JustPearlyThings - Calling Out Women On Their DELUSION @vtsoscast

00:00:00.000 Okay. So we've got about 10 minutes left, 15 minutes left. So I know you wanted to flip the

00:00:05.020 table on me. Ask me some questions. Nothing's off the table. Nothing's off the table. Just like I

00:00:14.040 asked you every question. You didn't tell me anything was off the table. You can ask me

00:00:17.900 anything. Fair game. All right. What is the biggest thing you've learned from doing these shows?

00:00:26.460 The biggest thing I've learned from doing these shows. Yeah. Like, like, um, doing interviewing

00:00:34.120 so many people has given me a different point of view on the world. Has that been the same for you

00:00:39.960 or is your worldview pretty much the same? Absolutely agree with you. The, that everybody,

00:00:47.000 everybody deserves respect. I know we talked about that a lot. And, um, one of probably the most

00:00:54.220 poignant example of that was I interviewed a guy called Daryl Davis. Do you know who that is?

00:01:00.680 He's the black musician that a lot of times plays in the South and he, um, be friends

00:01:08.680 the KKK members and over time convinces them to not even convinces them, spark something within them 0.52

00:01:18.600 to leave the KKK to the point where they will take off their cloak and hoodie and give it to him and

00:01:24.200 say, I was totally wrong about you. Think about that. A black man sitting down in the South still to 1.00

00:01:30.940 today convincing or sparking something within KKK members to say, you know what? I was totally wrong

00:01:38.100 and I'm denouncing this. And as a symbol of trust and friendship, here's my hoodie. And what does

00:01:45.000 Daryl Davis do is he, see if you can find an image of him. Uh, he keeps, I think it's hundreds at this

00:01:51.500 point of KKK outfits in his closet to signify this is what I've done. What's my point? I interview,

00:01:59.860 whether it's this show, whether it's on PBD podcast, a wide array of people, just as you've done as well.

00:02:05.240 And what I've realized is that these people have come to their determination and their opinions

00:02:10.380 and they have different ideological views based on something, whether that's right or wrong. There

00:02:15.880 he is right there. Okay. Daryl Davis sitting there with the KKK guys. And the best thing you can do, 0.60

00:02:23.520 and this is why I'll give you so much credit is ask questions. Anytime that you say, this is how you

00:02:28.220 should think. This is how you should operate. This is how you need to live your life. People aren't going

00:02:33.920 to resonate that and they're not going to listen to you. But if you say, okay, like for instance,

00:02:38.060 I had a conversation with a full on socialist, right? Young girl. She had no clue what she was 0.78

00:02:44.020 talking about. I say, um, you know, uh, if you and Bill work at the same job, but he works half as

00:02:51.020 hard as you, uh, do you guys deserve the same pay? She's like, no, that, that doesn't, that doesn't 1.00

00:02:55.900 seem fair. I go, no. Well, you guys are, you know, you deserve the same pay. And she, she had to wrestle

00:03:03.160 with these, these minor questions in her head and she had to come up to the conclusion. Like, you know

00:03:07.880 what? Maybe the harder you work and the better you do than a meritocracy, you should get paid more.

00:03:12.740 And that's how you should get a raise. It goes, yeah, exactly. It's kind of capitalism right there.

00:03:16.420 So she had to come up with this on her own. I couldn't be like, capitalism's the best.

00:03:22.060 Socialism's the worst. And that's my opinion. I had to pose questions for her to answer this.

00:03:27.360 That's exactly what Daryl Davis did with these people. He's asked questions. Well, why do you

00:03:31.680 think I'm dumber than you? Right? Well, why do you think this? What would you do if I did this? And

00:03:36.080 people have to come to their own conclusion. So the biggest thing that I've come away with to

00:03:40.680 answer your question is I respect everybody, whether I agree with them or disagree with them.

00:03:45.660 But at the end of the day, I try to find the truth in the situation. Like you said,

00:03:49.940 I don't shame women. I just look for the truth. So yeah. Um, respect has it influenced your dating

00:03:59.320 life at all? Oh yeah. Oh yeah. Um, I, um, I'm way more upfront with women at this point. So as you

00:04:12.020 know, guys out there, a lot of times guys will slow play it, especially with hot chicks. Sure, 0.61

00:04:16.000 babe, whatever you want. No problem. All right, cool. I'll take care of this. I'll take care of

00:04:19.860 this. And you slow play it and you slow play it, slow play it. There's actually a book. I'll take

00:04:23.780 care of this. I'll take care of this. And you slow play it and you slow play it, slow play it.

00:04:27.500 There's actually a book that PBD gave me called 101 questions to ask before you get engaged. Okay.

