are, those are correct arguments and nobody is disregarding the pain of 0.97
00:07:02.260 men who have been wrongfully victimized under these circumstances where the incentive structure
00:07:06.060 is completely stacked against them. That is true. However, the benefits of marriage are still
00:07:10.360 unbelievable. It does matter who you marry to pretend that there is no difference between the
00:07:14.640 person that you marry that it's happening with Christians and Muslims. And it's all the same. 0.99
00:07:17.660 That's statistically untrue. There are things that you can do to mitigate against the risk of
00:07:21.020 divorce. And the person that you marry is the chief mitigation. The truth is that in the Jewish 1.00
00:07:25.240 community, we always have a backup plan in the sense that every marital contract is a prenup.
00:07:29.880 Every marital contract is a prenup, right? A Jewish ketubah is a prenup. It guarantees 1.00
00:07:33.580 certain levels of spousal support. For example, if you, if you give a get, then it makes prior
00:07:39.060 arrangements and all the rest. But one of the things, throwing out the baby with the bathwater
00:07:43.760 is not the solution. So how about both? How about we revise the system of law? But also in the meantime,
00:07:47.600 you do need to find a spouse and get married to her. Okay. So I wanted to address a couple of things.
00:07:51.780 One, they did cut out my whole point of that story that I was telling in the video.
00:07:56.560 And the point of that story is what they're pushing drives men to commit suicide. You could
00:08:02.880 speak to any father's rights advocate that works with men to get custody of their children and they
00:08:08.480 will tell you the same thing. Many men in this process cannot stand the idea of living life where
00:08:15.520 the entire world thinks they're an abuser, they have no money, and they're essentially paying for
00:08:21.800 their ex-wife to get railed by other dudes. I mean, I'm sorry, I got to say it like that. But
00:08:27.100 the idea of that really is death to a lot of men in this country. And a lot of men do end up
00:08:34.240 committing suicide. So I think that men need to decide for themselves. And the biggest thing that
00:08:40.580 I am against is shaming men for walking away from marriage. If I pushed a pill that had a 5%
00:08:47.240 suicide rate after taking that pill, you would tell me that I am the bad guy for pushing that pill.
00:08:53.720 Yet Daily Wire can push marriage onto men. And the CEO of the Daily Wire did in fact call men cry
00:08:59.640 babies that complain about this stuff and did tell them to man up and get married. I think it is wrong
00:09:05.940 to shame men for making the decision to walk away from women. And a lot of times the attributes that men
00:09:12.700 attribute to marriage could easily be explained that women tend to marry rich men. Rich men, I would argue 0.74
00:09:20.200 that people that make more money in general tend to be happier than people on the brink of poverty. So a lot
00:09:26.080 of times, the way they talk about these stats kind of goes back to female narcissism and giving women 0.53
00:09:32.040 credit for everything. The marriage, the women are absolutely the credit for the man making more money in 1.00
00:09:38.500 marriage. Or maybe women just like rich men. The happier men are in marriage. Well, I would say that
00:09:45.820 rich, handsome, successful men that women tend to pick tend to be happier. But they are quite unhappy 0.93
00:09:51.780 and you will see that the suicide rate does increase after divorce. A man is much more likely to commit
00:09:57.880 suicide after a divorce. Now you could say, you could come back and say Pearl's the bad guy because,
00:10:03.100 well, the men are also, they might commit suicide if they're fat broken alone. Well, yeah, I don't,
00:10:10.200 I don't promote that either. Why would the laws change if the politicians make money off of the 0.96
00:10:16.320 system? If lawyers make money off of the system, the media makes money off of the system. Everybody
00:10:23.100 makes money off of this system. So why on earth would the laws change if the Daily Wire keeps telling
00:10:29.480 young men to sign up? Buckle up, boys, sign up. And another thing I'd like to point out is that in
00:10:35.220 all actuality, marriage isn't the real problem. Ben is right where you can get a prenup that lowers
00:10:43.160 the risk of marriage. The real risk for men in 2023 is having children. Again, I have spoken to divorce 0.82
00:10:50.860 lawyer after divorce lawyer about this. And when men have children in this country, these children are not 0.99
00:10:56.800 theirs. They have no rights to these children unless they maybe get lucky with the right judge and have
00:11:04.100 the money for a lawyer that can fight it. But mind you guys, this is the exception, not the rule. And you
00:11:09.820 can see this by the custody statistics where men overwhelmingly do not get custody of their children. Now, as
00:11:18.040 a woman that grew up with nine siblings in a two-parent home, I am very grateful for that. I think that is the
00:11:24.560 ideal. But until you start lowering the risk for men, regardless of what I say, you're going to see 0.60
00:11:30.500 less men sign up. We need to increase the value that men get out of marriage and lower the risk.
