Blue Pilled Only Fans Model Gets In His Feelings
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Summary
In this episode, the brother and sister duo of the sit down and discuss the topic of single mothers leaving their kids with their partner. Is it a good or bad thing when a single mother decides to leave her kids with her partner? Is it something that should be talked about or is it something you should avoid?
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That's the other like that's the other issue. I've heard is like does she respect your authority over the kids because they're not your kids
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Well, it depends how long you've been together because obviously if you're in the beginning of your relationship
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It's not gonna but if you're not respecting him in the beginning, how does he know you'll respect him in the future?
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You're respecting him, but in the same time you have to build that trust over time
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How did you feel bro just out of curiosity giving back to those three kids?
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Something that you wouldn't encourage your next man to go through. Do you regret it at all?
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I don't regret it. I don't regret it. I mean, I think it's taken a mental toll on me
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I feel like the input which I put into those children's lives, you know has been positive and I think that one day when they grow up
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But what have you sacrificed and that's what I'm saying. Yeah, it's like I wouldn't even like to have a breakup with a girl and her keep the dog
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Let alone like me attaching myself to a child and feeling like I love this kid
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I feel like it's mine, but it isn't like literally nothing to do with me after that day
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To do what I wouldn't you know, I I'm personally I believe in hope and and you know positivity
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So I would hope that you know if my son did go into that situation
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He would be able to make the right decisions to make that relationship lost
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And stick out for the long run because as I say, you know, a child needs a father
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Don't you know I'm in her to get back with the dad of her kids like isn't it better if the actual dad is in their lives? Yeah
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Yeah, so my question is if she's leaving though, and I'm not talking about your personal
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Yeah, yeah, but if she's leaving the mud like the father of her kids which more likely than not she did
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Yeah, and it's like what incentive does she have to stay with you?
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If she didn't even make it work with the guy who she had a child because we don't know
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We don't know that the dad that she was with he might have been abusing her physically
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You might have been and there's a little bit of a red pill on abuse not as many women that say they were abused were abused
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And a lot of people don't know this because of the way the family court system is you have to ask if they filed a criminal case
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And if the answer is no, they may not have been because the family court you don't need any evidence to accuse and even
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Prattly sort of prosecute where there's legal consequences a guy of abuse
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So there's a lot of girls that go around saying they're abused and they weren't I
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Just think it's a good thing to do and I don't want to lose hope in you man
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Wouldn't go as far to say that if you were to date a girl who has a child exclusively makes you a coward
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But because of my personal experience fuck I'm gonna say don't make you a coward
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But you have to definitely be scarce going into that situation with
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You know what knowingly knowing that I would just say don't do it to be honest
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Yeah, and if I if I know a guy and I think he's a good man and he's worked hard to have like to build a good career
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And he has a lot going for him. I would never tell him to risk that by dating a single mother
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It's not I don't have anything personal against single mothers
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But if I'm talking to my brother or someone I love
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Okay, because I mean looking back in the situation how much of my finances really went into raising these children and they're not actually my children
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You did you refer to them as three beautiful children
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You are passionate about them, you care about them
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No, but we have to remember he's not disposable
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No, it's another guy that's not going to come into
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Okay, I'm trying to get my head around this life
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If it is your kid biologically, what makes you think that the woman is going to stay with you more so than if it's not your kid?
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If she was to leave you, she's going to leave you regardless if it's your kid, if it's your dog, if it's your cat
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But what's the best predictor of future behaviour?
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So if she's done it before, she's likely to do it again
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Right, but something's wrong with her decision making
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Because I genuinely believe everything in life is your own goddamn fault
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So if she is a single mother, she either likes abusive and toxic men
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Which means you won't live up because she likes the drama
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She likes something about it, that's what she picks
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But maybe there's other, there's other situations
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But what about if, what about if, okay, you're saying
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Okay, she's the one that left, okay, let's flip it and reverse it
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He was the one that left her and then made her a single mother
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Do you feel that she now, because he decided to walk away from the responsibility
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Would you feel that it's okay for her to just be right off because he chose to leave?
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But I know too much about the court system here
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A lot of women, no, a lot of women keep the kids away from the fathers
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And so a lot of men grow up thinking their dad's a deadbeat and he's not
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And that's another risk you're going to get with the single mom
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Well, now I know that you're accusing a guy of abuse
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Because you don't know if she's telling the truth
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So like these are just all risk factors that go up
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Because genuinely I think women wouldn't leave as much
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If women knew if I have two kids and I don't make this work
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But they always think the grass is greener on the other side
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A whole magnitude of young kids and broken women
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Whether it's good or not, it's just not a nice thing
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Like I totally received and understood everything that you just said
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But there is a part of me that I have to say that I can't wholeheartedly go 100% and say I agree with that
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And I'm certainly not saying that men who do that are bad guys
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Yes, the memory is in those kids' minds and all of that
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If I was having an open and honest conversation with none of these cameras here with my boys
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And knew him to be doing father activities and stuff
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Yeah, be cautious of being around them children
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I probably wouldn't have much of a relationship
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