00:04:34.040 So I will hit women with questions right now. How many kids you want? When do you see yourself 0.99

00:04:37.920 getting married? If I pay all the bills, what are you going to do? Okay. Um, all these types of

00:04:43.560 questions, it's a vetting process. So it was a girl that I was seeing, this is a couple of months

00:04:47.100 ago, 30 years old. I go, Oh, when do you, what age would you want to get married? She goes, I don't

00:04:51.860 see myself getting married. I go, Oh, do you want to have kids? Nah, no kids. I said, you are officially

00:04:56.360 now in the fun bucket. That doesn't mean I just broke up with her. I'll, you know, I'll, you know,

00:05:00.580 do my thing for a little bit. But if a girl is like, I'm 1 million percent convinced that I want to 1.00

00:05:06.480 have kids, whether I want to get married to the government, all that kind of stuff like that. Again,

00:05:10.660 I've been, I did that in my early thirties and that's 10 years later now, I'm convinced that I

00:05:15.520 want to have kids. So I'm solving for that. So my biggest thing right now is who's going to be an 0.96

00:05:19.800 amazing mother. Okay. So there was a girl that I was dating before that who was 34. Okay. And I said,

00:05:28.460 listen, you know, another girl I was dating before was 24. I could take my time with a girl like that. 0.99

00:05:33.000 Right. At 34, it's like, we're either doing this now or never. And she's like, well, I don't know.

00:05:40.160 I don't know. You know, I don't know. I was like, all right. Great knowing you. So I think it's just

00:05:43.680 being very intentional, knowing what you want, knowing who you want to be and solving for that.

00:05:49.700 Would you guys ever date? We're dating right now. Wait, really? What?

00:05:54.420 No, I'm totally kidding. Nat is like my little sister. I love the girl with dad. I feel like

00:06:00.820 everyone, everyone thinks you guys are dating. Yeah, I know. Yeah. Everyone always says that,

00:06:04.460 but no, Adam, Adam plays his role in my life, but not. To be honest with you, to be, to be fully

00:06:09.720 honest with you, Nat, how many different girls have you seen me out with? Many. Okay. Gentlemen,

00:06:16.100 get yourself a wing woman. I'm a great wing woman. I'm not going to lie. That is just down to be a

00:06:23.380 team player. Yeah. Nat is actually, I've met the men in Nat's life as well. Yeah. We won't,

00:06:29.020 we'll leave it there. But, uh, I actually, when I go out, I actually go out with two, three, four girls,

00:06:35.820 maybe a buddy or two. It's great to have women when you go out. I know you're not a big partier

00:06:40.440 going out. You know, I was born in a club in South Beach. Like it's in my blood, Pearl. Okay. You know,

00:06:46.080 how tradition and families, like, I'm trying to get that out of my blood and get into the family

00:06:50.080 life, be more like you. Yeah. Um, but no, Nat's a great wing woman. Yeah. What do you,

00:06:55.260 what do you think of the girls you've met? Um, I mean, I don't really put too much thought into it.

00:07:00.320 I think he's just doing his thing, you know, going through his process. I mean,

00:07:03.340 is there one that you've met that you could see him like marrying? Um, I mean, that's not really my

00:07:09.340 place. I mean, I let him do his thing. It's his, it's his process.

00:07:16.080 It's his journey. He's also the same, like, like the question you asked, you know,

00:07:19.680 these conversations, it changes the way you date. Yeah. And you know, when you bring people around,

00:07:24.200 it makes you question certain things. And that was even kind of how we were like asking, you know,

00:07:28.180 like, how are you dating now with all these things? Like immediately, I know when I first started in

00:07:32.460 this space, I got to a point where I was like, Oh my gosh, he's a simp. Like he said this. And I'm

00:07:36.420 like, wait, Natalia, like you have to come to reality. You know, people are people,

00:07:40.400 you know, get to know them. Um, so sometimes I think it's important to just let people also go through

00:07:45.240 their process. You know, he date who he dates. And I think him going through that as well,

00:07:49.280 when he finds a woman, I think I will see a different side. I was just curious if there

00:07:54.140 was one that you like liked a lot or something. No, I don't really have, I don't really make that.

00:07:59.400 I just let him kind of just, Oh, Hey, nice to see you. Most of the girls she's seen me with,

00:08:02.840 it's been like, I've seen them once or twice or whatever. Nothing like super. Not that I'm like

00:08:06.420 being like playboy international. You just mentioned kids. So I was like, I was just curious. No,

00:08:10.200 I don't really like talk to the girls like that. That's not my place. It's not for me to do that. 0.95

00:08:14.500 She gives them a hug, tells them they look pretty. If you say anything, let me know. Like,

00:08:17.920 I'm just going to host. That's it. Yeah. And what about, what about, you said you met some of the

00:08:22.240 guys, Nat and Nat's life. What about, what do you, what'd you think of them? Um, I think Nat deserves a

00:08:32.160 great man. You guys seem like you'd be perfect together. Yeah.

