JustPearlyThings - October 31, 2023


Career Woman Gets SCHOOLED By This Trad Wife


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In this episode, we talk about the challenges of being a blended family and how we manage to stay on the middle ground between being a masculine and feminine wife. We also talk about what it was like growing up in the 80s and 90s and what it's like to grow up in a family of 9-5 workers.

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00:00:00.000 Working out, but as the years go on, like I say that this is our eighth year into marriage
00:00:06.120 Sounds like you're going like that, that you used to it like that. That was you. Yeah, that was him. Yeah
00:00:10.880 I was somewhere. I wasn't there. I was somewhere, but we're making, we've made it to middle ground
00:00:16.940 And now we're just like maintaining it. Like sometimes I go left
00:00:21.420 Sometimes he goes left, but we know where our middle ground is and like we maintain it. It's an ongoing thing. It's a journey
00:00:30.000 It's not his destination. Marriage is hard work though. You need to work at it. That's what it is. Yeah, yeah, yeah
00:00:35.160 And like commit. So there's times when my husband has not been working. There's times like when things have been hard
00:00:42.300 There's times when I have not been touched by him. Like there's, we've had everything that you can think of
00:00:50.080 And then obviously because we're a blended family, you've got that, them difficulties to iron through 1.00
00:00:55.100 But like when I say that we're committed
00:00:58.780 Like we are committed. So I'm angry with you. I do not want to talk to you right now, but I'm not going anywhere
00:01:04.540 Yeah, have you got a big vehicle? You've got two vehicles. I've got a 7c. Oh, okay
00:01:09.100 Yeah, I'd like where is she putting all these kids? In the end, I would like her might like another vehicle, but yeah 0.85
00:01:14.820 Okay, we grew up with like a 16 passenger van who was like, yeah, it's like one of those big
00:01:19.820 If I get pregnant again, I'll need a van for sure. Yeah, we have to let go of the cars. Yeah 0.98
00:01:24.620 Yeah, you guys don't really have them as big of cars here. No, I think it goes it like the car vannies go up to like nine
00:01:32.060 Seaters. Yeah until you have to like minibus. Yeah, minibus
00:01:38.860 What about you what what kind of wife were you and what type of wife would you like to be? 1.00
00:01:43.180 um
00:01:45.820 so
00:01:46.860 I was a
00:01:49.340 Confused wife 0.95
00:01:51.020 um
00:01:52.380 a masculine wife 0.92
00:01:53.740 uh a wife who
00:01:56.860 So for context i'm the eldest. Sorry, I just I just want to say something before
00:02:04.940 I want to hear you about your day-to-day
00:02:07.100 Because I know that you're going to be struggling with what you're going to say about your husband
00:02:09.900 That's why I can see you're picking and choosing so I just wanted to let you flow with yeah
00:02:14.220 What your day-to-day life was like then and what your date and what you'd like it to be like because I know that you're gonna
00:02:20.940 Respect thing so I'd rather that you just stick rather than put yourself in it
00:02:24.700 I'd rather you just say like
00:02:26.700 What did you do like get up in the morning because you said you're doing everything so just tell us your day-to-day as as you were
00:02:32.780 Yeah, so pre-baby
00:02:35.340 I mean, I think we had
00:02:37.340 Uh six months of marriage before I got pregnant
00:02:41.580 And then obviously nine months, so you know just over a year of just us
00:02:46.220 and
00:02:47.020 It was okay
00:02:48.220 Does you wake up in the morning now before do you wake up?
00:02:50.540 I mean, I've always worked so ever since I turned 16 you get your ni number 0.95
00:02:55.020 I've always worked and I've studied and then I went into my career. So it was always a
00:03:01.660 wake up at 6 a.m
00:03:03.660 Um work out
00:03:06.140 Um shower
00:03:07.900 Go to work come back
00:03:10.140 And you know the usual single life you put your feet up you eat
00:03:13.740 And then do it all again
00:03:14.540 I mean when you got married before you had the baby
00:03:17.180 Yeah
00:03:17.500 What did you do then same because we were working different
00:03:20.860 So he was doing shift work?