00:11:37.240 Imagine, imagine women, imagine this. Women automatically get divorced if they get over 150 1.00
00:11:46.940 pounds. Would more men sign up for that? Now, I kid, right? This is, this is a joke. But,
00:11:53.380 but you see, that would be a way women staying in shape for a lifetime would be a way to add value. 1.00
00:12:00.040 Another way to lower the risk is to get rid of some of the incentives that pay women to leave. 0.99
00:12:05.600 I don't believe you will ever see a return to traditionalism until you start changing some of
00:12:10.660 the laws. I also question and I wonder if traditionalism can ever come back. Now, I don't
00:12:17.280 say this because I don't want it to, you know, again, as someone that grew up in a two-parent
00:12:21.860 household with lots of siblings, I think that's the ideal. But I also wonder if social media has
00:12:28.200 diluted the public so much that it's damn near impossible for it to come back. I don't know.
00:12:33.400 You let me know in the comments. Now, now, um, Idol says this is a lot better than Matt's take.
00:12:40.420 Yeah, because Matt attacked the person. Ben starts attacking the idea. Thank you for addressing the
00:12:46.900 actual point. I don't think Pearl disagrees with you guys that men should never marry.
00:12:51.860 It's the same point. The problem is there are no good ways to find a decent partner, especially for
00:12:56.920 the average man. When the average man are always in situationships, ones that are devout of value,
00:13:02.780 they're not thinking about marriage because it's not the right girl. The legal risks of marriage 1.00
00:13:07.100 exacerbate that. Exactly. I am very much pro-marriage. I think marriage is a beautiful thing.
00:13:14.760 I think the ideal is two virgins getting married. But I'm not blind to the world. And after interviewing
00:13:20.100 hundreds and hundreds of men and women, and I had the epiphany that I've had women of all age groups
00:13:26.880 on my show, no, we do not pick for specific types of women. Um, it's quite difficult to do that. At
00:13:33.400 one point we were doing, I was either producing shows six days a week, um, with panelists in the
00:13:38.940 studio, or I had a show of my own. That was six days a week. Imagine the amount of people I spoke to.
00:13:46.000 I had the epiphany that I really could only out of hundreds and hundreds of people recommend five to
00:13:52.640 10 women that I would recommend to my brothers. That is a problem. And I live in London, one of 1.00
00:13:59.560 the most diverse cities on the planet. I used to live in a primarily Nigerian, African part of London.
00:14:05.700 Now I live in a primarily Muslim part of London. On top of that, we have had people from all ethnicities
00:14:12.400 and all parts of the world on the show. Um, I can think of people from Italy, Spain, Zimbabwe,
00:14:19.600 Nigeria, the list goes on and on. These problems are coming everywhere. And as much as they want to 0.98
00:14:25.580 discount the red pill and say that in some way it's hurting men, really, it's just talking about
00:14:31.480 the reality of the situation. And the reality right now is that traditionalism was 50 years ago,
00:14:37.620 and I hope that it's not dead, but it may be in the future. If you are truly serious, Daily Wire,
00:14:44.920 about getting marriage to return, that needs to be the number one issue that you ask all of the
00:14:50.960 politicians that you cover. And the number one issue that you ask in all of your interviews,
00:14:56.240 what are the politicians doing to bring men back to marriage? What are they offering them in return? 0.97
00:15:02.820 And until you start asking those tough questions, I do not believe that you really care about marriage
00:15:08.740 coming back. So what I say in the meantime, men should just get married. I would say if you choose 0.92
00:15:16.280 to do that, be extremely cautious. And I think that's the most honest answer that you can give.