00:08:35.600 Nat has dated a friend of mine, so she's officially off limits. A hundred percent. I

00:08:44.560 don't, you know, cross that line whatsoever. Zero, zero, zero, zero, zero, zero. But I

00:08:52.280 will say that to men that come into Nat's life, I will say she's a good girl. Treat her

00:08:58.780 right. Step the fuck up or kick rocks. Cause I think she deserves a good dude. So there you 1.00

00:09:05.260 go. Now you have the conversation with the girls I with Adam's a man. Well, when, when

00:09:12.260 you make certain girls, certain priorities, then that becomes more of like, Hey, let me

00:09:16.440 kind of pour into her as well. Kind of mend that as well. But it's not going to be something

00:09:20.900 I have you. Okay. Let me ask you one thing. I want to get your advice on me. Okay. 42

00:09:29.640 single, successful millionaire. What should I be looking for in the dating scene? A 22

00:09:37.140 year old homeschooled virgin. Really? There you go. 22, not a virgin, but willing to be

00:09:44.940 trained. I mean, in this market, that's a good one. Um, take what you can get. Yeah,

00:09:51.640 no, no, no, no, no. Um, yeah, yeah. I mean, yeah, yeah. 22 willing to be trained. That's

00:10:00.420 a good start. Okay. Okay. Yeah, I agree. I agree with that. Okay. You got a couple more

00:10:04.840 questions. Go for it. Nothing's off the table. Have you ever hated someone that's been on the

00:10:08.380 show? Have you ever hated somebody that's been on the show? Have you ever? No. Zero.

00:10:13.580 It's not like that. He's not like people can say stuff. Yeah. I've had my opinion on some

00:10:18.180 people for sure. But Adam's the type to not have like a, uh, like you can hate Adam and

00:10:23.780 he's cool with you. He's not like a, Oh, I'm trying to get you. Like he's just a people

00:10:27.800 guy. Me. I can sometimes like my emotions get in the way. I may not like the way you

00:10:31.520 treat me. And sometimes that you get a reaction out of me because of that. Um, but at the end

00:10:35.980 of the day, Adam's not that I'll give him that Adam is one guy that's like, I don't have

00:10:39.420 a problem with anybody. Even the guys that allegedly have a problem with me. Yeah. Adam does

00:10:43.400 not pay nothing. And you know, some of these guys, zero beef whatsoever. I'm not even going

00:10:49.560 to be like, well, you know, there's one guy zero. Now if they have a problem with me, Hey

00:10:53.120 bro, it's all good. When I tell you genuinely, and there's been some dust ups over here, zero

00:10:58.960 issues with these guys. I get it. What I will say is this. It is, you know, a lot of criticism

00:11:04.040 I get is like, if a girl on the panel pushes back at the men, it's like, Adam, you got to defend

00:11:09.900 the men. It's like, well, do you defend all the women? Yeah. You don't defend. All right. 0.97

00:11:14.040 It's like, it's not my job to defend a grown ass man from something they've said. Uh, but

00:11:19.020 at the same time, if I disagree with someone, Oh yeah, I'll say, yeah, I don't know about

00:11:22.420 that, bro. But when I tell you, I don't know if you, there's someone you have in mind,

00:11:26.020 I don't care, but zero beef. There's no one. I'm like, Oh, that one motherfuck zero. And

00:11:31.500 I think that's how I operate. Now, if someone completely does me dirty, that might change,

00:11:35.900 but if it's little, you know, these social media dust up YouTube, you know, type of situation,

00:11:41.320 uh, zero beef whatsoever. And I've had my little, you know, points of friction, zero drama. How

00:11:46.920 about you? Is there anyone that you hate or a major drama with? Oh yeah. Oh yeah. Oh

00:11:52.300 Yeah. Top three. That I, that I've hated from my show. Yeah. Anyone that's watched my

00:11:58.960 show for a while, Esther. Oh, this chick showed up in my apartment in the middle of the night. 1.00

00:12:03.100 It was crazy. Yeah. Anyone that's like actually followed it. What about content creators?

