JustPearlyThings - Brittany Renner's Ideal Man

00:00:00.000 do this but I really wish I could have interviewed him or like had him on my

00:00:04.140 show like that's the one person that I I just we used to watch it's like you

00:00:08.280 watched him so much you felt like you knew him absolutely and I don't talk to

00:00:11.760 I think I talked to him twice like once about my channel and once about an ex

00:00:15.840 like boyfriend of mine and it was like I don't know you just like felt like you

00:00:21.600 knew him even though like I'd only talked to him twice really yeah and I

00:00:24.480 think people underestimated how much he really cared he put a lot of time energy

00:00:28.080 and effort into talking about family structures and talk and having people

00:00:31.920 be accountable and calling out the the I have a PhD you know die with a dog like 1.00

00:00:37.580 he called out a lot of things that are gonna be people's reality if they don't

00:00:41.520 look at their lives now so I think that's why a lot of his content was rub people

00:00:46.020 the wrong way my perspective you know everyone has their own feelings but

00:00:49.860 because he was necessary he was about outcomes not really what felt good yep

00:00:53.820 and a lot of people would like I hate it when people would like question is

00:00:58.060 intentions are like that it is you know what I'm just like what who cares his

00:01:02.140 outcomes are good he has people making videos about how they got married because

00:01:05.980 of him yeah and it's like how can you argue with outcomes right what do you so

00:01:13.780 did you answer did you take his advice yeah I started focusing more on the

00:01:19.120 business and figuring out like what do I even like to do like how do I plan to make

00:01:23.260 money like what is gonna change here like there's relationship advice that

00:01:29.260 what oh relationship advice um well we talked more about business okay yeah our

00:01:35.800 like the stuff that we talked about it like when we would talk on the phone

00:01:39.580 every now and then um funny you talk to me about business yeah first time more

00:01:44.080 business so that's why I like when it came to relationships we didn't really talk

00:01:50.260 about that stuff not really mm-hmm to be honest because I just feel like that I

00:01:54.880 wasn't really focused on that I was trying to figure out my life I have a kid

00:01:57.980 now and I feel like he was you know he was really insightful that first of that

00:02:02.920 perspective and topic so yeah I'm looking at the question what are the pros and cons

00:02:09.580 only fans only fans are we talking about like typically what people post on only fans are

00:02:17.560 like are these people like posting like like cooking corn oh or corn to to nudes nudes okay um

00:02:26.800 I have I think it's easy money I don't think there's gonna be much longevity with it and I

00:02:39.580 for me I don't like the idea of selling a picture of me like a personal picture

00:02:48.280 that maybe I'd send a guy like well you can subscribe for like $10 and you can

00:02:52.240 see it and I think it just takes away intimacy for me um I think it's too

00:03:01.060 invasive but there are people who obviously make money sex workers that do can I say

00:03:05.760 that sex workers okay um sex workers that make bank and they serve their like 0.93

00:03:13.800 there's an audience for that they say they fulfill their audiences desires but

00:03:18.240 it's not for me I wouldn't want to do it no I don't like taking the easy way out

00:03:23.580 either and that's just my opinion I think it's an easy way out but it's not

00:03:26.880 like you're not actually asking yourself what you want to do and you're not

00:03:30.840 thinking about longevity unless you're using that money to like invest in other

00:03:35.580 things but most likely or not and then not only now you kind of have to carry

00:03:39.840 that stigma of you sell content online and there's guys that don't care about

00:03:45.660 that but like the stuff we've been talking about there's more guys that care that

00:03:49.620 you're an OnlyFans girl than not so I feel like why do it if you don't have to you know 0.73

00:03:54.520 because it's just like I feel like it has such a mark yeah see we we agree again 0.96

00:03:59.740 yeah I would avoid it I'm like I already got enough fucking shit okay I can't be 0.96

00:04:05.500 adding now and I just feel like it's easy way out do you think you could 0.99

00:04:09.100 respect a man and submit to a man that makes significantly less than you so forty 0.64

00:04:13.840 five thousand dollars a year yes but it's it's not about the money that brings the

00:04:18.080 respect it's about it's about the Mufasa energy and like really caring about me

00:04:22.120 and respecting me and valuing me have you ever met a guy that makes 45k a year

00:04:26.260 that has the Mufasa energy the only guy I've talked to besides like my first

00:04:34.720 boyfriend and the lawyer I don't even I really haven't had many guys oh wait I'm

00:04:40.900 trying to think I talked to a trainer mm-hmm we talked about the last night

00:04:45.460 what was the question again could I could you respect like you submit to him

00:04:50.020 yeah cuz I respect him I'm gonna submit to him that's naturally what I want to do

00:04:54.160 like I want somebody who's gonna love he says he says don't go don't go out would

00:04:58.540 you would you delete your Instagram that's my moneymaker so if I'm not if I

00:05:03.760 don't care about a guy's money that means obviously I'm taking care of like

00:05:07.240 myself and providing the lifestyle that I want for myself so I wouldn't delete my