00:15:22.720 Now, um, another thing they say is that just find a good woman that prays. And the issue that we get
00:15:28.120 with this is whenever the stats say something that the left and the right doesn't like, they'll continue
00:15:35.340 to argue with me for a lifetime. For example, there's one stat that followed 40 year marriages,
00:15:41.260 marriages that have been married 40 years or longer. And they found that the real divorce rate is 67%.
00:15:47.900 So the divorce rate, remember the divorce rate now, 40, 50%. And a lot of those marriages,
00:15:54.440 they include people that are separated, dead bedrooms, and just haven't divorced yet.
00:16:00.120 Now there is a content creator called the Joker Better Bachelor. He's a very talented content
00:16:05.060 creator on YouTube. And he actually sent out a tweet that says, watch what women do, not what
00:16:10.620 they say. Christian and right wing women always speak from their high horse about how they fight 1.00
00:16:15.000 for men in traditional fairness and equality under the laws. Let's look at some divorce stats,
00:16:19.860 shall we? They sure do divorce a lot. And I bet they fight for majority custody of their kids, 1.00
00:16:24.760 a statistics show, and duke it out for a child support and alimony, just like the vast majority of
00:16:30.200 women do. I find it funny to see conservative women get big mad when men speak out on issues 0.96
00:16:35.820 and then saying right wing men have turned on them. I'm not right wing and neither are many of
00:16:40.340 the fed up men with everything. But since you can't put us in a defined box, you don't know what to do
00:16:45.500 now, do you? If right wing women really cared, they'd help change the laws, push for even more 1.00
00:16:50.780 handled child custody and not get divorced. But as usual, they do the same thing that other women do, 1.00
00:16:56.260 then claim they're different or traditional and conservative. Nice try, ladies, but it's the 1.00
00:17:01.400 same blame game as always, so try again. This is from Pew Research with a reasonable sample size.
00:17:09.540 Divorced or separated adults and the religious composition of divorced or separated adults.
00:17:15.240 74% identify as Christian. Let me repeat that for you. 74% identify as Christian. And the typical
00:17:25.360 attack that I get back from the Christians is those just aren't the real Christian. And then it just 1.00
00:17:30.960 becomes a holy off. Who's the most holy and how can I virtue signal? If you prayed every day, then you
00:17:37.520 would be a real Christian. You can't get divorced if you're a real Christian. Well, the women identified 0.94
00:17:45.420 as real Christians in their 20s and conveniently at 44 decided no more. Now, I don't say this in a happy 1.00
00:17:52.720 way, although I'm quite a friendly, happy person, so I can't help, you know, if that's how it comes
00:17:59.340 across. But it really, truly does make me sad. I look at the places in the world that used to be
00:18:05.020 filled with children and families, and overwhelmingly, I see more singles. It's becoming a very different
00:18:11.260 world to what I grew up with, and I'm 26 years old. I would argue that the Daily Wire has more political
00:18:17.520 poll than Fox News nowadays does with conservatives. So you guys taking a stance on no-fault divorce and
00:18:24.260 asking politicians the tough questions on how they will incentivize men to get married again
00:18:29.580 and reduce the risks for men, I would even go as far to push for men automatically getting custody in 0.72
00:18:36.740 divorce. If the data has proven that men raise better children, why do we not automatically give 0.78
00:18:43.680 them custody unless there is some sort of drug addiction or abuse situation? Men over the age
00:18:50.340 of roughly 45, 50-ish have a very different view on marriage. Even the men that are happily married
00:18:57.300 have likely witnessed a friend or family member go through a traumatic divorce and would not necessarily
00:19:03.860 recommend young men to get married. Now, we have a clip that is going viral of an elderly person
00:19:09.520 advising young men not to get married. What advice would you give to your younger self?