00:12:08.540 Oh, um, not really. Um, I can't, I'm sure there's been people that have rubbed me the wrong

00:12:16.280 way, but no one that like, I can really think of that. Anyone that you respected and you've lost

00:12:20.980 respect for, let's say. Oh, not that I can think of. Okay. So we're on the same page

00:12:27.960 other than Esther. We're getting along with people. No. And there's this other, oh, there's

00:12:32.980 a couple, there's a couple of girls that I banned. Okay. I'm like, any men and, um, no,

00:12:42.060 not that it was super bad, but like most of the storm outs or like the extreme disrespect

00:12:47.400 has been from chicks. I've kicked a couple of guys out. Um, like they kind of get annoying 1.00

00:12:52.960 if they just don't answer, like they come in, they won't answer any questions. It's just

00:12:56.660 like, all right, get, get. Yeah. No, what are you here for? I've only kicked one person 0.96

00:13:00.620 out. This trans woman named Vincenza. I had to kick her out. But other than that, if 1.00

00:13:05.500 someone sits here and they're quiet, I'm more the type of person to just keep leaning on

00:13:10.180 them and clowning them. I'm like, Oh bro, you're killing it today, buddy. Great job. Like

00:13:13.340 to a girl. Oh, great insight. Right. Yeah. I'm not the one to be like, get the fuck out.

00:13:17.420 You know? So that's some of the criticism that I take is that I'm too nice to certain

00:13:21.780 people, but genuinely by nature, I'm not that dude that's like, fuck you bitch. I don't 0.99

00:13:26.680 like, I'm just like, no, you're an idiot. Good luck in life and have a great day. Like

00:13:30.360 I'm not there to like dunk on women, but at the same time I will call them out for their 1.00

00:13:34.360 delusion tendencies. Well, I get the same thing where they like, they don't feel like I

00:13:38.220 control the panel well enough, but it's really hard. Yeah. And especially like, I think

00:13:43.260 as a chick, it's not as much in our like nature to do that. So it's like, I'm so tired

00:13:47.940 of panels actually. Really? Yeah. Yeah. I'm just getting started pro. What do you mean?

00:13:53.180 Why are you tired of it? Oh, um, it's more, I don't know. I really want to do more documentary

00:14:01.060 stuff and have more time for that than panels. So what kind of documentaries? Um, I want to

00:14:06.420 finish my divorce documentary. I feel like, uh, I've had so much stuff. It's kind of been

00:14:11.280 put on like the backend. Um, I want to do a documentary into the school system to like,

00:14:17.440 just kind of like deep dives into some of these institutions that I would argue discriminate

00:14:22.420 against men. Um, that's what I want to do. Nice. All right. We have five more minutes.

00:14:26.960 What other questions you got? Would, all right. So where do you like want this show to go?

00:14:33.780 Like what's your like end goal? Great question. So, you know, I say that, um,

00:14:39.940 this look, this is value attainment. So we have certain standards here. You know, we're not some

00:14:45.240 fledgling little random YouTube company with no framework or vision or purpose. We're here to

00:14:53.420 value attain. We need to provide value and we also want to entertain people. So when I started

00:15:00.500 the basic premise of my show used before sauce, it was called sauce talks money. It was all money

00:15:06.200 for five years. And then PVD sat me down one day. He's like, again, you have to evolve. You have to

00:15:12.040 reinvent yourself. He's like, you know, you're good with money, but you're not the greatest. Okay.

00:15:16.960 What else can you infuse? All right. And Pat basically was like, you're an awesome networker.

00:15:22.540 You've owned bars in South beach. You've been around celebrities. You've been at the Kardashians and

00:15:26.960 NBA players and rappers. Like, you know, all these people, you know, nightlife, you know,

00:15:31.400 women, you have friends with women. Like, why don't you infuse that with your show? You know what 1.00

00:15:36.340 I said? No, I'm good. And a year later, finally, I decided to do it. And obviously it kind of hit

00:15:43.720 right as the red pill main kind of went mainstream and all that. So what I've realized is, you know,

00:15:50.620 I remember the first time Rolo came on, right? Your buddy. Um, uh, and I, and I respect Rolo only

00:15:57.360 because, uh, he was very open with me and like, meaning like, uh, he was like, Hey man, nice to

00:16:03.840 meet you. Let me introduce you to some friends. Right. And he introduced me to Fresh and Fit and

00:16:08.240 Michael Sartain and Justin Waller. And for that, I'm grateful. Like introductions, like in order to

00:16:13.660 introduce someone to your, to your, um, network, there, there's a certain level of trust right

00:16:19.800 there. And that's not saying that me and Rolo haven't had issues in the past, but I will always,

00:16:24.260 uh, gravitate towards, I respect that man. Okay. So he came on. I remember the first time I asked

00:16:29.940 him, I go, what's red pill. This is in early 2022. Keep in mind, right? You're talking to somebody

00:16:36.980 that's been in the dating scene, South beach lifestyle, like, you know, men, women for 20 years.

