Brittany Renner REVEALS The Truth Behind Her Story
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Brittany Renner is one of the most notorious people in the manosphere. In this episode, we talk about her origin story, how she became a villain, and how she came to be the villain she is today.
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What up, guys? Welcome to the Just Pearly Things YouTube channel, and welcome to Sit Downs with Pearl, where I sit down with some guests from my show, and we talk about different stuff. Today, I have a special guest, Brittany Renner.
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The man, the woman, the myth, the legend. Welcome to the show.
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Thank you for coming. So, today, we are going to talk about, you are one of the most notorious people in the manosphere.
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And I think that I kind of represent that average viewer that knows a bit about you, but not the whole story.
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So, I was hoping to start from the beginning. How did this reputation come about? And do you feel like it is deserved?
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I do feel that it's deserved because what I've come to understand is that I have misrepresented myself for a very long time.
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And I would say that my villain origin story was I had first moved to L.A. in 2014, was linking up with someone after my breakup with a guy I was with for four years.
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And TMZ put out an article and claimed that I said I was pregnant by Colin Kaepernick, right?
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Wait. Okay. So, you were with a guy for four years? That's right.
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And you were dating Colin Kaepernick at the time?
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I had like posted him for like my Man Crush Monday.
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This was like Instagram a long time ago when there was Woman Crush Wednesdays, Man Crush Monday.
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So, I had posted him and I put like perfection and then I added him.
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But they had posted it and then TMZ ran the story.
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And I felt like from that moment on, I was labeled a villain.
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And you have to understand, I was in a relationship for four years.
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Like most people know the white guy that I used to date.
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And they photoshopped it to say preggers at his username.
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So, they were like, this girl claims that she's…
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They were saying that you claimed that you were…
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I looked it up last night to see if the article was still up.
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So, at that moment in time, I realized that even though by…
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Per society standards, I was someone who, you know…
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So, I think as time progressed, I really just tried to fake it till I could make it.
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Like, especially in high school, like growing up, I never felt like I was just top tier beautiful.
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Never feeling pretty as even my natural self, like where I am now.
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So, how I started even like posting videos and having… and being maybe like overly sexual
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was because I was like, I want to feel like this bad bitch.
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I saw the stuff you did with Fresh and Fit, EJ Academics.
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Like, there's little interviews here and there.
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I would just say that I started like dating period.
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So, I would say that the villain came about was…
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Like, to even be in certain rooms with people were… it was unheard of.
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I never thought these guys would even know I existed.
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So, I felt like there was still that like starry-eyed element where I didn't know what I was doing.
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I felt like I had been like thrown into Disney World, so to speak.
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Like, the world is at your fingertips and again, all these high value men are now seeking you.
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And again, I'm a girl from Ocean Springs, Mississippi.
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So, I think that's where over-sexualizing myself and really pitching into that.
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That's like the whole bad bitch like wanting to feel like something I didn't…
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So, were you sleeping with a lot of these guys and then like posting stuff on social media?
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Besides that post where I had, you know, made him my man crush Monday, I didn't even say that we were dating.
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You know, I never… it's not like I was like, hey, look at me.
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So, I'm just trying to understand because there's one article that's a one-off, right?
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You know, you can kind of recover from one article, in my opinion anyway.
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Well, I mean, because I'm saying this because this is literally on like TMZ.
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So, after that, when I was talking to him, I kind of moved on because I'm like, whatever, you're robotic, we move on.
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Oh, TMZ, we're like asking him questions about, because like my fitness group was like the Fit Thick Army.
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So, then that's kind of where it just started to…
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And then, yeah, like I, especially when I first got on social media, it was a different place, right?
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So, I was like, when I'm done with you, I'm going to move on.
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So, it was just like, you were linked with rapper, entertainer…
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And I feel like that's where a lot of people are like, she's a whore.
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But it's like, there's articles where someone took a picture of me at the movie theater with a guy.
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So, I would say now, you know, when you've kind of figured out how the world works,
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you try to be a bit more mindful about who you even step out with.
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But you can't control if people take pictures of you.
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Like, I'm going to post somebody that's my man.
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Again, I'm a 21, 22 year old posted that man crush Monday.
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And so then, basically, because you were linked to all these different guys…
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Now, that's when the reputation started to build.
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What I know of the book is that you basically exposed a lot of people in the book.
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Basically, all the stuff you've been doing, you put in the book.
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And while you might not have said their names exactly, it was pretty easy for people to
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My book was like a 25-year-old's memoir, basically.
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Seven relationships, like situationships, whatever you want to call them.