00:05:10.960 moneymaker now would you would you go down in lifestyle for a family go down in

00:05:15.920 lifestyle but what does that mean because I provide my own okay so okay so

00:05:19.760 this is this is like often Kevin Samuels would talk about how women don't want a

00:05:24.320 husband they want the lifestyle I know you you've kind of agreed with that a

00:05:28.080 little bit because a lot of people do want a lot of people do because they

00:05:31.080 don't have any earning potential so and I like his point was back in the day you

00:05:35.540 would work you both would work at times and you'd have to work twice as hard

00:05:40.460 just to have children so it's like you wouldn't you and he wouldn't make like 0.99

00:05:44.600 more money so it would be like try not to butcher this too much sorry Kevin

00:05:49.880 Samuels okay but so the whole point is like you don't get to go on trips you

00:05:54.980 can't go to London for a week you can't I mean this is different because you but

00:05:59.060 you see what I'm saying you don't get to go on trips you don't get to eat at

00:06:01.660 like even growing up we even though we were in a 1% family like I was very much

00:06:05.720 jealous of some of the lifestyle that some of my friends lived like where they

00:06:10.400 would eat out they had cable like we didn't have cable TV my parents like I

00:06:14.160 want to say we still went on vacations but we never flew and it's like a lot of

00:06:18.160 times like women would rather have the lifestyle than a family well to me what 1.00

00:06:22.820 you're describing sounds like money management because that's you make money

00:06:26.660 and the reason that your family has stayed wealthy is because they don't eat

00:06:30.580 out every night they're not taking trips here they're everywhere they are even

00:06:35.600 though you guys could do that right it's like that sounds like just money

00:06:39.220 management they do they do now I will say yeah but that sounds like money

00:06:43.180 management that sounds smart so yeah if you have more kids it doesn't make sense

00:06:46.960 to go out and spend $300 at Outback when you could buy groceries right but the

00:06:51.280 whole point is like let's say you deleted your Instagram tomorrow you you could

00:06:55.120 hypothetically get a part-time job make 20,000 a year date a guy that makes

00:06:58.900 $50,000 a year that's 70k you could live off of that it just wouldn't be the

00:07:03.100 lifestyle you'd want yeah and so that's that's the whole question is like would

00:07:07.020 you go down and lifestyle for a family because you get you get a family out of

00:07:10.980 it and that's like legacy that's like what we all want yeah it's like a lot of

00:07:15.640 times as women we don't want to give up you know the nails done the hair done the

00:07:21.220 makeup yeah all of that you know my answer is gonna be no because that's

00:07:26.640 something I can provide for myself so I would never downgrade my lifestyle

00:07:30.900 because again I'm not asking a man to provide something I can't provide for

00:07:34.160 myself so again I feel like I'm very I've gotten so much better at money

00:07:39.800 management not spending $600 at Sephora you know what I mean I feel like

00:07:43.820 there's because I have a son now because I have to think of money and be a lot

00:07:48.540 smarter I have downgraded my lifestyle already so to go from this six figures a

00:07:55.280 year to 20,000 doesn't make sense like I want to tap into my fullest potential me

00:08:00.020 tapping into my fullest potential does not entail working 20,000 working a $20,000

00:08:04.160 a year job it just doesn't that's not what I'm here to do I wouldn't be given

00:08:07.940 this platform I wouldn't be given this voice if I was if I was meant to have a

00:08:11.260 $20,000 a year job that's just what it is like and I'm just speaking for me mm-hmm

00:08:15.740 like I'm meant to do this so I just can't relate to that now do you think it's

00:08:20.900 possible to find traditional women in today's world traditional no no you

00:08:27.960 don't know exist uh I want to go looking for one I would say yeah I'm gonna say

00:08:33.980 now let me know in the comments where do you find them yeah I feel like they

00:08:37.560 would probably have to be like super maybe super religious all right I'm not

00:08:42.220 trying to I'm only reading the question yes so but no I don't what is your ideal man

00:08:46.780 now I'm still figuring that out I feel like there's like like what kind of how

00:08:55.660 we were talking about off-camera as well I have not liked what I've been

00:08:59.440 attracting mm-hmm so I'm going into my inner world mm-hmm and right moving some 0.93

00:09:07.120 things around addressing some shit answering questions like even this I 0.91

00:09:11.380 don't know I don't know what to tell you right now there are things that in 0.95

00:09:15.340 myself that require more attention than like what do I want in a guy mm-hmm like

00:09:19.240 I'm art like it is my thought process I'm already looking at a small percentage

00:09:22.720 of men so why am I gonna dedicate ideally what I would want in a guy mm-hmm I'd

00:09:30.160 rather just keep it open like if I go to the mall and say I want a red bottom

00:09:34.360 with spiked heel and it has a pink bow and it has to have this I go to the mall

00:09:38.920 and it's nowhere to be found mm-hmm what if I just as many of you know I was

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JustPearlyThings - December 29, 2022

Brittany Renner's Ideal Man

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