00:19:16.180 Don't get married. You're free, man. You're free in the world. So don't get married, please.
00:19:24.180 You know, forget about population. It will grow automatically. You know, don't get married. Don't lose your freedom
00:19:31.180 and individuality. You know, and your pride, man. You're a man. You're always wanted. I'll tell you.
00:19:39.520 You're always wanted. But once you got it, you're jailed. And this is the reality of the situation.
00:19:45.620 Many men are demasculated every day in marriage. And really, a man that goes home every day and is
00:19:51.820 disrespected by his wife and children is a man in prison. Modern marriage is a prison for men. 0.91
00:19:57.840 They lose their freedom and have to have man caves in the corner of their houses to get away
00:20:03.200 from their wives. They're constantly told that their wife's happiness dictates the future of
00:20:08.600 their marriage. On top of that, we have phrases like it's cheaper to keep her. You see products 0.86
00:20:14.500 sold that say his side and her side and her side is the majority of the bed. Why is a man providing 0.95
00:20:20.360 protection and provisioning to a household and yet is stuck in a corner of the house in his man cave?
00:20:27.000 Why are houses decorated the way the women want and not the men want? Men deserve respect and
00:20:32.860 husbands deserve to have authority over their own home. Until women start understanding this, 1.00
00:20:39.420 you will see marriage disappear forever. And unfortunately, this is rampant even in Christian 0.86
00:20:44.980 and Catholic churches. As a Catholic, this makes me very sad. But unfortunately, there are women's 1.00
00:20:51.140 groups that absolutely ruin marriages today. They teach things like mutual submission and
00:20:57.480 only submitting to your husband when he's submitting to God. Now, while on paper, that sounds nice. 0.57
00:21:03.440 Why does the wife get to determine when he's submitting to God? On top of that, they have started 0.99
00:21:08.480 to allow women preachers to preach in the church and women to impose their will on men. No, no, no, 1.00
00:21:16.140 no, no, no, no, no, no. All of this nonsense is really driving men from churches. You're going to
00:21:23.640 start looking around in your local church and you're going to notice that men under the age of 35 are
00:21:28.980 gone. Nayski nada. Couples are disappearing because in all honesty, many of the men in churches don't have
00:21:36.780 a backbone and still appeal to the whim of what women want. What women want comes second. What men want 0.97
00:21:44.380 should come first. I am really tired of seeing these simps and modern women ruin churches. Patriarchy 1.00
00:21:52.400 is a good thing. Men are supposed to be the head of the household. Now, speaking of bailing women out 1.00
00:21:58.480 of their bad decisions, I am now seeing this phenomenon of giving porn stars rewards. Mia Khalifa
00:22:06.180 was a huge porn star. I don't know much about it. All I know is that this woman was huge. And I've seen 1.00
00:22:12.860 her go on podcast after podcast after podcast talking about exploited she was and how she really regrets
00:22:20.820 her decision. Then this woman comes out with an OnlyFan. How on earth can you be exploited and regret 0.78
00:22:26.620 your decisions while also being on OnlyFan? It sounds like you were just bad at negotiating a good
00:22:32.380 deal. Now this woman is being taken seriously as an actual runway model. How insulting is it to the 1.00
00:22:39.060 real models that represent grace and beauty that we have a tatted up porn star on runways? This is a 1.00
00:22:47.300 disgrace. If I was a woman that took modeling seriously and broke my back to become a model, I would be 0.98
00:22:54.240 absolutely offended and protesting that a post-wall porn star is now beating me for a gig. This is
00:23:01.900 ridiculous. We need to stop catering to women and cater to men. That is not what men want or want to 1.00
00:23:08.620 see, a tatted up porn star. Maybe for the night, but when I think of a model, I think of beauty and
00:23:14.400 elegance and not this nonsense that they're pushing today. Giorgio says you are not a model. Well,
00:23:20.500 no shit, Giorgio. Obviously she's not. So I would ask whoever's in charge of the modeling industry. 1.00
00:23:28.100 It's not an industry I know much about. I thought that models were supposed to be beautiful and 0.98
00:23:33.720 represent the most beautiful women in society. Why on earth do you have a tatted up porn star up there? 1.00
00:23:39.400 This is pandering and catering and us women are sick of being sold a dream. We are sick of being 1.00
