JustPearlyThings - November 22, 2023


Cassie Ventura ACCUSES Diddy Of Abuse And R＊pe


Episode Stats


Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

175.43507

Word count

1,455

Sentence count

118

Harmful content

Misogyny

16

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Toxicity

5

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Hate speech

1

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Summary

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Diddy and Cassie was a couple who started dating in 2007 and were together for over a decade before breaking up in 2018. Cassie accused Diddy of rape and abuse in a lawsuit, but his representatives vehemently denied the allegations.

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00:00:00.160 First story of today, we have Diddy and Cassie. Guys, I'm going to give you a timeline of,
00:00:07.280 and I honestly, I hear these people and apparently they're famous. I don't know. I don't know who
00:00:12.680 these people are, but Pearl's educating herself today. So Sean, Diddy. Now why you would replace
00:00:19.520 the name Sean, which is a nice name with the name Diddy, I don't know. I don't, I don't really get
00:00:24.920 it, but maybe it was better for the brand. Who knows? Combs and singer Cassie reportedly started 0.99
00:00:31.820 dating in 2007. They were together for over a decade before breaking up in 2018. Okay. So we
00:00:38.100 got this nice couple. Look at, she's very beautiful girl. Good looking guy. You know, we got, we got 0.88
00:00:44.600 the couple. Wow. Look at, she's looking nice now. I got to look up for my, my pattern recognition now.
00:00:51.960 This is not an attack on anyone personally, but I look for pattern. Um, she doesn't have super
00:00:56.320 heavy makeup, but it's borderline hoop earrings revealing outfit. All right. In November,
00:01:03.340 Cassie accused Diddy of rape and abuse in a lawsuit. Cassie known for hits like Me and You began her 1.00
00:01:11.040 music career under Diddy's bad boy record in 2006. Rumors of a romantic involvement with Diddy started
00:01:17.140 in 2007, despite no confirmation until 2012. Wow. They kept it under wraps for five years. That
00:01:23.520 would never happen to 2023. Oh, I, people can't even keep it under wraps for like a month. There's
00:01:29.760 too many phones everywhere. They kept it five years. Wow. Okay. The relationship faced its ups and downs
00:01:36.880 with engagement rumors in 2014 and a brief split in 2015. Reports surfaced of Diddy's involvement with
00:01:43.160 model Gina Hugh while dating Cassie. There were incidents leading to a public argument in 2016,
00:01:48.600 lending Cassie's mother to call the police. Their breakup, which occurred in 2018, was confirmed months
00:01:53.120 later. Cassie found love with her personal trainer. That's another trend I see. Okay. The chicks, 1.00
00:02:00.080 you know, us successful women really generally can't get men on their level in general. Even 0.96
00:02:07.800 Cassie, who's obviously stunning and beautiful and a good looking woman, right? It's still going to be
00:02:14.660 tough to keep the top five percent of men. I mean, guys, the streets are calling for these guys.
00:02:20.560 Imagine, imagine you're a guy. And you have the option to sleep with whoever you want, whatever look
00:02:27.120 you want, or forever if you want, or you could settle down and get married. Even women that are on 1.00
00:02:34.240 their looks level. And really, it's like a blimp in time where they're on their looks level. I mean,
00:02:39.580 good luck getting one of them to settle down. I mean, I'm not saying you can't do it. I know
00:02:43.920 Ryan Reynolds and Blake Lively, they got married. Like, some of the guys do it. Russell Brand ends up
00:02:49.400 getting married. But, you know, it's like, what are you the best out of the hundreds of women they've
00:02:55.580 had? Are you that special? Now. I can hope that you are. But I'm not in the business of selling
00:03:03.680 dreams. You know what I mean? So, again, a lot of times what you'll see with these women is they 0.96
00:03:07.440 can't get the guys on their level. Oftentimes, I see them going for personal trainers, music
00:03:12.340 producers, that sort of thing. I've seen this even with, like, less successful women, maybe women that 1.00
00:03:17.540 aren't in the public eye. But I see this dynamic often with, like, lawyers, let's say. Like,
00:03:21.360 I'll see the lawyer go for the musician or whatever. Okay. So, she married him in 2019 and
00:03:26.940 now they have two daughters. Cassie later accused Diddy of abuse and rape in a lawsuit while Diddy's 1.00
00:03:32.580 representatives vehemently denied the allegations, citing them as part of an extortion attempt. Now,
00:03:39.180 I have a hard time believing these things if they don't go to criminal court. Why? Because when