00:16:42.640 So once I kind of like, Oh, cool, cool. Intersexual dynamics, men, women, different,

00:16:46.600 cool. You know, I've realized, all right, when I show up to the club with four of my buddies,

00:16:49.620 we don't get in. When I show up with four of these girls, I get a free table. Got it. All right. 0.99

00:16:53.060 Bingo, bingo. Got it. So I started asking these questions and it just seemed very natural to me.

00:16:58.160 So I wouldn't say that I am part of the red pill. Yeah. I would say how Michael Sartain is red pill

00:17:04.440 adjacent. I would say I respect what they got going on, but at the end of the day, I'm always going to

00:17:11.280 gravitate towards, um, money, business networking, what value tainment is. So I would probably do a

00:17:19.820 little bit more money content, like having conversations with women about money. Like,

00:17:25.420 all right. So you do only fans. The natural thing is that, you know, no dude's ever going to marry

00:17:29.420 you. You high body count bitch. Yeah. I might be like, so what do you do with the money? Oh, 1.00

00:17:34.640 you only have five grand saved up, but you said you've made 200 grand. What are you doing with your

00:17:38.160 life? Right. Cause it's a lot, it's a lot easier to nitpick tangible stuff rather than like your

00:17:44.460 dirty asshole. Nobody's going to marry you. So like, I get that content. I've done it. I've seen

00:17:49.160 it. Awesome. But I do want to do kind of more like how you want to do more documentaries and movies

00:17:54.080 kind of want to understand that a little bit more, but I do like this that you must admit there's

00:17:59.480 something, there's something cool about the men, women, dating nature, all that kind of stuff like

00:18:04.780 that. It's interesting. It's appealing. Um, but I would say for me, I would, I'm going to

00:18:09.460 gravitate a little bit more towards that moving forward. Like how many times can you talk about

00:18:14.380 body count? At least a hundred different times. And do you think you'll, okay. Cause recently Jedediah

00:18:28.400 is not with you guys anymore. Right. So like, what are you guys going to have like more people

00:18:34.020 here or is it just going to be the, you guys have two shows now? Like what's your plan?

00:18:38.720 No, we actually have, I think five shows these days, five or six different talents and we're

00:18:44.320 growing. I think we just, we just had an open house here at value attainment. We hired how many

00:18:47.980 people, how many people showed up to the open call? Like 50 people show up and it was like live

00:18:52.940 interview. We hired a whole bunch of people. You know, you've been in both buildings. You've seen

00:18:58.400 this building, pretty nice facility here. Right. You've been at the other one. No, it's super nice.

00:19:03.160 Super nice. You know, PBD respect to him. Um, he's in the process of literally looking for a campus

00:19:10.700 right now. So the goal of value attainment is to have a thousand employees. Right. So I can look at

00:19:16.080 and be like, I was employing number four. Right. Like it's pretty interesting. I think now we're at

00:19:20.640 maybe 90, you know, so we're growing, we have a vision. Um, we were, we're here to empower future

00:19:29.480 leaders and, uh, value attain the audience out there. So we have a deep vision. Yep. Um, maybe

00:19:35.880 one day pearls doing a documentary with value attainment. You never know. You never know.

00:19:41.200 Future looks bright. So they're saying that we got to wrap up now. You want to ask one or two more

00:19:45.600 questions and I have one more last question for you. No, I'm okay. You have a better

00:19:50.300 understanding of me. Yeah. Yeah. How about this? I do. I do feel like you guys would be a cute

00:19:55.580 couple. Okay. You're really pushing this agenda, right? I know. You're really doubling down on

00:19:59.520 that. Yeah. Thank you. Um, there's some certain men out there that are maybe in Nat's life that

00:20:04.440 are probably be a little offended right now. Sorry. Sorry, fellas. What, what would you say

00:20:09.060 is the biggest misconception about me? You're like, I don't think people know you a lot

00:20:12.460 much. I don't think that, uh, what's like the one thing you're like, bro, any questions

00:20:18.180 on the table, you can ask me anything. Offend me. I don't care. What do you, what do you

00:20:22.880 really want to know? Um, the biggest misconception about you? I don't know. Whatever question you

00:20:27.600 want to ask. I'm actually having fun with this. I don't know. Um, I can't, can you say that

00:20:35.540 question in a different way? Anything else you really want to ask me, but maybe you're holding

00:20:39.280 back on asking. I literally can't think of anything. All right. Sorry. I put it out

00:20:45.780 there. Let the record show. Um, before we, um, uh, let's do super chats and then we'll,

00:20:52.440 we'll do the happy ending and we'll wrap up and Pearl can get her Chipotle in before 0.89

00:20:56.480 she leaves. I already ate it. Oh, you already ate it. Respect. Okay. Thanks for super chats.

