JustPearlyThings - Bitter Post Wall Feminist Shames Men For Their Preferences

00:00:00.000 yeah that's fine i just i just don't believe that all men cheat there's a minority that don't

00:00:04.300 i i agree i think yeah i think you'd agree most do if they can yeah if they could but but most men

00:00:10.060 can't and most men should most men can't what most men in relationships can't cheat um so what

00:00:19.660 about you do you think it's fair that women expect monogamy if they gave their best years to another

00:00:23.600 man uh no um definitely not definitely not because what would you define as a woman's best

00:00:30.040 years go ahead okay well i would put that into the same sort of especially with that particular male

00:00:35.220 or man usually her child's dad her first love is usually that type of person you know he's usually

00:00:42.480 he's usually got everything else out of her by the time you've come across her whatever the scenario

00:00:46.820 is you are getting the after bits there's going to be memories of him be it in a relationship sexual

00:00:52.520 whatever you know there's going to be especially if they've got a child there's an imprint i've seen

00:00:56.840 it loads of times you know people have broken up they've got with someone else as soon as the kid

00:01:01.260 dad come back in the picture gone they're either sleeping together or they're back together so

00:01:06.160 if a woman's had her best years with another male to me she she's actually his to be perfectly honest

00:01:13.040 and i found a lot of the time that there's that one particular guy is there a certain age that you

00:01:19.220 would say in and around 30 30 ish 30 mid 30s it depends what she's kind of done up to then

00:01:28.240 okay um but to be fair about sort of like the mid 30 ish then by that point it's like yeah

00:01:34.320 specifically what do you think is it fair to expect monogamy if you've given your best years to another

00:01:39.120 man because because it's like if men value purity and youth and you don't have that to give to him

00:01:46.620 how can we expect like monogamy when they can't fulfill their mating strategy 1.00

00:01:50.220 is this are you speaking like from a new relationship where they've been together for

00:01:56.180 years and now he can cheat because she's given her best like so so what i'm saying is relationships are

00:02:01.240 an exchange and men and women want different things like we want resources um we want a guy that's 0.94

00:02:05.480 tall and that can protect us we want resources protection provisioning guys want youth purity

00:02:10.600 piece and so if they can't fulfill their mating strategy which is to get a girl with low mileage 1.00

00:02:17.260 that's young why would we expect them to give to forsake their mating strategy which is to spread 1.00

00:02:23.840 their seed but then so isn't that kind of an unfair deal for men so then if if you then why would you

00:02:33.420 stay with that person and cheat if if the person if the woman's not giving you the youth and whatever

00:02:39.300 whatever why keep her there and cheat on her when you can just leave and be with the youth that you 0.68

00:02:45.500 want that's my thing like i don't understand but i'm saying well is it fair that women expect it over

00:02:51.340 a certain age that's the question because you give your best years to someone else

00:02:56.300 she's talking about going into a new relationship yeah i know but if you go into a new relationship and

00:03:03.780 say this is the car and the car has been used for the last 15 years we don't have a spider date

00:03:08.000 honestly speaking like who said that we gave our best to someone else i don't even know my maximum

00:03:13.540 or my best probably i never done to to no one my best because i don't know i give honestly i loved

00:03:19.260 someone before i don't know if i get the maximum i can i don't know maybe i'm gonna find tomorrow

00:03:24.980 a man i'm gonna give actually the best of myself who said that i already gave to someone else it's about

00:03:30.240 what they think's the best it's not about you because you're not the one buying so the guy the

00:03:33.680 guys think is the best men yes what they think is the best men from the ages of 20 to 80 all think

00:03:40.340 that girls are the most attractive around 22 to 24 okay but like this is a man that cannot stand on

00:03:45.600 his own like honestly because if you honestly think that he can't stand on his own yeah because like

00:03:52.780 they actually mind about what other people think because if you're telling me that after

00:03:57.060 you're shaming men for their standards that's shame it's shame insult guilt need to be right

00:04:01.440 no that's just my point of view i'm saying that i don't have an inspired date that doesn't mean that

00:04:05.220 after because i had six year uh relationship i gave my best to someone no like if a man think this

00:04:14.500 it means that he's not that confident to like get my best because if you are a proper man you're

00:04:20.500 gonna get my best but see that's shame if you're saying like i'm not shaming i just don't want it

00:04:25.060 i don't know i'll tell you why because you're saying if you're a real man if you're a proper

00:04:28.620 man then you would think like me but that that's shaming men for what they want it doesn't it doesn't

00:04:33.740 have to think like me i just don't want a man that think in this way just give me alone do you know

00:04:38.600 what i mean i want a man that it comes with confidence say i'm gonna get the best of you 0.76

00:04:42.760 point like i'm not aspiring like just because i'm 30 or yeah do you think you determine what the

00:04:49.100 best years are do you think they determine what the best years are i think we pick each other we

00:04:52.960 should we should actually pick the best for us me and the man also okay what do you think i think

00:04:59.180 it depends on the situation it depends on your ages where you're right in your life obviously men

00:05:04.200 prefer younger women so what age ranges are we saying are their best years i mean it's different

00:05:10.680 it's different for i didn't say an age so you could say 40 you could say 45 you could say 35 you

00:05:15.320 could say 30 that's i don't i don't tell the men what so if they're 40 or they're 45 on average

00:05:20.120 men prefer younger women and women prefer older yeah so i'm guessing the man is older

00:05:24.780 so so why wouldn't she expect monogamy like is he going to go younger than the 40 i'm saying okay

00:05:31.560 i'm saying isn't that a unfair deal for men because he's not getting the things that men value

