Bitter Post Wall Feminist Shames Men For Their Preferences
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Is it fair for women to expect monogamy if they have given their best years to another man? Is monogamy fair for men when they can t fulfill their mating strategy which is to get a girl with low mileage that s young.
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yeah that's fine i just i just don't believe that all men cheat there's a minority that don't
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i i agree i think yeah i think you'd agree most do if they can yeah if they could but but most men
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can't and most men should most men can't what most men in relationships can't cheat um so what
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about you do you think it's fair that women expect monogamy if they gave their best years to another
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man uh no um definitely not definitely not because what would you define as a woman's best
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years go ahead okay well i would put that into the same sort of especially with that particular male
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or man usually her child's dad her first love is usually that type of person you know he's usually
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he's usually got everything else out of her by the time you've come across her whatever the scenario
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is you are getting the after bits there's going to be memories of him be it in a relationship sexual
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whatever you know there's going to be especially if they've got a child there's an imprint i've seen
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it loads of times you know people have broken up they've got with someone else as soon as the kid
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dad come back in the picture gone they're either sleeping together or they're back together so
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if a woman's had her best years with another male to me she she's actually his to be perfectly honest
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and i found a lot of the time that there's that one particular guy is there a certain age that you
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would say in and around 30 30 ish 30 mid 30s it depends what she's kind of done up to then
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okay um but to be fair about sort of like the mid 30 ish then by that point it's like yeah
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specifically what do you think is it fair to expect monogamy if you've given your best years to another
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man because because it's like if men value purity and youth and you don't have that to give to him
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how can we expect like monogamy when they can't fulfill their mating strategy
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is this are you speaking like from a new relationship where they've been together for
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years and now he can cheat because she's given her best like so so what i'm saying is relationships are
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an exchange and men and women want different things like we want resources um we want a guy that's
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tall and that can protect us we want resources protection provisioning guys want youth purity
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piece and so if they can't fulfill their mating strategy which is to get a girl with low mileage
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that's young why would we expect them to give to forsake their mating strategy which is to spread
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their seed but then so isn't that kind of an unfair deal for men so then if if you then why would you
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stay with that person and cheat if if the person if the woman's not giving you the youth and whatever
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whatever why keep her there and cheat on her when you can just leave and be with the youth that you
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want that's my thing like i don't understand but i'm saying well is it fair that women expect it over
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a certain age that's the question because you give your best years to someone else
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she's talking about going into a new relationship yeah i know but if you go into a new relationship and
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say this is the car and the car has been used for the last 15 years we don't have a spider date
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honestly speaking like who said that we gave our best to someone else i don't even know my maximum
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or my best probably i never done to to no one my best because i don't know i give honestly i loved
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someone before i don't know if i get the maximum i can i don't know maybe i'm gonna find tomorrow
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a man i'm gonna give actually the best of myself who said that i already gave to someone else it's about
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what they think's the best it's not about you because you're not the one buying so the guy the
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guys think is the best men yes what they think is the best men from the ages of 20 to 80 all think
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that girls are the most attractive around 22 to 24 okay but like this is a man that cannot stand on
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his own like honestly because if you honestly think that he can't stand on his own yeah because like
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they actually mind about what other people think because if you're telling me that after
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you're shaming men for their standards that's shame it's shame insult guilt need to be right
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no that's just my point of view i'm saying that i don't have an inspired date that doesn't mean that
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after because i had six year uh relationship i gave my best to someone no like if a man think this
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it means that he's not that confident to like get my best because if you are a proper man you're
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gonna get my best but see that's shame if you're saying like i'm not shaming i just don't want it
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i don't know i'll tell you why because you're saying if you're a real man if you're a proper
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man then you would think like me but that that's shaming men for what they want it doesn't it doesn't
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have to think like me i just don't want a man that think in this way just give me alone do you know
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what i mean i want a man that it comes with confidence say i'm gonna get the best of you
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point like i'm not aspiring like just because i'm 30 or yeah do you think you determine what the
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best years are do you think they determine what the best years are i think we pick each other we
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should we should actually pick the best for us me and the man also okay what do you think i think
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it depends on the situation it depends on your ages where you're right in your life obviously men
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prefer younger women so what age ranges are we saying are their best years i mean it's different
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it's different for i didn't say an age so you could say 40 you could say 45 you could say 35 you