00:21:00.800 We have, sorry if I messed up your name, uh, Deionka Taylor, Pearl, what are you looking for

00:21:05.280 in a man? I think you covered that. We already addressed that. Uh, Junior, he said, Pearl,

00:21:09.260 would you go on fresh and fit? Seen you on there a few years ago and would love to see

00:21:12.460 you reconnect with them. Uh, then we have, would you go? Yeah, no, I totally would. Okay.

00:21:17.960 Nice. Uh, then we have Don Juan Plague is zero. I know I turned down some of your small

00:21:22.280 chats, but they were mean chats and they were only a dollar buddy, but I see your $10 one

00:21:26.340 and he said, shame on that for not reading. Uh, shame on Troller for lying. Shame on Conorvin

00:21:30.860 Sharp for misleading. Shame on MLD for flutterant workout programs. Shame, shame, shame.

00:21:35.540 Okay. Dis fatty bang hotties. Okay. That was a $10 one. Got it. Then we have a 0.98

00:21:41.000 Yeah. For the record, we're never, ever, ever, ever going to read $1 chats, especially if

00:21:46.600 they're, um, hating comments, hating comments. You want to hate all you want a $10 comment.

00:21:51.280 That's fine. That's at least worthy of your time. Do you have a minimum of chat you'll

00:21:55.040 read? Uh, we usually do like 10 or 20 bucks. Okay. Yeah. Gotcha. So you're not going to just

00:22:00.360 succumb to a dollar. Fuck you, Pearl comment. You don't need the dollar that bad? I just

00:22:05.240 won't read it. Okay. There you go. I'm like, I don't need this attitude, bitch. Right. Pass. 1.00

00:22:10.080 And then we have Crypto Creeper. There is a reason a lot of men and some women agree with

00:22:14.300 Pearl. She resonates with what people are thinking. Thanks for booking her, Nat. Keep up

00:22:18.440 the great work. Then we have, uh, Yeah. Thanks for booking her, Nat. Actually, this was sauce,

00:22:23.160 but I love you. That was a good comment. It was Nat. It was Nat. Yeah. It was Nat. Typical

00:22:30.940 woman taking all the thunder from the men. Taking all the clans. Can't trust them. Sorry. 0.99

00:22:37.100 Sisterhood of Raleigh. Oh, wow. Now you want to play the sisterhood. I know. I'm a part of

00:22:43.260 this. It's called a reversion. It's called a reversion to the meme. She can rail on women 1.00

00:22:47.600 all she wants, but she is one. Exactly. I'm still a woman. Exactly. You're like it. 0.92

00:22:55.640 Then we have our last one. You're not a 10. The dating market is kind of a mess. What

00:23:00.200 needs to happen is so that both men and women win. Saying be 1% sounds a bit unrealistic

00:23:04.960 for most. Are 90% of men just shit out of luck? Oh, and hi, Nat. Hi, you're not a 10.

00:23:10.920 Hi. So what's the question? The question is, I would say the solution is lowering the risks

00:23:19.240 of men for marriage. That's what I would say. Okay. I could go all day on this. I would say

00:23:24.520 this. You know, whether it's money or whether it's your status, I view men as a stoplight. 0.70

00:23:31.340 Okay. We all know the lowest form of stoplight is red. Stop. Okay. Then the money world that

00:23:36.720 is debt. That is you're drowning in debt. You make no money. You're barely living paycheck

00:23:40.460 to paycheck. You're on welfare. Red. Red light. In the dating world, that is meaning you got

00:23:45.740 no game. You got no skills. You got no riz. You got your fat. You're obese. You're playing

00:23:50.760 video games. You're a red motherfucking light. The beautiful thing as a man is that you can

00:23:56.000 get to a yellow light. How can you do that? Getting your money right. Saving your money.

00:23:59.960 Okay. Getting out of debt. Being smart with your money. Being fiscally responsible. Not basically

00:24:04.960 keeping up with the Joneses. Cool. Yellow light. What does that mean in the dating world?