00:03:44.600 you're going to civil court, it tells me you don't want justice. You just want cash. Cash.
00:03:51.920 Now, I'm going to read you some of the stuff that was in Cassie's lawsuit against Diddy.
00:03:56.520 So, she says, a few years into Miss Ventura's relationship with Mr. Combs, the soup says he
00:04:01.480 began coercing her into to engage in the fantasy of voyeurism in which she was directed to have sex 0.99
00:04:09.880 with the succession of male prostitutes while Mr. Combs watched, masturbated, took pictures, and shot 1.00
00:04:20.700 videos. According to the suits, Mr. Combs called these encounters freak-offs, which involved 0.96
00:04:26.380 costumes like masquerade masks and lingerie. They continued for years, taking place at high-end
00:04:33.400 hotels across the U.S. and in Mr. Combs' home. The suit says that he instructed Miss Ventura
00:04:38.860 to search the websites of escort services to procure male sex workers. Drugs were supplied
00:04:45.420 at these events, which Miss Ventura's suit said she took because they allowed her to disassociate 0.99
00:04:50.600 from these horrific encounters. According to the suit, Miss Ventura would delete videos from 0.97
00:04:55.020 these incidents that had been shot on her phone. But Mr. Combs told her he still had access to the
00:05:00.420 videos. And on a flight, once he made her watch a video, she thought she had deleted. Okay. I'm
00:05:05.920 going to keep reading, but I want to give you my thoughts so far. I mean, this is a pretty crazy
00:05:10.660 story, but I mean, I don't know how you can. All right, let's talk about coercing. Now, I understand
00:05:18.780 that women may do things we don't. Like at times, in order to go for a guy we want, we do things 1.00
00:05:24.920 that we don't want to do. But if my friend coerced me, coerced me into robbing a store,
00:05:31.300 am I not still accountable for robbing the store? I mean, I don't know how you can hook
00:05:35.220 up with male prostitutes for years and then blame it on him. Okay. In one example, the suit said that 0.99
00:05:44.520 during a freak off at a LA hotel in 2016, an intoxicated Mr. Combs punched Miss Ventura in the 0.56
00:05:52.080 face, giving her a black eye. He fell asleep and she tried to leave the room, but Mr. Combs woke up
00:05:56.540 and followed her into the hallway where he threw a glass vase at her, sending glass shattering through 0.92
00:06:02.180 the corridor. According to the court filings, the hotel security captured the incident, but the suit
00:06:07.260 said that Mr. Combs paid the hotel $50,000 for the footage. Wow. The court filings said that in 2018,
00:06:15.240 after Mr. Combs and Miss Ventura met for dinner, he forced himself into the apartment and he
00:06:21.080 raped her after she repeatedly said no and tried to push him away. After that, the suit says she
00:06:25.420 left him for good. Miss Ventura married Alex Fine, a personal trainer the following year,
00:06:29.620 and now has two young children. According to the complaint, her association with bad boy ended in
00:06:35.740 2019. Miss Ventura's case, like other recent SA lawsuits, is brought under the Adult Survivors Act, 0.89
00:06:42.680 a New York law that allows people who say they were victims of sexual abuse to file civil suits
00:06:47.920 after the statute of limitations has expired. The one-year window to bring cases under the law
00:06:53.520 ends next week. The law is cited in Miss Ventura's complaint in a statement she addressed with
00:07:00.860 importance. With the expiration of the New York Adult Survivors Act fast approaching, she said it
00:07:06.300 became clear that there's an opportunity to speak up about the trauma I have experienced
00:07:09.780 and I will be recovering from for the rest of my life. Now, I actually think this stuff probably
00:07:15.840 happened. The rape incident, I'm a little skeptical of, but I have no doubt that some of this weird
00:07:22.520 shit that they're talking about with the escorts. But my question is, at what point do we have some 0.97
00:07:28.160 responsibility for the things that we choose to do? And now, Diddy, I guess, settled with Cassie in less
00:07:35.300 than 48 hours. And, you know, there's two sides. They think, oh, he's settled. Okay, he's guilty.
00:07:42.580 I don't know. I don't think she's as innocent as she's putting herself out to be. I don't think she
00:07:49.300 was just this innocent victim who was just coerced into doing all these things. Like, to be with someone
00:07:55.260 for 10 years and if he's allegedly abusive, I have a hard time believing it was just one-sided. You were
00:08:01.880 just this innocent victim doing nothing. And my question is, if this woman wanted justice, why didn't 0.98
00:08:07.740 she go to the police? Why does she ask for cash? I don't know. I have a hard time believing this,
00:08:13.900 but you guys can let me know what you think in the comment section.