00:23:45.840 pandered to. And at some point us women need to get together and tell them we are tired. 0.99
00:23:52.880 So I don't spend a lot of time on Reddit. That's a new, um, I don't really understand how it works,
00:23:58.520 but I guess there's an entire, um, thread of Reddit's opinions of just pearly things. So I guess
00:24:04.800 my producers are giving this to me today. Let's pull it up. All right. Opinions on just pearly
00:24:10.240 things also known as Pearl Davis are divided. She advocates for men's rights and criticizes feminists,
00:24:15.600 but some find her arguments controversial and problematic. Okay. Pearl suggests that if a
00:24:21.600 woman gains weight during pregnancy, it's fair for the man to leave her. Some see this as unfair 0.99
00:24:25.960 to women who undergo pregnancy related weight gain. Really ladies? Really? It was, it was the 1.00
00:24:35.380 pregnancy. It wasn't the Doritos you were eating. I mean, I, I think this is a good thing. Honestly,
00:24:42.620 weight is in your control. These women act like, you don't think in a way a woman's choosing to get 1.00
00:24:48.780 divorced. If she knows, if she knows her husband doesn't like fat chicks and then gets fat in that 1.00
00:24:55.640 form of fraud too. She claims that women initiate divorce 80% of the time, implying they break up
00:25:00.940 families. Critics say she oversimplifies divorce reasons and should respect divorced couples choices.
00:25:06.660 Three, Pearl argues that men have it harder due to a higher suicide rate, but some disagree,
00:25:12.380 highlighting women's unique challenges. Four, she denies the existence of a patriarchy and a gender 0.95
00:25:17.880 gap. Critics point out that historical inequalities and ongoing challenges women face in various aspects
00:25:23.960 of life. Opinions on Pearl vary with some supporting her views while other finding them insensitive to
00:25:29.500 women's issues. I think I've heard enough about women's issues. Yes, I get it. You have trauma from 0.99
00:25:34.420 your ex-boyfriend cheating on you. Yes, I get it. Periods are hard. Yes, I get it. Men hit on you
00:25:41.080 at work. Boo hoo, cry me a river. I'm tired of hearing about it. I'm tired of hearing about how
00:25:46.620 special women are and amazing when the truth of the matter is that you can't improve as a woman 1.00
00:25:52.080 if you are told you're amazing and special all the time. And what you're going to continue to see
00:25:57.180 is an influx of narcissistic women who are just told they're so awesome and special and who cannot admit 1.00
00:26:03.480 basic truths like younger women are hotter. Okay, so they said, I think she's experienced abuse and is now 0.98
00:26:10.140 trying to be perfect in the eyes of a male society. I think it's a subconscious defense mechanism or she's
00:26:17.340 a smart businesswoman who doesn't care about society. So let me get this straight. It's either I'm a
00:26:23.500 businesswoman or I have been abused and now I'm perfect and now I'm trying to be perfect. You know, it's so
00:26:31.860 funny. Reading these comments shows me why men should never open up to women because what women
00:26:36.600 will do is if you ever open up to them and tell them a sad story, they will attribute everything
00:26:41.400 you do for a lifetime to that sad story. That's why I think it's better for men to never tell women 1.00
00:26:47.340 anything because they will weaponize your stories and past against you just to be an asshole. Whereas 1.00
00:26:53.400 I think she's rage farming and doesn't believe half the shit she says. I also have a hunch that she 1.00
00:26:58.540 isn't even interested in men and is closeted. There they go. Now the same insults they throw at me
00:27:04.740 are the same insults they throw at men. Gay. Oh my gosh. One, why does the left use this as an insult? 0.99
00:27:12.980 And two, if I have a different opinion than you, I must be gay. I must be gay. I must like women. 0.97
00:27:19.560 No, no, no. I actually even think the bi shit that girls do nowadays is gross. I don't like it. 1.00
00:27:27.020 No. Okay. So cultural context. I've read that she's worth a hundred K to 300 K for a 26 year old. 1.00
00:27:34.360 She's learned that having controversial opinions pay. I couldn't find much about her family except
00:27:38.980 her parents have money and their software entrepreneurs. I'm guessing she's been
00:27:42.560 studying the business of influence and to the point, um, and to your point, doesn't care about
00:27:46.800 society. That's what they do. Now they'll start researching my family and everybody around me in
00:27:52.960 order to come up with, with how on earth I came up with an opinion. Very funny behavior.