00:24:08.720 All right. Cool. All right. Maybe develop some confidence. Maybe stop sitting at home every

00:24:12.820 day. Maybe you get out there and you talk to girls. Maybe you deal with rejection, but

00:24:16.300 develop your confidence, right? Confidence comes from having confidence. All right. If

00:24:19.980 you go to get rejected by nine girls and the 10th one says, yes, great. You're getting

00:24:26.420 somewhere. But the beautiful thing of a man, no matter how short you are, no matter how

00:24:30.000 bald you are, no matter how poor you are, no matter what you are, if you play your game 0.99

00:24:36.840 right, it might take you five, 10, 20 years, you can become a green light. What's a green

00:24:41.520 light? You're wealthy. You're successful. You're good looking. You're ripped. You dress

00:24:46.820 well. You got swag. You got riz. You're funny. You're humorous. You're a man of faith. You're

00:24:51.940 a man of good character. The world is an oyster for a man. And as Andrew Tate will say, a man is

00:24:58.380 born with a blank slate. I believe that a man is born as a red light and can work his 0.55

00:25:03.040 way up to a green light. And, uh, it's incumbent on every man to do that. That's why when you

00:25:07.320 say, well, one third of men are virgins, it's like figure out how not to be one buddy. So

00:25:12.200 there you go. You know what percent of men have had more than one sexual partner in the

00:25:16.280 past year? Yes. What percentage of men have had more than one sexual partner in the last

00:25:21.960 year? 25 percent, 10, 10 percent. Yeah. Look, it is not acceptable for a man to be average 0.68

00:25:29.740 straight up. Yeah. Okay. Whether you agree with me or not. Okay. If you're just an average

00:25:35.400 dude, you're average looking, you have an average job, you have average personality. Girls aren't 1.00

00:25:40.460 going to want to want you. Is that fair? I don't know. Maybe, but I can assure you of this.

00:25:46.060 I have many friends who are in the 10 percent range. They're having the time in life. Okay.

00:25:53.000 And it's incumbent on every man to strive for greatness. Yeah. Or just succumb to mediocrity.

00:25:58.980 Yeah. Last questions, last chats. I'm curious. Do you think it's like, you know, we're running

00:26:04.280 out of time. Okay. Okay. I'm going to just ask one last question. You're the one that has to go.

00:26:08.780 I'll stay in for an hour. Do you, do you think like, cause it's interesting. I don't know. I don't

00:26:15.280 see like a guy that has a normal job as like somehow not doing enough. You know what I

00:26:20.840 mean? Like a truck driver, like we need a truck driver. Um, I don't know. Cause it just, it

00:26:26.760 sounds like you're saying like, you're not doing enough if you're, if you're working a

00:26:29.740 normal job. Yeah. Everyone has 24 hours in a day, right? Cool. Uh, the truck driver, he's

00:26:36.760 working eight, 10 hour days, whatever it is, whatever job it is. The, the bigger question

00:26:42.420 is what are you doing with the other 14, 16 hours a day? You're probably sleeping for

00:26:47.380 six to eight hours. What are you doing with the other six, eight, 10 hours? What are you

00:26:51.380 doing? Most people are most people. Most people are getting home and Netflixing and chilling

00:26:57.420 or eating pizza or playing video games. Very few people are going to the gym, reading, networking,

00:27:04.400 going to business events. Very, it's, it's not so much what you do during your working hours.

00:27:09.320 It's what you do when you're not working. That'll make you, uh, different from the average

00:27:15.020 guy. So I do, I respect the working man, the Uber driver, the truck driver, the plumber,

00:27:21.180 all good respect. But if you go home and you play video games and jerk off and smoke weed

00:27:26.900 and that's your life, sorry, bro. Like you're not improving. If you go home and you read and

00:27:32.880 you go to the gym and you work out and you go donate your time or you help people, good

00:27:38.060 things will come your way. So it's, to me, it's not just the nine to five thing. It's

00:27:43.060 what you're doing beyond that. Cool. All right. Pearl. Last question for Pearl. You kind of

00:27:52.700 touched on this. You know, we do something called the happy ending. We always like to

00:27:56.340 end on a happy note. Okay. So it's a two part question. It's really the future of Pearl.

00:28:05.100 You know, you've said that you've wanted, uh, to basically do less panels, uh, and start

00:28:11.360 doing more documentaries. Um, you know, we've, we've seen some of the comments from the haters.

00:28:15.340 She's not going to be here. She's not going anywhere. I actually believe that you're not

00:28:19.180 going anywhere. Real talk. Okay. So your life might change. You might evolve eventually. I pray. I hope

00:28:25.400 that you practice what you preach. You find a man, hopefully he's Catholic and six foot and bingo 0.98

00:28:31.400 bango and all that fun stuff. No beard. Um, but what's the vision of Pearl and pearly things and

00:28:37.980 the company you're building? What's that vision? So when we look at this by the time you're 30,

00:28:42.280 what are we going to see from Pearl? Um, well, what we want to do is we want to leave a network

00:28:48.740 in London. Um, so the idea is we're going to sign like five talents in London and then we're in the

00:28:54.620 process of looking for a CEO. I actually, it's funny you said CEO. I hate managing people. I

00:29:00.280 actually outsource that like as much as I possibly can. Um, not easy to be the CEO. No, no, I, I,

00:29:07.260 it's like not in me. That's just not my personality type. You're the founder, but not the CEO.