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could say 30 that's i don't i don't tell the men what so if they're 40 or they're 45 on average
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men prefer younger women and women prefer older yeah so i'm guessing the man is older
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so so why wouldn't she expect monogamy like is he going to go younger than the 40 i'm saying okay
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i'm saying isn't that a unfair deal for men because he's not getting the things that men value
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it depends on the age to say say you're 50 and you're going out with a 40 year old
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like what would you want bro like do you know what i mean
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you should have went for a 30 year old so why did you go for the 40 that's that's the point
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but the question okay so the reason i ask this is because i think a lot of women would have better
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results if they took that off the table but they think they're a higher value than they are
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because they they're selling the same price they had at 22 that they are that they are asking for
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at 35 45 even though they're on sale they're on discount because you're you're not as you're
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you're degrading women it's not their value is they're getting less value as they get older
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wise and more wisdom and all that sort of an experience you're in everything you're evolving
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because you're you're you're telling men what to think
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i'm not telling i'm saying in this room i'm talking about now
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you're saying value me value me for my experience but like they don't want that they don't care
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you just said uh-huh that your value is is dropping in the sexual marketplace yes
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well sex isn't all that you bring as a woman you bring more things to them you bring more things
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than just sex if it's just sex then do you want to do you want to marry someone you can't have sex with
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no do you want to marry someone you can't have sex with do you want to marry do you want to marry
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sex is not the only thing for women for women for women not for men okay how big is sex to you in a relationship
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well it's it will play it will keep me in a relationship
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no honestly like one question am i like do you uh best sex with uh like 18 20 years old girl or with
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a 30 35 40 women i don't really tend to rate sex like that when i go into sex
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no because we're saying that we're dropping by age so i'm just asking from your point of view
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just do you know i'm not saying to do you know just what she's saying is about men as a collective
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yeah that's what i'm asking what she's saying is correct speaking to the matter bro yeah and what
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she is saying is correct because when women get to a certain age men do see them as less valuable
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yeah why i'm asking why because they had like i said youth purity you you automatically see a
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younger girl she looks younger she looks more attractive you think that you hope that she's
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has less mileage than an older woman so naturally your first thought is i'm dealing with someone
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who hasn't been run through who doesn't have a higher mileage her face moves there's no like botox
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foreheads right so all of this now is it about going into new relationships that's the point i'm
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trying to get to yes is that what you is that so so the point is okay if you're coming to a guy
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over a certain age is it fair to expect monogamy when you gave your best years to someone else is
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that a fair deal is that no i'm saying is that a fair deal for men to be monogamous to you when some
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other guy got your best years it's unfair to assume that a woman's given all her best years to someone
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else that's my answer because but you're telling men what to value no i'm not telling men i'm saying
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it's unfair to assume that a woman has given her best to someone else okay so that's like going up
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to guys and say they're saying hey you know i like 22 year olds maybe maybe 27 22 to 27 that's that's
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what i think is the best and then you're going up to guys and saying well that that's not my best
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years i think my best years are 30 when they're like when you say best what do you mean the most
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valuable because the most valuable but valuable in what way in in the market wants it the most
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okay so are you talking about bearing children or bearing children the way you the younger bearing
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children the way you look um low less bodies everything everything if someone is 40 and she's
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had less bodies than a 20 year old and she looks younger than the 20 year old who's more valuable
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than it again because because you're looking you're looking for an extreme extent show me
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show me show me one show me 140 show me one 40 year old that looks younger than a 20 year old i'm 35
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yeah she doesn't look 35 honestly speaking you don't look 20 honestly i never said 20 yeah
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i'd give you 30 but like 20 now okay that's from you but i'm i'm saying in general i people don't
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believe me when i say my age so if a woman like myself who doesn't look her age whose body count
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is lower than a younger person who's been run through as you're saying would that mean that i'm
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less valuable or more valuable than a younger girl who looks older than me and has had more bodies in
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in the marketplace you would fall into an exception you would find that men are extremely surprised
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potentially to the point they probably may not believe you but if we're talking about a collective
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most women will tell you that from 18 to 25 they got the most attention from men and after those years
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it dwindled and that is the point she's making what she's making is when you get to a certain age you
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become less desirable i can't really because you're not a man you wouldn't relate because you're not
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yeah but you are the exception and that's why it's blowing your mind because