00:03:21.900 I see you both
00:03:22.780 Yeah, so he was doing shift work and I was the corporate nine to five
00:03:26.780 So there's days where I'm going to work in the morning and he's not there
00:03:30.460 Or I'll come home and he's not there
00:03:32.700 Um
00:03:33.180 He was cooking
00:03:34.220 He was cooking still
00:03:35.100 Me
00:03:35.420 Yeah
00:03:36.140 I was cooking
00:03:36.780 But that's what I mean you didn't say anything you just made it sound as
00:03:39.100 I got off and I've done my stuff and I went to work and I come home
00:03:42.140 Yeah
00:03:42.380 I was thinking at what time did you wake up and start cooking for your husband?
00:03:45.900 Because it just sounds like you just have separate lives
00:03:48.460 I would come home from work and on the weekends I would meal prep
00:03:52.140 So you know us Somalis we like to have like our you know um our big lambs and chickens and stuff
00:03:57.900 So I'd cook that on the weekend freeze it in like little pouches
00:04:02.060 So I know Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, this is what we're having
00:04:05.820 Um and so then all I've got to do is the rice and the pasta or whatever it is
00:04:10.700 Um and he would always come home and there's always food
00:04:14.060 Even if I'll go to sleep and he's finished at 11 or whatever
00:04:17.740 I've got his plate everything done
00:04:20.780 Microwave his cup drink next to it everything just set up for him
00:04:24.780 So when he comes in he can just eat shower and come to bed
00:04:27.260 Um there were days where we would spend time together so we'd end up coming home at the same time
00:04:33.180 And I'd we would both make it our duty to spend time together then
00:04:38.540 And you know cook together sit down and eat
00:04:41.580 Because you know that we're still in our honeymoon period you know we're still getting we're happy
00:04:45.980 Anyway baby comes um
00:04:49.100 Not long after covid came so I still kept up with those duties and I essentially was a
00:04:53.980 Stay at home mum for a year for maternity leave so what that would look like is 1.00
00:04:59.180 Um whenever he's getting up to go to work I would make sure I have food ready for him
00:05:04.700 So his breakfast is ready um at the time you know I've got a three month old six month old
00:05:11.100 However older she was at the time but I'd always make sure that he left with his
00:05:16.060 Stomach full and would come home and his stomach is full
00:05:19.420 Um
00:05:23.100 We'd spend time together as a family when he comes home from work
00:05:26.780 And then do it all again tomorrow so and I really enjoyed that part and I actually got to be
00:05:31.900 You know more feminine. I wasn't as stressed um
00:05:35.260 You know because when you come home from work, you don't want to be was that in the year
00:05:39.020 That you enjoyed you know the covid year did you enjoy because you obviously didn't go out
00:05:43.260 You didn't go out to work during covid no no this was pre-covid so 2019 so I had her in december 2018
00:05:50.060 So from december 2018 to december 2019 just before covid oh right I was a stay-at-home mum and I loved it
00:05:56.380 You know um everything was covered
00:05:59.660 It you know it was the ideal life for me you know I would make sure that
00:06:03.900 His clothes are clean I'm ironing his clothes for him like I'm trying to keep him
00:06:09.420 As the man and like when he comes home from work, he's kind of you know
00:06:14.300 If I see that he's stressed out, I want to give him some of that some of my feminine energy because I had a lot to give at the time
00:06:21.340 Um and try and make his day a little bit better as much as I could
00:06:25.180 Um
00:06:25.500 Can I ask you how you've done that now?
00:06:26.940 I'm just asking because sometimes men just want to come and just be left alone when they're feeling miserable
00:06:30.940 Well that's it
00:06:31.260 That's it
00:06:31.660 And women tend to go 1.00
00:06:33.820 Try and like jump on him
00:06:34.700 And men don't want that 1.00
00:06:35.580 So I would gauge that like I'd see like if he wanted cuddles or you know obviously
00:06:40.620 I'll see him sitting on the sofa
00:06:41.820 I'd go and sit on the sofa next to him
00:06:43.900 And if he wants a cuddle like he that's what
00:06:47.420 That's what the leading part of the men that we don't really talk about so he'd come over to me
00:06:52.060 And lean over to me and I know that's my cue
00:06:54.060 You know I'd go over to him if he sits still and he doesn't want me to
00:06:58.300 I know he's had a really bad time at work and
00:07:01.260 Me trying to cuddle up on him and all that he's just like men are built differently from us
00:07:04.620 They don't want that
00:07:06.140 So I would just leave him to it, you know
00:07:09.420 Let him have his freedom and let him have his space do do what you've got to do
00:07:13.580 Would you have given up work to stay at home and be a housewife? 1.00
00:07:17.180 If my bills and everything was paid, yeah
00:07:19.420 Happily because I really liked it
00:07:21.420 I really did you know I spent time with my baby I got to see her first steps
00:07:25.740 I got to hear her first work if I was at work and let you know in america
00:07:29.180 I think you guys go back to work a lot sooner than that
00:07:31.660 I would have missed all of that and you don't know what's happening with your child like you said, you know
00:07:36.140 You want your kid to go to nursery when they can form sentences
00:07:40.780 I wish I had that because I was really anxious. She was she was what?