00:28:00.300 Yes. My dad is an entrepreneur, but couldn't you argue that I don't actually need money. And maybe
00:28:06.140 I just think this stuff is truth is true. Truth is truth, regardless of who said it. And you can shoot
00:28:12.160 the messenger, but it doesn't make that message untrue. And here we go again. Misogyny sells.
00:28:19.600 She's just a hustler. She will ironically make the most money from men by catering to their thought 1.00
00:28:24.600 process. The funny thing is I used to have an 80% female audience on Tik TOK. You can actually make 0.72
00:28:30.420 far more money marketing to women than to men. Every entrepreneur knows this. Women are dummies. 1.00
00:28:36.620 They just buy damn near anything. Men are a lot harder to sell because they're logical, smart people. 1.00
00:28:42.500 All right. I have one word to describe her. It rhymes with the word runt. Oh, I had to think
00:28:48.940 about what that was. All right. She's horrible to women. It puts them down. She thinks it's okay 1.00
00:28:53.520 to tell women how they mean nothing unless they're young and pure and pretty. That's not what I say.
00:28:59.040 I never said nothing. I say that the most ideal women are young, pure, and pretty. Don't shoot the 1.00
00:29:04.780 messenger. And shooting me, the messenger, will not change the reality of the situation. Yes,
00:29:10.400 guys. Sometimes in life, us women need to take L's and stop crying about it. I've talked to hookers, 1.00
00:29:16.840 OnlyFans models, and many sex workers that understand this reality. And they don't cry about 0.71
00:29:22.560 it. They just deal with the situation. And the truth of the matter is reality will hit you in the
00:29:27.320 face one way or another, whether you like it or not. She's always spouting out these facts and
00:29:32.600 statistics, but I'm starting to think she makes them up or get them from sources that lie. And that's
00:29:37.500 another thing that the left will do. They will try to discredit you by whining about your sources,
00:29:42.900 and you can provide them source after source after source, and they still will not care because they
00:29:48.020 want to believe what they believe. She's just horrible to other women, which is probably the 1.00
00:29:53.140 worst thing. Okay, so she doesn't agree that women should be promiscuous. That's her opinion. Fine. 1.00
00:29:58.860 It's not what I think. It's what men desire. Don't shoot the messenger for telling you what men like.
00:30:04.900 But does she have to make women who like casual sex look and feel like crap? I can't stand her. 1.00
00:30:11.760 I can't make you feel anything. The way you feel comes from within. Nobody can make you feel shame.