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The most salacious stories or sexipades, they weren't even in there.
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Now, again, I know the salacious marketing was intentional because I knew people were thinking
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But when people actually read it, any person who's read my book is like, wait, this is
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So, those seven people really helped… were like pivotal moments for me.
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So, again, I took what came with the salacious marketing.
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And again, misrepresenting myself is just that, right?
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I had no problem with doing, you know, using my tactics to get copies sold.
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And what came with that is she's not trustworthy.
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If you've never read my book, it's like what I'm saying doesn't even make sense.
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Because you would actually have to physically read it.
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That's why the book is called Judge This Cover.
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There are people that just took little snippets from each chapter.
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I was talking about spitting in his mouth or paying for flights.
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So, there's just things in there that I felt like people did not want to understand me.
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You didn't open the book so your opinion doesn't fucking matter about the book.
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Read it and then tell me how you feel about me.
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Were any of the people that were in the book mad that you wrote the book?
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Um, the conversations I've had, because there's maybe like two guys in there that I have not spoken to.
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The other five I've had conversations with since.
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One of the people I had actually asked me to market them as one of the people in it.
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Other guys in my life, just in general, were asked like why they weren't in it.
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But most of the guys I had a good relationship with were still cool.
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I mean, there was one chapter I spoke to recently.
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He was like, I was just waiting for you to say my name so I could have sued you for everything.
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But he was like, I understood your perspective.
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So none of the guys had hurt feelings over the book.
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Well, so that seems, because I kind of thought, um, you know, you know, you know,
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like from what I had heard is that some of the guys maybe weren't happy they were in
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But I think the people that weren't happy about it, the two that I'm thinking of in my
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So you don't think like, because I'm just thinking, I just know how the guys are going
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Like, you're choosing to publicly link with these people.
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But it's like, if you're making a choice to go after the, like, rappers, athletes, like
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that sort of thing, of course people are going to call you a hoe.
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But it goes back to my original question, whether you think it's earned or not.
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Well, I think there's, that I have misrepresented myself because again, I, Bundle of Britney is
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like her own, that's like a Frankenstein I have created.
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And that's like a fraction, even just the time we've spent the past few days together, probably
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You know, so that's what I have used to get views and get clicks.
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And I've realized that I don't have to do that anymore.
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So that's where the misrepresentation comes in.
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But again, a hoe, and I guess in this sphere, right, is someone who has sex with multiple
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Well, then that's not a term I'm going to shy away from.
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Now I'm not going to take that word and be like, I'm so unworthy.
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Like, that's how they want to distinguish what category women fall under.
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So that part you don't necessarily feel like was misrepresented based on how the guys would
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So then next, next, this is where I heard of you first.
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So we met, he, he actually came to my hosting, um, in 2018, May of 2018.
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Um, I, he invited me to his, his, his game at UK, February, 2019.
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So I went to two Kentucky games and that's when we first started talking.
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Like after my birthday, we talked almost every single day and I was aware, like, he's
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I always had a lot of judgment towards guys who were younger than me.
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Um, but I always felt like PJ saw me for me and that is the fucking God honest truth.
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Cause like, I don't know, you just think people get you and it just doesn't work out.
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So that's why I overlooked some of those things like the age.
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I overlooked that because I felt like, Oh my God, I finally have a guy who doesn't judge
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me, who sees me for me and like accepts it and understands my value.
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So I felt like he was somebody that like deserved all my time and attention.
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And you know, it just didn't end up working out long term.
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Like they, they said, cause essentially what, what just to give context to the viewers at
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If you guys don't know anything about Brittany, I saw a video of you where you were in the
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car saying how this is basically how to, you can kind of get a kid off of an NBA player.
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And it's really easy because these guys don't wear condom and it's something to that effect.
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So then a couple of years later when you, you have a kid off an NBA player, it looks, it's
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And especially that he's a lot younger than you.
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So what, what did you feel like was misrepresented there?
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So to give a little bit more context to the video too, especially I think I made this video
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in 2018 and I was in my car ranting, you know, like I always do.
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And people were saying that, you know, you're a gold digger, you're this and you're that.
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This was when, was that when you also said that you pay for your own flights too?
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I'm trying to, I would have to go to my archive and play the video in its entirety to be able
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Because there were other times I talked about paying for my flights.
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Um, but in that video, I was saying that if I really was a gold digger, I could have several
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And so it was an attempt to make a group of people look bad.
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Cause I'm like, what are you guys talking about?
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And I don't, and I don't ever try to deny that.
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The people that I was encountering, not even like an athlete thing.