00:07:46.540 Well covered here, so she was still at home with me
00:07:48.940 But I think she was really two years old when she went to nursery
00:07:51.980 Because some kids that's old you know that I know but for me that's my baby
00:07:57.820 So um would you have gone down in lifestyle in order to attain that?
00:08:03.820 So maybe like move to I don't know a house or an apartment half the size
00:08:07.740 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, because we lived in a really small place
00:08:11.420 And then when I got pregnant we moved to a bigger place
00:08:14.140 So if it meant that I could still stay at home and you know
00:08:18.220 Would you have stayed in the smaller place?
00:08:19.820 Yeah, yeah, yeah, okay. No problem at all. I mean me talking about earlier, you know having maids and all that's
00:08:25.420 Did you hear me? That's a dream, you know, and um
00:08:29.340 That's what my my parents have and the kind of life that I came from
00:08:34.460 But it's not the life that I had with him because I think I was kind of
00:08:39.180 Not only battling with age, but also thinking, you know, you know in muslim girls we get married young
00:08:45.180 And how old were you when you got married 28?
00:08:48.780 So that's
00:08:50.140 You know, that's hard for a man. No, because I mean like
00:08:53.260 You've been in the career since you're 16. That's like
00:08:56.300 12 years of doing what you like and working your own
00:08:59.740 Do you know what I mean? Yeah, and then to come in
00:09:03.100 Wow, yeah, so that you know those medals used to there was there was a lot that I had to
00:09:09.020 Change and I think that's what I see that this point in that I see career woman you see career woman 0.59
00:09:14.300 Career woman right career woman take notes
00:09:19.020 What do you what do you do?
00:09:21.100 Um, I'm an assistant accountant in an investment bank, so yeah, okay, you really like that
00:09:28.140 Um, it's really hectic, but it's good money. Let me just put it that way. Yeah, you don't even seem to like it that much
00:09:35.180 I think it's it's long hours. It's not enjoyable when you work long
00:09:39.820 How many hours a week you work? Uh, definitely I think about
00:09:45.420 About maybe 45 hours a week. I'd say that's how long I work. Isn't that normal?
00:09:50.940 Yeah
00:09:55.180 Yeah, they always the normal really yeah
00:09:58.300 Yeah, I worked in sales before I just thought everyone worked like 40 to 50 and that was normal 1.00
00:10:03.340 Yeah, 40 hours is the average and then I thought you was I was expecting to say like 50 55
00:10:08.620 I mean
00:10:09.740 It could get to that, but I think right now that's the average that I work
00:10:14.140 So yeah, how long have you been doing that?
00:10:16.220 Um, I only got into it quite recently, so I've been there for about two months now
00:10:21.420 Um, so it's com- it's a completely new industry that I'm in because where I was before was like more relaxed
00:10:27.340 Where I am now because it's like really intense because it's like the banking industry
00:10:31.500 You already know that that's what to expect. You're going to be working longer hours
00:10:34.940 So yeah, I think I'm just still getting used to that lifestyle
00:10:37.980 That's why like everything for me right now is very fast-paced and yeah
00:10:41.340 Yeah, so I'm still new to it still easing into that lifestyle, but it's it's a good experience to have especially
00:10:48.220 At the age that I'm at right now because I'm 24
00:10:51.020 So I think yeah, it's it's good for me to
00:10:53.180 But it's like you might have a completely different outlook in five years exactly you're tired. It's been two months
00:10:59.180 You said it's a lot and it's been two months
00:11:01.180 Maybe the adjustment's been a lot
00:11:03.180 I mean, yeah
00:11:05.180 Which is it's fine. Yeah, yeah, I think because I'm new to everything
00:11:08.700 That's why it's a lot, but I think over a period of time definitely like take this
00:11:12.140 It kind of reminds me of my first sales job and it was like very intense, you know
00:11:16.860 And at first it was like exciting. I was like out with this corporate company. It's so fun
00:11:20.780 And then I was like two years later. I hated it. I hate it. I wanted to leave so bad
00:11:28.300 I'll just ask a question to the married ladies 1.00
00:11:30.540 Do you think it would have been easier for you to both of you if you had?
