JustPearlyThings - Blue Pilled Only Fans Model Gets In His Feelings

00:00:00.000 That's the other like that's the other issue. I've heard is like does she respect your authority over the kids because they're not your kids 1.00

00:00:06.900 Well, it depends how long you've been together because obviously if you're in the beginning of your relationship

00:00:11.780 It's not gonna but if you're not respecting him in the beginning, how does he know you'll respect him in the future?

00:00:16.100 You're respecting him, but in the same time you have to build that trust over time

00:00:19.980 How did you feel bro just out of curiosity giving back to those three kids?

00:00:23.400 Would you see it as some people insinuating as

00:00:25.880 Something that you wouldn't encourage your next man to go through. Do you regret it at all?

00:00:30.160 I don't regret it. I don't regret it. I mean, I think it's taken a mental toll on me

00:00:34.920 However, I don't regret it

00:00:36.320 I feel like the input which I put into those children's lives, you know has been positive and I think that one day when they grow up

00:00:42.320 They won't they will have really appreciate

00:00:44.320 But what have you sacrificed and that's what I'm saying. Yeah, it's like I wouldn't even like to have a breakup with a girl and her keep the dog

00:00:51.640 It would fuck me. I love dogs

00:00:53.640 Let alone like me attaching myself to a child and feeling like I love this kid

00:00:59.440 I feel like it's mine, but it isn't like literally nothing to do with me after that day

00:01:05.360 Would you encourage your son to do it?

00:01:08.860 To do what I wouldn't you know, I I'm personally I believe in hope and and you know positivity

00:01:14.920 So I would hope that you know if my son did go into that situation

00:01:18.740 He would be able to make the right decisions to make that relationship lost

00:01:23.500 And stick out for the long run because as I say, you know, a child needs a father

00:01:29.260 You can be that positive

00:01:31.260 Male model in someone's life then be it 0.91

00:01:33.260 Don't you know I'm in her to get back with the dad of her kids like isn't it better if the actual dad is in their lives? Yeah 0.94

00:01:39.700 Yeah, so my question is if she's leaving though, and I'm not talking about your personal

00:01:46.240 Yeah, yeah, but if she's leaving the mud like the father of her kids which more likely than not she did 0.95

00:01:51.940 Yeah, and it's like what incentive does she have to stay with you? 0.93

00:01:56.120 If she didn't even make it work with the guy who she had a child because we don't know 0.99

00:02:00.160 We don't know that the dad that she was with he might have been abusing her physically

00:02:04.080 You might have been and there's a little bit of a red pill on abuse not as many women that say they were abused were abused 0.97

00:02:09.840 And a lot of people don't know this because of the way the family court system is you have to ask if they filed a criminal case

00:02:15.200 And if the answer is no, they may not have been because the family court you don't need any evidence to accuse and even

00:02:21.000 Prattly sort of prosecute where there's legal consequences a guy of abuse

00:02:26.080 So there's a lot of girls that go around saying they're abused and they weren't I 1.00

00:02:30.520 Just think it's a good thing to do and I don't want to lose hope in you man

00:02:33.580 I

00:02:35.580 Wouldn't go as far to say that if you were to date a girl who has a child exclusively makes you a coward 0.99

00:02:41.040 But because of my personal experience fuck I'm gonna say don't make you a coward

00:02:44.340 But you have to definitely be scarce going into that situation with

00:02:48.500 You know what knowingly knowing that I would just say don't do it to be honest

00:02:56.660 I think that men deserve to have standards

00:03:00.400 Yeah, and if I if I know a guy and I think he's a good man and he's worked hard to have like to build a good career

00:03:05.160 And he has a lot going for him. I would never tell him to risk that by dating a single mother 1.00

00:03:09.660 It's not I don't have anything personal against single mothers 1.00

00:03:12.280 But if I'm talking to my brother or someone I love

00:03:14.860 No, I wouldn't want them to do that

00:03:16.860 Okay, because I mean looking back in the situation how much of my finances really went into raising these children and they're not actually my children

00:03:23.860 And what did you get out of my time?