00:05:35.920 it depends on the age to say say you're 50 and you're going out with a 40 year old

00:05:39.940 like what would you want bro like do you know what i mean

00:05:42.980 it's a 35 year old

00:05:44.600 you should have went for a 30 year old so why did you go for the 40 that's that's the point

00:05:49.600 that's why it depends on the age

00:05:51.380 but the question okay so the reason i ask this is because i think a lot of women would have better 1.00

00:05:55.480 results if they took that off the table but they think they're a higher value than they are

00:05:59.280 because they they're selling the same price they had at 22 that they are that they are asking for

00:06:04.040 at 35 45 even though they're on sale they're on discount because you're you're not as you're

00:06:08.660 not sorry

00:06:09.340 you're degrading women it's not their value is they're getting less value as they get older 1.00

00:06:14.540 in the sexual marketplace

00:06:15.600 wise and more wisdom and all that sort of an experience you're in everything you're evolving

00:06:20.140 and becoming a better woman

00:06:21.040 because you're you're you're telling men what to think

00:06:23.920 i'm not telling i'm saying in this room i'm talking about now

00:06:26.660 she can't even say it with a straight face

00:06:28.060 no no i'm saying that

00:06:29.640 you're saying value me value me for my experience but like they don't want that they don't care

00:06:33.120 you just said uh-huh that your value is is dropping in the sexual marketplace yes

00:06:38.800 well sex isn't all that you bring as a woman you bring more things to them you bring more things 1.00

00:06:43.580 than just sex if it's just sex then do you want to do you want to marry someone you can't have sex with 0.99

00:06:48.460 no do you want to marry someone you can't have sex with do you want to marry do you want to marry 1.00

00:06:51.820 hell no sex is a big part it starts with sex 1.00

00:06:54.540 sex is not the only thing for women for women for women not for men okay how big is sex to you in a relationship 0.98

00:07:00.900 well it's it will play it will keep me in a relationship 0.90

00:07:05.920 no honestly like one question am i like do you uh best sex with uh like 18 20 years old girl or with 0.52

00:07:16.360 a 30 35 40 women i don't really tend to rate sex like that when i go into sex 1.00

00:07:25.540 no because we're saying that we're dropping by age so i'm just asking from your point of view

00:07:31.140 just do you know i'm not saying to do you know just what she's saying is about men as a collective

00:07:36.940 yeah that's what i'm asking what she's saying is correct speaking to the matter bro yeah and what

00:07:41.060 she is saying is correct because when women get to a certain age men do see them as less valuable

00:07:47.940 yeah why i'm asking why because they had like i said youth purity you you automatically see a

00:07:54.600 younger girl she looks younger she looks more attractive you think that you hope that she's

00:08:01.200 has less mileage than an older woman so naturally your first thought is i'm dealing with someone 1.00

00:08:08.180 who hasn't been run through who doesn't have a higher mileage her face moves there's no like botox

00:08:13.220 foreheads right so all of this now is it about going into new relationships that's the point i'm

00:08:19.680 trying to get to yes is that what you is that so so the point is okay if you're coming to a guy

00:08:24.460 over a certain age is it fair to expect monogamy when you gave your best years to someone else is

00:08:30.280 that a fair deal is that no i'm saying is that a fair deal for men to be monogamous to you when some

00:08:34.640 other guy got your best years it's unfair to assume that a woman's given all her best years to someone

00:08:39.960 else that's my answer because but you're telling men what to value no i'm not telling men i'm saying

00:08:46.100 it's unfair to assume that a woman has given her best to someone else okay so that's like going up 0.96

00:08:51.180 to guys and say they're saying hey you know i like 22 year olds maybe maybe 27 22 to 27 that's that's

00:08:56.980 what i think is the best and then you're going up to guys and saying well that that's not my best

00:09:01.160 years i think my best years are 30 when they're like when you say best what do you mean the most

00:09:07.760 valuable because the most valuable but valuable in what way in in the market wants it the most

00:09:13.660 okay so are you talking about bearing children or bearing children the way you the younger bearing 0.98

00:09:19.400 children the way you look um low less bodies everything everything if someone is 40 and she's

00:09:26.500 had less bodies than a 20 year old and she looks younger than the 20 year old who's more valuable 1.00

00:09:31.640 than it again because because you're looking you're looking for an extreme extent show me

00:09:36.800 show me show me one show me 140 show me one 40 year old that looks younger than a 20 year old i'm 35

00:09:43.540 yeah she doesn't look 35 honestly speaking you don't look 20 honestly i never said 20 yeah

00:09:49.020 i'd give you 30 but like 20 now okay that's from you but i'm i'm saying in general i people don't

00:09:58.000 believe me when i say my age so if a woman like myself who doesn't look her age whose body count 1.00

00:10:03.520 is lower than a younger person who's been run through as you're saying would that mean that i'm

00:10:08.640 less valuable or more valuable than a younger girl who looks older than me and has had more bodies in

00:10:15.540 in the marketplace you would fall into an exception you would find that men are extremely surprised

00:10:22.600 potentially to the point they probably may not believe you but if we're talking about a collective

00:10:29.000 most women will tell you that from 18 to 25 they got the most attention from men and after those years

00:10:39.560 it dwindled and that is the point she's making what she's making is when you get to a certain age you

00:10:45.440 become less desirable i can't really because you're not a man you wouldn't relate because you're not

00:10:52.660 yeah but you are the exception and that's why it's blowing your mind because

JustPearlyThings - June 01, 2023

Bitter Post Wall Feminist Shames Men For Their Preferences

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