00:11:37.660 Not had your professional life and you'd settle down earlier hundred percent. Yeah
00:11:43.100 I was just saying it to my sister the other day. Um, I wish I got married at around 18 19 20
00:11:48.780 by now my child would have been
00:11:51.260 Teenager, you know, it it just would have been a lot easier. I'm I've got a
00:11:56.540 You know a child that's just out of the toddler phase and I'm knackered
00:12:00.700 Because I find that nowadays what they're telling the women is like yeah work get your career 0.99
00:12:07.420 And then later when you can have a child and then when I come along and say but we want to have a child that late
00:12:12.540 I mean like why would you want to do that? Why not encourage the youth to
00:12:16.940 Settle down earlier, but now it just seems like
00:12:20.140 It's like all backwards now. It's a lifestyle that I wouldn't have felt like I was letting go of 1.00
00:12:25.820 Because I just grew up and then I got married of which I wanted to and that is where life began
00:12:32.620 Whereas before it's like I'm living this one lifestyle and it's about to like switch to a completely different one
00:12:38.540 So sometimes like you're you're living a bit double not double-minded
00:12:42.140 But like your mind is where it was and sometimes you're trying to merge the two or sometimes like you're kind of grieving what it used to be
00:12:51.020 So you can't really be present. It's just yeah, it's just a lot of
00:12:56.060 Feelings and memories because I mean that
00:13:00.220 I've never heard of a muslim woman working so many years 0.96
00:13:05.020 You know, I mean well done to you because you studied and you worked in that
00:13:07.820 Yeah, but that's unusual for me and the people that the muslims I know that is really unusual. Yeah, so um 0.52
00:13:15.180 No, I know a couple
00:13:17.180 Yeah, um, I've always been headstrong like I'm the eldest and there's six of us
00:13:22.860 So I've always wanted to kind of set an example for my siblings and not only you know integrate into the western world
00:13:29.900 but also
00:13:31.900 I had this independent woman mindset. I want to make my own money. Yeah, I want to do my own thing and 0.99
00:13:39.340 I wasn't paying attention to reality and reality for me and I'm not you know
00:13:45.500 Whoever has you know their opinions that's up to them
00:13:47.980 but for me reality is
00:13:50.700 A family consists of a man and a woman and the man is the head of the family
00:13:56.060 what he's he gets the last word and
00:13:58.620 And me i'm there to nurture i'm there to
00:14:02.540 Mother i'm there to you know
00:14:05.580 Just make everyone feel better and just do what needs to be done. Just understand I need to click with him
00:14:10.620 You know, we both need to I need to know that and trust that he can take care of the hard stuff
00:14:18.860 So would you think that it would have been easier for you and your husband
00:14:23.020 If you'd met him when you was like say 17 before you had all the career and no
00:14:27.180 I would have gotten married to an older man with the mindset that i've got now
00:14:30.540 I would have gotten married to an older man who's already established and who is looking for a younger wife 1.00
00:14:35.900 and a lot of men that's what they want 1.00
00:14:37.980 Because the younger you are your fertility like you can have more kids you know 0.51
00:14:44.060 And you're more fertile sorry not have more kids 0.64
00:14:46.860 So I would have looked for an older man that can take care of me. Would you marry a guy that's 55 now? 0.95
00:14:51.660 I don't know
00:14:54.540 I don't know because 50 some i mean i'm 35 so that's only 20 years right but
00:15:00.300 50 year olds nowadays they just i don't know like we've got two complete completely different mindsets and i just don't know
00:15:06.380 So you're very older than that?
00:15:07.820 Yeah, yeah, yeah. No, no, no
00:15:10.060 No, no, no, it's just it's interesting because you said you would have married older but
00:15:14.860 Now because i'm thinking at 35 like a 45 year old guy can go down to like 25 but a 55 year old guy like 35 is young to him
00:15:23.980 So I'm saying like you know, that's the equivalent now
00:15:26.220 I'm uh, so i'm in a different place in my life now, but had i have been 18 or 19 a 30
00:15:34.940 Something year old wouldn't have been as scary right right okay
00:15:39.580 Yeah, can I ask sorry something you said before i'm just
00:15:43.340 Intrigued about it. Why do you think the man should always have the last word?