00:30:19.140 If you feel shame, that comes from somewhere, and you need to deal with it. She has a nasty 1.00
00:30:24.820 personality and is just ugly. I can't stand her and how she tries to make modern women look like 1.00
00:30:29.940 the worst thing in the world. I wouldn't say the worst thing in the world, but maybe one of the
00:30:35.500 worst things. And I'm sorry, guys. Okay. Electrical head. I'm right wing female late 20s. I don't agree
00:30:43.260 with everything she says. She seems to choose a narrow view of things and sticks to her guns 0.68
00:30:47.740 regardless of if she's wrong. She has an interest. You know, it's so funny. They'll say she sticks to
00:30:52.560 her guns regardless of if she's wrong. And yet I'll give you point after point of things I've changed my
00:30:58.980 opinion on. I am always willing to change my opinion with new information. What I'm not going
00:31:04.020 to do is have leftists convince me that water is not wet, the sky is not blue, and that men love 1.00
00:31:10.860 whores for wives and mothers. I'm sorry, you can give me some corn statistics with MILF. No, that will 1.00
00:31:18.980 not convince me that men are dying to wife up single mothers. Water is wet, the sky is blue, and they want 1.00
00:31:26.580 to shoot the messenger. One thing I'll say, though, is I find her personality to be extremely
00:31:31.380 irritating. I feel like sometimes she isn't really stating a clear point. She's just jabbing at
00:31:39.260 people to be controversial. She caters to her male guests. So it's so funny. They go into all this
00:31:44.460 stuff. She gets some enjoyment of playing the cool girl, but they can't say you're wrong. Do you notice
00:31:52.400 that? Do you notice that? They just keep going on and on about my attentions and da-da-da-da-da.
00:32:00.000 Oh, she's doing this for money. But they can't say, Pearl, you're wrong. And if they do, it's usually
00:32:06.520 some bullshit. It's usually. And, you know, I am all for developing a new opinion. I didn't understand 1.00
00:32:15.220 why men would fear marriage when I first got into this space. But when you start to interview the men
00:32:21.200 that have been through it, you start to understand very quickly why men fear marriage. Now, to end
00:32:26.600 this episode, my producers have gotten me a Reddit story. Now, I have not read this until now, so let's
00:32:33.160 see what the Ask Pearl advice. Oh, my wife cheated eight times, but I still love her. I've been married 0.98
00:32:44.580 to my wife for a short time, but we've been together for six years. She's always struggled
00:32:50.120 with mental health issues like depression, ADHD, and anxiety, which seemed to worsen during COVID.
00:32:56.240 She lost her job but found another with irregular hours, and I've always tried to support her.
00:33:01.980 What is she doing? Stripping? After her wedding, she got COVID twice and suffered from long-lasting 1.00
00:33:07.940 symptoms. During her recovery, she started going out more, going to bars late, staying out late,
00:33:13.460 and sometimes came home drunk. I thought that this was an unhealthy coping mechanism, but my attempts
00:33:18.800 to discuss it were met with defensiveness. One day, I discovered she had cheated on me during her
00:33:24.060 outings. I confronted her, and she expressed deep remorse, attributing her actions to a desire for
00:33:29.380 attention and feeling trapped. Her therapist seemed to initially blame me, but my wife later took some
00:33:35.580 responsibility. Now, she wants space but hasn't been home much. I fear she may demand a separation, 0.50
00:33:41.700 and I'm torn between wanting her to be healthy and the perception that I'm controlling.
00:33:45.820 I just want her back. How do you guys think I can get her back? She's the love of my life. 0.73
00:33:49.980 I have done everything for her. It just breaks my heart that she's with some guy at the bar.
00:33:55.680 Women will never respect you unless you are willing to walk away. I don't say this in a happy way, 1.00
00:34:02.660 but this mentality repulses women. It is absolutely repulsive that a woman can cheat on you eight times and 1.00
00:34:09.660 put up with it. Now, a lot of times people ask me my opinion on men and women cheating.
00:34:14.520 I think that men should be able to leave when women cheat and women should not. 1.00
00:34:19.820 I think, I think that, and now this might be hypocritical, but I think men and women are
00:34:24.380 different. When women cheat, they typically cheat to leave or to do better. They typically are cheating 1.00
00:34:30.540 with the intention of divorcing and leaving. Men, on the other hand, cheat. It's more of a casual
00:34:35.880 one-time thing because the sex was there and available. Most cheating is a one-time thing.
00:34:41.720 This is abnormal to cheat eight times. That is crazy. Now, I'm not wanting to push for divorce,
00:34:49.780 but I do think that this calls for it. And this mentality is sad. Why would you want a woman back 1.00
00:34:55.800 that's cheated on you eight times? Guys, women will not respect you unless you are willing 1.00
00:35:00.700 to leave and not put up with their bullshit. Now, guys, let me know what you think in the 1.00
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