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A lot of guys don't wear condoms, but it was surprising to me that people of such high
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And as a young person and you're not even young person.
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So in your head, you were saying like, fuck the haters.
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I could have a kid that none of these people, if you wanted to catch a kid by an NBA player.
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So that's where that, the context of that video.
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And then I met PJ, like we started talking when he was 20 years old.
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But I'm telling you when I met him, I just felt like, and like genuinely.
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So a lot of people tried to like, I don't know.
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I feel like they tried to tell me how I felt and like my intentions.
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Like I know the person that I was sitting across from at BJ's when we had our first date in Kentucky and Lexington.
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Like you can't, you can't tell me that, you know?
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I personally think 20 is old enough to make your own decision.
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I put myself when I was 20 and I'm thinking you can't really be groomed at 20 years old.
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But for some reason, I feel like back then they said that you, something about you met him in high school.
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The 200,000 a month, the meeting him when he was in high school.
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Again, like even when I first was like, I met PJ when I went to Kentucky, I was talking to someone who played on the Nuggets at the time.
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And it was something that I kind of had a history with.
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And when I met PJ and we had that connection, I immediately cut the guy from the Nuggets off.
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I did not know he existed when he was in fucking high school.
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What am I worried about a fucking kid in high school for?
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But that's where people just make up their own shit.
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So it's like, well, I can't really, you guys are going to say what the fuck you want to say.
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All I can do is sit here and tell you the truth.
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So we talked from February 2019 to February 2020.
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Now, I don't know what he was doing, who he was doing it with, whatever.
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I had my own place, but I was staying in his apartment.
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We were basically kind of living together already.
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He asked me to move in with him in the summertime.
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So we had been a year and a half at least familiar with one another, but exclusive probably those six, eight months.
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I mean, my son is Paul Jermaine Washington III.
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You guys sat down and said, I want to have a kid.
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And I was on birth control for 10 years because I never wanted to go through an abortion.
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I'm like, well, if I can prevent it and I'd rather be safe.
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I'm definitely not trying to have anybody's child.
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So I got off birth control and there was a conversation.
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So it wasn't some, oops, I came in you and you got pregnant.
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You know, I mean, there's some things like, again, we can share perspective.
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But the facts of the matter are, he was planned.
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You know, I always thought PJ was like kind of quiet and more to himself.
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So I don't actually see him ever really doing an interview.
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Like, I feel like now he's, when we broke up, how everything pans out was like very public
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And you can be as detailed or not detailed as you want.
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There were some things like, cause I had never gone through anybody's phone and like my,
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Because I felt like if I have to go through your phone.
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Again, this was the summer, like, you know, a few months before I got pregnant, found some
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And I found out stuff that like, he had sex with someone in the beginning of our relationship.
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And I moved all of my, all my whole life to Charlotte, North Carolina to be with him.
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I've never forgiven anyone because I've never caught anyone cheating on me.
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So I can, I choose to understand and to forgive you.
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And so one of my best friends, when we were talking about how we were like, basically trying
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to get pregnant, she was like, do you think that's a good idea?
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Because you just found out all this stuff, right?
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And she's like, I don't think that's a good foundation.
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But I'm just going to try to overlook it and move on.
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So with that knowledge, again, this is where I have to take accountability too.
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It's just like, and we talked about this a little bit before.
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I've seen, I've said this before, but I've seen him at the D3 level.
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No, I mean, I just saw how those guys would like move around campus.
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And first hand, you've been dealing with these guys for like a decade.
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And that's just where I kind of just take it on the chin.
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And I'm like, I believed in someone and it just didn't work out.
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And I know, and he knows, the conversations and the consistency that I thought, you know,
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like this was more than enough for me to trust it.
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And I, again, I can accept my responsibility in that for overlooking certain things that
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really should have, I should have paid more attention to.
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Why didn't you ever look for like just a normal guy with like a nine to five?
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Because it's just, guys will always say like, pay attention to what they do, not what they say.
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And it's like, a lot of times we'll complain about getting like cheated on or something, right?
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And then, you know, we overlook the nine to five guy who won't.
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I would say that, I mean, the, my first boyfriend I met in college, he was regular guy and I loved him to death.
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I had, I had dated a lawyer during that, during that span.
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I broke up with him because it got abusive on both ends.
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But this is, this is just, just from the guy's perspective, like they're, they're going to be like, okay, well, that was the guy who wouldn't cheat, but you dumped him.
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Well, it got to a place where he was very, I mean, he was condescending and emotionally really abusive.
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And then it got to a place where you're pushing me.