00:29:11.380 Yeah. That's, that's kind of the way I saw it. So, um, and then we might, we're going to,

00:29:16.820 I'm probably going to have an office in Chicago to start. Like that's just for me. And then we're

00:29:21.320 going to expand to, uh, maybe Miami or Vegas for the two cities we're looking at. So we might be

00:29:27.520 out here. We'll see. Well, you have a friend in Miami and you can always shoot content here at

00:29:32.160 value tainment. You know, we respect you. Um, last question for Pearl Davis, Ms. Pearly things. Um,

00:29:38.900 I believe, you know, part of the premise of doing these shows is having these conversations

00:29:44.140 to help men and women do better, improve, get better. Men want one thing. Women want another 1.00

00:29:51.020 thing. It's very hard to get them to convince the other side to get what they want. You've used some

00:29:55.900 shock and awe to draw attention to this issue, much like Andrew Tate has. But I believe that men and

00:30:02.420 women do better together and better coexisting together. If we, everyone hates each other, 1.00

00:30:06.180 no one gets together. We don't have babies. We don't have kids. You know, society will cease to

00:30:10.460 exist. So, you know, you're an advocate of women playing their traditional role, men being respected.

00:30:16.460 I think that's something that you advocate of, although it sort of gets misconstrued with you're

00:30:20.680 a female chauvinist and sort of the monikers that are thrown your way. Well, a little bit. 1.00

00:30:24.540 A little bit. But at the end of the day, this is a happy ending. How do you, how can men and women

00:30:30.480 coexist and not just coexist, not survive, but thrive in modern society? What are your thoughts?

00:30:38.660 I'm kind of a doomer. I don't, I don't think men and women will coexist until the laws change for men. 1.00

00:30:45.100 I just, I think men are going to look at the risks versus the rewards and continue to walk away. And

00:30:50.660 that's what the data is saying. It's saying 60% of men in their twenties are not looking for marriage

00:30:55.420 or relationships. Um, so I think if you want to see them come together, then change the laws.

00:31:01.400 Wow. So you're solving for marriage. That's at the end of the day.

00:31:05.200 Well, I I'm solving for children because the truth of the matter is in this country,

00:31:09.260 when a man has children, they are not his kids. They're always hers because the woman will always 1.00

00:31:13.180 have the leverage. When you have kids, you can get whatever prenup you want. You might be protected

00:31:17.980 from a prenup wise, but there's no guarantee that you will be the primary man to raise your

00:31:22.340 children. Because if a woman feels like it, she can leave. And another man is raising your kids. 0.99

00:31:27.120 And that is hell that is death to a lot of men in this country. All right. So, so if we want to

00:31:33.400 see men and women get together, change the laws. Where's Pearl's camera? Yes. Which one's Pearl's

00:31:39.620 camera straight Pearl straight Pearl. Here's your chance. Look into the camera, give your best piece

00:31:46.280 of advice to men and give your best piece of advice to women. Boom. Go for it. My best piece

00:31:52.580 of advice to men is never to marry a spiteful woman and to watch out for spite because I actually think

00:31:58.200 that's worse than a slutty chick is a spiteful one because those are the ones that'll ruin you in 1.00

00:32:02.740 divorce court. Um, and for women, please stop telling me about your rapper ex-boyfriend. I don't care. 1.00

00:32:13.760 That's the best piece of advice to women. Please stop dating these rappers because I'm sick of hearing about them. 1.00

00:32:21.540 Pearl, as always, it's been fun. It's been challenging. It's been refreshing. We've disagreed.

00:32:28.500 We were never disagreeable. I think we respect each other. I respect you. You've made a name for

00:32:33.040 yourself. You've answered tough questions. You've asked me tough questions. You've held my feet to

00:32:38.260 the fire on a situation. I've done the same, but as always, we leave here, I think, um, with a better

00:32:45.340 understanding of each other's perspectives, zero disrespect, all respect. Um, if you enjoy Pearl being

00:32:53.020 on the show, hit the thumbs up, give a sub and obviously Pearl's approaching 2 million on her 1.00

00:33:00.660 channel. Show some love to Pearl and Pearl, as always, we appreciate you. Uh, the next time we see

00:33:08.700 you here, hopefully we meet your husband, your boyfriend. Hopefully it's not a rapper. We'll see.

00:33:14.560 Not great job today. Great job. Malik, great job. You were very silent today. Silent but deadly.

JustPearlyThings - October 22, 2023

Calling Out Women On Their DELUSION @vtsoscast

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