00:15:48.060 What did you mean if he's if he's a masculine man who has been
00:15:53.420 brought up right and
00:15:55.100 He knows
00:15:56.860 What a woman's right is so in islam they teach you about what a woman's right is how you know what god it's how god expects you to treat that woman 1.00
00:16:04.700 If he understands that
00:16:07.260 Then I trust that whatever decision he's making is for my best interest and for our family's best interest
00:16:13.820 Not to say that I don't know what's good for us, but we're emotional creatures. Sometimes we think illogically
00:16:21.260 And they don't have you ever dated a guy that you could control
00:16:26.780 You're asking me yeah
00:16:30.380 That's a big question
00:16:32.380 Yeah, and how did that end it ended did you like it no i'm saying no who broke up
00:16:46.940 I didn't i like to be put in my place. I love that. Yeah, I love that
00:16:53.820 That's her point though, okay
00:16:56.780 You wouldn't even like a guy that wants you to have the last word 0.60
00:16:59.260 No, yeah, I wasn't one that can challenge me and put me in my place
00:17:01.980 But also appreciate when I have a good point to convey no, you can sit down and have a conversation
00:17:08.380 Live, okay, we will talk about it and you know, he will take my opinion into consideration
00:17:14.220 But at the end of the day
00:17:16.220 He is making that decision for our family and I know that and I understand that very well. All right. I'm with you. Yeah
00:17:22.220 Um, okay, I'm gonna read super chats and then I think we're gonna close out the show auntie
00:17:26.300 Did you have you just seemed like you wanted to say something? No, I was gonna do that. Oh, okay, okay
00:17:31.100 I'm gonna read super chats really quick
00:17:32.860 I'm gonna let you guys do final thoughts so you can plug any social media or you know anything you want to say
00:17:41.740 That is not disrespectful
00:17:43.740 After last time
00:17:48.380 Um also update esther is banned from the show anyone was wondering
00:17:53.980 Don't worry about it
00:17:58.060 When you check out when you check a channel you'll find out
00:18:01.980 um despicable d
00:18:03.980 Question for the lady next to auntie in investment banking. How is money created and destroyed? 1.00
00:18:09.180 Nicholas nasty women used to earn safety fund over time in the form of gold silver and jewelry 1.00
00:18:15.660 The gifts used to have more meaning behind them wearing gold and silver was money still does some in some places in the world andrew luster
00:18:23.660 Came into the stream late, so I didn't catch names
00:18:25.580 But this lady in the black leather jacket is based af bless you for being a beacon of light on the podcast 0.73
00:18:32.060 nasty boy is
00:18:34.060 Indiscriminate verbal road rage a deal breaker 0.99
00:18:36.700 No
00:18:38.700 It's me. Oh is indiscriminate verbal road rage a deal breaker
00:18:45.020 No
00:18:47.020 Yeah, it should be a deal breaker for men. Yeah, for both of both sexes 0.94
00:18:53.100 Auntie
00:18:55.260 My ex got pissed at me once she was like wtf those are kids I'm despicable d
00:19:00.220 I wouldn't get married again, but the wife is I'd want would be respectful brings peace and intimacy and handles
00:19:07.020 Her end in the day today. It's not rocket science. So auntie. When will pearl see the dance floor?