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And now I'm putting my hands on you because I'm trying to defend myself.
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It didn't have nothing to do with whether you cheated or not.
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Like I feel like once, and this is me, once that respect is lost, for whatever reason, and then I all put your hands on each other, it has to end because there's only one way it's going to end.
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It only gets progressively worse, in my opinion, in my experience.
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You're putting your hands on me, doing all the other stuff.
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Because again, it's just like from, like a lot of times we'll say these things about guys, but it's like, it's the question is like me if I'm getting punched in the face.
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It was more so you were like bruising my arms and pushing me down and little stuff like that.
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And I know I, if he would have punched me in the face, that would have also be a different thing.
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So yeah, I feel like it was leading up to being punched in the face.
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But bruises on my arms to me is a little more than enough.
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But you would agree that's like mutually abusive.
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I said, yeah, I never said, oh my God, no, like it got to a place where I'm like, all right, now I'm about to start putting my hands on you too.
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And that's the thing, like, I think a lot of times you actually do, you know, agree with like a lot of the stuff I say, which is interesting.
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I was just expecting to disagree with you on like everything when you came on some level.
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But no, you actually are more base than I thought you were going to be.
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I think that it's foreign to me because, or I would say probably a lot of females as well, because I can honestly say, I'll speak for myself because I don't want to speak for everybody.
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I never thought about, biologically speaking, what makes sense.
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I never thought about how in marriage, you know, especially if the man makes more, that it's kind of a shitty contract on their end.
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That doesn't make sense, you know, unless we're signing prenups, right?
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So it's just like, since I've been listening to your contents and I knew I was going to get on here, I started to like you a lot more, right?
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It's easy to just kind of take a clip from you and be like, oh my God, she's this, she's that.
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I personally like you, like your personality is why I got on a seven hour flight.
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And I knew that even though I may not agree, and I think that, and not even about agreeing, even though I may not just limit it to just that, like that perspective, I respect it.
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There's really not a lot of stuff I think is untrue.
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And I just have told you, even when we were speaking off camera, that this is a newer mentality.
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I don't know what this mentality would mean to society as a whole.
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We kind of talked about the arranged marriages and what would that mean for society as a whole, right?
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And I think, I can't remember the verbiage you used when we were talking about how the arranged marriages and how women, if we had dreams and stuff, we wanted to explore on what that outcome would look like.
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You said the term, I don't remember the term you used though.
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And all I can do is just be honest about, like, this is the expression that is coded within me.
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And I am willing to accept the consequences that comes behind it.
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So I don't ask for people to look at me through a different lens.
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I'm just kind of here to be myself and just showcase another perspective.
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So I'm thinking, you do the, looking back, was there anything that you would do differently?
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And is there a different advice that you would give to a 20 year old girl that has the same opportunities that you did?
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I think the biggest thing that I would want to do differently is...
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Well, I will say, I have to be honest with myself because I think it's easy to take the cliche route and say, like, I would do nothing differently.
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Now, from the wisdom I have acquired, no, I would not change this wisdom for a clean slate.
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But I will say, to 20 year olds, and even to my 20 year old self, I hate how I allowed myself to just be, like, used up by men.
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I did not understand my value that I was born with.
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Again, people look at sex differently, but sex is spiritual unification.
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At the end of the day, I don't care how you spin it.
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And people that I shared my body with, when I think about my list, it's repulsive.
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But that was an outcome of me discounting my worth.
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I hate even having that spiritual tie in any type of way.
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But yeah, I would absolutely change sexually how I move around.
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And not even necessarily because of, like, the societal outcome.
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It's like, what's how it makes you, like, feel?
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Yeah, it doesn't feel good knowing that you gave a sacred part of you to a man that looked at sex with you as taking a piss.
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And I feel like I've beat myself up every single day for my decisions.
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And what people say about me online holds no candle to what I've told myself on a daily basis.
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And I felt like I was unworthy for a very long time.
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And I would say, this is more of a recent awareness.
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Where I'm like, Brittany, you were always enough.
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Like, you never had to seek validation outside of you.
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I would try to tell women, you should really think about who you're laying down with.
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But it's like, sex is not even worth it if they don't give a fuck about you.
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They have no desire to, they don't want to know your favorite color.
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And sometimes that's why the used goods comments, they sting.
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The guy that I'm, that most likely, that I'm not looking for a husband.
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I'm looking for my husband and there's a difference.
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That guy is going to be a very small percentage.
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But I will say moving forward, like talking to any girl, to you, you know, whoever's listening.
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Like, you really should think about why you're doing what you're doing.
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As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok.
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And we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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