00:03:25.860 Yeah, I haven't got much out of it

00:03:27.860 You did you refer to them as three beautiful children

00:03:32.860 You are passionate about them, you care about them

00:03:34.860 And they care about you

00:03:35.860 No, but we have to remember he's not disposable

00:03:36.860 That's priceless

00:03:37.860 Their mum could just turn around to me 1.00

00:03:38.860 But you're disposable

00:03:39.860 If it is your children

00:03:40.860 No, it's another guy that's not going to come into

00:03:42.860 Okay, I'm trying to get my head around this life

00:03:44.860 If it is your kid biologically, what makes you think that the woman is going to stay with you more so than if it's not your kid?

00:03:49.860 If she was to leave you, she's going to leave you regardless if it's your kid, if it's your dog, if it's your cat

00:03:52.860 Right, right, right

00:03:53.860 But what's the best predictor of future behaviour?

00:03:55.860 Yes

00:03:56.860 Past behaviour

00:03:57.860 So if she's done it before, she's likely to do it again

00:04:00.860 But we need to understand why

00:04:02.860 No, but you need to know the whole story

00:04:04.860 What's to say that she

00:04:06.860 The why is very important

00:04:07.860 Right, but something's wrong with her decision making

00:04:10.860 No, but it may not have been with her

00:04:12.860 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait

00:04:13.860 Something is wrong, okay

00:04:14.860 Because I genuinely believe everything in life is your own goddamn fault

00:04:17.860 You are the product of your choices, okay

00:04:20.860 So if she is a single mother, she either likes abusive and toxic men 0.99

00:04:23.860 Which means you won't live up because she likes the drama 0.98

00:04:26.860 She likes something about it, that's what she picks

00:04:28.860 Or, or she leaves when it gets hard

00:04:32.860 But maybe there's other, there's other situations

00:04:35.860 But what about if, what about if, okay, you're saying

00:04:39.860 Okay, she's the one that left, okay, let's flip it and reverse it 0.70

00:04:43.860 He was the one that left her and then made her a single mother 0.98

00:04:47.860 Good question

00:04:48.860 Do you feel that she now, because he decided to walk away from the responsibility

00:04:54.860 Because it got too much for him

00:04:55.860 I would first

00:04:56.860 Would you feel that it's okay for her to just be right off because he chose to leave?

00:05:01.860 I would say she has a poor choice in men 1.00

00:05:04.860 Yeah, I would say, I would say that says

00:05:06.860 How could you say

00:05:07.860 How could you

00:05:08.860 Yeah, you're still blaming her

00:05:09.860 No, I think he shouldn't leave

00:05:11.860 I think it's wrong for him to leave

00:05:13.860 But I know too much about the court system here

00:05:15.860 Like I know too much

00:05:16.860 A lot of women, no, a lot of women keep the kids away from the fathers 1.00

00:05:20.860 Facts

00:05:21.860 They absolutely do

00:05:22.860 And so a lot of men grow up thinking their dad's a deadbeat and he's not

00:05:26.860 And that's another risk you're going to get with the single mom 1.00

00:05:29.860 You're only hearing her side of the story

00:05:31.860 No, and I understand that

00:05:32.860 So you don't know the full picture

00:05:34.860 So if she's saying, oh, he abused me, he this

00:05:37.860 Well, now I know that you're accusing a guy of abuse

00:05:40.860 She could accuse you of abuse

00:05:42.860 Because you don't know if she's telling the truth

00:05:44.860 No, I understand that

00:05:45.860 No, I understand that

00:05:46.860 So like these are just all risk factors that go up

00:05:49.860 So I think men deserve to have standards

00:05:51.860 I think men can demand 0.98

00:05:52.860 I want an in-shape, childless woman 1.00

00:05:54.860 I think men have every right to say that

00:05:56.860 And they should

00:05:57.860 Because genuinely I think women wouldn't leave as much

00:06:00.860 If men stopped putting up with this

00:06:02.860 If women knew if I have two kids and I don't make this work 1.00

00:06:05.860 Nobody is going to want me

00:06:07.860 I think they would figure it out a lot more

00:06:09.860 But they always think the grass is greener on the other side

00:06:12.860 And a lot of times it's not

00:06:14.860 You know what?