00:19:14.380 She missed the class today because she she had a match yet
00:19:17.900 I had a class today a dance class. You said that you were doing volleyball. Oh, I did have a game today. Yeah, yeah, I did
00:19:23.500 Yabba Dabba Al
00:19:25.740 Just wanted to say you look beautiful pearl. I love the way you did your hair
00:19:28.620 I'm a newlywed and watch to learn how to be a better wife 0.99
00:19:31.580 See Dumbledore pretend you're married describe your day me me me me me my kids me me me never once mentioned
00:19:38.220 About your atm machine also known as your husband dallas loans can long sleeved black shirt cook
00:19:43.900 Is that why dude got skinny? I'm sorry. That was
00:19:47.820 That was just all for the joke
00:19:50.700 Bentherman
00:19:51.420 What's the incentive for a hiring man to be in a relationship with a modern woman? 0.95
00:19:55.500 Carlos acts regarding no corn men need to unload regularly to keep their head clear your girlfriend or your wife
00:20:01.500 Isn't always going to be available corn fills the gap
00:20:04.460 Maggie oh, I already did Maggie the substitute teacher
00:20:06.780 Um, also i'm gonna have a couple announcements after they they go so i'm gonna let you guys do any final thoughts you guys have
00:20:14.220 um
00:20:15.260 Try to keep it like 30 seconds or less and then any social media you want to plug
00:20:19.660 So then go here around and then second row go ahead. Um
00:20:23.580 I enjoyed the conversation that we had today
00:20:26.140 um
00:20:26.940 That comment made me laugh about uh, it's me me me and my kids so
00:20:32.220 Um, that made me chuckle, but um, you can find me at splash of sean
00:20:36.780 On socials youtube instagram. Um, yeah
00:20:42.940 I also really enjoyed the conversations today. I feel like i've learned a lot about
00:20:48.300 Different people and different walks of life which always opens my mind to new things
00:20:53.100 Uh, so definitely been educated today lovely to meet you all
00:20:56.380 My socials are alanya jaffa and i'm a nail tech my socials for that is alanya nails underscore
00:21:06.780 No, you're not you're next. Oh, yeah, we go around this way. My answer is yes
00:21:10.700 I can cook when I can be bothered. I'm gonna be honest about it. I'm not always
00:21:16.140 In the mind frame to do it. Um, and I did cook for him
00:21:20.140 And i'm pretty good when I try and um
00:21:23.100 My socials are natalie good official check out my ep that I dropped close to closure
00:21:27.580 Um, I just wanted to say a word for us all and people that are watching women 1.00
00:21:36.540 Stay teachable stay humble
00:21:39.420 And I don't think it's bad to like hear from traditional wives 1.00
00:21:44.620 And women like more modern women today and then just kind of work out where you go 1.00
00:21:49.740 In the middle but um try like I think we should all try not to like curate our ideals
00:21:56.220 But like just look at the world today and then see what we can piece together from that
00:22:01.980 and um, yeah, my socials are instagram the stepmums club
00:22:07.340 Um, i'm a stepmom coach and I coach single moms and step parents
00:22:11.660 And i've just joined youtube so follow me at priscilla peening on youtube 0.86
00:22:15.980 Um, really enjoyed the chat today
00:22:22.380 I don't have any socials to plug
00:22:26.140 I do have social media, but I only use it to lurk but I don't post pictures or great, but yeah
00:22:34.380 Um, yeah same nice to meet everybody really good engaging conversation today
00:22:39.020 um, my tick tock and instagram is lola amanda and um, yeah
00:22:44.540 Yeah, that's it
00:22:49.180 Auntie jenny has a channel everyone go subscribe. It's in the description anyway. Oh, yeah, um auntie jenny on youtube
00:22:56.540 Yep, and um, and instagram you just hit 5 000 followers. Oh, yeah, and um auntie jenny says on
00:23:04.700 YouTube um instagram
00:23:06.700 And auntie jenny uk on tick tock. That's this food and bargains and stuff. I haven't put the bargains up there lately
00:23:14.300 I'm going there
00:23:15.740 But um, yeah, well done. I hope to get invited to all the single ladies weddings 1.00
00:23:22.060 I'm really serious. I need to get a hat
00:23:25.980 I need to get a hat but yeah, I'm looking forward to it
00:23:28.620 And let me know how you get on with the babysitting. I haven't forgotten you, you know
00:23:31.420 I haven't forgotten. How am I going to keep like oh, don't worry. I have people. I'm for wife school 0.56
00:23:36.700 I have people volunteering their children to me so I can just pass one on to you
00:23:40.780 I mean, that's serious. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'll just
00:23:44.620 Can I borrow a kid for like a day?
00:23:48.140 I'll give it back. Don't worry. Don't worry. I'll give it back
00:23:52.700 Um, okay guys um
00:23:54.700 One thank you for watching the show. This is the first. Well, I guess we had a show back, but I almost had an aneurysm that show
00:24:02.780 So, um, I really enjoyed the peaceful panel today. Thank you, Jesus
00:24:07.020 I'm still here
00:24:13.900 That was fun, um, okay guys
00:24:16.860 We are filming more wife school episodes and we also I also have a project I'm doing on the side where I am interviewing
00:24:24.860 High value men
00:24:25.980 Um, and I'm going to do like a how-to guide for women that talks about 0.75
00:24:30.780 What the high value men in society want?
00:24:32.700 So if if you are one feel free to message me on instagram and I will set up an interview with you
00:24:38.940 It would be very helpful for this project
00:24:41.260 Also same with family court attorneys. I'm also doing a project with that. So
00:24:48.540 So please message me on instagram if you have any experience in the family court system that would be very helpful to me
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