00:06:15.860 Sometimes I have to disagree

00:06:16.860 But in this instance she's kind of right

00:06:18.860 No, no, no

00:06:19.860 I get what you're saying

00:06:21.860 But I mean like you were saying

00:06:24.860 Where does that leave

00:06:25.860 It's just, it's unfortunate

00:06:27.860 A whole magnitude of young kids and broken women 1.00

00:06:31.860 Are going to be ostracised and marginalised

00:06:33.860 That's not nice

00:06:34.860 Whether it's good or not, it's just not a nice thing

00:06:36.860 But it's honest

00:06:38.860 No, it is honest

00:06:40.860 But at the same time

00:06:42.860 It hurts me, it breaks my heart

00:06:44.860 It kind of, you know

00:06:45.860 It's, I don't know

00:06:46.860 Like I totally received and understood everything that you just said

00:06:50.860 Facts, facts, factually

00:06:51.860 But there is a part of me that I have to say that I can't wholeheartedly go 100% and say I agree with that

00:06:58.860 Because like you stated

00:07:00.860 Like, you know, your father wasn't there

00:07:03.860 Never

00:07:04.860 And another person stepped in

00:07:06.860 Idiot

00:07:07.860 And like you said it didn't fill the gap

00:07:09.860 But he's the exception of the rule

00:07:10.860 And those men who are willing to do that

00:07:12.860 They're great guys

00:07:13.860 You know your stepdad, great guy

00:07:15.860 He's my role model

00:07:16.860 And I'm certainly not saying that men who do that are bad guys

00:07:19.860 They're great

00:07:20.860 I mean

00:07:21.860 But equally

00:07:22.860 As he found out

00:07:23.860 It's a risk

00:07:24.860 All this energy

00:07:25.860 All this money

00:07:26.860 All this time

00:07:27.860 And then have nothing to show for it

00:07:28.860 And don't get me wrong

00:07:29.860 Yes, the memory is in those kids' minds and all of that

00:07:31.860 That's a lovely thing

00:07:32.860 But reality is

00:07:33.860 What did it take out to him?

00:07:35.860 And if I was giving advice to my kid

00:07:37.860 And I think

00:07:38.860 If I was having an open and honest conversation with none of these cameras here with my boys

00:07:41.860 We'd all say ideally

00:07:43.860 It's not the ideal scenario

00:07:44.860 Yeah, but to say it's a risk

00:07:46.860 It's almost to insinuate that it's risk-free

00:07:48.860 I would go further

00:07:49.860 I would say never do it

00:07:50.860 I would say don't do it

00:07:51.860 But you can't say that

00:07:52.860 I mean

00:07:53.860 Go through what I went through

00:07:54.860 Yeah

00:07:55.860 And being in the relationship

00:07:57.860 And having these children sort of

00:07:59.860 If I can paint the picture

00:08:00.860 You know

00:08:01.860 One of the children was

00:08:02.860 Two years old when I came into her life

00:08:05.860 You know what I mean?

00:08:06.860 So she only really saw me as a father figure

00:08:08.860 The other two children were a little bit older

00:08:10.860 So they knew their dad

00:08:11.860 Yeah

00:08:12.860 And knew him to be doing father activities and stuff

00:08:15.860 But

00:08:16.860 When I came in

00:08:17.860 I was like their dad

00:08:18.860 So from when we broke up

00:08:20.860 And I have

00:08:21.860 I no longer have

00:08:22.860 Access to them children as much as I did

00:08:24.860 If I was to get into a love relationship now

00:08:27.860 If the person had children

00:08:29.860 I wouldn't totally write off

00:08:30.860 But I would

00:08:31.860 Be cautious

00:08:32.860 Yeah, be cautious of being around them children

00:08:34.860 I probably wouldn't have much of a relationship

00:08:35.860 And that's understandable from your experience

00:08:37.860 I understand

00:08:38.860 I understand it logically and practically

00:08:39.860 But what I don't like

00:08:40.860 Is the

00:08:43.860 The reference to risk

00:08:45.860 Riskiness

00:08:46.860 This term

00:08:47.860 Because life

00:08:48.860 Life is a risk

00:08:50.860 Life is a risk

00:08:51.860 You marry a woman 1.00

00:08:52.860 Exactly

00:08:53.860 Down the aisle

00:08:54.860 And you say

00:08:55.860 Yeah I do

00:08:56.860 Mate, if you think

00:08:57.860 You are risk free from her cheating on you

00:08:58.860 You're crazy

00:08:59.860 Everything's a risk

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JustPearlyThings - May 02, 2023

Blue Pilled Only Fans Model Gets In His Feelings

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